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- 0:00Speaker 1: Welcome to Tony Jason Sam's Best show Moments podcast, The
- 0:05Speaker 1: very Best of Coasts Feel Good Breakfast this week.
- 0:08Speaker 2: Variety is the spice of life.
- 0:09Speaker 3: And if you're lucky enough to have a few friends,
- 0:13Speaker 3: you'll know that they're all very different and they all
- 0:15Speaker 3: give you different things. And it's not a cool thing
- 0:18Speaker 3: to rank your friendships, but the reality is you are
- 0:22Speaker 3: closest to some people than you are others.
- 0:24Speaker 2: Right, that's my friends are.
- 0:29Speaker 4: That's true.
- 0:30Speaker 5: You've got really close friends, you got associates, you got acquaintances.
- 0:34Speaker 4: It's thin to say it, but there's a hierarchy.
- 0:35Speaker 3: Well, well, you just have different levels of friendship, right,
- 0:38Speaker 3: And that doesn't mean that one of your acquaintances or
- 0:42Speaker 3: your non besties can't be a really important person in
- 0:45Speaker 3: your life. Absolutely, And sometimes those friends actually surprise you
- 0:48Speaker 3: and can be there for you when you really need them.
- 0:50Speaker 2: And I love that.
- 0:51Speaker 3: So you've got to keep open to that. But have
- 0:53Speaker 3: you ever heard the term of a medium friend? But
- 0:56Speaker 3: a psychic friend, not a friend that happens to be
- 0:58Speaker 3: of average height, size, but.
- 1:01Speaker 2: A medium friend is this? So the medium friend makes
- 1:04Speaker 2: you laugh.
- 1:04Speaker 3: They bring you news, they offer insights or expertise, but
- 1:08Speaker 3: unlike your closest friends, the medium friends test the limits
- 1:11Speaker 3: of your patients, right, so that there is a certain
- 1:15Speaker 3: type of friend that you actually want them in your life.
- 1:18Speaker 3: You love what they bring, sure, but they also annoy
- 1:21Speaker 3: the hell out of you at times. Okay, And look,
- 1:23Speaker 3: sometimes that can be your closest friends too, let's be honest.
- 1:26Speaker 3: And it can certainly be your acquaintances, and it can
- 1:28Speaker 3: actually also bring It can also be people that aren't
- 1:30Speaker 3: your friends. They just annoy you, but they cannot also
- 1:33Speaker 3: be useful. And so what I've read this article in
- 1:36Speaker 3: the New York Times and I thought it was really good,
- 1:38Speaker 3: and because the vexing problem of how to deal with
- 1:41Speaker 3: the medium friends. You know, the friends that you actually
- 1:43Speaker 3: you like them. You really like them because you know
- 1:45Speaker 3: they're a good person and they can be really fun
- 1:48Speaker 3: and you have a good time with them, but they
- 1:50Speaker 3: also irk you.
- 1:51Speaker 2: Something chronic.
- 1:52Speaker 5: It's that friends you have to apologize for in advance, like, oh,
- 1:54Speaker 5: she's a really nice one.
- 1:55Speaker 4: You get to know you ye, that friend.
- 1:57Speaker 3: Ay, And sometimes that person could be someone that you've
- 1:59Speaker 3: been friends with and you've got such a shared history
- 2:02Speaker 3: that you just you don't even notice they have any
- 2:05Speaker 3: flaws anymore because it's them and you love them for
- 2:07Speaker 3: who they are.
- 2:08Speaker 2: But other people might go, did she just say that?
- 2:10Speaker 2: And you're like, Oh, I don't worry, it's just what
- 2:12Speaker 2: she says all the time you and you're okay with it.
- 2:16Speaker 3: So the answer is you have to acknowledge that that
- 2:20Speaker 3: person this is, according to the article, acknowledge that they
- 2:22Speaker 3: are a medium friend. So acknowledge that sometimes when you
- 2:25Speaker 3: hang out with them, they're going to annoy the hell
- 2:27Speaker 3: out of you. And apparently acknowledging that and labeling them
- 2:30Speaker 3: in your own space and your own head as a
- 2:32Speaker 3: medium friend helps you deal with the situations where they're
- 2:36Speaker 3: inevitably going to annoy you.
- 2:37Speaker 4: So they'll annoy you, but that's okay.
- 2:38Speaker 2: That's okay if you're expecting it, is what I'm saying.
- 2:42Speaker 3: But you obviously still like them and love them enough
- 2:45Speaker 3: that you want to stay friends with them, so just
- 2:47Speaker 3: let that side of it roll over you.
- 2:49Speaker 2: So maybe that's the exercise you all need to go through.
- 2:52Speaker 3: Do you have a medium friend that you still won
- 2:53Speaker 3: in your life because they're so awesome in many ways,
- 2:56Speaker 3: you know they're going to irk you, but don't let
- 2:58Speaker 3: it ruin your friendship right right, names down in a secure,
- 3:01Speaker 3: lockable notebook and.
