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- 0:00Speaker 1: Conquest of anger by Sri Swami Sivanandal on anger and
- 0:04its control, Arjuna said, impelled by what does man commit
- 0:09sin much against his wishes? Compelled as it were, by force,
- 0:14the Blessed Lord said, it is desire. It is anger,
- 0:17born of the quality of passion or restlessness. All devouring,
- 0:21all sinful, know this as the foe here in this world.
- 0:25The cause of sin or wrong action in this world
- 0:28is desire. Anger is only a modification or form of desire.
- 0:34Anger is desire itself. When a desire is not gratified,
- 0:38the man becomes angry against those who stand as obstacles
- 0:41in the path of fulfillment. The desire is born of
- 0:45the quality of restlessness or passion. When desire arises, it
- 0:50generates restlessness and urges the man to work in order
- 0:53to possess the object. Therefore, know that this desire is
- 0:57man's foe on this earth. Triple is the gait of
- 1:00this hell, destructive of the self, Lust, anger, and greed.
- 1:04Therefore one should abandon these three lust, anger, and greed.
- 1:09These highway robbers will cause a man to fall into
- 1:12the dark abyss of hell, Misery and grief. These are
- 1:16the three fountain heads of misery. These three constitute the
- 1:20gateway leading down to the lowest of hells. These are
- 1:24the enemies of peace, devotion, and knowledge. From anger comes
- 1:28delusion from delusion, the loss of memory. From loss of memory,
- 1:32the destruction of discrimination. From destruction of discrimination, he perishes.
- 1:37He who is able to resist the force of desire
- 1:40and anger, even before he quits his body, he is
- 1:42a yogan. He is a blessed man. Those who are
- 1:46free from desire and anger, and who have subdued their
- 1:49minds and realized themselves. Around such austere men lies the
- 1:53beatitude of God. Anger and its forms. Anger is a
- 1:58negative thought wave or whirlpool in the mind lake. It
- 2:02is born of ignorance. It is a strong emotion excited
- 2:06by a real or fancied injury, in involving a desire
- 2:09for retaliation. Anger is the natural passion or emotion of
- 2:13displeasure and antagonism, aroused by injury or insult, real or imagined,
- 2:18and directed against the cause thereof. Anger arises from an
- 2:23idea of evil having been inflicted or threatened. Anger is
- 2:27often accompanied by a desire to take vengeance or to
- 2:30obtain satisfaction from the offending party. It begins in folly
- 2:34and ends in repentance. There fire, you kindle for your
- 2:38enemy burns yourself. When anger arises, think of the consequences.
- 2:44It will soon subside. You think of objects of senses.
- 2:49Attachment to these objects develops from attachment. Desire is born
- 2:55from desire. Anger comes forth from anger. Proceeds delusion from delusion,
- 3:01confused memory from confused memory, the destruction of reason. From
- 3:05destruction of reason, you perish. Attachment is a long standing
- 3:09associate of anger. Control anger through patience, inquiry, self restrained love,
- 3:15and meditation. This is manly and divine. This is wise
- 3:21and glorious. To become angry for trifling things is mean, childish,
- 3:25and brutal. An angry man is angry with himself when
- 3:29he comes to his senses. Anger is personal and usually selfish,
- 3:34aroused by real or supposed wrong to oneself. Indignation is
- 3:39impersonal and unselfish displeasure at unworthy acts. Pure indignation is
- 3:44not followed by regret and needs no repentance. It is
- 3:48also more self controlled than anger. Anger is commonly a sin.
- 3:53Indignation is often a duty. We speak of righteous indignation.
- 3:59Tachment drives one beyond the bounds of prudence of discretion.
- 4:04Fury is stronger and sweeps one away into uncontrollable violence.
- 4:09Wrath is deep and vengeful displeasure. It simply expresses the
- 4:13culmination of righteous indignation without malice, in a pure being.
- 4:18Anger is a stronger term than resentment, but not so
- 4:21strong as indignation, which is awakened by what is flagitious
- 4:24in character or conduct. Nor is wrath fury rage in
- 4:29which anger is wrought up to a still higher point.
- 4:31In the order of these words, anger is a sudden
- 4:34sentiment of displeasure. Resentment is a continued anger. Wrath is
- 4:38a heightened sentiment of anger. Philosophy of anger, it will
- 4:43be admitted on all hands that everyone, without any exception whatsoever,
- 4:48is a victim of this horrible malady. Indeed, control of
- 4:51anger will bring in its trained supreme peace and immeasurable joy.
- 4:56As such, let me presently describe in detail what anger is,
- 5:00its various forms, how it affects the nervous system, its
- 5:03exact relationship with passion, and lastly, the various practical methods
- 5:07that can be safely employed to effectively eradicate it. Root
- 5:10and branch. My one fervent appeal to you all is
- 5:14that you will apply yourselves, heart and soul to the
- 5:16eradication of this dire disease by following these valuable practices.
- 5:21Anger is a thought wave or modification that arises in
- 5:25the mind lake when the qualities restlessness and inertia predominate.
- 5:29It is the passion or restlessness quality thought wave. Some
- 5:34take it as inertia or darkness quality thought wave. It
- 5:38is a wave of unpleasant feeling that arises from the
- 5:40mind when one gets displeased with another. It is, in
- 5:44other words, a modification of desire or passion. Just as
- 5:49milk is changed into curd, so also desire becomes changed
- 5:52into anger. It is the most formidable enemy of peace,
- 5:57knowledge and devotion. It is the straightest road to hell itself.
- 6:02Anger is a manifestation of sacty power or devy. In Chandipath,
- 6:07you will find I bow again and again to that
- 6:10Devy who is seated in all beings in the form
- 6:12of anger. It was our Junah who asked Sri Krishna,
- 6:16but what impels man to commit sin o Krishna in
- 6:19spite of himself? And driven as it were, by force,
- 6:23The Blessed Lord said, it is desire. It is wrath
- 6:27which springs from passion. Know that it is our enemy.
