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You don't support Megan Markle enough! | Maintaining Frame 150 · Honey Badger Radio

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  Speaker 1: Hello everybody, and welcome to Honey Badger Radio. My name
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  Speaker 1: is Brian Alison and this is maintaining frame number one fifty.
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  Speaker 1: Been hitting even numbers this week with shows you don't
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  Speaker 1: support Megan Markle enough or we're gonna be responding to you. Guys.
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  Speaker 1: Remember Megan Markle, She is back in the news sort of. Well, okay,
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  Speaker 1: so we've moved well no, I mean we've moved. The
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  Speaker 1: spotlight has moved away from her, but she is sort
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  Speaker 1: of pushing it on us now. So push pushing herself
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  Speaker 1: on the world. Yes, on the world.
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  Speaker 2: Pay attention to her.
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  Speaker 3: I don't recall consenting.
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  Speaker 1: To this, No, you did not, but it doesn't matter.
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  Speaker 1: So Megan Markle recently made an appearance on a podcast
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  Speaker 1: called Jamie Kerrn Lima. I don't know who that is.
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  Speaker 1: I think her podcast is called Worthy. It's a woman's podcast.
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  Speaker 2: No, just worthy.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what it means worthy. Yeah, but what
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  Speaker 1: were the what.
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  Speaker 3: Would the criteria worthiness?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. That's all.
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  Speaker 2: She's got a blog.
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  Speaker 1: And uh, it's just it's just worthy and it's about
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  Speaker 1: I'll show you her website. It's the number one self
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  Speaker 1: improvement podcast. Welcome to Jamie kern Lima's blog what would
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  Speaker 1: you do if you truly believed in you? Today is
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  Speaker 1: the day everything can change. The shortcuts are getting what
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  Speaker 1: you want, give first, how to empower yourself for joy online,
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  Speaker 1: how to answer the call for your purpose. It's a
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  Speaker 1: lot of the secret type stuff. I guess woman never.
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  Speaker 3: Get tired and tired of this obsequious crap.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, I guess not.
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  Speaker 3: It's incredible. I'm already tired of it.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, yes, it's it's it is yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. So she's got a podcast, this Jamie kern Lima person,
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  Speaker 1: and she had Megan Markle on her podcast because you
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  Speaker 1: guys know, Megan Markle attempted her own podcast.
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  Speaker 2: I think I.
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  Speaker 1: Can't remember what it was called. I think it was
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  Speaker 1: like uh archetypes or something, And she was trying to
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  Speaker 1: do a podcast basically about herself and and like having
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  Speaker 1: people on kind of like Michelle Obama's podcast, Call Her
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  Speaker 1: Daddy's Podcast, and so many others. Don Lemon has a
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  Speaker 1: podcast and well, I have my theories about what is
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  Speaker 1: causing this.
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  Speaker 2: So I think that do you want to do?
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  Speaker 1: You want to hear what I think why this is happening?
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  Speaker 1: So there's this been trend, this growing trend of female
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  Speaker 1: lead podcasts which basically have the appearance of a cozy
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  Speaker 1: environment where women are on there and they're like in
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  Speaker 1: their sweatpants, sweatpants, they're in sweatpants, and they're you know,
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  Speaker 1: without makeup, sipping tea or coffee or cocoa or whatever,
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  Speaker 1: and they're like, you know, curled up on the couch
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  Speaker 1: and they're and they're trying really hard to be authentic
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  Speaker 1: and they're sort of talking to each other and you know,
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  Speaker 1: girl talks to night.
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  Speaker 3: Can I make a point, Yeah, I'm guaranteed that none
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  Speaker 3: of those women aren't wearing makeup.
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  Speaker 1: No I know, but they're but the I know, but
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  Speaker 1: they're putting on the appearance. It's the it's the illusion.
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  Speaker 1: So the re so the thing is, this is a
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  Speaker 1: growing trend. Okay, So they basically female hosted podcast create
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  Speaker 1: a cozy environment for fostering heartfelt, honest conversations in black settings.
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  Speaker 2: And this is like the new trend.
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  Speaker 1: But but the thing is all it is is they're
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  Speaker 1: they're chasing the trend that was already there and I
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  Speaker 1: think it was started by men. And now let me
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  Speaker 1: let me make the case for that.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, so men have been podcasting.
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  Speaker 1: There are women have podcasts that I'm not saying they haven't,
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  Speaker 1: but men are the ones that started making it very
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  Speaker 1: sort of authentic. You had like people like Joe Rogan
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  Speaker 1: when he started out. You had people like it wasn't
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  Speaker 1: a podcast, but it was a similar kind of relaxed environment.
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  Speaker 1: Was it Doctor Drew and he had like Adam Carolla
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  Speaker 1: as his co host on the radio, or there was
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  Speaker 1: a Doctor Strange Love not the movie, but there was
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  Speaker 1: at it was like a dating podcast or relationship show
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  Speaker 1: and people would call in and talk to the guy.
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  Speaker 1: But but it sort of really took off, like around
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  Speaker 1: the time that Joe Rogan, Hulk Hogan Stone called Steve Austin.
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  Speaker 1: They had podcasts and they were just like talking about
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  Speaker 1: stuff online and they were being like trying to, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I think, talk about like real stuff that people cared about.
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  Speaker 1: But it was mostly men that were doing it. And
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  Speaker 1: then we had that take off in a big way,
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  Speaker 1: and there was this separation between the way that young
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  Speaker 1: people were getting information, which was from watching podcasts, to
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  Speaker 1: the way that old people used to get their information,
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  Speaker 1: which was from the legacy media, right and the legacy
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  Speaker 1: media would put on like the whole like show of
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  Speaker 1: like here's how you used to be paying attention to.
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  Speaker 1: It's like the tabloids. You go to the supermarket and
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  Speaker 1: you get the Inquirer or the Sun or whatever they
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  Speaker 1: call it where you're at, and it's just like people,
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  Speaker 1: it's gossip about stuff happening. And if you think about it,
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  Speaker 1: it was aimed at women because before we had that
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  Speaker 1: mass media, women would do that in their own communities
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  Speaker 1: because they were it was it was a good instinct
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  Speaker 1: for women to be on the lookout for people who
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  Speaker 1: were in the community that were, you know, perhaps a
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  Speaker 1: threat to it in some way or that they were
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  Speaker 1: going to be disruptive force. And so the women in
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  Speaker 1: the community would talk about that and there was a
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  Speaker 1: danger of things becoming to gossipy, but it was like
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  Speaker 1: a necessary evil, right And if you go to like
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  Speaker 1: Eastern European countries like Poland and Russia and Ukraine and
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  Speaker 1: Moldova and stuff that still happens, like you have the
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  Speaker 1: communities have like their watchdogs, which are the surveillance system,
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  Speaker 1: which is basically old ladies on their balconies and they
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  Speaker 1: would network with each other and talk to each other
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  Speaker 1: about what was happening. So it makes sense that like
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  Speaker 1: in the modern world, like in the West, here you
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  Speaker 1: have that sort of coming out in tabloids, in paparazzi,
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  Speaker 1: and they were like constantly talking about what the famous
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  Speaker 1: person did.
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  Speaker 2: You know, they get pictures of.
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  Speaker 1: People and then they like put like a headline like oh,
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  Speaker 1: they're so exhausted or they're on drugs or whatever, and
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  Speaker 1: that would create conversations. But it wasn't authentic, wasn't real.
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  Speaker 1: I remember we had Lisa Brighton on a while back,
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  Speaker 1: who's very active on Twitter. She's a big men's advocate,
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  Speaker 1: and she would talk. She used to work in entertainment media,
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  Speaker 1: and so she had stories about going to Hollywood parties
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  Speaker 1: and how most of the time Hollywood actors that were
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  Speaker 1: trying to like become more relevant again would actually contact
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  Speaker 1: paparazzi and get them to like catch them on the
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  Speaker 1: beach or on a walk or coming out of the
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  Speaker 1: gym or whatever it is, and then make it a
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  Speaker 1: headline so that people would talk about them, so they
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  Speaker 1: would become relevant, so they might get a job. Like
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  Speaker 1: it's all very like incestuous and interlinked. So it was
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  Speaker 1: it was losing all of its authenticity, and then you
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  Speaker 1: had these male podcasters that just wanted to talk about
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  Speaker 1: like real stuff, right and to whoever, Like Joe Rogan
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  Speaker 1: would have on guys from you know, philosophers to you know,
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  Speaker 1: historians and Mma five like whatever it is that dudes
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  Speaker 1: were into. And generally men are into that kind of thing.
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  Speaker 1: They're into you know, non fiction literature for example. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: nonfiction and these kind of other ideas. So Joe was
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  Speaker 1: very popular with men. And then I remember having a
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  Speaker 1: conversation with Paul Elam a while ago, and I was
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  Speaker 1: talking about some of that. He said that, you know
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  Speaker 1: what people really want right now, this was like last year,
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  Speaker 1: I think is authenticity.
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  Speaker 2: They just want people to just be real.
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  Speaker 3: And really popular.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, well we should, but I think that there are
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  Speaker 1: things like keeping us, you know, back, because maybe we're
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  Speaker 1: too real.
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  Speaker 2: But but what I what?
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  Speaker 1: I so Okay, So here's what I think caused the
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  Speaker 1: recent sort of like growth of these podcasts that are
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  Speaker 1: trying to be authentic. I think it's because of the
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  Speaker 1: success of male podcasters, specifically after the last election. Because
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  Speaker 1: what and this is important, it's an important detail because
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  Speaker 1: what Trump did that Kamal Harris did not do was
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  Speaker 1: instead of going to the media to like to raise
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  Speaker 1: awareness or to consciousness of people about what he was
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  Speaker 1: running on in his campaign, he went to podcasts. He
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  Speaker 1: was on THEO Vaughn, he was on Andrew Schultz, he
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  Speaker 1: was on Joe Rogan, he was on I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: remember the guy's name, but there was another guy who
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  Speaker 1: named it slips in my mind, but uh oh, it's
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  Speaker 1: like right into my tongue.
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  Speaker 2: It doesn't matter.
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  Speaker 1: But he went on all these different podcasts which were
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  Speaker 1: normally just guys that were like just into guy things. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: They talk about relationships, they talk about marriage, like Andrew
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  Speaker 1: Schultz had a divorce lawyer on recently and there and
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  Speaker 1: a lot of these guys are comedians like that.
