Latest / Learnings and Missteps by Depth Builder / Lester Young Path to Redemption
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- 0:00I served 22 years in five months in prison.
- 0:02I was given a life sentence at the age of 19 years old, and I served that time in prison and that's where my life changed in a lot of ways.
- 0:10And on this, I remember sitting in prison I practiced envisioning myself in different parts of the.
- 0:15Because prior to prison, I never left my community.
- 0:18I stayed in South Carolina never went outside of that state.
- 0:22So while in prison, part of me helping me cope and press through all of the challenges I was facing with a 3% chance of ever being free I had to find someplace where I found peace, not in my cell, but I had to close my eyes.
- 0:35So I used to envision myself being in Africa in Saudi Arabia, Jerusalem Egypt and these places that had so much rich history that I had a part of.
- 0:45Of five years I've been home now until of eight.
- 0:48And a couple years ago I got a pardon which allowed me now to travel internationally.
- 0:52My first trip was to go to Ghana to reconnect with the history of my ancestors to be able to understand who I am, who I was, and where I come from as I move through this process and what I call my personal commitment to self is healing.
- 1:08So I can model the way of what healing looks like for another black man in this country who have lived in poverty and participating activities, who are descendants of slaves.
- 1:19How do we live in a manner that is healing so that we can show others how that looks that my friends is Mr.
- 1:24Lester Young with Path two Redemption.
- 1:28I'm cheating here a little bit because I got to interview him on the OG spotlight, so there's a little bit of crossover going on, but man, I got fired up.
- 1:37He's got an amazing message of redemption.
- 1:41perseverance and just personal growth beyond belief, and I'm sharing this with the LnM Family because.
- 1:48, I believe it can spark some hope.
- 1:50Hope for people that are still entrenched and tied up with the chains that are keeping them from becoming the promise they're intended to be.
- 1:59Mr.
- 1:59Lester's young story is amazing and the way he walks in service is inspiring.
- 2:06So hopefully it'll light a fire in you to to take some action or to keep doing the amazing things that you're doing for your people and for your.
- 2:15Mr.
- 2:15Lester Young is a published author.
- 2:17That gentleman has put out multiple books, multiple works and resources for people to access and get going on their.
- 2:26, you know, it's kind of awesome to see amazing people putting stuff out there.
- 2:29and by the way, we have the lean and love audiobook that's now available.
- 2:34find the link down there in the duly dues.
- 2:36We always wanna recognize our patrons who have been behind us supporting the effort.
- 2:41Anybody out there that is bringing something new into the.
- 2:44You know how valuable it is and meaningful it is to be supported by folks and so patrons, y'all, appreciate you very, very much.
- 2:54time for the shout out.
- 2:55I wanna show some love to Mr.
- 2:57Tatz.
- 2:58If you haven't seen tat.
- 3:00He's everywhere.
- 3:01He's on the YouTube, he's on the TikTok, on the Instagram, on the LinkedIn.
- 3:06He's got beautiful content, uh, like really meaningful content for entrepreneurs.
- 3:12And the way he delivers it just makes it so like digestible.
- 3:17Just makes me want more.
- 3:18Okay.
- 3:19I'm probably making TA's blush right now, so I just want to share the comment that he went out of his way to share about an experience that we shared.
- 3:27So Tat says, I just participated in the inaugural emotional Bungee Jumpers community group with other professionals in the construction industry.
- 3:37I honestly did not know what to.
- 3:40I just saw that Jesse was cooking up something and was curious to see what it was.
- 3:45Thank you for trusting me, brother.
- 3:47I have to say it was a lot of fun as advertised.
- 3:50It worked on listening skills, question asking feedback skills, and above all, improving vulnerability and building trust cuz that's what it's all about.
- 3:59Boom, boom.
- 4:00I was impressed that you could improve those things while on a video call.
- 4:05So if those things are are on your list to improve this year, then check it out.
- 4:09I can definitely see the value in the group.
- 4:12Tatz.
- 4:13Thank you.
- 4:14And yes, folks, emotional Bungee jumpers.
- 4:17It's a community of industry leaders working to build these powerful skills.
- 4:23You're invited to sign up.
- 4:24I will leave a link down there also so you can check it out and maybe somebody you know might be interested in it or benefit from it more importantly.
- 4:32So that's enough.
- 4:33Here we go.
- 4:34Under Mr.
- 4:35Lester Young.
- 4:41Ooh, we're live baby.
- 4:43What is going on?
- 4:44People?
- 4:45All you folks out there in the Omniverse?
- 4:48I'm here with my friend Mr.
- 4:50Lester.
- 4:50Well, I don't know.
- 4:51Is it am?
- 4:52Am I crossing a, crossing a line Lester, by calling you friends so early in the relationship.
- 4:57Let's call it Tim.
- 5:00Four.
- 5:00So here we are with the OG Spotlight folks.
- 5:03If y'all are out.
- 5:05Facebook land, LinkedIn land, YouTube land.
- 5:08Uh, Twitterland, leave us a comment because we don't really know if you're there or not.
- 5:14If you don't, leave us a comment.
- 5:15Let us know where you're at.
- 5:16Uh, tell us what you're up to.
- 5:17If you're snacking on lunch, if you're playing hooky, whatever it is, we just love to know that you're there so we can show you guys some love.
- 5:26And I'm here with Mr.
- 5:27Lester Young, with Path to Redemption.
- 5:29Mr.
- 5:30Lester, how are you my friend?
- 5:32Man, I'm blessed.
- 5:33I am extremely blessed, man.
- 5:35I can't complain.
- 5:36I appreciate you asking, man.
- 5:37Hope you do.
- 5:37Yeah.
- 5:38Yeah.
- 5:38So I was, I was stalking you a little bit on the socials.
- 5:42Uh, you and I connected via LinkedIn to folks.
- 5:44If you're on LinkedIn, hit him up.
- 5:46Lester Young, he's making big, big imprint on the world with a path to redemption.
