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DA CREW PODCASTSEASON 1_ EPISODE #29 HOST DR. ERIKA T MOORE _(SHOW #2) · DA CREW Podcast

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Bo bo bo bo bo bo bo bo bo bo. Mh. He leads
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me. Besides, he leads me beside steel waters. He restoreth my soul.
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When you become a believer, your spirit is made right. Sometimes the
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soul doesn't get the notice it has a hole in it delivering me because all
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I seem to do it. Hey, hey, hey, hey, family
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and friends, welcome, Welcome, Welcome to every's joint. I'm more than
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a woman's podcast and I am host doctor Erica T. Moore and happy,
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terrific and tantalizing Tuesday. Yes we are here but our second show, and
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I'm truly elated to be here with you. And tonight show is very special.
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It's going to be a serious show, but it's a show that something
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that we all need to pay attention to. So I like to begin each
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of my shows with a quote. And the quote of the day is coming
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from none other thing, then then me, hope is not doubting but trusting
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the process. Hope is not doubting but trusting the process. Hunt on that
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and allow yourself to rarely become personal with that. What does that mean?
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Well, we're gonna get into the show, and then I'm gonna come back
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and explain exactly what this means. So listen, I'm excited about this guest.
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She is truly a woman of many gifts and talents. She is someone
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there to my heart. She's my spiritual mentor, she's my big sister,
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she's one of my business partners. But most of all, she's my friend
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and my prayer partner. So I'm going to present the some and introduce to
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others apostible, doctor Vivian Cymore. Are you there, Yes, I am,
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and it's a pleasure to be with you today. Hey, doctor Vivian,
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I'm so excited to finally have you here. I know that you are
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gonna bless us richly. So listen, before we get into the show,
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tell us a little something about yourself. Well, I am a woman,
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woman of many talents and many callings. I am the founder of New Beginning
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Life Ministries International, with home base in Maryland as well as Mississippi. I
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also am a gonna Go pastoral houseful in Mississippi and globally, and as an
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international representative and diplomat. Also three businesses, so I'm an entrepreneur as well.
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I guess you would say it's in the blood, and I love people
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and a bun sir, and I believe that the call of my life is
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to bring positive change with love and unity in the earth. That's who I
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am. I love it, and I love your spirit, I love your
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energy. I know that you are a serial entrepreneur, and believe me,
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we're going to get into everything. But the first thing I want to talk
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about, the most important thing I want to talk about, is the work
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that you are doing. We've all seen well growing up as a kid.
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We should see the commercial with six o'clock Do you know where your children are?
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Right? And that's something that that's something that many of us never really
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paid attention to, and it's something that they don't play today. But in
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this day a time, we can't afford not to know where our children are
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from all the evil and the wickedness that is upon the earth. So I
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know that you are very hands on and very involved with a very special project.
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Can you tell us about that? Well, that project is to help
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me save our girls from abuse and human trafficking. The abuse can be sexual
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or physical, within a home or outside of a home. A lot of
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people don't believe that human trafficking is all that serious. So can you tell
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me how serious it is today? It is very seriousness. What's important is
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that people have to wait as a nation has to become aware. And the
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hairedness is that the business of human trafficking is illegal, but it is taking
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place globally and it's anywhere from twenty seven to forty six million adults and children
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are being abused are being trafficked in the world today for money and for personal
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gain for the trafficer. Wow, that's scary. I know. I have
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five daughters, and I know. Um I'm here now in North Carolina,
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and I know the mall, the Favor of More to the Cross Creek Mall
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has reportings of young women and young and young men being snatched and taken away.
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And that's something very scary because I have a young daughter who is soon
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to turn twenty one, and she she travels a lot of Well, I'm
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not gonna say anything like that. I ain't gonna put it in the air
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because hey man, I caught myself. But listen, can you tell me
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how you got involved in this work. I after being nominated as Mother of
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the Year from Mississippi, I was asked to do this because I'm a pastoral
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counselor, and I in the communities where I lived in Maryland as well as
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the teenagers and the children would gravitate to me because I had a childcare business
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in Maryland, so a lot of the single mothers had encountered this netrocity of
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abuse and you know, being raped or molested or domestic violence, and I
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would nourish their children to feel safe and loved because these are the things that
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were encountered in it in the home, and it can be very frightening for
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children. They don't understand what's actually happening until they become a victim of the
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abuse and the rape or the insects or whatever I mean. And that's how
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I really got into it. I saw the needs that there needs to be
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changed and information given to families and globally, whether on the streets or in
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the malls or restaurants backyards. And one of the favorite books that I have
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read on this is in our backyards is happening. It could be next door
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and you're not aware. So my goal is to make people aware to what's
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to watch for to keep people from being trafficked and taken. That is awesome
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information and once again, I salute you and I applodic for the work that
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you do. I know sometimes it could be tedious and maybe perhaps overwhelming,
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and one of my questions would be how is the success rate and returning our
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children back home to their loved ones if we make them aware and even though
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you're depending on sometimes economic status is and the background or the makeup the audience.
