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10 Hours in the ER, a Pumpkin Disaster & Family Drama · It's Mom O'Clock

• 0:01
  Speaker A: Hello?
• 0:02
  Speaker B: You guys, stop. Is it mom o' clock yet? I'm going crazy.
• 0:08
  Speaker A: Heck, yeah, it's mom o' clock somewhere. Okay, well, on today's episode, we have a huge story to tell. So why don't you tell it real quick and then we'll get into it.
• 0:22
  Speaker B: What story?
• 0:23
  Speaker A: Your night. Last night.
• 0:24
  Speaker B: Ugh, I have to tell them.
• 0:25
  Speaker A: No, just real quick.
• 0:26
  Speaker B: Oh, my God.
• 0:27
  Speaker A: This wasn't.
• 0:27
  Speaker B: My kid.
• 0:28
  Speaker A: Got your first stitches?
• 0:29
  Speaker B: Yeah, but I mean, second. But first big stitches.
• 0:31
  Speaker A: We were in the stitches.
• 0:33
  Speaker B: Joey got stitches on his head when
• 0:35
  Speaker A: he fell at my wedding.
• 0:36
  Speaker B: At my wedding. Yeah. This is my second time.
• 0:38
  Speaker A: Wait, hold on. He had stitches at my wedding?
• 0:41
  Speaker B: Yeah. Don't you remember his forehead?
• 0:43
  Speaker A: I do, but it wasn't stitches. It was just a gash.
• 0:45
  Speaker B: No, it was a gash. He had like, two stitches.
• 0:47
  Speaker A: No, he didn't.
• 0:48
  Speaker B: He didn't. No, no, he got them out. I mean, they weren't.
• 0:51
  Speaker A: It was a night before.
• 0:52
  Speaker B: No, it was like a. It was like a week. Yeah. Yep, I was there. I'm his mom.
• 0:57
  Speaker A: He got stitches?
• 0:58
  Speaker B: Yes.
• 1:00
  Speaker A: Yeah, I don't remember him getting stitches. Verify that.
• 1:03
  Speaker B: I will. I'll call the doctor. But anyway, last night, huge ordeal. First time the kid scooters to school. And when I picked up home from school, too. Right there and home with my neighbors. And I picked him up on the playground. Long story short, I really don't want to get into it, but he got in a fight with his scooter. The scooter handlebar went right into his jaw. Lip everywhere, blood gushing me. Bad scenario, running around, chicken screaming.
• 1:35
  Speaker A: Hell, you had both your kids.
• 1:36
  Speaker B: Oh, I had everybody. And I had no car because I walked to school to pick him up with the scooter. So we had to go to the hospital. We spent like 10 hours in the ER because I needed to call in for a plastic surgeon because I wanted them to be really precise.
• 1:51
  Speaker A: So what would they have done if it wasn't a plastic surgeon?
• 1:53
  Speaker B: The. The doctor that was right there would have done it and she would have sucked and he would have had a horrible scar. Scar. So, yeah, she must be offended calling it back up. No, no, she. I like, why didn't she rec.
• 2:05
  Speaker A: Let me ask you something. Why wouldn't they recommend a plastic surgeon?
• 2:08
  Speaker B: So they do. They give you the option. But it's also thousands and thousands of dollars. Yeah, totally.
• 2:12
  Speaker A: With your kid's face.
• 2:13
  Speaker B: So. But it's here. It's your kid's face, and he's got a good face. Yeah, so. So I. So Yeah, we were there late and thank you for everyone.
• 2:23
  Speaker A: Was he crying, like hysterically when he. And it happened? I didn't ask.
• 2:26
  Speaker B: You know what? I have to say, he's like a trooper. He was on the playground at school and like, oh, I mean, there was blood everywhere. Like, all the kids came running and he was like, trying to, like, keep his cool because he didn't want to be like. I mean, it hurt. So he was crying, but like, he wasn't like, hysterical like I would imagine him to be if he was home. Yeah.
• 2:44
  Speaker A: Did he like, run to you, like.
• 2:46
  Speaker B: Yeah, well, I was right there. So I. I picked him up. I was holding him. Someone gave me wipes. I was patting it.
• 2:53
  Speaker A: So there were other parents there too?
• 2:55
  Speaker B: There were other parents there. But the funniest thing about.
• 2:57
  Speaker A: Anyone check in on you?
• 2:58
  Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah, actually, no. No one checked in on me. Don't count me. No. But the funniest thing was, so I called my mom because I had no car. So my mom had to come with the truck to get the babies in the car seats. And Joey and I just said, mom. And I had my big giant wagon because that's how I got to school. So I have a giant four seater Wagoneer wagon which weighs 100 pounds. Okay, that'll be 100. And my mom comes with the truck to pick up the kids. And I still have this wagon here. And now it's after hours, no one's at the school anymore. And I was like, mom, you just take the kids home, get Joey home, clean him up so then we can go to the hospital. I'll run home with this wagon. But before I decided I was running home with the wagon, I tried, attempted to get the wagon in the car so I could go home with them. I opened the trunk up, we went to the pumpkin patch. This is the first time it happened. Pumpkins come flying out of the car. So there was too much shit in my trunk. My mom's like cursing me out, like, you have to be more organized. You can't do that.
• 3:57
  Speaker A: It's always the worst times. They tell you to be more organized.
• 3:59
  Speaker B: So I couldn't get the wagon in the trunk, so I sprinted home with the wagon, which was like, so hysterical.
• 4:07
  Speaker A: So Joey's like, in the car.
• 4:09
  Speaker B: Like, Joey's in the car? Yeah. My mom let him stay in the front seat. Buckle him. My mom was holding him, front seat. The babies were buckled. My house is around the corner.
• 4:15
  Speaker A: That's when you need a mom to make that decision. Have to be in the front seat. I would have buckled him in. It would have been, like, a disaster.
• 4:20
  Speaker B: No, they went quick, got him cleaned up, went to my neighbor's house who was a nurse. She said, take him to the er. He needs stitches. So we did that. And then from there, things got crazy because I had the babies and my mom all at the hospital, and it was taking hours and hours, so they could only be entertained for so long. Yeah.
• 4:39
  Speaker A: Oh, my God. No.
• 4:39
  Speaker B: So then my mom eventually had to take them home, and I was.
• 4:43
  Speaker A: She should have just stayed home with.
• 4:44
  Speaker B: She should have. In retrospect, that would have been a lot easier, but you just.
• 4:48
  Speaker A: You.
• 4:48
  Speaker B: Joey was hysterical. Joey really wanted Nana there. Like. Like, he was like, I want Nana to come. So we were all there, but when we got to the hospital, we. It was a show. I. We pull up to the er, and there's a valet here. My mom's like, just get him in. I'll valet the car. I'm like, okay.
• 5:03
  Speaker A: So.
• 5:03
  Speaker B: So I take Joey, and Rocco was sleeping. He fell asleep on the way to the hospital.
• 5:07
  Speaker A: Not him falling asleep during this chaos.
• 5:08
  Speaker B: So I take Joey and Vienna, rush them into the er. Meanwhile, he still has, like, blood. Like, it looks like.
• 5:14
  Speaker A: What do you do when you walk into an ER and he's got your blood? You're like, I need help.
• 5:17
  Speaker B: So, no, I was like, there's a pediatric. So they, like, quickly, like, comment.
• 5:21
  Speaker A: Oh, they did?
