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Scotty explains why he's going on a ZUMBA CRUISE! · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's best music is Magnine.
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  Speaker 2: It's another episode of Scotty and Abby unfiltered. Abby, what
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  Speaker 2: do you feel like? Is the closest way to describe
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  Speaker 2: our relationship in its current.
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  Speaker 1: Form, somewhere between a chemical reaction gone wrong, an inbred
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  Speaker 1: child from rural Louisiana, and drunk Almo.
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  Speaker 2: Because I try to describe this to people that I'm
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  Speaker 2: now getting to catch up with and they're like, oh
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  Speaker 2: my god, you have a new co host and what's that? Like?
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  Speaker 2: How is she? How is Abby? And I'm the way
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  Speaker 2: I describe it so far because off the mics, Abby
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  Speaker 2: I feel like just likes to probe me. She likes
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  Speaker 2: you just don't don't put that on me.
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  Speaker 1: No, you do you like, I'm not probing anybody?
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  Speaker 2: You jar. We've talked about far worse.
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  Speaker 1: Nobody has been penetrated from.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, my god. Oh it's just so funny because it's
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  Speaker 2: like this is like I feel like you were testing me,
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  Speaker 2: You're poking, You're joking.
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  Speaker 1: I do like I do like to bully men.
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  Speaker 2: I will say it's very fascinating to watch, and it's
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  Speaker 2: very fascinating to be in this position from going from
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  Speaker 2: literally nobody in the studio to you know, having someone
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  Speaker 2: that is constantly keeping me on my toes. So I
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  Speaker 2: describe it to people as like a very sibling esc relationship. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: where it's you literally can't say anything without somebody else
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  Speaker 2: mocking what you're saying. I'm Scott and I'm dating four girls.
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  Speaker 1: We do this Alma Well, I do this Almo voice
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  Speaker 1: and this, and then Scott started copying it. So we'll
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  Speaker 1: be in the middle of a break because we're I
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  Speaker 1: don't know if you're listening to Magic ninety four nine.
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  Speaker 1: I know a lot of your Birch show listeners up
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  Speaker 1: in Atlanta, but if you tune in, we do a
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  Speaker 1: lot of jockeying type radio hosting where it's like ten
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  Speaker 1: seconds in between songs, and so we mess up a lot,
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  Speaker 1: and I feel like anytime we mess up, I always go.
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  Speaker 3: God, and I'm going to the Pouno Mars concert and
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  Speaker 3: I'm bringing for mccufference, just like secret nerves and movement waves,
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  Speaker 3: except instead of a bunch of different.
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  Speaker 2: Waves, you're all my wives.
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  Speaker 1: So it's really just sister weves. But as you're not
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  Speaker 1: a sister, I'm Cody Brown from Doc God.
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  Speaker 2: I wish I knew the show. I like how the
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  Speaker 2: amount of girlfriends I have continues to grow every podcast.
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  Speaker 1: Ill no, which I've demoted you from seven to four.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going down. Yeah, that's not good because you're breaking
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  Speaker 1: up with them left and right.
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  Speaker 2: I'm oh, my god, Well you're.
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  Speaker 1: Breaking the hearts of women everywhere in Tampa.
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  Speaker 2: One of the things that's going down next week, and
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  Speaker 2: that I'm very curious on how the rest of the
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  Speaker 2: world sees this is I'm going on a zoomba cruise
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  Speaker 2: and I was talking abby about it, and then you
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  Speaker 2: started picking on me for being a grown man that
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  Speaker 2: likes zoomba. First off, love it. Second off, I don't
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  Speaker 2: really do zoomba, but I'm going on this trip with
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  Speaker 2: my dad simply for a trip, but it's an entire
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  Speaker 2: cruise dedicated to this that anytime I say it to someone,
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  Speaker 2: they're just very amused and they're very interested. And what
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  Speaker 2: the hell goes on? Scotty?
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  Speaker 1: On Valentine's Day, you voluntarily went to a zooma class
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  Speaker 1: with thirteen other women.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, well there's a lot more than thirteen, But you can't.
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  Speaker 1: Tell me that you don't do zoomba. I've seen the
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  Speaker 1: photographic evidence.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, there is evidence. I do it occasionally, Okay, zoomba occasionally.
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  Speaker 2: I like to get down.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, well occasionally I come to work occasionally, I work
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  Speaker 1: out occasionally.
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  Speaker 2: Day breathe there. Well, okay, this started like two years
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  Speaker 2: ago where my dad's work partner, like is all up
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  Speaker 2: in the zoomba world, does it every day, loves it,
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  Speaker 2: learned about a zoomba cruse told my dad. My dad
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  Speaker 2: told me. It became our vacation and we went to
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  Speaker 2: freaking France for it. We went to France for the
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  Speaker 2: Zooma Cruz. I had no idea what I was walking into.
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  Speaker 2: I think up until that point, I only did zooma
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  Speaker 2: once and that was at a crunch class like I
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  Speaker 2: did on Valentine's Day. Well, we get there and immediately
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  Speaker 2: you walk out on the ship, there's three hundred people
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  Speaker 2: doing zoomba. It's insane. It's the gates of Hell. It
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  Speaker 2: was wild. What made it so hard is that everyone
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  Speaker 2: is like in sync, knows exactly what to do. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know shit, I'm just walking out and it seems
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  Speaker 2: like we should just dance. The harder part was that
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  Speaker 2: they're all speaking in French and so automatically. I don't
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  Speaker 2: know the moves, I don't know the songs. Everyone else does,
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  Speaker 2: and everyone else speaks French, so I'm already lost. But
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  Speaker 2: I'll tell you what, after three hours of it, you
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  Speaker 2: get really damn good. So I became kind of a
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  Speaker 2: Zoomba pro on that trip. So now we're bringing it
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  Speaker 2: back this time. I know I'm about to sound like
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  Speaker 2: the biggest Zoomba diva, but this time it's like the
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  Speaker 2: biggest one. It's leaving out of Miami with the founder
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  Speaker 2: of freaking Zoomba.
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  Speaker 1: How many people are going Probably thousands, It's like twenty
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  Speaker 1: five hundred.
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  Speaker 2: Let's say twenty five hundred people doing Zoomba because this
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  Speaker 2: cruise is literally dedicated to Zoomba. The founder of Zooma
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  Speaker 2: is going to be on the ship.
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  Speaker 1: The Zoomba King is gonna be on the Zooma Cruise.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, and we're all gonna be wearing Zoomba gear and
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  Speaker 2: doing the zoomba. What is zoomba gear?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: There's a whole line of that's dedicated to Zoomba.
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  Speaker 1: Is it like aar But I'm not going to go
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  Speaker 1: to Zoomba.
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  Speaker 2: The Zooma cruz Scottie, I'm going on the zoom A Cruise.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't want to go for the Zoomba. I wanted
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  Speaker 2: to go because my Dad's like, do you want to
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  Speaker 2: take a cruise? And I said absolutely. He said it's
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  Speaker 2: a zoom A cruise. I say, well, whatever, it doesn't
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  Speaker 2: matter else thell go. I'm going to go and come
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  Speaker 2: back and be the most toned. My butt is going
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  Speaker 2: to be so tight, my legs are gonna look shaped
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  Speaker 2: and curved, all because of the Zooma Cruise. So as
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  Speaker 2: the rest of the world lasts, I'm going to zoom
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  Speaker 2: of my ass off and get shredded.
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  Speaker 1: Well because of it. I hope you come back looking fit.
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  Speaker 1: I hope you received several ozempic allegations.
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  Speaker 2: No, I'm going to look so good. And I think, honestly,
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  Speaker 2: you might just be a little jealous. I think, have
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  Speaker 2: you ever done zoomba?
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  Speaker 1: I used to, but you know, when I was in
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  Speaker 1: high school and I had to go to the suburban
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  Speaker 1: rec center.
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  Speaker 2: You know what's go great about zoom but it doesn't.
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  Speaker 2: It doesn't discriminate all ages, clearly, all sexes, all sizes. Always,
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  Speaker 2: if you can move and groove, you can come zoomba. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: so now it has a whole debacle of what's going
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  Speaker 2: to happen behind the studio. And actually, I do want
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  Speaker 2: to pull the curtain back on this because I find
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  Speaker 2: this fascinating because Abby, you're still going to be in
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  Speaker 2: the studio. Yes, has anybody taught you or told you
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  Speaker 2: what you're going to be doing in here while you're here?
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  Speaker 2: That's literally your job? Okay, that is so much pressure
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  Speaker 2: to be able to tell you everything that you're going
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  Speaker 2: to have to do in the next three days.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I know how to voice track. The only thing
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  Speaker 1: I don't know how to do is do you.
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  Speaker 2: Not had a voice track in here? I know had
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  Speaker 2: a voicetrack in here? No, have you done it? No
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  Speaker 2: one's ever shown me. That's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: I've been here for two fucking days, Scott.
