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Inspiring Human Potential Inner Growth 5D Self-Empowered Enlightenment Special · Inspiring Human Potential

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  I have a bit of special time before we go for the day so
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  here's where I want to start by saying every person who is
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  inclined to be in there Lightman.
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  So a troop will be inclined to become at least at some point,
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  their own agent. So I set some point because, of
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  course, if you have an attachment Style.
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  That is not secure before. You can reach your own ability
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  to even bother choosing this. There's going to be time now,
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  here's where well-being is your choice and even though we're
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  only now, getting good updated psychoeducation and I say good
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  I'm talking about the Neuroscience stuff because until
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  that was being spread around there was the idea that our
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  brain finished growing and that you were wired and and that you
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  would permanently be in a certain way.
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  So, you know, when we look at the Mental Health Community,
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  yes, there are those who are driven by certain team belonging
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  and those would be the whiners for the people who are agents.
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  I'm going to use that word because see it's kind of like
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  with my attachment style friend. It's been years, 56.
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  I don't even know anymore, how many years we've been friends
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  and the love that I have for her is the same as the first time
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  that I still remember when I met her.
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  Because here's where when you do have Claire's, this is the part
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  of our oversold and US recognizing the souls that are
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  connected to us for growth. And this is something very
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  beautiful that I'm sure signs will explain as they study
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  Consciousness. It's not an entity at a heaven
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  or a hell even though I was watching this episode on the
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  infinite Universe, lovely universe and they have found
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  extra extra terrestrial planets. It's outside.
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  My I don't even know how far away and one of them I fell
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  asleep while I was watching it, but one of them apparently is
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  like hell because it's made of boiling.
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  Iron says like, oh, there there goes, there goes the conspiracy
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  4D, people. They're going to go find out.
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  There's hell, you know, just so that it can keep keep existing
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  since Larry is. So when people don't know,
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  secure attachment and they're not their own agents and they're
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  not in an integrated brain. A lot goes on.
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  In fact, I'm not know if you really love people and you
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  really were in the enlightenment so they droop and I hope that
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  some of my lovely listeners are already here and that you join
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  the subscribers and that we get to also come together.
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  And I hope for you not for me because I am here and it's a
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  very beautiful place to be and I don't mean to make it sound
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  cocky as some would say but the reality is Enlightenment is not
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  about you in spirituality or spiritual.
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  It's a word that I have come to know and be like, so the
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  beginning of knowing that it is accessible to all was just on my
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  own. I'm like, yeah, it's not
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  impossible for anyone to reach whatever they want because
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  that's the whole point of you become your own person.
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  When I heard said, Guru speakers, like thank goodness.
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  We got somebody out there who is an actual leader in the
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  spirituality Community. Letting people in on the fact
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  that you can be a Buddha on a Jesus.
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  Because I've been saying this again, my lovely attachment
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  style friend. I'll never forget when I was in.
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  Meaning to them at one point in our lovely friendship, something
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  about the way that you can work with your emotions and this
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  would be equanimous lie. As I need functional adults will
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  be able to achieve all on their own I didn't do this because I
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  was told to do it. I was able all on my own now
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  again agency is my drive myself, my own secure attachment in my
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  own body and therefore restored also embodied self.
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  I will say I can use the words Like if people want, I really,
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  you know, I feel lucky that I didn't lose hope in my own
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  beingness of life that I am and that no matter what I believed.
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  I definitely don't say, hey God. Yeah.
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  Tell me to be evil to people unlike others who are actually
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  thinking in medieval terms and allowing themselves to be in a
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  state that really feels like, you know, now I know that word
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  zombie for real but I won't use the word zombie because these
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  aren't zombies when you talk to any person.
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  It's there. We've system, I understand it.
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  I've seen the fear of my like, my grandma was alive in her eyes
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  during conversations of certain things.
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  And this is because their reality, their life was lived
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  with certain things. So this is the part about being
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  compassionate towards all walks of life, 3D 4D, it doesn't
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  matter. The 5D thing, it's about people
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  becoming functional adults, unconditional love.
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  Is you being able to be compassionate when your
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  neighbors do shit in your face? Okay, I'm going to get even more
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  More into this whole shit in your face because that's how
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  love works. It works where you humanly
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  speaking know that, of course, that's not right, but something
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  must have happened to my neighbor for them to throw shit
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  in my face, doesn't mean. I did anything wrong.
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  This is the other part about being a person who has a clear
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  conscience because you don't do things out of spite, which is
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  only done by little children who are adults.
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  And so here I saw this one this comedian.
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  He does. And I was a little bit confused
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  about what he drew as well and there's one person's.
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  Like I don't get it but I thought I got it.
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  But I'm not good with jokes as like I don't I don't get it
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  either. So I read the comments of what
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  they to see the explanation because I didn't understand it
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  completely, but it was what I have gathered.
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  So he has this skit with a bear in a cell and he has a man on a
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  chair. Make it I think only with his
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  underwear tied up and the man. Then there's another man who is
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  about to pour honey over this individual who's only in their
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  underwear and there's the bear in the cage, okay?
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  And let me go grab that one first, I had one to grab
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  something different but since I'm talking to you about it so
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  this is if you have Instagram I think he's also in Tick-Tock I'm
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  not sure but it's a sure Pearlman a sh ER Asher Pearlman
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  is perrla. And so not like the Pearl PA
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  know, pe-e-e-arl. Okay?
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  Terl man, and it's one word for Instagram, so you can look them
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  up. He's a cartoonist and the what
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  he's he quotes is, he says him. So the man who's pouring the
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  honey over this naked, dude. Oh no, he doesn't even have
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  underwear. He's just naked.
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  But he's on the chair. So we don't see his Parts
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  because probably would be also taken offline.
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  You know, they've gotten a little PG, all over us right
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  now. Now, but it's understandable.
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  So success would be cool too, but I'm pretty sure this will be
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  the best revenge. No, I didn't understand it
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  because I'm wondering, you know, about the bear in the skies, are
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  we against hunting? What are we doing?
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  Like, which what is your, what is this cartoon about?
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  And so I'm not sure if something's gone on in the
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  nature world or whatever. But long story short, it's
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  simply about how, you know, to succeed in life is the best
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  revenge while this person's obviously about to create.
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  To do murder basically, even though he won't be firsthand,
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  he's going to let a buried another man versus just succeed
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  in life Vaughn in life, right? So I would say that it's kind of
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  highlighting the fact that people instead of thinking about
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  succeeding in their own life, their busy actually doing mean
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  things to each other, that's how I'm going to interpret it, but
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  it's not mean things because when you look at envy and
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  jealousy and The evolutionary science of our human species,
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  These when people do Spike, do Revenge, it's from a place of
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  inadequacy. And furthermore, when people are
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  in these states, they are in a state of Shame inner critic,
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  outer critic. They're denying through their
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  withdrawal from society as well. But their denial is through
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  story. Like my attachment style friend,
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  who, you know, her little spits. That was I learned without my
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  parents help because my parents didn't teach me how to demand
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  respect I learned And here's how I did it and she used me and
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  another friend. That's the example.
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  I mean honestly I can't find it more humorous because it's not
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  going to lead them. Well to say, I fight for respect
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  and by the way, oh let me call out to people that I just
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  basically treated like shit without realizing that, that was
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  unnecessary and really shouldn't treat anyone like shit.
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  I mean, I have to say, there is nothing that I was surprised
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  about because it's not again the first time.
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  She feels that she's not getting what she wants out of a
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  relationship. It's actually in the nth time
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  for that matter. This time, I just got to be a
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  better friend because I understand from my own learning
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  because I like to help people. For real not pretend that my
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  friend has a very bad attachment style and that she's unwilling
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  to get help because humanity is shitty and so, I might as well
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  be shitty to so wonderful excuse.
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  No, it's not, it's a shitty excuse, but that's her excuse.
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  So they're the little skit about revenge.
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  This is where you got people like Instead of succeeding in
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  life, and they've done the mat mindfulness and they've done the
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  meditation and there, you know, this is where spirituality, it
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  doesn't matter what words you use.
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  If I see, you're not treating your neighbor, kindly, I'm going
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  to know me Maria and anybody else who's actually in the
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  enlightenment. So, Adrian that you're not in
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  your well-being, yet, completely far away and we won't be there
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  to say, oh, you should come and join us.
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  No, no. We're going to stay away from
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  you because you're unreliable. Furthermore, you are also
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  suffering. So the minute that You see our
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  Joys. The minute that we're going to
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  trigger your unhappiness and then, guess what?
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  There you go. There's that rumination mind
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  going and let me see you there. The Narrative.
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  It's so awful. Like this is where my friend
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  when she used the word tactic. I'm like, what are you talking
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  about? I told you, I don't have time to
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  talk to you. What tactic she was forced to
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  redirect her vocabulary because I addressed the specific words
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  that she was choosing to use as Try to make an accusation that
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  was invalid due to the fact that I cannot help that, I don't have
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  time that you want from me mathematically speaking and that
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  in your narrative there must be a reason it must be you or must
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  be me. This is the same cycle and this
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  is the part about the over excessive what is it?
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  Default mode Network that Dan Siegel talks about that is
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  excessively differentiated default.
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  Oats other in the south Process where they're observing
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  witnessing and narrating. And it's not from a place of the
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  present, and it's not from a place of safety.
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  It's from a place of Leaving not good attachment style that they
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  have. And in fact, they're attached,
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  cry, is the suffering. And here's where when you look
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  at, I have this lovely infographic.
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  I won't read all of it, but this is from trauma Solutions, All
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  Rights Reserved. That's also why I need to figure
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  out when and how I can share some of these things.
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  This is a really great by the way.
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  So, look up the website. Travis Solutions, dr.
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  Diane pool parlor. They usually are doing course.
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  For therapist. But I'm going to be joining this
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  webinar on adult attachment Styles and this is a reference
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  guide, so it's free. Downloadable I'm pretty sure
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  they offer it on their website so they can get your email but
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  that's okay. It's a good source, it's a good.
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  It's a good email person to have and you can always unsubscribe.
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  So I would say do it and it reviews, secure avoidant,
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  ambivalent and disorganized attachment for adults.
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  The good news is that all styles can learn secure Judgment skills
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  for healthy relationships. So this is where nobody is
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  condemned to being in their misery like my friend when I
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  gave her the suggestion, it's because suffering actually has a
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  toll on your well-being. You are not in a body that has
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  the ventral Bagel, your tenth, cranial nerve active, you can
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  have it on and off it. Your body is more under stress
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  because your mind is chattering, here's where you don't need to
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  shut the mind off and think of it as you sitting inside.
