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Reddit Drama: 3 Stories That Will Make You Question Who’s Right · The conspiracy

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  Speaker 1: Hello everybody and welcome back to my YouTube channel or
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  Speaker 1: welcome to my YouTube channel. I'm CallMeChris, you could call
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  Speaker 1: me Chris and you can call him JustWithJake. Oh, you
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  Speaker 1: have a catchphrase now? I don't know. Did you come
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  Speaker 1: up with that catchphrase before this?
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: He takes over my channel. It's JustWithJake instead of CallMeChris.
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  Speaker 1: This is Jacob, my little brother. If you haven't seen
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  Speaker 1: him before, he's been on a bunch of different videos.
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  Speaker 1: But today, we're back in Chris's, uh, stingy, ratchet Reddit salon,
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  Speaker 1: where we're gonna read some Am I the Asshole Reddit stories,
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  Speaker 1: or Jacob's gonna read them, and I'm gonna do his hair,
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  Speaker 1: because he looks, he looks rough. Yes. He looks rough
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  Speaker 1: right now.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: He looks like he's been sleeping in a cave for
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  Speaker 1: a bit. How long have you been growing this out?
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  Speaker 2: I want to say maybe a month. I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: A month? Two months. Oh, two months.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, because this looks like two months.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And what do you want to do?
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  Speaker 2: Just pretty much just... We'll put up pictures. This is
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  Speaker 2: what he wants. Yeah, just shave up the sides.
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  Speaker 1: This is what he wants. This is what I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to try to do. I cut my boyfriend's hair recently,
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  Speaker 1: but he's got a mullet, so it's a little bit
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  Speaker 1: different than this. I'm going to give it a go.
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  Speaker 1: It's been a minute, though, but I'm excited because it's
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  Speaker 1: my brother and I can f * * * up
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  Speaker 1: on his head.
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  Speaker 2: There we go.
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  Speaker 1: So let's do this. Okay, we got a cape on Jake.
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  Speaker 1: He's gonna read the stories. Let's get to it.
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  Speaker 2: Story number one. Am I the scallywag for what I
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  Speaker 2: wore in front of my boyfriend's friend? Two days ago,
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  Speaker 2: my 21 female boyfriend, 23 male, had his friends over
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  Speaker 2: and I knew they were coming since he told me
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  Speaker 2: about it the night before. It was really warm, surprisingly,
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  Speaker 2: and all I was wearing was a sports bra, sort
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  Speaker 2: of low cut, and kind of tight shorts. I sat
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  Speaker 2: on the couch next to my boyfriend for a little
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  Speaker 2: while whilst they played some games on the TV and
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  Speaker 2: then I went to get some lunch. By the time
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  Speaker 2: I was finished eating, they had all left and my
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  Speaker 2: boyfriend completely blew up on me. He said I was
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  Speaker 2: dressed like that for attention. I made all his friends
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  Speaker 2: stare at me. I knew what I was doing and
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  Speaker 2: that I should have covered up as soon as I
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  Speaker 2: saw them. He stormed out and since he came home,
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  Speaker 2: he's barely spoken to me. Am I the scallywag? Should
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  Speaker 2: I have worn something else or something less revealing?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so she was wearing a sports bra and tight shorts,
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  Speaker 1: she said?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And it was hot?
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  Speaker 2: It was a bit hot.
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  Speaker 1: And she's in her own home?
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  Speaker 2: In her own home.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. This guy sounds like an asshole. To be honest.
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  Speaker 2: He does.
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  Speaker 1: He sounds like a... He sounds insecure. And I don't know. Like,
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  Speaker 1: I guess there's a preference. Like, it's like wearing a
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  Speaker 1: bathing suit. It's not like she was wearing lingerie.
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  Speaker 2: No.
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  Speaker 1: So.
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  Speaker 2: She had herself somewhat covered with a sports bra. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. This feels weird. And I feel like
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  Speaker 1: he's being, like, really controlling and weird. And it feels uncomfy.
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  Speaker 2: I also understand it from the point of the boyfriend. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So you... So Jacob has a girlfriend. Can I say that?
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  Speaker 2: Yes. Yes.
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  Speaker 1: He has a girlfriend now, so give me your perspective
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  Speaker 1: as a boy. Also, I'm going to start clipping your hair.
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  Speaker 2: Go ahead.
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  Speaker 1: You're a man. You give me your opinion.
