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COUPLES THERAPY: It's March with Rich and Stacey · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to Couples Therapy. Hello, it's Rich and my lovely
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  Speaker 1: bride Stacy Bara. Hello and happy anniversary.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you. It is the week of our anniversary, and
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  Speaker 2: I love that this is the week the podcast falls on.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so we're what three years in now as of.
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  Speaker 2: March fourth, which is this coming week.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, your thoughts so far, feelings?
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  Speaker 2: I am as happy as I've ever been.
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  Speaker 1: Is that sarcastic? No, it's real. I have a hard
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  Speaker 1: time figured out sarcasm when people do it, even though
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  Speaker 1: I am constantly sarcastic.
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  Speaker 2: That's true. No, I mean that sincerely. I can't believe
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  Speaker 2: it's like both three years seems short and not short,
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  Speaker 2: but regardless, I don't even care because it's been great.
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  Speaker 2: So I couldn't be happier. Love you so much.
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  Speaker 1: What would you change?
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  Speaker 2: Literally, nothing come on about our marriage or just in
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  Speaker 2: general about life in the United States of America.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so I guess let me let me ask you this.
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  Speaker 1: What have you discovered about being married to me now
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  Speaker 1: that you've been married for three years that maybe you
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  Speaker 1: didn't know before we got married.
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  Speaker 2: Okay? I first want to say I think that I
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  Speaker 2: knew a lot before we got married, so there's not
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  Speaker 2: been a whole lot of new discovery. However, a couple
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  Speaker 2: things I knew you loved audio, I did not know
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  Speaker 2: the extent of which you love audio to the point
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  Speaker 2: that you geek out, even like when we came in
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  Speaker 2: to do this podcast and you're like, look at all
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  Speaker 2: these microphones, and you were so happy and excited, and
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  Speaker 2: it's like nobody else cares.
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  Speaker 1: I think I picked a really good one for you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's you're like, look, you've got the Celine Dion microphone.
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  Speaker 1: I Seline Dion's in the studio. That's what she's singing
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  Speaker 1: it too well. And it's so when you're you want
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  Speaker 1: to give me a little bit of it's all coming
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  Speaker 1: back to me now.
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  Speaker 2: No, but I'll do if I could turn back Town.
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  Speaker 1: Since you're doing impressions, Okay, could you do an impression
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  Speaker 1: of newsman town brokaw.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, let me get in my zone. Yes, Okay. Gerald
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  Speaker 2: Ford dead today at the senseless age of eighty four. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: but that if people probably who aren't our age, don't
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  Speaker 2: know that was a Saturday Night Live, so it's not
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  Speaker 2: really this.
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  Speaker 1: It's funny that you just pop that out of nowhere.
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  Speaker 2: It's very random. No, but okay, So back to your
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  Speaker 2: question though. The obsession with audio to the point that
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  Speaker 2: we'll be like driving to a date and you'll spend
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  Speaker 2: like ten to twelve minutes discussing like microphones and cables
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  Speaker 2: is I did not know it was quite that deep.
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  Speaker 2: So that's one thing, and then.
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  Speaker 1: Annoyed my brother my whole life too. Yeah, because I'll
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  Speaker 1: be like Black Sabbath song is cool, but they used
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  Speaker 1: they used thicker strings, and I don't like the pickies
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  Speaker 1: using on that guitar like I could. I don't know why,
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  Speaker 1: but I can hear all that. Yeah, And whenever I've
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  Speaker 1: gone to buy a car, the main thing I'm interested
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  Speaker 1: in is how does it sound in the car? Because
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  Speaker 1: I spend a lot of time driving. It doesn't matter
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  Speaker 1: to take the stock thing. It's like, well, it does
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  Speaker 1: matter to me. It probably doesn't matter to other people,
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  Speaker 1: but it matters to me because if I'm hearing something
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  Speaker 1: and it sounds like garbage, but it could sound amazing,
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to sound amazing. Life's too short for crappy audio.
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  Speaker 2: That is your one of your mottos. That is so true.
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  Speaker 1: You should hear it the way the entire the artist
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  Speaker 1: intended it to hear, but it also is a lifelong
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  Speaker 1: pursuit of like changing cables, changing you know, like RCAA
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  Speaker 1: cables in the back of looking at different you know, turntables.