- 3:03Speaker 2: Never tell, never tell anyone.
- 3:05Speaker 5: So this is this woman and she wanted to get married,
- 3:07Speaker 5: and so her boyfriend finally proposed to her.
- 3:09Speaker 4: She goes, yeah, my dreams about to come true. Let's
- 3:11Speaker 4: do this.
- 3:12Speaker 5: And so what's happened is the winning Winterhead. But the
- 3:15Speaker 5: very next day she has ended her marriage. She wants
- 3:17Speaker 5: to get it an nulled.
- 3:18Speaker 4: So for it.
- 3:18Speaker 2: Can you just tell me how long do we know?
- 3:20Speaker 2: How long they've been together?
- 3:21Speaker 4: Yeah, they've been.
- 3:21Speaker 5: Together for a few years. Yeah, so actually he proposed
- 3:23Speaker 5: back in twenty twenty. There's been a long engagement and
- 3:26Speaker 5: so that's what she says. I never really cared too
- 3:27Speaker 5: much about it. We will talk on about half the
- 3:29Speaker 5: responsibility for organizing the winning. So so far he's taking
- 3:32Speaker 5: on half the responsibility for the winning. A lot of
- 3:34Speaker 5: grooms don't do that.
- 3:36Speaker 4: So far.
- 3:36Speaker 5: I like the guy, right, so pretty Reasonableut the compromise
- 3:39Speaker 5: when he really wanted something, he compromised and I compromised.
- 3:41Speaker 5: It was so so far, the partnership's working. They've been
- 3:44Speaker 5: together a while. But a take that's cool, Okay. The
- 3:48Speaker 5: next day of the relationship was over because the one
- 3:50Speaker 5: thing she did not want, she did not want. You
- 3:53Speaker 5: know how everyone does it down again, a little cute
- 3:55Speaker 5: to you to cut the cake, and like they're pushing
- 3:57Speaker 5: each other's face, like, oh, you know, you go to
- 3:59Speaker 5: white the cake.
- 3:59Speaker 4: And he pushes it face.
- 4:00Speaker 3: Yeah. Usually that's just like a little bit just above
- 4:03Speaker 3: the last half of the photo.
- 4:06Speaker 5: Smithe devising on the nose, and that about it, right,
- 4:07Speaker 5: So she'd I don't want that.
- 4:08Speaker 4: Please just don't put any cake on my face. I
- 4:10Speaker 4: don't wantny cake on my face.
- 4:11Speaker 3: I think it usually started with the groom or the
- 4:14Speaker 3: bride actually feeding a piece of cake to them right hand.
- 4:16Speaker 2: Yeah, the first bite, that's it.
- 4:18Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 4:18Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 4:19Speaker 5: So anyway, not only did he not listen to her,
- 4:21Speaker 5: what he's gone and done is he grabbed it by
- 4:23Speaker 5: the back of the head and smashed her face into
- 4:25Speaker 5: the cake in front of everyone. And everyone was like, oh,
- 4:29Speaker 5: we don't even laugh or clapp or do what.
- 4:31Speaker 6: You know.
- 4:31Speaker 5: She stood up, wiped the thing off, and he was
- 4:33Speaker 5: obviously not just the spur of the moment, because what
- 4:35Speaker 5: he did is he organized cupcakes as the backup cake,
- 4:39Speaker 5: so he ruined the first cake with her face and
- 4:41Speaker 5: then brought.
- 4:41Speaker 4: Out the cupcakes. Everybody, here, you go, here.
- 4:42Speaker 3: You go.
- 4:43Speaker 2: I have so many emotions about this.
- 4:45Speaker 3: First of all, don't ruin my makeup on my big
- 4:47Speaker 3: wedding day, she said. Secondly, you've ruined the cake that
- 4:51Speaker 3: probably cost half a mortgage, so good one, buddy. Thirdly,
- 4:55Speaker 3: she specifically asked for you not to do it.
- 4:58Speaker 5: But that's where I have my problem. She asked, and
- 5:00Speaker 5: he still did it. So the next day she goes,
- 5:01Speaker 5: I can't.
- 5:01Speaker 3: Be with this guy, But do I think it's worth
- 5:04Speaker 3: divorcing someone over because I don't think this guy.
- 5:07Speaker 2: I don't think this is a one off of this guy.
- 5:09Speaker 3: I think this guy is a prankster, and I think
- 5:11Speaker 3: she knew that he was like that, at least not
- 5:12Speaker 3: pretend he's just randomly gone rogue, Because I can tell
- 5:15Speaker 3: you categorically right now, Jason Reeves, you would never have
- 5:18Speaker 3: done that to your bride on the wedding date. My
- 5:20Speaker 3: husband would never have done that to me. You can't
- 5:23Speaker 3: usually know the type of person they are. At least
- 5:25Speaker 3: he's gone fully rogue, which I doubt it. I suspect
- 5:28Speaker 3: she should have ended this long before the wedding. Update
- 5:31Speaker 3: is what I'm saying I think he was bad news.