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  Speaker 2: It's been like two months, but.
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  Speaker 1: I, oh, it hasn't even been a month. I think
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  Speaker 1: I think this is week four. Oh jesus, Yeah, why
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  Speaker 1: are we going to do that? So you're just going
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  Speaker 1: to be in charge of everything? Because I thought, okay,
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  Speaker 1: that's kind of how it works.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Well, that's a lot of pressure. Good luck.
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  Speaker 1: Why the heck did you have to take off work.
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  Speaker 1: I think I should get this week off too.
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  Speaker 2: I think that's I thought you were going to have
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  Speaker 2: the week off. No, okay, well I literally thought that
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  Speaker 2: was the entire point. I thought it was going to
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  Speaker 2: be a fun trip. Have you ever gone on a
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  Speaker 2: trip like that with your family, like just a one
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  Speaker 2: off shoot, like weird, kind of quirky, but like you
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  Speaker 2: actually enjoyed it. Let me think about that, because I'm
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  Speaker 2: only doing this because I want to go on a
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  Speaker 2: trip with my dad.
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  Speaker 1: We didn't go on anything quirky. I mean, we went
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  Speaker 1: on a cruise once a couple of zero ago. We
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  Speaker 1: didn't zoomba m I don't know if I would call
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  Speaker 1: it quirky.
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  Speaker 2: Where'd you go on the cruise? You know, the.
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  Speaker 1: Typical places, the Caribbean and Mexico. I'm sure the Bahamas.
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  Speaker 1: It was one of those where you like leave for
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  Speaker 1: four days, you come back.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Was that a common like vacation? We did that
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  Speaker 2: like every year growing up? No, we did a couple
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  Speaker 2: growing up.
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  Speaker 1: We went on a cruise in high school, I mean
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  Speaker 1: maybe four or five, but not like a frequent thing
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  Speaker 1: to where it was like, yeah, we're cruise people. I
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  Speaker 1: will say, you know, it's really funny. My most vivid
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  Speaker 1: memory of that cruise or no, this was when I
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  Speaker 1: graduated college. When I graduated college, we went on a
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  Speaker 1: weekend cruise and this is so weird. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: if you have weird I guess this is the quirkiest
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  Speaker 1: thing about this cruise. Do you have weird things that
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  Speaker 1: you do in your family that to anybody else would
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  Speaker 1: be like, I need to report you guys, something is
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  Speaker 1: a miss something is weird.
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  Speaker 2: My family is the literal weirdest. Okay, well, I'm going
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  Speaker 2: to tell you something weird about my family.
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  Speaker 1: And my family a form of bonding is rubbing each
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  Speaker 1: other's feet.
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  Speaker 2: Holy shit? What what? Okay?
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  Speaker 1: And I don't know why, but I'm sitting at the
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  Speaker 1: pool on my d and my dad just subconsciously just
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  Speaker 1: starts rubbing my feet, which I know to the outside
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  Speaker 1: world is really fucking weird. And we got yelled at
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  Speaker 1: by a woman in the pool.
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  Speaker 2: What she because I was sitting on the what's the thing?
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  Speaker 1: It's like one of the one of the ladders to
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  Speaker 1: get out, but there's like several ladders, So I'm sitting
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  Speaker 1: on one of the ladders and my Dad's just sitting there,
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  Speaker 1: like just.
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  Speaker 2: Giving me a foot massage. Just it does sound so
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  Speaker 2: weird when I vocalize it, They're like, you know what,
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  Speaker 2: I think a lot of families do that. Like I
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  Speaker 2: remember growing up and my like Grandma would like like
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  Speaker 2: rub my cousin's hair or something like that, or like
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  Speaker 2: we'd lay down the grubber back something like that. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: never was like really a rubbing the feet kind of thing.
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  Speaker 2: It's a form of affection for our family. It's just
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  Speaker 2: the thing.
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  Speaker 1: I get it, you know, vocalizing it, I'm like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that really.
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  Speaker 2: Is fucking weird. Everyone has their family stuff.
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  Speaker 1: But someone yelled at yelled at my dad for doing that, probably.
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  Speaker 2: Because they didn't know it was you're They just thought
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  Speaker 2: it's this random man coming up and rubbing some young
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  Speaker 2: girl's feet.
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  Speaker 1: I know. That's the worst part about getting into your
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  Speaker 1: twenties is I feel as though I can't go out
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  Speaker 1: in public with my dad or my brother without going.
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  Speaker 2: This is my dad, by the way.
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  Speaker 1: This is my dad, not my lover, by the way,
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  Speaker 1: not a sugar daddy.
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  Speaker 2: My father literally just my dad. By the way. This
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  Speaker 2: is my brother. Because me and my brother don't look
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  Speaker 2: like I've never seen your brother. I'll show you a
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  Speaker 2: photo right now. I've never seen what your brother looks
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  Speaker 2: like in person. I don't think i've ever even seen
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  Speaker 2: him on your Instagram. Why don't you show your brother?
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  Speaker 1: My brother is sort of racially ambiguous, like he looks
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  Speaker 1: maybe Italian. He looks like he could maybe have some
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  Speaker 1: Hispanic in him. Like that's my mom and my brother's
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  Speaker 1: coloring is they have olive scan and brown hair.
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  Speaker 2: So you got everything from your dad? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: So my dad and I are super pale. So we're
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  Speaker 1: like the UK Scandinavian mofos.
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  Speaker 2: What us split down the middle? Very weird. So do
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  Speaker 2: you wish you had more like the other characteristics? I
• 9:55
  Speaker 2: do you know how expensive spray tanning is? Well, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you don't actually tan, you can't actually no, I burn. Also,
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  Speaker 2: I'm afraid of the sun because I know I'm not
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  Speaker 2: gonna age well because again UK jeans. So wow, you
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  Speaker 2: gotta stay my spf. Let me see a picture of
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  Speaker 2: your brother. Give me a second. I got distracted. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: Oh did you open up the gram? That gets me
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  Speaker 2: every time I'm opening up now, Okay, so let me
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  Speaker 2: find Okay, So here's my brother Okay, let's see. Oh
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  Speaker 2: my gosh, your brother's a good looking dude. Holy smokes,
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  Speaker 2: he has great hair. Look at that. It's the first
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  Speaker 2: thing I noticed. Now and men, not you hitting on
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  Speaker 2: my brother. Okay, well let's take a look though. He's
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  Speaker 2: got a good head of hair. He looks pretty tall.
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  Speaker 2: How tall is your brother five nine? Maybe it's a
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  Speaker 2: pretty tall man. If you ask me, i'd say so.
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  Speaker 2: His fiance is just short, okay. And it's also the angle.
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  Speaker 2: It's kind of down looking up.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, they're a very proportional couple.
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  Speaker 2: M like, they're good. They're a good heighte match. Okay, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: that actually works perfectly. What's your brother's personality? How does
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  Speaker 2: it differ from your personality? Because you're pretty fierce. When
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  Speaker 2: I describe you abby, I say that you're fierce. That's
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  Speaker 2: like the first word I say, fierce.
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  Speaker 1: My brother is a lot more standoffish than I am.
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  Speaker 1: But when he's in a good mood, he's really fun.
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  Speaker 2: Oh gotcha? Yeah, okay, so he's not as would you say,
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  Speaker 2: you're more of the outgoing one. He's more so. I
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  Speaker 2: think we're opposites.
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  Speaker 1: I think I'm an introverted I think i'm outgoing but introverted.
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  Speaker 1: So I like to be out and about, but I'm
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  Speaker 1: definitely more of an introvert, whereas my brother, I think,
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  Speaker 1: is an extrovert who doesn't like to go do things.
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  Speaker 2: Oh okay, that's interesting. I think that's how I am.
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  Speaker 2: I'm an extrovert that doesn't like to go do things.
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  Speaker 2: You do all the things, though, I do it because
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  Speaker 2: I have to force myself because I know there's a
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  Speaker 2: better thing happening if I do it. If I don't
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  Speaker 2: do anything, well then nothing happens. Yes, So that's why
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  Speaker 2: I was actually kind of nice being in a relationship
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  Speaker 2: because it's like, well, I can just chill at home.
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  Speaker 2: I don't have to go out to the bars.
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  Speaker 1: That's why my brother got super boring when he got
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  Speaker 1: into a relationship.
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  Speaker 2: This has nothing to do with this. It's not me
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  Speaker 2: hating on the relationship.
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  Speaker 1: But like once my brother got a fiance or a girlfriend,
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  Speaker 1: he's like, well, I'll just stay here.
