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428: A Holiday Message for Each Human Design Type · Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast

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Nicole Laino : Come here to become an unshakable human and build an unshakable business according to your human design.
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Nicole Laino: I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
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Nicole Laino: Hello and welcome to Unshakable with Human Design.
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Nicole Laino: Everybody.
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Nicole Laino: I'm your host, Nicole Laino, and we are here for the Thanksgiving episode.
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Nicole Laino: For those of you here in America, it is Thanksgiving week.
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Nicole Laino: Today is the day before Thanksgiving.
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Nicole Laino: If you are listening to this, on the day this episode drops.
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Nicole Laino: And I wanted to talk about the holidays in Human Design because we hear so many things about the holidays.
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Nicole Laino: You know, people dreading them having to go home.
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Nicole Laino: Some people look forward to them.
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Nicole Laino: Everybody has their own unique experience, depending on their relationship with their family, the conversations that are going to happen around the table.
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Nicole Laino: And I wanted to just sort of have a little reminder for each of the types in order to have a harmonious and happy holiday season.
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Nicole Laino: Because now we're kicking it off here, right?
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Nicole Laino: It's Thanksgiving, but then we also, of course, we have Christmas and New Year's, and then whatever else that you celebrate, there might be other gatherings that you're getting together with your family about.
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Nicole Laino: These are the ones that my.
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Nicole Laino: I celebrate with my family, but I wanted to break it down so I have a little message for each of the human design types going into this holiday season.
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Nicole Laino: What is important to keep in mind, what are the things that.
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Nicole Laino: I think that these are things that we can forget.
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Nicole Laino: And these are just some helpful tips for how to navigate how you might feel around the holidays.
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Nicole Laino: Now, if you're just having a great time and you're like, nicole, my holidays are awesome.
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Nicole Laino: I never have any issues.
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Nicole Laino: Everything is always fine.
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Nicole Laino: I'm never judging anybody else.
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Nicole Laino: I'm never upset about what anybody else is doing.
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Nicole Laino: I'm just having an awesome time.
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Nicole Laino: My family's great, we all get along, and.
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Nicole Laino: And it's perfect.
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Nicole Laino: Then maybe this isn't an episode you have to listen to, but for most people, they have something that they're navigating.
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Nicole Laino: So I'm going to give a message for each of the.
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Nicole Laino: Each of the types.
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Nicole Laino: You're obviously going to pay attention to your type.
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Nicole Laino: You're going to listen to your.
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Nicole Laino: If you're a generator, you're going to listen to the generator message.
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Nicole Laino: But I also want you to listen to the other ones because I want you to be thinking about whether you know it or you don't know what Your family's charts are what their types are.
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Nicole Laino: They all have one and they might have a different one than you.
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Nicole Laino: So if you listen to my thoughts and my tip for each type, then it might give you a little bit of insight into why your brother in law is super standoffish, it seems, and like, doesn't want to be part of the party and is just always kind of like off by himself.
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Nicole Laino: I don't know, maybe he's a manifester.
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Nicole Laino: That happened in my family.
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Nicole Laino: Like we have manifestors in our family and I'm like, oh, that's why they do that thing.
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Nicole Laino: Yeah, so we can cut people some slack.
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Nicole Laino: We cannot add the energy of judgment onto all of the other things.
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Nicole Laino: Like, oh, why are they doing that?
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Nicole Laino: Because that's what conditioning is.
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Nicole Laino: Right?
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Nicole Laino: Conditioning is where we assume that everybody should be like us.
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Nicole Laino: Other people have assumed that you should be like them.
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Nicole Laino: And in some ways you're more susceptible to taking in that opinion or that point of view.
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Nicole Laino: You then feel, you're right, I should be like that.
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Nicole Laino: Because you're like that and things look good for you.
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Nicole Laino: So you take that advice, you take that criticism and then you make it how you are.
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Nicole Laino: That might not be your nature, that might not be the right way for you.
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Nicole Laino: And that's what conditioning is.
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Nicole Laino: And human design brings us back home to who we are so that we're able to really meet ourselves with compassion and meet the other people in our lives with compassion.
