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#165 - Did The Wedding Singer age well? (w/ Ces Lowdermilk) · Did That Age Well?

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  Hi, what's up everyone? Welcome to another brand new
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  traveled from out of town, over the river and through the woods.
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  We've got Cess, Loudermilk, welcome back to do that age
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  well. Thank you, Molly, it's good to
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  be back. Did you know that our episode on
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  My Favorite Murder is the most popular episode of Did That Age
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  Well? That's so interesting, I did not
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  know. That, and guess what?
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  That was your idea. It was my idea.
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  Yeah, because we were going to record something on, like, I
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  don't know, a movie, something normal.
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  And then all that stuff with my favorite Murder happened where
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  it was like, you know, the Internet was having a reckoning.
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  And you said, I think we need to discuss this on the mic.
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  And then we gathered. We gathered the girls.
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  We said assemble. All the OG MFM fans.
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  Exactly the Murdorino's. And Molly, my question to you
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  also is? Oh, she's got questions already.
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  Yeah, I've got some. I've got some questions.
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  OK. Do you still listen to it or?
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  I haven't listened to it in. Years after that episode, I
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  didn't listen for a while, and I've recently been dipping my
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  toe back in. Yeah, and enjoying it.
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  You're having a good time. I'm loving it.
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  Look, we are all capable of growth.
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  Every woman has the right to change her mind.
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  We can change our minds. Men, not so much.
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  Yeah, women are complex. We are.
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  And I changed. My mind 1000 times. 1000 times
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  is my favorite murder good? Is it bad?
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  Is it somewhere in the middle? Every other day I think
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  something I think I think one of.
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  Those you think one of those things flip.
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  Flop. She's a flip flopper.
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  Flip flop, Yeah. Yeah, and I get that.
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  Seth, I want to know, if you were in a cover band, what kind
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  of music would you play? The Wedding Singer, the movie we
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  were discussing today. OK, so the I have been I so I
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  watched this movie, the Wedding Singer about a month ago and
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  ever since then I have been listening to the soundtrack
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  pretty consistently. Wow.
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  OK, that's great. It's a pretty consistent thing.
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  I, I love Flock of Seagulls. OK, great.
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  And there's, I think it's called like new age love song on the on
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  the soundtrack. And I would love to be in a band
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  like that. Wow.
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  Yeah, I love that for you. I don't know that I could do
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  like that hairdo where it's like the like the waves and the horns
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  and the, yeah, the swoops. But I would say I could.
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  I have the hair. I have enough hair.
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  You have enough hair, you just might require a.
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  Hair to spare? You might.
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  You might just need to hire glam for that excursion.
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  And look, money doesn't grow on trees.
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  OK, Yeah, okay. I also, I feel like Speaking of
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  the soundtrack, I forget that Adam Sandler, like, actually has
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  a good voice. Like, I forget that all the time
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  because he sings his silly songs.
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  And then he got up on that mic and I was like, Oh yeah.
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  Someone killed me. I loved it.
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  I thought he could. He could have gone either way.
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  He could have had a music career or what he did have.
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  He's a multi hyphenate, as they say in the biz.
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  Yeah, true double threat, truly. Did he dance?
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  No, we can't. We can't confirm the triple.
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  We cannot confirm a triple or quadruple.
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  But we do know that he has at least two talents showcased in
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  this film. Really beautiful talents.
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  Yeah. Yeah.
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  It was wonderful to witness. Yeah.
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  I truly don't love Adam Sandler. We've talked about it on the
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  podcast before, because Nick and I talked about Little Nikki.
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  Which is. Maybe maybe not one of his best,
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  but I really like Adam Sandler in kind of more of a ROM com
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  role. Like he Andrew Barrymore have
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  good chemistry. I like this movie.
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  I like 51st dates. So I don't know.
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  I really, I really was catching myself by surprise when I
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  enjoyed this so much. I'm so glad to hear that.
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  Yeah, I don't remember little Nikki.
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  Was that like about the devil or something?
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  It is, yeah. So you do.
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  Remember a little bit, I guess I do.
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  A little remember little Nikki, little remember.
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  So stupid. I'm sorry.
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  Okay, so yeah, what is your history with this movie?
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  Obviously you watched it a month ago.
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  Texted me immediately and said get me on the mic I have some
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  things to share. I'd love to get the back story
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  because oh thank you. I got the idea to watch it again
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  base. I was watching that new Netflix
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  show with Kate Hudson called Running Point.
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  OK. Where have you?
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  Didn't I tell you about that? It's it's amazing.
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  She's like, she like becomes like the manager was like, it's
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  not the Lakers, but it's like based on it.
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  And it's an amazing show for anyone that hasn't watched it.
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  And it's hilarious. And one of her brothers in the
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  show was like went through a breakup and was like in his bed
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  crying watching the Wedding Singer.
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  And I thought, Oh my God, I haven't watched this in forever.
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  And I was 13 when it came out. It came out in 1998.
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  So it had been a while. And to be honest, I was nervous
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  because the last movie that I was like, Oh my gosh, Molly, we
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  should do this for your podcast with 16 Candles and.
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  Look how that turned out. It's literally one of the most
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  horrific. Yeah, Lee on what it However you
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  want to say it, it does not age well.
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  It's like really sickening. It's.
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  Sickening. It's not in the not in like the
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  drag queen like sickening way, but in like the want to want to
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  puke. Yeah, yeah.
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  When people ask me like, oh, what's the what's 1 movie that
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  really didn't age well, I usually say 16 Candles because.
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  Such a bummer too. It's the truth, because Jake
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  Ryan's so hot and leaning against his car in the movie
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  Sputter Best Girl. Wow, still think about that a
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  lot. And and I will go to the grave
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  saying that that specific scene, yeah, it just just fine.
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  Yeah, to me. Yeah, it's, yeah.
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  It's the rest of it pretty bad. Yeah, yeah.
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  OK, so you had the idea to rewatch it and then but you were
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  nervous and then you rewatch it and you were like, Oh my gosh,
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  what a thrill. It is good.
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  I, I, I'm like Molly, what are we going to talk about?
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  Because I think it did age well. That's it.
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  And thank you so much for joining us SO.
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  We're going to be talking about Katy Perry, you know, just
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  kidding. TuneIn for 45 minutes about Katy
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  Perry. Just kidding.
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  But we will allocate approximately 20.
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  OK, so so let's get are are we ready to get into the movie?
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  Do you have anything else to yap about before we get into it?
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  I mean, OK, great. OK, let's do this.
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  Let's do the damn thing. I couldn't agree more.
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  OK, so Robbie, played by Adam Sandler, he is, you guessed it,
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  a wedding singer. And I just want to say right off
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  the bat, I really resent that. Linda, his ex fiance tells him
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  like, I missed the old you when you were like, you know, glam
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  rock or whatever. Like, can't.
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  He's a man with a stable job. Yeah, what's not to like?
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  What is not to like? Yeah.
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  Yeah, and I hate doing what he loves.
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  I don't like when you break up with somebody and then tell them
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  I wish you were the person you used to be.
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  That is so. I mean, like, what are you
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  supposed to say to that? Sorry, Sorry.
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  I've evolved. Sorry, I've evolved.
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  Yeah. Yeah.
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  So. So I already present her for
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  that. I love that he's a wedding
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  singer. I love that he is also doing
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  some gigs at bat mitzvahs. I love that he's yeah, he's
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  again a multi hyphenate. He can do it all.
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  Find yourself a man that can do it all.
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  I'm trying. Do you know Wally?
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  I'm blushing. OK, so so in the in one of the
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  first scenes when he is at a wedding and there is a drunk
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  brother that goes up to the mic, the best man.
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  I loved it. We all know that feeling when
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  you profile somebody when they fit, the stereotype of this will
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  be this will be bad and you you just clench your butt hole for
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  about 90 seconds until someone takes the mic away.
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  Yeah, like being in that audience, I would have had such
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  secondhand embarrassment. Oh my God, I had secondhand
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  embarrassment and it wasn't. Even real, I was like, it was
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  getting flushed like, but Steve Buscemi was hysterical.
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  He was hysterical. I loved it.
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  I love it. Have you been to a wedding
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  before where there has been like a toast and it's really cringy?
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  Yes. I have, I've been to a couple, I
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  have been to 1 where they did and if you ever get married
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  listener don't do this. And I feel like I shouldn't even
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  have to say that, but if you have common sense, maybe this is
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  something that you already know after the kind of like more
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  official speeches. They just, they just said open
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  mic. Open mic night.
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  Open mic night and the one person who you're like, oh, I
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  hope he doesn't take the mic was the first one to take the mic.
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  I love it. I love that.
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  Yeah, so he had his moment to shine and that was just fine.
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  I also went to a wedding where the dad of the bride, one of the
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  brides, gave a speech and it was like, so mean.
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  He was just like being mean. Papa.
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  Yes, He was just like, yeah, he was just like being a bitch.
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  That's so sad. I know it was.
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  Horrible. It was so sad.
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  So I guess that's not really that funny.
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  No, that's the fall in my category.
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  No, but it was one of those moments where like everyone was
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  kind of like frozen. Yeah, I bet at one where like
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  the best man basically did like a roast instead of a toast.
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  And it was like, oh, this is sad.
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  This is a bummer, this is a bummer but I love the part where
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  Steve Buscemi like took the guitar and started playing Me
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  too and he's like no lessons self.
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  That's like the best. And they're trying to, like,
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  take it away from him. Yeah, that's great.
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  He's got, you know, if he's got anything, it's confidence, yeah.
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  And that'll get you far. Well, I think the alcohol bit
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  really. And I.
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  Think he really had that on his side?
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  Yeah, I don't think he was actually confident.
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  Probably not. You know what?
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  I think you're right. Suss the facade.
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  I think that you have clocked him for who he is.
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  Yeah. OK, so.
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  So Robbie gets left at the altar.
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  Oh. That was so, it was so
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  interesting. I felt like throughout this
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  movie there were so many quick timelines.
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  Yeah, like, oh, I'm getting married next week.
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  Oh my God, they do that all the time in 90s movies.
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  And it makes me wonder, sorry to reveal my age, sorry, I'm a
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  young person, but I just like, I don't know if in the 90s people
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  were just able to get married quickly.
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  Yeah, booking a venue and like all that kind of stuff didn't
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  take a year and a half. Yeah, like what the wedding
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  culture was like in the 80s and 90s.
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  What was the culture like? Or is it just, you know, kind of
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  we're living in that movie magic.
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  We're living in that, you know, suspension of disbelief.