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  It's in the mountains. This is not going to help you
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  become a functional. Adult Learners just help you sit
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  in silence and then not really know what the fuck else is going
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  on. None of meditation or
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  mindfulness, or any of that, help my friends to get better,
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  what they're better at is handling themselves, but they
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  still have the same pattern and so it's not the outside may look
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  good. Like I said it looks good
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  because every year person becomes more of what the inside
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  is, what leads you and the fact that they still would They see
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  happy couples or anyone happy, there are moments because it's a
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  pattern is the cycle. And there are moments where the,
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  okay? And then there are moments where
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  the stress is up. And when the stress is up,
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  that's where the non will be. In comes up.
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  And that's the moment that Ascension energies, give people
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  is this is the thing, your connections are the way you're
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  going to get to grocery or oversold as work my friend.
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  I remember the first day I met her, I recognized her Solace was
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  the peak of me learning about metaphysics as a terrorism and I
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  knew all about. Out my twin flame soul mates.
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  All this stuff and I had already had, I always dream.
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  So I have been having all my dreams travel guidance.
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  To all of this, all of this is part of my journey.
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  So I was like, wow, how cool, you know, and throughout the
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  years we had our stuff, in fact, one of them was when I was like,
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  okay, we're not compatible and so I was the one who retreated,
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  because the way that they handled themselves, they wrote
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  me this long as letter and they Used information that I shared
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  as a friend in a way to try and hurt me which they didn't work
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  because I don't get hurt by petty shit because it's sad for
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  me to see a grown-up used a mechanism.
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  That is clearly you're unhappy and you're now not knowing how
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  to handle your friend and you're being spiteful and that's not
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  necessary. It's really like to me, it's
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  always been very clear that Spite means, you don't know how
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  to handle yourself. I'm not going to stoop to your
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  level because that would mean. I don't know how to handle
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  myself, and I actually do and also I wouldn't want to hurt you
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  on purpose. That's something that I Define
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  as me. And so here's where clear
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  conscious is very straightforward and I was a
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  teenager and a child and I was taught things that are basic and
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  I understood him. And I heard them into this day
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  again, I would never even if I thought, what a fucking asshole,
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  right? Because in the moment that
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  somebody Your most immature and I've, wow.
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  And I have had aspects that in. And see though, as you grew up,
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  it's only heartbreaking as a teenager, was the only time I
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  would think about what an asshole, and then, as I learned
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  more about, people in psychology as like, wow, they're all really
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  fucked up. But like, in a sad way fucked
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  up, not in there like, oh, you're fucked.
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  Not, we're all quote-unquote, fucked up, but then again, we're
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  not some of, us know how to handle her emotions.
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  It's really awesome. And so, here's where
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  Enlightenment, it's a. So, Age group for the people who
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  learned that you can be your own agent, you can become your own
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  secure attachment and your fucking well-being is your
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  choice and thank you so much. I could be Mia for existing
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  because I do love that we got a guru out there but you better
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  bet it ain't helping people like my attachment style friend
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  because they don't actually understand that when they're
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  using words such as tactic that's their little narrative
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  and they're actually not even bothering to try and figure it
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  out when I walk them through their own narrative, in a moment
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  where there was Clear. Structural dissociation going
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  on? I walk them through their
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  pattern. I played it out, one by one.
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  One by what did they think of that?
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  No, they just said I was conscious of what I would.
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  Yes, I know all of this shit that they knew all of this shit.
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  And yet they continue to justify their actual suffering.
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  In the absence of hearing, the words of a person who's learning
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  about cymatics, informant trauma-informed, and trying to
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  say, I'm not going to label you. This is not a label in contest,
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  which is People in the Mental Health Community have gotten it
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  wrong but they're fixing that and didn't get it wrong.
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  They didn't have the Neuroscience that they didn't
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  know that the pathology, would it be permanent?
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  This is what I wanted to share with my lovely.
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  I call them colleagues, although I'm not a licensed therapist.
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  But with the people that I get to learn from they help people
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  and I wanted to say, like even with Stephen porges he says, you
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  know, the psychology Community got it wrong.
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  When we started to assume that behavior was learned, it's not
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  there's been With the surface. This body.
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  Which says am I safe? And my Nazi and alongside your
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  body is this neuroception. So your embodied brain, it
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  doesn't function by itself is why your feminine is your body,
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  your mask, and your head, and your mask, use your brain.
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  If you're using it, you're going to think things through.
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  But if you're using it like my friend, you're not going to
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  think through with the clarity of looking at your little
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  protector lenses. And actually, being somebody who
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  can say, wait a minute, let me think about this relationship,
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  right? Let me think about the words
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  that were spoken to me by my friend.
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  Before we began to use this friendship again.
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  And I'm using this because it's the best example of how a
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  narrative and a person playing out their own bullshit story
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  works. This is all, it's a bullshit
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  story. Hey I love that we're friends
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  again and we can chitchat and I get to support you through this,
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  you know, time. But FYI I got a butt load of
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  shit going on. I will not have Time for you.
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  I'm clearly staying at now, and I stayed it again, and again, as
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  time moved forward because of moments where they reached out.
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  So, I understand their suffering.
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  I can't do anything, mathematically different than
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  what I'm doing. And being honest with you.
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  Now, by the end of this year, what do you do?
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  You use words, tactic you use words to accuse me of something
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  that is not true because this is your pattern, because this is
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  what you played out in your house.
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  Hold family of origin. Give me give me.
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  Give me. I didn't get.
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  And there you go. And there's oh I'm going to
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  learn now. I fought for myself.
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  It's a good thing for them. They're moving into modulated
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  great. Yay.
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  I hope they move to the next step is what I can say.
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  So this is where 40 likes call and this is not an energy
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  vampire. This is not an evil human being.
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  This is a person who has an attachment style and has
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  suffering this is not something funny and it isn't something
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  evil and it isn't something to be criticized.
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  Show thoughts. They're forgiving annoyance,
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  there's reasons we actually do use our brain and we learn shit
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  versus using labels and starting to slap them on our bodies.
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  Now here's what I am. I'm your typical, I'm on this
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  and that the only reason I use sometimes labels is because that
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  way I can avoid conversations with people.
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  This is really like the whole Paulo, solely solo, probably and
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  great. A leave me alone.
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  Get out of my way, don't mess with me.
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  If you're close minded, get out because You know, if there's one
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  thing that is annoying is having ignorant people in your life.
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  Ignorant people are boring, the ones who try are not the ones
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  who don't try. Yeah, this is where it go.
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  Be ignorant with the medieval type folk.
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  And this is about relationships because the relationships that
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  we have are the most amazing things ever.
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  So if people want to restrict that because they can't share
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  each other because they need to belong.
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  Yeah. Okay.
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  Do that. Please go withdraw and hide out
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  in. A little, you know, I have to
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  say there are aspects of having a group that is great, but the
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  reality is, it's because you have fun together.
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  Not because you're isolating yourself from the rest of the
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  world, that sounds pretty lame and quite silly and again, who's
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  living movies in their life. Like a lot of people 3D 40.
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  So here, I'm just going to share with you.
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  The narrative style for the different attachment Styles.
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  We have secure would be easy to follow.
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  All engage in engaging flow, coherent Vivid alive,
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  emotionally nuanced. And for those who instead are
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  avoidance and dismissive, they have few words, they lack
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  emotional vividness and they are usually factual, ambivalent
• 20:56
  would be preoccupied and they over use words.
• 20:59
  They're overly emotional. They have - complaints and then
• 21:03
  they mix past present tenses for the disorganized which is
• 21:07
  fearful avoidant. They have loss of voice and word
• 21:11
  recall. There's gaps long, pauses and
• 21:14
  mix of tenses, their incoherent and hard to follow.
• 21:17
  Now when people are moving into corrective experiences, here's
• 21:23
  what can happen. Have a helpful nest for the
• 21:28
  individuals. Again, I'm not going to read all
• 21:30
  of it to you but just some parts of this lovely infographic,
• 21:34
  okay. So for secure the corrective
• 21:35
  experience, it's that it's easy recovery from conflict.
• 21:39
  There's relaxation in the relational field and Slap
• 21:42
  ability. Those of us were in the night.
• 21:44
  Mental age group, we are very easygoing because like, with my
• 21:48
  friend, whenever they'll come around, I'm not going to be
• 21:50
  like, oh, let me count to you. The ways that, you know, this is
• 21:54
  where it's a friendship for reason.
• 21:57
  And I just wanted their well-being.
• 21:58
  So, if they don't come around, it's okay.
• 22:01
  As long as you're happy, I'm happy for them.
• 22:03
  It's called compersion. This is the part.
• 22:05
  We don't have this Revenge. Think we don't have this, let me
• 22:08
  succeed in spite of you. That is Glia person who's still
• 22:13
  looking to belong or have certainty by looking outside.
• 22:16
  It's not the enlightenment. So we drew a lot of people like
• 22:19
  to identify, by the way, with things that they don't actually
• 22:23
  have in any way, shape or form. And when I see that I learned
• 22:27
  the right silence so that I may be polite to human beings, who
• 22:30
  are so insecure and so unclear with themselves that they
• 22:33
  apparently don't know. Again, what it means to be a
• 22:38
  person who has confidence that worked.
• 22:41
  Confidence means that you can stand in front of somebody who's
• 22:44
  having success that you love and inside of you be completely
• 22:48
  happy. Now, if you're not to be able to
• 22:51
  be completely honest with yourself and then to be
• 22:53
  objective enough to know that it's okay to have Envy or
• 22:57
  jealousy or spite. So not to be ashamed of it.
• 23:00
  And so here's where if you're an agent of yourself, you don't
• 23:04
  have this little shame thing. If you want to belong and her
• 23:07
  have certainty, here is where again, things can be Mass but
• 23:10
  the reality is if you Sit in Equanimity.
• 23:13
  And so you look at Duality from neutrality and you give what is
• 23:17
  really just common sense. Because when I was growing up,
• 23:20
  there were many moments where there were little things that
• 23:23
  triggered me right now. I'm still working with the
• 23:26
  please. Appeasers for example, they took
• 23:28
  the fuck off of me whenever I think of a, please appeaser.
• 23:31
  And I know that they've done nothing wrong because they were
• 23:33
  infants like anybody else and choose their trauma, their
• 23:36
  parents and choose their trauma, but he actual behavior of please
• 23:40
  appeaser. Because It's false and because
• 23:43
  they exaggerate so first, exaggerated, and then, so
• 23:47
  they're tricking you it's the Mastery of trickery a better
• 23:51
  bet, it's better. It's even more Mastery than
• 23:53
  manipulation because manipulation, you'll pick up on
• 23:55
  it because it's so obvious that it's hard to it's hard to miss,
• 24:01
  but please appeasers because they're nervous.
• 24:04
  System is hiding because they learned how to hide what they
• 24:08
  truly are afraid of. That's why I always lean more.
