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From the Grocery Store to the Mansion with Joe Amabile and Serena Pitt · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
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Speaker 1: with our.
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Speaker 2: Radio It's almost Famous podcast. We are so pumped to
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Speaker 2: still be at the Bachelor Mansion. Yes, we are celebrating
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Speaker 2: everything good in the world. We've got the Golden Bachelorettes here.
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Speaker 2: We've got some of Bachelor Nation's absolute best, and Joe
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Speaker 2: and Serena are definitely on that list. Joe and Serena,
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Speaker 2: welcome to the almost in his podcast once again.
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Speaker 1: Hi, Thanks Ben, thanks for having us. Hi.
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Speaker 2: Now, you guys are really good at this. This is
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Speaker 2: intimidating for me because you guys are also professional podcasters,
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Speaker 2: you know what.
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Speaker 3: Caitlin and Dean said that to us as well, and
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Speaker 3: I'm like, I feel like that's a very generous compliment
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Speaker 3: for me. I feel that you've been doing this for
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Speaker 3: a while. I feel I'm still slightly new to this.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I had to like redo the beginning of
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Speaker 1: our podcast multiple times because I kept screwing it up.
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Speaker 3: But we blamed all the fact that he's like back
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Speaker 3: at the mansion and like he's nervous tonight because he
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Speaker 3: got some home last time he was here.
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Speaker 2: He's never been here. Yeah, he was here for five hours.
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Speaker 2: Joe how actually long were you in the mansion?
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Speaker 1: I want to say, So we get here at what time?
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Speaker 1: Seven thirty pm?
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Speaker 2: And I was sent early Limo.
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Speaker 1: Do you know I was an early Limo. Okay, I
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Speaker 1: was an early Limo and I was sent home at
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Speaker 1: probably I want to say it was probably like eight am.
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Speaker 2: Now I'm gonna ask you some questions, mostly because I'm
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Speaker 2: selfish and I've always wanted to know this please, So
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Speaker 2: my biggest concern. Okay, So when I went on the Bachelorette,
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Speaker 2: my buddies came over, just don't go home night one. Well, yeah,
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Speaker 2: they're like, don't go home night one, and they said this,
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Speaker 2: They literally said this to me. They're like, there's a
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Speaker 2: lot of studs there, like we think you could be
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Speaker 2: there for at least two weeks. And I was like, well,
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Speaker 2: what the hell does that mean? Like I think I
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Speaker 2: can be there till the very end. But they're like,
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Speaker 2: there's a lot of like really cool dudes that come
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Speaker 2: to that. And so I showed to La and I
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Speaker 2: was like, all I need to do is make it
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Speaker 2: past night one so that I don't have to tell
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Speaker 2: my friends and family like, hey, this didn't work out.
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Speaker 2: Now obviously this worked out for you. You've done incredible
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Speaker 2: from it. It's every fear that like I would have had,
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Speaker 2: You've like far accomplished.
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Speaker 4: But I've given those Night one people hope you're Yeah.
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Speaker 2: So when you got back in the lima on night one,
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Speaker 2: were you like I was devastated. Yeah, devastated, but also
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Speaker 2: for me it would go more to personal confidence. Yeah,
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Speaker 2: it was.
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Speaker 1: It was so my friends basically said like, I think
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Speaker 1: you're either going home night one or you're gonna be
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Speaker 1: there till the end, and I kind of thought the same.
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Speaker 1: But I was like, in my head, I was like,
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Speaker 1: I'm not going to go home night one. And as
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Speaker 1: soon as I walked in, as soon as I had
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Speaker 1: my first conversation, I was like, there's nothing I could do.
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Speaker 1: I can't save myself. I'm actually gonna go home. And yeah,
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Speaker 1: I mean it was.
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Speaker 2: It was.
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Speaker 1: It was terrible, But when it happened like the next day,
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Speaker 1: I kind of just like laughed it off. I was like,
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Speaker 1: there's literally nothing I could do except laugh about it.
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Speaker 1: And then the show doesn't air for like three months,
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Speaker 1: so you prep and you're just like okay. Like and
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Speaker 1: my cousin, she was a big fan of this show.
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Speaker 1: She's like, they don't even show Night one. People like
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Speaker 1: you're not no one's even gonna.
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Speaker 4: Know, and everyone knew, and then everyone.