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Nicole Laino: This changed my whole life.
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Nicole Laino: My husband jokes that human design softened me.
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Nicole Laino: And I always say thanks, I think because basically was saying that I could be harsh with people, I could be tough with people, I think because I'm tough on myself.
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Nicole Laino: I think because I work hard on myself.
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Nicole Laino: And there were some things that I was just also really blind to before I started doing this work, including things about me, about how I was really imperfect.
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Nicole Laino: I'm still imperfect.
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Nicole Laino: I just see it now and have a greater compassion for other people being imperfect.
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Nicole Laino: I think I had a little bit more.
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Nicole Laino: I was far less self aware.
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Nicole Laino: Well, I know I was far less self aware, but I was also less aware of other people and how they're different and appreciating those differences rather than thinking that it's.
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Nicole Laino: There's something wrong with them because they don't think or behave the way that I do.
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Nicole Laino: So let's dive in just with all of that in mind, let's dive into these individual messages that I have for each of the types taken to this holiday season to understand for yourself and then also to Take into consideration for the other people.
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Nicole Laino: Maybe you do know their chart.
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Nicole Laino: Maybe you do know what they are.
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Nicole Laino: Maybe they are like you, but you're seeing.
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Nicole Laino: If you look at them through their design, you might see how they're just following their design differently.
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Nicole Laino: Or sometimes we see how maybe they are in their not self.
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Nicole Laino: And we can have compassion for that too, because people get stuck there and it sucks.
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Nicole Laino: No fun being in that place.
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Nicole Laino: So if they're grumpy and cranky because their life hasn't worked out the way that they want, we can have compassion for that as well.
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Nicole Laino: They're off their path and that feels bad.
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Nicole Laino: So they're making it feel bad maybe for other people, or they're just in their stuff.
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Nicole Laino: So let's dive into these five messages for each of the human design types.
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Nicole Laino: We're going to start with our manifestors.
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Nicole Laino: So I already mentioned that the manifesto might be the one who's going and hanging in the other room.
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Nicole Laino: They're the ones sitting on the couch in the living room when everybody's in the kitchen.
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Nicole Laino: And you're wondering why they don't want to engage with everyone.
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Nicole Laino: They'll have times where they do.
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Nicole Laino: But these are the loners of our society.
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Nicole Laino: The manifestors don't need people like the rest of us do.
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Nicole Laino: And it doesn't mean that they don't need people at all.
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Nicole Laino: Of course they do.
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Nicole Laino: They're human.
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Nicole Laino: But they're just not going to have that same energy of needing to be around people all the time.
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Nicole Laino: And they probably won't enjoy it.
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Nicole Laino: If they are, they're going to kind of be off to the side.
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Nicole Laino: So if you are looking at somebody, do that, think to yourself, well, maybe they're a manifester.
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Nicole Laino: Now, if you are the manifestor, one feel okay doing that.
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Nicole Laino: But you do want to engage with people.
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Nicole Laino: You do want to come with good faith and take time for yourself, right?
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Nicole Laino: So can we do both?
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Nicole Laino: But then also, manifestors, we love to run the show.
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Nicole Laino: Manifestors love to run the show.
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Nicole Laino: They have a vision, they have things that they want to do.
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Nicole Laino: So a way for you to not have to be in conversation with every person and feel like you have to be generating ring yourself around the holiday party.
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Nicole Laino: You don't have to be chatting with everybody and be the life of the party and all of that.
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Nicole Laino: You don't have to do that.
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Nicole Laino: You can be a key part of the event without having to be like everybody else.
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Nicole Laino: And one way that I've seen people be successful doing this is think about how a manifesto works.
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Nicole Laino: Visionaries they love to control things.
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Nicole Laino: I do what I care about and nothing more.
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Nicole Laino: So what can you care about at the holiday party?
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Nicole Laino: Is there a dish that you can make that you can own?
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Nicole Laino: Is there a job that you can give yourself?
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Nicole Laino: Sort of where you're taking care of something, where you feel like you are contributing, but you don't necessarily have to be interacting with everybody.
