Latest / Chef's PSA Podcast / The Mental Blocks Ep 26
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- 0:00Hello chefs. You're listening to chefs
- 0:01because a podcast I'm your host Entre natera.
- 0:04On today's episode, we're going to talk about getting past
- 0:07mental blocks, so stay tuned. So first, let's start with a
- 0:23simple update from last week, and I'm not going to take too
- 0:25much time on the update, because I really don't have a lot to
- 0:27talk about culinary leadership. Fundamentals, audiobook delayed.
- 0:33So Audible for some reason, says, 10 days.
- 0:37I did it 10 days ago that's still not ready.
- 0:39So, I'm not sure if they're behind due to Christmas or
- 0:42whatever the holidays. But nonetheless, I'm hoping by
- 0:45next week, the book is out. It should have been out last
- 0:47week. Anyway, audibles taking a long
- 0:49time. The book is done.
- 0:50Aw, The book is done. So it'll it'll be released
- 0:52shortly. If you missed last week's
- 0:55episode, I finalized the video course of culinary leadership
- 0:59fundamentals. It's about, you know, about an
- 1:01hour and 15 minutes or so, and it's just, it's basically the
- 1:05things that are in The Culinary leadership fundamentals.
- 1:07Book, turned into video. For those of you that are video
- 1:10Learners, you could buy it or you could rent it.
- 1:12So you know, if you don't if you don't feel like buying and
- 1:14having it forever you can rent it.
- 1:16I think for $8 link is in my bio on all my social media
- 1:20platforms. So, Anyway, those are the
- 1:22updates today's episode. So I put up a poll last week and
- 1:26asked the question. What do you what do you want me
- 1:28to talk about? You want to do, Q&A, you want to
- 1:30culinary competitions, where you want to talk about, mental,
- 1:33overcoming, mental obstacles. So, overcoming mental obstacles,
- 1:38one. You know, by quite a large
- 1:41margin and I do get a lot of DMS and requests to speak on mental
- 1:47well-being, mental Wellness obstacles.
- 1:50And I should say this, right? I am a little bit reluctant to
- 1:55speak on the subject because, you know, obviously I'm not a,
- 1:59I'm not a trained, clinical therapist, I shouldn't be giving
- 2:02out advice and I'm not going to today.
- 2:05The only thing I'm going to do today is I'm going to tell you
- 2:08what works for me, right? I can't tell you what to do for
- 2:11you. I don't even think legally, I
- 2:13could tell you what to do for you.
- 2:15But what I can tell you is, I could tell you what I do.
- 2:17And I can tell you the things that I've done to overcome He
- 2:21mental roadblocks that I've encountered and really today,
- 2:24we're going to dive into three different things.
- 2:26We're going to talk about you know confidence and sometimes
- 2:30when you're in areas of low confidence, how you could
- 2:32overcome it, we're going to talk about building a foundation of
- 2:36getting strong, mental habits. And, and then the third thing,
- 2:39we're going to talk about is creative block as a chef.
- 2:41So we're going to talk about all those three things that I'm
- 2:44going to throw in. Maybe you know, a couple of
- 2:46anecdotes and stories but I will say this so people that don't
- 2:50know me. In real life, I'll tell you
- 2:52something personal about me that you probably don't know is I
- 2:56have, you know, a very hyperactive mind.
- 3:00It's it's what has allowed me to create a podcast, right?
- 3:03Three books. Great.
- 3:04A video course, start a business without any training, how to do
- 3:10any of that, right? I'm trained as a chef and all
- 3:12these other things. I'm a I'm doing by myself and
- 3:14the reason I'm able to do it is because my mind is typically
- 3:17running yo thousand miles per hour.
- 3:19So I share that. With you is because I have a
- 3:23three-hour morning routine and my 3 our morning routine is all
- 3:26about compounding. Good habits and really tuning my
- 3:31brain and so that I could get better.
- 3:33So my whole life's purpose is just to get better and better
- 3:36every day and every way like if I don't know, something I want
- 3:39to learn it and I want to get good at it.
