Latest / The Trauma Therapist / Relationship and Healing in Trauma with Dr. Robert Rhoton, PsyD, LPC,
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Welcome to the Trauma Rivers podcast. My name is Guiming
- 0:03Speaker 1: Ferson and I interview incredible people who share the story
- 0:06Speaker 1: of how trauma has shaped their lives. And a big
- 0:09Speaker 1: thank you for sponsoring today's episode goes to my guest
- 0:12Speaker 1: and our sponsors. So five four, three, two and one,
- 0:23Speaker 1: Our folks, welcome back to the podcast. Very excited to
- 0:27Speaker 1: have my guest today, Doctor Robert Roten.
- 0:29Speaker 2: Robert, welcome, Thank you for having me so.
- 0:36Speaker 1: Doctor Roton is the chief Clinical Officer of the Arizona
- 0:39Speaker 1: Trauma Institute, one of our sponsors, and President of the
- 0:42Speaker 1: Trauma Institute International. A diplomat of the American Academy of
- 0:46Speaker 1: Experts in Traumatic Stress, he has spent decades advancing the
- 0:49Speaker 1: understanding and the treatment of developmental and family trauma. Doctor
- 0:54Speaker 1: Roton as supervised outpatient clinics, juvenile justice and substance abuse programs,
- 0:59Speaker 1: the Treatment Center, and Child and Family Therapeutic Services. Formerly
- 1:03Speaker 1: a professor at Ottawa University, he trained counselors to work
- 1:07Speaker 1: with trauma genetic family dynamics using non egoic, compassionate models
- 1:12Speaker 1: of care. Today, he consults with agencies and organizations across
- 1:16Speaker 1: the globe, helping them, strengthen trauma informed systems, and improve
- 1:20Speaker 1: therapeutic outcomes for both individuals and families. All right, Robert, obviously,
- 1:26Speaker 1: just a little bit about you, but before we go in,
- 1:28Speaker 1: share with our listeners where you're from originally and where
- 1:32Speaker 1: you are currently.
- 1:36Speaker 3: Okay, Well, originally I was born in the Phoenix area,
- 1:42Speaker 3: and I've lived most of my adult life in the
- 1:49Speaker 3: Phoenix area. This last year, I moved to Cottonwood, which
- 1:53Speaker 3: is a couple of hours north of Phoenix. So I'm
- 1:57Speaker 3: I'm definitely an Arizona guy, and I don't plan and
- 2:00Speaker 3: moving out of the state.
- 2:02Speaker 2: So you know, I like it here.
- 2:05Speaker 1: Awesome, awesome. All right, So we're obviously going to talk
- 2:08Speaker 1: about the Arizona Trauma Institute, but before we do, how
- 2:13Speaker 1: did all this start for you? This this interest is
- 2:17Speaker 1: specialization in trauma and so forth.
- 2:21Speaker 2: Wow, that's that's an interesting question. You know.
- 2:27Speaker 3: There's the professional answer I gave is that I was
- 2:30Speaker 3: teaching college. But the true answer is that I started
- 2:37Speaker 3: kind of learning about this stuff to kind of make
- 2:41Speaker 3: sense in my own lived experience. Anybody that's familiar with
- 2:46Speaker 3: the ACE Scores, which is kind of a landmark study
- 2:53Speaker 3: in trauma, I have an a score of nine, and so,
- 2:59Speaker 3: you know, I was trying to figure out what people
- 3:02Speaker 3: were doing, why they were doing it, from as young
- 3:04Speaker 3: as I can imagine, you know, my youngest memories are
- 3:08Speaker 3: trying to figure out stuff about people. And as I
- 3:13Speaker 3: began to gain more knowledge and education, I realized.
- 3:19Speaker 2: Nobody was really addressing that.
- 3:22Speaker 3: And when I you know, of course, when I started
- 3:25Speaker 3: the college in nineteen seventy one, neuroscience was a baby
- 3:30Speaker 3: in the development, and now we have understanding a lot
- 3:35Speaker 3: of what's going on. So for me, it's been a
- 3:37Speaker 3: lifelong pursuit to unpuzzle the craziness that I experienced and
- 3:42Speaker 3: then helping other people be able to so tasel it
- 3:46Speaker 3: for themselves as well.
