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Johnjay and Rich Present: SECOND DATE UPDATE · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Are we getting ready for second Ate Update? Lloyd, give
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  Speaker 1: us a little bit about what you're going through.
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  Speaker 2: So I went out with this really really cool girl
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  Speaker 2: and we stayed out really really late, basically till this
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  Speaker 2: pub closed. And yeah, I can't get a hold of her.
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  Speaker 2: I was just wondering what was going on.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, we want to hear the full story and then
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  Speaker 3: we'll call her up and find out why she's blowing
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  Speaker 3: you off.
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  Speaker 1: Second Ate Update starts next with John, Jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 4: The next segment we're going to do is called second
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  Speaker 4: Date Update because that's what we're going to try and
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  Speaker 4: get and that's what the bit is called.
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  Speaker 5: Second Ate Update starts right now on John Jay and Rigg.
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  Speaker 1: John, Jayan and Rich. It's time for second Ate Update.
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  Speaker 1: Lloyd went on a date.
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  Speaker 3: We're gonna find out why there's no second date. He
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  Speaker 3: thinks that she's ghosting him. We're going to find out why.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, Lloyd, what's your story?
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  Speaker 2: I went out with the girl Glynn met recently. We
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  Speaker 2: just went out for like dinner, and she was really
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  Speaker 2: really cool. I thought the date went really great. We
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  Speaker 2: have some drinks, we laughed the whole time and basically
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  Speaker 2: stayed till the place closed down. We hugged, you know
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  Speaker 2: a couple of times, and she said she had fun,
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  Speaker 2: and I figured i'd hear from her the next day.
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  Speaker 2: But it's been a few days and nothing, So I
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  Speaker 2: keep kind of thinking about the night, trying to figure
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  Speaker 2: out what went wrong. Maybe I came on too strong.
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  Speaker 2: So I figured i'd call and you know, see if
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  Speaker 2: you guys get her on the phone.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, you said you thought you would hear from her.
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  Speaker 6: Have you reached out and she just didn't text back
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  Speaker 6: or you were just waiting for her to reach out.
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  Speaker 2: Oh no, I've reached out.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, And how did you guys meet? You said you
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  Speaker 6: just kind of met her, but you glazed over that part.
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  Speaker 1: You know. You said something at the end that you
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  Speaker 1: said you thought that maybe you're too much.
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  Speaker 2: What was the phrase you used, Oh like that i'd
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  Speaker 2: maybe come on too strong see her again, that's all.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you said you came on too strong.
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  Speaker 3: Like that part I don't understand, because if she stayed
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  Speaker 3: with you and closed out the night, what part was
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  Speaker 3: coming on too strong?
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  Speaker 1: Exactly?
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  Speaker 2: That's what I mean. I mean, uh, least stayed there
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  Speaker 2: till the place shut down, So I figured there was,
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  Speaker 2: you know, some chemistry there, but yeah, it's just weird.
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  Speaker 2: I was hoping you guys could figure.
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  Speaker 1: Did she get up and try to leave and you
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  Speaker 1: grab her and say sit, ye, they're still open right?
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  Speaker 2: No? Absolutely not.
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  Speaker 7: No.
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  Speaker 2: It was just like I had told her at one
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  Speaker 2: point that I was having like a lot of fun.
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  Speaker 2: I was just honest, you know, I was having a
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  Speaker 2: lot of fun and I wanted to meet up with
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  Speaker 2: her again, and she said, yeah, that'd be great. And
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  Speaker 2: now kind of nothing, you.
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  Speaker 5: Know, Okay, you said a couple of hugs. Describe the hug.
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  Speaker 2: Briefly when we met for the first time in person
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  Speaker 2: and then later on at the end of the night,
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  Speaker 2: like it was just really seemed kind of normal and
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  Speaker 2: sweet and affectionate and yeah, that's that's it.
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  Speaker 5: She didn't a frame you where she leaned in with
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  Speaker 5: the shoulder and like no, no touching and just like
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  Speaker 5: you're a neat friend hug. You didn't get one of those.
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  Speaker 5: It was a it was a let's go out again hug.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, Okay, Well, I mean we'll call her and
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  Speaker 3: find out see what's up.
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  Speaker 1: How long ago was the date?
