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Happy Hour #123: Twenty-Something Girls vs. Thirty-Something Women (SATC S2 Ep. 17) · Stuff Mom Never Told You

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  Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha, and welcome to Stephan
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  Speaker 1: Never Told You Protection of iHeart Radio, and.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Happy Hour edition of We're
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  Speaker 2: gonna watch Sex in the City together because Annie's never
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  Speaker 2: watched it and I'm making her watch all of them.
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  Speaker 2: If we're still alive by the end of this, we'll see.
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  Speaker 1: I have hopes. I think so, I have hopes.
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  Speaker 2: We are coming to the end of season two. We're
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  Speaker 2: in the second to the last episode of season two.
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  Speaker 2: That means we're going to have our listener participation happening soon.
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  Speaker 2: So look out in your emails. If you sent us
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  Speaker 2: your names.
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  Speaker 1: Or however you contacted us, that's how our instagrams. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: and if you've changed your minds, that's okay, but let
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  Speaker 1: us know so we can tell the next person.
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  Speaker 2: Until we run out just nobody and then there's nobody.
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  Speaker 2: We're just gonna call friends like I know you don't care,
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  Speaker 2: but you're going to be on it now. But yes,
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  Speaker 2: we are doing our watched through Sex and the City.
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  Speaker 2: Getting good reactions from Annie gives some good life discussions.
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  Speaker 2: We do surprisingly good life discussions based on the nineteen
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  Speaker 2: ninety nine series Yes and It looks like just like
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  Speaker 2: that is now out again, not a sponsor now right now,
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  Speaker 2: this boy while we're recording.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just a huge mistake.
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  Speaker 1: Right And also, I don't have you watched any of
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  Speaker 1: it yet?
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  Speaker 2: Smith, I have not have you.
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  Speaker 1: I haven't, but I was reading them. I'm planning to.
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  Speaker 1: I was reading the descriptions. In the second episode is
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  Speaker 1: about Carrie having a fight with a podcast advertiser.
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  Speaker 3: Oh too real or is it? Let's see how they
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  Speaker 3: depict it.
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  Speaker 1: I know, I know, I got to see it, though,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like.
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  Speaker 3: Really, do you know?
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  Speaker 2: Because we may or may not have been in a
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  Speaker 2: scuffle ourselves recently.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I've been in a few scuffles. It usually works out fine.
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  Speaker 2: They all usually work out. There's some like miscommunication and
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  Speaker 2: then I get feisty, andy petty. Not as petty as
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  Speaker 2: some others, but just a little bit just enough. But
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  Speaker 2: anyway back to we are doing season two, episode seventeen.
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  Speaker 2: But before we start it is a happy hour. We
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  Speaker 2: do often sip on something yummy because you know, it's
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  Speaker 2: one of those we did the Cosmos.
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  Speaker 3: I think the first few episodes didn't wait nice.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that was nice, And we'll have to do that again,
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  Speaker 2: because I made pretty good cosmos. I will say that
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  Speaker 2: you do, but that is not what we're drinking necessarily today.
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  Speaker 2: And if you are participating with some drinks or whatever
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  Speaker 2: else you're doing, do it responsibly. We love you, care
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  Speaker 2: for yourself. So Annie, what are you sipping on?
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  Speaker 1: Red wine? I was going to. I bubbled up some
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  Speaker 1: of the flavored water we got Framo spots here, and
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  Speaker 1: I was gonna make a gin and tonic before I
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  Speaker 1: remembered we have a thing tonight for work, so I
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  Speaker 1: should not to do that. And then I was gonna
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  Speaker 1: like drink a beer, but I was like, the carbon
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  Speaker 1: ation's not good for your voice. So here I am.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, I gave up on all that. My bad. I
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  Speaker 3: was just going to goggle some salt water.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you'll be fine. It's again. I think maybe we're
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  Speaker 1: worried about this a touch too much, but yes, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I think you'll be fine.
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  Speaker 2: Early in the morning was fine. Six pms like, nah,
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  Speaker 2: it's over now, bro, Yeah, so yes, I am actually
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  Speaker 2: drinking a bubbly drink. It is a pineapple sparkling, a
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  Speaker 2: juice beverage from a retail store that I really much like.