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  Speaker 1: Like it's a mess.
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  Speaker 2: It's a hot mess, right, and it's something that occupies
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  Speaker 2: a lot of your brain space, that's for sure. I'm
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  Speaker 2: trying to think I've learned more about your love for
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  Speaker 2: for smoked salmon and cottage cheese, like I didn't. I
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  Speaker 2: didn't know.
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  Speaker 1: What up shamrack farms cheese.
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  Speaker 2: That's right, you love that. And yeah, oh, you know
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  Speaker 2: what else I've learned, Okay, I've learned about your very
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  Speaker 2: weird weekend fomo, in that you are so committed during
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  Speaker 2: the week to go to bed at a very early.
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  Speaker 1: Time because the show starts at least well I know that.
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  Speaker 2: And you're very committed to it. But then on the weekend,
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  Speaker 2: it does not matter how tired you are or how
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  Speaker 2: tired I am. I'm like, let's go to bed, and
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  Speaker 2: you're all, no, we must stay up, and it's like,
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  Speaker 2: but we're tired, and you're and you're like, but no,
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  Speaker 2: I don't have to get up early in the morning.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm staying up, and it's like, but we're tired, please, like,
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  Speaker 2: can we not just go to bed? But you insist
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  Speaker 2: on staying away purely out of fomo because you're afraid
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  Speaker 2: something on the weekend's gonna happen and you're gonna miss out. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: totally yeah. And I don't get that because to me,
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  Speaker 2: it's like, if you're tired, you go nine night and
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  Speaker 2: you're like, Nope, we're gonna stay up on the off
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  Speaker 2: chance that something may happen.
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  Speaker 1: And it doesn't. It doesn't serve me well because I'm
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  Speaker 1: like tired and moody anyway, exactly.
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  Speaker 2: And that's why I'm like, please, can we just go
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  Speaker 2: to bed?
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  Speaker 1: But I think, by nature though I am not a
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  Speaker 1: morning in person. By nature, I am a night person.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm already for years, what twenty five years of
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  Speaker 1: John Jay and Rich Now I've been working against type.
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  Speaker 1: So what is it that what do they call your
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  Speaker 1: circadian rhythm wants me to be out at night? And
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  Speaker 1: you know it's really bad. You don't even know how
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  Speaker 1: bad it is, because you know how we go out
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  Speaker 1: to dinner kind of early. Yes, Like let's say we're
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  Speaker 1: somewhere in downtown Chandler and we're finished at eight. It's
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  Speaker 1: like I don't want to get in the car and
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  Speaker 1: go home because things are happening. I see the people
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  Speaker 1: walking on the streets, I see the lights on inside
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  Speaker 1: the places, and it's like, these are my people. Especially
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  Speaker 1: during the week. It's terrible for me. If we go
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  Speaker 1: out early during the week and when there's a scene
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  Speaker 1: starting to happen, like in Scottsdale or Gilbert or something
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  Speaker 1: like that, I'm like, I need these are my people.
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  Speaker 1: I need to be here. Yeah, it's terrible for me.
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  Speaker 2: And yet somehow you're able to control it on the weekdays,
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  Speaker 2: I guess out of pure discipline, but on the weekends
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  Speaker 2: you let it all out. And yeah, and I don't
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  Speaker 2: want you to because I just want to be in
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  Speaker 2: the bed and go night night. But it is what
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  Speaker 2: it is.
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  Speaker 1: And that is what I've discovered about you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that I like to sleep, that you were.
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  Speaker 1: Really good at sleeping. Yes, you can go to sleep
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  Speaker 1: fast and you can stay asleep.
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  Speaker 2: That's true.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really It's really nothing that I ever thought about,
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  Speaker 1: because I feel like when we were dating, I almost
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  Speaker 1: never tried to find you and didn't find you at all.
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  Speaker 1: Hours of the morning or an evening, like if I
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  Speaker 1: sent you a text or something, you usually text me back.
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  Speaker 1: So I assumed that you, like me, did not sleep much. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: but you can sleep.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, it's it's my favorite. Yeah, sleeping is my favorite.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, And then I think the other thing that I
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  Speaker 1: discovered is how much you don't like to share with people.