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  Speaker 2: I think that girls can wear whatever they want. And
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  Speaker 2: especially because she's in her own home, she can wear
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  Speaker 2: whatever she wants.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I mean, within reason, of course. Like, if
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  Speaker 1: she's walking around in... You know, panties in a bra. Like,
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  Speaker 1: if you're walking around with.
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  Speaker 2: A towel and your tits out, that's a lot. That's
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  Speaker 2: an issue.
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  Speaker 1: That's a lot. Like, power to you. I'm not that confident,
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  Speaker 1: but I think that's a little suggestive if you're, like,
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  Speaker 1: man's friends are over and stuff.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And you need to respect other people. Like, some people
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  Speaker 1: aren't good with nudity and that kind of thing.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, yes.
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  Speaker 1: But she's wearing a sports bra and shorts. Like, that's
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  Speaker 1: what you wear to the gym.
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  Speaker 2: Some people do wear that to the gym. That's true.
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  Speaker 1: You can have a preference. If you like somebody that's
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  Speaker 1: a little bit more modest or something like that, then
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  Speaker 1: that's a preference. But then you already know that that's
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  Speaker 1: what your partner is like. So I feel like this
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  Speaker 1: girl didn't just all of a sudden start wearing sports
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  Speaker 1: bras and shorts.
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  Speaker 2: No, absolutely not. Absolutely not.
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  Speaker 1: Seduce his friends. You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, absolutely not. I feel like if the boyfriend
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  Speaker 2: didn't just blow up on her and he actually just
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  Speaker 2: had a nice conversation with her.
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  Speaker 1: Good point.
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  Speaker 2: It might've been a bit more understanding. I agree.
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  Speaker 1: Cause that kind of came out of nowhere.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, just because as soon as his friends left, the
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  Speaker 2: guy kind of just went at her. I feel like
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  Speaker 2: that's a bit unfair.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's like just shaming her immediately. It's like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: how about you ask her about it? They're like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: my friends are f * * * ing creeps.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I will own up to that.
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  Speaker 2: Like, you should apologize for your friends because you don't
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  Speaker 2: know how uncomfortable that might have made her.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, if it's a hot day, like, she should be
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  Speaker 1: able to wear what she wants.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like the guy shouldn't have reacted that way.
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  Speaker 1: No, I agree. Whoa, jump scare! I look like shit,
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  Speaker 2: Okay, let's see what some people say. Wear what you like.
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  Speaker 2: It's sport wear, not suggestive lace underwear. So the warrant
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  Speaker 2: for attention angle is off. Don't see the issue to
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  Speaker 2: be honest. If his mates were leering over you, then
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  Speaker 2: that's on them, not you.
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  Speaker 1: Yes.
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  Speaker 2: You said in your comments you would not want your
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  Speaker 2: boyfriend wearing boxer shorts and nothing more if your friends
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  Speaker 2: were around yet you don't see an issue wearing a
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  Speaker 2: bra and tight shorts in front of his friends. You're
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  Speaker 2: an asshole and desperate for attention.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, but she wasn't wearing underwear. No, no. He's wearing underwear.
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  Speaker 2: Boxers are different than like shorts.
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  Speaker 1: What the hell?
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  Speaker 2: That's a bit.
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  Speaker 1: That was a lot.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Okay, then there was some responses to that comment.
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  Speaker 2: I think there's a difference between wearing boxers and gym wear, though.
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  Speaker 2: And then another person said, yeah, the boxers probably cover
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  Speaker 2: up more than a pair of gym shorts.
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  Speaker 1: Who cares? She's a woman. Nobody wants to see a
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  Speaker 1: man's upper face. thigh where his dick almost is okay
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  Speaker 1: nobody wants to see that sorry to break it to
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  Speaker 1: you i mean maybe some people do.
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  Speaker 2: But yikes honestly in this story you're not the asshole
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  Speaker 2: you're not i don't think.
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  Speaker 1: You're not i don't think i think you should get
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  Speaker 1: a new boyfriend to be honest.
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  Speaker 2: Or at least have a long conversation with him.
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  Speaker 1: Have a yes that's a good point maybe don't go
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  Speaker 1: to that but have a long conversation with him and
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  Speaker 1: talk about both sides just like.
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely you know we all about equality on this channel
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  Speaker 2: Straight up. Am I the scallywag for telling my vegan
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  Speaker 2: sister she can't serve only vegan food at our family reunion?