- 5:33Speaker 3: Why do it long before he slammed her face into
- 5:36Speaker 3: a cape?
- 5:38Speaker 4: I think she's done the right thing.
- 5:39Speaker 5: People are now saying she's ever reacted, though, so she's
- 5:41Speaker 5: copying a bit of feedback from this bit of backlash.
- 5:43Speaker 4: Skin. Come on, it's a bit of a joke. No
- 5:45Speaker 4: one got hurt.
- 5:45Speaker 3: What if it's the straw that broke the camel's back?
- 5:47Speaker 3: What if he was on his last like, I'll give
- 5:49Speaker 3: him one more shots.
- 5:50Speaker 5: I just think it's the straw because she asked them specifically.
- 5:53Speaker 5: She made it clear I don't want this to happen. Please,
- 5:55Speaker 5: don't let it happen. And he didn't just push it
- 5:57Speaker 5: in her face. He pushed her face into the cave.
- 5:59Speaker 3: But what if he was an amazing What if he
- 6:01Speaker 3: was Jason Reeves up until that point?
- 6:04Speaker 6: Nope?
- 6:04Speaker 2: And Jason Reeves has had a brain explosion. No, you're
- 6:07Speaker 2: not divorcing him?
- 6:08Speaker 3: Are yet?
- 6:08Speaker 2: He doesn't giving him another job.
- 6:09Speaker 4: Jason Reave doesn't get another shot with that in my
- 6:12Speaker 4: parma for him? Know whose side are you on? What
- 6:14Speaker 4: do you reckon? Has she ever reacted or is this
- 6:16Speaker 4: fair enough?
- 6:16Speaker 5: I eight hundred double O forecast I flick it six
- 6:18Speaker 5: to two six nine nine. This, by the way, is
- 6:20Speaker 5: going right through the media in Australia. A lot of
- 6:22Speaker 5: people taking sides of this right now. This is the
- 6:25Speaker 5: husband and bride we're talking about it. If you just
- 6:26Speaker 5: turned your radio on. A couple of minutes ago, we
- 6:28Speaker 5: talked about this bride who leading up to the wedding
- 6:31Speaker 5: her fiance, her groom to be said I'll take care
- 6:33Speaker 5: of half the wedding. She's like, what an amazing man. Sure,
- 6:35Speaker 5: so they shared the operational duties, right. But she had
- 6:38Speaker 5: one request on the day, please don't push any cake
- 6:41Speaker 5: into my face. It's kind of been there, done that.
- 6:42Speaker 5: I don't want any cake on my face on the
- 6:44Speaker 5: big day. So you think, aol, it's the one wish,
- 6:47Speaker 5: just do that as he grabbed the back of her
- 6:49Speaker 5: head and pushed her into the cake like that.
- 6:51Speaker 2: I just feel like this guy.
- 6:52Speaker 3: The fact that she even had to say that to
- 6:55Speaker 3: her groom, I mean, I just know that my husband
- 6:57Speaker 3: would never have done that because he's not a twit.
- 7:00Speaker 2: I just feel like this guy. She should have ditched
- 7:03Speaker 2: long before the big dam.
- 7:05Speaker 3: Look, I'm glad she has now, but I feel like
- 7:08Speaker 3: the story is kind of slightly skewed because everyone's going,
- 7:11Speaker 3: oh my gosh, she got rid of him just for that.
- 7:13Speaker 3: I don't think so. I think this was the last
- 7:16Speaker 3: and a long line of dumb behavior from this guy.
- 7:19Speaker 5: Yeah, so, she said, at that moment, at that very moment,
- 7:21Speaker 5: she knew she couldn't spend the rest of her life
- 7:23Speaker 5: with this man.
- 7:24Speaker 4: But she went through with the ceremony. She went through
- 7:26Speaker 4: the rest of the night. You know, the reception.
- 7:27Speaker 5: You were on, chinking the glasses, doing speeches and things.
- 7:29Speaker 5: But the next morning she woke up sick and she goes,
- 7:30Speaker 5: you know what, No, this is over. I can't do this.
- 7:32Speaker 4: So the very next day she tried to get the wedding.
- 7:35Speaker 2: And old, well will he ruined her big day, didn't he?
- 7:37Speaker 4: I agree not to mention her makeup and there's probably
- 7:41Speaker 4: cake on the dress.
- 7:43Speaker 2: Can you hear?
- 7:44Speaker 4: How could you?
- 7:45Speaker 6: So?
- 7:45Speaker 5: I'm with you, I'm with the bride on this, Corey.
- 7:47Speaker 5: What do your take? What's your take?
- 7:50Speaker 7: I think in any relationship demands looking reason, respect on
- 7:54Speaker 7: both sides, And I mean to divorce over a cake,
- 7:59Speaker 7: but then for her not to respect her wishes even
- 8:03Speaker 7: when she used the word please, you know, it's at
- 8:07Speaker 7: the start of the relationship, there's alarm bells already and
- 8:09Speaker 7: that they can't look through that. Then obviously it's a
- 8:12Speaker 7: good decision, probably not to me, for both of them.