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Speaker 2: Out. I got lucky. Yeah, he became the guy. I mean, honestly,
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Speaker 2: it was. It's been a good look for you, now, Serena.
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Speaker 2: How long were you in the mansion?
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Speaker 3: So I've never been This is my first time here,
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Speaker 3: which is actually very exciting. So I was a COVID season.
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Speaker 3: So we filmed in Pennsylvania.
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Speaker 2: Pennsylvania, Yeah, which I think you guys came for. I
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Speaker 2: came for a date date.
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Speaker 4: No, I wasn't on that date.
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Speaker 1: But wasn't there a season? Not to cut you off,
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Speaker 1: but wasn't there, Like, wasn't like part of like, oh
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Speaker 1: but you weren't on Jojo was on your season?
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Speaker 2: Okay, so we were, we were, I remember Jojo. That's
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Speaker 2: a great.
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Speaker 3: Just a little flashback moment. No, so we were the
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Speaker 3: second COVID seasons. There was Tasha and Claire season and
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Speaker 3: then we had our season and yeah, so I've never
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Speaker 3: I've never been here.
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Speaker 2: What does it feel like to be in the mansion
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Speaker 2: for the first time?
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Speaker 4: Though, it's actually very cool.
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Speaker 3: I was excited to come here because I'm like in
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Speaker 3: the minority of people in this franchise that have never
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Speaker 3: set foot in the mansion and we obviously watched the
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Speaker 3: show and recap it now, so yeah, it's cool.
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Speaker 4: It's like an.
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Speaker 3: Iconic location, like even if you aren't like an active
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Speaker 3: watcher of the Bachelor franchise, Like everyone knows the Bachelor mansion.
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Speaker 1: I was gonna say, I wish to heat, but I
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Speaker 1: feel I feel like they might have got a going.
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Speaker 1: It's getting better, it's getting it's getting warmer.
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Speaker 3: No, my glass was frosted when we first recorded in here.
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Speaker 3: It's getting better.
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Speaker 2: Well, California's forty degrees and I never expected this.
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Speaker 4: It's horrible and we're up.
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Speaker 2: In the hills now it is beautiful. The house is gorgeous.
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Speaker 2: It is iconic. There's no furniture in here. I mean
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Speaker 2: it's absolutely empty because I think they literally just use
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Speaker 2: it to film the show. Now, Oh really, I don't know.
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Speaker 2: I mean when I walked in, I was like, there's
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Speaker 2: no way they moved all this out for us.
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Speaker 3: I'm going to highly dobte the owners are like in
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Speaker 3: need of Like I wouldn't be surprised, like Bachelor's paid
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Speaker 3: off that.
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Speaker 4: Mortgage by now you know they've been using it for
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Speaker 4: so many years.
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Speaker 2: I think they're loving owning this house.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, this is the best investment that face. Is this proper.
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Speaker 1: I'll take this investment any day of the week.
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Speaker 4: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: So it's your first time in the mansion. You've been
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Speaker 2: breaking down the show on your podcast, which is called
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Speaker 2: Happy Hour bachel Happy Hour, and you have been co
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Speaker 2: host now officially for how long?
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Speaker 4: We started in July July August director.
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Speaker 1: No, six months. Six months we.
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Speaker 2: Were working this Sunday together.
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Speaker 1: It is It's something that we we had talked about
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Speaker 1: prior and we both felt comfortable going into it. We
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Speaker 1: had did some podcasts together. I was part of Clickbait,
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Speaker 1: which was the other Bachel Nation podcast, and she was
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Speaker 1: a guest and helped me co host that a few times,
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Speaker 1: and it just was kind of seamless, and it was
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Speaker 1: something you know, like people like, oh, I don't want
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Speaker 1: to work with my significant other, but like we it's
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Speaker 1: it's easy for us, and it's not like we're we're
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Speaker 1: not on top of each other. It's not every day,
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Speaker 1: you know, film a podcast once a week, twice a week,
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Speaker 1: so it's easy.
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Speaker 4: Yeah.
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Speaker 3: The first time we ever co hosted together was with
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Speaker 3: Zach Shallcross The Last Bachelor. We did a live podcast
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Speaker 3: in Atlanta.
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Speaker 2: And that was her first one adience.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, from a live audience. We never co hosted together.
