Latest / Wedding Pros who are ready to grow - with Becca Pountney / Instagram Reels - How to make the most of them! With Brandee Gaar
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- 0:00Brandee: It's addictive because all of a sudden you start seeing new followers,
- 0:04you start getting engagement on your reels, you get all these views, right?
- 0:08And reels are being shown to new people.
- 0:10And that's what we want is to always be bringing in new eyes to our platform.
- 0:14And Oh, Becca, that makes me so happy to hear you say, because I
- 0:18love that you just told them like how simple it really, really can be
- 0:22and how valuable they really are.
- 0:25Becca: I am Becca Pountney, wedding business marketing expert,
- 0:30speaker and blogger, and you are listening to The Wedding Pros
- 0:32who are Ready to Grow podcast.
- 0:35I'm here to share with you actionable tips, strategies, and real life
- 0:38examples to help you take your wedding business to the next level.
- 0:42If you are an ambitious wedding business owner that wants to take your passion
- 0:45and use it to build a profitable, sustainable business doing what you
- 0:49love, then you're in the right place.
- 0:51Let's get going with today's episode.
- 0:55Today I'm speaking with Brandee Gaar, based in Florida.
- 0:58Brandy works with creative business owners to help them scale their businesses while
- 1:02maintaining their work-life balance as a wedding and event planner herself.
- 1:05She really knows our industry well, and I'm thrilled to
- 1:07have her on the podcast today.
- 1:09Brandy, welcome.
- 1:10Brandee: Thank you so much for having me, Becca.
- 1:13This is gonna be so fun.
- 1:14I love talking about.
- 1:16Becca: It's an absolute pleasure.
- 1:17I'm excited to get into reels, but first of all, we need to talk about something.
- 1:21You live in Florida and I've heard you live really close to Disney World.
- 1:27. Brandee: Yes.
- 1:27Like minutes from Disney.
- 1:29So we can see the fireworks from our front yard and yep, we drive
- 1:34by them every night, every day.
- 1:37Becca: It absolutely blows my mind because here in the UK we absolutely love
- 1:41Disney and we have to pay thousands and thousands and thousands of pounds to go
- 1:45see those fireworks and you literally see them every night out your window.
- 1:48Brandee: It's so funny too because especially if we're like, you know,
- 1:51driving home from dinner, even the girls' school, you know, at night, they're
- 1:56literally right in front of our face and we talk about it sometimes we're
- 2:00we're like, Gosh, this is so like we take this so for granted, you know,
- 2:04because especially if we do go to the park, which is pretty rare for us, but
- 2:07if we do go to the park, we are kind of giggling, like who on earth would
- 2:12stay here and watch these fireworks?
- 2:14Like they're amazing.
- 2:15But I guess cuz we see them every night, we're like, hmm.
- 2:19It's not that big a deal.
- 2:20But it totally is.
- 2:21I will say it, it's ruined like any other firework show for our kids, if we.
- 2:26Literally anywhere.
- 2:28And there's like 4th of July or New Year's Eve fireworks.
- 2:30They're like, these are lame.
- 2:32And I'm like, yes, cuz you guys see Disney is every night
- 2:36. Becca: I just think that's so incredible that you see them every
- 2:38night, but it's totally normal to you.
- 2:40Okay, so enough chatting about Disney.
- 2:42Let's get into weddings and before we start talking more about reels,
- 2:45I wanna understand your own journey.
- 2:47First of all, how did you end up working in the wedding industry in the first.
- 2:52Brandee: Yeah, so I actually, you know, had such an amazing opportunity.
- 2:55I've always wanted to plan events since I was a little girl.
- 2:58I've always known that, and I had an incredible opportunity to open
- 3:02a really prestigious hotel here in Orlando, which was so cool to be part
- 3:06of, like an opening team of a hotel.
- 3:08Not a lot of people get the opportunity, and it was incredible.
- 3:11And I was there for seven years as a corporate event planner.
- 3:14And it was just the most amazing company to work for.
- 3:17They were phenomenal.
- 3:18I loved my job.
- 3:19I never thought I would leave, honestly, and I, I really hadn't planned on
- 3:22being an entrepreneur, but, After we had our first daughter, we have three
- 3:27daughters now, but after we had our first daughter, you know, I started
- 3:30to realize how difficult the corporate event planner life is on a family.
- 3:35I would sometimes go a week without seeing my daughter awake.
- 3:38And you know, if you have a show in house, you're like, you're there.
- 3:41And so, Our company was incredible about, you know, taking time off
- 3:45after, but it just wasn't the same.
- 3:47And I was like, I do not want to live this kind of lifestyle for
- 3:49the rest of my life with her.
- 3:50And so I decided to branch out on my own.
- 3:53And to be honest, I hadn't ever planned weddings.
- 3:55Like I'd kind of dabbled here and there for friends and I'd planned my own,
- 3:59but I really thought I was going to do corporate event planning, but, To
- 4:03be honest, I was 26 and like all of my friends were getting married and all of
- 4:06their friends were getting married and it just seemed like lowest hanging fruit
- 4:09just seemed a lot easier to do weddings.
- 4:11And so that's what we did.
- 4:13We opened blush in 2007, so it's been almost 16 years, which is insane and
- 4:18amazing and you know, it's been, it's honestly been, Such an incredible journey.
