Latest / The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast / S4 #7 Puttin' Around with Pell
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- 0:00Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
- 0:03Speaker 1: with i R Radio. Welcome to the Almost Famous podcast.
- 0:07Speaker 1: I'm Ben and We're sitting in beautiful Pebble Beach, California,
- 0:11Speaker 1: at the A T and T Pebble Beach Pro Am
- 0:14Speaker 1: watching our host Chris Harrison. He is playing with Jason Day.
- 0:20Speaker 1: I don't know anything. These guys have been trying to
- 0:23Speaker 1: teach me how this perro am, which is like professional
- 0:27Speaker 1: golfers playing with amateurs, good amateurs, um how this works
- 0:32Speaker 1: all weekend and I honestly I don't really care to know,
- 0:35Speaker 1: but I go Chris Harrison. So the setups this, it's
- 0:38Speaker 1: it's really cool tournament. A T and T puts it
- 0:40Speaker 1: on here at maybe one maybe the most beautiful course
- 0:44Speaker 1: in the United States, Pebble Beach. What happens is it's
- 0:48Speaker 1: the only tournament on the tour that pros play alongside
- 0:52Speaker 1: celebrities or amateurs who have been invited to play in
- 0:57Speaker 1: this event. And there's team play, so the two scores
- 1:01Speaker 1: together added up UM count and then also the pros
- 1:05Speaker 1: individual scores. So amateurs are playing along pros. You're playing
- 1:08Speaker 1: for millions of dollars. It's a great tournament. The pros
- 1:10Speaker 1: are playing for millions of dollars. This is an actual tournament. Actually,
- 1:13Speaker 1: they're all millions of not like charity millions. No, no, no no,
- 1:16Speaker 1: this is like this is their job. This is their job.
- 1:23Speaker 1: So like right now, the winner of this, I bet
- 1:25Speaker 1: the purse is close to one million, So the winner
- 1:27Speaker 1: will get close to one million dollars. So Chris Harrison's
- 1:31Speaker 1: partner is uh is competing for the lead as we speak.
- 1:35Speaker 1: This is a really incredible event. We've had a blast
- 1:39Speaker 1: so so thanks to Pebble beach Um and thanks uh
- 1:43Speaker 1: to everybody came out. We have we actually have a
- 1:44Speaker 1: pretty good crew. We have Dean angler Um, we have
- 1:48Speaker 1: Luke pell Um, Leslie Murphy's out here. That's a whole
- 1:52Speaker 1: group of people out here that kind of Winner Games reunion. Right.
- 1:54Speaker 1: Oh yeah, this is like what I've been looking forward to.
- 1:56Speaker 1: Its just like hanging with you guys by the camp
- 1:59Speaker 1: fire like we've been doing at night, making smores. I
- 2:02Speaker 1: was more excited about the tournament. Yeah, I know. You
- 2:04Speaker 1: know what's funny is when you were explaining to me
- 2:06Speaker 1: what the tournament was about, I totally dazed out again
- 2:10Speaker 1: because like I'm such a girl and I was like,
- 2:13Speaker 1: I like the way that Ben says tour, he says tour,
- 2:17Speaker 1: the way Justin Timberlake used to say tour like. This
- 2:20Speaker 1: is the tangent that my mind went on instead of
- 2:23Speaker 1: listening to how the actual pro am one. You know.
- 2:25Speaker 1: My my thoughts to that is it's it's it's a
- 2:28Speaker 1: typical Ashley move that you know how justin Timberlake would
- 2:32Speaker 1: say tour. Oh my gosh, I loved it. Now say
- 2:34Speaker 1: tour again to Yeah, so you say tour like with
- 2:37Speaker 1: a little tour, and I go, I go to This
- 2:43Speaker 1: might be the only thing I've ever said that anybody's
- 2:44Speaker 1: actually like said, oh you say that? Well, most of
- 2:46Speaker 1: the time, it's you say that absolutely terribly. What was
- 2:49Speaker 1: the what was the word at the beginning that you
- 2:52Speaker 1: couldn't say, especially especially especially but now you say especially.
- 2:56Speaker 1: My favorite word of yours right now is appreciate, because
- 2:59Speaker 1: like you don't really I appreciate you, go you, I
- 3:01Speaker 1: appreciate you. Yeah, I don't have the time to add
- 3:03Speaker 1: the egg. That's really busy right now. Um so I
- 3:07Speaker 1: cut it down a little bit. Well it makes it
- 3:11Speaker 1: a lot cuter of reward. Yeah, I really like, Hey,
- 3:16Speaker 1: I don't even mean to do that, but I just did.
- 3:18Speaker 1: I want to talk to you a little bit. We've
- 3:20Speaker 1: had some great conversations this week, and one that I
- 3:23Speaker 1: think you and I really need to speak about to
- 3:25Speaker 1: all of those, to all of our listeners. The Swingers
- 3:28Speaker 1: conversation we had a dinner last night, Not the Swingers conversation,
- 3:30Speaker 1: but thanks for making this awkward. Um No, it's about
- 3:34Speaker 1: our passion for a movie that came out recently called
- 3:36Speaker 1: The Greatest Showman. Um I really, and before I let
- 3:41Speaker 1: Ashley off here because it's kind of like one of
- 3:42Speaker 1: those scenarios with Ashley where once she starts talking about something,
- 3:45Speaker 1: I'm not going to get a word in for the
- 3:46Speaker 1: next ten minutes. Um I love this movie. I told
- 3:50Speaker 1: my parents to go to this movie. My dad is
- 3:51Speaker 1: not a musical fan, and he left the movie. So
- 3:54Speaker 1: that's probably the best movie I've ever seen. Um I.
- 3:57Speaker 1: This movie I just think really touched a lot of place.
- 4:00Speaker 1: Is um in my heart And Ashley, I'm gonna let
- 4:03Speaker 1: you talk about the Greatest Showman because it's not getting
- 4:05Speaker 1: enough credit right now. No, Okay, So I went to
- 4:07Speaker 1: go see a Christmas week with my family and we
- 4:11Speaker 1: all laughed, being like wow, like that it's our kind
- 4:14Speaker 1: of movie. Like we were smiling the entire time. I
- 4:17Speaker 1: was a little bit upset because we went to such
- 4:19Speaker 1: a tiny theater, you know, it didn't have a huge
- 4:22Speaker 1: sound system or a big screen. And I realized it
- 4:25Speaker 1: was like that kind of movie is such a spectacle
- 4:27Speaker 1: that you need to see it in its biggest form
- 4:30Speaker 1: because it's such it is like it's a show. It
- 4:34Speaker 1: is a Broadway show, and it's like, honestly one of
- 4:36Speaker 1: the best Broadway shows I've ever seen, and it's on
- 4:39Speaker 1: the screen. I get so okay. So yesterday I like
- 4:43Speaker 1: tom cruised it. We were talking about this. We had
- 4:45Speaker 1: no idea that we shared this passion for this movie,
- 4:48Speaker 1: and I got very excited when I heard that my
- 4:51Speaker 1: friend also shared a love for this movie because it's
- 4:54Speaker 1: something that I have been I like to call myself
- 4:56Speaker 1: a disciple of this movie because I try to pass
- 4:59Speaker 1: a on and share it with anybody who will listen.
- 5:02Speaker 1: And I posted it on my inst story, I guess
- 5:04Speaker 1: a couple weeks ago after I saw it for the
- 5:07Speaker 1: second time, and I just went on I've seen it
- 5:09Speaker 1: for three times now. I just went on this, I
- 5:12Speaker 1: like to think. It was like an articulate three slide
- 5:15Speaker 1: type into the story and people people were like so people,
- 5:19Speaker 1: people were inspired to see the movie because of my
- 5:23Speaker 1: answer story. I felt like a great disciple. Why do
- 5:26Speaker 1: you believe they're inspired? They tell you because I have
- 5:28Speaker 1: such passion for it, But like, how do they like?
- 5:34Speaker 1: D M? And I even had friends text me said like,
- 5:36Speaker 1: I wasn't sure I was going to see it, but
- 5:38Speaker 1: then you were so passionate about it. I had to
- 5:39Speaker 1: go see. Okay, let's let's tone I like stood on
- 5:43Speaker 1: the chair yesterday. I was like Tom Cruise Oprah style.
- 5:46Speaker 1: When he said that he liked it, was like, that
- 5:48Speaker 1: is the greatest movie about time. Okay, let's hone it in.
- 5:52Speaker 1: Why do you like this movie? I always need to
- 5:54Speaker 1: give the backstory? You know, Yeah, that was a long
- 5:58Speaker 1: back story. I always think, um, why do I love it?
- 6:02Speaker 1: So I think there's so much art these days. The
- 6:04Speaker 1: only art, like, the only Hollywood films that ever get
- 6:08Speaker 1: respected are movies that make you depressed, Like you leave
- 6:11Speaker 1: the theater being like, wow, I'm drained. This movie makes
- 6:15Speaker 1: you leave feeling inspired and pumped up, like you could
- 6:18Speaker 1: conquer the world. It makes you want to fall in love.
