Latest / Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast / 286 - The 5-Step Process To Monetize Your Purpose
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- 0:01Welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, the show dedicated to
- 0:05helping entrepreneurs use human design to shift from hustle to
- 0:09flow without sacrificing results.
- 0:11Come here to become an unshakeable human and build an unshakeable business
- 0:15according to your human design.
- 0:17I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
- 0:22Hello and welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, everyone.
- 0:25I'm your host, Nicole Laino, and we're going to dive into some
- 0:30business and human design stuff today.
- 0:31We're going to talk about purpose and your business, because I know that so many of
- 0:35you are entrepreneurs who listen to this show, or you have a dream of being an
- 0:40entrepreneur, or you're a high performer.
- 0:43And no matter what I do with people, whether it's readings that they book
- 0:47with me, and I get people from all walks of life booking readings with
- 0:51me, it's not just entrepreneurs.
- 0:53But I get people booking readings with me, people joining my Business
- 0:56by Design Mentorship, and then even people joining my more personal
- 1:00programs like the Unshakeable Human program, which is about embodiment.
- 1:04It's not a business focused program.
- 1:07It's human design focused in the front.
- 1:10No matter what I do, when people fill out the intake form for whatever it
- 1:14is that they're joining, when I ask them what their desires are, when
- 1:17I ask them what they're looking for from human design, when I ask them
- 1:21what are their goals and dreams?
- 1:25Almost every single person says somewhat of the same thing.
- 1:30They might say it a slightly different way, but at the core of it, it's I want
- 1:35to figure out how to monetize my purpose.
- 1:38I want to live a purpose driven life, and I'd like to figure out how
- 1:44I can work my business around that.
- 1:47And that absolutely can be done.
- 1:50And human design, I always try very hard on this show and everywhere else
- 1:55where I speak or put out content, I really try to be very honest.
- 2:00And I really try to bring this knowledge down to earth, but also
- 2:03not speak in hyperbolic terms and not over promise and under deliver.
- 2:08I try to be very, very clear with what you can expect as far
- 2:12as the journey is concerned and what the system can deliver on.
- 2:16Now, human design, I think a lot of people, because there is a lot of
- 2:21hyperbolic messaging and rhetoric out there talking about all you need
- 2:26is human design, get into alignment, and then the money will flow.
- 2:30Here's what's true about that.
- 2:32If you are blocking yourself from taking correct action, if you're in
- 2:37your head, which many people are, if you're making decisions from your
- 2:42head and from your mind and you keep cycling through a pattern of making
- 2:46the same mistakes over and over again.
- 2:49Yeah, human design will save you from that.
- 2:52If you're really following the system, not if you're just studying what does
- 2:55it mean to be a manifesting generator and you are crafting logical thoughts,
- 3:01ideas, and rationalizations about that.
- 3:04And trying to get an idea of it.
- 3:05That's not what it's about.
- 3:07You're not an idea, you are a human being.
- 3:10And human design teaches you how to operate correctly as yourself.
- 3:15To take the power away from your mind and to put it back in your body.
- 3:19And when you are doing that, you will be led on the path of your purpose.
- 3:23But it doesn't happen overnight.
- 3:27One, you may have to unwind a lot of the past that has been done
- 3:32to get yourself back on track.
- 3:34And number two, most people are not living it right away.
- 3:39You're thinking about it, you're figuring it out, you're understanding
- 3:42it, maybe you're overthinking it.
- 3:44So a system that's supposed to bring you into your body, you're actually
- 3:48clogging up your mind with this.
- 3:51So it's doing the opposite of what it's meant to do.
- 3:53And that can take a little bit of time, an adjustment period, however long
- 3:57that takes, for you to get into action.
- 4:01For you to start using it rather than just thinking about it.
- 4:05So, I want to be really clear that human design is not everything in business.
- 4:13It's not everything in business.
- 4:16And like I was saying, if you're stuck, if you feel like you aren't taking action
- 4:22or you're doing something that is not in alignment with where you want to go.
- 4:27Yes.
- 4:27Human design can help you with that.
