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The Axeman of Milford: The Slaying of Julie Minogue · Murder Files Unsealed

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Speaker 1: You know, we are constantly told that the legal system
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Speaker 1: is going to protect you. Right. Like you just follow
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Speaker 1: the rules. Right.
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Speaker 2: Yeah. That's the problem.
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Speaker 1: Exactly. And if you find yourself in danger, there's this
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Speaker 1: very specific script that society demands you follow. You leave
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Speaker 1: the abuser. You call the police. You file the restraining
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Speaker 1: order and you show up to court.
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Speaker 2: And we're assured that if you check all those boxes,
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Speaker 2: you will be safe.
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Speaker 1: Right. But what happens when a mother of three literally
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Speaker 1: dots every I and crosses every T in that justice system,
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Speaker 1: and her abuser still manages to take a rideshare across
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Speaker 1: the state with an axe hidden in his pants?
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Speaker 2: It's just terrific.
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Speaker 1: It really is. Today's deep dive is about the terrifying
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Speaker 1: reality of paper shields.
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Speaker 2: It is a devastating reality. And honestly, it exposes this
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Speaker 2: fatal flaw in how we conceptualize safety.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: So today... we are looking at a deeply unsettling true
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Speaker 2: crime case from December 6th, 2022. This happened in the
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Speaker 2: usually quiet coastal city of Milford, Connecticut.
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Speaker 1: Like a very picturesque place.
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Speaker 2: Very. And our analysis today is grounded in a really
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Speaker 2: comprehensive collection of sources. We've got detailed documentary transcripts, rigorous
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Speaker 2: forensic video analyses, firsthand police accounts, and just incredibly difficult
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Speaker 2: Heartbreaking testimony from the family and friends of a 40-year-old
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Speaker 2: woman named Julie Minogue.
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Speaker 1: And I want to be clear to you listening. Our
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Speaker 1: mission today is not to just, you know, recount a tragedy. Right.
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Speaker 2: Definitely not.
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Speaker 1: We are going to meticulously examine the timeline of systemic
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Speaker 1: failures here. We're looking at the missed warning signs and
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Speaker 1: those massive blind spots in the legal system that actually
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Speaker 1: allowed this to happen.
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Speaker 2: Because the contrast in this case is staggering.
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Speaker 1: It really is. I mean, you have this polished, modern
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Speaker 1: Connecticut suburb, literally the kind of place where the biggest
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Speaker 1: neighborhood dispute is over, like a property line.
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Speaker 2: Right.
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Speaker 1: And the murder weapon used is an axe.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's visceral.
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Speaker 1: It's this medieval, brutal instrument of violence colliding with a
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Speaker 1: world of doorbell cameras and rideshare apps.
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Speaker 2: And that collision, that exact intersection between primitive violence and
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Speaker 2: modern technology is what makes this case so critical to study.
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Speaker 1: Absolutely.
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Speaker 2: We often assume that our modern infrastructure... Our digital surveillance,
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Speaker 2: the complex legal codes, our family courts. We assume that
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Speaker 2: creates a robust safety net.
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Speaker 1: But as we'll see today, an abuser with singular destructive
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Speaker 1: intent can just slip right through the gaps in that net.
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Speaker 1: And all of that illusion of safety, it shatters on
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Speaker 1: the night of December 6th.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it really does.
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Speaker 1: The Milford Police Department gets a 911 call. And it
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Speaker 1: doesn't come from a neighbor who heard a strange noise
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Speaker 1: down the street. No. The call comes from inside the house.
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Speaker 1: It is Julie's 17-year-old son on the line. Right.
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Speaker 2: So the 17-year-old had actually been homesick from school that day.
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Speaker 2: It was a weeknight, just a few weeks before Christmas.
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Speaker 1: He's just a kid trying to rest.
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Speaker 2: Exactly. He's upstairs in his bedroom when he suddenly hears
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Speaker 2: yelling and this incredibly violent commotion downstairs.
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Speaker 1: So he reacts the way, frankly, any of us would
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Speaker 1: in our own home. He goes to the top of
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Speaker 1: the stairs to see what is happening.
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Speaker 2: And when he looks down into the kitchen, he is
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Speaker 2: confronted with a scene... That just defies comprehension.
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Speaker 1: His mother is on the floor. Yes. And the violence
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Speaker 1: inflicted upon her is so severe that later there's this
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Speaker 1: prosecutor named Margaret E. Kelly. And she notes that a
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Speaker 1: veteran investigator, a detective with 38 years on the force,
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Speaker 1: visibly struggled to process it. Wow.
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Speaker 2: 38 years.
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Speaker 1: Right. He openly asked how one human being could possibly
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Speaker 1: do this to another. Julie had suffered more than 11
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Speaker 1: sharp force injuries to her head. alongside multiple blunt force traumas.
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Speaker 2: The sheer brutality of it just cannot be overstated. And
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Speaker 2: the weapon, a literal axe covered in blood and hair,
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Speaker 2: was just discarded right there on the kitchen floor.
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Speaker 1: So the 17-year-old sees this, and this overwhelming survival instinct
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Speaker 1: just kicks in.
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Speaker 2: Naturally.
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Speaker 1: He runs back to his bedroom, barricades the door, and
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Speaker 1: makes that desperate 911 call. But here's the thing that
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Speaker 1: really gets me. When the Milford police arrive and he
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Speaker 1: hears the sirens outside, he doesn't feel the relief you
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Speaker 1: would expect.
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Speaker 2: No, not at all.
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Speaker 1: Instead of thinking, you know, help has arrived, he is
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Speaker 1: entirely convinced that the killer is posing as the police
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Speaker 1: to lure him out.
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Speaker 2: Which is terrifying.
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Speaker 1: He is so terrified that he actually climbs out of
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Speaker 1: his second story window and jumps to escape.
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Speaker 2: And that reaction right there tells us everything we need
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Speaker 2: to know about the depth of the trauma he experienced
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Speaker 2: in that moment.
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Speaker 1: OK, let's unpack this.
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: Because he's so terrified that help itself looks like a threat.
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Speaker 1: It's like a real life horror movie where every instinct
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Speaker 1: of safety is inverted.
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Speaker 2: Exactly. From a psychological and physiological standpoint, his brain was
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Speaker 2: in absolute overdrive. When a human being witnesses an event
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Speaker 2: of that magnitude, an event that completely obliterates their fundamental
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Speaker 2: understanding of safety, the amygdala basically takes over.
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Speaker 1: That's a threat detection center, right?
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Speaker 2: Right. The amygdala effectively hijacks the entire nervous system.
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Speaker 1: So his brain is basically telling him that the entire
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Speaker 1: world is now a threat, including the very people designed
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Speaker 1: to rescue him.
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Speaker 2: Precisely. It is a profound manifestation of the fight or
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Speaker 2: flight response. The cognitive logical part of his brain, the
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Speaker 2: prefrontal cortex that would normally say, hey, that is a
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Speaker 2: police siren. Those are the good guys. That part has
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Speaker 2: been temporarily shut down. All that remains is pure, unadulterated
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Speaker 2: survival logic, which is just to assume everything is a trap.
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Speaker 1: Just the sheer willpower and adrenaline required to barricade a door,
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Speaker 1: evaluate the sound of a siren, deduce that it's a
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Speaker 1: trick and then hurl your own body out of a window.
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Speaker 1: I mean, that is a level of psychological terror that
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Speaker 1: will require a lifetime to unpack.
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Speaker 2: It really will.
