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- 0:38Marriage,
- 0:38buying
- 0:39a
- 0:39home,
- 0:39starting
- 0:40a
- 0:40family,
- 0:41changing
- 0:41careers.
- 0:43These
- 0:43are
- 0:43all
- 0:43big
- 0:44life
- 0:44moments
- 0:44that
- 0:44should
- 0:44bring
- 0:45you
- 0:45joy.
- 0:46Yet
- 0:46instead,
- 0:47for
- 0:47so
- 0:47many
- 0:47of
- 0:48us,
- 0:48feel
- 0:49that
- 0:49knot
- 0:49in
- 0:49our
- 0:50stomach.
- 0:51You
- 0:51start
- 0:51to
- 0:51ask
- 0:52yourself
- 0:52this
- 0:52question,
- 0:52how
- 0:53am
- 0:53I
- 0:53going
- 0:53to
- 0:53pay
- 0:53for
- 0:53this?
- 0:55Or
- 0:55maybe
- 0:55this
- 0:55one.
- 0:55What
- 0:56if
- 0:56I
- 0:56make
- 0:56the
- 0:56wrong
- 0:56choice?
- 0:58Or
- 0:58maybe
- 0:59how
- 0:59about
- 0:59this
- 0:59question?
- 1:00What
- 1:01if
- 1:01I
- 1:01ruin
- 1:01my
- 1:01future?
- 1:03And
- 1:03I'm
- 1:03going
- 1:03to
- 1:03tell
- 1:03you
- 1:03right
- 1:04now,
- 1:04you're
- 1:04not
- 1:04alone
- 1:04in
- 1:05this.
- 1:05A
- 1:06recent
- 1:06study
- 1:06found
- 1:07that
- 1:0777%
- 1:08of
- 1:08Americans
- 1:09feel
- 1:09anxious
- 1:10when
- 1:11making
- 1:11financial
- 1:12decisions.
- 1:13And
- 1:13here's
- 1:14the
- 1:14truth.
- 1:15If
- 1:15you
- 1:15feel
- 1:16unprepared,
- 1:18you're
- 1:18in
- 1:18the
- 1:18majority.
- 1:20But
- 1:20what
- 1:20if
- 1:20I
- 1:20told
- 1:20you
- 1:21didn't
- 1:21have
- 1:21to
- 1:21face
- 1:21those
- 1:22moments
- 1:22with
- 1:22fear?
- 1:23What
- 1:24if
- 1:24I
- 1:24told
- 1:24you
- 1:24that
- 1:24with
- 1:24God's
- 1:25wisdom
- 1:25and
- 1:25a
- 1:25simple
- 1:26roadmap,
- 1:27you
- 1:27can
- 1:27move
- 1:27from
- 1:28panic
- 1:28to
- 1:28peace?
- 1:30Well,
- 1:30stick
- 1:30with
- 1:30me
- 1:30today
- 1:30because
- 1:31that's
- 1:31exactly
- 1:31what
- 1:31I'm
- 1:31going
- 1:31to
- 1:32do.
- 1:32I'm
- 1:32going
- 1:32to
- 1:32break
- 1:32that
- 1:32down
- 1:33on
- 1:33today's
- 1:33show.
- 1:35This
- 1:36is
- 1:36Financially
- 1:36Confident
- 1:37Christian,
- 1:38your
- 1:38daily
- 1:38dose
- 1:38of
- 1:39gospel,
- 1:39grounded
- 1:40insight
- 1:40and
- 1:40faith
- 1:41driven
- 1:41tips
- 1:41to
- 1:42help
- 1:42you
- 1:42break
- 1:42the
- 1:42cycle
- 1:43of
- 1:43financial
- 1:43shame
- 1:44with
- 1:44confidence.
- 1:47Hey
- 1:47there.
- 1:48Welcome
- 1:48back
- 1:48to
- 1:48Financially
- 1:49Confident
- 1:49Christian.
- 1:50I'm
- 1:50Ralph
- 1:51and
- 1:51thank
- 1:51you
- 1:51for
- 1:51joining
- 1:52me
- 1:52every
- 1:52day
- 1:52as
- 1:53I
- 1:53help
- 1:53you
- 1:53break
- 1:53down
- 1:54the
- 1:54financial
- 1:54shame
- 1:55and
- 1:55step
- 1:56into
- 1:56true
- 1:56confidence.
- 1:56And
- 1:57we're
- 1:57continuing
- 1:57in
- 1:57our
- 1:58series
- 1:58Breaking
- 1:59Financial
- 1:59Change.
- 2:00We're
- 2:00breaking
- 2:00free
- 2:01of
- 2:01those
- 2:01things
- 2:02that
- 2:02hold
- 2:02back
- 2:02so
- 2:02many
- 2:03people
- 2:03when
- 2:04it
- 2:04comes
- 2:04to
- 2:04their
- 2:04finances.
- 2:05Now
- 2:06yesterday
- 2:06we
- 2:06talked
- 2:06about
- 2:07why
- 2:07giving
- 2:07feels
- 2:08risky.
- 2:08I
- 2:09broke
- 2:09that
- 2:09down.
- 2:09If
- 2:09you
- 2:10missed
- 2:10yesterday's
- 2:10show,
- 2:11I'm
- 2:11going
- 2:11to
- 2:11encourage
- 2:11you
- 2:11to
- 2:11go
- 2:12check
- 2:12it
- 2:12out.
