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Ay Por Favor: The Real Housewives of NJ-Lo · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: I with Alexi Napola and Marisol Patton, an iHeartRadio podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, cheer nice, Hi amiga. We're here at Marisol's living room. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: and having a cocky. If you guys are home and
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  Speaker 2: listening to us, please have a cocky with us.
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  Speaker 1: Have a cocky list.
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  Speaker 2: Don't drive after the cocky. No, everyone's staying home. Alright,
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  Speaker 2: it's four o'clock. Oh, it's a happy hour.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but on the East Coast it's one o'club.
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  Speaker 2: No, that's ours West coast. I had too many copies.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know a coast s'mon anymore.
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  Speaker 2: Oh good. So wherever you're at, we hope you're having
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  Speaker 2: a beautiful day and you're tuning in and listening to
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  Speaker 2: us have a little bit of fun and having a
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  Speaker 2: coffee with us.
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  Speaker 1: We're very good at having fun, aren't we. And we're
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  Speaker 1: excellent and having fun. I'm also very excellent relaxing. If
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  Speaker 1: I could get paid for relaxing, i'd be a gazillionaire.
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  Speaker 2: I need to learn from you, my friend, because I
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  Speaker 2: am the opposite of the Oh.
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  Speaker 1: I wish I was more like you, though. I wish
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  Speaker 1: I would get up, run around and get in my car.
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  Speaker 1: I want to go see the day. I want to
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  Speaker 1: seize the sofa and I remember, like I only really.
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  Speaker 2: Sit down when I'm so exhausted, like at the end
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  Speaker 2: of the day, or not eat. I'm not out, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: but well not, I'm just if you.
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  Speaker 1: Lay around and off, you'll feel exhausted, because it's something
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  Speaker 1: about relaxing that makes you even more exhausted than if
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  Speaker 1: you went out and did a million things.
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  Speaker 2: Well, speaking of exhausting, how was your weekend, because I
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  Speaker 2: don't think that I saw you at any event for
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  Speaker 2: swim week this weekend. Oh no, not that I was there.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, no, I was in Orlando. No, not Orlando.
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  Speaker 2: Sorry, what is moment? All right?
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  Speaker 1: Guys? Alexi and I we were at a very sad
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  Speaker 1: memorial but after that we were so sad. We had
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  Speaker 1: a lot of drinks and now I'm here and I
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  Speaker 1: can't get my thoughts together. We had a cocky lunch
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  Speaker 1: and it was really great because I love when we
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  Speaker 1: hang out and have time together.
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  Speaker 2: We should be doing this every every week when we're taping.
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  Speaker 1: We're like, we're going to but you live kind of far.
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  Speaker 1: We live far from each other.
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  Speaker 2: But whenever we do have that opportunity, we take advantage
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  Speaker 2: of it and we record together. We record too much.
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  Speaker 1: Fun, so much better, so much better when we're together. Anyway,
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  Speaker 1: So this weekend I was in Tampa. One of my
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  Speaker 1: greatest lifelong dreams was to be on Home Shopping Network.
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  Speaker 1: I would say HSN, but I keep saying HSN and
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  Speaker 1: people are like what, so I have to spell it out.
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  Speaker 1: It's Home Shopping Network. And I went on to sell
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  Speaker 1: these beautiful headbands and hair pieces from lots and Maine.
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  Speaker 1: I had a blast.
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  Speaker 2: Are you plugging them in? How much did they pay
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  Speaker 2: you that you're plugging them in into our part?
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  Speaker 1: But I have to say why I was there? Okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: I was there. I don't have my own this week.
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  Speaker 1: I don't have my own brand. I was plugging someone
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  Speaker 1: else's brand. And that's why I wasn't here for swim week.
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  Speaker 2: So but we went back Saturday, like Christy Brinkley, and
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  Speaker 2: you could have ran right to.
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  Speaker 1: The swim but why would I illustrated? But why?
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  Speaker 2: Why? But I wanted to go and I didn't want
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  Speaker 2: to go by myself, but you told me that.
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  Speaker 1: Well wait, listen, I got home really tired.
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  Speaker 2: There was no.
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  Speaker 1: Way after I did home shopping work Friday midnight, and
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  Speaker 1: then was up at five am to be on set
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  Speaker 1: at ten am on Saturday, and then flew home.
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  Speaker 2: I was dead.
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  Speaker 1: I wasn't happening.
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  Speaker 2: So it's more exhausting filming the show or filming something
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  Speaker 2: like HSN.
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  Speaker 1: They're different. I mean they're different, But what do you
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  Speaker 1: like more? I liked both. I like both a lot
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  Speaker 1: I like but I love doing our show. I have fun,
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  Speaker 1: especially because I get to do it with you. And
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  Speaker 1: HSM was like such a cool, fun experience. I mean
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  Speaker 1: I was.
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  Speaker 2: I just wanted you to see Christy because I knew
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  Speaker 2: she was there and I'm just a big fan of hers.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, she was there selling like jeans and these cute
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  Speaker 1: sailor outfits, very Hampton's type of clothing.
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  Speaker 2: It was super cute. And then she flew back to
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  Speaker 2: Miami and she attended the Sports Illustrated Swimming Then.
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  Speaker 1: Swim Week is not my job. It used to be
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  Speaker 1: my job, and thank god it's not my job anymore.
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  Speaker 2: I remember when we used to go. We have so
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  Speaker 2: many fun memories of Austin Swim Week. We have pictures
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  Speaker 2: to go with it.
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  Speaker 1: We went Gorga and Joe Gorga one year.
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  Speaker 2: Remember, yeah has Sole Teresa is not gonna like that,
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  Speaker 2: but that was a long time we did. We hung
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  Speaker 2: out with Melissa and Joe, tons of fun and yeah,
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  Speaker 2: that was like back in the day when it first started.
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  Speaker 2: And it's going into such a big event here in
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  Speaker 2: Miami and we filmed there last year. Yeah, and you
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  Speaker 2: know I would have gone to the Sports Illustrated. That
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  Speaker 2: one's the one that I would have gone to. Stupid,
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  Speaker 2: you know what. I didn't get excited about it, honestly,
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  Speaker 2: you know, I like, I get excited about it, and
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  Speaker 2: then I just don't want to go.
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  Speaker 1: I have PTSD from doing those events because back in
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  Speaker 1: the day, the summer was my slow season in the
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  Speaker 1: PR firm, and if you could pick up a few
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  Speaker 1: swim week events, at least you were busy and help
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  Speaker 1: with payroll because you know, you got to pay the employees,
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  Speaker 1: and but it was they paid so poorly, and it
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  Speaker 1: was such hard work.
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  Speaker 2: And it's so hot and events really.
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  Speaker 1: Really hard work and you get nothing for it. And
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  Speaker 1: I have PTSD from that. I never made less money
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  Speaker 1: in my life than when I worked on swim weeks,
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  Speaker 1: So I don't for me swim weeks like ill no,
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  Speaker 1: thank you. I don't want to go. But that's just
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  Speaker 1: me and.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like we've outgrown it, right, Like we've been
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  Speaker 2: doing this for such a long time and it's there
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  Speaker 2: every year, so it's like nothing special, you know. I'm happy.