- 3:41I have an insatiable thirst for knowledge and I read on average,
- 3:48probably about a book a week, so for people that don't know me.
- 3:51I probably go through. I think I added this up to the
- 3:53day. I think I've read like 163 books
- 3:57and the last, the last two to three years.
- 4:00Anyway, in three years, I've read 162 books.
- 4:02Now, I don't know anyone that reads more than me and for those
- 4:06of you that are listening, if you do read more than me, I'd
- 4:09love to talk books with you. I read so many books that
- 4:11sometimes I forget what I've read and the majority of the
- 4:14books that I do read are not culinary related.
- 4:17So I give you for example, like Day.
- 4:21I received a gift. It's Christmas actually.
- 4:24So if you're listening to this on Christmas, Merry Christmas
- 4:26book that I received was it's a, it's a book that includes five
- 4:31books. So, you know, Art of War
- 4:33daodejing Confucius analects, so I like to read books on
- 4:39philosophy strategy. I love, I love like Miyamoto
- 4:44Musashi's book of five rings anyway, these are these are
- 4:46things that I read. So I don't typically read
- 4:49cookbooks but I do. Like I do like books that just
- 4:53kind of changed the way I think and challenged me to think
- 4:58differently and so there's something called the
- 5:02dunning-kruger effect and you may be familiar with it and
- 5:05basically what it means is that the more you learn, the more you
- 5:08realize you don't know. And I find that to be very true
- 5:13in life and also as a chef the more you learn as a chef the
- 5:18more you realize all the things that you don't know.
- 5:21But when you don't know a lot, you do think, you know, more
- 5:24than you you should like you're overconfident at the beginning
- 5:27thinking, you know, more than you do.
- 5:28And then as you start to learn, you realize, you don't know
- 5:30anything. And then kind of in the end, you
- 5:32realize you didn't really need to do anything.
- 5:34You just need to be good at who you are.
- 5:36So anyway, neither here nor there.
- 5:39Let's move forward and dive right into the subject.
- 5:44So the first thing I want to talk about is kind of already on
- 5:48the subject is building a strong foundation.
- 5:50And the way I do it is I like to build a strong foundation on
- 5:57compounding good habits. Now, what I mean by that is I'll
- 6:02tell you what I do. So, every day, I play a game of
- 6:04chess every day. I read, you know, x amount of
- 6:07pages in a book. Every day I do, Some type of
- 6:10mindfulness. Practice every day.
- 6:12I eat the same thing which is a healthy meal.
- 6:15So, I have all these habits that I've Incorporated in my life
- 6:19throughout the course of time. And what happens when you
- 6:21incorporate a good habit, is you start to push out a bad habit.
- 6:25So if you incorporate I'll give you an example.
- 6:28If the Habit that you're trying to incorporate as you're going
- 6:31to drink a glass of water every day and so you put a glass of
- 6:33water by your bed. First thing in the morning.
- 6:35You wake up, you drink it. That's going to be a Good habit.
- 6:39You might be replacing that with a bad habit of, maybe drinking
- 6:42something that you shouldn't drink or baby, you're staying
- 6:44hydrated. So, anyway, adding little habits
- 6:47little by little throughout the course of time will start to
- 6:49compound. And what you'll start to notice
- 6:51is the amount of good habits that you have will start to
- 6:53diminish, the amount of bad habits.
- 6:54Now, what makes that extremely difficult is that there's always
- 6:59a little bit of reluctancy to begin.
- 7:01Good habits. It's difficult.
- 7:02So, there's something called cognitive dissonance and maybe
- 7:05you know what that is, maybe you don't.
- 7:06But I'll explain it to you in a way that that I liked it
- 7:10explained to me when I first heard of it and that is that
- 7:13your brain and your body have to be in sync.
- 7:16So one thing has to override the other, so I'll give you an
- 7:21example. If you say, I'm going to go work
- 7:23out today, and you don't go work out.
- 7:25Or if you say today, I'm going to start my diet and you don't
- 7:28start your diet. What ends up happening is your
- 7:30mind starts to rewire and say, okay?
- 7:31Every time they say, they're going to do something, they
- 7:33don't. Okay, got it.