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  Speaker 2: I was just talking to a friend about that, and
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  Speaker 2: I was like, I'm enjoying this time period. I will
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  Speaker 2: continue to enjoy this time. But man, there's something something
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  Speaker 2: about thinking. I don't know if you have this feeling,
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  Speaker 2: but when you're in that relationship that's like your partner
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  Speaker 2: for life. A Friday night inside with like your dog
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  Speaker 2: or your kids and just relax on the couch watching
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  Speaker 2: a movie, maybe having a beverage. The image of that
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  Speaker 2: sounds so bliss, like I can't wait, I can't wait.
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  Speaker 2: I hope you get that, Scotty, I can't Well, Okay,
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  Speaker 2: you don't have that same feeling to you. Cool.
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  Speaker 1: I want to be out of Bulan watching sugar with
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  Speaker 1: your husband. Yeah, and I want us to. I want
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  Speaker 1: us to be that couple that talks shit about other
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  Speaker 1: people in the corner.
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  Speaker 2: You're gonna be like seventy years old, sitting in the
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  Speaker 2: corner of Bulan, still talking shit.
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  Speaker 1: There's gonna be nobody there because this place has been
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  Speaker 1: open for fifty years. I want us to be at
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  Speaker 1: the bar, trolling people, pretending we're we're different people than
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  Speaker 1: we really are.
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  Speaker 2: I want to step fake names. Wow.
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  Speaker 1: I want us to be like that couple. To me,
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  Speaker 1: that's fun. I don't want to sit at my house.
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  Speaker 2: I know, but I just picture like we get like
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  Speaker 2: a pizza oven in the backyard and we have like
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  Speaker 2: a family where it's like we have a beautiful big kitchen,
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  Speaker 2: we make the dough, we go and have a pizza.
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  Speaker 2: Like I want friends at my house versus going meeting
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  Speaker 2: friends out. I want to have like a big ass pool,
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  Speaker 2: a grill. It's like dream life shit. But that sounds
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  Speaker 2: so cozy to me. It sounds so intimate, Like I
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  Speaker 2: love hanging with friends like that will never stop. But
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  Speaker 2: if we're going to hang out, like come over to
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  Speaker 2: the house, like in a perfect world, we all live
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  Speaker 2: in a culva sac. That sounds dope. It does sound dope.
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  Speaker 2: Do you ever have like we had friends like that.
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  Speaker 2: I still have friends that I grew up with that's
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  Speaker 2: still kind of the plant where it's like we all
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  Speaker 2: eventually live in the same area and then we raise
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  Speaker 2: our families together. That's really sweet. You don't have that, No, Okay, Well,
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  Speaker 2: you know what it's like when everybody moves away. It's
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  Speaker 2: such a pain in the butt for everyone to get together. Well,
• 13:41
  Speaker 2: it's sad, but I think it's one of those unavoidable things.
• 13:44
  Speaker 2: I think it's avoidable.
• 13:45
  Speaker 1: And no, I think when things are unavoidable, I have
• 13:49
  Speaker 1: no choice but to just accept them, and so I
• 13:50
  Speaker 1: don't have emotions to tie to them, tie them. I
• 13:53
  Speaker 1: think that's why when it comes to death, I've never been.
• 13:55
  Speaker 2: Like my eyes just popped out of my head. I
• 13:57
  Speaker 2: was like, where are you going with this? Well?
• 13:59
  Speaker 1: I always something I'm very introspective about is I haven't
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: really lost a lot of people close to me. But
• 14:06
  Speaker 1: when people die or animals die, I'm sad about it
• 14:09
  Speaker 1: and then I move Not not that I move on,
• 14:11
  Speaker 1: but I don't like linger on it because I'm like,
• 14:12
  Speaker 1: what am I going to do?
• 14:13
  Speaker 2: Can't bring them back? No, No, I guess it just
• 14:16
  Speaker 2: depends on the finality of it. Yeah, that's the part
• 14:19
  Speaker 2: that kind of f's me up, Like I can accept death,
• 14:22
  Speaker 2: but it's the part of like, damn it, there's so
• 14:24
  Speaker 2: many things that I still would want to do or
• 14:25
  Speaker 2: have the conversation for that. When I think about not
• 14:28
  Speaker 2: being able to do that, that's the crushing part. Yeah, well,
• 14:31
  Speaker 2: I'm like, damn it.
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: I'm sure I'll feel that way if I when I
• 14:33
  Speaker 1: lose someone super super close to me. And the only
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: time I really got hung up on sorry I really
• 14:38
  Speaker 1: took this in a pivot is when we lost our
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: dog tragically over the summer because he wasn't supposed to die.
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: That to me, I had a hard time with because
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: I'm like, well, he wasn't supposed to die, yeah, Whereas
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: you know, when I lose pets, it's like really devastating,
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: and then it's like, well you know they were going.
• 14:53
  Speaker 2: To die, you know. Yeah. I mean it's still hard.
• 14:56
  Speaker 2: You still miss them, but it's easier to come to with,
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: especially if they're old. I know, you're like that that's
• 15:02
  Speaker 2: the unavoidable port, like you know what's coming. I know,
• 15:05
  Speaker 2: So to be hung up on that is really hard
• 15:07
  Speaker 2: because it just takes kind of a lot of energy
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: when you realize time's a ticket.
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: I'm sure I'll feel differently in ten years because that's
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: how it's when my cats will probably go.
• 15:15
  Speaker 2: Oh my god. You know, I think about this a
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: lot about when your cats are gonna die. I have
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: like pre planned grief. That's very fascinating. I know that sad.
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: What do you do about it? Though? Because for me,
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: I'm always again solution oriented. I'm like pre planned, Oh
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: my god, this is you know what this is going
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: to be the dark podcast. I was thinking about this yesterday.
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: Oh this is so dark. So I've lost my mom
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: so I have a super close relationship, much closer than
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: it's ever been with my dad, And so I was
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: thinking about, like we're going on the zoom A cruise
• 15:43
  Speaker 2: and I talk to them like every week and we
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: have great phone calls. And yesterday I was walking and
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: I got so sad thinking. I was like, man, I
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: almost wanted to tell them like how I don't know.
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: I was thinking that is going to be unbearable because
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: I love the real relationship that we have now. I
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: cherish that relationship. I cherish our phone calls, I cherish
• 16:04
  Speaker 2: our vacations together. I cherish the relationship that I have
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: with my brother and my dad, like our bond has
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: gotten so strong. And so yesterday I started thinking about
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: death and I was like, ah, what the hell. I
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: gotta make sure to utilize the hell out of this
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: time period. But even then, I don't feel like it's enough. Damn.
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: So how do you come to grips with like thinking
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: of your cats dying, Like does it make you want
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: to cuddle them more? Or do you just get sad?
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: I will run over there and I will just give
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: them a spontaneous big hug and I'll just.
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: Go I'm gonna miss you in twenty fifty five or
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: whatever it is.
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: I did see that there's a new vaccine that you
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: can give your cats to make them live until like
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: thirty and I'm gonna find a way to procure that.
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: Does that not seem too long? Thirty years for a cat?
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: Well, I mean for me. I mean I'm twenty nine,
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, you take me.
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: Out before the animal.
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: I'm kidding me all honestly, I don't think I'm going
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: to survive the death of Della, my oldest cat.
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, how is your cat? Della's gonna be
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: seven this year? Oh you know, cat's usually lived to
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: what twenty?
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: God willing fingers crossed. Damn please, She's a pretty healthy cat.
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but you don't want I'm walking around like, oh,
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: beat up and oh mangled? Oh yeah, looking horrible, Yeah, crusty.
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: I have a dog, Lacy back home that saves with
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: my dad. And when I went to college, she was
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: a yellow lab. I raised her for a couple of
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: years and I left for college and she stayed with
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: my dad. She's still kicking strong. I mean, she's like
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: thirteen fourteen. But that's one that I think about. Like,
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: I was even talk to my dad the other day.
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: I was like, how's Lacey. Just give me a quick update,
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: because no updates a good update. Yeah, but it does
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: get into me where I'm like, god, damn it, Like
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: you know that time's coming. You're like dogs usually go thirteen, fourteen, Yeah,
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: fifteen is like super old. Yeah, but I'm like, she's
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: still spunky as hell. She still gets walking around the neighborhood.
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: It gives me anxiety too.
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: It's like knowing they're age just creeping up and going,
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: oh oh well.
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: It's one of those like it's like getting used to
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: the grief, but I can't really do anything about it
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: because I don't live there, so it's like I can't
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: give her a big old squeeze. But every time I
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: go home, I'm like, oh my god, so grateful for
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: this moment, but the thought of it is so crushing. Damn,
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: this conversation is so depressive. I really took us in
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: a bad direction. I want to go back to your
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: family's vacation.
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: Though, because let's go back to people thinking your dad
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: was molesting you on that. Sorry, I shouldn't have brought
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: up death.
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: No, no, death. I don't mind, just trying.