• 5:21
  Speaker B: Yeah. Like, they. They knew what they were doing. Like, I didn't really have to do much, and. But my mom, she. She's trying to valet the truck. She loses her phone. She's getting. She has to get the stroller out to transfer Rocco from the car seat to the stroller because she didn't want to wake him up. As she's pulling out the stroller from the truck, the pumpkins fall again. And now the pumpkin had. The biggest pumpkin has fallen. It splattered everywhere. She's trying to pick up the pieces, trying to get the stroller. Do all the attachments. Rock was asleep. She said it was an absolute shit show. In the process. She left her phone and at the valet, like, concierge desk. So they took her car. She thought her phone was in the car. She came back in, and she was like, I don't have my phone, and the car's gone. So we were.
• 6:06
  Speaker A: So the phone. She found her phone.
• 6:07
  Speaker B: She found her phone at the end when she took the. When she went to go get the car again, but she didn't know the make and model of the car. So she has to come back to me, to ask me because she didn't have a phone when she already went out with the babies to get it. So she was, like, back and forth, running around like a chicken.
• 6:22
  Speaker A: Oh, my God. It's just like, never a dull.
• 6:25
  Speaker B: No, never a dull moment. And I have to say, thank God I did something amazing. I bought a viral Halloween squishy pack.
• 6:36
  Speaker A: Oh, yeah.
• 6:36
  Speaker B: And it came on TikTok that day and I had it in my bag and it was like the best thing ever because there's eight surprise squishies. And I brought it to the hospital. I knew we were gonna be waiting, and each of the kids grabbed one and they were playing with the whole time. So. So they were like, thank God for that. And the nurses were amazing. They kept bringing up bubbles and they were like. It was like a full entertainment.
• 6:56
  Speaker A: Thank God.
• 6:56
  Speaker B: Yeah, thank God. So that was that. I don't want to talk about it again. Except I just got my first phone call from the nurse at school.
• 7:03
  Speaker A: Oh, that was the nurse?
• 7:03
  Speaker B: Yeah, that was the nurse.
• 7:04
  Speaker A: What did she say?
• 7:05
  Speaker B: She was called.
• 7:06
  Speaker A: Did you know her name?
• 7:06
  Speaker B: When she called, she said, I'm Nurse. Hi, I'm Nurse Jackie.
• 7:11
  Speaker A: So what was she asking you?
• 7:12
  Speaker B: No, she was telling me.
• 7:13
  Speaker A: What did you do to tell the school?
• 7:15
  Speaker B: Well, I had to ask my neighbor, like, how do you, like, call a kid out of public school? So you have to call the front desk. This is all new to me.
• 7:21
  Speaker A: I know. I'm asking questions, too.
• 7:23
  Speaker B: Yeah, I call. They have like a line. It's like, press one if your kid is not going to be here. So I did that, but the nurse called me back because I left a message explaining what happened because I didn't send Joey to school today, but if I did, she has to apply bacitracin on his wound.
• 7:38
  Speaker A: It'll be like the cool kid in school.
• 7:40
  Speaker B: Yeah, but she told me that he cannot be on outside for recess at all. So he's gonna be the kid inside by himself. And I'm gonna cry. He's not going to school for two weeks.
• 7:51
  Speaker A: That's it.
• 7:51
  Speaker B: I'll keep him.
• 7:52
  Speaker A: They'll probably do fun things, she said.
• 7:54
  Speaker B: Well, she did say that if he wants and somebody is willing, he can pick a buddy to stay with him. I wonder if he has a good friend that would do that. I don't know if he does yet. Still new.
• 8:05
  Speaker A: That's nice.
• 8:06
  Speaker B: Yeah, but that would be sad. If you picked someone, they're like, no, dude, I want to go play kickball.
• 8:09
  Speaker A: Peace. Unless it's Raining.
• 8:12
  Speaker B: Maybe it'll be right. Well, she said pray for rain for the next two weeks. Like, okay, rain.
• 8:17
  Speaker A: Maybe I'll be sunshine and butterflies outside.
• 8:19
  Speaker B: All right, enough about me, all right?
• 8:21
  Speaker A: Well, that's crazy. I'm happy he's okay.
• 8:23
  Speaker B: And it could have been way worse.
• 8:24
  Speaker A: Yeah, it could have been way worse.
• 8:25
  Speaker B: But it's just, like, anytime your kid is, like, in distraught, and, like, there's
• 8:28
  Speaker A: anytime he falls without a scratch. I'm just straw. I can't imagine, like, Lip.
• 8:33
  Speaker B: Yeah.
• 8:33
  Speaker A: Gushing blood.
• 8:34
  Speaker B: Yeah. And, like, the inside. And he actually has the indent.
• 8:37
  Speaker A: Anything of.
• 8:38
  Speaker B: Tooth.
• 8:38
  Speaker A: His tooth?
• 8:39
  Speaker B: No, his tooth. The doctor said his tooth is this
• 8:42
  Speaker A: thing that the scratch right here is
• 8:44
  Speaker B: the indent of the handlebar. So the one. The scratch that goes like this, that's like this part of the handlebar. Yeah. And it's inside his mouth, too, so it's, like, hooked around.
• 8:55
  Speaker A: Oh, my God.
• 8:55
  Speaker B: Yeah. I mean, it looks painful, but.
• 8:58
  Speaker A: Was he in pain this morning? A little bit. Did he take anything for pain?
• 9:02
  Speaker B: I just gave him Tylenol. Not motion. You cannot take motion with what he has. I gave him a motion last night.
• 9:09
  Speaker A: I hope he heals.
• 9:11
  Speaker B: Yeah, I hope he's a. It was right on his lip line, so kind of like, in it a little. He might look like he'll have lip liner for the rest of his life. A monkey's asshole.
• 9:22
  Speaker A: Sin.
• 9:23
  Speaker B: He's okay. He'll be fine. On to the next.
• 9:27
  Speaker A: He's fine. You seem fine.
• 9:28
  Speaker B: I'm fine.
• 9:29
  Speaker A: Your husband stayed home, so that's good.
• 9:32
  Speaker B: Yeah.
• 9:32
  Speaker A: Today?
• 9:33
  Speaker B: Yeah. He stayed home with him. Yeah.
• 9:35
  Speaker A: Yeah. He should stay home tomorrow, too.
• 9:36
  Speaker B: Joey.
• 9:37
  Speaker A: Yeah, It's Friday.
• 9:38
  Speaker B: Yeah, he probably will.
• 9:38
  Speaker A: Yeah.
• 9:39
  Speaker B: And he can't go outside or play, and he can't play baseball. That's gonna wreck him. I haven't really told him he can't do anything yet.
• 9:47
  Speaker A: You haven't?
• 9:48
  Speaker B: No.
• 9:48
  Speaker A: You should probably do that.
• 9:49
  Speaker B: I mean, that's for another day.
• 9:51
  Speaker A: All right, well, anyway, let's get into this shindig. What are we talking about?
• 9:55
  Speaker B: We're talking about what makes us the same and what makes us different. Different.
• 9:59
  Speaker A: Let's do it.
• 10:00
  Speaker B: Okay. What's, like, the most different about us?
• 10:05
  Speaker A: We definitely care about different things.
• 10:07
  Speaker B: We do. Do you know what's so funny? I was thinking about this. It is all relative. Because, like, if you're comparing me and you just, like, in general, like, obviously, you. You are into your skin care routine. You're into, like, products, and I am not at all. But if you compare me to, like, this Group of moms that I know that are literally, like, hikers and, like, vegan people. They think I am, like, the most, like, aesthetic. Yeah. Like, they think that I'm. I. I, like, know how to dress. I know how to do my hair, and, like, I know how to do my makeup. And I'm like, thank you very much.