- 2:12You
- 2:12can
- 2:12do
- 2:12that
- 2:13at
- 2:13our
- 2:13website.
- 2:14That's
- 2:14financiallyconfidentchristian.com
- 2:16hey,
- 2:17all
- 2:17of
- 2:17our
- 2:17previous
- 2:17episodes
- 2:18are
- 2:18right
- 2:18there.
- 2:19But
- 2:19today
- 2:20we're
- 2:20going
- 2:20to
- 2:20talk
- 2:20about
- 2:20those
- 2:21big,
- 2:21big
- 2:21decisions
- 2:22in
- 2:22life
- 2:22and
- 2:23why
- 2:23we
- 2:23all
- 2:23feel
- 2:24so
- 2:24unprepared
- 2:24for
- 2:25those.
- 2:26Hey,
- 2:26listen,
- 2:26we've
- 2:27all
- 2:27gone
- 2:27through
- 2:27this,
- 2:27or
- 2:27maybe
- 2:28we're
- 2:28going
- 2:28to
- 2:28go
- 2:28through
- 2:28it.
- 2:29Marriage,
- 2:30buying
- 2:31a
- 2:31home,
- 2:32having
- 2:32that
- 2:32baby.
- 2:33Hey,
- 2:34maybe
- 2:34retirement's
- 2:35down
- 2:35the
- 2:35road
- 2:35a
- 2:35little
- 2:35bit,
- 2:36a
- 2:36job
- 2:37shift.
- 2:37Or
- 2:38maybe
- 2:38for
- 2:38you
- 2:38it's
- 2:38owning
- 2:39your
- 2:39own
- 2:39small
- 2:39business.
- 2:41Each
- 2:41of
- 2:41these
- 2:41has
- 2:42huge
- 2:42financial
- 2:43implications
- 2:44and
- 2:44many
- 2:45of
- 2:45us
- 2:45feel
- 2:45a
- 2:45ton
- 2:46of
- 2:46emotions.
- 2:46One
- 2:46of
- 2:47the
- 2:47ones
- 2:47that
- 2:47I
- 2:47hear
- 2:48too
- 2:48many
- 2:48times
- 2:49is
- 2:49you
- 2:49feel
- 2:50overwhelmed.
- 2:51You
- 2:51just
- 2:51feel
- 2:51like
- 2:51you've
- 2:52got
- 2:52all
- 2:52these
- 2:52choices
- 2:53to
- 2:53make.
- 2:54Another
- 2:54emotion
- 2:55is
- 2:55fear.
- 2:56So
- 2:56many
- 2:56of
- 2:56us
- 2:57fear
- 2:57we're
- 2:57going
- 2:57to
- 2:57make
- 2:57the
- 2:57wrong
- 2:58decision.
- 2:58We're
- 2:59going
- 2:59to
- 2:59make
- 2:59a
- 2:59decision
- 3:00that's
- 3:00going
- 3:00to
- 3:00impact
- 3:01us
- 3:01for
- 3:01the
- 3:01rest
- 3:01of
- 3:02our
- 3:02lives.
- 3:03And
- 3:03when
- 3:03we
- 3:04live
- 3:04in
- 3:04Those
- 3:04emotions,
- 3:05and
- 3:06this
- 3:06is
- 3:06true
- 3:06in
- 3:06my
- 3:06life,
- 3:07and
- 3:07it
- 3:07might
- 3:07be
- 3:07in
- 3:07your
- 3:07life
- 3:08as
- 3:08you're
- 3:08listening
- 3:08right
- 3:09now,
- 3:09it
- 3:10leads
- 3:10to
- 3:10procrastination.
- 3:12And
- 3:12so
- 3:12often
- 3:12with
- 3:13procrastination,
- 3:14we
- 3:14miss
- 3:14opportunities
- 3:15to
- 3:15really
- 3:16thrive
- 3:16and
- 3:17to
- 3:17really
- 3:17grow
- 3:18both
- 3:18emotionally,
- 3:19spiritually
- 3:19and
- 3:20financially
- 3:20sometimes.
- 3:22Or
- 3:22we
- 3:22go
- 3:22to
- 3:22the
- 3:22other
- 3:22extreme.
- 3:23And
- 3:23I've
- 3:23been
- 3:23guilty
- 3:24of
- 3:24this
- 3:24one
- 3:24myself.
- 3:25My
- 3:25wife
- 3:25will
- 3:25tell
- 3:25you
- 3:25I'm
- 3:26mighty
- 3:26impulsive,
- 3:27but
- 3:27that
- 3:27impulsivity
- 3:29and
- 3:29it
- 3:29can
- 3:29lead
- 3:30to
- 3:30costly
- 3:30mistakes.
- 3:32I
- 3:32read
- 3:32this
- 3:32stat
- 3:32from
- 3:33CNBC.
- 3:33It
- 3:34says
- 3:3457%
- 3:35of
- 3:35engaged
- 3:35couples
- 3:36report
- 3:36money
- 3:37is
- 3:37their
- 3:37biggest
- 3:38source
- 3:38of
- 3:38stress.
- 3:39It's
- 3:40the
- 3:40truth.