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  Speaker 2: Oh well, but yeah, I think you knew that though.
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  Speaker 1: And it's not that I don't well, no, because you
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  Speaker 1: would tell me things.
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  Speaker 2: Oh that's true, but not all.
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  Speaker 1: The things, right, But you don't tell anybody else anything,
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  Speaker 1: Like your own father didn't know that you opened up
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  Speaker 1: a venue for the first six months that your venue
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  Speaker 1: was open. True, like you just didn't, Like why didn't
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  Speaker 1: your dad know?
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  Speaker 2: Eh, yeah, I know. It's it's kind of it's a
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  Speaker 2: weird thing that I feel like, I don't want to
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  Speaker 2: be an oversharer and I don't.
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  Speaker 1: You're not an overshore.
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  Speaker 2: That's true. I'm not, and I don't except on this podcast,
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  Speaker 2: I guess, but you pull it out of me. I
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  Speaker 2: never want to be like, oh, she is trying to
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  Speaker 2: be the center of attention.
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  Speaker 1: No, you don't ever do that, not once, not ever.
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  Speaker 1: And that's probably why you don't have social media. You're
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  Speaker 1: not gonna post right pictures? Are yourself looking for a compliment?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, because I don't like that trait. I don't like
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  Speaker 2: the trade of hey, everyone look at me. I just
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  Speaker 2: don't like it. I like work hard, put your nose
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  Speaker 2: to the grindstone, accomplish things, and just do your thing
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  Speaker 2: without the need to a talk about it, be post
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  Speaker 2: about it, see get kudos for it. Just do it.
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  Speaker 2: And that's just kind of how I am. I guess.
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  Speaker 1: The other thing I don't think I knew about is
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  Speaker 1: your almost total consumption of all reality TV.
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  Speaker 2: I love reality because it's like eating delicious French ripes.
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  Speaker 1: I know you because we would talk about stuff like dramas,
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  Speaker 1: like we were really into the Killing and we were really.
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  Speaker 2: Into you know, uh Osar or Oh what's the one?
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  Speaker 2: I love the Succession?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, like those shows you would talk to me about.
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  Speaker 1: But then when other other people, like some of your
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  Speaker 1: friends would talk to you about did you see the Bachelor?
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  Speaker 1: Did just the Bachelorette? Did you see Bachelor Island? Did
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  Speaker 1: you see the Traders? Did you see uh Survivor? It
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  Speaker 1: was a survivor and it's fifty a season. Now, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: so what is the best reality show?
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  Speaker 2: Well, survivor the original and the best, and we're on
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  Speaker 2: season like you said, fifty and it could not be better.
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  Speaker 1: But you also love the Traders.
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  Speaker 2: Traders is number two.
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  Speaker 1: Oh really, that's so that's one into Yeah, what about
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  Speaker 1: Love is Blind? Because you watch all the Love is blinds.
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  Speaker 1: You watch Love is Blind Australia, you watch Love is
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  Speaker 1: Blind France.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I watched Love is Blind, yes, but that's when
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  Speaker 2: I'm desperate, I watch Love is Blind America, and then
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  Speaker 2: I watch Love is Blind UK because both of those
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  Speaker 2: are in English. And then when I'm like looking at
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  Speaker 2: Netflix and nothing else is on all occasionally indulge in
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  Speaker 2: and overdubbed Love is Blind. But I don't like it.
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  Speaker 1: Do you even watch the like, what is that show
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  Speaker 1: called The Challenge? What's that called the MTV?
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  Speaker 2: Or yeah, the Challenge?
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  Speaker 1: Is that going away? Because MTV is going away?
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  Speaker 2: I know, I don't. I don't know, but now that
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  Speaker 2: they're streaming, I doubt it'll go away. I think that'll
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  Speaker 2: go on forever as well. I personally like all of
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  Speaker 2: that type of show. I'm not as big into the
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  Speaker 2: romance shows like the Love is Blind The only ones
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  Speaker 2: that I love are the I'm still an original Bachelor
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  Speaker 2: Bachelorette person, and and I do like Love is Blind
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  Speaker 2: partly because of how I know Vanessa Lache and she's
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  Speaker 2: a little bit of my friend and so it's fun
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  Speaker 2: for me to watch her on that show. And also
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  Speaker 2: she is sweet and and you know, you know Nick.
