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From Fearful Silence to Faithful Witness: Why Most Christians Fear Evangelism · Reformed Thinking

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  Welcome to Reform Thinking, the deep dive today we're really
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  zeroing in on something. I think a lot of us feel pretty
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  deeply it's this painful reality in the church, this this huge
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  gap between what we say we believe and what we actually do
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  when it comes to talking about our faith.
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  Yeah, the gap between the Creed and the conversation.
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  Exactly. So our mission in this deep dive
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  is to get past those surface level excuses.
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  You know the anxiety, feeling of awkwardness.
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  All the usual suspects. Right.
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  And to really diagnose the the spiritual and theological roots
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  of what paralyzes so many of us from actually speaking the
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  gospel. It's a really necessary self
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  examination, I think, and it can be a difficult one.
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  We've looked at the sources and tried to understand why a church
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  that sings about the truth of Christ every Sunday.
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  Sings loudly too. Right.
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  Why that same church just struggles so much to to
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  articulate that same good news to a friend or a neighbor during
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  the week? OK, so let's just unpack that
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  core contradiction right away. Yeah, because the Bible is.
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  I mean, it's not vague on this. The risen Christ marching orders
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  are crystal clear. Not at all.
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  We're talking about the Great Commission, Matthew 28.
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  All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me.
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  Go therefore. Go.
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  It's a command. It's.
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  A command and then you have Acts 1.8.
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  You will be my witnesses. So evangelism, I mean, this
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  isn't some side hobby for the Super spiritual.
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  It seems to be at the very center of our identity.
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  It is, but that's where the great disconnect happens.
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  We see it all the time. Christians will, you know,
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  they'll gladly write a check for missions.
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  They'll have a great discussion about doctrine in their small
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  group. They might even pray, you know,
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  in a general way for the lost. But the simple direct act of
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  opening your mouth to tell a non believer about Jesus, that's
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  where all the the static comes in, the unease.
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  That feeling of unease, I think that's what we have to chase
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  down. The sources we looked at call
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  this pattern the Great Commission, running alongside a
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  great avoidance. That's a good way to put it.
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  And what's interesting is that this avoidance, it doesn't look
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  like open rebellion. It it looks polite, it hides
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  behind these really respectable sounding excuses.
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  Oh, absolutely. I'm not gifted.
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  That's a classic. That's the big one.
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  Or I don't want to be pushy or my personal favorite.
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  I'll just let my lifestyle do the preaching.
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  Right. And those are just symptoms.
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  They're not the actual disease. We have to get our heads around
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  the fact that staying silent is not a, you know, a spiritually
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  neutral position. How so?
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  Well, Proverbs 29 warns us that the fear of man is a snare.
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  It's a trap. So when we choose to be quiet
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  because we're afraid of what someone will think.
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  The eye roll, The awkward silence.
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  Exactly. We are actively trading our duty
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  to be a witness for a little bit of temporary social comfort, and
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  that has a huge spiritual cost, both for US and, of course for
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  the person who needs to hear the message.
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  So if those excuses are just the smoke, what's the theological
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  fire causing all of it? What's the core diagnosis that
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  the sources are presenting for this this evangelistic
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  paralysis? We've kind of synthesized it
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  down to three, let's call them theological collapses, and it's
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  probably good to just define them right at the start.
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  OK, first there's what we call an anthropocentric theology.
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  OK, big word. What does that mean?
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  It just means our whole framework is man centered.
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  We are, at a basic level, fearing people more than we fear
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  God, so it's fundamentally a worship problem.
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  A worship problem? Wow.
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  OK. Fearing man over God.
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  That hits hard. What's the second collapse?
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  The second is that we tend to operate with a a synergistic
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  securiology. OK, another one.
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  It's just a technical term, but it means we functionally believe
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  that salvation, the actual conversion, depends on us, on
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  our human skill or eloquence, our perfect technique.
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  So I'm the one who has to make it happen.
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  Right, You've now transferred the burden of regeneration onto
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  your own shoulders, and that creates this this paralyzing
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  performance anxiety. I can feel that.
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  OK, and what's the third root problem?
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  The third one is eschatological amnesia.
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  Forgetting the end times. Exactly.
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  A kind of spiritual shortsightedness.
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  We lose a sense of the timeline, the urgency of Christ's return,
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  the the seriousness of eternal judgment.
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  And when you lose that conviction, lethargy just
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  settles right in. So misplaced fear, misplaced
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  burden, and a misplaced sense of time.
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  That's it. And if we can address those
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  three roots, we can start to replace all that anxiety with a
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  genuine biblical confidence. That's a fantastic road map, But
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  you know, before we start digging into those deep roots,
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  maybe we should make sure we're all on the same page about what
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  evangelism even is. Yes, good idea.
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  Because I think a lot of the fear comes from a complete
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  misunderstanding of the task itself.
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  You know, people picture some awkward high pressure street
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  corner performance. Exactly, and we just need to
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  throw that cultural image out the window.
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  The sources give a much simpler but also much weightier
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  definition. Evangelism is the clear
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  communication of God's saving message in Christ to sinners
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  with a sincere summons to repent and believe.
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  It's just gospelling. It's just gospelling.
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  You're announcing historical news that has eternal
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  consequences, and getting clear on the content of that news is,
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  I think, the very first step toward having any courage.
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  At all. OK, so let's do that.