• 10:42
  Speaker A: That's so true.
• 10:42
  Speaker B: But it's true.
• 10:43
  Speaker A: But it's like, outsiders have such different perspectives of us, and we don't even know it. Like, I've had conversations with people.
• 10:50
  Speaker B: Yeah.
• 10:50
  Speaker A: Where. And, like, we see each other one way, but we also, like, learned new things about each other. We're like, wait, I think I'm this way. And you're this way. Right. But I've had, like, people come to me. Like, you're, like, the calm one, and, like, she's, like, the crazy one. Like, that's crazy, because I'm crazy. And she's like, I love when people throw us.
• 11:07
  Speaker B: But it's.
• 11:08
  Speaker A: But it's true. Like, sometimes I'm like, yeah. Like, I don't know. Like, we're just.
• 11:11
  Speaker B: Like.
• 11:11
  Speaker A: We really trick people, and I think we trick ourselves.
• 11:14
  Speaker B: Well, you're tricky because, like, you.
• 11:16
  Speaker A: You trick me, too, sometimes.
• 11:18
  Speaker B: Sometimes. But, like, you are. You're organized, but you're also not. Like, you're also disorganized.
• 11:23
  Speaker A: So disorganized.
• 11:24
  Speaker B: And I think that's where, like, we. We, like.
• 11:26
  Speaker A: Yeah. Like, that's why I think you think I'm so funny in that way, because I'm just.
• 11:30
  Speaker B: I think you're so funny because you. People think you care, but you actually don't give a shit.
• 11:35
  Speaker A: And I. I've been telling people that from the jump. I'm like, I don't care. Why do you think I care?
• 11:40
  Speaker B: I need to scream it.
• 11:41
  Speaker A: I bet how many people come into my house that, like, don't know me, which is not often, but are like, I don't want to touch anything. Like, you're what?
• 11:48
  Speaker B: And then.
• 11:48
  Speaker A: And like, I actually. When I say I don't care, I literally don't care.
• 11:53
  Speaker B: I know that. But I need. I need our followers to know that.
• 11:57
  Speaker A: It's, like, insane.
• 11:59
  Speaker B: It is so funny, though, you know? I mean, you do care about things you care about. Yeah, you care about stuff. But, like, some things, like, I don't even know what.
• 12:07
  Speaker A: Like, I don't. I like looking nice. I like dressing nice. Like, dressing my kid nice. Like, I don't know.
• 12:12
  Speaker B: Yeah. But also, like, you.
• 12:13
  Speaker A: I would take him out of pajamas.
• 12:14
  Speaker B: Yeah.
• 12:14
  Speaker A: I would go out in Pajamas.
• 12:15
  Speaker B: Yeah.
• 12:15
  Speaker A: I would go out in a robe.
• 12:17
  Speaker B: Yeah.
• 12:17
  Speaker A: I just think like, I don't care. I just don't care.
• 12:22
  Speaker B: My favorite thing about you, if I'm doing this is that you, you know, I love this. You don't care. You truly don't care about being judged. Like you like for. For instance, she went into Target and did a baby doll trend dance. If everyone, if no one knows what that is. It's a dance that's TikTok trending. It's trending. And she did a full out dance in the middle of Target in the aisle. I was not there. She was by herself. I. It would be different if I was there filming.
• 12:49
  Speaker A: Yeah, totally different.
• 12:50
  Speaker B: But I was not there. No one was there.
• 12:52
  Speaker A: No.
• 12:53
  Speaker B: Did you put it on a tripod?
• 12:54
  Speaker A: I put it, you know, the shelves.
• 12:56
  Speaker B: I'll never forget the first time you made me do that in Gap. We were like new to mom o' clock and you were like, em, we're gonna do this. And I'm like, do what?
• 13:04
  Speaker A: I know.
• 13:05
  Speaker B: And you like propped up your phone and like on it on a shelf
• 13:09
  Speaker A: and we did what we had to do.
• 13:10
  Speaker B: You can't do that. Like we're in a, we're in a store.
• 13:12
  Speaker A: Like what are they gonna do? What like what are they going to do?
• 13:17
  Speaker B: Nothing. Nothing. But yeah. So like, like you truly you just like you.
• 13:22
  Speaker A: And I think that's where we relate the most. Like we, we. You. You see me for me.
• 13:29
  Speaker B: Yeah.
• 13:29
  Speaker A: And I see you for you.
• 13:30
  Speaker B: Yeah.
• 13:31
  Speaker A: And we're in love.
• 13:34
  Speaker B: Do you want to make out? Rob, Get a close up. I've been told that we both light up rooms when we walk in and I always love that compliment because I don't know if it's. Cause like I just laugh and people laugh at me.
• 13:47
  Speaker A: No, like I, like I feel like with you, I don't. We're getting off topic but like we're just talking about each other.
• 13:54
  Speaker B: We'd love to do that.
• 13:55
  Speaker A: Like I definitely walk into a room and I'm like loud and like that's my light up a room. Like I'm noticeable. People know I'm there. Like, and I'm hoping that I'm also warm and friendly and all those good things. But with you it's like when you sit with you out somewhere, like, it's like, it's like you're the only one. Me and you are only ones in the room. And like that's what I think people love about you. Like you see people for who they are and when you're actually with them. You're present with them, and you make them feel, like, warm inside. Like, when they're talking.
• 14:26
  Speaker B: Warm and fuzzy.
• 14:27
  Speaker A: Yeah. Warm and fuzzy.
• 14:28
  Speaker B: Like this blanket. Yeah.
• 14:30
  Speaker A: And I think that's what it is for people.
• 14:33
  Speaker B: Yeah.
• 14:33
  Speaker A: I could be totally wrong. So put.
• 14:37
  Speaker B: Put a poll out there.
• 14:38
  Speaker A: Yeah.
• 14:39
  Speaker B: How do we make you guys feel?
• 14:41
  Speaker A: But I feel like we're very different in the sense, like. Like, sometimes I say to myself, like, sometimes I had to catch myself. And I'm like, we. We. We are so different that I can't expect you to do the things that I would do.
• 15:00
  Speaker B: Right.
• 15:00
  Speaker A: But sometimes I'm like, why isn't she.
• 15:03
  Speaker B: But that's, like, with anything in life.
• 15:04
  Speaker A: It's. With anything in life. It's like, we're fortunately in business together, so it's like, you know.
• 15:09
  Speaker B: Yeah. But it is hard when you're, like, really close with someone and you're like, how could they not see the way that you're seeing it?
• 15:14
  Speaker A: But why would they?
• 15:15
  Speaker B: Right. But that's just, like, why people are different.
• 15:18
  Speaker A: Yeah.
• 15:18
  Speaker B: That's, like, literally why we're on Earth.
• 15:21
  Speaker A: But I just feel like the difference. The main difference between us is that, like, we see things very differently. Like, I feel like situations. And I'm not saying there's, like, devil's advocate differently. I don't think we have that. I just think you'll say something and then I'll be like, wait, I never thought about it like that. And I feel like the same goes, you know? And I feel like that's the most for us in our differences.
• 15:49
  Speaker B: I could see that. I also think one of our similarities is we're both very open, and we. Well, we like to. We really like to, like, get to know, like, a person to the core. Like, we want, like, the emotional part of, like, in a relationship.