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  Yeah. For sure, but either way I will
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  accept it but I have questions. Yeah, 'cause remember, like when
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  Julia is planning her wedding and they're like working with
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  his friend who's the limo driver and, like, timing him.
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  Yeah. And they're like, well, it's
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  next Saturday, so. And I'm like, wait, what?
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  So you're just waiting this long to book somebody, right?
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  Or, yeah, maybe it was a quicker timeline.
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  Maybe the wedding industry today has gotten out of hand.
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  And you know what? Thank you for saying that.
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  Because it has. Yeah, I think it really has.
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  Oh, I know. Booking a venue?
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  Yeah, like that should be. That should be.
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  Years, yeah, years in advance to be, to be in like in an empty
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  room. Yeah.
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  What? Yeah, that's.
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  Wild, in my opinion, Yeah. And an injustice.
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  But we're not here to talk about that.
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  We're here to talk about. We're here to talk about the
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  Queen. Drew Barrymore, Yeah, she's so
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  cute in this. She's so cute.
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  Did you ever have one of those like, flippy haircuts?
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  No, no. Did you?
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  I tried, Yeah. I sure tried, yeah.
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  Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. She was like, the
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  quintessential, like, 90s girl in this with, like, the dog
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  gardens and like, the Daisy Sun dress.
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  Yeah, and her hair. Oh my God.
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  She was adorable. Cute little face.
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  She was like adorable this whole movie.
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  I agree she's so. Charming.
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  She's like the heart eye emoji. Oh my God.
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  Drew Barrymore in The Wedding Singer is hard eye emoji.
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  Yeah, the whole time. Yeah, pretty much.
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  But in like a really sweet way and not in like the Ariana
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  Grande way. Yeah.
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  You know, I feel like Ariana Grande actually Ariana Grande is
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  not the hard eyes emoji. She's more like the, she's kind
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  of more like, you want, you know, the one that's just like
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  with the big eyes. Like that's kind of what I
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  think. Yeah.
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  Because she's always like, I don't see any comparison between
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  her and Drew Barrymore. OK, great.
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  Do you? No, I was just thinking about,
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  like, people who also kind of fit hard eye emoji.
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  Oh, OK. But I've actually changed my
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  mind. Redact that from the record.
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  I'd like to see that redaction scratch the pod.
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  Anyway. Yeah.
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  What a what great chemistry between these. 2 and it you're
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  right. OK, so we're, like getting into
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  the fact that, like, he gets married.
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  Yeah. The next.
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  But Linda, his fiance, leaves him at the altar.
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  It's like, heartbreaking because like the whole movie, Robbie.
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  Robbie Hart. His last name is.
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  Hart How could he not love? Me, I just realized that.
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  Much better than Julia Gulia AM. I right.
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  No kidding. Well.
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  He was like, so sweet. Like the whole movie, like, he's
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  like, wants to build everyone up around him and, like, make
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  everyone feel good and loved and, like, seen.
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  Yeah. And that was like.
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  Really sweet, even 13 year old boys.
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  Yeah, you know, he had a big heart.
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  He did. He had a big heart.
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  Yeah, Hart. So true girl.
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  So Julia, she is a new waitress and she is engaged to fucking
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  Glenn. And he's like literally the only
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  thing in this movie that doesn't age well.
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  But here's the thing. Like like toxic masculinity?
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  Yeah. Never ages well.
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  And that's the thing, too, is that he ultimately loses in the
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  end. The fact that he is so awful,
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  yeah, To me, it's like this does hold up because who among us,
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  who among us has not met some guy who works in finance, sorry,
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  or dated or anyone who we've who we've dated?
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  Not even in finance, you know, just any career.
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  Spans across industries. These men who are like fucking
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  ball and chain over here. Yeah, I you know what we need to
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  really stop doing. Yeah.
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  Men, listen up. Stop resenting your partners for
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  wanting to plan a good wedding. Or be in a committed
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  relationship. Yeah.
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  Yeah, just like when he's like, oh, that's your thing?
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  Like you go ahead and plan it. I'm like just.
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  Can't you just be excited? He, it was just like, he was
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  like the worst version of every man, you know what I mean?
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  Like in every sense of the word, period.
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  And it was I we had no origin story for them and like how they
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  got together because that makes absolutely no sense at all.
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  OK, but here's the thing. Haven't we all met a couple
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  where like one person is so cool and great and hard eyes emoji
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  and then the other one Hello. Yeah, yeah, hello.
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  Hello. Hello.
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  Right here, exes. Just kidding, Not mine, but
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  you're certainly. But it's so interesting because
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  it's like he just like said everything you never want your
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  partner to ever say out loud. 100% yeah.
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  And it was like so out there, the whole.
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  She was movie. She was always trying to like
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  defend him. She always had to, like she
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  always had to explain away his behavior.
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  She was always embarrassed, but then she would still be so kind.
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  I know she was so nice to him. I didn't get that.
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  I hate. To see that I hate to see a
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  woman be nice to a man who sucks.
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  I know. And like the whole thing was
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  like just like, and I don't know if that's like a sign of like
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  the times or it is just like, what do you call that one?
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  It's like a caricature of like, you know what I mean?
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  Like. A stereotype?
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  An archetype? Yeah.
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  Of. Just like this man who doesn't
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  care and is just getting married because, like, well, as he said,
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  she's paid her dues or something.
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  Yeah, or she was with me before I got rich, right?
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  So he's like, I know I can trust her, but he doesn't seem to
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  really care about trust. Trust, trust or trust doesn't
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  really seem to be the value of his any elements of a
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  relationship. Has he not heard of a?
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  Prenup. I mean, he could marry anyone
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  that he wanted if he just, you know, did a little research, but
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  he doesn't seem like a guy who does research.
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  It was so weird that he. Even wanted to get that he even
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  was like. That he agreed or he like,
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  proposed, right? Like.
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  Bizarre, especially because, I mean, in this era, certainly,
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  but even today, like men in their 20s and 30s and beyond, if
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  they're unmarried, it's just like, well, he's a bachelor.
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  How cool is that? Like, he didn't have any social
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  pressures to get married. It's not like he needed to, you
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  know, dispel rumors about being gay or anything like that.
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  He just. Clock is ticking like the.
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  Yeah, exactly. Like he didn't have the same
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  kind of pressures that she did, right.
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  But she also had her intentions were truly out of like love,
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  which again, what? Yeah, what?
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  You know, the more I think about it, the more I wish she, like,
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  loved herself a little more. So true, girl.
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  Because, like, he wasn't like being bashful about being like,
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  a chauvinist. No, it was like, honey, you pick
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  out the flowers. I just ruined it anyway.
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  It's like the weaponized incompetence.
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  Weaponized incompetence. Bitch at an all time high for
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  this guy. Oh my God.
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  And it's just like, come on, come on, Drew, don't you see
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  this? Don't you?
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  Julia, Julia. Julia, Julia.
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  I love. It should have been reason
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  enough. Yeah.
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  OK, let's talk about Sammy. That's like the best friend,
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  right? The limo.
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  Driver, the limo driver. I love him.
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  OK, I love him. He even though like some of his
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  behaviour is a little a little morally compromised, like when
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  he says there's going to be hundreds of drunk girls there.
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  So like let's get laid. OK, first of all, let me let me
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  see. I actually wrote down the the
• 20:20
  quote so he said. We need to find someone to play
• 20:24
  with your Ding Dong and I. That's like a pretty.
• 20:30
  And look, I think that that is I think that it is totally fine.
• 20:35
  And even I would encourage if you have a friend who's
• 20:38
  heartbroken, like go ahead, be a wing man, find someone to play
• 20:42
  with their Ding Dong. However, I don't love that it
• 20:45
  was in connection to. Drunk the drunk, the drunk.
• 20:49
  OK, gotcha. Yeah, sure, sure.
• 20:52
  So I hear where you're coming from, so let's let's.
• 20:54
  Just be consenting adults, you know what I mean?
• 20:57
  Yeah, for sure. Yeah.
• 20:58
  Like, like, get yours. That's what I think he was
• 21:00
  trying to be. He was doing his best with what
• 21:02
  he had, which was limited in nineteen, 1998.
• 21:07
  But I feel like the movie was based like in the 80s.
• 21:09
  Yeah. The movie is based in the 80s.
• 21:11
  It came out in 98, but it's supposed to take place in 85.
• 21:14
  Yeah. So, so yeah, I just think by the
• 21:19
  end, especially when he's like, actually I am not fulfilled at
• 21:25
  all. This is deeply unfulfilling and
• 21:26
  I'm so insecure and I'm just like lonely and a total void
• 21:32
  and. When he was sitting at the bar
• 21:33
  and he said I just want to be loved and held.
• 21:35
  My God. Yeah, underneath all of it,
• 21:39
  underneath all that facade. And that's what made me feel
• 21:42
  like, OK, I feel like this character still has the
• 21:46
  potential to age well because because like, he ultimately
• 21:53
  comes around. He recognizes that his behavior
• 21:55
  is gross. And he's like, yeah, I actually
• 21:57
  just, like, want to be loved. And I feel like it was like a
• 22:00
  lot of talk too. Girl yeah I think it was yeah I
• 22:04
  think we all talk I think I don't think that he actually
• 22:09
  slept with any women no the whole show the whole the whole
• 22:12
  movie. Sorry, yeah, totally yeah,
• 22:15
  sorry. I okay, let me ask you this,
• 22:21
  Seth, have you ever practiced kissing somebody like they did
• 22:26
  in this movie? Have you ever just been like,
• 22:28
  let's practice that was? The only part where I was like,
• 22:31
  whoa, I don't remember this. Yeah, like.
• 22:34
  It reminded me a lot of Runaway Bride.
• 22:37
  Yeah. When Detective Stabler.
• 22:40
  What's his name again? Elliot Benson.
• 22:42
  Wait, no. Wait, what's that guys?
• 22:47
  Assembly and Benson, Stabler, Benson, Benson and Stabler.
• 22:52
  Yeah, the what's his name? Jacob Maloney?
• 22:55
  Christopher Maloney when he is watching Julia Roberts character
• 23:03
  kiss another guy as practice at the altar.
• 23:07
  I'm sorry. I don't remember that part
• 23:09
  either. Really.
• 23:10
  No. Blocked that out.
• 23:11
  That was the only part in this whole movie, one of the only
• 23:14
  parts where I was like, truly like what?
• 23:16
  Yeah, you're going to practice, practice kissing.
• 23:19
  What you're going to do at the altar with somebody else?