- 4:23Like we went hard from the very beginning.
- 4:26We, you know, really worked to build our company up quickly.
- 4:29We had a team really, since year one, we've always had associate planners and
- 4:34team members, and I think right around the eight year mark for me, maybe six
- 4:40to eight years was when it got really, really difficult and we started to.
- 4:45Literally everything I ever said I wanted from my business.
- 4:48We had, like, we were being referred by almost everyone in town.
- 4:52We had such a great reputation.
- 4:53We had a big team, tons of weddings, and it was amazing.
- 4:57However, we hadn't really built our company for scale.
- 5:02And so the challenge I started to feel was that every single thing
- 5:05that happened in my business, I had a hand in literally everything.
- 5:09And so it always felt like if I even just closed my eyes for a
- 5:13second, all the balls would fall.
- 5:15Like there was always a hundred balls to be juggled and I
- 5:17couldn't turn away for a second.
- 5:19And I started to think like, I can't do this forever.
- 5:21I felt so burnt out.
- 5:23What, what I started to realize is I hadn't built my business well
- 5:27in terms of like, I, I was, became a bottleneck for my business.
- 5:30And so I really dug into learning how to build a business, like a really
- 5:34healthy business, how to become the c e o, how to manage my team.
- 5:38And so now that's what I teach.
- 5:39And I always think it's so funny because that wasn't my plan.
- 5:42That wasn't like, oh, I'm gonna teach this one day.
- 5:44Like that was never my plan.
- 5:46But they say your mess becomes your message.
- 5:48And honestly, that was the hardest.
- 5:50Of building my business was learning how to become the CEO and now I really enjoy
- 5:55teaching other wedding professionals like how to build a business that doesn't
- 5:58require their everyday oversight, but still pays them a full-time salary and
- 6:03that they really feel fulfilled from.
- 6:05And so, yeah.
- 6:06I love it.
- 6:07Becca: You've been on quite the journey really, haven't you, from being
- 6:09employed to taking the leap to being self-employed and then to getting to
- 6:12that success of realizing you need to take a step back to where you are now.
- 6:16When you look back over those years, what do you think about when you think
- 6:20about all those things that you've.
- 6:23Brandee: I love it.
- 6:24I really genuinely think that we've had a really charmed business story.
- 6:29I don't think that that's because of luck, though.
- 6:31You know, like my favorite podcast is how I built this with Guy Raz.
- 6:35I love it.
- 6:36I've listened to every single episode and he always asks people at the end,
- 6:39you know, do you think your success is because of hard work or luck?
- 6:42And I really think it's a, a mixture of both, obviously.
- 6:45I definitely think that there was factors at play that helped
- 6:47me to have what I have now.
- 6:50Honestly, there was a lot of tears.
- 6:52Like a lot, there's, I can't even tell you how many times I would sit on
- 6:55my living room floor crying and just say like, I can't do this anymore.
- 6:59I wanna burn it all to the ground.
- 7:00Like I, I, it doesn't come easily to anyone, I don't think, you
- 7:04know, I think that there's always like, Potholes in the road.
- 7:07And to be honest, around that eight year mark is, I, I wanted to give it all away.
- 7:10Like, I was like, burn it to the ground.
- 7:12Like, I don't wanna do this anymore.
- 7:14I'm going back to work for someone else.
- 7:16And you know, thankfully I have an incredible husband who believes in
- 7:19me more than I believe in myself.
- 7:20And he would push me, you know, to say, no, we can be, we can do this better.
- 7:24We just have to rethink it.
- 7:25We have to find somebody to help us.
- 7:27And so, yeah.
- 7:29I.
- 7:30I think it's pretty incredible.
- 7:31I love now getting to help people to see what I learned so
- 7:36much earlier in their journey.
- 7:37Like I tell my students all the time, like, I'm saving you years, , years of,
- 7:42of heartache because I can help you to avoid some of the roadblocks that I had.
- 7:46Yeah, so it's pretty exciting.
- 7:48I love teaching now though.
- 7:49It's my favorite thing.
- 7:50Becca: Yes, and you're very good at it.
- 7:51And that is why you are here on the podcast today.
- 7:54Now, I know one of the things that you love to talk about and one of
- 7:57the things that you do really well in your own business is Instagram reels.
- 8:01So talk to me about reels.
- 8:02Why do you think they're important for people in the wedding industry
- 8:05to be looking at and using?
- 8:07Brandee: So, you know, it's interesting reels and really all short form video,
- 8:11but reels specifically, you know, I say get the juice while its on sale.
- 8:15I mean, will reels always be, you know, this phenomenon that
- 8:20can fill your sales funnel?
- 8:22Probably not.
- 8:23But they are now and they are for the foreseeable future.
- 8:26And one of the cool things for the wedding industry is that we know
- 8:30without a shadow of a doubt, that our clients are on Instagram and Pinterest.
- 8:33Like that's where they hang out.
- 8:34That's where they're shopping, you know, wedding wire's.
- 8:37Latest report said that 82% and climbing of all engaged couples
- 8:42research their vendors on social media before they ever make a purchase.
- 8:46And that's a massive amount.
- 8:48So, Instagram is favoring reels.
- 8:50They are at battle with TikTok, and so they are favoring reels on their
- 8:55platform, and so it's a really great way to get in front of more engaged couples.