• 16:02
  Speaker A: Yeah. We really dive in.
• 16:04
  Speaker B: Yeah. Like, we want to know that.
• 16:05
  Speaker A: Like, you probably know the most about me.
• 16:07
  Speaker B: Yeah, same.
• 16:08
  Speaker A: You know.
• 16:09
  Speaker B: Yeah.
• 16:10
  Speaker A: And I would probably say it's hard. No matter who it is, it's hard to say things to people because you're like, sometimes you just shouldn't say things out loud just for, like, your own sanity. But me, I'm not like that. Like, I need to say it out loud.
• 16:23
  Speaker B: Yeah.
• 16:23
  Speaker A: Because I can't keep it in. I can say it to you, and I know I could say it to you.
• 16:28
  Speaker B: Yeah.
• 16:28
  Speaker A: And it wouldn't be.
• 16:29
  Speaker B: And sometimes I keep it in. But then I'm like, okay, I need to say this. I'm just gonna say it off the record, I'm not networking this out to the world, but I need to tell you right now.
• 16:37
  Speaker A: Right, yeah, right. Yeah, exactly. And I feel like, was that our similarity or a different.
• 16:42
  Speaker B: No, similarity.
• 16:43
  Speaker A: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Like, what is our, like, main difference? I know I kind of just said something, but, like, what is.
• 16:49
  Speaker B: Well, I think we're just, like, different.
• 16:50
  Speaker A: We're really. We're really just like, different people.
• 16:52
  Speaker B: Yeah, well, I think.
• 16:53
  Speaker A: But, like, are we.
• 16:54
  Speaker B: I don't know.
• 16:55
  Speaker A: I don't know. Who are we? What are we doing? Who are we? What's happening? Like, I don't know. I mean, we're different in, like, you can, like, you walk into my house today, I made all these boo baskets and whatever.
• 17:05
  Speaker B: And like, oh, we're going to talk about those.
• 17:07
  Speaker A: Yeah, we're totally going to talk about that. But I'm saying, like, you genuinely don't care. You're like, Halloween does not offer presents. We don't do that. Like, that's not a thing. And like, I'm sitting here like, I, I. Halloween offers presents. Like, we have to do, like, I think. But we also. The good thing about us is that we're so different in that sense. Like, you can actually care less and I can actually care more. I can actually. I care so much about it. Whatever. But we laugh.
• 17:33
  Speaker B: Like, you'll still, like, she gave me it. And she was like, you're probably going to give this.
• 17:37
  Speaker A: Yeah, I was like, I don't know. I said to myself. I was like, I don't even want
• 17:40
  Speaker B: to give you this. She actually. Okay, so she gave me, like, half of her.
• 17:44
  Speaker A: Yeah. Because I'm not giving her a good cup. Because you're either going to re.
• 17:47
  Speaker B: Gift it.
• 17:48
  Speaker A: Give it back. Yeah. Or give it back. Like, no, literally, I'm. And I would say this to your face. I'm not giving you a good cup because you don't care.
• 17:56
  Speaker B: I don't care. And I don't deserve it.
• 17:58
  Speaker A: You don't. And I'm not giving. So I gave you tissue paper wrapped with a face mask and a chapstick.
• 18:02
  Speaker B: It was all I need. It's like.
• 18:03
  Speaker A: And clips.
• 18:04
  Speaker B: I need the bare minimum.
• 18:05
  Speaker A: And that's it.
• 18:05
  Speaker B: I mean, that was.
• 18:06
  Speaker A: And that's all you're getting. Yeah. And that was above and beyond for me. So that's the relationship we have. But, like, that's the difference between us.
• 18:15
  Speaker B: Like, and, like, you. And also, like, you.
• 18:19
  Speaker A: I would like that. I don't care. Like, you would think people might think I want the cup and I want
• 18:25
  Speaker B: But I don't really. You don't care?
• 18:28
  Speaker A: Genuinely, genuinely don't care.
• 18:30
  Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah, yeah. Which I love about you.
• 18:33
  Speaker A: And I would give you my shirt off my back. I know. And I would give you my shirt off my back, literally. I haven't had. And I don't know if most reviewers know this, but I have obviously a panic disorder. I've gotten a lot better in the past five years. I feel like I've had, like, one or two in the past five years or maybe past, like, three years, which is, like, really good for someone who, like, suffers.
• 18:53
  Speaker B: And last night was one of them. And you sent your husband away to help me. Now, that is a heart of gold.
• 18:59
  Speaker A: Yeah. Like, I would never even tell you.
• 19:01
  Speaker B: You shouldn't have told me.
• 19:02
  Speaker A: No, I would never. I'm telling you now. You're not, of course, but if I actually wasn't okay, like, you obviously wouldn't have came, but I was, like, absolutely fine. Like, I'm. I'm like that, though. Like, I need to handle it myself. Like, I need to expose myself so that I get better. And that's why I feel like I have gotten better.
• 19:16
  Speaker B: Exposure therapy.
• 19:17
  Speaker A: Exactly.
• 19:17
  Speaker B: We're working on it.
• 19:18
  Speaker A: We're working on it with me. That's also the difference between us. Like, I suffer from different anxieties than you do.
• 19:23
  Speaker B: Yeah.
• 19:24
  Speaker A: And 100.
• 19:25
  Speaker B: And that is a big difference between us, because I. I can. I hear you. I see you, but I can't. Like, yeah, you don't feel what I feel what you feel.
• 19:34
  Speaker A: And, like, your anxiety, which you may not even know is like, walking into a room right by yourself. Like. Like, not even laughing. Like, you generally get anxiety about that. Like, you have to, like, wait for me to walk in a room and like, that to me. And I know the difference. I understand why you don't get it, because I'm looking at you like, how is that ever going to give you anxiety?
• 19:54
  Speaker B: My mom says that all the time. It's like, you can't you just play anxiety because it's a feeling that you personally feel. And, like, some of the things that. Like, for claustrophobia, for example, like, my mom has that, like, to the degree, like, she can't even fathom walking into an elevator. And I'm like, like, just do it, Mom.
• 20:12
  Speaker A: Just do it. Just get in there and do it.
• 20:14
  Speaker B: It's not.
• 20:15
  Speaker A: I know it's not the case. No. And I know that. So that's why. When you don't understand. Yeah, but you are a good person to, like, say it out loud, too.
• 20:22
  Speaker B: Yeah.
• 20:23
  Speaker A: Well, I hope you know, but that's also a big difference. Like, we definitely suffer from different. We care about different things, so we suffer from different things, and we have anxieties about different things, and we have different lives. I mean, you have three kids. I have one.
• 20:34
  Speaker B: Like, I was having all my kids.
• 20:36
  Speaker A: It was actually so much fun. It was, like, not difficult whatsoever. It was only difficult in the sense where, like, I didn't want anything to happen to them. Oh, don't be crossing the street.
• 20:45
  Speaker B: I'm like, that's a scary thought, right?
• 20:46
  Speaker A: Yeah. Because it's, it's not your kid. I'm like, how does Emily let this kid, like, wander around this neighborhood? I'm saying, yeah, how do you let him wander around the neighborhood?
• 20:54
  Speaker B: It. That is like a, that. It's a good topic, actually, because, like, when you're responsible for someone else, obviously you protect your kids with your life, but when you're responsible for someone else's kid.