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  Speaker 2: I'm happy that it has grown into like a big thing,
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  Speaker 2: and I hope it continues to grow and you know,
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  Speaker 2: be great for the city. But I feel like, like
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  Speaker 2: I said, like I I agree with I was excited
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  Speaker 2: about the Sports Illustrated, Yeah, because I love their magazine
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  Speaker 2: and you know the women that they put on their covers. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: so it's very inspirational and that would have been a
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  Speaker 2: fun event. I saw some of our friends were there.
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  Speaker 2: Lisa was there with Jody, and Kiki was there. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: killing it on the red carpet pal of course, Well
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  Speaker 2: she is a model. Yeah no, I mean I had
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  Speaker 2: like a bunch of cute off it's to wear. So
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  Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know how you out because you.
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  Speaker 1: Didn't want to go because I wasn't here.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I kind of wanted to go with you. And
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  Speaker 2: then after it happened, I get like, fomo, like, okay,
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  Speaker 2: I missed out, Like I didn't go, But then you know.
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  Speaker 1: If you remember that, it's just stand on the line,
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  Speaker 1: sit in the seat.
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  Speaker 2: It's hot. It's not that great.
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  Speaker 1: But you know, back in the day, I think you're
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  Speaker 1: like me. You had the magazine, you had to go
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  Speaker 1: to these things, but you were a whole swim we
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  Speaker 1: got and I had to throw these fashion shows. And
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  Speaker 1: when you had to do it for work, it no
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  Speaker 1: longer becomes like a fun thing. You go back and
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  Speaker 1: you remember it like work. That's how I am. I
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  Speaker 1: feel like it's like work for me, and I feel
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  Speaker 1: like the great brands are gone now. I remember vel
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  Speaker 1: Swim where I.
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  Speaker 2: Always attended their show, one of the most beautiful shows,
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  Speaker 2: our best.
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  Speaker 1: So good, and the bandage sweatsuits were so cool.
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  Speaker 2: Louis Max lovely.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Well we have really good memories actually of some
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  Speaker 2: weeknd we didn't like so much.
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  Speaker 1: We did it big, and we don't want to do
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  Speaker 1: it any less than that, and it ain't so big anymore.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going back and if I'm on the cover of
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  Speaker 2: s I.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, me too, me too, or somewhere inside.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, like yeah, but still intend you know
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  Speaker 2: everybody you know it does. Yeah, Like I said, there's
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  Speaker 2: room for everybody. I feel like it's become such a
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  Speaker 2: like young thing, and it's I think it's more.
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  Speaker 1: For like marketing and retailers and wholesale selling and shopping.
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  Speaker 1: It's I feel like they should do it during the
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  Speaker 1: day and it just keep it to like, like you know,
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  Speaker 1: New York Fashion Week, a lot of it's during the day,
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  Speaker 1: a lot of it's night too.
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  Speaker 2: But I feel like a lot of guys that attend
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  Speaker 2: these events too, right, girls in bikinis. Yeah, and in
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  Speaker 2: Miami lecherous.
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  Speaker 1: It's so sleeky sure that when all these guys going
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  Speaker 1: there that aren't biberts, Yeah, a bunch of perverts.
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  Speaker 2: It's all like yah, yeah, yeah, that's Miami. But we
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  Speaker 2: still choose to live here, don't we. Oh No, I
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  Speaker 2: love my city. Are you kidding me to want to
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  Speaker 2: live anywhere else? But that's why we're allowed to talk
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  Speaker 2: about it, Like you know, we're allowed to talk about
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  Speaker 2: the things to go on in our city because we live.
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  Speaker 1: In Then nobody knows that like we do. We've lived
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  Speaker 1: here for how long our entire life?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, we went born and raised here.
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  Speaker 1: You had a magazine, you went to every event, you
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  Speaker 1: ran shit in this town. I had a PR firm,
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  Speaker 1: I ran stuff in this town. I did all the events.
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  Speaker 1: I know, we know everybody. We really know this town
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  Speaker 1: like nobody we are And in Miami a.
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  Speaker 2: Lot we should talk about that. Yet another age changed
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  Speaker 2: a Miami has changed a lot, and it's kind of
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  Speaker 2: like a joke. I mean seriously, like you go to
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  Speaker 2: these places and it's like, you know, like what, oh
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  Speaker 2: my god. Yeah, and I feel like the men have
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  Speaker 2: figured it out, so like they're.
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  Speaker 1: All like, let's go to Miami.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, we have some topics that we want to discuss.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and you know, I guess in our broad world, right,
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  Speaker 2: we can't get away from it.
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  Speaker 1: Right, and you know, we don't like to talk about housewise,
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  Speaker 1: but we really need to talk about.
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  Speaker 2: This one sure, and that is that New Jersey will
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  Speaker 2: not have a remedy onion? Yeah yeah, but like, did
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  Speaker 2: it surprise you? Does it surprise you that won't be
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  Speaker 2: having a reunion.
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  Speaker 1: I haven't watched in a long long time. I'm not
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  Speaker 1: gonna lie since we went up there like in two thirteen.
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  Speaker 1: But I did watch before and I did scoop in
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  Speaker 1: a couple of times to see what's up because everyone
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  Speaker 1: said it was very toxic and I did.
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  Speaker 2: And it was really hard.
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  Speaker 1: But it said about all the shows.
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  Speaker 2: I know.
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  Speaker 1: That's why people watch.
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  Speaker 2: By the way, the audience is toxic because they are watching.
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  Speaker 1: It well to show it off of the toxic Okay
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  Speaker 1: there are yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So it's like I feel like they're.
• 9:46
  Speaker 2: Like they criticize it that you know that is Oh,
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  Speaker 2: it's so toxic. Guess what you guys are watching? And
• 9:51
  Speaker 2: this is what we live in a toxic world unfortunately. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: people like to watch the car crash and then after
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  Speaker 2: they watched the whole thing, then they go on their
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  Speaker 2: Instagram and something. They leave all the comments, Bro, why
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  Speaker 2: are you watching? You know? Why are you watching? If
• 10:05
  Speaker 2: you're like not, okay, it's.
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  Speaker 1: A drug, it's a bad you know it's bad for you,
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  Speaker 1: but you love it, you know, you love to hate it.
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  Speaker 1: It's that thing. It's the car crash. You drive by
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  Speaker 1: the car crash, and you know.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know how long this is going to keep
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  Speaker 2: on going, because I mean, I don't know about you,
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  Speaker 2: but I'm kind of like, I'm tired of watching that
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  Speaker 2: between you and I like, you know, I like them,
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  Speaker 2: you know their past, you know, I like all the ladies,
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  Speaker 2: but like it just gets really really toxic and vicious.
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  Speaker 2: And then this is why this happens, This is why
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  Speaker 2: they have no reunion.
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  Speaker 1: Well, they don't have any resolution.
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  Speaker 2: No, I mean that they spend all season, you know,
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  Speaker 2: maybe not content to each other. And they also you
• 10:42
  Speaker 2: can't have a division these kind of shows, you can't
• 10:44
  Speaker 2: have this kind of division. Yeah, and then they made
• 10:48
  Speaker 2: no progress. You know, sometimes you start off the show
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  Speaker 2: with this kind of a division, but then things work
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  Speaker 2: out differently, and then by the time the show wraps up,
• 10:56
  Speaker 2: you know, the teams have changed or there's been like
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  Speaker 2: some at least you know, inner action, but in this case,
• 11:02
  Speaker 2: nothing happens. It just got worse. So like, do you
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  Speaker 2: want to watch that reunion like of them sitting in
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  Speaker 2: different sofa I was like, I wasn't even happy when
• 11:09
  Speaker 2: that happened with us like one sofa side of the
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  Speaker 2: sofa against the other side of the sofa. You know,
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  Speaker 2: I was so happy that this year reunion, Like I
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  Speaker 2: was on the other side of the sofa. I mean, honestly,
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  Speaker 2: I really was.