• 24:11
  Special Van. Der kolk again, to remember be
• 24:14
  compassionate. This is a body of an infant that
• 24:17
  learned how to do this, to protect themselves in their
• 24:19
  household. But when I think of people who
• 24:23
  pretend I get very because there's to me it's insulting to
• 24:28
  both of us that you want to pretend to be in a conversation
• 24:32
  that your body and mind has no interest in.
• 24:34
  But this is again coming from an agent.
• 24:37
  So I forget that people need to belong and have certain Be in
• 24:42
  order to feel confident. And so I have no, I have no
• 24:47
  feeling of, oh, because you rejected me now.
• 24:50
  I feel awful, this is the part. I don't know that what I know
• 24:53
  is. No, I don't feel awful.
• 24:55
  I actually like being my own self and your own self, and I'm
• 24:58
  okay with actually not being you because I wouldn't want to be
• 25:01
  you. Like the reality is, this is how
• 25:03
  it's going down over here. So I just again, this is
• 25:07
  objectivity, this is, you talking in a way to yourself.
• 25:10
  It doesn't say, oh, let me Suppress my emotions and pretend
• 25:14
  that I'm not, no, I'm going to see them for what they are, and
• 25:18
  then I'm going to be the adults about it and now it's a bullshit
• 25:21
  feeling it's exaggerated because exactly here's where the charge
• 25:24
  state of a teenager comes into the mix.
• 25:27
  It's very straightforward to choose to be in your potential
• 25:31
  functional, adulthood and Enlightenment Soul age group and
• 25:34
  that is where it means. You know, what if people want to
• 25:38
  do whatever they want to do with their private lives, leave them
• 25:40
  the fuck alone. When it comes to politics, we
• 25:43
  want our governments to get to get, to get, to get along to
• 25:46
  stop. Living in the medieval times or
• 25:48
  1960, whatever years. They're still living.
• 25:51
  I'm actually at what I should say Is We I want to see them be
• 25:55
  smart. Meaning to be stable mature,
• 25:58
  adaptive rational teachable. Oh my gosh, like, kindly get out
• 26:02
  of their teenage egos already. Can these country people who are
• 26:06
  supposed to eat, are they? I hope I pray.
• 26:10
  If there's one thing I still will, Worried about is that they
• 26:12
  make it mandatory for these individuals who want to go into
• 26:17
  any leadership to. Not only do I Mi welcome
• 26:20
  sadhana, you go It. Go for mindfulness, all of it
• 26:23
  and site get psychiatric evaluation, I want that make it
• 26:27
  mandatory, that's where I'm at and people have freedom.
• 26:31
  Yeah, Freedom, what I'm tired of seeing people who are ignorant
• 26:35
  being in places because ignorance is what rigidity is.
• 26:40
  So while the common folk can fight amongst themselves about
• 26:44
  them, thinking, whatever I would like to see people who I thought
• 26:48
  as a kid that these leaders were actually directly.
• 26:50
  This is the part I thought, and any time I see someone being in
• 26:54
  their implicit biases without realizing, I'm like minus 1, L
• 26:58
  minus 1, and I'm saying, they're going down a category because
• 27:01
  you obviously aren't tapped into your own biases.
• 27:05
  When you are, I am my bias. I want Humanity to love each
• 27:09
  other. I can compassion is really I
• 27:12
  also think happiness is really easy to and guess what?
• 27:15
  Because we don't know what happens once we were dead.
• 27:19
  I would think you'd like to handle your 24 hours, really.
• 27:23
  Awesomely. Did you know?
• 27:25
  I need to watch the video that may be in 2024.
• 27:28
  There might be an asteroid hitting our lovely Planet.
• 27:31
  You know what? I'm going to do in this last
• 27:32
  year of life, that I potentially have to make the best out of it
• 27:36
  and it's not because of some oversoul.
• 27:40
  Here's the other part that I want.
• 27:41
  To share today, I saw this thing about the Twin Flame Journey.
• 27:45
  Yeah we'll get to that in a minute and I'm not talking about
• 27:48
  the Twin Flame too much, but I need to use this this person and
• 27:52
  so let me move forward. So here's where secure
• 27:56
  attachment. I read that one, I don't know
• 27:58
  what unflappability means but I'll look that one up.
• 28:01
  So when somebody instead so spur secure attachment, they have
• 28:05
  many positive pairs. That's right.
• 28:06
  Got buttload of friends them all the ones who are loving me to
• 28:11
  there. Actually quite humored by my own
• 28:15
  personality and I'm humor by there's and its really awesome.
• 28:18
  Avoidant is dismissive over focus on self and their
• 28:22
  corrective experiences would include this kind eyes exercise
• 28:26
  to heal the attachment gaze because that would mean that
• 28:29
  they weren't able to connect. So they weren't able to feel
• 28:31
  that safety. Welcome to the world exercise to
• 28:35
  be met celebrated and restore belonging.
• 28:37
  So this is where it's because of not learning that they do belong
• 28:40
  in a way that feels. Safe in their body, okay?
• 28:44
  And I'm sharing with you, my gist of all the things that I
• 28:46
  understand throughout these courses, ambivalent would be
• 28:50
  preoccupied and this is where they developed.
• 28:53
  You want to have corrective experiences that can develop a
• 28:57
  sense of self. So not to be lost in the other.
• 29:01
  They practically want to have them practice receiving and then
• 29:04
  connect consistency and caring behaviors, but obviously, this
• 29:08
  is where the person would need to be participate too.
• 29:11
  So this type of individual, the avoidant hasn't over focused on
• 29:16
  their own self. The ambivalent has an over focus
• 29:21
  on the other. So here's where the self is
• 29:24
  finding their own sense of certainty security, right?
• 29:27
  The avoidance. So they're going to be looking
• 29:29
  to work with themselves which is a good thing.
• 29:31
  The ambivalent is instead giving be looking to make others happy.
• 29:36
  This is where that anxiousness comes into the mix if you want
• 29:39
  and I got this is me giving you the gist of things but But this
• 29:42
  is simply so you can pick up on little aspects of attachment
• 29:46
  style and people not that you have to do anything about it.
• 29:49
  Like my attachment style friend. If they don't want to move into
• 29:52
  secure attachment, they won't it's very straightforward.
• 29:54
  I've been friends with her for years so she's gotten better.
• 29:58
  It's great. I hope she finds what she's
• 30:00
  looking for if she comes back around again, this is great too.
• 30:04
  But in all cases, she still suffers from her inner world.
• 30:07
  And when she sees people that are happy, she wishes that they
• 30:10
  were not That's an indication and more of that.
• 30:14
  And what she just did with me and her other friend of her, on
• 30:18
  Wellness, her disregard for help is that I did all of it, none of
• 30:23
  it worked. Mindfulness meditation, I did
• 30:25
  therapy and you know, this new shit.
• 30:28
  I don't care. People are shitty.
• 30:29
  So I'm just going to stay this way.
• 30:32
  Disorganized fearful avoidance. This is scared and or frozen
• 30:36
  self and so they actually need Clarity versus conformity.
• 30:41
  Fusion, they need competent protector, safety exercises.
• 30:47
  And that would be to have a person that is able to be there
• 30:51
  for them consistently and I'm tangled survival Instinct from
• 30:55
  the love attachment system because they are in a consistent
• 30:59
  thought that they will not be safe.
• 31:01
  And there you go. That's that's what I have for
• 31:04
  you. I won't share the rest but it's
• 31:05
  a really, really good. It's a really good reference
• 31:09
  guide. So if you guys are interested in
• 31:10
  helping people, I'd say move into that one.
• 31:14
  Now what I also want to note is how when you do choose your own
• 31:20
  well-being and you do choose to move into learning how to be a
• 31:26
  functional adult. This is where as you saw from
• 31:29
  the one little YouTube video that I shared, I put it in
• 31:32
  podcast, it's a one minute but it's on Tick-Tock.
• 31:35
  I don't remember if I did Instagram but where I let you in
• 31:39
  on the fact of how Tower Brock shares with us, Neuroscience on
• 31:43
  the part that replay right replay becomes character becomes
• 31:47
  you. This is that default mode
• 31:49
  Network. So this is a chatter brain that
• 31:51
  the lovely people that are in 40 like to say she silenced it
• 31:54
  silence it. Yeah.
• 31:55
  Can silence at all you want. If you don't actually understand
• 31:58
  why it's coming up, you don't know shit about yourself yet.
• 32:00
  So there's that. What I wanted to look at was
• 32:06
  also said Guru so he says how Karma you can be.
• 32:11
  Sickly get rid of it through yoga, right?
• 32:15
  His inner engineering program because that's what he's
• 32:18
  promoting this time and that's great.
• 32:22
  That we have him. Where are you?
• 32:26
  Well, let me see. This one's interesting.
• 32:30
  This one's from Stephen C. Hayes, pain and purpose are two,
• 32:35
  sides of the same thing. A person struggling with
• 32:37
  depression is very likely a person yearning to feel fully
• 32:41
  social young. This person is very likely a
• 32:43
  person yearning to connect with others, you hurt, where you
• 32:46
  care, and you care where you hurt.
• 32:48
  Okay. I'm not all of us hurt, but
• 32:49
  okay, that, in case, any of you needed to hear that, this is
• 32:54
  where it's about anxiety, mental, health awareness, and
• 32:58
  it's from the therapy or not show lady.
• 33:01
  So, that's not what I was looking for, though.
• 33:04
  I was looking for sadguru, which let me pause you guys found it.
• 33:11
  So as he shares with us, Karma's accumulation of cast, recordings
• 33:16
  that keep replaying yoga helps to transform your life.
• 33:20
  Oh, capital from every play into profound experience.
• 33:23
  What karma is he's talking about.
• 33:27
  This lovely differentiated default mode.
• 33:29
  Oats other the self which is neuroception, as even poor just
• 33:35
  points out where you're always wondering, am I safe and might
• 33:37
  not safe because our bodies going to keep us protected
• 33:40
  you're nervous. System is going to either be in
• 33:44
  a safe space with that or not. So the ones who are restored
• 33:48
  embodied selves, we're safe in our body.
• 33:50
  So when our marine is thinking and I save him or not, we just
• 33:53
  know, we're safe period and we move into always more of this
• 33:57
  place, which is why we never disconnect from the in
• 34:01
  Consciousness. So, mature feminine is what I'm
• 34:04
  talking about and not immature masculine of any type of twin
• 34:08
  flame experience for the enlightenment so age group, The
• 34:11
  night, mental age group, human being again, which is a person
• 34:15
  who has the desire and or inclination to move into being a
• 34:19
  5D unconditionally loving person.
