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Episode 63 - You Minding Your Own Business The Fall Before The Rise. · You Minding Your Own Business

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Good morning, Welcome to You Minding your Own
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Speaker 1: about me. I'm a certified recovery, healing and recovery coach.
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Speaker 1: It's all about helping people on their paths and their
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Speaker 1: journeys to a new and better you. I have ten
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Speaker 1: podcasts that talk about different versions of healing and recovery.
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Speaker 1: This particular podcast is all about you minding your own
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Speaker 1: business instead of you worrying about everybody else, instead of
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Speaker 1: you worrying about what everybody else is doing, instead of
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Speaker 1: you trying to live up to everybody else's expectations and
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Speaker 1: lowering yourselves in order to be captain saber hos, bill bears,
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Speaker 1: bill dolls, see fillers and people leazers. You going through
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Speaker 1: all these hoops and bounds. Be loved life, to appreciate it, valued,
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Speaker 1: want it, needed to be a part of something, to
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Speaker 1: be validated, to be approved though, to be accepted, for
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Speaker 1: somebody to know your worth. Do somebody know your value?
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Speaker 1: And you basically trying to prove yourself to people that's
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Speaker 1: not even worth you doing all of that. You jumping
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Speaker 1: through hoops and bounds, You trying to make sure everybody
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Speaker 1: else is good, trying to be the person that's going
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Speaker 1: to be the right or die. And yet the person
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Speaker 1: that you're doing that for, or the people that you're
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Speaker 1: doing that for, they're not doing the same for you. Now,
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Speaker 1: this particular podcast is basically what we're talking about this
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Speaker 1: particular season is about success, financial financial healing. Now, a
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Speaker 1: lot of people don't understand that we don't normally talk
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Speaker 1: about financial healing. We always have about financial success. We
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Speaker 1: always talk about how to go about being successful, but
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Speaker 1: we never talk about what happens when extenuating circumstances or
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Speaker 1: something you did caused you to lose everything accountability. Now.
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Speaker 1: You can't be successful again if you're doing things the
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Speaker 1: same way that you did them twenty thirty years ago.
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Speaker 1: Just like you can't make a marriage work or still
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Speaker 1: have a marriage or any type of relationship if the
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Speaker 1: people that you're dealing with are still the same type
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Speaker 1: people now. Mind you, there are a lot of people
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Speaker 1: like myself who lost their job and the rug was
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Speaker 1: pulled from up under them. And see people at like
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Speaker 1: this stuff hasn't been happening before. Everything that's happening now
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Speaker 1: has been happening. Why because when it comes to negativity,
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Speaker 1: it's gonna continue doing the same thing until it finds
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Speaker 1: the fools, the dummies, and the people that are lost
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Speaker 1: souls that are confused, that are easily to be manipulated.
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Speaker 1: They can basically do what they want to too. It's
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Speaker 1: like a vampire that sucks the life out of you. Okay,
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Speaker 1: well guess what. Your jobs ain't no different. So today
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Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about the fact of the matter. How
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Speaker 1: do you overcome losing your job? How do you overcome
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Speaker 1: the rug being pulled from up under you? When you
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Speaker 1: go to work every single day, go to work, you
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Speaker 1: do your job. You don't take no time off, and
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Speaker 1: then one day they tell you you're being let go. You
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Speaker 1: did nothing wrong. They let you go because they're downsizing.
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Speaker 1: They let you go because your position is no longer needed.
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Speaker 1: What happens next, what happens next when that happens. And
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Speaker 1: the reason that this needs to be talked about, which
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Speaker 1: is I don't which I don't know why it's not,
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Speaker 1: because that's the part that's missing in a lot of
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Speaker 1: these conversations. You're talking about people being successful, but you're
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Speaker 1: not talking about what happens when the rug gets pulled
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Speaker 1: from up under you. How do you not only become successful,
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Speaker 1: but to maintain that success. How do you get another
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Speaker 1: job and be able to stay there for twenty thirty
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Speaker 1: years considering that none of these jobs and all honesty,
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Speaker 1: really wants you to retire. They don't, and you've heard
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Speaker 1: them now say it. It's just a lot of people
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Speaker 1: are saying out loud what they were saying is behind
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Speaker 1: your back for decades. That's how these people really felt.
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Speaker 1: When I heard Eon Musk's mother say the whole reason
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Speaker 1: for having babies is for workers. When people heard that,
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Speaker 1: especially women, I ain't having no babies. If that's the
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Speaker 1: only reason you want me to have kids, I'm not
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Speaker 1: having no kids. A lot of females are really scared
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Speaker 1: to be single mothers. And there are more women right
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Speaker 1: now that are in higher positions now than men at
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Speaker 1: this point. But see the thing about it is when
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Speaker 1: Women King came out, I remember a lot of black
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Speaker 1: women got upset because they didn't understand why this movie
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Speaker 1: was so important. This really did happen. There were women
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Speaker 1: that were in power. There were women even in today
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Speaker 1: that run countries of all races. So is it like
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Speaker 1: with King here May eighth, when he wanted a son
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Speaker 1: so bad that he neglected his daughters. He would have
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Speaker 1: never thought in a million years that it would have
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Speaker 1: been Queen Elizabeth, out of all his children that would
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Speaker 1: have ran the country successfully with no agenda, know nothing.