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Speaker 1: And the worst part is he was not the only
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Speaker 1: child in that house.
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Speaker 2: No, he wasn't. When the police finally breached the home
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Speaker 2: and secured the scene. They discover Julie's three-year-old son in
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Speaker 2: the very next room. Oh, my God. The police reports
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Speaker 2: explicitly describe the toddler as being in a, quote-unquote, trance-like state.
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Speaker 1: I want to pause on that phrase. A trance-like state.
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Speaker 1: You have a three-year-old boy sitting just feet away from
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Speaker 1: a scene of medieval violence. Can we delve into what
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Speaker 1: is actually happening in a toddler's brain in that scenario?
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Speaker 1: Because it's not just shock in the colloquial sense. Right.
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Speaker 2: No, it is a well-documented psychological mechanism called dissociation. Okay.
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Speaker 1: What does that mean practically?
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Speaker 2: Well, when an adult or an older teenager experiences trauma,
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Speaker 2: they have the physical capacity to fight or flee, just
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Speaker 2: like the 17-year-old did by jumping out the window.
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Speaker 1: Right. They can take action.
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Speaker 2: But a 3-year-old does not have that physical agency. They
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Speaker 2: can't fight an intruder, and they obviously can't run away.
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Speaker 1: So.
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Speaker 2: When escape is physically impossible, the brain provides a psychological escape.
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Speaker 1: So the brain basically just unplugs itself from reality to
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Speaker 1: protect the child.
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Speaker 2: Exactly. The central nervous system essentially hits a circuit breaker.
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Speaker 2: It does this to prevent total psychological collapse from the
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Speaker 2: sensory overload of the yelling, the sounds of violence, and
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Speaker 2: the sheer fear.
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Speaker 1: That is so incredibly sad.
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Speaker 2: It is. The child detaches from their immediate surroundings, appearing catatonic, or...
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Speaker 2: as the police said, trance-like. It's the ultimate desperate defense
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Speaker 2: mechanism of a developing brain.
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Speaker 1: It's just devastating. And for the investigators standing in that
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Speaker 1: kitchen looking at the brutality of the scene and these
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Speaker 1: two deeply traumatized children, they immediately know they aren't dealing
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Speaker 1: with like a burglary gone wrong. Right.
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Speaker 2: There's no forced entry in the traditional sense of a
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Speaker 2: shattered deadbolt.
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Speaker 1: And nothing of value is missing. This was clearly targeted.
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Speaker 1: This was annihilation.
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Speaker 2: Overkill of that magnitude. 11 strikes to the head with
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Speaker 2: a heavy tool always indicates an intensely personal motive. The
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Speaker 2: perpetrator didn't bring an axe to intimidate someone into handing
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Speaker 2: over a wallet. Right. They brought it to destroy.
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Speaker 1: So with the killer having completely vanished into the night,
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Speaker 1: the police realize they can't just rely on the physical
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Speaker 1: evidence left in the kitchen.
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Speaker 2: They need a direction to look.
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Speaker 1: Exactly. To figure out who wielded that axe, they have
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Speaker 1: to look outward to the digital eyes of the neighborhood.
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Speaker 1: They start canvassing these pristine suburban streets for surveillance, and
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Speaker 1: they secure ring doorbell camera footage from two separate neighbors.
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Speaker 2: And this immediately brings forensic video analyst Nick Barrero into
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Speaker 2: the investigation.
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Speaker 1: Right. He was heavily featured in the documentary sources. Yes.
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Speaker 2: And Barrero highlights something crucial about why modern doorbell cameras
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Speaker 2: are vastly superior to the CCTV systems of the past. Yeah.
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Speaker 2: It's the metadata, specifically the cloud-synced timestamp.
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Speaker 1: Wait, I want to clarify something here because I think
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Speaker 1: it's a really common misconception for a lot of people. Sure.
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Speaker 1: Isn't video just video? We've had security cameras at gas
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Speaker 1: stations and banks for decades. Why is a doorbell camera
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Speaker 1: suddenly the gold standard for a homicide detective?
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Speaker 2: It entirely comes down to the mechanism of authentication. With
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Speaker 2: older analog CCTV systems like, say, a VHS tape at
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Speaker 2: a convenience store, the timestamp is generated locally by the
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Speaker 2: machine itself.
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Speaker 1: Meaning someone manually set the clock on it?
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Speaker 2: Exactly. That means if the store owner forgot to adjust
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Speaker 2: for daylight saving time, or if the power went out
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Speaker 2: and the internal clock reset, the timestamp could be off
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Speaker 2: by hours, days, or even years. Oh, wow.
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Speaker 1: I didn't even think about that. Yeah.
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Speaker 2: Defense attorneys routinely destroy analog video evidence in court by
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Speaker 2: arguing the timeline is unreliable.
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Speaker 1: Ah, I see. Because if the defense can prove the
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Speaker 1: clock is wrong, they can argue their client was there
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Speaker 1: on a completely different day.
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Speaker 2: Precisely. But a system like Ring doesn't rely on a
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Speaker 2: local clock.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: The camera is constantly communicating with a central server via
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Speaker 2: the cloud. Every single frame of video is stamped with
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Speaker 2: network time protocol metadata, which is synchronized to atomic clocks.
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Speaker 1: That is wild. Atomic clocks.
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Speaker 2: Right. Furthermore, because it's stored on a third-party server, the
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Speaker 2: file generates a unique cryptographic hash. From a forensic standpoint,
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Speaker 2: Barrero can testify in court with absolute mathematical certainty that
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Speaker 2: the video was recorded at the exact minute it claims
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Speaker 2: to have been recorded.
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Speaker 1: And that the footage hasn't been tampered with or altered
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Speaker 1: in any way. And that mathematically certain timestamp reads 8.56 p.m.,
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Speaker 1: just a few minutes before the 17-year-old dialed 911.
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Speaker 2: The timing is undeniable.
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Speaker 1: So the analysts pull up the footage and And the
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Speaker 1: image that appears on the screen is chilling. It's a
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Speaker 1: man walking down the sidewalk in the dead of night,
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Speaker 1: casually holding an axe.
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Speaker 2: Barrero, who has literally spent his entire career analyzing thousands
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Speaker 2: of hours of forensic video, notes how exceedingly rare it
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Speaker 2: is to see something this blatantly sinister on a suburban camera.
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Speaker 1: It's so out of place.
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Speaker 2: He enhances the footage, adjusting the gamma levels and contrast
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Speaker 2: to pull detail out of the shadows.
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Speaker 1: And the enhanced details give them a physical profile. They
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Speaker 1: can't see a high-definition face, you know, it's dark, but
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Speaker 1: they see a man with a goatee or a full beard. Right.
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Speaker 1: He's wearing a blue hat with a white logo and
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Speaker 1: a dark blue or black sweater layered over a light
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Speaker 1: blue shirt. But it's not just what he's wearing that
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Speaker 1: catches Barrero's eye, is it? It's how he's moving.
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Speaker 2: Yes, as the suspect walks through the frame, his gait
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Speaker 2: is irregular. At one point, he crosses one leg over
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Speaker 2: the other and visibly stumbles.
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Speaker 1: Just a slight loss of balance.
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Speaker 2: Right. And Barrero analyzes the mechanics of that stumble. It
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Speaker 2: could indicate a moment of hesitation. Perhaps he momentarily lost
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Speaker 2: his bearings and started to pivot. But more likely, given
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Speaker 2: the profound lack of balance, it strongly suggests the man
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Speaker 2: was deeply intoxicated.