- 6:22Speaker 1: It makes you want to put on a show. It
- 6:25Speaker 1: makes you feel secure in yourself. It's like the most
- 6:29Speaker 1: beautiful movie, and it's eye candy. It's a spectacle. It's
- 6:33Speaker 1: like for me, candy, no, like yes, he really is,
- 6:38Speaker 1: he really is. But this movie is what I call
- 6:41Speaker 1: sensory candy. It treated every my eyes, my ears to
- 6:46Speaker 1: just happiness. I smiled the entire thing. Okay, well go ahead,
- 6:51Speaker 1: that tell me about your feelings. Actually, I think you're
- 6:55Speaker 1: spot on. The cool part about the movie for me
- 6:57Speaker 1: is it's one of the only movies and actually this
- 6:59Speaker 1: is a exactly what you're saying, that you can watch
- 7:03Speaker 1: and it teaches you a lesson, It encourages you and
- 7:06Speaker 1: entertains you, um and you can actually be motivated I
- 7:09Speaker 1: mean from it. I I listened to the music on
- 7:13Speaker 1: my drives sometime now because I have the album, and
- 7:16Speaker 1: I get pumped up, you know. But the message is simple,
- 7:19Speaker 1: I think to me, from the whole movie, it's that
- 7:21Speaker 1: even people that feel like outcast belong. They have a
- 7:24Speaker 1: community and and and the acceptance that we're all we're
- 7:26Speaker 1: all the same. And that's really what that movie is
- 7:29Speaker 1: showing me, is that these you know, some of these
- 7:31Speaker 1: people who are represented definitely are different um than others.
- 7:36Speaker 1: They're not They're not what we would consider normal, but
- 7:39Speaker 1: it doesn't make them any less human and they still
- 7:43Speaker 1: feel the same things we feel. They still um look
- 7:47Speaker 1: for love and community like everybody else looks for community.
- 7:50Speaker 1: So I mean, I walked away from that movie just
- 7:52Speaker 1: even inspired myself and convicted to say, wait, I need
- 7:56Speaker 1: to start paying more attention to the people that I
- 7:59Speaker 1: have made discounted my life or discredited or left out.
- 8:03Speaker 1: So that has been good for me because it's made
- 8:05Speaker 1: me more aware of anybody that I've said, oh, they're different,
- 8:08Speaker 1: and as a result, maybe I won't talk to him
- 8:11Speaker 1: now it becomes even more aware of No, that's that's
- 8:13Speaker 1: the wrong mindset to have in life. I love the
- 8:16Speaker 1: movie for me um a lot of people. I always
- 8:19Speaker 1: ask this question because it's funny it all started. I
- 8:21Speaker 1: may have mentioned this on the podcast before. My my
- 8:23Speaker 1: sister likes to joke about how she when people are like,
- 8:27Speaker 1: oh my god, I've found this so inspiring, like on
- 8:29Speaker 1: their Instagram, like what inspires you? And she was like,
- 8:32Speaker 1: I don't know how I could respond to that. And
- 8:35Speaker 1: then ever since we've brought up that question. Between the
- 8:38Speaker 1: two of us, we've tried to actually figure out the
- 8:40Speaker 1: things that do inspire us, and this movie truly does.
- 8:44Speaker 1: It makes my heart feel like it's soaring, Like I
- 8:48Speaker 1: feel my happiest while watching it, and I know that
- 8:53Speaker 1: it was amazing and also said, but it was a
- 8:56Speaker 1: little bit panned by the critics, like if you go
- 8:58Speaker 1: on Rotten Tomatoes, I think it amazing because over of
- 9:02Speaker 1: viewers loved it, and then there was like fift critics
- 9:06Speaker 1: like it and critics, um, they make they point out
- 9:10Speaker 1: the flaws in the storyline and they the historical accuracy
- 9:13Speaker 1: of it. But you guys, that's not why I it
- 9:16Speaker 1: doesn't mean anything when when I'm watch point the critics,
- 9:19Speaker 1: the critics don't know what they're talking about. Listen to Ashley,
- 9:22Speaker 1: go see The Greatest Showman. It is. It is worth it.
- 9:25Speaker 1: You're gonna love it, Ashley. Outside of the Greatest Showman, um,
- 9:30Speaker 1: because like you know, last night we got to hear
- 9:32Speaker 1: it a lot. Today I'm gonna hear a lot and
- 9:34Speaker 1: I do think she's spot on. Um, this is a
- 9:36Speaker 1: great movie, So so please go check it out. What
- 9:39Speaker 1: is life bringing you these days? I'm not an ad. No,
- 9:43Speaker 1: not an ad at all, um, just passion and okay,
- 9:46Speaker 1: go go for Ben. So what does life bring you
- 9:49Speaker 1: these days? I mean I feel like as as a
- 9:51Speaker 1: friend of yours and and from the listeners out there,
- 9:54Speaker 1: you're all over the place. You're doing a lot with
- 9:56Speaker 1: the Bachelor still even outside of the podcast you're doing
- 9:59Speaker 1: I don't get it podcast. Winter Games is coming up. Um,
- 10:04Speaker 1: it's Winter Games is coming on tomorrow. We just got worried.
- 10:07Speaker 1: Winter Games is coming on tomorrow. I totally kind of
- 10:10Speaker 1: forgot about that, So please go check it out. Actually
- 10:12Speaker 1: and I are both a part of it. Are you excited?
- 10:14Speaker 1: Are you nervous? How how is your feelings when this
- 10:16Speaker 1: show is gonna air? I'm very excited. Um. I talked
- 10:19Speaker 1: to a couple other cast members and they they're really
- 10:21Speaker 1: nervous about it, how they're gonna look, how people are
- 10:24Speaker 1: going to feel about them, especially the international people. They
- 10:27Speaker 1: feel like they've never been exposed on such a scale
- 10:31Speaker 1: that they're about to go on. But I've done it
- 10:34Speaker 1: too many times, and I get excited every time. I think.
- 10:37Speaker 1: I think last time I was a little bit more
- 10:40Speaker 1: nervous than usual. Um, But this time I'm just pretty
- 10:43Speaker 1: stoked for everybody to um, to watch your story, to
- 10:46Speaker 1: watch my stories stories. It's it's been a big deal
- 10:50Speaker 1: for you, Ashley, because I know over the last few
- 10:54Speaker 1: months since Winter Games has taken place, life for you
- 10:57Speaker 1: has been pretty crazy. It's been there's a lot happen.
- 11:00Speaker 1: Winter Games was impactful to you in a lot of ways, um,
- 11:03Speaker 1: and in life for you recently has been impactful. So
- 11:06Speaker 1: I think I'm excited for for the viewers and the
- 11:09Speaker 1: listeners of this show to see this so they makes
- 11:12Speaker 1: sense of where your life's at today. Yeah, I mean
- 11:15Speaker 1: I'm excited for them to be caught up with me
- 11:18Speaker 1: because I think that I usually share a lot of
- 11:20Speaker 1: my life on the podcast, but over the past two
- 11:23Speaker 1: two months, I've actually had to kind of keep it
- 11:26Speaker 1: under wraps. Definitely. I mean, we all have, and that's
- 11:29Speaker 1: the beauty of the show. So tune in to ABC
- 11:32Speaker 1: on Tuesday night and watch Bachelor Wearing Games. Actually, and
- 11:35Speaker 1: I really had a good time doing it. It was
- 11:37Speaker 1: the first show I've got to do with my my
- 11:39Speaker 1: wonderful co host, and we lived in the same house
- 11:42Speaker 1: together for for weeks on end uh in in Vermont.
- 11:45Speaker 1: I think we can talk about the our one little
- 11:47Speaker 1: moment in the episode, Oh you were You've never seen
- 11:51Speaker 1: You haven't seen it yet. I haven't seen the episode.
- 11:53Speaker 1: You're you're the only one that's seen the episode. Um.
- 11:56Speaker 1: You and I remember at the picnic to Able when
- 12:01Speaker 1: it was the first night of one on one Dates
- 12:03Speaker 1: and I was like crying on your shoulder and I
- 12:05Speaker 1: was laugh crying and people are like, what are you doing?
- 12:08Speaker 1: You're laughing, you crying. You're like, she's doing both. She's
- 12:10Speaker 1: totally fine, totally fine, but and it was so good
- 12:14Speaker 1: to be able to cry to you. Like I definitely
- 12:16Speaker 1: went over to Ben hoping that he'd be like Ashley.
- 12:20Speaker 1: Like part of me was like, oh no, if I
- 12:22Speaker 1: go over to Ben, he's gonna be like Ashley, what's wrong?
- 12:24Speaker 1: And then I'm gonna start crying, And the other part
- 12:26Speaker 1: of me probably knew that that's what I needed to do.