- 3:49Speaker 1: Was that a conscious trying to figure out what was
- 3:52Speaker 1: going on because of what you'd experienced or you just
- 3:56Speaker 1: were drawn to that kind of subconsciously?
- 4:02Speaker 3: I wanted to understand it, and it kind of drove
- 4:07Speaker 3: a lot what I did, And what I found was
- 4:11Speaker 3: that most people really didn't understand. I mean, talk therapy
- 4:17Speaker 3: as it was practiced, you know, up through the say,
- 4:23Speaker 3: the late seventies, was either cognitive behavioral or psychoanalytic in nature,
- 4:29Speaker 3: and you know, psychoanalytic tends to focus people back on
- 4:34Speaker 3: the misery and pain, and that never made sense to me,
- 4:39Speaker 3: because you know, you get more of what you focus on.
- 4:42Speaker 3: So having people go back and slog through pain after
- 4:45Speaker 3: pain after failure after misery.
- 4:48Speaker 2: Just doesn't seem to be really very useful to me.
- 4:53Speaker 3: And then the cognitive approaches, I realized most of my
- 4:56Speaker 3: clients didn't have the ability to really function that well,
- 5:01Speaker 3: and so gaining an understanding of what's going on in
- 5:04Speaker 3: the body and the nervous system and the hormonal system
- 5:09Speaker 3: of a person that has a trauma history completely changed
- 5:13Speaker 3: how I saw clients.
- 5:15Speaker 2: It completely changed how I approached things.
- 5:19Speaker 3: And you know, we for a long time a couple
- 5:23Speaker 3: of us that were friends that were doing this research
- 5:26Speaker 3: together were the only ones in the US using a
- 5:29Speaker 3: salutogenic approach, which is a wellness approach. And when we
- 5:34Speaker 3: talk about it with people, they would look at us
- 5:36Speaker 3: like what because for.
- 5:39Speaker 1: What was that not that important? What was the term salutogenic?
- 5:46Speaker 2: Salutogenic?
- 5:48Speaker 1: Salutogenic?
- 5:48Speaker 3: I say it is, Yeah, it's a it's a wellness approach. Basically,
- 5:55Speaker 3: instead of seeing, oh man, this person has gone through
- 5:59Speaker 3: all the misery and they've had all of these failures
- 6:03Speaker 3: and they've had.
- 6:03Speaker 2: All of these challenges.
- 6:06Speaker 3: Oh pour them, We look at them, Look at what
- 6:10Speaker 3: they survived.
- 6:11Speaker 2: How did they do that.
- 6:13Speaker 3: They have competencies, they have capacities, and we focus on
- 6:18Speaker 3: helping them discover those, operationalize them, and use them. And
- 6:23Speaker 3: so it's really a different mindset. I can clearly give
- 6:28Speaker 3: you an example. If you're working with particularly intense trauma histories,
- 6:34Speaker 3: you're probably going to deal with people that tend to
- 6:36Speaker 3: dissociate or avoid. And from a psychoanalytic point of view,
- 6:43Speaker 3: that's a problem that needs to be fixed. From a
- 6:46Speaker 3: cognitive behavior approach, they say, that's irrational thinking.
- 6:49Speaker 2: It needs to be fixed from our perspective.
- 6:53Speaker 3: From a pseudogenic perspective, what you really need to do
- 6:56Speaker 3: is teach them how to use it with some intentionality,
- 7:00Speaker 3: because it's a tremendous skill if they can use it
- 7:03Speaker 3: when they want and avoid it when they don't want.
- 7:08Speaker 3: And so, you know, instead of having people feel a
- 7:11Speaker 3: sense of shame because this is what they do, we
- 7:15Speaker 3: teach them how to use it to help them.
- 7:18Speaker 2: And it's just so much more compassionate and kind of people.
- 7:23Speaker 3: Right.
- 7:23Speaker 1: A whole paradynamic shift in a sense. So at what
- 7:29Speaker 1: point did you realize treatment needed to change to shift
- 7:37Speaker 1: as you were referring to CBT and psuchodynamic fair, how
- 7:43Speaker 1: did you realize that? When did you realize that?