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Speaker 1: And that brings up a really thorny legal issue. Here's
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Speaker 1: where it gets really interesting. If we operate under the
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Speaker 1: assumption that he was heavily intoxicated, does that change how
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Speaker 1: the law views the murder?
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Speaker 2: It's a big question in courtrooms.
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Speaker 1: Because I think a lot of people assume that if
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Speaker 1: you are drunk, you can't form the cold, calculated plan
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Speaker 1: required for first-degree murder. Does alcohol erase intent?
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Speaker 2: It is a defense tactic we see constantly. It's an
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Speaker 2: argument aimed at the concept of mens rea, which is
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Speaker 2: the legal term for guilty mind.
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Speaker 1: Right.
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Speaker 2: A defense attorney will argue that voluntary intoxication was so
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Speaker 2: severe that the perpetrator was physically incapable of forming specific intent.
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Speaker 2: They try to reduce a charge from premeditated murder down
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Speaker 2: to manslaughter. arguing it was an impulsive drunken mistake.
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Speaker 1: But logically, how can you argue a stumble on a
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Speaker 1: sidewalk negates intent when the man is literally carrying an
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Speaker 1: axe toward the victim's house?
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Speaker 2: Exactly. The video analyst's observation of the stumble might suggest intoxication,
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Speaker 2: but the macro logistics of the evening completely override it.
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Speaker 1: What do you mean by macro logistics?
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Speaker 2: Well, to arrive at that specific geographical location, armed with
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Speaker 2: a highly specific, unusual weapon, requires a sequence of goal-oriented decisions.
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Speaker 2: You have to acquire the axe, you have to transport
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Speaker 2: the axe, and you have to navigate to the victim's address.
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Speaker 1: Right, you don't just accidentally end up there.
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Speaker 2: Exactly. That chain of actions demonstrates a clear, continuous intent
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Speaker 2: that alcohol cannot legally erase.
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Speaker 1: And we also have this surreal reality, right? We live
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Speaker 1: in a world where a man can walk down a
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Speaker 1: suburban street with an axe and the only witness is
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Speaker 1: a robot on a front door.
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Speaker 2: It's a very modern kind of isolation.
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Speaker 1: Does this false sense of privacy embolden criminals? Like, no
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Speaker 1: humans are outside, so they feel invisible.
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Speaker 2: It's possible. But in this case, the robot on the
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Speaker 2: door caught exactly enough.
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Speaker 1: Yes, it did. Because when the traumatized 17-year-old son is
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Speaker 1: eventually shown this enhanced doorbell footage, that digital ghost instantly
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Speaker 1: gets a name.
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Speaker 2: He recognizes him immediately.
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Speaker 1: He knows exactly who the man in the blue hat is.
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Speaker 1: He identifies him as his mother's ex-partner, the father of
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Speaker 1: the three-year-old boy found in the house. A 42-year-old man
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Speaker 1: named Ewan DeWitt.
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Speaker 2: And to understand how Ewan DeWitt arrived at that doorbell
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Speaker 2: camera with such lethal intent, we have to look backward.
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Speaker 1: We have.
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Speaker 2: We have to examine how this relationship began. Because the
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Speaker 2: most terrifying aspect of this case is that it did
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Speaker 2: not begin with violence or even a hint of it.
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Speaker 1: Right. Let's talk about Julie Minogue and how she ended
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Speaker 1: up crossing paths with DeWitt. Everything in the source material
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Speaker 1: paints Julie as a genuinely radiant person.
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Speaker 2: She really was.
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Speaker 1: She was 40 years old, born and raised in New York,
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Speaker 1: the youngest of three siblings. Her father, Gerald, and her
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Speaker 1: best friend, Tricia, describe her as having a heart of gold. Yeah.
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Speaker 2: She worked full time at an OBGYN office. She adored animals.
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Speaker 2: And fundamentally, she was a caretaker.
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Speaker 1: Right. She was a single mother carrying a tremendous load.
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Speaker 1: She had married young at 20. had two sons, navigated
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Speaker 1: a divorce, and then had a third son with another partner.
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Speaker 2: So she is raising three boys, one of whom had
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Speaker 2: grown up and was actually serving in the Coast Guard
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Speaker 2: while balancing a demanding job in health care.
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Speaker 1: She sounds incredibly resilient.
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Speaker 2: She was. But as her father noted, she wanted a
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Speaker 2: partner to share the burdens of life.
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Speaker 1: Like millions of people, she had tried dating apps, but
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Speaker 1: she actually met Ewan DeWitt organically. She was at a
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Speaker 1: local dog park walking her golden retriever, Lexi.
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Speaker 2: Such a normal, everyday setting.
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Speaker 1: Right. They struck up a conversation, and the man who
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Speaker 1: introduced himself seemed like the absolute pinnacle of stability.
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Speaker 2: DeWitt's resume, as presented to Julie and her family, was impeccable.
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Speaker 2: He was a former United States Marine. He was a
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Speaker 2: college graduate, athletic, and came from a large family of
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Speaker 2: eight children. He was exceedingly polite to our sons and
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Speaker 2: seemed to effortlessly integrate into their dynamics.
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Speaker 1: So on paper, he was exactly the strong, capable partner
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Speaker 1: Julie had been hoping to find.
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Speaker 2: Exactly. He even disclosed to her early in the relationship
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Speaker 2: that he was a recovering alcoholic.
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Speaker 1: And this detail really caught my attention in the documentary.
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Speaker 1: Julie's father, Gerald, explicitly stated that he felt good about
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Speaker 1: that disclosure. He didn't see it as a red flag, right?
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Speaker 1: He viewed DeWitt's sobriety as a massive green flag, a
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Speaker 1: sign of immense personal strength.
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Speaker 2: And you can entirely understand the father's logic there. True
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Speaker 2: recovery from addiction requires rigorous self-awareness, discipline, and emotional regulation.
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Speaker 1: Right. It's hard work.
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Speaker 2: It is. If someone presents themselves as having conquered a
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Speaker 2: demon-like alcoholism, they appear incredibly resilient. But this highlights a
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Speaker 2: deeply insidious tactic common among abusers. It's called mirroring.
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Speaker 1: Mirroring. Okay, I need you to break that down for
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Speaker 1: us because it's terrifying and it completely upends how we
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Speaker 1: evaluate people in our own lives.
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Speaker 2: I know. It's very unsettling.
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Speaker 1: We're taught to look for red flags, you know, anger issues,
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Speaker 1: rudeness to service staff, jealousy. But what happens when all
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Speaker 1: the flags are green? How do you spot the danger
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Speaker 1: when someone's resume, Marine, college grad, loving father-to-be is flawless?
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Speaker 2: Well, mirroring is a psychological manipulation where the abuser intensely
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Speaker 2: studies the victims During the early honeymoon phase of a relationship.
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Speaker 1: Like they're doing research on them.
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Speaker 2: Precisely. They identify exactly what the victim lacks or desires.
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Speaker 2: In Julie's case, she desired a strong, stable protector who
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Speaker 2: could handle the chaos of a busy household.
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Speaker 1: Okay, that makes sense.
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Speaker 2: The abuser then perfectly adopts that persona. They reflect the
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Speaker 2: victim's desires back to them. The green flags aren't genuine traits.
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Speaker 2: They are a carefully constructed performance designed to accelerate bonding
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Speaker 2: and and create a false sense of absolute trust.
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Speaker 1: And it worked. DeWitt positioned himself as the ultimate safe harbor.
