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Ben's Baby Shower with Susie Evans · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.
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  Speaker 2: This is almost In this podcast, we have one of
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  Speaker 2: my favorites and Bachelor Nations, Susie here with us. Susie,
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  Speaker 2: I just listened to your podcast and I was telling
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  Speaker 2: you this about scamming. For all the listeners out there
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  Speaker 2: of the Almost Famous podcast, I think they should listen
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  Speaker 2: to your podcast.
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  Speaker 3: And give it a try.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you, and scamming was one that I listened to
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  Speaker 2: because I have been attempted.
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  Speaker 3: Bob, I don't know if you feel this way. I
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  Speaker 3: think I get.
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  Speaker 2: I think people attempt to scam me once a day.
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  Speaker 3: Wait, so what do we talking?
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  Speaker 2: How do you mean scam like emails or phone calls?
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  Speaker 2: So I have two and and Susie, we're going to
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  Speaker 2: dive into you.
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  Speaker 4: I want to hear. No, I want to hear your
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  Speaker 4: scam story because we didn't get to finish it.
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  Speaker 3: There's a whole.
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  Speaker 2: Podcast on this with an expert. It's incredible. You should
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  Speaker 2: listen to it.
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  Speaker 3: But there was one moment where Capital One called me.
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  Speaker 2: I went through the whole thing. They asked me a
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  Speaker 2: bunch of questions. All of a sudden, I realized it
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  Speaker 2: wasn't capital one. I already given them a bunch of
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  Speaker 2: information and it scared me. The second was last week
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  Speaker 2: my business generous almost got scammed for close to fifty
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  Speaker 2: thousand dollars. Wow, crazy, crazy, And luckily we have some
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  Speaker 2: checks and balances in place where our accountant can't write
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  Speaker 2: the check and if it's over a certain amount. And
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  Speaker 2: all of a sudden, I said, I didn't just sign
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  Speaker 2: up for leadership training for fifty grand I don't know
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  Speaker 2: where this is coming from.
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  Speaker 5: And so I know so many so I have so
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  Speaker 5: many friends. I'll just use a couple real quick. The
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  Speaker 5: Kentucky Derby, for example, Yeah, which I go to every
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  Speaker 5: year for the last twenty years, which I'm so proud
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  Speaker 5: to be associated with it. I started bringing some friends
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  Speaker 5: into it and two of them got scammed where they
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  Speaker 5: were told, oh, you need to pay right now in full.
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  Speaker 3: And it was called it was.
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  Speaker 5: A thing called ghosting, where they ghost an email that
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  Speaker 5: you've already been oh my god, I'm getting in and
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  Speaker 5: you think you're responding to the same person, but it's
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  Speaker 5: a different person. That person doesn't see any of that email.
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  Speaker 3: They sent the check, they.
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  Speaker 5: Sent the cash twenty thousand dollars, Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 3: And they're like, we never got that money.
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  Speaker 2: Can you imagine being seventy plus years old and not
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  Speaker 2: familiar with this new world.
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  Speaker 3: It breaks my heart, honestly so hard.
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  Speaker 2: So Susie, tell everybody as we start out here about
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  Speaker 2: your podcast.
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  Speaker 3: Obviously we talked about.
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  Speaker 2: It what three months ago on this show as it
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  Speaker 2: was getting launched.
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  Speaker 3: But it's launched.
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  Speaker 2: You have some great episodes, a new one with Wells
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  Speaker 2: Adams out there that's really funny and really lighthearted and
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  Speaker 2: it's Wells and it's weird shock Well.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's super deep and.
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  Speaker 4: Heavy and really emotional.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Susie, tell everybody out there listening where they can
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  Speaker 2: kind of listen to your latest project.