- 7:48Speaker 3: I realized that because almost everything I was taught in
- 7:51Speaker 3: school didn't work right, and it particularly didn't work with
- 7:57Speaker 3: people that had trauma historyes, toxic stress histories, or severe
- 8:02Speaker 3: mental health presentations. And you're kind of going like, well,
- 8:07Speaker 3: you know, here is all the stuff I was taught
- 8:10Speaker 3: and it's not working.
- 8:12Speaker 2: And you know, then I was kind of in that
- 8:15Speaker 2: place where.
- 8:16Speaker 3: A lot of therapists find that they panic and they
- 8:19Speaker 3: run to somebody else to say, what do you do?
- 8:21Speaker 3: And that person tells them what they do, and they
- 8:23Speaker 3: come back and they do that, and now we have,
- 8:26Speaker 3: instead of a true information base being shared, we have
- 8:30Speaker 3: opinions being shared, and the quality of characters doesn't, you know,
- 8:34Speaker 3: doesn't really grow very well. This is not something that
- 8:39Speaker 3: you know, this really I became firm in this probably
- 8:44Speaker 3: in the mid nineties because I realized that, you know,
- 8:49Speaker 3: all the stuff that I'd been taught really didn't prepare
- 8:52Speaker 3: me to help people much, and I was actually kind
- 8:56Speaker 3: of resentful of that fact.
- 8:59Speaker 2: They taught what it has state licensure exams.
- 9:03Speaker 1: Right, right, So let's let's talk about this. So one
- 9:07Speaker 1: of the things you wanted, I want to make sure
- 9:09Speaker 1: we talked about was what students, what students are being taught,
- 9:16Speaker 1: how they're how they're being taught. Let's kind of talk
- 9:19Speaker 1: a little bit about that. You mentioned. They're not really
- 9:23Speaker 1: being taught how to how to heal.
- 9:29Speaker 3: No, they're taught theories and the history of the development
- 9:34Speaker 3: of those theories. And then they do they're required to do,
- 9:39Speaker 3: you know, an internship, but most of them it takes them.
- 9:44Speaker 3: Their internships run from four to six months. It takes
- 9:48Speaker 3: them four months just to learn how to do the paperwork.
- 9:52Speaker 3: And you know, they're they if if they're working for
- 9:58Speaker 3: if they're doing an internship at a place that's worthwhile.
- 10:01Speaker 2: The only cases they should be getting as.
- 10:03Speaker 3: An intern are the most easy cases because you know,
- 10:08Speaker 3: they don't have the skill set to take on anything
- 10:11Speaker 3: that's really serious.
- 10:13Speaker 2: And when you and then.
- 10:15Speaker 3: We we turn them loose to the public, and we
- 10:21Speaker 3: you know, the supervision is universally poor. You know, how
- 10:27Speaker 3: do people become supervisors is that they happen to be
- 10:30Speaker 3: licensed and they've worked for a company for a while
- 10:33Speaker 3: and so, but there's supervision is its own scientific field.
- 10:41Speaker 2: There's a real skill to it.
- 10:42Speaker 3: And most supervisors are not trained to be supervisors. They
- 10:47Speaker 3: just happen to be senior you know, counselors that are licensed,
- 10:54Speaker 3: that are willing to do it. So you you really
- 10:57Speaker 3: don't have a set up where professional development is really
- 11:03Speaker 3: taken seriously. And the consequence of having poor supervision and
- 11:09Speaker 3: having companies that are set up for efficiency is that
- 11:14Speaker 3: it destroys the relationship, which is the thing that provides
- 11:18Speaker 3: the most healing and the most stability for staff. So
- 11:23Speaker 3: you know, it's it really is a problem the way
- 11:26Speaker 3: we educate, the way we educate people to become therapists.
- 11:33Speaker 3: And I have conversations with universities all over the place
- 11:38Speaker 3: around this issue, and what they tell me is, well,
- 11:41Speaker 3: you know, the people attracted to being counselors aren't interested
- 11:44Speaker 3: in science. But I said, you require that they take
- 11:49Speaker 3: a human development course, but you don't require them to
- 11:52Speaker 3: understand any anatomy, any hormonal or nervous system work, which
- 11:59Speaker 3: seems kind of like, you know, a missed opportunity because
- 12:03Speaker 3: we have a lot of people that go into mental
- 12:05Speaker 3: health services seeking help when it's not actually a mental
- 12:10Speaker 3: health issue.