• 34:22
  They can come from shame. This is not where they have to
• 34:25
  be from the love cycle. I did not do the Journey of
• 34:28
  shame. I did a journey of love and my
• 34:30
  journey is to share with you that journey and so for those
• 34:33
  who have shame, I have seen shame and the pureness of it in
• 34:38
  the most unpleasant, way possible.
• 34:41
  And yeah, Yeah, I will tell you that it's a human being who gets
• 34:44
  to choose how to treat another human being.
• 34:46
  So it's a very simple and straightforward action like my
• 34:50
  friend chose the words, she used the same thing goes for any
• 34:53
  other person that I've ever met in my life.
• 34:55
  They will have consciously. Chosen the words they use and I
• 34:58
  will have been very understanding and aware even
• 35:01
  without knowing it of their own insecurities and their own on
• 35:06
  wellness and their own negation of the life.
• 35:09
  They are so their own Karma. And that's where I will have
• 35:13
  compassion. In fact, I've always treated
• 35:15
  people with the utmost respect, meaning I'm not going to accuse
• 35:19
  you of something that you did not do wrong.
• 35:21
  I'm going to top and I'm going to share with you, my thoughts
• 35:24
  and my feelings. And if that's not okay, well
• 35:27
  then I guess you, and I shall not interact with each other.
• 35:31
  For there is no reason to cancel out the person who's here Maria
• 35:35
  or another. So like with my friend and I
• 35:38
  thank my entire oversold for teaching me this how Went to be
• 35:42
  when I'm just standing up for something very straightforward.
• 35:45
  You know, what gets me is that these people man, they could
• 35:49
  have lots more fun in life. Oh my gosh.
• 35:52
  So let me move in to help Tara Brach points out to us from
• 35:57
  neuroscience. And, you know, it's really great
• 36:00
  when as a kid, you know, bunch of shit.
• 36:02
  You didn't even know, you knew now, I get to use big grown-up
• 36:05
  words to explain it. So where are you Tara
• 36:09
  Neuroscience shows that having Similar reactions and thoughts
• 36:13
  over and over again, builds a habit of guess what, your
• 36:16
  rewiring the same shit over and over again.
• 36:20
  There you go. My lovely attachment suffering.
• 36:22
  What happens when this takes place, well, one, you're going
• 36:26
  to be repeating this little cycle.
• 36:28
  And usually, unfortunately, people who don't have secure
• 36:31
  attachment, they are angry and judgmental.
• 36:33
  Oh, yes. They are a lot.
• 36:36
  And, you know, they think they have fun in their little
• 36:39
  gossiping narratives. They really don't.
• 36:41
  But then again, everybody gets to choose again whether they
• 36:43
  want to be grown up version or teenage version.
• 36:46
  I see a lot of teenagers out there and they are managing each
• 36:49
  other very well. I might add, they have their
• 36:51
  belonging circles and their certainty circles.
• 36:54
  And there you go. And they also are enlightened by
• 36:56
  the way. So go look them up.
• 36:57
  I'm sure you'll find them. So when you react to fear with,
• 37:02
  anger, judgment your body lives with a, not only unhealthy level
• 37:05
  of stress, chemicals. That's because you're in a
• 37:07
  sympathetic nervous system response or your indoor.
• 37:11
  So vague Dorsal vagal that's even sadder because you're
• 37:13
  fatigued. And you know, this is where the
• 37:15
  reality is. There's fatigue, anyways,
• 37:17
  because you're still under stress every day.
• 37:19
  Your body lives here, this is going to be the most
• 37:22
  uncomfortable. I don't know that level of lack
• 37:24
  of energy because I actually don't live with a constant level
• 37:28
  of stress because humanity is not unsafe to me, we're just all
• 37:31
  flawed and imperfect which is normal.
• 37:33
  That's what it means to be people.
• 37:35
  So there's no need for me to be angry or judgmental towards it.
• 37:38
  It represents no physical life threat, to me.
• 37:40
  It's simply Hence human suffering, which they have an
• 37:43
  answer to thank you. Daniel.
• 37:45
  Siegel rigidity of the mind is an unhealthy, unintegrated mind.
• 37:49
  And yet it's not even popular amongst therapists yet.
• 37:53
  I can't wait for the actual people who study it to get on
• 37:56
  board with the findings, but I do know how empirical data
• 38:00
  works. So I'm so sorry, it's a little
• 38:01
  bit slow for, you know, the egoic rigid thinkers to finally
• 38:06
  accept that their entire field, learns new shit and they should
• 38:10
  welcome it. But Is let me resist you because
• 38:13
  now you're contradicting, what Freud said.
• 38:15
  Seriously, I have no idea how to even are still in Academia, but
• 38:21
  that's because he got a lot of an enlightened people and people
• 38:25
  who don't even know their own biases FYI.
• 38:28
  So here I told you this story before when I was in college and
• 38:33
  this is not something that only happened to me.
• 38:36
  And actually all tell another story, there's this kid that
• 38:38
  came to my college and he He had had to leave his Ivy League
• 38:44
  school where he was already indebted.
• 38:47
  I don't remember this absurd number.
• 38:49
  Poor guy, I'll never forget. He's like, I'm not even halfway
• 38:52
  through and I, oh, I forgot it was 100,000, I'm like, oh my
• 38:55
  God, that's horrible. So he had been bullied out of
• 38:58
  school, which happens, by the way, we even had one of our
• 39:03
  professors share with us how he left an Ivy League school
• 39:06
  because of corruption. Because and he didn't use the
• 39:09
  word corruption. But where the people who paid A
• 39:11
  buttload of money. They basically said, you have to
• 39:15
  pass these kids. You have to.
• 39:17
  They didn't say it when those words because, of course, you
• 39:19
  know, here's where smarts works, right?
• 39:22
  Let me use some word to make it. And at the end of the, you know,
• 39:25
  when people like stop just stop, do you not know how life works?
• 39:31
  I mean if you're going to succeed right here, you're going
• 39:32
  to succeed because you actually care, you're going to keep
• 39:35
  moving forward. Nothing can stop a person from
• 39:39
  where they want to go. If they actually want to get get
• 39:41
  there. That's just how an agent will
• 39:44
  think we won't look and point a finger and say, ahh, now I'm
• 39:48
  going to fight a battle that is not actually what a boil.
• 39:52
  And I'm going to fight a battle that I know I can win.
• 39:54
  And I'm not going to fight. I'm actually going to be smart
• 39:56
  about it. So here is what again, people
• 39:59
  who have smarts to, they are stable and mature adaptive
• 40:03
  rational teachable, we see what we can do and what we can't do.
• 40:09
  So in this case, like my professor, they And use any big
• 40:12
  words, they weren't upset. They said I left because this is
• 40:15
  how this thing worked. I understand to college to keep
• 40:18
  itself afloat needs and needs people that pay.
• 40:22
  There's all these ways that things work, you know and people
• 40:24
  want to talk about conspiracies and Clans and and all this shit
• 40:28
  it's like dude did you not understand that somehow the
• 40:31
  stupid economy with a stupid invention of money?
• 40:34
  It exists. You want to whine about it, go
• 40:36
  for it. But in the meantime, how about
• 40:38
  you do, what you can do to work with it?
• 40:41
  So, long story short, people will do what they do, but this
• 40:46
  is where I'm thinking. Okay, yeah, so this guy, he got
• 40:50
  bullied out because he wrote a paper that wasn't accepted.
• 40:53
  I forget what it was. It was something political,
• 40:56
  literally, the school they racks and racks act.
• 41:00
  I forget the word they went into his room, they took his paper,
• 41:03
  they broke his computer, this kid had to leave, they were not
• 41:07
  going to have him graduate. Like so he just knew.
• 41:09
  Okay. I have to get out because I All
• 41:11
  of it. But this is where this is in
• 41:13
  school people. So for me, it was very
• 41:16
  different. And see, here's where I have a
• 41:18
  smart human being thankfully. There's what I do know, human
• 41:23
  and human unconsciousness, meaning you don't know that you
• 41:26
  got bias is going on. I was shocked and surprised
• 41:28
  because I'm thinking this is a professor.
• 41:30
  This is supposed to be a person who's supposed to be objective
• 41:34
  and they're not like my other Professor, my master's class who
• 41:37
  also was not objective about their own biases towards.
• 41:41
  The difference between quantitative and qualitative,
• 41:44
  which is, by the way subjective, because they're a buttload of
• 41:46
  researchers who find qualitative just as important as
• 41:50
  quantitative research. And in the meantime, I got a
• 41:54
  downgraded paper because that person decided that qualitative
• 41:58
  was not what I should have chosen.
• 41:59
  I should have chosen quantitative because they think
• 42:03
  that's more valuable as research.
• 42:06
  This is one of the reasons why I chose to take a test for my
• 42:09
  Master's instead of doing a paper.
• 42:11
  Because if A tell me how to do my own research.
• 42:13
  Fuck that shit. I'm going to do my research on
• 42:15
  my own because I'm not going to have you tell me how to research
• 42:19
  something that I'm curious about this, supposed to be my paper
• 42:23
  and here's where. So, once again, the system works
• 42:25
  a certain way, they're going to promote papers that get
• 42:30
  visibility, so that the school can get money, blah, blah, blah,
• 42:33
  blah. So here you go Academia a
• 42:35
  business. That's one of the other reasons.
• 42:37
  Why? I don't give a shit about
• 42:38
  getting a PhD. It was really just for me too.
• 42:41
  Say oh I got my PhD, I love it and I love Academia but here's
• 42:46
  where objectively speaking. Is it worth it?
• 42:48
  No, it's not because it's a silly piece of paper.
• 42:52
  I do love learning however and that's where education keeps
• 42:57
  letting me share with you. A lot of things that I don't see
• 43:00
  other people sharing with. You Karma equals you with your
• 43:04
  own attachment stuff, is what I'm getting to an you living
• 43:08
  fear means you actually being in a state that is a stress.
• 43:11
  Stout body, you don't need yoga. But yoga, if you do do it, it'll
• 43:15
  work. Your ventral vagal, vagus nerve,
• 43:17
  it'll help you to practice. Use your brain muscle to
• 43:22
  practice silence, you're using your human body.
• 43:25
  The first thing you got to learn how to do.
• 43:27
  If you're going to move anywhere near a restorative body itself
• 43:30
  experience, which is done, when you can be more in this lovely
• 43:33
  spirituality, which is still just you as a person with your
• 43:37
  Consciousness, you got the ego here, So it's used as a
• 43:42
  functional adult, okay? Now that we've looked at that,
• 43:46
  the more you avoid, your fear by running from it and reacting to
• 43:49
  it, the stronger and more toxic, it becomes.
• 43:51
  And there you go, my friend, she may be better at handling
• 43:54
  herself and words, she still suffers equally and his as
• 43:58
  equally. I'm satisfied and unfulfilled
• 44:00
  and more than just that. Again, my mind goes to worry
• 44:04
  with my friend, not see anywhere else.