• 23:22
  Yeah, that's wild. That was insane and it looks
• 23:25
  like a great kiss too. And.
• 23:27
  You know, what is also wild is, is that it seemed like such a
• 23:31
  reasonable thing to her friend because she was going to she was
• 23:34
  going to kiss her girlfriend and she was like, Oh my God, no,
• 23:37
  you're crazy. I miss you.
• 23:38
  There's a guy here I know. That that part to me was so
• 23:41
  funny that like, she would not be taken aback by the absurdity
• 23:45
  of practicing kissing, but that she would be taken aback by the
• 23:49
  fact that she would just kiss her friend.
• 23:52
  She's like, oh, that's the part that's crazy about this.
• 23:55
  Yeah. I'm sorry.
• 23:56
  What? That was bizarre.
• 23:59
  Absolutely. That was, that was, that was
• 24:01
  such an interesting choice to put that in the script.
• 24:04
  You know what I mean? Like.
• 24:05
  But they needed to. They needed to move it along.
• 24:07
  Yeah, they did. They really did.
• 24:09
  They needed to kind of do you. Think that they were like and
• 24:12
  this is not a term that they had back then I'm sure but like did
• 24:15
  you think that they were emotionally or she was
• 24:17
  emotionally cheating on Glenn with no Robbie I.
• 24:20
  Don't. OK, because I think that she
• 24:23
  genuinely like MM. Hmm she genuinely like saw him
• 24:28
  and treated him as a friend. Would I be upset if my partner
• 24:33
  practiced kissing with another person?
• 24:38
  Yeah maybe. I think I think maybe I would,
• 24:41
  but he is amazing anyway. Oh no, I certainly would if
• 24:46
  someone said oh I just had to like, practice kissing at the
• 24:49
  altar fucking. Off.
• 24:51
  Yeah, I'm afraid and. He walked in like a couple
• 24:53
  minutes later. Oh yeah.
• 24:57
  And Robbie's like I kissed her but it didn't mean anything or
• 24:59
  like boy. And then and then the friend was
• 25:00
  like, oh, it was me. She like, kissed.
• 25:03
  Me. Yeah.
• 25:04
  So they weren't. And then she was so excited
• 25:06
  after that. Oh, yeah.
• 25:08
  And then I OK, I I what's her friend's name?
• 25:11
  OK. Hold on, let me look up.
• 25:12
  Maybe it's Jessie. OK, hold please.
• 25:16
  Her name was. Was it Holly?
• 25:20
  No, that's Julia's cousin. Was that her?
• 25:24
  Fuck. Sorry, you might be thinking to
• 25:27
  yourself, listener, are these girls prepared?
• 25:29
  The answer is I'm not. I think it's Jesse and it's
• 25:35
  played by Christine Taylor. Yeah.
• 25:37
  Yeah, it is Christine Taylor. Well, you can cut this out,
• 25:44
  right? I can, yeah.
• 25:47
  I mean, unless everyone just needs kind of a Yeah.
• 25:50
  Jacob, Jacob, you got that? Do you edit it, Molly?
• 25:55
  Mostly no I. Holly.
• 25:58
  Oh my God. You're right.
• 25:59
  It is. Holly Solo it is.
• 26:01
  Yeah. OK.
• 26:01
  And we didn't even talk about Alexis Arquette being in this
• 26:04
  movie. OK, yeah, also OK, I didn't
• 26:06
  realize that they were cousins, so now I do actually realize why
• 26:09
  she was so scandalized by the idea that her cousin.
• 26:14
  No, I don't like that. I don't realize they were
• 26:16
  cousins. I thought they were just like
• 26:17
  besties. I thought that they were their
• 26:19
  best friends. Am I like?
• 26:21
  No, but they're Julia Sullivan and Holly Sullivan, so yeah,
• 26:24
  they are cousins. OK, OK, OK.
• 26:27
  So I'm really glad that we figured that out and and you
• 26:32
  know what? Shout out to Dude IDK for all of
• 26:34
  the excellent editing work that you do you're going to have.
• 26:37
  Your work cut out this episode. We're we're we're keeping you in
• 26:42
  business, baby. OK, let's see, can we talk about
• 26:49
  George the, the, the singer? Yeah.
• 26:52
  OK, here's the thing. I thought that he sort of
• 26:56
  embodied that like glam rock look that seemed very popular in
• 27:00
  the 80s. And.
• 27:01
  And I think that they were misguided to be like, Oh my God,
• 27:04
  he's such a fucking freak. I thought that he seemed like, I
• 27:07
  don't know, sort of of the time. I agree.
• 27:09
  Yeah. Yeah.
• 27:10
  So a little unfair in my opinion.
• 27:12
  Agreed. Agreed.
• 27:14
  I love that he only sang one song.
• 27:16
  Me too. I thought that was so.
• 27:18
  Funny. And he's like real life siblings
• 27:21
  with Patricia Arquette and and David Arquette.
• 27:25
  David Arquette. Yeah, yes, I love it.
• 27:28
  Talented family, yes. They are.
• 27:30
  Can you imagine being like like that?
• 27:35
  Famous and talented with your siblings.
• 27:38
  No, no, she has passed. Oh, she has.
• 27:43
  Passed. Oh, sad.
• 27:45
  Oh, in 2016, Yeah. Oh my God, yeah.
• 27:48
  It's been a sad. I know.
• 27:50
  I loved her in that movie. Which one?
• 27:54
  I loved Alexis Arquette in The Wedding Singer.
• 27:57
  Oh, oh. OK.
• 27:58
  Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. OK.
• 28:01
  So sorry. Now we're caught back up, we're
• 28:03
  circling back to the movie at hand.
• 28:07
  OK, let's see. I kind of lost my train of
• 28:11
  thought and my spot in my notes, so we're circling back.
• 28:15
  Oh, OK. OK.
• 28:18
  You know what I love? Yeah.
• 28:20
  The part where after like after the whole getting left at the
• 28:27
  altar thing, Robbie is being heckled by, well, the person
• 28:32
  who's paying him for this, for this wedding singer appearance.
• 28:35
  And he says, well, I have a microphone and you don't.
• 28:39
  And God, if that ain't the truth, that feeling of when
• 28:42
  you're like, well, actually I have the microphone so.
• 28:46
  I'm going to put myself. Out there, I'm going to say what
• 28:48
  I want. Or when you have a megaphone,
• 28:51
  anything like that. I mean, don't we all?
• 28:53
  Don't we all relate? Yeah, yeah, I love that.
• 28:56
  I love when he's saying love stinks.
• 28:58
  That was a good, that was a good scene.
• 29:00
  It's really good. Wow.
• 29:03
  What a wholesome episode for us. Yeah.
• 29:05
  Oh my God. OK, so you know the Netflix show
• 29:08
  The Ultimatum? Yes.
• 29:11
  I feel like these people should have been on it.
• 29:13
  Yeah. They would.
• 29:15
  Be. So good, because if, if Glenn
• 29:19
  and Julia were on it, Julia would be the hero of the show,
• 29:23
  brand deals for the rest of her life, and Glenn would be the
• 29:28
  easy villain. Yeah, because of course he would
• 29:30
  be. He would be not only
• 29:34
  participating gladly in the experiment, but probably with
• 29:38
  every woman there. Yeah, it would have been messy.
• 29:41
  The I feel like not like the total as villain as as Glenn,
• 29:45
  but like her mom and she her name is Christina Pickles
• 29:49
  actresses name and she's the mom from friends.
• 29:52
  She's Ross and monical's mom and friends.
• 29:55
  That's where we know her from. She does a good job being
• 29:58
  mother. Motherly.
• 29:59
  Yeah, she's. A matronly actor, Yeah.
• 30:02
  But I feel like Julia came to her a couple times and was like
• 30:08
  this. What I'm feeling I don't feel
• 30:09
  like is normal. Yeah.
• 30:11
  And like she has those. Flags.
• 30:13
  Yeah Nope, Nope Nope, Nope, Nope.
• 30:14
  Just. Do it.
• 30:15
  He's rich. He's rich.
• 30:16
  Yeah. Totally do it.
• 30:17
  She's like, before you know it, you'll be ugly.
• 30:19
  And that made me so sad. I know me too.
• 30:21
  Like go to your mom and be like, I don't know if I'm doing the
• 30:24
  right thing. And she's like.
• 30:25
  She's like, who cares? Yeah, yeah, that was sad.
• 30:29
  She's like deal with, yeah. So I guess we do have some
• 30:31
  context for like why is she marrying this?
• 30:33
  Guy Yeah, it seems like a lot of pressure.
• 30:35
  A lot of pressure. And oddly enough, like she just
• 30:37
  really wanted to get married. Yeah.
• 30:40
  Which I get like you want the security and safety of like the
• 30:43
  commitment of the relationship, but like we go back to that part
• 30:47
  of it. It's like she needed she needs
• 30:48
  some like self love too, because she really.
• 30:50
  Does. If you really loved yourself, I
• 30:54
  mean, I mean, I've been there. Where you, there's a girl.
• 30:58
  We've been there. I've been there.
• 31:00
  In that moment, it's like you don't need to be with him.
• 31:02
  What you need to do is like, love yourself.
• 31:04
  Get a spin, get a spine. Yeah, yeah, absolutely.
• 31:07
  Get a spine. Gross, Gross.
• 31:09
  Fine. Keep.
• 31:11
  Keep that spine. Keep the spine intact.
• 31:13
  Yes. Yeah.
• 31:15
  More upright and light upright. Yeah, yeah.
• 31:17
  Get in your solar plexus and period.
• 31:20
  That's exactly what I was going to say.
• 31:22
  I know. OK, I think that it was really
• 31:27
  sweet that Robbie also really wanted to get married.
• 31:31
  Like, you don't see that. Like that's part of why he was
• 31:33
  such a cool character. He was the opposite of fun.
• 31:36
  I love seeing a straight man who can't wait to plan a wedding.
• 31:42
  It was so cute. It was so cute.
• 31:44
  Remember I came from the scene where they're still planning her
• 31:47
  wedding and he like takes her to the photographer, that Lady, and
• 31:50
  then they have like pretend they're like brother and sister.
• 31:52
  That was so funny. And then like they bite each
• 31:55
  other. Yeah.
• 31:58
  I love that. I love that too.
• 32:00
  There were so many times when I was a little kid where like, my
• 32:03
  friends and I would be like, let's lie to people and say that
• 32:06
  we're siblings. For what?
• 32:08
  I don't know, but it was funny. It was funny.
• 32:11
  It is funny. I know I I, I agree.
• 32:14
  Well, yeah, it is funny. And you feel like so naughty.