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Speaker 1: When Julie became pregnant with their son, DeWitt proposed with
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Speaker 1: a beautiful ring, and they got engaged.
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Speaker 2: It felt like the culmination of a perfect love story.
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Speaker 1: But the performance eventually cracked, and the catalyst for that
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Speaker 1: crack wasn't a job loss or a financial crisis or
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Speaker 1: some massive external trauma.
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Speaker 2: No, it wasn't.
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Speaker 1: Ironically, the illusion shattered because of the birth of their
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Speaker 1: own child. In September 2019, Julie gave birth to their son.
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Speaker 2: And the arrival of the infant caused a seismic shift
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Speaker 2: in the relationship's power dynamic.
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Speaker 1: How so?
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Speaker 2: Gerald, Julie's father, recalled visiting the hospital and noticing the
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Speaker 2: first genuine warning signs. DeWitt didn't look like a proud,
17:47
Speaker 2: joyous father.
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Speaker 1: He didn't.
17:49
Speaker 2: No, he appeared deeply annoyed and irritated by the newborn.
17:53
Speaker 1: Annoyed that his own newborn baby was taking up his
17:55
Speaker 1: fiancé' s energy. It's almost difficult to comprehend that level of selfishness.
18:00
Speaker 2: It is difficult to comprehend... Unless you view it through
18:03
Speaker 2: the lens of abusive psychology, specifically narcissistic injury.
18:07
Speaker 1: Okay, I'll unpack that.
18:09
Speaker 2: In a healthy relationship, partners share the joy and the
18:12
Speaker 2: exhaustion of a new baby. The mother's biological and emotional
18:15
Speaker 2: focus naturally shifts to the infant, and a healthy partner
18:18
Speaker 2: supports that. But for an abuser, the relationship exists solely
18:22
Speaker 2: to service their own needs.
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Speaker 1: Oh, wow. So the baby isn't viewed as a child.
18:27
Speaker 1: The baby is viewed as competition. Exactly.
18:28
Speaker 2: Exactly. the abuser experiences a sudden, intolerable deprivation of the
18:33
Speaker 2: center stage attention they demand.
18:35
Speaker 1: The mirroring phase ends.
18:36
Speaker 2: Right, because the victim is too exhausted to provide the
18:40
Speaker 2: constant validation the abuser requires. This perceived rejection triggers intense resentment, which,
18:47
Speaker 2: in DeWitt's case, led to a catastrophic relapse.
18:50
Speaker 1: He started drinking again. And when the alcohol returned, his
18:53
Speaker 1: underlying aggression came right to the surface. It culminated on
18:57
Speaker 1: a Saturday. DeWitt was supposed to be taking care of
19:00
Speaker 1: the baby while Julie was out.
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Speaker 2: And when she came home, she found him heavily intoxicated.
19:05
Speaker 1: A verbal argument escalated rapidly, and the physical logistics of
19:08
Speaker 1: what happened next are critical.
19:10
Speaker 2: They are.
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Speaker 1: Julie was holding the infant in her arms. She was
19:13
Speaker 1: navigating the stairs. DeWitt shoved her, but she managed to
19:17
Speaker 1: keep her balance. Then, in a fit of rage, DeWitt
19:21
Speaker 1: picked up a playpen, a heavy piece of baby furniture,
19:24
Speaker 1: and hurled it directly at her while she was holding
19:26
Speaker 1: their child.
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Speaker 2: Which is just an unthinkable level of violence towards your
19:29
Speaker 2: own family.
19:30
Speaker 1: Julie reacted with pure maternal instinct. She twisted her body
19:34
Speaker 1: to shield the baby, absorbing the full impact of the
19:36
Speaker 1: flying playpen with her own head.
19:38
Speaker 2: The laceration was so deep she had to be rushed
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Speaker 2: to the emergency room, where she was seeing five staples
19:42
Speaker 2: in her scalp.
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Speaker 1: This is the definitive turning point. The mask hasn't just slipped,
19:48
Speaker 1: it has shattered. Right.
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Speaker 2: The man who presented himself as a disciplined, protective Marine
19:53
Speaker 2: is now inflicting severe physical trauma on his fiance while
19:56
Speaker 2: she holds his own infant.
19:58
Speaker 1: And I want to emphasize this next part heavily because
20:01
Speaker 1: society has a terrible habit of victim blaming in domestic
20:05
Speaker 1: violence cases.
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Speaker 2: They really do.
20:07
Speaker 1: People always ask the lazy question, why didn't she just leave? Well,
20:09
Speaker 1: let's be very clear. Julie Minogue did everything society and
20:14
Speaker 1: the justice system tells victims to do. It was a
20:16
Speaker 1: textbook response.
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Speaker 2: She did not hesitate.
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Speaker 1: She immediately called the police. DeWitt was arrested for assault.
20:22
Speaker 1: She ended the engagement. She kicked him out of the house.
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Speaker 1: She ended the relationship entirely. She filed for an active
20:28
Speaker 1: order of protection. And she sought full legal and physical
20:31
Speaker 1: custody of the baby. She drew a massive, uncompromising line
20:36
Speaker 1: in the sand.
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Speaker 2: As her best friend Tricia stated, Julie dotted every I
20:40
Speaker 2: and crossed every T. She utilized every legal mechanism the
20:43
Speaker 2: state of Connecticut provides to separate herself and her children
20:47
Speaker 2: from a violent offender.
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Speaker 1: She drew a line in the sand with the legal system,
20:51
Speaker 1: but we're about to see that a paper shield is
20:53
Speaker 1: entirely useless against a physical weapon.
20:56
Speaker 2: Unfortunately, yes.
20:57
Speaker 1: She did exactly what we were taught to do. She
20:59
Speaker 1: got the protection order. But the presence of that piece
21:02
Speaker 1: of paper exposes a terrifying gap between the family court system...
21:06
Speaker 1: And criminal enforcement. Because family court didn't completely cut him off,
21:11
Speaker 1: did they?
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Speaker 2: No, they didn't. They granted DeWitt supervised visitation with the baby.
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Speaker 1: Despite the fact that he was literally arrested for throwing
21:18
Speaker 1: a playpen at the baby. Yes.
21:20
Speaker 2: Despite a documented history of severe physical violence directed at
21:24
Speaker 2: the mother while she was holding the child, the family
21:27
Speaker 2: court system often defaults to the philosophy that a child
21:30
Speaker 2: needs contact with both parents.
21:32
Speaker 1: Wow.
21:33
Speaker 2: Supervised visitation is theoretically designed to be safe. But from
21:37
Speaker 2: the perspective of an abuser, it serves a much darker purpose.
21:41
Speaker 1: It's a tether.
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Speaker 2: Exactly. It is a state-sanctioned foothold in the victim's life.
21:46
Speaker 2: It forces the victim to maintain logistical contact, coordinating drop-offs,
21:50
Speaker 2: discussing schedules. It ensures the abuser is never fully erased
21:53
Speaker 2: from the victim's orbit.
21:55
Speaker 1: And DeWitt weaponized that tether. A minor misunderstanding over a
21:59
Speaker 1: prearranged meeting that Julie hadn't even agreed to sparked a
22:03
Speaker 1: campaign of digital harassment that has frankly... Hard to wrap
22:06
Speaker 1: your mind around.
22:07
Speaker 2: It escalated so fast.
22:08
Speaker 1: He started texting her. And we are not talking about
22:11
Speaker 1: a quick, angry argument. Over the course of just two days,
22:14
Speaker 1: DeWitt sent Julie 220 text messages.