• 44:06
  Her behavior is of a adaptive child, as many people will be if
• 44:10
  they could Continue to remain within their unresolved trauma
• 44:13
  and it's their business not mine.
• 44:15
  Here's what my business is for those of you who do want to be
• 44:18
  yourself as functional Dalton, follow your heart and actually
• 44:22
  become potentially or Enlightenment.
• 44:24
  So Adrian I have had this since I was a very young teenager and
• 44:30
  what I mean was I was like 14 or 15 when I bought this and I've
• 44:35
  always and I still carry it with me.
• 44:36
  I carried Jesus with me too even though I know that my lovely
• 44:40
  Church would not. Set me in any way, shape or
• 44:42
  form, but I don't care about the church that live still.
• 44:46
  In the medieval times Jesus. I'm sure would be very upset
• 44:50
  with them. As would be a God, if there was
• 44:53
  such an entity in the way that they talk, I have actually no
• 44:56
  shadow of a doubt about it because I'm the potent,
• 44:59
  all-knowing mean something and this is where they obviously
• 45:01
  don't know the words. They just know how to read
• 45:04
  scripture in a way that satisfies their narrative.
• 45:07
  There you go. My once again ego with
• 45:10
  attachments. Thousand unresolved.
• 45:11
  Trauma believe in yourself, believe in yourself to the depth
• 45:16
  of your being nourished. Her talents, your spirit is
• 45:18
  freeing know in your heart when the going gets.
• 45:20
  So that your faith in yourself will continue to grow.
• 45:23
  Don't forfeit ambition, when others make doubts, it's your
• 45:26
  life to live. You must live it throughout
• 45:28
  learn from your errors. Don't dwell in the past.
• 45:31
  Never withdraw from a world that is fast.
• 45:33
  Believe in yourself, find the best.
• 45:35
  That is you that your spirit prevails tier.
• 45:37
  Of course, that is true. This is Bruce be Wilmer.
• 45:41
  And I have this, it's a wallet stuffer and I actually shared it
• 45:45
  with my lovely, teenage niece, and share it with whoever I can
• 45:49
  you guys have heard a gazillion times and then before we move to
• 45:53
  that lovely quote, I wanted to reach you.
• 45:57
  Here's what I got for you when it comes to another favorite
• 46:02
  quote, I was again a teenager and this one.
• 46:06
  I remember when I got my aha moment.
• 46:09
  Everything happens for a reason. Every action has a reaction.
• 46:13
  Always remember that. What is meant to be?
• 46:15
  Will always find a way to come? And here's where that person
• 46:20
  that I wanted to read to you. That made me laugh about to
• 46:23
  inflames. Where are you?
• 46:26
  It's going to be here somewhere. I just need to find it so
• 46:31
  there's this way. Here it is.
• 46:34
  No, not that one. Oh well, this one made me laugh,
• 46:36
  too. You've been unknowingly blocked.
• 46:38
  Okay, someone cannot be undone. We booked but they're talking
• 46:43
  about how you didn't move forward in life because someone
• 46:46
  must have blocked you. Whether they did Juju magic or
• 46:49
  whatever it is you were blocked by the external.
• 46:51
  So you reach your objective, there's a million ways to 40
• 46:56
  people actually think their life is moving because of other
• 46:59
  energies, here's the 120. Flame separation is a must on
• 47:03
  this journey anytime I hear I must and people, I'm like, okay,
• 47:08
  now that's a way to give somebody an excuse Stu, you
• 47:11
  know, keep on doing this, this little dick.
• 47:14
  Dance of their own insecurities. Okay, a person who is their own
• 47:20
  functional. Adult is not a person who's
• 47:23
  insecure when we pick and choose how to spend our time.
• 47:27
  It's because we consciously pick and choose the beauty about
• 47:30
  being a restorative body itself and not being afraid of people.
• 47:33
  And their insecurities is this no matter what throughout my
• 47:38
  years of life I've seen in ways of people being in spite and
• 47:43
  revenge and in this just matters that on completely.
• 47:46
  Again, I didn't know the word evil and it didn't dawn on me
• 47:49
  that it was evil, because it's always been very obvious when a
• 47:52
  person's doing something, my reaction, my actions are always
• 47:57
  going to be. This is where if your functional
• 47:59
  adults, you've got your well, being in the Forefront, you're
• 48:02
  choosing to Enlighten yourself, you're choosing how to behave.
• 48:07
  So, as a human being with a heart, I will not conduct
• 48:11
  myself, in a way that would choose to hurt another human
• 48:13
  being. That's actually unnecessary
• 48:16
  again, and uncalled for. And it feels really bad.
• 48:19
  It feels really bad. I've never done it.
• 48:22
  That I recall. I mean, the only Act of defense
• 48:26
  was that little girl, as I was 45 and she threatened me.
• 48:30
  So there you go. I defended myself when she
• 48:33
  threatened to take something that she had given me.
• 48:35
  So I actually I do not have any beef with myself about what I
• 48:39
  did and it was the only time I've ever done anything when it
• 48:42
  comes to becoming a teenager, I did stupid shit with teenagers.
• 48:46
  I learned from it, very quickly, very easily, in fact, the only
• 48:49
  person I had anything to say to you was myself, that was it and
• 48:53
  not enough. Oh, you're such an asshole.
• 48:55
  Maria know I'm a teenager like anybody else I made wrong
• 48:58
  choices. I learned from them.
• 49:00
  I won't ever make them again and here's where it doesn't mean.
• 49:03
  You don't make mistakes. It means you think through the
• 49:05
  things you choose to. To.
• 49:07
  And every time we move into our oversold, we learn more and more
• 49:10
  and more those of us who are compassion, how to speak
• 49:15
  carefully. One of the things that I do know
• 49:19
  that if I could go back, I would change.
• 49:21
  It's only one word that I shared with one person and I was young
• 49:26
  though and there is a very specific reason why I shared
• 49:29
  that word and I don't, in fact, have it against me or against
• 49:34
  the person. I just know that if I could go
• 49:38
  back, I would change that. Because I did say, I will never
• 49:41
  forgive and that is something that I didn't mean, but it was
• 49:44
  said because of something very important and to this day again.
• 49:49
  So if there is a mistake, I've always said that would be the
• 49:53
  one that would be. The one that I didn't know.
• 49:56
  I shouldn't have done and it's only because I'm not able to
• 50:00
  address it do to people's close-mindedness, like actual
• 50:04
  human beings. Who don't grow up to this day.
• 50:08
  I laugh every time a person tells me that they think of
• 50:12
  themselves as living the relationships freely.
• 50:14
  Like my attachment style friend, but then, they count the number
• 50:17
  of times you can talk to each other.
• 50:19
  Seriously, I mean, how old are you?
• 50:22
  And what are you even thinking, like, how do you count these
• 50:26
  things? So, my friend, again time again,
• 50:28
  and again, the this mannerism, it's inconsistent because she
• 50:33
  wants to think of herself as a free.
• 50:36
  I know you're not when you're counting the ways and really, it
• 50:39
  should Dawn upon her. I am counting the ways.
• 50:42
  I am the one, who's addressing my friendships and relationships
• 50:45
  in a way of, you're not giving me what I want.
• 50:48
  And the thing is, they're not clear when they're doing it.
• 50:51
  That's the part. They're in their suffering, and
• 50:54
  here's why it's a choice to become your functional adult.
• 50:58
  Most people are not choosing that because they will find
• 51:02
  some, we group leader and Clans and people.
• 51:06
  That they will feel at home within.
• 51:07
  That's okay, that's the part of. Why not everybody moves into
• 51:11
  that in, like, mental age with and it's not a must.
• 51:13
  And at the end of the day, they don't change anybody's life
• 51:16
  except for their own. So like I said, when we are in
• 51:20
  our relationships for us, the mature feminine, not them
• 51:23
  others. The others don't include them,
• 51:25
  they have a shame cycle, some of them get out of it.
• 51:27
  Some of them though, I'm, you know, this is where I'm not here
• 51:29
  to share that side of the coin today.
• 51:32
  I'm here to share the mature. Feminine has their own mature
• 51:34
  masculine, it's my head. My mind and my body.
• 51:37
  And so we're always very clear and we keep on expanding and we
• 51:41
  don't make mistakes because we don't do anything without
• 51:46
  thinking it through, and we will always try to do the best and
• 51:49
  what is even more important. As we don't actually make
• 51:52
  accusations, we don't cancel people, we don't block them, we
• 51:56
  don't unfriend them. We don't say you don't exist,
• 51:58
  and we don't do this because we don't cast an actual stone.
• 52:02
  We don't judge this way. We have opinions, this is
• 52:04
  different, we don't come And M, that's the part.
• 52:07
  We don't close doors like that because it's ridiculous.
• 52:11
  It's like, I swear, I think what is wrong with people but again I
• 52:15
  have secure attachment in my body.
• 52:17
  So there's that I don't have a lack of trust when people get in
• 52:22
  there. Blame, Shane fault Revenge
• 52:23
  little games. Yeah, they're playing a game,
• 52:25
  I'm playing around, I get to learn whatever their pattern is
• 52:29
  because that's what people are as long as they live their
• 52:32
  karma, as long as they live their habit, that's what they
• 52:35
  are. over and over, and over, and over, and over again, when
• 52:40
  you're participating to your pattern, it's a very different
• 52:51
  story. You flourish when you're
• 52:54
  participating in your pattern, you flourish because you are
• 52:57
  actually a restored. Embodied self that has a
• 53:00
  flexible adaptive, coherent energized and stable brain.
• 53:06
  And that's because your own masculine, which is this mind,
• 53:09
  the embodied, brain, and your own feminine.
• 53:12
  Your body are in harmony within. So, The part about people's
• 53:20
  inability to know themselves is because they actually don't get
• 53:25
  to know their protector lenses and they don't get to know.
• 53:28
  They're basically inner child wounds, they don't have to and
• 53:34
  this new information cymatics and sensory motor and the actual
• 53:38
  trauma-informed. Experts is not of all people's
• 53:41
  interests. Again, they use the word
• 53:42
  well-being. They think that well, being as a
• 53:45
  fad, people are doing mindfulness.
• 53:47
  Meditation. They don't know what they're
• 53:49
  doing until I can see how they treat each other.
• 53:52
  So, here's where twin flames are not fated in any way, shape, or
• 53:56
  form because it's two people and, or more depending, if you
• 54:01
  got one or more than one, it doesn't matter whether they want
• 54:03
  to call false, not fall right here is an indication to me of
• 54:07
  when people don't appreciate their relationships from their
• 54:10
  own deaths. So for me, all my relationships
• 54:13
  are amazing, from my depths not from what their name is that I
• 54:16
  can Recognize and that we have subscription-based model content
• 54:20
  on the oversoul. It's because there's a specific
• 54:23
  way that those of us who are mature feminine 's, and as
• 54:26
  somebody who is channeling guidance and supports people
• 54:31
  with Claire's and that Community to stay while I'm grounded in
• 54:35
  reality. But to to, I understand you, you
• 54:38
  understand me. So there are aspects of the
• 54:41
  journey. There is no obligation anyone
• 54:45
  that says, I don't care who they are, doesn't matter.
