Latest / Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast / 370: 5/1 Heretic/Investigator
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- 0:01Nicole Laino: Welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, the show dedicated
- 0:05to helping entrepreneurs use human design to shift from hustle to
- 0:09flow without sacrificing results.
- 0:11Come here to become an unshakeable human and build an unshakeable business
- 0:15according to your human design.
- 0:17I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
- 0:22Hello and welcome to Unshakeable With Human Design, everybody.
- 0:26I'm your host, Nicole Lano, and we are here continuing with our profile series,
- 0:31and we are moving on to the five one.
- 0:34Oh my goodness, it is a big episode.
- 0:37So why are we doing this?
- 0:38Honestly, I wanted to actually call this out.
- 0:40She been saying this the entire time through the series.
- 0:43But I'm gonna say it now, that even if I know a lot of people
- 0:46are gonna listen to their profile.
- 0:48So if you are a five one, you're gonna listen to this episode and you
- 0:53might not listen to the others, but you should at least listen to the
- 0:56ones that have to do with your line.
- 0:58So you can hear the difference between what's different about a five one
- 1:02versus a two five or a five two.
- 1:05That differentiation is how you start to understand what makes you special,
- 1:09and that is honestly what a lot of what human design is about, is to tell
- 1:13you how your process is different.
- 1:15How you being you is the greatest gift that you can give to this world that
- 1:19you were put here, made this way for a very specific and unique purpose.
- 1:24That purpose is laid out in your incarnation cross.
- 1:28It's in there, and it's something that as you operate as yourself, and it can only
- 1:33come out if you're operating as yourself, meaning if you are still conditioned
- 1:37or if you are still playing small in areas where you're meant to play big.
- 1:41If you're holding back some natural gifts that you have, then that purpose won't
- 1:46emerge in the way that it's meant to.
- 1:48So by living through your design is how you get to live that purpose.
- 1:53But you were made on purpose.
- 1:54You were made just like this.
- 1:56If you have a split definition, God didn't forget one of those gates by accident.
- 2:00It was intentional.
- 2:02You are meant to feel different things and have wisdom about
- 2:05other people, about other things.
- 2:08Nothing was left out.
- 2:09Nothing is missing.
- 2:10Nothing is too much.
- 2:12You are here to understand yourself and to be who you are, and that
- 2:17is the contribution that each of us is here to make in this world.
- 2:20You are here to make a very specific contribution.
- 2:24You can't do that if you're copying somebody else.
- 2:27If you're feeling like the way that you are is too much or you are not enough,
- 2:32you are meant to feel certain things and you are meant to put out certain things.
- 2:36And that's at the heart of what profile shows us is it shows us
- 2:40this is a key aspect that shows us how we are meant to show up and
- 2:45honestly what the world needs from us.
- 2:47The world needs something different from a five one than it does from a two four.
- 2:51The world needs something different from a six two than a one three.
- 2:54These are different people, even if they have lots of similarities in their chart.
- 2:59So we're gonna dive in further today.
- 3:01We're gonna go into the five one Heretic investigator.
- 3:05This is the first step into our transpersonal destinies,
- 3:09and it's the first time we're seeing the personality Five line.
- 3:13The five line in the front.
- 3:15In this episode, we're gonna talk about the projection field of the five.
- 3:18We're gonna talk about that a little bit differently than we did in the two
- 3:22five and the three five profiles that we already discussed in this series.
- 3:26I do suggest you listen to those episodes because it'll give you even
- 3:29more clarity on the differences in how these things show up, whether
- 3:34it's personality or unconscious.
- 3:36And whether you have it mixed with something different, do you have it
- 3:39mixed with a two or a one or a three?
- 3:42Okay, so this is how we start to understand things a little bit
- 3:46better, and we're gonna dive into the five in a lot of ways because
- 3:50we're dealing personality five now.
- 3:52This is the thing that's leading this particular profile.
- 3:55So we're gonna talk about what it really means to be a five one profile out in
- 3:59the world and what you are to others.
- 4:03How you find your purpose as a five one, that unique process
- 4:07that only a five one has.
- 4:09Before we start with this episode, I do wanna call out.
- 4:11We have a contest going on right now.
- 4:13If you love this show, if you love this series that we are putting on, if.
- 4:18This really spoke to you and helped you understand your profile.
- 4:22Share it on Instagram.
- 4:23Take a little screenshot right now.
- 4:24Share it on your Instagram stories.
- 4:26Say what you loved about it and tag me.
- 4:28I'm at Nicole Leno official.
- 4:30If you share and every time you share, you can share more than once.