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  Speaker 1: I really I didn't like the other side because it
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  Speaker 1: was on my worst side of my face and the
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  Speaker 1: cameras were right.
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  Speaker 2: On my it was like the worst side. But for me,
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  Speaker 2: it was like no, Like so you know, you're always
• 11:31
  Speaker 2: going to have that kind of the division because obviously
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  Speaker 2: not everybody's going to love each other all, you know,
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  Speaker 2: every season, but season.
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  Speaker 1: I have to be honest, I feel like our show
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  Speaker 1: is a lot tamer than other shows, and the girls
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  Speaker 1: actually really like each other and care for each other.
• 11:46
  Speaker 1: But I don't know, I really like each other, but
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  Speaker 1: I think the majority do. When I watch other shows,
• 11:52
  Speaker 1: I feel like there's a lot of hate and anger
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  Speaker 1: and animals.
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  Speaker 2: Sitting on for less than they half, you know, for
• 11:58
  Speaker 2: as far as that goes, you know, these girls have
• 12:00
  Speaker 2: been well, there's been a few new ones in the group,
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  Speaker 2: but a lot of them have been together for thirteen,
• 12:05
  Speaker 2: fourteen to fifteen years. H Yeah, and you know, unfortunately
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  Speaker 2: this is where they're at. And you know, in Terresa,
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  Speaker 2: Melissa's case is even more unfortunate because they're a family.
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  Speaker 2: So it's like, you know what I mean, so destroyed
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  Speaker 2: them or you know they were destroyed already before the show,
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  Speaker 2: or you know, but it's just like where do you
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  Speaker 2: pick up.
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  Speaker 1: They started negatively, They started negatively, they weren't close then years.
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  Speaker 2: Later, they beginning close to her brother. Teresa and her brother.
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  Speaker 1: I think that, honestly, this show needs to restructure itself
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  Speaker 1: kind of like.
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  Speaker 2: People, do you see a reboot or do you just
• 12:40
  Speaker 2: see like a whole new show like New York did,
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  Speaker 2: which is a whole new cast.
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  Speaker 1: Now, no, no, no, I don't think that works. I
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  Speaker 1: think that they need to do like what we did
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  Speaker 1: in Miami, right, right, you need to keep.
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  Speaker 2: A few people were pretty different. I'm not going to
• 12:53
  Speaker 2: you know, Miami is very different, right because Miami was
• 12:55
  Speaker 2: not on the year for eight years, right, So it's
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  Speaker 2: not like what they did from Miami. Why couldn't Miami
• 13:01
  Speaker 2: come back like a brand new Fast right, Well, but
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  Speaker 2: that wouldn't work what it ever works for Miami? Absolutely?
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  Speaker 2: So what do they do? But with the reboots, you
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  Speaker 2: have to bring in the anchors of the show and
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  Speaker 2: who the show and who the face of the show is. Well,
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  Speaker 2: and in this case, it's Teresa.
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  Speaker 1: It's Teresa, Okay, So what are you.
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  Speaker 2: Gonna do with the reboot? You're gonna have to keep
• 13:21
  Speaker 2: Teresa because she is the face of the show. That
• 13:23
  Speaker 2: you like her or you hate her. In this case,
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  Speaker 2: I love her, but you know by so.
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  Speaker 1: Rasa back, you can't have Melissa back because nobody wants
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  Speaker 1: to say.
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  Speaker 2: That keeps what's going to happen and who brings more
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  Speaker 2: to the show. Like I mean, I don't know who
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  Speaker 2: makes these decisions, whether it's like the producer or the
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  Speaker 2: network or the fans, because at this point, I really
• 13:41
  Speaker 2: do believe that these shows have changed a lot, and
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  Speaker 2: I feel like the fans have a lot to say,
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  Speaker 2: and the network and the producers are listening to it
• 13:50
  Speaker 2: like we're back in the day. When we started, it
• 13:53
  Speaker 2: didn't really matter when you care. There was no way
• 13:54
  Speaker 2: of voicing your opinion or making comments or anything like that.
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  Speaker 2: But I feel like they're listening to the fans now,
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  Speaker 2: and the fans I've had enough of it. Nobody wants
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  Speaker 2: to watch that and every single team, Oh my god.
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  Speaker 1: I think that's why I stopped watching ten years ago
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  Speaker 1: and it's still going on.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I think now there's more of a division
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  Speaker 2: because I think before it was only like one or two,
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  Speaker 2: but now it's like one team against the other team.
• 14:16
  Speaker 2: Laura is the only one that's neutral.
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  Speaker 1: You want your allies and support you.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I don't know about that, but you know, Dolores
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  Speaker 2: is really the only one that's done in a great job,
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  Speaker 2: like being neutral and like really liking both sides, and well, I.
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: Throb be the voice of reason. I think that they
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: could redo a whole show with maybe two three Max
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: and then but who else besides Teresa was honestly, if
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: you need a peacemaker, so Dolorous.
• 14:43
  Speaker 2: I think Teresa Doloris for sure should stay.
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: I agree, I agree.
• 14:47
  Speaker 2: You know, I personally like Jennifer Aiden also, you know,
• 14:51
  Speaker 2: I think she's very opinionated. She's I mean, now, she's
• 14:54
  Speaker 2: good fronts to Teresa. So you know, we can't have
• 14:56
  Speaker 2: only like team Terica. I would get rebooth known.
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: Her and I haven't watched, but I do know that.
• 15:01
  Speaker 2: But Thelores for sure and Theresa, Yeah, I would read
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: my thing. So you think of reboot not like what
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: happened in New York. Everyone happened to New York. I
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: feel like everybody loves New York.
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: The new cast.
• 15:12
  Speaker 2: Yes, I don't know.
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: Everyone was complaining. I watched two episodes.
• 15:16
  Speaker 2: It was hard. People don't like change. You have to
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: give them a change. We have to. It's a new franchise.
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: It's great to take another season or or more or
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: more for everyone to attach to them and get into
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: it and it'll work.
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: So that's why I like it. I mean, I've seen
• 15:33
  Speaker 2: very little bit, you know, I see very little these shows.
• 15:35
  Speaker 2: But I like the cast members, you know, I like
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: their energy. I just like who they are.
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: You know, actors are good separately on their own. Together,
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: they had some weird arguments that weren't very compelling.
• 15:48
  Speaker 2: No, it wasn't It wasn't great. So I kind of
• 15:51
  Speaker 2: think they've been watching too many other housewived shows. That's
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: what happened when it's younger.
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: That's what I thought when I watched watching the others
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: and they weren't themselves girls, Do you need to just
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: be yourself? Wave that freak flag, loosen.
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: Up and and everything watching other people show that had
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: already existed.
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: They also seemed very rehearsed when they get the scenes,
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: like they knew what they were going to talk about,
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: and you can't do that. Even Alexi and I we
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: never she'll have a bunch of cards up her sleep
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: and she won't tell me, Well, they're not cards on
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: my sleep, but I wouldn't want to tell you an
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: hour before great, I mean, is that right?