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  Speaker 2: This was like a nice find, and it probably would
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  Speaker 2: be a really good cocktail. But once again, as I
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  Speaker 2: have told you and mini listeners, I am older now
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  Speaker 2: and my alcohol tolerance makes me sleepy, So doing a
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  Speaker 2: job not recommended for me who was naturally sleepy. So
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  Speaker 2: keeping it non alcoholic today with my bubbly sparkling pineapple
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  Speaker 2: juice beverage. As it says, I'm really on a pineapple pick.
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  Speaker 2: I really love pineapple right now. Everything so good. There
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  Speaker 2: is a Jamaican bakery that does a pineapple turnover.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, makes me very happy.
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  Speaker 2: Anyway, now that we're back, as we always do at
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  Speaker 2: the beginning of these episodes, Annie, please give us a
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  Speaker 2: recap of what is happening that you can remember.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, So we've had We started the season with
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  Speaker 1: a breakup with Big, and then they were dating again,
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  Speaker 1: him and Carrie, and then they had a mid season
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  Speaker 1: breakup where she realized she liked dudes who aren't good
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  Speaker 1: for her. And then there's been a lot of dating
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  Speaker 1: for her, like dating the family dating which was involved
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  Speaker 1: with someone who had that was my my finest moments,
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  Speaker 1: someone who had a short orgasms I got correct And
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  Speaker 1: then so that's kind of her Miranda broke up with Steve.
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  Speaker 1: Steve broke up with Miranda, they broke up, and so
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  Speaker 1: she's also dating a bunch of different interesting folks, including
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  Speaker 1: Will Arnett who like was an exhibitionist and had sex
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  Speaker 1: with the parents. And then Charlotte is also trying to
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  Speaker 1: find the one, which has involved her kind of putting
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  Speaker 1: her foot in her mouth with her friends, kind of
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  Speaker 1: putting her beliefs on other people. Also somebody falling asleep
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  Speaker 1: top of her during sex and deciding to go to
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  Speaker 1: a sex class. But that uh and then yeah, Samantha
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  Speaker 1: continues to explore and all kinds of things, whether it's
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  Speaker 1: sports guys really enjoying this sex class actually or talking
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  Speaker 1: about like oh like BDSM stuff and a BDSM restaurant,
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  Speaker 1: all kinds of stuff.
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  Speaker 2: So I get thrown it way back. Okay, you got
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  Speaker 2: all the things in there.
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  Speaker 1: We're trying to we're getting to the end of the season.
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  Speaker 3: You're correct, you are correct.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Well, this episode, episode seventeen is titled twenty something
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  Speaker 2: Girls Marsa's thirty something Women.
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  Speaker 3: What do you think this is about?
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  Speaker 1: Oh? Uh, well, I think it's probably about that exactly.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's about how like when you're twenty something,
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  Speaker 1: there's sort of just like younger student vibe, like not
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  Speaker 1: get an adult versus like thirty you're already like you
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  Speaker 1: don't know what you're talking about kind of situation. I
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  Speaker 1: feel like we had a similar episode to this with
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  Speaker 1: Timothy Olda Finn, but like dating someone younger or maybe
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  Speaker 1: dating no, I would have to be someone younger, and
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  Speaker 1: kind of the conversations that go with that and the
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  Speaker 1: situations that are different that you find yourself in very generic.
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  Speaker 2: I like it. Yes, we'll grant you as we come along.
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  Speaker 2: And besides, the city is completely dead during August.
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  Speaker 1: That's because everyone's in the Hampton's.
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  Speaker 2: Were stuck in traffic trying to get there.
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  Speaker 3: But this could be the last summer them trying to
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  Speaker 3: figure out.
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  Speaker 2: Have I ever met anyone who actually went to the Hamptons?
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  Speaker 2: I mean next year.
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  Speaker 1: We talked about this before because I said, this feels
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  Speaker 1: like a very New York thing. A lot of the
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  Speaker 1: shows I watch based in New York hapt this conversation
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  Speaker 1: about the traffic and getting there, and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: is this really what's going on? And I feel like
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  Speaker 1: somebody wrote in and I was like, yeah, I am
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  Speaker 1: I have personal relationships on my own, you know, not
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  Speaker 1: with my clients. You don't, And I have my own crew.
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  Speaker 2: Storry about your career is being my assistant?
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  Speaker 1: You're so deluded.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, you wouldn't even know what's hot if it
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  Speaker 2: wasn't for me.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, unfortunately, you don't seem to grasp the vast
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  Speaker 1: difference between us.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yes I do.