- 12:10Speaker 2: At all, it is a biological issue.
- 12:13Speaker 3: You know, we don't teach therapists to screen for the
- 12:16Speaker 3: difference between having a thyroid disorder and chronic depression. And so,
- 12:23Speaker 3: you know, if somebody is not aware that there are
- 12:26Speaker 3: medical conditions that can that can generate these things and
- 12:29Speaker 3: we need to kind of check those out, they just
- 12:34Speaker 3: you know, happily go about treating them for depression. Well
- 12:38Speaker 3: that no treatment's going to work if there's an underlying
- 12:41Speaker 3: physiological issue. So, you know, we really really don't prepare
- 12:47Speaker 3: therapists well and in most university settings to really know how.
- 12:52Speaker 2: To help the folks that they are going to be helping.
- 12:56Speaker 1: And when you say they're students, aren't really taught how
- 13:02Speaker 1: to heal. They're basically taught how to basically regurgerate, regurgitate
- 13:07Speaker 1: these theories. What do you mean by healing?
- 13:16Speaker 3: Let me give you a simple example, based on what
- 13:18Speaker 3: I was just talking about. I got a this has
- 13:21Speaker 3: been what two thousand and eight or nine. I got
- 13:26Speaker 3: a referral from a little gal who was thirteen and
- 13:29Speaker 3: just made her third suicide attempt. She had been attending
- 13:34Speaker 3: therapy for almost two years. She'd had four different therapists,
- 13:39Speaker 3: she'd had a host of medications, and when I visited
- 13:44Speaker 3: r her the very first time, I said, there's something else.
- 13:46Speaker 2: Going on here.
- 13:48Speaker 3: And I began to ask her parents, you know, she's
- 13:53Speaker 3: been having this for the last two and a half years,
- 13:57Speaker 3: tell me what was going on six months prior to that,
- 14:00Speaker 3: and they just looked at me, like, well, but the
- 14:02Speaker 3: problem is this.
- 14:03Speaker 2: I said, well, I'm not sure that's the problem.
- 14:06Speaker 1: And.
- 14:08Speaker 3: Found out that really her life had been pretty simple.
- 14:11Speaker 3: The only thing that had been really different was that
- 14:14Speaker 3: they had done a two week long camping trip with
- 14:18Speaker 3: family in Tennessee. And I said, you know, it feels
- 14:24Speaker 3: like it's not depression to me.
- 14:27Speaker 2: It feels like something else is going on. I said,
- 14:29Speaker 2: would you.
- 14:30Speaker 3: Mind if I would consult with a physician friend of
- 14:32Speaker 3: mine and they said no, So I did and he said, well,
- 14:37Speaker 3: you know the syndots are describing if I was back East,
- 14:39Speaker 3: I would consider having her checked for Lymes disease, and
- 14:44Speaker 3: so I said, well, you know, so I suggested the
- 14:47Speaker 3: family get her checked for Lymes disease.
- 14:50Speaker 2: At that time. They did two separate tests.
- 14:52Speaker 3: She came back positive for both, and when they started
- 14:55Speaker 3: treating the Lyme's disease, guess what happened to the depression?
- 15:00Speaker 2: Wow, So you know, you know, we really have to
- 15:05Speaker 2: pay attention.
- 15:06Speaker 3: And the fact that we don't educate counselors on what's
- 15:09Speaker 3: going on in this body is a real problem because
- 15:14Speaker 3: they are left to think, well, it's a mental health problem.
- 15:17Speaker 3: It's you know, it's a you know, the there's mental
- 15:20Speaker 3: illness there. Well, there may not be mental illness there.
- 15:24Speaker 3: We may be dealing with a physical problem. And if
- 15:28Speaker 3: you don't have the education to kind of distinguish the difference.
- 15:33Speaker 3: And I, you know, I lecture at medical schools all
- 15:36Speaker 3: over the place, and it's really funny because I had
- 15:39Speaker 3: to teach myself all that stuff because I didn't get
- 15:41Speaker 3: any of it in college classes.