- 7:34So whenever they say that don't do it, so your mind won't give
- 7:37you the energy to do it. So I thought It was an
- 7:39interesting way to look at it. And so, one of my mentors
- 7:42explained to me the way to correct, that would be to
- 7:46instead of saying these big things that you're not going to
- 7:50do, is just say, I'm going to put on my shoes today and then
- 7:53put on your shoes. And then say, okay, now I'm
- 7:55going to open the door and then you open the door and I'm going
- 7:56to brush my teeth, and then you go brush your teeth.
- 7:58So that way your mind starts to retrain itself to say, anytime
- 8:02you say, you're going to do something, you actually do it.
- 8:04So, this is what I started doing to myself, to start building on
- 8:06those things. And I'll tell you throughout the
- 8:08course of time. Time as I've learned to say,
- 8:11okay, I'm going to do this and then you do it and then I say
- 8:13I'm gonna do this and I'm gonna do that you start with very
- 8:15little things. But what you start to notice is
- 8:16that your mind will start to push you to bigger things.
- 8:19So if you say for example, okay, I'm going to do one push-up
- 8:23today and then tomorrow, you say you're going to do two.
- 8:24And then after a while your body says okay every time you're
- 8:26going to do that you actually do it then you say I'm going to do
- 8:29500 and it's like oh shit. This is this is a real
- 8:33challenge. Is your body going to give you
- 8:34the energy and what I've noticed is in my case it does.
- 8:38So if I said Today I'm going to do 250 push-ups, which I'm not,
- 8:42but if I said I was going to do that, I would somehow find a way
- 8:45to do it, right? Your mind starts to give you the
- 8:48strength to overcome this. Now, all of this ties into
- 8:51building good habits. And what does this have to do
- 8:53with the kitchen? Well, because all these good
- 8:55habits tie into the kitchen, a better version of you is a
- 8:59better version of you in all things that you do in life.
- 9:02So, a healthier you as a healthier, you and the kitchen a
- 9:04healthier you as a healthier? You at home, right?
- 9:07A healthier you as a happier. You so all these things start to
- 9:11build and compound and all the other areas of your life.
- 9:14Like I said, I would start adding little habits day after
- 9:17day, after day, after day, and before, you know it like in my
- 9:21case, I have a three-hour morning routine that includes
- 9:23everything from Reading to playing puzzles, and brain
- 9:25games, and playing several games of Chess.
- 9:28I love chest. If, you know me, these are all
- 9:30little things that make you better weather, whatever it is.
- 9:32Now, if you could, if you could take that same idea and apply it
- 9:35to the kitchen, right? It's like every day you're going
- 9:37to do this every day. I'm going to set up my station a
- 9:38certain way. Right.
- 9:40A lot of these foundations that you build on can also be applied
- 9:45to something called decision fatigue and this is something
- 9:47that I talk about in my book culinary leadership fundamentals
- 9:51is that if you can have the majority of your good habits on
- 9:54autopilot and allows you to save that important decision-making,
- 9:58energy on the things that really require your mental focus and
- 10:02attention. So I'll give you an example in
- 10:03my kitchen. I would say cutting boards are
- 10:05set up this way. Towels are folded right here.
- 10:07Utensil beIN goes right here. REM kit goes their knives go
- 10:11here. And so you didn't have to think
- 10:13about all those things in the kitchen because everything was
- 10:15always on autopilot. So, it's repetition.
- 10:17So, the only thing you really had to think about was the food
- 10:19that's in front of you like making.
- 10:20Whatever is in front of you, perfect and delicious and
- 10:23beautiful. So if you don't have to think
- 10:25about all these other things like, oh shit, where do I put my
- 10:27knife? How do I fold my towels?
- 10:28What color socks do I wear? Today have as many of your
- 10:31decisions on autopilot so you could save your decision-making
- 10:35ability in your mental focus on the things that you're doing.