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  Speaker 2: I think I don't know Nick, but you do from Yeah, Nick, No,
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  Speaker 2: you know, I'm Vanessa Leche and I'm obviously nick Liche
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  Speaker 2: obviously that obvious. That's still one of my favorite lines
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  Speaker 2: from an early season.
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  Speaker 1: That was not just me the internet. I know.
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  Speaker 2: That was precious.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, let's do a reality a Stacey Barrow reality show shootout. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you a show, and you tell me
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  Speaker 1: which one's better. Okay, Okay, Mormon, Why, oh my gosh, that's.
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  Speaker 2: Number three because it is so trashy and awful, but
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  Speaker 2: it is like eating French fries dipped in ranch dressing.
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  Speaker 2: It is so good.
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  Speaker 1: No wonder you and Peyton get along. That's like her
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  Speaker 1: jam French fries and ranch. She even likes pizza and ranch.
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  Speaker 1: You do.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, Peyton's my girl.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah she should be. She's cool. Okay, Mormon wives or
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  Speaker 1: the amazing race Mormon Wives, Mormon Wives, our love is blind.
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  Speaker 1: Mormon lives are the traders?
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  Speaker 2: Traders?
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  Speaker 1: Okay? What's the other? The challenge or survivor?
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  Speaker 2: Well, survivor and you might as well just stop saying
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  Speaker 2: anything with because it's always going to win.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, okay, what about this is the other thing
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  Speaker 1: I would ask you about? So people don't know that
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  Speaker 1: you're kind of a foodie. You've kind of introduced me
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  Speaker 1: to that because you know, I grew up kind of
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  Speaker 1: you know, whiskey tango.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you love or you think that the cheesecake factory
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  Speaker 2: is fancy.
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  Speaker 1: It is fancy. Oh you gotta get dressed up to
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  Speaker 1: go to the cheesecake factory.
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  Speaker 2: You can wear shorts and T shirt.
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  Speaker 1: I never went to the cheesecake factory until I met you,
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  Speaker 1: I know, and you met Do the.
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  Speaker 2: Do our friends who listened to the show or to
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  Speaker 2: the podcast know that you met my mom at the
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  Speaker 2: cheesecake factory?
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  Speaker 1: They do not.
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  Speaker 2: And you were so scared, God rest your soul. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: And you were so scared because A you were meeting
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  Speaker 2: her and that it was fancy.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, well, meaning your mom was a little scary, but
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  Speaker 1: the fact that it was at a giant booth and
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  Speaker 1: the cheesecake factory.
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  Speaker 2: So that's what was scared, which.
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  Speaker 1: Is the playground of the money elite. To me, I
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  Speaker 1: cannot Flora and Missouri. We didn't have one of those.
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  Speaker 1: We had a Shaky's Pizza and that was questionable. They
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  Speaker 1: could shut down every now and then. I don't think
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  Speaker 1: the food was safe. And there was a Chinese place
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  Speaker 1: that we went to, and then Robertos. That was it.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my people, I bet Roberto's was it?
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  Speaker 1: What it's still there?
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  Speaker 2: What was it?
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  Speaker 1: Just in the strip mall, a little pizza place.
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  Speaker 2: A pizza place called Robertos.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but they only had one kind of pizza. I thing,
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  Speaker 1: just cheese.
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  Speaker 2: It's terrible.
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  Speaker 1: Don't say that.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, if you're listening, Okay, God rest them.
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  Speaker 1: They were awesome. I think they're still there. I'm pretty
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  Speaker 1: sure it's I hope they are. They may be the
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  Speaker 1: only thing in that bombed out strip mall that's still open.
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  Speaker 2: Hmm. Maybe one that looks like the apocalypse.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, well everything in my neighborhood. I've said this on
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  Speaker 1: the show before. It's like they filmed like some apocalypse movie.
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  Speaker 1: In literally my old neighborhood and they have to change anything.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, this is perfect. Yeah, look at this.
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  Speaker 1: There's like, you know, weeds growing out of the actual
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  Speaker 1: houses because everything's closed everything. It's not like it's like
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  Speaker 1: it's not like it's the worst neighborhood in the world.