- 3:40I've
- 3:40been
- 3:40working
- 3:40with
- 3:41couples
- 3:41for
- 3:4130
- 3:42years
- 3:42in
- 3:42my
- 3:42practice
- 3:43and
- 3:43I'm
- 3:43going
- 3:43to
- 3:44tell
- 3:44you
- 3:44right
- 3:44now,
- 3:45financial
- 3:46issues
- 3:47do
- 3:47cause
- 3:47so
- 3:48many
- 3:48stress
- 3:48points.
- 3:49They
- 3:49cause
- 3:49divorce,
- 3:50they
- 3:50cause
- 3:50breakups.
- 3:51And
- 3:52it's
- 3:52really
- 3:52a
- 3:52tough
- 3:52time.
- 3:53And
- 3:53for
- 3:54so
- 3:54many
- 3:54people,
- 3:55imagine
- 3:55the
- 3:55sleepless
- 3:56nights,
- 3:57those
- 3:57arguments
- 3:58with
- 3:58your
- 3:58spouse.
- 3:59For
- 4:00so
- 4:00many
- 4:00of
- 4:00us,
- 4:00we
- 4:00just
- 4:01second
- 4:01guessing
- 4:01every
- 4:02one
- 4:02of
- 4:02our
- 4:02decisions.
- 4:04But
- 4:04here's
- 4:04the
- 4:04thing,
- 4:05and
- 4:05I
- 4:05want
- 4:05you
- 4:05to
- 4:05hear
- 4:05this
- 4:06loud
- 4:06and
- 4:06clear.
- 4:06There
- 4:06is
- 4:06a
- 4:07strong
- 4:07faith
- 4:07connection
- 4:08to
- 4:08this.
- 4:09Now,
- 4:09modern
- 4:10culture
- 4:10says,
- 4:10hey,
- 4:10figure
- 4:11it
- 4:11out
- 4:11later,
- 4:11just
- 4:12follow
- 4:12your
- 4:12gut.
- 4:13We
- 4:13live
- 4:13in
- 4:13this
- 4:13time
- 4:14right
- 4:14now
- 4:14where
- 4:15culture
- 4:15tells
- 4:15us,
- 4:15just
- 4:15go
- 4:16with
- 4:16your
- 4:16gut,
- 4:16Ralph.
- 4:16You
- 4:16can
- 4:17make
- 4:17all
- 4:17the
- 4:17best
- 4:17decisions.
- 4:19But
- 4:19that's
- 4:19not
- 4:19biblical.
- 4:20God
- 4:21says
- 4:21something
- 4:22completely
- 4:22different.
- 4:23God
- 4:23tells
- 4:24us
- 4:24to
- 4:24prepare,
- 4:25God
- 4:26tells
- 4:26us
- 4:26to
- 4:26plan,
- 4:27and
- 4:28God
- 4:28tells
- 4:28us
- 4:28to
- 4:29seek
- 4:29wise
- 4:29counsel.
- 4:30Let's
- 4:30get
- 4:30right
- 4:30into
- 4:30the
- 4:31Good
- 4:31Book
- 4:31to
- 4:32talk
- 4:32about
- 4:32where
- 4:32God
- 4:33is
- 4:33trying
- 4:33to
- 4:33take
- 4:33us.
- 4:34As
- 4:34we
- 4:34think
- 4:35about
- 4:35pondering
- 4:35these
- 4:35big
- 4:36decisions,
- 4:37let's
- 4:37get
- 4:37right
- 4:38to
- 4:38the
- 4:38first
- 4:38verse,
- 4:39and
- 4:39that's
- 4:39Proverbs
- 4:40chapter
- 4:4022,
- 4:41verse
- 4:413.
- 4:42And
- 4:42I've
- 4:42used
- 4:42this
- 4:42on
- 4:42the
- 4:43show
- 4:43many
- 4:43times,
- 4:43but
- 4:44it
- 4:44nails
- 4:44exactly
- 4:45what
- 4:45we're
- 4:45talking
- 4:45about.
- 4:46Again,
- 4:47Proverbs
- 4:4722:3,
- 4:49the
- 4:49prudence,
- 4:49see
- 4:50danger
- 4:50and
- 4:50take
- 4:50refuge,
- 4:52but
- 4:52the
- 4:52simple,
- 4:52keep
- 4:53going
- 4:53and
- 4:53suffer
- 4:54for
- 4:54it.
- 4:55What
- 4:55is
- 4:55this
- 4:56really
- 4:56telling
- 4:56us?
- 4:57This
- 4:57is
- 4:57really
- 4:58telling
- 4:58us
- 4:58that
- 4:58preparation,
- 4:59being
- 5:00prepared,
- 5:01putting
- 5:01a
- 5:01plan
- 5:02together
- 5:03is
- 5:03biblical
- 5:04wisdom.
- 5:04We
- 5:05want
- 5:05to
- 5:05learn
- 5:05from
- 5:05that.
- 5:05Let's
- 5:06look
- 5:06at
- 5:06the
- 5:06next
- 5:06verse
- 5:07and
- 5:07That's
- 5:07Luke,
- 5:07chapter
- 5:0814,
- 5:08verses
- 5:0928
- 5:10to
- 5:1030.
- 5:10Now
- 5:10what
- 5:10we're
- 5:11talking
- 5:11about
- 5:11here
- 5:11is
- 5:12Jesus
- 5:12making
- 5:13a
- 5:13parable
- 5:13about
- 5:14someone
- 5:14building
- 5:14a
- 5:15tower.
- 5:15Again,
- 5:16this
- 5:16is
- 5:16Luke
- 5:1614,
- 5:1728,
- 5:1830.