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  Speaker 2: Hey all, I'm genuinely torn about this and need some clarity.
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  Speaker 2: Every year, our family has a reunion where different members host.
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  Speaker 2: This year, it's my younger sister's turn. She's been vegan
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  Speaker 2: for about three years and is quite passionate about it.
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  Speaker 2: That's fair. Cool. We all respect her choices and make
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  Speaker 2: sure that there are a good variety of vegan options
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  Speaker 2: whenever we have family gatherings.
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  Speaker 1: Nice.
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  Speaker 2: Nice. When she announced that she'll be hosting, she also
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  Speaker 2: said that the entire menu would be vegan to align
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  Speaker 2: with her beliefs and that it's a chance for the
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  Speaker 2: family to try something different. Some family members were excited,
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  Speaker 2: but others, including many of the older folks, were pretty
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  Speaker 2: upset and felt like they were being forced into her lifestyle,
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  Speaker 2: even if it was just for one meal. I spoke
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  Speaker 2: to her privately and asked if she'd be open to
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  Speaker 2: include a few non-vegan dishes for those who aren't keen
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  Speaker 2: on a full vegan menu. She got quite defensive saying
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  Speaker 2: this was her chance to showcase veganism and that for
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  Speaker 2: one meal everyone can give it a go. I respect
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  Speaker 2: her beliefs but I also think that forcing an entire
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  Speaker 2: family to adopt her choices even just for one meal
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  Speaker 2: isn't fair. She's now upset with me for not being
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  Speaker 2: supportive and says I'm not respecting her choices. Am I
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  Speaker 2: the scallywag? If her family is accommodating to her like
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  Speaker 2: whenever they have some meals or whatever, I feel like
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  Speaker 2: she could be somewhat catering to them. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I see it from both sides. So like, yeah, it's
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  Speaker 1: nice that they accommodate her, but if you can't, you
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  Speaker 1: can't flip it the other way around. Like you could
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  Speaker 1: go to a place where they're not vegans and still
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  Speaker 1: have vegan options.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: But you can't go to a vegan's place and yeah
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  Speaker 1: and for a vegan to prepare non-vegan food that goes
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  Speaker 1: against everything they believe yes so it's not necessarily like
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  Speaker 1: a religion but you could compare it to that it's
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  Speaker 1: like you're forcing somebody to do something they truly don't
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  Speaker 1: believe in whereas if you or i were to just
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  Speaker 1: make a vegan dish for a vegan that was coming
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  Speaker 1: over that's a lot different So you're actually asking a
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  Speaker 1: lot of somebody to go against what they believe in.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: To do that. And it is one night. And there's
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  Speaker 1: a lot of good vegan food.
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  Speaker 2: There is.
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  Speaker 1: Personally, I think these people can suck it up. Or
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  Speaker 1: they can bring what they... If they want something else.
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  Speaker 2: They can bring.
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  Speaker 1: If they truly can't go a f * * *
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  Speaker 1: ing night without eating a juicy f * * * ing.
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  Speaker 2: burger and i'm sure that there's like some kind of
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  Speaker 2: like there's probably gonna be snacks or not just like
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  Speaker 2: a full meal that they would.
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  Speaker 1: Have to eat well it's just like suck it.
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  Speaker 2: Up exactly they can definitely accommodate like adapt for one
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  Speaker 2: night to be vegan that's what i think or they
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  Speaker 2: can bring what you mean they can bring their own
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  Speaker 2: stuff do.
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  Speaker 1: You see what i'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely from the other side oh absolutely.
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  Speaker 1: It's not the same as a non-vegan preparing.
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  Speaker 2: A vegan dish yes No, because from my understanding, veganism
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  Speaker 2: is all about, like, respecting animals and not eating anything.
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  Speaker 1: Exactly, and you're disrespecting it and you're going against everything.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, by cooking.
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  Speaker 1: Just by Uncle Joe wanting to eat a f *
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  Speaker 1: * * ing pork loin.
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  Speaker 2: A T-bone steak.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not about it, but let's see what people say.
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  Speaker 2: Honestly, I think... Y-T-A. What is Y-T-A?
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  Speaker 1: You're the asshole.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, you are the asshole. Okay. Not in a big way.