- 5:52Mm-hmm.
- 5:53and, and I know there's a story behind.
- 5:55And we're gonna get, get into that.
- 5:56I wanna learn more about it and I want the audience to learn more about it.
- 5:59Mm-hmm.
- 6:00, uh, but folks, y'all already know the deal.
- 6:02The OG Spotlight is about highlighting OGs, people that are out there, uh, sacrificing their time, making an investment in the community to leave this world better than they found it.
- 6:13And Mester is absolutely one of those people.
- 6:16And so, Lester, I seem like you were on a major.
- 6:18Not too long ago, like across the country.
- 6:21I mean, international trip.
- 6:24Yeah.
- 6:24What, what, how was that experience?
- 6:26Uh, my first time, you know, um, uh, first I'll just tell, tell you your audience blessings to you all.
- 6:32Um, and again, thank you for giving me this opportunity to be on your platform and hopefully, uh, what we shared today's meaningful, uh, inspiring and motivating for the audiences.
- 6:40Also listening now in case to re.
- 6:43Um, as you know, uh, Jesus, I, I served 22 years in five months in prison.
- 6:48I was given a life sentence at the age of 19 years old, and I served that time in prison and that's where my life, uh, changed in a lot of ways.
- 6:56And on this, I remember sitting in prison, I always practiced this thing.
- 7:00There's not this thing, but I practiced envisioning myself in different parts of the.
- 7:04. Um, because prior to prison, I never left my community.
- 7:08I stayed in South Carolina, Hilton Head Island in South Carolina.
- 7:11I never went outside of that state.
- 7:14Right?
- 7:14So while in prison, part of me helping me cope and, and, and press through all of the challenges I was facing, um, in a prison with a 3% chance of ever being free, I had to.
- 7:24Find someplace where I found peace, not in my cell, but I had to like close my eyes.
- 7:29So I used to envision myself being in Africa, uh, in Saudi Arabia, Jerusalem, these places that, and Egypt and these places that had so much rich history that I had a part of.
- 7:41Right?
- 7:41So, um, of five years I've been home now until of eight.
- 7:45And a couple years ago, I got my passport.
- 7:47Well, I got a pardon, which allowed me now to travel internationally.
- 7:51So I, my first trip was to go to Ghana to reconnect with the history of my ancestors in Ghana and to be able to understand.
- 8:00Who I am, who I was, and where I come from as I move through this process and what I call my personal commitment to self is healing.
- 8:09So I can model the way of what healing looks like for another black man in this country who have lived in poverty and participating activities, who are descendants of slaves.
- 8:19How do we live in a manner that is healing so that we can show others how that, how that looks.
- 8:24So that's what that trip in Ghana was about a two week trip, which was a phenomenal trip for me.
- 8:30Yeah.
- 8:30Yeah.
- 8:30So, okay.
- 8:32So you, you were, you were locked up.
- 8:34Mm-hmm.
- 8:35and the way mentally, you just decided to set your mindset to envision yourself traveling the world.
- 8:42Yeah.
- 8:42Yeah.
- 8:42Was that just an idea you came up with, like, oh, by yourself?
- 8:45Or did somebody recommend that?
- 8:47How'd you get to that?
- 8:49I got you that through reading, you know, um, there were, there were several individuals inside of the prison.
- 8:54Um, some of those who were actually incarcerated with me, excuse me, and then some prison chaplains.
- 8:59They were people who pushed me.
- 9:00I went to prison reading at a seventh grade level of education.
- 9:03Hmm.
- 9:04. Um, so I had no desire to read or anything, but here I was sitting in prison all of this time.
- 9:10Like I, like I said, I mentioned I had a 3% chance of, of ever being free, 90% chance that I would die in prison, but someone told me to bet on myself.
- 9:20and that betting on myself, meaning that I had to change the way I think.
- 9:23Yeah.
- 9:23And understanding and my mindset was the reason why I was in prison.
- 9:27It was not, it was my mindset led to behavior choices led to the decisions.
- 9:31Here.
- 9:32I was sitting in prison, so I had to reimburse, I had to reverse that.
- 9:35I had to stop focusing on changing my mind.
- 9:37And one of the books that really, um, Change that for me was James Allen as a man thinking so is he.
- 9:43And then the book, Napoleon Hill Thinking To Grow Rich, a lot of these books that really opened the window for me to see the world through the lens of not trauma, pain, and incarceration, but see through a lens of a person who has literally been changed their mind and they could be able to experience true freedom.
- 10:00So I always tell people that before the South Carolina Parole Board granted me a parole, after 22 years and five months, I was already.
- 10:08And that freedom came through reading books and being able to envision myself closing my eyes and envision myself in a place that gave me a sense of solace, um, to allow me to press through the years of in incarceration.
- 10:21Oh man.
- 10:22It's beautiful.
- 10:23So we got some people coming in.
- 10:24I wanna highlight them and then I got like a real question for you, like the selfish question cuz it's just all about me.
- 10:30Right?
- 10:31We got Ms.
- 10:32Christine Fuentes is coming in from YouTube land.
- 10:35She says, Hey, Jesse and Le.
- 10:37Looking forward to hearing your story, man.
- 10:39She's awesome.
- 10:39Thank you, Christine, for, she's always super supportive.
- 10:42Mm.
- 10:43. Then we got Mr.
- 10:44Joseph Gonzalez coming in from LinkedIn, says, bringing the boom . Yeah.
- 10:50Like, have you seen any of his content follow up?
- 10:54I'm gonna follow as soon as we get off.
- 10:56Yeah, man, you gotta hit him up.
- 10:57He posts videos and it's always like, bam, bringing the boom.
- 11:00He says, one can be locked up physically, but it's our choice to lock ourselves up mentally.
- 11:05Yeah.
- 11:05The mind is powerful.
- 11:06What do you think about that?
- 11:08I, I'm a testament of that.