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  Let's just run through the core content, the non negotiables,
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  because if our gospel is just some vague spirituality, we're
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  never going to be bold. What are the key elements we
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  have to communicate? Well, you have to start with
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  God. The message begins by
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  establishing who we're all accountable to.
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  We present God as the holy Creator and the righteous judge.
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  He's the perfect standard of justice.
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  And everyone owes him flawless obedience, right?
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  And if we skip that part, the cross doesn't make any sense.
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  Why would Christ need to die if the problem he is solving
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  doesn't feel all that serious? That makes sense.
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  Then we have to move to the state of man and this is where
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  it gets uncomfortable. We have to be honest about our
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  condition. We have to be Man isn't morally
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  neutral. People aren't just, you know,
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  spiritually confused and looking for answers.
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  We are guilty sinners, we are corrupt by nature, and we are
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  living under the just wrath of God.
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  Romans 3 paints a pretty bleak picture.
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  It does. It describes humanity as
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  completely unable to rescue itself.
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  So you have to communicate the bad news about sin before the
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  good news about Christ can even land.
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  Which brings us to the center of it all.
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  Christ, He is the center. He's the eternal Son who became
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  a man who perfectly fulfilled the law that we broke and then
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  bore our sin as our substitute on the cross.
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  The substitutionary atonement, that's key.
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  It's absolutely central. He satisfied God's justice in
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  our place, and critically, we have to include his bodily
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  resurrection and his ascension. He reigns as Lord and that
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  confirms that his work was sufficient.
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  And this isn't just a history lesson.
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  This news, this announcement, requires a response.
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  Yes, it demands action. The required response is
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  repentance and faith. That means turning away from
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  sin, from everything that violates God's law, and trusting
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  in Christ alone, bowing to his authority.
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  It's a command, not a suggestion.
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  It is. Acts 17 is clear that God
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  commands all people everywhere to repent.
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  So evangelism isn't just sharing interesting facts, it is issuing
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  A compelling command on behalf of the King.
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  So if we understand the message that clearly that it's news from
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  the king to rebels, it just inherently has this sense of
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  urgency. It has to Paul calls himself an
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  ambassador, pleading with people on behalf of Christ, be
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  reconciled to God. When we approach this, we aren't
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  just offering a helpful tip for a better life.
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  We are delivering an embassy message.
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  It's a plea from the only one who can save them.
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  OK, so if that's the real thing, let's talk about the
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  counterfeits, the things that we mistake for evangelism that
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  actually fuel our fear. The sources pointed out four
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  common distortions. Let's start with the first one,
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  this idea that evangelism is salesmanship.
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  This one might be the biggest single cause of performance
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  anxiety for Christians when you treat the gospel like a product
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  and the Sinner like a customer. Your job is to close the deal.
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  Right to pressure a decision, maybe use a bit of psychological
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  manipulation to get them to. Buy, and that means I start to
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  feel personally responsible for whether or not they buy for the
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  result. Precisely.
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  And if conversion depends on my perfectly crafted opening line
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  or my ability to overcome all their objections, well then what
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  happens when they say no? It's terrifying because I feel
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  like I failed. I've let that person down.
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  You feel like you've let them slip into because your pitch
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  wasn't good enough. I mean, that burden is
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  completely crushing and it is not biblical.
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  And this is where the doctrine of God's sovereignty is just so
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  liberating. It's everything.
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  Scripture is very careful to separate our faithfulness from
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  the results, Paul says. You know, some plant, some
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  water, but God gives the growth. God gives the growth.
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  Conversion is a supernatural work of the Holy Spirit.
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  Our role is just the clear, courageous delivery of the
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  message. We don't generate new life, so
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  when we really believe that the outcome is in God's hands, that
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  fear of our own failure just starts to melt away.
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  The second distortion feels related.
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  It's the idea that evangelism is primarily about winning an
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  argument. Yeah, another big one.
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  So many believers just freeze up because they imagine every
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  conversation turning into this hostile debate where they have
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  to, Florida State, answer every philosophical question someone
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  can throw at them. About science or suffering or
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  world religions. All of it.
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  And that's just a paralyzing standard for the average person
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  in the Pew. Now, reason, defense
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  apologetics, that's valuable. It's commanded in first Peter,
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  but it's secondary to witness. We're not called to be walking
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  encyclopedias. Not at all.
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  We are called to be witnesses to historical facts and theological
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  truths. So this is a big question for a
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  lot of people. Is it okay to say?
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  I don't know. Can you do that and still have
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  credibility? Yes, 100% yes.
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  It is not only acceptable, it's often more honest and humble to
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  say. You know, that is a fantastic
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  question. I don't have a good answer for
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  you right now, but I'd be happy to look into it with you.
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  We lose more integrity by pretending we have all the
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  answers. Of course, the goal is not to
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  score debate points or humiliate someone.
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  That's a failure in love. The goal is always to gently
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  bring the conversation back to the center.
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  Christ crucified and risen for sinners.
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  OK, the third distortion. This one sounds really
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  spiritual, but it's dangerous. Preach the gospel.
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  Use words if necessary. Oh, this one is a catastrophic
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  misunderstanding of what the gospel is.
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  It sounds humble, but it guts the message.
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  Because words aren't optional. They're not optional because the
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  gospel is defined as news. How do you communicate news
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  without words? Paul just dismantles this logic
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  in Romans 10. How are they to believe in him
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  of whom they have never heard? Faith comes by hearing the word
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  of Christ. So you can't separate a holy
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  life from a verbal proclamation? No.
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  A holy life is crucial. It adorns the message.