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: To make a parallel because I'm like I don't know,
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: it didn't work out well, I.
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: Could talk about death. I like talking about death because
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: it gets me to appreciate life. Yeah, Like that's literally
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: why again, back to it for just a second. That's
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: why I'm so adamant about taking trips with people that
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: I love having phone calls, Like, that's why I call
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: my dad every week to just talk and we'll just
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: talk for hours. I'm like, we never did that before.
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: But then when death became very real, when it was
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: right in front of us, when we experience it every
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: month for a little bit, I was like, Okay, I'm
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: not gonna let time go without us having a good relationship.
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: And I'm so grateful for it. I absolutely love it,
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: and so I try to I try to get my
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: brother on the same page now or I'm like, Mike,
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: we should probably all be taking trips together. I don't
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: know if his brain necessarily goes there, he's not necessarily
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: thinking like that, yeah, but mine is constantly I'm like, okay,
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: if today is twenty twenty six, all right, and I
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: start literally calculating how many years, and then I break
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: that down to realistically how many trips and then how
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: many months. It's sickening. It's so sad. It is what
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: At the same time, if you don't do that, I
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: don't want to get to the end of this rope
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: and be like, well, shoot, I didn't utilize all the
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: time I had. Yes, it's a great motivator. That's exactly
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: what it is for me. I don't get sad about it.
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: I get motivated to do something about it.
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: So anyway, Scott's going on the zoom A Cruise because
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: he's afraid of death.
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: I am afraid of death, and I want to utilize
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: all these moments, all these memories.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: He doesn't want to be on his deathbed and go
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: what if I went to the zoom Ba Cruise in
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: Miami with the King of Zoombo.
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: Well, it's like what if I don't go on this
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: ship whatever, It's gonna be fun. I'm a zoom of
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: my ass off. And I guess people last time I
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: went did not get enough of the backstory of it,
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: of why I went, the pictures, what it looks like.
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: I'll make sure to share more of those on my
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: Instagram because it is freaking fascinating. And this one's gonna
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: be so big that last time he it was all
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: one big group. It was like three hundred people. This
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: time it's thousands. So you have to literally sign up
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: to be in one of the three hundred people group.
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: What do you if there's thousands of people, how do
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: you all do zoomba? Then you're just literally two feet
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: apart all over the ship, like you're like the deck
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: of a ship just completely covering people. Wow. Just it's
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: like when you send off everyone and everyone has a
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: glasses champagne. It's that, but with zoomba. So hundreds of
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: people cha cha chai in Well. I hope you.
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: I hope you do lots of videos, take lots of videos, Scotty,
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be good. I hope you meet lots of
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: old women who, you know, maybe get a little rendezvous with.
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: A sugar mama. Maybe you wouldn't.
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: Steve can get together with with a woman in between
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: your ages.
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: We're what twenty nine Steve is? What fifty nine.
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: Steve is sixty three? Sixty three? So you need to
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: find a woman in her forties who's got a little hutzba.
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: What are we both going a dater? Yeah? That is
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: so weird. Win on the Zooma cruise. Nope, do the Zumba.
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: I don't want to date the same woman my dad's dating.
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: Come on, give give Cheryl a little lofe. Cheryl could
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: have a daughter. Cheryl could have a daughter. The last
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: time I went on a Zooma cruise, I was in
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: a relationship. But I'll tell you what, being a young
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: man doing zumba, everybody was trying to get me with
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: their daughter. I hate that, Like, why don't men do
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: the same thing.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: Why don't they go, hey, I have a son's.
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: Creepy to approach a young woman and say that, tu see,
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: Like that's how it is like for me. I was
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: so flattered. I was like, oh my god, thank you.
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: But now I have to step away, like I am
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: literally taken. I don't want any part of this. Stop it,
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: and like they're trying to convince me, and then they
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: would get mad at me. I would get the eyes
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: at the end of the cruise of like, hmm, you
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: didn't want my daughter. I'm like, it's not that. Yes,
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: she was ugly, Cheryl, No, it's just I was there.
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: I'm mistaken. What do you want me to do? Well?
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: She needed to do a little bit more zomba. She'll
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: never hear this I think she lives in an entirely
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: different part of the world, so that's fine. But this
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: time I'm very curious because it's gonna be more, it's
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: gonna be out of Miami, it's gonna be spicy. Anything
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: could happen. Anything could happen. What's the trip that you
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: have planned with your family this year? Is there any
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: trips planned? I think me and my mom are going
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: to Charleston in April. Oh, that would be nice. I
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: know it will be nice. Okay, everyone raised about Charleston.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: I've been there once. Okay, I did not necessarily see
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: the feel Wait, what did you do? I went to
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: a honestly, I went to a you know, the radio
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: star Bobby Bones. Yeah, I went to a Bobby Bones
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: comedy show in Charleston, South Carolina. Okay, when did you go?
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: I went like twenty eighteen, okay, and we went to
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: the theater, saw the show. The town felt very small.
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: Did you do anything else afterwards?
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: No?
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: I just don't think you knew where to go. I
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: don't think I did either, because it didn't look like
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: there's anything to do. There's so much to do in Charleston.
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: Charleston is maybe the only city that gives me a
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: similar vibe that and this is going to sound crazy
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: because they're completely two different cities. It reminds me a
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: lot of the energy of New York.
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: What Chary didn't get that vibe it I felt like
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: it was one road and that was it.
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: Now you got to go back to Charleston. Charleston is
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: very lively and it's very walkable.
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: It's like a it's it's.
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: A very very very very very very very very very
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: small and southern slash colorful Manhattan. The food scene is good.
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: There's lots of bars. It's a very young city, but
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: at the same time not young in the sense that
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: you can't go out when you're older.
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: That's fun. Okay, I do need to give it another
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: show because I had to Charlestown. There are places that
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: are like unhidden gems, gems that you find when you're
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: traveling that you don't expect to see. Like when I
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: went to Savannah, Georgia, I was blown away. Yeah, that
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: was a place that I left and I was like,
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: holy crap. No. I mean, I know people now kind
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: of rave about Savannah, but for me, I was like,
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: that's an underrated spot.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: It's funny because I've been to Savannah multiple times, and
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: the way you just described, Charles, it's how I feel about.
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: Savannah, damn it. Oh my gosh. See, I thought it
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: was so fun I thought the food was great. I
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: thought the riverwalk was beautiful. But I love a small
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: town with a lot to do. I don't like a
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: big city that's stinky and dirty. And that's why I have.
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: You know, whenever I've gone to New York City and
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: people rave about it, I'm like, it's cool, there's a
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: lot to do, but I can't stand walking on the
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: sidewalk and there's just trash everywhere and it literally smells
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: like pee.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: I kind of like it now, like in other people's business.
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: No, Like, that's what I like Chicago because it's like
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: New York, but without the stink of peace. See. I
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: hate it when people describe Chicago that way because Chicago
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: is so not New York. Okay, But first off, it's
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: a big ass city. It is a big gas buildings,
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: it's very clean, it's cold, just doesn't have the same
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: energy as New York. It does not, but it's also cleaner,
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: which I could. Actually, I would rather go to Chicago
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: than go to New York City. What is the aspect
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: of your opinion? Okay, it's not wrong, but what is
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: You've traveled a lot, so what are the cities that
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: you're like, okay, underrated in your opinion?
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: Well, I guess if you're I don't feel like Charleston
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: is underrated, but I guess Charleston Charleston is great.
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: I go to a lot of very normally rated places
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: and rate them. Uh, Like, what's my top five cities?
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: The places I like to go back?
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: I'm a I'm a city goal I definitely know that now.
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: I like a city.
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: So I like Charleston, I like New York, I like London.
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: Where else have I gone? There? Have you been to Miami?
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: I have been to Miami. What did you think? Miami
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: is a very split kind of down the line. I
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: talked to some people and they love it. Some people
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: are like, it's too much for me, too much. I
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: don't not like Miami.
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: I just it's not really my vibe. It's not like
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: a Oh, I don't think it's overrated or underrated. It's
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: just not on my scale. It's not doesn't have what
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: I'm after.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: I'll say it it's overrated. It's a lot of clubs.
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: I'm not a club goal. Mmm, you don't like to
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: get your rave on? No?
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: Oh, you know what city I love? I really love Nashville.
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: Okay, I've never been to Nashville, so like it can't
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: make a comment. I've heard it's great, but it just
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: seems like.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: Hmmm, Nashville's fun for a weekend and that's it.
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: Okay. Have you been to Vegas? No, I've never been
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: in Vegas. I've never been in Vegas either, but that's
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: one that I want to go this year. Friends are
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: planning in like a thirtieth and we want to go
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: to Vegas. But I'm not a gambler. But I'm trying
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: to explain to friends. I'm like, I don't plan on
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: doing gambling the whole time. I want to go to
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: shows and have good food and why you laugh, I
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: want to go see show. I'm Scott. I want to
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: go to Las Vegas.