- 5:19Won't
- 5:19you
- 5:19first
- 5:19sit
- 5:20down
- 5:20and
- 5:20estimate
- 5:21the
- 5:21cost
- 5:22to
- 5:22see
- 5:22if
- 5:22you
- 5:22have
- 5:22enough
- 5:23money
- 5:23to
- 5:23complete
- 5:24it?
- 5:24And
- 5:25you
- 5:25think
- 5:25about
- 5:25this.
- 5:26Even
- 5:27Jesus
- 5:27himself
- 5:28said,
- 5:29wait
- 5:29a
- 5:29second.
- 5:30Measure
- 5:31twice,
- 5:31cut
- 5:32once,
- 5:33estimate
- 5:33what
- 5:34these
- 5:34things
- 5:34are
- 5:34going
- 5:34to
- 5:35cost.
- 5:35And
- 5:36the
- 5:36final
- 5:36Bible
- 5:36verse
- 5:37for
- 5:37today
- 5:37comes
- 5:37Back
- 5:38to
- 5:38us
- 5:38from
- 5:38the
- 5:38book
- 5:38of
- 5:39Proverbs.
- 5:39This
- 5:40is
- 5:40from
- 5:40Proverbs.
- 5:41Chapter
- 5:4115,
- 5:42verse
- 5:4222
- 5:43says
- 5:44this
- 5:45plans
- 5:45fail
- 5:45for
- 5:46the
- 5:46lack
- 5:46of
- 5:46counsel,
- 5:47but
- 5:47with
- 5:48many
- 5:48advisors,
- 5:49they
- 5:49succeed.
- 5:50It's
- 5:51kind
- 5:51of
- 5:51the
- 5:51trifecta
- 5:52of
- 5:52what
- 5:52we're
- 5:52talking
- 5:52about
- 5:52today.
- 5:53Plan,
- 5:54estimate,
- 5:55and
- 5:56find
- 5:56wisely
- 5:57good
- 5:58counsel.
- 5:58I
- 5:59found
- 5:59this
- 5:59from
- 5:59barn
- 6:00of
- 6:00research.
- 6:00I
- 6:01found
- 6:01this
- 6:01very
- 6:01fascinating.
- 6:02About
- 6:02now
- 6:02we're
- 6:03talking
- 6:03specifically
- 6:03about
- 6:03Christians.
- 6:04Again,
- 6:04this
- 6:04is
- 6:04barn
- 6:05of
- 6:05research.
- 6:06Only
- 6:0629%
- 6:07of
- 6:08practicing
- 6:08Christians
- 6:09say
- 6:09they
- 6:10regularly
- 6:10seek
- 6:11biblical
- 6:11wisdom
- 6:12before
- 6:12making
- 6:12financial
- 6:13decisions.
- 6:15And
- 6:15I
- 6:15was
- 6:15really
- 6:15upset
- 6:16by
- 6:16that.
- 6:17We
- 6:17live
- 6:17a
- 6:18Christian
- 6:18faith
- 6:19that
- 6:19is
- 6:20all
- 6:20about
- 6:20relying
- 6:21on
- 6:21God.
- 6:22And
- 6:22this
- 6:22statistic
- 6:23really
- 6:23bothered
- 6:23me
- 6:24because
- 6:24only
- 6:2429%
- 6:25of
- 6:25practicing
- 6:25Christians
- 6:26said
- 6:26that
- 6:27they
- 6:27seek
- 6:27biblical
- 6:28wisdom
- 6:28before
- 6:29making
- 6:29financial
- 6:30decisions.
- 6:31It's
- 6:31one
- 6:31of
- 6:31the
- 6:31reasons
- 6:31I
- 6:32started
- 6:32the
- 6:32show.
- 6:33I'm
- 6:33trying
- 6:33to
- 6:33bridge
- 6:34that
- 6:34gap
- 6:34between
- 6:34faith
- 6:35and
- 6:35finances.
- 6:36And
- 6:36I
- 6:36want
- 6:36to
- 6:37show
- 6:37you
- 6:37each
- 6:37and
- 6:37every
- 6:38day
- 6:38how
- 6:38those
- 6:39things
- 6:39are
- 6:40so
- 6:40interconnected.
- 6:42And
- 6:42if
- 6:42you
- 6:42think
- 6:42about
- 6:43it
- 6:43in
- 6:44the
- 6:44decision
- 6:44points
- 6:45of
- 6:45this,
- 6:46think
- 6:46about
- 6:46a
- 6:46couple
- 6:47that's
- 6:47rushing
- 6:47in
- 6:47to
- 6:47buy
- 6:48their
- 6:48first
- 6:48house.
- 6:49They
- 6:49haven't
- 6:49planned.
- 6:50They
- 6:50just
- 6:50said,
- 6:50everybody's
- 6:51got
- 6:51a
- 6:51house,
- 6:51I
- 6:51got
- 6:51to
- 6:51go
- 6:52get
- 6:52one.
- 6:52They
- 6:53haven't
- 6:53sought
- 6:54wise
- 6:54counsel.
- 6:55And
- 6:55what
- 6:56do
- 6:56they
- 6:56do?
- 6:56They
- 6:56buy
- 6:57this
- 6:57house
- 6:57and
- 6:58it
- 6:58causes
- 6:58such
- 6:59financial
- 6:59strain.