- 4:29There's other factors to it that people don't talk about, or they intentionally
- 4:33omit from their argument that all you need to make millions of dollars is to
- 4:38get into alignment with being a projector.
- 4:41Yes, you have to start playing the game of being a projector instead of playing
- 4:45the generator game if you're a projector.
- 4:47And that can have a huge effect.
- 4:50But there's other factors to it and we're going to talk about that today.
- 4:54We're going to break that down in this episode.
- 4:56I'm going to talk to you about really, truly building a purpose fueled business.
- 5:04And we can do that according to our human design.
- 5:09Because the problem is that a lot of people think that human design
- 5:12is everything, and it's not.
- 5:14It's a large part of it, but it is not.
- 5:17Even if a lot of human design for business programs are teaching you
- 5:22strategy, a lot of times they're not bridging the gap between, how do I bring
- 5:26my human design into this business?
- 5:29How do I translate my design, and what you're talking about, into
- 5:36the content that I'm creating, the launch that I'm doing.
- 5:39How do I know what launch is right for me?
- 5:41All of that can help you.
- 5:42Human design can help you figure out and sift through and understand what
- 5:47is correct for you and what is not.
- 5:49Now you might ask, why don't I say things like, well, if you're a manifesting
- 5:53generator, you should live launch.
- 5:57Yes.
- 5:57Live launching is typically a very good path and method
- 6:02for manifesting generators.
- 6:03Why?
- 6:04We have a lot of energy.
- 6:05We could see our way all the way through to the end of it.
- 6:08We are pretty magnetic when we're speaking.
- 6:10We have a motor to the throat when we are excited.
- 6:13It's contagious.
- 6:14Live launches can be exciting like a performance.
- 6:16There's lots of reasons why.
- 6:18But there's no hard and fast rules.
- 6:20It matters what you are doing, who you are, and are you excited
- 6:25about what you will be teaching?
- 6:27That's more important than the method.
- 6:29So that's why it's not always so linear like everything else in human design.
- 6:34There's more to it.
- 6:36Human design teaches you how to take in that information.
- 6:39What it can teach you to do is to have all of the options in front of you, live
- 6:45launching, evergreen, membership, all the other choices that are out there of
- 6:52how you could sell something, and have you make a decision from your wisdom
- 6:58instead of from your conditioned mind.
- 7:00Instead of having to take advice from coaches all the time and be tied to
- 7:05somebody else's process, it helps you ground into your own process.
- 7:10So that's what's powerful about that.
- 7:12But a lot of people are not bridging how that could work and teaching you
- 7:15to make those decisions and helping you to combine your design with the
- 7:20strategy that they're teaching you.
- 7:23And a lot of them are just teaching you knowledge.
- 7:25Like I said, the knowledge would be manifesting generators, live
- 7:29launching is probably great for you.
- 7:31But embodiment would be telling you something like that, you might want
- 7:35to explore how do you feel about that?
- 7:37And you might say, well I was really excited about the launch, but now I'm not.
- 7:43And you can dig into, well what aren't you excited about?
- 7:46Well, I was excited about it last time, but I'm not excited about it now.
- 7:49What's changed?
- 7:50Do you need to freshen up the material?
- 7:52Because your excitement is the most important thing.
- 7:54That's embodiment.
- 7:57Knowledge would be, if this, then do that.
- 8:00Okay, you're a mani gen, so that means this is right for you.
- 8:03I don't like that because that's taking the power away from you, which is exactly
- 8:07what human design is not meant to do.
- 8:10Totally not meant to do.
- 8:12It's meant to put the power back in your inner wisdom.
- 8:15That would be me giving you my outer authority, and you just
- 8:20accepting it and not passing it through your own inner authority.
- 8:23Which is completely contradictory to what human design is teaching us to do.
- 8:28In my unshakeable Human process, in that program, I call this a self led formula.
- 8:34It's teaching you how to lead yourself.