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Speaker 3: I didn't have that much podcasting experience. I mean I
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Speaker 3: did one season and Joe had done a lot, and
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Speaker 3: I was like, They're gonna send us out there live
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Speaker 3: tonight together and just see how this goes.
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Speaker 4: And actually it went great. We had an amazing time.
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Speaker 3: I think it would have been different if I was
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Speaker 3: like joining Clickbait, which was like, really Joe had been
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Speaker 3: a part of for so long. This felt fun because
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Speaker 3: it was like we were both joining Happy Hour. It
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Speaker 3: was like new to both of us and we're talking
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Speaker 3: about something that like we have been a part of.
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Speaker 1: Serena, I'm truly I'm a mess. Serena is. She'll act
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Speaker 1: like she doesn't like she's nervous, she doesn't know how
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Speaker 1: it's gonna go. She is a professional, She's been a
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Speaker 1: professional from the beginning. She's extremely articulate and like, honestly,
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Speaker 1: I lean on her and she's always there. So that's
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Speaker 1: really nice. You're really good.
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Speaker 4: You're really good too.
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Speaker 2: The natural like qualities of being a podcaster, and you
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Speaker 2: too obviously show it. I remember when Ashley and I
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Speaker 2: had a kind of a crossover episode a couple of
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Speaker 2: months ago with you too, You're just getting started.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, that was right at the beginning. It was like
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Speaker 3: maybe like one of.
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Speaker 1: The how much easier is it they'll to do this
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Speaker 1: in person opposed so much easier zoom zoom.
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Speaker 2: It's it does.
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Speaker 4: It's just more fun in person.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it almost feels weird, like it feels like I'm
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Speaker 2: having too much fun. Like it's almost feels like too easy.
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Speaker 2: It's too easy, where like I don't know how long
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Speaker 2: these conversations are going. Yeah, we're on zoom. I have
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Speaker 2: a very clear like I have a time, I stand.
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Speaker 3: A time or usually when we're on zoom, but we
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Speaker 3: were just recording with Devan Halen and we probably could
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Speaker 3: have gone for an hour sure, because you just start chatting.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, life helps, which I think is great. And that's
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Speaker 2: why we're here. I mean, that's why we, you know,
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Speaker 2: have the mansion. That's what we all came to the
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Speaker 2: mansion is to catch up with everybody, to celebrate with everybody.
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Speaker 2: It's the holiday season and to be at the mansion
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Speaker 2: I think is a uniquely like cool experience for everybody
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Speaker 2: because it does bring back a lot of memories for
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Speaker 2: some and then also for like the two of you
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Speaker 2: who haven't spent as much time here. It's just cool
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Speaker 2: to see, Like it's cool to be at the mansion.
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Speaker 2: I was just FaceTime with my aunt as I showed you,
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Speaker 2: because she's a huge fan. I was like, I'm here.
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Speaker 2: I want to show you this place while I'm here,
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Speaker 2: h And she was freaking out, like, Oh, there's the
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Speaker 2: rose ceremony room, there's the living room.
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Speaker 3: What major memories is to bring back for you because
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Speaker 3: you spent a lot of time, a lot of time here.
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Speaker 4: He spent two seasons here.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, mostly bachelor atte memories, like a lot of like
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Speaker 2: fraternities type stuff. Like I walked outside. I was telling Jess,
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Speaker 2: this is like the yard that we worked out in,
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Speaker 2: and this is the loop I did when I wanted
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Speaker 2: to run. Oh, it's her first time here, it's her
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Speaker 2: first time here. It's my first time since I was
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Speaker 2: the bachelor. I'm walked into this building since I was
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Speaker 2: the bachelor.
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Speaker 3: And so for me, But I guess you spend so
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Speaker 3: much more time here as a contest number.
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Speaker 2: And like here's the two bathrooms we used. Yeah, and
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Speaker 2: like there's twenty of us, twenty five of us at
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Speaker 2: the beginning, like how wild would you is that? And
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Speaker 2: this is the shower doesn't have warm water, and.
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Speaker 3: You turn it on to the kirk of being at Nemoclin.
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Speaker 3: Nemo Colin was beautiful.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys all had your own rooms, two.
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Speaker 3: People per room, double sinks, a shower, a massive bathtub.
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Speaker 3: It was like the rooms were amazing, Like I was like,
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Speaker 3: this is luxury and it's finest. And then they were like,
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Speaker 3: you guys are lucky, like bachelor mansion, two bathrooms for everybody,
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Speaker 3: and you guys have double sinks for two people.