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  Speaker 2: That's what they did on the side, right, and.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I think one that was one of the
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  Speaker 1: things that won him the election was that he tried
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  Speaker 1: to go and talk to real people that were doing real.
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  Speaker 2: Stuff, okay.
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  Speaker 1: And the legacy media was shocked by that, and that's
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  Speaker 1: when they started saying, well, we need our own Joe Rogan, right,
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  Speaker 1: we need our own Joe Rogan. And they still don't
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  Speaker 1: get that it's not about getting like a guy that
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  Speaker 1: represents her team, because Joe Rogan wasn't really on any
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  Speaker 1: of my side. It was about just having a real
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  Speaker 1: conversation with a real person, and he was doing this
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  Speaker 1: was happening way before, okay, And this is I think
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  Speaker 1: comes down to the way men communicate. And so when
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  Speaker 1: I I didn't watch this whole thing because this is
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  Speaker 1: too much for me to bear. But just based on
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  Speaker 1: what little I've seen of this show, this is exactly
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  Speaker 1: like the call her Daddy thing. So call her Daddy.
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  Speaker 1: They did get Kamala Harrison. We kind of did a
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  Speaker 1: response video to it. It turned out we learned later
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  Speaker 1: that the studio was built for that show. That's how
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  Speaker 1: fake it was. It was a set that they set
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  Speaker 1: up for that show to make it look like they were,
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  Speaker 1: like you know, on cozy couches, sipping coco and having
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  Speaker 1: like a girl on girl conversation when that was not
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  Speaker 1: the case. So now these big celebrities, and I mean,
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  Speaker 1: like Megan Marco's a big celebrity, regardless of, like you know,
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  Speaker 1: whether or not you think she is deserving of that.
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  Speaker 1: She is one like Michelle Obama, Like you know, Bill Maher.
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  Speaker 2: Has done it. Don Lemon has done it like so.
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  Speaker 1: Many people, and it's because they are trying to play
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  Speaker 1: catch up now. So men have been doing it as
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  Speaker 1: an organic thing that they were just naturally interested in
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  Speaker 1: and they just did it and it became popular because
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  Speaker 1: they love what they were doing. And these people are
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  Speaker 1: trying to play catch up now, so there is a
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  Speaker 1: so you're gonna see more of this. You're gonna see
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  Speaker 1: more of these sort of like you know, illusory organic podcasts.
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  Speaker 1: I suspect that the conversations aren't even normal, but we
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  Speaker 1: will get into it. But I just wanted to say
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  Speaker 1: a little bit about what the era that we're entering,
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  Speaker 1: which is because the media as a news organism is
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  Speaker 1: like becoming less and less relevant over time, and the
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  Speaker 1: podcast is how people are getting their information now, or
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  Speaker 1: at least more and more of them. So that's where
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  Speaker 1: I think people like us should you know, be paying
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  Speaker 1: very close attention because we have an opportunity now and
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  Speaker 1: we could be we could be real.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, we could be real.
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  Speaker 1: So I think we're real. No, I know, I know,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm I mean that's what we try to be.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm saying like as opposed to you know, this podcast.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, well I really shouldn't criticize this because you know,
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  Speaker 3: glass houses, but the color grading of this is boring
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  Speaker 3: as hell. The makeup artist needs to be fired. They
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  Speaker 3: look like they just they just had a they just
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  Speaker 3: nose dived into a bucket of KFC. Little little a
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  Speaker 3: little bit too much trying to look really young there
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  Speaker 3: with the with the with the serums, like the the
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  Speaker 3: glossy makeup. That's that's apparently one way of making your
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  Speaker 3: skin look younger. You slather on like oily makeup, and
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  Speaker 3: so it gives you that oily teenage quality.
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  Speaker 1: I guess I just I think I think that she's
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  Speaker 1: supposed to like she had been crying.
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  Speaker 3: Oh okay, well my apologies, although why are they both
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  Speaker 3: oh they were both crying with each other?
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  Speaker 2: Is that what women do?
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  Speaker 1: I think?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, didn't you see Midsummer?
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  Speaker 4: Uh?
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  Speaker 1: I think there's well, look, I haven't watched the whole thing,
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  Speaker 1: but there is a bit of that. There's a bit
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  Speaker 1: of like, you know, getting the vapors and then the
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  Speaker 1: other girl gets the vapors and they're just sort of
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  Speaker 1: this is this is really gonna be cringe.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just like, all I can say is the more
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  Speaker 3: that I watched women, the more I wonder what the
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  Speaker 3: hell I am gone some weird other thing, because yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I've never I've never really felt the urge to do
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  Speaker 3: these kinds of things. Okay, let's here. If you want
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  Speaker 3: to pick this up, I'm gonna do so.
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  Speaker 1: Go ahead and do the things before we get into this.
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  Speaker 1: All right, So this podcast was about an hour and
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  Speaker 1: a half long.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not going to watch the whole thing.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just jumping because a lot of it is well
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  Speaker 1: most of it is just kind of vapid. But I
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  Speaker 1: will jump to a bit here where they talk about
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  Speaker 1: friendship and support the power of listening. That's it, the
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  Speaker 1: power of listening. And remember this is I think, honestly,
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  Speaker 1: this is a last ditch effort for Megan Markle to
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  Speaker 1: gain relevancy. You know what's what's really funny about this.
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  Speaker 1: This channel that she's on only has eighty thousand subscribers.
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  Speaker 1: Oh only only, geez, eighty thousand for the Duchess of
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  Speaker 1: Sussex or whatever Suffix. I don't even know.
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  Speaker 2: Sussex.
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  Speaker 1: That was awesome, Duchess the Princess.
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  Speaker 3: We should petition to have her changed the Duchess of Suffix.
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  Speaker 3: Everything else she does become the Suffix.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah all right, Oh, yes, our kids got their report cards,
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  Speaker 5: so I was thinking about memory Lane with that, I'll
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  Speaker 5: get back to your question in a second. But you'll
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  Speaker 5: like this where you're going through. And that's when grades
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  Speaker 5: weren't ABCD at that age, Yes, right, like satisfactory, unsatisfactory
• 16:46
  Speaker 5: or I don't know what the best one would be.
• 16:50
  Speaker 5: When it came to ability to throw and catch a ball,
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  Speaker 5: not applicable, Oh my god. Well I'm a great runner
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  Speaker 5: of someone chasing me otherwise, just not the most athletic.
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  Speaker 5: So there are certain things that we have built in
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  Speaker 5: as strengths, and then there are certain things that are
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  Speaker 5: opportunities for growth. And I've just I love when things
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  Speaker 5: look beautiful. And even when you don't have a lot,
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  Speaker 5: you're able to make things look beautiful. And I think.
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  Speaker 1: About depth, you see.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, I see when you don't have a lot, you're
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  Speaker 3: able to make things look beautiful, a lot of what
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  Speaker 3: what don't you have a lot of? Aside from common
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  Speaker 3: sense and decency?
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  Speaker 1: Don't you see how hard her life is, Alison, She's
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  Speaker 1: only the princess.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, I'm suffering. I have a hair in my face.
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  Speaker 3: I can tell you relate to her.
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  Speaker 2: You can relate to that.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, three, I think I need Oh.
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  Speaker 3: By the way, Brian, I have a I'm doing a drawing.
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  Speaker 3: If you want to share that, I don't know. If
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  Speaker 3: you don't, if it's too much trouble, don't worry about it.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I don't know. There's like I'm juggling a
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  Speaker 1: few things right now.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, small apartments that I've had, or you know, small
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  Speaker 5: tiny kitchens that I had, or even when I had
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  Speaker 5: my first apartment and I went to Northwestern in Evanston.
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  Speaker 3: And what is she trying to be relatable?
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  Speaker 2: I think so?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, yes, the creature is trying to be relatable. I
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  Speaker 1: am just like you. I once had a small bedroom
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  Speaker 1: and a small kitchen. I mean this, there's well, okay, there,
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  Speaker 1: she's trying to make herself sound like she's just she's
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  Speaker 1: not different from any other girl.
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  Speaker 2: And I think that's that.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, this is what I mean when I say
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  Speaker 1: there's a there's an attempt to appear authentic, and you
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  Speaker 1: just know, like we're talking to is this?
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  Speaker 2: Does she kind of royalty like literal royal?
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  Speaker 3: Yes she does, Yeah she does?
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  Speaker 1: Right, So this is kind of wild, right, but this
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: is how sad things are for her.
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: I wonder where Harry is.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: Are they still are they like, are they like getting
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: a divorce or something. I don't know.
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: No, I've heard I think I've heard that rumor. I
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: think Harry is charged somewhere. She just got him stuck
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: in like in a Tesla start charging station or something. Yeah,
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: she replaced him with an automaton.
• 19:30
  Speaker 5: Okay, the sorority that I lived in for a couple
• 19:34
  Speaker 5: of years.
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: What I'm totally feeling the connection between you and me.
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: You lived in a sorority.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: I was just in college like anybody else, like any
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: other girl, like any other I was young and stupid.
• 19:52
  Speaker 5: Apartment, and that's when I would sit there and watch
• 19:55
  Speaker 5: Food Network all the time and learn how to make
• 19:57
  Speaker 5: certain things and make really like how to make a
• 20:01
  Speaker 5: pasta more special. And you would see plating, you would
• 20:03
  Speaker 5: see someone drizzle the olive oil on top, and somehow
• 20:07
  Speaker 5: it elevated it beyond what I thought were, Oh god,
• 20:11
  Speaker 5: this is painful.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: I know it is.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: It is.
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: It's just you know it is. It's just like a
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: woman talks and the other woman just nods and smiles
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: like she totally gets it, and and then it just
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: that's it.
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: That's the whole show.
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: Like there's no there's no debate, there's no tension, there's
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: no like I'm gonna push back on that, like there's
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: none of that, Like that's the stuff I don't I'm
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: not like a guy who enjoys debate, because I think
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: that a lot of people online that debate these days
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: they just do it to like to grow a brand
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: and and sell merchandise and like, I don't know, score points.
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: I don't want. I don't like that aspect, but I
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: do see it a lot.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: But this is like.
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: I don't, I don't know, Like they're safe and then
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: they're safe, and then there's this right, it's just.
• 21:03
  Speaker 5: But anyway, great dinners at Olive Garden, right, like love
• 21:08
  Speaker 5: the never ending possible, Oh.