- 4:33Throughout this series, you get an entry into winning a human
- 4:38design reading here on the show.
- 4:40You come on.
- 4:40You can have me read your chart for you or you can ask me questions,
- 4:44or we can do a combination of both.
- 4:46Christie Wild did this a while ago.
- 4:48She was our last winner the last time we ran this contest, and we kind of
- 4:51did a, a combination of the two and it was a really, really powerful, awesome
- 4:55session that she and I did together.
- 4:57So go check out that episode if you wanna hear what that was like.
- 5:00But all you have to do to win that is to share and tag me.
- 5:04That's your entry.
- 5:05And then we will announce the winners at the end of this series.
- 5:08So after this series wraps up in May, we will announce the winner and then you'll
- 5:12be sent a link to book your call and we get to dive into your design together.
- 5:15Super fun.
- 5:16The other announcement that I have is that we have a new course that
- 5:20is out, a new program that's out.
- 5:21It's called, called Content by Design.
- 5:22If you are loving this series of your loving profile and you wanna know
- 5:27how to blend profile and your type.
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- 5:38We even go into some overview about what Aura means and how that works.
- 5:41Really letting you know why human design has an effect on your business
- 5:45and how it can to both make you more productive and in flow around your
- 5:49content, and also magnetizing that audience that we want to attract.
- 5:53We also have workbooks and integration materials.
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- 6:00If you're interested in that, simply DM me the word content on Instagram.
- 6:05I'm at Nicole Leno official.
- 6:06We'll send you the details there or go to nicole leno.com/content and you can get
- 6:12the details right there on the website.
- 6:13All right, let's dive in to the five one profile.
- 6:17I've been waiting for this one, and I think you probably know why the five
- 6:20one is my profile and I love my profile.
- 6:23I love being a five one, and that is saying something because that is
- 6:27absolutely not how I started out.
- 6:30In fact, I hated being a five one when I first read about it.
- 6:33When I first started learning about it, I was like, anything but that one.
- 6:36Please don't let it be that one.
- 6:37Please.
- 6:38There's gotta be something wrong.
- 6:40I checked the time on my birth certificate a bunch of times.
- 6:43I was like, 11:00 AM is that really exact?
- 6:46Probably was a few minutes off thinking it would change something.
- 6:49It does not.
- 6:50I am right.
- 6:51Smack dab in the middle of the five one territory, no couple of minutes
- 6:55here or there, or even a swing of like 20 minutes changed anything.
- 6:59So I was like, okay, this is what I'm here for.
- 7:02Okay.
- 7:03And I wasn't looking for it to be different because I
- 7:06didn't see the truth in it.
- 7:07That was not where the inspiration came from.
- 7:10I just didn't like it.
- 7:11I just didn't feel it felt hard and it felt sad and it felt really
- 7:17confronting in so many ways.
- 7:20And isn't that interesting?
- 7:21When we're confronted with something like that, I think that that's one of the most
- 7:24powerful things about human design is that it is confronting that we do have to
- 7:29look at some things that are inconvenient, that are difficult, that challenge us
- 7:35to look at our process, to look at our life and possibly see it differently.
- 7:41Now, I know that what we're talking about with the five one,
- 7:45let me just talk a little bit more about my experience with it.
- 7:47So as a five one, when I. First started, like I said, I hated it.
- 7:52I was not happy about it.
- 7:54I saw the truth in it immediately, and something deep down in me
- 7:58said like, yeah, this is right.
- 7:59But it also sounded a bit like a death sentence, the way that I was reading
- 8:03it at that time, the way that I was listening to the information that was
- 8:06being delivered, the projection field, the transpersonal Karma, all of these
- 8:11things, practicality, people who are close to you, you can have influence on them.
- 8:16I heard a lot of things that sounded so definitive.
- 8:19It seemed like such closed doors, and I really don't look at like that anymore.
- 8:23That's not how I see it.
- 8:24But what it did do was allow me to look through my life and see
- 8:30things with greater clarity, the relationships that I've had,
- 8:34personal, professional, romantically.
- 8:37It allowed me to notice certain things.
- 8:41The projection field was huge.
- 8:43That was one of the things that I really didn't want to look at.
- 8:45I did not want to have.
- 8:47It was like, no, no, no.
- 8:47I don't want that.
- 8:48You could keep that.
- 8:49But when I looked at it, I was like, no, the projection field is very real, and
- 8:52it helped me understand my relationship with people and why things happen, maybe
- 8:55the way that they happen, why I have this kind of thing that happens with people
- 9:00and how I was dealing with it personally.