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Speaker 1: She just ran it like she was supposed to. Who
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Speaker 1: would have thought that am Boleyn's daughter would have been
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Speaker 1: the one that would have been the one that ended
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Speaker 1: up being his actual successor Who would have thunk it
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Speaker 1: the child whose mom he unliveed over a false allegation.
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Speaker 1: But I digress. But anyway, like I said, you know,
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Speaker 1: getting going and obtaining something depending on who it is
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Speaker 1: can be easy and for others it can be harder.
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Speaker 1: But which road should you take? The easy road or
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Speaker 1: the harder road? Now, the easy road is somebody whose
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Speaker 1: parents got money and they can just go in there
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Speaker 1: and they just get the job or they're handed the company,
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Speaker 1: whereas a child that doesn't have money has to work hard.
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Speaker 1: Some people, even though they have a degree, still can't
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Speaker 1: get a job and what they went to school for.
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Speaker 1: But you want somebody to pay student loans. Not only
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Speaker 1: that you get in these jobs and you're already in
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Speaker 1: debt because as soon as you start working, the first
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Speaker 1: thing with it, they say, I want you to pay
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Speaker 1: student loans. They don't care that you got to pay
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Speaker 1: your house payment, your mortgage and all these other things.
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Speaker 1: They don't care nothing about that. All they care about
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Speaker 1: is the fact that you got to sit up here
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Speaker 1: and pay your student loans. These jobs are not paying
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Speaker 1: enough for you to do that, because even if you've
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Speaker 1: been working for ten years, I did medical billing for
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Speaker 1: ten years, almost eleven years this year, and they still
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Speaker 1: want to put me in nineteen twenty dollars an hour jobs,
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Speaker 1: not based on my experience. That's just how much they
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Speaker 1: gonna give me I looked at North Carolina. When I
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Speaker 1: go back as far as how much it's between thirteen
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Speaker 1: to eighteen dollars an hour. What is thirteen to eighteen
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Speaker 1: dollars an hour gonna do for me if I had
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Speaker 1: to pay for a house and a car and everything else,
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Speaker 1: especially if you coming from a job that you got
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Speaker 1: paid twenty four dollars an hour. Then the crazy part
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Speaker 1: is when they ask you what your weaknesses are. Let
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Speaker 1: me let me tell you what he asked you that
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Speaker 1: they asked you that, just to see what you're gonna say.
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Speaker 1: I say, to be honest, I don't think of anything
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Speaker 1: as a weakness. I just look at it as a challenge,
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Speaker 1: meaning that if anything that I'm not good at, I'm
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Speaker 1: either gonna learn how to be better at it or
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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do it at all. It just depends.
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Speaker 1: So when they asked me what my weaknesses are, I said,
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Speaker 1: to be honest, I don't have any, I said, because
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Speaker 1: everything that good or bad I take as a learning experience.
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Speaker 1: So if you ask me what weaknesses do I have
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Speaker 1: that I've learned from, I got plenty. And that's what
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Speaker 1: throws a love of employers off. And those are the people.
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Speaker 1: They're scared of people that can take an interview question
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Speaker 1: and turn it around and flip it in a way
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Speaker 1: they're not anticipate. That means you're a whole lot more
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Speaker 1: intelligent than what they anticipate. Because here's the thing. They
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Speaker 1: don't want to pay you what you're worth. Even if
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Speaker 1: you say I want to negotiate. Majority is said, well,
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Speaker 1: we only gonna go up to nineteen. I said, well,
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Speaker 1: the last job I had was twenty four. They look
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Speaker 1: at all of that and the first thing they're gonna
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Speaker 1: say is they're not gonna hire that person because they
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Speaker 1: gotta pay them more money. That's why they're going to
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Speaker 1: AI because now people can go and get an education.
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Speaker 1: That's why they're changing all this stuff with student loans.
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Speaker 1: So these kids can't go to college because just so
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Speaker 1: they can work fast food now doesn't make it right. No,
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Speaker 1: But the reason why they're doing what they're doing is
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Speaker 1: because the minorities now are the number one ones going
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Speaker 1: to college, and these richer kids are not going to college.
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Speaker 1: Why do they need to go to college when they
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Speaker 1: got money? So everything is flipping and they don't like it.
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Speaker 1: So now it's we're gonna mess with the education system
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Speaker 1: every time they put us in debt. Now it's the oh,
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Speaker 1: y'all gotta pay. They're focusing on student loans. Now, they're
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Speaker 1: focusing on Medicaid. Now they're focusing on Medicare. That's because
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Speaker 1: they put us in debt. The politicians put us in debt.
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Speaker 1: We didn't put ourselves in debt. They did so. Instead
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Speaker 1: of them going to the rich people and saying, y'all
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Speaker 1: gotta pay taxes, you're gonna go after people that can't
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Speaker 1: pay student loans, going after affordable health care, going after
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Speaker 1: Medicaid and Medicare, going after food stamps, going after Section eight.
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Speaker 1: If you take away all these programs, do you know
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Speaker 1: how many people gonna end up homeless? We're nowhere to go,
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Speaker 1: and then they're gonna turn around and say, oh, these
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Speaker 1: people just being la. No, all it is is this
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Speaker 1: here fast food restaurants, well, restaurants as a whole. And
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Speaker 1: let me break down what I mean by that fast food,
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Speaker 1: red lobster, Aha, wafer house, just to name a few.