- 9:01One of the other cool things is that in the wedding industry, again, we
- 9:05have such a cool feature is when someone gets engaged, one of the very
- 9:09first things they do is change their.
- 9:12Online . So they change it on Facebook and they go and tell
- 9:16everyone that they're now engaged.
- 9:17Well, Facebook and Instagram are owned by the same company, and so
- 9:21it makes it really, really easy for Instagram to know who to put
- 9:24your content in front of, because.
- 9:26They tell us that they're engaged, so it, it makes it really, really cool.
- 9:31And because Instagram's favoring reels, your content is gonna
- 9:35get pushed out to more engaged couples when you're making reels.
- 9:39The other piece of that too is that, now, I dunno if you guys have noticed
- 9:42this, so reels have been around for about two years now, and now every
- 9:46single platform, not just a few, every single social media platform
- 9:50now has short form video incorporated.
- 9:53TikTok, obviously, but Facebook Pinterest instagram, YouTube,
- 9:58LinkedIn, all have short form video.
- 10:00So if you can master reels, it really translates to all these other platforms,
- 10:06and it is the way we're going to start marketing to people and the future.
- 10:10So understanding it.
- 10:12Using it while Instagram's giving you that extra juice anyway, is really
- 10:15gonna be to your benefit in the future for marketing your business.
- 10:18Becca: So really, it's the best way to get in front of people that aren't
- 10:21already following you, is that right?
- 10:22Brandee: Yeah, and that's the thing too, I think a lot of people don't
- 10:24understand is that when you post on Instagram, Less than 10% of your
- 10:29followers will see your content.
- 10:31Instagram's told us that themselves.
- 10:33So when you make this beautiful feed post, you've spent an hour creating
- 10:36in Canva, or you do your stories or whatever, less than 10% of your
- 10:40followers are seeing that content.
- 10:42And that's the people who are actually following you with reels.
- 10:46They use a different algorithm.
- 10:47They're actually, that algorithm is.
- 10:49Seeking out people who will want to watch it.
- 10:53And so the reels algorithm is going and searching for people and
- 10:57bringing new eyes to your platform.
- 10:59So I always consider reels as kind of like top of funnel.
- 11:02You know, it's it's brand new eyes that don't really know you yet, and
- 11:06they want to learn more about you.
- 11:08They like your reels, they like your content, so they're
- 11:11gonna come to your profile.
- 11:12Then the idea is to get them to click through to your website, obviously
- 11:14book a console, and then to book.
- 11:16Becca: Okay, so there's gonna be people listening who totally
- 11:19resonate with what you're saying.
- 11:20They can see that reels are the future.
- 11:22They can see that it's important in their business, but they're scared and they
- 11:27don't really know how to get started.
- 11:29So, have you got any tips for people about how they can just get started,
- 11:33how they can make their first reel, what they should be making it about?
- 11:36Brandee: Absolutely.
- 11:37Okay.
- 11:37So the easiest way to get started, especially.
- 11:41In the beginning, I think it's scary to show your face.
- 11:44I'll push you . If you come into my, my space of the web, I'm gonna push
- 11:49you and say I love your reels, but I haven't seen your face on one yet.
- 11:53But to start, I do totally understand that showing your face on video is scary.
- 11:59And as wedding professionals, you know, it's great to be able to show our.
- 12:03So what I would encourage you to do is to use a template.
- 12:07Reels has templates now.
- 12:08It's kind of a new feature.
- 12:09It's been around for about eight months as of this recording.
- 12:12And you can use a template and you can literally grab content.
- 12:16Right out of your phone.
- 12:18Or you can use the photographer's professional images.
- 12:21A lot of them will send like a favorites, right?
- 12:23A favorites folder to all the vendors.
- 12:26You can use those and you can literally use someone else's template and
- 12:30then you can just add your own media to it and it will make you a reel.
- 12:34Instagram will make you a reel that you can post of your own content.
- 12:38So if you're thinking about using a template, I actually keep
- 12:42one at the top of my Instagram.
- 12:44So if you go over to Brandee Gaar on Instagram, the only wedding photo that
- 12:49you'll see on my entire feed as a coach.
- 12:51Is actually a template for other wedding pros to use if you click on it.
- 12:57And then on the bottom left you'll see, use this as a template.
- 13:01If you literally click there, it'll tell you, add your own media, and
- 13:04then it will make that same reel for you, but with your own content.
- 13:08So I think this is a really easy way.
- 13:10I love teaching people to use a template because what you can see, It takes you two
- 13:15minutes to make it, and then you're gonna see how much juice you get from that reel.
- 13:20It's, it's honestly incredible.
- 13:22When you post a reel, you're like, wait a second, I just got 400 views in an hour.
- 13:27You know?
- 13:27And you're like, what's happening?
- 13:28And so you start to really realize the power of the reel's algorithm.
- 13:32Becca: So it doesn't need to be complicated.
- 13:33It can be as simple as just sharing footage or images from a wedding you've
- 13:38recently worked at and using a template.
- 13:40Brandee: Yeah, and I think the template's the easiest way because
- 13:43you know, a lot of times, I, I tell people all the time, listen, reels
- 13:47can be as simple as literally grab your phone and then when you see maybe
- 13:51like the bride and groom do a first.
- 13:53Capture it on your phone and then make that into a seven second reel.