- 6:31Here a monster of greed and sin, as a flame,
- 6:34is enveloped by smoke, as a mirror by dust, and
- 6:37as an unborn babe by the womb. So is this
- 6:40enveloped by that? Then, again, says Sri Krishna, three are
- 6:44the gateways of this hell, leading to the ruin of
- 6:47the soul, Lust, wrath, and greed. Therefore, let man renounce
- 6:51these three. Anger resides in the subtle astral body, but
- 6:56it percolates into the physical body, just as water percolates
- 6:59through the pores to the outer surface of an earthen pot.
- 7:03Just as heat melts lead. Just as heat and borics
- 7:06melt gold, so also pleasure and anger, the heating factors
- 7:09of the mind, melt the mind. Anger begets eight kinds
- 7:13of vices. All evil qualities and actions proceed from anger.
- 7:18If you can eradicate anger, all bad qualities will die
- 7:22by themselves. The eight vices are injustice, rashness, persecution, jealousy,
- 7:29taking possession of other's property, killing, harsh words, and cruelty.
- 7:34When a man's desire is not gratified, and when someone
- 7:37stands in the way of its fulfillment, the man becomes angry.
- 7:41The desire gets transformed into anger. When one is under
- 7:45the sway of anger, he will commit all sorts of
- 7:48sinful deeds. He loses his memory, his understanding becomes clouded,
- 7:53and his intellect gets perverted. Form Anger comes delusion from delusion,
- 7:58the loss of memory from laws of memory, the destruction
- 8:01of discrimination from destruction of discrimination, he perishes. Anger is
- 8:06the greatest enemy. Contentment is though the heavenly flower of indra,
- 8:11and peace is the wish fulfilling cow. Therefore, take to
- 8:15forgiveness Outmann is different from the body, the senses, vital energy,
- 8:20and the intellect. It is self effulgent, unchangeable, pure and formless.
- 8:27An angry man commits murder. He himself does not know
- 8:31what he is exactly doing. He becomes emotional and impulsive.
- 8:36A man when he is angry, will talk anything, He
- 8:39will do anything he likes. A hot word results in
- 8:43fighting and stabbing. He is under intoxication. He loses his
- 8:48normal consciousness for the time being. He falls a prey
- 8:52to anger, irritation, frowning, resentment, indignation, rage, fury, wrath are
- 8:59all varieties of anger according to the degree of intensity.
- 9:04If a man wants to correct another man manifest slight
- 9:07anger unselfishly as a force to check and improve him,
- 9:10then it is called righteous indignation or spiritual anger. Suppose
- 9:15a man molests a woman and tries to outrage her modesty,
- 9:19and a bystander becomes angry with the criminal, it is
- 9:22called righteous indignation or noble rage. This is not bad.
- 9:27Only when the anger is the outcome of greed, of
- 9:30selfish motives, it is bad. Sometimes a religious teacher has
- 9:35to manifest a little anger outwardly to correct his disciples.
- 9:39This is not bad. He has to do it, but
- 9:43he should be cool within and hot and impetuous without.
- 9:47He should not allow the anger to take deep root
- 9:50in his mind for a long time. It should pass
- 9:53off the next moment, even as a wave subsides in
- 9:55the sea. If a man becomes irritable for trifling things
- 9:59very often, it is a definite sign of mental weakness.
- 10:03When a man abuses you, and when a man takes
- 10:06away your cloth or coat, if you keep quiet, that
- 10:09is a positive sign of inner strength. Self restraint or
- 10:13self control is a sign of great mental strength. An
- 10:17easily irritable man is always unjust. He is swayed by
- 10:21impulses and emotions. Anger gains strength by repetition. If it
- 10:27is checked, then and there man gains immense strength of will.
- 10:31When anger is controlled, it becomes transmuted into spiritual energy
- 10:35that can move the three worlds. Just as heat or
- 10:39light is changed into electricity, so also anger becomes changed
- 10:43into energy. Energy takes another form. Energy is wasted enormously
- 10:49when one gets angry. The whole nervous system is shattered
- 10:53by an outburst of anger. The eyes become red, the
- 10:56body quivers, the legs and hands tremble. No one can
- 11:01check an angry man. He gets enormous strength for the
- 11:04time being and gets a collapse after some time on
- 11:07account of reaction. Instances are recorded wherein women have killed
- 11:11their children by nursing them with breast milk when they
- 11:14were in a fit of anger. Various poisons are thrown
- 11:18into the blood. When one is angry, Fiery dark arrows
- 11:22shoot out from the astral body. These can be seen
- 11:25clearly by clairvoyant eye. In the light of modern psychology,
- 11:30all diseases take their origin in anger. Rheumatism, heart disease,
- 11:35nervous disease are all due to anger. It takes some
- 11:38months for the restoration of normal equilibrium in the nervous system.
- 11:43Passion is the root and anger the stem. You will
- 11:46have to destroy the root of passion first, then the
- 11:50stem of anger will die by itself. A passionate man
- 11:54is more angry. A celibate who has preserved his seminal
- 11:58energy always keeps a bautalanced mind. He has a cool
- 12:02brain at all times. The root cause of anger is
- 12:06ignorance and egoism. Through self inquiry, egoism should be removed.
- 12:12Then alone can one control his anger completely. Through development
- 12:17of the opposite virtues such as forgiveness, love, peace, compassion, friendship,
- 12:22et cetera, anger can be controlled to an enormous degree.