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Speaker 2: But it is like, so what you did miss is
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Speaker 2: when they're not filming is like okay, three hours still
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Speaker 2: rose ceremony or three hours so cocktail party, and then
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Speaker 2: you have like mag chaos in here of dudes trying
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Speaker 2: to shower, trying to get a nap.
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Speaker 4: In with girls.
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Speaker 2: Girls. It's three hours of like running around this place crazy,
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Speaker 2: like group showers, like somebody leave the shower running like
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Speaker 2: it's wild, but it's so fun. When you're like done
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Speaker 2: with it, you're like that was like that was a
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Speaker 2: bunch of twenty five to thirty year olds just being
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Speaker 2: like crazy children. Yea, for as many weeks as we're
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Speaker 2: here as.
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Speaker 4: A camp it's an adult camp.
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Speaker 2: But as bachelor. And we pulled up and I said this,
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Speaker 2: and I really didn't. I had this like weird ability
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Speaker 2: when I get nervous, I I just want to pee,
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Speaker 2: and so nervous I do so every day, Like every
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Speaker 2: day as I was the Bachelor and we were in
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Speaker 2: the mansion, we would stop in front of the gate
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Speaker 2: and the I would the producer to be like pause
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Speaker 2: the gate, and I would go and pee in the
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Speaker 2: bushes outside the gate before we got back in the
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Speaker 2: car and pulled back in, because I'd be nervous every
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Speaker 2: day of my life that I was here, because you
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Speaker 2: never really feel like you belong to be the Bachelor
10:52
Speaker 2: and you walk in through these front doors, you take
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Speaker 2: a right and all the girls are usually sitting there
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Speaker 2: and you're like, I'm back everyone. Yeah, I don't know
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Speaker 2: why here, but like so happy that you're still here
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Speaker 2: this morning. Who what's going to date?
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Speaker 1: And also just took a piss, yeah yeah, don't over there.
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Speaker 2: Actually, one of the prisons has pictures every time I
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Speaker 2: did so, he was like thirty pictures of me and
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Speaker 2: the bushes, just like standing there be like looking back
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Speaker 2: at them. Any stories, but like mostly bachelor's stories, just
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Speaker 2: really cool memories of like the dudes just being dudes
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Speaker 2: in this house. Some of the house is blocked off though,
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Speaker 2: so like the room we're sitting right now, I've never
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Speaker 2: been in before.
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Speaker 4: Okay, oh really.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, never been here, didn't even know it existed. So
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Speaker 2: a few questions. Uh, I know these are quick, one
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Speaker 2: hitter podcast, and so I want to get to some
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Speaker 2: stuff that I find very interesting. You guys are obviously married,
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Speaker 2: You're living in New York City. Just in case anybody
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Speaker 2: to know that, has there been anything that's felt different
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Speaker 2: since the two of you have gotten married?
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Speaker 4: No?
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Speaker 2: No, I think this is such a boring.
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Speaker 4: As question a lot.
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Speaker 3: And I think that if you don't live together before
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Speaker 3: you're married, then that would be the big difference, because
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Speaker 3: I know there are people that you know, want to
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Speaker 3: wait till marriage to live together. We lived together, We
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Speaker 3: got married at the courthouse, felt the same, felt got
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Speaker 3: married at a wedding, kind of felt the same. I mean,
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Speaker 3: there is that like aspect of like I don't know.
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Speaker 3: I will say, like there is an added layer. I
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Speaker 3: think after our second wedding that feels like it's there
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Speaker 3: of like we are in this for like the long haul.
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Speaker 2: I want to break up. We gotta get a divorced.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, we gotta get divorce.
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Speaker 3: It's so much more work, you know, So you're really
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Speaker 3: committed to this person, and.
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Speaker 1: When you get like when you get engaged on TV,
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Speaker 1: it's kind of like so heightened and so intense that
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Speaker 1: not that it like lessened being marriage, but I guess.
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Speaker 3: In my life felt more elated and on like this
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Speaker 3: crazy emotional high than the twenty four hours after our engagement.
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Speaker 3: I can never I will never supplicate that feeling ever,
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Speaker 3: It's just not possible.
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Speaker 4: It was so insane.
