What is Love, Anyway
We have spent our lives being taught that love needs a relationship to be real. That loving someone who doesn't love you back is a wound to be healed. That loving someone you've lost, or left, or grown apart from is unfinished emotional business — an attachment that hasn't been properly processed. That the love ends, or should end, when the relationship does.
None of that is true. And believing it has caused an enormous amount of suffering that goes largely unnamed.
This episode makes a distinction the culture almost never makes — between love and the relationship that sometimes houses it…
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