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  Speaker 2: I get it's not when you usually look forward to
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  Speaker 2: or used to with meals, but it's one meal. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I grew up with two vegetarian friends, whole family, and
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  Speaker 2: when they had me over, even as a kid, I
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  Speaker 2: knew I shouldn't expect or ask for meat. You say
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  Speaker 2: you respect her beliefs, but want her to go against
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  Speaker 2: them for you all... in her own home. That's true.
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  Speaker 2: Veganism is based on a strongly held personal belief related
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  Speaker 2: to their morals and that in a way is similar
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  Speaker 2: to religion.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, that's exactly what I said.
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  Speaker 2: You wouldn't go somewhere a Muslim is hosting and expect
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  Speaker 2: them to still serve pork to you because you love
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  Speaker 2: to eat it. Emphasis on you love. You're asking her
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  Speaker 2: to put aside her beliefs for your taste. There are
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  Speaker 2: still tons of variety and delicious options with vegan food. So,
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  Speaker 2: so much. Be more open-minded to something different for one meal.
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  Speaker 2: If you really expect to just completely hate any meal
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  Speaker 2: with no animal products, smash a burger beforehand and politely
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  Speaker 2: pick up whatever looks best when you're there.
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  Speaker 1: True. That's true, too. You can just eat before. It's
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  Speaker 1: just people kind of being selfish and just not, they're
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  Speaker 1: not thinking, like, they're just thinking about themselves, or this
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  Speaker 1: guy's just thinking about himself.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, but then again, it's also an entire family gathering.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. Well, is he saying the whole family feels
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  Speaker 1: like that, or it's just him?
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  Speaker 2: Well, he said that some people, like many older folks.
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  Speaker 1: Right, it's always the f * * * ing old people.
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  Speaker 2: It's always the boomers. It's always the olders that need
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  Speaker 2: the cane.
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  Speaker 1: I would love the vegan teacher to see this, by
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  Speaker 1: the way.
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  Speaker 2: I'm f * * * ing rooting.
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  Speaker 1: For you right now, bitch. Sorry. I think you're the asshole.
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  Speaker 1: And eat a burger.
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  Speaker 2: Before you go to bed. I understand both sides, but
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  Speaker 2: for the sake of the YouTube's video, I would have
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  Speaker 2: to say that you can suck it up for one night.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, I thought you were going to say suck it. What?
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  Speaker 1: You can suck it. To be honest.
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  Speaker 2: No. For one meal, you can just be a vegan.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree.
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  Speaker 2: And then if you're still hungry, get a burger on
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  Speaker 2: the way home.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, go to McDonald's, you piece of shit.
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  Speaker 2: Go to Don's. Am I the scallywag for denying me
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  Speaker 2: boyfriend money?
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  Speaker 1: Me boyfriend.
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  Speaker 2: It says me boyfriend. Me boyfriend. Don't come at me.
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  Speaker 1: Also, don't come at me for my technique right now.
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  Speaker 2: I have.
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  Speaker 1: drugstore scissors and a shitty comb all right i'm doing the.
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  Speaker 2: Splits right now i 21 female am dating this guy
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  Speaker 2: 22 male for a little over a month but we've
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  Speaker 2: known each other for four years he was friends with
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  Speaker 2: my ex and two days after we broke up he
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  Speaker 2: asked me on a date we immediately clicked and started
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  Speaker 2: dating since oh Oh, wow. So you're fresh out of
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  Speaker 2: a relationship. Ooh.
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  Speaker 1: Yikes.
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  Speaker 2: All right. Rebound. But he's been struggling financially, and since
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  Speaker 2: I had a little more stability, I started helping him
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  Speaker 2: with what I could. I bought him food for him
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  Speaker 2: in our first date. I paid for the Uber and
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  Speaker 2: that sort of stuff. Sly queen. A week later, he
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  Speaker 2: got sick, and I paid medicine for him. Okay. Very nice.
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  Speaker 2: He then told me he was going in a competition
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  Speaker 2: in the end of the year, so I paid the
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  Speaker 2: training classes for him.
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  Speaker 1: Oh. Okay. Damn.
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  Speaker 2: All right. I started helping him with everything to the
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  Speaker 2: point where I started struggling financially. Oh no. Yikes. Even
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  Speaker 2: though I know he only asked for help for important
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  Speaker 2: things like food and medicine, I started getting frustrated because
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  Speaker 2: he wouldn't take extra work to earn more money and
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  Speaker 2: would spend his money in financial things like tickets to
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  Speaker 2: a park that we couldn't afford and I had to
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  Speaker 2: pay for his food and drinks. Well, that's just irresponsible.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, that's dumb.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: It's not looking good for No, it's not.