- 12:26The force can be reduced adm knowledge alone can fry
- 12:30all mental impressions of anger and eradicated. In Toto, if
- 12:34an aspirant has controlled anger, half of his spiritual practice
- 12:38is over. Control of anger means control of lust. Also,
- 12:43control of anger is really control of mind. He who
- 12:47has controlled anger cannot do any wrong or evil action.
- 12:51He is always just. It is very difficult to say,
- 12:55when a man will be thrown into a fit of fury,
- 12:58all of a sudden he gets in irresistible fit of anger.
- 13:01For trifling matters. When anger assumes a grave form, it
- 13:05becomes difficult to control. It should therefore be controlled, even
- 13:10when it is in the form of a small ripple
- 13:12in the subconscious mind. One should watch his mind very,
- 13:16very cautiously. Whenever there is the least symptom or indication
- 13:20of light irritability, then and there it must be nipped.
- 13:24Then it becomes very easy to control anger. Be careful
- 13:28and vigilant, and watch the ripple. Then only you are
- 13:31a sage. Whenever there is a little irritability, stop all
- 13:35conversation and observe silence. The practice of silence daily for
- 13:40one or two hours is of great help in controlling anger.
- 13:44Always try to speak sweet, soft words. The words must
- 13:48be soft and the arguments hard. But if the reverse
- 13:51is the case, it will lead to discord and disharmony.
- 13:54There is a sharp sword in every tongue. If you
- 13:58find it difficult to control anger, leave the place at
- 14:01once and take a brisk walk. Drink some cold water immediately.
- 14:06This cools down the body and mind, chant o m
- 14:10loudly like a lion for ten minutes, and then chant
- 14:12o M piece mentally or verbally for five minutes. Think
- 14:17of the picture of your beloved deity. Pray repeat your
- 14:21beloved deity mantra for ten minutes. Gradually the anger will vanish.
- 14:27Find out the real cause of your anger, and try
- 14:29to eradicate it. If a man abuses you and calls
- 14:33you names, you become furious at once. Your blood becomes hot.
- 14:39Why do you feel offended when he calls you a
- 14:41dog or a donkey? Have you developed now four legs
- 14:45and tail like a dog? Why do you get excited
- 14:48for little things? Inquire? What is this abuse? Is it
- 14:53not mere vibration in the ether? Am I body or otman?
- 14:58No one can injure otman the ottman of the abuser
- 15:01and the abused is one. Do I really gain anything
- 15:05by retaliating? I waste my energy, I hurt the feeling
- 15:10of another man. I disturb and pollute the thought world.
- 15:15I do real harm to the world by sending a
- 15:17current of hatred. This world is unreal. I will live
- 15:22here for a short time only let me bear this insult,
- 15:26let me excuse him. I will develop inner mental strength
- 15:30and power of endurance. You can thus very effectively eradicate
- 15:35the feelings of anger. A time will come when you
- 15:38will not be irritated even a bit by harsh words, abuses,
- 15:42and insults of this kind. You will not pay the
- 15:45least heed. If a man says that such and such
- 15:48a man has said bad words against you, you will
- 15:51simply laugh the whole matter away. An irritable man is
- 15:55very weak and has no mental strength. You must try
- 15:59to remain cool will even in the most provocative conditions.
- 16:03If you are hungry, and if you suffer from any disease,
- 16:06you generally become more irritable. If you have some troubles, difficulties,
- 16:11or loss, you get irritated for little things. If a
- 16:15renuncient who lives in the cave says that he has
- 16:17controlled anger, you cannot believe him. The waves are for
- 16:21the time being suppressed. There are no opportunities for his
- 16:25getting irritated. If some transactions take place, if he is
- 16:29ill treated, he will again manifest his anger. The world
- 16:34is a better training college for the control of anger.
- 16:37An aspirant should direct all his attention towards the conquest
- 16:41of this powerful enemy. Pure food, constant repetition of a mantra,
- 16:46regular meditation, prayer, the association with great souls, service, self inquiry, praise,
- 16:52practice of breath control, and celibacy. All are some of
- 16:55the most potent factors that pave a long way in
- 16:57eradicating this dire malady. A combined method should be adopted
- 17:02in its eradication. Smoking, meat, eating, and drinking of liquors
- 17:07make men very irritable. Therefore these should be completely abandoned.
- 17:13Be careful in the choice of your company. Give up
- 17:16the companionship of evil characters. Talk little, mix little, Plunge
- 17:22yourself into the spiritual practice. Develop forgiveness, cosmic love, mercy,
- 17:28and the absence of egoism. Meditate in the morning on
- 17:32the virtue of patience for ten minutes. Reflect and repeat
- 17:36the formula O am patience mentally several times daily. Remember
- 17:41the saints and their lives. Say unto yourself, I am
- 17:45patient now. I will never get irritated from to day.
- 17:50I will manifest the virtue of patience in my daily life.
- 17:54I am getting better and better. Feel that you possess
- 17:57a magazine of patience. Think of the advantages of possessing
- 18:01this virtue and the disadvantages of irritability. You may fail
- 18:06many times, but you will develop patience gradually and become
- 18:09an embodiment of patience. He who is able to resist
- 18:13the force of desire and anger even before he quits
- 18:15his body, he is a yogin. He is a blessed man.
- 18:19Those who are free from desires and anger, and who
- 18:22have subdued their minds and realized themselves. Around such austere
- 18:26men lies the beatitude of God. Do not identify yourself
- 18:30with the thought wave of anger. When a wave of
- 18:33anger arises in the mind lake stand as a witness
- 18:36of the thought wave. Become indifferent. Say unto yourself, I
- 18:41am witness of this modification. I am distinct from this
- 18:45thought wave. I have nothing to do with this wave.