• 54:47
  Type of Chandler, they come tell me they are.
• 54:50
  This is where even to God as a thirteen-year-old I said, dude,
• 54:54
  don't you ever come down to me and tell me something like you
• 54:56
  did. Did you see your son?
• 54:57
  Because I I will just say no. And then when I said, yeah this
• 55:01
  evil shit, I don't even know what it is.
• 55:04
  I have no issue with that and that's where when the
• 55:08
  dismantling of these figures came to be it was actually
• 55:15
  something that I won't ever forget and not in a way that is
• 55:21
  positive or negative my body new and so did my mind.
• 55:26
  But here's where people in your life, they're supposed to be
• 55:29
  your friends. That's what those of us who are
• 55:33
  mature feminine, as we look to people as friends as partners in
• 55:37
  life and if we think that someone's our life partnering
• 55:41
  better, but we're not thinking that they're going to turn their
• 55:43
  back and be evil assholes quote, unquote.
• 55:48
  Give better bet. We're not going to think that at
• 55:50
  all. So this whole faded shit, I'm
• 55:52
  going to say there's a bullshit because there is no fate.
• 55:56
  There is none of that. And a person who's actually in
• 55:59
  there, like mental age of will know this from the minute that
• 56:02
  they are born and begin thinking, they will know what
• 56:05
  Darkness means and so we will have a very specific way that we
• 56:09
  will use our time and it won't be in the Wasteland of drama or
• 56:14
  of oh how horrible people? No, it won't be there because We
• 56:17
  actually this is the part of when you're restoring body
• 56:21
  itself, I don't know separation from the essence of life from
• 56:25
  the day. I can remember I'm going to make
• 56:27
  every day the best day and I have a freaking great way of
• 56:32
  doing it. It's called love and I can do it
• 56:35
  all by myself, not because I don't have love for people
• 56:38
  though. I love Humanity, Humanity rocks.
• 56:43
  I like the conscious ones. I like the adult ones.
• 56:45
  I actually don't enjoy the Everyone's but I do know how to
• 56:49
  make the best out of the ones who are on their growth Journey,
• 56:53
  you know, here's where it's very, very shitty when I hear
• 56:56
  people saying that karmic. I got rid of her or him and then
• 57:01
  and I'm like, wow. Yeah.
• 57:02
  Okay you keep you keep thinking you're in and like men you keep
• 57:05
  you keep keep on believing that I know.
• 57:07
  It helps you to feel better about who you are.
• 57:10
  I mean I don't even actually go there.
• 57:12
  I literally it's you know, when something becomes callous like
• 57:17
  my Ears. Don't want to hear this.
• 57:19
  This this little pity party of these people because it's
• 57:23
  actually something I consider completely unnecessary.
• 57:27
  Did anybody read The Ugly? Duckling?
• 57:29
  Did anybody read any of their childhood books?
• 57:31
  With Consciousness is my question because I remember
• 57:33
  every one of the books that I've ever read and as a kid and they
• 57:37
  all taught me how to treat people with my heart not with my
• 57:41
  not with whatever insecurity a person has.
• 57:45
  It's very straightforward. You're a human being.
• 57:49
  So the minute you do something, that is not nice and you don't
• 57:52
  know how to apologize. Well, you know what?
• 57:54
  Your big baby? I know how to apologize.
• 57:57
  I'm imperfect. Everyone's in perfect.
• 57:59
  This is the, this is what it means to be human.
• 58:01
  Now if you people can't accept it like grown-ups, huh?
• 58:04
  Well yes, let's just blame it on evil exists.
• 58:07
  I love when they tell me that one.
• 58:08
  It's like no actually. I would say nothing exists but
• 58:11
  since I can't actually prove this and I do have dreams that,
• 58:15
  you know, so this is the part about the Twin Flame thing.
• 58:17
  NG is our over, soul is beautiful.
• 58:20
  The twin flame stuff, it ain't having to be anything.
• 58:23
  It's a it's a specific bomb that you will know.
• 58:27
  Yes. And in fact, it will be for the
• 58:29
  mature feminine. Very, very I don't want to use
• 58:32
  the word today because unfortunately I actually do
• 58:35
  understand what it means when people have no idea what the
• 58:38
  fuck they're doing my attachment style friend, perfect example,
• 58:42
  it's called human suffering, it's called insecurities.
• 58:44
  It's called people not wanting to grow up, it's called people
• 58:47
  stay. In their patterns and habits and
• 58:49
  it's okay, because they get to live the pattern that they've
• 58:53
  chosen, like my friend The Narrative, she's chosen.
• 58:56
  I'm going to fight for self-respect and I'm going to
• 58:58
  get rid of you and you and that's how I'm going to prove it
• 59:01
  to myself and I got to learn it all on my own because my parents
• 59:05
  didn't teach me, okay, then however, old you are and with
• 59:10
  all the trauma, informed stuff that I shared with you and with
• 59:13
  even walking you through your entire again, this is where it's
• 59:17
  like, you You literally and actually are choosing to ignore
• 59:21
  information, but it's because the ears that are hearing it or
• 59:25
  not, hearing the words that I'm saying, the ears are already
• 59:29
  hearing only what they want, only what their narrative is.
• 59:34
  So here's the part of them being unconscious, which is why, when
• 59:37
  Ford he's talking about zombies, no, they're not zombies, they
• 59:41
  need help you, canceling, your friend out ain't going to help
• 59:44
  them in a million years. Never dream of canceling my
• 59:49
  friends out. Not before I knew about trauma,
• 59:52
  I'm not after you know this is the part.
• 59:55
  Unless you represent a physical threat to me, I have no reason
• 59:58
  to get you to stop and here's where the only person that I
• 1:00:03
  actually had to address that way.
• 1:00:07
  It's because this individual doesn't actually care about the
• 1:00:13
  hurt they created and they would get me and they already had on
• 1:00:17
  me in situation that was unnecessary.
• 1:00:21
  And that is where because of the people that their family is, I
• 1:00:26
  like, okay, I'm going to be smart about this because I have
• 1:00:29
  realized that the individual does not care about my actual
• 1:00:32
  physical safety. They're not going to actually
• 1:00:37
  keep me protected if you will and take ownership their full-on
• 1:00:41
  blinded, and it's very sad to this day.
• 1:00:43
  I hope that him and his family get help like For real again,
• 1:00:49
  therapy. Good therapy.
• 1:00:50
  That's what I hope. But that's the only individual
• 1:00:53
  that I actually had to say, dude, stop.
• 1:00:57
  And, you know, here's the thing about patterns and people and
• 1:01:01
  the fact that no person represents a threat, unless you
• 1:01:05
  are dealing with. And so, okay, this is why things
• 1:01:08
  get mixed up for individuals when they're not agents of
• 1:01:13
  themselves. And so I'm going to share a
• 1:01:15
  little bit more. I wanted to make Make it short.
• 1:01:18
  But this is an important message.
• 1:01:21
  The Twin Flame thing became trending for various reasons,
• 1:01:24
  but it's not like it wasn't already trending to use
• 1:01:27
  relationship coaches. So there you go.
• 1:01:29
  People have meaning only through their relationships, especially
• 1:01:33
  the people in those other sole chirps.
• 1:01:35
  This is how they belong. They find meaning in life.
• 1:01:38
  Some people need a person to have meaning in life and not
• 1:01:40
  good, or bad. It just is, this is the
• 1:01:43
  difference for the enlightenment.
• 1:01:44
  So, a troop. We don't have a need for You
• 1:01:47
  have meaning in life, we choose you.
• 1:01:51
  And when we meet our twin flames Flames, we actually know who
• 1:01:56
  they are. And we will let them in on it,
• 1:02:00
  not in the spiritual sense, because they are not in any way
• 1:02:03
  shape or form. People who believe, in any of
• 1:02:05
  this stuff. In fact, quite the contrary may
• 1:02:09
  I act. And that's where that's not.
• 1:02:13
  In fact, something will be like, oh, so now I'm going to hide my
• 1:02:17
  shit. From your nose.
• 1:02:18
  This is who I am. This is what actually is a part
• 1:02:21
  of me. And that's one of the first
• 1:02:22
  places where you're not going to be a home.
• 1:02:24
  To me. If you actually make me sound
• 1:02:28
  ridiculous and you actually consistently take, my crystals
• 1:02:33
  might are all this stuff for something in a way of.
• 1:02:37
  Yeah. No, that's not cool.
• 1:02:39
  It's not okay. That you're not accepting
• 1:02:41
  because this is where Partnerships means you accept me
• 1:02:43
  for who I am. Otherwise, there is no
• 1:02:45
  partnership going on. So we don't care about the The
• 1:02:47
  label is a word that we use because we know certain things
• 1:02:50
  that's it. Other than that you're going to
• 1:02:53
  prove to me whether we are actually, life partners are not
• 1:02:58
  and you're going to do it through your actions.
• 1:03:00
  Every single one of the actions you take, not the words.
• 1:03:03
  Oh, you can speak to me all day long.
• 1:03:04
  I'm going to look at you and see what you do it.
• 1:03:07
  And in the meantime, I'm going to see your pattern.
• 1:03:09
  I'm going to know exactly where we're headed.
• 1:03:12
  And, you know, again, this is why the faded word it must be
• 1:03:16
  faded. No nothing.
• 1:03:17
  Has faded you create your own fate.
• 1:03:20
  I love believing in my own creation of my own fairytale.
• 1:03:22
  In fact, every day I live my fairy tale but it ain't because
• 1:03:26
  they happen in the way of the movies.
• 1:03:28
  And it's not because of a pessimist of fact, it's not even
• 1:03:31
  close that people. There's a lot of non functional
• 1:03:34
  adults out there man. Oh so you better about again
• 1:03:37
  when we're meeting these twin flames and they're behaving like
• 1:03:40
  children, not we're not going to take them seriously because you
• 1:03:43
  know, an adult is serious. A child is not.
• 1:03:46
  And they also get X fussy in ways that make no sense because
• 1:03:51
  the mature feminine, by the way, has a mature.
• 1:03:53
  Masculine, our own thinking brain, and we have a mouth when
• 1:03:56
  we speak authentically, oh, and we do speak vulnerably.
• 1:03:59
  Oh, and we don't get agitated. That's for the immature
• 1:04:02
  feminine, who goes after their person saying up, and they blame
• 1:04:06
  and shame and all that stuff. We don't do any of that.