• 32:17
  When you know, you're like, ha, ha, ha, ha.
• 32:18
  What a what a lie. They believe me.
• 32:23
  That's crazy. Oh, God.
• 32:28
  OK, a couple of things that maybe didn't age so well.
• 32:33
  Very, you know, just like in passing things that they drop,
• 32:37
  there's a joke about Tourette's, a little bit of fat shaming, you
• 32:42
  know the. Kid because like all the adults
• 32:44
  have been talking about like how he's going to go crazy and he's
• 32:47
  still in the psych. Ward Yeah.
• 32:48
  Oh yeah, that that too. But then.
• 32:51
  There was someone else who is like, Oh yeah, he probably has
• 32:54
  Tourette's, I don't remember. What, the little boy?
• 32:55
  Because he's like, oh, you're a bitch to Linda.
• 32:58
  Yeah, he said. The choice, right?
• 33:00
  Yeah. Yeah, and that's why you have to
• 33:01
  be careful what you say around. Kids.
• 33:04
  Which I hate. I hate the kids are listening
• 33:07
  and repeating after us. Remember what we were talking
• 33:09
  about at dinner last night with a small child at the table?
• 33:11
  Girl. Yeah, I don't know what what he
• 33:16
  heard, but hopefully nothing. Well, we'll find out in a few
• 33:20
  years, won't we? Or we'll find out from his
• 33:22
  teacher. His teacher will say, oh, you'll
• 33:24
  never. Guess yeah what he was What?
• 33:26
  He said. I did about only fans.
• 33:36
  Yeah, I think that he probably was really into his his movie,
• 33:41
  his little, his little movie he was watching on his phone.
• 33:44
  Thank God. Hope so.
• 33:46
  Hope so. But yeah, yeah, the Tourette's
• 33:49
  thing. Yeah, OK, a little bit of fat
• 33:52
  shaming, you know, he's like, oh, you're fat so you won't find
• 33:55
  love or whatever. Oh, and then the guy at like the
• 34:00
  the wedding reception gone awry. Yes.
• 34:02
  Like making fun of the one table.
• 34:05
  Yeah, it was like the only. Part where like Robbie, his
• 34:07
  spirit was like. He hurt people hurt.
• 34:10
  People, his hands are so broken. He really was, but that's
• 34:14
  because he really, he had to put them down because he had been
• 34:17
  put down and he was feeling like he was feeling like he belonged
• 34:21
  at, at Ugly Table 9, you know, And so he had to, he had to
• 34:25
  really show us a couple of his flaws.
• 34:29
  Yeah. He's not perfect.
• 34:30
  He's not perfect, but. Pretty close, pretty close,
• 34:33
  pretty close. OK, this may be this, this may
• 34:40
  not be a question that you can answer on the pod, but maybe you
• 34:44
  can or maybe we can ask it in a hypothetical if you found out on
• 34:49
  a double date that the that someone was cheating.
• 34:54
  Yeah. What would you do?
• 35:01
  I I would tell my friend. Yeah, Yeah, I would tell my
• 35:05
  friend. OK, good.
• 35:07
  And that's the correct answer. OK, thanks.
• 35:09
  Would you also? Well, I did that once and they
• 35:13
  want they're now married, so that's.
• 35:18
  You did the right thing. I agree that I did the right
• 35:20
  thing, but also she wasn't my friend, she was someone who I
• 35:25
  didn't know. I think maybe she could have.
• 35:27
  She would have taken it a little bit better if we had known each
• 35:31
  other. Anyways, congratulations to you
• 35:35
  guys. Yeah, Mazel, Mazel, you guys.
• 35:38
  He's definitely still cheating on you anyways.
• 35:42
  I think that I I don't think I could keep that to myself.
• 35:46
  No, No. No, we have a conscience.
• 35:49
  Look, I have a backbone. Yeah.
• 35:52
  We have spines, I have self love.
• 35:54
  We we have spines and self love. Yeah.
• 35:58
  And it's really interesting because Holly, her best friend,
• 36:02
  cousin, she totally, like, picked up on everything.
• 36:06
  She was, like, very intuitive to all of the situations going on.
• 36:09
  And then the different dynamics. I mean, yeah, she did try to,
• 36:14
  you know, hook up with Robbie. But, you know, girls got needs,
• 36:18
  too. So I don't blame her.
• 36:20
  I would have tried to. Oh.
• 36:21
  My God, of course she was dressed up like Madonna like.
• 36:24
  Hot. OK, wasn't it like double date
• 36:27
  insane? Because she was.
• 36:28
  I was cuddling up to him and trying to feed him and saying
• 36:31
  like we look like a couple and I'm like.
• 36:33
  Girl have no chill. She really she really did have
• 36:38
  no chill which. I I like too.
• 36:40
  Yeah, she's like, well, I have. To be chilled, she said.
• 36:42
  Yeah, I know I'm hot. I'm dressed like Madonna.
• 36:45
  Yeah. And I'm ready to get laid
• 36:47
  tonight. Yeah.
• 36:48
  And so she put it out there. Yeah.
• 36:49
  And good for her. And and they did try to like
• 36:52
  slut shame her a little bit throughout the little.
• 36:54
  Bit the movie, everyone was like, Oh yeah, well you fuck
• 36:58
  everybody or whatever. Yeah, basically something along
• 37:00
  those lines. She's like.
• 37:02
  And she and she owned it, she said.
• 37:04
  Yeah, well, you haven't. Or whatever.
• 37:06
  Yeah, she owned it and I appreciated that.
• 37:08
  And I appreciate that, yeah. But I do wish that she had been
• 37:12
  more more forthright with her cousin slash bestie Julia and
• 37:18
  been like, look girl. Yeah.
• 37:20
  You can't marry him. No, you just can't.
• 37:23
  Just don't do it. She was a little bit too coy.
• 37:26
  She was. She was dignitized by Robbie
• 37:29
  before she even slept with him. She was just like too goo Gaga
• 37:32
  to even pay attention to what was happening to her poor
• 37:34
  cousin. That's like, also challenging
• 37:37
  when, like, somebody's about to get married and you are like,
• 37:40
  oh, because you don't know if, like, what you're going to
• 37:44
  putting yourself out there to say like, hey, I'm kind of
• 37:46
  worried about this. Yeah.
• 37:48
  And maybe if like Julie had gone to Holly instead of her stupid
• 37:53
  mom, then it would have been a little different.
• 37:58
  It could have been a little different if she asked for some
• 38:01
  honesty. Yeah.
• 38:02
  If she said look, I need to know.
• 38:04
  Because like, one of the things I think I wrote down because
• 38:06
  there was a moment where she was like, talking to her mom.
• 38:08
  Yeah. And she's like telling her she's
• 38:13
  scared and she's confused and it's like confusion is not
• 38:18
  something I feel like. There's a lot of things I think
• 38:21
  you can feel before you make a big decision like that of.
• 38:23
  Course. But like, I don't you don't want
• 38:26
  it to be confusion. No, yeah, the idea of like cold
• 38:31
  feet, I'm like, dude, I don't know if that's really.
• 38:35
  Yeah. I don't know that we should
• 38:37
  really be normalizing cold feet. Yeah.
• 38:40
  Yeah, Jacob certainly didn't have cold feet when he married
• 38:44
  Miriam. Good you didn't.
• 38:45
  Good for you. Yeah, Yeah.
• 38:48
  And. You're it's all good, he says.
• 38:49
  They're still married. They are still married and still
• 38:52
  in love. That's on record.
• 38:54
  Yeah. What's on the He said.
• 38:57
  It's on the mics. Yeah.
• 39:01
  I just feel like if you are like, we just normalize the cold
• 39:05
  feet thing too much, so we need to stop that.
• 39:09
  If you're feeling OK, if you're feeling like nervous about being
• 39:12
  perceived by 150 or more people, like.
• 39:16
  Yeah. You know, a lot of people have
• 39:18
  stage fright, and I get that. If you feel stage fright, that's
• 39:22
  different than like, oh, I'm making a huge mistake.
• 39:27
  But at the same time, once you get there, I know this.
• 39:31
  OK, So are you good? I'm good.
• 39:37
  Here's the thing. I'm OK, OK.
• 39:38
  She's OK. I knew this couple.
• 39:41
  They are. They are now divorced.
• 39:43
  But they got in like this huge fight the night before their
• 39:47
  wedding. And they did not like come to a
• 39:49
  resolution before the ceremony. Like, the first time that they
• 39:53
  saw each other after their big blowout fight was, in fact, at
• 39:57
  the altar. Yeah.
• 39:58
  And not only that, but her, her mom and dad were split up.
• 40:04
  He had an affair with somebody. And they, like, basically had,
• 40:08
  like, a new family. Yeah.
• 40:10
  And Mom and dad had not seen each other since the divorce.
• 40:14
  And mom had never met his new family.
• 40:17
  It all happened at the wedding. Were you at the wedding?
• 40:20
  I was there. Are they still married?
• 40:22
  Oh, no, they're divorced. No, they got, they got divorced
• 40:25
  like a year later. But this was when I was still
• 40:27
  drinking. My dad and I got really drunk at
• 40:30
  the wedding and well, I mean, OK, my dad was like a little
• 40:33
  tipsy. I was very drunk.
• 40:34
  I bet your dad's so funny and cute.
• 40:36
  Oh my God, he's so funny. His, I mean, his face is already
• 40:39
  bright red. He gets he's he's a real tomato
• 40:43
  when he's when he's had a couple too many drinks.
• 40:46
  So he and I left the reception to go like get some food because
• 40:51
  we, we had like the drum cheese and my mom was so mad and we
• 40:55
  were like, excuse, we were like, they're not going to stay like
• 40:59
  literally what are we even doing here?
• 41:01
  They they obviously do not like each other.
• 41:05
  This is obviously one of those like, well, it's too late now.
• 41:08
  So I just was happily disappointing my mom eating
• 41:14
  snacks at the bar around the corner with my dad.
• 41:17
  Shout out Mark Smith. Yeah, have you seen that TikTok
• 41:20
  video going around? I don't know.
• 41:21
  You're not as chronically on TikTok as I am.
• 41:24
  That is true. But it's like.
• 41:26
  But I'm happy to learn what's going.
• 41:30
  On in your algorithm, in your culture, there's like a guy,
• 41:34
  there's something somebody's videotaping these vows that are
• 41:36
  taking place as this couples getting married.
• 41:38
  And the guy said like you're something about the lines of
• 41:42
  like, as long as you keep my belly full and my balls empty,
• 41:44
  we'll be okay. God, what?