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  It makes it credible. It shows that the Gospel changes
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  people. But a holy life on its own is
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  silent about the specific facts of substitution, resurrection
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  and the need to repent. So a silent Christian might be
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  admired as a good person. But that admiration will never
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  reconcile A Sinner to God. The news must be spoken.
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  All right. And the last distortion is this
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  subtle belief that evangelism is only for the spiritual elites,
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  you know, the extroverts, the really charismatic people or
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  those with a special gift of evangelism.
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  And this is so damaging because it gives, you know, 90% of the
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  church an excuse to stand down. Yes, God gives gifted
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  individuals evangelists to equip the church.
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  That's what Fusions 4 says. Their job is to equip the rest
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  of us. To equip the Saints for the work
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  of ministry. The witness of the gospel is
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  just normal Christian obedience for everybody.
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  The early church didn't spread because a handful of apostles
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  were super gifted. It's spread because ordinary
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  weak believers spoke about the extraordinary Savior who had
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  changed their lives. So even if I'm an introvert who
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  kind of stumbles over my words, I still have this duty of
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  witness. You do.
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  The command is universal. The way you carry it out will be
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  shaped by your personality and your context.
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  But we can't outsource this duty to the professionals.
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  That's clericalism, which we can talk about later.
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  We're just called to be faithful and to trust God to use our
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  ordinary words for His extraordinary purposes.
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  OK, so let's shift from the distorted ideas to the actual
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  feelings. Let's look at the symptoms, the
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  visible surface level fears that keep us quiet.
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  They feel so real in the moment or arguing they're just masking
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  those deeper theological problems.
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  Right, they're the warning lights on the dashboard.
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  Yeah, that's a great way to put it.
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  And the first one, maybe the most powerful 1 today, is social
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  fear. The cost of social fear is just
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  enormous in our culture. Evangelism immediately puts you
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  at risk of being misunderstood, of being labeled.
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  Intolerant. Narrow minded.
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  Hateful even. And it's often not formal
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  persecution that silences us. It's the the subtle cumulative
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  dread of that eye roll or the snicker, or just that sudden
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  coldness from a friend or a Co worker when they realize what
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  you believe. That subtle dread is so
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  powerful. We are just wired for social
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  approval and our society has really weaponized social
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  exclusion. It has.
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  And So what do we do? We choose quietness.
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  We trade our faithful witness for what we think is relational
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  peace. We feel like we have to choose
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  between keeping our friends and obeying Christ.
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  But Jesus told us this would happen.
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  He warned us very clearly the world hated him first, and it's
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  not going to applaud his message when it comes from us.
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  So the problem isn't that the threat of social disapproval
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  exists. The problem is when we let that
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  threat determine our obedience. OK, the second symptom is
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  competence. Fear, the classic.
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  I just don't know what to say. And that feels especially sharp
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  today, when Christianity seems to be on the defensive against,
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  well, everything. It's a completely understandable
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  anxiety, especially if a believer hasn't really been
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  discipled well in basic doctrine.
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  They just freeze. They don't know how to pivot a
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  normal conversation to eternal things without sounding like a
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  robot. Or they dread the big question.
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  Exactly What if they ask about suffering, or evolution or the
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  reliability of the Bible? They feel like they're going to
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  make Christ look foolish because of their own stumbling answers.
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  So what's the biblical counter gnosis for that feeling of
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  inadequacy? Well, Peter's instruction in
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  First Peter 3.15 is the key. He says to be prepared to give
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  an answer for the hope that is in you.
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  But notice he says to do it with gentleness and respect.
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  The command is to be prepared, not to be a genius.
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  Exactly, And prepared to talk about the hope that is in you.
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  It's a testimony first. The standard is readiness, not
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  perfect eloquence or omniscience.
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  God loves to use ordinary fumbling speech.
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  Our fear gets amplified because we falsely assume that only a
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  flawless, polished presentation can ever breakthrough the
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  darkness. OK, symptom #3 conflict, fear.
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  A lot of us just associate evangelism with confrontation
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  and hostility, and we will do almost anything to avoid
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  conflict. And that association, it's
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  rooted in a reality. The gospel does collide with
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  human pride. It collides with our autonomy,
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  our desire to be king of our own lives.
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  It's not a flattering message. No, a message that says God is
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  the judge, you are guilty, and salvation requires total
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  submission to Christ alone. That does not flatter the
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  natural human heart. And when the culture
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  aggressively redefines disagreement as harm or hate
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  speech, the pressure to water down the message is immense.
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  And when we give in to that pressure, what does the retreat
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  look like? We retreat into these vague,
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  inoffensive generalities. God loves everyone.
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  Just be a good person. Spirituality is helpful for me.
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  You strip the message of its offense.
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  But in doing so, you also strip it of its substance and its
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  saving power. We have to make a distinction
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  between an offensive manner, being rude or arrogant, which is
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  sinful, and the unavoidable offense of the message itself.
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  The cross will always be a stumbling block.
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  We can't remove that. And that brings us to the last
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  one. Exposure.
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  Fear the dreaded accusation. You're a hypocrite.
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  I think every sincere Christian feels this, this sense of being
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  disqualified by our own remaining sin.
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  It's a powerful silencer. I have to get my life together
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  first before I can talk about Christ.
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  But this completely misunderstands the very nature
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  of Christian witness. We are not testifying about our
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  own spotless moral record. We are testifying about Christ's
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  flawless mercy. The gospel is not the testimony
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  is the morally impressive. It is the confession of the
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  forgiven. So if we wait until we feel good
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  enough to speak, we're actually preaching a different gospel, a
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  gospel of moral achievement, not grace.