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: Geez, thelus. The clubs love Olive Garden. The clubs love
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: plating and the cooking shows. Yeah, how did Amber heard
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: call it? The the.
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: Oh?
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: She had a particular way of preferring to people, the
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: little people. It was so arrogant, I cannot remember.
• 21:33
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: That's the thing that's funny about this is that you
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: know she can't help.
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: The rand at the rands. Don't they like the Olive Garden?
• 21:49
  Speaker 3: What is it? The the car the thing that I
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: haven't eaten in twenty years?
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 21:59
  Speaker 5: All right, oh man, beautifully as it was going to taste.
• 22:03
  Speaker 5: And I loved watching people get excited about that when
• 22:07
  Speaker 5: they'd see it.
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: Oh good lord, Megan, and I guess it.
• 22:11
  Speaker 5: Translates into a lot of different things, but it's attention
• 22:14
  Speaker 5: to detail.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: All right, we're getting into the We're getting into something
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: a little bit better.
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: It's a couple of.
• 22:28
  Speaker 5: Details.
• 22:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah. I like bread.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: Do you like bread?
• 22:31
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: Bread is wonderful. I like white bread, white bread. Oh
• 22:36
  Speaker 3: it's marvelous. Yes, plate it, yes, would plate that bread
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: make it look really attractive.
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: I wonder if she's selling a book or something that
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: that's that's what. Oh ship They hold hands at the end,
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: okay me me you kind of started this too, or
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: like like sort of like open the door for the
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: female version of this was Drew Barrymore's show where she
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: was Yeah, do you know Drew Barrymore had like a
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: she has like a daytime show or something, and she
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: she's not like the view where they just rant about
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: politics all day because they're just angry old ladies. But
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: she's she's this, she's like a girl who never grew up.
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: It's it's kind of sad, but it's all about being
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: It's like this cozy thing that they that they're doing.
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: I don't know, man, I don't know. I don't I
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: don't get it.
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: Women these days they just want to be cozy and
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: they want to be lied to and they want to feel.
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: Safe, and so this is for them, That's what I think.
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: But if you want to suck basically, yeah, not in
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: a way that they could actually be judged by judged.
• 23:43
  Speaker 5: It's kind of rooted in what people's experience of it
• 23:45
  Speaker 5: is going to be. So it makes them happy to receive,
• 23:49
  Speaker 5: it makes me happier to give it to them. It does.
• 23:53
  Speaker 5: Like I knew when I dropped off that strawberry, it
• 23:58
  Speaker 5: wasn't even preserves, it didn't have time to set. I
• 24:01
  Speaker 5: just made a quick, quick one because we had a
• 24:03
  Speaker 5: lot of strawberries at the time. And I heard what
• 24:05
  Speaker 5: you were saying and how many people were there, and
• 24:06
  Speaker 5: I just knew, and even if we never talked about it,
• 24:10
  Speaker 5: that it would brighten your day and what was probably
• 24:13
  Speaker 5: a really overwhelming day that made me, oh my god.
• 24:17
  Speaker 4: What.
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: Also, when you create jams or jellies, they usually take
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: a while to set, so the chillen set right, you
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: pour them in and I guess.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: I don't know people in my in my neighborhood, they
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: make you know, like at the hardware store you can
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: get like arm made jellies and jams. I mean they're great,
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: but those are just normal people. Those are plubs, so
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: probably not as good.
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: Okay, So.
• 24:51
  Speaker 5: I feel excited at the possibility of being able to
• 24:55
  Speaker 5: have some offering that would make you feel good. And
• 25:01
  Speaker 5: I guess over the years, like again back to wanting
• 25:03
  Speaker 5: to feel seen and wanting people to feel seen. Oh god,
• 25:07
  Speaker 5: it shows it early listening to I Want to Feel Seen.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: Wait, I thought I thought that she wanted her privacy though,
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: isn't that Uh, if women wanted this content, it would
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: have more views.
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: I don't know how many views.
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: It has two d two hundred thousand views, but you
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: have to wonder how many Hi, many of those people
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: are hate watchers.
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: Having my contribution to the world being I want to
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: feel seen?
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, we can't not be made to see you.
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: You're literally a princess.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: Like that's insane?
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: Is she princess?
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: So she's well, what isn't isn't that the same thing?
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: She's royalty?
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: Right, I mean I guess.
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: Wouldn't we could just turn off the podcast that we
• 26:03
  Speaker 3: wouldn't have to see her can Uh. Somebody has requested
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: I think did you see that?
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: Mm hmmm were you?
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: I mean in the chat, Yeah.
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: Gabriel Feelin Lucas.
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: Oh, he says, show us the doodles.
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: Alison Mia fan club demands it.
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: Mia is like, really, it's a membership comment. That's why
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: I didn't see it in my stream.
• 26:27
  Speaker 4: Yea.
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: Mia is sitting in her uh, she's I have The
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: people on the discord wanted me to get this gigantic
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: It's it's like a this guy, right, this guy the
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: name is escaping me.
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know what that's called, but I know
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: what that is.
• 26:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's me. It's just on the tip of
• 26:58
  Speaker 3: my tongue. It's a meme creature her, I mean creature.
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: I sound like a freaking boomer. It's one of those
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: those those those New Field little doodles that the young
• 27:09
  Speaker 3: people make.
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: What did they call them?
• 27:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah? May but yeah, it's he. I got a huge one.
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: It's like six foot tall, and I got from the
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: people in the discord that got it, and she's cuddled
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: up in it. It's it's actually sort of cute. She's
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: cuddled up in the ankle of it. It's sort of cute.
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: I should show you guys sometime. But yeah, I'm sorry
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: that she's quiescent. Thus the stream is not being is
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: not suffering any technical difficulties anyway, I'm not sure if
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: Brian can show you the doodle.
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: Because that's is it on another screen?
• 27:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sharing it the screen.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, hold on, I can replace the current thing
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: with that thing.
• 28:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I just want I'm worried to you guys that
• 28:02
  Speaker 3: I'm not Uh, I'm not. I'm not completely comfortable with
• 28:06
  Speaker 3: this yet, so all right, hold on a second. I'm
• 28:16
  Speaker 3: still I'm still working on getting comfortable with this screen,
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: and I might have to actually change how what the
• 28:22
  Speaker 3: logitech is like?
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's a drawing of a face. What are
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: you doing?
• 28:33
  Speaker 6: I'm trying to reach the logitech, but I'm too short.
• 28:35
  Speaker 6: I'm like, I just need like three more inches. Okay,
• 28:42
  Speaker 6: I'll be right back, keep going.
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: Well uh yeah, so anyway, that's the that's what she's
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: working on. All right, give me a second, Let's switch
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: it back to the video. So make sure that my
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: stream is still running.
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: Okay, all right, there, so I shouldn't be too much
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: off the uh the screen of all right.
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: Okay, so I shared with them the what you were doing,
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: but I just switched it back.
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: So yeah, all right.
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: It was that.
• 29:20
  Speaker 5: You can show up for them no matter what you
• 29:23
  Speaker 5: have going on. And a lot of that's probably doing
• 29:26
  Speaker 5: the things for other people that I had missed for
• 29:28
  Speaker 5: so long when you don't feel seen, or when you
• 29:31
  Speaker 5: feel lonely and you just want someone to like reach
• 29:35
  Speaker 5: out in a meaningful and thoughtful way, not with a
• 29:37
  Speaker 5: huge gesture, but something of like, no, I really like
• 29:39
  Speaker 5: I see you, I'm thinking about you over there, tiny
• 29:42
  Speaker 5: tiny things, and so.
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: Somebody has to do something for you before you could
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: do something for other people. Okay, oh yeah, the eternal
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: salopity someone's life.
• 29:56
  Speaker 4: Mm hmm.
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: I feel this so much. I feel this so deeply.
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel this in my entire brain devoted to
• 30:03
  Speaker 3: being bored out of my skull.
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: All right, So we're getting to the point where she
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: talks about empowering female founders, which I'm.
• 30:12
  Speaker 5: Trying to get to what that to me is not work?
• 30:16
  Speaker 5: That's complete, complete joy?
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: Why to women never do it? What? Well, you know,
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: there's things that women just don't do. They don't seem
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: to do things too in general to help men, and
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: they don't seem to police each other. These are things
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: that men do for women though, or at least generically.
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: Maybe it's always about some form of self and grandization.
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: And I think it's because when I say that, I
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: mean it seems like being a woman is the majority
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: of what these women are. You know what I mean,
• 30:57
  Speaker 3: Like if you had like a a circle to indicate
• 31:01
  Speaker 3: a sense of self, most of their self is derived
• 31:05
  Speaker 3: from being a woman, not being an individual, not their
• 31:08
  Speaker 3: moral accomplishments, not their their actual skill set. It's just
• 31:12
  Speaker 3: like I'm a woman. So when they help other women,
• 31:16
  Speaker 3: it's just another sort of selfish gesture, self interest. I'm
• 31:22
  Speaker 3: just like, it just seems like it's so common.
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: So this show, this Jamie Kerrn lima thing, it actually
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: is pretty powerful in terms of its backing. So first
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: of all, here's her talking to Oprah. So that's insane.
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: That's how you know, Like the podcasting thing is like
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: the thing now when you have to have Oprah like
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: on your show and Oprah's not having you on hers,
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: that's how you know, Okay, And then here we go.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: She's been featured on Good Morning America Today, CBS This Morning.
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: So all of the legacy media stuff, CNN and Cosmo, Glamour, Allure,
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: Mary Claire, New York, Ellen's c NBC, People, QBC, Shape,
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: so Bloomberg, Vanity Fair. So she's absolutely establishment, but she's
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: creating the illusion of like, you know, completely organic and
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: I mean, like, say what you want about Joe Rogan,
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: but that's organic like that He just he just built
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: that on his own. The only thing he had was
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: he was on fear factory. He did some stand up
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: you know. So this this is like the astroturft to hell.
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: And here's her book, Worthy. Remember you said worthy of
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: what How to believe you are enough and transform your life?
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: What has helped doubt?
• 32:48
  Speaker 4: What?
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: How do you.
• 32:49
  Speaker 3: Transform your life by believing that you're enough?
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: What does it mean to believe that you're enough? I
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: mean we're getting to the crux of something here, aren't we. Yeah?
• 33:02
  Speaker 3: I finically are.
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like women don't have to do anything, they are enough.
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: This is where you get the what do you bring
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: to the table my presence?
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: I am the table. Worthy.