- 13:57But I think a lot of people as wedding pros, you know,
- 13:59we're so cautious of our grid.
- 14:01Like we get nervous that, oh, but I don't want iPhone footage or,
- 14:04you know, phone footage on my grid.
- 14:07Listen, reels are really meant to be more real.
- 14:10And so it's definitely okay to use phone footage, but I, I think the template
- 14:14makes it a little bit easier for people to baby step into because you can
- 14:18use more professional images with it.
- 14:20But guys, there's so many.
- 14:23You can make quick reels that don't ever even show your face.
- 14:27I think for like, let's say a florist, I love seeing behind the scenes of
- 14:32like a florist making a bouquet, right?
- 14:35Or processing flowers.
- 14:36You get all your flowers in, you've gotta process them.
- 14:39Or let's say a dj.
- 14:41Packing up all their equipment for wedding day.
- 14:44Like people love to see what you actually do behind the scenes
- 14:48cuz they see you at the wedding.
- 14:50You know, there's one DJ here, she always does reels of like, they're
- 14:53getting ready to go on site because there's so much that goes into it.
- 14:57You know, they've gotta have equipment, backup equipment, and then they've
- 14:59got to pack the truck and setting up.
- 15:01And it's really, it's very, very interesting for people to get
- 15:04to see what you're doing and what equipment you're bringing.
- 15:07So those are simple reels that don't even show your.
- 15:10Becca: Loads of great ideas in there for people to get started with.
- 15:13Now, the other question that people ask me quite regularly when it comes to this
- 15:17kind of thing is, how do I make sure that what I'm doing actually converts to sales?
- 15:22So I'm not just spending all of my time making content and making beautiful
- 15:25things for Instagram when I'm actually trying to run a business and make sales.
- 15:29So do you think reels can lead to sales?
- 15:31Do wedding couples look at reels and then buy, like how does
- 15:35the whole process integrate?
- 15:36Brandee: Yeah, that's such a great question, Becca.
- 15:39You know, I will tell you guys, it's funny that I teach on Instagram now
- 15:42because two years ago I didn't even have a personal Instagram and I had always
- 15:47outsourced blushes, social media, blushes, my planning company to someone else.
- 15:51I've never done my own social media prior to two years ago, cuz I hated
- 15:55Instagram for that exact same reason.
- 15:57It would be like, you know, you'd listen to an Instagram guru or an influencer
- 16:01come teach about Instagram and they.
- 16:04Tell you all these rules and hashtags and how many words and what time to post.
- 16:08And I was like, wow, I have a business to run.
- 16:10Like I do not have time for this.
- 16:12And so what I started to really think about two years ago as I started to
- 16:17see the market change, where it was like, listen, Paid publications are
- 16:21really not where it's at anymore.
- 16:23Like I want to be able to connect in real time with potential buyers
- 16:27right there on Instagram, right?
- 16:29And so I wanted to learn it myself.
- 16:32What I started to realize is that you have to have a strategy.
- 16:36It's not just a pretty place to post pictures and videos.
- 16:40If you don't have a strategy, you can post until you're purple.
- 16:44It's not gonna work.
- 16:45Like it's not gonna turn into sales.
- 16:46And as a business owner, I'm not trying to go viral.
- 16:49I'm not trying to make content that's gonna go viral.
- 16:51I really want to make content that turns into dollars.
- 16:55Right?
- 16:55And so what I want you to think about again, is kind of going
- 16:58back to that funnel analogy.
- 17:01I want you to think about if reels are top of funnel, how are you moving them
- 17:05through the funnel to become a buyer?
- 17:08Well, what I encourage you to do is I want you to make a piece of anchor content.
- 17:13So what does that look like?
- 17:14So that might be a blog on your website.
- 17:17I would say it should always be a blog on your website.
- 17:20Let me rephrase that.
- 17:21So you are gonna create a blog.
- 17:23Let's say that you create a blog that.
- 17:25You know, we're here in engagement season, so let's say it's what are the first three
- 17:29things you should do once you're engaged?
- 17:31Right now?
- 17:32Literally any kind of wedding pro can write a blog like this,
- 17:35and it's a, it's a very searched thing during engagement season.
- 17:38So first three things you should do once you're engaged, now you're gonna write
- 17:42that blog, you're gonna keep it simple, and then you're gonna make at least,
- 17:46Two reels about that exact same topic.
- 17:49One of them could be you literally talk to camera like you do on your stories,
- 17:54but you're gonna do it as a reel.
- 17:55And it would be, oh, you're engaged.
- 17:57So exciting.
- 17:58Here's the first three things you need to do.
- 17:59And you're literally just gonna name them.
- 18:01And then you're gonna say, go read our blog for more information.
- 18:05Right?
- 18:05Or more about this topic.
- 18:07And then you're.
- 18:08Another reel that might be like some different pictures of your couples,
- 18:12and you can say, you're engaged.
- 18:14Now what do you do?
- 18:15Here's the first three things that you should do, right?
- 18:17So two totally different kinds of reels, but you want to make sure that
- 18:20both of them in the caption has a call to action to go click the link
- 18:25in your bio to read more on your blog.
- 18:27Once you can get them to your blog, now you've got them right there.
- 18:31It's like having somebody at your front doorstep.
- 18:33All you have to do is bring them in because what you wanna do on your
- 18:37blog is you wanna make sure you say things like, if you're ready to, if
- 18:40you need help from a wedding planner or you're ready to book your dj,
- 18:44Click here to book a consult with us.