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  Absolutely. The gospel is for the helpless
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  and we are Exhibit A. Now, if a believer is honestly
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  striving against their sin and confessing it, then they're very
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  brokenness can actually commend the message.
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  We're telling people I need Jesus every single hour.
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  But what if sin is being cherished?
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  Well, that's different. If sin is being hidden and
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  cherished, then the accusation of hypocrisy is true, and it
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  absolutely gags the mouth. But for the striving believer,
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  these visible fears are all signposts.
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  They point to a deeper problem, a preference for our own
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  reputation, our own comfort, and our own control over Christ's
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  clear command. Let's go there.
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  Let's move beneath the symptoms to the heart of the problem.
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  You said these visible fears aren't just random anxieties.
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  They are the external signs of these deeper theological
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  collapses. Exactly.
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  We have to deal with the heart, the burden and the timeline.
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  OK, so let's start with route #1 the eclipse of the fear of God.
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  A misplaced fear. This is a crisis of worship.
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  The fear of man isn't just an emotion.
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  The sources call it a snare, a mochash in the Hebrew.
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  A snare. So it's a trap.
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  It feels like safety, but it actually captures you.
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  That's a crucial distinction. We don't always feel like we're
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  choosing outright rebellion. We're just letting habit and
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  cultural pressure train us to avoid social embarrassment.
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  We call it prudence or humility. But underneath that?
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  Underneath, we are choosing to love the glory, the approval,
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  the daksa of men more than the glory of God.
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  John's gospel talks about this. We have put the world's opinion
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  poll on the throne of our hearts, and we're letting other
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  people regulate our worship and our obedience.
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  So we've basically violated the first commandment.
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  We're letting the creature dictate our speech instead of
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  the creator. It is a functional idolatry.
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  We fear being called intolerant more than we feel disobeying the
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  King of the universe. You see this so clearly in the
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  New Testament. When Paul talks about courage,
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  he tells Timothy God didn't give us a spirit of Delia.
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  And Delia is that shameful cowardice.
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  That's spiritual timidity. Yes, that's shrinking back from
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  duty when it gets costly. And the defining trait of the
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  early church was the complete opposite, Parhesia.
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  That's that holy boldness. It means all speech, the freedom
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  to speak the whole truth without holding anything back, whether
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  the consequence is jail time or just an eye roll from a Co
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  worker. In Acts 4, after they're
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  threatened, the disciples don't pray for safety, they pray for
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  more boldness. They do, and a loss of prohesia
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  is what happens when we start editing the gospel to make the
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  audience more comfortable. We stop being heralds for the
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  King and we become diplomats who are terrified of causing a
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  social incident. For a lot of us today, that
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  snare looks like prioritizing A promotion or our image on social
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  media over obedience to Christ. So if the diagnosis is idolatry,
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  the antidote has to be a recovered high view of God.
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  The antidote is theology proper. It's thinking rightly about God.
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  Jesus gives the command in Matthew 10.
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  Do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul.
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  Rather fear him who is able to destroy both soul and body in
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  hell. That puts things in perspective.
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  It does. When we begin to grasp the the
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  infinite authority and righteous judgment of God, human opinions
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  just shrink down to their proper tiny size.
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  We have to intentionally live corumdeo before the face of God
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  and let His glory, not our reputation, be the thing that
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  governs our speech. OK, that's a huge one.
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  Let's move to Route 2, the burden of synergism, The
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  misplaced burden. Right.
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  If misplaced fear is a worship crisis, this crushing
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  psychological burden we put on ourselves is a crisis of
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  soteriology, of how we think salvation works.
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  We operate under this functional synergism, secretly believing
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  that conversion depends on our performance.
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  And this is where Reformed theology is just a great
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  Liberator. It truly is, because if I
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  believe that someone's eternal destiny depends on my flawless
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  eloquence, my perfect answer to their question, or my impeccable
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  timing, I should be paralyzed with fear because I know I'm
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  going to mess it up. And this error comes from
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  forgetting the actual spiritual state of the law.
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  Yes, we forget the doctrine of total depravity.
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  We think of them as merely confused, or maybe a little
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  hesitant. When the Bible says they are
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  spiritually dead. Dead and blind Second
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  Corinthians tells us the God of this world has blinded their
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  minds. First Corinthians says the
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  natural man cannot understand the things of the Spirit.
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  He can't. We're talking to a spiritual
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  corpse. You can't persuade A corpse.
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  You can shout at a corpse with the most brilliant, loving,
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  persuasive rhetoric in human history, and it will not
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  respond. Human skill cannot wake the
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  dead. And when we forget that, we
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  start assuming our success is based on our sales pitch, which
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  leads directly to anxiety and then silence when we don't see
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  results. So the doctrine of monarchism,
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  that salvation is of the Lord alone.
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  That's not an excuse for laziness.
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  It's the only way we can speak without being crushed.
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  It is the only way we have to hold tight to that distinction
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  between the external call, that's our duty to deliver the
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  message clearly and the internal call.
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  Which is the Holy Spirit's work? The Spirit's sovereign
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  supernatural work of regeneration.
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  We are the voice delivering the message.
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  We are not the power source that makes it effective.
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  We're the mailman responsible for accurate delivery.
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  We are not the authors responsible for how the
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  recipient feels about the letter.
