Latest / Joyful Menopause / Episode 11: 3 Reasons why menopause weight loss diets fail and what works instead
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- 0:00If you've been cutting calories, skipping meals, or trying every new diet trend only to see the scale refuse to budge, you're not alone.
- 0:08Traditional diets that worked in your 20s and 30s just don't seem to work anymore.
- 0:13And today I'm going to tell you exactly why that is, and more importantly, what you can do instead to support your body, balance your hormones, and feel better than ever in perimenopause and menopause.
- 0:24I've worked with hundreds of women for 25 years in midlife who feel stuck.
- 0:28They were doing everything right, eating less, exercising more, following the latest diet, and yet they weren't seeing results.
- 0:36But here's the truth.
- 0:37Traditional diets are actually working against you in menopause.
- 0:40And today I'm going to tell you why.
- 0:42So let's get started.
- 0:43Menopause doesn't have to feel like you are living in someone else's body.
- 0:47Your host, Linda Enright, has spent the last 25 years helping women to thrive in midlife.
- 0:52Here you'll find science based practical advice that you can start using today to get real results for your health.
- 0:58Welcome to Joyful Menopause.
- 1:02I want to start today by explaining three of the reasons why traditional diets fail women in midlife.
- 1:09I wonder if for most of your life, you've been led to believe that eating less and moving more is the answer for weight loss.
- 1:15And I think often women are told it's better for your health too.
- 1:19The truth is.
- 1:20The eat less, move more approach can make it harder to lose weight in menopause because it can slow your metabolism.
- 1:27So often diets focus on cutting calories, and yes, in your younger years that maybe worked.
- 1:33I'm not saying that quantity of food doesn't matter.
- 1:36Of course, eating too much can stall weight loss, but what also can happen is that reducing calories too much can actually slow down your metabolism.
- 1:45This is a concept that I find people really struggle with a lot.
- 1:49Common sense definitely tells us that eat less to reduce your calories and move more to burn more calories would be the solution for weight loss.
- 1:57But what can happen is that your body senses that it's not getting enough fuel.
- 2:02So it adapts by burning fewer calories and holding onto fat, especially around the belly.
- 2:08And I find it often leaves women feeling exhausted because you just don't have the fuel and the nutrients your body needs to function at its absolute best.
- 2:17Research shows that extreme calorie restriction can lower your resting metabolic rate and increase cortisol levels, your stress hormone, which makes fat storage even easier.
- 2:28Take my client, Angela, for instance, she came to me because she felt like she had tried everything to lose weight.
- 2:33She was restricting her calories to about 1200 calories a day.
- 2:37She'd get up, she'd have a hard workout with cardio and strength in the morning, and then she'd go for an hour walk after work.
- 2:44She was hungry all the time, and she was exhausted.
- 2:47But she believed that's what she had to do in order to lose weight.
- 2:51She was working so hard, and the scale would not budge a pound.
- 2:56When we started working together I encouraged her to scale back to one exercise session a day with a day off during the week for rest and we increased her calories and focused on optimizing her nutrition choices.
- 3:08She immediately started losing weight.
- 3:10She was shocked.
- 3:11I wasn't.
- 3:12I see this happen often.
- 3:13The second reason traditional diets often fail for women in midlife is because hormonal changes make fad dieting a recipe for disaster.
- 3:23Menopause isn't just about aging, it's about shifting hormones.
- 3:27As estrogen and progesterone decline, your body becomes more sensitive to stress blood sugar swings, inflammation.
- 3:34Your body is, again, more sensitive to these things.
- 3:36So the problem, most traditional diets don't take these into account.
- 3:41Highly restrictive diets can actually make things worse by increasing cortisol and making blood sugar imbalances more extreme, this can then lead to more cravings, mood swings, and even weight gain in the long run.
- 3:55And when we get so caught up in reduction and macros, we often lose sight of diet quality, leading to a diet that might be nutrient depleted and often can actually be pro inflammatory, having more inflammation.
- 4:09The third reason is that cutting too many carbs or fats can backfire.
- 4:14Many times women in menopause think that they need to cut out all the carbs or all the fats to lose weight.
- 4:19But here's the thing.
- 4:21Your body needs healthy carbs for hormone production, and it needs healthy fats for brain function, metabolism, and even mood stability.
- 4:30The key is choosing the right kinds of carbs and fats, ones that fuel your body, not spike your blood sugar or contribute to inflammation.
- 4:38Today, we're talking about why traditional diets don't work for women during perimenopause and menopause.
- 4:44And now let's talk about what to do instead, how to have a sustainable approach for hormone balance to reach your health goals.
- 4:51The first thing that's important is to balance your blood sugar levels.
- 4:55Instead of restricting calories or cutting entire food groups out, focus on stabilizing blood sugar.
- 5:01This means eating a combination of protein, fiber, and a healthy fat at every meal.
- 5:06This can help keep insulin levels steady, reduce cravings, and support a healthy metabolism.