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I believe the more we educate, the more we train and expose and
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give them techniques and steps what to watch for. Something just as simple,
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never be alone and form your loved ones where you're going and give a set
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time to come back. Observe those that may be following you or watching you.
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And there are other things that can be done as well as some gadgets
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that you can put as far as the bob, you can put on a
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key change. If you're in danger, you can press it and it makes
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loud noise. Some people use the pepper spray, but when it's more than
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one perpetrator attacking you, sometimes that can be very difficult. But as I
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said, the more information, the more training that we have and to expose,
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whether in churches, whether in social groups, whether meeting in homes.
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We keeps this. I believe we can shut this down, but it has
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to be done globally. I agree, and I thank you, and I
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thank you for the information that you just shared. And we're gonna take our
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commercial break and we're gonna come back with more. Doctor Vivian Cymore, welcome,
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Welcome back. I am your old doctor Erica Tmore, and I am
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here with doctor Vivian C. Moore, and we're talking about the silent Killer,
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something that is going on worldwide globally that a lot of people have been
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ignoring. So, doctor Vivian, we've just seen your video. Can you
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explain to us what's going on in that video and what's it about. Well,
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usually trafficking starts between the fifth grade and the twelfth grade, or you
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can say twelve years old up until eighteen. So we live in a world
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where all times the children what I call latchkey kids, they take the key
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and go home, and they're not noticing if someone is following them. All
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they're trying to do is leave school, walk home. But we have to
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inform the parents. Even though you may be a single father a single mother,
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you must have some steps in place to teach them. You don't walk
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home alone. If someone says that I sent them for you know, you
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stay there and call the police and just simple things. But it has to
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be a community inform looking out for one another. Your neighbors looking out for
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your children, you look out for their children as well. And still groups
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are better than single And the other thing when children withdraw, you need to
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have parents need to have a communication line open at all times where they can
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feel free to come and talk to the parents, and the parents need to
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guard the phone to see who they're talking to with the apps and put a
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block on it so they can't get ahold of these perpetrators that are luring children
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to meet them. I agree. I remember growing up as a latch key.
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I was fortunate enough up until was thirteen to have both parents in the
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household. And the one thing that we was told early on because our parents
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worked, is that you'll come home together. So be telling people you hold
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alone, don't don't be volunteering information. You get home, you'll come home
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together. You get inside, you lock that door, and then you make
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a phone call to let us know that you're home. That's a pattern.
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And also I come from the area where the community the neighbors. We all
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worked, we all looked out for each other. But today I find it
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that a lot of a lot of parents is like, mind your business.
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My child is not your business. What's going on with my child is none
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of your business. And that can be very hurtful in the long run,
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because you never know when you're gonna need that. You know, miss Belinda
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that knows the neighbor they call them who see well, I saw them leave
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with five men. It's very important. And back in the day we had
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a system, but today it's like, hey, you can't tell me what
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to do with my children. So again, what would you say to the
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parents today, especially the younger parents, what would you say to them about
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safety and guarding the wellbeing of their children. Well, I would say to
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the mothers, the single mothers, don't bring a wolf in your home.
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Come on, because you're intiments with that person. You really don't know that
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person. And if that son doesn't have a place to live on their own,
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they shouldn't live with you and your children. Number one. Those fathers
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that I would say a very strong and integrity should protect their children, both
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girls and boys. Even though I'm working more with girls now, Yet we
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need fathers to return to the children. It make a throw through a divorce.
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It may be that the family is separated, but we need strong parents
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that set I call instructions in place to protect their children, and they need
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to surprise their children every now and then. See, you're going into my
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next question. You're going into my next question because but just about to ask
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you. Should we respect our children privacy to a point. If they're dressing,
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yes, you need to. You need to see, you need to
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pay attention when the attitude changed. Yes, if someone is showing up unannounced,
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they're changing clothes, they're leaving home one way, and they have clothes
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in their book bags. So you need to be the sergeant of arms and
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check everything and then be the lad when you get that auction or intuition that
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something is going on, you should be able to go to the school to
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check and see if the child is there. And if they're not in school,
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you need to find out where they are immediately. Agree will teach We
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will teach techniques to teach you how to find your child. See, I'm
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one of those parents. I have five daughters, So in my household,
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there was no privacy, There was no lock in doors or closing doors.