- 12:30Speaker 1: And yeah, okay, So you cut it down. So Ashley
- 12:35Speaker 1: seen the first episode of Bachelor Games, I have not, Um,
- 12:39Speaker 1: I just I don't know why she gets privileged that
- 12:41Speaker 1: I know, but just kind of how life works. Uh.
- 12:45Speaker 1: So Ashley seen this little scene between her and I? Uh,
- 12:48Speaker 1: and you say it's it's a special moment for us. Well,
- 12:51Speaker 1: it's it was definitely more special in real life than
- 12:53Speaker 1: watching it back, and we definitely dwelve delved delves into
- 12:59Speaker 1: Delvin Well, I've had a problem with this word on
- 13:03Speaker 1: podcast before. Um, it's definitely was definitely more meaningful in
- 13:08Speaker 1: real life. But you guys get to see a snippet
- 13:11Speaker 1: of it and Ben just gets me, which is really nice.
- 13:14Speaker 1: Like he knew exactly what I was crying over. And
- 13:18Speaker 1: there was a lot of people who I was like,
- 13:20Speaker 1: what's wrong? What's wrong? And I was like, I honestly
- 13:22Speaker 1: do not want to articulate to you person. I don't
- 13:24Speaker 1: really know what's wrong. I just can look at him
- 13:27Speaker 1: and he knows what's wrong. Something's messed up, actually's hurting.
- 13:33Speaker 1: But that being said, Ben, what did you tell me
- 13:36Speaker 1: at that moment about my crying? I haven't seen the episodes,
- 13:39Speaker 1: guy kind of forget you, said Ashley, I've known you
- 13:44Speaker 1: for two and a half years and we know each
- 13:46Speaker 1: other pretty well over the past year, and I have
- 13:49Speaker 1: never seen you cry outside this moment. Oh, we'll see
- 13:52Speaker 1: so so if you remember, right on our last episode
- 13:55Speaker 1: of the Most Famous Podcast, Ashley was very protective of
- 13:58Speaker 1: herself in her um uh issues with other women when
- 14:02Speaker 1: it comes to dating. She was definitely saying, hey, I'm
- 14:04Speaker 1: not dramatic and she's not. This one is a little
- 14:09Speaker 1: she has a little insecurity about how often she cries,
- 14:12Speaker 1: and so this really was the first time I've seen
- 14:16Speaker 1: you cry. I just and You're like, what is it
- 14:18Speaker 1: about this? Yeah? I was just confused because I think
- 14:21Speaker 1: my other thought in my head. I don't know if
- 14:22Speaker 1: I ever expressed it, but my thought my head was
- 14:24Speaker 1: how come you always have to cry on a show?
- 14:26Speaker 1: Like actually, like you are always put together, and then
- 14:29Speaker 1: you go on these shows and there's something about that
- 14:30Speaker 1: environment that just breaks you down and breaks me down.
- 14:34Speaker 1: It does every time. It breaks you down quickly, Like
- 14:39Speaker 1: what did? I keep saying that day. I was like,
- 14:41Speaker 1: you guys, I've gotten twenty four hours out crying twenty
- 14:43Speaker 1: four hours. It's amazing thing. That's a record. I kept
- 14:45Speaker 1: telling everyone. I told Harrison, I was like, this is
- 14:47Speaker 1: a record, you guys, that's how a celebration. But deep inside,
- 14:51Speaker 1: I felt the tears welling up, like I just knew.
- 14:53Speaker 1: I was like break down tonight. I was like, I'm
- 14:57Speaker 1: holding this off to break my record, but I need
- 14:59Speaker 1: to cry so bad right now. People are so crazy
- 15:02Speaker 1: out there on like read some comments. People think I'm
- 15:05Speaker 1: acting when I'm crying, Like people actually think that I
- 15:08Speaker 1: do this for like the producer's sake. I'm like, this
- 15:11Speaker 1: is insane. I mean no. So if you're like, there's
- 15:13Speaker 1: no way this girl can be this dramatic in this
- 15:16Speaker 1: tier field, uh she can? It makes me feel all
- 15:20Speaker 1: the fields. Actually, let's move away from you crying um too.
- 15:24Speaker 1: There is a recent picture that I'm gonna tell everybody
- 15:26Speaker 1: out here. Go to Ashley underscore i Conetti on Instagram
- 15:29Speaker 1: and check her out. Actually posts a picture from Pebble
- 15:33Speaker 1: Beach just looking like a smoke show. You thought that
- 15:36Speaker 1: that was a smoke show? Pick oh, Ashley? I mean
- 15:38Speaker 1: the winds blow in your hair, the lighting is perfect.
- 15:40Speaker 1: I know when you took this picture and you looked
- 15:42Speaker 1: at your like you smile a little inside, and you said, oh,
- 15:45Speaker 1: I got one. Wait, that's so funny. I didn't feel
- 15:47Speaker 1: like that. No. I was like, I wonder if this
- 15:50Speaker 1: is good enough? But I got so many likes, and
- 15:52Speaker 1: I'm like, why did I get so many likes on
- 15:54Speaker 1: this picture? I don't even like great actually really look great.
- 15:58Speaker 1: Um in this picture, you're blowing and uh, and so
- 16:02Speaker 1: I needed to call it out. So make sure you
- 16:03Speaker 1: go and follow ash You guys, go to my Instagram
- 16:07Speaker 1: and you check out my second to last picture, it's
- 16:10Speaker 1: Ben and drag Ashle's gonna start going through. And if
- 16:14Speaker 1: you check out my fifth picture, it's me smiling. Hey, everybody,
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- 19:12Speaker 1: Luke pel is in the room. Luke, how you doing?
- 19:17Speaker 1: What's up? Thank you guys having me on again. Hey,
- 19:19Speaker 1: Luke is out here at the A T and T
- 19:21Speaker 1: Pebble Beach Program with us, Uh, following our favorite host
- 19:24Speaker 1: Chris Harrison. Luke, you're getting ready to go on tour.
- 19:28Speaker 1: I want to hear all about that. Ashley and I
- 19:30Speaker 1: are big fans of your music. You also were on
- 19:33Speaker 1: Bachelor Winner Games. I mean, I'm confused because I feel
- 19:37Speaker 1: like my life I have nothing going on and I
- 19:38Speaker 1: feel busy all the time. How do you fit everything
- 19:41Speaker 1: into your life right now? Oh? Man? Um? Yeah, one
- 19:45Speaker 1: day at a time. I just wake up and try
- 19:47Speaker 1: to figure out what I'm doing today, where I'm gonna
- 19:50Speaker 1: be and uh and see how it happens. And you're
- 19:52Speaker 1: able to come out here and and kind of follow
- 19:56Speaker 1: Chris Harrison as he plays in the A T. T.
- 19:57Speaker 1: Pebble Beach Program. Have you enjoyed being in Pebble Beach
- 20:01Speaker 1: with all of us? Are you annoyed as much of
- 20:04Speaker 1: the winter as possible on a beach, on any beach.
- 20:07Speaker 1: I'm happy. So I've had a great time, and I
- 20:09Speaker 1: got to spend time with you guys. We've had an
- 20:12Speaker 1: incredible time. Chris is killing it out there playing played
- 20:15Speaker 1: on Sunday. Um had a great turn out of the
- 20:18Speaker 1: golf tournament. I thought you were going to play for
- 20:20Speaker 1: a little bit. Then I was really hoping. I was
- 20:22Speaker 1: being an alternate. I was. I was trying to Uh,
- 20:25Speaker 1: I wasn't you know? I was hoping to get in
- 20:26Speaker 1: if enough people backed out. Unfortunately did it? I mean, Luke,
- 20:31Speaker 1: honestly though, this is our podcast and and you do
- 20:34Speaker 1: come under our practice. But how annoying is how annoying
- 20:39Speaker 1: is actually not in person? How how what we're so
- 20:44Speaker 1: peppy annoying? We're just annoying. You guys were terrible to
- 20:48Speaker 1: hang out with. Ah. Yeah, you're the most annoying people
- 20:51Speaker 1: I've ever hanged Okay, well, obviously this this leads to
- 20:54Speaker 1: a great question. Tell us the moment that you remember
- 20:58Speaker 1: the most filming Winner aims with me. In the moment
- 21:01Speaker 1: you you you remember most with Ben. So before you
- 21:04Speaker 1: start this, before you start here, Ashley asks this question
- 21:09Speaker 1: because in her mind, she I'm wondering, I truly wonder questions.
- 21:15Speaker 1: It is it it is, but it's such a good question.
- 21:18Speaker 1: It's going to give our our audience so many teasers
- 21:20Speaker 1: the time that what I remember most about you on
- 21:23Speaker 1: Winter Games, Um, well I didn't get to see you
- 21:28Speaker 1: really cry because I wasn't in your interviews. But um,
- 21:32Speaker 1: I don't know what was the most outxciting time, Like
- 21:35Speaker 1: the first day, the first day day, Luke, Yeah, what
- 21:40Speaker 1: what did you have Like some special moments? No, but
- 21:44Speaker 1: I just feel like times in the first day. Yeah,
- 21:48Speaker 1: we had great We had a couple of great conversations.