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: But That's why I'm like, I can wait to tell
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: you yeah, yeah.
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and you do, which is great, and then I
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: have a natural reaction and vice versa. You cannot share
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: with your castmates what you're going to talk about with
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: before they get there, because it all falls flat. No
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: one's that great of an actor.
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: You d have not doing the wrong show. That part
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: should be in another show. And so that a lot of.
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: The Girls New York was rehearsed like that and it
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: fell flat. Hopefully they'll do it different this time. Yeah,
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: I mean, I wanted New York to thrive.
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: I mean I feel like I mean, I've talked to
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: Teresa about this before and she says that Jersey is
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: like a really hard city to cast, which has a
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: lot of like commonality with my Miami. Because Miami is
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: a really hard city to cast. You would think, oh
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: my god, there would be so many amazing, great people
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: in Miami that would want to be part of this yeah,
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: or be great for the show. But then it's not
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: that easy. Once they start casting. It's not only finding them,
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: but then once they cast, there's so many other components involved,
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: you know, like their families, their husbands and you know,
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: I'm just like their personality. Like they also that's what
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: other people don't realize either. When you do a reboot, Yes,
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: you'll have like one, two three maybe like Atlanta. I
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: feel like Atlanta is going to be a very successful reboot.
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: I thought they needed it as well. Yeah, and you know,
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: just bringing in Kenya and Portia and so many years
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: have passed and now they're coming into this like with
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: her new mind and you.
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: I never thought i'd see that. Oh my god, I'm
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: so excited after that wig dragged at the reunion. I
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: never thought i'd see those two befriends.
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: But you know what, that's the trick give you give
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: it time. And I think that that's why they're doing
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: with these shows. And even like for us, we're like
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: delayed a little bit, like in filming because of that,
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: Like you need to give time for life to happen,
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: you know, and for things to happen, for it to
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: go on. You know, you just can't be like you know,
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: that's where I think you fall into into trouble. You know,
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: when you life doesn't go on, and like you you
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: wrop up filming the reunion and then you start again,
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: and then the reunion there's very closure or resolution, so
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: it's kind of like you start off in a bad
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: place again. So I think they're making I know if
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: I see they will make the right decisions. And I
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: see it though.
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: And by the way, it was Andy's birthday.
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: Ye the day before we like birthday happy, and so
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: you know, I'm sure that don't make the right decision.
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: And yeah, listen, Miami did well. We've done good because
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: we kept a mix of old and new and it's
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: working right.
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree. Yeah, but then again you have to
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: find like that synergy too. Like it was hard because
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: I like I felt like the new girls that came
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: in was like it was them against us. They thought
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: that they could never be like us or compete like
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: with our friendships. But we were at because they were new.
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: So it's it's good, but it's not that good either.
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: It's hard.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: It's harding, but there, you know, you have to you
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: have to. There's just a thing about we've been friends
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: for so long, you mean, Lisa Larsa. You know, we
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: know each other so well and that you cannot you know,
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: that's a bond that's very difficult to break overnight, you know.
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: No, But you know, sometimes you do have friends for
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: a short period of time that you haven't met for
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: a long time and you just click and you have
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: that chemistry and you can have that same bond and friendship.
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: So I mean, I don't know. I think that that
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: it's hard to do. A reboot is difficult. You have
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: to like really want it. For example, like whoever it
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: may be that's staying, you know, on the show is
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: going to have to be welcome, mean, you know, with
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: the new girls and you know whatnot. But you know,
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: I think that I think.
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: That if they kept Teresa, she would do a good
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: job at that.
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: I think so Teresa is super nice, Oh.
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: Nice, she's super nice, and I think very grandly understood,
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: very free.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: Very friendly, but you know, it's too many years of
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: the same thing and of the attacking. You have to
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: let people be happy and be you know and like.
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: And I feel like that's just like we're going to
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: talk about that, talking about that with Jaelo and I'm
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: not even comparing you, but it's like our next topic
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: that we're going to talk about is Jlo because I
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: feel like they don't leave this woman alone, Like you
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: need to leave people alone. And I feel like Teresa
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: and her thing. It's like they went after her. Now
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: they saw her happy, Oh because Louis this, and Louis
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: it's like, dude, like it's just too much, so with
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: you against the entire world.
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: I think it's a little different because people haven't always
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: been attacking Jaelo. It's only recently, and that's Teresa's had
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: that all along. But Jayla everyone was like, she's oh,
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: she's JLO and now she's getting some heat. And now
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: people are getting upset because she's getting a little heat
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: for the first time in her life.
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: Why do you think that she's getting some heat now?
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: And I'm in the house.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: I think that she's had too many flops in a
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: row right now. The movies are being panned, her documentary
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: is being panned. She couldn't sell the tickets, and now
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: everyone's like, JLO sucks.
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: Well, who cares if she couldn't sell the tickets, that's
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: not such a big deal.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: Well, she had too many things that came out at
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: the same time. Too many people are giving opinions and
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: reviews on all these different things, and they're negative because
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: they're not good.
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: But I think it's more than that. I feel like
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: people don't want to see her happy. Nobody's rooting for her,
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: and ben like, I think that people would be okay
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: because she's human, you know, you can't be successful and
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: everything that everything can be a hit, you know, I
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: think that she did it was like poor timing and
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: poor It's a judgment and a bad collecimity and a
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: lot of things that are happening to her right now.
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: And my heart really goes out for her, not only
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: because I, you know, I like her and I've you know,
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: I've always seen her as an inspirational woman and she
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: has flaws like every other woman, but you know, I
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: tend to see the beauty in her and all her
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: positive and all her great things which she has, which
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: there are a lot of them. And then when she
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: opens up and she's vulnerable on a docu series, not
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: people are coming after her like why did you do this?
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: Blah blah blah. So it's like, oh no, no, Gana.
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: It's like it's always like the same thing.
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: I honestly didn't watch any of it. Well obviously everybody
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: knows I'm not a fan, so I didn't watch.
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: Any of it.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: But it's unfortunate. It's not good when everything you're doing recently.
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: It just kind of sucks and.
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: It doesn't matter. Don't think give people the right to
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: be so hate, you know, like just to show so
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: much hate.
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: They do it anyway, because.
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: You know, look at yourself. I mean, people need to
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: self reflect and look at themselves. Are you that great?
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: And are you whatever?
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: Are you that they're not? That's why they're upset because
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: their life isn't that great and even on their worst day,
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: it's not as bad as j Loo's. And then they
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: get angry and then they you know, they just want to,
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: you know, put out their frustrations on the internet. I
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: don't know if it makes them feel any better, if
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: it's cathartic, but they just do it. It is what
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: it is, and it's unfortunate. But I think it's just
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: a collision of a lot of bad products. She's put
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: out in a row and now.
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: Everyone, well, I I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Just because you
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: put a bad product out there does not mean that
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: people have the right to attack you the way or
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: attacking the moment. I'm sorry.
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: People have the right to know it wasn't they have
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: the right.
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: How would you? How do you like it when they
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: say things about you. Don'd you get three little comments
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: You're like, oh my god, and you're like dying for
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: three comments. Stop. I'm not nice.
