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Evie... RUN FOR THE HILLS! · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Good morning, Evy.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, how are you.
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  Speaker 1: What's going on with you? A long time? They'll talk.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I need some help.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, that's kind of our thing right now. We've been
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  Speaker 1: helping people with stuff. What do you need?
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  Speaker 3: Okay?
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  Speaker 2: So my friend group's been tight since college. We do everything,
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  Speaker 2: you know, we travel together, celebrate everything together. We're we're
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  Speaker 2: just still very close and I'm grateful for that. But anyway,
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  Speaker 2: one of the girls just got engaged and we were
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  Speaker 2: all helping her plan this cute little engagement party at
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  Speaker 2: her house. So the day before the party, I stopped
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  Speaker 2: by their house to drop off decorations and her fiance
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  Speaker 2: was there alone and shirtless, cleaning the kitchen. So, I mean,
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  Speaker 2: totally normal until I realized that he wasn't cleaning. He
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  Speaker 2: it was on FaceTime with one of our other friends,
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  Speaker 2: like not just chatting, like full flirting mode, shirtless, and
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  Speaker 2: this is the day before their party. It was crazy.
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  Speaker 2: He didn't see me, so I quietly left and texted
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  Speaker 2: her best friend to figure out what to do, And
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  Speaker 2: by the time I got home, the group chat was
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  Speaker 2: literally blowing up. And it turns out that he's been
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  Speaker 2: secretly hooking up with her maid of honor. Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 2: so now half the group is pretending that nothing happened,
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  Speaker 2: and the other half wants to tell her before the wedding.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm sitting here sort of holding this information that
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  Speaker 2: could literally blow up the entire friend group to pieces
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  Speaker 2: and my friend's you know, future marriage.
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  Speaker 1: Well, there's a lot of people in this story, so
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  Speaker 1: forgive me if I say something it was obvious. But
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  Speaker 1: is the maid of honor also in the group chat
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  Speaker 1: in the friend chat? Yeah, so there's this whole friend
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  Speaker 1: chat going on. How many people are in the friend chat?
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  Speaker 2: There's like nine of us.
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  Speaker 1: I think somehow somebody would.
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  Speaker 4: Eat like everyone except the bride.
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  Speaker 5: But yeah, that makes sense if you're planning a wedding.
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  Speaker 5: I'm sure my bride's maids all have a group.
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  Speaker 1: But if there's nine people chatting and you find out
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  Speaker 1: that one of the people in the chat is baying,
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  Speaker 1: you would.
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  Speaker 5: Think somebody would go and tell them all.
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  Speaker 4: Say, every single one of those nine, except for the
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  Speaker 4: friend that's banging the fiance, are all in the same situation,
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  Speaker 4: like how do we tell her?
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  Speaker 1: What do we do?
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  Speaker 4: This is about to blow everything up? Everything life as
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  Speaker 4: you know it as a friend group. It's over after
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  Speaker 4: this goes out, because people are going to pick sides
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  Speaker 4: and it's gonna be so messy.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta make two.
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  Speaker 2: Friends right now already, like people are getting really mad
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  Speaker 2: at the maid of honor, and you know she's trying,
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  Speaker 2: of course to tell us, like it's never going to
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  Speaker 2: happen again. Don't say anything to the bride. You know,
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  Speaker 2: it was a mistake.
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  Speaker 1: And she confessed to that it wasn't like their love Like,
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  Speaker 1: it's not that it was like a time thing, two
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  Speaker 1: time thing, ten time things.
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  Speaker 2: Apparently if we believe her and believe them when he's
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  Speaker 2: doing that the day before their engagement party, is she like.
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  Speaker 6: Pleading to the lesser charge like it was a one
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  Speaker 6: time thing?
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  Speaker 7: Right?
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  Speaker 5: But then okay, so it's a one time thing, but
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  Speaker 5: you're on face time with him the day before his
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  Speaker 5: engagement party, y'alls are flirting and up, it was probably
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  Speaker 5: gonna happen again. It just was a one time thing.
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  Speaker 5: Because you guys caught her after it was a one
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  Speaker 5: time thing.
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  Speaker 1: And he was cleaning with his shirt off. How dare
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  Speaker 1: what he was doing? How was he flirting?
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  Speaker 4: Like?
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  Speaker 1: What was he doing? Yeah? Like, what's sexy about the kitchen?
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  Speaker 1: I don't think i'd be in the kitchen, like what
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  Speaker 1: was he doing, like doing the dishes And did you
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  Speaker 1: just catch them after something happened or did you catch
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  Speaker 1: them before? Like I would assume things were going to happen.