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Nicole Laino: So if you.
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Nicole Laino: I think about, like a manifestor in my family, you know, they usually have like a dish or something that they are doing and owning, right?
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Nicole Laino: They're working on the gravy.
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Nicole Laino: The gravy is like the thing.
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Nicole Laino: And they're just sitting there working on it and working on it until it's done.
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Nicole Laino: So it's almost like they're engrossed in their task and that becomes their job.
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Nicole Laino: And everybody's okay with that.
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Nicole Laino: Now there's harmony there.
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Nicole Laino: You're leading something.
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Nicole Laino: What could you lead at the party?
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Nicole Laino: And then take time by yourself and then chill.
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Nicole Laino: So you interacted with the event, but you didn't necessarily have to interact with all the people all the time.
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Nicole Laino: Okay, that's one.
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Nicole Laino: That's our manifestors now, our projectors.
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Nicole Laino: Projectors.
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Nicole Laino: It is so important for you to understand how your energy works, and it's so important for all of us to understand how projector energy works.
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Nicole Laino: Projector energy wants to focus on people.
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Nicole Laino: It finds the energy in the room and then wants to focus on it, wants to go deep into it.
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Nicole Laino: It's so important for you as a projector to remember that this can feel intense for people.
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Nicole Laino: So even though this is your family, even though they love you, to go deep with someone requires an invitation.
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Nicole Laino: Now I get it.
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Nicole Laino: It's a holiday party.
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Nicole Laino: This is your family.
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Nicole Laino: These are your close friends.
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Nicole Laino: These are like your nearest and dearest.
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Nicole Laino: So you don't need a formal invitation necessarily to be having a conversation with somebody, but to go deep into it.
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Nicole Laino: They let them lead it there.
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Nicole Laino: And if you notice, take notice of how others are feeling from your attention.
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Nicole Laino: You might find that people are, you know, you would be fine staying focused on them the whole time.
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Nicole Laino: Or maybe you don't.
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Nicole Laino: Maybe you're not enjoying the interaction.
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Nicole Laino: It's okay for you to walk away, too.
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Nicole Laino: But for them, do they seem like the invitation energetically has been rescinded?
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Nicole Laino: They want to leave.
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Nicole Laino: They want to break away from it.
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Nicole Laino: They want to move on.
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Nicole Laino: You know, there might be the generator in the party, might want to go and bounce around in Social Butterfly a little bit.
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Nicole Laino: They might want to have more interactions Whereas a projector, you're going to focus probably more one person.
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Nicole Laino: That's going to be kind of your thing.
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Nicole Laino: You're probably going to.
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Nicole Laino: And I say probably because of course every person is different.
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Nicole Laino: But generally projectors will end up kind of with one person because that's just how your energy works.
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Nicole Laino: You'll go deep into like the soul of a person in that 10 minute conversation, you know, so you get to do that.
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Nicole Laino: But how do you do that in a responsible way?
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Nicole Laino: How do you do that in a way that doesn't feel so intense for the other person?
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Nicole Laino: And that's usually to wait for an invitation.
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Nicole Laino: And you can feel the invitation.
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Nicole Laino: That's what I mean.
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Nicole Laino: These are your nearest and dearest.
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Nicole Laino: They've invited you into their lives, so you get a bit of a pass here.
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Nicole Laino: But of course, before you're giving them life advice and deep direction for them or what they're interested in, you're probably not having a shallow conversation with people.
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Nicole Laino: You're going deeper.
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Nicole Laino: And then when you do, you know, just you are reading the energy.
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Nicole Laino: That's what projectors do.
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Nicole Laino: So read the energy.
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Nicole Laino: Don't get so caught up in the advice that you're giving or where you want it to go.
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Nicole Laino: Get excited about the conversation, but always be reading the energy.
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Nicole Laino: That's what projectors do.
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Nicole Laino: You're reading the energy.
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Nicole Laino: Are you reading it correctly?
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Nicole Laino: Don't forget to do that and don't forget to take time for yourself.