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Speaker 3: It was a crazy thing I've ever done my whole life,
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Speaker 3: was getting engaged after nineteen days like.
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Speaker 4: Nothing, and we were so in love. We still are.
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Speaker 4: We're more in love I would say now than we
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Speaker 4: were them.
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Speaker 2: But like if we're going backwards, but you know what
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Speaker 2: I mean, like.
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Speaker 4: It was the crazy I mean, you got engaged on.
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Speaker 5: TV, Like I don't have that experienced going backwards.
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Speaker 3: Will say, like getting married at the courthouse was also
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Speaker 3: a really crazy feeling because that was also quite spontaneous.
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Speaker 3: The wedding, there was so much build up to best
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Speaker 3: day of my life, but so much build up that like,
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Speaker 3: there it doesn't feel like there's like a shift in
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Speaker 3: our lives as much because there was so much preparation
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Speaker 3: going into it, if that makes sense.
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Speaker 2: Well, my wife and I were talking today because it's
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Speaker 2: like it's really weird to be going back to the mansion.
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Speaker 2: We were like out to lunch and super chill, and
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Speaker 2: I was like, the last time I was going to
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Speaker 2: the mansion, I was like panicking, Like I was like
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Speaker 2: pacing my room, be like what am I doing? This
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Speaker 2: is crazy? I don't belong here. I was like, it's
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Speaker 2: so weird to be going back to this place that
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Speaker 2: like the last time I was there is like not PTSD.
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Speaker 2: That sounds very traumatic, but just like I have really
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Speaker 2: like traumatic memories from the ones that still like haunt
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Speaker 2: me a little bit. And she was asking me all
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Speaker 2: these questions and I was telling her, I was like,
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Speaker 2: you know, I'm almost envious that I couldn't have made
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Speaker 2: a relationship work from this show because of that high
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Speaker 2: and because of the wildness and the weirdness of this
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Speaker 2: whole thing, but the fact that it brings really great
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Speaker 2: people together and we've seen great you get to share
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Speaker 2: it with somebody. You get to share it with somebody,
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Speaker 2: Like I still like That's the one thing I regret
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Speaker 2: is that my wife now was not on the season
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Speaker 2: of The Bachelor that I was, you know, but I
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Speaker 2: don't have those I have the elated like this was
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Speaker 2: crazy what did we do? But it like kind of
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Speaker 2: didn't get like exciting. It kind of went like, oh
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Speaker 2: what did we do? You know? But it is like
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Speaker 2: this isn't amazing like show when it works and you
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Speaker 2: guys have worked and so you got married, things don't
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Speaker 2: feel that much different, but you are still like progressing
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Speaker 2: in your relationship. Now flashback kind of change again. You
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Speaker 2: had Wells officiate your your wedding. I remember, Wells and
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Speaker 2: I hang out in golf all the time. He was
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Speaker 2: telling me, I.
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Speaker 4: Saw some good videos of you guys from Dean and
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Speaker 4: Kalin's wedding.
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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Wells and I have a good time together.
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Speaker 2: But he was so I mean, Wells is great. I
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Speaker 2: love him so much, but he he was really serious
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Speaker 2: about officiating your wedding. He took also them maybe two
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Speaker 2: weeks before, and he had already started taking notes and
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Speaker 2: I officiated some weddings for my cousins and stuff, and
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Speaker 2: he was asking me all these questions and he had
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Speaker 2: all these things in his head. So two questions there,
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Speaker 2: why did you choose him? And then like are you
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Speaker 2: happy you chose Wells? Yeah, so we.
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Speaker 1: I was just like, I don't know, it just came
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Speaker 1: to me. I'm like, you know, what would be amazing.
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Speaker 1: And this was like a year prior to our wedding.
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Speaker 3: This is probably like right before right after we got
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Speaker 3: married at the courthouse, because we were already planning our
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Speaker 3: wedding when we got married at the.
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Speaker 1: Court Yeah, I would say this is kind of when
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Speaker 1: we started. Yes, because he at when we got married
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Speaker 1: at the courthouse. He said, I never have been fired
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Speaker 1: so quickly.
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Speaker 3: So I must days before, yes, And we didn't tell
16:20
Speaker 3: him we were getting married at the court house.
16:22
Speaker 4: He's like, I'm so confused.