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  That distinction is where the fear, just the source, is
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  pointed to the powerful language Jesus uses in John 6 to drive
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  this home. He says no one can come to me
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  unless the father who sent me draws him.
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  That Greek verb for draws is helco.
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  And that's not a gentle nudge. It is not a gentle suggestion or
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  a passive invitation. Helco means to draw or compel
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  with overcoming power. It's the same word used for
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  fishermen dragging a heavy net to shore, or for soldiers
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  dragging A prisoner to jail. It implies an effectual,
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  irresistible work of God. So it removes all doubt about
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  where the power actually is. We speak the gospel to the ear,
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  but it is the Holy Spirit who applies it to the heart.
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  He shines light into the darkness.
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  Precisely. We are witnesses commissioned by
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  Christ. We are not saviors.
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  The Great Commission calls us to speak and teach, but the power
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  to grant new life belongs to God alone.
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  So when we rest in that sovereignty, the anxiety just
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  dissolves. We're free to be awkward, to
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  stutter, to be rejected, because we know our human failures
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  cannot stop the sovereign purpose of God.
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  Our success is measured by faithfulness.
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  Only by faithfulness and proclamation, not by how many
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  hands go up. All right, let's move to the
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  third and final route. Eschatological amnesia.
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  The loss of urgency. If misplaced fear is a worship
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  problem, and the misplaced burden is a soteriology problem,
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  then this is a timeline problem. We lose sight of the blessed
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  hope, as Titus calls it, and we just start acting like we have
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  all the time in the world. We sink into a kind of spiritual
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  lethargy. Yeah, it's a failure.
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  To properly locate ourselves in God's redemptive history, we
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  have to get that sense of urgency back.
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  We are living in a unique temporary period, the Church
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  Age, and it has a finite set ending.
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  We aren't here to, you know, slowly renovate the world for
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  1000 years. We are here to rescue people
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  from a world that is destined for judgment.
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  The sources mentioned Romans 11.25 which gives a really
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  specific boundary for this age. The completion of the fullness
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  of the Gentiles. That phrase suggests A
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  predetermined number, a quota if you will.
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  And when the last elect member of Christ's body is brought in,
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  this dispensation closes abruptly.
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  That realization should just shatter our complacency.
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  It should. We are working against a divine
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  countdown. Every person we speak to, every
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  clear gospel message we deliver could be contributing to the
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  completion of that number. And for those who hold to a pre
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  tribulation view of the end times, the imminence of the
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  rapture just adds this intense moment by moment urgency to that
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  countdown. It absolutely does.
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  The Lord could return before this conversation is over.
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  There are no prophesied events that must happen 1st.
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  And if we genuinely believe that the sky could roll back at any
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  second, how can we possibly prioritize our own comfort, or
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  our sleep or our fear of an awkward conversation over
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  speaking the message of reconciliation?
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  When we lose that sense of imminence, the church starts to
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  look more like a social club than a mobilized army.
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  It does, and we end up prioritizing the fear of
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  temporary awkwardness over the reality of eternal judgement.
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  And that's the moral and spiritual disaster right there.
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  It is we fear a subtle social cold shoulder more than we fear
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  the lake of fire. We ignore the reality of what
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  the Bible calls the second death, Paul said.
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  Knowing therefore, the terror of the Lord, we persuade men.
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  That's not manipulation, that's compassion based on a terrible
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  truth. Exactly.
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  If we actually loved our neighbors as Christ commanded,
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  the reality of their condemnation before a holy God
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  would compel us to speak In that context, silence isn't polite.
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  It's criminal negligence. I found that analogy in the
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  sources really helpful. The rescue swimmer versus the
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  interior decorator. Right, we're rescue swimmers on
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  a turbulent sea, not interior decorators on a cruise ship.
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  So what does focusing on interior decorating look like in
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  the modern church? It looks like an endless
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  internal focus. It's prioritizing programs that
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  are highly comfortable and highly tailored to existing
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  members. We spent all our energy debating
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  the color of the carpet, the style of the music, the
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  temperature in the sanctuary instead of training people to
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  jump into the water to pull others out.
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  The night is coming when no one can work.
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  That's what Jesus warned. We are in a rescue operation,
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  not a remodeling project, and time is running out.
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  OK, so we've established these 3 deep theological roots, but of
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  course those roots don't grow in a vacuum.
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  They are fed and strengthened by things going on around us both,
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  you know, failures inside the church and pressures from the
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  culture outside. That's right, they work together
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  to make things worse. So let's start with the
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  discipleship failures. How does the Church sometimes
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  unintentionally train its own members to be afraid?
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  One of the most pervasive issues is what we can call clericalism.
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  It's this subtle, often unspoken belief that ministry, especially
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  the hard work of evangelism, belongs to the professional
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  staff. So it becomes the outreach
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  department's job, or the pastor's job, but not my job.
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  Precisely. The pastor is the quarterback
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  and the congregation are just spectators in the stands.
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  This completely ignores the blueprint in Ephesians 4 where
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  Christ gives pastors and teachers for the purpose of
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  equipping the Saints for the work of ministry.
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  So if the leaders do all the work.
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  Then the members feel perpetually unqualified.
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  They learn to outsource their most basic duty as a witness.
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  They become consumers of ministry instead of producers of
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  witness. And that leads right into the
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  second failure you identified consumer church culture.
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  If the whole church experience trains believers to just ask,
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  was I fed today? Was I entertained instead of was
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  I equipped for mission? Then the focus just stays
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  relentlessly inward. The church becomes a service
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  provider. And believers become clients.