- 9:03That was actually hurting me and hurting me over and over and over again and
- 9:07making me feel like something was wrong with me, making me feel sad, making me
- 9:11not trust people, causing me to hide.
- 9:14And by working with my five one profile, I really credit that with my whole journey.
- 9:21I mean, obviously knowing I'm a manifesting generator, emotional
- 9:24authority, all of those things.
- 9:26Are at the core.
- 9:27And then I start adding the other bits of my design on there and I'm like, oh, I
- 9:31really get who I am and I get how to live in my potential instead of in my shadow.
- 9:36That's powerful.
- 9:38And I'm gonna credit the five one piece for me as being the number one thing.
- 9:42This is the number one thing that helped me really see, not just
- 9:47see what my potential is, but understand it so that I could work
- 9:50with it and actually every day work.
- 9:53And get closer to my potential and really see what I'm here for, what my purpose is.
- 9:59So let's talk about that.
- 10:00We are now out of the personal destinies.
- 10:03We are out of the juxtaposition destiny that won with the four one.
- 10:07We are now in the trans personal destiny, fives and sixes in the personality line.
- 10:135 1, 5 2 6, 2 6 3, trans personal destinies.
- 10:18These are very different purposes and different.
- 10:21Life plans than a personal destiny, and certainly different
- 10:26than the juxtaposition.
- 10:27Why?
- 10:28Because what we're talking about with transpersonal destiny
- 10:30is we're talking about karma.
- 10:32Now, I don't wanna get into good karma, bad karma.
- 10:34It doesn't mean that you have evil things that you did in past
- 10:38lives or anything like that.
- 10:39It's not about that.
- 10:40But it is about the fact that everybody has the ability to be a stranger of
- 10:45consequence in your life, and you have the ability to be a stranger of
- 10:49consequence in other people's lives.
- 10:51Our destiny when you're transpersonal, has to do with other people.
- 10:55Every person that we have contact with has some purpose in our life.
- 11:01We have karma with them and we are here to clean it up.
- 11:04Those personal destiny people, they're making the karma now.
- 11:07They're doing their thing focused on themselves.
- 11:10Really, really like, and I don't mean selfish in a bad way, but they
- 11:13are very focused on themselves.
- 11:14They're focused on what do I have to do?
- 11:16What do I have to learn, what do I have to accomplish?
- 11:19What's my thing?
- 11:20And we are over here being like, every person I have, like I have
- 11:25a relationship with energetically, there's something deeper going on.
- 11:30It isn't about just my process in this life.
- 11:33It is about my process in relation to other people.
- 11:35And in order for me to live out my purpose, I must
- 11:40interact with other people.
- 11:41I must look deeper at the relationships that I have, or
- 11:44I will miss the whole thing.
- 11:46So other people are essential to us living out our purpose as we were designed to be.
- 11:53Okay?
- 11:53So that's the difference between personal and trans personal destiny.
- 11:58We have relationship karma.
- 12:01So I look at it like every client I have my parents, my sister, my cousins, my
- 12:08friends, my grandparents, my kid parents.
- 12:12In the PTA, everybody I have contact with, there's something there.
- 12:17We have probably, we have some sort of energetic connection.
- 12:21Otherwise they wouldn't be in my life at all.
- 12:23And by looking at things that way.
- 12:25What this did for me, I think the big distinction for me was it helped
- 12:30me understand that, and this has to do with the projection field
- 12:34as well, because that's really what the projection field does.
- 12:37The projection field draws people into us.
- 12:40That's what the five line projection field is.
- 12:42People see us, they're kind of seduced by our mysterious nature because
- 12:47there is some sort of like thin veil over us where people are like, I get
- 12:51them, but I don't really get them.
- 12:52I wanna get closer.
- 12:53I wanna know more.
- 12:54But then they get close and they're like, oh, now I don't know if this is my person.
- 12:59It's a very weird thing that fives have to deal with, but what it allowed me to
- 13:04do once I got past all of how ugly that sounded and how difficult it sounded
- 13:10and how lonely it could make me feel, what I noticed was that it allowed me
- 13:15to see purpose in the relationships that I have and take responsibility
- 13:21without things being my fault.
- 13:24And let me talk a little bit about what that means.
- 13:26So clients, my relationship with my father, which was challenging.
- 13:32I can look at them with purpose, like they were literally making me who I
- 13:37needed to be, the projections that people threw on me, that could be very painful
- 13:41at times if I don't make them personal.
- 13:44But I do look at them with an open mind to say, okay, well what am I
- 13:49here to learn about this person?
- 13:50What am I here to learn about this type of interaction?