- 11:10For 22 years I sat in a physical cell.
- 11:13You know, my first three years I was in two prisons.
- 11:15I was in a mental prison.
- 11:17I was in a spiritual prison.
- 11:18I was in a physical prison.
- 11:20But when I started making these shifts in my thought process and, and taking ownership for the decisions, and taking ownership for what I think and, and what allow, what I allowed to come into my mind, I was able to break free of.
- 11:33Physical prison.
- 11:34I mean, my mental prison, which I found true freedom, even though I walked in those halls every day for 22 years of incarceration, I still found a sense, a different sense of peace, which has now brought me to this point in my life now, eight years outta prison.
- 11:48I found freedom before I was actually free.
- 12:31Mm-hmm.
- 12:32Mm-hmm.
- 12:34, yes.
- 12:34Mindset ownership, 100%.
- 12:38Mm-hmm.
- 12:38, that whole ownership thing for me when I kind of, when I, not kind of, when it slapped me in the face and helped me realize I was reading the book, uh, man Search for Meaning.
- 12:48Mm-hmm.
- 12:48, uh, by Victor Frankl And there's a sentence in there who says, There's a space between stimulus and response.
- 12:56Mm-hmm.
- 12:57, and within that space lies our power to choose.
- 13:00Oh yeah.
- 13:01Yeah.
- 13:01And I'm telling you, I read that sentence and I went from being a victim and everybody was against me and I got bad luck and all of this.
- 13:08wa wa wa to like, oh, wait a minute.
- 13:11A lot of this is my fault.
- 13:13Like, I could change this thing if I take ownership of the thing.
- 13:17Um, so that, that selfish.
- 13:21for a felon like me that wants to get his visa that just recently got off paper.
- 13:28What are like the first two steps I should take?
- 13:32You said for a person who has gotten off a paper, like go and apply for it.
- 13:36Like, you know, like it was not hard.
- 13:38Go to your, I went to my local post office and went online first and filled out the paperwork for my passport and, um, being that I was no longer on parole and probation.
- 13:47And didn't have no fines or fees that allowed me to go in and pay, I think it was like less than $200 or something like that.
- 13:53I was able to get my passport, and once I got my passport, it was now execution.
- 13:58I, I can visit the places that I always dreamed about visiting while I was in prison.
- 14:02So Ghana was my first trip.
- 14:04I'm hoping to go to, um, Mecca and then I'm going to Jerusalem.
- 14:08Then I'm going to Egypt, uh, in, in the next couple, couple years.
- 14:11My first, while I'm going to hopefully Macau, Jerusalem.
- 14:15August of this year, that's gonna be my number one, uh, that's go hang out at the Jordan River . Oh, man.
- 14:24That, that's, that's beautiful, man.
- 14:27Yeah.
- 14:27Yeah.
- 14:28So, so Sister Jordan Roberts says that is such a powerful line that she's probably talking about life is a choice or the stimulus.
- 14:36or a space between stimulus and response.
- 14:38Thank you, Jordan.
- 14:39Glad for Thank you for the support.
- 14:41Mm-hmm.
- 14:41. Um, and so you talked about, you know, you were in there, took you a couple years for you to take ownership and, and mm-hmm.
- 14:48and get your mindset right.
- 14:50You envisioned yourself traveling the world.
- 14:53Yeah.
- 14:53How, how did you make the leap from.
- 14:58That to launch in path to redemption.
- 15:02And what is path to redemption?
- 15:03What's, what's the purpose there?
- 15:05Path to redemption.
- 15:06Uh, uh, you know, uh, I, being that I went to prison, I went to prison for a murder, I ended up shooting someone over a drug dispute when I was 19 years old.
- 15:14Unfortunate person transitioned.
- 15:16They died.
- 15:17. Um, and then in prison, my first couple years I was in complete denial.
- 15:22Uh, no one to take ownership.
- 15:24Very callous.
- 15:25Um, very insensitive to the actions, but I was, because I come from a family of people who have faith and my father like really?
- 15:34For those three years, he was always coming teaching me about God and encouraging me to fast and pray.
- 15:40So I started doing that and, you know, uh, one night I remember, uh, Jesus is that I was, I was laying in the bed one night, man, and it came to a point where it's almost like I couldn't sleep and God like woke me up.
- 15:51Like, and I had, and I was like asking God for years to forgive me.
- 15:55And God was like, I, I have forgiven you.
- 15:57But you have to ask the person you have, have harmed to forgive.
- 16:00And you have to take ownership for that.
- 16:02And you have to take ownership.
- 16:04Like don't just surface, like you gotta really take that.
- 16:07So I remember waking up crying one night in my prison cell and I had a cellmate, a roommate, and I didn't want it to really express that emotional side of me, but it was like, it was so overwhelming for me that I got up out of the bed and I went to the door and it was inside of my cell.
- 16:21It was a small little door.
- 16:23I went and I laid, I kneeled down in a fetus position and I started crying and.
- 16:28And I remember asking God again, forgive me, and it was just like this voice came over and said, I've forgiven you, but you have to ask a person, you have harmed to forgive you.
- 16:37. And for years I wanted to erase that part of that memory.
- 16:40But it was in that part of that.
- 16:42I now had to acknowledge this person.
- 16:45I had to call his name.
- 16:46I had to own, take ownership for that.
- 16:48And I remember saying to him, Gary, would you forgive me?
- 16:50His name is Gary.
- 16:52And I asked, and I said, Gary, would you please forgive me?
- 16:54You allow me to, to do something with my life.
- 16:57I'll promise you in this, in this forgiveness, I would, I would honor your life by doing the right.
- 17:03And this is where path the redemption came.
- 17:05Path the redemption came as a, a, a vision I felt from God, and also a means of Gary releasing me and allowing me to live a life of redemption.
- 17:16And it's not being, living with that guilt and unforgiveness, I felt like Gary's spirit forgave me and allowed me to move on in a different way.
