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- 0:00Speaker 1: We got a question for our American mamas. Dear mamas,
- 0:03Speaker 1: when your leftist friends post hateful nonsense online, do you
- 0:06Speaker 1: engage or just let them be? Well, let's ask our
- 0:10Speaker 1: American mamas.
- 0:12Speaker 2: Alma mama, she said, enjoining us.
- 0:25Speaker 1: Now, our American mama is Terry Neediville and Kimberly Burlasin.
- 0:28Speaker 1: Oh boy, there's a lot of nonsense around here. There's
- 0:32Speaker 1: the you can't criticize Kamala because your girls are watching.
- 0:36Speaker 3: Uh.
- 0:36Speaker 1: There's the okay, you said Joe was too old, Well,
- 0:39Speaker 1: Donald Trump's just as old. Why don't you vote for Kamala.
- 0:41Speaker 1: There's you got to stop your hate because we hate
- 0:45Speaker 1: Donald Trump. If you vote for Donald Trump, then you're hateful.
- 0:48Speaker 1: So that means you're a hateful person and we hate
- 0:51Speaker 1: you for that. There's all kinds of stuff out there
- 0:54Speaker 1: right now. It's really insane.
- 0:55Speaker 4: It's insanity. This was actually the topic around the kitchen
- 0:58Speaker 4: table last night. You know, we're at Terry's house and
- 1:01Speaker 4: we talked about all of these friends.
- 1:03Speaker 3: It's crazy.
- 1:04Speaker 4: It reminds me of when Trump was running last time,
- 1:06Speaker 4: and just what they spew and what they say. And
- 1:09Speaker 4: I noticed that most of my conservative friends don't say much,
- 1:12Speaker 4: you know what I mean, or if they do say something,
- 1:14Speaker 4: it's a very balanced thing, you know. You know, I
- 1:17Speaker 4: love all my friends, you know, that kind of thing.
- 1:19Speaker 4: But my leftist friends, oh, just the meanness. And I
- 1:24Speaker 4: asked your son, Terry, I said, Slade, what do you think.
- 1:27Speaker 4: Do you think we respond or not? In Slay said, no,
- 1:31Speaker 4: it's their space. It's they can say whatever they want,
- 1:34Speaker 4: you know, and if you don't like it, you just
- 1:36Speaker 4: keep moving. I was like, yeah, you're right, you're right,
- 1:39Speaker 4: you're right. And then he said And then I asked
- 1:41Speaker 4: your husband. I said, what about you? And he said,
- 1:43Speaker 4: you know, it depends on the moment. It depends on
- 1:47Speaker 4: the moment the person you're talking to. Because there's some
- 1:50Speaker 4: people it doesn't matter what you say, right, they're not
- 1:53Speaker 4: going to hear it. It depends on and he goes,
- 1:55Speaker 4: sometimes if I'm in that mood, yeah, I'll go at them,
- 1:58Speaker 4: you know, I'll say my part, you know, But for
- 1:59Speaker 4: the most part, I just let them say whatever they
- 2:02Speaker 4: want to say. But you and I we want to fight.
- 2:06Speaker 3: Well, it's here's the thing with me. Both of them
- 2:09Speaker 3: are correct. In my opinion. Slate is correct on social media,
- 2:14Speaker 3: just keep I just keep scrolling because I do value friendships.
- 2:17Speaker 3: And in the end, I know God is an ultimate control.
- 2:20Speaker 3: The only thing that I can do is vote the
- 2:23Speaker 3: way that I want to vote, and then do what
- 2:24Speaker 3: we're doing right now, and that's telling people the truth,
- 2:27Speaker 3: getting the truth out. Kevin is right when you're with
- 2:30Speaker 3: somebody in person, when you're talking to somebody, if they
- 2:34Speaker 3: engage me in person, there's no way I cannot not respond.
- 2:39Speaker 4: There's no way.
- 2:40Speaker 3: So I'll do it in a loving way, and I
- 2:42Speaker 3: accept what that even if what they say to me
- 2:44Speaker 3: sounds utterly ridiculous. I'll just say, that's interesting, but what
- 2:49Speaker 3: about this? And then I when I start viewing information
- 2:52Speaker 3: and facts, they don't a lot of times they don't
- 2:55Speaker 3: even know that happen, don't know it. They are like,
- 2:58Speaker 3: what are you talking about? And is this Fox News?
- 3:01Speaker 3: And I'll say, I don't even watch Fox anymore. What
- 3:04Speaker 3: I do now, because I want to be informed, is
- 3:07Speaker 3: I go online and I look to see.