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying that it's nice. I'm just saying it
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: is the way of the world now. And the reason
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: is that she had too many bad products that she
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: put on. She had a documentary she hasn't.
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: Well, it was bad to people that didn't want that
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: were not Okay, hold on a minute, just like you
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: could say, well, you know what if it doesn't work
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: out for you, whatever, Well you have a bad show.
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: You know, you have a toxic show. That's not but
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: that doesn't mean you want to hear that from the
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: people and in the comments.
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: Well, okay, so even so, this isn't helping her. This
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: guy that she did the last film with Atlas, who's
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: this guy? This guy Sterling K. Brown. He's been mocking
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: her on the press tours.
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: He's a little loser.
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: He hates her.
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: Okay, but you know what, he worked with her.
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: He probably she's probably like shitty on the set and
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: he doesn't like her.
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: Well, you know what, but do you blame her? Do
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: you blame her? Like her life right now isn't great? Personally.
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: And you know, I can speak for myself for that,
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: when your life is not personally, if you're like that
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: kind of a woman and you have no control of
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: like your personal life right now, whatever's going on, it
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: affects your professional life. Because she's human. I know she's Jlo,
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: but she's also human. She's a mom, she's a daughter,
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: she's a wife. I mean, she's also human, and she
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: has every right not everything's going to be perfect, I mean,
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: for her all the time. Just because you didn't like
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: her show, So don't watch it, that's all you gotta do.
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: Don't watch.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: And I'm just telling you about the rebews on the
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: last three things she's put out. We're back, you know,
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: sell the ticketing, well, who cares?
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: Okay, she can say, you know, how many tickets she
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: sold her entire life?
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: What are people.
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: Focus about right now?
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: Okay, well right now, who cares?
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: But why do people just focus on that. She's had
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: a career where she sold billions of tickets. I myself
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: want to go see her in Vegas where she performed
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: and it was incredible that woman gave you know, like
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: for the money that I paid, she should have charged
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: three times because it was incredible. Like, she's such a performer,
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: she's so hard working. And again that's not good enough
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: because it also affected her personal life and that's where
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: she's at now. Like I really don't believe that she
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: canceled her concert because of poor ticket sales. I really
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: do believe that she canceled her concert because her personal
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: life is falling apart and for once she can deal
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: with it. Stop it with your pr ship. It's not
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: no pr spin Okay, I'm sorry, No, it's not you
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: as a publicist, you can stayed up. But I really
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: don't believe that.
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: Okay, she's no Share and she's no Madonna, Okay, Di,
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: I agree with them, and you know, okay, so she dances,
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: she puts on a naked outfit and she blip syncs.
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: Okay, and so to one hundred other people.
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: But you know what, you know, she's just never going
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: to be them. She's never going to sell out those
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: tours for the rest of her life. You know who
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: will do that? Adele. Adele can put on a black dress,
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: sit on a stool because she has a voice and
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: she sings. She doesn't have to dance and wear the
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: sparkly outfit and distract people from the fact of the
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: lack of talent. That's just my opinion, and Adele will
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: just be like Barbara Streissan and will be keep singing
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: and selling out concerts till the day she puts her
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: foot in the grape.
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: Jaylo said in her release, I am completely heartsick and
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: devastated about letting you down. Please know that I wouldn't
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: do this if I didn't feel that it was absolutely necessary.
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: Totally agree with her. I promise I will make it
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: up to you and we'll all be together again. I
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: love you all so much until next time. It's sad,
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: it's very sad. It's odd. Yeah, I'll make it up
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: to you.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: We'll all be together and I love you much until
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: next time.
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: I'm so sorry, but.
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: It is down, of course.
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: But you know, you know, her career is very important
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: to her.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: She's letting down the people that didn't buy the tickets, No.
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: The people that know, just everybody, because she feels this.
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: She feels this from all the people giving her all
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: this hate and not it's supporting her PR spin. I
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: don't know how that's a PR spin.
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: Because everyone knows she couldn't sell the tickets and she's
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: making it seem like not everything in life is about
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: pr not everybody on my friend, I'm going to put
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: this proposition out now. She remember when she broke up
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: with a rob because he cheated on her, and two
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: weeks later she's already out with Ben and they're engaged. Well, okay, okay,
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: you know I didn't know that, but she knows how
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: to spend shit and she trusts me. Would this breakup
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: if she had sold those tickets out and she could
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: really do a tour, she would have gone.
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: She would have gone.
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: She would have gone and done it because maybe she
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: likes to keep going and doing her thing and moving on.
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: So you don't think at this time that she's suffering
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: from her separation from Ben.
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: Right now, you think what she is. But she's a
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: woman likes to throw herself into her work or into
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: another man, and she keeps it moving.
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: And so now I mean I think that that's how
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: she has loved her life. Yes, that's correct. Right well now,
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: now sometimes there's different situations and she's fifty four years
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: old and she sees you know, probably life and family,
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: especially being on her fourth marriage.
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: She says, I'm making no money and all the back
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: with my family, who I don't want to hang out
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: with anyway.
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: Do you think so? Yeah? I thank you. You're entitled
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: to think that like you, one hundred thousand other people do,
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: and those are the ones that are leaving the hate comments.
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: I know. I'm supporting her, and I think it's really
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: honorable that she that she was able to she did
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: find love with Ben. But I really hope that she
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: can save her marriage and her relationship and that she
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: realizes that she has nothing to prove. She's proven everything.
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: She's a freaking superstar. She's done everything I agree to
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: herself she does. She keeps on trying to do something,
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: you know, to work like, she doesn't stop working. I
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: mean at this point, she hadn't made music since twenty nineteen, Like,
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: why would you go back, like you said, having all
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: these things in the plate, already having your Netflix docu series,
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: having the Outlets movie for Netflix, and she's filming something
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: else in New York.
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: I forgot. I think she thought she was gonna be like, Wow, no,
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: I was a superstars. She already knows that she's a
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: super who who's not gonna listen? In this business, you
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: got to keep pustling.
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: It's well, by the way, Ben is working too, you
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: know what I mean. So Ben is working too, and
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: you know, and Ben doesn't look like he's such a
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: walk in the park. I'm sorry.
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: No, okay, he doesn't.
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: He doesn't, so I'm sorry.
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: So she's probably like, Okay, you focus on your thing.
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: I'm going to focus on me and I'm going to.
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: Do my thing and I'm going to do what I
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: love to do greatious and it's just right. That doesn't matter.
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: But they're both very very well off. They're not concerned
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: about money at this point. For once, this relationship is
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: not about money. They didn't marry each other for money.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: She doesn't care about any of that.
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: She cares about work and about her career and about
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: her profession. But you know, which is something else that
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: we can talk about. Like she's fifty four years old.
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: I think she's had a remarkable life and career. She
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: hasn't been so great. I agree with you. She's not
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: a sheriff and Donna Dell whatever as far as singing
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: goes or acting like you know, let's say Meryl Streep
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: or any of that. But with the talent that God
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: gave her, she's done so much with it, and yes,
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: and she should be inspirational for a lot a lot
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: of young women to say, you know what, never give
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: up on your dreams. I started this way and where
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: I'm here now. So that's what I've always seemed to
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: think about. And I really do believe that she's really
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: in love with Ben, and she really is. She you
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: know sometimes and you don't hit like rock bottom, but
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: she's always so busy that she doesn't realize what's going on.
