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Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 230:1-5 · SHULCHAN ARUCH YOMI: Own the Halacha in 25 minutes a day!

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Good morning everyone. Okay, this year sponsored
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therefore streamer for Ben tzion been chained up.
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All right, just a couple quick things on yesterday, just a
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quick thing on the Broncos are nature.
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So just I think it's pretty much accepted that women children and
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available Sadie's, bracco's only and owning is the one who
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doesn't say these brothels. Okay?
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Then as far as we We did touch upon the whole subject of.
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Nature. It seems to be there.
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Everyone holds. It has to be in a situation
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where a person gets impressed or inspired at least on some level,
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doesn't have to be a tremendous inspiration, but it has to be
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where you're at least on some level impressed or inspired and
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it's completely subjective. For any kind of a mountain, a
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river body of water. Of course, not man made some
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say, even in her a even in a hurry, shall run her.
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A you shall? I'm, there are many, there are
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many mountains. There are others who sell, for
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example, that are not without the Swiss Swiss Alps.
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But still, they say, if you're a personally impressed, That you
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should say. All right now because all gave
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us numerous examples of what to say what to say, Jose
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masturbation. So there are two main
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approaches. One is its own ways that they
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were goes there on earlier May the barakah form attacking for
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and, and only on these and not any others.
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However, I believe the more prevailing Minogue or halakha
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postgame is that these are only examples.
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It's quoted the shame from from Gerson Kagan Machinery of corn
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field. For example, if you see, I also
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saw it in Panini halacha that if you're very far away from from
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the state from the mountain range.
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Even if you'd be up close, you would say the Brava.
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But if you're so far away, you're not impressed from it.
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So, in that state, you will not say, you will not say the Brava.
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Just just to point out a couple names.
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I mean really it's you follow what the mitigators or the stock
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of your of your of but just some say it's not 100% clear but
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there's a shame applying Concepts key.
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He was on the Moor opinion. That these are only and these
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things are. I'm at talking but not on other
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things that are not listed. Same time for me the quote the
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shame the shaver delivery or let's say you don't I had also
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from of cereal enough pasta That really it's these are only
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examples and you should say it on anything.
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So some common examples of what about geysers Northern Lights,
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waterfalls, even if there's nothing special from the river,
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perhaps it's part of the river. But with again, according to
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many, even on all these phenomena, if you're impressed,
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then you would a volcano as well as another example, even if it's
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not a big mountain, So, these are examples when one would
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one's allowed to say, ye shall police move?
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But there are obviously two approaches on an eclipse.
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We know from the gemara and silica, I think it's cut off
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set. There was no, it's just C mon
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Cala. So there are some say this type
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where I saw coded in the name of another say, we do not say the
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Broca's, the awesomest, appreciate the Monarch is not
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you Yamaha Mela. They also say Not to say number
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one of those is someone color though I was created.
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Also it was created after my sebaceous.
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So that's Another reason why it's often not said, and I did
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see also just to clarify to point out for the Atlantic
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Ocean. So I did see also a sketch of us
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putting a helicopter at Dominica Bachchan has just like the
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mission of were right? That the only SE llaman Godot on
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the Atlantic Ocean and on the Mediterranean used the No, No, I
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take that back on the Atlantic. That's where they say, how
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yamagato. And it's the Mediterranean they
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say, oh some ass. survey sheets which is the opposite of the
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shock on Iraq and the opposite of the human heart of the
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Spartan Okay, just as a quick wrap-up so we know that these
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brackets are agreed to say but and there's no brought was no
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Kashi of Suffolk tacos. The Haka when there's a man hug
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and one can follow the passata was rough, but these are allahís
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of reshoot and these are a Brockovich shoot it's optional
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and therefore if one is really in doubt or one doesn't is not
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really inspired, then one, it's good to say the broccoli shame
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the market. Great race bomber.
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Olive Hamid, para la Mancha. Other person says the brother
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and what was on something that already occurred in the past.
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It's done with it already happened again.
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She knickknacks linear the shama called cervical by ear.
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The Armory is a person. Enters the city and he hears
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screams coming from the city. The amarna says, here at Saint.
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Joe Loya. Hey Cole.
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Zeb talk Beatty OSHA says that he'll be darvin's at this.
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Screaming is not coming from his house.