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  Speaker 1: I want to get with you, but this sink's not
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  Speaker 1: going to clean itself.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't even really want to think about it.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I was like this innocent guystander I listen,
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  Speaker 2: like I just want to look out for my friend
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  Speaker 2: and I don't know what to do. She's about to
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  Speaker 2: marry this guy.
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  Speaker 4: I feel kind of like like there's almost like a
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  Speaker 4: power numbers, you know what I mean, Like if just
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  Speaker 4: one of you doesn't tell her, I don't know, I
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  Speaker 4: think that could be turned into something huge. But if
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  Speaker 4: you're all there, then it's like maybe she feels more supported.
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  Speaker 4: That's a really good idea, Kyle, Like, I mean, everyone
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  Speaker 4: except for the maid of honor, unless the maid of
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  Speaker 4: honor wants to try to make it better and like
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  Speaker 4: come clean.
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  Speaker 1: Have you guys thought about that?
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  Speaker 7: Now?
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  Speaker 6: You should tell her what happened, like put it on
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  Speaker 6: her to come clean.
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  Speaker 2: Well, it's so difficult because it really seems like half
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  Speaker 2: of us don't want to do that and the other
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  Speaker 2: half of us do and so it's like, I feel like,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. I guess if I if I want
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  Speaker 2: to say something, then yeah, yeah, that's good advice to
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  Speaker 2: like maybe find even a couple other girls that were
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  Speaker 2: willing to kind of approach her about it together.
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  Speaker 5: But I don't know.
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  Speaker 8: I mean, it's so.
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  Speaker 2: You don't want to get in other people's business, but
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  Speaker 2: this isn't like a random goal that he's. This is
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  Speaker 2: our other friend that he's that they're doing this.
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  Speaker 1: Well, it's also the honor. So that's that's the closest
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  Speaker 1: for it. That's why that's wild.
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  Speaker 2: Before terrible, And I just don't want to break her heart.
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  Speaker 3: You know.
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  Speaker 2: But at the same time, they're like, is she going
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  Speaker 2: to find out she shouldn't be marrying this guy?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, well she's going to tell you that. At some point.
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  Speaker 6: She's gonna be like, why didn't you guys tell me?
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  Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying. If I would have married someone
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  Speaker 5: and all my friends knew and they didn't tell me
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  Speaker 5: before I went through with it, I would be livid.
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  Speaker 1: You would want to think if they tell the bride,
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  Speaker 1: if they tell the bride that they that she won't
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  Speaker 1: be made of honor anymore.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, I think.
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  Speaker 1: She'd be like, that's it. You're just in the wedding party.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody else likes you're my maid of honor.
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  Speaker 6: It is kind of true, though, whenever you're the the
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  Speaker 6: the person who brings the bad news, even though it's
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  Speaker 6: not your fault, at some point you lose that friendship
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  Speaker 6: because they're embarrassed by it or whatever whatever feelings they have.
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  Speaker 6: So if you if you ever deliver the bad news,
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  Speaker 6: you're going to be kind of out for the rest
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  Speaker 6: of your life.
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  Speaker 4: That's why I feel if you do it with other
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  Speaker 4: like with your other girlfriends, it's not it's not number one,
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  Speaker 4: it's not all on you. And then also it's not
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  Speaker 4: like it's like, oh, wow, everyone knows.
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  Speaker 1: You needed some sort of proof because be in denial.
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  Speaker 1: That's not true.
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  Speaker 5: But if the girl admitted it, then is now the
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  Speaker 5: group chat right or she is in the group chat
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  Speaker 5: asking us not to tell you.
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  Speaker 6: It's kind of like, if you're the bride, you want
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  Speaker 6: you kind of want the information and maybe she will
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  Speaker 6: still marry him. Maybe she'll be like, hey, listen, you
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  Speaker 6: gotta you know whatever it is.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, And I think I mean when you're telling her,
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  Speaker 4: you can be delicate about it, like, hey, however you
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  Speaker 4: want to deal with this, we have your back, not
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  Speaker 4: like oh, you can never speak to you again. It's
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  Speaker 4: like demanding she do something about it is not really
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  Speaker 4: the right way to go. But just being there to
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  Speaker 4: support her through what's going to be a really tough
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  Speaker 4: time for her, I think it's the best way to go.
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  Speaker 1: Evie. We're going to go to the phones and get
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  Speaker 1: advice for you, even though I think we hit every
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  Speaker 1: option possible. Unless someone's been through this before. Ooh, if
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  Speaker 1: you've been through this before and you know of a
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  Speaker 1: maid of honor sleeping with the groom, Wow, that's so crazy.