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Speaker 1: Every time I walk in there, there is always a
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Speaker 1: hiring sign. Grocery stores always a hiring Stein, clothing stores
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Speaker 1: always a hiring Stein. Low income jobs when those jobs
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Speaker 1: don't have anybody that want to work because nobody right
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Speaker 1: now wants to work fast food. They just don't. Mainly
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Speaker 1: the ones that work fast foods are mainly like high
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Speaker 1: school kids that are just starting out. But as far
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Speaker 1: as adults in their thirties and forties, they not working
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Speaker 1: fast food. Even the ones that they late twenties don't
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Speaker 1: want to work fast food and they don't fast food
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Speaker 1: there is. It's a lot. I worked. My first job
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Speaker 1: was McDonald's and I hated it because the way these
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Speaker 1: people coming in and the way they act absolutely not.
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Speaker 1: I don't want nothing where I gotta talk to people
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Speaker 1: and they got an attitude I don't feel like dealing
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Speaker 1: with that. I don't want to. So when it comes
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Speaker 1: down to this stuff, it don't shock me at all,
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Speaker 1: It don't not at all. So what I would say
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Speaker 1: when it comes down to these situations is that nothing
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Speaker 1: in all honesty shocks me. It just don't. But I
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Speaker 1: tell people like this here, when it comes down to everything,
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Speaker 1: you got people now doing three jobs now door dash,
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Speaker 1: you got people that are basically trying to get by,
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Speaker 1: and yet you got people on panels talking about some
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Speaker 1: Why is it that women don't want Why is it
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Speaker 1: that women want to be independent and self sufficient? And
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Speaker 1: why is it that women don't want to submit right now?
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Speaker 1: We're not in that type of economy where anybody can
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Speaker 1: submit right now, and we're not. It's like people can't
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Speaker 1: see the writing on the wall. It's right there in
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Speaker 1: front of your face, but you don't want to see
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Speaker 1: it because the truth is too much for you to handle.
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Speaker 1: They can't see that things are changing, that everything that
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Speaker 1: the United States stood on is now being dismantled. It
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Speaker 1: just is now Now a regular nine to five job
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Speaker 1: is not going to cut it. Then, not only that,
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Speaker 1: there was a woman that never took time off, worked
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Speaker 1: over time, and these people treated this woman like trash.
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Speaker 1: And yet she still went to work fourteen years with
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Speaker 1: the work of early, left late. Even when she was
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Speaker 1: at home home, she was thinking about work. She didn't
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Speaker 1: go nowhere, even when she was at any event, she
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Speaker 1: was thinking about work, talking about work. Her whole entire
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Speaker 1: life was work, work, work, work, work. That was it.
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Speaker 1: Then the one day she said she was gonna finally
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Speaker 1: take a vacation, she passed away in the office. Three
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Speaker 1: weeks later, her position was already put up there for
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Speaker 1: somebody else to work a position ain't nowhere in the world.
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Speaker 1: So while you not able to go on vacation, the
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Speaker 1: fact that you only now get PTO, you don't get
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Speaker 1: sick leave, you don't get medical leave. Now you have
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Speaker 1: to get that through afflet to get secondary where you know,
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Speaker 1: if you say, if you have a baby, right and
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Speaker 1: you gotta be out for six weeks, now you have afflet.
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Speaker 1: So affleck is what adds to whatever your insurance is
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Speaker 1: that's not being covered. So instead of you getting sickly,
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Speaker 1: instead of you getting medical lead, you not have to
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Speaker 1: pay pay for it your insurance. The deductibles are so
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Speaker 1: high that when you go to the emergency room you
16:23
Speaker 1: gotta pay that balance before they cover it through co
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Speaker 1: insurance of cooping or yeah. So now it's like you
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Speaker 1: gotta pay for insurance which take away from your paycheck, vision, dental,
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Speaker 1: and medical. Then four one K they take that out.
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Speaker 1: So if you only get forty hours of PTO, that's
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Speaker 1: only two weeks. Some jobs get like one hundred and
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Speaker 1: twenty hours of PTO. But guess where the majority of
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Speaker 1: that is going. The child gets sick, you get sick,
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Speaker 1: you gotta go to the hospital. Doctor's appointments, so out
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Speaker 1: of them eighty hours, you may only have seven days,
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Speaker 1: maybe two or three to go on vacation. And the
17:26
Speaker 1: way the cruisers are set up, it's from Saturday to
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Speaker 1: maybe Friday through Monday, and then for some of them
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Speaker 1: it's Saturday to Saturday Friday. Okay, yeah, I'm sorry, I
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Speaker 1: had a phone call anyway. But yeah, a lot of people,
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Speaker 1: like I said, the rug is being pulled from up
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Speaker 1: under them before they retire, before they get their pensions.
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Speaker 1: I remember when they said about all the truck drivers
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Speaker 1: that were losing their jobs before they got their pensions,
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Speaker 1: and they never got their pensions. A lot of people
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Speaker 1: that are having money to get retirement, and then if
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Speaker 1: you look at retirement, for example, you only get seventeen
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Speaker 1: eighteen two thousand dollars a month when you worked and
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Speaker 1: made more than that. And that's the crazy part about it.
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Speaker 1: You know, it's one thing if you were still getting
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Speaker 1: your paycheck every single whatever you were making before you retired.
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Speaker 1: But no, that ain't how that works. You're getting whatever
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Speaker 1: it is that you put into it in taxes. But
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Speaker 1: see what the problem also comes in at that would
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Speaker 1: be a contradiction of you know, whatever taxes you put
18:48
Speaker 1: into it as far as that year. So my whole
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Speaker 1: thing is I think that your unemployment shouldn't be based
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Speaker 1: upon that. It should be based on what you made
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Speaker 1: throughout your whole INtime, our life. That is what you get.