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Those are my doors, These are my bleholes. This is my house because
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I understood as a single mother. I understood as my mother as a single
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mother. She didn't play that in her household. I'm not gonna play that
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in my household because I need to know where you are. There's no such
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thing. You're going over to your friend's house that I don't know. And
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here's another thing that I used to do. Your your cell phone at a
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certain time, because we had order and we had bedtime at a certain time,
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give me your phone, as as as my people, as my elders
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would say, bring me, run me that phone, rung me that phone,
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me give it here. Who was my phone? No, it was
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my phone. As long as I pay the bill, it's my phone.
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Because I need to know who you're talking to, because a lot of a
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lot of young teenagers are talking to people who they think like because you talk
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about the book, you know, they think they're talking to people that are
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They're aging their friends and they got these little nice que profile pictures. But
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then when a grown ma'am shows up and kidnaps you, they're gone forever.
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And because mom didn't know her friends because mom didn't get into her privacy.
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Mom don't know what to say to the police to help them find their daughters
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and sons, especially in the first forty eight hours. So I'm gonna ask
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you that question again. I'm gonna rephrase it this way. Shouldn't parents be
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nosy because it's not popularity. My mother wasn't and my friend he made that
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clear, I'm not your friend. So should parents go the extra nine yard
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to secure and make sure that they know what's going on in their children's lives?
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Well, yes, I agree. And the other thing that I said
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was single moms that and some change their ways. I said, you left
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the wolf in the house, And I said, if you let the person
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in the house, you don't know the person because you're intimate with them,
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You being intimite, it doesn't know the person's character. And we're teaching some
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of the teenagers unfortunately that at night, if it's not the person is not
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their natural father, is to lock their doors at night when they sleep.
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Yeah, okay, and yes, and if any what I call the if
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ever the child feels uncomfortable, they are to say something with their mother,
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even if they don't agree or go to a school counselor and say this is
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what I feel and I'm afraid to be alone. Hey, it doesn't it
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doesn't hurt to be too cautious. It doesn't hurt, because when a wolf
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is in your home, you have to pay attention, and you have to
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teach the child to pay attention. Sometimes the mother feels as if she needs
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someone in her life, and they move it. And it's not that they
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don't love the children. They're just making the wrong mistake. It is better
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for them to date outside the house and leave their home as the castle of
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safety in their home. I agree. I know you and I have talked,
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and you have counseled, and you have share lots of things. And
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I want to ask you, how important is the father present, the natural
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father, you know, the biological father. How important is his presence in
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the children's lives. It is so dynamic and it's so necessary because that child
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needs the structure. First of all, that girl needs the father's love.
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And the father is to teach that girl how she is to be treated.
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And the sons are taught to be good fathers. Ye, that's love and
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prepared. So they need to be prepared both ways. When a father is
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missing, it affects the children greatly. It's not that the mother does and
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love them. But a woman can teach a male child right from wrong,
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but she can't teach them how to be a man. That's right. The
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father mothers can teach their daughters how to be mothers and strong women. You
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know, to make up in your mind, just don't settle for anything.
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And that's what's happening in the world today, the absentee of fathers and sometimes
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mothers. But if the fathers will take a stand. I made a suggestion,
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and when when everything starts changing in the schools, I made a suggestion
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to my son that's carrying on new beginning there. I said, you as
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fathers, you work around men. You get you get fathers to go around
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that school and pray for that school before it opens. So the shooting,
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the bomb threats, the bullying and everything that goes a lot of times bullying
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gets girls raped and boys raped, bullying, intimidation, And I said,
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you pray around that school, And I said, what do you do with
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that school? God would do it globally. So they did that before they
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opened the school and they haven't had any more incidents. From that, we
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must take a stand. We must care. We need actions that I see
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something. Sn't be afraid that right person gets angry with you, are offended.
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You can always say I'm looking out for you and I'm looking out for
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your children. This is what I see. I appreciate you for that.
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I've learned so much from you, and I'm just truly just in awe of
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all that you do. I know you are getting ready this week to leave
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to receive the award. I want to talk about the ward real quick.
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I want to talk about the word. But before we talk about the ward,
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I just want to ask you about success rates. How is the organization
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the work you're doing. Have you been successful in reuniting with children back home
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where they belong? Us about the ward? Okay, the reward for American
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mothers that are bringing change. I'm implementing a program that in our backyard is
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implementing for the book. So whereas you teach the teenagers, we're using the
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Boys and Girls Club that's in the future when I get back, we're going
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to use the Boys and Girls Club for training for how to protect themselves,
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training making them aware how to use certain instruments to protect him and how what's
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available out there for families to track their children, to know where they are
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without them even knowing. There are things that we can do and we need
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to, especially in the poverty area where children and mothers sometimes fathers become victims
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of rape and incests. We can do this. This is a mission project.
