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Happy Hour #215: Frenemies (SATC S3 Ep 16) · Stuff Mom Never Told You

• 0:05
  Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and smitha. I'm opening to stuff
• 0:07
  Speaker 1: I've never told your reflection.
• 0:08
  Speaker 2: iHeart radio, and we are back with another watching of
• 0:21
  Speaker 2: Sex and the City. It is a happy hour episode
• 0:25
  Speaker 2: and like most of our happy hours, if you're doing
• 0:28
  Speaker 2: anything happy hour ish, do so responsibly. My voice is
• 0:32
  Speaker 2: still kind of wonky.
• 0:35
  Speaker 3: M hm.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like the more I try to have the
• 0:38
  Speaker 2: podcast or voice, the worse it gets. Yeah, so I'm
• 0:42
  Speaker 2: just gonna start screaming into the mic, just kidding. But
• 0:44
  Speaker 2: with all of that, Annie, are you doing anything happy
• 0:48
  Speaker 2: hour ish?
• 0:49
  Speaker 3: Yes, I still have some of my springtime Belgian ale
• 0:56
  Speaker 3: that my friend left and it's.
• 0:58
  Speaker 2: Perfect timing, perfect timing. M I am drinking a sorta yeah. Yeah,
• 1:06
  Speaker 2: Look so it was on sale this week. Yep. So
• 1:11
  Speaker 2: look those grocery prices.
• 1:14
  Speaker 1: I know, I know, I know.
• 1:15
  Speaker 2: It's just to get three free, yes, sir. And by
• 1:22
  Speaker 2: the way, none of these things are sponsors. Outlandishly, I
• 1:26
  Speaker 2: don't know why, but they're not currently. Of course, things
• 1:29
  Speaker 2: do change, and maybe one day you're listening to it
• 1:31
  Speaker 2: and they do not being a sponsor. That'd be cool.
• 1:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: The future is always emotion, as you had to says,
• 1:40
  Speaker 3: always emotion is the future.
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  Speaker 2: Let me get it right correctly said, thank you so much.
• 1:45
  Speaker 2: I prefer that I'm just kidding uh with that. Yes,
• 1:47
  Speaker 2: we are watching another episode of Sex and the City Together,
• 1:51
  Speaker 2: which any has not seen many of. We're slowly gaining
• 1:55
  Speaker 2: I feel like we've definitely gotten to the halfway mark.
• 1:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we've made some so by the time.
• 2:01
  Speaker 2: I'm sixty, we will have to finish this. If I'm
• 2:04
  Speaker 2: still podcasting before I retire, we will. We will have
• 2:11
  Speaker 2: finished this. No, we are on season three, episode sixteen.
• 2:15
  Speaker 2: The title is Friend of Mees. But before we get
• 2:17
  Speaker 2: into that, Anie, can you give us a quick look
• 2:21
  Speaker 2: back about what has been happening in season three.
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  Speaker 3: I feel that as we reached the halfway point in
• 2:30
  Speaker 3: season three, we're getting a lot of interesting plot lines.
• 2:34
  Speaker 2: Oh no, we're almost ending of season three.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, but I think that when I guess, it's like
• 2:40
  Speaker 3: the two thirds point when like Aiden broke up with
• 2:45
  Speaker 3: Carrie after she told him she had cheated on him
• 2:50
  Speaker 3: with Big, And then you've got Charlotte who married Trey.
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  Speaker 3: But now they're dealing with an impotence problem that he
• 2:59
  Speaker 3: doesn't seemed to have outside of her necessarily, which is
• 3:05
  Speaker 3: what the last episode was about Miranda is true. She's
• 3:13
  Speaker 3: trying to meet people and it's not going her away,
• 3:16
  Speaker 3: including getting braces in the last episode and kind of
• 3:19
  Speaker 3: getting teased a lot for that, and then Samantha doing
• 3:24
  Speaker 3: her Samantha thing, which has involved meeting Hugh Heffner, getting
• 3:28
  Speaker 3: kicked out of Hugh Hefner's party, and then working for
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  Speaker 3: a thirteen.