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: It's time to build unshakable self worth together simple steps,
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: life changing results.
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: Imagine what you do if.
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: You fully believed in you, When you stop out in
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: your a greatness, build unshakable self worth and embrace who
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: you are, you transform your entire life. Worthy teaches you
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: how with simple steps that lead to life changing results.
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: Order Worthy.
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: Now, how much does it cost?
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: I want to know?
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: This is such a scam. It's such a scam.
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, Amazon. Let's see on Amazon. Worthy is Oh,
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: it's on sale forty four percent off. Normally it would
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: be twenty seven dollars for a book that is all.
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: About how it's such a value. I'm absorbed.
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: But you can get it on sale right now for
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: fifteen bucks. So yeah, yeah, anyway, so that's kind of
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: like just a little bit about the host of the show,
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: like what is the show about? So all right.
• 34:21
  Speaker 3: Ready, yeah, if you want, you can show me doodling
• 34:26
  Speaker 3: or just.
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: Can't do both at the same time. I can't do
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: both at the same time.
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: I mean I could unless you change, unless I change
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: your camera to just your your doodling, But then it's
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: just going to be your You're not going to be
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: on camera anymore.
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: What do you guys think? You guys make the decision?
• 34:47
  Speaker 3: All right?
• 34:49
  Speaker 7: It reminds me of a moment, I remember, you know, yeah,
• 34:53
  Speaker 7: we have a lot of fun in the rock and chairs. Yeah,
• 34:55
  Speaker 7: we have all the things. Yeah. And also I'm thinking
• 34:59
  Speaker 7: about women where I was having the worst day and
• 35:02
  Speaker 7: I was so sad, and I remember you canceled a
• 35:05
  Speaker 7: date night, came over, sat in the rocking chairs and
• 35:08
  Speaker 7: I was like sorry. I was like, I was like crying,
• 35:14
  Speaker 7: I had no make us at my bright red roseation
• 35:16
  Speaker 7: and I was like and.
• 35:19
  Speaker 5: I could just tell you just need you just I
• 35:21
  Speaker 5: was like, I don't think we have a date night.
• 35:22
  Speaker 5: You're like, okay, what you just.
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: Dribble?
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: This is what women are watching. I think I think
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: it's important to know. Well maybe not maybe not a lot,
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: maybe not this one, but a lot of this uh
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: affirmation stuff is very popular with women. Let me see
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: if maybe maybe it's just because this is Megan Markle.
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: Uh yeah, so like this video got uh two hundred
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: thousand views or other videos get depending on the guests,
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: Like Oprah uh is like about the same amount, like
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: two hundred thousand views, and there's and then there's call
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: Her Daddy, which is probably a bit more up the.
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: Up her alley.
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: So let me see if I go to just out
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: of curiosity if I go to call her daddy this
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: this channel has a million and a quarter of subscribers,
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: and she her videos feature you.
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: Know, pretty big stars.
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: Like I apparently Megan Fox was on there and Chloe
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: Kardashian and Whiz Khalifa and stuff, and they that that
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: one has like typically half a million, three quarters of
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: a million views. This is probably women watching this stuff.
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: This is really low energy, low energy.
• 36:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah, how about how about this? Can you switch it
• 36:59
  Speaker 3: to the drawing while we're paused? I mean not now,
• 37:01
  Speaker 3: because we're gonna unpause? But or is that too complicated?
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: I could do it? Uh?
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: Well, I I think I'd have to create a new
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: scene and add it to.
• 37:19
  Speaker 3: Okay, no, if it's too difficult, no, don't worry about it.
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it would be involved, Okay.
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: I mean if you wanted to just do an art stream,
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: then we could just do an art stream.
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: Okay, don't worry about it, all right, don't stress out
• 37:32
  Speaker 3: of it. Okay.
• 37:35
  Speaker 7: The most powerful advice, it's like when you when you
• 37:39
  Speaker 7: have felt unseen or you have felt like maybe you
• 37:42
  Speaker 7: had needs and friendships or this or that, It's like
• 37:44
  Speaker 7: it's like be the friend that you want in your life,
• 37:48
  Speaker 7: and you do that your close friends and family, so
• 37:53
  Speaker 7: many of them call you m and Harry h Yes,
• 37:56
  Speaker 7: how did that start?
• 37:58
  Speaker 5: And tell me about that? Probably at the beginning of
• 38:02
  Speaker 5: us dating.
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: Let me jump ahead to the empowering female founders thing.
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: I think that's like right here?
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: Can we can we jump ahead to something that's not
• 38:12
  Speaker 3: making me fall asleep?
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: The whole thing is like this though I don't know.
• 38:15
  Speaker 5: Oh, good lord, so I love nicknames.
• 38:19
  Speaker 7: You are such a big proponent of women, of female founders. Yes,
• 38:26
  Speaker 7: for my birthday, you had you you shared this incredible
• 38:30
  Speaker 7: handbag by this amazing company.
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: You wore.
• 38:34
  Speaker 7: You recently wore a Valencia Key bracelet and holy moly,
• 38:40
  Speaker 7: her business she she shared her business, uh exploded. She
• 38:45
  Speaker 7: had an eleven thousand percent increase in sales, Like for
• 38:49
  Speaker 7: weeks straight, everything's sold out.
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: And because of well, yeah, I guess, Valencia Key bracelet.
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: No, but because of Megan, Well I guess.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: So, I mean there are still there are still people.
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: You have Valencia Key Jewelry, Home and Lifestyle, and yeah,
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: it's a brand. So here's the I can show you all.
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: Here's the website. Valencia Key Luxury with a Heart but
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: it is like it's high end, expensive jewelry. And here
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: is Megan wearing the bracelet. So this was used to
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: sell the product. Basically, Sean Balencay key gold tone, silver tone,
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: how much does this stuff cost? And isn't that the
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: one hundred and twenty five dollars for this? So this
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: is the thing about what I what I think is
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: funny about this is that they're calling this your you know,
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: supporting women, but they're like also already rich women that
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: she is, Like, so like what is this Like this
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: person already sells I mean, one hundred and twenty five
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: dollars for a bracelet. Maybe that's not that much money,
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: but it sounds like a lot to me, Like I
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: don't have that kind of money for fucking jewelry.
• 40:12
  Speaker 3: In China.
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: Mostly yeah, I don't know.
• 40:18
  Speaker 2: And now I'm curious.
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: Eight K plated surgical through three hundred and sixteen L
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: stainless steel. So it's gold plated. It's not actually gold AK.
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: Plated eight carrots, Is that right? AK carrots?
• 40:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's gold plated, not gold.
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: So essentially, Megan is acting as a kind of influencer
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: to help her pretty well off friends become more well off.
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: And this girl's calling that supporting the Sisterhood, right.
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah I hear that. Yeah yeah, yeah yeah.
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: It says gold gold tone is what it says. So
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: it doesn't say if it's plated or painted. But yeah,
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: so so that's okay. So I want to see there's
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: anymore to this.
• 41:16
  Speaker 7: There's this thing known as the Megan effect.
• 41:19
  Speaker 3: What the Megan effect? Yeah, is that when you feel
• 41:27
  Speaker 3: slight nausea.
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what you're experiencing. I think that's the uh
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: sanity effect. Like if you're not taken in by this,
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: let me see here, how much more is it?
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: Forty eight?
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: So the Megan effect? What is that?
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: Let's see?
• 41:45
  Speaker 5: It makes me feel really great when specifically it can
• 41:49
  Speaker 5: help uplift brands that have a great ethos and female
• 41:54
  Speaker 5: founders and yeah, so rich and.
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: I'm supposed to be like, oh ya, yeah, you're supposed
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: to be totally like yas queen. I mean, what what
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: is the purpose of the Sisterhood if it isn't to
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: allow poor women feel like they're they're like they don't
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: have to look at their actual material circumstances, to celebrate
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: womanhood by taking sort of like credit for you know,
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: the I wouldn't even say achievement, but like the the
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: good fortune of really affluent women like oh that that powerful, rich,
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: famous woman is making it. And because I am also
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: a woman, I get to feel good about that.
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: Yay me go us. But it doesn't really benefit you,
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: like you're just kind of.
• 42:44
  Speaker 3: I don't know, benefrates me in my girl cell, which
• 42:47
  Speaker 3: is you know, according to Eve Ensler, that's the thing
• 42:50
  Speaker 3: that I share with all the other women.
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 42:53
  Speaker 3: Uh, you know, it's the resonance in the girls cell.
• 42:57
  Speaker 3: That's that's where I feel it. And it feels all
• 43:00
  Speaker 3: tingley or something. I mean, I don't actually benefit any
• 43:04
  Speaker 3: material well, but you know, a material way.
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: They're trying to make.
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: Meredithg says, they're trying to make fetch happen.
• 43:13
  Speaker 3: What's fetch?
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: You don't know?
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: No, it's fetch. Yeah, well I don't.
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: I don't know what to tell you, but word, yeah fetch.
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: Have you ever seen girls.
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: Girls?
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: No?
• 43:31
  Speaker 3: I haven't.
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: Oh as you gotta watch mean Girls.
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: Great, I'm sure I do.
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: It's a it's awesome, all right, Yeah, oh fetch? What
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: is fetch?
• 43:42
  Speaker 5: It's like saying England?
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: All right, so uh, let's listen more.
• 43:50
  Speaker 5: I wasn't out talking, so if you couldn't hear me,
• 43:55
  Speaker 5: how could I be heard through what I was wearing?
• 43:57
  Speaker 5: If that's what people were focusing on, or the choices
• 44:00
  Speaker 5: I was making, that you don't have to say.
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, nobody's listening to me. So I have to use
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: my autrum to get people to like see and if
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: I can help, if I can help someone with a small,
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: honest business that has a good ethos and supports women,
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: then I have done my part. I have thrown myself
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: in the line of fire. And when she does this,
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: I don't know if you see this. I just noticed
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: this little thing. She actually brings up her arm to
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: show off some more arm jewelry she's got. So maybe
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: that was on purpose, because I I'm convinced that when
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: when women what they wear and what they like, what
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: they have, they you know, accessorize, it's all intentional. Whatever
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: you see on the cameras on purpose. You know women
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: who are like doing yoga in the gym and they
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: have the camera pointed right up their ass so that
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: you can see the pussy fat. They're doing that on purpose.
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: It's not an accident.
• 45:02
  Speaker 3: Pussy fought fought.