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  Speaker 1: That's so crazy is to think about it. But anyway,
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  Speaker 1: call us at eight seven seven nine three seven one
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  Speaker 1: story to nine six eight niney three. Evie, thanks for
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  Speaker 1: calling in.
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  Speaker 8: Thank you so much.
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  Speaker 2: I appreciate the help and buy that's.
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  Speaker 1: A tough one, all right, hold on the line. Thank
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  Speaker 1: you was a ghost. Less than an hour from now,
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  Speaker 1: we'll probably play a minute to win it for a
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  Speaker 1: thousand dollars thirty minutes from now. Kate McCrae tickets right now, though,
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  Speaker 1: everyone's kind about the evy situation. Ooh, and I hit
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  Speaker 1: two buttons at one time. Oh, marcella high.
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  Speaker 8: Hi guys, good morning.
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  Speaker 7: Hello, Hi, you're on the air.
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  Speaker 8: Sorry, can you hear me?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah? I hit two buttons. I screwed things up on
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  Speaker 1: the air. Are they I think so? Are both are
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  Speaker 1: hear me? No, there's only one person on there because
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  Speaker 1: I hit whatever. Hold on second, hold on, hold on
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  Speaker 1: one second, be right there, okay, go ahead.
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  Speaker 7: Sorry, Hi, good morning.
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  Speaker 8: Can you hear me?
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  Speaker 1: Yes?
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  Speaker 7: Okay.
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  Speaker 8: I am driving to work, and I heard this conversation
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  Speaker 8: with the bridesmaid and the guy getting caught in the
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  Speaker 8: kitchen cleaning up the kitchen. By the way, I love you, guys,
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  Speaker 8: and I am enraged by this conversation that this girl
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  Speaker 8: is having missed you. Her group friends are contemplating whether
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  Speaker 8: they should come clean or not. Absolutely not if I
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  Speaker 8: had a friend or even multiple friends like that, but
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  Speaker 8: are trying to keep me from walking the from not
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  Speaker 8: from telling me the truth. That is beast manature friends.
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  Speaker 8: They should definitely come clean and let this girl know
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  Speaker 8: to not marry this guy. This is ridiculous. Women need
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  Speaker 8: to come together, empower women another, love each other, not
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  Speaker 8: throw her into the lions. Dennis say, here you go.
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  Speaker 8: I didn't want to be they're a bad news marrying
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  Speaker 8: a cheater. Yeah, absolutely not.
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  Speaker 1: There's a text here that says, give me the bride's number.
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  Speaker 1: I'll tell her right now. If nobody tells her. She
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  Speaker 1: has no real friends. That's what the text says. That's
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  Speaker 1: pretty good.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, well, you know, I am with the other girl.
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  Speaker 8: I am so sorry, and my heart goes out to her.
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  Speaker 8: But if she has a group of friends like that,
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  Speaker 8: absolutely much, and then a Beyonce like that, she's much
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  Speaker 8: better than that girlfriend. No, you deserve a man that
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  Speaker 8: loves you that.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, made sell And thank you for calling in.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you Justice. Good morning, Hi, good morning, Hi, you're
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  Speaker 1: in the air.
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  Speaker 9: Hi. I was calling about the bridesmaid and the Beyonce situation.
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  Speaker 9: And I've been in situations like that before they weren't
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  Speaker 9: technically getting married, but where I've had to tell very
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  Speaker 9: close friends of mine about their boyfriends cheating on them.
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  Speaker 2: And in my.
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  Speaker 10: Opinion, it's always better to tell your friend the truth.
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  Speaker 10: If you're a true, honest friend, you will always tell
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  Speaker 10: your friends the truth. Even even if it's something that
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  Speaker 10: hurts them, and anyone that is debating on not telling
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  Speaker 10: her is not a true friend, especially when it's someone
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  Speaker 10: she's about to marry, like she has every right to
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  Speaker 10: know the truth because marriage is something you spend your
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  Speaker 10: life with someone and you don't want that coming out
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  Speaker 10: later on and questioning everything in between.
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  Speaker 1: Very good justice, Thank you for listening, Thanks for your passion. Mandy,
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  Speaker 1: good morning, Hi, good morning.