16:25
Speaker 1: And I consider Walls a good friend. And he's also
16:28
Speaker 1: like been a part like my show wasn't the Bachelor
16:32
Speaker 1: Bachelor at my show was Bachelor in Paradise, and he
16:34
Speaker 1: was He has been there and been there for me
16:36
Speaker 1: the entire time.
16:37
Speaker 3: Yeah, like if we were in Paradise and I wasn't
16:40
Speaker 3: with Joe like he was at the bar.
16:41
Speaker 2: Wow.
16:43
Speaker 1: So he was just such a like a big part
16:44
Speaker 1: of my journey and then ours, and I honestly I
16:48
Speaker 1: didn't even think he would say yes. I was like,
16:51
Speaker 1: he's probably like this is gonna be a pain in
16:52
Speaker 1: the ass. And I just texted him. I was just like, hey,
16:54
Speaker 1: wells you want to officiate what He's like, what, like
16:57
Speaker 1: are you serious? And honestly, like I I don't think
17:01
Speaker 1: he could have done a better job. And I couldn't
17:05
Speaker 1: be happier like he was. He was great and like
17:08
Speaker 1: everyone at our wedding was like this was so much
17:11
Speaker 1: fun and he yeah, he crushed it, like literally crushed it.
17:14
Speaker 4: Yeah. No, I like literally got emotional when he said yes.
17:17
Speaker 2: Because it was just the charge from now.
17:20
Speaker 4: Yeah.
17:21
Speaker 3: No, he's so talented and he's so amazing, and like
17:25
Speaker 3: he we are very relaxed people, like we were like, yeah,
17:28
Speaker 3: whatever you want to say, like say it like we
17:30
Speaker 3: don't care, like we are already married.
17:32
Speaker 4: We just want this to be fun and romantic.
17:34
Speaker 3: And he really was like no, like he didn't roll
17:38
Speaker 3: off that like nonchalant like attitude that we have. He
17:41
Speaker 3: was like, yeah, sure, whatever, like you don't care.
17:43
Speaker 2: I don't.
17:44
Speaker 3: He was like, he took it so seriously.
17:46
Speaker 2: And I got him. I got him too with Joe.
17:49
Speaker 4: He loved that Jack game because I said.
17:51
Speaker 1: In the beginning of my vows, I basically I was like,
17:55
Speaker 1: I remember walking down on the beach and seeing your
17:59
Speaker 1: Oh shit, the beginning of my vowels, I go, you know,
18:01
Speaker 1: I remember walking down on the beach, you know, and
18:04
Speaker 1: seeing your your your beautiful smile, you're curly here.
18:13
Speaker 2: Then, and I have seen.
18:14
Speaker 1: This and I said, and I said, Wells, I'm so.
18:17
Speaker 2: Happy you're here. Really, it didn't.
18:22
Speaker 1: It didn't register at first, and that you see him
18:25
Speaker 1: in the video like, oh that was good.
18:29
Speaker 2: It was.
18:29
Speaker 4: We said, like we've said it.
18:30
Speaker 3: A million times, like asking Wells to marry us was
18:34
Speaker 3: one of the best decisions we made and we were
18:36
Speaker 3: so lucky and people.
18:38
Speaker 4: He said yes, like it was awesome for sure.
18:40
Speaker 2: We had him on the podcast and he was talking
18:42
Speaker 2: about just the dynamics of your two families. Oh yeah.
18:46
Speaker 2: He was explaining every character within your families.
18:48
Speaker 3: And I and Sarah are such social butterflies.
18:52
Speaker 4: They like made their way around the room. They got
18:54
Speaker 4: to know so many people.
18:56
Speaker 2: It was great to do a thousand weddings in the
18:58
Speaker 2: last two years.
18:59
Speaker 4: They are wedding row.
19:00
Speaker 2: They're really good at it.
19:01
Speaker 4: They are really good at wedding.
19:02
Speaker 2: He got my parents.
19:03
Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, like, this is exactly what I thought question.
19:08
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's Big Joe, right, yeah, Big Joe. And then
19:13
Speaker 2: he was telling me that your family is so beautiful.