- 7:00I've
- 7:00seen
- 7:00that
- 7:00destroy
- 7:01marriages.
- 7:02I've
- 7:02seen
- 7:02it
- 7:02destroy
- 7:03families.
- 7:04But
- 7:04on
- 7:05the
- 7:05other
- 7:05hand,
- 7:06if
- 7:06we
- 7:06seek
- 7:07counsel
- 7:07first,
- 7:09we
- 7:09can
- 7:09find
- 7:09peace
- 7:10and
- 7:10we
- 7:11can
- 7:11find
- 7:11stability
- 7:12and
- 7:12make
- 7:12much
- 7:13better
- 7:13decisions.
- 7:14So
- 7:15the
- 7:15key
- 7:15question
- 7:15for
- 7:15today
- 7:16is
- 7:17how
- 7:17can
- 7:17I
- 7:17move
- 7:17from
- 7:18being
- 7:18unprepared
- 7:19to
- 7:19confident?
- 7:20And
- 7:20I'm
- 7:21going
- 7:21to
- 7:21give
- 7:21you
- 7:21just
- 7:21one
- 7:21step
- 7:22today
- 7:22that's
- 7:22going
- 7:23to
- 7:23shift
- 7:23you
- 7:23from
- 7:23fear
- 7:24to
- 7:24clarity.
- 7:25And
- 7:25I
- 7:25love
- 7:26what
- 7:26Dave
- 7:26Ramsey
- 7:26said.
- 7:27I
- 7:27don't
- 7:27often
- 7:27quote
- 7:27Dave
- 7:28Ramsey
- 7:28on
- 7:28this
- 7:28show.
- 7:29Him
- 7:29and
- 7:29I
- 7:29have
- 7:29a
- 7:29little
- 7:30different
- 7:30opinion
- 7:30about
- 7:30stuff.
- 7:31But
- 7:31what
- 7:31he
- 7:31said
- 7:31here
- 7:31was
- 7:32perfect.
- 7:32Right
- 7:32on
- 7:32point
- 7:33again,
- 7:33this
- 7:33is
- 7:33from
- 7:33Dave
- 7:34Ramsey.
- 7:35You
- 7:35can
- 7:35wander
- 7:36into
- 7:36debt,
- 7:37but
- 7:37you
- 7:37can't
- 7:37wander
- 7:38out.
- 7:39Big
- 7:39financial
- 7:40decisions
- 7:40require
- 7:41a
- 7:41plan
- 7:41on
- 7:42paper,
- 7:42on
- 7:42purpose.
- 7:44And
- 7:44that's
- 7:44really
- 7:44what
- 7:44I
- 7:44think
- 7:45encapsulates
- 7:45what
- 7:46I'm
- 7:46talking
- 7:46about
- 7:46today.
- 7:46So
- 7:47here's
- 7:47your
- 7:47action
- 7:47step
- 7:48today
- 7:48to
- 7:49really
- 7:49get
- 7:49in
- 7:50better
- 7:50ways
- 7:51of
- 7:51making
- 7:51those
- 7:51big
- 7:52financial
- 7:52decisions.
- 7:52There's
- 7:53four
- 7:53steps
- 7:53to
- 7:53this.
- 7:54The
- 7:54first
- 7:54one
- 7:55I
- 7:55want
- 7:55you
- 7:55to
- 7:55do
- 7:56is
- 7:56just
- 7:56identify
- 7:57one
- 7:57decision
- 7:58you're
- 7:58facing
- 7:59right
- 7:59now.
- 8:00Just
- 8:00start
- 8:00off
- 8:00with
- 8:01here's
- 8:01my
- 8:01decision
- 8:02point.
- 8:02Maybe
- 8:02you're
- 8:02thinking
- 8:02about
- 8:03buying
- 8:03a
- 8:03home.
- 8:04Maybe
- 8:04you're
- 8:04thinking
- 8:04about
- 8:04trading
- 8:05in
- 8:05that
- 8:05car
- 8:05and
- 8:05buying
- 8:06a
- 8:06new
- 8:06car.
- 8:06Whatever
- 8:07that
- 8:07is,
- 8:07write
- 8:08it
- 8:08down.
- 8:08That's
- 8:09Step
- 8:09one,
- 8:10the
- 8:10second
- 8:10step,
- 8:11I
- 8:11want
- 8:11you
- 8:11to
- 8:11break
- 8:12that
- 8:12into
- 8:12one
- 8:12or
- 8:13two
- 8:13questions.
- 8:14For
- 8:14example,
- 8:15child
- 8:16care
- 8:16costs.
- 8:16Let's
- 8:16say
- 8:16you're
- 8:17thinking
- 8:17about
- 8:17having
- 8:17a
- 8:18baby.
- 8:18Well,
- 8:18one
- 8:19of
- 8:19the
- 8:19things
- 8:19you
- 8:19might
- 8:19want
- 8:19to
- 8:20think
- 8:20about
- 8:20if
- 8:20you're
- 8:20a
- 8:21two
- 8:21income
- 8:22wage
- 8:22earner
- 8:22family,
- 8:23you're
- 8:23going
- 8:23to
- 8:24have
- 8:24child
- 8:24care
- 8:24costs.
- 8:25So
- 8:25that's
- 8:25a
- 8:25question
- 8:26you
- 8:26can
- 8:26write
- 8:26down.