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  Speaker 1: Year old who had a lot of money.
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  Speaker 3: To throw away big at Mitzvah party. So I think
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  Speaker 3: I've said this before, but once again, it feels like
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  Speaker 3: there's a lot of disarray happening. There's a lot of like,
• 3:49
  Speaker 3: what's going on in my life happening? And what do
• 3:52
  Speaker 3: I want to do with my life happening?
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  Speaker 2: Is that thirties conundrum? Yeahties forties conundrum?
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  Speaker 1: Mm hmmmmmmm.
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  Speaker 2: So with that, yes, we are. Like I said on
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  Speaker 2: this episode of Frenemies, I'm gonna read you. I think
• 4:10
  Speaker 2: they had what's the tagline here? Once upon a time?
• 4:13
  Speaker 1: Never read me?
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  Speaker 2: The tagline I thought I did for the first time.
• 4:17
  Speaker 2: It just says Miranda's first date turns into a wake
• 4:20
  Speaker 2: when the guy drops dead. So I gave you a
• 4:26
  Speaker 2: big hint on this one. What do you think is
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  Speaker 2: going to happen in this episode.
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  Speaker 3: I think a big hint is generous because the title
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  Speaker 3: doesn't seem to relate to that at all, unless.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. Obviously, there are frenies.
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  Speaker 3: There are friends in your life who are also enemies.
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  Speaker 3: If somebody drops dead and you go the weak, the
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  Speaker 3: funeral is a place of a lot of drama. Can
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  Speaker 3: run into a lot of frenemies. Funeral horror. Awake, Oh
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  Speaker 3: is that awakes?
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  Speaker 1: Brush?
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  Speaker 2: No, ma'am, you can't say brush though.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm gonna go with brunch for this one.
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  Speaker 2: All right, brunch, All right, here we go, Here we go.
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  Speaker 2: You ready, Let's get into it. Let's see. How are
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  Speaker 2: you doing?
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  Speaker 4: My routine had become very routine. I was spending almost
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  Speaker 4: every night in working.
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  Speaker 1: I've been there.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, Okay, my date is three hours late.
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  Speaker 5: I'm being stood up, right.
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  Speaker 1: The date is three hours later. I'm done, that's no.
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  Speaker 5: And I'm wearing a new dress from Barney's and I'm
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  Speaker 5: eating out of plastic.
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  Speaker 1: Oh man, I'm sorry.
• 6:09
  Speaker 2: He doesn't even know me. I just bust more plastic
• 6:12
  Speaker 2: meals because my partner is out of town, so I'm
• 6:14
  Speaker 2: like linquisine. It is. It's just that I don't want
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  Speaker 2: to cook as much when he's not you know what
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  Speaker 2: I mean?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but I got a little.
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  Speaker 2: Smarter about picking him now.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I can't believe guys still stand girls up.
• 6:28
  Speaker 5: I can't believe I'm eating a frozen dinner.
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  Speaker 2: I'm such a cliche. You want to grab a drink
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  Speaker 2: or something?
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  Speaker 5: No, I can't.
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  Speaker 3: I have to work.
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  Speaker 4: I agree to teach these stupid learning Annex classes. They're
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  Speaker 4: calling it Bright Lights Date City O.
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  Speaker 5: I'm so embarrassed for you.
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  Speaker 4: Right buck, It's a seminar on where to meet men.
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  Speaker 4: Apparently I'm an expert.
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  Speaker 5: Tell them to steer clear of Starbucks.
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  Speaker 3: I have met I've met a guy at Starbucks and
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  Speaker 3: I dated him for a little bit.
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  Speaker 2: Did you go to a seminar?
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  Speaker 1: I do, just checking.
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  Speaker 2: Not that Hey, seminars are a bad thing. No, That's
• 7:09
  Speaker 2: why I think podcasts really came in, Like at the seminar, No,
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  Speaker 2: like how like how to's and what to do and
• 7:17
  Speaker 2: all these things historical looks and learning. Yeah, podcasts are
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  Speaker 2: the new seminars.
