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Johnjay & Rich Present: SECOND DATE UPDATE · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Getting ready for Second d Update. We got Ken on
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  Speaker 1: the line. Ken, give us a little piece of your
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  Speaker 1: dating situation.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I went on this date with this
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  Speaker 2: absolutely amazing girl and then she ghosted me, and I
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  Speaker 2: just kind of want to know what's going on.
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  Speaker 1: All right, we'll get the whole story and then we'll
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  Speaker 1: call her find out why she's blowing you off.
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  Speaker 3: Second Date Updates starts next with John Jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 4: The next segment we're going to do is called second
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  Speaker 4: Date Update because that's what we're going to try and
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  Speaker 4: get and that's what the bit is called. Second Date
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  Speaker 4: Update starts right now on John Jay and Rigg, John
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  Speaker 4: Jane Rich. It's time for Second Date Update. You meet somebody,
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  Speaker 4: either a dating app or maybe old school at a
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  Speaker 4: bar and club, or maybe your mom set you up.
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  Speaker 4: You meet somebody, you go on a date, you have
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  Speaker 4: a good time. You expect there to be a second date.
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  Speaker 1: That doesn't happen, so you come to us we will
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  Speaker 1: get answers for you.
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  Speaker 3: Good morning, Ken.
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  Speaker 2: I met this girl a couple of weeks ago, and honestly,
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  Speaker 2: I thought we had one of those just effortless instant
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  Speaker 2: connection type of dates like we met on hinge, and
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  Speaker 2: after talking for a few days, we decided to you know,
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  Speaker 2: meet up for drinks and we ended up sitting there
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  Speaker 2: for hours, just laughing, talking about really everything, family goals
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  Speaker 2: or random childhood stories. I mean, it just felt supernatural.
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  Speaker 2: And then after we grabbed drinks, we were like, let's
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  Speaker 2: continue this, and we grab some late night tacos because
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  Speaker 2: I mean, we didn't really want the night to end,
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  Speaker 2: and we ended up back in my place and I'm
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  Speaker 2: not gonna lie, like things got a little like intense,
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  Speaker 2: and we hooked up, and like you know, I left
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  Speaker 2: the date thinking, Okay, this could actually be something like
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  Speaker 2: I told my friends about her, because she just kind
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  Speaker 2: of felt different. But now she's barely responding and she's
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  Speaker 2: not making plans to see me again, and I really
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  Speaker 2: don't know what went wrong, Like I just I kind
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  Speaker 2: of want to know what happened, because in my mind,
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  Speaker 2: like that date was perfect.
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  Speaker 5: Barely responding means that what she's saying had a good time,
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  Speaker 5: but not committing to a second date.
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  Speaker 2: I'm either getting ghosted or she's being avoidant, one of
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  Speaker 2: the two. Sometimes you won't respond, and then sometimes she's like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I got busy, Maybe another time so she's blowing you off.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, what.
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  Speaker 3: Did you do?
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  Speaker 6: I know, it's like you're raving so much about it
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  Speaker 6: that I can't even like, I don't even know what could.
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  Speaker 3: Have gone wrong.
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  Speaker 2: I had a really good time.
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  Speaker 5: Well, I mean they went back and hooked up, right.
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  Speaker 5: Maybe he's no offense ken a terrible lover.
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  Speaker 2: I mean I had a good.
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  Speaker 6: D or maybe you know, sometimes like you do, just
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  Speaker 6: want to hit it and quit it. Sometimes one time
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  Speaker 6: is enough and you don't need to see him ever again.
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  Speaker 2: Like all the rest of the day just kind of
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  Speaker 2: pointed to like us just instantly hitting it off. And
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  Speaker 2: that's why I'm like, yeah, maybe it wasn't that. Because
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  Speaker 2: as intense as like the I guess i'll call it
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  Speaker 2: an after party, as as fun and intense as that
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  Speaker 2: stuff was, like, it was really like the date part
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  Speaker 2: that really got me just thinking, yeah, I know this,
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  Speaker 2: this girl feels different and this is great and I'm
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  Speaker 2: really feeling a connection with this person.
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  Speaker 1: Do you have any stuff in your house It's scary,
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  Speaker 1: like if you have a painting of ed Geen or
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  Speaker 1: you have oh, this is my favorite art piece and
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  Speaker 1: it's that John Wayne Gacy clown or something like that, like,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm out of here.
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  Speaker 2: No, I mean I've got like one uh one miniature
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  Speaker 2: Star Wars mask. But that's not it.
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  Speaker 3: Well, let's get it on the phone. We'll find out Kylo.
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  Speaker 2: Wrinn mass miniature Like it's that big of a deal.
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  Speaker 3: No, that's fine, all right, what's her name? We'll get
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  Speaker 3: her on the phone. Look, you're really get naughty on
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  Speaker 3: the pone. We're gonna find out why she's pulling you off.