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  Their Christian life gets organized around getting maximum
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  personal comfort and minimal personal risk.
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  And when your mission muscles are never used, they just
• 27:34
  atrophy, so outward facing witness starts to feel like this
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  weird unnatural chore that interrupts the comfortable
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  routine of being served. The Church stops being a
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  launching pad and becomes a cul-de-sac.
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  A comfortable. Retreat, Yeah.
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  We also see fear being generated by what the source is called
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  technique driven pragmatism. This is evangelism being taught
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  as these rigid scripts or high pressure closing techniques.
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  Right. And when success is defined by
• 27:57
  numbers, how many people prayed a prayer?
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  How many decision cards were filled out?
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  Fear just rushes in because now the goal is visible success, not
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  faithfulness. And that leads to one of two bad
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  reactions. Either you feel this pressure to
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  force results using manipulative tactics to get the numbers up,
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  or you just have a complete fearful retreat because the
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  pressure to perform and get those results is just too high.
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  Biblical evangelism is about honest persuasion and clear
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  presentation grounded in real theology, not sales tricks.
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  The 4th failure you mentioned links back to that second
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  theological route we talked about the neglect of prayer.
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  If we're relying on our own strength, we are going to be
• 28:38
  afraid. Prayerlessness is basically a
• 28:40
  silent confession that we think evangelism is a purely human
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  task that we can accomplish with our own human strength and
• 28:46
  natural wit. But if you look at the book of
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  Acts. It's the opposite boldness that
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  parhesia is tied directly and immediately to prayer and being
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  filled with the Spirit. When we don't pray for open
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  doors, or for the Spirit to convict people, or for clarity
• 28:59
  in our own speech, we are essentially walking onto the
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  mission field completely alone. A praying Christian is a
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  dependent Christian and therefore a less self reliant
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  and less paralyzed Christian. And finally, there's just a lack
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  of models. Evangelism stays this scary
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  abstract idea if believers never see mature Christians sharing
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  the gospel in their normal everyday lives.
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  This is a huge one if the only examples we ever see are, you
• 29:26
  know, big time crusade evangelists on a stage or
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  aggressive St. preachers on a corner.
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  The average person just thinks, well, that's obviously not my
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  job. Doesn't feel accessible.
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  Not at all. Churches need to normalize
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  witness. We need to tell stories.
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  Not just the dramatic and then he got saved testimonies, but
• 29:43
  the stories of the awkward conversations, the fumbled
• 29:46
  explanations, the slow progress relationships that make up most
• 29:49
  real life witnessing. Seeing simple, respectful, clear
• 29:53
  gospel speech done naturally makes it feel possible.
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  OK, so those are the internal church factors.
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  Now let's look outside at the culture that surrounds the
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  church. These pressures don't cause the
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  theological problems, but they act like a massive amplifier.
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  They just increase the perceived cost of speaking up.
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  A huge amplifier. And the first and maybe most
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  relentless pressure is pluralism and exclusivity.
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  Our modern culture basically operates on a principle of
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  tolerance, but it's a very specific kind of tolerance.
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  It tolerates religion as long as it stays private, subjective and
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  doesn't make any big claims. And the moment you say Jesus
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  Christ alone saves. You've broken the foundational
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  rule that all ultimate claims are impolite.
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  It's immediately heard as arrogance, as bigotry, or even
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  as hostility. The culture screams Don't impose
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  your truth, but Christ commands Go and tell my truth.
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  And that tension forces a compromise.
• 30:46
  It does. Believers feel this pressure to
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  keep their Christian identity. They'll still go to church, but
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  they mute the proclamation part. They hope to earn respect first.
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  But when you strip the message of its sharp, exclusive edges
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  that there is only one way to God, it stops being the gospel.
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  The second pressure is political polarization.
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  It feels like any speech from a Christian now is immediately run
• 31:08
  through a partisan filter, even if the content is totally
• 31:11
  spiritual. This is a major silencer.
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  A simple statement about sin or biblical morality is often just
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  assumed to be part of a political agenda, a campaign
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  slogan. So the pressure is immense to
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  just avoid spiritual topics altogether so you don't get
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  miscategorized as a political combatant in the culture war.
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  You become cautious because you don't want your motives to be
• 31:32
  misread. Exactly.
• 31:34
  Not out of love for Christ, but out of fear of being filed away
• 31:37
  as a right winger or some other label by a hostile listener. 3rd
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  workplace dynamics. The professional world can
• 31:45
  create a kind of functional atheism in a lot of believers.
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  Absolutely. There's the fear of HR policies,
• 31:51
  of of straining relationships with your team, of stalling your
• 31:53
  career. Most professional environments
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  discourage anything that could be seen as proselytizing or
• 31:58
  unwanted. So that real pressure is enough
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  to make us confine our faith to our private lives.
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  It is. We have to use wisdom, of
• 32:04
  course, but often the sphere just disciples us into acting as
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  if God has no authority over our public speech at all.
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  We basically confine him to our Sunday morning commute.
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  And the power of social media culture just amplifies this risk
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  exponentially. Oh, it makes every single
• 32:20
  interaction feel incredibly high stakes.
• 32:23
  People are terrified that one conversation, one misquoted
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  phrase, one misunderstood sentence will be screenshotted,
• 32:30
  weaponized, and lead to public shaming or professional ruin.
• 32:34
  It creates this policy of extreme self protection.