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  Speaker 1: Thanks true.
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  Speaker 2: Him stood up.
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  Speaker 4: At twenty seven, Miranda had done nothing. At thirty four,
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  Speaker 4: she decided she wasn't going to take this stand up
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  Speaker 4: lying down. Will may have given her the cold shoulder,
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  Speaker 4: but he had also given her his home number.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, is Will there?
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  Speaker 4: Who speaking? Hi?
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  Speaker 5: Miranda Hobbs, Miranda's mom will Will's I don't know how
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  Speaker 5: you raised your son, but he just stood me.
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  Speaker 2: Up for a day. Well guide Today.
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  Speaker 3: They're starting to Oh no, I think I would collapse.
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  Speaker 2: This is not technically brunch at the gym, but they
• 8:19
  Speaker 2: are eating breakfast.
• 8:20
  Speaker 1: It looks brunchy.
• 8:22
  Speaker 2: I will give you credit because they are eating breakfast.
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  Speaker 2: This is not quite much. There are no mimosas.
• 8:30
  Speaker 1: It's not it's not a bunch of out of mimosas.
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  Speaker 2: I believe that's a sexist city. Quote.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I can only get what I think. I think
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  Speaker 1: you're right just saying.
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  Speaker 3: I, actually, this isn't a fear I have if someone
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  Speaker 3: just dies and I send them a text and it's
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  Speaker 3: like mean or stupid.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I've thought about that darkly, Like when people are
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  Speaker 2: gone from classes like Zumba I've known and have it,
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  Speaker 2: don't see them. I'm like, what if something happened to them?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, this is the last thing I said.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, there are two million single men in the city.
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  Speaker 4: I have dated about a million of them. And all
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  Speaker 4: these men are right outside your door. So the next
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  Speaker 4: time you step out in the morning with your shoes
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  Speaker 4: and your toad and you're traveling cappuccino, take a look around,
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  Speaker 4: because I'm telling you our little metropolis it is stacked
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  Speaker 4: with men.
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  Speaker 2: You never know. I wonder what the statistics are now
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  Speaker 2: about how many single men are in New York City.
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  Speaker 1: That would be interesting.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna look it up as we're watching this.
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  Speaker 6: Could you be more specific, you mean, like places to
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  Speaker 6: meet men?
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  Speaker 2: Can you be more sure specific?
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  Speaker 1: That was pretty vague.
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  Speaker 4: Enjoy sporting sports spars, Mickey Mantles.
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  Speaker 6: Oh, I've gone there.
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  Speaker 1: All the men were married?
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  Speaker 4: Oh?
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  Speaker 2: Really?
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  Speaker 4: Really?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, I've always and this is kind of a Debbie
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  Speaker 3: downer from me, I've always felt a lot of these
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  Speaker 3: seminars are not super helpful. No, they're not, because they
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  Speaker 3: are just kind of like get after he like, No,
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  Speaker 3: I've been doing that.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, you are you married?
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  Speaker 4: No?
• 10:26
  Speaker 2: Oh, the age old question? Are you married?
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  Speaker 3: Ye?
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  Speaker 1: What qualifies you to give advice?
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  Speaker 3: Which, as we've discussed, plenty of advice to give, but
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  Speaker 3: that is a question that often comes up.
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  Speaker 4: I'm really not an expert on men.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, I just write about this stuff.
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  Speaker 1: Then why are we paying to hear you talk about it?
• 10:49
  Speaker 4: Hey?
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  Speaker 2: Come on, why are we here?
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  Speaker 1: Wow? They turned very quickly.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. According to West Side Spirit, as of January twenty
• 11:01
  Speaker 2: twenty six, about fifty three percent of adults in New
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  Speaker 2: York City are single. Hm, I'm.
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  Speaker 4: Do you know that there are no available men out there? Uh?
• 11:16
  Speaker 2: We're at my date's wake, so yes, gosh, we're so
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  Speaker 2: what there is a funeral? What do I know about men?