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: It's the show okay, well, like Magic Mike.
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: Not Magic Mike. I think there's probably like Lady Gaga,
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: isn't she doing a residency there? Probably not anymore. I
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: want to see a residency. Okay, I want to see something.
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: I want to see the sphere. Okay, there's other things
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: to see, but what's it? Okay, So your top five
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: so you said, of course New York.
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: So top cities would be London and New York, Charleston, Nashville, and.
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: Not something in the west. Come on, throws somebody out
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: in the West. Maybe San Diego. I like see San Diego. Okay,
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: there's two sides to it. I love the weather. I
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: was underwhelmed by what there was to do.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there's not a ton to do, but if you
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: know where to go, it's like a cool city. I
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: think San Diego would be fun to live in. Yes,
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: I don't necessarily need to visit San Diego. I think
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: that's my thing. The cities that I love to visit
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: I think would be really fun to live in. Like,
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: I don't really enjoy visiting New York if I'm honest
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: with you, But I.
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: Loved living there. How long did you live there? I
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: was there for four months. Dang, that's a hustle. I know.
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: Were you able to like form a friendship with people
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: in four months? Yeah, that's really impressible. What was your
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: normal day look like them? It depends.
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: So I was working part time at iHeart, and then
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: the other days I would literally just stick around New
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: York like I was. Literally my job was literally go
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: to Elvis Durand for two days and then dick around
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: the city for five.
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: What kind of crap did you get into? Because I
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: feel like I at my money on like food, I
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: would want to go. I don't know what there is
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: to do to New York if you're not visiting, But
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: I think that's why I don't.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: When people are always like, oh, I could never live there,
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: but I love visiting there, I'm like the complete opposite.
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I loved living there, but visiting sucks.
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: You like the noise in the hustle and bustles.
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: It's just a city that has the lifestyle that I like.
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: I enjoy leaving my apartment and getting to walk somewhere.
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: It makes socializing easier for me. It's so hard for
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: me to want to leave the house. But if I
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: can just leave my house and go down to a
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: cool bar, I love that. I love getting on the subway.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: I loved going for a run in Central Park, and
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: you're just constantly surrounded by icons and the most successful
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: people in the world. To me, I'm like shock that
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: you don't like New York, because New York is everything
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: that you love is people who are motivated and doing
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: shit with their lives. Yeah, people crying in the streets
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: because it's so hard to live there.
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: I'd like people crying in the streets. I like somebody
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: that knows how to hustle. But I also like somebody
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: that's not a dick. And the vast majority of what
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: I've walked across in New York is somebody that's like,
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: I don't like it when you're so successful that you
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: can't give me the time of day. Yeah, So I
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: want to make sure that it's like, if I'm in
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: your circle, that we could still see each other as humans.
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: But there's a vibe that I've gotten that's like, I'm
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: too important for you, So I'm going to go ahead
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: and continue on my way.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: Well, then you just have to become more important than them.
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: I already am because I'm Scott Tablets. I'm Scott Tash
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: damn it. Yeah, I would think if the people I think,
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: if I were to live anywhere else, I've just probably
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: lived downtown Saint Pete because I like the vibe there.
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: I like the everything you could do is right there.
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: I like being able to walk. I've walked more than
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: this year than I've ever had in my life. And
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: it doesn't have all the noise in the trash that
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: New York has. That's the part that I don't understand.
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: I have a lot of trash, including myself. M Yes,
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: New York I think is great. London. Have you been
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: to London. I've been to London. I liked London. I
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: liked London more than I like New York.
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: It is funny because I spent a ton of time
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: in London and then I went straight to New York
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: right after in December, and I remember leaving going, wow,
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: you really use a shit hole? Yes, London is so clean. Yes,
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: and London is a lot more liveable. It doesn't have
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: the same energy as New York does.
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: If they could learn how to clean New York, I
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: would be in Yeah. If it didn't smell, I would
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: be down.
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: I don't know why they can't figure out a way
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: to clean New York.
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: I have no idea taxing people like crazy.
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: Well.
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: You know what also bothers me about a big city
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: is that there's always scaffolding. Yeah, that's such a silly
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: thing to complain about, but it's always there. It's finish
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: the damn building. Told I'm with you. That's the part
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: that gets me.
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: Clean up because every other city in America, I feel like,
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: can clean up, Boston, DC, Chicago. Like, if Chicago can
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: clean up, why can't New York.
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: It's a great question. It just makes me wonder where
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: those tax dollars are going. That's a good question too.
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: If they could clean it, I would like it, But
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: maybe they.
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: Prefer it that way. Maybe real New Yorkers are like,
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: this is a part of the charm. It's disgusting. You
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: might get hepatitis. See, but it's the greatest city.
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: In the world. The rats are part of us. It's
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: who we are. Yeah, get in the subway. I know.
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: I would like to go back to London. Is there
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: a place overseas that okay? Because London? Have you been
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: to like anything in Spain? Yeah?
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: I studied it broad in Buffalona.
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: What how long did you study abroad? What did you study?
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: Not long? I think just wine. Honestly, you studied wine.
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: I gotta be plus.
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: In one of those classes there, I had a dick
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: professor and that parble.
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: Explained the professor. It was like it was like a
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: main mester.
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: You were literally there for like a month and then
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: you traveled on the weekends with the rest of the
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: journalism crew.
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: I wish I did that.
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was fun. Barcelona's not my favorite city.
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: I loved it the second time I went.
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: I think I would like it if I went back.
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: Now I don't. I don't think I liked it when
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: I went through the first two times.
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: What do you think it was the first time.
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: I wasn't big into nightlife, and I think I would
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: enjoy it more with like the Tapa culture and clubs
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: and I know where to go, you know, at eighteen
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: and nineteen, I think a big city like that is.
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: Just really overwhelming. That's a good way to put it.
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: And Barcelona is huge. Barcelona to me, and this will
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: make sense to nobody except for myself. Barcelona to me
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: has the same.
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: Vibe as Chicago. That's fascinating.
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: So it's very clean, yes, and it feels very residential.
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: And it's near a body of water.
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: Yes it is. It's right by the coast.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: There's not a lot going on, but it's a big city.
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of architecture near a body of water,
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: and it's kind of chill, like Barcelona is very chill.
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: That's what I liked about. Like we went to Spain
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: and the first time I was just blown away. I
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: always thought to myself, if I were to move out
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: of the US, I would go to Spain. Yeah, because
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: one I thought the culture was just beautiful and I
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: love the idea. My way of going out, My ideal
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: night is going out and having a glass of wine
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: and a light bite with just a group of friends.
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: Like I don't need to be in a club, I
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: don't need to be in a loud ass bar. But
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: how they had it. I remember the first night and
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: we went to Malaga first, and I was like it
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: was a city, but it was old and historic, and
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: they just had a ton of tables just out in
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: the street and you sit down for dinner and they
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: don't even see you for the first hour because you're
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: just sitting talking to friends. And then they finally come by.
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: They'll just give you the house wine. It tastes amazing,
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: and you literally sit there for four hours just chit chatting,
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: having a tapa, having a bite. Here's some calamari, and
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: you just have so much fun interacting with your circle.
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: I love that shit. I had a friend that asked
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: me recently. They're like, well, do you like game nights?
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: And I said no, because I'd rather sit there, have
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: my glass of wine and talk to you. Yes.
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: I feel the same way when people pull out of
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: deck of cards. I want to deck them in the face.
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: And they're like, and then.
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: You can reach immunity if you get the fourth card
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: to the left, and I'm like, this is I don't
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: want to do all this brain power.
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: No, it's the weekend. That's exactly how I feel. And
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: also I feel like you don't get us down into
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: the depths of conversation if there's a game being played.
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: I prefer I would rather somebody tell me the most
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: scalding piece of gossip they have, because that's a unifier
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: to me. I feel like I'm a big on that
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: word unifire because I hate things that just break up
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: a social interaction, Like when somebody brings on a bad
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: karaoke song that nobody wants to hear. That's not a
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: unifying moment to me. When somebody has a good story,
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: the way that brings a group together. Brava whereas I
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: feel like a game of Uno just kind of doesn't
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: do the same thing.
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't want to be thinking about my next
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: move if I'm actually trying to catch up with you,
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: because I never get to do it.
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: But I also know that the friend groups that thrive
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: with that, some people love that, and I love that
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: for them, it's not my journey.
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: Well okay, and in that space, that's why I think
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: I like those commerce cities because it wasn't so much
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: of like. So, I don't know. I think I have
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: a hearing problem. Then I think I do, because I
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: don't know what that is, because I don't think it's
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: that my ears are weak. I think it is at
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: a distraction thing. If we're gonna allot us bar, I'm
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: gonna be like, huh, And it takes so hard to
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: focus on you that at that point I just literally
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: give up. I'm like, all right, screw this, I'm done.
