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Surviving Frank Edoho, The King Of Malice & Running To Chike, The King Of Romance · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to episode of Banti Lorenzi.
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  How are you all doing if you're doing great?
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  For today's episode I want to talk about the love triangle
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  between Frankie Doho, his wife or ex-wife Sandra and our singer
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  Cheeky. At this point, let me start by
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  saying justice for single people because married people are
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  moving mad. Put man and women like this is
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  just getting out of hand. But I was sugar cane, the sugar
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  cane of married women, the bull of the bullets, the very fine
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  boy, the romantic guy. According to comment sections of
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  on Chickie's page, they said that Chickie the romantic man
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  has defeated King of Malice, Frankie Doha.
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  That is the headline. And listen, I, I am smiling
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  because it has not turned to men and women fighting.
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  If you ask any man or if you go under in the comments section
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  and you see the comments from men, it is chicken needs to be
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  beheaded. Chicken needs to chicken needs
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  to solve his career needs to be taken from him.
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  He needs to like they want Chika's head on a platter.
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  The women on the other hand, especially married women, all
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  they're saying is chicky. My husband hasn't spoken to me
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  for two days now. Chicky, please, just the cup.
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  Chicky just answer me. Chicky as in women are loving
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  chicky. All the whole differ every every
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  woman is defending Chicky. Now for some of you who don't
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  know what's going on, Frank Edoho, according to Frank met
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  his wife in 2010 after his divorce from his first wife
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  Catherine. He met Sandra in 2010.
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  They started dating. According to him, he asked
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  Sandra what she wanted to do. Sandra said she wanted to do
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  interior decoration, so he sent her to learn interior
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  decorating. He also studied interior
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  decorating and photography for four years according to Frankie
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  Doha and then supported her in the business that he managed her
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  business and she was his only client.
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  He made sure that according to Frank, he built that business
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  and until she started making money and between all this time,
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  they had two kids. Now, if you ask Sandra, Sandra
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  underhand said that Frank was a very unfaithful man throughout
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  their marriage. When she was pregnant, she knelt
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  down, begged him. He had dated Tiger, Big Brother,
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  Niger Tiger, who came out and denied dating Frank and she also
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  served Sandra with a lawsuit. This this other lady, what's her
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  name? Is he a Daisy or that's
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  something that the wife allegedly said that dated Frank.
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  that Lady also served Sandra with Is it a sis and desist or a
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  lawsuit? I don't even know which one.
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  They both contacted their lawyers.
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  It's been messy. It's been messy and according to
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  Sandra, she bought properties in Lagos and Frankie Doe sold those
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  properties and used the money to chase women.
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  He, according to her, brought women into their matrimonial
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  home. All this while she was begging
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  him. She was pleading for him not to
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  cheat on her. But according to Sandra, Frank
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  continued to cheat. Now, according to Sandra, she
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  got tired and she said, OK, two can play the game, two can play
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  the game. And then according to Frank,
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  there was already strain in their marriage.
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  You know, there was back and forth with, you know, them not
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  talking to each other. The relationship was strained.
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  Families are getting involved. Frank said he was talking to
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  people because he didn't want to keep quiet, just like his first
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  marriage. So the the wife or the Sandra at
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  that point decided to look outside and she found cheeky now
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  in Cheeky, on the other hand, prefers dating older women
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  because according to cheeky or that when you want to now settle
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  down or when you want to get serious in a relationship.
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  The people who have gotten or to where he wants to be or who
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  could match his level are people who are already advanced because
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  all these Gen Z's and millennials, what they ask for
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  is urgent. Tookie.
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  So he said he's not interested in all those kind of things.
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  So According to him, when he was ready or when he is ready to be
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  in a relationship, people who he wants to date are people who are
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  advanced in age. So when by chance Chiki met
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  Sandra, Sandra was already doing well in her interior decor
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  business. She was making money.
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  Sandra was living the baby girl lifestyle.
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  Sandra at that point was going through challenges with her
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  husband Frank Adoho and they started a relationship.
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  They were sneaking because there were audios that was released of
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  Sandra and Chica talking about Frank, which he was sad because
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  if to. If you know that somebody is
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  married and they are having issues, it is not your duty to
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  wedge yourself into that relationship or to make the
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  other person happy if they're no longer together.
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  The best thing is get a divorce. I can't date you without you
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  getting a divorce. I know it's very tricky because
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  divorce don't just happen within one or two, even in Nigeria one
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  or two years. It takes time to get divorced in
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  Nigeria. But even at that it's, it's, it
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  is important to understand that, OK, talk to the partner is, is
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  this irreconcilable? If it's irreconcilable, then you
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  can go ahead with our relationship because now you
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  know that the relationship has ended.
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  Maybe they were having issues. Maybe Frank was still just
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  wanting to be the man of the house.
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  According to Frank, he's king of malice.
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  He when they have those kind of issues, he just moves out of the
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  house and stop talking to his wife that they can be there in
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  the same house for months without talking to to his wife.