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Speaker 1: So it's just crazy to me how they have all
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Speaker 1: of this set up and now we're in a world
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Speaker 1: that retirement's not even enough. They're taxing now your retirement.
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Speaker 1: They used to didn't tax your retirement now they do. So,
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Speaker 1: you know, it's really crazy how all of this doesn't
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Speaker 1: make sense. So these are things that we need to
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Speaker 1: talk about before we even get into success, before we
19:28
Speaker 1: even get into building a business, building a brand, any
19:31
Speaker 1: of that. We need to get into a few things.
19:37
Speaker 1: When it comes to people that work these nine to
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Speaker 1: five jobs or eight to five, six to two, whatever
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Speaker 1: time that you work, what is your purpose and what
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Speaker 1: is your plan of working. Are you trying to learn
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Speaker 1: that business so you can build something of your own,
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Speaker 1: or do you want to work the rest of your life?
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Speaker 1: Because here's the thing, when people ask you what type
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Speaker 1: of job you want a work life balance. I want
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Speaker 1: to be able to, you know, spend time with my family,
20:11
Speaker 1: provide for my family. It's just like when I see
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Speaker 1: all these people going on vacations and they're going cruising
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Speaker 1: and they're gone all the time. A lot of people
20:21
Speaker 1: are looking at that and they're like, well, how can
20:23
Speaker 1: I do that? Because some people, like I said, don't
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Speaker 1: want to work a regular ninety five job. They want
20:30
Speaker 1: to build something that is up their own. Other people
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Speaker 1: they do, and that's completely fine. Or they do want to,
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Speaker 1: you know, have a business, but they want somebody else
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Speaker 1: to run it, and that's fine too, whenever your preference is.
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Speaker 1: But those two worlds are going to collide eventually, because
20:51
Speaker 1: if you work a regular ninety five job, that means
20:55
Speaker 1: fifty two weeks out the year you're probably gonna be
20:59
Speaker 1: work working probably a good seventy five to eighty percent
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Speaker 1: of that you gonna be working. You work Monday through Friday,
21:10
Speaker 1: except holidays, and some people get six holidays a year,
21:15
Speaker 1: some people get twelve, some get twenty. And then you know,
21:21
Speaker 1: you have your PCO. But what if you want to
21:25
Speaker 1: go on a cruise for a family reunion, but because
21:29
Speaker 1: all your PTO is going, you can't. And then not
21:33
Speaker 1: only that, you have jobs where you work for staffing
21:38
Speaker 1: companies because now majority these jobs in the medical field
21:42
Speaker 1: and the office jobs are are through staffing companies now,
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Speaker 1: So you're coming in to clean up their mess, and
21:48
Speaker 1: then as soon as you clean up their stuff, you're
21:51
Speaker 1: not working there no more. Or you have to go
21:53
Speaker 1: through your probation period through a staffing company for three
21:57
Speaker 1: to six months, and then after that, you know what
22:01
Speaker 1: I'm saying, that's pretty much it. So, like I said,
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Speaker 1: you know, I'm not really surprised by the fact that
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Speaker 1: people now are like I'm leaving the United States because
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Speaker 1: in other countries they work four hours and that's it,
22:21
Speaker 1: and they still can pay their bills. There are people
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Speaker 1: get affordable health care, free health care. So I'm a
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Speaker 1: little loss on. You know when they talk about they
22:35
Speaker 1: want to make America great again, but you're making America broke.
22:41
Speaker 1: You don't want these rich and well people to pay
22:43
Speaker 1: taxes all the money they got, and you mean telling
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Speaker 1: they can't pay taxes as much money they make per
22:51
Speaker 1: year through these companies. You're not asking the company to
22:55
Speaker 1: pay taxes, cause you're not even charging taxes on the company.
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Speaker 1: You're charging taxes on the property, but not the company itself.
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Speaker 1: You're charging taxes for the actual people that actually get
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Speaker 1: a salary, so you want to give them less than
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Speaker 1: taxes and more for the people that are middle class
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Speaker 1: and lower class that can barely go buy groceries, and
23:30
Speaker 1: all the groceries in the store ain't nowhere and near
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Speaker 1: no good. But that's a whole other conversation. And yet
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Speaker 1: and still you want to sit there and say that
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Speaker 1: y'all don't understand why people don't want to work for
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Speaker 1: what What do you mean why they don't want to
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Speaker 1: work because the way that they're being treated in these jobs.