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  Speaker 4: So you can listen anywhere you listen to podcasts. It's
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  Speaker 4: called Live Laugh Lies. And we do really fun graphics
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  Speaker 4: as well, so we do video, but then we also
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  Speaker 4: like to overlay fun stuff on the screen, so if
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  Speaker 4: you like to watch, you can watch on YouTube and
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  Speaker 4: it's it's a bit more fun. But yeah, we do
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  Speaker 4: some serious topics, like we have people on that have
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  Speaker 4: the most bizarre stories of like one woman married a
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  Speaker 4: guy who lied about everything including his social security number,
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  Speaker 4: including his bank account numbers, like everything like scammed her
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  Speaker 4: they were fully married, And then we had experts on
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  Speaker 4: that talked about people that were scammed. I was scammed recently,
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  Speaker 4: so that's kind of what piqued my interest with having
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  Speaker 4: her on, And we talked about safety online and like
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  Speaker 4: how to protect yourself. And then yeah, we do an
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  Speaker 4: episode once a month called Tell Me Lies, which is
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  Speaker 4: like more lighthearted, so it's like less intense, less like
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  Speaker 4: cheating scandals, cults, and more like let's have fun and
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  Speaker 4: like shoot this shit.
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  Speaker 3: Who would be a better cult leader, Bob or myself?
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  Speaker 4: Oh gosh, I.
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  Speaker 2: Think you would be because I and I could give
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  Speaker 2: a reason why I want Susie to answer who follow
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  Speaker 2: I rather follow?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah? I followed Ben.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, here's the deal. I think you might. You
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  Speaker 4: both bring a lot to the table when it comes
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  Speaker 4: to a cult. Let me start with your Yeah, I
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  Speaker 4: think that, Like I don't know, this is so hard
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  Speaker 4: to say, because I actually could see you like maybe
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  Speaker 4: accidentally starting a cult. You are very like charismatic and
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  Speaker 4: like I feel like people like I could hear anything
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  Speaker 4: you say right now and I would believe exactly what
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  Speaker 4: you're saying.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's not a company, and I don't know that, ye,
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  Speaker 3: like I don't know that.
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  Speaker 4: That's like good. But then I could see you maybe
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  Speaker 4: like intentionally yea intentionally being like let me let me
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  Speaker 4: do Yeah, like I could see you and Wells being
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  Speaker 4: let's get some white linen pants and like start a
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  Speaker 4: cult where I feel like.
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  Speaker 5: With you that.
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  Speaker 2: You both bring a lot to the give both Like
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  Speaker 2: I think I I think you could wake up one
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  Speaker 2: morning and have now four million followers in a scrim
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  Speaker 2: and be like, I don't know how, but let's guide
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  Speaker 2: them in a direct let's go this way, and Wells
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  Speaker 2: and I'd be like, you know what, we plan this,
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  Speaker 2: but let's get four million this we know exactly what
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  Speaker 2: we did.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah that's probably true.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, true.
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  Speaker 4: And there's beauty in both of that, you know what
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  Speaker 4: I mean, Like I see it and I appreciate it.
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  Speaker 3: In both of you guys, and I can see Susie
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  Speaker 3: in both of those. You're so sweet. You guys have
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  Speaker 3: seen a movie Beekeeper.
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  Speaker 5: No, Oh my gosh, So what you were just saying
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  Speaker 5: about scamming just resonated with me, only because my mom's
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  Speaker 5: seventy eight. She got early on side dementia, right, and
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  Speaker 5: we're we're doing all these things we can help take
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  Speaker 5: care of it. I go to our house the other
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  Speaker 5: day and her computer is talking to her. Oh my gosh,
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  Speaker 5: I'm like, what your computer?
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  Speaker 3: Who's talking? And the computer saying, you.
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  Speaker 5: Know, oh, you have downloaded the trojan virus?
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  Speaker 3: Go to this and call this number. And I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: that's really weird. So I dial up on my phone.
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  Speaker 5: I'm like, what's that over to call for Microsoft if
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  Speaker 5: you have a virus? And it wasn't the same number
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  Speaker 5: that was on the screen, but it looked exactly the same.
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  Speaker 4: Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 3: And there's a movie called.
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  Speaker 5: Beekeeper with Jason Statham and it's crazy and if you
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  Speaker 5: watch on a plane, because it was a plain movie
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  Speaker 5: for me, you'll probably cry, which I always do. And
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  Speaker 5: it was basically about someone who got taken advantage of
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  Speaker 5: by a scam like this where they hack into all
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  Speaker 5: your stuff.
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  Speaker 3: I mean you should, I mean, is that what we're
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  Speaker 3: talking about right now? Is that? Yeah?