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  Speaker 1: You could live there. Just nothing's open anymore, you know. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you know when even the cash pay loans and like
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  Speaker 1: the drug store and the church's fried chicken is closed
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  Speaker 1: because those were our staples crumbing, then that's a neighborhood
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  Speaker 1: that has no longer happening. It's just not happening. So
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  Speaker 1: I just that part.
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  Speaker 2: You were saying something about me being a foodie though.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so you've introduced me to food. So I'm
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  Speaker 1: wondering about like your favorite dessert. Oh what a good question, hmmm,
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  Speaker 1: because I haven't really seen you say I don't like
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  Speaker 1: that to any dessert. Yeah, but you really say, like
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  Speaker 1: it seems like I've seen you really go for it
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  Speaker 1: over bread pudding in a good Uh, what's the what's
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  Speaker 1: the one that's got the burnt top thing that.
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  Speaker 2: I do like a crumbrewle. I think you actually just
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  Speaker 2: nailed two of my favorites. I really do. Like a
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  Speaker 2: really delicious bread pudding is so good. And then I
• 15:03
  Speaker 2: am a fan and I know a lot of people
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  Speaker 2: are not, but of a really strong cake. If a
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  Speaker 2: cake is made just right with a delicious buttercream frosting,
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  Speaker 2: I just think that's one of the best things ever.
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  Speaker 1: Speaking of which, because you have your venue that's opened,
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  Speaker 1: the hazy people want to check it out, and you're
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  Speaker 1: doing one of your first weddings since you've been open
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  Speaker 1: this weekend.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, we've done receptions, but not weddings and receptions.
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  Speaker 1: They're doing the wedding there. Yeah, they're doing.
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  Speaker 2: The vows and the reception today. Yes, today, So after
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  Speaker 2: this I'm heading off.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, as soon as we get done here, I hit
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  Speaker 1: stop and then you go yes. Okay, So, as you've
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  Speaker 1: been doing those and you're becoming a bit of an expert,
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  Speaker 1: let me ask you some things that people should do
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  Speaker 1: for their wedding or shouldn't do for their wedding. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: so your hot takes on weddings, What is uh, what
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  Speaker 1: is a good tradition to have and what is a
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  Speaker 1: bad tradition that is kind of like played out or
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  Speaker 1: maybe even TACKI for a wedding.
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  Speaker 2: Oh gosh, well, okay, definitely tacky for a wedding is
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  Speaker 2: smashing the cake in each other's faces. Don't do that.
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  Speaker 1: First of all, delicious cake, Why would you do that?
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  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, you're wasting it and you look a little
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  Speaker 2: I think tacky when you do that, like just feed
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  Speaker 2: it to each other gently.
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  Speaker 1: It's something new or fun that you've heard of that
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  Speaker 1: people should.
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  Speaker 2: Try something new or fun. Oh well, oh gosh, Oh
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  Speaker 2: what about the thing where during at kind of at
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: the beginning of the reception, because there's always the pressure
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: on the bride and groom to get pictures with everyone,
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: you have the DJ play a song, like an upbeat,
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: fast song, and the bride and groom run around to
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: each table and the photographer follows them and take a
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: picture with each table.
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: That's pretty great.
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's a really cool.
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: I've seen a few of the weddings with those, and
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: those pictures are always fun.
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they're fun, it's upbeat. Every one then gets the picture.
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: I think that's a really positive thing. I also, I
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: know this isn't like a tradition or that new, but
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: I'm a big fan of the cute signature cocktail that
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: the groom has and the bride has.
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: What's a good one for the bride.
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: The bride, something that you can Okay, I'm such a
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: dork because I'm a word nerd. I love when you
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: name it something cute, and so when you can name
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: it like the Blushing Bride and the drink is pink
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: like today at the one we're doing there's they're doing
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: a strawberry lemon cello for the bride. Well, you could
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: name that the Blushing Bride because it's pink because of
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: the strawberry.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: Okay, what about for a groom?
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: The groom should do something kind of like manly, like
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: an old fashioned or a Moscow mule and call it. Oh,
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: I would call it something like Gentleman's choice.
