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How to Transition from Your 9-5 to Your Dream Life · The Spirit Nomad: Spiritual Awakening + Life Purpose

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  If one part of you wants to go after your dream life and
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  another part of you is clinging on to your old life, then this
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  video is for you. I don't believe in coincidences.
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  This is what your Spirit, higher self, God, whatever you want to
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  call it, wants you to know. You might feel like you're stuck
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  right now, but you're actually transitioning.
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  This in between face is not failure.
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  It's the moment your old identity is dissolving and your
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  new identity is about to come online.
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  For me, this happened back when I was in the 9:00 to 5:00 and I
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  really, really hated that I know the 9:00 to 5:00 is for a lot of
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  people, but for me, it always drained me.
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  So I wanted to become a digital nomad.
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  I wanted to become my own business owner, but this was
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  before COVID, so it was not a lot of people doing this working
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  remotely. So when I told my family my
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  plans, my dad got very concerned and he called me like, Are you
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  sure you want to give up this stable job?
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  And energetically it felt like living in two timelines at once.
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  One version of me was terrified to let go of my old comfortable
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  but underlined life. And the other version of me was
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  screaming this is not your life anymore.
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  And looking back, that discomfort was a sign I was
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  expanding too fast for my old identity to keep up.
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  And what I've learned when you're in this in between 1 foot
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  in your old life, one put in your new life is that you need
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  clarity not about just what you want, what you're going after
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  your dream life, but also what you need to let go what doesn't
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  belong anymore. And here's the truth.
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  If it's not a hell yes for your future self, then it is no.
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  Here are three things that you need to know if you want to step
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  into that abundant dream life you and be able to fully let go
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  of your old life without fear. And step one is to declutter
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  your life. So when we think the cluttering,
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  we have to think of physical stuff.
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  And yes, this includes that as well.
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  When I was stepping more into my dream life, my aligned life, I
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  became a minimalist and it started to become apparent to
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  me. The clothes that didn't feel
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  like me anymore, the diet that didn't feel like me, habits that
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  was draining me clutter both in my physical space but also in my
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  digital space like my laptop and my phone.
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  So I got really into the cluttering and that helped me so
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  much stepping into my dream life.
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  Because your physical world shows your internal world.
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  So you got to clear the old to call in the new.
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  So with this step, think about what can you let go physically
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  like in your house when it comes to friends?
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  Is there any friends that drain you that you are friends with
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  just because you've been friends since childhood?
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  Digital. Is there apps are you not using?
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  Is your desktop cluttered with icons and photos?
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  Is it not organized? Mental?
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  Are you meditating daily to clear out the junk and be
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  present? You can really call in your
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  dream life. That is the first step.
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  Step 2 to step into your dream life and let go of the old life
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  is to let go of your limiting beliefs.
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  And I would say this is the most important because this is the
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  devil on your shoulder who is trying to stop you stepping into
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  this new aligned version of you. It might try to tell you things
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  like who am I to start over? What if I fail?
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  I'm not ready yet. People will judge me.
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  But what you have to realize is these are not truths.
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  It's coming from your ego who wants to protect you.
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  They're leftovers from an identity that you're outgrowing.
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  And the new you doesn't operate from fear.
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  The new you operates from alignment and purpose.
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  So as these limiting beliefs comes up when you step more into
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  your dream life, they will, if they haven't already, write them
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  down or journal them. I've recently discovered an app,
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  and this is not sponsored, it's called a Rosebud and it's a
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  journal where it will actually like talk back to you and like
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  based on previous journal entries and your goals, it will
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  kind of give you feedback and support.
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  So that's an app I can recommend and let me know in the comments
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  some limiting beliefs that you have when it comes to stepping
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  into your dream life because the first step is always awareness.
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  Step 3, to step into your new beautiful aligned life is to
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  take what I call Messy Action. Now what do I mean with this?
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  You don't build a new timeline by thinking about it.
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  You build it by moving, experimenting, trying, failing,
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  learning. Messy action is literally a
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  portal. It tells God I'm ready.
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  Now I have struggled with perfectionism my whole life and
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  chances is if you're watching this, you do too.
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  But it can often be procrastination in disguise.
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  So what I would tell my younger self is that you don't need a
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  perfect plan. You need movement, you need
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  momentum taking messy action. For example, if you want to
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  become a YouTube, a content creator, then just start
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  posting. And no matter how cringe the
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  videos turn out, like if you look at my oldest videos, they
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  are cringe AF. But so is any creator if you
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  look at their oldest videos. But with time you will get more
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  comfortable. And now it's actually my most
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  favorite part about being a business owner, making videos
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  for you guys and connecting with you.
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  And by the way, if you want one-on-one coaching with me on
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  how to become an abundant content creator, you never have
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  to work in nine to five again. Then bookie Clara to call link
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  in the description. I haven't had a job in eight
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  years. This is my only income.
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  And it is so beautiful to be able to share your gifts with
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  the world and get paid for it. So if that sounds like you, I
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  would love to coach you. So my action item for this point
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  is take one messy action towards your dream life.
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  Post the video, book the class, invest in your growth, something
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  your future self would do without thinking.
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  If you are in the in between, it's because you're not meant to
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  go back. Your future self is already
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  calling you forward. It might feel like this
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  discomfort is a punishment, but it's actually the birth canal
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  for your next chapter. So let's go take action.
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  Choose the new you, even if it is messy.
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  And if that dream is leaving the 9:00 to 5:00 and sharing your
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  gifts full time, then watch my next video, Best Business Models
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  for Spiritual People. Love you and see you in the next
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  one.