- 17:25So part of that promise to Gary and to God while in prison, even after prison, I will honor.
- 17:32God's promise, but I'll also honor Gary's life by doing the right thing.
- 17:37So path the redemption was created to show men and women who are incarcerated that your only path to redemption.
- 17:43There's several things that you have to do and one of those things that you have to do, you have to take ownership is no victimization Mindset here is about taking complete ownership, understanding the power of forgiveness, which power forgiveness brings about true transformation, but you have to move forward in that.
- 17:59Mm mm mm Okay.
- 18:02I got, we got hashtag ownership up on the screen because like, that seems to be the basis of, of mm-hmm.
- 18:08of the freedom of your mind and, and the freedom for you to contribute your gifts and talents into the world.
- 18:14Yeah.
- 18:15It's easy to blame people, right?
- 18:17It's, it was easy for me sitting in prison to blame.
- 18:20it was easy for me to try my best to, to blame everyone for the reason why I was in prison.
- 18:25But the reality was, is I was guilty.
- 18:28I was in a place selling drugs, and I pulled the trigger, and unfortunately someone died.
- 18:32I blamed, and this is crazy.
- 18:34It was easier to blame the victim because I was like, they came to rob me for drugs.
- 18:39So it, it was justifiable, but it wasn't justifiable.
- 18:42I was dead.
- 18:43and once I was able to break away and take that ownership, that changed my life.
- 18:48And to this day, I tell people to this day in this power of ownership.
- 18:53I not only have God that's forgiven me, and I feel that Gary has, forgive me, but some of his family members, his brothers, his father, his sisters have forgiven me in this process as well, right?
- 19:03So by me taking this ownership, it opened up a completely different world to me of forgiveness.
- 19:08Not only asking God to forgive me, but also receiving forgiveness from those who I harm.
- 19:14years ago when I was a teenage boy.
- 19:16Mm-hmm.
- 19:16, I now understand the power of someone forgiving me for something that I did selfishly harm someone that they love and they have the strength to say, I forgive you and I want to see you do well.
- 19:27That to me, is power, but it only came as a result of ownership.
- 19:30Mm-hmm.
- 19:31Mm-hmm.
- 19:32Okay.
- 19:33So heard a bunch about forgiveness from others, from those that we've harmed and impacted.
- 19:38Mm-hmm.
- 19:40. , how about forgiveness from yourself?
- 19:42Absolutely.
- 19:43Yeah, absolutely.
- 19:44Yeah, because I mean, I'm not making a plug for my book, but I am.
- 19:47Come on.
- 19:49Uh, I wrote this book called The Five Stage of Incarceration, and it's really a highlight of my 22 years of incarceration, and one of those stages is forgiveness.
- 19:57And there's full stages in this book that I mentioned, forgiveness from.
- 20:00God Forgiving self forgiving others who harm you and seeking forgiveness from those you have harmed.
- 20:06But the hardest one for me was forgiving self.
- 20:08Ooh.
- 20:09I had to go back.
- 20:11I had to go back to the younger version of me because I shared a story with you.
- 20:15My mother died when I was 16, when my mother died.
- 20:19We, she died the night before.
- 20:22Uh, we had an argument the night that night, and she died the next.
- 20:26. So as a 16 year old person who felt like his mother died mad at him, I carried that guilt from 16 all the way to 25, 26 years old.
- 20:37While I'm sitting in prison serving life, I'm still struggling with this, and I had to realize going back again to ownership, I had to now be able to forgive me and so.
- 20:49Follow me.
- 20:49So the 26 year old me at that time could go back to the 16 year old Lester to help him process killed.
- 20:58Because we all have a period in our lives where we are stuck at something that was traumatizing or hurtful to us.
- 21:04We are hurt when we gotta go back.
- 21:05So that forgiving self was me forgiving my 16 year old self for the harm that I caused.
- 21:13, right, so that I can be able to live more freer as an adult male, you know what I'm saying?
- 21:18Moving through life now because I've learned to forgive me.
- 21:22I was able to get in this mirror and look at myself and say, I forgive you Lester.
- 21:26I love you, Lester.
- 21:27I'm I, you know, all of these affirmations I was able to give through this, this beautiful gift that God has given all of us.
- 21:35Self-forgiveness, forgiveness from him, forgiveness from others, and to be able to forgive those who have harmed you.
- 21:40Mm mm mm.
- 21:43All right, folks, if you're watching this on the replay, Pause and rewind that Cause man, that's powerful Lester.
- 21:51Yeah.
- 21:51So, so is this your first book, your last book?
- 21:54Where you at on this publish show?
- 21:55No, I'm on my fourth book right now.
- 21:57And yeah, I'm on my fourth book.
- 22:00And it's like the, the beauty of it is I'm, I'm only sharing what I know it is.
- 22:04I share and teach what I know and what I've survived.
- 22:06I survived 22 years of incarceration.
- 22:09Yeah.
- 22:09I, I, under, I survive the, the hellish prison of guilt.
- 22:15, I teach that, I teach mindset.
- 22:18So in all of my books that I've written is about the things that I have went through in order to get out of it.
- 22:24So like one of my books called How Did I Transform, uh, five Stages of Growth is how did I transform my life while serving life?
- 22:31And how did I transfer my life while serving life?
- 22:33Is that the first stage of that is healing from my past?
- 22:38See, a lot of us can't really grow into the people that we are destined to be because we're still living in that, that cage of past pain.
- 22:45And in that cage of past pain, we have not found our voice.
- 22:48So in order for growth to come about, you have to heal and through healing, you found your voice.
- 22:53So right now, you and I on this, on this call today is because I healed.
- 22:58and the second stage of that growth was now I found my voice.
- 23:01And that voice now leads to my mindset, now leads to my purpose, now leads to my gift.
- 23:06You know what I mean?
- 23:07So we have, those are the stages in how I transform my life while serving life, that now in this pain I've healed.