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  Speaker 2: Besides that, he wouldn't show any actual interest in me. Wow.
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  Speaker 2: He wouldn't ask about my life, my career, my interests, nothing.
• 13:35
  Speaker 2: I questioned if he was with me just because of
• 13:37
  Speaker 2: my help, and he denied it, saying that he liked
• 13:40
  Speaker 2: me because of who I was.
• 13:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, right.
• 13:43
  Speaker 2: But he knows nothing about me, so how could it be?
• 13:46
  Speaker 2: I told him I was getting mad with the situation,
• 13:48
  Speaker 2: and every time he would ask for more money, he
• 13:50
  Speaker 2: said he was going to pay me back, which he didn't,
• 13:53
  Speaker 2: or he was already sending money. Never did. Yesterday we
• 13:56
  Speaker 2: fought because of this and he said he was never
• 13:59
  Speaker 2: going to ask me for nothing again. Then ask me...
• 14:01
  Speaker 2: You're never going to.
• 14:02
  Speaker 1: Ask me for nothing? Yeah. I ain't never going to
• 14:04
  Speaker 1: ask you for nothing. For nothing. Don't you ever ask again.
• 14:07
  Speaker 2: I don't need you.
• 14:09
  Speaker 1: Not even English lessons.
• 14:11
  Speaker 2: Then asked me for the only $ 6 I had left
• 14:14
  Speaker 2: to buy a dress for his mom and a belt
• 14:16
  Speaker 2: for him.
• 14:17
  Speaker 1: What?
• 14:17
  Speaker 2: I feel kind of bad for denying money even though
• 14:20
  Speaker 2: I know he really needs it. But I need it
• 14:23
  Speaker 2: too and he doesn't help me at all with money bills.
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: Would I be the asshole to break up with him
• 14:29
  Speaker 2: for this and possibly losing a good relationship over money?
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: It's not a good relationship.
• 14:34
  Speaker 2: It's not.
• 14:34
  Speaker 1: It's terrible.
• 14:35
  Speaker 2: All relationship you just got out of a there's no
• 14:37
  Speaker 2: give and take you just give give give exactly there's
• 14:40
  Speaker 2: take take take well and the thing is she just
• 14:42
  Speaker 2: got out of a four-year relationship yeah you gotta relax
• 14:46
  Speaker 2: sorry is there more there's an edit he and my
• 14:48
  Speaker 2: ex ended the friendship one year before the ex and
• 14:52
  Speaker 2: i broke up with him because he was a very
• 14:55
  Speaker 2: arrogant and ignorant person uh.
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: Her ex her ex was yes okay so it was
• 14:59
  Speaker 1: the friend.
• 14:59
  Speaker 2: Here we go by the way i ended the relationship
• 15:01
  Speaker 2: with my ex for seven months ago then i found
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: out one month ago he cheated the whole time and
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: two days later i blocked him on everything that i
• 15:11
  Speaker 2: actually went out with my boyfriend now oh okay so
• 15:14
  Speaker 2: that's why she rushed into it i see okay i
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: mean still shouldn't rush into it no i mean you
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: just got over out of a four-year relationship let's take
• 15:22
  Speaker 2: a little i do you know You know, gotta celebrate yourself.
• 15:26
  Speaker 2: Selena Gomez's new song, Thingle. Thingle soon.
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: Not sponsored.
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: You are definitely not the asshole there.
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: No, you're not. Can you look down?
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: Of course.
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: Give me a sec.
• 15:35
  Speaker 2: One sec.
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: Let me finish this.
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: All right, so in any relationship, it should always be
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: 50-50 or like give and take.
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it depends. It depends a lot, actually, because the
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: guy could be making significantly more. The girl can be
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: making significantly more. Like, for example, I've been in a
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: relationship where I was making a lot more than my partner,
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: and I was totally fine with taking the bill for
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: a lot of the time while he was working his
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: way up. Totally fine with that, but there needs to
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: be communication.
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: Of course.
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: There needs to be communications or if it's vice versa.
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: I do love the 50-50 if it's possible. Yeah. I
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: think that's important in a relationship.
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: But if other people want to do it, like if
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: a guy really likes to provide for the girl or
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: a girl likes to provide for a girl, a guy
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: likes to provide for a guy, I don't know. It's
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: just all about communication. Clearly, there's not a lot. And
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: I think she's feeling really insecure and she doesn't feel
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: like she can talk to him about this.