- 8:37I just went off on a little bit of a tangent because we're talking about the
- 8:41five steps to a purpose fueled business and I'm going to get into that but I
- 8:45wanted to break that down for you of these ways that human design for business
- 8:49is typically taught and the differences between the way I teach it and the way I
- 8:53look at it and where I see people get into so much trouble is stuck in the mind, and
- 8:57the human design is not about the mind.
- 9:00The mind's a tool.
- 9:02And that's what it teaches us.
- 9:03And you get to have your mind be a tool.
- 9:05And it is a much more effective tool when it's just left to do the fun
- 9:10things, like come up with ideas, to craft insights, when it's not making
- 9:18decisions, which is what bogs it down.
- 9:22When you learn to work with it, coming up with ideas and
- 9:25all that stuff is really fun.
- 9:28Okay?
- 9:29So we're going to go into the five steps of creating a purpose fueled business,
- 9:35because that's what most people want.
- 9:36It's not that you want human design for your business.
- 9:39You want business to be easier.
- 9:41You want it to feel like it flows and not like it's difficult all the time.
- 9:46You want the right clients to come to you and not clients that drain your energy
- 9:52or that you wish you never signed on.
- 9:55You want to feel like when you show up to work that it just feels good.
- 10:00And that magic happens a little bit more every day.
- 10:04That's why we want to live a purpose fueled business.
- 10:07I want financial security, I want financial stability, I want financial
- 10:12freedom, and I want to feel fulfilled on like the deepest soul level.
- 10:20Right?
- 10:21That's what human design can do.
- 10:22And that's what we're going to talk about.
- 10:23I'm going to talk to you about the five steps of really getting there.
- 10:26That are not just human design focused.
- 10:28How human design works with them, what each step is, and how we put that together
- 10:33in what I call my soul strategy method.
- 10:37It's a soul strategy.
- 10:39There is a soul part, and there is a strategy part and they have to be
- 10:43there together or it doesn't all work.
- 10:46You're going to find that you're all energy, no substance.
- 10:50Or you're all strategy and there's no heart.
- 10:54And either one of those, people are going to pull back.
- 10:57For a while, the energy part was just working because everybody
- 11:00was so into it, it was so new.
- 11:02And people bought totally based on energy.
- 11:06And they lost a lot of money.
- 11:08And they lost a lot of confidence probably in themselves and in the
- 11:11coaching industry because they've signed up for things that did not deliver.
- 11:16And that's really sad.
- 11:17It's sad.
- 11:17Because I've seen a lot of people come into my world too, where their confidence
- 11:20is shot because they don't feel like they are worth the investment anymore.
- 11:25But the truth is that you are.
- 11:27But you have to come back to your power, make that decision, you say
- 11:30yes to something because it really can help you, because it feels right.
- 11:35And not because you got sucked into somebody else's energy.
- 11:42Now, when you put them together, we get magic.
- 11:44When we get the energy and the strategy together, then you become a smart business
- 11:49owner who's attracting the right things to them and working in flow and letting your
- 11:55purpose drive the decisions that you make.
- 11:59It's real fun.
- 12:00If this interests you, I'm going to break down the five steps for you, but
- 12:03I'm teaching a five part masterclass called the Authority Accelerator.
- 12:08I have done it before.
- 12:10This is my most popular live class that I do.
- 12:14People tell me that this free masterclass is worth more than programs
- 12:18they've paid thousands of dollars for.
- 12:20It is so jam packed with value, we're going to take you through
- 12:24crafting your million dollar message according to your human design.
- 12:27I'm going to break down the parts here, I'm going to tell you
- 12:29what they are, the five steps.
- 12:31And inside the masterclass, there's a whole day on each one of these.
- 12:35So, please join us.
- 12:36All you have to do is DM me the word masterclass on Instagram,
- 12:40I'm @NicoleLainoOfficial.
- 12:42Or go to nicolelaino.com/masterclass and you can register at
- 12:47either of those places.
- 12:48Either on the website or in Instagram.
- 12:49It's your choice, which one you like.
- 12:51Okay, so let's dive into the episode, shall we?
- 12:54These five steps.
- 12:55So human design, like I said, it isn't everything in your business.
- 13:00You have to live your purpose.