• 41:46
  This is real and like, no, both of their families, grandparents
• 41:51
  are. I mean, in the audience, isn't
• 41:54
  that absolutely like just devastating?
• 41:56
  Okay. I would leave someone at the
• 41:58
  altar if they said that. Like, there's very few reasons
• 42:01
  why I would leave someone at the altar.
• 42:03
  That's one where I would say, actually, you know what, we're
• 42:05
  going to wrap this up. Yeah, actually.
• 42:08
  Actually, yeah, I don't. I don't.
• 42:10
  Yeah. I don't believe that I will do
• 42:12
  that. No, Isn't that horrible?
• 42:13
  It's real. It's so disgusting.
• 42:16
  And someone put that on TikTok and said ha ha ha ha.
• 42:19
  Well, everyone's like, no, it's good.
• 42:21
  We're not laughing at it, OK? What do you think the intention
• 42:25
  of the person who posted it was? Do you think that they thought
• 42:27
  it was funny or where they like get a load of this guy?
• 42:29
  There's like. Odd, oddly enough, like a lot of
• 42:31
  like really like cringy wedding videos out there of just like,
• 42:36
  Oh my God, you know, like the groom smashing cake in
• 42:38
  somebody's face. You know, they're being like
• 42:41
  super drunk and like I. Am so sorry that that is like
• 42:43
  kind of in your feed right now. It's, it's not I'm, I'm more I'm
• 42:48
  I'm going in a different direction.
• 42:49
  She's. Rebranded.
• 42:50
  Yeah, I'm so glad. But like that one, those that
• 42:55
  vow like really was like really disturbing.
• 42:59
  God, yeah, that. You know who would say that?
• 43:03
  Glenn? Yeah, Glenn would say that.
• 43:06
  Yeah. And her mom.
• 43:07
  And you know what his mother-in-law would be like?
• 43:09
  Ha ha ha ha. Yeah, why doesn't she just?
• 43:13
  I mean, where's the dad? She just.
• 43:14
  Fucked right off. Yeah, but the I mean like her
• 43:17
  dad's not in it. The picture, I don't remember.
• 43:20
  I don't feel like he is. I don't.
• 43:21
  Think Huh. OK, anyway, maybe she's pushing
• 43:26
  her daughter to do something she wished.
• 43:28
  She maybe she's projecting. Maybe she's she hasn't done her
• 43:33
  inner child. No, she certainly hasn't.
• 43:35
  Certainly has not no A1 thing that I forgot to mention right
• 43:39
  up top that I think really makes a difference is that Carrie
• 43:43
  Fisher was brought in to help kind of make the female part of
• 43:47
  the script more balanced. And I think you can really tell
• 43:51
  like this movie compared to sorry, a lot of Adam Sandler
• 43:55
  type movies like she really is an interesting character.
• 44:02
  She's not just like, she's not just like a piece of grade A
• 44:05
  meet like. No, like the rest of the girls.
• 44:09
  Oh God. So I didn't know that that's so.
• 44:11
  Interesting. Isn't that cool I also didn't
• 44:13
  know that. How progressive.
• 44:14
  I know, right. The the writer of the film
• 44:18
  actually was kind of like kind of aware that some of Adam
• 44:24
  Sandler's previous work lacked what we might call a, a woman's
• 44:28
  perspective. Sure.
• 44:30
  And so he was like, OK, we've got to make Drew Barrymore's
• 44:36
  character as interesting and like as likable as possible.
• 44:41
  And they found that the test audiences really didn't care
• 44:44
  that that Adam Sandler wasn't in every scene because there was
• 44:49
  more of a balanced cast. And I think that the women in
• 44:52
  this movie did have a little bit more.
• 44:54
  I mean, it's not like she's this deeply complex character, but.
• 45:00
  That's true because we had like more of like her home life.
• 45:02
  We had his home life and social life.
• 45:04
  Yeah. No, it wasn't just one sided.
• 45:07
  OK, that's so interesting. I know, right?
• 45:09
  Yeah. And the director was friends
• 45:13
  with Adam Sandler since they went to NYU, and he was
• 45:17
  inspirienced by his own heartbreak a few years earlier.
• 45:21
  And I think that's beautiful. I do, too.
• 45:23
  Turn your heartbreak into art. Yeah.
• 45:26
  You know, yeah, that's what we're doing today.
• 45:31
  But the director was also a big fan of John Hughes and, like,
• 45:34
  you can totally tell. Oh, yeah.
• 45:36
  You know, yeah, it's very like. Well, it's it's takes place in
• 45:43
  the 80s. Yeah.
• 45:44
  I think he really loved that. A real nod.
• 45:46
  A real nod to the. You know what else I really
• 45:49
  loved? I think like there's like two
• 45:52
  things that like happened in the beginning of the movie and two
• 45:55
  things that happened at the end. They're like kind of sandwiched
• 45:57
  it all. And then one was like Steve
• 45:59
  Buscemi's character came back as the wedding singer for their
• 46:03
  wedding. So funny, which I love.
• 46:05
  Self-taught. And also there was like, think
• 46:08
  about Billy Idol in the beginning of the movie and I
• 46:10
  don't remember what it was, but and then at the end, which I
• 46:15
  think the best scene of the whole entire movie is on the
• 46:17
  airplane. Oh my God, are you kidding of?
• 46:20
  Course, that was incredible. And Billy Idol, amazing.
• 46:24
  And then Shanna Moakler, did you catch that, Molly?
• 46:27
  I did catch that, and she's kind of in the zeitgeist right now
• 46:31
  because of Relevant Alabama. Yep.
• 46:34
  Alabama Barker Yep. S Mama, Mama, Mama.
• 46:38
  She's Mama. She's Mama.
• 46:40
  She was really good in this. I just like never seen her
• 46:43
  literally in anything else. Yeah, I I haven't either,
• 46:46
  honestly. But and then I guess her and
• 46:49
  Billy Idol have dated. Yeah, there's history.
• 46:52
  There's a history there. But I loved that scene.
• 46:55
  Oh my God, It was so good. It was so good.
• 46:59
  And like that. It's just like, I think in that
• 47:02
  moment where he got on 'cause like, obviously Julia's like
• 47:05
  sitting in this, in this airplane seat next to Glenn.
• 47:09
  They're going to Vegas. She doesn't want to do this.
• 47:11
  Right. It's so weird though that she
• 47:13
  did like she seemed genuinely excited when she was like, we
• 47:16
  should just go to Vegas and get married.
• 47:18
  What? Because she thought he was back
• 47:21
  with Linda. She thought Robbie was back with
• 47:23
  Linda. They had a series.
• 47:24
  Of miscommunication. I know it was a real comedy of
• 47:27
  errors in that way, a lot of miscommunication.
• 47:30
  It was, and I get it. I mean, she was trying to psych
• 47:32
  herself up. She wanted.
• 47:33
  She, she had, I hate to use the G word, but she did gaslight
• 47:38
  herself into believing that that's what she wanted.
• 47:41
  She's like, oh, well, this is what he wants is to be married.
• 47:44
  Let's just go to Vegas and we'll do it.
• 47:45
  And he didn't give her the window seat.
• 47:47
  Yeah, little bitch. Yeah.
• 47:49
  Fuck that guy. But you already knew when she
• 47:51
  was like, oh can I look out the window and he was laying over
• 47:54
  me? No.
• 47:55
  Yeah. And we already knew that that
• 47:57
  was like a thing with Robbie and Linda, too.
• 48:00
  Yeah. So it was just like, but that
• 48:03
  moment when he comes on the intercom.
• 48:07
  Oh my God, girl. I was like, this is 13 year old
• 48:12
  Seth watching it for the first time, thinking like this is what
• 48:14
  this is what happened. This is what's going to happen
• 48:16
  when you're an adult. Like these grand romantic
• 48:18
  gestures are going to be the standard.
• 48:22
  Or like you're going to be in your late 20s, just like sitting
• 48:25
  first class on your way to Vegas.
• 48:27
  What, late 20s? Late, yeah, 30s, you know.
• 48:31
  I'm sorry, I by that I just mean I'm not buying first class
• 48:34
  tickets when I go to Vegas. I'm afraid that I'm afraid I'm
• 48:39
  getting the the cheapest. As long as it's not frontier.
• 48:42
  Yeah, you know what I mean. Or spirit.
• 48:44
  Or spirit be like, OK, yeah, we should go to Vegas again this
• 48:47
  year. Girl, we had so much fun last
• 48:49
  time. Oh my God.
• 48:49
  Last so much fun that was last year yeah.
• 48:52
  Oh my God almost exactly a year ago yeah.
• 48:54
  Happy early birthday. Thank you.
• 48:55
  You're welcome. It's.
• 48:56
  In a it's like in a couple weeks.
• 48:58
  Yeah, we're getting by the time that this episode comes out, it
• 49:01
  is going to be almost your birthday.
• 49:02
  Wow. Wow.
• 49:04
  Happy birthday. Thank you.
• 49:05
  You. You're welcome.
• 49:05
  Thanks. So yeah, we should go back to
• 49:10
  Vegas. That scene, that scene on the
• 49:12
  plane is everything. I love a ROM com that ends in
• 49:17
  like, you know, chasing someone at the airport or like running.
• 49:21
  After an airport, yeah, an. Airport.
• 49:23
  Give me an airport. You can just play 911 Airport,
• 49:26
  you know. Or that song leaving on a jet
• 49:29
  plane, if that ever plays in a movie or anything.
• 49:32
  Kind of like referencing. Yeah, anything that is like
• 49:35
  really obviously. Because it's just like, it
• 49:38
  mirrors that like sense, like when you're younger and you're
• 49:41
  so hopeful about love and you think it's going to be this.
• 49:45
  Yeah. And maybe it maybe it will, but
• 49:47
  I don't. We'll see, girl, we'll see.
• 49:49
  But it's also just like, Oh my God, it's just like really
• 49:53
  pulled at the heartstrings. That's how that's like the
• 49:54
  perfect ending to the movie. This is the closure you wanted.
• 49:58
  How do you feel about grand gestures?
• 50:00
  I love it. I love it, yeah.
• 50:02
  I want the bigger the better. The bigger the better, baby.
• 50:04
  Yeah, yeah, as long as like not super public.
• 50:08
  Oh, OK. Well, that is kind of what.
• 50:09
  I know I'm like, well, I don't like being saying happy birthday
• 50:12
  in a restaurant. That's why I was surprised when
• 50:15
  you just said the bigger the better.