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: I feel like she's kind of like in the relationship
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: and she's kind of stuck only because like she just
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: got out of this long-term relationship and now she's with
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: her ex's friend and so she doesn't want to make
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: things weird.
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: It's hard with rebounds.
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: Absolutely.
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: You just feel, you feel insecure at that point. And
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: then if you end up with somebody that takes advantage
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: of you and doesn't treat you right and doesn't like
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: care about what you're doing, then it just makes you
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: even more secure or insecure. Yeah.
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: And then you feel afraid of getting out of that
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: relationship because you feel like you're not good enough for
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: anybody else.
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: And then you kind of start, I'm not, you kind
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: of just start getting dependent on being with that person.
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: You get really dependent. You get really dependent. And for
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: whatever reason, or even if it's like kind of a
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: Stockholm syndrome kind of thing, it's just like, I've been
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: with a narcissist before and like those type of people
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: feed off of you. needing them in an unhealthy way.
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: And they're not giving you anything, but the little thing
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: that they do give you means more than anything because
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: they've given you nothing. And that's what this sounds like.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: And it's really sad. Get the fuck out of there. Run.
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: Listen to your auntie Chris and your uncle Jake.
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: Just go. What good relationship are you talking about? Yes,
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: he asked for money, doesn't show interest in you, and
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: you are together for a month. It'll only get worse
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: from here. Leave him, please.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, unfortunately, it's right. That's right.
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: I got to that line and wondered if I had
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: been paying more attention to what was written than was
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: actually another author did. This is not what a good
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: relationship looks like. And frankly, it's concerning that you think
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: it is. Sorry, how old are they? 21 female, 22 male.
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay.
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: Very young.
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: Very young. Like you don't have to fault them for this.
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: I had to go through this. I didn't figure this
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: out till like I'm 27.
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: Don't say that. I'm 20.
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: No, I mean, you'll figure it out too. I mean,
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: hopefully this relationship works out for you and she's, she
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: seems great. I haven't met her yet, but I'm sure
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: she's great. But I mean, I'm 27. I've been through
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: some shitty relationships and it took me this long to
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: get into one where I'm actually treated really, really well.
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: And I question myself constantly because I was treated like
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: shit for so many years. It's like, he's eventually going
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: to start doing that or he's not, but you just,
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: you go through those relationships and it just with your head.
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: And I'm sure the audience has been with people like that,
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: where it's like, you're just insecure, even in a good relationship.
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: And it takes a while to build up that security
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: and that confidence. Like I'm still working on that. And
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: my partner is very, very understanding and reassuring and he's wonderful.
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: And that's what everybody deserves.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: Respect each other.
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: You deserve respect, man.
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: Respect each other.
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: I'm currently wetting his hair, and I don't have a
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: spray bottle, so I'm just kind of baptizing him. You're clean,
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: my child.
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: Ah, yes. You're just dripping it on my ear now.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there's no other way to do it.
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: Sorry. Sorry.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: He drowns.
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: Am I the scallywag for telling my girlfriend she has
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: to accept my siblings if she wants to move in
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: with me? Okay. Me, 24 male, and my girlfriend, 24 female,
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: have been dating for two years now. I have a brother, 13,
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: and a sister, 15. My parents left last year without
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: any notice and didn't come back.
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: Oh.
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: Wow. Wow.
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: So raising them fell on my shoulders. I can't leave
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: them or drop them off at a relative's house because
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: they love me so much and don't want to be
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: separated from me. So they stay with me. Well, that's
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: good for you.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: My girlfriend wants to move in with me because she
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: has trouble paying her bills. And I thought moving in
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: with her would help me too. Because raising two siblings
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: and paying the bills at the same time is very difficult.
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: She'll cover at least one-fourth of the rent. She agreed,
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: but insisted that I should leave my siblings at a
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: relative's place as I would ask her to take care
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: of them. I said no. I am taking care of
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: my siblings since last one year. She... Oh, wow.
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: To move in with her and I'm making excuses. She's
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: calling me asshole because she thinks I'm going to ask
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: her to pay for my siblings that I'm clearly not.
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: Her friends even tell her that I might be cheating
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: and that's why I'm not moving in with her. She
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: did get angry with them and said that if they
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: accuse me of cheating again she will have to take
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: action against them but she's really having some doubts now.