- 8:14Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree, he totally didn't respect it. He should
- 8:17Speaker 3: have known that this was not going to go well
- 8:19Speaker 3: for him, and it's like he purposely sabotaged.
- 8:22Speaker 5: Well, the thing with me is so premeditated. He had
- 8:24Speaker 5: the backup cupcakes that she didn't know about, do you.
- 8:26Speaker 4: Know what I mean?
- 8:27Speaker 2: He's just like, get rid of them.
- 8:29Speaker 3: She deserves better, Like, why are these women sticking with
- 8:32Speaker 3: these douches?
- 8:33Speaker 4: She's not What are your thoughts?
- 8:39Speaker 8: Basically, my retired wedding photographers, like forty years of weddings
- 8:43Speaker 8: in Australia around the Pacific New Zealand.
- 8:46Speaker 4: You'd have seen this.
- 8:48Speaker 7: I've seen some pretty crazy stuff.
- 8:50Speaker 8: The fact that, as Tony said, a bit of a
- 8:53Speaker 8: douche was premeditated. But I think for listeners here, I've
- 9:00Speaker 8: seen alcohol do some crazy crazy you from brid End groom,
- 9:08Speaker 8: So yeah, I think one of the most disturbing things
- 9:13Speaker 8: is when you do a wedding and the groom's actually
- 9:15Speaker 8: got a roving.
- 9:16Speaker 6: Eye and then pretty much.
- 9:19Speaker 8: We're right in your assumption that they're no longer together.
- 9:23Speaker 8: So that's probably for me, probably a lot worse than
- 9:28Speaker 8: our face plant.
- 9:28Speaker 3: But yeah, there we go, teamank you writing this down
- 9:34Speaker 3: for the new TV and Z series Confessions of a
- 9:37Speaker 3: Wedding Photographer, I'd watch, watch, watch.
- 9:40Speaker 2: How sad? Is that?
- 9:41Speaker 3: Like hold your alcohol in a roving iron your weddings?
- 9:44Speaker 4: Disgusting?
- 9:45Speaker 3: Oh my, just I just don't know how these people
- 9:48Speaker 3: don't understand that that's what they were like before the
- 9:50Speaker 3: wedding and then they're still going.
- 9:52Speaker 2: Through with it.
- 9:52Speaker 4: The photographers. Is that everyone's.
- 9:54Speaker 3: Everyone said, but you know what it's like, love can
- 9:57Speaker 3: be blind sometimes that's what you.
- 9:59Speaker 2: Get told through.
- 10:00Speaker 4: One more Julie, what are your thoughts on this whole thing?
- 10:03Speaker 2: Yeah, I kind of agree.
- 10:05Speaker 7: I think there was probably red flags before the wedding,
- 10:08Speaker 7: but you get.
- 10:09Speaker 2: Caught up in the moment and you think, you know,
- 10:12Speaker 2: you always see the better in the honeymoon phase. And yeah,
- 10:17Speaker 2: I totally agree with her this, it's the trust thing.
- 10:20Speaker 3: She specifically asked him.
- 10:21Speaker 2: If she hadn't asked him, well, then yeah, but she
- 10:24Speaker 2: specifically said, no.
- 10:26Speaker 3: Do you think do you think do you think that
- 10:29Speaker 3: you know he had too much to drink is an
- 10:31Speaker 3: acceptable excuse?
- 10:35Speaker 2: Well, it depends how far through Yeah no, yeah.
- 10:37Speaker 5: No, I want you because he had the backup cupcakes
- 10:39Speaker 5: was he wasn't drunk. When you organize this and every
- 10:43Speaker 5: single of about our two texts, every other text has
- 10:46Speaker 5: come from on two sixth nine nine seen the same thing,
- 10:48Speaker 5: she did the right thing to run yep.
- 10:50Speaker 4: Good.
- 10:50Speaker 3: Can we just say take face is not a cool
- 10:53Speaker 3: thing at a wedding.
- 10:54Speaker 2: I don't even think i'd want my husband to have
- 10:56Speaker 2: done it at my fortieth day.
- 10:58Speaker 4: You've been told Matte.
- 11:01Speaker 1: Coasts, Feel Good Breakfast, Best Show Moments podcast This week's
- 11:06Speaker 1: very best of Tony's Street, Jays Reeves and Sam Wallace.
- 11:09Speaker 4: If you're having breakfast right about now, what are yourmly
- 11:11Speaker 4: putting your bowl? Do you have for a bit of week.
- 11:12Speaker 5: Biks but a corn flakes, put of rice, bubbles, maybe
- 11:14Speaker 5: some toast, maybe some muffins with peanut.
- 11:16Speaker 4: Butter on it.
- 11:17Speaker 3: That's what I have, Jason, for my benefit, I'll often
- 11:20Speaker 3: have a muffin split with some Actually I'm having coconut
- 11:23Speaker 3: slash banana peanut butter at the moment, which sounds a
- 11:26Speaker 3: bit gross, but don't worry. I can't taste it because
- 11:28Speaker 3: I've got no sense of smell. I've actually brought.