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Nicole Laino: All of that reading energy, you soul diving into somebody else, as my friend Judy Holler calls it, diving into somebody else's energy takes energy.
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Nicole Laino: So take time for yourself.
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Nicole Laino: Go be with yourself for a little bit.
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Nicole Laino: Don't feel like you are being antisocial or incorrect in some way for taking time for yourself.
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Nicole Laino: You might need to shake off all of the energy that you're taking in.
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Nicole Laino: You might be feeling drained.
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Nicole Laino: And when you feel drained, it's okay to go home.
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Nicole Laino: It's okay if you're like, you feel like you're done and the night is pretty much done.
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Nicole Laino: Like you've eaten dinner, you had dessert, you kind of done all the things, but people are lingering.
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Nicole Laino: You don't have to stay, you get to go.
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Nicole Laino: It's okay.
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Nicole Laino: You're not going to offend anybody.
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Nicole Laino: All right, now let's talk about the reflectors.
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Nicole Laino: Such interesting beings.
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Nicole Laino: First of all, reflectors, give yourself as you're preparing for the holidays, if you are a reflector, give yourself a lot of time to yourself and for yourself leading up to that big gathering.
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Nicole Laino: Don't have lots of people time like touch a tree, walks in nature, be alone, have space for yourself leading up to it.
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Nicole Laino: Because that energy sampling that you're doing is cumulative.
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Nicole Laino: It builds and builds.
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Nicole Laino: So you need to let it out.
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Nicole Laino: So some of the things that you could do leading up to it, you could sleep by yourself.
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Nicole Laino: If you don't do that all the time.
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Nicole Laino: So sleep by yourself a night or two before traditional human design.
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Nicole Laino: RA would say that you should be sleeping by yourself all the time, that everybody should be sleeping by themselves.
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Nicole Laino: But certainly all non sacral beings should sleep by themselves.
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Nicole Laino: But you could do that, you could try that out.
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Nicole Laino: If you haven't done that before, it's a great experiment for anyone to do is to sleep by themselves and see do you sleep better or not better when you are by yourself or when you have your partner with you.
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Nicole Laino: So you can sleep by yourself, take time by yourself, really feel like you are ready to have connection with people versus feeling forced.
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Nicole Laino: This should feel like a choice.
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Nicole Laino: And your open G center, so all reflectors, the only ones that have like of the types that we could say you have an open G center, of course mental projectors will as well.
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Nicole Laino: But not all projectors would.
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Nicole Laino: But as a type reflectors, you all have an open G. That's a given.
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Nicole Laino: So that open G center is all about environment, all about our environment.
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Nicole Laino: The place that you are, the people that you are around, the place that you are inhabiting at the time, you're taking it all in, you're taking in those people, you're taking in that experience and you take it in from like a very energetic place.
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Nicole Laino: If you don't feel good, if it doesn't feel good there.
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Nicole Laino: We don't get to choose our family unfortunately.
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Nicole Laino: So all I can say is that you might want to limit your time if it feels really bad.
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Nicole Laino: But how you feel about your family and your friends and the people that you're spending time with like truly is really going to determine how this all goes for you.
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Nicole Laino: So if you have a challenging, if you have challenging relationships in your family, if you are spending time with a lot of people that you have to spend time with but don't necessarily want to spend time with, can you limit it and not make it about you?
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Nicole Laino: You know, there's nothing wrong with you, it's really just your energy is saying that they're not a match for yours, that when you sample all of the energy in that room, your body goes no, yuck, don't like it.
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Nicole Laino: These aren't the people that are going to make me my highest and best self and put me on my path to all the things I want in life.
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Nicole Laino: These are the people that do exactly the opposite.
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Nicole Laino: Just don't take it personally.
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Nicole Laino: Take time to yourself.
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Nicole Laino: Don't feel like you need to stay longer than you need to.
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Nicole Laino: But you're also.
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Nicole Laino: You're going to be able to tell, like, is this the greatest party?
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Nicole Laino: Like, can you play a game where you're just sort of like, grading the party on how it feels to you?
