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Breakfast Bonus: Guy mates · Toni, Jase & Sam - Breakfast Catchup

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  Speaker 1: The Coast Breakfast Bonus Podcast with Tony Jason Sam.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, thanks for listening to our Breakfast Bonus podcast.
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  Speaker 3: Today.
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  Speaker 2: We're talking about guy mates, not primates, but guy mates.
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  Speaker 2: Boy friends is how they've termed it, because they've done
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  Speaker 2: a study on this and they've found that guys on
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  Speaker 2: general have about five friends, five general friends.
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  Speaker 4: That's quite good because I think you have lots of acquaintances, right,
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  Speaker 4: and what constitutes a friend.
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  Speaker 2: Well, funny you break it down on there, because it's
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  Speaker 2: of those five, three are close friends, two are best friends.
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  Speaker 2: So that's just five friends. That's I guess the colleagues associates,
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  Speaker 2: that's their friends, that's their friends circle five.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like I'm in a really confused space with
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  Speaker 4: friendships these days.
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  Speaker 5: Because you're good at friendship.
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  Speaker 3: Can I just talk you through it though?
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  Speaker 4: Because I have like my school friends who I'm still
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  Speaker 4: friends with but don't see heaps because most of them
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  Speaker 4: still live in New Plymouth. Then I've got my mum
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  Speaker 4: school friends, right, and those are also dad school friends
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  Speaker 4: as well.
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  Speaker 6: Can I just say that your ability to convert them
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  Speaker 6: into genuine friends though?
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  Speaker 5: You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 6: You know what I've got is a whole lot of
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  Speaker 6: acquaintances around them that will live around us everything. But
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  Speaker 6: you you, all of a sudden they are your besties.
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  Speaker 6: You're doing things with them dinners.
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  Speaker 4: And are generally better at that at the conversion. You
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  Speaker 4: guys should start doing that too. If there's someone that
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  Speaker 4: you actually really enjoy hanging out with, then you actually
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  Speaker 4: my mom told me us when I was young, Tony,
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  Speaker 4: if you want to be a friend, to get a friend,
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  Speaker 4: you have to be a friend, and you actually have
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  Speaker 4: to put in some effort. So you need to actually,
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  Speaker 4: like when was the last time you actually said to someone,
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  Speaker 4: shall we grab a coffee? Shall we have a wife?
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  Speaker 4: Or drop them a birthday gift or just something.
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  Speaker 6: Let me just tell you that on the fourteenth of December,
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  Speaker 6: all the dad's in our street.
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  Speaker 5: We're going to try and we're going to convert our friendship.
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  Speaker 3: Did you do you initiate this? No, you're not being
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  Speaker 3: the friend.
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  Speaker 5: Gus, he's very social free.
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  Speaker 2: Neighborhood needs a Gust.
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  Speaker 5: Everyone needs a Guss.
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  Speaker 6: But Gus gets loose. You got to watch Gus.
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  Speaker 2: That's why Gus. Gus wants to catch up the dead.
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  Speaker 3: Gus doesn't want to be best friends. He just wants
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  Speaker 3: to get on it with all the dead.
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  Speaker 2: So that was full of two thousand guys, and thirty
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  Speaker 2: five percent of them also have a friend crush. So
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  Speaker 2: that's a dude. They want to be friends.
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  Speaker 3: That's a good call and be more than friends.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, just like a friend crush crush, just a
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  Speaker 2: friend crush.
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  Speaker 6: I've got a friend crush.
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  Speaker 5: Been from pick up being there? No, no, no, yeah,
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  Speaker 5: it's a been Morow. I don't know was the last name?
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  Speaker 6: The tich guy there's been being Morrow is my he
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  Speaker 6: I want to be beer.
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  Speaker 3: Are you jealous of me?
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  Speaker 4: Then? Because I'm better friends with Ben than you, I
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  Speaker 4: don't think you are. I definitely am. Have you haad
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  Speaker 4: coffee to discuss work opportunities?
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  Speaker 3: Have you?
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  Speaker 4: Yep?
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  Speaker 3: No, my husband has babe, you know.
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  Speaker 2: So Matt and being the mates, right, that's kind of
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  Speaker 2: want to be from friends in that group.
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  Speaker 4: Though, like normal, you'll let you on and you'll probably
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  Speaker 4: end up being better friends with them.
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  Speaker 2: So thirty percent of guys we can the good we're
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  Speaker 2: calling the mates bro brother or brother. I do that.
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  Speaker 2: I call people brother.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think the friends are okay with it.
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  Speaker 2: Though probably not. Only six percent of guys have a bestie.
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  Speaker 2: Only six percent of guys have a beast for.
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  Speaker 4: I have issues with besties too, like so do I.
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  Speaker 4: And I tell this to my children. I'm like, don't
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  Speaker 4: go around saying she's my best friend, because then you're just.
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  Speaker 5: Others isolating people.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, you don't need to, but girls are tear of.
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  Speaker 6: My friend is Adrian, Like you know, it's just cut
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  Speaker 6: and dry.
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  Speaker 5: James is up there too. I met Adrian first, you
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  Speaker 5: know what I mean.
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  Speaker 6: I met James after the fact and we lived together
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  Speaker 6: for it's like that core blood brother stuff.
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  Speaker 4: I think I'd prefer to say, just like Sophie and
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  Speaker 4: I think of anyone's got claims on a best friend,
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  Speaker 4: that's me when she literally held my child in her
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  Speaker 4: belly and she's my longest friend. But I don't want
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  Speaker 4: to go shouting she's my best friend so that all
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  Speaker 4: my other friends feel like they're not as tight to
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  Speaker 4: me because it's not necessarily true.
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  Speaker 3: We've got the longest history.
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  Speaker 5: What are you going to do to be to friend?
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  Speaker 5: Keen to keep her here?
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