- 21:50Speaker 1: Is that what you're talking about. Yeah, we had some
- 21:52Speaker 1: great conversations like we always do. But I was so
- 21:55Speaker 1: tired of me. It's a question in the hotel, like
- 21:57Speaker 1: when we when we go into film those shows. So
- 21:59Speaker 1: I got you were one of my closest friends going
- 22:02Speaker 1: into the show. So like when I got out and
- 22:03Speaker 1: I got to see everybody the first day, I was like, oh,
- 22:05Speaker 1: there's actually there's been there's everybody I know. So I
- 22:07Speaker 1: was just glad to get out the hotel. Did you
- 22:09Speaker 1: think we're going to be clickier because we all have
- 22:11Speaker 1: like gone to Tahoe together, we've all hung out in
- 22:14Speaker 1: like our little American click Did you think that kind
- 22:17Speaker 1: of I kind of thought we would have been a
- 22:19Speaker 1: little more click here, but it turned out that we
- 22:21Speaker 1: were very welcoming of all the other countries that were there,
- 22:24Speaker 1: and I thought that was cool. So yeah, oh, do
- 22:27Speaker 1: you know what my favorite part is with us in
- 22:28Speaker 1: the first episode? And I hope that's a come across
- 22:31Speaker 1: bitchy to the audience. You've seen the episode, you're like
- 22:34Speaker 1: a few people who have seen it. We have this
- 22:36Speaker 1: funny scene where we're watching two people in the other
- 22:40Speaker 1: room and they're having like a pre date conversation. They're
- 22:43Speaker 1: trying to feel each other out, and you say, you
- 22:46Speaker 1: know what game I like to play? I like to
- 22:49Speaker 1: put you know, And just that was on the episode
- 22:53Speaker 1: tub over. Yeah, so it is. And I'm like saying
- 22:57Speaker 1: this and people are probably like, actually is being a
- 22:59Speaker 1: pitch and like, no, we're having fun. We are being silly. Yeah, okay,
- 23:04Speaker 1: I can't wait to see it now. Yeah, I wish
- 23:06Speaker 1: i'd already seen it. It's uh, like, do you say silly?
- 23:10Speaker 1: Actually we were being silly? Uh, it's it's this is
- 23:15Speaker 1: the Luke. This is one of my favorite things about
- 23:16Speaker 1: actually when it prayers first show that I'm learning about
- 23:18Speaker 1: her and our listeners are probably learning to is anything
- 23:22Speaker 1: that she does, she just she really does have a
- 23:25Speaker 1: very pure heart and amazing intention. She doesn't want to
- 23:29Speaker 1: disrupt anything in a negative way. But once she watched
- 23:32Speaker 1: the episodes and sees anything that could come off wrong, right,
- 23:34Speaker 1: she'll just try to bring it up to explain a
- 23:36Speaker 1: little bit on here, just to try to get ahead
- 23:38Speaker 1: of the game. Yeah, of course, But you know how
- 23:41Speaker 1: not bitter I was in that moment. I wasn't. I
- 23:44Speaker 1: was being funny preregulars to the negative comments. No, you
- 23:52Speaker 1: weren't bitter at all? Um were you give me a
- 23:55Speaker 1: load of questions all day. I'll tell you exactly what
- 23:57Speaker 1: you want to hear. You're going in the Winter Game,
- 24:00Speaker 1: is at all interested in finding international love? Uh, that's
- 24:04Speaker 1: the name of the game. That's why we were there, right,
- 24:07Speaker 1: I think so as international Winter Games. Yeah, and you
- 24:10Speaker 1: knew most of the people from the States, and so
- 24:12Speaker 1: I think that was one of the things that wasn't
- 24:15Speaker 1: super surprising to me that there could be some international
- 24:17Speaker 1: romance go on because we all knew each other from
- 24:19Speaker 1: the States, and if you wanted to date somebody was
- 24:22Speaker 1: gonna show, you would have already had the opportunity to
- 24:23Speaker 1: do it. But possibly what my deal was people are
- 24:27Speaker 1: asking before you didn't know who the cast was going
- 24:29Speaker 1: to be, you know, before we started, So it was
- 24:31Speaker 1: like there was definitely Americans that were interested in other Americans,
- 24:35Speaker 1: maybe they just never had a time, like chance to
- 24:37Speaker 1: meet or whatever. And then internationally that was just we
- 24:40Speaker 1: had no clue who those people even were, Like we
- 24:43Speaker 1: had never even laid eyes on them. So that was
- 24:44Speaker 1: like the big mystery, especially for me, and I had
- 24:47Speaker 1: no idea. I've never seen an episode or an instagram
- 24:50Speaker 1: of anybody from any other country until we got there.
- 24:53Speaker 1: Had you guys? Did you have any guys? The guys
- 24:56Speaker 1: from Canada? I knew I knew of the guys in
- 24:58Speaker 1: Canada because I did their after show in Canada, So
- 25:02Speaker 1: you had met you met them? No, I had not
- 25:04Speaker 1: met them when I saw pictures. I saw them on
- 25:06Speaker 1: TV a couple episodes. Yeah, were there any of them
- 25:08Speaker 1: that you were interested in going in? Mike Flie tweeted
- 25:12Speaker 1: a picture of one of them and I thought he
- 25:13Speaker 1: was pretty hot, and I was like, oh, yeah, I
- 25:15Speaker 1: remember that guy. He's pretty hot. Um uh luke, here's
- 25:20Speaker 1: a here's a question for you. Who was on your
- 25:23Speaker 1: list going into it? Who was going? Who was on
- 25:27Speaker 1: your list going into Winter Games? Going into Winter Games?
- 25:30Speaker 1: Because they asked who you'd be into I really didn't.
- 25:34Speaker 1: I didn't know who was going to be honest, put
- 25:35Speaker 1: a blank space there, you had a blank space like
- 25:38Speaker 1: Taylor Swift? Yeah, absolutely, of course. Why wouldn't I have
- 25:43Speaker 1: your name? So who did you want to write their
- 25:45Speaker 1: name when you actually saw them in the parade? In
- 25:48Speaker 1: the parade, cut your eye, let me think, we think
- 25:51Speaker 1: who caught my eye? And the parade? M oh thanks?
- 25:56Speaker 1: Ceremonies at the opening ceremonies parade, Yes, yeah, the first thing,
- 26:01Speaker 1: who whoo who? I was just trying to figure out who, Like,
- 26:04Speaker 1: people all have their beanies on, and like we're all
- 26:06Speaker 1: in winter clothes. I was like, who is who? Like
- 26:07Speaker 1: I can't even tell who is who. They're like walking
- 26:10Speaker 1: down the road and like this is the first time
- 26:12Speaker 1: we've even met. We're kind of don't even get a
- 26:14Speaker 1: formal time to me. It's just like we're standing in
- 26:17Speaker 1: these grandstands in the middle of Manchester, Vermont and people
- 26:20Speaker 1: are parading down in front of us, and so yeah, correct,
- 26:25Speaker 1: Swedish girls are pretty cute. I only as correctly. I
- 26:27Speaker 1: just don't think you answer the question. Um, before we
- 26:31Speaker 1: send you off here, you're gonna go on tour. UM
- 26:34Speaker 1: tell her listeners about it. We're gonna be what place
- 26:37Speaker 1: they can see you at if they want to listen
- 26:39Speaker 1: to your music? Now, how do they do that? Uh?
- 26:41Speaker 1: Just promote yourself a little bit, promote myself. Yeah. So
- 26:47Speaker 1: we're we're got about a hundred dates planned this year,
- 26:50Speaker 1: so we're excited to go back on the road February three. So, um,
- 26:54Speaker 1: we start out in Virginia and then we work We
- 26:56Speaker 1: try to work out in the workout dates in the
- 26:59Speaker 1: warm climate as much as possible this time of year.
- 27:01Speaker 1: So we're gonna be a little Florida Georgia. UM. Yeah.
- 27:05Speaker 1: So anyway, look pale dot com and find all the dates, um,
- 27:08Speaker 1: find all the links to the music, um, all the
- 27:11Speaker 1: social media. When does it start? February our first date
- 27:15Speaker 1: back on the road, and then like two months and
- 27:16Speaker 1: it goes to win, it goes to infinity. We just
- 27:20Speaker 1: plays as long as you can make it happy. Yeah,
- 27:22Speaker 1: it goes until we sell out, you know, Madison Square Garden. Yeah,
- 27:27Speaker 1: that's all I mean. Keep you just keep working your
- 27:30Speaker 1: tail off Uh, what is your favorite song from your
- 27:33Speaker 1: new EP? My favorite song from the EP that we
- 27:36Speaker 1: just put out. It's called ball Cast and Blue Jeans.
