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272 - Becoming Unshakeable with Human Design · Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast

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  Welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, the show dedicated to
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  helping entrepreneurs use human design to shift from hustle to
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  flow without sacrificing results.
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  Come here to become an unshakeable human and build an unshakeable business
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  according to your human design.
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  I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
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  Nicole Laino: Hello and welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, everybody.
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  I'm your host, Nicole Laino, and we're here together today to
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  talk about becoming unshakeable.
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  We're talking about what the title of this show is, and
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  we're getting right down to it.
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  What does it take to become unshakeable with human design?
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  Now, unshakeable was a term that I started using as I started
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  doing a lot of the deconditioning work and understanding my design.
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  I realized that I became unshakeable.
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  The world had much less of an impact on me in any long term way.
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  It doesn't mean that I'm not human and I don't feel things.
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  Of course we feel things.
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  In fact, it's about being able to feel everything very, very deeply, but also
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  not be taken off your game and not uprooted by it, which is where that
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  term unshakeable really came from.
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  It was this visualization I had of like a big redwood tree where their
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  roots grow so deep and so wide into the ground and there's such a deep strong
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  root system that these trees are able to grow beyond where the eye can see.
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  They are these massive, massive trees.
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  And they withstand so much.
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  They withstand the weather, they withstand the winds and they are not bent.
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  They sway and they move, but then they continue to stand and
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  they continue to grow stronger.
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  That is where this whole thing came from, and if you listen to this show regularly,
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  you know that I end every episode with a little tagline, a little send off line
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  that I give you, which is that in order to have an unshakeable business, you
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  must first become an unshakeable human.
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  And that's really coming from my own experience because I know that
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  many of you are entrepreneurs I know that many of you listening to
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  this show are growing your business, or you're aspiring entrepreneurs.
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  And we know that the entrepreneurial game is a game against ourselves.
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  It is about overcoming our limitations.
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  Overcoming our shadows overcoming the things that distract us and enable us to
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  focus our energy and our efforts towards something that we really want to create.
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  So we seek out the tools that are going to help us do that.
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  And yes, you can take your gifts that are in your human design, and
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  you can apply them to your business.
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  That is what I teach people to do inside my business by design mentorship.
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  That's what the whole thing is about.
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  But it's so much more than that.
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  And I want to get real clear in this episode about the steps that you
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  take and what is necessary in order to become that unshakeable human
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  who has the unshakeable business.
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  Because that comes first.
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  So we all get very taken into the sexy side of human design.
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  What are my gifts?
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  What's my purpose?
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  Where is my power?
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  And it is so true that it's all in there.
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  Your human design chart does hold the keys to your ultimate purpose in life.
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  It will tell you what you are here to do.
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  But it's so much more than just looking at it and saying, your
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  purpose has something to do with overcoming these kind of obstacles
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  and having these type of experiences.
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  That you have the potential to help people in a certain way.
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  Absolutely, that's all there.
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  But I've done a lot of readings lately, both regular readings and I also do
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  business readings where we go through all of the business connections in your chart.
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  All of that is there, but I always say that there's the chart
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  and then there is the human.
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  There's the human experience and they come together.
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  Now, if you are still in a low frequency of your human experience, if you haven't
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  worked through the lessons in your chart.
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  Your chart is a map that's telling you these are the lessons that you are
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  probably going to be here to learn.
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  These are the areas where you're meant to play big.
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  These are the areas you're meant to receive.
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  And if you're not playing the game that's on your chart, if you aren't
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  making the moves that are necessary for your chart to be in alignment, then
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  you're not going to live in alignment.
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  You're not going to be unshakeable.
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  In fact, you're probably going to be confused and frustrated because you
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  feel like you're doing everything.
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  You feel like you're taking all the courses and you're
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  learning about your design.
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  but you're not seeing the results and that can be horribly frustrating.
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  It can be certainly disheartening because then you wonder what's wrong with me.
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  This works for so many other people, but I'm not seeing the results for myself.
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  So I sat with a few clients in the last week or so, and I did readings
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  with them and they all cried.
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  And I want to talk about why that is.
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  Because they started to see the program, and this is really essentially what the
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  human design chart is going to show you.
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  Now I'm going to take a moment here to go into the woo just a
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  little bit and say that we're all under the influence of a program.
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  And if you listen to my transit episodes, Christina Luna and I, usually she's
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  with me, we do a transit episode on the gates that are transiting for the month.
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  And I always say, we're really trying to point out to you how your chart
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  is the program you were born with.
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  It's the codes that you were born with.
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  The ones that say, here, this is you.
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  This is your code.
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  Now the world has a code that is constantly changing.
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  There's a baby being born right now, and they will have a chart.
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  We are under that chart right now.
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  We are under the influence of it.
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  Just that baby being born right now will be imprinted with that chart forever.
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  That will be theirs.
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  That will be their imprint.
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  But we are experiencing this all the time.
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  And then we are experiencing our codes mixing with other people's codes.