• 1:04:10
  We will be for some time, you know, here's the part about a
• 1:04:17
  partner though. I'm thinking, right now, if I
• 1:04:20
  can't get emotional, then you're not, you're not my partner, you
• 1:04:23
  can't be because I have a depth of emotion that goes from here
• 1:04:27
  to everywhere. So, you know, it is what it is,
• 1:04:29
  the minute, you accept, who you are.
• 1:04:32
  And that's what the mature feminine has already done.
• 1:04:34
  Without the need of anyone outside themselves.
• 1:04:37
  A person who's their own agent is In looking to belong to
• 1:04:40
  another human being a better bet that we're don't belong to you.
• 1:04:44
  You don't belong to us and we also don't need certainty from
• 1:04:47
  you and you don't need certainty for us, but we will support you.
• 1:04:51
  And that means we will be unconditionally loving and
• 1:04:54
  support you to become the best version of who you want to be.
• 1:04:58
  However, it is you want to be, you know, why?
• 1:05:00
  For the mature, feminine every, one of our relationships can
• 1:05:03
  work because we don't care about what state of consciousness.
• 1:05:06
  You can we love you for who you are.
• 1:05:09
  We don't care about what flaws are imperfections, you have.
• 1:05:12
  We love you for who you are. Your patterns will become clear
• 1:05:15
  and will love you for who you are and we love to see the
• 1:05:19
  consistent person. You choose to become as you move
• 1:05:22
  into whatever it is that you've chosen that you want in your
• 1:05:25
  life, even if we will see you not be the brightest of the
• 1:05:29
  brightest of what you could be. But I shared with you the
• 1:05:32
  teenage boyfriend ex-boyfriend obviously now and all the people
• 1:05:36
  that have been in my life and all these twin flames as well.
• 1:05:39
  Well, they are who they are. I have conversion, may they be
• 1:05:43
  happy? I'm happy, they're happy, that's
• 1:05:44
  it. And other than that, I could
• 1:05:46
  care less of, where they're at with their souls Journey.
• 1:05:49
  It's, there's not mine, not to mention, it's not about a soul,
• 1:05:52
  it's about a human being and it's about a human being
• 1:05:55
  actually being able to resolve their own emotional
• 1:05:57
  insecurities. I am a person who's always there
• 1:06:01
  for my friends, like my attachment style friend as a
• 1:06:04
  mature human being. I won't lie to you and I won't
• 1:06:06
  baby you because I your mother. One mother.
• 1:06:09
  By the way, I don't want to be baby.
• 1:06:11
  So there's a very different way that those of us who are in our
• 1:06:15
  night, mental age group, mature, feminine, and masculine is,
• 1:06:18
  don't know anything about this world.
• 1:06:20
  They don't it's very unfortunate and, you know, it's not because
• 1:06:23
  of them not knowing about Claire's by the way.
• 1:06:26
  It's because they don't actually have a relationship with their
• 1:06:29
  own inner well-being. They don't know that
• 1:06:33
  fulfillment, is they're safe or unsafe body.
• 1:06:37
  It's their way of a Actually engaging in the ventral Vegas
• 1:06:42
  state is the vital energy not from drugs.
• 1:06:45
  Not from alcohol, not from all the money you can have not from
• 1:06:48
  the journal not from doing Jim, not from being a little soldier,
• 1:06:52
  none of that. You know, this is the part they
• 1:06:54
  are so blinded. And you know, here's where the
• 1:06:59
  immature feminine. I'm not talking right now about
• 1:07:03
  what they're thinking they can be the most eloquent human being
• 1:07:06
  on the face of the planet. I'm talking about Vital energy
• 1:07:10
  level. So when I get to, engage with
• 1:07:12
  the lovely Divine mask in the making, or a divine feminine in
• 1:07:16
  the making though, I'm talking presents conscious human beings,
• 1:07:20
  okay? Okay.
• 1:07:21
  Now, that is enriching to an Enlightenment, so?
• 1:07:25
  Okay, because what we're picking up on is the actual energy of
• 1:07:29
  the person because they embody their thoughts, and their
• 1:07:33
  motions, with agency, and that is a feeling that, you know, put
• 1:07:39
  to the Aside the whole twin flame shit because the reality
• 1:07:41
  is that's a connection the rest of it just, you know you can you
• 1:07:46
  can to me, this is why the whole thing about know, it ain't
• 1:07:49
  faded. No, it's not faded because
• 1:07:52
  people, either talk to each other, they don't have a minute.
• 1:07:54
  You're not talking is the minute.
• 1:07:55
  There ain't no fate here. There's two people choosing, and
• 1:07:59
  there's a very different love language, so they mature.
• 1:08:03
  Feminine will not do the babies love language.
• 1:08:05
  We don't do the little, let me get spiteful with you.
• 1:08:09
  Attachment style friend, when they had their big things when
• 1:08:14
  they sent me, that's big-ass letter, the reason why I said,
• 1:08:17
  okay, look, we don't have the same is because they went really
• 1:08:22
  out of their way and it wasn't even the letter, because the
• 1:08:25
  letter was fine, even though they, they did their little
• 1:08:30
  sheep shop, where they actually, this is where they're not the
• 1:08:34
  only person who's done that. But the way they did that was
• 1:08:38
  they actually were trying to get under my skin but it was in a
• 1:08:42
  way of their own suffering. So when someone tries to hurt
• 1:08:46
  you, it's because they are already hurting.
• 1:08:50
  Every person is a reflection of who they are inside.
• 1:08:53
  We are not mirrors because we the enlightenment.
• 1:08:57
  So age of person will not be a mirror, and we're not going to
• 1:08:59
  mirror to you. We're gonna take a moment to
• 1:09:03
  reflect recenter ourselves, the best of our ability because
• 1:09:08
  we'll be picking up on that. Offering and we wait, this isn't
• 1:09:11
  mine one, you know, so you do a minute of differentiation and
• 1:09:15
  try to stabilize yourself in your own self, which is
• 1:09:18
  compassion, and you done say that me.
• 1:09:20
  How do I dress this? So with my attachment style
• 1:09:22
  foreign your after you have our friendship.
• 1:09:24
  Whenever she would have these moments, I learned better and
• 1:09:26
  better, how to be a better friend and how to be better at
• 1:09:29
  handling, her moment of stress. Because it's a moment of really
• 1:09:32
  big stress for her. This is the part about what
• 1:09:36
  people who want to talk about 5D and then they, I are not friends
• 1:09:40
  with their entire oversoul. Twin flames included.
• 1:09:44
  Okay, let me put it that way so we don't have a faded Destiny
• 1:09:48
  with anyone. We have a faded Destiny with
• 1:09:51
  ourselves, the indictments will age group.
• 1:09:53
  Immature feminine, I add again because the masculine that I've
• 1:09:57
  met until I met the Divine masculine the making the mask
• 1:10:00
  ins I've met they don't know their patterns, they don't know
• 1:10:03
  their suffering and they actually don't know how to
• 1:10:05
  behave like adults. And so there's that like my
• 1:10:11
  immature feminine does well when you meet a divine feminine, is a
• 1:10:14
  Divine masculine. Now that's a breath of fresh air
• 1:10:18
  and that's because not only are they empowered?
• 1:10:20
  They're amazingly compassionate, they're amazingly a tune, their
• 1:10:24
  Everything You imbued by their energy.
• 1:10:27
  That's the most amazing to be around that.
• 1:10:30
  You know, when I'm around other people, they all are in one way.
• 1:10:34
  Shape or form, this low vibration who's suffering and
• 1:10:37
  their suffering petty shit like that.
• 1:10:39
  Not even dying underneath the truck.
• 1:10:41
  But there are actually dying inside and this is the other
• 1:10:44
  part there's answers for them. But again, you choose your own
• 1:10:48
  well-being. There's there are no other ways
• 1:10:50
  for me to put this. So, here's where sadguru.
• 1:10:52
  Thank you. Most people are trapped in
• 1:10:53
  limitations of their own making, not realizing they have locked
• 1:10:57
  themselves in now, they haven't chosen their trauma on purpose.
• 1:11:02
  So, again, please be forgiving in the sense of nobody chooses.
• 1:11:06
  Trauma, not our parents, not us, not anybody.
• 1:11:08
  So, Working things out to functional adult emotional
• 1:11:11
  grown-up way. This is The Enlightenment sold a
• 1:11:15
  drupe way of 5dc. Person is a person who will take
• 1:11:19
  that neighbors shit and make it into love because that's what we
• 1:11:22
  know how to do. This doesn't mean we become
• 1:11:25
  friends with the neighbor. It doesn't mean anything except
• 1:11:28
  for the fact that in our hearts, and in our bodies, we will feel,
• 1:11:32
  wow, I hope they're okay. Because that action indicates to
• 1:11:36
  me, you're not okay. So in this example, Giving with
• 1:11:39
  my friend, you already know the story but they basically used
• 1:11:46
  aspects of my personal life in a way that if I were not a person
• 1:11:52
  who knows my relationships. And since I know who I am, I
• 1:11:55
  know about my own twin flame Flames relationships.
• 1:11:58
  I have no questions about who they are, what they are.
• 1:12:01
  Why do I have? No I only have answers.
• 1:12:04
  And I'm very, very enamored with how much the poor Or in the way
• 1:12:11
  of being able to contemplate my love for life.
• 1:12:15
  I was able to get thanks to all of my relationships and that's
• 1:12:20
  about it and knowing I am my best partner.
• 1:12:23
  That's for sure, because I actually know how to make this
• 1:12:27
  world of mine, rock and roll in. And when I got my Divine,
• 1:12:29
  masculine feminine around, we're rocking and rolling all
• 1:12:32
  together. And that's the best you could
• 1:12:34
  ever desire to have. Plus, you know, again every day
• 1:12:38
  you wake up, making the best of this is fate every day.
• 1:12:41
  You wake up and inside my body, my energy levels are the top of
• 1:12:45
  the roof. They only have to recalibrate
• 1:12:47
  because I meet people who are dying inside and there's nothing
• 1:12:51
  else I can say because again, like my attachment stuff and
• 1:12:54
  people are shitty. I'm going to say, okay.
• 1:12:57
  Do you know again, I hope and pray that you're okay.
• 1:13:00
  That's all that I can say when I think of any person and it
• 1:13:04
  doesn't matter again. What part of that over They are.
• 1:13:07
  You just going to want to hope they're okay.
• 1:13:09
  And like the ones of my friends who found solace whenever I'm
• 1:13:13
  interacting with them and their energy levels or what they are.
• 1:13:17
  I just, you know, I just have to accept that people choose their
• 1:13:21
  own level of well-being, based on their narratives.