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So the damage already happened, whatever happened already
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happened, and wherever the screen came with already the
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screen, the scream already happened but he still wants to
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say, it's feel that it's not from his house.
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So that's an example of something that already occurred
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and you can't change the past, you can't change history.
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Three it, it's beyond even asking for a miracle.
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Okay. Oh sure.
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I thought you stole my Uber it or his wife is already pregnant.
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Ah, carbotanium. Libre has already been 40 days
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and assumption is up until 40 days.
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It's not concrete. If it's going to be a boy or
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girl, it could still change, could still be decided.
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They ever after 40 days account. So after 40 days, if you would
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say here at Saint Chapelle ADHD Zohar, I'm gonna dive into a
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shame that my wife is going to give birth to a to a male.
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I re Z to fill out shops, these examples are to fill up shove.
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It's a wasteful in vain to be, le there is no benefit.
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It's inappropriate. And even, and if you want to
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make it feel out for something, it's going in, for wastes,
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instead of doubling for something useful and helpful, it
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doesn't do anything. And in fact, it could be even
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detrimental, not only because you, then you're not you instead
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of diving for something useful, you David in for nothing, but
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also it key will mix the shun look bad.
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Or you might have less might weaken your immune a little bit
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because your dominant Force, I mean, that it's not going to
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help and when it doesn't Turn out good for you.
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It's you get disappointed so it feels have is not something you
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want to do Ella. You to follow Adam.
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I'll actually level a person. Could only dive in for
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something, in the future, the 10 Hoda.
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I'll shove are, you can say thank you.
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So College Park on the past for good, or for bad.
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We had Dynamics, we have also also, Besides just that ovum 80,
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where you here? Edson, so one should always
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praised the college park over the past.
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You can't change it but you should only Darvin for the
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future. Can groan, what's an example and
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your classic rock enter a city. So before you enter the city or
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as your internal memory here at some little finesse Hashem,
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elokenu tracking signal across as well as Shalom before you
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enter, you say a sham. Please make the entrance
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everything I should get in, okay?
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Nick - Michelle and once you enter be Shalom.
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So then Omer? Our Modigliani, then you say
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thank you. Hashem the for Nakashima.
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Okay. No sickness, Daniel acosta's a
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Los Alamos brother center with Shalom, be case.
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Let's said, Omer he here at some of the Vanilla Sugar Mill, okay.
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No, she took the a new mic Roxanne rush along then when you
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want to leave. So again, then you can say here
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at Saint on the future of living that you should leave in peace
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yet submission. Once you leave be Shalom, Omer
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modern little finesse. That list, Shalom Mukesh a short
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Street analyst, Shalom can't release any, let's show them.
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So then once you once you leave then you can say more day that
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you saved me, right? When beginning a racial Ahmad
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add Baruch Hashem. Show me at school and you could
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enter finish say in this mode. Annie, and you finish off by
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saying Baruch Hashem. Sure mutulu with.
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So he to fill out a direction - Aviva holding a busy man cause
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your this is related to what we learned about you as there are
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okay. And then so that's what's real.
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I said dark. Now let's read, see if bet and
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then we'll bring it out, we'll bring both together.
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Just, just to point out, interesting.
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Gemara, it is obviously, all these are based on the cameras,
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so when it talks about 40 days, so it's the mishna says, once
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it's 40 days, you can't, you can ask for it to be changed.
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So the gemara asks and Broncos the summer, so it says I but we
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see bye-bye, Leia. And Dina otherwise, the meter
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says, after Leo was already pregnant, she felt bad for her
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sister. So, she didn't want to have
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seven, boys, come for her. So all it when she was already
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pregnant, she'd of intuition that it should change, she
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should change from. It's a change from a boy.
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Was she knew through a Navarro is a boy.
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They should, she's robbing a should change from a boy to a
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girl and so what happened to the gemara asks, how can you do
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that? We just learned, you can't.
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So, the camargue is to answers either.
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It was less than 40 days and assumption was, it's still out
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still possible to change. Or to be formed.
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There goes another answer. This is on mice and Nissim.
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We're not, we don't talk about Leia on her.
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Level is allowed to ask for my Sidney.
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Seem like that's the almost a great study, can we know ask
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for, for, for Newseum, and shouldn't be taken lightly?