• 32:37
  It does. And evangelism, by its nature,
• 32:40
  requires vulnerability. It requires risking
• 32:42
  misunderstanding. Social media multiplies that
• 32:45
  risk by a 1000, which makes silence feel like the only sane
• 32:48
  self preservation tactic. And finally, there's
• 32:51
  institutional distrust. The church itself often gives
• 32:54
  the unbeliever an easy excuse to reject the message based on the
• 32:58
  failures of the messengers. This is a tough one.
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  The world hears the word church, and for many it conjures up
• 33:03
  images of scandal, hypocrisy, abuse, or greed.
• 33:06
  So Christians anticipate being forced to defend the failures of
• 33:09
  other inconsistent Christians before they can even get to
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  talking about Christ. We fear evangelism because we
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  anticipate immediate embarrassment.
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  Exactly. But we have to learn to
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  distinguish the perfect gospel message from the sins of those
• 33:21
  who preach it imperfectly. If we wait until the world has
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  no objections to the institutional church, we will
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  literally never speak. Our job is to confess that
• 33:30
  broken sinners are exactly the kind of people Jesus came to
• 33:33
  save. OK, the diagnosis is complete.
• 33:37
  We've seen the external pressures, the internal church
• 33:39
  failures and those deep theological flaws, so now we
• 33:43
  have to turn to the cure. Right.
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  And the antidote isn't just trying to manufacture courage or
• 33:48
  going on a guilt trip. It has to be a biblical
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  reordering of the soul. Since the causes are spiritual,
• 33:53
  the remedies have to be spiritual.
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  Exactly. So let's start with the first
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  remedy which targets that first fruit, the fear of man.
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  And the solution is to worship rightly.
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  We have to repent. That's the first step.
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  Repent of fearing people and submit to the fear of God.
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  And that doesn't mean being terrified of God in a slavish
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  way. It means acknowledging His
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  infinite holiness, His authority, His Majesty.
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  And when God's authority really presses on our conscience, the
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  opinions of men just shrink. They seem so small in
• 34:21
  comparison. They do.
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  We have to intentionally live corondeo before the face of God
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  so that our obedience is governed by His approval, not by
• 34:30
  our reputation. We have to ask that piercing
• 34:33
  question from Galatians. Am I now seeking the approval of
• 34:36
  man or of God? It's that simple.
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  Fear driven silence is displaced worship.
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  It's idolatry, and repenting of that is the absolute foundation
• 34:45
  for any courage. OK.
• 34:46
  The second remedy attacks that second route the burden of
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  synergism, and the solution is to surrender the burden.
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  This is the great relief. We are freed from that crushing
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  delusion that we have to produce the conversion.
• 35:00
  We plant the seed, we water it, but God gives the growth.
• 35:03
  We reassign the responsibility for the results back to God's
• 35:07
  sovereignty. Completely.
• 35:08
  We're just delivering a message from the king.
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  We leave the outcome, the work of regeneration, entirely in the
• 35:13
  hands of the king. And this doesn't lead to
• 35:15
  laziness. It actually strengthens our
• 35:16
  urgency because we know our labor is not in vain.
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  Our success is measured by our faithfulness to speak, not by
• 35:22
  the visible fruit. 3rd we have to rebuild gospel confidence.
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  Fear loves ambiguity. Boldness grows when we cherish
• 35:30
  the Gospel is the very power of God for salvation.
• 35:33
  This means we need deep, clear theological teaching.
• 35:37
  We need to be saturated in God's holiness, man's guilt, Christ's
• 35:41
  substitutionary work, the resurrection, and the call to
• 35:43
  repentance. When believers really glasp
• 35:47
  these solid truths, evangelism stops being about selling an
• 35:50
  opinion. And it starts being about
• 35:52
  announcing a rescue operation. Yes, sound preaching, good
• 35:56
  catechesis, these things are vital.
• 35:58
  If the Gospel is vague or watered down in our minds, our
• 36:01
  courage will evaporate instantly.
• 36:03
  And finally, we have to restore prayer as the engine of
• 36:06
  evangelism. This addresses our
• 36:08
  self-reliance. Prayer is the confession that we
• 36:10
  can't do this and that God must act.
• 36:13
  The church in Acts prayed earnestly for boldness when they
• 36:15
  were threatened, and the result was they were filled with the
• 36:18
  Spirit and kept speaking. Paul was constantly asking for
• 36:20
  prayer for his own witness. He was for clarity, for
• 36:23
  boldness. A church that truly prays for
• 36:26
  evangelism is supplying courage to its members.
• 36:28
  It's training their hearts to value souls more than their own
• 36:31
  comfort. So with these spiritual remedies
• 36:33
  in place, we can start to dismantle those standard excuses
• 36:37
  that our fear likes to hide behind.
• 36:39
  Right, we can call them out. Let's take them one by one.
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  The first one. I'm an introvert.
• 36:44
  Your temperament shapes how you witness, but it is not a moral
• 36:48
  exemption from the command. Boldness is a fruit of fearing
• 36:52
  God, not a personality trait. From a Myers Briggs test.
• 36:56
  Moses felt he was inadequate in speech.
• 36:58
  And God send him anyway. Being an introvert might mean
• 37:01
  you thrive in quiet, deep, one-on-one conversations rather
• 37:05
  than public preaching, but it can't cancel the duty to
• 37:08
  witness. The issue is obedience, not your
• 37:10
  wiring. OK, second excuse.