- 15:46Speaker 1: So enter Arizona Trauma Institute. You folks offer a lot
- 15:52Speaker 1: of different trainings and so forth. How did you become
- 15:57Speaker 1: associated affiliated? First off with ATI?
- 16:04Speaker 3: Well, I founded ATI. I started it, and I can
- 16:11Speaker 3: tell you the reason I started it was because I
- 16:14Speaker 3: was irritated that I was, you know, constantly running into
- 16:20Speaker 3: people that wanted to do good work.
- 16:23Speaker 2: And not knowing how.
- 16:27Speaker 3: So my original concept was just to form this to
- 16:30Speaker 3: train people in the Phoenix metropolitan area.
- 16:33Speaker 2: I mean, I really wasn't looking to go past that, and.
- 16:40Speaker 3: You go forward, you know, fifteen years, and now we've
- 16:44Speaker 3: trained people in one hundred and thirty countries, and we
- 16:47Speaker 3: have active partnerships and in a number of countries that
- 16:52Speaker 3: you know might surprise people. So it's grown way past
- 16:57Speaker 3: what I initially initially thought. I just wanted therapists locally
- 17:03Speaker 3: to have good training. And in one of the things
- 17:06Speaker 3: we've done traditionally, if people take training from us, they
- 17:11Speaker 3: can join open mentoring sessions, which we don't charge for,
- 17:17Speaker 3: is to learn how to put these things into practice
- 17:21Speaker 3: and have a you know, have a community to get
- 17:24Speaker 3: support from.
- 17:26Speaker 2: So it's really fun. We have people that attend.
- 17:30Speaker 3: From these things from probably currently about twenty different countries
- 17:37Speaker 3: and hearing how they're.
- 17:38Speaker 2: Putting these things into practice.
- 17:40Speaker 3: I find that a lot of times they're resourcing each
- 17:43Speaker 3: other and it's really been kind of a fun project
- 17:46Speaker 3: to do.
- 17:47Speaker 2: But almost all of them.
- 17:50Speaker 3: Have suffered under that same idea is why am I
- 17:53Speaker 3: not being effective with what with what I was taught
- 17:56Speaker 3: in school? And the turnover rate for counsel in organizations
- 18:01Speaker 3: is huge. The standard in the in the US or
- 18:07Speaker 3: mental health agencies is seventy percent turnover of their clinical staff,
- 18:15Speaker 3: and that a lot of clients, a lot of people
- 18:19Speaker 3: that become therapists get out of the field within five years. Well,
- 18:24Speaker 3: why because we haven't. They're not adequately prepared to help
- 18:28Speaker 3: the people. And you know, the cases that I saw
- 18:33Speaker 3: in starting, you know, in the eighties.
- 18:37Speaker 2: Were not nearly as.
- 18:39Speaker 3: Severe as the cases that are pretty common nowadays.
- 18:43Speaker 2: And so the education system is lagged so far behind
- 18:48Speaker 2: the current.
- 18:51Speaker 3: Population that presents for therapy that the.
- 18:56Speaker 2: Gap between what.
- 18:59Speaker 3: These people know graduating and what they need to know
- 19:03Speaker 3: is a gulf.
- 19:06Speaker 1: So, having listened to this interview, you know, the fifteen
- 19:14Speaker 1: or twenty minutes that we've already done so far, I
- 19:16Speaker 1: think people could have an idea of what goes on
- 19:20Speaker 1: what you teach at the Arizona Trauma Institute. But let's
- 19:23Speaker 1: get more specific. What are you offering in terms of
- 19:27Speaker 1: courses or education there?
- 19:34Speaker 2: We do multiple things, but let me just talk about
- 19:37Speaker 2: the classes.
- 19:38Speaker 3: Most of our classes, and I think we have almost
- 19:41Speaker 3: sixty that are online, are mostly clinically related.
- 19:46Speaker 2: They're for counselors, psychologists, social workers, case managers.