- 11:30Speaker 2: An Amanda NDA have today to up my vitamin C.
- 11:33Speaker 4: Go you nice.
- 11:34Speaker 3: I don't think we have enough fruit now, diets, I think,
- 11:37Speaker 3: well I don't, do you I try? I have.
- 11:39Speaker 4: I've had a banana already this morning, So now you have.
- 11:41Speaker 2: So you're not fasting these.
- 11:42Speaker 4: Days now, I'm trying, not trying to get the metabolism going.
- 11:44Speaker 2: That's a good idea. I was worried about you not
- 11:46Speaker 2: eating it.
- 11:47Speaker 4: Slippertty eggs.
- 11:48Speaker 5: Yeah, so No, there's one hundred year old woman still
- 11:51Speaker 5: working six days a week, and she's revealed the foods
- 11:53Speaker 5: that she relies on to maintain her health and her youth.
- 11:56Speaker 5: The habit she's cut out is alcohol. She doesn't do
- 11:58Speaker 5: booze anymore. Okay, she's catching not booze on the head.
- 12:01Speaker 3: I reckon if I was one hundred and hold, she's
- 12:04Speaker 3: beg one hundred one hundred. I reckon, I'd be downing
- 12:06Speaker 3: the gens a if.
- 12:07Speaker 4: I'm working six days a week in the furniture store.
- 12:09Speaker 3: Definitely, the fact that she's doing that she must be Wow,
- 12:13Speaker 3: she must have a good body.
- 12:14Speaker 2: Not be sore, or.
- 12:16Speaker 5: That's no eggs and pains, perhaps no creeks under By
- 12:18Speaker 5: the way, if you're doing drive toly Go, you three days,
- 12:19Speaker 5: then keep it up.
- 12:20Speaker 4: Well done.
- 12:20Speaker 5: But this is a woman called Marion, and she's living proof.
- 12:23Speaker 5: You really are as old as you feel. She's now saying,
- 12:25Speaker 5: I feel amazing, and these are the secrets to my lifestyle. Okay,
- 12:28Speaker 5: so even now and again she shouts herself a little
- 12:30Speaker 5: bit of dark chocolate as her treat.
- 12:32Speaker 3: Only dark chocolate. She's one of those people, just have
- 12:35Speaker 3: the milk.
- 12:36Speaker 5: But there are three foods she swears by for her
- 12:39Speaker 5: active life.
- 12:40Speaker 4: Cucumbers, ah. Number three, she loves cumbers.
- 12:43Speaker 2: I didn't think they had that much nutritional value.
- 12:45Speaker 4: I thought that pretty much water.
- 12:46Speaker 2: I have cucumber a lot, a little slice, and a
- 12:49Speaker 2: certain drink.
- 12:51Speaker 4: You're almost like Marion. Number two she loves soauer kraut.
- 12:54Speaker 4: She just puts sour crowd.
- 12:55Speaker 3: On everything fermented food. Yeah, but sher gut health will
- 12:59Speaker 3: be good.
- 13:00Speaker 4: But what's the number one thing she swears by? Do
- 13:02Speaker 4: you think you numbers?
- 13:03Speaker 2: Sour crouch? I look, it's not inspiring me at the moment.
- 13:06Speaker 4: No.
- 13:07Speaker 2: I hope it's some form of carbohydrate.
- 13:09Speaker 4: No, it's not.
- 13:10Speaker 2: Of course it's not, because she's done so well.
- 13:13Speaker 4: So what do you think it is? It's this. It's
- 13:15Speaker 4: a one hundred year old woman.
- 13:16Speaker 5: She's working six days a week and she swears by cucumbers,
- 13:18Speaker 5: sour kraut, and number one. What is the number one
- 13:20Speaker 5: food on her list she eats is often? She again,
- 13:23Speaker 5: maybe twice a day. So what do you think it is?
- 13:26Speaker 4: Have a think? It's it's something you and I have
- 13:27Speaker 4: access to all over the place.
- 13:29Speaker 2: It's really access to Do we eat it?
- 13:31Speaker 6: Though?
- 13:32Speaker 4: Yeah? You you probably more than me. Oh okay, what
- 13:35Speaker 4: do you reckon? I eight hundred double O four coast
- 13:37Speaker 4: or flick?
- 13:37Speaker 5: It takes to two six nine one if anyone gets
- 13:38Speaker 5: us right before half past the number one thing this
- 13:41Speaker 5: woman swears by at the age of one hundred. This
- 13:43Speaker 5: is a woman who names Marian, and she's in New
- 13:45Speaker 5: Jersey and she works a staggery staggering fifty hour week
- 13:49Speaker 5: at the age.
- 13:49Speaker 4: Of one hundred.
- 13:50Speaker 2: She's not even doing part time house. Different story for it.
- 13:53Speaker 2: I hope she flogs some couches off at the furniture store.