- 27:39Speaker 1: A lot of good feedback. That's my favorite. Um, Luke,
- 27:42Speaker 1: thank you so much for coming on. Please go check
- 27:45Speaker 1: out his tour, uh download his music. Luke is a
- 27:48Speaker 1: friend and he's super also a super talented artist. Check
- 27:52Speaker 1: us all out on Winter Games this Tuesday on ABC. Well,
- 27:56Speaker 1: it's always good to be around friends, uh, you know,
- 27:59Speaker 1: especially from the Actually we don't get to spend a
- 28:00Speaker 1: ton of time together, but when we do, we always
- 28:03Speaker 1: have a great time. This week has been insane. We've
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- 31:15Speaker 1: moving out from the spots. This week's episode of The Bachelor,
- 31:20Speaker 1: I feel like it is the first time we're really
- 31:23Speaker 1: getting some emotional drama, like really getting tight in. I
- 31:26Speaker 1: think this is a huge episode for Ari and his girls.
- 31:30Speaker 1: As if you could and your your brilliance give us
- 31:34Speaker 1: a quick recap of what happened, just in case any
- 31:37Speaker 1: listeners haven't seen the episode. I think it's funny. This
- 31:39Speaker 1: week is always a pinnacle turning point because it usually
- 31:43Speaker 1: goes from like you got rid of the villain, you
- 31:45Speaker 1: got rid of the I'll use your favorite word, silly people.
- 31:48Speaker 1: You know, anybody who's like who you've been, like, what
- 31:51Speaker 1: in the world are they still doing? There? Are now
- 31:53Speaker 1: usually gone. And then you have this week of of
- 31:57Speaker 1: six seven girls and then you go into hometowns, so
- 32:01Speaker 1: you go from it being like not then this is
- 32:06Speaker 1: just a fun show to watch to being like, oh,
- 32:08Speaker 1: this guy is gonna end up marrying one of these girls.
- 32:10Speaker 1: So let's see. We had the first the Becka K Date,
- 32:14Speaker 1: which it's just good. He liked it. I don't know,
- 32:16Speaker 1: there's not much to elaborate on. Um. Then he went
- 32:20Speaker 1: on did he go on the c N date next?
- 32:23Speaker 1: So then he wanted to see end date didn't. Sienna
- 32:27Speaker 1: is like the perfect the CN is the girl who
- 32:30Speaker 1: like is perfect on paper. He likes her a lot.
- 32:33Speaker 1: I think he would have dated her for a while
- 32:35Speaker 1: in real life. But now he has advanced feelings for
- 32:38Speaker 1: at least five more of these girls. And it's not
- 32:42Speaker 1: like he doesn't like her. It's just like he's got
- 32:43Speaker 1: to get rid of someone, and I think Cienne is
- 32:45Speaker 1: the girl that and he needs how to get rid of,
- 32:48Speaker 1: which which is not happy about. No, No, she deserved
- 32:51Speaker 1: a hometown. No, you're not giving enough credit. He had
- 32:54Speaker 1: to get rid of somebody, don't get rid of see in.
- 32:58Speaker 1: I just feel like that's like you wouldn't have gotten
- 33:00Speaker 1: into it of Cenna because that's how you feel about her.
- 33:04Speaker 1: But but Ari has you know, he'd have to get
- 33:07Speaker 1: rid of a Tia who he really communicates. Yeah, I
- 33:13Speaker 1: can't get rid of She's she's she has to be around.
- 33:15Speaker 1: So would you've gotten rid of Kendall instead? Can't get
- 33:17Speaker 1: rid of Candle? No, No, she's got to be there
- 33:19Speaker 1: because she's very smart, very smart, engaging, big heart on
- 33:24Speaker 1: her interesting, interesting a paradise. Do you think it's c
- 33:29Speaker 1: N would go on Paradise? Uh? Yeah, sure, I mean
- 33:34Speaker 1: I think she should have gone to win her games. Oh,
- 33:38Speaker 1: then Ben may have had a you know who would
- 33:39Speaker 1: have known? Would have gone down with Ben was there?
- 33:43Speaker 1: So you can't get rid of c N. You can't
- 33:45Speaker 1: getri of Kendle. You can't get rid of you can't.
- 33:48Speaker 1: And then what about Lauren B? That's isn't it crazy?
- 33:53Speaker 1: It's so funny. So Lauren B gets her second consecutive
- 33:56Speaker 1: one on one date this week and the girls are like,
- 33:59Speaker 1: oh my god, what she should have been on the
- 34:02Speaker 1: three on one as per usual. But no, he's like,
- 34:06Speaker 1: we need more time to talk because this girl is
- 34:08Speaker 1: so shy but for some but not for some reason,
- 34:11Speaker 1: but I really like her. And even though we don't
- 34:14Speaker 1: necessarily have a flowing why do you like her. Why
- 34:16Speaker 1: do I like her? Um? I don't know who says
- 34:19Speaker 1: that I like her? I just I think you just
- 34:21Speaker 1: said you liked her. No, he likes her, Okay, so
- 34:24Speaker 1: like he likes her even though there's not a steady
- 34:27Speaker 1: set of communication. You know, those are relationships where you
- 34:30Speaker 1: don't have to talk very much, but you have that thing,
- 34:32Speaker 1: that unspoken chemistry. They must have an amazing unspoken We
- 34:37Speaker 1: don't see them talk. No, I feel like Ari talks sometimes. Yeah,
- 34:41Speaker 1: she doesn't respond, not not the best. Not well, we're
- 34:45Speaker 1: not getting a lot out of it. I'm not saying
- 34:46Speaker 1: that I don't like Lauren, but you guys like I
- 34:48Speaker 1: think that she's probably relaxed. I'm just saying she's not
- 34:53Speaker 1: dynamic tv um, not at all. That doesn't mean that
- 34:56Speaker 1: she's not right for actually Okay, okay, okay, So anyway,
- 35:00Speaker 1: Lauren b is somebody that Ari. Okay, let's let's paint
- 35:04Speaker 1: the picture. She doesn't say anything for the entire date.
- 35:08Speaker 1: You know, you know she does, She doesn't. She says
- 35:11Speaker 1: a little again again, and then all of a sudden
- 35:15Speaker 1: they sit down at dinner and she goes, I have
- 35:17Speaker 1: something big to say. I'm falling in love with you.
- 35:19Speaker 1: This is a shocker, absolute shocker in my world because
- 35:23Speaker 1: I am watching the show week after week after week,
- 35:27Speaker 1: and I haven't seen Lauren be engage in conversation yet,
- 35:31Speaker 1: and I know he likes her, okay, and so I'm
- 35:33Speaker 1: waiting for it because I think she's got it there.
- 35:36Speaker 1: I think she has it, And so every week I'm waiting, Okay,
- 35:39Speaker 1: when is she going to let him know when she
- 35:41Speaker 1: When is she going to like allow Ari in a
- 35:44Speaker 1: little bit boom and boom love you. She can't say anything,
- 35:49Speaker 1: but she can say I love you. One of the
- 35:53Speaker 1: craziest moments I think this season to me was you
- 35:56Speaker 1: can't say anything, but you can say I love you.
- 35:59Speaker 1: And if that's the way I need to operate in
- 36:01Speaker 1: this world, I could be Okay, I could you know.
- 36:04Speaker 1: I've thrown the love word around once or twice like
- 36:07Speaker 1: so it looks like already maybe making a Ben Higgins
- 36:09Speaker 1: move here. So he doesn't. He doesn't respond to Lauren.
- 36:15Speaker 1: He goes, I need a moment and walks away. What
- 36:17Speaker 1: do you, from your personal Bachelor port of view, think
- 36:21Speaker 1: that he did in those moments away? I I So
- 36:25Speaker 1: in the Bachelor world, there's this stigma guests or there's
- 36:28Speaker 1: no rules rules, but we we set them up in
- 36:31Speaker 1: our mind because you're okay, I can't do this, I
- 36:33Speaker 1: can't do this, and so I think are walks away,
- 36:36Speaker 1: and he asked the producers like, Hey, I really want
- 36:39Speaker 1: to tell Lauren B how I feel. I want to
- 36:41Speaker 1: give her some validation for her stepping out there? Can
- 36:44Speaker 1: I give her this validation? Is that? Is that allowed?