19:15
Speaker 2: He was like literally like this was when we're in
19:18
Speaker 2: Orlando for a golf termam, and he's like, her family
19:20
Speaker 2: is so like beautiful. Then you have Big Joe and
19:23
Speaker 2: all this and he was going through the list. It
19:25
Speaker 2: sounded awesome. Yeah, So what was the efficient two final
19:29
Speaker 2: questions for you? Kind of what's next? I mean, obviously
19:33
Speaker 2: you have the podcast going on again when you're living
19:35
Speaker 2: in New York City. Kind of what's coming up in
19:37
Speaker 2: your life that you're excited about or you know, if
19:40
Speaker 2: I answered that question right now, I'd say I'm just
19:42
Speaker 2: really content and it's really awesome being content.
19:44
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think we're just we're chilling. I mean, we
19:46
Speaker 1: got the podcast better Happy Hour. I'm gonna be on
19:49
Speaker 1: a new show coming out the Goat.
19:51
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right, chat about that a little bit. Yeah,
19:54
Speaker 2: that's well.
19:54
Speaker 1: I mean I can't say much.
19:55
Speaker 2: I just know it's get our podcast and because what
20:00
Speaker 2: can you say that.
20:01
Speaker 1: I was on a show called to Call and it's
20:03
Speaker 1: going to be coming out next year at some time,
20:05
Speaker 1: and watch it because I think it's gonna be very entertaining.
20:09
Speaker 3: Joe and I's lives are very intertwined because we live
20:11
Speaker 3: together in a very small apartment and we both work
20:13
Speaker 3: from that apartment. So having him gone filming a show
20:17
Speaker 3: without me, because last year we did was together was
20:21
Speaker 3: very bizarre, and I missed him a lot. Actually I
20:25
Speaker 3: was very sweet home. But I think that's good to
20:28
Speaker 3: miss each other a little bit. Sometimes, Yeah you don't.
20:30
Speaker 2: It's a problem, that's true. But travel spree Right now,
20:35
Speaker 2: I've been home so excited to get home, so.
20:37
Speaker 4: Tired getting home is.
20:39
Speaker 2: And my wife is like so excited for me to
20:41
Speaker 2: be home. You know what it feels like to be
20:43
Speaker 2: somebody that like you have another human being, like I
20:45
Speaker 2: just want you to be home. I'm like, goodness, I
20:47
Speaker 2: feel so good. Like there's just like a war. Have
20:50
Speaker 2: you been just Indiana la la weird?
20:56
Speaker 4: It's always busy in December in our world.
20:59
Speaker 2: Everybody pushed everything the end of the year, and it's.
21:02
Speaker 3: Like holiday parties, holiday events.
21:04
Speaker 2: I look at my wife like she's out there somewhere
21:06
Speaker 2: right now. I don't know what, but like I'm like,
21:08
Speaker 2: you're so pretty and you're so beautiful, and you also
21:10
Speaker 2: want me to be home with you. That's weird, Like
21:12
Speaker 2: you want to be hanging out, like you get sad
21:14
Speaker 2: on I'm not around. That feels really good.
21:16
Speaker 4: That's a good thing.
21:20
Speaker 2: Well, Joe and Srina again. Listen to Bachelor Happy Hour. Uh,
21:24
Speaker 2: it is everywhere you can listen to podcast. Watch Joe
21:28
Speaker 2: on the Goat coming up sometime next year sometime. He
21:31
Speaker 2: has so many things to say about the show. It's great.
21:34
Speaker 2: So many details that he doesn't know if he can share.
21:36
Speaker 2: So uh and seriously, the two of you are great.
21:39
Speaker 2: We're celebrating you. So good to sit down with you.
21:43
Speaker 2: We'll do it many more times over. You're a part
21:46
Speaker 2: of the iHeart Family. Yeah, yeah, we have. You're in
21:49
Speaker 2: the iHeart.
21:50
Speaker 4: Family officially iHeart family.
21:52
Speaker 2: This has been We have a lot of fun here,
21:55
Speaker 2: throwing parties.
21:56
Speaker 1: We're in the Bachelor mansion.
21:57
Speaker 2: It means that's all we do. Throw parties, a couple
22:00
Speaker 2: of times a year, and we get.
22:01
Speaker 4: Going to dinner on Saturday. Oh yeah, here, we we're
22:04
Speaker 4: all going to dinner on Saturday. Love I Heart.
22:06
Speaker 2: There's so many free drinks and free food in my future.
22:09
Speaker 2: It's gonna be awesome. Hey, until next time I've been Ben,
22:11
Speaker 2: We'll be talking to you soon.
22:13
Speaker 4: Bye.
22:14
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