- 18:45You wanna make sure that's at the bottom of your blog, but you're really
- 18:49moving them through your funnel.
- 18:50The whole point of reels isn't to just show them pretty things, it's to become
- 18:55an expert, to show them how amazing you are at their work and to fill
- 18:59a pain point that they have, right?
- 19:01So you're wanting, they have a pain point, you've got the solution, and so you really
- 19:06want to make sure that your call to action is always, always, always to learn more.
- 19:11On your website, and that should be a blog.
- 19:13That's a great way to get them to your blog.
- 19:15So you don't wanna just have the strategy of like, post,
- 19:19no, that's not all we wanna do.
- 19:20We wanna post with strategy to move them to your website.
- 19:23Does that make sense?
- 19:24Becca: Yeah, that makes a lot of sense.
- 19:25And I think it's really excellent advice because if you're posting, just because
- 19:29you're trying to post so many times a week and you're not thinking about why
- 19:32you're posting or what you're trying to get people to do next, what is the point?
- 19:35So I think that's a really, really great way to look at it.
- 19:38So how often then, I know it's the obvious question, but how often
- 19:42should be people be making reels?
- 19:45Brandee: Yeah, so my answer is always at a minimum of twice a week.
- 19:50And I know that sounds kind of like a lot, but if you're already creating content for
- 19:55Instagram, which I'm sure that you are.
- 19:57You can actually make reels way faster than you can make grid posts.
- 20:01Once you get the hang of it, it, it actually goes really, really quickly.
- 20:05I only teach wedding pros how to make reels that you can
- 20:08make in five minutes or less.
- 20:10I don't think that, you know, spending an hour on one reel is giving you the
- 20:14return on investment that it should.
- 20:16So I always want you to spend only five minutes making a reel now of.
- 20:21In the beginning, you're trying to kind of learn how the buttons work and things
- 20:24like that, so it might take you a few extra minutes, but once you get the hang
- 20:27of it, you're going to really be able to make five minute reels, and so I would
- 20:32love to see you make at least two a week.
- 20:35I would love to see it as you get better at it to make about three to four.
- 20:39And honestly, I would tell you.
- 20:41That you could replace your grid posts with reels.
- 20:44Now, if you love making grid posts, if you love making feed posts, that's fine.
- 20:48You're welcome to keep them.
- 20:50But once you start getting the hang of reels, you'll see how much faster
- 20:53that they are to make, and you can put them on your feet as well.
- 20:57And they're gonna get so much more interaction than
- 21:01those feed posts ever will.
- 21:03And so you'll start to see that and you'll become addicted pretty quickly.
- 21:06So two at a minimum, but three to four is
- 21:09Becca: ideal.
- 21:10I've got a question off of the back of something you just said to do with
- 21:13putting them on the grid post and replacing your grid posts with reels.
- 21:17So one question that I had from one of my members recently was if they make a
- 21:21reel, And they share it to their grid.
- 21:23Can they just use one of their beautiful photos as the cover image so that
- 21:28they keep that protected beautiful grid that they all want to keep?
- 21:32Brandee: 100%.
- 21:33That's a great question, Becca.
- 21:35And if you guys wanna see this in real time, I will tell you exactly how I do it.
- 21:39So on my coaching page, which is Brandee Gaar on Instagram, you'll see
- 21:44that I rarely use a cover on my reels.
- 21:46I l I tend to be very, very, Real and authentic over there, and I'm a little
- 21:52bit of a goofball, so I don't care what my grid looks like that much , and
- 21:55so I don't use covers that often.
- 21:57However, on blush, so we're at blush, B B G, on Instagram, you
- 22:03can go over and see the blush.
- 22:05Instagram we.
- 22:06Always put a cover.
- 22:08Like always put a cover because same, right?
- 22:11We're wedding professionals.
- 22:12We are tend to be a little bit more buttoned up over there.
- 22:15We cater to a luxury client and I do have to care what the
- 22:18aesthetic of my grid is over there.
- 22:20So what we do is I would tell you to do two different things.
- 22:23If you're posting a real wedding or something about your work,
- 22:28then I would use a professional.
- 22:30From that wedding, or even use, like let's say you do the example
- 22:35of you packing up your DJ and you're packing up for wedding day.
- 22:38I might put a professional image of you, like rocking out the dance floor as the
- 22:43cover or something like that, right?
- 22:45So that you've got a really great aesthetically pleasing cover.
- 22:48But if you're doing an educational reel, which I think you should
- 22:51do at least, at least once a week because it poses you as an expert.
- 22:55So an educational reel, meaning you're teaching engaged couples something, right.
- 23:00Then I would make the cover.
- 23:02Something pretty and on brand, but I would make it in Canva and I would say what
- 23:07question you're answering or what pain point you're answering on that cover.
- 23:11Because when people come to your profile to binge more of your reels,
- 23:15like they see one, they come and they wanna binge more of them.
- 23:18You want them to see what topics you're covering and so that they can quickly
- 23:23binge the ones that they wanna see.
- 23:24Right?
- 23:24And so that, that's really important, is to make sure if
- 23:27you're answering a question, that you make a cover that tells.
- 23:31What you're talking about in that reel.