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Speaker 2: Let's do the math on that to understand the psychological
22:20
Speaker 2: weight of it. That is an average of one text
22:22
Speaker 2: message every 10 minutes for 48 hours consecutively.
22:25
Speaker 1: You can't even sleep.
22:27
Speaker 2: Exactly. It is a relentless, inescapable barrage. And the content
22:31
Speaker 2: of these messages was vile. There were long paragraphs filled
22:35
Speaker 2: with profanity, vulgarity, and explicit threats.
22:37
Speaker 1: He accused her of leading him on, and most chillingly,
22:41
Speaker 1: he wrote that he was going to make sure no
22:42
Speaker 1: one sees you again.
22:43
Speaker 2: Make sure no one sees you again. That is not
22:45
Speaker 2: a vague insult. That is a specific, direct death threat.
22:48
Speaker 1: Her father called it sheer evil madness.
22:51
Speaker 2: And it highlights a distinctly modern form of psychological torture.
22:55
Speaker 2: Before smartphones, a victim could unplug a landline or leave
22:58
Speaker 2: the house to find temporary peace.
23:00
Speaker 1: Right, you could just escape it for a few hours.
23:02
Speaker 2: But today, the abuser is in your pocket. The device
23:05
Speaker 2: that connects you to your support system is the same
23:08
Speaker 2: device delivering death threats to your nightstand at 3 a.m.
23:12
Speaker 2: The terror is ubiquitous.
23:14
Speaker 1: Terrified, Julie does the right thing again. She takes her
23:18
Speaker 1: phone with the 220 text messages and the explicit death
23:21
Speaker 1: threat straight to the Milford police.
23:25
Speaker 2: She literally hands them the evidence.
23:26
Speaker 1: She shows them to an officer, reminding them that she
23:29
Speaker 1: has an active order of protection against Ewan DeWitt for
23:32
Speaker 1: the Playpen incident. The officer looks at the messages. agrees
23:35
Speaker 1: that this is a blatant criminal violation of the protection order,
23:39
Speaker 1: and tells her he is going to request an arrest
23:41
Speaker 1: warrant to put DeWitt in jail.
23:43
Speaker 2: But that arrest never happens.
23:45
Speaker 1: Wait, I need to pause here, because this is the
23:47
Speaker 1: crux of the systemic failure, and it makes me so
23:50
Speaker 1: angry on behalf of you, the listener, who expects the
23:53
Speaker 1: system to work?
23:54
Speaker 2: It's incredibly frustrating.
23:55
Speaker 1: Wait, she hands them 220 texts over two days, explicitly
24:00
Speaker 1: threatening her life, and the system basically hits snooze. If
24:04
Speaker 1: someone threatened a bank like that, they'd be in jail
24:06
Speaker 1: by lunch. Can you clarify the legal landscape here? What
24:10
Speaker 1: exactly does she have in place, and why didn't the
24:13
Speaker 1: police just drive to his house and put him in
24:15
Speaker 1: handcuffs immediately?
24:16
Speaker 2: It requires an understanding of how bureaucratic the legal system
24:20
Speaker 2: actually is and the difference between criminal and civil orders.
24:23
Speaker 1: Okay, walk me through it.
24:24
Speaker 2: Julie had an active criminal order of protection stemming from
24:27
Speaker 2: his prior arrest for the assault with a playpen. When
24:30
Speaker 2: he sent the 220 texts... He committed a new crime,
24:34
Speaker 2: violating that order, alongside harassment and threatening.
24:38
Speaker 1: Okay, so a crime has clearly been committed. The evidence
24:40
Speaker 1: is literally in black and white on the screen. Why
24:43
Speaker 1: couldn't they arrest him on the spot?
24:45
Speaker 2: Because in most jurisdictions, unless a misdemeanor or certain felonies
24:50
Speaker 2: are committed in the direct presence of a police officer
24:53
Speaker 2: or under specific exigent circumstances, the officer cannot make a
24:57
Speaker 2: warrantless arrest after the fact.
24:58
Speaker 1: They have to apply for an arrest warrant. So what
25:01
Speaker 1: does that bureaucratic process actually look like? Why did it stall?
25:05
Speaker 2: The patrol officer has to return to the station and
25:07
Speaker 2: draft a detailed affidavit establishing probable cause, outlining the texts
25:13
Speaker 2: and the prior order.
25:14
Speaker 1: That sounds like a lot of paperwork.
25:15
Speaker 2: It is. That affidavit then has to be reviewed and
25:18
Speaker 2: approved by a police supervisor. Once approved internally, it is
25:24
Speaker 2: sent to the local state's attorney or prosecutor's office. A
25:27
Speaker 2: prosecutor must review it for legal sufficiency.
25:30
Speaker 1: And it still isn't done? Nope.
25:32
Speaker 2: If they approve it, it then goes to a judge's desk.
25:35
Speaker 2: A judge must review it, sign it, and issue the warrant. Finally,
25:40
Speaker 2: the warrant is sent back to the police department, where
25:41
Speaker 2: it sits in a queue waiting for officers to actually
25:44
Speaker 2: go out and serve it.
25:45
Speaker 1: That is an agonizingly long chain of custody for a
25:48
Speaker 1: piece of paper when a woman is receiving death threats
25:50
Speaker 1: every 10 minutes.
25:52
Speaker 2: And any single link in that chain can cause a bottleneck.
25:56
Speaker 2: Was the prosecutor's office understaffed that week? Was the judge
25:59
Speaker 2: backlogged with hundreds of other affidavits? Did the police department
26:02
Speaker 2: lack the patrol resources to actively hunt him down once
26:05
Speaker 2: it was signed?
26:06
Speaker 1: We don't really know, do we?
26:07
Speaker 2: We don't have the definitive answer for where the paperwork
26:10
Speaker 2: scald in this specific instance. But the practical outcome was lethal.
26:15
Speaker 2: The legal machinery moved at the speed of bureaucracy, while
26:18
Speaker 2: the abuser moved at the speed of violence.
26:21
Speaker 1: A man actively threatening murder was left completely unbothered by
26:24
Speaker 1: the state.
26:25
Speaker 2: It's a tragic gap between judicial intent and executive action.
26:29
Speaker 1: Realizing that the police haven't arrested him and feeling increasingly desperate,
26:33
Speaker 1: Julie tries one more avenue. On December 1st, 2022, just
26:37
Speaker 1: five days before she is murdered, she goes to civil
26:40
Speaker 1: court to apply for a civil restraining order.
26:43
Speaker 2: This is an important distinction. The criminal order of protection
26:46
Speaker 2: is initiated by the state following an arrest. A civil
26:49
Speaker 2: restraining order is initiated by the victim themselves in family
26:52
Speaker 2: or civil court, asking a judge to legally mandate the
26:56
Speaker 2: abuser to stay away. often altering the custody or visitation arrangements.
27:00
Speaker 1: The audio from that December 1st civil hearing is included
27:03
Speaker 1: in the documentary, and it is gut-wrenching.
27:06
Speaker 2: It is so hard to listen to.
27:07
Speaker 1: Her best friend, Tricia, was sitting right there in the courtroom.
27:10
Speaker 1: She recalled that Julie was physically shaking. She had tears
27:14
Speaker 1: welling in her eyes as she stood before the judge.
27:17
Speaker 2: She was terrified.