• 50:16
  Yeah, but it's grand gestures. But.
• 50:18
  Grand gestures in private. Yeah.
• 50:22
  You want him to say I wrote you a song and then just kind of
• 50:25
  play it for the two of you? Yeah.
• 50:27
  Yeah. OK.
• 50:27
  I see. So you want it to be grand, but
• 50:30
  not with an audience? No audience, OK?
• 50:32
  No. Yeah, that's terrifying to me.
• 50:35
  I'm not a Leo like you, Molly. Sorry, and I'm sorry for you for
• 50:40
  that. Wait, aren't you a Leo?
• 50:43
  I am, yeah. You are, Yeah.
• 50:45
  I would have girl, you know I would have corrected you if you
• 50:47
  got that wrong. OK so basically this movie aged
• 50:55
  great ROM com ROM com hide stand up like this movie.
• 51:02
  It is so feel good. It really made.
• 51:04
  OK. So I will say in the past 24
• 51:07
  hours, I have watched perhaps one of the most diametrically
• 51:11
  opposed movies. I watched A Woman Under the
• 51:15
  Influence last night, famously one of the saddest movies that
• 51:20
  has been made. And then and then today, I had
• 51:24
  such a great palate cleanser starting my day watching The
• 51:27
  Wedding Singer. Yeah, Yeah.
• 51:29
  Really is. So it really was.
• 51:30
  And of course, clocked in at 90 minutes.
• 51:33
  Yeah. You gotta love that.
• 51:34
  I know. I loved how.
• 51:35
  Short it was. Yeah, they wrapped it up.
• 51:38
  It was refreshing. Sometimes I just want to be
• 51:41
  entertained and I was 100% entertained.
• 51:43
  By me too, me too. So my my opinion is it aged very
• 51:49
  well. I think so too.
• 51:51
  One other thing I was going to ask you is when you go to a
• 51:54
  wedding, do you prefer a live band or a DJ?
• 52:01
  Well, if it was like him, I would have prefer him.
• 52:03
  Oh well, of course. Yeah, it's kind of a DJ because
• 52:06
  then you get all the original songs.
• 52:07
  Right. You're not.
• 52:09
  I mean, it's probably unlikely that your live band is going to
• 52:12
  play Yeah by Usher. And if they do, it's going to be
• 52:14
  kind of like. Their own spin on their own.
• 52:17
  Spin. And I'm not sure I need kind of
• 52:18
  an interpretive remix. I don't know that I need, like,
• 52:22
  no. Daniel from Southern California
• 52:26
  to be singing ushers. Ushers.
• 52:28
  Yeah. Yeah.
• 52:29
  No, I agree totally. Thank you.
• 52:33
  But a live band really does. Like, it really does amplify the
• 52:37
  event. Yeah.
• 52:38
  In a real way. Yeah.
• 52:39
  Yeah. Yeah, there's a lot of energy.
• 52:41
  A lot of energy. But of course, it's got to be
• 52:44
  good. Yeah.
• 52:46
  And that's a risk. I always know that.
• 52:48
  Yeah. By Usher is going to be good.
• 52:50
  I don't always know. I mean, obviously, hopefully
• 52:53
  before you book somebody for for a gig, you know that they're
• 52:56
  good. But, yeah, but like in this era,
• 52:59
  they couldn't just like, look up that person's Instagram and be
• 53:03
  like, OK, what's the vibe? Yeah, look at some reels, look
• 53:06
  at some videos. They're just like, oh, I know
• 53:08
  this guy who's a wedding singer. We didn't talk about what's that
• 53:13
  one actor. Who is the other wedding singer?
• 53:17
  Not John Belushi. Oh, Jon.
• 53:19
  Levitt. Jon Levitt.
• 53:20
  Oh, my God. Wait.
• 53:22
  I loved that scene. That that's his name, right?
• 53:24
  I Yeah. Jon Levitt.
• 53:27
  I know, I know. It's Lovett.
• 53:30
  Jon Levitt. Yeah, I think it's Jon Lovett.
• 53:33
  Jon Lovett. Oh, that's.
• 53:37
  Lovet's Jon Lovett's. OK, Jon.
• 53:40
  OK, Jon Levitt is an act or an author.
• 53:44
  Oh, OK. Who was it?
• 53:45
  Oh love, Are you thinking of Love it or leave it?
• 53:48
  That guy anyway, doesn't matter. Doesn't matter.
• 53:51
  Jon Lovitz was the other wedding singer, and he was funny.
• 53:54
  That was so good. I think he's so ridiculous.
• 53:57
  He's so silly. I saw him in person once on
• 54:01
  Rodeo Dr. Oh, really? Yeah, I did.
• 54:04
  I was like very young. The only thing I knew him from
• 54:07
  was Rat Race. Do you remember that movie?
• 54:09
  No. Oh, it's, well, it's not good,
• 54:12
  but maybe we'll do it for the pod one day.
• 54:14
  Yeah. Not me, but not you, but
• 54:17
  somebody else who can, who can withstand it.
• 54:23
  OK, the thing that really ages well about this movie is it did
• 54:26
  set the scene for 51st dates. I sometimes see this, I I kind
• 54:31
  of see this as a prequel. Yeah. 251st dates, you know?
• 54:34
  Yeah. Really set the scene from the
• 54:36
  groundwork and like they laid the groundwork.
• 54:39
  Anything else that we need to discuss about the movie before
• 54:41
  we get into some games? No, I just think listen to the
• 54:45
  soundtrack. The soundtrack is so good.
• 54:48
  Yeah. Amazing.
• 54:50
  Great video. Killed the radio star past the
• 54:52
  Dutchie. It's great.
• 54:53
  Are you in your 1980s nostalgia? Yes, I am now in the This movie
• 54:58
  did that for me. And God bless.
• 55:01
  Thank you. Why did I write at the end?
• 55:05
  Rosie. Oh yeah, Rosie.
• 55:08
  She's a real one, that old lady. Oh my God, he loved her.
• 55:11
  She's like. I know where you're going.
• 55:13
  Yeah, and the. Meatballs.
• 55:16
  Yeah, and. That that was really sweet.
• 55:18
  She knew Rosie knew Rosie knew. Oh, she saw it.
• 55:22
  Everyone could see it. Everyone could see it.
• 55:24
  Which is why I'm like why didn't?
• 55:27
  Yeah. Why didn't someone say look?
• 55:30
  Yeah. Make it happen.
• 55:31
  Yeah. If I was there, you know, I
• 55:35
  would say, look, make it. Happen, yeah.
• 55:38
  OK, SES, I think that as we discussed yesterday, you said I
• 55:44
  have opinions and I need to get a mic in front of me to discuss
• 55:47
  this. So, so typically on the show, we
• 55:51
  play a game of cancel or call back where listeners send us
• 55:56
  trends from the past for us to discuss.
• 55:58
  We could call this the past because it was the recent past
• 56:01
  of, I don't know, five days. But I think that we do need to
• 56:06
  discuss celebrities in space and girl bossing in space.
• 56:11
  Yeah, yeah. It's not giving what they're
• 56:14
  think, it's what they think it's giving.
• 56:16
  And that's so hard to see when someone thinks that they're
• 56:19
  giving something that it's really kind of giving the
• 56:21
  opposite. They literally think they did
• 56:23
  the most inspirational, groundbreaking thing for women,
• 56:26
  right? Since like women's suffrage.
• 56:28
  They said we're changing things for women.
• 56:30
  What? How?
• 56:31
  Well, how all you did was spend money.
• 56:33
  Please tell me how, how? Tell me how.
• 56:36
  Last night I got on like TikTok that it's like it was a hoax or
• 56:39
  like conspiracy that they actually didn't go to Spain.
• 56:42
  Oh my God, I would love that. I would love it.
• 56:45
  I was I. Had a friend send me some videos
• 56:47
  because it's like weird how like the doors like all.
• 56:52
  Are you on that side of TikTok? OK.
• 56:54
  Hopefully you will be now. Yeah, now that we've said it out
• 56:56
  loud, yeah, we've spoken. It like a spaceship.
• 57:00
  Listen, I don't know anything about any of this look, but I
• 57:02
  don't know anything open out. And at first this one went in
• 57:07
  this door before Jeff Bezos, like, put a wrench in it and
• 57:11
  open it. And it just like, all looked so
• 57:12
  fake and weird. But what I am not enjoying is
• 57:16
  that Katy Perry has found a way to, like, be condescending about
• 57:23
  her level and ability to hold so much love.
• 57:27
  And, like, you don't really know how much you can love until you
• 57:31
  leave it all on Earth. Yeah.
• 57:33
  And it's like, wow. You did it and it does.
• 57:35
  That mean, but that's also like kind of like in the vein of like
• 57:37
  when people say like you don't really know love until you have
• 57:40
  a child and it's like. And it's like, fuck you.
• 57:43
  You think I don't know? Whoa.
• 57:46
  Like, maybe that's like, I don't, you know, I don't want to
• 57:50
  get like too much into this, but I'm also like, OK, you didn't
• 57:53
  feel love for other people until you had a child.
• 57:55
  That's like fucked. Up.
• 57:56
  Yeah, that's all fucked up. Girl, if you have to go to space
• 58:02
  to feel anything, girl but like. Her whole attitude, I was like,
• 58:07
  wait, what? What did she say?
• 58:09
  Is something outrageous like we went up to space to createspace
• 58:13
  or some shit? Oh my God, girl.
• 58:14
  There's enough space in space. It's infinite.
• 58:17
  And we don't need to create. You know what we don't need to
• 58:19
  do? Createspace.
• 58:20
  There's plenty we've got there. Yeah, we've got it.
• 58:23
  And then Gayle King like Oh my God.
• 58:27
  Gayle King. Girl, I've always liked her
• 58:29
  until now. Same.
• 58:30
  Yeah, I'm. Talking about male.
• 58:32
  Or whatever she's on I when I was a little shed.
• 58:36
  Like there's themselves astronauts.
• 58:38
  They're calling themselves astronauts.
• 58:39
  Guess what? That job already exists.
• 58:41
  Yeah, you have a job, Gayle King.
• 58:43
  And it you sat somewhere and went somewhere that doesn't like
• 58:46
  mean that you. Mean you're a scientist and
• 58:50
  like, being in entertainment is a great job.
• 58:53
  Like, yeah, you're on the news, Yeah.
• 58:55
  You're. Appreciate that you're Oprah's
• 58:58
  friend, quote UN quote. That's friend.
• 59:00
  And the lines allegedly, allegedly, allegedly.