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  Speaker 3: What happens? So that it was a great night, So
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  Speaker 3: second date up? They continues next John Jay and Rich,
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  Speaker 3: John Jay and Rich, we are in the middle of
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  Speaker 3: second ate. Update. We got kennon Nadia.
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  Speaker 5: You know, cupping season is in full bloom, where star
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  Speaker 5: crossed leffers everywhere to find their mate. But Ken thought
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  Speaker 5: he was a hero. Nadia thought he was a zero.
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  Speaker 5: She barely tolerated his clumsy, drooling love making lunches, and
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  Speaker 5: now she is soft ghosting him into dismissal. Let's find
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  Speaker 5: out why.
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  Speaker 3: All right, can you ready for us to call Nadia?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know if I drooling.
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  Speaker 3: You heard that you went on a date, you spent
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  Speaker 3: the night.
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  Speaker 1: You guys went all the way and you haven't heard
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  Speaker 1: from her, right, that's the short version.
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  Speaker 2: Other than the drooling Yes, okay, all right, let's.
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  Speaker 3: Get Naughtia on the whole. Hi is this Nadia, Yes
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  Speaker 3: it is Hey.
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  Speaker 6: My name is Payton. I'm with John, Jay and Rich
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  Speaker 6: and we just wanted to talk to you about a
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  Speaker 6: few things on the radio.
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  Speaker 3: If you're okay with.
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  Speaker 7: That, Yeah, that's okay, Sure, I guess sure.
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  Speaker 3: We're talking to a guy that went on a date
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  Speaker 3: with you.
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  Speaker 1: He literally said, it seemed like one of the best
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  Speaker 1: dates ever, and then you even spent the night at
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  Speaker 1: his house, and now you're kind of blowing them off.
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  Speaker 3: So we told them we'd find out why talking.
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  Speaker 7: About Ken Oh yeah, yeah, I remember Ken Well.
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  Speaker 3: Sounds like it would be a memorable night. Everything he described, well.
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  Speaker 7: It was I I I got of him. But honestly,
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  Speaker 7: I'm I'm annoyed because we did have a great night.
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  Speaker 5: It was great.
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  Speaker 7: I mean truly it was. It was really fun and
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  Speaker 7: we vibed the entire time. But the second we hooked up,
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  Speaker 7: things got weird, really weird. Well, he started asking me
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  Speaker 7: these random questions, Like he asked me like, how do
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  Speaker 7: you feel about being with someone who's in a relationship
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  Speaker 7: and would you ever date somebody who has a partner.
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  Speaker 7: And I was sitting there, like, what are we having?
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  Speaker 7: We having like a ted talk on open relationships right now,
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  Speaker 7: like you.
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  Speaker 1: Guys are in the middle of being intimate, Like he's
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  Speaker 1: talking about this while you're intimate.
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  Speaker 7: It was like the first thing he said after we finished,
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  Speaker 7: and I was like so confused. It was giving. Honestly,
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  Speaker 7: it was giving, like swinger recruitment, you know what I mean. Yeah,
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  Speaker 7: And so then it would like to make it even worse.
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  Speaker 7: I was leaving his place at like three o'clock in
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  Speaker 7: the morning and I'm walking downstairs and I see a
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  Speaker 7: framed photo by the door of him with a woman
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  Speaker 7: and two kids. My jaw hit the floor.
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  Speaker 5: I gassed.
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  Speaker 7: I was absolutely I'm so scunned, and I got in
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  Speaker 7: my car and set off like I was just giving
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  Speaker 7: a crime scene or something. So yeah, I mean I
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  Speaker 7: ghost to him. That was weird because I'm not about
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  Speaker 7: to be the side character in someone's Bizarro family drama.
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  Speaker 7: I don't want any of that.
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  Speaker 2: So wait, hold on, that is what you're toasting because.
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  Speaker 7: Probably won as well, right Ken, why are you in
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  Speaker 7: a what's going on while you're on the phone right now.
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  Speaker 2: I mean because I had to clear this up, like
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  Speaker 2: you've got it all wrong. I probably, Oh my.
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  Speaker 7: God, No, I most certainly did not. I got it
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  Speaker 7: exactly right. You have a whole family, dude, this is weird, right.
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  Speaker 2: No, okay, let me explain. Yes, I'm married, Yes I
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  Speaker 2: have kids, but my wife and I are in a
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  Speaker 2: very healthy, open relationship and we're actually looking for a
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  Speaker 2: third partner.
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  Speaker 5: No, she didn't get it all wrong.
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  Speaker 4: That's something that you bring up before the hook up, right,
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  Speaker 4: so someone is knowingly going into the situation.