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Nicole Laino: Because what you're really gauging is, like, if you give the party, on a scale of one to a hundred, you give the party a ninety.
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Nicole Laino: It's not because of necessarily what you thought of the party.
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Nicole Laino: That's part of it.
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Nicole Laino: It's you've sampled the energy of everybody here and they're all feeling 90.
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Nicole Laino: They're all having a great time, they're all enjoying themselves, they are all in good energy.
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Nicole Laino: And you're like, this is a good vibe.
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Nicole Laino: So that's a game you can play with yourself.
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Nicole Laino: If you're having trouble or something.
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Nicole Laino: You can be like, what would I grade this part if I were to put it on there?
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Nicole Laino: Because you are like thermometer on the wall telling us what temperature it is inside.
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Nicole Laino: Even though we're all in the room, but we can't feel it like you do.
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Nicole Laino: That's a game you could play with yourself to sort of occupy it, make it fun.
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Nicole Laino: If it isn't fun already, it could still be fun, even if it is fun.
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Nicole Laino: All right, so that's our reflectors.
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Nicole Laino: The message for generators for the holidays is you're probably gonna be kind of the life of the party, or you have the potential to be if you like to party.
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Nicole Laino: Remember, this is all based on.
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Nicole Laino: Everything in our design is always based on, like, our own personal reaction to it and what we feel about it.
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Nicole Laino: But for generators, go where your sacral takes you.
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Nicole Laino: The conversations you want to be a part of really float through the party.
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Nicole Laino: I think generators generally usually have a pretty decent time at parties because if you're having fun, the people around you are usually having fun.
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Nicole Laino: It's contagious, the energy.
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Nicole Laino: Remember that.
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Nicole Laino: Remember that you help to set the tone.
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Nicole Laino: If you're having fun, other people are going to have fun.
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Nicole Laino: Get involved, help.
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Nicole Laino: You might be the person who's, like, pulling out a game and getting things going.
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Nicole Laino: Put your energy to good use, not from a mental place.
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Nicole Laino: Oh, what can I do to help?
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Nicole Laino: Really?
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Nicole Laino: Just, like, what do I want to do?
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Nicole Laino: The More you are in that energy of, ooh, this feels good.
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Nicole Laino: Ooh, this is fun.
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Nicole Laino: The more you're adding that to the energetic frequency of the group.
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Nicole Laino: Good things happen when generators have fun.
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Nicole Laino: Other people have fun when generators have fun.
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Nicole Laino: So can you not with pressure to have fun and be the life of the party, but you are the life of the party because you are the life force of the party.
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Nicole Laino: If you're having a crummy time, you're probably going to bring that vibe in there.
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Nicole Laino: So how can you have a good time?
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Nicole Laino: Find something you enjoy doing, Put your energy to good use.
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Nicole Laino: Do you want to help people in the kitchen?
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Nicole Laino: Go help people in the kitchen.
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Nicole Laino: Do you want to play a game?
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Nicole Laino: Go play a game.
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Nicole Laino: Do you want to watch a movie?
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Nicole Laino: Watch a movie, Whatever it is, feel empowered to do that.
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Nicole Laino: Not just for yourself, but your energy is contagious.
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Nicole Laino: You do it for you, but you do it for others.
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Nicole Laino: Right?
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Nicole Laino: Have fun.
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Nicole Laino: And now lastly, our manifesting generators.
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Nicole Laino: Manifesting generators.
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Nicole Laino: Your holiday message for you is very similar to the generator message, but it's a little bit of the manifester as well.
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Nicole Laino: Because the difference between us and generators is that it's not necessarily being around a lot of people that's going to be the thing that gets us going.
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Nicole Laino: Generators.
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Nicole Laino: It's like there's such a collaborative energy to the generator aura.
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Nicole Laino: There is such a the response mechanism, having conversations, doing things like that's the generator vibe.
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Nicole Laino: So they tend to do really well balanced bouncing around.
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Nicole Laino: We can as well.
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Nicole Laino: Manifesting generators can do really well at parties, bouncing around, doing all the things.