- 19:52Speaker 3: We have several courses that are designed for the layman,
- 20:01Speaker 3: and those courses that are designed for the layman. We
- 20:06Speaker 3: actually work in partnership with the Americopa County Community College District,
- 20:13Speaker 3: which is a eleven college system in the Phoenix metropolitan
- 20:17Speaker 3: area with over two hundred thousand students. We've written curriculum
- 20:23Speaker 3: for their courses. We endorse certain classes and provide micro
- 20:31Speaker 3: credentials for people that have completed specialties so that when
- 20:36Speaker 3: they finish up, we know they can do these things.
- 20:41Speaker 2: And so that's you know, some of the things that
- 20:46Speaker 2: we do.
- 20:46Speaker 3: But most of our trainings that are available either live
- 20:50Speaker 3: or in person, are really targeted to the mental health culture,
- 20:57Speaker 3: and we have.
- 21:00Speaker 2: We start with a basic.
- 21:01Speaker 3: Three day training just to introduce people to the foundation
- 21:05Speaker 3: of you know, what trauma care really is and what
- 21:08Speaker 3: it really means and how to begin to apply it.
- 21:16Speaker 3: Most of the mental health culture out there is driven
- 21:20Speaker 3: by business models of efficiency, so you know, you have
- 21:25Speaker 3: I'll give you an give you an example. Just talk
- 21:29Speaker 3: with an agency in the southeast US. They have one
- 21:34Speaker 3: hundred and eighteen therapists. They serve almost seven thousand clients,
- 21:39Speaker 3: but their average caseload for their mental health professional is
- 21:48Speaker 3: close to ninety clients, and there's no way anything any
- 21:54Speaker 3: therapist can be effective with ninety clients. And I was
- 21:58Speaker 3: kind of talking about that, and this is what the
- 22:00Speaker 3: leader of that organization told me, Well, as long as
- 22:03Speaker 3: we can build, as long as we can prove that
- 22:06Speaker 3: we provided a service and that we can build for it,
- 22:11Speaker 3: we don't need to worry about anything else.
- 22:13Speaker 2: And I'm saying no, No, you want.
- 22:15Speaker 3: To build your organization to drive clinical outcomes. What is
- 22:21Speaker 3: your client benefiting from this? You are in an efficiency model.
- 22:25Speaker 3: You don't even screen, you know who gets what client is.
- 22:29Speaker 2: Just the next counselor in rotation gets the client, whether
- 22:34Speaker 2: they're ready for it or not.
- 22:36Speaker 3: And so when you have an efficiency based system, you
- 22:39Speaker 3: strip away the very thing that therapists need to stay
- 22:44Speaker 3: vital in their work and the things that clients need
- 22:48Speaker 3: to be successful, and that's relationship. Because efficiency doesn't operate
- 22:54Speaker 3: well in a relational model.
- 22:56Speaker 2: And what most people don't realize is that.
- 22:58Speaker 3: Trauma informed care is a relational structure. It's a it's
- 23:04Speaker 3: a structure to give dignity, to to help people see
- 23:08Speaker 3: that they have value, that they have worth, that they
- 23:11Speaker 3: that they you know, and to lift them that is
- 23:16Speaker 3: not what most mental health agencies are structured around. They're
- 23:20Speaker 3: structured around documentation, billing, and lack of complaints.
- 23:27Speaker 1: It sounds to me as though someone who's interested in
- 23:34Speaker 1: becoming a therapist of any kind should go straight straight
- 23:40Speaker 1: to straight to you. Unfortunately, it seems like a lot
- 23:44Speaker 1: of people are gonna have to go through go through
- 23:47Speaker 1: the system, and then find out that they need to
- 23:50Speaker 1: get to what you're offering. And that's very it's that's depressing,
- 23:55Speaker 1: that's depressing. But enough you mentioned something I want to
- 24:00Speaker 1: John Robert, which was your your mentoring model and offering
- 24:05Speaker 1: talk a little bit more about that. That's unded fascinating.