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: Her friends are texting me and harassing me too because
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: according to them I'm ruining our and their relationship too.
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: Am I the asshole here?
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: No no way just immediately no.
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: No this is a switch up from the last.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: Ones it's not all the boyfriends were assholes it's.
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: Not the girlfriend that's the asshole.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: She's just sounds off like you've like given up your
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: whole life for your siblings and she's not accommodating at
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: all no i just can't believe all these people that
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: just there's no compromise like that's what relationships are about
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: is compromise literally And he's doing a wonderful thing. It's
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: not even like it's a bad thing.
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: No, it's a fantastic thing that he just dropped everything
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: and made adjustments to his life to take care of
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: his younger siblings.
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd be more attracted to a person if they
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: did that. Absolutely. And he's not asking anything from you.
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: No, he said that he would take care of her.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he's not asking you to pay anything. It's just
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: you assuming stuff and listening to your dumb friends.
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that accuse your boyfriend of cheating.
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: On sorry uh she's uh this isn't she wasn't the
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: one that wrote the post.
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: He is right he is yes but it's her friend
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: it's her girlfriend his girlfriend's friends right that are accusing
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: him of.
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: Cheating cheating out of nowhere just because he won't move
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: on with.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: Her and now the friends are harassing him like that's
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: just not fair.
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: That's awful you have shitty friends.
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: Crappy friends and honestly if the person that you are
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: with doesn't like can't accommodate you moving in and accepting
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: that you have to take care of family yeah then
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: that's just that's just very family there's always room for
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: family it's always going to be family over friends so i.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: Mean depending on your situation maybe your family's shit but
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: clearly clearly their family is shit and he stepped up
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: to the plate and was.
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: A Yeah, he was a golden child right there.
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like, that's huge. Yeah, I would do that in
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: a heartbeat for you guys, like, if you were struggling.
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: Well, thank you.
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: You can move in. But, like, I know you're not struggling,
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: so don't even.
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: It was worth a shot.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know. But yeah, that's a clear you're not
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: the asshole.
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: You're definitely not the asshole there, so don't even.
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: Worry about it. She's the asshole and her friends are
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: even bigger assholes.
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: Let us see what the Reddit community has to say.
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: Not the asshole. There are two warning signs here on
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: why you shouldn't move in together and why you should
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: reflect on your relationship. One, she has issues paying her bills.
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: Odds are that won't change and you'll eventually end up
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: footing her percentage of rent, if not other costs. the
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: way someone handles their finances is a huge deal especially
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: in relationships more concerning is that she has a problem
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: with your sibling what kind of person would want abandoned
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: children to move out of their stable home with someone
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: they trust and love yeah this is a very selfish
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: request by her and it's a clue to her true
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: self yeah when someone shows you who they really are
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: believe them she is showing you what kind of person
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: she is second comment here i get The vibe that
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: she wants to move in with OP, original poster. Yeah. Okay,
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: so she doesn't have to pay bills or expenses.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: Oh, you didn't finish the sentence.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: I was like, what? No, sorry.
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: I was like, yeah.
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: I was just trying to figure what OP meant.
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: Oh, I see, original poster. Yes, okay.
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: And doesn't want the siblings around because they'll be an
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: obstacle that will stop her from fully enjoying her free accommodation, food, internet, TV,
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: a place to party with her toxic friends.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: Exactly.
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: Meanwhile, the original poster has to pay for everything and
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: evict his younger siblings. There seems to be no upside
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: to this relationship for the posters.
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: No, not at all.
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: Like, not at all.
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: You're not gaining anything. I don't care how good the
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: ass is. Get the hell out of there. Get your
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: ass out of there, all right? I don't care how
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: good the ass is. If there were... Get your ass
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: out of there. I'm gonna finish up his haircut. I'm
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: almost done and I'm gonna style it and then we'll
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: show it right now. Look at this guy. Looks tight
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: and better and flowy. If he wasn't already taken, you
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: could take him out to dinner. But you can't. Do
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: you like your haircut?
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: It looks fabulous. Like the viewers. You didn't compliment them.
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: True.
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: How dare you?
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: How dare I?
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: You guys look fabulous. Don't think of anything less.
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: Oh, I love that. This doesn't look anything like the
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: picture you showed me. No, it's just a little bit shorter.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: But they don't. His hair grows like a weed.
• 25:05
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• 25:05
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• 25:08
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• 25:11
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