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I call it Mississippi God Blessed Community Project. That's what I call it
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because I believe once it's confronted, this spirit is confronted, and we worked
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together like we when we were children and our parents were children, when they
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cared, the community came together. I'm preparing a petition to go through the
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city of Tupelo, Okay to get help. I need volunteers. Are you
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willing to cover your streets, willing to cover your next door neighbor? Are
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you willing to inform the police when you see something's happening or even if the
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parent is not there or they don't understand. Are you willing to call child
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PEC Text services if need be this is what I see? Or are you
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willing to be to help your neighbor, maybe pick pick up the children with
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your children to bring them home. We have to work together to make this
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happen. I know that in the strict I'm sorry, I know in the
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streets they have a no snitche rule. What would you say to the person
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who knows something that they can possibly save someone's life, but because of the
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street cold and they don't want to be known as a snitch, so they
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rather say nothing. What would you say to the people who will buy by
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the no snitch, no snitching? Okay, the no snitch code is no
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integrity, noever, and snide is that it's been trained to put fear and
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intimination in the person. Yeah, give the person example. If this was
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you, would you want somebody to help you if you were in trouble,
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or your mother, or your sister or your brother. So what's more important
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you not saying anything or you lose the best part of your life, one
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of your family members or maybe your best friend. Yes, and I said,
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I'm giving you something to think about. And this quote that I give
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often, the decision you make determines your reward. The decision that you make
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affects not only you, but all that's connected to you and that are around
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you. I love that. Doctor. We have time for one quick last
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question, and I know that you are very spiritual. I know that you
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are a woman of God. You have been a blessing and to me,
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you have spoken to my life prophetically, and I definitely appreciate you in honoring
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you. But for the church, the church, you know, it's like
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a taboo if you if I can say that and be okay, we can
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talk about certain things, but we can't talk about molestation, we can't talk
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about human trafficking, We can't talk about things like that. So the church
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in your communities, are they helpful? Are they hinderance? Hinderances? Because
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and most of the churches, from what I see and an accounter, it's
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all about the dollar. Yeah, okay, it's all about the dollar.
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And come on, people don't have many churches talking about self control, which
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is one of the fruit of the spirit. You don't have many churches talking
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about fornication and adultery. Sexual perversion is sexual perversion, well as whether it's
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LGDP, whether it's beast allergy, whether it's lesbian, is a homosexuality,
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it's still all considered evil. Yes, we love everybody, but God doesn't
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love sin. He gave his son to die for us for sin until and
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those of us that are Christians ignoring this, We are doing a terrible dishonor
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to the body of Christ. Yes, there should be sessions talking about premarital
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marriage. When I was children. When I was children, my father sat
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down and told us biblically what was evil, what was good concerning that area.
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And there's another quote that I say, it's more important what's above the
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belt than what's below the belt. I like that below the belt is out
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of order. It causes you a lot of problems. Everybody is infected that
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come together and great spiritual principles. I thank you, doctor Vivien. That
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was awesome. We are out of time and I just want to say,
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I gotta get you back. We got we gotta, I gotta, I
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gotta you know, get with your calendar, get some dates. We gotta
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have you bad because there's so much more to this topic and we need to
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be aware and educated. So before we go, please tell the people how
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they can get in touch with you on Facebook. You can look for me
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is viviancy More telephone number three zero one four six one seven nine seven five.
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Please leave a message if even if I don't answer, I will call
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you back. And the email that I'd like for you to use its V
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for Victor, C for cat Am, for Mary, O for oscar,
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O for oscar Are for ron E for egg three eight at gmail dot com.
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We thank you so much, doctor Vivian once again for finding and not
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robbery, but to bless us here at Average Joint. I'm more than a
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woman podcast and I'm looking forward to our talks and I'm looking forward to talking
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with you real soon. Be blessing. I thank you for joining us.
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We love you, and as we bring this show to a close, I'm
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gonna share with you. I opened up and I begin with hope's not doubting,
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but trusting the process. We just heard from the Woman of God,
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the obstacles that she is facing, but because she believed, and the work
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that she's doing, because she is spiritual, and because she believes in safety
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and humanity for everyone, not just her family and friends, but ours,
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yours. Because you never know who's affected by these things, we cannot be
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discouraged and we cannot doubt when God is giving you an assignment, when you
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have a call on your life, because you can go places where many cannot
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go. You have to go. You can't trust you can't trust what it
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looks like, but you have to trust the process. You have to know
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that you're equipped. And how do we equip ourselves? By education, by
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being aware, by asking questions, and most of all, by getting involved.
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So once again, I am doctor Eric Katimar. I am the host
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of Every's Joint more than a Woman's Podcast, and I invite you back to
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join me every first and third Tuesday at eight pm Eastern Time until we meet
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again. I love you and continue to have a better than an amazing day.
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God bless you. He leads me beside steel waters. He restoreth my
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soul. When you become a believer, your spirit has made