- 10:38And this is This is something that has helped me tremendously
- 10:42as having so many things just kind of on the automatic setting
- 10:47though. That's what I've done, to build
- 10:49a foundation, and apply it to life, and also apply it to the
- 10:54kitchen. So anyway, let's move on the
- 10:56next thing. I want to touch on is confidence
- 11:00and I'll tell you that, you know, when I was a young cook, I
- 11:03was I was not very, I was not very confident in the kitchen,
- 11:07you know, I was 17, 18 years old, most The chefs around me
- 11:10were men with many years of experience and, you know, back
- 11:14then. So you know, 27 years ago, when
- 11:16I first started cooking kitchens were much rougher and so you
- 11:20could only imagine what it was like for a 17 year old kid to be
- 11:22around beer Brown chefs and that arrows, it was a difficult time
- 11:27for me and I didn't have a lot of confidence in what I was
- 11:30doing and so little by little I started to figure out.
- 11:33How can I get confidence in something that I used to say?
- 11:35For me, this is this is that mental trick that I taught.
- 11:39Self is I would say to myself often on the other side of fear
- 11:43is greatness and this is like a mantra that I would repeat in my
- 11:46head. Anytime I would get to something
- 11:48that I was afraid of whether it was learning a new skill in the
- 11:51kitchen or maybe doing something that I didn't want to do like,
- 11:54talking to a guest. I used to be very shy.
- 11:55I don't like talking to people and say, on the other side of
- 11:58fear his greatness and that would push me to do all the
- 12:01things that I was uncomfortable doing.
- 12:03And what I started to realize is that whenever I would do that,
- 12:06there really was a breakthrough to move forward.
- 12:11Right there was greater things on the other side, one side, get
- 12:14past these things that I was afraid of doing.
- 12:17So a lot of times these chefs were afraid of looking stupid.
- 12:22It's what's called like a spotlight effect.
- 12:24Like you think there's this big Spotlight on you and your
- 12:26mistakes are over Amplified and everyone sees them, but it's not
- 12:29the case. A lot of people really are not
- 12:31that many people are really paying attention to you as much
- 12:33as you think. But this Spotlight effect
- 12:37prevents you from doing things because you might Be afraid to
- 12:40lose. What I would do is I would, I
- 12:42would throw myself in situations where I probably would lose and
- 12:45I would probably fail. And I would do that to push
- 12:49myself and encourage myself to get better and get over the
- 12:55fear. So, what I like to call fear
- 12:56inoculation, I would just push myself a little bit further and
- 12:59a little bit further and a little bit further, and that's
- 13:02really what made me better. And I've said this before, like,
- 13:06if you play video games, it's like the game is more
- 13:08satisfying. Sighing, when you beat it on
- 13:11hard mode, then it is on easy mode.
- 13:13So I would always ratchet things up little by little like a
- 13:16sliding scale. Like, okay, how can we make it a
- 13:18little bit harder? If I'm dicing tomatoes, and I
- 13:20finish case of tomatoes and 30 minutes, can I finish it in 25?
- 13:24But quality and time was always a metric.
- 13:27So I was not only improving trying to improve my skills in
- 13:30quality but also in time. So I would also challenge
- 13:34people, you know, you still have my culinary decathlon and
- 13:36kitchens that I would run into, you know, be a list of skills.
- 13:40And I was always up for a challenge, so a cook come up, to
- 13:43me and say, okay, I'm going to erase you and cleaning
- 13:45pineapples and I say sure or Butcher and a salmon or whatever
- 13:48the case may be, who could butcher it fast and who could
- 13:50most properly, and whoever did the best would win.
- 13:53And, you know, their name would go on the board.
- 13:54And some, you know, I didn't win all of them obviously, and I
- 13:57didn't mind losing and I did that because one it was good for
- 14:01the person that was beating me, you know, they built a
- 14:02conference in confidence up, but to it helped me eliminate that
- 14:07fear of failure and getting over the fear.
- 14:09Fear of failure is really what? Holds a lot of people back.
- 14:12You can't be afraid to to lose because losing prevents you from
- 14:16playing the game. And if you're not playing the
- 14:18game, you're never going to win. So, being able to play the game,
- 14:21at least you have a chance at winning right.