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: I can't hear shit. I'm just gonna look at you
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: and just nod and I won't forget. I won't remember
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: anything that you say. That's what's so hard. That's why
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: I don't want to do it. That's why I'm going
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: to Spain. Yeah, that's why I think you would like
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: Charleston too.
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: Charleston is very much the bar hop type city, Like
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: you could go to a restaurant, sit at a bar,
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: get an app, get a drink, bop to the next one.
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: See that's what I'm looking forward to you on this cruise.
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: I was already kind of planting it out of my head.
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: I don't want to zoom the whole time. The last
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: time I zoom, but the whole time, Huh, don't want
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: to do that.
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: Define zoom being the whole time, like night till.
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: Like I think the first time, we didn't know. So
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: when we went over it, here's it kind of stacked
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: on of problems. We walked out not really knowing what
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: was going to happen. They started speaking to us in French.
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: Were the only Americans on the ship.
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: We have no idea, So it was a French Zooma crew.
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, the first one.
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: Why didn't you go on to the American one?
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: We wanted to travel and we wanted to go on
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: a Zooma cruise, and there happened to be one that
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: did both for us. So it was a super like
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: sweet trip because we went to France, we went to Spain,
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: we went to Italy and had so many good elements.
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: We didn't know that the Zooma instructors were just gonna
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: only speak French. Gotcha should have expected it. It was
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: you know, it was a little hard. But the one
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: thing that we didn't know is how long they would
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: zoom before. I thought it was gonna be like an hour.
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: No one will zooma class wrong. And also, if you've
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: ever been to Europe, they're not big on this whole
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: water thing. They don't drink water a lot. I don't
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: get that. I don't either. But we went out there
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: zooma to our ass off, couldn't find any water. And
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: then it was literally I think four hours the first
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: time we did it, so four hours of just dancing
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: your face off, trying to like find anything to drink
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: that's not alcohol so you could keep dancing. It was
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: honestly horrible. This one's gonna be different.
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: Why do I feel like the American cruise is going
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: to be more like and now we have snacks for you.
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: As that's right? Where's the French are? Like?
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: You just have a cigarette and a piece of chocolate
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: and get.
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: Beck into the dance dance boy dance. This one, I
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: think is going to be more of we do a
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: class for two hours. I might not do it for
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: two I think my dad and I might go hit
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: the gym. We'll dance for a second and go leave.
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: I want to treat this as an actual vacation. Yeah.
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: I want to actually walk back here and feel refreshed
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: and replenished in the fat, juicy ass and the fats toned,
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: toned ass from all the dancing. I want to work out.
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: This sounds so crazy, but if you want to know
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: the inside of my brain, I want to get the
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: healthiest I have ever been on the ship. I know
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: I'm going to have a glass of bubbles at night,
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: but like during the day, I want to get good sunlight.
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: I want to dance, I want to work out. I
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: want to eat healthy. I want to treat my body
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: right because how often you come back on vacation you
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: just feel like shit. Yeah, that happens like every time,
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: all the time. Well, that's the plan for this trip
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: is to do it for like an hour and then
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: go and like sit by the pool or sit in
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: a hot tub, or maybe I'll get the Spall membership. WHOA,
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: I know. I did that on the last one, and
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: it was the best decision I could have made. Yeah,
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: get a massage, Yeah, a massage, and then sit in
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: their sauna. If there's one thing I love more than anything,
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: it's sitting in the sauna. Sauna. Have you found one
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: here yet? No?
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: You know what, They had tons of sauna membership places
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: in Atlanta, but it was too really expensive.
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: That's all I was just talking to friends about. It's
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: the trend right now is saunas and cold plunges. Yeah,
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: I don't think it's gonna last.
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: I like the infrared saunas, but I don't need the
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: cold plunge.
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: And sometimes they bundle them. Yeah, I don't want to
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: do that. No, you got to just have a place
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: that does the sauna. But they're all gonna have the
• 37:36
  Speaker 2: cold punch now. But you need to find one because
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: they're like some are three hundred bucks. Yeah. I don't
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: know where they are in Tampa, but I do know
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: in St. Pete, I go to Iceberg Cold Plant and
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: I do love.
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: So there's a studio in Atlanta.
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: There's two of them. It's called Sweat House.
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: And then there's Inspire or Perspire and you literally just
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: sit in an infrared sauna. But they have TVs in
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: every single room. Oh so you can watch Love Is
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: Blind for like an hour while you're sitting in your sauna.
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: See that sounds amazing. An infrared one you can get
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: at your house, though, no, I know it's a greasing
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: I kind of want one. I was like, Mom, can
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: we get one? I know it sounds ridiculous, but they're
• 38:10
  Speaker 2: not that expensive. They are.
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: I mean, if you were gonna do it consistently every
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: single day, it does eventually pay for itself.
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, if you're gonna pay a membership to do an
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: infrared sauna, you could buy one for your house for
• 38:19
  Speaker 2: like two grand.
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, which really is not bad. I mean,
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying that's an insignificant amount of mine.
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: That's a big chunk. But if you're gonna do a
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: membership for a place, that would be you could spend
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: that money within a year, I know, and then well
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: the only perk is then you don't have to clean it.
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: But also you're the only one using it. But isn't
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: there I don't know. I see, I like sitting in
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: the sauna, and the best conversations I've had have been
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: in saunas, you and a couple people sweating your ass
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: off because I go to the hot ass one the
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: dry sauna, and you just get into these in depth
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: conversations of you know, why you just left your wife,
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: or why your job didn't work out, or why you
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: moved here. Those are the kind of conversations I like
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: in the sauna. That's crazy. I've learned a lot. I
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: used to go to the YMCA in downtown Saint Pete
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: and I sit there and I'll listen to the old
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: folks just talk and they would talk about their their history.
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: What do they talk about and talk about how they're
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: in the war. They talk about the benefits that they get.
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: Now that's what I want to hear about World War two.
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: I was fascinated.
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: Give me tips for the upcoming one, that's right. What
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: would you do differently?
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: How would you avoid getting drafted? Yeah, that would be
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: the move. Well, I found it fascinating. But also I
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: learned if you talk too much in the sauna, you
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: get very near passing out, which I did multiple times.
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: You have to see hydrated. So I'd like to do
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: it alone. But those ones are like ten grand, which
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: I'm that I won't spend No, not yet in fred
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: Ones that's a good possibility. Two thousand. I'll do it.
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: But what about the community. I don't know. I don't
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: want to see them. They're half naked, they're sweaty. That's
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: literally what we're doing tonight. I don't want them to see. No,
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: but that's different.
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: That's like, oh, let's go for a walk, let's like
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: go get a bed.
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: But how much better would it be to be sitting
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: across some tall, sweaty man. But it's never that man.
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: It's always some woman in her eighties who wants to
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: come in butt ass.
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: Naked, you know who. She has a great grandson and
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: he's great already. He's great already. Yeah, Well usually it is,
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: But it depends on where you go. There's a lot
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: of young places around here that have very young, attractive
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: people getting their song on. Just don't get the cold
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: plunge on. Well, you are a yawn and all day
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: to day, I'm tired. What are you so tired from?
• 40:16
  Speaker 3: What do you mean?
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: I'm just a sleepy girl. What were you watching last night?
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: You know what I was watching while I was doing
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: my taxes. This is my pro tip for anyone who's like,
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: I don't want to do my taxes.
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: Scotty, I don't want to do them.
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: Is I got on a notebook because me and you
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: both have multiple streams of income, and that's what makes
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: it stressful. It's not like when I yearned for the
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: days when I just had one job and I could.
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: Just put it into turbotil. We literally did this to ourselves. Yeah,
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: And so I had to make a list of all
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: my streams of income and like, yeah, all the things.
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: And while I did that, I turned on this new
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: Regency period drama called Seeking Persephone. It's on Amazon Prime you.
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: Find wild shows. I'll tell you what. No, it's like
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: a Regency period drama.
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: I didn't make sense to my had What does that
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: even mean? You know, Bridgerton, it's like that, you just
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: like that historics I love. I love.
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: No, they don't even fuck what's the point. I'm sure,
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: why did you watch it? Would you watch it? Honestly?
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: I think sometimes Bridgerton has fallen in love with its
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: mythology too much about how it's the sexy Regency Bodice Ripper.
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: And ultimately, when I watched it the first season, of course,
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: I was like, oh, yeah, this is the sexiest show
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: I've ever seen.
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: Really, No, no, it's actually not. But I was texting
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: with somebody and they said it was so steamy. I mean, yeah,
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: it's it's hot, but it's not.
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: It's not anything crazy like Game of Phones is crazier anyway.