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  They come into our experience and now we have a new experience.
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  We have our energy next to theirs versus theirs.
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  And we all have certain lessons that we are here to experience.
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  Now, what's so interesting about when I sit with these clients and the thing
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  that was very much in common for all of them when they all cried and they
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  all felt so seen, is that there were certain things that they realized
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  were just part of their process.
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  Things that maybe they were blamed for, or they blamed themselves for, and
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  they realized that that was actually a necessary part of their life.
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  Now, of course, we know this from a conceptual basis.
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  We hear things all the time like, everything is always
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  working out in my favor.
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  There's always a lesson in everything.
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  If we see the lessons, then we're learning.
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  If we're learning, then we're growing.
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  I never fail.
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  I only learn.
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  There are all of these basic concepts of growth, right?
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  But human design shows you exactly what yours are.
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  Now, every single person I sat with has done a lot of personal development work.
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  They didn't just come into a human design reading as the first step into
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  this personal development journey.
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  They are well versed and they have done a lot of the inner work, and
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  still ended up in a place where they were still unconsciously maybe
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  blaming themselves for things that they did think were their fault.
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  Or accepting the blame that other people put on them.
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  And instead they were left with, no, I'm meant to be this way.
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  This process is mine.
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  So one client, for example, she is emotional.
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  She's an emotional authority.
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  And she was told by people in her life that her emotions were manipulative.
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  That they made people uncomfortable.
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  And she started to suppress her own emotions.
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  Now as an emotional authority, that's not good.
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  Because if you're suppressing your emotions as an emotional authority, all
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  you're doing is suppressing all the time.
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  Because you're literally having emotions every moment of every day.
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  There's something emotional happening inside of you.
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  And if you're taught that your emotions are not a good thing, that they are not
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  accepted, that you're being manipulative when you have them, that you are
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  somehow making people uncomfortable and being a problem, and your emotions
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  are an inconvenience for others.
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  So now you push it down, now you stuff it down, now you try
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  to hide them or not feel them.
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  And what that does is that creates tremendous anxiety typically
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  in an emotional authority.
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  And she's playing small where she's meant to be big.
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  And also, repressed emotions send out a horrible frequency.
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  So her repressing her emotions is actually doing far more damage than if
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  she were feeling them, understanding them, working with them, and leveling off
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  that emotional frequency that she has.
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  Everything is our energy.
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  And emotional authorities, if you are hiding your emotions, the first work
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  for every emotional authority is always going to be work on your emotions.
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  Really get comfortable with them.
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  Get very snuggly with them and learn to love the fact that they're
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  there because they are part of your strength, not a weakness.
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  And the best thing that you can offer people as an emotional authority
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  is a clean emotional frequency wherever you go, as best you can.
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  To understand it, to not try to hide it, because the minute you
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  try to hold it back, you start to send out funky frequency waves.
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  You send out bad, uncomfortable emotion for other people.
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  So this client who's sitting with me crying because now she
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  realizes it was never about her.
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  She didn't do anything wrong.
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  She was just being herself.
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  And other people told her she was wrong.
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  She could accept this on a new level because it's completely objective.
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  I don't even know this person.
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  I had almost no contact with her.
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  She did one of my free workshops, but I didn't have any contact with her
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  before and the other client as well.
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  She joined my program, but I hadn't worked with her before.
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  I don't know these people.
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  I'm really just telling them what's on the piece of paper.
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  And what's on that chart in front of me, I'm just telling them what I see.
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  And when I tell them what I see, the flood of all of their experience comes back.
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  Now that's the power of it too.
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  They're actually taking their own experience and looking at it
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  through the lens of the chart.
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  This is where the magic happens.
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  Because most people don't understand the core of their design.
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  And once it starts getting explained to them and they start to see their own
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  life through how it has played out, why things have worked, why things have not.
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  And you start to learn what's the gas pedals and what are the brakes.
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  And you start to understand these are my big lessons.
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  These things were supposed to happen to me.
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  I had another client where I just said at the top of the reading,
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  given your incarnation cross, you have a very mental design.
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  It's very strong mentally.
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  I know you probably want to figure things out.
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  And there might have been things that happened in your past that
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  maybe you've beat yourself up.
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  I don't know, I'm really just telling you what I see.
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  That an experience you may have had with this cross with this design is that you
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  think that you should have been able to think through these issues quicker.
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  You should have known this was coming.
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  You shouldn't have made this mistake.
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  You shouldn't have had this experience But her chart is about experience Literally I
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  told her, you have to experience things.
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  You can't logically figure them out.
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  You have an experiential design, so if you ever had an idea in your head
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  that you should have known better, if you had only made the better choice,
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  then you wouldn't have had to have that rough experience or that difficulty.
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  I really hope you can let that go right now, because it's literally not how
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  you're meant to go through this world.
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  That these experiences, good and bad, they are shaping you.
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  And you above many other people, because your design is so experiential.
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  And the tears started to flow.