• 59:05
  Look, when I was a little kid, we had this DVD box set of like
• 59:10
  Oprah's. It was, it was like an
• 59:12
  anniversary box set or something where Oprah was just looking
• 59:15
  back and I would say 50% of it was about her friendship with
• 59:18
  Gayle King. So since I was a little kid, I
• 59:21
  was like, yeah, go off, girl. Love you.
• 59:23
  Yeah, love. That love.
• 59:25
  That love, love, you know, a girl's girl.
• 59:28
  But yeah, I'm afraid that if you are simply just ravaging the
• 59:34
  earth for a girl boss moment, I'm afraid you're not a girls
• 59:39
  girl. No.
• 59:41
  Because girls, girls want to sustain a an earth.
• 59:45
  Well, it's like read the room. Read the girl damn room.
• 59:50
  That is the. Problem.
• 59:51
  All of them like I just like I am.
• 59:53
  And I would love to hear from one person who was like, I was
• 59:57
  super duper inspired by this. Like, wow, yeah.
• 1:00:01
  Listener, if you were one of those people.
• 1:00:03
  Yeah, I'm like, where aren't they?
• 1:00:05
  I don't get, I don't get why, how this is supposed to be
• 1:00:08
  inspirational, especially for women.
• 1:00:10
  How? I literally get it.
• 1:00:13
  I don't. I literally are we stupid?
• 1:00:15
  I just don't get. It, I don't get it.
• 1:00:17
  But you know what? Here's my theory.
• 1:00:19
  I think that many people get to a level of fame and power and
• 1:00:23
  wealth that they are only surrounded by people who say, Oh
• 1:00:27
  my God, that's a great idea. They don't have they?
• 1:00:29
  Don't keep anyone keeping them grounded.
• 1:00:32
  No, you know, and like, God bless Oprah and Gayle King's
• 1:00:36
  quote, UN quote friendship, but I think they'd both be better
• 1:00:39
  off if they had somebody who was maybe a little bit more normal,
• 1:00:45
  you know, a childhood friend maybe to say, girl, yeah, this,
• 1:00:49
  this isn't, this is not going to age well.
• 1:00:52
  It's, you know, I don't know, it's just like, what were they
• 1:00:55
  expecting? It was literally like 10 minutes
• 1:00:58
  and then and there's just like a video of like Katy Perry.
• 1:01:03
  Holding a flower Flower. And it I saw, I can't take her
• 1:01:07
  out. I saw this TikTok that was
• 1:01:08
  really funny. But it was like, why isn't she
• 1:01:10
  like looking at Earth? She's looking.
• 1:01:12
  At a flower? Guess what, girl?
• 1:01:14
  There's plenty of those on earth that you're that you left.
• 1:01:17
  You want to get more of those? Go back.
• 1:01:21
  Looking down at Earth and seeing what that experience is like.
• 1:01:24
  Yeah. I, the whole thing, I just, it's
• 1:01:27
  insane. If you want to inspire me like
• 1:01:31
  donate $1,000,000 to a food bank.
• 1:01:34
  Like. Taylor Swift, yeah.
• 1:01:38
  She said it. Yeah.
• 1:01:39
  Yeah. Exactly.
• 1:01:41
  That's inspiring. That's redistribute your.
• 1:01:43
  Wealth, and maybe I'll say. Oh, that's cool.
• 1:01:45
  Make the world a better place. Don't.
• 1:01:47
  There's so many. NASA.
• 1:01:48
  There's so many tangible things that you can do to make the
• 1:01:51
  world a better place. Start other.
• 1:01:53
  People to women in space who are astronauts and actual astronauts
• 1:02:00
  women in. And.
• 1:02:02
  Women in STEM. You know what?
• 1:02:03
  While you're at it, Katy Perry, why don't you uplift women in
• 1:02:07
  STEM? Yes.
• 1:02:09
  Girl that that clip of her being like I love astronomy and
• 1:02:13
  astrology and like Oh my God, Pythagorean theorem of it all or
• 1:02:19
  something. What?
• 1:02:22
  It's like girl word salad. She get wrapped into this too.
• 1:02:27
  Like how did Katy Perry even get into this?
• 1:02:30
  I. Think that it started with
• 1:02:33
  women's world I think that when she the.
• 1:02:35
  Biggest. Flop, the biggest flop.
• 1:02:37
  I think that, she said. World.
• 1:02:39
  I wanna, yeah, I wanna get out of here.
• 1:02:41
  Yeah, we all want you to get out of here, women.
• 1:02:44
  That was like literally the worst song.
• 1:02:47
  Oh my God, I know what a fucking.
• 1:02:49
  Nightmare. But like, was it like Lauren
• 1:02:53
  Sanchez that like got this group together or what was?
• 1:02:57
  That what blackmail do they have on these?
• 1:03:00
  Do you think that maybe they were all like bamboozled into
• 1:03:02
  it? Like if you don't go to space or
• 1:03:05
  pretend to go to space like will, what will out Gayle King,
• 1:03:09
  allegedly. Allegedly but but I know Katie
• 1:03:14
  has a lot of stuff on her. Girl, she's a she's a blind eye
• 1:03:17
  on celebrity, I'll say that. Based on the Beyond the Blinds
• 1:03:20
  episode. Absolutely.
• 1:03:22
  That we've listened to. Shout out to try another
• 1:03:25
  podcast. Yeah.
• 1:03:27
  That. Yeah.
• 1:03:28
  Women in podcasting. Yeah.
• 1:03:29
  And Troy? Yeah.
• 1:03:31
  Yeah. That was I just I, I I don't get
• 1:03:35
  it. I don't get it.
• 1:03:36
  What inspires you, Molly? What would have inspired you for
• 1:03:39
  women you to see somebody do? If it was as a woman, as a woman
• 1:03:43
  speaking on behalf of all. Women just as a woman.
• 1:03:46
  Strictly, yeah. OK.
• 1:03:47
  So if it's related to space, I would be really inspired by, I
• 1:03:53
  don't know, some sort of like legislation that says we should
• 1:03:58
  be exploring space not for world domination or Galaxy domination,
• 1:04:04
  but maybe just for like, scientific research.
• 1:04:07
  That'd be cool if they like, you know, yeah.
• 1:04:11
  Like as if aliens aren't out there.
• 1:04:12
  Like as if. As if.
• 1:04:14
  Like it's not already happening, but as if.
• 1:04:16
  As if we don't already know. Other parties out there, you
• 1:04:22
  know what I mean? Girl, I just so know what you
• 1:04:24
  mean. You know what I would love to
• 1:04:27
  see? I would love to see a group of
• 1:04:32
  celebrity women just riding public transit, just riding the
• 1:04:36
  bus, making public transit cool again, yeah.
• 1:04:40
  You know, like Sarah Jessica Parker do that.
• 1:04:42
  Oh, absolutely. Do you think she does?
• 1:04:44
  I think that she does, yeah. I think that she likes to be
• 1:04:46
  recognized, which, honestly, I would too.
• 1:04:47
  Yeah, I would love to be recognized on the subway.
• 1:04:50
  I was re listening to the Julia Roberts podcast episode of
• 1:04:54
  Beyond the Blinds recent recently, as in last night.
• 1:04:58
  That. And she doesn't want people
• 1:05:02
  talking to her like at all, but she doesn't mind just because,
• 1:05:06
  you know, there's like people that are like, I don't want
• 1:05:09
  anyone to look me in the eye. I don't want, you know, like I
• 1:05:11
  don't want them looking at me or talking to me.
• 1:05:14
  She's like, she does not care. People stare.
• 1:05:16
  She just you can't talk, but you can look, look all you want.
• 1:05:19
  She said she want eyes on me with no no talking.
• 1:05:23
  And honestly, yeah. Do you feel the same way, Molly?
• 1:05:26
  Of course. Are you a Julia Roberts?
• 1:05:29
  I think I am where I'm like, you can look, but keep you can keep
• 1:05:32
  your mouth shut. Just kidding.
• 1:05:36
  If you do recognize me in public, I swear to God, please
• 1:05:40
  come up to me and say, Oh my God, I love your work.
• 1:05:42
  Yeah, I love your work. I I love your work.
• 1:05:44
  I love your hair. Yeah.
• 1:05:46
  Happy birthday in advance. Molly loves all of those things.
• 1:05:51
  And I do. But if I was famous, famous, I
• 1:05:57
  think I would really, I would really be fine with people
• 1:06:01
  looking, but I I don't know if I would want people like coming up
• 1:06:06
  to me when I'm in the middle of a conversation.
• 1:06:08
  Type thing? What?
• 1:06:09
  A restaurant. Not that I would blame those
• 1:06:12
  people, but just like it seems like there's a really, there's a
• 1:06:16
  sweet spot for fame where you can still, like, go out and live
• 1:06:19
  your life, be recognized, but not be bothered too much.
• 1:06:23
  Yeah. Yeah, I'd like to achieve that.
• 1:06:26
  Yeah. I'd like to achieve an early
• 1:06:27
  happy birthday from strangers who, you know, may not know me,
• 1:06:32
  but appreciate my work. Yeah.
• 1:06:34
  Yeah, it'll happen, Molly. Thank you so much.
• 1:06:36
  Yeah. OK, Also, you had a brilliant
• 1:06:41
  idea again. She's full of them.
• 1:06:43
  Brilliant, Brilliant. When I heard you, when you were
• 1:06:46
  like, this might be dumb, I was like, OK, first of all, that is
• 1:06:49
  a crazy thing to say because this is such a good idea.
• 1:06:54
  OK. So we need to discuss a little,
• 1:06:56
  we have a little segment, a little corner for who's
• 1:06:59
  targeting you right now. On Instagram, on Instagram or ad
• 1:07:03
  wise? Yeah, and, and for the
• 1:07:05
  listeners, none of this is this is not an ad.
• 1:07:09
  No, not an ad. So SAS, I'd like to know who is
• 1:07:12
  targeting you? What's your who?
• 1:07:16
  Who's coming after you? Creatine.
• 1:07:18
  Creatine. Yeah, girl, do you take
• 1:07:20
  creatine? Do you?
• 1:07:23
  No. Do you?
• 1:07:27
  All I get are ads for creatine. Yeah, that's it.
• 1:07:31
  That's. Creatine and NAD plus, which is
• 1:07:35
  like, what is that? It's like a B vitamin.
• 1:07:38
  It's like a it has a couple different vitamins in it and OK
• 1:07:44
  nad plus OK, so I've actually bought that and I just started
• 1:07:48
  taking it this week OK, great, but the creatine it's left and
• 1:07:52
  right it's powders, it's gummies, it's it's pills it's
• 1:07:56
  insane. Sarah and I actually talk about
• 1:08:00
  all the time she gets targeted heavily for creatine as well.