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  Speaker 5: It was like it was insane to because I hadn't
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  Speaker 5: even thought about it until this just happened with my
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  Speaker 5: mom and then this movie, so I think that's it's
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  Speaker 5: a real thing like it can actually really happen, and
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  Speaker 5: it's kind of Baniana's.
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  Speaker 4: It's becoming really uh, they're getting really good at it.
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  Speaker 4: It's becoming really prevalent. And that's only not like all
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  Speaker 4: of what we talk about on the podcast, but that's
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  Speaker 4: been Mary Bonnet from selling Sunset. She had someone hack
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  Speaker 4: into her computer fully watching her. They got into her,
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  Speaker 4: ring cameras in her house, watching her in her living room,
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  Speaker 4: through her whole house, sending her supplemental messages on her computer.
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  Speaker 4: Everyone thought she was like going crazy because nobody else
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  Speaker 4: could see the messages and he would like the lea
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  Speaker 4: them literally like taunted her for nine months and then
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  Speaker 4: they like the FBI got involved, Like it is crazy
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  Speaker 4: how good people are getting at scams and spying.
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  Speaker 2: That That is a great segue to the question we
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  Speaker 2: asked earlier, which is when it comes to baby monitors.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, no Wi Fi, that's what my wife is
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  Speaker 2: saying that She said, so, my my.
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  Speaker 5: Sister's best friend had a horrible Wi Fi experience where
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  Speaker 5: every night she'd come in to check on her son,
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  Speaker 5: who's now ten, and he would go, you know, mommy,
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  Speaker 5: so and so said that I should you know, stay
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  Speaker 5: awake and I shouldn't go to bed right now, and
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  Speaker 5: she's like whatever. This happened every night for like four
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  Speaker 5: nights in a row till finally my sister's friend was like,
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  Speaker 5: I'm gonna lay on the floor in his room, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: When I put him asleep and just see what I'm missing.
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  Speaker 5: And sure enough, a dude comes on the monitor voice,
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  Speaker 5: a dude's voice, you can't see him, and he's like,
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  Speaker 5: you don't need to go to bed. You should tell
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  Speaker 5: you should start screaming right now that you don't want
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  Speaker 5: to go to And it was a guy who had
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  Speaker 5: hacked into their Wi Fi thing. So yeah, I'm a
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  Speaker 5: no Wi Fi guy when it comes to monitors myself,
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  Speaker 5: because it's just not the technology.
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  Speaker 3: A thing I didn't know. It's a thing I didn't know.
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  Speaker 3: There was weirdos out there that would even try this.
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  Speaker 4: Who has time to go talk to a baby?
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  Speaker 3: Can't we do something cooler?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: Can't we hack like some bad guy in another country
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  Speaker 4: that needs to be taken down?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah? So stupid?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah all right, Well this is a great podcast though, Susie.
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  Speaker 2: You're crushing it. And since the launch that we talked
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  Speaker 2: about on the almost in his podcast. It's been not
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  Speaker 2: only entertaining, it's been uh comedy. It's been a mix
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  Speaker 2: of comedy and real life experience and emotion. And it's awesome.
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  Speaker 2: You're doing a great job. Thank you, So you should
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  Speaker 2: know that manybody should listen to it. Bob has a
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  Speaker 2: game for you though. Okay about the baby shower.
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  Speaker 5: Now, guys, this is going to be interesting because it's
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  Speaker 5: called guess who, all, right, mommy or daddy? And I
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  Speaker 5: know I know some of these answers into I actually
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  Speaker 5: really do, and I think that if life experience will
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  Speaker 5: serve me on this, I will tell you that I
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  Speaker 5: know the right answers to these.
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  Speaker 3: But I'm gonna let you guys go through this.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, It's called guess who mommy or daddy? Right,
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  Speaker 5: So it's it's a simple answer. You'll say mommy or daddy, okay,
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  Speaker 5: and you will say mommy or daddy. I'm going to
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  Speaker 5: give you guys a little time frame on this because
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  Speaker 5: I think that it's going to change over time, especially
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  Speaker 5: this first one. So if you had to take a
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  Speaker 5: survey as to who will change more diapers would be
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  Speaker 5: mommy or daddy.