- 23:13I found my authentic voice, and now because of that, I have a purpose and I wanna leave this world in a different way.
- 23:21I wanna know that when I walk away from this life here, I have left my finger.
- 23:26on someone else's life that I've made an impact on that life.
- 23:30Oh man.
- 23:31Yes.
- 23:32Yes.
- 23:33That, that is what I'm talking about.
- 23:36So, Jordan, you're getting people fired up Lester, she said.
- 23:38I agree.
- 23:39Forgiving yourself mm-hmm.
- 23:40Is one of the hardest parts, even after you have absolution from others.
- 23:45Um, it is, you know, I've, I too have struggled with that.
- 23:49I've dealt with, uh, addiction for a long time.
- 23:53, every arrest I have is, is directly connected to my consumption of alcohol.
- 23:58Mm-hmm.
- 23:58. And I'm grateful for the grace I've received because I didn't get caught for everything I did.
- 24:04Right.
- 24:04Like , uh, but I had to come to a point.
- 24:10or I got outside of my, like to forgive myself.
- 24:13Mm-hmm.
- 24:14, uh, so that I could, like you said, find my voice, be the, the most authentic me I'm prepared to be right now at this moment.
- 24:22Uh, but I had to get that, that little voice right here on this shoulder that kept saying Uhuh, don't forget.
- 24:27Remember, remember when you did that?
- 24:29Remember when you were doing dirt?
- 24:31Like letting that go, um, was the most difficult thing for me.
- 24:35Yeah.
- 24:36So you've got several books, five books out.
- 24:38I bet you got a bunch more coming.
- 24:40Yeah, absolutely.
- 24:42But that's not the only way you're serving the community and helping people, is it?
- 24:45No, it isn't.
- 24:46Um, going back again to I teach what I know.
- 24:49I teach what I survive.
- 24:50I've teach what has allowed me to be demanded I am today.
- 24:53So I do coaching, I do coaching for those who are formally incarcerated, those who are walking out of prison and wanting to start life over again, but don't know.
- 25:03And, and, and, and because of that, they find themselves going back and forth to prison and recidivism, re rec, re uh, going back to prison in a form of rec recidivism, right?
- 25:12So my goal is to use my expertise as a person who walked outta prison eight years ago, have received a full part by the state of South Carolina, who have become a author, who have become a business owner, who has started several businesses, um, who was the homeowner, you know, an investor and all that stuff.
- 25:26I want to be able to teach other individuals how to turn.
- 25:30To really understand what Second chance means and, and why I am doing this is because walking outta prison, I realized that there were not enough me in the world, meaning that there were not a lot of people with lived experiences to be able to help someone else.
- 25:44Most of the people I talked to and I shared ideas with them that I was seeking assistance from.
- 25:49There were people who may have had book knowledge but didn't really have a true understanding of.
- 25:54And be couldn't.
- 25:55And because of that, they wasn't able to empathize or understand the challenges I face.
- 25:59So in this, I do professional coaching with individuals, group coaching and individual coaching.
- 26:04I also do second chance hiring, uh, understanding diversity and inclusion.
- 26:08Helping organizations understand the value of why it's so important to hire someone with a felony conviction, not only when you hire them, but what are some of the things that your organization can do.
- 26:17And that is through providing.
- 26:19Uh, life coaching for these individuals.
- 26:21Financial literacy, helping them develop a budget, how to maintain steady employment, understanding emotional intelligence, all of these things that you and I have already have applied and allowed us to be on this trajectory of success.
- 26:34But also I do like pardon clinics, um, because I received my pardon two years ago here in South Carolina.
- 26:40Um, so what I do, I help people here in South Carolina get their pardon.
- 26:43So we have now have gotten over 200 people, applications submitted.
- 26:47To South Carolina.
- 26:48Pardon?
- 26:48And probation parole, uh, to apply for pardons.
- 26:51We also assist with forklift certifications.
- 26:54Yes.
- 26:54When the forklift certification came.
- 26:56As a result, as I said, I teach what I know and what I've experienced.
- 26:59By me having a forklift certification, it opened a door for me to get a job at Tyson Foods, right?
- 27:04Mm-hmm.
- 27:04Hmm.
- 27:04. So I realized that if I could help someone, not only get a forklift certification that can open up a door for potential employment, and in that, once you get that job, Now let me coach you through how do you maintain that job?
- 27:17So I was able to leave Tyson three years, um, after my release from prison and went on to do my own stuff around my, my business model, right?
- 27:25But it was a blessing to go back to Tyson headquarters and share some of the best practices I learned as an employee of the organization so that that company can become better.
- 27:33So, I teach what I've went through to be able to empower and educate others so that they can continue to create this model of success.
- 27:41Hmm.
- 27:41Mm-hmm.
- 27:42Okay.
- 27:44When did the idea of starting your own business, when did that happen?
- 27:48inside of prison.
- 27:50What?
- 27:50So you knew then ? Yeah, I knew in prison that I wanted to start my own business.
- 27:54Cause going back again to me doing a deep introspection or reflection on what led to a bad behavior choices.
- 27:59One, it was because of lack.
- 28:01I wanted to make money.
- 28:02So that's why I chose drugs.
- 28:03Drugs was something in my community.
- 28:05Yep.
- 28:06So knowing that I wanted to be a person that ran his own business, but I didn't have the tools or the gifts.
- 28:12So sitting in prison, I came across a book on.
- 28:15And I read this, this big thick book about marketing.
- 28:18I was like, damn.
- 28:18I was doing some of the same stuff that that people do that go to college for.
- 28:22I was doing the same stuff, right?
- 28:24in the community.
- 28:25So I started learning about entrepreneurship and I started buying books on entrepreneurship.
- 28:29And then I was like, I started teaching classes on entrepreneurship in prison.
- 28:33Like how do you start a business up with 500 to a thousand dollars after incarceration?
- 28:37And that's something simple.