- 5:11So a meal might look like eggs, avocado, and berries, maybe for breakfast.
- 5:16For lunch, you could have a salad with lots of vegetables, with chicken, or maybe canned salmon with olive oil and vinegar for dressing.
- 5:22A good rule of thumb is to build your plate with at least 20 to 30 grams of protein, some healthy fats like olive oil or nuts, and fiber from vegetables or whole grains.
- 5:32The second thing you can do is to eat in a way that supports your hormones.
- 5:36Your body needs the right building blocks for hormone production.
- 5:40That means more omega 3 fats from salmon, tuna, flax seeds, or chia seeds.
- 5:46It means magnesium rich foods like leafy greens, nuts, seeds, and edamame soybeans.
- 5:52And fiber from vegetables and fruits so it can help your body to naturally detoxify excess estrogen.
- 6:00Number three, stop starving yourself.
- 6:03Fuel your body consistently.
- 6:06Skipping meals or drastically cutting portions leads to energy crashes, mood swings, and a slower metabolism.
- 6:13Instead, aim to eat balanced meals throughout the day.
- 6:16Some women do better when they eat three meals a day.
- 6:19Others adding a snack or maybe even two can be helpful to keep energy levels stable and your body nourished.
- 6:25And even intermittent fasting can work for some people and still remain balanced.
- 6:30You can check out my other podcast on intermittent fasting to learn more about that.
- 6:34The point is, there is not a one size fits all for the timing of eating.
- 6:39You should listen to your body and see what feels good for you, but severely restricting and undernourishing is not the answer.
- 6:47And the fourth important thing you can do to have a sustainable approach to balancing your hormones and reaching your health goals is to focus on nutrient density, not just calories.
- 6:58Not all calories are created equal, so think about a processed, maybe 200 calorie snack bar.
- 7:04Will not fuel your body the same way that 200 calories of avocados, nuts, and protein will.
- 7:11Eating nutrient dense foods gives your body the vitamins and minerals it needs to support metabolism, reduce inflammation, and keep you feeling full and energized.
- 7:20So what does that mean?
- 7:21It means focusing on whole foods.
- 7:24When shopping, stay on the outer ring of the store.
- 7:27Skip the middle part as much as possible where foods are more processed.
- 7:31Read ingredient labels and choose foods that you can understand what the ingredients are and there are few of them.
- 7:37If you can't read it, maybe you shouldn't eat it.
- 7:40One of the biggest shifts I teach my clients is to stop focusing on perfection and start focusing on progress.
- 7:47Small, sustainable changes absolutely will add up.
- 7:51Traditional diets often fail because they're built on extremes.
- 7:56The real secret to lasting health in menopause is to find what works for your body and make gradual changes that you can actually stick with.
- 8:05So if you've been struggling with weight gain, energy crashes, or just feeling like your body is working against you, know this.
- 8:11It is not your fault, and you don't have to keep doing what isn't working.
- 8:16Instead of chasing another diet, Start fueling your body in a way that supports your hormones.
- 8:22Eat to balance blood sugar, focus on whole, nutrient dense foods, and make changes you can sustain for the long term.
- 8:29Before I end today, I want to share Pamela's story with you.
- 8:32Pamela came to me struggling to lose weight, but more than that, she felt exhausted all the time and was dealing with constipation.
- 8:40As a nurse with long shifts and an unpredictable schedule, she often relied on convenience foods or skipped meals entirely.
- 8:47She thought it wasn't that bad when she skipped meals because at least she'd eat less and maybe that would help her lose weight.
- 8:53But the lack of nutrients in the processed foods plus skipping meals were stressors on her body, potentially slowing her metabolism and absolutely creating inflammation.
- 9:03So I worked with Pamela to create a plan for batch cooking and prepping meals in advance So she had nourishing options ready to go.
- 9:11We also found simple homemade snacks she could bring with her like trail mix to keep her energy up when she wasn't able to take a full meal break.
- 9:19We focused on getting enough protein, again that 20 to 30 grams per meal, and nutrient dense meals rather than processed foods.
- 9:26And also, with nutrient testing, we found what vitamins and minerals she personally was depleted in, so we could focus on maximizing her nutrition to meet those needs.
- 9:37She didn't find it difficult.
- 9:38It just took a bit more planning than what she was doing already.
- 9:41The first thing she noticed was her energy was increasing.
- 9:45She came home from work without crashing, and within a couple of months, she lost 10 pounds.
- 9:50Not because she was counting calories, but because she was nourishing her body in a way that worked for her.
- 9:55Her digestion improved also, which felt really great.
- 9:59Thank you for joining me on today's episode of Joyful Menopause.
- 10:02If you're ready to stop dieting and start feeling better, I'd love to help.
- 10:07Click the link in the description below.
- 10:08I'd be happy to set up a time to chat and find out what's going on with you and your health.
- 10:13Until next time, take care of yourself and be well.