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: Or you know, so you like a signature drink because
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: that kind of that lets you know what you're doing
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: for alcohol. What about wedding colors? What are your favorite
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: wedding colors right now? If you're gonna do a palette,
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: that's kind of awesome.
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: Wow. Okay, well now see you and audio will go
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: on for ten to twelve minutes. Me and colors ten
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: to twelve minutes. I know, I love pretty things. I'll
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: keep it short. If it were me, I would do
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: anything in the What will you know everyone knows that
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: that I love a good peachy blush.
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: I don't know if everyone knows well, I mean all.
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: My friends, is what I met. Like, if my friends
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: are listening, they they would have already answered, is what
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: I meant. Oh gosh, Yes, people know that I love
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: peachy blush. If they know me is my point. But
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: what a couple of things I'm excited about. One we
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: have a wedding coming up that they're they're doing sort
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: of a a really pretty light sage green with an amber,
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: and that's really I think. And then the one I'm
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: extra excited about that's coming up in March is or
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: like later in March, is a sunset wedding color.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: Oh orange.
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: It's it's like a it's a peachy orange and sort
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: of a purplely magenta and kind of a light orchid.
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: And I know it sounds a little hodgepodgy, but when
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: I'm putting the palette together, I swear to you it
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: is magic, especially when you're doing it at the Hazley
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: where are sunsets over the mountains porges. It's just going
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: to be stunningly beautiful. So it's like it's like it's
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: like an Arizona sunset, which which kind of is an ombree.
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: Which are the best sunset right?
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: Peachy? Like going from peach to magenta to purple. It's
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: just gorgeous. So I'm really excited about the one.
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: Is there a color splash in the flowers that matches
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: that or something? When you do that, all of.
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: Them will match it. Yeah, they'll be like each color
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: will be represented.
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: That's kind of fun. How long should a wedding ceremony be?
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: Well, I think short and sweet is good, so honestly,
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: no longer than thirty minutes and preferably twenty.
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: And how do you feel about Like, if let's say
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: we went back in time three years our anniversary, how
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: would you feel about me now using chatchpt to write
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: my vows for me?
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: I'd be mad at you?
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: So could anybody use chatchpt to write their vows?
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: I mean, I still I still say no to that.
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: Here's the only caveat chat gpt is as good as
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: the prompt. In other words, whatever you say to chat
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: gpt is how good it's gonna be If all you
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: say to it is hey, chat GPT, I'm getting married tomorrow.
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: Give me some vows. No way, Jose, that's going to
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: be awful. But if you work with it going there.
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: Like we met at a you know, a drug store
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: and we're fighting over shampoo, right, and you put in
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: all that stuff, then it can help you and it.
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: Can help you edit me. You wants it, yeah, but
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: you have to do the majority of the work. Otherwise
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: it's going to be generic. And it's not going to
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: be it's just not going to be personal. So unless
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: you're unless you're letting it do just the fine tuning
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: and the you know, helping you here and there, then
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: I say a hard no on that, and I think
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: you need to do what I did and what I
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: pray you did. Would just do it on our own,
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: No I did.
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: There was none of that three years ago. That was
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: interesting enough. Dates okay, No, I wrote it, Okay, now
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: I wrote like four different versions of it. Yeah, and
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: then like, oh, this is the one that feels right.
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and it was so good. I loved it.
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: That's why we have it hanging on our wall. Yeah,
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: we do, we have our Yeah. I was watching a
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: little bit of Taylor Tomlinson's new comedy special last night.
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: The very first thing she talks about is she gets
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: how people fall in love with the chat GPT since
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: it sort of, you know, always kind of butters you
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: up at everything. And she's like, I think I'm going
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: to be the first one of my friends and family
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: that falls in love with the robot, Like bring it
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: to dinner and be like, this is not a machine.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: So which one of your friends do you think is
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: gonna be the first one to fall in love with
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: a robot? You just get the fear of God.
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: In your her. I know I do not want to
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: answer that.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: Okay, in fact, we can wrap this up that that
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: anything else do you want to bring up? No, I
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: think the anniversary.
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: I just want to say happy anniversary, and thanks for
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: making me the happiest lady in the whole wide world.
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: And I love you so much.
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: I love you too. Look, we ended the podcast the
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: way you like to end it with, and I love you.
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: That's my favorite, Well, next to sleeping and being right.