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: Fuck the pussy fought.
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: The pussy fought.
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: That's not an accident.
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: So you have to be like, you have to be
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: willing to you know, just understand that they're not and
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: it's not it's flattering to to say that because you
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: know they're not stupid. You're like, okay, you're doing this
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: on purpose, right.
• 45:24
  Speaker 5: So a long time where I wasn't out talking, so
• 45:29
  Speaker 5: if you couldn't hear me, how she's.
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: Like checking her ear and there's like her jewelry on
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: her arm.
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: Do you see this, lady? So is she going to
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: try and sell something?
• 45:39
  Speaker 5: But I be heard through what I was wearing. If
• 45:41
  Speaker 5: that's what people were focusing on, or the choices I
• 45:44
  Speaker 5: was making that you don't have to say a word,
• 45:46
  Speaker 5: but it would move product for small companies or allow
• 45:51
  Speaker 5: you know, even we were living in the UK, small
• 45:53
  Speaker 5: company in Scotland able to you know, I don't know,
• 45:56
  Speaker 5: hire fifty more employees or small businesses would take more.
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: Wow, she's she's saying that she is changing businesses by
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: buying their products and allowing people to photograph her while
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: wearing said products.
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: Do you see that?
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 46:17
  Speaker 3: I see it.
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: That's insane.
• 46:19
  Speaker 5: Women out of positions of being trafficked and instead give
• 46:22
  Speaker 5: them jobs. And by wearing those jeans, I knew it
• 46:26
  Speaker 5: was going to allow them to save more women. So
• 46:29
  Speaker 5: all of those things end.
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: Up beginning Do you want to hear that again?
• 46:34
  Speaker 3: How does the geens save the women?
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: Do they like, wait, go back, go back, listen, listen.
• 46:40
  Speaker 5: And able to you know, I don't know, hire fifty
• 46:43
  Speaker 5: more employees or small businesses who would take women out
• 46:47
  Speaker 5: of positions of being trafficked and instead give them jobs.
• 46:51
  Speaker 5: And by wearing those I knew it was going to
• 46:55
  Speaker 5: allow them to save more women. So all of those
• 46:57
  Speaker 5: things end up becoming a touch point that's really really
• 47:01
  Speaker 5: high value to me, and then being able to hear
• 47:05
  Speaker 5: the stories of how it has helped them or their businesses,
• 47:07
  Speaker 5: and even just it could have been the day that
• 47:10
  Speaker 5: they were going to give up, could have been the
• 47:13
  Speaker 5: day that they're just going, why am I doing this?
• 47:15
  Speaker 5: It's not worth it. I can come in with a
• 47:17
  Speaker 5: little sprinkle of fairy.
• 47:19
  Speaker 3: Are you fucking kidding me?
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: Now?
• 47:22
  Speaker 3: Somebody making it like a business like mine won't get
• 47:25
  Speaker 3: waking up one day and be like, what is it
• 47:30
  Speaker 3: worth it?
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: When I wear jeans? I'm saving you from being trafficked somebody.
• 47:35
  Speaker 3: Who makes bracelets, like good Lord or a famous fashion fashionista.
• 47:44
  Speaker 3: They really wake up one day and they're like, oh
• 47:46
  Speaker 3: my god, I hate my job.
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they're at there, they go to the they go
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: to the bridge and they're looking at the ocean like they're.
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: Going to end it God.
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: And then somebody says, wait and Marco bought your socks
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: and then calls them back. It's it's I'm gonna take
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: a picture of it.
• 48:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I hate my job. You should get me so
• 48:11
  Speaker 3: cucumber mint water.
• 48:13
  Speaker 2: But like what, okay, so what what is this?
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: Then? Okay, so this woman buys products like all women
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: buy products, and then tries to claim that her spending
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: habits are saving people, like she's rescuing other women. Yes, yes,
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: so you were asking how how does buying jeans stop
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: human trafficking because the companies instead will hire them instead
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: of I guess trafficking them. I didn't know that Levi
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: or Gap was known for trafficking women. If they do,
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: if they couldn't give them jobs as like salespeople, I
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know.
• 49:01
  Speaker 3: I think that's the I think that is genuinely what
• 49:03
  Speaker 3: she's saying is that. Yeah, I get I get these
• 49:08
  Speaker 3: women jobs and sweatshop laborers.
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: Yes, mister in the in the rumble chat said me
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: buying video games is saving men?
• 49:20
  Speaker 2: Am I hero?
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: Yes?
• 49:23
  Speaker 3: Yes, yes, mister O three oh three, you're the greatest hero.
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: You have saved You've saved them from I don't know, trafficking,
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: I guess yeah.
• 49:33
  Speaker 3: Could you imagine all of the computer science nerds you
• 49:36
  Speaker 3: could have potentially been going to.
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: Use that to all kind Yeah? Yeah, what will happen
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: if I don't buy the new video game? Well? How
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: many lives I'm saving by making this purchase?
• 49:50
  Speaker 4: Yeeah.
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: Anyway, this is where we are right now. This is
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: what she's doing, and I wonder too. I know that
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: this isn't like the deepest conversation, but wait, wait did.
• 50:00
  Speaker 3: She actually make a connection. So does this like, do
• 50:03
  Speaker 3: they they donate to sex tra or is it just oh,
• 50:07
  Speaker 3: they could get a job in a sweats job instead.
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: I don't know if they elaborate on that. Let's go
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: back a little bit just so that we don't miss
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: the context, and I'll play this whole thing and see
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: what she says.
• 50:18
  Speaker 5: It could have been the day that they were going
• 50:19
  Speaker 5: to give up could have been the day that they're
• 50:22
  Speaker 5: just going, why am I doing this? It's not worth it?
• 50:25
  Speaker 5: And if I can come in with a little sprinkle
• 50:27
  Speaker 5: of fairy dust just by wearing a bracelet or doing
• 50:30
  Speaker 5: something and that change.
• 50:31
  Speaker 3: Are you fucking kidding me? Why would Bellis belissiaga? Is
• 50:36
  Speaker 3: that what it is?
• 50:36
  Speaker 2: No?
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: No, no, it's Valencia.
• 50:38
  Speaker 3: Keep Valencia. Why would Valencia be wait? Why would she
• 50:43
  Speaker 3: be almost ready to quit? And then oh my god,
• 50:48
  Speaker 3: Megan Markle finally gave me the attention I deserved for
• 50:53
  Speaker 3: my world renowned bracelets and accessories. I can go on.
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: Like this is and and the thing is too is
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: if you're a celebrity, they usually the clothes of celebrities
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: wear well, I mean at least when they go to
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: like red carpet events or whatever, it's.
• 51:11
  Speaker 2: Not their clothes.
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: They're like they're basically given that as a sponsor because.
• 51:16
  Speaker 2: It promotes the brand.
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: But it's like an expensive brand, Like it's not for
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: normal people. Even if it looks like it's for normal people,
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: it's not right, Like, even if it looks like chattered jeans,
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: they're like two hundred dollars jeans, you know, designer, designer,
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: brands or whatever. I don't know if if Valencia is,
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: but I mean Valenciaga is, but that's a different brand.
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: But I don't know about Valencia. So yeah, she likely
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: didn't even pay for that bracelet. She just wore it
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: and then it got it promoted the brand. Like this
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: is where I mean, this is the truth is is
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: that the day of the celebrity is over, but the
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: day of the influencer is just starting.
• 51:59
  Speaker 2: And influencers, yeah, it's just begun.
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: And the thing is is that influencers, like there's a
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: reason why they're called that, Like there they basically exist
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: to alter culture, like they're they're there to move the
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: needle in some way, and celebrities right now are scrambling
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: to catch up to become like influencers. So Megan Markle's
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: trying to plant her flag, but there are other people
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: that are also influencers. What it Manifestel is an influencer
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: as well. Like it or hate it, right, She's so there.
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: The competition is different. This is a reason why Oprah
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: is is guesting on.
• 52:39
  Speaker 2: This show and not the other way around.
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: So anyway, so yeah, it's worth noting that we are
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: we are entering in an era of it's going to
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: be an era of very stiff competition with influencers, especially
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: as the.
• 52:54
  Speaker 2: Legacy media dies.
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: And I mean, hopefully it will remain a meritocracy, but
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: I doubt that. I think that there's gonna be a
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: lot of artificial let's say, astroturfing going on there. I
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: mean that was going on like for a while. I
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: remember the really famous debate Feminists that was going on
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: the whatever podcasts and stuff and debating people, and then
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: she turned out that she was getting paid by three
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: letter organizations like hundreds of thousands of dollars. So you know,
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: we're gonna see that there's gonna be definitely people with
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: deep pockets that want to exercise and use this tool
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: of influencing.
• 53:33
  Speaker 2: All right, I got a super chow. Thank you. Meredith
• 53:36
  Speaker 2: g a big one too.
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: She gives us five dollars and says, maintaining frame number
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: one fifty. Megan Markle is desperately trying to leverage her
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: husband's titles to get rich. Her first podcast was supposed
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: to discuss the archetypes that hold back women, but was
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: really a podcast all about Megan. Her second podcast, Confessions
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: of a Female Founder, is supposed to talk about women
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: who found businesses, because she founded a business too, But
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: the conversations are the most vapid conversations about Megan or
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: a Megan who has failed at every endeavor she ever made.
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: Jamie kure Lima was the first female executive at Lareal,
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: So that's the woman who's hosting the show after she
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: sold her cosmetics company to them. I think Jamie is
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: trying to keep her relevance her makeup to hide rosea
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: or rosea is that it or hyper pigmentation is sold
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: by a company that she is just an employee of,
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: and she hasn't really created anything new. So yeah, we're
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: looking at people trying to sell themselves either as a
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: brand or they're trying to make money. That's what I suspected.
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: I mean, I didn't know who Jamie current Lima is,
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: but when I saw all of the people that she
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: has worked with or been featured on all of the
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: various organizations, most of them are fashion magazines and Oprah
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: and morning television which is watched by women. Vanity Fair
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: all that, it makes sense.
• 55:11
  Speaker 2: So yeah, I.
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: Mean, yeah, that's where we are now, that's the era
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: that we're entering. Okay, I think there's a little bit
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: more left in this.
• 55:22
  Speaker 5: That's a huge honor to be able to sell that
• 55:25
  Speaker 5: kind of impact for someone. He's someone that most of
• 55:27
  Speaker 5: the time I would never even I won't even know.