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Nicole Laino: However, there is a little bit of that manifester thing that when we're done, we're kind of done.
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Nicole Laino: If we don't want to do it, we're really not going to want to do it.
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Nicole Laino: Generators, I never mean to make these things sound mean, but they're a bit more good natured than the manifesting generators.
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Nicole Laino: We're a bit more forceful, we want our way, we are a bit denser in that respect.
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Nicole Laino: So much like the manifester, is there something that you can do that feels like yours?
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Nicole Laino: You're going to have your conversations, you're going to bounce around, but eventually if you hit a wall where you're doing something you don't want to do, you're probably going to get frustrated pretty quickly.
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Nicole Laino: So don't take on anything out of obligation.
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Nicole Laino: Don't do something you don't want to do.
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Nicole Laino: And I know that there are tensions can be high with all the things that are happening right now.
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Nicole Laino: There Might be a little bit of biting your tongue going on.
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Nicole Laino: And if you're biting your tongue, then go do something else.
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Nicole Laino: Shift your energy to something that feels good.
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Nicole Laino: Do what lights you up.
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Nicole Laino: Because it is also contagious.
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Nicole Laino: It's different than the generator aura, but it is contagious that when you're on people vibe with it, people have fun with it.
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Nicole Laino: So you might find that you are finding your people and you kind of talk to them the whole night, that you're kind of like, you're not bouncing around quite as much.
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Nicole Laino: You say hi to everybody, but you might have like your people that you're like having the conversation that you want to have.
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Nicole Laino: And you could have it for the majority of the night.
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Nicole Laino: And then that might be a group of people that are like minded, where you feel like your voice is heard, you're having fun, and then that's it.
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Nicole Laino: Give yourself permission to do what feels good.
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Nicole Laino: I know that sounds so simple, but I think part of the reason that we can find holidays stressful is that we feel like we're doing things that we don't want to do.
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Nicole Laino: We're forced and we have to get out of that energy because manifesting generators, more so than generators, are going to be resistant to being forced to do things that can quickly escalate frustrated into full out pissed off.
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Nicole Laino: And then when we get pissed off, we can have that manifester kind of vibe of like nobody wants to be around us when we're angry.
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Nicole Laino: It's not comfortable for others, it's not nice and people feel it.
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Nicole Laino: A generator who's frustrated doesn't feel personal to other people.
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Nicole Laino: Usually a manifesting generator who's pissed off, it can feel pretty personal.
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Nicole Laino: We can be kind of bitchy.
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Nicole Laino: And same thing with manifesters.
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Nicole Laino: It's uncomfortable for other people.
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Nicole Laino: And the way that people interpret it is, ooh, she's like, not.
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Nicole Laino: So I don't know what's up with her.
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Nicole Laino: I don't know what's going on there.
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Nicole Laino: Whereas, like a generator just seems to be like frustrated.
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Nicole Laino: More people will be open to thinking that there's something that they could help with that person than thinking, ooh, I'm just going to stay away from that.
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Nicole Laino: It doesn't repel.
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Nicole Laino: The repelling aura is the manifester.
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Nicole Laino: And a little bit with the manifesting generator, when we get into that anger, you can feel the repelling, you can feel the denseness.
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Nicole Laino: So people can take it personally and be really put off by it.
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Nicole Laino: So I hope you guys liked this.
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Nicole Laino: I hope you like the messages for each of the types.
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Nicole Laino: I hope that you can see it in your family members.
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Nicole Laino: We have greater compassion for who everybody is this holiday season.
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Nicole Laino: Listen to it again before the December holidays come around and you have any big gatherings.
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Nicole Laino: Of course, it doesn't have to be the holidays.
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Nicole Laino: It can be anytime.
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Nicole Laino: You are gathering with a lot of people and you feel like maybe choice will be taken away.
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Nicole Laino: What we've done here is, I hope, helped you make realize what choices you can make that can make all of this smoother, easier and more enjoyable for you and for everybody else.
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Nicole Laino: The more we can bring positive energy to all of these things without forcing ourselves to be in positive energy, the better these gatherings and interactions with everybody can be.
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