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  Speaker 3: During Yeah, I couldn't agree more with everyone else with cling.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I don't even understand why it's up for
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  Speaker 3: debate to be honest, I mean, to even call in
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  Speaker 3: and ask for advice. It's like, I think the obvious thing,
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  Speaker 3: it's obvious, what's the right thing to do is And
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  Speaker 3: to allow the girl responsible for this to stand next
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  Speaker 3: to her and while she says I do, would just
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  Speaker 3: be so immoral, and I don't understand why they would
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  Speaker 3: even debate that.
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  Speaker 1: It's a good point, Mandy, good point. Let me ask
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  Speaker 1: you this so many many years ago, right out of college,
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  Speaker 1: I had a friend, it was kind of a it
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  Speaker 1: was kind of a friend, and he had a girlfriend
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  Speaker 1: and we were at a club one time and I
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  Speaker 1: saw the girlfriend make it out with another dude. So
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  Speaker 1: I told my friend, right, I think that's that's what
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  Speaker 1: we're talking about here. Yeah, I told my friend that
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  Speaker 1: guy is no longer my friend. Yeah, and the woman
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  Speaker 1: lives on my street now, no, she does what are
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  Speaker 1: the chants?
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  Speaker 3: I know?
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  Speaker 1: And she's married to somebody else that there's always always uncomfortable,
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  Speaker 1: never around them.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I've said something like that, like if you are
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  Speaker 6: the bearer of bad news, a lot of times you
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  Speaker 6: get cut out no matter what happens. That's happened to
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  Speaker 6: a lot of us where you're like, hey, something's going on. Well,
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  Speaker 6: then they're embarrassed by and they don't want to talk
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  Speaker 6: to you again. You know, Yeah, it happens, but you're
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  Speaker 6: still doing the right thing. Let them decide where the
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  Speaker 6: relationship goes.
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  Speaker 7: Hi, Laurie Hate Hi there. I'm just calling regarding the
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  Speaker 7: bridesmaid and the fiance getting married. I honestly, the bridesmaid
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  Speaker 7: is obviously not a true friend because you would tell
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  Speaker 7: her and like I said before, wants a cheater, always
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  Speaker 7: a cheater. And if she gets upset about that and
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  Speaker 7: wants to continue and go through with the marriage, then
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  Speaker 7: she's got to find out down the road this guy
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  Speaker 7: is a cheater and he's gonna cheat.
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  Speaker 1: Again, all right, Laurie, thank you. Another time I had
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  Speaker 1: this friend of mine. He was living with a girl engaged,
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  Speaker 1: and next door to their house was some a young
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  Speaker 1: a young guy about nineteen twenty, and he would climb
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  Speaker 1: over the fence and sleep with her when the husband
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  Speaker 1: was gone.
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  Speaker 5: With the first I know, I'm over the fence.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, because they shared a backyard. And the kid who
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  Speaker 1: was doing that is the one who told me like
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  Speaker 1: I knew, and he was telling me everything out. But
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  Speaker 1: the guy, the husband, the fiance, was my friend. I
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  Speaker 1: decided not to say a word. No right, so I
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  Speaker 1: just kept it quiet. Sure enough, they broke up, the
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  Speaker 1: kid moved. I don't know where he is now, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know where the woman is now. And the guys
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  Speaker 1: no longer my friend. Yeah, so uh, it's win win
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  Speaker 1: for me in all these situations. Yeah, I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: less friends, less friends, the better is what I say.
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  Speaker 1: So there's that. So anyway, what's coming up with? Oh no,
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  Speaker 1: we're going to do some entertainment news and then we
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  Speaker 1: can do we can do a minute to win it
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  Speaker 1: into entertainment news. Let's do that, all right, so call
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  Speaker 1: to play minute to win it. And then the entertainment
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  Speaker 1: news we got coming up as well, is there anything
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  Speaker 1: any anything big coming in there in him the world?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: Two, Charlie's having some drama and then uh, I think
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  Speaker 4: there's some big Kim Kardashian things happening.
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  Speaker 1: Well good, Hey, Ashley, what's up you're on the air?
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  Speaker 11: Hi? Sorry, I'm driving second barely here. My suggestion is
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  Speaker 11: that the bridesmaid actually goes to the room and gives
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  Speaker 11: them ultimatum like either you tell her or I will't,
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  Speaker 11: and that way it puts it on him and then
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  Speaker 11: and then see where it goes from there, give them
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  Speaker 11: the opportunity to do the right thing, and that way,
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  Speaker 11: you know, that's where I'm at.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody said, have them all played? Never have I ever
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  Speaker 1: at a bachelotte party? And then everyone stare at her
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  Speaker 1: if she's as she lies, and then say, really, all
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  Speaker 1: have love