• 21:03
  Speaker A: I didn't care about my kid. Didn't know what he was doing. I was worried about your son running from house to house.
• 21:08
  Speaker B: That's great.
• 21:09
  Speaker A: I'm, like, watching him like a hawk because, I don't know, like, hit by a car would. I would fucking kill myself.
• 21:15
  Speaker B: So that's crazy.
• 21:17
  Speaker A: Yeah. I just feel like we definitely are different in that sense. Definitely different in business world. Like, I feel like you definitely are along for the ride with me. Like, you listen to everything I say. Like, I dictate everything. I'm fucking exactly exhausted being the businesswoman in this relationship. Like, I definitely have that, you know, business vibe. Yeah, but you definitely have the. More, like, who cares? Like, this is our show, like, let's do whatever, like, you know what I mean?
• 21:42
  Speaker B: Vibe.
• 21:44
  Speaker A: But we are similar in the sense where, like, we want the same for this.
• 21:47
  Speaker B: We do.
• 21:48
  Speaker A: It wouldn't work if we didn't.
• 21:49
  Speaker B: No. You know, and I think, like, two to our, like, core. Like, we, We.
• 21:55
  Speaker A: We come from the same. We're kind of cut from the same cloth.
• 21:57
  Speaker B: I mean, we know we, we, like,
• 21:59
  Speaker A: we marry the same.
• 22:00
  Speaker B: Yeah.
• 22:01
  Speaker A: We think the same. Yeah, we feel the same. I definitely more like, strong feeling.
• 22:06
  Speaker B: You're more strong feeling. You're also more direct. Yeah, I, I, that's why I suffer from that.
• 22:14
  Speaker A: Yeah.
• 22:14
  Speaker B: Totally.
• 22:14
  Speaker A: Speak.
• 22:15
  Speaker B: I can't speak. And I, I do not like confrontation at all. I will do whatever.
• 22:18
  Speaker A: It's not like, this is what I try to teach people. Like, it's not confrontational. It's just, like.
• 22:22
  Speaker B: Right. It's conversational.
• 22:23
  Speaker A: It's just conversation and you just don't want to do it. That's the difference between us two. Yeah, but I feel like at. At heart, you like. No, you just would never say it out loud.
• 22:31
  Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah.
• 22:33
  Speaker A: So that's a difference. The difference also is, like, you like a newborn. I don't.
• 22:39
  Speaker B: Yeah. Parenting wise. I can't wait till you have another baby.
• 22:42
  Speaker A: I know. I just thought about. We just talked about that the other day.
• 22:44
  Speaker B: I'm gonna steal it.
• 22:45
  Speaker A: Well, we didn't even get to this and Michael has to tell you, but he went to a medium yesterday.
• 22:49
  Speaker B: Oh, no. He told me. I was with him last night.
• 22:51
  Speaker A: And he told you everything. Did he tell you everything?
• 22:54
  Speaker B: Everything.
• 22:54
  Speaker A: God, how crazy. He tell you the three things that Uncle Joey said us to look out for?
• 22:58
  Speaker B: Flintstone Octopus crazy.
• 23:01
  Speaker A: I'm like, if I see a Flintstone, I'm gonna lose my mind.
• 23:05
  Speaker B: Like, Mike. No, he was like, I have. Mike said this.
• 23:08
  Speaker A: I was shocked.
• 23:09
  Speaker B: When was the last time, Like, I. I haven't even thought about Flintstone or like in so long. So, like, if that happens, like, I'm
• 23:14
  Speaker A: gonna lose my mind. No, I'm gonna lose my mind.
• 23:16
  Speaker B: And the birthday thing was insane. What was the birthday thing? Oh, it was his birthday.
• 23:20
  Speaker A: Oh, yeah. And she didn't know.
• 23:21
  Speaker B: I really love a medium.
• 23:22
  Speaker A: There's another part that I'm not telling you.
• 23:24
  Speaker B: I think we're gonna bring a medium on here.
• 23:27
  Speaker A: I think we should go do that for like one of our birthdays.
• 23:30
  Speaker B: Oh, let's do that. Yeah.
• 23:31
  Speaker A: Like we have our number.
• 23:32
  Speaker B: Yeah, I want.
• 23:33
  Speaker A: I would bring it to the house and she'll do.
• 23:34
  Speaker B: I would love.
• 23:35
  Speaker A: There's a part of the. What the medium said that I'm not telling anybody.
• 23:37
  Speaker B: Oh, good.
• 23:38
  Speaker A: It's a good thing. But I don't want to say it out loud.
• 23:39
  Speaker B: Oh, that's amazing. But she's not going to tell, so. But the medium. So the medium was mainly talking about my father in law. It was his birthday.
• 23:49
  Speaker A: I didn't even give you a hug because everything I say.
• 23:51
  Speaker B: Yeah.
• 23:51
  Speaker A: How was yesterday?
• 23:52
  Speaker B: Hard day. But it was, it was fitting that Jody Joseph Peter Zudenzia, who's named after my father in law, ended up in the same hospital that my father in law lived at on the day of his birthday. It was a whole fucking full circle. Everybody's good. But the medium that her husband saw was talking all about my father in law. And the best part that I took from it was that dad said he loves your wife. Like, he knows. Like, she's a good one.
• 24:20
  Speaker A: I know it was hysterical.
• 24:21
  Speaker B: Like, I was hysterical. I don't want to get hysterical now because I don't feel like.
• 24:24
  Speaker A: I don't feel like.
• 24:25
  Speaker B: But, like. And I just know dad so much. Like, he was my soul. Like, and he would have, like, the three of us, he would have been like, you.
• 24:31
  Speaker A: I know him. Like, I know the camera. I don't like to think about it because I'm so emotional that I would be upset and, like, linger with me.
• 24:37
  Speaker B: But no, but that made me happy. That.
• 24:38
  Speaker A: Yeah, he was like, she doesn't know her, but he knows you. Don't worry. I'm like, he's watching. And I'm telling you, that white butterfly who follows me around is probably him.
• 24:48
  Speaker B: Yeah.
• 24:48
  Speaker A: Follows me. I was in San Diego. I was there.
• 24:50
  Speaker B: I love to think that the deceased people are, like, watching us, but then I also am like, please don't watch. Creepy. Please don't watch.
• 24:58
  Speaker A: I do crazy things sometimes. No, same. That's where we're also similar, too. We kind of are, like, really weird and crazy.
• 25:05
  Speaker B: Yeah.
• 25:06
  Speaker A: Like, you know.
• 25:07
  Speaker B: Yeah, you should not watch me.
• 25:09
  Speaker A: No, don't watch me either. No, I'm so afraid of me. Don't watch me. Oh, man, that's good. What else are we? Similar. Different. Go ahead, talk to me.
• 25:19
  Speaker B: Talk to me. So we're on podcast. Like, you don't really like to talk about your private life, like, with your husband, but, like, who, me or us? No, you like me and you will talk, like, sexually. But you're, like. You're, like, more.
• 25:31
  Speaker A: Yeah. Cause my father watches.
• 25:33
  Speaker B: No, I know. That's what I'm saying. But my father does, too, and he doesn't care.
• 25:37
  Speaker A: No. My dad has pulled me aside multiple times.
• 25:39
  Speaker B: Oh, I'm sure. Well, I saw her dad the other day, and I.
• 25:42
  Speaker A: Isn't he the best?
• 25:43
  Speaker B: He's the best. Her dad is the best. But, like, I know what I talk about on this podcast, and I know he's listening.