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  Speaker 5: It was like a few days though, Okay, all right.
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  Speaker 1: What's her name?
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  Speaker 2: Nora?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so hang tight, we're gonna get her on the phone.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna find out why she's blowing you off. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: we'll take a quick break and we will come back
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  Speaker 1: give us her number. A second ate update continues next
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  Speaker 1: with John Jaye Rich.
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  Speaker 3: John Jaye Rich, we are in the middle of second
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  Speaker 3: date update Lloyd and Nora.
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  Speaker 1: Lloyd, Lloyd all Nolan.
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  Speaker 5: Voyd didn't get the call back, and he's feeling kind
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  Speaker 5: of annoyed. Could it be the lack of chemistry that
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  Speaker 5: made Nora think, Nora, way, will I ever make the
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  Speaker 5: sweet love to Lloyd? We were about to find out?
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  Speaker 1: That was beautiful, What a beautiful setup. So, Lloyd, we're
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  Speaker 1: gonna call Nora right now.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, thanks, So you stay a little quiet and
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  Speaker 3: when you jump in at the right moment, we're going
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  Speaker 3: to find out why she's blowing you off.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 7: Hi, this is Norah.
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  Speaker 4: Hi, Norah, this is Peyton with John jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 4: We just wanted to call and talk to you on
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  Speaker 4: the radio really quickly if you got time this morning.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, sure, Norah. We got a call from a guy.
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  Speaker 1: Seems really sweet, says he.
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  Speaker 3: Went out on a date with a girl and had
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  Speaker 3: a great time, and now she's ignoring his calls and Norah,
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  Speaker 3: you are this girl. So we thought we would call
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  Speaker 3: you and get your side of the story of why
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  Speaker 3: you're blowing him off. If that's okay calling about.
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  Speaker 7: Lloyd, Oh, Lloyd, Lloyd Okay. I mean, I wasn't a
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  Speaker 7: bad guy. You know, we had like pretty good conversations.
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  Speaker 7: You know, you're revising your dinner. There was no like
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  Speaker 7: awkwards silence. But then the bathroom incident happened.
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  Speaker 1: The bathroom incident. I don't believe he brought up the
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  Speaker 1: bathroom incident. I'm hoping not.
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  Speaker 3: The bathroom incident is you both go into the bathroom
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  Speaker 3: and tear it up because you're passionate for each other.
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  Speaker 7: I wish that was the story, but it is not.
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  Speaker 7: I'm surprised he didn't tell you this. Yeah, so you know,
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  Speaker 7: he asked for the checks. I figured, like, you know,
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  Speaker 7: he's gonna pay. But then after he asked for the check,
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  Speaker 7: he went to the bathroom and he was gone for
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  Speaker 7: literally like twenty minutes, and that's not an exaggeration. He
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  Speaker 7: was gone so long the server came back like three times,
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  Speaker 7: asking if we were ready to pay, and I got mortified,
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  Speaker 7: you know, her keep coming up and asking and I
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  Speaker 7: was like, you know, I'll just cover the bill. And
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  Speaker 7: then you know, he comes back from the bathroom and
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  Speaker 7: I'm looking at him and he just like, you know,
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  Speaker 7: looks like he's been through something.
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  Speaker 1: Like sweaty. Yeah, like he has some stomach issues.
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  Speaker 7: Like what happened?
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  Speaker 4: Is that?
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  Speaker 1: Poor guy?
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  Speaker 3: Poor guy to have that. I think we've all been there,
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  Speaker 3: but to do that on a date.
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  Speaker 4: And maybe she won't notice she's gonna So is it
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  Speaker 4: just the bathroom thing that you're like, I'm out on?
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  Speaker 7: Not exactly. So, you know, he insisted on paying me back,
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  Speaker 7: which was fine, but he's like, I'll just cash app
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  Speaker 7: you and I'm like, uh, yeah, I don't have cash app.
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  Speaker 7: And then he proceeded to tell me that he does
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  Speaker 7: not have a bank account.
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  Speaker 1: Hmmm, don't you have to have a bank account for
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  Speaker 1: those apps? Cash app?
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  Speaker 5: You can just you can just kept cash on your
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  Speaker 5: cash app and it doesn't have to be part of
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  Speaker 5: the bank.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: No.