• 11:25
  Speaker 2: Is a bunch of relations.
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  Speaker 1: I guess I would go there. I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Well after saying that to his mother would be like
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  Speaker 2: wow or something.
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  Speaker 1: You should send something. I don't know why I go.
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  Speaker 2: Well, as as I have recently been to a funeral
• 11:42
  Speaker 2: that I was like, I don't I don't know why
• 11:43
  Speaker 2: I'm here. I don't know why here. It is awkward.
• 11:45
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, could you imagine playing this character who just died?
• 11:53
  Speaker 1: That's your whole your whole thing.
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  Speaker 2: Like I was supposed to date one of the sec
• 12:00
  Speaker 2: the city women, but.
• 12:03
  Speaker 1: I just dropped bed in the beginning instead.
• 12:09
  Speaker 2: I'm can I get you ladies anything? Oh Martini, No,
• 12:17
  Speaker 2: don't go anywhere. I'll be back. He's kind of cute.
• 12:23
  Speaker 4: He's kind of an asshole, really, Oh yes, indeed, but
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  Speaker 4: he seems great. Oh sure, that's what I thought too
• 12:30
  Speaker 4: when I started dating him. Then when we both knew
• 12:32
  Speaker 4: it wasn't working and I broke up with him. A hello, asshole,
• 12:35
  Speaker 4: you know, snide comments and rumors spreading works.
• 12:39
  Speaker 1: But he's so cute.
• 12:41
  Speaker 2: So how do you feel about when friends date an ex,
• 12:46
  Speaker 2: especially if they're giving you a warning bag this is
• 12:48
  Speaker 2: not a good person.
• 12:49
  Speaker 1: I don't I would not like it, I can admit it,
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  Speaker 1: especially if I told them.
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  Speaker 3: Unless they had demonstrably changed right, And even then I
• 13:03
  Speaker 3: would be suspicious. I kind of had this happen in
• 13:06
  Speaker 3: high school, but that was high school, so I don't
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  Speaker 3: think I would necessarily apply that to.
• 13:13
  Speaker 1: Adult life.
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  Speaker 3: But in high school, I was like, no, this guy
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  Speaker 3: sucks and I don't understand why if you're not listening
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  Speaker 3: to me.
• 13:26
  Speaker 5: How upset would you be if I went out with Jim,
• 13:29
  Speaker 5: Jim old boyfriend Jim.
• 13:31
  Speaker 4: He called me, oh, Marena, no money. He so needs
• 13:36
  Speaker 4: to be voted off the islands.
• 13:38
  Speaker 5: I know how you feel, But he was so sweet
• 13:41
  Speaker 5: on the phone. And it was eight years ago. Carrie,
• 13:44
  Speaker 5: maybe he's learned something. I mean, haven't you learned anything
• 13:47
  Speaker 5: in eight years?
• 13:47
  Speaker 2: Apparently not.
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  Speaker 5: He's alive and he asked me out.
• 13:52
  Speaker 1: I'm a little fraid stand the standards are low.
• 13:57
  Speaker 2: I mean, it's like you have someone dye and you're like, well, maybe.
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  Speaker 5: I am.
• 14:09
  Speaker 4: No.
• 14:10
  Speaker 2: Carrie wasn't sure that we would get along. She knew
• 14:12
  Speaker 2: me a long time ago. I've changed.
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  Speaker 4: I mean back then I was in a band called
• 14:18
  Speaker 4: Uncle Ted's Act and I could sit on my hand.
• 14:22
  Speaker 2: Wow, that's impressive. You didn't hear us play.
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I just feel I hear that excuse a lot. It's true,
• 14:28
  Speaker 3: you can change, but I feel like I hear it
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  Speaker 3: a lot, and that's all it is.
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  Speaker 1: It's an excuse.
• 14:34
  Speaker 2: Did you anybody's me?
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  Speaker 1: I mostly see it in public figures.
• 14:43
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah right, not in my personal experience.
• 14:54
  Speaker 5: I am.