- 13:02Having a purpose fueled business is about living your purpose,
- 13:07not about understanding it.
- 13:09I even have an incarnation cross guide where I tell you what your purpose is.
- 13:13I tell you a few lines about what your purpose path looks like.
- 13:17But it isn't about that, it's about actually living in it and experimenting
- 13:22to feel in your body what it's like to be in alignment and what
- 13:26it's like to not be in alignment.
- 13:29Then doing that by experimenting with it, just like if you were working out.
- 13:34How do you know if your form is right?
- 13:36You feel it eventually.
- 13:37You know when you've done it wrong and you know when you've done it right.
- 13:41And then once you've done it right, you have muscle memory
- 13:43for what that feels like.
- 13:44And the next time you go to the gym, you're hitting the right muscles,
- 13:48you are seeing better results with less effort, because you're doing
- 13:52it right, you are working the right muscles in the right order.
- 13:56So, you get to feel what it feels like in your body, you build that
- 13:59muscle memory, and that's how you get better at navigating your design.
- 14:05You get better at understanding it.
- 14:07And when you are navigating your design better, you live your purpose more.
- 14:12Because it's strategy and authority, it's not being pulled by your conditioning,
- 14:17it's being able to receive what you're meant to receive, transmit what you're
- 14:21here to transmit through those open and defined elements of your chart.
- 14:25The centers, the gates, the channels.
- 14:28Your strategy and authority is the thing that's guiding you
- 14:32to your purpose all the time.
- 14:34If you were born and you only followed strategy and authority from the
- 14:38day you were born, you wouldn't be wondering what your purpose was.
- 14:44It would just start showing up in your life.
- 14:47Synchronicities would be happening.
- 14:49Why?
- 14:50Because you're living life according to who you were meant to be.
- 14:54Because this will attract the right people to you.
- 14:57It will attract the right opportunities to you.
- 14:59And it will make you feel endlessly more confident and empowered.
- 15:04That's what living your design does.
- 15:06Which is why it's the first step in building a purpose fueled business.
- 15:13That embodiment is learning to navigate and to deeply understand what works for
- 15:21you, what is in alignment and what is not.
- 15:24To start to understand what it's like when your mind starts to take over.
- 15:29It's self mastery.
- 15:31Like I said, that pillar in my framework is the unshakeable
- 15:35pillar, but the method that I work under there is to lead yourself.
- 15:40It's the self led method.
- 15:42How do we lead ourselves in alignment and accordance with our purpose?
- 15:46Now this stage is what makes you more productive without having to do more work.
- 15:52It is what allows you to be in flow because you're working with
- 15:55your energy and not against it.
- 15:57That's what this does.
- 15:59That's why it's the foundation of everything, because if you're still
- 16:01being led by your mind, all the decisions you're making in the next four steps will
- 16:07not be in alignment with your purpose.
- 16:09So this is why it's that bedrock, right?
- 16:11This is what the whole Unshakeable Human Is about.
- 16:14Everything gets taught inside my Business by Design Mentorship and
- 16:16you get me walking you through it.
- 16:19But the Unshakeable Human was just on this part, just the embodiment part.
- 16:24Why?
- 16:25Because that course, that program, is about getting you to the point
- 16:30where you're living in flow, you are living according to your design.
- 16:32Everything just gets easier.
- 16:34If you're not ready to jump into the business stuff, it all starts here.
- 16:38Then the second step, the second phase, is the genius brand phase.
- 16:44Now this is where your expert positioning comes in.
- 16:47You're embodied, you are starting to work in flow, you are starting to
- 16:51feel more confident, you're starting to feel lit up, you're starting to
- 16:54understand what it feels like to be you.
- 16:56Step one is complete.
- 16:58Not complete, we're never done.
- 17:00But you're doing it.
- 17:01You're actually living it, and not just learning about it.
- 17:05Now in the genius brand part, this is where we start to pull the pieces apart.
- 17:09And we start to look at, now that you're living in flow, now we're looking
- 17:13at the expert positioning based on the genius elements in your chart.
- 17:19What are the gifts that are there naturally?