• 25:47
  Speaker A: So he thinks you're funny. I'm like, well, I say the same things. Why don't you think I'm funny?
• 25:50
  Speaker B: No, but. So. So he. He said something to us, and it was like, nothing.
• 25:54
  Speaker A: Oh, yeah, the hair thing.
• 25:55
  Speaker B: Don't say. Don't say that on the pod, dad. That is my favorite thing people tell me is when they're telling me a story and they say, don't say that on the pod. I'm like, thank you.
• 26:05
  Speaker A: He goes, I'm not telling. No, he said to you. He goes, I'm not Telling you because you're gonna tell it on the pod. And I'm like, she's not gonna tell it on the pod. I'm not.
• 26:12
  Speaker B: If someone says, do not say something, I also.
• 26:14
  Speaker A: We read the room. We're not gonna tell it on the pod. If we. We should be telling it on the pod.
• 26:17
  Speaker B: No, but it is funny. I love when people say that to me too.
• 26:21
  Speaker A: I love it.
• 26:21
  Speaker B: I also love when people say to me. I feel like I know everything about your life. Like, someone that I haven't talked to in, like, forever, like, they know me. And I'm like, but I haven't talked to you in a really long time. And. But, like, do they.
• 26:33
  Speaker A: I feel like we don't talk about anything on here. Yes, we do.
• 26:35
  Speaker B: I ran into somebody at, like, a farmer's market, and she was like, I feel like I know you. And, like, I haven't seen her since high school. And I was like, it was so good to see her. But, like, I know nothing about her life. And we do talk about our lives.
• 26:46
  Speaker A: Yeah, I guess we do.
• 26:47
  Speaker B: I mean, what do we talk about?
• 26:48
  Speaker A: What the we talk about? I really don't sometimes. I do love that we're talking about what's similar and different between us, though.
• 26:54
  Speaker B: Yeah. I'm never getting up this blanket.
• 26:56
  Speaker A: Let's ask Rob. You know, I love putting you on the spot. What's this most similar about us?
• 27:02
  Speaker B: And Ryan likes when we break the third wall, and I love.
• 27:05
  Speaker A: Oh, he does. He likes when we break the third wall.
• 27:07
  Speaker B: Yeah.
• 27:08
  Speaker A: What's the most similarity about us? Well, you guys are like sisters. Yeah.
• 27:13
  Speaker B: Like you.
• 27:13
  Speaker A: You guys are circumst. We said that. That's good. I agree. And what about the most difference?
• 27:21
  Speaker B: I feel like you're more reserved in your sexual.
• 27:25
  Speaker A: Okay. Yeah, definitely.
• 27:26
  Speaker B: Oh, talking.
• 27:27
  Speaker A: Yeah, definitely. Which is crazy because I've had more experience than she has.
• 27:31
  Speaker B: She just seems.
• 27:32
  Speaker A: Yeah. She just.
• 27:33
  Speaker B: She just don't say that word.
• 27:35
  Speaker A: I know, but, like, it's crazy because, like, I've.
• 27:37
  Speaker B: I mean, yeah, if you have way
• 27:39
  Speaker A: more experience than you, but, like, people would think you had.
• 27:44
  Speaker B: Oh, my God. I didn't tell you what happened yesterday also. What? I butt dialed.
• 27:49
  Speaker A: No.
• 27:49
  Speaker B: At 7am no. Somebody getting a phone call.
• 27:53
  Speaker A: Oh, my God. Who is it?
• 27:55
  Speaker B: Somebody from Charleston, South Carolina.
• 27:58
  Speaker A: The person from 7am I'm freaking. Why? How?
• 28:02
  Speaker B: It just. It was a weird thing. It just. My phone was in my pocket. Grammy.
• 28:08
  Speaker A: Oh, she's asking about Joey. Yeah, I'll call her back, but.
• 28:13
  Speaker B: So there's no coming back. Call back I did not answer.
• 28:15
  Speaker A: Did you text him?
• 28:16
  Speaker B: No. God, no. No, I know I just left it. But it was so crazy that, like, I. Like, through my phone, I freaked out and I was like, this is weird.
• 28:25
  Speaker A: How did that call him?
• 28:26
  Speaker B: No idea, but I will show you the call. It was. I was freaking out. But isn't that crazy if it just calls somebody randomly?
• 28:35
  Speaker A: No.
• 28:35
  Speaker B: Like, I don't know, like, when I
• 28:37
  Speaker A: texted you randomly this morning.
• 28:38
  Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah.
• 28:40
  Speaker A: No, but it. I just. I, like, I am open with other people so much, but I just, like, was always taught to be reserved sexually or you'll be known as like, a. Yeah. So I just, like, never ever.
• 28:56
  Speaker B: Yeah. Like, I actually like that. Yeah.
• 28:58
  Speaker A: Like, we. We never. I never really talked about it, like, to other people. I don't know. Like, you know, like, you're. You're an open book. People know, like.
• 29:05
  Speaker B: Yeah.
• 29:06
  Speaker A: You know, you literally talk on camera. You say, my favorite thing is.
• 29:09
  Speaker B: Right.
• 29:09
  Speaker A: X, Y, Z. Oh, that was. Yeah, I just. I'm definitely more reserved in the public eye with my sexual life.
• 29:16
  Speaker B: That's good. Yeah, Keep doing that.
• 29:18
  Speaker A: I'm going to. Forever and always. That's the biggest difference between us.
• 29:23
  Speaker B: I think so.
• 29:24
  Speaker A: But again, like, it's so crazy because, like, I have way more experience. But, like, you.
• 29:27
  Speaker B: I love when you say you more experienced.
• 29:29
  Speaker A: I do, though.
• 29:30
  Speaker B: An experienced woman.
• 29:31
  Speaker A: But, like, I had, like. How many people have you had sex with?
• 29:35
  Speaker B: None.
• 29:35
  Speaker A: That's what I mean.
• 29:36
  Speaker B: Not a soul. But it's like, I'm actually a virgin.
• 29:38
  Speaker A: But people. Well, seriously, how many people? Like, one or two.
• 29:42
  Speaker B: Sure.
• 29:43
  Speaker A: Why can't you answer? You talk about it.
• 29:45
  Speaker B: I'm not. I can't say my number.
• 29:46
  Speaker A: Oh, so tell me.
• 29:47
  Speaker B: Tell me your number.
• 29:48
  Speaker A: I forget.
• 29:48
  Speaker B: I don't have. I don't know.
• 29:50
  Speaker A: You don't know?
• 29:51
  Speaker B: No. I mean, I know. Lost count.
• 29:54
  Speaker A: I lost count.
• 29:55
  Speaker B: No.
• 29:55
  Speaker A: You've been with Joey since you're 14.
• 29:58
  Speaker B: Just a couple.
• 29:59
  Speaker A: Yeah. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
• 30:01
  Speaker B: Yeah. So you're more. But you have a higher body count.
• 30:04
  Speaker A: You can. This is my problem with you. You can never just say, I am more experienced than you are.
• 30:11
  Speaker B: I'm saying it.
• 30:12
  Speaker A: No, you're not. You're, like, sure.
• 30:14
  Speaker B: Like experience.
• 30:15
  Speaker A: I've been around the block way more than you've been around the block.
• 30:18
  Speaker B: This is a different word. You can have a higher body count. You could. You could. You haven't.
• 30:22
  Speaker A: You have had less.
• 30:25
  Speaker B: You are more. You are. You are.