• 55:30
  Speaker 7: Yeah, I never ever realized that that during seasons where
• 55:34
  Speaker 7: maybe you felt like you couldn't use your voice, that
• 55:38
  Speaker 7: was a way to use your voice.
• 55:40
  Speaker 2: Oh my god.
• 55:43
  Speaker 3: They concluded self trafficking, where I still don't know how
• 55:47
  Speaker 3: the connection is between buying genes and sex trafficking. Preventing
• 55:52
  Speaker 3: sex trafficking, this would just be basically, yes, I help
• 55:57
  Speaker 3: my rich female contacts get rich. Sure, like, oh wow,
• 56:05
  Speaker 3: really doing a great.
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: Great We don't even really know. Yeah, the trafficking thing
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: does not get revisited. It's just there's just they need
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: to acknowledge it as reality. They acknowledge it as reality,
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: and they're just like, yes, you are saving lives when
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: you buy jeans, but only you, not me. Like if
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: I go to the store to Old Navy and get
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: a new pair of jeans, I haven't saved anybody because
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: nobody sees me when I wear them, because I'm nobody.
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: But when she wears them, she's Megan Markle so she
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: saves lives, you see. All Right? I think there's one
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: other sections called the prove it game.
• 56:45
  Speaker 3: Okay, we can't really blame Megan Markle on women, though,
• 56:48
  Speaker 3: because there is a lot of women who don't like her. Yeah,
• 56:52
  Speaker 3: she's famously unliked. No, for sure, she's just too much something.
• 57:00
  Speaker 3: I don't know what is it about Megan Markle that
• 57:02
  Speaker 3: women are finally like, yeah, I'm fed up with you.
• 57:05
  Speaker 3: They'll tolerate other forms of feminine sylopsism, but Megan Markle's
• 57:09
  Speaker 3: just too much. I'm curious because the.
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: Woman then, because like I don't know, like there's I mean,
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: what what is what is?
• 57:20
  Speaker 2: What is Megan Markle real?
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: Is she really worse than say, you know, a queer
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: Kiwi or a manifestel or she's more.
• 57:28
  Speaker 3: She is more she gets involved in these this ship
• 57:33
  Speaker 3: and uh you know, like she's she puts herself out there.
• 57:37
  Speaker 3: I think she's more of it, maybe more of a hypocrite,
• 57:40
  Speaker 3: you know, but yeah, like, what what is it about Megan?
• 57:43
  Speaker 3: Like why is it okay to hate on Megan Markle?
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: I think it's because she makes it easy and she's
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: a little bit she exposes too much, So I think
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: that that they they dislike her because she's too like
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: she's not I don't want to say she's dumb, but
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: she's not hiding her narcissism at all. And so if
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: you if you support that, then you are exposing other
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: people who want to hide their narcissism. More so, they
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: have to at least pretend like they don't like her,
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: you know, like, oh, she's full of herself. I don't
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: like her, but I'm also full of myself. But I
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: don't want you all to know that, you know, kind
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: of a thing.
• 58:22
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: She also has a history of treating people like shit.
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: So yeah, I think like Ellen DeGeneres, right, or what
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: was her name, the singer overweight black woman, Lizzo? Yeah, yeah,
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: she's she's still relevant or is that?
• 58:40
  Speaker 2: Is that over all?
• 58:41
  Speaker 4: Right?
• 58:41
  Speaker 2: Anyway?
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: This is I think this is the see one O
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: four getting out of the prove it game?
• 58:50
  Speaker 5: Right?
• 58:50
  Speaker 7: And what about now? Like in your life? Now, do
• 58:52
  Speaker 7: you ever feel unworthy?
• 58:56
  Speaker 5: Not unworthy? Sometimes I feel very self conscious. I don't know.
• 58:59
  Speaker 5: I think I'm at a very different chapter. We've talked
• 59:03
  Speaker 5: about this when you're out of the prove it game. Yes,
• 59:07
  Speaker 5: well you share more. I don't know what were we
• 59:11
  Speaker 5: texting about. One night, you texted me something and I said, no,
• 59:14
  Speaker 5: there comes a point where I don't even have that text.
• 59:16
  Speaker 5: And he said, you have to email that text yourself.
• 59:17
  Speaker 5: You have to remember that that she go in a
• 59:19
  Speaker 5: book one day. Yes, but this idea that we spend
• 59:23
  Speaker 5: so much of our life trying to prove something, to
• 59:27
  Speaker 5: prove that you're enough. You have to prove that you're
• 59:29
  Speaker 5: pretty enough. You have to prove that you're smart enough.
• 59:31
  Speaker 5: You prove that you're a good wife or a good friend.
• 59:33
  Speaker 5: Eric and I was like, I am just so done.
• 59:36
  Speaker 5: What does that game prove?
• 59:40
  Speaker 2: I don't know, I'm not a woman.
• 59:43
  Speaker 3: Apparently I'm not either, because I'm like, what does that
• 59:45
  Speaker 3: mean that you actually have to be a good wife
• 59:48
  Speaker 3: and a good friend? I mean, there's nothing going to
• 59:51
  Speaker 3: change the fact that you're going to get ugly Markle.
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: So it's funny is that she's saying it to this
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: other woman who's obvious, the girl that girls like Markle
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: bring to the bar to make herself look more attractive,
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: you know, like you know what I mean, Like the
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: the mid girl brings the fat girl with her to
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: the bar because the fat girl makes the mid girl
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: look more attractive, so she's selling the other girl, like, oh,
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: I I hate that. It's like I'm not enough. I
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: feel like I'm not enough, and the fat girl's just
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: like I want to tick you in the face.
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 2: I don't know. Do they even like each other? I don't.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm not a body language guy, but
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: let's cry let me.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 3: I mean, if I was watching the Body Language, I
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 3: could probably tell you.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 8: Yeah, I know, drawing a right a book one day, yes,
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 8: But this idea that we spend so much of our
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 8: life trying to prove something.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 5: To prove that you're enough, you have to prove that
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 5: you're pretty enough. You have to prove that you're smart enough.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 5: Prove that you're a good wife or a good friend,
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 5: or you're smart enough. Done with the you just.
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 3: You aren't, Like, how do you prove what you're pretty
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 3: enough by buying your friend's crap? Like, how do you
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 3: prove that you're smart enough?
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: She's not friends with that woman that she bought her
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: stuff though I think that she just bought her stuff.
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: It happened to boost her sales, and then Megan takes
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: credit for it. Well, I did that your sales went
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: up eleven thousand percent. You're welcome. I mean she didn't
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: say that, but I mean I don't think that they're
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: like hang out, you know. So I don't know. But
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: she's had enough of the proven game. She's done proving it.
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: The Duchess has spoken.
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 3: I just don't understand the nature of this. In line
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 3: of inquiry, you have to prove that you're a good
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 3: enough wife. You have to prove you're a good enough friend.
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 3: You mean, you have to actually be those things, Like
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 3: what does this prove? Where does the proof come in?
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 3: You're either smarter or you're not. You're either doing something
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 3: intelligent and a particular area of inquiry or expertise, or
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 3: you're not. Like what's what's what? What do they mean
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 3: by prove? Because I feel like I'm having a disconnect here.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 3: You're not being graded Marcole. You're you're not being graded
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 3: on your looks. Presumably you're not being graded. I doubt
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 3: Harry would dare grade you as a wife, right, all right,
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 3: what what of your friends are you being graded? I
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 3: think they just if you have friends. I'm pretty sure
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 3: your friends just want you to be a friend. We
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 3: used to understood stand what that meant? But whatever, So
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 3: what does this prove? Do you mean that you have
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 3: to do? You have to actually live up to a
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 3: standard of behavior in order to be considered someone's friend,
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 3: like to continue to be considered someone's friend. Is that
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 3: what you mean by prove? Oh?
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: Goodness? All right?
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 5: When you get to the place where you feel, I
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 5: can't to prove anything to you anymore, I have to
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 5: prove that I'm a good person. I have to prove
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 5: to you that I'm a good wife or mom or
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 5: I don't have to prove that I work hard.
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: What do you mean by it?
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 3: You don't have to prove that you're a good person?
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 5: Like, what the fricker you're doing?
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: I think you could say this is something unique to
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: Megan Markle, but I don't think it is. I don't
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: think I think that this mindset. I don't think it's
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: unique to Megan Markle. I think this is a mindset
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: that a lot of women have. She's just the most
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: dislikable person that expresses it.
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 2: But I don't think it's unique to her. In my opinion, it.
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 5: Can be really freeing when you stop playing the prove
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 5: it game. You're proving nothing.
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 3: And she says she doesn't want to have to prove
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 3: she's a good person.
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: Mm hmm.
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 3: Okay, what does that mean? What does that mean? Because
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 3: it's a little bit concerned.
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: It looks like the fat Buddha though, that face, you know,
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: the Buddha that you rub for good luck. That's the
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: rubbies belly, the fat Buddha. It's got a certain name,
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: I forget, but she looks she's got the face of
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: the fat Buddha. Anyway else and go ahead.
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, Yeah, it's just like, okay, so I don't
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 3: have Is that a real smile?
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: Is that a real smile? That's what I'm wondering. Is
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: that is that real?
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 2: That looks like.
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: All right, I don't have to be.
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 3: Proved that I'm a good person. Mm hmm. But okay, this,
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 3: like I said, I know that maybe I'm just being
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 3: really autistic, but this framing concerns me.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: Okay, why well, because you know.
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 3: Like you as a person, you you generally obey traffic laws,
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 3: you return library books, you you help you if they
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 3: have need or and you're capable of doing it. I mean,
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 3: you do basic nice things. Not to prove that you're
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 3: necessarily a good person. But just to be a good person.
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 3: So what is she meaning by prove that she's a
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 3: good Oh, all of the people calling her an asshole? Yeah,
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 3: she decided she no longer has to be accountable to anyone.
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 3: That's what she means. Okay, all right, okay.
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 5: And that takes a lot of time, and that takes
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 5: a lot of pain, and at least for in my
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 5: own experience, but to just really go and not with
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 5: an energy of like I'm over it. I don't care. No,
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 5: I care, but I don't have to prove it to you.
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 5: And if you can't see it, I can't. I don't
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 5: need to prove to you why that's your loss, Like,
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 5: because I know that I'm a great friend, and I
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 5: know the kind of mom I am, and I know
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 5: the kind of human being I am, and I know
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 5: how I show up and and I love being able
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 5: to be that person with the people that I love. So,
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 5: you know, worthiness, maybe part of worthiness comes when you
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 5: stop having to feel like you're in the prove it game.