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: So season one I was like, I just this is
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: such a well done show and I love historical fiction.
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: And then I feel like they've leaned in too much
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: and people expect us to be super super raunchy mm hmmm.
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: Well they learned that way. I literally, if you think
• 41:54
  Speaker 2: of the shows that have blown up, it all has
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: that kind of line of like heated rivalry, same kind
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: of deal, Bridgerton, same kind of deal, Gray's Anatomy, same
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: kind of deal where it's like everybody has to have
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: this thick, hot romance where I mean it's nice. I
• 42:11
  Speaker 2: don't hate it. Yeah, I'm here for it. But there
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: was a show this boy Brain. There was a show
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: about Vikings that was like a historical piece. Oh Vikings aboualla,
• 42:20
  Speaker 2: Well it was something along that line. I don't remember.
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: It was like did from Bebin Burrough. I don't remember
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: the show what it was called, but it was so
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: good because it was about Vikings and I was like
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: fascinating because I was like, yeah, loose fiction, I don't
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: know whatever, loose historical, but I was so interested in
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: what that time period would have been like. And it
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: was like only a little bit of sex. Yeah, not completely.
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: Every episode was.
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: Sex, but it's got to be like you got to
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: use it like salt correct. It needs to be there
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: for a little flavor.
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: Absolutely, but if you do it too much, then you
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: just you're like, oh, that's too much. Well I want
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: to be bought into the character's love, yes, yeah, but
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: I don't Wally only watch that show for the sex exactly.
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: That's what other things are for.
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: And so that's what I get worried about with other shows,
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: where especially with Heat of Rivalry season two, I'm like,
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: don't lean too much into the sex.
• 43:02
  Speaker 2: Oh they will, that's not yet will, But that's not
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: why we're here.
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: I'm like, it's just a really well done show and
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: sex just happens to be a part of it.
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: But they know that we're all dirty minded animals. That's
• 43:13
  Speaker 2: still at the end of the day, that's what we're
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: searching out. But even though it's nice to have just
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: a show that's a little bit of love interest and
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: just a lot more about what would have been like
• 43:23
  Speaker 2: back in that day. That's why I watch it.
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: I find it so the social construct of that time
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: period is so interesting to me. Like the whole Bridgerton
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: Season one storyline is fascinating because it's so accurate to
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: what it was like to get married.
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: As a nineteen year old in that day.
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: Like they literally wouldn't tell you what sex is, and
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: then they were like breeding you to be a perfect wife.
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: And then you're like twenty years old and then they're like, okay,
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: now get married and now fuck and but they.
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: Don't tell you.
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: They don't like, they don't tell you. You just get married
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: and then you're like surprised.
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: That's a good point. I mean, honestly, it's not that
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: it's like that still, but there are still a lot
• 44:01
  Speaker 2: of like a lot of communities. There's a lot of
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: people that literally don't know about it until they're doing
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: it in the moment. That's what I mean. Is that's
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: so wild to me. Yeah, And well that's why we
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: have like so many problems because it's like, well, you
• 44:13
  Speaker 2: have you know, if we could have the conversation. If
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: we could talk about it more, it wouldn't be so taboo.
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: We wouldn't have all these you know, even kids getting
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: into trouble because they would know what the heck it is.
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: They would know what they're doing.
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: So season one was such an interesting portrayal of a
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: storyline that you never really see in regency dramas because
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: regency dramas tend to not get sexy, and so for
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: the first time, Regency got a little sexy, but showed
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: the reality of what that time period was like, where
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: it's like they raised these really chased socially upity women
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: and this is what happens when you don't when you
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: keep women in the dark.
• 44:47
  Speaker 2: I need to watch this show now. It's really good,
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: I do. This is how it was a Game of Thrones,
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: though once the show gets too many seasons in or
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: stranger things, that's how it was too Like everyone's already
• 44:56
  Speaker 2: watched it. I'm already behind. But it does sound fascinating.
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's not one of those things where you
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: need to watch season two to appreciate season three. Everything
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: has its own storyline, so if you watched season four,
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: you might miss out on a couple of small nuances
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: between the characters, but it's by no means something you
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: need to completely watch in order to get I.
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: Think we might have talked about this before, but what
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: is your like is there a time period that you're
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: the most interested in?
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: I mean, I think I used to be fascinated with
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: with those time periods, but then I look back and
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: I go, I wouldn't have wanted to live back there.
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: No, not necessarily knowing when I'm there, but knowing what
• 45:33
  Speaker 2: I know now. Yeah. I mean we live technically in
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: the best time to live, obviously because we have the
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: most of everything. Yeah, and it's still hard. There's still
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: plenty of struggles. It's not everything comes with the cost.
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: But the most interesting time I always think of, like
• 45:47
  Speaker 2: the nineteen twenties sounded just so extravagant. Not for everybody,
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: not saying that, but like when I remember learning about
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: it in history, I was like, damn to go out
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: to like a speakeasy or like to be dancing all
• 46:01
  Speaker 2: night Like it was just felt so community driven, so interactive,
• 46:05
  Speaker 2: so fun and spontaneous. And I also like the idea
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: of being able to do stuff. This sounds weird, but
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna say it anyway and getting away with it. Yeah,
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: does that make sense? I know you can't get away
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: with anything.
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you mean in like the not in the illegal sense. Yeah. Yeah.
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: Now I'm not trying to do anything illegal. Nobody's trying
• 46:22
  Speaker 2: to get hurt. But like it was just a you
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: could just sneak out in the middle of the night
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: and go have a crazy night, come back. There's no
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: cameras of you. Nobody needs to know. Nobody's sending a
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: phone call because I don't know there were no phones.
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: Right, You can be a little saucy without without it
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: being a life endying thing.
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like you could have a conversation with somebody and
• 46:39
  Speaker 2: that's it. Like it doesn't have to be posted anywhere.
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: Those are the time periods that I'm like, dang or
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: And this is why I've been picking I've picked my
• 46:46
  Speaker 2: grandparents' brain about this, my dad's brain about this, because
• 46:49
  Speaker 2: I always think about, like, what the hell is the seventies.
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: Like, I know, like Studio fifty four, I would have
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: loved to have been in Studio fifty four for a night.
• 46:57
  Speaker 2: That sounds wild, But that also sounds like a time
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: period which just seems so free. And I know that's again,
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: I just saw the out of my phone. They're doing
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: another party in Tampa where it's no phones. That's why
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: I think it's so appealing is because you are forced
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: to just interact and be social and see what it's
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: like in that construct. I think we just all yearned
• 47:16
  Speaker 2: for that. But I like I miss when people what
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: it seemed like just let themselves be loose. Yeah, they
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: could just have a good time and enjoy each other's
• 47:24
  Speaker 2: company without the fear of judgment or phones.
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: So I think I look back on those time periods
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: like the seventies or maybe the nineties, I think that
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: would be a fun time period to live in realistically.
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: But I feel like also just any form of media
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: tends to romanticize specific time periods, Like the seventies had issues,
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: like they were roofing women left and right in Studio
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: fifty four. I think, yeah, the nineties in New York
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: is getting romanticized right now because of the Carolyn Besset
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: JFK's story. The nineties in New York had its own problems,
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: you know.
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: Of course, the.
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: Only time period I romanticize and would genuinely want to
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: go back to is twenty sixteenth Actually.
• 48:01
  Speaker 2: That's so valid of like first year in college, second
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: year was second year having a good time, Like it
• 48:07
  Speaker 2: was very and you what's so weird is, as you always,
• 48:10
  Speaker 2: you get older and you look back and you're like, man,
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: I wish I would have appreciated those times more. But
• 48:14
  Speaker 2: I do remember in that second year, like I started
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: getting too serious about what I wanted to do, and
• 48:18
  Speaker 2: I think I went through like a depression in my
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: second year of like just being so down on myself
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: for not knowing what I wanted to do and not
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: being where I wanted to be in my successful life.
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: And now I'm like, Scott, you idiot, why don't you
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: just go to parties and have a great blackout night.
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: That's saying like that's what twenty sixteen was meant for.
• 48:32
  Speaker 2: I know I had a grete twenty sixteen. Yeah, but
• 48:34
  Speaker 2: I also everybody did well, Yeah, that was a great year.
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: But then I also remember, like by that time of college,
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: I started being like, you know what, why didn't you
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: take a step back from like tailgates and parties and
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: all this stuff. And I'm like, I don't really have
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: a desire to do it now, Oh prude, Scottie, No,
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: I just felt like I didn't need to do it anymore.
• 48:51
  Speaker 2: But now I miss those days. It was just so
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: it's just crazy perspective. It was so free. A night
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: could just be wild fun. And also, if you remember
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: twenty sixteen, not everything was getting posted up.