- 17:22Let's take a look at them.
- 17:23And I call this the authority matrix, the elements that I look at the most.
- 17:27It doesn't mean that they are the only thing that I look at, but
- 17:31they are the core of building a brand and a business by design.
- 17:37So there are eight elements of the authority matrix.
- 17:41I will go through all of them inside the authority accelerator masterclass.
- 17:44So please join that.
- 17:45I will go into them in detail, but this is the core of the human
- 17:50design for business piece of it.
- 17:55You're living embodied.
- 17:56And now we're saying, what do all of these pieces, when we put them together,
- 18:00this is the understanding of the purpose and the conscious lifting into the
- 18:06gifts from the shadows, that conscious contemplation and understanding of those
- 18:15particular elements in your chart, like your conscious sun, like your Conscious
- 18:19Mercury Gate, like your profile.
- 18:23All of this starts to get added up to what makes you differentiated.
- 18:28What makes you unique and special.
- 18:31And this is why it can be your expert positioning in your
- 18:38messaging and in your branding.
- 18:40This is what makes you stand out.
- 18:43This is what makes you different from everyone else.
- 18:46There might be other 5/1 Emotional Manifesting Generators out there,
- 18:50but there me, who has all of the other elements of my chart.
- 18:54And that gives me a unique perspective.
- 18:56That gives me a unique way of delivering things.
- 18:59That has given me a deeper understanding of who I am and what I'm here to do.
- 19:04And that's what the Genius Brand part is all about.
- 19:07Now the third step, now that we've differentiated you, we've embodied you,
- 19:11we shift into crafting a strategic message because without a strategic message, the
- 19:16content frameworks, a way of communicating with your audience that is unique to you,
- 19:20but also builds demand and drives sales.
- 19:24Without this part, without understanding how to tune in to the problems that
- 19:30people are experiencing that you want to help, you're not going to be
- 19:35able to tell them that you help them.
- 19:37They won't understand it.
- 19:39They're going to say, oh that's nice, that's inspiring, that's great.
- 19:42If you've ever heard that, then you need to look at your messaging,
- 19:46because it is not built to sell.
- 19:49Because you haven't figured out the problems that you solve, or you
- 19:52haven't figured out how to communicate how you solve these problems.
- 19:56Or you haven't dug into what makes those problems so important to
- 20:00the person that you want to help.
- 20:03Now the fourth piece is the authority platform.
- 20:06This podcast is my authority platform.
- 20:09The reason an authority platform is so important, and I don't
- 20:12count Instagram as an authority platform, and I'll tell you why.
- 20:16We need a delivery method that is reliable and that we own for our way
- 20:21of communicating with our audience.
- 20:24So we have the strategic message, we have this unique positioning.
- 20:28And now how can I really showcase myself, lift myself up as an authority, not
- 20:33be at the mercy of the algorithm, and where I can deliver exactly what I want
- 20:38when I want and drive people to that.
- 20:42It's also evergreen.
- 20:44YouTube, I would call another authority platform.
- 20:48But the beauty of podcasting is you get to do both.
- 20:50Your podcast can go on YouTube and start doing that for you too.
- 20:53And you get two platforms out of one.
- 20:56But this allows you that evergreen aspect of it.
- 20:59I have people who listen to this show, episodes from last year,
- 21:05episodes from two years ago.
- 21:06They're still listening to them.
- 21:08They're still listening to my message, hearing it, and becoming closer
- 21:14to me, and becoming fans of me.
- 21:19Why?
- 21:20Because I have a body of work that's up there that allows them to binge.
- 21:26They get to binge my content.
- 21:29And that is priceless.
- 21:31Because I have people who come in, listen to 12 episodes, and
- 21:34then buy a reading from me.
- 21:37And then buy a program from me.
- 21:39I have people who come into my launches who only listen to the podcast, who have
- 21:44come in and have dropped, 8, 000 on a program with me and signed up with me
- 21:50for a whole year because they knew from the podcast that I was their person.
- 21:57That's because the delivery method builds trust.
- 22:01We get to be very intimate with our audience.