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  Speaker 3: So, Susie, I'm gonna go to you first.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, answer, and I think Mommy.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, Mommy, All right, now, I'm gonna give you guys
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  Speaker 5: a little sub context here. In the first six months,
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  Speaker 5: mom will change more diapers.
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  Speaker 4: Susie, I'm going to say, Mommy.
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  Speaker 3: Mommy, daddy.
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  Speaker 5: Way, I promise you really, here's why, Mommy. Well, okay,
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  Speaker 5: you know what, in my personal experience, I will say mommy,
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  Speaker 5: or I'll say daddy, here's why.
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  Speaker 3: And uh.
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  Speaker 5: In that first six months, mommy is in charge of
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  Speaker 5: giving life to this kid. Preach if you're breastfeeding or
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  Speaker 5: if you're not.
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  Speaker 3: So daddy should just step up.
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  Speaker 5: Daddy's job is to be like, oh, the kid should
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  Speaker 5: himself my.
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  Speaker 3: Time to shine? Agree. I love that take, so get involved.
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  Speaker 5: And if it's the answer is not daddy, I might
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  Speaker 5: come to Denver and smack you in the face. Period.
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  Speaker 4: I love that.
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  Speaker 3: I love you. I never want to smack you.
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  Speaker 5: But the truth be told, the answer better be daddy.
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  Speaker 4: That first, is this like what we think should be.
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  Speaker 3: No, it's the real stuff. But I'm ok.
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  Speaker 5: For some reason it's triggering me and I'm getting PTSD.
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  Speaker 4: No, honestly, we love a good trigger around here.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, who will be more patient mommy or daddy.
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  Speaker 3: Susie.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, I feel like it depends, but I feel like mommy.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like mommy.
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  Speaker 2: I think in our relationship Daddy, Okay, Yeah, I think
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  Speaker 2: Jessica will be so on.
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  Speaker 3: I think you are. Jessica will be so on top
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  Speaker 3: of so much.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, that like that, Like I will be the one
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  Speaker 2: that's a little bit more calm because she's going to
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  Speaker 2: be so on top.
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  Speaker 3: You almost have to be the com have to be
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  Speaker 3: the calm one.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, even though I might not feel it internally, at
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  Speaker 2: least externally to the family, I'll need to pull that
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  Speaker 2: role because she has no other option but to be
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  Speaker 2: on it.
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  Speaker 5: Well, and I'm gonna tell you you have never slept
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  Speaker 5: less in your life. Yeah, when we were the bachelor
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  Speaker 5: guys and we would we would like be bitching about
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  Speaker 5: the fact that, oh we were we had to go
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  Speaker 5: to Vegas tonight and then we came back and we
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  Speaker 5: had to go on a hotter balloon ride at five
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  Speaker 5: am with three other girls. That stuff seemed challenging at
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  Speaker 5: the time. Yeah, even though people at home right now
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  Speaker 5: are going what makes sense, But when you have a
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  Speaker 5: child and you haven't slept and your kids crying, and
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  Speaker 5: you're changing diapers and everything else.
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  Speaker 3: You've never slept last, and so to be patient in.
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  Speaker 5: These moments, it's it's a gift from God to have
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  Speaker 5: that patience. Who wants the most kids, Mommy or daddy
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  Speaker 5: with you a specifically?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, Oh I don't know. I'm going to guess you.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I want so many more? Really, Yeah, pregnancy is
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  Speaker 2: going way too easy for that.
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  Speaker 3: Listens it up a little bit.
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  Speaker 2: She's like, this wasn't as bad as I thought it
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  Speaker 2: could be.
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  Speaker 3: Been. You want to impregnate me five times?
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  Speaker 5: I'm like, so Canyon and I are our first child
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  Speaker 5: was so difficult for Kanyon, like the the actual you
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  Speaker 5: know child, uh.
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  Speaker 4: Carrying the pregnancy ye yourself.
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  Speaker 5: She it wasn't morning sickness.
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  Speaker 3: It was morning. It was sickness all the time.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, and people get that.
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  Speaker 3: It's literally old.
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  Speaker 5: And so to have a second child was was was
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  Speaker 5: it was?
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  Speaker 3: It was It was God's grace. We wouldn't.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, it was a happy accident. She was done.
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  Speaker 5: So I was pretty happy about that. Wow, all right, now,
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  Speaker 5: who will spoil the baby the most? I think I
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  Speaker 5: know this answer, Mommy or daddy?