• 14:57
  Speaker 4: Uptown. Charlotte decided this would be a a good time
• 15:00
  Speaker 4: to spend with her real old friends, the sisters of Kappa.
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: Cap to force a friendship.
• 15:06
  Speaker 1: Might be brunch. It's so great to see you, Charlotte.
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: We've really missed you, and.
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: I I'm uncomfortable with this.
• 15:14
  Speaker 2: I love that tying a sweater around your neck means
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: that you're an elitist somehow.
• 15:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you've got a sweater. I don't need it, but
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: I have one. Hey, Jim, come on, just happy memories.
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: Carrie doesn't walk all over people. She sure did with me. Well,
• 15:38
  Speaker 2: maybe that's because you're an ass whole.
• 15:40
  Speaker 5: I'm a soul.
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: She's the asshole.
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: She never called me once after we broke up.
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  Speaker 4: That's because you're a whole.
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: She's the asshole.
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: She's not asshole.
• 15:49
  Speaker 6: Thank you, sweetie.
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: You know what, Never call me again. You're breaking up
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: with me?
• 15:54
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, the fancy lawyer ladies breaking up with me
• 15:58
  Speaker 3: like I give aush.
• 16:01
  Speaker 2: Like third grade antics. Oh wow, he's just angry.
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: He's just been hanging on to that for years. Come on, Charlotte,
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: you're my wife. That's not you take it off. That's weird.
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: Line. It's supposed to be sexy.
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: You're my wife.
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: Okay, shouldn't you find your wife sexy? It's a weird,
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: like Charlotte line, look at me. Yeah, and also, shouldn't
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: you have seen your woman late naked?
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: He's got some repressed this is your wife.
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah I'm not I'm agonna and I'm not a whore.
• 16:51
  Speaker 4: I'm your wife, and I'm sexual and I love you.
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: You know, the thing goes a lady in the streets,
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: She'll say, and then you fill out the rest. That's
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: how I was supposed to go.
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: That's what you ow. Yes, as the saying goes.
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: As that saying goal, that's what you want. That's what
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: Ludacros said.
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: That's what he said. Therefore we must read the heart.
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: Let go get it.
• 17:25
  Speaker 4: I am, and I have to tell you I don't
• 17:30
  Speaker 4: know a whole lot about it, but I do know this.
• 17:32
  Speaker 4: You are not going to meet them sitting in a
• 17:33
  Speaker 4: learning annex class.
• 17:34
  Speaker 6: So ladies, grab your bags. Come on, we're not getting
• 17:40
  Speaker 6: any younger. Chop chop, that's right. I'm just trying to
• 17:46
  Speaker 6: give your money's worth, all right.
• 17:48
  Speaker 4: I took them around the corner to a bar and
• 17:50
  Speaker 4: took my three hundred dollars and bought them drinks.
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: This reminds me of when I was a kid and
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: I asked my mom, how do you meet men? Is
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: it as at a bar? And she was like no.
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: I got to hit on a couple of times in
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: the bar, but I was so goofy that I was like, no,
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: I don't like you, like I was like, not about it.
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: I was mostly kind of like I'm here with my
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: friends leaving.
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, usually was the situation.
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: All right, well, I am going to count the breakfast
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: as brunch. There may have been a brunch. It didn't
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: look brunch. It's just like a lunch. But we're going
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: to give you that I throw in. There was a wake,
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: which I told you that there was a wake. Yeah.
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: And there were finemies, which is in the title.
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: Look, I feel like that title is not giving me
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: a lot to.
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: Work work with, which is why you said there's front
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: of mees.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: I did my best with the knowledge that I had.