- 18:50Then this thought wave will die by itself. It will
- 18:53not disturb you. Identification with the thought wave is the
- 18:58cause of human sufferings. Identify yourself with the self. Stand
- 19:03like a lion as a spectator of the mental menagerie.
- 19:07Lithe in the spirit of the above two slocas. Eradicate anger,
- 19:13manifest inner spiritual strength, realize existence, consciousness, bliss, oughtman glory.
- 19:20Unto those who have rooted out their anger and attain
- 19:23knowledge of the self. Anger more powerful than desire. It
- 19:28is usual to regard anger as a corollary or counterpart
- 19:31of desire, since it usually appears when desire becomes frustrated. Psychologically,
- 19:37the two are interrelated. Yet from the point of view
- 19:41of the spiritual aspirant, whose main task is to purify
- 19:44the mind, anger is a more powerful foe than desire.
- 19:48It is worth while analyzing the cause of the defeat
- 19:51too frequently sustained by the spiritual aspirant when he wages
- 19:54war with anger. First, it has to be remembered that
- 19:58the spiritual aspirant has to carry the fight all alone
- 20:01and unaided. In this encounter with pleasure, he has the
- 20:05cooperation of society. Public opinion bears the brunt of the warfare.
- 20:11If he reveals his pleasure in its objectionable form, he
- 20:14falls in the estimation of those whose good opinion he values.
- 20:18To be columniated by his detractors is wounding to his vanity.
- 20:22To be reproved by his friends is painful. To be
- 20:26thought ill of, even by those towards whom he is indifferent,
- 20:29is displeasing to him. All these thoughts are positive aids
- 20:33in carrying out his mental fight with pleasure. Far different
- 20:36is his condition when he attempts to conquer anger. Exhibition
- 20:40of temper is not regarded as a moral delinquency by
- 20:43the public. Provocation is put forth as an excuse and
- 20:48justification for reprehensible outbursts of anger, and is accepted as
- 20:52a mitigatory plea by the indulgent public. Society seems to
- 20:56stand still with folded arms when an angry person frets, llumes,
- 21:00or raves. It would appear that society even goes to
- 21:04the enemy's camp and goad's anger to strike harder and harder,
- 21:07so as to thoroughly overpower the lonely victim. Not infrequently
- 21:12are found a good many who irritate an already angry
- 21:14man merely for the fun of seeing him. Infuriated. Men
- 21:18are so callous by nature that they are pleased when
- 21:21gazing upon the antics of a lunatic, and the difference
- 21:24between an angry person and a maniac is only one
- 21:27of degree. The result is that the spiritual aspirant, when
- 21:31assailed by his arch enemy anger, is too often overpowered. Secondly,
- 21:37there operates certain sentiments which put on the cloak of
- 21:39virtues and misguide the unwary spiritual pilgrim. One such is
- 21:44named self respect. Forgetful of the fundamental truth that the
- 21:48aspirants should be indifferent alike to praise and censure, he
- 21:51takes his stand on self respect, after all, a slippery
- 21:54and unreliable foothold, and in his over anxiety to protect it,
- 21:58fails to notice the stealthy approach of his full anger
- 22:01till it is too late. Love of country, duty to
- 22:05one's own wife and children, solicitude for the needy and
- 22:09the poor are all wrongly regarded as justification for getting angry.
- 22:13Whatever may be the value of these sentiments from the
- 22:16point of view of the community or the nation, they
- 22:18should not cloud the understanding of the spiritual aspirant, whose
- 22:22one and only aim should be to conquer his mind.
- 22:25Anger like fever, is a symptom which shows that something
- 22:29has gone wrong in the inner mechanism. The mental machinery
- 22:33gets heated for want of timely lubrication. The most effective
- 22:37of all lubricants is introspection or reflection. Even the most
- 22:41angry man realizes his folly after his anger is spent out.
- 22:46It is then that he begins to reflect upon what
- 22:48he did. If this reflection had come to him before
- 22:52he got angry, he would not have got angry at all.
- 22:55But that would be possible only if he had made
- 22:57reflection or introspection over his head habit. The habit must
- 23:02be formed in good time if the evil is to
- 23:04be averted. Because of anger, anger makes everybody its slave
- 23:09and victim. It breaks the friendship of even very intimate friends.
- 23:14It even induces wives to quarrel with their husbands and
- 23:17make them file suits. It excites all, It holds sway
- 23:22more or less over the whole world and the divine beings. Also,
- 23:26anger destroys reason and makes man do things which cannot
- 23:29be dreamt of. Under the influence of anger, man abuses, insults,
- 23:34and even murders his father, brother, wife, guru or king
- 23:38in repents afterwards. Anger influenced even Hanemon, the mightiest celibate,
- 23:43to burn Lanka. He lost his understanding and then repented,
- 23:47alas I have burnt the whole of Lanka under the
- 23:51influence of anger. This fire might have burnt Mother Ceda. Also,
- 23:56What shall I do now? How can I return without
- 23:59Joonicky day? I became a victim to anger. How powerful
- 24:04is anger? I am a powerful celibate. I have destroyed
- 24:09passion to its very root and branch, and yet I
- 24:11have not controlled anger. How powerful it is. It is
- 24:16more powerful than passion. Too much loss of seamen is
- 24:20the chief cause of irritability and anger. Passion is the root,
- 24:25and anger the stem. You will have to destroy the
- 24:28root of passion first. Then the stem of anger will
- 24:30die by itself. A passionate man is more angry. A
- 24:36man who has wasted his seminal energy becomes irritated soon
- 24:39for little things. Even a celibate who has preserved his
- 24:43seminal energy always keeps a balanced mind. He has a
- 24:47cool brain at all times. Eradicate anger, manifest in her
- 24:53spiritual strength, realize existence, consciousness, bliss, oughtman, glory unto those
- 25:00who have rooted out their anger and attained knowledge of
- 25:02the self. Hints for control of anger. One, Be alert, pray,
- 25:10do more constant repetition of a mantra, practice self inquiry,
- 25:15keep a watch over your mind. Be silent, observe silence
- 25:20daily for an hour. Forget and forgive, bear insult and injury.