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Speaker 1: The anxiety twenty years ago, when would you hear the
23:55
Speaker 1: word anxiety twenty years ago? You heard about the depression,
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Speaker 1: but you never heard about anxiety. When did people start
24:04
Speaker 1: getting anxiety when they drive? When did people start getting
24:08
Speaker 1: to the point where we had colon cancer and all
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Speaker 1: this other stuff? When so, like I said, before you
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Speaker 1: start talking about healing, there are people that sit there
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Speaker 1: all day long, and they talk about problems on these
24:21
Speaker 1: panels all day long. Where are the solutions? The reason
24:26
Speaker 1: they don't want the solutions to be told is because
24:31
Speaker 1: if you actually start talking about solutions and ways for
24:36
Speaker 1: people's lives to get better, then a lot of people
24:40
Speaker 1: will lose a lot of money and a lot of
24:43
Speaker 1: jobs won't be needed. If people start cooking from home,
24:50
Speaker 1: a lot of restaurants lose a lot of money, and
24:52
Speaker 1: they do. And if people started sitting there and sewing
24:56
Speaker 1: their own clothes, then a lot of fashion clubs, fashion
25:00
Speaker 1: houses would be out of business. So at one time
25:09
Speaker 1: you didn't have what we had about I'd say, seventy
25:15
Speaker 1: years ago, there were no clothing stores. You know, people
25:21
Speaker 1: would go and they would get certain clothes, but not
25:27
Speaker 1: the way it is today. Seventy years ago, it wasn't
25:31
Speaker 1: the modern civilization that it is now with the Internet
25:34
Speaker 1: and all this stuff, and people were healthier. Yeah, they
25:38
Speaker 1: had to deal with polio and they had to deal
25:40
Speaker 1: with certain illnesses. But you know what I'm saying, life
25:46
Speaker 1: was simpler now. Even though we have all of this
25:52
Speaker 1: stuff now, stuff is harder financially. So even though we
25:57
Speaker 1: have a more modern life, a more comfortability life somewhat
26:04
Speaker 1: meaning that you have all the social media, you got,
26:07
Speaker 1: all these electronics you got, you know, the comfortability of things,
26:13
Speaker 1: but it's it's expensive. Everything that you need to have
26:21
Speaker 1: a peaceful life, a healthy life, to help you heal,
26:27
Speaker 1: they're charging you for it. Everything that is your necessities,
26:31
Speaker 1: they're charging you for it. But if you learn to
26:34
Speaker 1: create it yourself, then they can't charge you for it.
26:39
Speaker 1: The only thing you're buying is whatever you need for
26:42
Speaker 1: those necessities. So you know, it's it's really crazy, it is.
26:49
Speaker 1: It's it's insane, but this is what we're dealing with
26:56
Speaker 1: and where we're at the things you're like, you know, me,
27:00
Speaker 1: I'm moving today, and today's moving day, and I gotta
27:06
Speaker 1: get on the plane at three o'clock. Well at five
27:10
Speaker 1: fifty nine, five seventeen. They're gonna be boreding, So I
27:15
Speaker 1: gotta leave at three to get there about three forty
27:18
Speaker 1: five to go check in the bag, to go, you know,
27:23
Speaker 1: go through TSA and then go and you know, go
27:31
Speaker 1: go down to the go to my flight. So yeah,
27:35
Speaker 1: it's it's crazy, but you know, and I had some
27:39
Speaker 1: missed that mishats because the moving people because it's raining,
27:42
Speaker 1: they had to wait for everything to calm down for
27:44
Speaker 1: to stop raining, but then to move everything. So they
27:48
Speaker 1: should be here between twelve and one. I told the
27:52
Speaker 1: cleaning people to come at two thirty. So by the
27:56
Speaker 1: time they come, the movers will be will probably being
27:59
Speaker 1: under stared hard body in so when they come in
28:02
Speaker 1: each room they can just vacuum and clean and then
28:08
Speaker 1: once they move the last little bit of stuff, then
28:10
Speaker 1: they could come in so they can the cleaning people
28:13
Speaker 1: and the moving people will basically be able to get everything.
28:18
Speaker 1: So it's just what needs to be moved. And I
28:21
Speaker 1: should be here till three because I told them I'll
28:23
Speaker 1: be here, but till three because then I gotta leave
28:26
Speaker 1: and stuff. So hopefully they will be here by one hopefully,
28:34
Speaker 1: so we'll see how that happens. So you know, in
28:39
Speaker 1: the end, like I said, you know, every time you
28:43
Speaker 1: get money, it's going somewhere, whether it be a business,
28:48
Speaker 1: whether it be your bills, it's going somewhere. But it's
28:51
Speaker 1: not coming to you for you decide what it is
28:54
Speaker 1: that you really want to do. And it's crazy. You
28:58
Speaker 1: get your paycheck and the first thing that it does
29:02
Speaker 1: goes right out of your hand. You never see it.
29:06
Speaker 1: You never see it. At least if you have a business. Yeah,
29:10
Speaker 1: you're putting the money back into your business. But when
29:12
Speaker 1: it starts to make money, you have enough to put
29:16
Speaker 1: it back in your business. And then you also if
29:19
Speaker 1: you stack your money up, you have enough to pay
29:22
Speaker 1: off everything. So once you pay off your house, the
29:25
Speaker 1: only thing you gotta do is pay taxes, Which why
29:27
Speaker 1: are we paying taxes on a house that's paid off?
29:31
Speaker 1: That makes no sense. Why am I paying land taxes?
29:36
Speaker 1: That doesn't make sense either, So it's like, you know,
29:42
Speaker 1: it's really insane how all of this is playing out.
29:47
Speaker 1: So every time, no matter how far you get, your
29:51
Speaker 1: money's leaving going somewhere. It just is, it's going somewhere.
29:57
Speaker 1: So you know, you ask yourself when you really start
30:04
Speaker 1: looking at these things, You're like, what is the point
30:06
Speaker 1: of all of this? When you got people in RVs
30:11
Speaker 1: and campers and cars and they're driving and they're traveling,
30:16
Speaker 1: and I'm seeing these people living their best life on
30:19
Speaker 1: social media and getting paid to be out there living
30:24
Speaker 1: their best life. I'm not mad at that. I'm really not.