- 13:56Speaker 5: I just hope she's not building the furniture of this age.
- 13:59Speaker 5: She's behind the counter.
- 14:00Speaker 2: I mean, I trust Mary. And if I was going
- 14:01Speaker 2: to buy an arm chair, you.
- 14:03Speaker 4: Want to get to pull out sofa Mary, and you woman.
- 14:05Speaker 2: She's been there, done that.
- 14:07Speaker 5: So she works six days a week and she's at
- 14:10Speaker 5: the spinach store, and she swears by three types of food.
- 14:12Speaker 5: She eats this every day, cucumbers, sour kraut, and something
- 14:15Speaker 5: else you eat every.
- 14:16Speaker 4: Single day for her longevity. What do you think it is, Colin.
- 14:20Speaker 6: It's definitely beetret berea. It's been classed by top down
- 14:24Speaker 6: you tristlus. It's a super food.
- 14:28Speaker 4: Yeah, it's really good for the blood.
- 14:29Speaker 5: As it's not beetroot, Colin.
- 14:34Speaker 3: I'm actually I'm actually quite glad it's not Colin, because
- 14:37Speaker 3: beetroop gives me a shivery reaction like when I I
- 14:41Speaker 3: don't know, it's like I'm kind of allergic.
- 14:43Speaker 2: I get that, the shutters when I try and eat it.
- 14:46Speaker 4: I don't get I've never been a huge fan of
- 14:47Speaker 4: beetroot anyway.
- 14:48Speaker 5: But people who put beetroot in a burger and everything,
- 14:50Speaker 5: and it bleeds through the whole burger.
- 14:51Speaker 4: It's all pink and yucky.
- 14:52Speaker 6: Ah nah.
- 14:53Speaker 2: But some people just they love beatrip producer. Rosie's not
- 14:57Speaker 2: in her head. She's a beetroock gowl.
- 14:59Speaker 4: Not for me. Then, all right, Dale, what do you
- 15:00Speaker 4: think it is that the Marior eats every single days?
- 15:03Speaker 4: The key to long life. I've had the avocados. You know,
- 15:08Speaker 4: avocado's pretty good to and a lot of people have
- 15:09Speaker 4: that on toast and I get it.
- 15:10Speaker 5: I understand it. And you've put it in a smoothie
- 15:12Speaker 5: makes it It's just smooth.
- 15:13Speaker 4: It's not there.
- 15:15Speaker 3: Can we can we just take a moment for how
- 15:17Speaker 3: great avocado is though.
- 15:18Speaker 2: Amy, What a beautiful food it is.
- 15:20Speaker 3: When you get a beautiful ripe avocado, there's nothing better
- 15:23Speaker 3: to add into a salad to make it worthy.
- 15:25Speaker 5: And that's the key, a Dale, give him the decent
- 15:27Speaker 5: one because I don't know how many times I've been
- 15:28Speaker 5: at the supermarket. You're not supposed touch the avocados, but
- 15:30Speaker 5: I'll give them a little squeeze because I don't I
- 15:32Speaker 5: don't trust.
- 15:33Speaker 4: You have to.
- 15:34Speaker 3: Ah, when you get it and it's brown in the middle,
- 15:37Speaker 3: and you've paid like fifteen dollars for one avocado.
- 15:41Speaker 4: It won't even make guacamoli out of this. All right, Daily,
- 15:44Speaker 4: sitting down, this is what she eats every single day?
- 15:46Speaker 2: Okay, is it salmon? Because someone has ticked salmon.
- 15:48Speaker 5: It's a great guest. So it's not salmon, okay, it's tomatoes. Oh,
- 15:53Speaker 5: tomatoes every single day?
- 15:54Speaker 2: So do you know what? This is controversial? Do you
- 15:56Speaker 2: know why?
- 15:57Speaker 3: Because tomatoes is classified an inflammatory slash acidic food.
- 16:02Speaker 2: And I know that because I had to go on
- 16:04Speaker 2: the Forommat diet once and don't even ask me what
- 16:07Speaker 2: that is. It's just one of those weird things.
- 16:08Speaker 3: When you have an autoimmune disease, they think you think
- 16:11Speaker 3: you're allergic to everything, and tomatoes can be quite reactionary
- 16:14Speaker 3: with some people.
- 16:15Speaker 4: Is that right?
- 16:16Speaker 2: So the fact that that's good I like that because
- 16:18Speaker 2: I'm a big tomato fan.
- 16:19Speaker 5: So I read this last night, right, and I put
- 16:21Speaker 5: it to the test with our kids, and I said,
- 16:23Speaker 5: do you not she eats every single day?
- 16:25Speaker 4: I don't know.
- 16:25Speaker 5: It's okay, it's a fruit, so it's a veggie, so
- 16:27Speaker 5: I don't know, and it's tomatoes And eight year old said, Dad,
- 16:30Speaker 5: that's not a.
- 16:31Speaker 4: That's a fruit, not a veggie.
- 16:32Speaker 2: Jase, you should know that by now.