- 14:24Little by little start pushing yourself, you know, like I said,
- 14:27fear, not chelation. I'll tell you all the story and
- 14:31not many people know this, but I was in the United States memory
- 14:33championships, couple of years back put on by MIT and they
- 14:38reached out to me. They said, you want to do this
- 14:40and it's because I do these these brain games and have a
- 14:44relatively high score. So they reached out to me and
- 14:47said, you know, based on your scores, you qualify as a
- 14:49candidate to be in the MIT us memory or maybe it was the world
- 14:55memory championships. Oddly enough, I can't remember
- 14:57ironic. But anyway, I got in there was
- 14:59200 competitors and I was like, yeah, I'll do it.
- 15:03I mean, I don't know anyone that's been in the memory
- 15:05championships so I did it and out of 200 competitors that came
- 15:08in 8th, which Which I thought was funny is like I'd ever done
- 15:11it. I didn't even really trained for
- 15:13it but I placed 8th because I was unafraid of competing and
- 15:18the reason I share that is because it's a stupid story.
- 15:20It has nothing to do with cooking but it just goes to show
- 15:23you that you know, if you have the confidence to do something
- 15:27and you're not afraid of of failure that there's some great
- 15:32life experiences and there's some great things that can be
- 15:34had once you get past any fears and limitations that you've put
- 15:38on yourself. And I got to say it all The
- 15:39fears and everything. That's preventing you, as you
- 15:43write all your limitations are self-induced, the more you start
- 15:46to get past them, the more, you'll start to get past these,
- 15:50these mental obstacles. So, anyway, I'm going to take a
- 15:54quick moment and share a story with you.
- 15:57Also, this is something that a friend of mine had told me.
- 16:02It was a story and I thought it was very valuable.
- 16:06So I'm going to change the story up a little bit to make it more.
- 16:09Applicable to our industry and you some current example.
- 16:14So if you're familiar with like the Marvel Cinematic Universe or
- 16:19DC, DC movies, right now superhero.
- 16:21Movies like they have this Multiverse where where there's a
- 16:25different version of a person in every single universe and
- 16:28there's an infinite amount of universes out there.
- 16:31Now, if you could, if you could just bear with me for a moment,
- 16:34if you could imagine that it one of these universes, there's Apex
- 16:40version of you in that Universe. There is the best version of you
- 16:44in that Universe. This person is extremely
- 16:47successful. They're the most successful.
- 16:50You could be him. They're rich.
- 16:52They're worshiped, their have a lot of money or whatever.
- 16:56Whatever, you deem successful. You know, maybe that's what I
- 16:58deem successful, but whatever it is that you deem successful.
- 17:01Maybe they're the best chef in the world and they have the
- 17:02number one restaurant or they have a restaurant Empire.
- 17:05Whatever there is a version of you.
- 17:07In this alternate universe that always makes the right
- 17:10decisions. Always does their best works out
- 17:13every single day. Only eats healthy, right?
- 17:15This person, this Apex version of you exists in an alternate
- 17:20universe. Now whenever you're faced with
- 17:23difficulty, You have to stop and ask yourself, what would the
- 17:27Apex version of you do in this situation, right?
- 17:32When you're afraid, I'm too afraid to enter this
- 17:35competition, because I might lose.
- 17:37What would the Apex version of you say, when you say, I'm not
- 17:40good enough to work in that restaurant?
- 17:43What would the Apex version of you say to you?
- 17:45When you say, I'm not good enough for this position?
- 17:48What would that person say to you right when that person says
- 17:53I'm too tired to go to the gym, I'm too tired to eat, healthy
- 17:55food, whatever the case may be, what would that Apex version of
- 17:59you? And this other Universe, say, to
- 18:01you, when you have those situations arise, what would
- 18:03they say, right? And normally, they're going to
- 18:06say, don't make excuses, just do it, right?
- 18:09The reality is that's what the best version of you.
- 18:11That exists is going to say they're going to tell you be
- 18:13unafraid and do it. And when you start to realize
- 18:16that the only thing that's holding you back is you, then
- 18:19you start to be unafraid and get past these things, that may be
- 18:22holding. You back.