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: Oh God, she's acting like that's so Profoundliah.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 7: I am getting emotional right now because the number of
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 7: girls we're going to watch.
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 3: Through standard related to how you affect other people, like
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 3: I could just see I could just see Magan Markle
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 3: going on some goddamn drunken uh escapade with one of
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 3: those gigantic What were those things that all this in
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 3: my experienced suburban mothers really loved. They were gigantic. They
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 3: weren't trucks. They were even bigger than that. They were huge.
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 3: They were like almost military vehicles. And every time I'd
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 3: see one in the parking lot, it would be amen
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 3: walk getting out of it. The hell were they called?
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 3: But they went away because of all the cost of gas. Anyway,
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 3: if you know what the what I'm talking about, tell
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 3: me in the chat. But you know, just she's she's
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 3: in one of those things. She's just on a drunkard rampage,
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 3: you know, running over baby strollers left and rights and
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 3: dogs and cats and parakeets. And then she swerves to
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 3: an end and the cops pull her over and they're like,
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 3: what the hell do you think you were doing? And
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 3: she's like, ah, proved nothing to you.
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 2: Yep, I believe game.
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 3: I'm tired of playing the proved game.
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 4: Like what.
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 3: Okay, yes, the Hummers, Thank you guys, thank you for
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 3: being my lexicon. When I can't be all right, Yeah.
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: All right, we're getting into the last section, women supporting women,
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: so that should be fun.
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 7: Who are going to just take those words that when
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 7: you text that to me one day we're talking about
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 7: something and you do all that about not being in
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 7: the prove it game anymore? And I'm just like, this
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 7: is so profound and it's so simple, but so profound
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 7: and so true. And I feel like when every one
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 7: of us like actually just sees it from that perspective, like,
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 7: I know I'm a good person.
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 5: I know I'm a great friend, I know you know
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 5: all the things. You know, you did your best. I
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 5: did my best. I'm doing my best as a mom. Yeah,
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 5: I don't getting out of the prove it game.
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but being a mom has an objective standard the
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 3: mental health of your children.
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: How do you know that you're doing your best? Like, yeah,
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: how do you know call yourself that? And that just enough?
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 3: Yeah exactly, that's not that's not sufficient. Yeah, it's just
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 3: like I just can imagine the worst dog owners are
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 3: like that, I'm doing enough?
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah right, No, absolutely that there's all kinds of justifications.
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: I was doing the best I could with what I had.
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: You can't judge me. That's basically just don't judge me.
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 7: Like, yeah, it feels like joy, tastes like freedom, all
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 7: of the above. That's so beautiful and so powerful. And
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 7: I just am thinking about every person listening or watching
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 7: right now, who's going to rewind that part of the
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 7: show and watch it over and over and over and
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 7: like and like let it take root because it's a
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 7: it's a tool that you can lean on because how
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 7: much time I think about my own life, how much
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 7: time I've wasted in the prove it game, Like I
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 7: want to make everyone happy or I want to make
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 7: sure that they know, like.
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 5: You know, all the things.
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 7: And it's like that, Yeah, that's so beautiful and that's
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 7: going to matter so much to so many people.
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: Really, yeah, it's going to matter a lot.
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 7: Just wait, I was typing to my kids, probably can
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 7: you please start an email account for me and daily
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 7: like because you don't have enough going on with all
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 7: of your and like keet clever name with.
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 5: All of your stuff.
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 7: Yes, I love so much what you and Gwyneth Patra
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 7: did recently. Guys out there they love to pit women
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 7: against each other or compete or this or that.
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 3: We need to pay points out that they have said
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 3: nothing this entire time. No, they've just generated a feeling.
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 3: This is what I've noticed. Women really like feelings. They
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 3: like in a feeling. Like me, I actually think I
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 3: hate my feelings, the guy. If I could just replace
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 3: all of my feelings with like lukewarm contentment over everything,
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 3: I think I would. I suspect that I probably wouldn't
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 3: be better off if I did that. But you know,
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 3: it's like I'm not particularly inclined. I just want things
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 3: to just be relatively quiet. No, it's not always the
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 3: case that it does end up that way, but just
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 3: fine with that. And I don't want to feel these things.
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 3: But they seem to like to just sort of baste.
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 3: But I guess the feelings that they enjoy are just
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 3: this this feeling of confirmation of being everything that's needed,
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 3: Like they don't need to prove anything, they don't need
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 3: to do anything, they don't need to go out and
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 3: strive for anything. They're just perfectly fine as they are.
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 2: Yep.
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 3: And then these women get together and they resonate that
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 3: feeling towards each other and they're very content with that
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 3: entire escapade. But yes, you're right, nothing nothing is actually conveyed,
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 3: but the feeling of contentment and confirmation of womanhood.
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: Yep, that's it. That's I mean, like, to me, this
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: is alien. I thought maybe you could untangle it since
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: you also have two X chromosomes. But it doesn't look
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: like you're you're doing much better than me.
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 3: Well, I mean, I understand it, like I get it
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 3: on like an intellectual level. They're getting there and they're
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 3: basting in the warm.
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: You're not feeling the fondness of their of their feelings,
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: of their vibes.
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 3: I'm glad that I'm actually doing some drawing because if
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 3: I was just listening to this, like without doing anything
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 3: or trying to achieve anything or trying to prove anything,
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 3: I probably would have accountibalized part of my.
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: Cant prove stuff all the time. Okay, don't you just
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: know the quality of your personhood?
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 3: You know what? I don't want. I don't want like
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 3: my gravestone to read she didn't she didn't have to
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 3: prove anything. She was she was enough. She was a woman.
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 3: Here lies a woman very special. She was a woman.
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 3: Here lies another woman and another woman, all very special
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 3: because they were women. Mm hmmm, all right, I think
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 3: I mean, I get it more appreciated.
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, what is this trying to skip.
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 5: The incredible conversation together.
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 7: I love so much what you and Gwyneth Patra did recently.
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 7: Guys out there, they love to pit women against each
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 7: other or compete or this or that, and you know,
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 7: we've all seen it, We've all had experience.
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 3: Of its own life and what well, they just have
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 3: this issue with competition. Oh, they like to pit women
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 3: against each other. Yes, it's a competition.
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, is it gonna I.
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 2: Want to know what? What the what? What happened?
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: But yes, this is like what was the video we
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: did a reaction to some guy who was doing a music.
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 3: Yes, I remember exactly what you're talking.
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: The XCX, the Charlie XCX thing, and I oh, they're
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: they're like singing about being pitted against each other and
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: it's patriarchy does that to women?
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 2: It pits them against each other.
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, And I said, this guy would watch like an
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 3: Olympic event in the women's sport and be like, oh
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 3: my god, patriarch, it's pitted the one hunter, Olympic swimmers
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 3: women against each other. How if there weren't patriarchy, they
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 3: every single woman on earth would be standing on the
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 3: gold metal platform, every woman and some men. He's just
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 3: completely removing the fact that you know, these individual women
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 3: have actually really worked hard to get there, to even
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 3: get in the running to be on the Olympic metal platform, right,
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 3: And he's like, no, this is all illegitimate. It's all
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 3: patriarchy forcing men women to compete with each other for things.
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 3: But patriarchy also forces men to compete with each other
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  Speaker 3: for things, because if there was no patriarchy and no competition,
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 3: all of the things would be available because it's competition
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 3: that makes the things scarce. M yes, or or does the.
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  Speaker 5: Competence see yeah, almost any of the press.
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  Speaker 7: But this thing had been going on.
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 5: I like, she texted.
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 7: Me, Oh did shee?
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 5: She's like, yeah, she texted me and she said, oh
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 5: my gosh, like I did this interview and I can't,
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 5: like I can't remember herbatim what she said. But she's like,
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 5: I give up. I don't even know what to say anymore.
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 5: And I said, well, I didn't hear about it, hadn't
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 5: heard about it at all. And then because you know,
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 5: not because people are hiding things for me, but maybe
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 5: because it's not something that anyone felt needed to be
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 5: on my radar, and I just texted her back. I
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 5: was like, here, there's something about like pie. And then
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 5: we ended up she was doing something on Instagram, so
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 5: I ordered some pie on Instacart. She sat there and
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 5: ate some pie and laughed and caught up a little bit,
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 5: and then I came back home.
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 7: I was so happy.
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, people, Oh my god, happy, was so happy. Yeah. Basically,
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: she's saying, I guess there was some interview and I
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: don't know, there was an illusion of tension of some kind,
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: and she's like, well, I just had her over for
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 1: pie and we just we just sat around and laughed
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 1: about it and had some pie and like, oh my god,
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: crisis averted.
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 5: I think women were really fired up of like, yes,
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 5: clap back enough, yes, and because that's who you are,
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 5: You're like, you know what I mean.
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 4: And and.
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 5: I loved it.
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 7: I loved it.
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 5: And also with the sense of humor, yeah, because it
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 5: really diffuses so much of it. There's only so many
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 5: statements you can make or things you can say on
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 5: the record or this didn't happen, or it was like
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 5: you guys. It kind of really defines the age we're
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 5: living in right now, where that if you're saying that
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 5: was like a week or however long that cycle was
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 5: going on of this like that would have kept going,
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 5: I would imagine they would find some other iteration of
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 5: this fake conflict. It was like us fighting. Yeah, but
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 5: there is something really disturbing about the need for people
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 5: to pit, especially women, against each other when but you're
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 5: my neighbor.
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 3: And everything's what the hell are you even talking about?
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 3: Have you ever heard of the concept of war? How
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 3: do women say shit like this? Like, we literally live
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 3: in a civilization where it makes sense to get men
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 3: to kill each other to solve political disputes. And it's
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 3: not men sending men, it's people in power, because even
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 3: women in power send men to solve their political disputes.