- 25:27Observe celibacy. Two. See God in all submit to God's will,
- 25:34Then you cannot get angry. Three in the morning, meditate
- 25:38on the virtue of patience. Manifest it during the day.
- 25:43Take a vow I will practice endurance and forgiveness during
- 25:46the day. Four Speak sweetly, speak little, Five mix little,
- 25:54have congenial company, have the association with great souls. Read
- 26:00spiritual books. Six Remember the lives of saints like Eknaf,
- 26:05the Avante Brahmin of the lt H Skanda of the Bagavada.
- 26:10You will derive inspiration. You will develop love and forgiveness. Seven.
- 26:16Give up intoxicating liquors, meat and tobacco. Eight remember the
- 26:21Guidhaslocus describing anger as monster and gate to hell. Nine.
- 26:26If you find it difficult to control anger, leave the
- 26:29place at once. Take a long walk, drink cold water,
- 26:35repeat O, M P S L zero times. Do constant
- 26:39repetition of your beloved mantra or count from one to thirty.
- 26:43Anger will subside. Ten. Stand as a witness of the
- 26:48thought wave of anger. Be indifferent to it. Do not
- 26:52identify yourself with it. Identify yourself with the Yatman. Fill
- 26:57the mind with ideas of love Joe et cetera. Eleven,
- 27:02Develop patience, to a considerable extent. People lose their temper
- 27:07when they become impatient. Allow the mind to dwell constantly
- 27:11on the opposite of anger, the virtue of patience. This
- 27:15is the opposite thought cultivation. Countering negative thoughts by nurturing
- 27:19positive or opposing ones method of Roger Yogins. Twelve. Do
- 27:24not give vent to anger. Control the body first, have
- 27:29physical control. Practice this again and again. Be regular in
- 27:34your repetition of a mantra and meditation and praise. This
- 27:38will give you great inner spiritual strength. Thirteen. Food has
- 27:43a great deal to do with irritability. Take milk, fruits, monkey, doll, curd, spinach, barley,
- 27:50ground nuts, buttermilk. Do not take carrots, onion, garlic, cauliflower,
- 27:56massore key, do all and drumstick. Fourteen. Observe silence for
- 28:01two hours daily. Occasionally observe silence for a whole day.
- 28:07This will put a check on the impulse of speech.
- 28:10When a man gets excited, he speaks anything in everything.
- 28:14He has no control over the organ of speech. Fifteen.
- 28:19Vital energy entwines the mind like a creeper. Practice of
- 28:23breath control leads to the control of mind. Practice of
- 28:27breath control will put a brake on the impulse of speech.
- 28:30It will give you abundant energy to check anger. Sixteen.
- 28:35Do not argue much, do not retort, Speak sweetly always,
- 28:41do not use abusive words. Become a man of measured words.
- 28:47If a man abuses or insults you, keep quiet. Identify
- 28:51yourself with Ottmann. Oughtman is the same in all. It
- 28:56can never be hurt or insulted. Seventeen of Dantin denies
- 29:01the body and mind as illusory sheaths. He does self inquiry,
- 29:06inquires who am I, and practices neddinetti. Not this, not this,
- 29:11I am not body, I am not mind. I am
- 29:15supreme bliss of pure consciousness. I am divine consciousness, one
- 29:20with the absolute consciousness. I am blissful Shiva or Ottman.
- 29:26He identifies himself with Brahmin or Atman, the eternal. The
- 29:30world is unreal for him. He chants O M, sings
- 29:34O M, and does repetition of a mantra of O M,
- 29:37and meditates on O M, and derives soul power and
- 29:39spiritual strength. Eighteen if you entertain unreal perception false perception,
- 29:45if you look into the defects of anger and the
- 29:48benefits of patience, you will never become angry nineteen. The
- 29:52combined method is more effective. If one method fails, take
- 29:57recourse to the combined method. Do the constant repetition of
- 30:01a mantra, practice of breath control. Sometimes due self inquiry.
- 30:07Song of anger. Anger is very powerful. It can destroy
- 30:11all austerity. It subdued Dervasa, It conquered Sageyajnovalkia. It is
- 30:18the enemy of peace. It is the foe of knowledge.
- 30:23It is born of passion quality. Irritability is another form.
- 30:27It is all devouring, It is all powerful. It is
- 30:32the gate of the hell. It destroys the atmic pearl.
- 30:36When desire is not gratified, it manifests in the mind lake.
- 30:41It makes the individual being senseless. It makes him do
- 30:44all unrighteousness. It makes him more furious, It makes him
- 30:49its slave. It makes him perfectly blind. It makes him
- 30:54lose his understanding. Anger has its reason for being. If
- 30:59there is no desire, there will be no activity. The
- 31:02whole world will come to a standstill. But you will
- 31:05have to convert all desires into one strong desire, the
- 31:09desire for liberation. Anger has its usefulness. Mother punishes the
- 31:15child for its correction. A king punishes the criminal for
- 31:19his correction. Anger gives protection. Convert delusion into attachment for God.
- 31:26Convert greed for money into generosity and charity. You will
- 31:30be elevated. Forms of hatred Jealousy is hatred. Anger is hatred.
- 31:38Aversion is hatred. Envy is hatred. Intolerance is hatred, anger envy, jealousy.