27:18
Speaker 1: The prosecutor asked her, on the record, if she was
27:21
Speaker 1: fearful of being in Mr. DeWitt's presence. Julie explicitly stated
27:25
Speaker 1: under oath, I fear for my life. She even filed
27:29
Speaker 1: a written affidavit where she penned the exact words, he's
27:32
Speaker 1: going to kill me.
27:33
Speaker 2: The judge heard her plea and immediately granted the civil
27:36
Speaker 2: restraining order, legally severing his access to her.
27:39
Speaker 1: And walking out of that courthouse on December 1st, Julie's
27:42
Speaker 1: family finally exhaled. They genuinely believed she was safe.
27:46
Speaker 2: They thought the system was finally working.
27:48
Speaker 1: They thought they had stacked enough legal paperwork, enough judicial mandates,
27:52
Speaker 1: and enough court orders... that it was only a matter
27:54
Speaker 1: of time before the arrest warrant caught up to him.
27:57
Speaker 1: They believed the system had finally built an impenetrable wall
28:01
Speaker 1: around her.
28:02
Speaker 2: But tragically, just five days later, Ewan DeWitt proved how
28:06
Speaker 2: easily a paper wall could be bypassed.
28:09
Speaker 1: Which brings us back to the night of the murder,
28:11
Speaker 1: December 6th. The axe is on the floor, the children
28:14
Speaker 1: are traumatized, the ring camera has captured the digital ghost,
28:17
Speaker 1: and Ewan DeWitt has vanished into the dark.
28:20
Speaker 2: The Milford police launch a massive manhunt.
28:23
Speaker 1: Right. They know exactly who they are looking for, but
28:26
Speaker 1: they have zero idea where he went. And the break
28:28
Speaker 1: in the case comes from a source that almost never
28:31
Speaker 1: happens in true crime. Ewan DeWitt's own mother calls the police.
28:35
Speaker 2: Yes, she contacts the authorities and informs them that her
28:38
Speaker 2: son had just called her on the phone and openly
28:41
Speaker 2: confessed to killing his girlfriend.
28:43
Speaker 1: Wow.
28:44
Speaker 2: She tells the police he is wandering around somewhere. She
28:46
Speaker 2: isn't sure of his exact location, but she provides them
28:49
Speaker 2: with his active cell phone number.
28:51
Speaker 1: Wait, pause. I've read countless true crime cases, and it
28:54
Speaker 1: feels like the family almost always covers for the suspect.
28:57
Speaker 1: They hide them in basements. They wash bloody clothes. They
28:59
Speaker 1: lie to detectives. Are there sociological statistics on this? What
29:04
Speaker 1: drives a mother to actually make that call and hand
29:07
Speaker 1: her own son over to face a murder charge?
29:09
Speaker 2: It is exceedingly rare. While exact statistical percentages vary by jurisdiction,
29:15
Speaker 2: investigators will universally tell you that familial loyalty is one
29:19
Speaker 2: of the biggest hurdles in apprehension.
29:20
Speaker 1: They protect their own.
29:22
Speaker 2: Exactly. Families often operate under a deeply ingrained tribal protectionism,
29:27
Speaker 2: convincing themselves the suspect is innocent or that the system
29:31
Speaker 2: will treat them unfairly.
29:33
Speaker 1: So what makes someone break that?
29:35
Speaker 2: When a family member, particularly a mother, breaks that biological loyalty...
29:40
Speaker 2: it usually stems from a profound moral rupture. She likely
29:44
Speaker 2: recognized the sheer danger he posed to the public, or
29:47
Speaker 2: perhaps even to himself.
29:49
Speaker 1: It's a monumental decision.
29:50
Speaker 2: It is a devastating, heavy moral choice, choosing the cold
29:54
Speaker 2: mechanism of justice over the life of your own child.
29:57
Speaker 1: Whatever her internal reasoning was, that phone call instantly accelerated
30:01
Speaker 1: the timeline of justice. The police immediately call the cell
30:03
Speaker 1: phone number she provided.
30:05
Speaker 2: And surprisingly, DeWitt answers.
30:06
Speaker 1: He does, though he refuses to have a real conversation
30:09
Speaker 1: with them. But the fact that he answered is all
30:11
Speaker 1: the tech unit needs.
30:12
Speaker 2: Exactly. The moment the connection is established, police are able
30:17
Speaker 2: to ping the cell tower data, triangulating his location.
30:20
Speaker 1: Modern technology at work again. Right.
30:23
Speaker 2: The ping places his phone. in a general geographical radius
30:27
Speaker 2: in West Haven, which is a neighboring town just over
30:29
Speaker 2: the border from Milford.
30:30
Speaker 1: Police swarm the area and focus on a local bar.
30:34
Speaker 1: They walk in, show DeWitt's photo to the patrons, and
30:36
Speaker 1: the patrons point out back, saying the guy just walked
30:39
Speaker 1: out into the real parking lot.
30:40
Speaker 2: Officers head out back and find DeWitt hiding inside a trailer.
30:44
Speaker 1: He is arrested without putting up a fight. But the
30:47
Speaker 1: interrogation that follows reveals a narrative that completely contradicts what
30:51
Speaker 1: the defense would later try to argue. When the detectives
30:55
Speaker 1: ask him why he did it, DeWitt's only real explanation
30:57
Speaker 1: is that he, quote, had enough and that he simply snapped.
31:01
Speaker 2: Snapped. That is a highly specific, loaded word in criminal defense.
31:06
Speaker 1: What does it imply?
31:07
Speaker 2: It implies a sudden, uncontrollable loss of emotional regulation. It
31:11
Speaker 2: is meant to evoke a crime of passion, an action
31:14
Speaker 2: taken in the blinding heat of the moment without any forethought.
31:17
Speaker 1: But the logistical evidence investigators uncovered destroys that narrative entirely,
31:22
Speaker 1: doesn't it?
31:22
Speaker 2: Completely.
31:23
Speaker 1: They discovered that Ewan DeWitt had taken a Lyft rideshare
31:26
Speaker 1: all the way from his home in Roxbury, Connecticut, to
31:29
Speaker 1: Julie's house in Milford.
31:30
Speaker 2: And Roxbury to Milford is a substantial journey. It's roughly
31:34
Speaker 2: a 45-minute to an hour drive, depending on the route
31:37
Speaker 2: and traffic.
31:38
Speaker 1: And during this entire rideshare, he was concealing the axe
31:41
Speaker 1: in his pants.
31:42
Speaker 2: Which is just chilling to think about.
31:45
Speaker 1: Imagine being that Lyft driver for a second. You are
31:48
Speaker 1: literally ferrying death in the backseat of your car, completely
31:51
Speaker 1: unaware because the weapon is hidden.
31:52
Speaker 2: It's terrifying.
31:54
Speaker 1: It highlights how invisible this danger was to the outside world,
31:57
Speaker 1: you know. To the Lyft driver, to the people at
31:59
Speaker 1: the bar, DeWitt was just a guy. Yet to Julie Minogue,
32:04
Speaker 1: the danger was blindingly obvious.
32:06
Speaker 2: She had literally put it in writing for a judge.
32:09
Speaker 1: He is going to kill me.
32:10
Speaker 2: Right. And the Lyft ride totally dismantles the claim that
32:13
Speaker 2: he snapped. You do not snap. and then calmly open
32:17
Speaker 2: an app on your phone, order a car, wait for
32:19
Speaker 2: it to arrive, ride in silence across multiple towns with
32:22
Speaker 2: a heavy tool strapped to your leg, walk down a
32:25
Speaker 2: suburban street, and breach a home.
32:27
Speaker 1: There's way too much time to think.