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: No, it was like every now and then you take
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: a place what snapchat existed, and I think that was
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: a Yeah, that was a legitimate fear for people. So
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: twenty sixteen people, I've heard people say that word. It's
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: like that was the last era before things got I'm like, no,
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: twenty sixteen.
• 49:16
  Speaker 2: You still had to be very uh vigilant. But I
• 49:19
  Speaker 2: don't remember being addicted to the phone like I am now.
• 49:22
  Speaker 2: Like I remember we had Instagram.
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah I remember, but that's so true.
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: I wasn't always scrolling to see the next post or
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: worry about getting viral, or worried about being famous. And
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: then maybe that's just the personal thing. Yeah, but now
• 49:36
  Speaker 2: it's literally everywhere. I was just walking by a family
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: at the movie theater and just we all do it.
• 49:41
  Speaker 2: So I'm not judging, but it was almost as I
• 49:44
  Speaker 2: was looking at myself and I see all the family members,
• 49:46
  Speaker 2: they're all together, and they're all looking at their phone. Yeah,
• 49:49
  Speaker 2: and I'm like, it feels like a movie we're watching
• 49:54
  Speaker 2: us just let our lives just go by, because we're
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: just so looking at posts that we don't even remember.
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: I've been on Instagram all morning. I cannot tell you
• 50:02
  Speaker 2: one post that I saw. Yeah, isn't that weird? Doesn't
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: really stick with you? No, but we spend so much
• 50:07
  Speaker 2: time on it, it's entertaining in the moment. Let's see
• 50:09
  Speaker 2: who's worse before we go on screen time, Abby, Let's see, Oh,
• 50:12
  Speaker 2: I'm worse. I don't know. I have a problem, and
• 50:15
  Speaker 2: I'm admitting it on this podcast. I'm on my phone
• 50:18
  Speaker 2: all the time. Okay, you probably have worse. Then let's
• 50:20
  Speaker 2: see just screen time alone. Because this is why twenty
• 50:24
  Speaker 2: sixteen seems so fun to me, because I'm like, God,
• 50:27
  Speaker 2: you could just party all night and you weren't worried
• 50:28
  Speaker 2: about putting it on your Insta story. Oh, I was
• 50:31
  Speaker 2: putting it amends. Well, I was putting it on my
• 50:32
  Speaker 2: snapshot snapchat. I had to tell people, look I drink. Now,
• 50:36
  Speaker 2: I'm crazy. Okay, your screen time look at this. I'm
• 50:39
  Speaker 2: down from last week. Go me, I'm improving. Let's just
• 50:43
  Speaker 2: start with Okay, let's go to all your apps.
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: Just what's your daily average? My daily average, I'm down
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: thirteen percent. I'm down thirty one percent. So let's see. Okay,
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: that's not fair.
• 50:56
  Speaker 2: I know I've been trying to improve. That's why I'm
• 50:57
  Speaker 2: talking about it here. Okay, in three two one, eight hours,
• 51:02
  Speaker 2: four hours and thirteen minutes. Oh my god, wait.
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: But you're on You're down thirty one per Here's where.
• 51:08
  Speaker 2: It really matters, though. It matters what you're doing on
• 51:10
  Speaker 2: your phone. Yeah. No, So what is your nothing productive?
• 51:12
  Speaker 2: What is your most used? Where does it say that,
• 51:16
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, this is so sad to look at Jesus. Yeah,
• 51:20
  Speaker 2: I'm on it. Okay. If you go to like down
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: on your phone from screen time, it says most used.
• 51:25
  Speaker 2: Do you see that. What is your most used Instagram? Yeah?
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: Mine is too, and then TikTok Okay, mine's not TikTok.
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: Mine's messenger. Okay, I do a lot of messages. Good
• 51:33
  Speaker 2: for me. What's your Instagram time? Fourteen hours? Oh my gosh,
• 51:42
  Speaker 2: my insta screen time it says seven hours and seventeen minutes.
• 51:45
  Speaker 2: I think that's a total of this week. What's your
• 51:47
  Speaker 2: daily average?
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: What was your daily average last week?
• 51:50
  Speaker 2: That's what I want to know. Last week? Oh my god,
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: how do you go to last week? Oh? This week?
• 51:54
  Speaker 2: Last week? I don't know how to do that to
• 51:56
  Speaker 2: last week. I don't know where to do. You can
• 51:58
  Speaker 2: you can scroll? Oh my god, this is so bad. Okay,
• 52:03
  Speaker 2: wait a second. Last week you could scroll on the
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: daily average. Mine doesn't do that this week. Oh wait,
• 52:12
  Speaker 2: last week? There it is. Okay, Okay. Last week's average
• 52:16
  Speaker 2: was five hours and twenty eight minutes, so it's down
• 52:19
  Speaker 2: a little bit. But that's because we're only, like what
• 52:21
  Speaker 2: we're recording us on a Wednesday, only halfway through. But
• 52:24
  Speaker 2: let me see your most us you said Instagram. My
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: total amount of time last week on Instagram was fourteen
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: hours and fifty one minutes. Okay, judgment free zone, thank you.
• 52:35
  Speaker 2: We're omitting. We have a problem, so we could do
• 52:37
  Speaker 2: something about the problem. A problem I do. But that's
• 52:39
  Speaker 2: what I'm saying is it was something that was casually used.
• 52:43
  Speaker 2: It was fun actually connecting, and now it's literally an addiction. Yeah,
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: you could be up all night scrolling, and I've done it.
• 52:49
  Speaker 2: I think that's why I missed out on thirty minutes
• 52:51
  Speaker 2: to sleep every night because as soon as I get
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: in bed, I'm like just a little bit extra, little
• 52:55
  Speaker 2: swipe it.
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: I mean, if you think about it, people used to
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: do that with books or whatever back in the day.
• 52:59
  Speaker 2: They would read or what TV before. But books are better.
• 53:01
  Speaker 2: At least books are actually giving you something to like.
• 53:04
  Speaker 2: It's the way your brain, Oh boy, science Scott has
• 53:08
  Speaker 2: to create the story with a book and it's working
• 53:10
  Speaker 2: in a different way and it's bringing you into this
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: other universe, whereas TV made it a little worse because
• 53:17
  Speaker 2: it's just kind of brain rotting where you're just watching
• 53:19
  Speaker 2: the show that your brain doesn't have to think about creating.
• 53:21
  Speaker 2: And then Instagram's even worse because now it's not even
• 53:23
  Speaker 2: a show, it's five second videos. They're like, let me
• 53:27
  Speaker 2: get my dose in, let me just get one more in,
• 53:29
  Speaker 2: one more click. And the problem is you can remember
• 53:31
  Speaker 2: a book, you can remember a TV show, you cannot
• 53:33
  Speaker 2: remember what you're scrolling on. Well, there that's an issue
• 53:38
  Speaker 2: that we should solve. Well there it is. Okay, that's it.
• 53:41
  Speaker 2: That's a depressing episode right there. I know I'm gonna have.
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: Fun on Zoomba Zoomba zoom A Cruise, zoom A cruise there.
• 53:48
  Speaker 2: It is all right, Abby, let's get out of here.
• 53:50
  Speaker 2: What's your Instagram? Gabby Murphyphy? What are you gonna do
• 53:54
  Speaker 2: the rest of the day?
• 53:55
  Speaker 3: Umm?
• 53:56
  Speaker 2: I have you do some things for my podcast? Oh
• 53:58
  Speaker 2: I got a free facial.
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: Somebody DMed me and offered me and my sister in
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: law a free facial at Clean your Dirty Face.
• 54:06
  Speaker 2: What about me? Well, I didn't think you'd be interested.
• 54:09
  Speaker 2: I would get a facial.
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: It was also my sister in law's birthday, so I
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: figured i'd give her that as a gift.
• 54:14
  Speaker 2: Well, when you talk to him, let them know that
• 54:16
  Speaker 2: I would like one too. What are they What do
• 54:18
  Speaker 2: you give into return?
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: You could honestly just go, I'll give you the website
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: after this you can just supply.
• 54:22
  Speaker 2: Oh that sounds amazing. What to be like a social partner?
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: Basically you just have to like post a thing. I
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: actually don't even think you have to post. I think
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: I think it's just a press pass. Like I think
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: you just get a free facial.
• 54:34
  Speaker 2: They want you to get a taste of it. Yeah,
• 54:35
  Speaker 2: it's a part of their marketing budget. M m okay
• 54:38
  Speaker 2: at Scott Tavlin is mine se o T T T
• 54:41
  Speaker 2: A v l I N. And then at Magic ninety
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: four to nine, and we'll be back. I guess after
• 54:46
  Speaker 2: my Zooma cruise. Well maybe no, because we're gonna records shows, Okay,
• 54:50
  Speaker 2: well yeah, we'll bring some more before Zoomba goes down.
• 54:53
  Speaker 2: There's more to talk about, all right, until next time,