• 30:27
  Speaker A: I have been with way more.
• 30:29
  Speaker B: All of that.
• 30:30
  Speaker A: I've been way more Sexual with more people than you have.
• 30:35
  Speaker B: Facts.
• 30:35
  Speaker A: So. But my point is that you won't let me say is people from the outside think you have.
• 30:40
  Speaker B: Oh, because people think people are like, she is. She's single.
• 30:43
  Speaker A: Yeah. Yeah. That's what I'm saying. Because you are so open sexually, people don't realize, like, yes, okay.
• 30:49
  Speaker B: You know, I am totally agreeing with you.
• 30:51
  Speaker A: Holy. Holy.
• 30:52
  Speaker B: That took a long time to get there.
• 30:54
  Speaker A: Yeah. Like, you. You do a lot of crazy things with your husband.
• 30:57
  Speaker B: Right, Right.
• 30:59
  Speaker A: So your experience in that sense. But, like, you. You haven't been around the block.
• 31:03
  Speaker B: No.
• 31:03
  Speaker A: You don't know different peachy wishes.
• 31:06
  Speaker B: I don't want to.
• 31:07
  Speaker A: I know. My favorite was the. The ski mask.
• 31:11
  Speaker B: Oh, the ski mask.
• 31:12
  Speaker A: Oh, my God, she's crazy. Although she could also be full of, like, how do we know she's doing all this stuff? Like, we don't know, really.
• 31:17
  Speaker B: Did I not call you from Atlantic City? Yeah.
• 31:19
  Speaker A: That was, like, one time.
• 31:20
  Speaker B: I can't tell that. That story.
• 31:21
  Speaker A: No, I'm not telling that story. That's a crazy story. Yeah, you're also, like, disgusting, too.
• 31:29
  Speaker B: You're also absolutely disgusting.
• 31:31
  Speaker A: I was thinking about the honey mustard. I just got really grossed out again.
• 31:33
  Speaker B: No, that was not honey mustard. That was.
• 31:36
  Speaker A: That was worse. No, just crazy. Like, it just. It's so crazy. Like, our lives are so different.
• 31:46
  Speaker B: Yeah. What about as moms? Are we.
• 31:49
  Speaker A: Oh, I just said this is something the other day. Like, you're such a good mom, because, like, you. Your whole world is mom. Like, you know, mine's kind of, like, divided. Like, my whole world is mom. My whole world is this. Your whole world is just Mom. And there's nothing else to you.
• 32:00
  Speaker B: Right.
• 32:00
  Speaker A: You literally have no other, like, personality.
• 32:02
  Speaker B: Nothing else.
• 32:04
  Speaker A: But I just feel like. Yeah, like, that's also a main difference. Like, you don't care about anything else besides being a mom. Now. You do. But I'm saying, like, you don't. You didn't.
• 32:15
  Speaker B: I mean, you know.
• 32:16
  Speaker A: Yeah.
• 32:16
  Speaker B: Like, mom is my world, but now I have mama clock, which is still mom.
• 32:21
  Speaker A: Also, like, I'm looking at you now. I can't figure you out.
• 32:24
  Speaker B: My God, I love when she does this.
• 32:26
  Speaker A: Like, we're so different, but, like, I can't. There's something I can't figure out. I think your confidence falls within sex. I think you being sexual is your confidence.
• 32:40
  Speaker B: Okay.
• 32:40
  Speaker A: Does that make sense? I think you.
• 32:43
  Speaker B: You know, so when I walk into a room and I. I think you're
• 32:47
  Speaker A: so openly sexual, I think that makes you feel confident, and I Think that's what.
• 32:52
  Speaker B: Yeah. Oh, I don't like that. Can you take that?
• 32:54
  Speaker A: Do you like that? Why?
• 32:55
  Speaker B: I don't know.
• 32:56
  Speaker A: Like. You know what I'm trying to say, though, Rob? I know people look at you and they're like, she's like a walking sex machine.
• 33:03
  Speaker B: You think that.
• 33:04
  Speaker A: Yeah, I know that, but I'm saying, like, I think, like, you feel sec. Confident, sexy, and I think that's, like, your thing.
• 33:10
  Speaker B: Okay.
• 33:11
  Speaker A: You know.
• 33:12
  Speaker B: You know, I wanted to be a sex therapist. Like, that was what I was going. Yeah.
• 33:15
  Speaker A: Like, I feel like that's. That. That brings out your confidence, like, because, you know, you're. You're so confident in it. So that's, like, where you find your confidence, I guess.
• 33:23
  Speaker B: But there's, like, very difference between. Now, like, I'm not saying, like, talking about sex. I'm talking, like, confident about being a mom.
• 33:29
  Speaker A: Like, you're always confident about being.
• 33:31
  Speaker B: Yeah, yeah, yeah. All right. I can see that. Sometimes I feel like you're confident about you. That you think that you just talk and I don't. Like.
• 33:42
  Speaker A: I do. It's like you just are like. And I just like talking. You're just like, yeah, maybe.
• 33:48
  Speaker B: Yeah, I hate you now. No, I. You're just confident in everything. So you think.
• 33:57
  Speaker A: No, there's things I'm confident in.
• 34:00
  Speaker B: Name one.
• 34:02
  Speaker A: Setting up decorations. Yeah, setting up talking decorations. I'm indecisive on that, actually.
• 34:07
  Speaker B: You were indecisive when we were at home. Goods. Trying to pick out decorations for this. She had five lamps in them.
• 34:13
  Speaker A: Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Yeah. I'm not confident in, like, what people see visually sometimes. Okay, but, like, are you confident behind closed doors?
• 34:25
  Speaker B: I mean, I would say that I'm a confident person. Like, I don't. I'm not insecure.
• 34:29
  Speaker A: I feel like you're a little insecure.
• 34:31
  Speaker B: You think I'm insecure?
• 34:32
  Speaker A: I feel like you just. You question yourself. Is that a difference?
• 34:37
  Speaker B: I don't know, because I'm. I'm very secure in, like, myself. Like, I'm secure in. I'm secure in my.
• 34:44
  Speaker A: Yeah, you just being.
• 34:45
  Speaker B: But I'm. Maybe I'm insecure about what other people think. I don't know.
• 34:50
  Speaker A: You say you're saying you don't want to be on camera. You don't want people looking at you. You don't want to walk into a room like, that's insecure. You feel insec.
• 34:57
  Speaker B: Okay, so if, you know, if that's what insecurity is, then yes, because I do not like to be Front and center. But I feel like you can also be secure with who you are, but just don't want.
• 35:07
  Speaker A: No, no. You love yourself.
• 35:09
  Speaker B: I do love myself.
• 35:10
  Speaker A: It's not. You're secure. You love who you are.
• 35:12
  Speaker B: Yeah.
• 35:12
  Speaker A: But you could still be insecure.
• 35:14
  Speaker B: Okay. Yeah.
• 35:15
  Speaker A: It doesn't mean you don't love yourself. I think you love. I think you do love yourself.
• 35:18
  Speaker B: Well, I think that's a. That is a similarity. We both love ourselves. Yeah, you definitely love yourself.
• 35:23
  Speaker A: Sometimes I hate myself.
• 35:28
  Speaker B: This is a contradiction.
• 35:30
  Speaker A: Where are we? What are we doing? We're off topic.
• 35:32
  Speaker B: Sometimes I fucking hate myself.