- 28:38So that business started, I mean, that class started growing and high demand for when I.
- 28:43Prison.
- 28:43I had the knowledge.
- 28:44Now I'm like, okay, I'm gonna start this business.
- 28:46So I started a power washing business.
- 28:48Um, something I saw a guy power washing, uh, the concretes in prison.
- 28:52I never forgot that idea.
- 28:53I wrote it down.
- 28:54And when I came home from prison, I bought a power washer for less than $300 when I got a L L C and I went to YouTube and I started learning how to press a wash.
- 29:03Cause I never press a wash.
- 29:04YouTube gave me all of the skills that I needed, jumped into some Facebook groups on how to power wash, and from there I was able to scale.
- 29:11300, $500 investment to 10, 20, $30,000 investment.
- 29:16I mean, a return on my investment by me knowing how to market because I, I did it in an illegal way.
- 29:22I learned how to do it in an legal way now, uh, through using Facebook ad, you know, all of that stuff.
- 29:27Yeah.
- 29:27So I was able to give a true testament, a testimony, a testimony to the men in prison that when I go back, I'm like, I now cannot only teach you.
- 29:36The, the, the, the understanding of the fundamentals of business man now can show you the practical application of how to start a business after imprisonment and even use that working, get a job full-time and do that on the side.
- 29:46So I didn't have a truck, I had a car, I had a Ford Fusion.
- 29:50I stuff all my buckets and stuff inside of this car, and I would go and press and watch a house after I got off work and the people would call, I'm like, I'm busy.
- 29:59We backed up right now, but I can get your house maybe at four 30.
- 30:03That's, I get off at four o'clock.
- 30:04They gimme 30 minutes to get to your house.
- 30:06I never told 'em that I was doing, uh, had a full-time job and doing it on the side.
- 30:10But that's what I needed to do to be able to create that financial freedom for myself, but also be able to just get in the, get in the, in the get in the game of understanding entrepreneurship.
- 30:20Yeah, learning it right.
- 30:21Figuring it out.
- 30:22How do you communicate?
- 30:23How do you market?
- 30:23How do you message?
- 30:25Um, I'm, I.
- 30:27I'm a baby.
- 30:28I just started about eight months ago and, and like, you know, I could have read and read and read and read.
- 30:34Um, but it's through doing that, that I learned the best.
- 30:40Yeah.
- 30:40Uh, and , you know, one thing that you're saying that I hope folks out there in the Omniverse, like tuning in right now mm-hmm.
- 30:49and also on the replay, is you have built an amazing business.
- 30:54Mm-hmm.
- 30:54an amazing life of service.
- 30:57and it's solely based on your personal experience in the world.
- 31:02Mm-hmm.
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- 32:15Absolutely, absolutely.
- 32:17It, it, it, it's, again, based on your personal experience.
- 32:22So what I'm hearing is your teaching, your coaching, your business, uh, Um, consulting.
- 32:29Mm-hmm.
- 32:30isn't based on a theory that you studied?
- 32:32No.
- 32:33It's based on what you lived.
- 32:34What I've lived like all a lot, and I get the question all the time, like, how do you find your purpose?
- 32:39I said, what have you survived?
- 32:42All of us have went through something traumatic, challenging, and in that we found we survived it.
- 32:48Yes.
- 32:48And in that survival, that is a purpose.
- 32:51Now you could take that and now give it back to someone else.
- 32:54So I don't go out and try and, and, and reinvent or create something I don't know.
- 33:00, this is natural for me.
- 33:01Speaking is natural.
- 33:02Coaching is natural.
- 33:04Whatever I'm doing is a natural thing because I lived it, right?
- 33:08I've gotten some education along the way, but this is natural for me.
- 33:12This is my purpose.
- 33:13This is my gift, and this is what I'm supposed to release into the world.
- 33:16So when we look at 2.5 million people in our world today, in our society in the United States are incarcerated, we look at over 70 million people in our society living with a felony conviction.
- 33:26We have what?
- 33:28Over a hundred thousand, a hundred million family members have someone incarcerated.
- 33:32And then we look at the businesses that are second chance hiring companies.
- 33:36Right?
- 33:37So why do I need to reinvent something?
- 33:39I can teach a business how to, how to create best practices in hiring and engaging with people with felony convictions.
- 33:45I can help PE the 2.3 million people in prison.
- 33:48I could write books like this.
- 33:50To be able to send into the prison to educate them, right?
- 33:53I can teach prison staff on some of the best practices in how you best serve people in prison.
- 34:00There's so many, I call it the vertical growth from my experience.
- 34:04I teach in a vertical way.
- 34:05So many lessons, so many things.
- 34:07Come from that 22 years of incarceration experience.
- 34:11And that's what makes, uh, any individual.
- 34:13Once you know who you are and what you have survived, you take that, you package that, you create a model for that, and you be able to sell that into the world and give it into the world.
- 34:23Yeah.
- 34:23Yeah.
- 34:23Contribute into the world.
- 34:25So you get people fired up here, Lester, we got Mr.
- 34:28Baim.
- 34:29CFU says, you're dope, bro.
- 34:30You're absolutely right about that forklift certification.
- 34:34That was his initial introduction to higher paid work.
- 34:38Thank you Basim, for contributing your comments, my friend.
- 34:41And then Christine.
- 34:42She like, dang, he got multiple income streams.
- 34:46. Yeah.
- 34:47From that one pain point, the thing you survive.
- 34:52. That's your purpose, that's your gift.
- 34:54You can create in a vertical way, multiple ways to impact the world.
- 34:59So from one book, I can, I've created a workbook, I've created a facilitator guide, I've created a a certification program with that, from that experience, and it's me giving back fort lifting class certification.
- 35:12I can.
- 35:13How to get this faultless certification, but in that, I can now coach you once you get the certification.
- 35:18Let me teach you, what do you need to do to work in how to elevate yourself in the workspace after being in prison for women many years.