- 18:23So confidence is a big thing that holds people back.
- 18:25This is a mental block that we have and, you know, kind of on
- 18:30the last subject I want to talk about is creative block and I
- 18:37and one of the podcast previously that I recorded
- 18:40called techniques versus creativity.
- 18:43I go through a creative exercise on how I would come up with a
- 18:46menu and things that I would do. So I I'll share it with you
- 18:50again and I'll try and make it brief, but I set up different.
- 18:52Anchors. So what an anchor is it's
- 18:54basically a reminder of the moment, right?
- 18:56So when you hear a song and it takes you back to a certain
- 18:59place and time where you smell something and it takes you back
- 19:01to a certain place and time or taste etcetera, those are called
- 19:04anchors. So, what I want to do, when I
- 19:05get need to get into a creative mindset, is I put as many of
- 19:08those creative anchors around me.
- 19:10So in my case, I'm listening to classical music, I'm drinking a
- 19:13cup of green tea, I might be chewing some mint gum and then I
- 19:17smell these things called boom, boom sticks.
- 19:19And they're like, they look like lip gloss and they smell like
- 19:23Peppermint or whatever. So all those things are going.
- 19:25I'm going to silent room and I'm either writing or I'm typing out
- 19:29items that I want on my menu. And I know when all those things
- 19:32are happening it's like it anchors me to put me in that,
- 19:34creative mind frame, right? So that's one thing, I do.
- 19:36Another creative exercise that I do to get past mental block.
- 19:39And I shared a video on this on, on Chefs, PSA.
- 19:42Instagram feed, is that I will sometimes, let's say, I need to
- 19:48change a menu and I'm kind of stuck with coming up with menu
- 19:50ideas, I'll start every day, just like Okay, let me come up
- 19:53with 10 menu ideas today and then tomorrow 10:00 and I'll do
- 19:56that for 30 days. And at the end of the 30 days,
- 19:58I'll have a journal of 300 menu ideas, right?
- 20:02But I could pull from whenever. Now, what you'll notice when you
- 20:04do something like this, is that maybe the first couple of days,
- 20:10it's easy, or maybe the first couple of days is harsh.
- 20:12But, but anyway, by case, the first couple of days are easy,
- 20:16and then it gets extremely difficult once you get past all
- 20:20the low-hanging fruit, like all the easy You're there and then
- 20:23once you get past that then it becomes easy again.
- 20:26And that's when the true creativity comes in.
- 20:29Now you could do this with a group, let's say you have five
- 20:32chefs working on your team, you could assign everyone ten
- 20:34dishes, and then when they all come back together, you'll have
- 20:3650. So you can see how this works to
- 20:39amplify your creativity. So I highly recommend you do
- 20:43that, and then one last creative exercise that I do for myself
- 20:48when I'm writing menus, when I have writer's block, or creative
- 20:52block, What it would be like when you're in a kitchen and
- 20:55you're in a chef, sometimes you have limitations placed on you
- 20:58that are very real. By the way, these aren't
- 20:59imaginary limitations, they're very real.
- 21:01Like, the stove doesn't work or the guard monge cook, doesn't
- 21:04have any experience, they there. It's very difficult for them to
- 21:08get food out or whatever the case may be.
- 21:09So you when you write a menu you say oh I can't do that.
- 21:13I can't put that on the menu. I can my oven doesn't work.
- 21:15Anyway. You have all these excuses of
- 21:17all the things that you can't put on the menu and it stifles
- 21:20your creativity. So something that I've done And
- 21:23when I caught myself doing that, as I put myself in a frame of
- 21:26mind, I said, okay, imagine that you're in the best designed
- 21:30kitchen with all the equipment, and everything works, with an
- 21:33infinite amount of money and infinite amount of ingredients
- 21:36and resources and the best cooks in the in the kitchen and you're
- 21:39never short staffed. Now, you need to write a menu
- 21:41that impresses based on whatever parameters you've given
- 21:44yourself, write it, right? And when you have no limitations
- 21:47and money is No, Object and resources are no object and you
- 21:51write that menu, okay? Good.