30:28
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at it at all, to be honest. So,
30:32
Speaker 1: like I said, you know, in the end, whatever you
30:35
Speaker 1: feel is gonna work for you will absolutely work for you.
30:41
Speaker 1: But the sad part about all of this is that,
30:45
Speaker 1: you know, the sad part about every single bit of
30:51
Speaker 1: this is that this is really what's been going on.
30:56
Speaker 1: It's just now people that never thought there would be
30:59
Speaker 1: a affected by it are now affected by it. You
31:03
Speaker 1: have people that are putting the ghettos and trailers and
31:07
Speaker 1: Section eight and housing because they could they couldn't afford
31:11
Speaker 1: to get a house. You're pushing these kids out here
31:16
Speaker 1: into a world that every dime they get is not
31:21
Speaker 1: going into their pocket, it's going into somebody Else's the
31:26
Speaker 1: whole reason these people are moving out, not because they
31:29
Speaker 1: can't when they turn eighteen, come and go as they please,
31:33
Speaker 1: but it's because they want to have sex, and they
31:36
Speaker 1: can't have sex in their mama house. You can't throw
31:39
Speaker 1: parties at your mama's house. You can't have a bunch
31:41
Speaker 1: of people at your mama's house or your parents' house.
31:46
Speaker 1: So that's the main reason people move out. But then
31:49
Speaker 1: when you move out and you by yourself, and you
31:55
Speaker 1: living by yourself and you gotta do everything by yourself,
31:59
Speaker 1: you wish to God that you were living back at home,
32:02
Speaker 1: because Liza, if you living back at home, you know, yeah,
32:05
Speaker 1: you're helping your parents out. But if their house is
32:07
Speaker 1: paid for and all you gotta do is help with
32:10
Speaker 1: the electric, you gonna stack up way more money. Why
32:15
Speaker 1: because your parents' house is paid for. If the house
32:18
Speaker 1: is paid for. Guess what, you don't have a house payment,
32:22
Speaker 1: So those little bills that you got, you can go
32:26
Speaker 1: on vacation whenever you want to. So if you work
32:31
Speaker 1: forty hours a week, and then while you work and
32:35
Speaker 1: you building something of your own and start making money,
32:38
Speaker 1: and you met like twenty thousand, say okay, let's say
32:42
Speaker 1: you add up your bills right, your electric, your water,
32:45
Speaker 1: your rent, add all of that up, and then decide, okay,
32:51
Speaker 1: how much money would it do you think starting off
32:55
Speaker 1: that you'd want to make to be able to not
32:58
Speaker 1: only put back into your bus business, but to be
33:02
Speaker 1: able to have money to be able to pay off
33:05
Speaker 1: a house. I say twenty thousand a month. If you
33:10
Speaker 1: made twenty thousand a month, you have enough to put
33:14
Speaker 1: back into your business. Starting off, you have enough to
33:20
Speaker 1: you know, pay your rent off for a whole entire year,
33:26
Speaker 1: and you would have enough to pretty much do what
33:29
Speaker 1: you want to do. And then every year it'll go
33:33
Speaker 1: up ten thousand, thirty thousand, forty thousand, and fifty thousand,
33:35
Speaker 1: sixty thousand, seven thousand, and then when you start making
33:38
Speaker 1: one hundred thousand a year, then guess what, you got
33:41
Speaker 1: enough to buy a house, pay it off. You have
33:45
Speaker 1: enough to buy you know, a car, two cars, maybe
33:49
Speaker 1: one that says I made it. But being realistic about it,
33:52
Speaker 1: so for example, instead of me going and getting a
33:55
Speaker 1: guy for second, poor chall would just go get me
33:58
Speaker 1: a nice Mercedes. Pay it off. But you know, some
34:02
Speaker 1: people go and they lease cars. They'll they'll lease a
34:04
Speaker 1: car and that's just what they'll do. And I'm like, okay,
34:09
Speaker 1: but all that money you're putting into leasing in that car,
34:11
Speaker 1: that car is not yours. But that's what a lot
34:14
Speaker 1: of people are doing now. They're leasing a car because
34:18
Speaker 1: that way, anytime they want to trade that car in
34:20
Speaker 1: and get another car, they just can trade it in
34:21
Speaker 1: get another car. That's it as long as they pay
34:24
Speaker 1: it off very much. But a lot of people will
34:28
Speaker 1: sit there and get stuff and they say I don't
34:29
Speaker 1: want it that then I'm gonna trade it in. What
34:32
Speaker 1: But that's because they're leasing it. They're not buying it,
34:35
Speaker 1: they're leasing it. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that,
34:40
Speaker 1: because I mean, at least if something wrong with the car,
34:42
Speaker 1: you can always exchange it. And you know that has
34:46
Speaker 1: its benefits. But you know, renting a house is a
34:50
Speaker 1: whole another different situation. So I just say to people
34:56
Speaker 1: that really you want to buy land more so and
35:01
Speaker 1: then build a house that you won't on it, because
35:04
Speaker 1: then you're not paying taxes on the house, banding hat
35:06
Speaker 1: tax on the land, and that's it. You're paying take
35:09
Speaker 1: it on the land, the land every year. The house
35:11
Speaker 1: is paid for you built it. And it's actually cheaper
35:17
Speaker 1: to build a house than it is to rent one, cause,
35:24
Speaker 1: like I said, you're just paying the people to baseic
35:26
Speaker 1: build it, and then all the materials and stuff. So
35:30
Speaker 1: if you go out and pick the materials or whatever
35:32
Speaker 1: it is that you won't then they build it for you.