32:29
Speaker 2: Exactly. That requires sustained, focused, goal-oriented behavior. You have dozens
32:35
Speaker 2: of opportunities during a 45-minute car ride to reconsider, to
32:39
Speaker 2: calm down, to turn around. He chose to keep going.
32:43
Speaker 2: It is the absolute definition of cold, calculated premeditation.
32:47
Speaker 1: And that premeditation takes center stage when the case finally
32:50
Speaker 1: moves into the courtroom. Ewan DeWitt is caught, the manhunt
32:53
Speaker 1: is over, but the family still has to face him
32:55
Speaker 1: in a court of law.
32:56
Speaker 2: Which is never easy.
32:57
Speaker 1: No. Which brings us to the courtroom clash. More than
33:00
Speaker 1: two years after the murder, Ewan DeWitt decides to take
33:02
Speaker 1: a plea deal.
33:03
Speaker 2: Which is a complex reality for victims' families to navigate.
33:06
Speaker 1: It is. I think a lot of people wonder why
33:09
Speaker 1: a family would accept a plea deal for such a
33:11
Speaker 1: horrific premeditated crime. Why not go to trial, lay out
33:15
Speaker 1: all the evidence in front of a jury, and demand
33:17
Speaker 1: the absolute maximum penalty possible?
33:20
Speaker 2: Because going to trial is an incredibly traumatizing endeavor for
33:23
Speaker 2: the survivors.
33:24
Speaker 1: They have to relive it all.
33:25
Speaker 2: Right. In this specific case, taking it to a jury
33:27
Speaker 2: would mean calling witnesses. And the primary eyewitness to the
33:32
Speaker 2: aftermath of the murder was Julie's 17-year-old son.
33:36
Speaker 1: Oh, man.
33:37
Speaker 2: The family accepted the plea deal primarily to spare that
33:40
Speaker 2: teenager anything The unimaginable psychological torture of having to sit
33:44
Speaker 2: on a witness stand, face his mother's killer, and verbally
33:48
Speaker 2: recount the night he found her body and jumped out
33:50
Speaker 2: of a window.
33:51
Speaker 1: It's the impossible choice families are forced to make all
33:53
Speaker 1: the time. Do you endure the agony of a trial
33:56
Speaker 1: to secure a slightly longer sentence? Or do you accept
33:59
Speaker 1: a compromise to protect the surviving victims from further damage?
34:02
Speaker 2: It's heartbreaking, but they chose to protect the kids.
34:04
Speaker 1: But even with a plea deal, there is still a
34:06
Speaker 1: formal sentencing hearing. And during this hearing, the defense attorneys
34:10
Speaker 1: attempt to mitigate DeWitt's actions to secure leniency from the judge.
34:14
Speaker 2: The defense submitted a psychiatric report that leaned heavily on
34:18
Speaker 2: DeWitt's military service.
34:19
Speaker 1: They always seem to look for a reason.
34:21
Speaker 2: They do. They cited PTSD and severe alcohol abuse, attempting
34:25
Speaker 2: to frame the murder as the tragic, unavoidable result of
34:29
Speaker 2: a broken veteran who is acting impulsively under the crushing
34:32
Speaker 2: weight of mental illness and addiction.
34:35
Speaker 1: But prosecuting attorney Margaret E. Kelly was not having any
34:38
Speaker 1: of it. She aggressively countered this narrative on the record.
34:41
Speaker 2: She brought up the exact logistics we just discussed.
34:44
Speaker 1: She detailed the Lyft ride. She emphasized the concealed acts.
34:47
Speaker 1: She forcefully argued to the judge that there was zero
34:50
Speaker 1: indication this was an impulsive act born of illness. She
34:54
Speaker 1: labeled it a cold, calculated, well-thought-out execution.
34:57
Speaker 2: And this is the moment where Ewan DeWitt completely dismantles
35:01
Speaker 2: his own defense strategy in real time.
35:03
Speaker 1: Oh, the outburst. Yes.
35:05
Speaker 2: As the prosecutor is outlining the premeditated nature of the crime,
35:09
Speaker 2: DeWitt interrupts the formal proceeding. He yells out of profanity,
35:13
Speaker 2: shouting at the prosecutor, that's bleep up.
35:16
Speaker 1: The judge, attempting to maintain order, immediately warns him. The
35:19
Speaker 1: judge states clearly, if outbursts like that continue, I'm left
35:22
Speaker 1: with no other choice but to remove you from the courtroom.
35:25
Speaker 2: And DeWitt's response is just, wow.
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Speaker 1: DeWitt looks at the judge and replies, that would be great.
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Speaker 2: That brief exchange is profoundly revealing of his true character.
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Speaker 1: How so?
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Speaker 2: His defense team had just spent considerable effort painting him
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Speaker 2: as a tragic, sympathetic figure, a man who lost control
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Speaker 2: due to trauma. But his flippant, disrespectful outburst reveals a
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Speaker 2: profound lack of remorse.
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Speaker 1: It totally undermines everything they just argued.
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Speaker 2: Exactly. It demonstrates a complete disregard for the judicial process,
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Speaker 2: utter contempt for the victim's grieving family, and a failure
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Speaker 2: to grasp the gravity of the life he destroyed.
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Speaker 1: He tells the judge that would be great when threatened
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Speaker 1: with removal. It's the ultimate narcissistic power play, isn't it?
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Speaker 1: Even in the very moment of his own sentencing, facing
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Speaker 1: decades in a cage, he is attempting to control the room.
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Speaker 2: He wants to project that he doesn't care, that the
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Speaker 2: state's authority cannot touch him.
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Speaker 1: Ultimately, the judge saw through it and sentenced Ewan DeWitt
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Speaker 1: to 40 years in prison. Given that he was 45
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Speaker 1: years old at the time of the sentencing, he will
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Speaker 1: be in his mid-80s when the sentence is completed.
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Speaker 2: For all practical purposes, as Julie's father, Gerald, solemnly noted,
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Speaker 2: DeWitt will likely die in a prison cell.
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Speaker 1: Gerald delivered a heartbreaking victim impact statement at that hearing.
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Speaker 1: He had to stand up in front of a crowded
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Speaker 1: courtroom and talk about his daughter's final moments of absolute terror.
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Speaker 2: Just unimaginably difficult.
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Speaker 1: He had to explain to the court that the brutality
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Speaker 1: of the axe attack was so severe... That Julie's three
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Speaker 1: sons were denied the ability to even see their mother's
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Speaker 1: remains during her viewing? They couldn't even say a proper
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Speaker 1: goodbye because the physical damage was too horrific to display?
37:05
Speaker 2: The gavel coming down ends the legal proceedings for Ewan DeWitt.
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Speaker 2: He is locked away. But a prison sentence does not
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Speaker 2: undo the damage.
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Speaker 1: No, it never does.
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Speaker 2: The shockwaves of this tragedy fundamentally altered a family, mobilized
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Speaker 2: a community, and ultimately rewrote the legal landscape of the
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Speaker 2: state of Connecticut.
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Speaker 1: Let's delve deeply into that aftermath because the legacy of
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Speaker 1: Julie Minogue is profound. The human cost is staggering. The
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Speaker 1: three-year-old boy, the one found in that dissociative trance, is
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Speaker 1: now being raised by his older half-brother.
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Speaker 2: The family speaks openly about the big hole that is
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Speaker 2: left at every single holiday.