- 13:53What is this showing me about me and what I have to offer?
- 13:57What is this showing me about that person?
- 13:59Because really what we're here to do as fives is we are here to trigger people.
- 14:04We are a mirror.
- 14:05We show people what they need to see.
- 14:07The problem is, is that they come to us wanting something specific.
- 14:11They want something and they get something else.
- 14:14People have to be in it for that.
- 14:16They have to be in that game and they don't always know that they are.
- 14:19It's why if you hear me sell my services and you hear me talk
- 14:23about what I do for people, why the show is so important for me.
- 14:26I get very clear about what I can do for people and what I cannot to.
- 14:30Five is the savior.
- 14:32People will look to you.
- 14:33They will project onto you that you can save them.
- 14:36And in the beginning you will want to.
- 14:38Even now, sometimes I want to, but that's not it.
- 14:41That's codependence.
- 14:42You think you're saving them, but you really become the slave because it
- 14:45always feels like it'll never be enough.
- 14:47You're always fishing them out of water.
- 14:49What you have to do is you have to give people hard truths, help them rise.
- 14:55That's how you truly save them, is you help them save themselves, but not
- 14:59everybody will be in it for that game.
- 15:00Not everybody will want to really help themselves.
- 15:04They may make you the villain in their story because they thought
- 15:08that you would be something that you never said you would be.
- 15:11But there was this invisible lore that said, this is what this person
- 15:15is for me, this is what they'll do.
- 15:17And then they get close and then you give them the truth.
- 15:19I. And then they don't like it.
- 15:21So now you are to blame.
- 15:23If you take it personally, it is horrible.
- 15:26But if you can take it for what it is, if you can see it for what it is, and you
- 15:30can ask yourself, is there something here for me to learn from this relationship?
- 15:34What is it teaching me?
- 15:35Is there anything I do need to improve on?
- 15:37Because it doesn't make their experience or what they have to say invalid.
- 15:41And then you have to say, did I hold up my end of the bargain?
- 15:44Did I pull them in?
- 15:47And use it to only serve myself, and this is where the practicality comes in.
- 15:51This is why what we're dealing with here, we're dealing with that five
- 15:54line projection and we're dealing with that one on the unconscious side.
- 15:57The one on the unconscious side is the expert.
- 16:00You must develop an expertise.
- 16:02If you are a five one, it will be the thing that you stand on.
- 16:06Otherwise, you are just a heretic.
- 16:08And they will call you out and you will be wrong.
- 16:11When they make you the villain in their story.
- 16:14If you don't have something actual practically to add to their lives, if
- 16:19you haven't really dug out something that serves people, they will eat
- 16:24you alive and they won't be wrong.
- 16:27And that might be part of your journey, is that you have to go
- 16:29through that in order to find what it is that you practically offer.
- 16:34In order to go deeper, it might be the thing that challenges you
- 16:37to go deeper, but it's, like I said, it's not an easy journey.
- 16:40It is not easy.
- 16:41Five is here to have influence over strangers, more so than the
- 16:44people that they are very close to.
- 16:46Also can be difficult.
- 16:48People get close and once you are not of use anymore, they might be less close.
- 16:55Again, you have to recognize that that is our role here.
- 16:59We are a fixer.
- 17:01We are practical in nature.
- 17:03We get things done.
- 17:05Five is also known as the general, well, we don't need a
- 17:07general in peace time, do we?
- 17:09But we sure do value them when the war comes.
- 17:13So there's that in peace time, you might find that you have fewer friends,
- 17:17but when shit hits the fan, your phone might be ringing off the hook.
- 17:21This is something that if you take it personally, you think that people only
- 17:26care about me when they want something.
- 17:28When they need something raw, always said.
- 17:31'cause raw was a five one.
- 17:32He always said the five can feel like anytime someone is coming at them.
- 17:35It's just like, oh God, what do they want?
- 17:37And I can relate to that.
- 17:38There is that feeling 'cause that's what people want from, they want things
- 17:41from us and it can be exhausting, but it is what we're here for.
- 17:45Boundaries are really important.
- 17:47But again, if I hate that people come to me when they need something.
- 17:51If I hate being the villain in their story and I just get mad and take it personally.
- 17:56If I look at every person who has issue with me or challenges me, or is
- 18:03a difficult relationship or something that doesn't go totally according to
- 18:06plan, which by the way, most of them don't, if I'm doing that and I'm out
- 18:10of alignment with my profile, I'm not able to really step up to be the
- 18:13person I'm meant to be in their life.
- 18:15And if I'm not the person I'm meant to be in other people's lives,
- 18:18my purpose will not be fulfilled.