35:36
Speaker 1: And that's it. Because once you pay for the land,
35:39
Speaker 1: you can build whatever you want to on it. So
35:44
Speaker 1: I would I would just say, you know, there's a
35:48
Speaker 1: lot that I've learned, you know in this situation with
35:51
Speaker 1: my dad, that I've absolutely learned. But like I said,
35:57
Speaker 1: you know, they're gonna be they're gonna be ups and downs.
36:00
Speaker 1: July today, with my movie, they were supposed to be
36:04
Speaker 1: here between ten and twelve. It's been pushed back for
36:06
Speaker 1: two hours. He called me around nine, so they should
36:12
Speaker 1: be here about twelve one o'clock and the movie and
36:15
Speaker 1: they were cleaning people coming are two. I'm leaving at three,
36:19
Speaker 1: So either way go, they gotta work it out, and
36:21
Speaker 1: they gonna work it out, and they gonna have to
36:24
Speaker 1: do the job. They ain't got no choice. So the
36:29
Speaker 1: girls coming at two thirty, then I'll let her know
36:33
Speaker 1: that the movie people may still be here because they
36:36
Speaker 1: were hot. They were running behind. So you know, it's
36:40
Speaker 1: like forty minutes from my house. But it all works
36:43
Speaker 1: up out. I'm not paying a kick because either way
36:46
Speaker 1: I go, I'm not going to be here when they
36:50
Speaker 1: when they move everything, I won't be here. I will
36:54
Speaker 1: be gone. I will be on a plane cause I
36:57
Speaker 1: have a non refundable ticket, so I can can't change
37:00
Speaker 1: my flight. Some told me to leave it as it was.
37:04
Speaker 1: Now can I call them and tell them? Can they
37:08
Speaker 1: change the flight? They can change it, but I already
37:11
Speaker 1: did my uber and that's gonna be here at three.
37:15
Speaker 1: So I'm just gonna let the movie let them know that.
37:18
Speaker 1: I got people moving my furniture and they're moving they're
37:22
Speaker 1: moving everything today and then once they move everything, then
37:28
Speaker 1: the cleaning people gonna be in there and they'll be
37:30
Speaker 1: done by the end of the day. And I said
37:33
Speaker 1: I need somebody turning the keys, telling somebody to go
37:36
Speaker 1: over there and lock to do they can do the
37:38
Speaker 1: walk through. As soon as they come, lock the door.
37:40
Speaker 1: They can do the walk through and I can leave.
37:43
Speaker 1: I turn the keys, I'll get on the plane. I'm
37:46
Speaker 1: about a matter of fact, I'm just sitting here resting
37:49
Speaker 1: now so I can get prepared to be going to TSA,
37:53
Speaker 1: going through, dropping off a luggage. It's just like for me,
37:58
Speaker 1: you know, I said, I am no longer letting nobody
38:00
Speaker 1: pull the roof from up under me. And guess what
38:01
Speaker 1: I'm doing. I got some jurely in there, or order
38:04
Speaker 1: some more beads, or order some more stuff for my
38:07
Speaker 1: coaching stuff. And yeah, you gotta spend money to make money.
38:11
Speaker 1: I need. I need people understand that you have to
38:13
Speaker 1: spend money to make money. So when you start making
38:19
Speaker 1: more than what you spent, then you've made a profit.
38:23
Speaker 1: Sometimes you might make you might just make enough to
38:27
Speaker 1: put back in your business. Sometimes you might make more.
38:31
Speaker 1: Sometimes you may make less. It's a gamble. But I
38:35
Speaker 1: made this channel because, like I said, when you focus
38:39
Speaker 1: on you, and you build for yourself, and you do
38:44
Speaker 1: for yourself, then you will see how happier you will
38:47
Speaker 1: be when you see your success, and then the people
38:52
Speaker 1: that truly support you will be along on the journey
38:57
Speaker 1: when you see all the people that you benefit that
38:59
Speaker 1: you help, people that love what you do. Because right now,
39:03
Speaker 1: what you're doing is making other people money. You're making
39:06
Speaker 1: other people's comfortability. See, their success is not based on them.
39:13
Speaker 1: They created the company. Their success is based off what
39:17
Speaker 1: you do for them, but you're not being rewarded for it.
39:22
Speaker 1: And the one thing I said that I was gonna
39:24
Speaker 1: do for anybody who worked for me as far as
39:27
Speaker 1: like you know, certain things, I'm gonna make sure that
39:33
Speaker 1: they become something themselves. I'm not gonna keep them in
39:36
Speaker 1: those positions because my goal is a coach, is this.
39:39
Speaker 1: I want other coaches as well. And then I want
39:42
Speaker 1: to build a retreat that's gonna be strictly for people
39:46
Speaker 1: to come and be able to do their coaching at
39:50
Speaker 1: the retreat. So for example, like we'll be doing stuff
39:56
Speaker 1: from the retreat, but I'm renting it out to where
39:59
Speaker 1: people like different coaches could come and they can do
40:03
Speaker 1: like you know, weight loss coaching, there, all kinds of stuff.