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  And during those time, Sandra was busy getting her feel from
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  Cheeky. When Frank found out, he said he
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  started bugging the car, which was where he got all those
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  recordings from. And he then decided to also move
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  on with his life. He said he met Cheeky at an
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  event and confronted Cheeky. Cheeky was, you know, shaking
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  like a leave later sent him an apology message.
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  But he said at that point he was, he said something that made
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  me believe that the, the the relationship was irreconcilable
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  when Sandra started dating Cheeky, because he said that if
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  he was like, if Sandra was still his wife, that he would have
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  shot Cheeky and shot Sandra. So I believed at that point that
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  he knew that the relationship was over, although maybe they
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  didn't want to bring it to social media.
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  So they both were dealing with, you know, their different
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  partners. But I think the problem was that
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  Sandra chose somebody who was on the limelight.
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  Sandra chose Cheeky, a younger, handsome, more successful, would
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  I say, more popular, because if you ask the older millennials,
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  they will tell you. Frank is more popular.
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  If you ask Gen ZS they will tell you cheeky is more popular.
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  And if you ask even the older women because these are people
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  invite him to their wedding and they sing and you know women are
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  the ones that attend wedding most.
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  So all these women are there singing, dancing, love songs.
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  So they know cheeky. So depending on the, the, the
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  gender or the demography or that you ask, they will tell you
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  cheeky or they, they, they are both on the same level in terms
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  of him, if you ask me. So Frank was not happy with
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  that, which I think was what made him angry.
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  And then he started dating also dating popular people.
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  And According to him, she saw him with a very final popular
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  person. We don't know.
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  She mentioned Tega. So I don't know if it was Tega
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  that she saw and then decided to file for a divorce.
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  So they've been at it since 22 years ago, 2024.
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  I think they got divorced in 2024 or she filed for a divorce
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  in 2024. Now the whole mess is on social
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  media. I just think married people are
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  moving mad. Listen, it's easier for married
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  people to hit on you than for you to get a single person to,
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  which is ridiculous. Sometimes I'll be like the
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  audacity. It is the audacity, whether man
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  or woman. It is the audacity for me.
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  They will tell you my husband or they will tell you my wife.
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  She's she's a witch. My wife is this, my wife is
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  that. We don't even sleep in the same
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  room. We don't even sleep on the same
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  bed. We don't even talk to each
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  other. We don't even, but you guys are
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  still married. And the fact that this
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  generation, because somebody said that the freeze was
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  actually saying that 10 years ago, if this was 10 years ago
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  and Cheeky slept with a married woman, that he would have been
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  cancelled his career over, he would have been lynched, he
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  would have been bought on a stake.
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  He like they would have done everything or everything to
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  Cheeky. But in this era, I think women
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  are now saying two can play the game.
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  The previous generation. I'm not saying that previous
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  generation did not cheat. Who did she?
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  In fact, all this DNA drama is from mostly from previous
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  generation. But they did it in a very
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  secretive way. They will just bring the child
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  into the family and everybody will know what had happened and
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  everybody will move on from the whole thing.
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  You know, but this generation, I mean, with social media
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  previously, I think people still talked about it, but it wasn't
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  as spread out as we are having today.
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  Today if your girlfriend cheat and put this on social media,
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  there's a probability that that's going to blow up and
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  everybody's going to talk about it.
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  So is it more in this generation?
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  I don't think so. I just think that women are more
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  bold to come out with their full chest to say yes, you cheat.
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  I cheat. Then what?
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  Marriage is scary. I'm afraid of married people or
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  Nancy. I I listen, this is ridiculous.
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  Marry people in the house. Would you cheat if you're
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  significant or that cheats or would you?
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  I mean if you have built something with somebody.
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  We've talked about several times about Danielle and Toyocy.
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  Everybody knows that Danielle is cheating.
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  You know a lady. What actress was being asked if
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  she was the one that got pregnant for Danielle?
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  Like it has gotten to that level where they know who the person
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  is and Toyocy is saying that she's not leaving her man.
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  Is Toyocy also stepping out on Daniel?
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  Possibly. In my opinion, would you be in
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  an open marriage? Agree to an open marriage to
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  say, OK, do what you want to do? I would also do what I want to
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  do. Let's just not rub it on each
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  other's faces. Or would you go into a marriage
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  thinking this is monogamy, knowing at the back of your mind
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  that this person is going to cheat?
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  Is it OK to go into it open minded or would you sign a
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  contract to say do your thing? I do my thing.
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  If there's a chance for threesome, we can come together
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  and do like couples are doing threesome.
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  We saw this Ala Alagbo is it was that Lady who herself and her
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  husband had a treason with somebody and recorded it.
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  She was smiling like a Cheshire cat.
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  Marriages have changed. Do we need to change?
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  Do we need to now sit down, draft the contract?
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  If you're going to cheat, I am going to cheat back or if you're
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  cheating, I don't want to hear about it.
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  I am also going to be cheating and you'll not hear about like,
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  how do we move forward with all this shenanigans happening
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  around us? Would you marry, get married,
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  and trust your husband knowing that there's a possibility that
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  something is going to happen? Would you marry a wife and trust
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  your wife knowing that there's a possibility that there's one
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  chickie there? Once you keep my list, there's a
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  chicken somewhere that is ready to to to run to her.
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