• 35:34
  Speaker A: This is just like, about, like we're just ripping on each other, basically. When I look at you, When I
• 35:40
  Speaker B: look at you, what's the first word you think about?
• 35:42
  Speaker A: No, you definitely are, like, the first
• 35:44
  Speaker B: word I would think about. If I looked at you, I would say confident. Like, you're just. You're confident in life.
• 35:49
  Speaker A: Yeah.
• 35:50
  Speaker B: So that is a difference between us. Because I wouldn't say I'm confident.
• 35:54
  Speaker A: Yeah. When I look at you, I like, I. I feel like. Like just love. Like you just have love for everything and everyone.
• 36:01
  Speaker B: I like love. Love. Love is good. Yeah.
• 36:05
  Speaker A: Yeah.
• 36:06
  Speaker B: We both love to laugh.
• 36:08
  Speaker A: But I think you low key.
• 36:10
  Speaker B: What?
• 36:10
  Speaker A: Like to be like, center of attention. Like, not like everybody look at me, but like, I think you like attention.
• 36:20
  Speaker B: You think that I like people to think I'm funny. Well, you like attention that.
• 36:26
  Speaker A: I think that's where the sex thing comes in. Like, you like the attention of people knowing all that. I do too. Oh, you know what also the woman yesterday said to me? She said that I'm more like. Like, people from the outside probably think you're more like carefree, lacks, but like. And people don't see that with me. But like, I'm also like a kid. Like, I'm like very much like, lax, carefree. But I feel like my point of this episode, I feel it comes out
• 36:54
  Speaker B: less because of, I think, your anxieties.
• 36:56
  Speaker A: No, I think it comes out less because I
• 37:02
  Speaker B: look put together.
• 37:03
  Speaker A: Maybe I need a therapist.
• 37:05
  Speaker B: No. Do you know what's so crazy? I've never been to therapy. I need a therapist. I should go. Do you want to go?
• 37:09
  Speaker A: I should go. I should go.
• 37:10
  Speaker B: We need a therapist.
• 37:11
  Speaker A: But when I look at you, like, I don't think you have any real issues.
• 37:15
  Speaker B: No problem.
• 37:16
  Speaker A: Do you think I have issues?
• 37:17
  Speaker B: A lot of fucking issues. I don't think you have issues. I think, I mean, everybody has issues. I think, you know, you're. You know what you're what makes you anxious. But you're. You're so vocal and you're so comfortable talking about.
• 37:31
  Speaker A: Yeah.
• 37:31
  Speaker B: Them that you're on top of it.
• 37:33
  Speaker A: That's another thing about you with difference. Like, I talk about everything. You really don't talk about everything.
• 37:37
  Speaker B: I hate when you say that because I feel like I talk about everything.
• 37:41
  Speaker A: If I ask you. See, you know something? As soon as you walk into my house, maybe I'm the natural.
• 37:48
  Speaker B: Maybe because you are more. You wear your emotions more on your sleeve. Or I'm more bottled up. Yeah, maybe.
• 37:56
  Speaker A: I don't know.
• 37:56
  Speaker B: I don't know. We're confusing.
• 37:58
  Speaker A: No, we're so confusing.
• 38:00
  Speaker B: Somebody help us.
• 38:01
  Speaker A: Somebody help us. So similarities and differences. I need to know because I know. I know my friends or my family or somebody's going to chime in and say, this is your biggest similarity and difference between you, because we have no idea.
• 38:13
  Speaker B: Somebody help us.
• 38:14
  Speaker A: But I also. I want to take one thing away from you. Like, I definitely think I can be a little bit more open. Like, I'm sexy.
• 38:22
  Speaker B: Oh, you don't want people to think that you're not.
• 38:24
  Speaker A: No, this is not. That's not my problem. I want people to think that, and I think they do think that. I just don't think I'm sexy. You're like, I don't. My problem is I'm confident in my skin.
• 38:33
  Speaker B: Yeah.
• 38:34
  Speaker A: But this is. This is what I forgot to say. I don't look at myself and think sexy. Oh, yeah. Like, that's my problem. That's why I think I'm not as vocal as you are.
• 38:43
  Speaker B: Okay.
• 38:44
  Speaker A: Because I just always thought, like, people wanted me for just, I don't know.
• 38:50
  Speaker B: Your personality.
• 38:50
  Speaker A: Yeah. Like, I don't know.
• 38:54
  Speaker B: No, that's funny.
• 38:55
  Speaker A: Like, you know, I'm, like, mediocre. I have a butt. I have boobs. I, like, I'm sure. Like, I'm not. Like, I don't have one thing great crazy about me. I don't have, like, a huge ass. I don't have, like, huge tits. I don't have, like, you know.
• 39:05
  Speaker B: Oh, this is so.
• 39:06
  Speaker A: I'm very. Just, like.
• 39:08
  Speaker B: You're not. You're not average. You're very above all.
• 39:12
  Speaker A: You think, like, I just. I just. This is what. This is what I see. I. I don't see plain Jane. I see just, like a. I see proportion, so. I see proportion. I don't see sexy. So that's why I think, like, it's hard for me to be sexual for. Not for people, like, in front of people like Rob, for instance, doesn't think I'm vocal about. Meanwhile, like, to my husband, I'm like a sexual person. And to many people that maybe I've been in the bedroom with think I'm a sexual person.
• 39:44
  Speaker B: Yeah, but that's fine.
• 39:45
  Speaker A: But I don't give. Because I don't see. Okay, that's awesome. Yes. I got that out perfectly. And I don't want to speak the rest of the day.
• 39:53
  Speaker B: Okay.
• 39:53
  Speaker A: Do you understand?
• 39:54
  Speaker B: Yeah, I think we should end on that because you. You articulated exactly that.
• 39:58
  Speaker A: Thank you so much.
• 39:59
  Speaker B: Yeah. And I feel sexy, and I am sexy.
• 40:03
  Speaker A: But do you think I'm sexy?
• 40:04
  Speaker B: Yes.
• 40:04
  Speaker A: You do think I'm sexy?
• 40:06
  Speaker B: Yes.
• 40:07
  Speaker A: Like, I hate when my husband. Oh, you look cute.
• 40:09
  Speaker B: Well, that's the worst compliment any.
• 40:10
  Speaker A: Are you out of your goddamn mind?
• 40:12
  Speaker B: Don't ever fucking call me cute. Call me ugly before you call me cute.
• 40:14
  Speaker A: Call me the fattest bitch you've ever met before you call me fucking cute.
• 40:19
  Speaker B: Yeah, no, we hate cute.
• 40:20
  Speaker A: Do you see sex?
• 40:21
  Speaker B: I see sex.
• 40:22
  Speaker A: You know when you get pictures of someone having sex?
• 40:24
  Speaker B: Yeah, but you said you can't picture me having sex.
• 40:26
  Speaker A: No, I said I can't picture you having sex.
• 40:27
  Speaker B: They said you couldn't. No, I can't.
• 40:28
  Speaker A: But there's some. You can picture me. A lot of people can picture me.
• 40:31
  Speaker B: Yeah, I could totally picture that.
• 40:33
  Speaker A: Yeah.
• 40:34
  Speaker B: Now I'm picturing it now I gotta go.
• 40:35
  Speaker A: Okay. The similarities and difference between us are.
• 40:40
  Speaker B: We don't know.
• 40:40
  Speaker A: We don't know. So please fill in the blank. Okay, love you. Bye.
• 40:43
  Speaker B: Bye. Clocking out.