40:08
Speaker 1: And then eventually it's gonna be worldwide in different parts
40:11
Speaker 1: of the world. I have a lot of things that
40:15
Speaker 1: I want to do to branch off. But the one
40:19
Speaker 1: thing I learned is about multiple streams of income, not
40:22
Speaker 1: just one. One's not gonna cut it no more. And
40:25
Speaker 1: nowadays it's not even having a job. It's gonna cut
40:27
Speaker 1: it no more. And a lot of people that got talent,
40:31
Speaker 1: a lot of people that have really good abilities are
40:35
Speaker 1: making somebody else's money. Delight football players, they're making these
40:40
Speaker 1: owners' money, them owners, not the ones damaging themselves. The
40:44
Speaker 1: athletes are. These singers are making these moguls money. Cause again,
40:50
Speaker 1: you're getting alone. It is alone. That's what you're getting.
40:54
Speaker 1: You're getting alone. It's just like when you have stakeholders
40:58
Speaker 1: and stockholders. Stakeholders and stockholders are very different. There's a
41:03
Speaker 1: difference between the two. A stakeholder is someone that when
41:08
Speaker 1: y'all have meetings, that person has a stake in your company.
41:12
Speaker 1: Stockholders are people like the stock exchange stuff like that,
41:17
Speaker 1: and then you have investors, which are stakeholders. So investors
41:21
Speaker 1: are stakeholders. These are people that have a stake in
41:23
Speaker 1: your company. Whereas stockholders they go and they get stock
41:29
Speaker 1: in your company. That is completely different. Stockholders are not
41:34
Speaker 1: going to have as much of an impact on your
41:37
Speaker 1: business as a stakeholder, AKN investor would. That investor is
41:42
Speaker 1: giving you money to help you build your business. But
41:45
Speaker 1: if you don't put in that contract that you have
41:49
Speaker 1: the right to buy back whatever stake they have in
41:53
Speaker 1: your company for the original price that it is, whatever
41:57
Speaker 1: that value the steak is, that's how much you gonna
41:59
Speaker 1: pay about to pay them to buy them out, and
42:02
Speaker 1: it's gonna be way more than what they gave you.
42:08
Speaker 1: So when you start making money, that's when you go
42:11
Speaker 1: ahead and pay out that stakeholder. And that's when you
42:14
Speaker 1: go ahead and get your hundred percent and then you
42:16
Speaker 1: and then when you start making money, you can start
42:18
Speaker 1: paying people to do these things. You can pay people
42:22
Speaker 1: to help you. As far as getting certain brands and
42:25
Speaker 1: getting in certain companies, you can start paying them to
42:27
Speaker 1: do that. But that's a whole nother conversation another day.
42:31
Speaker 1: But yeah, I just wanted while I had a couple
42:33
Speaker 1: of minutes before I do this last little bit of packing,
42:37
Speaker 1: last little bit of stuff that I gotta do because
42:39
Speaker 1: I don't know what time they're coming, so when they
42:42
Speaker 1: get here, that's when I'm unplug the internet, box it up,
42:48
Speaker 1: and get this last little bit of stuff boxed up,
42:52
Speaker 1: get all this last little bit of trash, because I
42:56
Speaker 1: will not be here when the cleaning people come. I'll
42:58
Speaker 1: be here when the cleaning people coming. I'll be here.
43:02
Speaker 1: I'll show her, show them everything they need to do,
43:05
Speaker 1: and once after that three o'clock hour, will be on
43:09
Speaker 1: a plane, regardless of what happens. So hopefully the moving
43:14
Speaker 1: people will be here before one o'clock. Hopefully let us
43:19
Speaker 1: pray that they will be here or dumb. So, like
43:21
Speaker 1: I said, stuff happens. You know, there's always gonna be
43:25
Speaker 1: monkey wrenches, there's always gonna be ups and downs. But
43:29
Speaker 1: it's not about how you fall, it's about how you rise.
43:33
Speaker 1: And stressing about something you can't control ain't nothing you
43:37
Speaker 1: can do. So the thing about it is, it's not
43:40
Speaker 1: raining over here. So I probably will give him a
43:44
Speaker 1: call to see his estimated time or what time be coming.
43:48
Speaker 1: But hopefully they'll be here before twelve o'clock, well at
43:50
Speaker 1: least bout twelve thirty, because it's gonna take them two
43:53
Speaker 1: hours to move. And that was nine something, so the
43:57
Speaker 1: person is already was already moving with and they did
44:01
Speaker 1: so I'm gonna call them and see what time they're
44:03
Speaker 1: gonna be here. So, like I said, the people that's
44:07
Speaker 1: coming to clean will be here at two thirty. God
44:10
Speaker 1: told them they were gonna be at two thirty because
44:13
Speaker 1: I was under the assumption that they were gonna because
44:17
Speaker 1: I want them here so they'll know what need to
44:21
Speaker 1: be cleaned, what they can take, throw out, whatever. So
44:26
Speaker 1: about one o'clock, I'm gonna start throwing everything. At one thirty,
44:30
Speaker 1: I'm gonna start throwing everything out. They got me thrown out,
44:33
Speaker 1: and then have them started taking the trash and sticking
44:36
Speaker 1: it outside. Tell them all the trash is outside, they
44:40
Speaker 1: gotta go out and you know whatever, the you know,
44:44
Speaker 1: trash got to go out, and all I gotta do
44:48
Speaker 1: is take it to the trash. Does it? With that
44:51
Speaker 1: being said, that's it for me. I thank y'all for
44:53
Speaker 1: joining me for this episode. I'm your host, Scott is
44:55
Speaker 1: Austin Maryama. I appreciate y'all and I love y'all until
44:58
Speaker 1: next time. Bye. Yeah