- 8:27Another
- 8:28question
- 8:28here's
- 8:28if
- 8:28you
- 8:28think
- 8:29about
- 8:29buying
- 8:29a
- 8:29new
- 8:29home,
- 8:30how
- 8:30much
- 8:30are
- 8:31you
- 8:31going
- 8:31to
- 8:31need
- 8:31for
- 8:31a
- 8:31down
- 8:31payment?
- 8:32How
- 8:33much
- 8:33you're
- 8:33going
- 8:33to
- 8:33need
- 8:33to
- 8:33have
- 8:34set
- 8:34aside
- 8:34for
- 8:34those
- 8:34repairs
- 8:35or
- 8:35those
- 8:35things
- 8:36that
- 8:36you
- 8:36aren't
- 8:36expecting?
- 8:37And
- 8:37maybe
- 8:38you're
- 8:38thinking
- 8:38about
- 8:38training
- 8:39jobs
- 8:39and
- 8:40going
- 8:40after
- 8:40a
- 8:40new
- 8:41position.
- 8:42One
- 8:42of
- 8:42the
- 8:42questions
- 8:42you
- 8:42might
- 8:43need
- 8:43to
- 8:43write
- 8:43down
- 8:43is
- 8:44are
- 8:44there
- 8:44going
- 8:44to
- 8:44be
- 8:45training
- 8:45costs?
- 8:46Am
- 8:46I
- 8:46going
- 8:46to
- 8:46go
- 8:47back
- 8:47to
- 8:47school
- 8:47and
- 8:48learn
- 8:48new
- 8:48steps?
- 8:48So
- 8:49that's
- 8:49the
- 8:49second
- 8:49step.
- 8:50Break
- 8:50it
- 8:50down
- 8:51into
- 8:51one
- 8:51or
- 8:51two
- 8:52questions.
- 8:53Third
- 8:53step
- 8:53and
- 8:54this
- 8:54is
- 8:54the
- 8:54hard
- 8:54part.
- 8:55Research
- 8:56just
- 8:56one
- 8:57fact.
- 8:58Just
- 8:58take
- 8:5815
- 8:59or
- 8:5920
- 8:59minutes
- 8:59today.
- 9:00Go
- 9:00to
- 9:00a
- 9:01reliable
- 9:01source,
- 9:02maybe
- 9:02an
- 9:02advisor,
- 9:03or
- 9:03go
- 9:03somewhere
- 9:04and
- 9:04research
- 9:05facts
- 9:06about
- 9:06that
- 9:06question
- 9:07you're
- 9:07talking
- 9:07about.
- 9:08Do
- 9:08a
- 9:08Google
- 9:08search.
- 9:09Use
- 9:09some
- 9:09AI
- 9:10tools.
- 9:10But
- 9:11bigger
- 9:11than
- 9:11those
- 9:11things,
- 9:12ask
- 9:13some
- 9:13people
- 9:13around
- 9:14you
- 9:14who
- 9:14have
- 9:14been
- 9:15down
- 9:15that
- 9:15road,
- 9:16hey,
- 9:16go
- 9:16listen
- 9:17to
- 9:17my
- 9:17back
- 9:17catalog.
- 9:17You
- 9:18can
- 9:18find
- 9:18all
- 9:18those
- 9:19at
- 9:19Financially
- 9:20Confident
- 9:20Christian.
- 9:21I'd
- 9:21be
- 9:21willing
- 9:21to
- 9:21bet
- 9:21we've
- 9:22covered
- 9:22most
- 9:22of
- 9:23the
- 9:23major
- 9:23financial
- 9:24decisions.
- 9:24But
- 9:25it
- 9:25all
- 9:25starts
- 9:26with
- 9:26researching
- 9:27that
- 9:27and
- 9:27then
- 9:27making
- 9:28an
- 9:28informed
- 9:28decision.
- 9:30And
- 9:30then
- 9:30the
- 9:30next
- 9:30step.
- 9:31And
- 9:31the
- 9:31final
- 9:31step
- 9:32is
- 9:32schedule
- 9:33your
- 9:33next
- 9:33prep.
- 9:34And
- 9:35what
- 9:35I'm
- 9:35talking
- 9:35about
- 9:35there
- 9:36is
- 9:36thinking
- 9:36about
- 9:37how
- 9:37you're
- 9:37going
- 9:38to
- 9:38build
- 9:38this
- 9:38together.
- 9:39If
- 9:39you're
- 9:39with
- 9:39a
- 9:39couple,
- 9:40sit
- 9:40down
- 9:40and
- 9:41talk
- 9:41about
- 9:41what
- 9:41this
- 9:42decision
- 9:42is
- 9:42going
- 9:42to
- 9:43be.
- 9:43Maybe
- 9:44you're
- 9:44by
- 9:44yourself
- 9:44and
- 9:44you
- 9:45want
- 9:45to
- 9:45work
- 9:45with
- 9:45a
- 9:45mentor.
- 9:46Well,
- 9:46go
- 9:46plan
- 9:46that
- 9:47mentor
- 9:47meeting
- 9:48or
- 9:48it's
- 9:48an
- 9:48advisor
- 9:49you
- 9:49want
- 9:49to
- 9:49meet
- 9:49with.
- 9:50Surround
- 9:51yourself
- 9:51with
- 9:52good
- 9:52people.
- 9:53Don't
- 9:53make
- 9:53an
- 9:53impulsive
- 9:54decision.