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  Why?
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  Because there's truth in it.
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  And she was able to let go of so many years of feeling like, if I
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  had only just made better choices.
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  But you just need to know where to make your choices from.
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  This is where power comes from.
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  Now I tell her, this is your process for making decisions.
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  And as long as you're following your process, you can feel comfortable
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  that everything is working out in your favor, that it may not have to look
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  like it right in the moment, but you know you have faith in your process.
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  So when you say yes to something, you know that it's a real yes.
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  And you take bold steps toward it and you just move with power, with certainty.
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  And then if anything happens that doesn't go right, you're like, well
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  I know that at least this experience was drawing me closer to the next one.
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  This somehow served my purpose.
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  This somehow served me in my journey.
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  That's what becoming unshakeable is.
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  When you have certainty in every step you take, no matter what happens.
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  And you continue walking and you get stronger with every step.
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  This is where it all starts.
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  Then building your business from your design actually
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  becomes a whole lot easier.
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  Now we just start taking your expertise and saying, okay, now that you're in such
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  a high expression of all these things, you understand your design, contemplate
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  these few areas, like your mercury gate, like your pearl and your pearl sequence.
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  What I call the authority matrix, I have eight elements that I take you through.
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  I also look at the design holistically.
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  But once you understand and you're living by your design, that authority matrix work
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  becomes so much easier and more fruitful.
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  Why?
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  Well, because you know what you're talking about.
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  You're living it.
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  So you're not in the shadow.
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  So it's so much easier to see what that experience is and what you
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  have to offer people because you've already worked through some of them.
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  Becoming an unshakeable human is the part that makes having an
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  unshakeable business possible.
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  And it comes from a conscious effort to learn about your
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  design and integrate your design.
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  And then you can start layering all of those gifts, because you're
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  actually living in the gifts.
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  I don't care what the chart says about what your potential is, if you're not
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  living the potential, you don't have that potential to offer yet, now do you?
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  The first step is starting to live up to your potential.
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  So if that's something that interests you, I promised you guys in the last
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  episode that I would be unveiling something really cool and special.
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  I'm actually launching a program completely designed around this.
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  It's called Unshakeable Human, and it's here to help you embody your human design.
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  And we're actually doing a waitlist and this is a waitlist that's very
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  different than typical waitlist.
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  It's not just a waitlist for something.
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  We're actually giving you 50 percent off the regular price
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  if you join the waitlist.
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  So if you join the waitlist, when we open the doors, there'll be two days that
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  you can join at the waitlist price and it is 50 percent off the regular price.
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  This is kind of a new accelerated version of my Human Design Lab.
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  The Human Design Lab was my monthly membership.
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  What we are now doing is this accelerated version so that we can get you a
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  really big transformation in a shorter period of time because that seems to
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  be what is working better for people.
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  So, we're going to do six weeks together.
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  It will be all of the content that I did in the year of my Human Design Lab on
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  type, authority, profile, and centers.
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  You will get lifetime access to the course material.
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  You will get four additional live lessons from me.
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  And you'll get two live Q& As.
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  Here's the really fun part.
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  The first person to purchase So if you are client number one into this program,
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  you're gonna get your money back.
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  I'm actually going to give you the program for free.
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  One person will get this for free, but you gotta be first.
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  So we're gonna open doors, if you are the first person to purchase
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  and hit that enroll button, then you will get your money back.
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  Everybody else will get 50 percent off.
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  We'll be announcing bonuses and other things as well, but this is a really
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  fun thing, we're trying this out for the first time, we're going to see how this
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  goes, but please get on the waitlist by either DMing me, embody waitlist on
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  Instagram, I'm @NicoleLainoOfficial, or go to nicolelaino.com/embody-waitlist
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  and you can enter there.
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  You can join the waitlist.
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  Once you're on the waitlist, we will let you know the date that we are opening
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  doors, and then you can mark your calendar so that you can be number one
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  and maybe be the person who wins all of their money back, and you get to do
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  this whole program with us for free.
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  So I hope you enjoyed this.
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  I hope that this inspired you to want to become unshakeable by human design.
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  To use human design as something other than just something where it's a really
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  cool thing for you to talk about with your friends and run people's charts.
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  But actually start to change your life with it.
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  Because it does have that potential, but it does take work and it does take a
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  conscious effort to learn and integrate.
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  And that's what we're going to be doing together for six weeks.
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  I'm very excited about this.
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  I cannot wait to unveil the whole thing for you, but I gave you the details here.
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  Join the wait list.
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  I hope to see you inside.
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  And remember, in order to have an unshakeable business, you must
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  first become an unshakeable human.
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  So thanks so much for letting us help you on your journey of becoming
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  unshakeable with human design, everybody.
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  We'll see you next time.
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  If you love this episode and you're a fan of the show, please show
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  And if you'd like to connect with other entrepreneurs on their human
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  design journey, join our free Facebook community, Human Design for Entrepreneurs.
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  We'll see you there.