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  Speaker 7: Like this is what I'm talking about. Like, why wouldn't
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  Speaker 7: you leave with that?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I didn't want to freak you out on
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  Speaker 2: the first date. And like, for the record, my wife
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  Speaker 2: is the one who spotted you. She's the one that
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  Speaker 2: was like, oh my god, she's perfect and so like
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  Speaker 2: everything's like above bar.
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  Speaker 5: What does she have all wrong with?
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  Speaker 2: Naught?
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  Speaker 5: Yet?
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  Speaker 7: I'm sorry your your wife scouted me like I'm a
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  Speaker 7: like a draft pick or something.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, not like that. She just thought
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  Speaker 2: you were beautiful and seemed amazing. And after I told
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  Speaker 2: her how great our date was, like she really wanted
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  Speaker 2: to get to know you. This is insane. I don't look.
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  Speaker 5: Wow.
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  Speaker 2: Look there was no cheating, there was no longing, there
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  Speaker 2: was nothing shady like. We do everything with honesty and consent.
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  Speaker 2: And I really like you, and my wife loved hearing
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  Speaker 2: about you. And I mean, that's kind of why I
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  Speaker 2: wanted another date.
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  Speaker 3: You know, like with all of us, I may ask
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  Speaker 3: a couple of questions real quick.
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  Speaker 1: So you said, when you were on your date, Ken,
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  Speaker 1: you talked about a bunch of stuff, and you talked
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  Speaker 1: about family.
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  Speaker 3: You said, we talked about family.
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  Speaker 1: It's funny because I rarely ever take notes, and I
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  Speaker 1: happened to take notes for this, and you said, we
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  Speaker 1: talked about family. So when you were talking about family,
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  Speaker 1: I would think immediate family.
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  Speaker 3: How does that not come up with wife and kids?
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  Speaker 3: Think about it?
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  Speaker 2: I didn't want to scare off on the first date.
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  Speaker 3: Also, when when you are sleeping with her and she leaves,
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  Speaker 3: where was your family?
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  Speaker 2: She went out? The kids are grown, they they're they're
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  Speaker 2: already out of the house. And yeah, no, she my
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  Speaker 2: wife flept.
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  Speaker 3: Okay to go for the night.
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  Speaker 5: You go have your date. I'm going to leave so
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  Speaker 5: you can have the house to yourself to sleep with
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  Speaker 5: the stranger if it comes up, Oh interesting, and that's
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  Speaker 5: great if it works for you guys, But also that
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  Speaker 5: that should be something that.
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  Speaker 3: Nadya was aware of beforehand. Well are they they're swears
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  Speaker 3: then right? Legitimately I just googled.
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  Speaker 2: We're not swingers per se. It's polyamory. We believe that
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  Speaker 2: we we we don't look at if something makes our
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  Speaker 2: partner happy. We try to encourage that, whether it be
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  Speaker 2: as their partner or something. But like being if I
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  Speaker 2: were to be in a relationship with my wife like
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  Speaker 2: there wouldn't be a hierarchy. If I was in a
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  Speaker 2: reallylationship with Nadia like Nadia, I would give the same attention,
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  Speaker 2: I would give the same affection. I would treat her
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  Speaker 2: as an equal. We would. We don't believe that Nadia
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  Speaker 2: would be less than you know what I mean. It
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  Speaker 2: wouldn't just be a one time hookup like I was
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  Speaker 2: looking for a relationship with Nadia.
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  Speaker 6: What's your opinion on it now, Naughdia, are you still
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  Speaker 6: like no way?
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  Speaker 7: Well, I I cannot believe I'm actually saying this, but
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  Speaker 7: I mean when you put it that way, I might
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  Speaker 7: be might considering it.
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  Speaker 2: What what.
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  Speaker 6: She got really silent? Over there like the wheels are turning.
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  Speaker 7: I mean, I'm not promising anything, but I'm not necessarily
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  Speaker 7: saying no, not hanging up.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, do we believe that Ken's telling the truth, He's
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  Speaker 5: not just making this all up? And now he shocks?
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  Speaker 3: She said, doesn't sound like.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, we'll all have coffee together. We'll see how
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  Speaker 2: you feel.
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  Speaker 5: Like.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want you to be uncomfortable, but we'll all
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  Speaker 2: have coffee together and we'll full transparency and we'll just
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  Speaker 2: see how you feel and take it at your pace.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, sounds great now right, all right, so now are
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  Speaker 3: you down for that?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: NOTTR life.
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  Speaker 7: I think, Well, no, I think if they're so transparent
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  Speaker 7: about it, and I had a good time, yeah, I mean,
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  Speaker 7: I'm open to chatting. I guess I'm not promising anything.
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  Speaker 3: You had a good time, but the heck yeah? All right?
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  Speaker 1: All right then you guys, that's a successful second update
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  Speaker 1: the Very Bizarre World, So.
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  Speaker 3: Hold on the line. Thank you both for jumping on
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  Speaker 3: the air with us. That's second date update with John
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  Speaker 3: Jay and Rich