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: So when she saw that probably Ben moved out and
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: wanted some separation between them, she's like, what, like, what
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: is really happening to me right now? And seeing her
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: family is falling apart, and you know, she's a human being,
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: and like she's had four marriages already, it's like a tapano.
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: You know.
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: It's like you're like, you know what, like maybe you know,
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: I need to save this, Like this is the love
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: of my life, like she like she professors that it is,
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: which I really do believe it is. So why aren't
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: you fighting for it?
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: Drop everything right now and go fight for it.
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: And I think that that's what she's doing. That's just
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: me personally, that my friend I would love to be
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: friends with her, But.
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: I know you would because I think we have Like
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: I've actually hung out with her and had dinner with
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: her a few times in the nineties. I wasn't impressed.
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: Maybe that's why I still have like, you know, well in.
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: The nineties, who were you in the nineties. Well, she
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: had already done, Selena.
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: I was told in the nineties.
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: And I'm still but I want to take you some
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: kind of growth, you know, like you know when you're
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: in the nineties and she was just starting off. There's
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: a lot of insecurities.
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: Okay, well whatever, let's just I forgot I was going
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: to say I had some really important points.
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: He said, what did you just say about the nineties? No?
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: Before that? Oh, here's what I think. I think that
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: and I know you're going to agree with me. She
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: needs to take a break from all these QUICKI relationships
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: and marriages because she keeps moving her kids into these
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: situations with other kids and other and restarting. So what
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: happened with you know, a Rod's kids, they were super close.
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: Now she lives with Ben's kids and her kids. Yeah,
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: Like I don't understand that. It's like, you need you
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: need to consider them too. And I understand being in
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: love with love and you and I love that and
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: we jump into stuff. I can do that as much
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: as I want. I don't have many kids, and I
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: know your relationship chips have all been long ten then
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: fifteen years and now another eight years like you. But
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: her relationships don't even last two three years. And then
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: she's I'm honest and moving the kids and new kids
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: an instant family.
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's that that's hard. Like I don't think she's
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: made the best decisions, you know, for her family. You know,
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: maybe for her, but not for her family. And she's
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: in love with the idea of being in love. But
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: I really do think that, Like Ben was also comunga
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: how do you say.
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: Like when you're stubborn and stuck on.
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: Like when you really want like the fact that she
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: couldn't have them twenty three years ago, and you know,
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: so it was always like in the back of her
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: mind and then timing happened, were you know, a rod
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: supposedly cheated on her or she cheated on her and
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: she was alone filming.
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: Ben was alone. It was all about timing, and you know, sometimes.
• 33:51
  Speaker 3: It was like it had to be you know, what
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: I mean, it was years ago.
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: I'm telling you know, sorry, Oh you cheated on me, Ben, No,
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: I know, but hold on. Yeah, but again, no, no,
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: I'm not saying that. No, I'm saying that she was
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: like a go gittle like it was her go Gito,
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: Like he was the one that escaped, and you know,
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: she can't have anybody she wants. It was like the man,
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: the guy that escaped twenty something years ago, and she
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: was so much younger and naive and not even immature,
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: and so is he. And then they reconnected and they
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: always had that love for each other that's like really
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: hot and sexy and like any anybody, you know what
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: I mean at that stage in their life would totally
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: try again. But the truth is, and nothing's changed. They're
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: more public than ever, They're more popular than ever, they're
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: more famous than ever. Now they have kids, So now
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: you put kids into the equation. Before it's just them too.
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: Now you have five kids. Now you have five kids.
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: I don't think any of them NEPR like Ben for
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: sure hates social media, hates the paparazzi, hates the pr
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: They're never going to really believe like her side of
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: the story and I think that that's why she wanted
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: to do that docu series.
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: It's kind of like she wanted to prove to the world.
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: I think that they really that they were really in
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: love and that he always loved her and he never
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: like really left her or like he was always thinking
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: about her. She wants to prove and you see, I
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: feel like that's where she went wrong. If she would
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: have kept that all to herself, Yes she shouldn't have
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: done that. Maybe she wouldn't be but you know what,
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: she did it from her heart. She didn't think that
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: that he was not going to be okay with her
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: support it because he didn't like it.
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: She's marketing her relationship.
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: She's got a song with that. It's not a good idea.
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: It's not a good idea. And I think that that
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: it's you know, she she's paying for right now. She's
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: paying for enough.
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: That relationship was doomed.
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: I think they took a pact.
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: That's what they say about everybody's relationship. Everybody's relationship is doomed.
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: I have it. Travis and Kelsey Odita. People start saying, oh, no,
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: they're not doomed. They're already saying no, they're already saying
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: they had a five blah blah blah.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: Everybody fine, oh no, no, but yeah.
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: But it's different when you're a public peron and you
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: fight and somebody sees you and you know, and they
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: say they did they talk about it, or you leave
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: at restaurant, it's different. When you're in that you know,
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: in that platform, or whatever you want to call it.
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: It's it's very different. It's like you can't do anything
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: without people finding out.
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: Guys having an opinion. Alex Ya, they're not doomed. They're
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: going to get married Travis and and Okay, well, pinky swear,
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: Jo and Ben are getting back together.
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: Oh no, they're not.
• 36:27
  Speaker 3: Yes they are, Yes they are. It's gonna get have
• 36:31
  Speaker 3: to help them. You have to go to La and
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: talk to jal. Yes, No, they're there. Yes, are you
• 36:40
  Speaker 3: agreement from the beginning?
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: Agreement?
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: You don't see it an agreement?
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, who can hop an agreement?
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: It's Hollywood. Hollywood's been doing that for years. In the
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: fifties and sixties, there were gay actors. They would put
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: them together with straight women, put them in the tablets
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: like they were dating because they weren't allowed to. Okay,
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: well that's that different.
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, twenty four an agreement.
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: People still for she's the master at this.
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: She calls the paparazzi everywhere she goes.
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: She knows what she's doing. She has a whole time.
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: By the way, so does he. I don't think he does.
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: You know, he doesn't want it. Oh that's what he says, no,
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: my love when he was with Anna Diadamas. But by
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: the way, she's keeping Oh my god, yeah, exactly, yes, yes,
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: my love. So read yourself said. You can know so
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: because I'm a fan of Anaadama. She was dating Ben.
• 37:34
  Speaker 2: With Benny, you're dating Ben and the one that would
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: call the paparazzis because she's like she's an amazing, very
• 37:41
  Speaker 2: very incredible actress.
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but she doesn't have like that.
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: You know, there's some actresses that have like no, yes
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: she does, but there's some people that have like that
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: stark quality power, you know, that attracts the paparazzi in
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: the media to talk about them, and there's some people
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: that don't. She's beautiful, talented, but people don't really care
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: for her. But anyway, she dated Ben. She's a lot
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: younger than Ben. For like a year and a half.
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: No, yes, and they were super serious.
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: And the one that would call the paparazzi and it's
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: public knowledge, the one that would call the proparazzi and
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: wanted him to get to the pictures was him.
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: No, you know what, he wants to control it. This
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: is what happens.
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: He likes the paparazzi when he can control the paparazzi
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: and they can put the picture of him that he likes,
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: hold the hand, do like the whole thing when he
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: controls it. What doesn't ben like when the paparazzi gets
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: them mad for usual because it has the ship face
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: and is not opening the door to j Lo or
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: he's having a conversation with her, or he's doing when
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: they catch him in a way that he doesn't want
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: to see that people he doesn't want to see people
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: portray him that way right or be perceived.