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: I'll give you information that I had an eighty eight
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: at a hundred on that one, that one that was
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: hibee higbee hibee, because you know, you you danced around there,
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: you danced around there. There were there were lots no
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: I I kind of forgot this episode myself, and then
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: I read through it. I was like, oh yeah, yeah,
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: because it wasn't like two consequential yeah, Like there wasn't
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: like a huge analysis. There's not really big name stars
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: in here or guest stars that that's kind of like,
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: oh yeah, I remember this person, this person. Uh, but
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: it does kind of open up to like the understanding
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: of the extremes against Charlotte versus Samantha, which is always
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: a thing typically in here. I've always thought because of
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: the way this is set up, and I know in
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: the movie we can't, Oh, you haven't seen the movie.
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: You have seen the movie.
• 20:03
  Speaker 4: I have not.
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: You have not seen the movie. It like we know
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: the controversy comes later. We've talked about this before about
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: Samantha not returning that the actress Kim Katrall and Sarah
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: just caa partner, had a falling out quite huge and
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: still is at this time. But like they try to
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: rewrite Samantha as the best friend to Carrie, and I'm like,
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: in all of the show, it looks like Miranda has
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: always been the best best friend. They tried not to
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: like necessarily like actually pinpoint, but to me, I always
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: saw that, And this kind of a situates the point
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: of them being like, we're not getting involved here that conversation.
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: Later they have even more kind of like connections through
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: relationships some of that. But anyway, all of that to
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: say is this is one of those episodes that I'm like,
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: oh yeah, oh yeah, type the death of the dude,
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: I kind of forgot.
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: I was like, who dies.
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: The daint that never pans out?
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: I mean that would suck. It would Yeah. I have
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: to say I.
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: Don't necessarily blame Miranda, but I would never, ever, ever
• 21:18
  Speaker 3: in a million years, get on the phone with somebody's
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: mom and be like, well you've raised here.
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: Miranda makes quite a few mistakes in this episode, like
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: she broke the girl code.
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I mean, at least she came to her
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: senses and was like, no, you are an at all.
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: Right, at least she defends Carrie when she sees it
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: and do's call it out. But like typically when someone
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: tells you oh yeah, which I actually had that happen,
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: not that it's someone that I dated. It was just
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: like do you know this person? I was like I do,
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: and they're like, what do you think. I was like,
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: don't do it?
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: M M, and she did.
• 22:06
  Speaker 3: Listen, Yeah, And we've talked about this before. It's it's
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: it's a hard I haven't had that so much as
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: I've had people start people in relationships that I just
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: don't think are good relationships. And it's hard to know
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: the line of like when do you say I actually
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: really think you should break up or you know, whatever
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: it is. But it is difficult, and I mean i've
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: I don't think i've ever done the eye told you so,
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: but I've been tempted.
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: I've been tempted before.
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: I try not to, especially because you never know if
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: they go back to each other and then you're the
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: bad guy. I do both of them. I've had that
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: happen a couple of times, like they did break up
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: or something bad happened, and then I'm like, yeah, you
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: should never see them again all a sudden, like we're
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: getting married. I'm like, ohrd.
• 23:05
  Speaker 3: Extremely, extremely But there is also something I feel, and
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: most of the things that have happened with me and
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: my friends usually there's something kind of nice about I
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: got my I said my piece, and at a certain point,
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: I can't control what they do. But I've said my piece, yeah,
• 23:29
  Speaker 3: and I've they've they're gonna do it.
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: Like, I'll support you. I'll never like let them isolate you.
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: But mm hmm. You know how I feel, Yes, you
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: know how I feel. I'll be there for you, right,
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: But you know what I said, yep, I said.
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: Well, I said, oh, okay, we've got two more episodes
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: left in the season. Yeah, I'm excited this is this
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: was a good season. I think it like with all
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: of the like craziness in the season and then we
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: approach for I think that's when that all the chaos
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: kind of happens with like actual drama behind the show.
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: H So it'd be interesting to see if it has
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: affected because I never knew it until way after the
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: show was done. There was so much chaos.
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah, well we'll be on the lookout for that on
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: the yes, yes, yes, well I'm excited too because I
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: have no idea as we reach the finale what it
• 24:26
  Speaker 3: could be.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: Yes, and we're going to try to get a.
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: Guest hopefully, Yeah, as we do.
• 24:32
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• 24:37
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