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  Speaker 4: Maybe Daddy. I don't know. It's so it's so hard
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  Speaker 4: to say.
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  Speaker 5: You guys are such a sweet mix of kindness.
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  Speaker 4: You guys are both so sweet.
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  Speaker 3: Different level of spoiling though.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a baby girl, and I know she's gonna
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  Speaker 2: have me wrapped around her face. However, Jessica has big plans,
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  Speaker 2: like when it comes to what this baby girl is
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  Speaker 2: going to experience, Okay, parties and and all these things. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I think it's going I honestly think this, and this
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  Speaker 2: is unfair.
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  Speaker 3: It would be a fifty to fifty.
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  Speaker 2: I think she'll spoil her more because my parents were
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  Speaker 2: very intentional because I was an only child to say
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  Speaker 2: I'm not going to spoil.
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  Speaker 4: Ben oh okay.
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  Speaker 2: And I think I have that implemented in me, of like,
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  Speaker 2: let's not give her more than what like.
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  Speaker 3: Life is expected.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so that she doesn't get the wrong idea here
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  Speaker 2: and justices be like, no, she'll get everything.
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  Speaker 4: It's gonna get the role. Yeah, yeah, I love that.
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  Speaker 3: All right, guys.
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  Speaker 5: Last question, Okay, the movie Clueless notwithstanding right, no one
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  Speaker 5: wants to be the fun mom played by Amy Poehler,
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  Speaker 5: Who will be the fun parent?
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  Speaker 3: Who will be the fun one? Is it gonna be jazz?
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  Speaker 3: Is it gonna be beat?
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  Speaker 5: I already know the answer in my family, and I'll
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  Speaker 5: give you a little I'll give you some insight while
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  Speaker 5: you guys work on this answer. Canyon is definitely the
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  Speaker 5: fun parent. I am the one who I come home
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  Speaker 5: from work it's like daddy here he is. I'm like,
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  Speaker 5: I don't want to be this guy, but you're kind
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  Speaker 5: of forced into the role. And Kanyon is the one
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  Speaker 5: who's like she's home all day, so she's also the
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  Speaker 5: one is like, you.
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  Speaker 3: Know, yeah, this stay mom my moment and they're like
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  Speaker 3: jamming and I walk in.
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  Speaker 5: I'm like, why is this allowed here? I don't know why.
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  Speaker 3: I just adopt the role. So what do you think
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  Speaker 3: Who's gonna be the fun one?
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  Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, this is I feel like this goes
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  Speaker 4: similar with like the spoil question. I think it depends
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  Speaker 4: so hard to answer. I feel like, because ess, obviously
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  Speaker 4: it's a woman, just a girl, and to have a
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  Speaker 4: little girl like she's gonna know the vibes, princess vibes.
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  Speaker 4: But then I also think sometimes like this was kind
• 15:12
  Speaker 4: of the dynamic in my family. My mom was definitely
• 15:15
  Speaker 4: the caregiver, and so my dad had the ability to
• 15:18
  Speaker 4: come home and be like let's rock, like let's have
• 15:20
  Speaker 4: fun and rustle and like, yeah, so like the dynamic
• 15:24
  Speaker 4: in my family and my mom had to like lay
• 15:25
  Speaker 4: the law a little bit harder because my dad was
• 15:28
  Speaker 4: more of like the breadwinner and came home and was
• 15:30
  Speaker 4: like that was a dynamic. But I don't know, maybe, jess.
• 15:35
  Speaker 3: I think it's going to depend on age.
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: Jessica is gonna thrive from birth till like honestly, like
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: she's gonna thrive forever, but she's really gonna rock until
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: like eight, and then I think I'm gonna crush it
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: middle age, like middle age parenting like eight to like
• 15:57
  Speaker 2: into high school. Because I can take I can take
• 16:01
  Speaker 2: some gritty information and process it and be like I've
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: been there. Yeah, Jessica hasn't been there. My wife is
• 16:08
  Speaker 2: the purest soul of all she is.
• 16:11
  Speaker 3: She is.
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: She's done so well keeping like her values and her
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: morals in mind, where like maybe I didn't as much,
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: and I think I can consume information and be like
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: I've been there.