- 31:47Impatience is hatred. Remove hatred through love, prayer, repetition of
- 31:53a mantra, service, and meditation. Boomerang. Anger acts as a
- 31:59boomerang because it injures the man who becomes angry. It
- 32:03comes back to the angry man and does harm to him. Therefore,
- 32:07control anger by forgiveness, love, inquiry, and service. Ill effects
- 32:12of anger. Anger is born of ignorance. Anger is a
- 32:17modification of desire. Anger arises from avarice selfishness. Anger arises
- 32:24when one is insulted, abused, criticized, when his defects are
- 32:29pointed out. Anger springs and a desire is not gratified.
- 32:34Anger comes when someone stands in the way of gratifying
- 32:37one's desire. Anger manifests from loving one's own opinion, from
- 32:42desiring to be honored, from imagining that one is wiser
- 32:46and superior than everybody. Anger obstructs reason, Anger cloud's understanding
- 32:52and poisons the blood, nerves and the whole system. Annihilate
- 32:57anger through love, forgiveness, inquiry, devotion, discrimination, wisdom, prayer, service,
- 33:04pure food, selflessness, desirelessness, repetition of a mantra, meditation, eternal perception,
- 33:11absorbed meditative perception dialog on anger anger. I will make
- 33:17the people blind in death. I will overpower them with
- 33:20wrath and suffocate them with rage. I will catch hold
- 33:24of even wise men. They shall neither hearken to what
- 33:28concerns their own happiness, nor reflect what they had read
- 33:31in the scriptures. Instigated by me. Indra killed Ritra, the
- 33:35son of Tvashtra. Lord Shiva cut off the head of Brahma.
- 33:39The Kaushika killed the sons of Vasishta. In a moment,
- 33:43I can destroy even the learned, the famous, those who
- 33:46are attentive to duties, charitable, and the mighty podentates. I
- 33:50can infuse fury, resentment, wrath, indignation into the minds of
- 33:55all in the twinkling of an eye. I am very powerful.
- 34:00I will disturb the austerity of the aspirant and even
- 34:02Jogi's and destroy calmness of mind, the individual being alas,
- 34:07who will help me now? Forgiveness? I will. I will
- 34:12pull out the venomous tooth of this demon anger, universal love,
- 34:17I will, and I am the water to quench the
- 34:20fire of anger. Discrimination. I will. When I rise, anger dies.
- 34:27The story of a holy man who had controlled anger.
- 34:31This is the cut of the famous Santananda. See the
- 34:35colorful board proclaims this is the abode of Santananda, who
- 34:38has acquired complete mastery over anger. Come let us have
- 34:43the sight of such a Maharaj or great soul set
- 34:46a pious man to his friend. Oh no, it is
- 34:49not so easy to control anger. Don't be deceived. What
- 34:54will you gain by the sight of this proud man
- 34:56who advertises his angerlessness. If you wish, you can go
- 35:01in and have the sight of the great soul. But
- 35:04please stay there till the evening, and then tell me
- 35:07if you would still admire the divine soul. I am off,
- 35:11and he went away. When the pious soul entered the cuter,
- 35:15little did he know that his friend had set out
- 35:17to collect instigators of irritation. Maharaj said the pious man,
- 35:22prostrating himself to the great soul. What a great and
- 35:25divine soul you are to have acquired mastery over this
- 35:28formidable foe of man anger. There is no one in
- 35:32the three worlds equal to you. Even so, it is
- 35:35my friend, the man who has conquered anger is greater
- 35:39than Brahma, Rodra and Indra, for even they were often
- 35:43overpowered by anger. Maharaj, will you kindly tell me the
- 35:47way to control anger? Oh? Yes, gladly, kindly remain with
- 35:52me and serve me. Even by such service of great
- 35:56souls you will get over anger, and the pious man
- 36:00became the great Soul's disciple. Another young man entered, Maharaj,
- 36:06you are the great soul who has controlled anger? Oh yes?
- 36:10Did you not see the board outside? Yes? Yes, Please
- 36:14tell me how you manage to do that by my
- 36:17strong will power. There is nothing that a man of
- 36:21strong will power will not be able to do. Wonderful,
- 36:25thank you. The young man leaves the cottage almost instantly.
- 36:31Another young man enters, Maharaj, have you controlled anger? Oh yes?
- 36:37Did you not see the board outside? Yes? Yes, Please
- 36:41tell me how you manage to do that? By meditation
- 36:45on the all pervading immortal peaceful otman that dwells in
- 36:48all beings. When one self alone pervades all, how can
- 36:52one be angered against another? How can one abuse another?
- 36:55And how can one harm or injure another? Through protracted
- 36:59meditation on this great truth, I have got over this
- 37:02anger which destroys the peace of man. Wonderful, thank you.
- 37:08The young man leaves the cottage instantly, another young man appears. Maharaj,
- 37:14Have you completely annihilated anger? Oh? Yes? Did you not
- 37:19see the board outside? Yes? Yes, Maharaj? But how did
- 37:24you manage to do that? Come sit down? I will
- 37:29tell you you see. Passion and anger are the twin
- 37:32children of the restlessness attribute. Now, if you persistently and
- 37:37diligently cultivate purity in you, you can completely eradicate these
- 37:41restless qualities. I ate pure food. I always entertained pure thoughts.
- 37:48I uttered pure words full of love, truth, solicitude, and kindness.
- 37:53I practiced pure austerity. I performed pure charity. I always
- 37:59studied scriptural texts, which increased the purity in the mind.
- 38:03I live and move constantly in pure atmosphere. Through practice
- 38:08of breath control. Also, I have increased the pure content
- 38:11of my mind. Friend, it is a long and hard struggle.
- 38:16But at last I have achieved the goal. I have
- 38:19attained success in my spiritual practice. I am an embodiment
- 38:24of purity. Now I am full of love. Anger has vanished. Wonderful,
- 38:30thank you. The young man leaves the cottage at once.