- 22:04We get to display our expertise, but my show is also built in alignment
- 22:09with my genius brand, and it is strategically positioned and crafted
- 22:15to build demand for what I do.
- 22:18These episodes are thought out.
- 22:19I don't script them, but they are thought out.
- 22:23And that's what an authority platform can do for you.
- 22:25It builds raving fans.
- 22:28And then the fifth piece is the authority funnel.
- 22:31Now you have to have pathways for people to actually buy from you.
- 22:35It's wonderful to have the platform.
- 22:37It's great to have the strategic message, all of that, that will start
- 22:40making you money, but how do you make it in a sustainable way that
- 22:43feels really good to you and where you don't necessarily have to be
- 22:47selling all the time in order to sell?
- 22:50That's where funnels come in.
- 22:51That's where structuring your offers and your backend selling system in a certain
- 22:57way that it's driving sales, where you haven't talked to a soul, you haven't
- 23:01done anything, but you look down at your phone and you have a Stripe notification.
- 23:05That's the power of funnels.
- 23:08I build a lot of them off of this podcast, which is why I
- 23:11call it an authority funnel.
- 23:13But I have different pathways that go from my social media, and then
- 23:17I have back end offers that nobody sees on any of the platforms.
- 23:23Through emails, through order bumps, through other programs that they buy
- 23:28that are being sold in the background.
- 23:31All of that is done intentionally and strategically so that it's
- 23:35driving sales without me having to work harder for all of those sales.
- 23:39This is how you build a purpose fueled business.
- 23:44My purpose is everything that I talk about.
- 23:47My purpose is here delivering this message to you.
- 23:50My purpose is here and I feel confident in everything that I sell
- 23:54and everything that I do because I know that it's what I'm here to do.
- 24:00At this very moment I am living as close to my purpose as I'm able
- 24:05to get at this moment in time.
- 24:08So I deliver what I deliver.
- 24:10I serve who I serve and how I serve and I do it to the best of my ability
- 24:14with the most integrity that I can.
- 24:17And that's how you build a purpose fueled business that feels really great
- 24:21to you, that starts to support you rather than drain you of your energy.
- 24:27I wake up every day excited to work.
- 24:30I wake up every day excited to serve, because I feel like I know
- 24:33I'm doing what I'm meant to do.
- 24:35And that is totally because of human design.
- 24:38The strategic side of stuff, I've done that before.
- 24:41Before I found human design, it did feel a bit hollow.
- 24:45I didn't feel like I was being carried on a path the way that I do now.
- 24:52And it's very exciting.
- 24:53But I also want to be honest, that did not happen overnight.
- 24:57And every day it gets deeper and deeper.
- 24:59The work is never done.
- 25:01But I love the work.
- 25:02And that's why it's a purpose fueled business.
- 25:06Because it's exciting to unfold every single day.
- 25:10So if you're interested in that, I encourage you to join the
- 25:12Authority Accelerator Masterclass.
- 25:13I'm going to take you through this all in depth.
- 25:16We already went in pretty deep here.
- 25:17But we're going to go into each of these pillars super in depth.
- 25:20I'm going to take you through the entire Authority Matrix.
- 25:23We have a little workbook for you and everything, where we
- 25:25give you the Authority Matrix.
- 25:26You can take that away with you.
- 25:27So much in store for you.
- 25:29All you have to do, go to nicolelaino.com/masterclass.
- 25:33Or DM me the word masterclass on Instagram.
- 25:35I'm @NicoleLainoOfficial, and we will register you either on the
- 25:39website or on Instagram, whichever platform you choose to reach out on.
- 25:43I hope to see you there.
- 25:44It is the most amazing thing that I do.
- 25:45Everybody really loves this masterclass.
- 25:47So I'm super excited to deliver it once again.
- 25:49I hope that I see you there.
- 25:50Thank you for listening to this episode, for being here with us always.
- 25:54I appreciate you.
- 25:55And remember, In order to have an unshakeable business, you must
- 25:58first become an unshakeable human.
- 25:59So thanks for letting us help you become unshakeable with human design, everyone.
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