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: But if not, he's okay with it. So it's like
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: double standards. No, I can't believe an armad what happened them?
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: I don't know. Should be call Anna, maybe she'll tell her.
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: I mean, he should have stayed with her, She's That's
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: what I'm telling you that besides she's a very talented,
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: she's very pretty, and she seems pretty normal also, by
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: the way, But I wonder why it didn't work out.
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: I feel like she's a lot younger than him. I
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: think that's that was a problem.
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: Tell me what you think about Lenny Kravitz. He hasn't
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: had sex in nine years.
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: Speaking of relationships, Yeah, speaking.
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: Of extreme relationships, jumping from one to another and then
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: like not having one and not well.
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: For that really surprised me. I would never think that
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: about Lenny Gravits, Like, he's.
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: Such a superstar.
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: He's like a rock star. He's like everything that has
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: to do with like hottness and sexiness. I mean, have
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: you seen it? The pantsy? Oh my god, are you
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: gonna say, is peenis? No? It's penis No. But you
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: can see his penis throws rulin you're always looking at that.
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: Well, he wears these very like like on gossamer type
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: of things that you can see his religion like right
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: through his pan.
• 39:58
  Speaker 2: Well, so let's be see. Celibacy is a different story.
• 40:01
  Speaker 2: You know you can wear those type pants. Well he
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: wears Yeah.
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: He's celibate, So what the hell's going on there? Okay?
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: In a new interview with The Guardian, krowtstold the interview
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: he's not been in a serious relationship for nine years.
• 40:14
  Speaker 2: Wow, I think Lisa was the last one.
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: What, No, they've been Okay, Well, were you serious when
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: you so married a while ago that you wanted to
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: be celibate until you found the right woman.
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: Yes, it's a spiritual thing.
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: He says he'd love to be in a relationship now,
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: but he thinks he might struggle. I have become very
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: set in my ways, in the way I live. Well, yeah,
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: he's sixty yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, and you know what,
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: people are complicated. It's very hard to live with someone
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: you know, you need to be on the same damn page.
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: It's very different.
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: I mean, even if you're not in the same I
• 40:50
  Speaker 2: don't think you have to be in the same damp page.
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: But no, I mean you have to like meet halfway
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: and there has to be like some adjustments and like conversationations.
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: But because it's not only about like my way right right? Okay?
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: Could you ever be celibate for that long? And what's
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: the longest you've been without sex?
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: Hm? Well, I think that I think not having sex
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: is more like abstaining. I don't think. I don't consider
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: that celibacy. I consider I've never had celibacy never, never,
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: not that you know, because it's like you're married, but
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: for like spiritual reasons, you know what I mean. Like
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: I see more celibacy with like a spiritual meaning behind it.
• 41:34
  Speaker 2: And even though I haven't been married, I've still like
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: had sex, and I feel like that's a lot for
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: a lot of people, Like I don't believe that you
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: can only have sex if you're married, and that's part
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: of celibacy.
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: Well, how do you know you want to marry someone
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: and listens you have sex of course. Yeah.
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: So yeah, I just I was really in shock that
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: he that he was celibate and that he would talk
• 41:56
  Speaker 2: about it. You see, This is what I'm trying to say,
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: And like I always talk about these when we're talking
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: about hot topics that like even Camilla Cabello the other
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: day saying that she lost her virginity, uh whatever, age,
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: Like who asked you? One this case? Is she who
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: asked you? Why are you talking about it now? Like
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: why are you trying to get attention? Like yeah, like
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: nobody wants to know that.
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: By the way, I was like who cares about Camilakavello.
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: But by the way, I really am obsessed that the
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: fact the Lenny Tighte wearing pants see my penis through
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: my pants, hasn't had sex in nine years. That's pretty crazy.
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: But I think that he's doing some Yeah, he's doing
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: a religious thing, right, So that's what I said.
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: So I said, one thing is abstaining from having sex
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: and not just having it because like you know, you're
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: stressed out about it or you're get stresses your whatever
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: your reason might be. But it's not with the spiritual
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: connection rush, whereas celibacy is you know, they believe that
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: until you don't find that partner and you marry them,
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: is not that you can have like sex with kind
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: of right, because I mean there's other sexual things you
• 43:02
  Speaker 2: can do. And that's the other thing too, Like celibacy
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: like on your own boy, it's that doesn't even count.
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: I mean, that's you're like self pleasuring yourself. Oh for sure,
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: he's like in love with it, Oh my god, for sure.
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: In Celibacy doesn't mean you can't touch your own baby.
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah you got to do Yeah, of course he's doing that.
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: We should I want to What's more concerning.
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: But you know, what's more concerning with me that he's
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: not connecting spiritually with any woman.
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: That is the question. The question shouldn't be Women.
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: Shouldn't be like, oh my god, he's not having sex,
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: you know.
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: The question should be like, why aren't you having sex?
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: Lenny? Why aren't you connecting? In nine years? There's not
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: one woman you could have connected with spiritually. It's not
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: a weird I'm kind of like able got out. Oh
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, you know, And I'm such a fan of
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: baby crabits.
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: But yeah, and I actually.
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: See him here in Miami all the time and with women,
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: So like, what's going on, Lenny? How came you're not connecting?
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: But speaking of that, I feel like I've heard of
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: many other like actress and actresses more.
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: Actress, guys pay pay bills.
• 44:05
  Speaker 2: No that I don't know, but that the dude that
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: practice sell really Yeah. So I remember doing a magazine
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: cover with Eduardo. He was like this hot Mexican actor,
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: you know, back in the day, and now he's actually
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: very involved with politics.
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: He's so beautiful, he's a.
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: Very handsome guy. Well now he doesn't look that great.
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: When I had him on my cover of the magazine.
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: That guy was gorgeous, like he walked in. Everybody was like, oh,
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: I saw it, and then my job was to google them. Yeah.
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: Well when I googled him, I'm like, I think Alexi
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: and I was, and I think I saw him on
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: a cover.
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And everybody would always tell me like like when
• 44:45
  Speaker 2: we met each other there, I was like, no, well
• 44:47
  Speaker 2: first I was married, but you know, every time we're hooking.
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: Oh no, everybody thought every time I had a hot
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: guy on the cover, that would be like Alex is
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: doing whatever. It was so rude, and I think that
• 44:56
  Speaker 2: that's why I've always thoune that my friend, Okay, thank
• 44:59
  Speaker 2: that's good and you know me, yeah, no, I mean,
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: and that's why I think I hate the media so
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: much and like people, you're champing even though I'm here
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: chaining out though. Yeah, I mean, it was like I
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: had like the stamp in my in my forehead that
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: it was like I was, no, it doesn't make you
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: a boot, but you know, it was honestly like offensive,
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: like that's what everybody thought, Like every time I had
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: a hot cover, Oh hug guy on the cover, it's
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: because you're doing like that's so rare.
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: You have like a casting couch what we kind of did. No,
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: you're silver so fu Yeah yeah, it would look like
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: tinfoils so cool. Your whole office was very bar ba.