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 3: Doesn't matter who's in power. It's it's a it's a
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 3: cultural habit that we have because we consider men expendable
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 3: in the service of solving political excusees, disputes and other
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 3: problems society has. That's what we do. So you're saying, oh,
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 3: society pits women against each other, what are you even
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 3: flip and talk? You are pitting yourselves against each other,
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 3: and if you both want the same damn thing, you
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 3: are going to be pitting. It's like house of dragging on. Right,
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 3: these two women wanted the same thing, neither of them
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 3: wanted to concede to the other, and they refuse to
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 3: acknowledge that that would inevitably lead to a conflict in
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 3: which men die. Right, they refused, and nobody and the
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 3: people talking about that show were like, oh, it's not
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 3: their fault. Yes, of course it's their fault. They're both
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 3: making a play for the same thing, which will inevitably
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 3: bring them in conflict. How are you gonna they are
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 3: the ones doing that? And it's it's like the entire
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 3: show was about. No, it's not really them. It's not
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 3: really them. They're not room to blame. They're not responding.
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 3: I'm like, yes they are, and what they are responsible
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 3: for is making this this conflict bigger and bigger and
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 3: bigger because they refuse to acknowledge that it has to
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 3: be resolved. Okay, I'm done.
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: Well, no, no, it's okay. I mean that's basically that
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: was about as much substance I can get out of
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 1: this video.
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 3: So this was utterly inert.
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: Well, those were the two look I had to find something.
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 1: I had two videos. One was extra long, and it
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: was a debate and it probably would have taken a
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: little bit more prep time, but we could do that
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 1: on Friday. And then there was this one which was
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: basically I don't even know what it is. It's it's
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 1: like it's like, uh, pillow cotton just like pulled out,
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 1: like you know, it's like it was like a cat
• 1:19:51
  Speaker 1: unraveling a roll of toilet paper that had more energy and.
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 3: Inertia that has Yeah, but now, what have we learned?
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 2: Guys?
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 1: What have we learned? You are enough? Well only if
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 1: you're a woman. Yeah, you shouldn't have to play the
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 1: prove it game. And you know if if you're if
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: you're I think you're gonna get into a fight with
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 1: another woman.
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 2: Uh, have some.
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: Carbs like pie, Yeah, everything will be fine.
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 3: Carbs are the universal language.
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, carbs, yes they are.
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 3: You can show my thing now, right.
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 1: All right?
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, hold on, we can see it.
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 1: Change. I just got to change this.
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 3: It's the blacks are harsher on your screen than they
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 3: are in mine. Oh yeah, I had to calm them
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 3: down a bit, but yeah, they just are really freaking harsh.
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 3: Lots of contrast.
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you about that.
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 3: But I'm judging my I'm judging it. I should stop
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 3: doing that because I'm I'm enough.
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, there he goes, let's talk about me.
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 2: Pretty good. It really looks like her too, Yeah, exactly.
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 1: That's a microphone. Yeah yeah, no, no, it's fine.
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 3: No, it's not a dildo. It's a microphone.
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 1: No. I wasn't sure what it was. I thought it
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 1: was an air.
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 3: Ether like it's I don't know. It's got a lot
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 3: of weird shit going on, complex factors. I'm not I'm
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 3: not great at drawing technology. So it's okay. Let me
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 3: let me put the name on then Jamie Jamie.
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 1: Oh, it's Jamie Kern k e r n lima L
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 1: like the lima bean L. I m A no, no,
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 1: I'm not.
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 3: Putting that in.
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 1: You know what.
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 3: What we are in hell, we'll probly.
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 1: All right.
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 3: There you go, guys. That was my doodle that I
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 3: did while we were talking, And thank God for it,
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 3: because I think it retained my sanity to give myself
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 3: a bit of a challenge to prove to myself that
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 3: I could do it.
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 1: There you go, I'm actually not one eighth but one
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 1: third blackety so one third.
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 3: I going to ask you how much black you were.
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 2: Somebody in the chat.
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 1: Gabriel said, Brian has probably only one eighth black, a
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 1: quadroon a third. A third of my genetics come from Africa,
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 1: West Africa.
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 2: I think it's Sudan, Sudan.
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 1: Yancy, yeah, or the territory that is now called Sudan,
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 1: but maybe it wasn't all that back then.
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 2: But anyway, Yeah, so.
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 1: Part a third black, a third Native, a third Spanish
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 1: which is white, and then like a little smidgen of
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 1: other things like Ashkenazi, and it was something else too, Uh,
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 1: I can't remember now exactly, but yeah, and natives are
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 1: basically Asians, so I'm the perfect mix. All right.
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 2: Anyway, that's it for me.
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 3: Gabriel said, what did you mean by that, Allison? What
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 3: is it that I said that you want me to
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 3: not want me to explain?
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 1: Oh, quadroon, quadroon, quadroon.
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 3: One eighth black? Yeah, No, that was one fourth.
• 1:23:42
  Speaker 1: Black, one fourth black.
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but yes, Brian is a very strange fraction of.
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 2: Black, A third, a third I'm not.
• 1:23:49
  Speaker 3: Even sure how many how many yeah traits, isn't it
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 3: wouldn't it be like a a try trait?
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 1: She you're a tryun try. No, wait, all right, let
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 1: me just check and see if there's any more super chats.
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 1: I think I'm done. Lindsey's cooking dinner and I can
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 1: smell it.
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 2: We're having fish tacos.
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 3: Hmm, that sounds tasty. Yeah all right, yeah, well we're
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 3: keeping it real like, you know, fish tacos and drawing,
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 3: and and dog earlier barking its head off at another dog,
• 1:24:35
  Speaker 3: me having to put it in, you know, and and
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 3: fixing the roof and the and the cat walking over menacingly.
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 3: Although she hasn't actually blown anything up today that that's
• 1:24:49
  Speaker 3: no no, no, wait wait, I think she did blow
• 1:24:52
  Speaker 3: something up, but it wasn't on stream, so it doesn't count.
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 3: I don't know how she does it. She just like
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 3: it's just something about her aura. Yeah, but anyway, all right,
• 1:25:05
  Speaker 3: So if you can't remember what it was that I said, Gabriel,
• 1:25:09
  Speaker 3: then I can't.
• 1:25:10
  Speaker 2: Was that it was a quadroon thing?
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 3: But oh yeah, no I was, wasn't isn't there octun
• 1:25:16
  Speaker 3: octroon as.
• 1:25:17
  Speaker 2: Well, Octa in octa maroon, octa in a room, I.
• 1:25:20
  Speaker 3: Don't know, octa maroon, ultra maroon. Yeah, who knows. So
• 1:25:26
  Speaker 3: apparently what we've learned from this is Megan Markle is
• 1:25:29
  Speaker 3: enough and she need prove nothing, nothing to all random
• 1:25:33
  Speaker 3: And if she.
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 2: Buys your your jewelry, you better better.
• 1:25:38
  Speaker 1: Fall on your knees and thank her for any success
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 1: you might make. And she is gracious like that.
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 3: So yes, she's gracious. She buys things that she wants
• 1:25:50
  Speaker 3: from you, and that that makes all women better. Are
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 3: off because if Markle's consumption of things mm hmmm. Also, uh,
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 3: sex trafficked women can get jobs and shops making Markle's products.
• 1:26:05
  Speaker 2: When she saves lives.
• 1:26:07
  Speaker 1: That's right. People say it's thick thighs, but it's denim
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 1: thighs that save lives.
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 3: Apparently a joke about the harsh blacks. Allison, Yeah, okay,
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 3: I mean on my on my drawing tablet which I
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 3: which I got and I'm really happy with because I
• 1:26:29
  Speaker 3: can now do illustrations and in conjunction with my attempts
• 1:26:34
  Speaker 3: at at explaining things, I think that when I can
• 1:26:37
  Speaker 3: illustrate stuff, people might understand me better. But on the screen,
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 3: it's it's not it's not a harsh black. It's a
• 1:26:45
  Speaker 3: nice sort of almost like a paper like you know,
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 3: the kindles have this kind of paper ish quality. Have
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 3: you have you seen a kindle Brian, the kind of
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 3: luminosity and like a scaling or a tonal palette that
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 3: makes them look more like actual physical medium and that
• 1:27:08
  Speaker 3: that this looks like that too, looks nice on there.
• 1:27:11
  Speaker 3: It's like it just it turns the shadows into something
• 1:27:16
  Speaker 3: really aggressive. I'm just I'm not happy, m But you know,
• 1:27:25
  Speaker 3: I guess I'll just have to stop using blacks. I'll
• 1:27:27
  Speaker 3: have to use a bit of gray so that it
• 1:27:30
  Speaker 3: just tones.
• 1:27:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I generally do that when I make a drawing,
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 1: I just put like a like a paint. Can I
• 1:27:38
  Speaker 1: just fill the first layer with like a neutral light
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 1: color so it doesn't look like white?
• 1:27:46
  Speaker 3: So did mister O three oh three just send something
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 3: to you? No? Why because I just saw something pop
• 1:27:53
  Speaker 3: up saying bra Oh.
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 1: It's just I'm just highlighting some of the chats so
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 1: I can I can highlight them and bring them up
• 1:28:02
  Speaker 1: on the screen. Yeah, whatever I want.
• 1:28:04
  Speaker 3: So yeah, all right, Well I'm done. I'm glad that
• 1:28:08
  Speaker 3: somebody appreciated the doodle in the chat. All right, it
• 1:28:12
  Speaker 3: was nice. Thank you. Nova fan said that's good drawing skills.
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 3: Thank you. I appreciate thank you.
• 1:28:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, so, uh can we wrap it up
• 1:28:24
  Speaker 1: because I want to eat?
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 2: Okay, yes, all right, well go ahead.
• 1:28:27
  Speaker 3: And okay, well again, if you want to send a
• 1:28:30
  Speaker 3: message at anytime, this has been a very low energy stream.
• 1:28:34
  Speaker 3: These are very low energy people. They just want to
• 1:28:37
  Speaker 3: baste in like a low energy, lukewarm emotion of just
• 1:28:41
  Speaker 3: oh you're a woman, I'm a woman, you're a yeah,
• 1:28:46
  Speaker 3: I'm a woman. Oh, yes, I'm a woman.
• 1:28:52
  Speaker 4: Yes, woman, yes, and i'm a woman too, and we're
• 1:28:58
  Speaker 4: both women and we are enough, you know, and that
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 4: kind of thing.
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 3: It's like, oh God, kill me. But anyway, thank you
• 1:29:06
  Speaker 3: for coming. And if you want to comment on this,
• 1:29:10
  Speaker 3: you can send that to feed the Badger dot com
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 3: slash just the tip and anytime the show is over,
• 1:29:14
  Speaker 3: maybe we won't do this again. But if it's if
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 3: it's a comment on something on it on the next show,
• 1:29:21
  Speaker 3: that one