- 16:33Speaker 3: I should should know that by now. But I'm glad
- 16:36Speaker 3: tomatoes for the wind. Tomatoes for the word tomatoes with everything.
- 16:39Speaker 4: No, I have a tomato sauce. But that's really about
- 16:40Speaker 4: it is.
- 16:41Speaker 3: That it's get to the break that's up there.
- 16:45Speaker 4: I have a child. I get it.
- 16:46Speaker 3: I want you to tell me if you have ever
- 16:48Speaker 3: had an incident like this where you have suddenly just
- 16:51Speaker 3: decided that you can simply cannot live in your house
- 16:55Speaker 3: anymore unless you soort some things out. Sometimes it starts
- 16:59Speaker 3: for me and and I go, there's a mark on
- 17:02Speaker 3: the fridge, and then I look at the floor and go,
- 17:05Speaker 3: this will not do. And I get the mop out
- 17:07Speaker 3: and I scrub that floor within an inch of its life.
- 17:10Speaker 3: And then I look over and I haven't dusted the mantlepiece.
- 17:13Speaker 3: And then there's these old magazines everywhere and else I
- 17:16Speaker 3: have to get them. And even if I'm tired, and
- 17:18Speaker 3: it's like the stupidest time to be doing it. It
- 17:20Speaker 3: might be five o'clock at a Friday, and my husband
- 17:22Speaker 3: looks at me like, you have literally lost your mind.
- 17:24Speaker 3: I don't know what he's thinking. He's thinking she's got perimetopause.
- 17:28Speaker 3: And I know that he's thinking that, and that makes
- 17:30Speaker 3: me want to kill him.
- 17:31Speaker 5: Does he does he do one of two things. Does
- 17:34Speaker 5: he get out of the way or does he try
- 17:36Speaker 5: and help out.
- 17:37Speaker 3: I think in the beginning, remember we've been together for
- 17:40Speaker 3: over twenty years. In the beginning, he might try and
- 17:42Speaker 3: to intervene and say, hey, we don't need to do
- 17:44Speaker 3: it now. He just goes to another room because he
- 17:47Speaker 3: knows I'm just not going to stop until I sort
- 17:49Speaker 3: that out.
- 17:50Speaker 4: So he's seeking refuge.
- 17:51Speaker 3: But I'm here to tell you today that there is
- 17:53Speaker 3: a reason for it. And actually we're not all psychos
- 17:57Speaker 3: if we do that.
- 17:58Speaker 4: Okay, good to know.
- 18:00Speaker 3: So women, it turns out, and this is scientific knowledge.
- 18:03Speaker 2: Now, women are more sensitive to clutter than men.
- 18:06Speaker 3: Cluster increases the stress womone cortisol faster in women compared
- 18:10Speaker 3: to men. So, women, if you're sitting there, going why
- 18:14Speaker 3: does he not care about this mess?
- 18:16Speaker 2: Why is he not perturbed by that stack.
- 18:18Speaker 3: Of magazines that is blurted all over the lounge? That
- 18:22Speaker 3: is why they just don't care as much.
- 18:24Speaker 4: And I just don't get it.
- 18:25Speaker 3: And I think if we I think, if we know that,
- 18:28Speaker 3: it might not make us get as angry. And I think,
- 18:30Speaker 3: as men, if you know that our brains are predisposed
- 18:34Speaker 3: to hating clutter.
- 18:35Speaker 2: Maybe just maybe you might help us out from time
- 18:39Speaker 2: to time, is what I'm saying.
- 18:41Speaker 4: Sounded quite aggressive though.
- 18:42Speaker 3: Also I just want to say, Jason, this is for
- 18:44Speaker 3: the women and you, because we all know that you
- 18:47Speaker 3: hate clutter.
- 18:48Speaker 4: I'm listening to this trying to be quiet with stand clutter.
- 18:51Speaker 3: Jace, you have part of this brain, Okay. I always
- 18:54Speaker 3: thought you had a slightly female brain and that's why
- 18:57Speaker 3: we're friends.
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- 19:11Speaker 5: roof in Dunedham and the man who'll be listening to
- 19:14Speaker 5: while he calls that game the dulcet tones of the
- 19:15Speaker 5: brilliant grant In Is it morning?
- 19:17Speaker 4: There's bow?
- 19:18Speaker 6: I mean, how are you doing all right?
- 19:20Speaker 4: Thank you very much? White Colin. You look new coaches?
- 19:22Speaker 4: What are your thoughts?
- 19:24Speaker 6: Yeah? Look, it's very exciting, isn't it. Really? It's sort
- 19:26Speaker 6: of the unknown the unknown factor. Firstly about the All
- 19:30Speaker 6: Blacks under their new coach and new captain, et cetera,
- 19:32Speaker 6: et cetera, and England also who who come here with
- 19:36Speaker 6: pretty good form. They finished the Six Nations really well.
- 19:38Speaker 6: They beat Japan last a couple of weeks ago, and
- 19:41Speaker 6: they are a genuine opponent, so great excitement around.