- 9:55And
- 9:55when
- 9:55you
- 9:56do
- 9:56these
- 9:56things,
- 9:56and
- 9:56I
- 9:57truly
- 9:57believe
- 9:57this,
- 9:58when
- 9:58you
- 9:58really
- 9:59do
- 9:59these
- 9:59things,
- 10:00you're
- 10:00going
- 10:00to
- 10:00reduce
- 10:01your
- 10:01overwhelm
- 10:02because
- 10:02you're
- 10:02going
- 10:03to
- 10:03break
- 10:03these
- 10:03things
- 10:03into
- 10:04bite
- 10:04sized,
- 10:05small,
- 10:05manageable
- 10:05pieces.
- 10:06You're
- 10:07going
- 10:07to
- 10:07build
- 10:07your
- 10:07knowledge,
- 10:08which
- 10:08is
- 10:08a
- 10:08great
- 10:08thing.
- 10:08We
- 10:09all
- 10:09can
- 10:09use
- 10:09more
- 10:09knowledge.
- 10:10It's
- 10:11going
- 10:11to
- 10:11help
- 10:11you
- 10:11grow
- 10:11your
- 10:12confidence.
- 10:13Guess
- 10:13what?
- 10:13In
- 10:13the
- 10:14end,
- 10:14it
- 10:15aligns
- 10:15with
- 10:16God's
- 10:16plan.
- 10:17God
- 10:17wants
- 10:17us
- 10:18to
- 10:18be
- 10:18thoughtful.
- 10:19God
- 10:19wants
- 10:20us
- 10:20to
- 10:20make
- 10:20diligent
- 10:21plans
- 10:21so
- 10:21that
- 10:21we
- 10:22can
- 10:22be
- 10:22wise.
- 10:23How
- 10:23about
- 10:23we
- 10:23pray
- 10:24together
- 10:24now?
- 10:25Father
- 10:25God,
- 10:25thank
- 10:26you
- 10:26for
- 10:26guiding
- 10:27us
- 10:27through
- 10:27life's
- 10:27biggest
- 10:28moments.
- 10:29And
- 10:29Lord,
- 10:29we
- 10:29confess
- 10:30that
- 10:30these
- 10:30financial
- 10:30crossroads
- 10:31often
- 10:31leave
- 10:32us
- 10:32afraid
- 10:32and
- 10:33they
- 10:33leave
- 10:33us
- 10:33unprepared
- 10:34and
- 10:34we
- 10:34feel
- 10:35overwhelmed.
- 10:36We
- 10:36just
- 10:37ask
- 10:37that
- 10:37you
- 10:37would
- 10:37give
- 10:37us
- 10:38wisdom
- 10:38to
- 10:38slow
- 10:38down,
- 10:39Lord,
- 10:40the
- 10:40courage
- 10:40to
- 10:41seek
- 10:41wise,
- 10:41Godly
- 10:42counsel.
- 10:43And
- 10:43most
- 10:43of
- 10:43all,
- 10:44Lord,
- 10:44the
- 10:44faith
- 10:44to
- 10:45trust
- 10:45you
- 10:45above
- 10:46all
- 10:46of
- 10:46our
- 10:46fears.
- 10:47Help
- 10:48us
- 10:48take
- 10:48even
- 10:48one
- 10:49small
- 10:49step
- 10:49today
- 10:50towards
- 10:50peace,
- 10:51Lord.
- 10:51Take
- 10:51us
- 10:52one
- 10:52small
- 10:52step
- 10:53towards
- 10:53clarity
- 10:54and
- 10:54one
- 10:54small
- 10:55step
- 10:55towards
- 10:55confidence
- 10:56in
- 10:56your
- 10:56will,
- 10:56Lord.
- 10:57And
- 10:57we
- 10:57ask
- 10:57this
- 10:57in
- 10:58true
- 10:58confidence
- 10:59in
- 10:59the
- 10:59name
- 10:59of
- 10:59Jesus.
- 11:01Amen.
- 11:02Preparation
- 11:03reduces
- 11:04stress
- 11:04and
- 11:05it
- 11:05builds
- 11:05peace.
- 11:07So
- 11:07I'm
- 11:07going
- 11:07to
- 11:07challenge
- 11:07you
- 11:08one
- 11:08more
- 11:08time
- 11:08today.
- 11:08Research
- 11:09just
- 11:09one
- 11:09fact
- 11:10today
- 11:10for
- 11:11your
- 11:11next
- 11:11big
- 11:11decision
- 11:13and
- 11:13stop
- 11:14fearing
- 11:14those
- 11:14things.
- 11:15Because
- 11:15when
- 11:15you
- 11:16do
- 11:16this,
- 11:16fear
- 11:17loses
- 11:17its
- 11:17grip
- 11:18when
- 11:18you
- 11:18face
- 11:18it
- 11:19with
- 11:19God's
- 11:19wisdom.
- 11:20And
- 11:21I
- 11:21thought
- 11:21this
- 11:21was
- 11:21great.
- 11:22This
- 11:22is
- 11:22from
- 11:22Howard
- 11:23Dayton
- 11:23from
- 11:23Compass
- 11:24Ministries.
- 11:24It
- 11:25says
- 11:25when
- 11:25we
- 11:25leave
- 11:25God
- 11:26out
- 11:26of
- 11:26our
- 11:26financial
- 11:27decisions,
- 11:28fear
- 11:28takes
- 11:28over.