• 16:23
  Speaker 3: I get it. I don't like to hear this from you,
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: young lady, but hurts me. But Daddy can handle it.
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: But I can handle it and let's talk this through.
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: And so I think it's going to change. I think
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna be great. I think Jessica's gonna be great
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: at both stages. But we're going to switch off. And
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: I think when when my baby girl comes home and
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: she's like, this guy broke my heart, I think I'll
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: be the one she's like, let me talk to dad.
• 16:49
  Speaker 3: You're gonna kill that guy though. Yeah, oh, in my back,
• 16:52
  Speaker 3: I could be a dad. I could be a dad
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: to a girl. I would want to literally kill every dy. Yeah,
• 16:57
  Speaker 3: it's tough for me to think about right now.
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: I just think that there's a moment where I'll sit
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: Have you guys seen Shrinking yet?
• 17:03
  Speaker 3: Yes? I love that Shrinking a great show on TV. Yeah,
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: and he crushes it as a teenage dad.
• 17:08
  Speaker 5: Yea.
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: He makes so many mistakes hysterical.
• 17:11
  Speaker 5: But it's like that's he's such a great actor because
• 17:14
  Speaker 5: he is so hysterical, and it's.
• 17:16
  Speaker 3: Like, no, I get it.
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: Like he's trying and his daughter loves him and she's
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: like she wants him around, and but yeah, I think
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: that girl is going to be.
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: Very love Yeah.
• 17:30
  Speaker 5: Can I ask one more question that's on the list here?
• 17:32
  Speaker 5: It's not the list. But I so we've not talked
• 17:36
  Speaker 5: about the name yet. Correct, we're keeping that quiet kind
• 17:38
  Speaker 5: of quiet.
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: Ye.
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: So but have you guys decided on one yet? Yes?
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: So may I ask.
• 17:45
  Speaker 5: Because this does matter, by the way, it really does.
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: Who chose it?
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: You?
• 17:51
  Speaker 5: Were you the guy that chose the name? Or was
• 17:54
  Speaker 5: she the one that chose the name? And do you
• 17:55
  Speaker 5: think it matters? Because I'm gonna tell you what it does.
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: She chose the name, but she chose it knowing it's
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: a name i'd be behind.
• 18:05
  Speaker 5: Okay, So Stubby Stebbie Stebbie.
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: Oh Susan, well, I would it not be?
• 18:12
  Speaker 5: I mean, honest, Scott, you love Susie, Susie, I mean
• 18:15
  Speaker 5: you love your sugarman Sugarman Higgins. I love it. That's amazing, Buddy,
• 18:28
  Speaker 5: I love this.
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: Susie.
• 18:29
  Speaker 5: Thank you, Thank you for.
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: Having men of the podcast and what anything else that
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: you're out up to that you'd love people to tune into.
• 18:38
  Speaker 4: No, Honestly, the podcast is where I would love to
• 18:40
  Speaker 4: see the support live laugh lies on YouTube. I'm doing
• 18:45
  Speaker 4: vlogging right now. I'm on YouTube vlogging a lot, just
• 18:48
  Speaker 4: trying to like build my YouTube community. So that's been fun.
• 18:50
  Speaker 5: But the podcast is so weird that I only know
• 18:52
  Speaker 5: where vlogging is.
• 18:54
  Speaker 4: It's not weird.
• 18:55
  Speaker 5: I feel like I have It's like an indigestion for me.
• 18:58
  Speaker 5: Vlogging like I should take a pill for that.
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: Watch it.
• 19:04
  Speaker 4: It's fun. It's like right now, I'm doing it in
• 19:06
  Speaker 4: December to like like it's called vlog miss so like Christmas,
• 19:11
  Speaker 4: so like I'm posting a vlog a day, so if
• 19:13
  Speaker 4: y'all want to see what I'm up to. Yeah, it's
• 19:15
  Speaker 4: like a lot of words, it is, yeah, but it's fun.
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: It's fun. So yeah, if you want to check it out,
• 19:22
  Speaker 4: you could pop a pill to get through it if
• 19:24
  Speaker 4: you need.
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: I love it. Yeah, Almost Fus podcast. I've Been Been,
• 19:36
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• 19:41
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• 19:44
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