• 45:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah that's always been kind of barb Yeah. But anyways,
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: so we had it and and but this is you
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: see what I'm talking about, Like I think it goes
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: into like being like a little weird. I mean, also,
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: we're talking about men that have always been like so
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: good looking. All these guys have had women throwing themselves
• 45:52
  Speaker 2: at like it's like it's gross, you know what I mean.
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: It's like women throwing themselves at them the whole time.
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: So they're like, I feel like he's so that he
• 46:01
  Speaker 2: just is just know now he's married. I think he's
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: very now. He's very now. Yeah he's married now so
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: he's having sex.
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well okay, but the audience needs to know that
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: this man did fourteen years of celibacy.
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: Yes, So when we met him and he was on Ala,
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: he was already practicing the Seals, sellab the sceed. So
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: we were all like freaking out because he was like that.
• 46:22
  Speaker 2: But I want you to know that he was so
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: serious about that. So we're trying to get him dressed
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: and you know, there was a salast there and everything.
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: But I think we had like a few discrepancies and
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: size because you're usually like, you know how the girls
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: lie about their size, so two men. Yeah, so he
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: probably said he was like a size thirty in waist
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: and he was like a thirty two. Oh But anyways,
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: so everybody was like no, I say, like he was
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: like not liking it, like you have to go in
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: there and talk to him and whatever. And I literally
• 46:46
  Speaker 2: opened the door and he was like, yeah, clevering, covering
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: his baby, covering his baby, And I was like, okay,
• 46:54
  Speaker 2: And how well was he? He was in his thirties?
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: He was like in his thirties yeah.
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: Grown man, Yeah yeah, no, it was young holding beautiful
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: woman to see his people.
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: No or or anybody for that matter, but you can
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: see like his energy was kind of like weird, you know,
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: because we know we're used to being around just like
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: normal people. Wow, he is like so what I'm trying
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: to say, Yeah he is. He's very religious. And actually
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: loved that about him because I think religion is very important.
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: I do, true, So I loved that he was religious
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: and he's like super devla like Lavina a little bit.
• 47:24
  Speaker 2: I know if you've seen his like his Mexican Yes,
• 47:27
  Speaker 2: he's an incredible human being. He's done a lot for
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: It's funny we're talking about him after like all these years.
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: I still remember his cover and but back in the day,
• 47:39
  Speaker 2: nobody was really talking about celibacy. So everybody was like,
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: of course, what do people do. They go the other
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: way and they start saying, oh, yeah, that's because he's
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: you know, gay, it's not because people want to have
• 47:50
  Speaker 2: sexic women. Yeah. Yeah. So then there were all these
• 47:52
  Speaker 2: rumors about him, and I was like, wow, why do
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: people just believe like that You're you know, you're just
• 47:57
  Speaker 2: not interested, like for some people, you have to have
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: that connection. Okay, I want to talk about his honeymoon night.
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: I want to talk about his honeymoon night because I
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: can't anymore. Yeah, so, after fourteen years of not having sex,
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: what do you think his honeymoon night was? Like like
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: he just got out of prison, right right?
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: Well yeah, yeah.
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: I didn't talk about it. No, no, no, I didn't
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: read anything. I'm just imagining fourteen years you don't touch
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: a human being. My gosh, do you even think he
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: even made it inside without having his explosion, because I
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: would think that he would have just went like all
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: over the place.
• 48:34
  Speaker 2: Again, Like, I don't know how you know, Like I said,
• 48:36
  Speaker 2: celibacy could be sexual. It's usually sexual, but there's also
• 48:40
  Speaker 2: like different degrees of celibacy, Like there's some that don't kiss,
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: that don't touch, that don't you know within houbles, but
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: there's some that everything's allowed except the sex and the penetration.
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: What degree do you think I I don't know. That's
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: very personal. Like I just by looking at you, I
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: could tell you that, Well.
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: If you looked at me, you know that I wasn't
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: doing a sexual religious starvation things.
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: Okay, I mean it's like, yeah, I don't really want
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: to live and I want to enjoy. And the thing
• 49:11
  Speaker 2: is like I don't have problems connecting with people and
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: either do you you know or with men you know
• 49:16
  Speaker 2: too much? Yeah, So it's like I feel that sometimes
• 49:19
  Speaker 2: these are personal journeys. I want to say that. And
• 49:23
  Speaker 2: I think it's more like a masculine I think it's
• 49:25
  Speaker 2: more of a man thing than a woman. I don't know, well,
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: actually do know women, but the women that I know
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: that don't have sex now or haven't had sex is
• 49:32
  Speaker 2: because they abstained. They're abstaining from sex. Like I want
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: people to realize that it's two different things.
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: And why are they upselling your friends?
• 49:41
  Speaker 2: So some of my friends that they're sex desire, that's A.
• 49:49
  Speaker 2: And then B they're more selective and they're just more
• 49:53
  Speaker 2: selective about the individual. You know, they feel like they're
• 49:55
  Speaker 2: not going to give like that away or you know
• 49:58
  Speaker 2: that kind of thing.
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: But you know why, I think it is.
• 49:59
  Speaker 2: A because their sex drive isn't the same. Because when
• 50:01
  Speaker 2: you're horny, you're not selective. It's true, right, So you know,
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: so I feel that So that's a connection with that
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: and and that's it. It's basically those two things, right,
• 50:12
  Speaker 2: But you're not into it and then you're more selective.
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: What I would think that it is. I didn't know
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: if there was like a religious component to it. Yeah,
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: I make I make promises all the time.
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: Religious component? What ALRIGHTE? Like, how would this be religious
• 50:31
  Speaker 2: about sex? But look, that's why I find it interesting
• 50:34
  Speaker 2: with Lenny Kravitz because like he's doing this like in
• 50:37
  Speaker 2: the best years of his life, getting because I do of.
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: Like living the life of a Buddhist.
• 50:42
  Speaker 2: What does he living? What is his Oh? Yes, religious
• 50:45
  Speaker 2: sometimes Yeah it is. I mean, I don't know, I
• 50:46
  Speaker 2: didn't read about that, but he could be like that.
• 50:49
  Speaker 2: He gives me the vibe that he could be like a.
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: Little literally just working out, eating super clean and.
• 50:56
  Speaker 2: Not having sex.
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: You might as well be dead.
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: I agree. I think that those are the best things
• 51:02
  Speaker 2: in life. Yeah.
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: Sex, food, Yeah, and no exercise. Look, exercise. I'm the
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: epitome of all. I'm the poster child of you. No,
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: I don't eat food. I'm not a big eater, but
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: I do like my sexy time and my relaxation. No exercise.
• 51:19
  Speaker 2: No, you do the liquid diet, which is perfect right.
• 51:22
  Speaker 2: You do the liquid you you're hydrated for sure, you're
• 51:24
  Speaker 2: not worried.
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: About graded and you'll never see me parched and thirsty.
• 51:30
  Speaker 2: Oh it was. It was so much fun. I feel
• 51:33
  Speaker 2: like we need to do in person.
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: We're going to keep doing them in person.
• 51:36
  Speaker 2: Yes, I really enjoy your company, and I love that
• 51:40
  Speaker 2: you guys are listening to us. I hope you had
• 51:42
  Speaker 2: a lot of fun with us. We've really enjoyed our time.
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: I don't know if you're ready for another cocky.
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: Oh, yes, you know. My husband is in the kitchen
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: listening to us waiting for us to come back in
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: and have cocktails because it's cocktail.
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: Cheers.
• 51:59
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