- 23:32Becca: Love that loads and loads of helpful tips in there.
- 23:34Now I'm gonna let the listeners into a bit of a secret brandy, because I wanna
- 23:38share something with you that you may or may not have noticed from my world.
- 23:42So for those people listening, this is actually the second time
- 23:45that we've had this conversation.
- 23:47So a couple of weeks ago, me and Brandee did this podcast recording.
- 23:50It was a great conversation, all about reels and some, for some
- 23:53reason, the technology fail.
- 23:55And it didn't record, which is why we're back again now.
- 23:58Now in that conversation, I was very honest with Brandy and I said, I
- 24:02don't do reels very much, and I know I need to be doing them more, and I
- 24:05feel like it's just too much effort.
- 24:07Well, since we had that conversation a few weeks ago, I think I've
- 24:11actually made seven new reels myself.
- 24:15Yeah, I've made 70 reels and they have reached thousands.
- 24:19Of people.
- 24:20So this works and it isn't as complicated as it needed to be.
- 24:24And all I am doing on my reels is I'm going, I'm hitting
- 24:27record, I'm giving one tip.
- 24:29There's no background music, there's no dancing, there's no nothing.
- 24:32It's just me talking with some captions and a cover with the, with the question
- 24:36on it, and people are loving it.
- 24:39So Brandy, thank you and to everyone else.
- 24:42Listen to what she's teaching you today and realize it
- 24:45doesn't have to be that hard.
- 24:46It really is simple and it really is addictive and it does get you the results.
- 24:50Brandee: It's addictive because all of a sudden you start seeing new followers,
- 24:54you start getting engagement on your wheels, you get all these views, right?
- 24:58And I love what you just said, Becca, because it's so funny.
- 25:01People will say to me, but why can't I just do a story if I'm just gonna
- 25:05sit down and talk to the camera?
- 25:06Why can't I just do that as a story?
- 25:08That is what I want you to think about.
- 25:09I want you to think about it as it's as simple as doing a story,
- 25:13but remember, stories only get shown to a percentage of your followers.
- 25:18People already have to be following you to watch your stories.
- 25:21Reels are being shown to new people, and that's what we want is to always
- 25:25be bringing in new I star platforms.
- 25:27So think about it like it's as simple as doing a.
- 25:30You're gonna make it as a real, and Oh, Becca, that makes me so happy to hear you
- 25:34say, because I love that you just told them like how simple it really, really
- 25:39can be and how valuable they really are.
- 25:43Becca: Yeah.
- 25:43And how many people they reach like, Honestly, I was actually joking with
- 25:47some friends because we went out to this Girls shopping evening the other
- 25:50night to buy some gifts and a couple of them were like, we keep seeing your
- 25:53face and we keep seeing your reels.
- 25:55And I was like, I know.
- 25:56And they, they said, do many people watch them?
- 25:58I was like, well, sometimes they reach 3000 people.
- 26:01I was like, imagine if I was saying that on a stage to 3000 people.
- 26:06And they're like, it just blew their mind and it blows my mind.
- 26:09And actually, yeah, it's the way to reach people and my stories never.
- 26:143000 people, right?
- 26:15Brandee: Please, no mine either.
- 26:17No.
- 26:17I mean, I, I'm lucky if I get, you know, two or 300 views on my stories, which is
- 26:22crazy cuz I have, what, 4,600 followers And I, I get excited when I get 300
- 26:26views on a story, which is ridiculous.
- 26:28And so this is something I do wanna encourage you guys.
- 26:31A lot of times you'll hear people say like, oh, I got 3000 views
- 26:34on a reel, 4,000 views on a reel.
- 26:36It's okay if a reel only hits 5, 6, 700 views as well.
- 26:40Because listen, I promise you, there's not a single feed post or story post you've
- 26:45ever made that have seen that many views.
- 26:47And so even when a reel does, Not great.
- 26:50Right?
- 26:50Under a thousand views.
- 26:51I have tons of reels that get under a thousand views.
- 26:54I don't care.
- 26:54I keep making them.
- 26:55I actually just had a client the other day tell me that they found us through reels.
- 27:00They literally were like, we saw your reels, and you kept coming
- 27:04back up and kept coming back up.
- 27:05So then we started following you, and then we were like, we love this girl.
- 27:08And so we booked you and I.
- 27:10You're kidding me?
- 27:11Like I need you to say that on video for me,
- 27:14. Becca: Yeah, it really does work.
- 27:16And that's interesting as well, talking about views because it
- 27:19does feel like it's a bit random.
- 27:21That is one of my learnings from the last few weeks, is that sometimes I
- 27:24can give a tip and it can reach 2000 people, and then the next day I'll
- 27:27give a tip and it reaches 200 people and it doesn't seem to be a reason why
- 27:32Brandee: you know, I would agree with you, and I'd love to tell you,
- 27:35oh, Becca, if you do it this way and you say it this time and you post it
- 27:38this time, it'll totally take off.
- 27:40But if you even watch some of the Instagram influencers, I, I follow a lot
- 27:44of influencers so that I can take what they're telling people, kind of understand
- 27:48it, use it, and then bring it back to the wedding market in a way that works for us.
- 27:52And it's so funny, everybody's kind of like, Instagram is a total guessing game
- 27:56at this point because they're trying so hard to figure out how to battle TikTok.