- 38:34Another man enters, Maharaj, Have you controlled anger? Oh? Yes?
- 38:40Did you not see the board outside? Yes? Yes, But
- 38:44I want to know how you achieved it. I wish
- 38:47to go out to answer calls of nature, but never mind.
- 38:52My duty towards you, my own self is more important.
- 38:56I will tell you the secret. You see, anger has
- 39:00various forms. You are fully aware of the grossest form.
- 39:05The blood boils, the eyes are blood shot, There is
- 39:09great heat in the body. Limbs tremble, lips quiver, fists
- 39:13are clenched, and the man stammers and fumbles for words
- 39:16in great fury. The subtler form of irritability you know about.
- 39:21In a milder form, all the symptoms I have just
- 39:24described exist here. Also still subtler is displeasure. It is
- 39:29pride mixed with anger. With a sharp word or a grunt,
- 39:33you dismiss the nuisance. These are all forms of anger
- 39:38in extremely subtle forms, anger becomes righteous indignation and pity.
- 39:43The man who thinks that he is always in the
- 39:45right gives vent to what he calls righteous indignation in
- 39:48order to protect righteousness. If he does not, he in
- 39:52the lordly style, pities the person who has offended him.
- 39:56Now I have got over and beyond all these forms
- 39:59of anger. Even the pure righteous indignation and pity do
- 40:03not trouble me. Now I first controlled the gross forms
- 40:06of anger. The anger arose in mind, and it subsided
- 40:10there itself. Then by meditation, I controlled these subtle ripples
- 40:15of irritability. By the diligent cultivation of a feeling of oneness,
- 40:19I got over the displeasure form of anger. I cultivated
- 40:23indifference towards wicked people, and thereby got over the outbursts
- 40:27of righteous indignation and pity. Now I shine as Santanander,
- 40:31radiating peace and happiness to all. Thank you, Maharaj wonderful.
- 40:37The young man leaves, crossing the next at the threshold.
- 40:42Santanandajy rose from his seat and once more attempted to
- 40:45leave the hall, when the next young man accosted him. Maharaj,
- 40:49just a minute, have you controlled anger. In a slightly
- 40:54raised voice, Satanandaji said, yes, why do you ask that question?
- 40:58Have you not seen the border outside? Yes, Maharaj, but
- 41:04I want to know how I can do that. I
- 41:06will tell you. Drink a glass of cold water when
- 41:10you find your temporizing, or count from one to twenty,
- 41:14or leave the place at once. And Santanandiji tried to
- 41:19leave the hall along with the young man when the
- 41:21next one rushed in. Maharaj, have you controlled anger? And
- 41:25how visibly affected by this annoyance? Only to avoid this
- 41:31constant repetition of the truth, I have announced it on
- 41:34the board outside. I have told the methods also to
- 41:37a number of people, But I want to hear from
- 41:40your holy lips. All right, observe silence. You will be
- 41:45able to control anger. Thank you, Maharaj. Look here, said Santanandiji,
- 41:52addressing the pious man who came first and who had
- 41:55been watching all these proceedings. See that no one enters
- 41:58the cuter for some time till I answer call of nature,
- 42:00bathe and have my food and rest. Maharaj. If I
- 42:04begin to prevent them, they will quarrel with me and
- 42:07I will lose my temper. I won't do that. I
- 42:11want to be your true disciple. At once, another young
- 42:15man rushed inside. Maharaj, you have completely eradicated anger, and
- 42:19how Santananiji, addressing the first disciple, Please ask him to
- 42:24go away. I have to answer calls of nature urgently.
- 42:29But won't you share your secrets with me? Maharaj pleaded
- 42:32the latest arrival. I won't drive him out. Why should
- 42:37I lose my temper, said the first disciple. I will
- 42:41kick both of you out of my house, roared Santananda.
- 42:45Good for nothing, young man, troubling me the whole day
- 42:47without letting me have a few moments respite. What do
- 42:51you think I am a gramophone box or a radio
- 42:54receiving set. I have told you once and more than
- 42:57once that I have got over anger, and these people
- 43:01come again and again to trouble me. Get out all
- 43:04of you and see me no more. If you stay
- 43:07here for a minute more, I will murder you. Here.
- 43:10Take this and get out. If you don't believe that
- 43:12I have the strength to handle you, He slaps the
- 43:16two young men, drives them out and locks the door outside.
- 43:20The pious man's friend was waiting. Have you had the
- 43:24sight of the Great Maharaj who has controlled anger. Are
- 43:27you satisfied? Said he to the pious man who went
- 43:30in to have the great soul's sight. It is not
- 43:33so easy to control anger. It can be controlled only
- 43:37through God's grace. Continuous practice of humility is necessary. Ego
- 43:43must be crushed, Cosmic love must be cultivated. Selfless service
- 43:49must be ceaselessly and untiringly practiced. Even then, the seat
- 43:53of anger will be there, hidden in the bosom you
- 43:56don't know where it hides itself. By constant repetition of
- 44:00a mantra, meditation and ceaseless spiritual practice with self surrender
- 44:05to the Lord, by constant prayer, O, Lord, I am nothing.
- 44:09I will be done, and Lord grant me freedom from
- 44:12all vice. You will be able to invite his grace. Then,
- 44:16when the all pervading self is realized and knowledge is obtained,
- 44:20then and then alone, will this greatest enemy of man,
- 44:23anger be totally annihilated. Well well, in any case, this
- 44:28Santurnanda had a little bit of success in his spiritual practice.
- 44:32He had also given us valuable hints on how to
- 44:35control anger. We are all benefited. He had failed only
- 44:40because while he had controlled anger to a certain extent.