- 36:47Speaker 1: And I think the preachers probably like them, goes, if
- 36:50Speaker 1: you think that's correct, if you think that's a smart play,
- 36:52Speaker 1: you gotta do it like there's no rules here, but
- 36:54Speaker 1: will help you if we if we think it's wise
- 36:56Speaker 1: er not And in this situation, I think they're saying
- 36:58Speaker 1: sor if you've feel that strong that you need to
- 37:01Speaker 1: tell her how you feel, go do it. Okay. So
- 37:03Speaker 1: then he comes back and he doesn't and he says, Lauren,
- 37:06Speaker 1: I'm falling head over heels in love with you or
- 37:08Speaker 1: something like really dramatic. It wasn't just like I can
- 37:10Speaker 1: see myself falling in love with you too. It was
- 37:13Speaker 1: like I am in following, I am I am and
- 37:18Speaker 1: it's big. Yeah, it's a huge moment and and one
- 37:21Speaker 1: that I can't remember for the years that I've watched
- 37:24Speaker 1: the show ever happening so early, so early, and and
- 37:28Speaker 1: also oddly enough in a relationship that I felt was
- 37:33Speaker 1: the weakest out of any of them so far. Do
- 37:36Speaker 1: you agree with that? Like, I just felt like, as
- 37:38Speaker 1: I watched the show Lauren being our relationship, even though
- 37:41Speaker 1: I think he was really into her, I felt like
- 37:43Speaker 1: the farthest behind. So you really truly you know how
- 37:46Speaker 1: he said, um, just because I'm the bachelor doesn't mean
- 37:49Speaker 1: that you have to like me. And he was really
- 37:51Speaker 1: confused by whether she actually had feelings or she was
- 37:55Speaker 1: just being shy, And uh, do you so you were
- 37:59Speaker 1: really interpreting that as a guy, as like she may
- 38:01Speaker 1: not be into it. Yeah, if you have to ask
- 38:05Speaker 1: the girl the question and say, hey, just let you know,
- 38:07Speaker 1: like you haven't out here, like you've made it far enough.
- 38:10Speaker 1: You know, you've gotten your Instagram deals that you need,
- 38:13Speaker 1: like now if you really like me, or you don't
- 38:15Speaker 1: have to really like me. He's obviously thinking that his head,
- 38:17Speaker 1: and he feels so strongly about that that he had
- 38:20Speaker 1: to tell her, you know, Um, so for me, I'm
- 38:24Speaker 1: looking at saying there's there's there's disconnect. So then the
- 38:27Speaker 1: love word gets dropped, and then it feels like they
- 38:29Speaker 1: both feel the same way and they're communicating clearly. Now
- 38:32Speaker 1: I don't know what happened. I think they needed to
- 38:33Speaker 1: actually get out of that hurdle and be like so
- 38:36Speaker 1: vulnerable and honest with each other. And now they can
- 38:38Speaker 1: move on and maybe she'll be chatty. Have you ever
- 38:40Speaker 1: been in a place in your life where you've known
- 38:43Speaker 1: a guy or let's even talk friendships, that there's just
- 38:48Speaker 1: this like physical chemistry. There's not really a spoken like
- 38:52Speaker 1: a spoken connection, but they just so into each other
- 38:55Speaker 1: that your friend or yourself to go back from a
- 38:57Speaker 1: couple of days and say, I love this guy, I
- 38:59Speaker 1: need this guy, um my sister. Yeah, really with my sister,
- 39:05Speaker 1: there was this guy, like the guy that one of
- 39:08Speaker 1: the one of the guys that she's felt the most
- 39:11Speaker 1: intensely in her life for was a guy that she
- 39:14Speaker 1: didn't have to have too much conversation with, but just
- 39:18Speaker 1: like holding his hand or even pecking him on the lips,
- 39:21Speaker 1: Like how did the biggest impact with her? Like she
- 39:24Speaker 1: closed the apartment the apartment door and be like, I'm
- 39:27Speaker 1: in love with it. What ended up happening? Uh? He well,
- 39:34Speaker 1: I mean, so it can happen. Um, it can definitely happen.
- 39:38Speaker 1: And I guess that is is something I've never felt. However,
- 39:43Speaker 1: I mean even in my experience when I fell in
- 39:45Speaker 1: love like it was, it was in an instant, it
- 39:49Speaker 1: was first sight kind of thing. And so I can
- 39:51Speaker 1: get where maybe Ari is looking at Lauren be going
- 39:54Speaker 1: I can't get enough of this girl, and maybe he
- 39:56Speaker 1: in his mind needs her to like That's why he
- 39:59Speaker 1: was just so much in his own head. He just
- 40:01Speaker 1: needed the clarity for her to say, Okay, I'm into
- 40:03Speaker 1: here or not. Because if she's into him, I think
- 40:05Speaker 1: Ari is now going to go full steam ahead at
- 40:07Speaker 1: Lauren B. Yeah, I think we're gonna see that, just
- 40:09Speaker 1: full steam ahead, no holds. Bar Ari is gonna be
- 40:12Speaker 1: throwing the love word around like crazy. He's gonna be
- 40:15Speaker 1: kissing her all the time. The Ultimate front Runner now
- 40:17Speaker 1: Ultimate and and and surprising. Yeah, if Vegas had any
- 40:22Speaker 1: odds on Lauren B. I would have taken him two
- 40:24Speaker 1: weeks ago, because I think that was she's my favorite. Now,
- 40:26Speaker 1: you weren't even making millions if you put money on
- 40:28Speaker 1: Lauren B from a couple of weeks ago. Yeah, yeah,
- 40:30Speaker 1: I agree. So Okay, So now we're sitting here in
- 40:34Speaker 1: the position who went home this week? Okay, so CN
- 40:37Speaker 1: went home as well as Becca M shorthand Becca. Yeah.
- 40:41Speaker 1: Surprising that Becca him him goes home. Uh and because
- 40:46Speaker 1: she's a fan favorite, but I mean obviously she wasn't
- 40:48Speaker 1: gonna work for Ari and there you know she kind
- 40:50Speaker 1: of especially after the pot farm working. Yeah. And and
- 40:54Speaker 1: now it's gonna be interesting for me to see if
- 40:56Speaker 1: beccat and maybe goes on Paradise because she kind you know,
- 41:00Speaker 1: has that free spirit about her. She's into adventure, she's young,
- 41:04Speaker 1: she's cute, she attracted, people love her. I I it'll
- 41:07Speaker 1: be interesting me to see if Beckett M kind of
- 41:09Speaker 1: comes out of her shell even more on a Paradise
- 41:11Speaker 1: type show compared to The Bachelor. Right. I think Becca
- 41:15Speaker 1: M is going to be the queen of Paradise. Um.
- 41:18Speaker 1: She'll find guys who are more age appropriate for her.
- 41:21Speaker 1: They're probably and she has the kind of personality it's
- 41:25Speaker 1: going to soar there. She just turned twenty three this week.
- 41:28Speaker 1: Guy's big news. That's that's huge news. She had a
- 41:31Speaker 1: birthday no longer twenty two. That's that's amazing. That still
- 41:34Speaker 1: has always been The really confusing thing for me this
- 41:36Speaker 1: season is, you know, these other girls, uh, these other
- 41:40Speaker 1: women on the show where maybe a year six months
- 41:42Speaker 1: older some of them, and they weren't getting any criticism.
- 41:44Speaker 1: But becat am you know, that becomes her storyline and
- 41:47Speaker 1: people freak out and react like, oh, there's no way
- 41:49Speaker 1: she can date already Michel is twenty three. They never
- 41:52Speaker 1: brought that up, never, So I mean it just shows that,
- 41:56Speaker 1: you know, they are We're blinded to a lot of
- 41:58Speaker 1: situations and we judged way too quick. I think Becca
- 42:03Speaker 1: m is going to be better off now in her
- 42:06Speaker 1: new uh you know, journey on the Bachelor outside of
- 42:09Speaker 1: this show, and Ari is also better off to there
- 42:11Speaker 1: there they were not husband and wife saw it. And
- 42:15Speaker 1: now as we sit here and this is what I
- 42:19Speaker 1: honestly think actually, and I was I was kind of
- 42:21Speaker 1: talking to a couple of guys about this. Ari has
- 42:24Speaker 1: some of the best group of women that I've ever
- 42:25Speaker 1: seen on the show in a really long time and
- 42:27Speaker 1: a really long okay, and I say quote quote really
- 42:30Speaker 1: long time. And I may want to give myself a
- 42:32Speaker 1: little credit here because Chris Soul's Top four was like
- 42:34Speaker 1: pretty amazing. Between Whitney Becca, Caitlin and Jade like, holy
- 42:39Speaker 1: four you did. But I'm saying, yeah, you had a
- 42:42Speaker 1: great Top four two we all have. Everybody has a
- 42:44Speaker 1: great topic. I'm just saying from from an in general,
- 42:47Speaker 1: Ari's group of girls are absolutely incredible. I mean, they
- 42:51Speaker 1: they cross off, they check all the all the things
- 42:55Speaker 1: that we look for. You know, they're smart, they're beautiful,
- 42:57Speaker 1: they're compassionate, they care um, you know, they're they're genuine,
- 43:01Speaker 1: they're authentic. I could not give enough credit to Ari's
- 43:05Speaker 1: group of women this season for how they pursued uh
- 43:09Speaker 1: the experience, how they became supportive of each other, not
- 43:12Speaker 1: all the time, and you know, we had enough drama
- 43:14Speaker 1: to keep it interesting. But now we have the Top four,
- 43:18Speaker 1: and this Top four is special and I believe stronger
- 43:21Speaker 1: today than I ever have. And I don't know the spoilers.