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Because if it's for yourself, you could be losing your own car
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and Olam Haba by wasting it on or using it for my cynicism.
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But it's, but that was all. Electoral it and she was a she
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was Leia. Sole it was able to ask for a
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miracle but for us we don't ask for miracles and that's why the
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halacha in the mishna says, we don't ask it's for us it would
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be its field shove. It wouldn't help and it's
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feeling Chuck, okay? So if they switch the Uber
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change, but that's all. That's also a nice.
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Okay, Is that too much shuttle, but if you did, you could
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actually change the test your feelings.
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But you're not supposed to I don't know this, right?
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So I'm gonna get into that a little bit in a moment.
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Just let's finish this. I'll share one thing that you
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said and you're going to see how becomes confusing.
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The gemara says umbraco stuff you would, for example, by his
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Kyo and you shall hear his Kia was sick and he was about to
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die. Die.
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And it was because she'll explain because he wasn't having
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children, because Gail says, so give me your daughter.
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And, and but you sure are basically said we already have
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Xavier going to die and he who's he, our response mokuba on eBay
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taba that right from David Amela, that a few hair of Munna
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hopes of Ro of even if you have a sharp sword on your neck, you
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should never stop diving into Ash M4, Aqua me.
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So you see that you'd is always a chance it last minute for it
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to happen. So so is that a case of a
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miracle even in the case of a miracle that's also for the
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future? So let's read a little bit and
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we'll put some things together base.
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Anika has vomited guano. Person goes to enter is, is is
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going where he has always produced.
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It's going to start counting and measuring whether it's weighing
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or volume, whatever he has, see how much count how much money he
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has. So, before you start, right
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before you see what you have? Or before you actually start
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counting really own their you here at Stone Mill.
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Funny Akash a location, you allowed to ask the College Park,
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who to send bracha in which you have not only that it should be
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successful, but marshmallows is you suppose you could even
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Darwin for a shame to make it a little bit more.
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Obviously you're not going to see it like double in front of
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your eyes that you're allowed to dive in that.
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There should be more there than you originally thought.
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He'd say a la mode and once you start counting.
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Oh, mayor Baraka Shelia brahe Bakery.
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Has a, you can say a bra Alpha juliek, Brock about Curry has
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it. And some say it's even be
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shameful malkuth but only when you're counting in eretz Israel,
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two more semesters because then it has there's a special
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broccoli that by to Masala is roasted.
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Of course, but who gives us a broccoli that there should be
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unlimited product coming out of coming out of when we're careful
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to muster Mastro's. The point.
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Okay my dad, now once you finish counting and you already
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finished via Haka, bereft and then you make a broccoli like
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this which a broccoli either. Either one you really asking for
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a college park who to send a little more hidden inside the
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bracha that you're the okay. Her is it feel at shot?
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This is it feel at shop because once she and her bra commit
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Sooyoung, you can only have bracha.
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Really, we're talking about. About.
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This is a big statement in life in general for bracco's.
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She ain't a brothel emits. Yeah, we only find bracha
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element of our assembly, Mina iron.
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When something is hidden, you know, you're asking for a broken
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life, we try not to show off and put ourselves when when
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Everyone's Watching, everyone can see us.
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But here in particular, it means that when something is not 100%
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countenance, Seen in visible in, no know exactly what there is,
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then there's more chance for bracha to to to fall in place.
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Certainly if it's like a small re boy or it's not so obvious
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that there's a miracle. Yeah, so let's stop right here.
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Now for a second, So there is a little bit of a stereo between
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Olyphant beds. How do we resolve it?
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Just to point out just a couple things, you mention that story.
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There's a yes in the garden is already there.
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So the main hillock is I kind of said it out a little bit is how,
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how many car it is? How obvious it is, if it's
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something it's it's not 100% clear and you're going to have
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obviously a little bit different tapes.
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How you want to understand it, a little bit of a different
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approach. The main difference is if
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something is Hundred percent clear already and it's already
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in the past we can't ask for miracles something that's
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completely impossible, that's it's foolish of.
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However, if it's something that's in the future and it's
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hidden and you it's it's not exactly clear, like even if even
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if it would be, you would call it a miracle.
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But you wouldn't see the miracle.