- 44:43He had allowed vanity to grow in him to the
- 44:45same extent. Anger only had taken the form of vanity
- 44:49in him. Ego assumes various forms. All these forms are
- 44:54different in name. Only he who finds out the hiding
- 44:58places of this formidable ego, and through ruthless inquiry into
- 45:01the nature of the ego and the nature of the self,
- 45:04which is the reality behind this false ego, he and
- 45:07he alone can be said to have controlled anger. He
- 45:10will not only have annihilated anger, but he would have
- 45:13destroyed all vices. He will be humble, simple and divine,
- 45:18an embodiment of love and compassion. Come, we shall continue
- 45:22our search for such a divine personality. His sight will
- 45:26purify us, his service will elevate us to divine heights.
- 45:31Twelve epistles of Sivanandah One perfection in yoga, Nectar's Child.
- 45:38You can become a perfect yogi when you have touched
- 45:40the super conscious level. Thinking of the past and anxiety
- 45:44about the future is a hindrance. In meditation. When the
- 45:48restless waves of the mind subside, there arises gradually divine bliss.
- 45:53The highest good is the vision of truth eternal and
- 45:56imperishable in your own self. May you shine as a
- 46:00dynamic Yogi. May the Lord bless you Seevanandah two the
- 46:06dynamics of the driving force immortal atman. Spirituality is a
- 46:12driving force in evolution. The individual being flame wants to
- 46:17join its source, Supreme Brahmin. The function of revelation begins
- 46:21when that of reason leaves off. Arm yourself with the
- 46:25shield of discrimination. Build up the life of calm, strength, repose,
- 46:30and peace through meditation. May the Lord bless you Seevanandah
- 46:37free true charity. To be kind and loving is charity.
- 46:42To forget and forgive some harm done to you is charity.
- 46:46A kind word said to a suffering man is charity.
- 46:50Even a little meditation saves one from fear of death.
- 46:54Spiritual progress is not measured by spiritual powers or powers,
- 46:58but only by the depth of your in meditation. May
- 47:02the Lord bless you Sivananda for the process of yoga.
- 47:08The purpose of life is the realization of the essential
- 47:11divinity in man. The science of yoga points out the
- 47:15way yoga is primarily a process of self culture. Practice
- 47:21of yoga bestows a rich and full life. Practice of
- 47:25self restraint, mental equipoise, truthfulness, compassion, purity, selflessness, and meditation
- 47:31constitutes the process of yoga. May the Lord bless you,
- 47:36Sivananda five. Ethical foundation of yoga. Ethical discipline is a
- 47:43necessary prerequisite for philosophical inquiry and self realization. Ethics is
- 47:49an inquiry into the nature of good and is concerned
- 47:51with an analysis of the concepts of good and bad,
- 47:54virtue and vice, right and wrong. Goodness is love in action.
- 48:00Supreme goodness is God. Goodness is virtue, benevolence. May the
- 48:06Lord bless you, Sivananda. Six. Essence of spiritual life, peaceful, auspicious,
- 48:14and beautiful, radiant, ever, pure and immortal is the nature
- 48:18of the inner consciousness, the Atman that pervades all creation.
- 48:22To realize this inner consciousness is the essence of spiritual life.
- 48:27Eliminate all that is negative and develop all that is
- 48:30sublime and good. May the Lord bless you, Sivananda. Seven.
- 48:37Thou art that self realization is not a state of
- 48:41non existence or mere blankness. It is herein now. It
- 48:46is nothing to be attained afresh. You need not reach
- 48:50or attain the Aatman or the supreme self. You are. Indeed,
- 48:54they Aatman. Self realization can be attained by men and
- 48:58women while living in the world and w while discharging
- 49:00their daily duties. May the Lord bless you, Seevananda. Eight
- 49:07Aids to self realization. Brahman or the supreme Self is
- 49:11realizable by this method of direct vision or intuition, though
- 49:15not knowable by the ordinary rational methods. Unselfishness, love of
- 49:20all beings, and love of God are the three aids
- 49:23to self realization. Without appropriate preparatory discipline, one cannot understand
- 49:29and discover the truths of the revelations or Vedanta. May
- 49:33the Lord bless you Seevananda. Nine the acme of devotion.
- 49:40Know the Lord to be the one real thing in
- 49:42the midst of unreal things. Remember God, take his name,
- 49:47Always meditate upon him, feel his presence everywhere. Trust in
- 49:53the Lord, surrender yourself to him. He will bless you
- 49:58with peace, bliss, plenty, prosperity, immortality, health and success. May
- 50:04the Lord bless you Seevanandah. Ten The Yoga of synthesis.
- 50:11The grand aim of human life is to attain God.
- 50:15Have one strong desire for attaining God realization through a
- 50:19life of service, devotion, purification, charity, spiritual practice and meditation
- 50:25attain the highest self realization and dwell in supreme bliss,
- 50:29supreme bliss. May the Lord bless you, Seevanandah. Eleven. The
- 50:35path to peace, the peace of the eternal is abiding
- 50:39peace that ever is the same. Peace is the happy
- 50:43natural state of man, selflessness, desirelessness, non attachment, freedom from
- 50:49mindness and craving. Devotion to God, self restraint, control of
- 50:54senses and mind bring happiness and peace of mind. Peace
- 50:58of God fills your heart. Realize this supreme peace through
- 51:02devotion and meditation. May the Lord bless you Seevanandah. Twelve.
- 51:10Faith draws grace. Neither art, nor science, nor erudition is
- 51:15necessary to approach God or realize Him. What is wanted
- 51:19is a pure heart with love and devotion to God,
- 51:22a heart resolutely determined to apply itself to Him alone,
- 51:25for his sake alone, and to love Him alone. The
- 51:29foundation of spiritual life is absolute faith in God. This
- 51:33will draw soon great grace from God. May the Lord
- 51:37bless you Sevanandah.