• 1:08:04
  They. Know that, but they know that
• 1:08:05
  she has a peloton. Yeah, so.
• 1:08:07
  And then maybe that's how I got into.
• 1:08:08
  That because you have a peloton, right?
• 1:08:10
  No, no I don't. Maybe it's just your association
• 1:08:12
  with Sarah, they said. Anyone in the circle of Peloton?
• 1:08:16
  Girls, let's infiltrate this, let's infiltrate this.
• 1:08:19
  This friend group, this couple will have pelotons.
• 1:08:22
  Yeah, it's crazy. Wow.
• 1:08:23
  It's all I get if I open up my phone right now.
• 1:08:26
  That's all you would see still. And I even listen to like an
• 1:08:31
  hour and a half long scientific podcast about creatine and what
• 1:08:35
  it and I'm like, I think I need to start taking it.
• 1:08:38
  Oh my God. You gotta start small though,
• 1:08:39
  like small doses. Why is that?
• 1:08:41
  Because you have to do like a couple like under 5 milligrams,
• 1:08:46
  I think, OK. Because if you go up you it's
• 1:08:49
  really to build like muscle and gain weight and I don't want to
• 1:08:52
  do that. Sure.
• 1:08:53
  So we know why. So what are the pros?
• 1:08:56
  What are the benefits? Not that not that gaining weight
• 1:08:58
  and gaining muscle is a yeah is is a con, but what would be the
• 1:09:02
  pros for you? Well.
• 1:09:04
  It'll, it helps with aging because it's like building
• 1:09:07
  muscle and tissue and that which is something that goes when you
• 1:09:12
  get older. That's like one of the first
• 1:09:14
  things to go. So you want to have like good
• 1:09:16
  muscles and it also can help with brain and bone health as
• 1:09:21
  well. We need our our bones, our
• 1:09:24
  brains and our muscles to live. We.
• 1:09:28
  Need them to be strong. We need them.
• 1:09:29
  So you know who You know who should have taken creatine?
• 1:09:33
  Julia because she doesn't have no backbone.
• 1:09:36
  Yeah. Is that like a mic drop?
• 1:09:39
  No, it wasn't. Certainly not.
• 1:09:43
  Like, was that supposed to be that funny?
• 1:09:45
  Fuck off. It wasn't supposed to be that
• 1:09:47
  funny. It was just a little ha ha, I'm
• 1:09:50
  sorry. I'm never welcome back here.
• 1:09:56
  It wasn't supposed to be that funny.
• 1:09:58
  Now I feel like I have to defend like, OK, I didn't think it was
• 1:10:00
  that funny. OK, good.
• 1:10:04
  I thought it was a little funny. It was.
• 1:10:06
  It was a little funny. It was always supposed.
• 1:10:08
  To be a little funny, I wasn't expecting like, ha ha ha ha.
• 1:10:10
  I was expecting maybe a smile, maybe a chuckle.
• 1:10:14
  I'm. Sorry, they just started to such
• 1:10:19
  a Dick. No.
• 1:10:21
  And she, you know, she could have used that, she could have
• 1:10:24
  used such serious. Or therapy.
• 1:10:26
  Yeah, or therapy. OK, so creatine.
• 1:10:30
  I'm I'm going to look into it I. Know yeah, okay, so you're
• 1:10:34
  looking into it. Yeah, well, I'm and I'm staying
• 1:10:36
  at Laurae House and her partner recently moved in or like in the
• 1:10:40
  process. He for sure takes creatine.
• 1:10:42
  Right. And I opened up like because I
• 1:10:43
  was making coffee and like looking for a mug creatine
• 1:10:46
  everywhere. So I thought maybe this is my
• 1:10:48
  chance to dip my toe in. Yeah, you know who we need to
• 1:10:53
  get on the mic is Greg to find out his experience with
• 1:10:56
  creatine. But you know what?
• 1:10:57
  I'll circle back, listener. I'll circle back.
• 1:11:00
  It's just a creatine episode. No, I you know what I actually
• 1:11:04
  get targeted a lot on on TikTok like because of like a year and
• 1:11:11
  a half ago, I worked with a brand that was kind of like
• 1:11:16
  Wellness adjacent. It was like these little, these
• 1:11:20
  little like energy shots with Macha.
• 1:11:23
  And so I did that like, you know, for a very short time a
• 1:11:26
  long time ago. And now on TikTok, I get invites
• 1:11:31
  from all of these wacky brands that are like this supplement.
• 1:11:36
  I've actually gotten one from like creatine.
• 1:11:39
  I'm like I'm. Yeah.
• 1:11:41
  What am I supposed to do? Like shake up a shake up a
• 1:11:44
  smoothie on on the mic? Yeah.
• 1:11:46
  ASMR. Yeah.
• 1:11:47
  No, I love ASO. I know that you love it, but
• 1:11:51
  what a what a departure from my brand.
• 1:11:53
  That would be my personal brand. Seriously, Can you imagine?
• 1:11:57
  No, like Molly is like, you're not known as like a gym brat.
• 1:12:01
  I'm really not known as a as a gym brat and I certainly would
• 1:12:05
  not be caught dead in CrossFit. Yeah, well, that's a little.
• 1:12:09
  Wow, sorry. I mean, that's a little sorry.
• 1:12:12
  That was a little harsh. I'm now just, I'm feeling a
• 1:12:16
  little bit on the defense, a little bit defensive, but.
• 1:12:23
  Maybe that would be a good way to like try it, you know?
• 1:12:26
  I mean, to get it for free, yes. I mean, exactly just like how
• 1:12:29
  happening, Yeah. Just like absolutely just like
• 1:12:34
  getting get it for free from Greg, just like you got that can
• 1:12:39
  of tuna for free at Laura's house.
• 1:12:45
  Wow. Anyways, I have been actually.
• 1:12:48
  What are you getting targeted with?
• 1:12:50
  Oh, yeah, OK. Thank you for thank you for
• 1:12:52
  bringing us back. Yeah, I have been getting
• 1:12:54
  targeted, I think because I've been buying dresses for
• 1:13:01
  weddings, like bridesmaid dresses.
• 1:13:03
  OK. I have been getting so many
• 1:13:05
  targeted ads that are like alternatives to bras, just like
• 1:13:12
  like boob content, like the like pasties.
• 1:13:14
  Yeah, like the pull it up. Yeah, totally.
• 1:13:16
  And there is this one, there is this one brand that I see.
• 1:13:20
  I see this woman about 8 times a day putting these like putting
• 1:13:26
  these like cups into her, like on her boobs into her shirt.
• 1:13:30
  And like, I am considering it because like, you know, it's
• 1:13:35
  hard to they don't really think when they design dresses.
• 1:13:39
  Like how are what are the big boob girls going to do?
• 1:13:43
  They don't really think about that.
• 1:13:44
  Yeah. But yeah.
• 1:13:46
  So. Go to Seoul on 6th Ave.
• 1:13:51
  Store of lingerie. OK, they have.
• 1:13:54
  They have what I'm looking for. OK, Yeah.
• 1:13:56
  And shout out if you want to sponsor the podcast.
• 1:13:58
  Yeah, I will bear it all on. No, I'm just kidding.
• 1:14:02
  So will I, I'll show it off Just.
• 1:14:05
  Kidding. Just kidding.
• 1:14:07
  Just kidding. Just kidding.
• 1:14:09
  Other things that I have been getting a lot of targeted ads.
• 1:14:13
  Well, this is so boring. No one's going to care about
• 1:14:16
  this. But I am looking for a new
• 1:14:17
  couch. So sure.
• 1:14:20
  Hello. Hello.
• 1:14:21
  We have some awesome onlookers. Anyways.
• 1:14:26
  Yeah. Didn't mind that onlooker.
• 1:14:32
  You said you, she said. You can look, but don't talk to
• 1:14:34
  me. Don't you come in here.
• 1:14:36
  Don't you talk to me? But you can.
• 1:14:38
  Stare at me, but you can look. Yeah.
• 1:14:41
  OK. Yeah, I'm looking for a new
• 1:14:43
  couch. So OK.
• 1:14:44
  I just get tons joy. Bird getting those ads.
• 1:14:48
  I also they know that I have dogs based on the stuff that I
• 1:14:51
  buy of course. So like everything that I'm
• 1:14:53
  getting targeted is like for your nasty ass dogs.
• 1:14:57
  Oh, and there's like things that go across your couch that like,
• 1:15:01
  lay across. Exactly.
• 1:15:02
  Yeah, I get those. A lot.
• 1:15:03
  Those a lot. Creatine 90% of the time.
• 1:15:07
  That is so. Funny and then like dog stuff
• 1:15:09
  the other 10%. Yeah, I love it.
• 1:15:13
  Yeah, me too. Sweet spot.
• 1:15:16
  It's it's really our sweet spot. Well, I think that we've had
• 1:15:21
  about enough, don't you? That enough of myself talking.
• 1:15:27
  I think we've had about enough talking.
• 1:15:28
  You can look, but you cannot talk anymore.
• 1:15:30
  And some what we say to each other today.
• 1:15:33
  Cecily, thank you so much for coming on the show.
• 1:15:36
  Thank you for having me Molly, My God and everyone go watch The
• 1:15:39
  Wedding Singer. Go watch it if you want to feel,
• 1:15:42
  feel good if you want to feel. Happy You want to believe in
• 1:15:44
  love again? Yeah.
• 1:15:46
  Did it help you with that? With believing in love.
• 1:15:49
  Or did you already believe in it?
• 1:15:51
  I think that it did help me believe in love.
• 1:15:54
  OK? I think that I sort of was, you
• 1:15:56
  know, I was sort of starting to catch on, like, maybe it's not
• 1:15:59
  all a conspiracy. Sure, maybe.
• 1:16:01
  Love what? Yeah.
• 1:16:02
  Yeah. And then this movie really said
• 1:16:04
  to me, no, I think maybe it could be real.
• 1:16:07
  Yeah. Yeah.
• 1:16:09
  Oh yeah. Oh, bending our hearts.
• 1:16:12
  We're in our Whitney Whitney Wild Rose Hilling journey.
• 1:16:15
  Yeah, we are for. Sure, for sure really are right
• 1:16:18
  Well, everybody be sure to follow at did that age well on
• 1:16:21
  Instagram and did that age well pod on TikTok bye.
• 1:16:27
  Okay, bye. Okay, bye.