- 18:20And then I will always feel like there is potential in me that died.
- 18:27Before it was realized, and I think that that is one of the
- 18:29most painful things for any of us.
- 18:31I think that's why you're listening to this show right now is because
- 18:33you're like, I have potential.
- 18:35I can feel it.
- 18:36I want to live it.
- 18:37I know human design has something for me, but if you're looking at it from
- 18:40like, I'm gonna learn this new thing, and then the answer is gonna be the answer.
- 18:45No, that's probably not gonna work out for you.
- 18:47You've probably learned a lot and you've probably not applied a lot
- 18:51of it, and you're wondering what the next piece of information is
- 18:54that will make it all make sense.
- 18:56It isn't about it making sense, it's about you living it.
- 19:00Me knowing I have the projection field.
- 19:02Actually living, holding the projections and not taking them
- 19:06personally to very different things.
- 19:09My level of power and my ability to affect change in other people's
- 19:14lives comes directly from that.
- 19:16I have to be willing to take the shots.
- 19:19I have to be willing and able to stand there while the firing squad comes, and
- 19:24to still say the truth to that person, to still be able to reflect back to
- 19:29them what I see, that they cannot.
- 19:31Whether they choose to hear it is up to them that I have to hold that.
- 19:36That is my purpose and my unique purpose.
- 19:39What I reflect back to people is gonna be different than what
- 19:42you reflect back to people.
- 19:43It's different.
- 19:44My purpose is different.
- 19:45What I reflect back to people is what they need to let go of.
- 19:47What I reflect back to people is where they are holding themselves back.
- 19:51That happens to be my unique recipe.
- 19:53And more to it.
- 19:54But that's it in a nutshell.
- 19:55People come to me and that's why I always say to people like,
- 19:58who feel connected to my work?
- 20:01And they're like, I just feel like I need to work with you.
- 20:03And I tell them what I do and I tell them what I don't do, and I tell them
- 20:07how I work and I tell them what they get.
- 20:08Then I say, but usually if people feel like there's
- 20:11something here, there usually is.
- 20:14And what they get is normally different than what they came
- 20:17in thinking they would get.
- 20:19But if they do the work and they come in with an open heart,
- 20:21they leave forever change.
- 20:23And I can say that without ego.
- 20:25I say that because I'm willing to say the hard things and I'm also willing
- 20:29to be the bad guy for a little bit.
- 20:31Because I say everything with love and the people who work with me know that
- 20:34this is what it means to be a five one.
- 20:36So some famous five ones, I'll give you the list.
- 20:40There's lots of them because remember, influence over strangers.
- 20:43Lots of famous people, five ones, they've gotten really good at something,
- 20:47and then they have the ability to broadcast to a big audience, to
- 20:52a big, broad stranger's audience.
- 20:54And they can feel like these luminous figures because of that.
- 20:58So we have Taylor Swift and Frank.
- 21:00Most people never met her, sadly, but huge effect on the entire world.
- 21:04Paul McCartney, lady Gaga, Madonna, and we have political
- 21:08figures like Nelson Mandela.
- 21:09I. Queen Elizabeth ii, and we have some not so nice ones.
- 21:13Adolf Hitler, Vladimir Putin.
- 21:15Highly influential profile potential.
- 21:19Anyway, what we do with that potential, we can go very good,
- 21:23or we could go very, very bad.
- 21:24It's all about what you choose, because the five is about power.
- 21:27It knows that it holds a lot of power.
- 21:28It resonates with power, and people will listen.
- 21:31So with great power comes great responsibility.
- 21:33You can turn the herd as a five one.
- 21:36That is the potential.
- 21:37Where you turn them is your choice and your responsibility.
- 21:41So I hope you loved this.
- 21:42Hope you're loving the series.
- 21:43If you do enter the contest, take a little screenshot, send it into Instagram.
- 21:47Tag me.
- 21:47I'm at Nicole ano official, and if you would like to buy content by design
- 21:52and learn about blending your profile and your type with your content and
- 21:56with your business, all you have to do to get that is DM me the word
- 21:59content on Instagram, again at Nicole o Official, or go to nicole o.com/content
- 22:05and we will get it to you there.
- 22:06Thanks so much, and I hope you have a beautiful rest of your day.
- 22:09And remember, in order to have an unshakeable business, you must
- 22:11first become an unshakeable human.
- 22:13So thanks for letting us help you become unshakeable with human design, everybody.
- 22:16We'll see you next time.
- 22:18Nicole Laino: If you love this episode and you're a fan of the show,
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