- 35:26I know that because when I got outta prison, 22 years outta prison.
- 35:30I did not know how to navigate the workspace.
- 35:32Mm-hmm.
- 35:32A lot of mess up.
- 35:33And I've seen a lot of people lose jobs after prison because of their mindset wasn't there.
- 35:38They didn't know how to navigate the pitfalls of the workforce because for 20 something years or whatever amount of years, they only worked in a prison environment.
- 35:45So I now can help teach you what you need to do to survive and thrive in the workspace, but also, Start off at an entry level in that job and elevate yourself in that company if you do these particular things.
- 35:58And one is changing your mindset and being hungry for better opportunities for yourself.
- 36:03Yeah.
- 36:04And put, you know, there's something about doing dirt, right?
- 36:09Being out there, running wild, doing the thing, whether you got caught or not.
- 36:13There's some lessons that we've, that I've learned and I've applied to get something out of.
- 36:22, uh, the, the problem back then was I wasn't given anything back.
- 36:26Yeah.
- 36:26I, I was continue to take and take and take and it was never enough.
- 36:31Yeah.
- 36:31That's it.
- 36:32Those same learnings, those same little tricks and cheat codes, I still use 'em today.
- 36:37Mm-hmm.
- 36:38, but I use 'em to contribute.
- 36:40Mm-hmm.
- 36:40. And so for me, the biggest monumental difference is the depth.
- 36:47Fulfillment that I experienced from that.
- 36:49Mm-hmm.
- 36:50. Mm-hmm.
- 36:50is, is, how's that?
- 36:52Is, is it similar for you?
- 36:53I, I, I'm thinking, I'm thinking about several things.
- 36:56When you're talking about giving, paying it forward is, is is truly the blessing, the tea code that a lot of people don't understand.
- 37:05. Like, you have to understand that it's not about you.
- 37:07You have to give more to be able to receive more.
- 37:11And my, my mentor, uh, a guy named Chaplain Patoka, he always taught me the law of reciprocity.
- 37:17Mm-hmm.
- 37:17He's like, just give whatever, whatever, someone just give and it'll come back.
- 37:21It like a saw, the reciprocity saw, it just goes, he said, continue, just give what you.
- 37:27and whatever you need, the universe will produce for you.
- 37:29Right?
- 37:30Yes.
- 37:30That was one lesson, and I remember living after I got outta prison, I continued that.
- 37:35I didn't, when I, when I was looking for employment, I didn't like get down on myself.
- 37:38I started going to homeless shelters.
- 37:40Mm-hmm.
- 37:40, and started donating my time while I was seeking for employment.
- 37:44, right?
- 37:44I, I wanted to find, I didn't want to balance that.
- 37:46I didn't wanna be like, give me a job world, but I wasn't giving anything out.
- 37:51So I started like doing, uh, going to the homeless shelter, feeding.
- 37:55Then I started doing in the wintertime, uh, raising funds to buy socks, sleeping bags, hats.
- 38:01Scarves and stuff like that for the people who did not have any shelter.
- 38:05And then I started giving my service, and that's how it is, the law of reciprocity, giving back.
- 38:10And I think about two books, right?
- 38:12And I'm right in front of me right now.
- 38:14Uh, the Go-Giver by Bob Barger, the Go-Giver.
- 38:17And then I'm thinking about Joe Polish, his book called, you know, I'm shouting them out, um, that I says What's in it for?
- 38:24Right.
- 38:25Another good book.
- 38:26These are like books that I read, man, because it's about not being selfish about what you have, but how can I continue to make an impact in the world?
- 38:34And you find that those who have acquired a large masses of wealth, Their goal is to give that wealth away before they die because they know they can't take it with them.
- 38:43So you got guys like Steve Jobs, you got all of these, uh, Warren Buffet.
- 38:48They have major foundations that is giving back to the world, and that's when entrepreneurs particularly, I'm gonna say particularly those who have been takers, you've been a taker, you harm people in the, you destroyed.
- 39:03your service should be is how can I give back?
- 39:06In between as you're seeking to receive, you give more.
- 39:10You receive more.
- 39:11Yes.
- 39:11When you taking, you are never gonna receive that what you want.
- 39:15So those are the things that I've learned in prison and just me do my personal development.
- 39:19Reading books, as I mentioned, the Go Giver, what's in it for them, these various books about how to continue to.
- 39:26social capital is finding ways to give back to someone else.
- 39:29That's it, man.
- 39:30That's a you, I, I will attest to what you're saying.
- 39:33Joseph says, define your give in order to find your why.
- 39:37Yeah.
- 39:38I think, I think that's a solid saying there.
- 39:40Yeah.
- 39:41Um, you know, when I'm working with folks with the, the one question I ask myself when I'm kind of stuck on, um, putting a proposal together or helping somebody out, helping a group, , the way I get unstuck is I say, okay, how can I be generous?
- 39:58Mm-hmm.
- 39:59in this request or in this ask.
- 40:01Yeah.
- 40:02And for some reason, man, I ask that question and boom, it, it becomes super clear.
- 40:07Okay, but this is the thing.
- 40:08This is what they ask for, and I'm going to offer and contribute this too.
- 40:13And man, I'm gonna tell you every time I do that, it's like magic.
- 40:16The doors just open and we keep on trucking.
- 40:19That's, that's the golden rule.
- 40:21That's the cheat.
- 40:22It's like when you're a service provider, when you're providing a service, it's not about, okay, I get paid for this, but how can I go beyond what is paid to give you more value?
- 40:32That's it, and that's what it's about.
- 40:34It's like I want to add like, yeah, I have to get paid for my time, but I'm going to over give this to you.
- 40:40Like right now, you and I having this exchange, I could have easily come on this call and say, Hey man, I'm just going to give the bare.
- 40:47. Mm-hmm.
- 40:47, right?
- 40:47But that's not the intention.