- 19:45Speaker 3: Really, yeah, Nisbo, What do you think Scott Robertson is
- 19:48Speaker 3: going to bring? How will we are actually going to
- 19:51Speaker 3: be able to see his impact? Is it going to
- 19:53Speaker 3: be a different style of rugby? Is it going to
- 19:56Speaker 3: be this risk versus reward selections that I keep hearing about.
- 20:00Speaker 3: How are we going to see his impacts?
- 20:03Speaker 6: Well, that's a very good question. I don't know the answer,
- 20:06Speaker 6: and that's one of the intrigues about this game really.
- 20:09Speaker 6: I mean, we can only ready go back on seven
- 20:11Speaker 6: years of domination by the Crusaders. Quite frankly played quite
- 20:15Speaker 6: a conservative brand of rugby, but they took their opportunities
- 20:19Speaker 6: when they needed to, and so I think we'll see
- 20:23Speaker 6: a little bit more of the same. I don't think
- 20:25Speaker 6: we'll find out after one game whether the all Backs
- 20:28Speaker 6: have changed their style dramatically. They'll obviously played their strengths
- 20:33Speaker 6: and their strengths how they have a very good backline
- 20:35Speaker 6: and they want to give as much more as they
- 20:37Speaker 6: can to the likes of sebu Reese and Mark Talia
- 20:41Speaker 6: and these sort of blokes. So look, I don't know
- 20:43Speaker 6: whether we can make it. Judgment aren't the game one,
- 20:45Speaker 6: but it will be intriguing and equally intriguing to see
- 20:48Speaker 6: how England play, because England have always been a very
- 20:51Speaker 6: dodgy sort of a team. Showed some real signs at
- 20:55Speaker 6: the end of the Six Nations they were starting to
- 20:58Speaker 6: develop a style of where they actually gave them a
- 21:01Speaker 6: little bit of air.
- 21:03Speaker 3: Yeah, speaking of the backline of the All Blacks, it's
- 21:05Speaker 3: one thing. You can make a judgment on the fact
- 21:07Speaker 3: that Boden Barrett's being left out of the starting team.
- 21:10Speaker 2: Did that surprise you or expected?
- 21:13Speaker 6: Well, look, it surprised me a wee bit, but logically
- 21:17Speaker 6: sitting on the bench chicking cover fifteen and ten and
- 21:20Speaker 6: I guess wing if he had to because he's that quick.
- 21:23Speaker 6: But a great opportunity, isn't it for Stephen Pereferte, who
- 21:27Speaker 6: was named as a fullback in the squad. You're going
- 21:30Speaker 6: to name a bloke on the squad, then you've got
- 21:31Speaker 6: to play him at some point. Has Barrett sort of
- 21:34Speaker 6: got more of a utility role? I think? So, I
- 21:37Speaker 6: guess on reflection, I'm not all that surprised, Okay.
- 21:41Speaker 5: So it's under the roof, so it should be a
- 21:43Speaker 5: fast game. We know that which is going to suit
- 21:44Speaker 5: us well. That you said it might suit England quite
- 21:46Speaker 5: well as well though, So we're all coming together. We've
- 21:48Speaker 5: got players in our team who just a couple of
- 21:50Speaker 5: weeks ago and we're going here to hear they were
- 21:51Speaker 5: trying to beat each other.
- 21:52Speaker 4: Now they're teammates. Will that plan into England's hand?
- 21:55Speaker 6: Though?
- 21:55Speaker 5: What are you if you had to head to head
- 21:56Speaker 5: to grunners? But what do you think the scoore might
- 21:58Speaker 5: be at the end of all this in the wash up?
- 22:01Speaker 6: It's a good question, isn't it. Look I'm a loyal
- 22:03Speaker 6: All Black supporter obviously, and I couldn't stand the thought
- 22:06Speaker 6: of England beating us. Actually done it twice before. They
- 22:12Speaker 6: did it here in New Zealand and nineteen sixty three
- 22:14Speaker 6: of all times, way back at Eton Park in nineteen
- 22:17Speaker 6: sixty three, and they did it in the build up
- 22:19Speaker 6: to the two thousand and three World Up on a
- 22:21Speaker 6: terrible night at Wellington. But this, as you say, we
- 22:25Speaker 6: know when you go to dned in these days that
- 22:26Speaker 6: you're going to get fine weather for the game, whether
- 22:28Speaker 6: it's shocking outside or not, it's going to be perfect conditioned.
- 22:32Speaker 6: I think the All Blacks win, but only narrowly. I'm
- 22:34Speaker 6: going maybe by eight.
- 22:35Speaker 2: Okay. I love it, Nesbo, thank you so much.
- 22:38Speaker 3: And I'm so excited for this weekend because i feel
- 22:41Speaker 3: like Super Rugby was a raging success for the New
- 22:44Speaker 3: Zealand teams and we've got the new Ball Blacks coach,
- 22:46Speaker 3: some exciting new players and I'm frothings.
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