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It's all P Dara had taba then then apparently it's not, it's
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Village shop and there. And then that's when, when it's
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actually a good Thing to ask for for, for divine intervention,
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like an interesting story from China.
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Scoffs daleth famous. Someone famous story where a
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person is workers were hungry and they didn't have anything to
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eat. So what happens?
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So this is an a complaining. So there the sun is there.
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The father's workers employees and the sun, the sun is there.
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But he turns to the tree and he says, let the figs grow and
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ripen on the spot and so it did and they had Plenty of teeth.
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And when the father found out, this is not good behavior for a
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father, or son, or a rebbe. But the gemara says clearly, but
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the father basically said, You know, that was totally
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inappropriate and he said just because you made a Kurdish bar
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who ripen his fruit before their time.
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So to your life will ripen an end before your time, basically
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have a color for his son that he should die.
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Busy acted inappropriately. Say for Christian says, we don't
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ask for a stillborn to come back to life.
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He hasn't made him. It's just you don't ask for
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miracles see if we require him says also if it's totally
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inappropriate for you. There's no chance you're going
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to become, you know, the king of the country so you don't oven
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for that. That's a complete feel.
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I fish of it's asking for miracles so on the other side
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there are most quoted in a few couple places cook please.
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I and tough race. Babe, a bet where he says let's
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say on you forget Island how a nice him for his invention.
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So what do you do? You should say a hierarchical
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manner? That is you should say it in
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later on. On in the her a comenzar, a come
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on that. Just like you gave me Miracles.
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It's quite so bad then you should give us Miracles as well.
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So they all ask them and there are some ask on the Roma, how
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can you be asking for miracles? We don't ask for miracles.
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So the before sure is quoted as giving one one of the popular
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answers. If you ask, I'll pee Derek,
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whatever that Hashem should give you miracles, it's loud.
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So so there was a, it was war. Obviously it was on some level,
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it was a miracle, but on some level you had to work, we have
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many miracles and area to sell recently with the what the war
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is in Tacoma. So Medina.
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So it's although it's still a PDF whatever, and then you're
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allowed to ask for it. You said also, maybe if you're
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asking for the Robin you're allowed to ask.
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What's another? Another ha?
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So when it comes to a fool, so the general main idea is we do
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ask for miracles even if a person is sick because we do
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know that a sham, it's a normal thing for us gem for people to
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get sick and for us gem to trophic hole in, it is normal,
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it could be through miraculous, it could also be through just
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treatment regular treatment so even if it looks hopeless we
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still do ask for two. Ela for a foolish Lima and and
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it's often, it's often not hopeless, you might think it is
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but it's often not even its LP Derek.
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Whatever. Also perhaps I'll pee be cooking
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a fish. There's a hat there anyway.
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So I think mostly sums up the perhaps inherent the distinction
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between elephant, but when one could ask and not ask Let's see,
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anything else. All right.
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Does anybody do it? So it's, I have not seen anyone
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not seen anyone say this bra, but it's always a good thing
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that, I mean it's a private thing.
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So it's not something you would see so much whenever you count
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the you want to go count your money.
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It's a it's a good thing to want to look in your bank account.
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It's okay. This three lesson.
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Sarah. I'm not familiar with people
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doing this, this version. I mean, we have our own to us to
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Derek. Lets everyone says in their
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sitter but the modeh Ani afterwards.
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It's not not so common. No I haven't heard it,
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that's also true, that's also true.
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But I think the point over here is it could even be more, it
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could even be more, it could change the reality because they
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don't really know the reality. You don't know what being
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changed so and that courage Park who has the power obviously.
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Person should always appreciate what they have and the oven and
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think, college park with what you have, and Darwin for the
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future that you and your family. And clients are doesn't get
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sick. It's a lot easier to stay
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healthy then to go through treatments in the suffering.
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Okay, now there's something that If a person is just to point out
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that, what happens if a person knows that someone's sick.
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So we know who's also saves good to share it with others.
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So they should oven for you. The Pisgah chuva says, though,
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it, depending on the situation, if it's not known, what kind of
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mock all are, you have? It's not always good to share
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the severity of the makamaka. Le because we don't want to make
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force to crush, barcode to do a bigger nest.