- 28:02You know, they're not TikTok, they're Instagram, and so it changes when
- 28:06I tell you it changes daily, like no one ever knows what's going on.
- 28:11And so what I would tell you is don't get caught up in the views.
- 28:15Don't get caught up in all of the insights post consistently.
- 28:20Just post consistently.
- 28:21If you can do twice a week and you consistently post,
- 28:24I promise you I've seen it.
- 28:26I've had hundreds of students go use my real traffic toolkit.
- 28:30Dozens and dozens of students in my accelerator that this works for.
- 28:34I'm telling you guys, consistency trumps any algorithm any day.
- 28:38So consistently post, keep showing up, hit the pain points of your engaged couples.
- 28:43You know what they're asking, right?
- 28:45You know what they're asking you talk to them all the time.
- 28:47Um, Just hit their pain points post consistently.
- 28:50I promise you, you will see a return in your business.
- 28:54Yes.
- 28:54Becca: And if I can do it, then you can do it as well.
- 28:57Now, one of the things I've had to get over with my own reels, and I know this
- 29:01is something that people are gonna be struggling with too, is that feeling
- 29:04of perfectionism, having to make it perfect and therefore never, ever posting
- 29:09anything because it's not perfect.
- 29:10Like any tips on how to kind of get over.
- 29:13Brandee: You know?
- 29:14Yes.
- 29:15Honestly, the only way I can tell you to get over it is you just have to start
- 29:19doing it because you know it's funny, I.
- 29:22Beg people to go back to the beginning of my Instagram and see my reels because
- 29:26they were so, so cringey and so cringey because I was so uncomfortable on camera
- 29:33and no, people do not believe me now.
- 29:35And I get it.
- 29:36Like I see people that are, you know, doing something I wanna be able to do, and
- 29:39they're like, it wasn't always this way.
- 29:40I'm like, sure it wasn't.
- 29:41But I genuinely would hyperventilate, like I threw up the first time I did a live,
- 29:47I, I was very nervous to be on camera.
- 29:49But I knew I had to do it.
- 29:52And so it's kind of like, you know, your business finances, right?
- 29:56Like most of us get into the industry because we're great at planning
- 29:59or being a DJ or whatever it is.
- 30:01And then you realize, oh, junk.
- 30:02Like I have to actually know how to do taxes.
- 30:05And business finance, you have to learn it cuz you don't have a choice, right?
- 30:08You're running a business.
- 30:09It's the same thing with reels.
- 30:11You, you just have to do it.
- 30:13The more you do it, the better you will get at it.
- 30:17Kinda like Becca said when you said your friends were like, oh, I keep seeing you.
- 30:21Honestly, I think that was probably the most uncomfortable part of my journey
- 30:24when I started showing up on reels.
- 30:26My friends would be like, oh, I saw this reel.
- 30:29I was like, Ugh.
- 30:31And so I would freak out and be like, oh, I don't wanna do it, but you know what?
- 30:34I'm reaching my ideal clients and I know I am.
- 30:37And so you just have to do.
- 30:39It will be awful at first.
- 30:41You will feel ridiculous.
- 30:42You will feel ridiculous.
- 30:43Post it anyway.
- 30:44Post it anyway.
- 30:46And you will keep getting better and you'll get addicted to the numbers.
- 30:49You will.
- 30:50Yeah.
- 30:50Becca: And it is embarrassing when your friends say, Hey, I saw you on the reels,
- 30:54but you just, it's so embarrassing.
- 30:55So let it go.
- 30:56Let it go.
- 30:57And actually, here's another funny story my granddad said to.
- 31:01I just keep wondering what on earth you're talking about.
- 31:04I was like, don't worry, granddad is not for you.
- 31:07Brandee: isn't that so funny?
- 31:07And that's the thing is you have to understand like
- 31:10they're not your ideal client.
- 31:12But yes, my father-in-law said the same thing.
- 31:14He was like, I saw you like dancing with a bottle of champagne
- 31:18or something the other day.
- 31:20And I was like, oh my gosh, this is so embarrassing.
- 31:22But I knew that it was reaching the right people and he's just not the right person.
- 31:27And so you kinda have to let that.
- 31:29You're going to get that you guys, but it's okay.
- 31:32Just keep doing it because it is going to give you the return.
- 31:36I promise you.
- 31:37I wish I could shake people sometimes, like wedding pros and be like,
- 31:39please do this for your business.
- 31:42Please do it.
- 31:43Here's the really cool part, once you start mastering it, I kind of
- 31:46talked about this in the beginning.
- 31:48Every major platform has short form video.
- 31:50Now, you can literally take that same video, put it on TikTok, put
- 31:54it on YouTube shorts, put it on Facebook, put it on Pinterest.
- 31:58That's, that's a different level.
- 31:59I'm not gonna tell you to do that in the beginning, but it makes, you are
- 32:02now covering every platform and you're getting this juice from every platform.
- 32:06It's crazy what you can do with short form videos, so don't miss this train.
- 32:10Becca: Yeah.
- 32:11And actually for every one embarrassing person saying something, there's
- 32:15hundreds of others who are watching it and actually being helped by it.
- 32:18Your ideal, your ideal client are loving it.
- 32:20And people have said to me, oh, that tip today was really helpful.
- 32:23That really transformed my thinking that really helped me today.
- 32:26And it's those voices you need to listen to, not the ones telling you.