- 43:24Speaker 1: I know something happens, but I don't know exactly how
- 43:27Speaker 1: it plays out. That Ari will be with somebody at
- 43:30Speaker 1: the end of this that he legitimately could be with
- 43:34Speaker 1: the rest of his life. Yeah, I think so. I
- 43:36Speaker 1: I see Ari in this environment with these women now,
- 43:40Speaker 1: and I think he has to be laying in bed
- 43:42Speaker 1: at night during the Bachelor experience going. I'm one lucky guy.
- 43:45Speaker 1: I'm one lucky guy because of the woman I still
- 43:47Speaker 1: got here. So if Ari is feeling that way, he's
- 43:54Speaker 1: I believe that he There's no reason why he shouldn't.
- 43:57Speaker 1: And I think the rest of this season of The Bachelor,
- 44:00Speaker 1: I do. I think with between Winter Games and The Bachelor,
- 44:03Speaker 1: we're gonna get a couple of good, solid weeks for
- 44:05Speaker 1: any Bachelor fans out there of quality, quality entertainment three
- 44:10Speaker 1: days a week for the next two weeks. So much
- 44:13Speaker 1: like a little stress. I'm so stressed about that. It
- 44:15Speaker 1: seems like a lot of work for me to do.
- 44:18Speaker 1: But but it's going to be really good. Tune in.
- 44:21Speaker 1: There's not many times in life that you get three
- 44:23Speaker 1: hours of The Bachelor. I mean, can you imagine how
- 44:25Speaker 1: much better your life is going to be after this
- 44:27Speaker 1: Week's a couple of weeks stretch actually give us a spot.
- 44:30Speaker 1: It's going to give you. It's going to take you
- 44:32Speaker 1: so much time to watch The Bachelor this week, you're
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- 46:23Speaker 1: gotta ask you now that we had the final four here,
- 46:27Speaker 1: so it's a big deal in the Bachelor franchise to
- 46:30Speaker 1: be in the final four, to be the final four
- 46:32Speaker 1: and not the in It's just you know that this
- 46:35Speaker 1: is getting down to the wire. This is hometowns. Families
- 46:37Speaker 1: are going to be introduced to each other. This is
- 46:39Speaker 1: a big deal. Would you say that Ari picked the
- 46:44Speaker 1: right final four? Not okay for in your opinion, not
- 46:49Speaker 1: for him, for him? For him? Did you pick the
- 46:52Speaker 1: best top four for him? I have to say yes.
- 46:58Speaker 1: Is there anybody there? Yeah? I could have subs to
- 47:00Speaker 1: CN with Kendall. I think, okay, why people love Kindle?
- 47:03Speaker 1: I get more messages that Kindle and I should date. Oh,
- 47:07Speaker 1: I get them all the time all the time. Interesting, No,
- 47:12Speaker 1: I like Kendall a lot. I just don't know if
- 47:14Speaker 1: like they have the chemistry that's going to take them
- 47:16Speaker 1: to forever they have like a nice boyfriend. What do
- 47:18Speaker 1: you like about Kindle? I mean, why do you mean
- 47:21Speaker 1: she's okay? So here's a question, Luke Luke Pell who
- 47:24Speaker 1: was here and I were talking about this the other day.
- 47:26Speaker 1: Do you think the taxidermy thing isn't as a real thing?
- 47:30Speaker 1: You really think she travels with the bird? With the bird,
- 47:33Speaker 1: she says that she travels with the I think on
- 47:35Speaker 1: episode two she told her she travels the bird. I'm
- 47:38Speaker 1: telling you right now for anybody out there listening. If
- 47:41Speaker 1: I meet a girl, no matter how sweet, no matter
- 47:43Speaker 1: how kind, how how smart, no matter how beautiful, and
- 47:46Speaker 1: she travels with a taxidermy bird that she talks to,
- 47:48Speaker 1: I'm out. I'm out. It's not there's just there's like
- 47:52Speaker 1: you know, like we talked about, there's some things like Abner, Abner,
- 47:57Speaker 1: abnormal things in life that I can deal with. Some
- 48:00Speaker 1: uniqueness I can deal with. And I like traveling with
- 48:03Speaker 1: a stuffed animal, like an actual stuffed animal. It's not okay?
- 48:07Speaker 1: What about a pretend stuffed animal? What about like, yeah,
- 48:11Speaker 1: I was gonna say, actually, I know you sleep with
- 48:13Speaker 1: something that you've slept with for years. Well, I sleep
- 48:15Speaker 1: with that at home, not in my apartment. But I mean, yeah,
- 48:18Speaker 1: that's fine. That stuffed animal I get, Like your your
- 48:20Speaker 1: care blanket, I get. I mean it's still a little
- 48:22Speaker 1: weird and it shows some type of issues as as
- 48:25Speaker 1: as a child. But I mean, yeah, we all have
- 48:28Speaker 1: her issues though, But if you have tax dermy that
- 48:32Speaker 1: you travel with, I'm just wondering if that's a real
- 48:36Speaker 1: thing for her. I think it's a real thing, and
- 48:38Speaker 1: I don't think it's affecting oris decision on her. I
- 48:41Speaker 1: just think I think I think of all the top
- 48:43Speaker 1: four he's she's got the she brings it out of
- 48:48Speaker 1: him the least, you know. I feel like his conversations
- 48:51Speaker 1: with her aren't as lovey, dovey and romantic. I cannot
- 48:55Speaker 1: wait till day we get can on the podcast because
- 48:57Speaker 1: I'm so interested in hearing about this thing because I
- 49:00Speaker 1: have I have, like you know, text near me my house.
- 49:03Speaker 1: I do, but but I have a couple. Yeah, I
- 49:06Speaker 1: don't know, I guess I actually I don't know how
- 49:09Speaker 1: I feel about it. I mean, and I do, and
- 49:12Speaker 1: and so I don't think it's crazy that she has
- 49:15Speaker 1: text that she likes texting me. I get she is
- 49:19Speaker 1: not she is a text stormist. I don't think that's
- 49:23Speaker 1: her actual So here's the big question. It's not Lucas
- 49:26Speaker 1: saying it's not her actual occupation to hobby. So here's
- 49:28Speaker 1: the big question. Please email us at Ben and Ashley
- 49:30Speaker 1: at I heart media dot com. Is it odd to
- 49:34Speaker 1: travel with taxidermy? Yes or no? That's all I want
- 49:37Speaker 1: to know, Yes or no? Um? And also would you be?
- 49:42Speaker 1: Who would your top four have been? I want to
- 49:43Speaker 1: hear all from all of our listeners. If you were
- 49:46Speaker 1: in Ari's position, and you know Ari well at this
- 49:49Speaker 1: point you've watched him for months, do you think he
- 49:52Speaker 1: picked the right top four? I would have if it
- 49:55Speaker 1: was if I was all right, I would have had
- 49:56Speaker 1: beck at m in there because I have a girl
- 49:58Speaker 1: crush on beck Am. I her this yet I don't think,
- 50:00Speaker 1: really know what do you mean? I think she's like
- 50:03Speaker 1: the cutest person and I just want to look at
- 50:05Speaker 1: her face all day. Really, I think she's adorable. I
- 50:08Speaker 1: love because some people call me adorable, and I think
- 50:12Speaker 1: it's like a diss, like you're so adorable, Like Hey,
- 50:15Speaker 1: you're an idiot. No, no, no, I think she's really smart.
- 50:19Speaker 1: I love her sassy personality. I love like how she's
- 50:23Speaker 1: like a tomboy yet a girl's girl at the same time.
- 50:26Speaker 1: And I love her face, like I would trade faces
- 50:30Speaker 1: with her. That's so weird, Actually, I know. I just
- 50:33Speaker 1: think it's so. I don't have a response. I would
- 50:37Speaker 1: trade faces with her. Have you ever felt that way
- 50:39Speaker 1: about another woman? Um, yeah, definitely, but not on The Bachelor. Apparently.
- 50:44Speaker 1: I know. I like my face, but that's how much
- 50:46Speaker 1: I like her face. Is that weird? No, it's not weird.
- 50:49Speaker 1: All this is totally normal trade. Who would you trade
- 50:52Speaker 1: faces within the Bachelor family if you had to trade faces?
- 50:57Speaker 1: I mean, Luke Dina Alert? Yeah? Is that just because
- 51:01Speaker 1: they're they're your friends? And the other in there here?
- 51:05Speaker 1: We're gonna you know, let's sum it up really quick.
- 51:08Speaker 1: The Bachelor is is is still going. We're down to
- 51:10Speaker 1: the final four hometowns next week. Let's see in aries
- 51:14Speaker 1: pursue at finding the one for him. We know that
- 51:16Speaker 1: the last few weeks of the show are going to
- 51:17Speaker 1: be insane. You gotta tune in to The Bachelor Monday
- 51:21Speaker 1: nights and also tune in the podcast because without the Bachelor,
- 51:24Speaker 1: we don't exist. Without the podcast, the Bachelor still exists.
- 51:27Speaker 1: So just listen to podcast. We need to Um actually
- 51:30Speaker 1: have one more email when to read to you. Uh,
- 51:32Speaker 1: let's talk it through before we close out this week,
- 51:35Speaker 1: says Hey, guys, your podcast entertains me so well at work.