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So sometimes it's better to keep the details quiet and just ask
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for a general floor because once you tell everyone exactly what
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the diagnosis is and the situation is and everyone knows
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you need more of an Ace and then it's less likely to be able to
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dive on for such a thing. I will just raise one one
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question mark will leave it as its Arrow key and basically are
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different opinions. What happens if a person is
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having a biopsy And they know that they're a CT or MRI shows
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that there's something in the body.
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Do you dogging for just or a foolishly imply?
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That somehow we should get better?
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I'll be there disappear. It could be therapy treatments
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or anything or do you say is it better to David specifically?
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Oh I'm this is there? Something there on the screen
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you dominate it should turn out to be cysts are benign and not
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malignant. So some say it's it's feel a
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child because it is what it is, you can change the Matthias, you
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can now open for a Shem to make it to become healthy and have
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some can do it in numerous ways, but 2,000 specifically that it
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should change that, that would be a tillage of another
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approaches. Since you don't know what it is.
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You're not actually asking for a change.
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So it's a question but that and since you can, it's a floor is
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normal and can be, I'll be there.
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However, so then since it's hidden, there is room for a
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shame to do a miracle. So, two different approaches, if
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it's appropriate, how did oven for a biopsy?
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But in general, the best thing to do is to the oven for a
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foolish Lima and let a college bar who decide, how to how to
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bring upon their foolish Lima. And then, if you're sure you're
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not going to be wasting your tulips.
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You want to make sure its real has listened to and you don't
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want a dog in a wasteful tillich of.
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Okay, let's just conclude give them and you can ask the market
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so many here are some definite are some of the criteria that we
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should extend. This is a filler one point goes
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into a hot at America's or it's extremely hot inside fiery
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furnaces. So you say this three letters
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from should save you shouldn't get harmed.
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Burnt yet service Sheldon when you leave.
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If you say mow down, he's a fanatic Hashem, loci sheets of
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titanium and nowadays. The mr.
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Also says there is no, it's not just real is not set any more.
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It's also our bathhouses aren't so dangerous.
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Okay, doll, it AmericanMuscle hockey's dumbest person is going
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to go draw to let blood and that was bloodletting and that was
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done as a fool in those days. Then obviously, nowadays, we
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don't do it, we get blood tests, but we don't do it the same way
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for in and of itself. So there are many here at Santa
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Monica is similar cases, he hates exactly mirror of 1013,
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um, utter. And she saying this should be
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done for a real for with other cheek is done.
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You know, Barack rough a whole him and then afterwards also you
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see raffiq Barack Rafi holding Pastor, it seems that the church
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should be a broccoli ashamed of motherhood.
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But again, Mission versus haven't seen anyone do this /.
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I don't think it's just that. Human hearted to say with
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hashem's name and they point out that really, they should be done
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with any rough or any time you take pills any time to go to the
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doctor. I mean, you could ask for a to
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stay healthy. When you get, when you get a
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blood test, whatever you know, whatever it is, you should out.
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It's always good to dive into a cottage Sparkle and it's really,
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okay, basically, correspond should always be on our mind and
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we should always trust in a cottage, Barker, hey, the old
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arm you here, Adam regular markoma David Rahman, Allah
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David, and a person should always dogging.
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Should always say that. Whatever happens in life is
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always for the best. Really extremely important.
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That one of the main lessons in life of a Munna that we live by
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a day-to-day has to be. The always, think about that,
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whatever happens. It happens for the best is our
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ashram is in control, and whether it's to get Caprara.
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And many of us heard, or have some of our own stories, where
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you thought that what was happening was really bad news
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and it turned out that because of what happened something much
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better came out of it. The artificial con interest,
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it's a very nice Twist, he connects hey to Olive, if a
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person is always living in a world, whatever happens is for
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the best and you teach that in your kids, then you never going
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to have a situation where someone's screams during the
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house. It was such a screen generally
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not too because those screams are three large shop screams and
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it's less likely to happen when you have proper and Munna.
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One last thing the mission number of points out that it's
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good to say, bless you or somehow climb to be more
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different words. It's when a person sneezes,
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because we know that originally, that's how the debt when person
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used over died, according to the gazelle that come out of his
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nose and when you sneeze, the life would come, the national go
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at the same time and it was with yaakov when he first prayed that
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we should have, he should the people should get sick before
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they die to, the doesn't come upon them by surprise.
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All right?