- 40:49My intention is, is to maximize everything that I have so that at the end of this call, I've added more value than may have been expected because I'm not looking to receive some check or I'm looking to only make impact, right?
- 41:03Yes.
- 41:04And that's what it's about.
- 41:05So when I'm in these business proposals, I'm always like, this is my number.
- 41:09But if you know who I am, you know that I'm coming with 10 times more.
- 41:14That number yes, into my time, my energy, and my commitment and my compassion.
- 41:18And also that, my empathy for who or who's in the room as I'm building this out with you.
- 41:25Amen.
- 41:25My man.
- 41:26Look at that.
- 41:26Got ba bae says, give back while you're looking and asking the universe for something.
- 41:32I've never heard that one in that way.
- 41:34That's good food for thought.
- 41:37That's a game changer.
- 41:38Uh, brother.
- 41:39That's a game.
- 41:40Giving, giving, giving.
- 41:42Not why You like giving, like find somewhere that you, not taking a picture while you're giving, but literally giving.
- 41:49Like I did when I got outta prison.
- 41:52I did it.
- 41:53That's all I did while I was looking for a job.
- 41:55I'm like, let me serve people.
- 41:57I'm still serving people in that service.
- 42:01Things produce in different ways that allow me to grow in the blessings I have.
- 42:06Like people say, man, you've been home five years.
- 42:08How is you able to get a pardon your first time?
- 42:12I got a pardon my first time because I was a servant to people.
- 42:17Yes.
- 42:18And I had a violent crime.
- 42:19You know, I was convicted of murder in South Carolina.
- 42:21That's not something normally happens with a person, with a, so people will say, Hey, I want to get a part.
- 42:27And I'm like, what are you doing in the community?
- 42:28What are you doing giving back?
- 42:30How are you serving the community?
- 42:32You've been a taker.
- 42:33You went to prison.
- 42:34Don't feel entitled because I've served a time that now I'm home, that I'm entitled to receive these things.
- 42:41How are you gonna serve the people or the community that you harmed in the past?
- 42:45How are you going to, what you gonna add to rebuild that community?
- 42:48That's the thing I always challenge people before you apply for something, how are you serving the people?
- 42:54Yeah.
- 42:55. That's it.
- 42:56We've all been blessed with gifts and talents.
- 42:59Mm-hmm.
- 43:00, I believe our responsibility is to share that with the world.
- 43:03Absolutely.
- 43:04Like that.
- 43:05That's been my recipe.
- 43:07So I got the little streaming banner down there on the bottom says path to redemption.org.
- 43:12Yeah.
- 43:12How else should people get ahold of you, Lester?
- 43:14If they're looking I'm say follow me on LinkedIn like we are right now on live on LinkedIn.
- 43:18Follow me on LinkedIn, follow your page and connect with you as well.
- 43:21Um, and just go to my path, redemption.
- 43:23And see some of the stuff there that we're doing in the community and see how you can get involved in some of the work that we are doing.
- 43:29We're always looking for, uh, donations when it comes down to providing for pardons here in South Carolina, or just finding ways that we can continue to elevate each other's work that we're doing.
- 43:39Ten four.
- 43:41So you got any OGs you wanna shout out there, Mr.
- 43:43Lester?
- 43:44Oh, I would shout out my og.
- 43:46My OG would definitely be Chaplain Patoka.
- 43:48Gerald Patoka, uh, who's still a prison chaplain at, uh, here in South Carolina at Khaw Correctional.
- 43:55Shout out one of my big homies.
- 43:56Uh, David Brown, uh, was a person who was very instrumental in my life.
- 44:00Uh, when I went to prison, he challenged me.
- 44:02He pushed me.
- 44:03He was like, because you was giving life on me, that you need to accept that he was the one that shoved books in my face and tell me to read it.
- 44:10Don't leave out of the cell until I finished his chapter in the book.
- 44:13Someone shout out my big homie.
- 44:14Because, because he invested in me, he didn't wanted me to make the choice cause I had a life sentence.
- 44:19He was like, you need to be different.
- 44:21That's the only way you're gonna survive prison.
- 44:22Not to be a part of the crowd, but step out and be your own person in the crowd.
- 44:26So I shot those two individuals.
- 44:28Most importantly too, again, my wife, um, Felicia Young, who's definitely been, um, the og, uh, who's hold me down during my incarceration and even after I got out of prison.
- 44:38Wow.
- 44:38Uh, she met, we met like seven years before I got out of prison, and she.
- 44:42Was committed to helping me become a better person.
- 44:45Um, and to this day, we've been married now, what, 15 years.
- 44:48And so I'm gonna shout out too because she's, she's holding me down, um, in some of my dark days, you know, so.
- 44:53Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 44:55Because they're gonna come.
- 44:56Yeah.
- 44:57All right.
- 44:57Well, this will close with Joseph Gonzalez says, the physical being will recover, but to maintain focused, a focused and driven mindset while incarcerated is a true testament to the power of our mind.
- 45:10Oh, absolutely.
- 45:11Yeah.
- 45:13I love it.
- 45:14. You said it.
- 45:15You said it.
- 45:16I need to go back and write that.
- 45:17I'm gonna give you credit for that one, Joseph.
- 45:20I love that.
- 45:20I'm gonna use that quote, brother . Oh Lester, I appreciate you, man, was you brought it, you gifted us with all your passion and your knowledge and expertise.
- 45:31Folks out there, hit 'em up.
- 45:33If you know somebody that's in the situation that's looking for a pardon and that's looking to get up on their feet after.
- 45:39Spending some time behind bars or if they're just stuck.
- 45:42Do you like, is it a necessity that I be locked up in order to access your support?
- 45:48No, because like I said, some of you may not been in the physical prison, you're in a mental prison, and those things that I've done to escape the physical can help you get outta your mental prison as well.
- 45:58There you go.
- 45:58If you know anybody in a mental prison ready to break, let's break them out, man.
- 46:05Alright, y'all, we're gonna wrap it up.
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