- 24:11Speaker 3: Well, when again, we use a solugenic model, which really
- 24:15Speaker 3: we're looking at four things almost always, is it comprehensible
- 24:21Speaker 3: to the to the person you're working with, Can they
- 24:24Speaker 3: understand it? Does it make sense to them? The next
- 24:28Speaker 3: is is it something that they could actually manage in
- 24:32Speaker 3: the state that they're in now? You know, asking somebody
- 24:36Speaker 3: to do cognitive behavior work when their whole system is
- 24:40Speaker 3: disregulated and their bodies being filled with stress hormones which
- 24:44Speaker 3: takes the prefrontal cortex right offline, is not something that
- 24:49Speaker 3: they can manage, So you wouldn't use it until they
- 24:52Speaker 3: can manage it. So it can they understand it as
- 24:56Speaker 3: it comprehensible, is it manageable? And then finally, does what
- 25:00Speaker 3: you're asking them to do personally meaningful for them? Because
- 25:05Speaker 3: if it's not meaningful for them, they're not going to
- 25:07Speaker 3: do it.
- 25:07Speaker 2: None of us will do something if we don't feel
- 25:10Speaker 2: it's personally meaningful.
- 25:12Speaker 3: And then the fourth is what are the resources that
- 25:15Speaker 3: they already have had to use to survive. Let's identify
- 25:19Speaker 3: those and help them use them with intention. So those
- 25:24Speaker 3: are very different because it's not a focus on, oh,
- 25:27Speaker 3: how giving them a label. It's not focused on, you know,
- 25:31Speaker 3: creating a diagnosis and thinking.
- 25:34Speaker 2: That now I have a diagnosis, I know what to do.
- 25:36Speaker 3: Because the reality is if you have ten clients that
- 25:39Speaker 3: are bipolar, you have ten different ways bipolar is going
- 25:43Speaker 3: to present. So having a diagnosis does very little for
- 25:48Speaker 3: you in to actually bring healing or relief into people's lives.
- 25:54Speaker 3: And so since most people are trained in that idea
- 25:57Speaker 3: that we need a diagnosis and we need to treat
- 26:00Speaker 3: the diagnosis, well, it's kind of like you know that
- 26:06Speaker 3: you're high on the top of a mountain and they say,
- 26:12Speaker 3: don't look down.
- 26:12Speaker 2: What do you do? You look down?
- 26:14Speaker 3: And you know then it triggers all of this. Why
- 26:18Speaker 3: would we do that to somebody? Yet in mental health
- 26:21Speaker 3: we do it all the time. We focus on negative,
- 26:23Speaker 3: painful emotions and we light up the amiglatist system. And
- 26:28Speaker 3: when you light up the amiglative system, you put the
- 26:31Speaker 3: person in survival mode.
- 26:33Speaker 2: And when they're in survival.
- 26:34Speaker 3: Mode, they can't think clearly, they can't plan, they can't
- 26:37Speaker 3: follow through. Why in the world would we ever do
- 26:41Speaker 3: that to somebody. Imagine you're a child and every interaction
- 26:47Speaker 3: with your parent is a criticism for you or a
- 26:51Speaker 3: fault finding with you.
- 26:53Speaker 2: There's something wrong with you.
- 26:56Speaker 3: We have created a mental health world that is like
- 26:59Speaker 3: a critical parent. Well, this is what's wrong with you,
- 27:02Speaker 3: and this is what you need to be fixed, instead
- 27:05Speaker 3: of what is wonderful about this person? What is amazing
- 27:09Speaker 3: about that? Why am I not uncovering that? Why am
- 27:13Speaker 3: I not utilizing that? And that's the primary flaw that
- 27:18Speaker 3: I see out there is that this point of view,
- 27:23Speaker 3: the traditional mental health point of view, underserves people, and
- 27:27Speaker 3: it underserves them badly.
- 27:31Speaker 1: Robert, you're really good at this, do you do a
- 27:35Speaker 1: lot of interviews. I am very inspiringly, you're very inspiring.
- 27:46Speaker 1: So all right, as we kind of wind down here,
- 27:50Speaker 1: I think our listeners have a good idea, but specifically,
- 27:53Speaker 1: who who's the Arizona Trauma Institute. Who are the classes
- 27:59Speaker 1: for any therapist, anyone interested? You mentioned lay audience as well.
- 28:07Speaker 3: Sure, we have people that take a lot of our
- 28:10Speaker 3: classes that are not therapists because they just want.
- 28:13Speaker 2: To know the information.
- 28:15Speaker 3: Strange enough, we have a good number of parents that
- 28:18Speaker 3: are struggling with children that want to understand, particularly if
- 28:21Speaker 3: they've adopted children and didn't realize what was going to.