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  Speaker 2: Oh you stood align at Studio fifty four. I stood
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  Speaker 2: Aligne at Studio fifty four the movie. But what's so
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  Speaker 2: funny is that is so outdated. Anybody her agent now
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  Speaker 2: would be like, what what is that? Either one of
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  Speaker 2: those things?
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  Speaker 3: What is that?
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  Speaker 1: Excuse me?
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  Speaker 2: Do you remember us in our twenties stimular, have a
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  Speaker 2: little compassion ladies, the anything worse than being single in us.
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  Speaker 2: Love the luggage except for Miranda all match having one
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  Speaker 2: thing luggage and it does not much.
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  Speaker 1: That was something in high school where I was like,
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  Speaker 1: am I supposed to have a matching purse for every
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  Speaker 1: every outfit? Who's ridiculous? They said this place with shabby
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  Speaker 1: shake and thinking it's much more shake.
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  Speaker 3: These towels are mildew.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my, actually this whole house smells like mildews. I
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  Speaker 2: feel like when you go to like Airbnb's, that smell
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  Speaker 2: is almost the same thing. A's like it's fells stuffy. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: an overly lighthold Yeah, which I guess I appreciate, but right, yeah, I.
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  Speaker 1: Think it's the you know, multiple people coming in, but
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  Speaker 1: also older houses like this, like they have just so
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  Speaker 1: many interesting quirks. Evidently, while we had taken the Midtown Tunnel,
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  Speaker 1: Charlotte had taken the Time Tunnel.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, Hey, come on in you guys.
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  Speaker 3: Remember Greg Hi, he thinks she's younger than she is.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, and you know what, as I've hit my like
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  Speaker 2: stride in my forties, I'm like, all right, do I
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  Speaker 2: look forty? And I keep asking people that repeatedly, and
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  Speaker 2: I know no one's gonna tell me the truth. No one.
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  Speaker 2: But seriously, maybe I could send you something to read sometime.
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  Speaker 1: Sure, you have no idea what that would mean to
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  Speaker 1: me to have someone like you as my mentor.
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  Speaker 2: Oh well, mentor?
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  Speaker 1: So could I call you sometime in the city. I
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  Speaker 1: could just spend some time with you. That that would
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  Speaker 1: be so cool.
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  Speaker 2: I'm of course, I'll be looking at a super interesting
• 10:55
  Speaker 2: way to network.
• 10:56
  Speaker 1: That working is so strange. Anyway, I like this is
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  Speaker 1: a pretty awkward way to do it. But a lot
• 11:02
  Speaker 1: of times it is like we're at a party. Go network, Yep,
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  Speaker 1: it feels odd to me.
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  Speaker 2: All right, somebody puked on the deck. Oh sorry, and
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  Speaker 2: Holly did too many yellow shots?
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  Speaker 1: What are you twenty five now? Good morning?
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  Speaker 2: No twenty seven whatever?
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  Speaker 1: Back in the city.
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  Speaker 3: I've never tried to be younger.
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  Speaker 1: I've never purposely. I think one time somebody was like,
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  Speaker 1: is that your age? I was like, eh, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: The only time is like when I'm trying to full
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  Speaker 2: like internet or something. I don't want you to know
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  Speaker 2: my exact birthday, so I'll miss around the dates.
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  Speaker 1: Judgment. I feel like my friends and I when we
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  Speaker 1: first started going to my grandparents peach ass. We wear
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  Speaker 1: like slock drunks all day, all the time, puking. You
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  Speaker 1: have some stories, yeah, which drink responsibly, But once we
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  Speaker 1: got older, it is much more like Miranda, like, I'll
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  Speaker 1: go enjoy.
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  Speaker 2: Obviously again not drinking during our happy hour episode, I
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  Speaker 2: will be sleepy.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying. Do you think that twenty five is too
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  Speaker 1: young to write a personal memoir?
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  Speaker 2: Well, as long as it doesn't deal with incest, prozac.
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  Speaker 1: Or partying though, well, it does deal with sex, or
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  Speaker 1: rather not having sex. It's about how girls my age
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  Speaker 1: are saving themselves for marriage. That's not where I thought
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  Speaker 1: that was gonna go, taking my marriage our virginity. Are
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  Speaker 1: you seriously telling me that you've never had sex.