• 1:13:24
  That's about it. They don't learn about their
• 1:13:26
  body, they don't learn about their mind.
• 1:13:28
  They don't learn about actual, how to use the trauma informed.
• 1:13:33
  They use it to label people erroneously, I might add But
• 1:13:37
  they don't use it to learn about themselves and how to move out
• 1:13:40
  of their patterns. So, you know, it is what it is
• 1:13:43
  and in this instance with my friend, I simply shared, we are
• 1:13:47
  not compatible because instead of shutting up when I said to
• 1:13:50
  them you know you're giving me a list of items and I don't, this
• 1:13:55
  is not accurate, you know, like none of this this this state,
• 1:14:00
  they kept giving me feedback and it was really like a teenager
• 1:14:04
  just talking back to you and Continuing to be inconsistent
• 1:14:09
  basically. No, no, I live my relationships
• 1:14:11
  freely but you're not a good friend.
• 1:14:13
  I don't understand you live your relationships really, or am I
• 1:14:16
  not a good friend because I'm not matching what you want?
• 1:14:18
  Which one is it? So, the reality is again, when
• 1:14:23
  people don't realize that their way of talking, if we are
• 1:14:28
  supporting each other to build relationships, it means to share
• 1:14:31
  about each other's traits. It means we come to inclusions
• 1:14:37
  together about what our love languages.
• 1:14:39
  What we want. We will talk another.
• 1:14:42
  Just very straightforward, not accuse.
• 1:14:44
  So anyone who's accusing and or ignoring for that matter.
• 1:14:49
  So they don't hear you. That's where again.
• 1:14:54
  There ain't no faded anything, the whole twin flame shit.
• 1:14:57
  And I say shit, because it's a connection.
• 1:14:59
  Yeah, I didn't need it to spark my Claire's.
• 1:15:01
  My Claire's were sparked all on their own.
• 1:15:03
  In fact, that's the whole point of where the feminine would
• 1:15:06
  know. Who that to inflame is.
• 1:15:08
  And you know what, a minute out of person is not recognizing.
• 1:15:10
  If a person is sharing with them, that that's their soul
• 1:15:13
  that they're unimportant. Well guess what?
• 1:15:14
  You've just shown me that is very straightforward.
• 1:15:18
  I am nothing to you and that is okay because I'm a grown-up.
• 1:15:21
  So people who are mature feminine as we are grownups and
• 1:15:24
  we say, okay, thank you for your actions will speak always louder
• 1:15:29
  than any of the words you may ever tell me, in the entirety of
• 1:15:32
  the years. That one can know anyone actions
• 1:15:36
  are. What tell us what people are?
• 1:15:39
  Like my attachment style friend. I go back to them because they
• 1:15:42
  are the best example, and all I need is them to say the same as
• 1:15:47
  again to inflame. So mates doesn't matter.
• 1:15:49
  They are either grown-ups which means you're having an awesome
• 1:15:53
  conversations. Like, I have with my Divine
• 1:15:54
  masculine divine, feminine friends, or not.
• 1:15:58
  And then in this case, we are pretty well accustomed to
• 1:16:02
  allowing our love language to be a functional adult one.
• 1:16:05
  And we don't accuse. Shame Revenge.
• 1:16:08
  No, no, no. We're going to bluntly state
• 1:16:10
  things with our ventral Bagel. Yes, or a bunch of people know
• 1:16:14
  will direct. And so again, here's where over
• 1:16:16
  soul is quality control after all, it's quality control
• 1:16:20
  because it teaches us the ones of us who want to be in our
• 1:16:24
  Enlightenment so Adrian. How to eloquently presents, the
• 1:16:28
  angry Buddhist and you know, here's where Gotta Love restored
• 1:16:32
  in body cells, man. Armature masculine and feminine
• 1:16:36
  is, they're all Over. It's just most amazing.
• 1:16:38
  I can't wait to meet more secure attachment people by the way,
• 1:16:41
  because as I get to learn about these different groups of
• 1:16:45
  somatic, experiencing cymatics and Trauma.
• 1:16:47
  I'm like, okay, I know there's human beings out there who are
• 1:16:50
  in our Enlightenment. So, Adrian with their own
• 1:16:52
  mature, masculine mature feminine, and meaning Divine
• 1:16:55
  masking, divine feminine is enough for me to know.
• 1:16:57
  Yeah, there's more even just got to keep on networking in the
• 1:17:00
  right field of. It ain't for D, I'm sorry, it's
• 1:17:03
  not the holistic people and no, it's not the spirituality.
• 1:17:06
  Either, I'm so sorry. It's you know, that will
• 1:17:10
  continue in another conversation but those groups of people if
• 1:17:14
  they are in 5D, then they're integrating what we talked about
• 1:17:18
  and that means they're looking for functional adult love
• 1:17:21
  language. They want people that know how
• 1:17:22
  to be vulnerable and that are consistent and we can sense it.
• 1:17:26
  And right now I'm talking all the mature feminine is.
• 1:17:28
  Again the mature masculine is might be here.
• 1:17:31
  Maybe I don't even know and honestly right now in this
• 1:17:35
  energy and like I don't There's too much of them wasting time.
• 1:17:39
  Like my attachment style friend. Like really whenever I see a
• 1:17:42
  person throw their life in the shithole, I just like I don't
• 1:17:45
  even want to especially like that and then they want to talk
• 1:17:48
  about intellect, don't talk to me about intellect.
• 1:17:50
  If you have any brain then you're going to actually
• 1:17:52
  simulate information. So today is one of those unique
• 1:17:56
  energy days. Again, allow yourself to be
• 1:17:58
  compassionate, but that doesn't mean that we actually have to be
• 1:18:02
  in energy where people are consistently, just in their
• 1:18:05
  human suffering from Choice. Some people.
• 1:18:07
  They haven't Chosen. And these are the people that we
• 1:18:09
  get to work with others. They've chosen the ones have
• 1:18:12
  sold this, their grade and dandy.
• 1:18:13
  I've been in touch with a bunch of.
• 1:18:15
  My soul is Friends. They're all living same
• 1:18:17
  vibration, they're great and daddy.
• 1:18:19
  So I'm excited for the ones who want to grow.
• 1:18:22
  I'm like, I hope there's more of them that wants actually grow
• 1:18:25
  because it's really nice when their energy levels can go up
• 1:18:28
  from within them by the way. And, and this is where it's not
• 1:18:32
  about being right or wrong. It's actually them living a good
• 1:18:34
  life. So again, you can have Of all
• 1:18:36
  the Maseratis you want, you can have all the billions you want.
• 1:18:40
  And I know some people think that that makes them happy.
• 1:18:44
  They obviously don't know what it's like to be happy from
• 1:18:46
  inside again. It's not about not having that
• 1:18:49
  that you can get. Oh, I can get a Gazoo Maseratis.
• 1:18:51
  If I want, what am I going to do with them?
• 1:18:53
  And they really are going to pollute the world.
• 1:18:55
  So no, I don't want the and I don't like driving but I'm being
• 1:18:58
  funny now. Okay, I have shared with you.
• 1:19:01
  A bunch of different things today in this special, That was
• 1:19:04
  supposed to be short but was it? I hope you're having Wonderful
• 1:19:07
  weekend. I know that the energy is about
• 1:19:09
  are bringing you guys a lot of different choices they
• 1:19:12
  functional. Adult love language is awesome.
• 1:19:14
  There's more of us out there than we know.
• 1:19:17
  And if there are not there those who want to be here, I have
• 1:19:20
  plenty of them again that I do interact with and I'm very
• 1:19:24
  excited for their journey ahead. The ones who have picked their
• 1:19:27
  soulless their karma. They don't need to be involved
• 1:19:30
  in your journey. They won't want to be involved
• 1:19:32
  in your journey because they actually are triggered by the
• 1:19:35
  level of energy. See that you are and it's not
• 1:19:38
  something that we should say. Haha.
• 1:19:40
  No, I am sad about my friend and I'm sad most of all because I'm
• 1:19:45
  worried. And that's really where it
• 1:19:48
  stands with any of the aspects, even like the whole to inflame
• 1:19:51
  stuff. It's not something fun for me to
• 1:19:53
  see loved ones choose a pattern. That is unhealthy for their
• 1:20:00
  physical bodies, okay? I don't care about what people
• 1:20:02
  think, meaning the way a person wants to contemplate their life.
• 1:20:06
  It's something very specific to a person's Journey, but knowing
• 1:20:11
  that when you have a body that doesn't know how to get out of
• 1:20:15
  this sympathetic stress mode and that is dysregulated.
• 1:20:19
  Modulated, I think of that, I think of their actual unhealthy
• 1:20:25
  body and not because they're drinking or eating.
• 1:20:28
  No, again their actual on inability to know how to center
• 1:20:33
  themselves in a state of a body. That's a tea.
• 1:20:36
  He's which will then benefit their actual physical health.
• 1:20:39
  So here's a little breakdown. Where the enlightenment so age,
• 1:20:42
  remind will always navigate is the actual life.
• 1:20:47
  The energy level that you will know a person can or can't have
• 1:20:51
  obviously that's that infinite higher human consciousness
• 1:20:54
  potential experience but then there's also the actual body.
• 1:20:57
  So here is feminine masculine together and knowing that it's
• 1:21:01
  not about again. Yeah I have my cigars.
• 1:21:05
  I smoked I Alcohol every now and then or even more than every now
• 1:21:09
  and then but in moderation you know stuff like that.
• 1:21:11
  I eat junk food, I'm a healthy person and part about being
• 1:21:16
  functional adults. Again, it's it's a journey for
• 1:21:19
  our lovely species so that's helped to get the people who do
• 1:21:23
  want to live a good life on board and for those who don't
• 1:21:26
  know, that's just be compassionate.
• 1:21:28
  They will come always they come when they're on a very low
• 1:21:32
  energy because they need that, that makes me happy, that they
• 1:21:36
  know that. That they can count on us
• 1:21:38
  because that means they get a little boost for the time.
• 1:21:41
  Being some people think that's enabling, I don't think so.
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  I think that being able to share compassion is very important
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  that might be the only thing that makes a difference.
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  And you know, this is where I do believe that one person can make
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  a difference and we've heard plenty of stories of people's
• 1:21:58
  life that has been saved because they found People Like Us, the
• 1:22:02
  enlightenment still a true. Our neighbor throw shit.
• 1:22:05
  We say, hey, Hey, if they're not physically life-threatening,
• 1:22:08
  what's going on? If they're instead a person who
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  doesn't care, we just know, okay?
• 1:22:13
  That's a really bad day. I hope they don't come back
• 1:22:15
  around and that way they'll eat, you know?
• 1:22:18
  So it is what it is. Anyways.
• 1:22:20
  Have a wonderful day, everyone and be back again tomorrow.