- 21:52Now you've written that menu, then you could look at that menu
- 21:55and say, okay, now pair it back a little bit based on your
- 21:58limitations and what you'll end up with in my case, in most
- 22:01cases you'll end up with a menu that is more creative and
- 22:06pushing a little further than you would have when you
- 22:08originally started. So again, that's another
- 22:11creative exercise that I like, and that I use.
- 22:17But anyway, wrapping it up. I know a lot of people have
- 22:21asked me lately How do you, how do you deal with the stress and
- 22:26the fatigue of the kitchen and difficult times?
- 22:31And I will say that doing all these things, right?
- 22:33So, so having confidence building a foundation of good
- 22:38habits, all these things are going to help you with the other
- 22:42things. Because when you have
- 22:43confidence, you're able to go to your boss and say I need a raise
- 22:47your able to go to your boss and say I need days off when you
- 22:50have the confidence to speak up and like I I said you got to
- 22:53build it. It's none of these things are
- 22:54easy, right? All of their like, there's not a
- 22:56Panacea that I could just say, do this and it fixes all your
- 22:58problems. No, all everything that I said,
- 23:01requires work and effort, but doing all these things, building
- 23:04the confidence, having a strong Foundation of good habits that
- 23:07you've put in place in your life, eating, right?
- 23:09Having a mindfulness, practice spending quality time with loved
- 23:13ones. Getting enough sleep.
- 23:14Like, they're all the things that all the cliche answers that
- 23:17people tell you, right? That's, that's really it, like
- 23:21it's quite easy, you know, What to do.
- 23:23I'm not going to tell you anything that you don't know,
- 23:25you know, the right thing to do. You just have to do it doing it
- 23:27as a whole other thing, right? So when someone says, oh, you
- 23:30know, I need to, I need to get healthy.
- 23:33I don't know what to do was like, well, stop eating junk
- 23:34food, right? Easier said than done, but you
- 23:37could say little by little you could stop eating junk food like
- 23:40let's just cut out soda. And then next week let's cut out
- 23:42chips or whatever. The case may be to disconnect
- 23:45from work, sometimes put your phone down.
- 23:47Stop looking at social media, talk to your loved ones.
- 23:50Check out, establish boundaries And all of these things combined
- 23:55have helped me significantly. And now I can't sit here and say
- 23:59that I'm an expert at it, like I said, this is, this is a reason
- 24:02why I haven't really spoken on the subject too much because I
- 24:04don't like speaking about things that I'm not as knowledgeable in
- 24:09things that if it's a puzzle that I haven't solved, I don't
- 24:12think I'm in a place of authority to speak about it,
- 24:14right? So if I don't have an answer,
- 24:17there's no point in me talking about I like to focus on Real
- 24:20World Experience on things that I've actually done.
- 24:22I could speak knowledgeable on, but if I, if I haven't solved
- 24:25the issue, if I haven't figured out how to stop eating junk
- 24:28food, I can't sit up here and tell you it's easy to start
- 24:31doing this, right? It's like taking advice from a
- 24:34poor person on how to get rich. The old expression is don't
- 24:36take, don't take Financial advice from a poor person
- 24:39because they can't explain that to you.
- 24:42And so that I kind of apply by that that same philosophy is
- 24:45like I can't be giving advice on things that I haven't figured
- 24:47out or don't understand. So I hope you all understand
- 24:51that. That sometimes there's a reason
- 24:52why. I don't speak on certain
- 24:53subjects is because I just am not knowledgeable enough to
- 24:56speak on them. Now, hopefully, this, this
- 25:00episode on mental blocks. It might, it might not help all
- 25:04of you. Like I said, this, this one
- 25:05might be a little bit far off from the typical chefs.
- 25:09PS a podcast and it might not help all of you but hopefully
- 25:11some of you got something from it.
- 25:13And like I said, if I just help one person than it was worth it,
- 25:16right? If one of you got better from
- 25:18it, great then mission accomplished.
- 25:21But anyway, If you like episodes in this style of me speaking on
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