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  Speaker 2: With a man? You know I was with that group
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  Speaker 2: of people during this time. Yeah, nineteen ninety nine. That
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  Speaker 2: was the beginning of like the purity culture.
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  Speaker 1: Are you implying I'm some kind of the winskey. No,
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  Speaker 1: it's some kind of the window. Oh my god.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, no jobs of any kind, no jobs.
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  Speaker 1: Watching these now, it's kind of like, have you ever
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  Speaker 1: had sex with the man? Have you never had sex
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  Speaker 1: with the little bit? There's like a lot of that. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: But then like you feel like me, maybe you're not
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  Speaker 1: into it. Oh my god, he's such a fox.
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  Speaker 3: Is such a fox?
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  Speaker 2: I never used that. I would have been her age
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  Speaker 2: ish around this time. No, I would never say the
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  Speaker 2: word he's such a fox.
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  Speaker 1: We sat under our umbrella, twenty something girls sizzled on
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  Speaker 1: the sand like rotisserie chick in this. Excuse me? When
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  Speaker 1: did Tanning come back in style? Had me the forty five.
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  Speaker 3: Forty five and no went up that hot.
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  Speaker 2: Forty five and I know now it's a seventy. Yeah
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  Speaker 2: by sunscreen the other day and it's like seventy. I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 2: I read it. It doesn't matter after like fifty.
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  Speaker 3: So why are they.
• 13:57
  Speaker 1: Doing this climate change?
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  Speaker 2: Maybe but it doesn't affect it, like literally it doesn't.
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  Speaker 2: The SBF really is not effective, or maybe it has been.
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  Speaker 3: Now, someone tell me.
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  Speaker 1: Where she goes to the drug store. Charlotte really is
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  Speaker 1: in her twenties. She's got crabs. Oh my gosh, she
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  Speaker 1: really doesn't grow. That night called doctor Migo.
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  Speaker 2: I figured it was an emergency. I like that they
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  Speaker 2: don't like they do sing that has to make it
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  Speaker 2: a joke, But they don't act like it's not. Like
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  Speaker 2: it's abnormal, right and like the worst thing possible, Like
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  Speaker 2: they are like.
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  Speaker 1: Implying that it does happen.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like you have to be a dirty person for
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  Speaker 2: that to happen. That's not necessarily true.
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  Speaker 1: Now this or she's talking about Charlotte's situation to the
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  Speaker 1: guy she just met. I don't know how I feel
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  Speaker 1: about that, But that's fair, is it you? Oh dear, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: look who it is?
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  Speaker 3: What are you doing here?
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: What am I doing here?
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: What are you doing here? They like running the same circles.
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  Speaker 1: It's it's big everybody.
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  Speaker 3: I mean obviously because he's rich.
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  Speaker 1: Hi, it's a pleasure to meet you.
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  Speaker 3: I've heard so much about you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna guess she's younger Carrie.
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  Speaker 3: He's not called the cougar.
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  Speaker 2: What is? He's nice? Sugar daddy is too nice of
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  Speaker 2: a compliment because she's also the girl's rich on her own.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, dirty old man, dirty.
• 15:43
  Speaker 2: Old man like that because he's older than Carrie. So
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  Speaker 2: I think he's at this point his late forties.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and you know, bad a knife.
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  Speaker 2: But if for me, if I were to date someone
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  Speaker 2: that age difference twenty six even like, I would be
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  Speaker 2: like hell no, Like that makes me feel dirty.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, that was the end, biggest back.
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  Speaker 2: We are not happy with the twenty seven adule yep.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to be too much credit because you
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: just generically guessed.
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: But I feel like I was close. That's my generic guess.
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  Speaker 2: Did you see so you're passing? I can't get quite
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: a bit.
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  Speaker 3: You didn't give me.
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: Supplicific Plus, I'll leave you three out of five stars?
• 16:50
  Speaker 3: Can you give you the middle ground here?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? So summertime in the Hampton's did not go also
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: planned as for everybody. For Samantha, she came out on top,
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  Speaker 2: taking over the event and she getting paid for it.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think so she just took over and made
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: Gina look good instead of letting it fail. Nina, it's
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: just Na, You're right, Nina. G I was adding that,
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  Speaker 2: combining it to one. And then we have Charlotte getting
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  Speaker 2: crabs every time, Like for her though, she's like a
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: cautionary tell that whenever she does something that's a little
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  Speaker 2: out of line, she gets the trouble, like whether it's
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: the double dating and she gets caught and now she
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  Speaker 2: just like throws caution to the wind, lies about her
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  Speaker 2: age and then gets crabs. Like I feel like she's like, yeah,
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: she's over the top, but she should have been put
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: it off through all that. That's unnecessary, Darren Starr, what
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: are you doing? Man?