- 51:39Speaker 1: Thank you for that. Here's my question. A few weeks ago,
- 51:43Speaker 1: someone you had in the podcast let it slip that
- 51:46Speaker 1: there is a Bachelor therapist. I think it was Ashley
- 51:50Speaker 1: who might have said that you weren't sure if you
- 51:51Speaker 1: guys were allowed to disclose that information. Typical Ashley freaking out.
- 51:56Speaker 1: So what else don't we know? You guys got the
- 51:58Speaker 1: freaking current Batchel there, come on mid season? Are you
- 52:02Speaker 1: kidding me? You can do anything? So what don't we
- 52:07Speaker 1: have we can do? We can talk about anything. So yeah,
- 52:11Speaker 1: so okay, let me close it. So what we don't
- 52:13Speaker 1: know about being a contestant? I think it would help
- 52:17Speaker 1: us a lot, uh to give more sympathy for the
- 52:19Speaker 1: people on the show. If there are some things that's closed,
- 52:21Speaker 1: so well, each sear one secret. Oh by the way,
- 52:24Speaker 1: that's from Kelly. Um I just I laughed during this
- 52:27Speaker 1: email because it's funny you had the freaking Bachelor on
- 52:30Speaker 1: mid season. You can do anything. I mean, you know what,
- 52:35Speaker 1: we can do anything. Actually, you know what some of
- 52:38Speaker 1: us might feel like losers. We know you know we aren't.
- 52:41Speaker 1: We can do anything. Keep your mind up. Okay, my once,
- 52:44Speaker 1: So there is a Bachelor therapist. Let me explain why. Um,
- 52:48Speaker 1: because we need it. Got a lot of people on
- 52:52Speaker 1: the show, and you know, when when you are in
- 52:54Speaker 1: this emotional environment and it is a very real experience,
- 52:57Speaker 1: and and there are relationships being built and love being
- 53:00Speaker 1: talked about, and there's stories from you know, the past
- 53:03Speaker 1: that are being brought up. There's just a lot going
- 53:05Speaker 1: on and it feels good and it's needed, and I
- 53:08Speaker 1: think it's it's a very responsible thing for the Bachelor
- 53:10Speaker 1: to do to have a therapist there for the contestants
- 53:15Speaker 1: or the Bachelor or even the producers to speak with
- 53:17Speaker 1: to help process some of this information. So I think
- 53:20Speaker 1: it's just a gift um from the franchise and honestly,
- 53:24Speaker 1: it's needed. I don't know how much people take advantage
- 53:26Speaker 1: of it. Yeah, I was gonna ask, did you ever
- 53:27Speaker 1: use it? I I have, Yeah, I've used it a
- 53:29Speaker 1: couple of times. But you know, I like speaking to
- 53:31Speaker 1: therapists in real life and I've I think it's a
- 53:34Speaker 1: huge deal. So um, when you when you have three
- 53:37Speaker 1: free therapy on on the show, take advantage. I don't
- 53:40Speaker 1: think it gets taken advantage of too often. I don't
- 53:42Speaker 1: think a lot of people talk to the therapist is
- 53:45Speaker 1: only when they're coming into the show and when they're
- 53:47Speaker 1: leaving the show, but they can do it anytimes. She's
- 53:49Speaker 1: a phone call, way, she travels with the show, or
- 53:51Speaker 1: he travels the show. I think that changes up right now.
- 53:54Speaker 1: My one secret from The Bachelor, oh man, I'll just
- 53:59Speaker 1: throw a about there. One is the Bachelor and Bachelorette
- 54:02Speaker 1: have an amazing stylist named Carrie Fetman. So I typically
- 54:07Speaker 1: never really picked out my clothes on the show when
- 54:09Speaker 1: I was the Bachelor. Um, you know, he would help
- 54:11Speaker 1: me out, he give me some options, but for the
- 54:13Speaker 1: most part, I never picked out my clothes. Um my
- 54:16Speaker 1: my personal one as you know, and I talked about
- 54:18Speaker 1: him in the blog Mahogany workplace is Um. I had
- 54:22Speaker 1: a parasite called strong Vloyda's the whole time I was
- 54:25Speaker 1: in the show. So I had lost twenty five pounds
- 54:27Speaker 1: from the start of the show to the end of
- 54:28Speaker 1: the show. I was so sick all the time, um,
- 54:31Speaker 1: and I had a fever, especially in Bahamas. We actually
- 54:34Speaker 1: had to cancel the road ceremony because I was so
- 54:37Speaker 1: sick that I couldn't stand out there long enough to
- 54:39Speaker 1: like stay out of the bathroom. So I was just
- 54:41Speaker 1: I was so sick. Um, So that was terrible. Uh.
- 54:45Speaker 1: And it's I don't think it's ever been done, but
- 54:47Speaker 1: I gotta get myself some credit. I was sick the
- 54:49Speaker 1: whole time on The Bachelor and some of the most
- 54:50Speaker 1: stressful things ever and I and I stuck to it
- 54:53Speaker 1: the final thing. And I just got asked this this week,
- 54:55Speaker 1: and that's why I want to talk about it. Contestants,
- 54:58Speaker 1: let's clear us up, do not get paid to be
- 54:59Speaker 1: on the batchel that to supply their own clothes, that
- 55:02Speaker 1: their own wardrobe, their own suitcases, an makeup and hair.
- 55:06Speaker 1: Contestants don't get paid the Bachelor and Bachelor that do
- 55:08Speaker 1: get paid. But it's not a lot, it's not It
- 55:11Speaker 1: really is whatever you make in the course of a year,
- 55:14Speaker 1: like the star of the prime time show and the
- 55:18Speaker 1: other actor actress, Like, no, this is nothing. This is nothing.
- 55:21Speaker 1: I mean, I'm telling you, uh, it isn't. If you
- 55:24Speaker 1: heard the amount, you'd say, okay, that makes sense, and
- 55:26Speaker 1: it really is. This The reason is that what they
- 55:29Speaker 1: told me, which you know obviously I fought it, was
- 55:33Speaker 1: they don't want this to be about the money. They
- 55:35Speaker 1: wanted to be about the relationships and the love. And
- 55:37Speaker 1: that I guess that does make sense because you have
- 55:39Speaker 1: a lot more people anxiously fighting to be the next guy,
- 55:42Speaker 1: the next girl. If it was about the money, if
- 55:44Speaker 1: you're making a ton of money from it, and so
- 55:46Speaker 1: instead it's about the relationships and it stayed that way.
- 55:49Speaker 1: And I also think it's that's just a really good
- 55:51Speaker 1: excuse for them to not have to pay their talent
- 55:53Speaker 1: really well. But it works and and and there's opportunities afterwards,
- 55:57Speaker 1: you know, to to to to make the money. But
- 56:00Speaker 1: that's the big thing that everybody I was asking me,
- 56:02Speaker 1: like to the contestants, spade, no, they don't ash what's
- 56:06Speaker 1: your secrets? Um? I wanted to go back and revisit
- 56:08Speaker 1: the therapist thing. I definitely start using it during my
- 56:11Speaker 1: second season to Paradise because what's so nice about having
- 56:13Speaker 1: a therapist is it's off camera. Your discussions to them
- 56:16Speaker 1: are off camera, and at that point the only people
- 56:19Speaker 1: you have to discuss your issues with usually are cast
- 56:22Speaker 1: members on camera or producers, who in that environment you
- 56:26Speaker 1: can't exactly completely trust. Um, So I would always go
- 56:30Speaker 1: to therapist just to be able to vent off camera. Then,
- 56:35Speaker 1: I guess my secret is that we have to pack
- 56:38Speaker 1: up completely and zip up our suitcases and all that
- 56:41Speaker 1: before every rose ceremony in Winter Games, because we didn't
- 56:45Speaker 1: really know, like girls don't have to pack up if
- 56:47Speaker 1: they have the roses in paradise, but if there's even
- 56:51Speaker 1: if you have like the most secure relationship with the bachelor,
- 56:55Speaker 1: and he basically said, don't worry giving you a rose tonight,
- 56:59Speaker 1: he's you still have to zip up and pack up
- 57:01Speaker 1: everything before going into the rose ceremony. Yeah, that's that's
- 57:04Speaker 1: a good secret. You're always packed, always packed, because when
- 57:08Speaker 1: you go home, you go home, Like that's I mean,
- 57:10Speaker 1: that's the thing is like when when you walk out
- 57:12Speaker 1: that room, you're gone, You're not coming back. Um. So, yeah,
- 57:18Speaker 1: you're a spot on. Those are some great, great tibits.
- 57:20Speaker 1: We'll try to share more. I was actually I'm having
- 57:21Speaker 1: a hard time even thinking of the secrets at this
- 57:23Speaker 1: point because but we'll try to share any insight you want,
- 57:26Speaker 1: so please email us again at Ben in n Ashley,
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