- 11:29When
- 11:30we
- 11:30invite
- 11:30him
- 11:30in,
- 11:31peace
- 11:31takes
- 11:32over.
- 11:33And
- 11:33while
- 11:33we're
- 11:33talking
- 11:34about
- 11:34that,
- 11:34if
- 11:34you
- 11:34know
- 11:34someone
- 11:35staring
- 11:35down
- 11:35a
- 11:36wedding
- 11:37or
- 11:37maybe
- 11:37they're
- 11:37thinking
- 11:37about
- 11:37having
- 11:38that
- 11:38baby
- 11:38or
- 11:38a
- 11:39career
- 11:39change,
- 11:40don't
- 11:40let
- 11:40them
- 11:40carry
- 11:41that
- 11:41burden
- 11:41alone.
- 11:42I'm
- 11:42going
- 11:42to
- 11:42encourage
- 11:42you
- 11:42to
- 11:42share
- 11:43this
- 11:43episode
- 11:43with
- 11:43them.
- 11:44This
- 11:44may
- 11:45very
- 11:45well
- 11:45be
- 11:45the
- 11:45encouragement
- 11:46they
- 11:46need
- 11:46today.
- 11:46You
- 11:47can
- 11:47point
- 11:47them
- 11:47right
- 11:47to
- 11:47our
- 11:48website.
- 11:48That's
- 11:49financiallyconfidentchristian.com
- 11:51and
- 11:51hey,
- 11:51while
- 11:52you're
- 11:52there,
- 11:52while
- 11:52they're
- 11:53there,
- 11:53you
- 11:53get
- 11:53a
- 11:54copy
- 11:54of
- 11:54my
- 11:54free
- 11:54book.
- 11:55It's
- 11:55called
- 11:55how
- 11:56to
- 11:56Become
- 11:56a
- 11:56Financially
- 11:57Confident
- 11:57Christian.
- 11:58It
- 11:58was
- 11:58really
- 11:58a
- 11:58passion
- 11:59project
- 11:59of
- 11:59mine
- 12:00and
- 12:00I
- 12:00just
- 12:00released
- 12:01that
- 12:01just
- 12:01a
- 12:01couple
- 12:01weeks
- 12:02ago.
- 12:02And
- 12:02I'm
- 12:02giving
- 12:03it
- 12:03to
- 12:03you
- 12:03absolutely
- 12:03free.
- 12:04All
- 12:04you've
- 12:04got
- 12:04to
- 12:04do
- 12:04is
- 12:04go
- 12:05to
- 12:05this
- 12:05website
- 12:06and
- 12:06it's
- 12:06FinanciallyConfidentChristian.com/becoming
- 12:10again.
- 12:10That's
- 12:11FinanciallyConfidentChristian.com/becoming.
- 12:15And
- 12:15get
- 12:15your
- 12:15free
- 12:15downloadable
- 12:16copy
- 12:16of
- 12:17my
- 12:17new
- 12:17book,
- 12:18how
- 12:18to
- 12:18Become
- 12:18a
- 12:19Financially
- 12:19Confident
- 12:19Christian.
- 12:20I'm
- 12:20going
- 12:20to
- 12:20tell
- 12:20you
- 12:20right
- 12:20now
- 12:21it
- 12:21will
- 12:21be
- 12:21profitable
- 12:22for
- 12:22you.
- 12:23On
- 12:23tomorrow's
- 12:23show,
- 12:24we're
- 12:24going
- 12:24to
- 12:24talk
- 12:24about
- 12:25why
- 12:25does
- 12:25financial
- 12:26progress
- 12:26never
- 12:26seem
- 12:27to
- 12:27stick?
- 12:27This
- 12:28is
- 12:28probably
- 12:28one
- 12:28of
- 12:28the
- 12:28chief
- 12:29complaints
- 12:29I
- 12:29hear
- 12:29when
- 12:29people
- 12:30send
- 12:30me
- 12:30emails
- 12:31and
- 12:31people
- 12:31ask
- 12:31about
- 12:32the
- 12:32show
- 12:32or
- 12:33Ralph,
- 12:33why
- 12:34do
- 12:34financial
- 12:34progress
- 12:35never
- 12:35seem
- 12:36to
- 12:36stick
- 12:36with
- 12:36me?
- 12:36Well,
- 12:37I've
- 12:37got
- 12:37the
- 12:37answer
- 12:37on
- 12:38tomorrow's
- 12:38show,
- 12:38so
- 12:38I'm
- 12:38going
- 12:38to
- 12:39encourage
- 12:39you
- 12:39to
- 12:39join
- 12:39us
- 12:39tomorrow.
- 12:40And
- 12:40remember
- 12:41this
- 12:41as
- 12:41I
- 12:41close
- 12:42go
- 12:42out
- 12:42there
- 12:43and
- 12:43be
- 12:43a
- 12:43financially
- 12:44confident
- 12:44Christian.
- 12:45You
- 12:45can
- 12:46do
- 12:46this.
- 12:47I
- 12:47believe
- 12:47in
- 12:48you.
- 12:48And
- 12:48more
- 12:48importantly
- 12:49than
- 12:49that
- 12:50God
- 12:50believes
- 12:51in.
- 12:51You
- 12:51stay
- 12:52financially
- 12:52savvy,
- 12:53God
- 12:53bless
- 12:53you,
- 12:54and
- 12:54you
- 12:54have
- 12:54a
- 12:54great
- 12:54day.