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: I do feel like she is. It's so her character
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  Speaker 1: is so interesting because she is the one that's like,
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: look looking for the one though, and she has that
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  Speaker 1: idea in her head and like not to shame her
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  Speaker 1: at all for like all the people she's dated, but
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  Speaker 1: it does kind of feel like it's a punishing of
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  Speaker 1: her of dating, lying about her age. You've got grabs,
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  Speaker 1: double date. They both find out and they become friends,
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  Speaker 1: right right, Yeah, the dude.
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  Speaker 2: Falls asleep on or like all those things just never
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  Speaker 2: goes well for her.
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  Speaker 1: It's kind of implied like she's boring. But also to
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  Speaker 1: me and this, you know, I grew up in a
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  Speaker 1: small town, but to me, it seems like she's doing
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  Speaker 1: way more than I was.
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  Speaker 2: I think someone actually made an account account of how
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: many people they slept with based on the episodes. It's
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: it's high not that that matters, but it's also like
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: the thing that I was to be like, how are
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: you not exhausted? How do you have time to do
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  Speaker 2: all those things and have sex with that many men
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  Speaker 2: while having a full time job and hanging out.
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  Speaker 3: With their friends.
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  Speaker 1: That's not possible.
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  Speaker 2: No, how do you meet these men? That's the other
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  Speaker 2: part of that. We already had this episode about the dating,
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  Speaker 2: and I'm like, it's hard.
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  Speaker 3: Who maybe New York.
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  Speaker 2: Is a whole different beast when it comes to like
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  Speaker 2: the amount of this true, and like you can meet
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  Speaker 2: and never meet. As we're Atlanta again, I would go
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: through picking back up on dating apps and I swear
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: to God, it would just regard to state the same
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  Speaker 2: three people.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like I have read that somewhere. That's
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: kind of the problem. One of the issues with online dating,
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  Speaker 1: which is not different than in real life dating in
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  Speaker 1: a small town. It's a small town, and I have
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: friends who were like, I will drive an hour to
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  Speaker 1: date somebody in the city, which to me, again exhausting.
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  Speaker 2: Also, I think if you live in the city, you'll
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: refuse to go outside of the decision.
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  Speaker 1: No, I'm a terrible persons me.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, you don't live in Atlanta.
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  Speaker 2: No, Yeah, I.
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  Speaker 1: Mean I could put up those things. I just do
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: feel bad because I have friends who will make the drive,
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, I wouldn't.
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  Speaker 2: Make that drive, but I'm never coming to see you there.
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  Speaker 3: See you'll come through here.
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  Speaker 1: Or it's like a rare special occasion I will show up, right.
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: But yeah, does feel very like kind of city girl.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like I'm not like I've heard people say
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: that repeatedly, like because you you know, you put your location,
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: how far are your distances and I'm like five miles
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: that's too far.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, Well, it's also like I feel I was
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: thinking about this the other day because I was a
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: very before the pandemic. I was a very outgoing person,
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: Like I might not drive super far, but I will
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: come and I would do I would hang out, and
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: I liked it. A lot of it was performative, but
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: I did like it, and I like this morning I was.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: I woke up and one of the first thoughts I
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: had was sometimes I missed the old Annie and sometimes
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: I'm just happy with the new one who doesn't have
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: to do any of that. So I'm watching this episode
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: and they're in the Hamptons and they're at this cowboys
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: themed party, and I'm like him, I think I might
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: be done with that thing.
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  Speaker 2: I know absolutely, I'm like, I'm over all of this,
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  Speaker 2: like unless I have to do it for my job
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: or because my friendship, Like there's a friend right the name.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I still love I love dragon Con. That's
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: like the one year Like like I think I would
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: do it for a very nerdy thing that I loved,
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: but like just the going to a party like that,
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: unless it was a friend or it was like a
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  Speaker 1: very nerdy thing. And even then because a lot of
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: people who throw those nerdy parties if I don't know.
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: Them, probably no, I will not go. Yeah, most of
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: ours that we have to do for WARGI who don't go,
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: I'm not going.