- 32:30What an earth are you doing on Instagram?
- 32:32Brandee: That's exactly right.
- 32:33Becca: I love, I love it.
- 32:34Now, Brandy, I want to, encourage the listeners to do
- 32:38a bit of being active, right?
- 32:40And to go out and make their first reel or their next reel.
- 32:43So we've talked about templates.
- 32:45Is there another kind of reel that we can challenge them?
- 32:47Give this one a go this week and then show us what you achieve.
- 32:50Brandee: Yes, I would love to challenge your listeners.
- 32:52So I want them to do basically what you just talked about, Becca.
- 32:57Like I just want you to go to good lighting.
- 33:00Okay?
- 33:00So you don't need a ring light, you don't need any fancy equipment.
- 33:03You just need your phone and a window on a, on a sunny day, and you make sure
- 33:08that the light is hitting your face.
- 33:09You want good lighting, you don't wanna be in a dark room,
- 33:12and I want you to just give.
- 33:14Tip, we are in engagement season, you guys.
- 33:16So this should be really easy.
- 33:18Okay?
- 33:18So like, give one tip on the first thing you need to do when you're engaged, or,
- 33:24a great one too, would be like questions to ask your dj, your florist, your
- 33:28planner, right before you book them.
- 33:30That's a really easy one.
- 33:31Here's three questions to ask before you book your dj, right?
- 33:35Whatever you are.
- 33:36And then you can say, you can check out our website for more information
- 33:39about what we do or whatever, right?
- 33:41I just want you to do a talking.
- 33:44No more than 15 seconds.
- 33:45Okay, so I'm gonna challenge you to keep it at 15 seconds.
- 33:48Reels allows you to do all the way up to 90 seconds, but talking head
- 33:51videos don't need to be that long.
- 33:53So 15 seconds.
- 33:54Give us one tip and just straight to camera.
- 33:57And if you tag me, I'm at Brandee Gaar and Becca, do you
- 34:01want them to tag you as well?
- 34:02Yeah, tag me as well.
- 34:04Yes, and then I'll share it.
- 34:06I'd love to share it so that you can get even more juice.
- 34:08And I'd love to, to share and just say, you know, this is a
- 34:11great tip from such and such a company, so please go make a reel.
- 34:15I'm telling you, you will love it once you do it the first time.
- 34:18Becca: Yes, and if you are sat listening to this now and thinking already, oh,
- 34:22I'd love to do that, but I don't think that's for me, then I wanna challenge you.
- 34:25Take a step out of your comfort zone, give it a try, and do tag us
- 34:28so that we can see it, because we would both love to celebrate you
- 34:31and say, yes, you did a good job.
- 34:33Keep it going.
- 34:34That's right.
- 34:35Brandee you have given us so many great tips on reels.
- 34:38I, for one, am sold.
- 34:40As I said, I've been working on it since we spoke last and I'm
- 34:43definitely gonna keep on doing that.
- 34:44Before we finish the conversation though, I.
- 34:47End with the same question on my podcast, which is this.
- 34:51What's the one thing you wish you'd known sooner in your own business?
- 34:54Brandee: I think it just goes back to my kind of origin story, which
- 34:57is I wish I would've understood how to build a business, like
- 35:02a business from the beginning.
- 35:04You know, like I wish I would've understood just.
- 35:07How to build a business strategically right from the beginning.
- 35:10So I could have saved myself a lot of heartache, but you
- 35:12know, I live and learn, right?
- 35:14So I, I definitely feel like that's something I wish I would've known sooner
- 35:17was your business needs to be able to operate without you being involved.
- 35:22In it on a daily basis.
- 35:24Becca: Yeah, a hundred percent.
- 35:25Brandee, it's been such a pleasure to talk to you.
- 35:27Hopefully all the text work this time and everyone's gonna be able
- 35:30to hear this marvelous episode.
- 35:32Now, I'll make sure that I share your Instagram links in the show notes, but if
- 35:36people wanna learn more about reels or.
- 35:38Have some more help.
- 35:39Is there anywhere specifically where they should be going?
- 35:41Brandee: Yes, absolutely.
- 35:42If you head over to brandeegaar.com/reels, you can actually grab a freebie
- 35:48that I have for you guys.
- 35:49It's a hundred reels ideas for Wedding Pros, so it's
- 35:53specifically for wedding pros.
- 35:55You can go through the entire document, it'll help you get
- 35:58your creative juices flowing.
- 35:59There's also some tips in there on making great reels, and so I'd
- 36:03love for you guys to go grab that.
- 36:04It's totally free.
- 36:05Just brandeegaar.com/reels.
- 36:07Becca: Amazing.
- 36:08Everyone go download that resource.
- 36:10It's gonna be so helpful for you, and that's gonna help you
- 36:12decide on what reels to make.
- 36:14And don't forget to tag us in them.
- 36:16Brandy, thank you for your time and when those fireworks
- 36:18go off tonight, think of me.
- 36:20Brandee: I don't.
- 36:20I definitely will
- 36:22Becca: take care and we'll seek soon.
- 36:23Brandee: Thanks Becca.
- 36:24Becca: I absolutely love that conversation with Brandy.
- 36:27If you are not yet making reels consistently, take
- 36:29her advice and go get them.
- 36:32I'll be back next week.
- 36:33I'll see you then.