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  Speaker 7: He gave me like total ick energy. Between that and
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  Speaker 7: like him disappear into the bathroom. I was like, yeah,
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  Speaker 7: I don't think.
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  Speaker 6: So did you ask why, like why you wouldn't have
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  Speaker 6: a bank account, Like maybe he's got some maybe bank
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  Speaker 6: screwed him over one day, He's like never holding my
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  Speaker 6: money there again.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I no doubt that he literally keeps his money
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  Speaker 1: and is safe in his house.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, like cash.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know who he is too. I actually thought
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  Speaker 1: it'd be fun to kind of like rob him a lesson.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, it's not just something you do for.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of people know who this guy is.
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  Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I can't wait to know about it.
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  Speaker 2: Nora, You're you're seriously ghosting me because I don't have
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  Speaker 2: a bank account.
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  Speaker 6: That's all, by the way.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Hey, what's up. I'm just trying to understand why
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  Speaker 2: is that such a red flag? Not not having a
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  Speaker 2: bank account doesn't mean that I'm sketchy.
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  Speaker 7: Uh yeah, it kind of does, like left me with
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  Speaker 7: the bill and then you can't like then know me
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  Speaker 7: or zell me like a normal person. What am I
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  Speaker 7: supposed to think?
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  Speaker 2: All right, well, it's actually kind of complicated.
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  Speaker 7: Uh yeah, clearly, like you can't even communicate and you're
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  Speaker 7: confused about why I'm ghost you.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, it wasn't even like that. My buddy was trying
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  Speaker 2: to help me get some money years ago, and he
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  Speaker 2: ended up ruining my bank account standing and I had
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  Speaker 2: to close my account and I haven't gone to another
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  Speaker 2: bank yet.
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  Speaker 7: So what I'm hearing is you tried to scam a bank.
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  Speaker 1: But that's not what you said.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, it was ten years ago my friend had put
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  Speaker 2: me onto Yeah, it's I guess it would be. You know,
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  Speaker 2: I didn't understand at the time it was a scam,
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  Speaker 2: but I started credit cards that I couldn't pay. I
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  Speaker 2: had to shut everything down, and yeah, I've just been
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  Speaker 2: out of the banking system since then.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, that sounds like a lot of drama. And that's
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  Speaker 7: not exactly something just like bounced back from.
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  Speaker 1: Let's shift gears from the banking problems to the problems.
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  Speaker 2: I did this ten years ago and it was a mistake,
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  Speaker 2: and you think I'm just automatically undateable.
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  Speaker 7: But also, Lloyd, what happened in the bathroom?
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  Speaker 6: She's like, actually, do you want to do we need
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  Speaker 6: details to the next topic.
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  Speaker 5: What did happen in the bathroom? And why not send
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  Speaker 5: her a text going, Hey, not feeling great, I'll be
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  Speaker 5: out in a minute.
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  Speaker 2: Oh man, you guys, this is this is terrible.
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  Speaker 4: What happened in the bathroom is terrible.
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  Speaker 1: Get out. All four of us had asked you, what
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  Speaker 1: happened in the bathroom? Does he really does not want
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  Speaker 1: to say.
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  Speaker 2: It's like a nightmare. Thanks a lot. I'm really glad
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  Speaker 2: it called.
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  Speaker 5: Oh no oh, how did you not think that wasn't
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  Speaker 5: going to come up? Though you called us?
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  Speaker 2: I just yeah, had just having it was a time,
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  Speaker 2: all right. It was the best of times. It was
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  Speaker 2: the worst of times.
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  Speaker 6: So you actually had it was like an issue. You
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  Speaker 6: weren't like trying to leave her with the bill. It
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  Speaker 6: wasn't an.
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  Speaker 1: Intentional never do that, no, okay.
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  Speaker 6: I mean he did attempt to pay, that's true.
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  Speaker 4: We just didn't have what she has, all right.
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  Speaker 1: So Nora, would you like to see Lloyd again and
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  Speaker 1: do a second date?
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna go with no.
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  Speaker 7: One in the bathroom.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm really glad that you answered. Thanks a lot.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, he's no second date, you guys, no second date?
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  Speaker 1: All right, Thanks for being on our show, both of you.
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  Speaker 1: That's second date update with John, Jay and Rich