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  Speaker 1: That's true. I always know when you ask me, I'm like,
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: the question she's really asking is does she have to go?
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: True story?
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, So the twenty seven girls versus thirty something
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  Speaker 2: women essentially is the difference in likability, maturity, and how
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: people function. And if we talk about this a lot,
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: because even in our show, in our crew, we have
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: a vast age like I am the oldest, and then
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: you sit pretty further down from me, as we discussed,
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: and then we have Christina, our super producer, who is
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: further down, and then Maya, our executive prowser, who's a
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: little further down, and then Joey, who was all the
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: way down just getting graduating from college. And then so
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: we really do have like two decades worth of generations here.
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  Speaker 2: And I find it interesting because when we have a conversation,
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: it doesn't feel like it's that gapped out, because yeah,
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: the interest between you and Joey is pretty similar, yes,
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: but the way like we communicate or things that we
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: think we might be important is different, or how we
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: would do something or what we see something is like
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: huh okay.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, And I think when I was watching this,
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: I did like the message of compassion. And I think
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: also though, like young people are smarter than anyone like
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: then we give them credit for and it's amazing how
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: quickly you forget that. But at the same time, I
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: remember being like me at twenty one knew nothing like
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: that feels like remembering a different person, like I just
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: had so much growing to do and learning to do,
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: and so I could relate to that kind of being
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: like messy. It just I was, I was just all
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: over the place. Then I would like start here, dark there,
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: dart lives just all over. So I thought that interesting.
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  Speaker 1: But I do think that's important to remember as well
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  Speaker 1: as that age doesn't equate necessarily wisdom or no.
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  Speaker 3: I definitely agree.
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  Speaker 2: And I think on top of that the level of awareness.
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  Speaker 2: I think the younger generation is more self aware than before,
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: and I think that's very good to know, I will say,
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: and I've reiterated this my mid thirties and even today,
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: I'm so happy to be here. Twenties sucked for me
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: and I hated in my twenties again the age old
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: adage of like youth is wasted on the young. I
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: did not understand that because that's just such a weird statement.
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: I'm like, what does that mean? And at this point,
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: I'm like, Oh, the confidence that I have now, I
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: really wish I had at that point where I could
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: have not as I could have done more, but I
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: had more opportunities to make the decisions like that were
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: life changing than to today that's shaped today. Yeah, I
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: don't think I would change anything because it would have
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: completely altered where we are. But understanding where I am
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: and being comfortable and caring less little less of what
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: people think of me, and being somewhat happy of where
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: I am, and understanding what it took to get here
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: so much more comfortable, so much more comfortable, in being
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: able to say no so much more comfortable, and being
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: able to stay at my house so much more comfortable,
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: and not having to compete with people like it just
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: it feels better, and then also having the money to
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: fix things that I couldn't fix in.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. I mean, I think that's speaking for myself.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: I think that's one of the things I look back
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: on and it really makes me sad, is that when
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: I was in my twenties. I wish I had known
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: then that, like you said, I could say no, that
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: I could. I wish I had been more educated just
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: in general about like consent, life stuff, all kinds of stuff.
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: I wish i'd been more educated and that I had
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: had the confidence to know because I was so insecure,
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: that I had the confidence to kind of be like, no,
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: it's okay, it's okay. That's my big looking back that
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: I wish I had had. But it's all like throughout
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: this episode two is very much the societal preference for
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: younger women. Right, So that's that's there as well.
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: Right, we just started on that conversation. Obviously, as we're
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: introduced to Bigg's new girlfriend, it's going to play a
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: bigger part.
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: Wasn't that in That was an end just like that?
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: She was, Yes, she was, she was, Yes, she was
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: very see yeah I do, I do, but I I
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: think I'll still won't guess anything and I'll still be shocked.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: Apparently I'm not good at it.
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: It's the way they took it. I don't know if
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: they meant to, but it makes carry the villain.
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, well that's interesting. Yeah, that's interesting.
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: Well thanks to come thanks to come.
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: Which speaking of yes, we are going to choose our
• 27:11
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  Speaker 1: if you if you're the winner, and again if you
• 27:22
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• 27:27
  Speaker 1: but that in theories the next episode we're doing so
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: true joy. Yes, yes, yes, of this Sex and the
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: City one because we alternate. But all right, uh well,
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: thanks for joining us. As always, if you would like
• 27:43
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