• 37:13
  I'm not gifted in evangelism. Here we have to be really
• 37:16
  careful to distinguish between the special gift of evangelism,
• 37:19
  that ability to lead many to Christ and equip the Church, and
• 37:23
  the ordinary duty of witness which is required of every
• 37:26
  single believer. Not everyone is a Billy Graham.
• 37:28
  Exactly. Not everyone is called to be a
• 37:30
  full time evangelist, but every Christian is called to confess
• 37:32
  Christ. The command is just to be
• 37:34
  faithful with the message you've been given, not to be unusually
• 37:38
  effective. 3rd excuse. I don't want to offend anyone.
• 37:41
  We must always, always aim for gentleness and respect first.
• 37:45
  Peter 3.15 is clear. We should never be rude or
• 37:49
  unnecessarily abrasive. That's a sinful manner.
• 37:53
  But we have to accept that we cannot remove the inherent
• 37:55
  offense of the message itself. The cross is a stumbling block
• 37:59
  to the proud. If our gospel message never
• 38:02
  offends the sensibilities of the natural heart, we have almost
• 38:05
  certainly changed the gospel. This excuse is really just fear
• 38:08
  of man dressed up as politeness. It is true love requires
• 38:12
  speaking what is necessary for a person's eternal good, even if
• 38:15
  it causes some temporary discomfort.
• 38:17
  OK, 4th, I'm just waiting for the right moment.
• 38:20
  This is so often just spiritualized procrastination.
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  It's a mask for our own reluctance.
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  Now, wisdom and timing are important.
• 38:28
  We shouldn't be foolish. But very often, our obedience is
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  what creates the right moment. We should pray for open doors,
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  but we also have to walk through them.
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  We do. We can't just wait for some
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  mystical sign. The open door is often the
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  relationship God has already put in your life, and it just
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  requires simple, prayerful obedience to step through it.
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  And the final one, the big one. My life isn't consistent.
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  I'd be a hypocrite. This one needs a careful answer.
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  If the issue is active, cherished, unrepentant sin, then
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  the answer is to repent first, not evangelize.
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  Cherished sin will always gag your mouth and invalidate your
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  witness. But what if it's just the daily
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  struggle of a sincere Christian? If this is the cry of a tender
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  conscience, of someone honestly at war with their sin, then the
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  answer is to remember what your testimony is about.
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  It's not about your own moral achievement.
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  It's about Christ's mercy. We are beggars telling other
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  beggars where to find bread. We speak not because we are
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  better, but because we know we need grace every single day and
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  we know where to find it. That's the testimony.
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  This has been, I think, a really necessary and and sobering deep
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  dive into why we're so often silent.
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  We've had to push past those surface feelings of awkwardness
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  and discomfort to get at this serious theological realities
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  underneath. And the main conclusion, for me
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  at least, is that this fear only starts to weaken when we realize
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  our confidence and our authority don't come from our own
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  cleverness. They rest entirely in the
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  authority of the risen Christ, who gave us the command in the
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  first place. And we discovered that this
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  great avoidance isn't just an accident, it's a choice.
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  We often trade our obedience and our love for our neighbor for
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  well, for temporary comfort, for social approval, and for a sense
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  of control. So moving forward from this
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  requires addressing the whole person, the head, the heart, and
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  the hands. That's a great way to frame it.
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  So let's detail that framework for someone listening who wants
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  to move from paralysis to just to faithful proclamation.
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  How do we engage the head? Intellectually the head has to
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  be anchored in two great truths, the sovereignty of God and the
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  seriousness of eternity. We have to re grasp the doctrine
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  of election that God has a specific people He will save, so
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  our efforts are not in vain. And the necessity of hell.
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  And the necessity of hell as the just consequence for sin against
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  a holy God. We have to replace that
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  terrifying thought. It all depends on me with the
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  comforting and enabling truth. God is sovereign and my labor is
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  not futile. OK, and what about the heart?
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  Good doctrine has to lead to right affections.
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  We have to intentionally cultivate compassion that that
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  visceral pity for the lost, seeing them as Jesus did, as
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  sheep without a shepherd, harassed and helpless.
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  And we have to cultivate gratitude.
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  We speak because we ourselves were saved by grace when we
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  deserve judgement. We speak because we treasure
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  Christ. Exactly, and that genuine felt
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  love for him and for our neighbor has to be what compels
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  us. And finally, the hands.
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  What are the specific practical action steps we can take
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  starting today? First, stop waiting.
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  Stop waiting for the perfect moment or the perfect script.
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  We need to pray. Specifically, make a list of
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  three people in your life who don't know Christ and commit to
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  praying for them every day for their repentance and for an
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  opportunity for you to speak. And we need to clarify our
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  language. Use clear, plain terms.
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  Avoid spiritual jargon. Talk about sin, judgment,
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  Christ, sacrifice and faith. And crucially, use the means of
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  grace God has already given us. Invite them to church to hear
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  the preached Word. That's God's primary tool for
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  breaking hard hearts. We have spent this deep dive
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  diagnosing the spiritual paralysis that so often grips
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  the modern church. The world around us insists that
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  our faith has to be private, that it must be confined to the
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  safe spaces of our lives. But we have to confront the
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  reality of that verse in Second Corinthians.
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  Knowing therefore, the terror of the Lord, we persuade men.
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  So the question for all of us is this what eternal price is paid
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  by our neighbor, and what cost is incurred by our own soul when
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  the fear of man successfully silences the news that saves?
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  A sobering question to end. On let us go forth with clear
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  theology and courageous faithfulness.