- 28:25Speaker 2: Come with that.
- 28:27Speaker 3: But most of the most all the courses are designed
- 28:29Speaker 3: for therapists, you know, social workers, psychologists and you.
- 28:36Speaker 2: Know other human service workers.
- 28:40Speaker 3: We have a few that are designed for educators, but
- 28:44Speaker 3: the bulk of what we do is really targeted towards
- 28:46Speaker 3: the mental health world. And but we have we even
- 28:51Speaker 3: have clients from from that will take those and then
- 28:56Speaker 3: we get nasty notes from their therapists. They take this
- 29:01Speaker 3: information back and say why aren't why aren't you doing this?
- 29:05Speaker 3: And so every once in a while I'll have somebody
- 29:08Speaker 3: call me and say, you know, I'm I'm I live here,
- 29:13Speaker 3: I'm having trouble finding a therapist, and I will comp
- 29:16Speaker 3: them a basic training so they know what to look for.
- 29:21Speaker 2: And that always.
- 29:25Speaker 3: Seems to put pressure on the people that they go
- 29:29Speaker 3: visit with. So so that's kind of but our main,
- 29:34Speaker 3: our main focus is on clinical programming.
- 29:38Speaker 1: Okay, as we kind of wind down here, Robert, what's
- 29:41Speaker 1: the best way for people to learn more about the
- 29:44Speaker 1: Arizona Truma Institute.
- 29:50Speaker 3: Go to our website, do a search on Google for
- 29:52Speaker 3: Arizona Trauma Institute. You're going to pull it up. You
- 29:56Speaker 3: can spend some time on it. We also have a
- 30:00Speaker 3: LinkedIn page, Facebook page. I don't particularly monitor the Facebook page,
- 30:08Speaker 3: but I usually am monitoring the LinkedIn page. So, and
- 30:14Speaker 3: we we really do respond pretty well to people, and
- 30:19Speaker 3: you know, we we do a lot of public service
- 30:22Speaker 3: kinds of things. I spent the hour before I joined
- 30:27Speaker 3: you today, I spent with a group of people that
- 30:30Speaker 3: are working with trauma survivors that through the from the
- 30:35Speaker 3: hurricane in Jamaica. Oh well, you know, it's just some
- 30:41Speaker 3: you know, they had some questions on so I do
- 30:44Speaker 3: kind of explain the difference between crisis and trauma and
- 30:48Speaker 3: that they're really doing with crisis, and this is what
- 30:50Speaker 3: you need to do in crisis. And when people get
- 30:54Speaker 3: through with crisis, maybe they'll need trauma therapy. But you know,
- 30:59Speaker 3: so those kinds of things. But yeah, we really, we
- 31:03Speaker 3: really do try to build a community wherever we are
- 31:06Speaker 3: working because it's really tough for therapists to go to
- 31:12Speaker 3: work with people that don't have any idea what we're
- 31:15Speaker 3: talking about and use a different kind of language or
- 31:18Speaker 3: get supervision. So we do the mentoring, we offer the
- 31:22Speaker 3: classes to support them so that they can have some
- 31:26Speaker 3: help in actually putting these things into practice.
- 31:29Speaker 2: And if you're curious, you're welcome to join one if
- 31:32Speaker 2: you want.
- 31:32Speaker 1: Guy, I tell you, you know, obviously I interview a
- 31:36Speaker 1: lot of people, but what sets you apart what you've
- 31:40Speaker 1: talked about, really the difference in what people are actually
- 31:47Speaker 1: are learning and what actually needs to be done and
- 31:50Speaker 1: how you are kind of transferring that into your education
- 31:54Speaker 1: and your courses is really inspiring. So I appreciate that,
- 32:00Speaker 1: and I'll take you up on that offer. For our listeners.
- 32:03Speaker 1: The website is azitrauma dot org and we'll have that
- 32:07Speaker 1: linked up here at the show notes page at the
- 32:09Speaker 1: Trauma therapist podcast dot com doctr roten awesome, super inspiring.
- 32:13Speaker 1: Appreciate you, We'll be in touch. Thank you, all right, sir,
- 32:19Speaker 1: all right,