37:41
Speaker 1: Every birthday, every Christmas and Thanksgiving, it is an absence
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Speaker 1: that never heals. But the community outcry in Milford was
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Speaker 1: so loud, so sustained. that it reached the state capitol.
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Speaker 2: Domestic violence advocates, lawmakers, and outraged citizens pointed directly to
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Speaker 2: the timeline of Julie's case.
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Speaker 1: They highlighted the undeniable fact that she had begged for help,
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Speaker 1: she had filed the paperwork, she had provided the 220
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Speaker 1: text messages, and she had explicitly warned the courts that
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Speaker 1: he was going to kill her.
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Speaker 2: Yet the system remained paralyzed.
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Speaker 1: They demanded systemic change to ensure it never happened again.
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Speaker 1: And they actually got it. Connecticut lawmakers passed sweeping changes
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Speaker 1: to domestic violence laws.
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Speaker 2: And the centerpiece of this new legislation is a GPS
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Speaker 2: alert system.
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Speaker 1: Right. This system is designed to warn victims in high-risk
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Speaker 1: domestic violence cases when the perpetrator is physically nearby.
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Speaker 2: This represents a monumental paradigm shift in how the state
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Speaker 2: manages domestic violence offenders.
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Speaker 1: I really want to dig into the mechanics of this.
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Speaker 1: How does this GPS alert system actually work in practice?
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Speaker 1: Is it an ankle monitor? Is it an app on
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Speaker 1: the victim's phone? Because on the surface, it sounds like
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Speaker 1: science fiction.
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Speaker 2: It relies on established electronic monitoring technology. Typically, it's a
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Speaker 2: tamper-resistant GPS ankle bracelet worn by the offender, paired with
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Speaker 2: software accessible by the victim and law enforcement.
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Speaker 1: Okay.
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Speaker 2: The system utilizes what we call active monitoring with geofencing.
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Speaker 1: Like a digital fence.
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Speaker 2: Exactly. The court defines specific exclusion zones, for example, a
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Speaker 2: one-mile radius around the victim's home, their workplace, and their
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Speaker 2: children's school.
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Speaker 1: Okay, so if the abuser crosses that invisible digital line,
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Speaker 1: what happens?
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Speaker 2: If the GPS tracker registers that the offender has breached
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Speaker 2: an exclusion zone, the system immediately triggers a multi-tiered alert.
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Speaker 2: dispatch is notified instantly that a high-risk offender is violating
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Speaker 2: a boundary.
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Speaker 1: So the police know immediately?
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Speaker 2: Yes, theoretically prioritizing a rapid police response. Simultaneously, the victim
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Speaker 2: receives an alert, often via the dedicated app or a
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Speaker 2: text message, warning them that the offender is in proximity.
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Speaker 1: Which gives the victim the most precious resource in a crisis. Time.
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Speaker 1: Time to lock the doors, time to grab the kids,
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Speaker 1: time to flee, or time to arm themselves.
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Speaker 2: Exactly.
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Speaker 1: But what about the technical flaws? What if the battery
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Speaker 1: dies on the ankle monitor? Or what if the offender
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Speaker 1: goes into a concrete basement and loses cell service?
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Speaker 2: Those are the exact operational challenges. The monitors are designed
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Speaker 2: to send a tamper alert or a low battery alert
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Speaker 2: directly to probation officers or police if the signal is compromised.
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Speaker 1: So they do have fail safes.
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Speaker 2: They do. But the system is not infallible. It requires
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Speaker 2: a well-funded, highly responsive law enforcement apparatus to actually react
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Speaker 2: to those alerts.
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Speaker 1: Right. The tech is only as good as the response.
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Speaker 2: And there is also a significant debate surrounding these systems.
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Speaker 2: Civil liberties groups often raise Fourth Amendment concerns regarding the
40:36
Speaker 2: constant state surveillance of individuals who may be out on
40:39
Speaker 2: bail and not yet convicted of the new crime.
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Speaker 1: Right. The tension between civil liberties and public safety.
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Speaker 2: Exactly. Exactly. But domestic violence advocates counter that argument by
40:48
Speaker 2: pointing to cases exactly like Julie Minogue's. They argue that
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Speaker 2: the victim's fundamental right to life supersedes the privacy concerns
40:56
Speaker 2: of a documented abuser who is actively violating court orders.
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Speaker 1: It brings up a painful irony, doesn't it? Julie did
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Speaker 1: all the paperwork, but she was basically the beta tester
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Speaker 1: for a system that failed. Her tragedy became the patch
41:08
Speaker 1: that fixes the bug for everyone else.
41:10
Speaker 2: It's a phenomenon in legal history sometimes referred to as
41:13
Speaker 2: blood laws.
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Speaker 1: Blood laws? Yes.
41:16
Speaker 2: These are vital pieces of legislation, workplace safety regulations, traffic
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Speaker 2: lights at dangerous intersections, or in this case, GPS tracking
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Speaker 2: for abusers that only come into existence because someone had
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Speaker 2: to lose their life to decisively prove that the existing
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Speaker 2: system was fatally inadequate.
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Speaker 1: Gerald, Julie's father, reflected on this bittersweet reality after the
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Speaker 1: law was passed. He said, my daughter's death will save lives,
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Speaker 1: but she couldn't take advantage of those protections herself.
41:44
Speaker 2: It is a devastating truth. Her foresight, her meticulous documentation
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Speaker 2: of the abuse, her desperate, tearful pleas in civil court,
41:52
Speaker 2: they couldn't stop the acts that night.
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Speaker 1: But they laid the undeniable, bulletproof, evidentiary groundwork that forced
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Speaker 1: the state of Connecticut to look in the mirror and
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Speaker 1: change its laws.
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Speaker 2: She literally forced the change.
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Speaker 1: So as we step back and look at the entirety
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Speaker 1: of this deep dive, from the serene postcard streets of
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Speaker 1: Milford to the horrific 911 call from a terrified teenager...
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Speaker 1: Through the digital surveillance of a man in a blue hat,
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Speaker 1: the bureaucratic failure to act on 220 death threats, the
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Speaker 1: courtroom narcissism, and finally, the legislative legacy. We are left
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Speaker 1: with a chilling realization about how society views safety and responsibility.
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Speaker 2: We really are. For decades, we have told victims of
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Speaker 2: domestic violence that the burden of survival rests entirely on
42:36
Speaker 2: their shoulders.
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Speaker 1: We tell them they must disrupt their lives, right? Leave
42:39
Speaker 1: the relationships. file the police reports, navigate the complex family courts,
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Speaker 1: seek the protective orders, change their locks, and look over
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Speaker 1: their shoulders.
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Speaker 2: And Julie Minogue carried that immense burden flawlessly. She did
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Speaker 2: every single thing society demanded of her, and the system
42:52
Speaker 2: still allowed her to pay the ultimate price.
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Speaker 1: And that leaves you with a brand new, deeply unsettling
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Speaker 1: perspective to mull over as we close.
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Speaker 2: What is that?
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Speaker 1: Well, if an abuser is willing to cross the state
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Speaker 1: in a rideshare with an axe strapped to his leg,
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Speaker 1: completely disregarding every piss of paper a judge has signed,
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Speaker 1: Shouldn't the burden of vigilance shift entirely to the state?
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Speaker 2: That's a very powerful question.
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Speaker 1: Perhaps this case proves that true protection isn't a piece
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Speaker 1: of paper politely telling a violent offender to stay away.
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Speaker 1: It's a technological tether that inherently assumes they won't. Thank
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Speaker 1: you for joining us on this difficult but incredibly necessary exploration.