- 3:10Speaker 4: You know, you can find.
- 3:12Speaker 3: Whatever you want to find online. It depends on what
- 3:14Speaker 3: political I'll they land on.
- 3:15Speaker 1: Sure, somebody's putting something out there that will that will
- 3:18Speaker 1: tickle your fancy.
- 3:18Speaker 3: So the best thing you can do is find someone
- 3:21Speaker 3: like Megan Kelly, Joe Rogan, people who are unwilling to bend,
- 3:27Speaker 3: even if they're if they dislike Trump. Like sometimes Megan
- 3:29Speaker 3: Kelly will say things I'm like, oh, she's so hard
- 3:31Speaker 3: on him, but she's telling the truth. It is the truth.
- 3:34Speaker 1: And I think Bill O. Riley's kind of in the
- 3:36Speaker 1: same Yeah.
- 3:37Speaker 3: Yeah, he's just harder to listen to because he's so
- 3:40Speaker 3: he's just so unabashedly con no.
- 3:44Speaker 4: I get that, and I don't want.
- 3:45Speaker 3: Nobody wants to talk to somebody who talk to somebody
- 3:48Speaker 3: who feels like they know it all.
- 3:50Speaker 1: This brings me back to Teddy Roosevelt. One of my
- 3:52Speaker 1: favorite quotes from Teddy Roosevelt. And by the way, if
- 3:55Speaker 1: you really want to get inspired, go read go read
- 3:57Speaker 1: quotes from Teddy Roosevelt. Go read quotes from Calvin Coolidge too.
- 4:00Speaker 1: That's a very underrated preident anyway, Teddy Roosevelt said, nobody
- 4:03Speaker 1: cares how much you know until they know how much
- 4:07Speaker 1: you care.
- 4:08Speaker 4: Yes, that's a great one.
- 4:09Speaker 1: I've heard it, and so until you're actually and I
- 4:12Speaker 1: absolutely agree with Kevin. There are times I just keep scrolling.
- 4:16Speaker 1: But last week we did remember we did that segment.
- 4:19Speaker 1: This was actually during the Republican National Convention, and we
- 4:22Speaker 1: did the segment on the don't trust a theology that
- 4:25Speaker 1: says a God will save a man from one bullet,
- 4:28Speaker 1: but he won't save a whole classroom from him. Yes,
- 4:30Speaker 1: And I was saying, boy, what happened was I had
- 4:33Speaker 1: a friend who had posted that, and I had several
- 4:34Speaker 1: friends that had posted it, and I just scrolled by him,
- 4:37Speaker 1: and then I got to one and I really felt
- 4:39Speaker 1: like the Holy Spirit said, you know, I think you
- 4:41Speaker 1: can engage in this one. And so I went ahead
- 4:43Speaker 1: and wrote back and went, Okay, if this is your idea,
- 4:46Speaker 1: how do you explain? Noah? I said, I said, I
- 4:49Speaker 1: love you. If this is your idea of theology, how
- 4:52Speaker 1: do you explain Noah? And within thirty minutes he took
- 4:55Speaker 1: the post down.
- 4:56Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 4:56Speaker 1: And so there's a way to engage if you if.
- 5:00Speaker 3: You respect each other, and if you're willing to learn
- 5:02Speaker 3: gain from their perspective like we are a lot of times,
- 5:06Speaker 3: the ones online that Kimberly is talking about on Facebook,
- 5:10Speaker 3: it is so hateful when they say I don't engage
- 5:13Speaker 3: in that because I think it's only gonna cause hurt feelings.
- 5:17Speaker 3: I'm going to say something I regret and it's gonna
- 5:21Speaker 3: I'm gonna lose a friend. I just think, gosh, that's
- 5:23Speaker 3: not one in particular. She said something said, I believe this,
- 5:27Speaker 3: this is this, but I believe this for everybody, and
- 5:29Speaker 3: I thought, no, we all believe that for everybody. We
- 5:31Speaker 3: all want that. I don't know how the media is
- 5:34Speaker 3: able to get away with shoring up this narrative that
- 5:39Speaker 3: we don't care, that we don't love everybody, no matter
- 5:42Speaker 3: if you're gay, straight, black. I don't know how they
- 5:44Speaker 3: get away with that. But that's why I feel like
- 5:47Speaker 3: that their audience is dwindling. People are opening their eyes.
- 5:51Speaker 1: They're seeing there will be an opportunity for you to
- 5:54Speaker 1: have that conversation. Yeah, wait for the right opportunity. If
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- 6:04Speaker 1: thank you so much. Thanks