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90 Day Fiancé 1216 "Last Fling Before the Ring” Part 1 · Vanity Farah with Chris Farah

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Speaker 1: Hi, everyone, Welcome back to Vanity Fair. My name is
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Speaker 1: Chris Ferret. I am obviously always and honored to not
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Speaker 1: only be with you and have you, you know, join in,
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Speaker 1: but to talk to you about you know, dumb stuff
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Speaker 1: like pop culture, like reality shows like docuseries and today,
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Speaker 1: you know, like every other time. Honey, we're talking about
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Speaker 1: a very familiar one. Here is ninety day Fiance. This
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Speaker 1: is season twelve, episode sixteen. It's the last fling before
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Speaker 1: the ring. Honey. Oh, you know how they do it.
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Speaker 1: They want us to pretend that, you know, there's a
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Speaker 1: possibility one of them is going to have a fling,
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Speaker 1: but that's not gonna happen because you know, Katie's already
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Speaker 1: had her aboutourette. She was good. But here we are.
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Speaker 1: So we're going to start with rash Mallory. So he's
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Speaker 1: making coffee, honey, the traditional Turkish way, in one of
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Speaker 1: those silvery situations, Honey, on the stove. You know what
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Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like it gets thick, he pours it, very strong,
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Speaker 1: very fit coffee. Maybe he'll tell you your fortune afterward.
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Speaker 1: You know, I'm saying, we're like the coffee grinds fall
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Speaker 1: and he's like I see your future, you know, because
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Speaker 1: definitely it's been done for him. So he needs that caffeine. Honey.
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Speaker 1: He is going to require energy for his bachelor party,
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Speaker 1: and he is having a bachelor party that involves strippers.
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Speaker 1: We're excited about now because we know that he's sort
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Speaker 1: of like a little slimy on TikTok and not the
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Speaker 1: super sweet in love you know, like crying emotional pretty
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Speaker 1: boy that he pretends to be on the show. It's
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Speaker 1: not as fun to watch him like te he over
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Speaker 1: strippers because I'm like you, I feel like have stories.
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Speaker 1: I wish that the tell all would like let us
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Speaker 1: know that he used to throw down honey in Turkey
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Speaker 1: because I feel like him and all those brothers there's
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Speaker 1: some tails. God, I wish we could just have boots
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Speaker 1: on the ground, get some first hand accounts of what
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Speaker 1: those boys were like, honey. Okay, So she's like, well, yeah,
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Speaker 1: when you go to the strip club, you're going to
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Speaker 1: have every type of woman. You can have all types
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Speaker 1: of boobs, all types of butts, all types of girls,
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Speaker 1: some with teeths all, some with no teeth, some with
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Speaker 1: yellow teeth, some with messed up teeth, some you know,
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Speaker 1: with Veneers. Maybe I'm not quite sure, maybe not, I
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Speaker 1: don't know. Uh, Veneers Veneers is one of those things
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Speaker 1: where I get it if you if you get it,
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Speaker 1: but I the thought of shaving teethees down to absolute
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Speaker 1: nubs is like, oh no, here's something else. Like lots
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Speaker 1: of people get laser surgery for their eyes, Like I
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Speaker 1: get it, and it would be better for me if
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Speaker 1: I did, because if there was an apocalypse or if
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Speaker 1: I had to run for my life, like I wouldn't
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Speaker 1: have to be like basically blind unless I had contacts
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Speaker 1: or glasses, and obviously contacts can run out and are dry,
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Speaker 1: and obviously glasses can break, so I'm putting myself in peril.
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Speaker 1: The thought of that surgery freaks me out. Cutting back
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Speaker 1: a little like whatever clear part of your jelly, part
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Speaker 1: of your eye, I don't have to flipping it back, honey,
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Speaker 1: doing something. No, I know. I know. It's like there
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Speaker 1: are certain things I'm a baby about, Like I am
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Speaker 1: a baby about those things. I wish I could not be,
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Speaker 1: Like I wish I could just be like Chris fucking
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Speaker 1: put your girl big girl panties on, honey, and just
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Speaker 1: do what's good for you. And I'm like, no, anyway, Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I mean I don't need Veneer, so that's not what's
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Speaker 1: good for me. I'm just saying, you know, just certain
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Speaker 1: things like oh God, God bless how people do it? Okay,
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Speaker 1: So suddenly, and I mean this out of the goddamn blue,
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Speaker 1: he has a friend in America. In America? Okay, well, okay,
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Speaker 1: couldn't you have to says like set up that he
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Speaker 1: has some friend whose either name is chi Hut or
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Speaker 1: Chea Hut. I can't quite tell. I wrote down c
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Speaker 1: chi dash h u t chea Hut or chi dash
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Speaker 1: u htch hut. He has a friend from miss stambul
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Speaker 1: just lives in New Jersey. Where has he been the
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Speaker 1: entire time? What does he do? They talk? Was he like, oh,
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Speaker 1: you have to you see this guy that she sometimes
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Speaker 1: hangs out with, this Brandy. Does he talk shit about Brandy?
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Speaker 1: This guy? And then this guy's been like, oh I
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Speaker 1: can't wait to like fuck up Brandy. And then he's like, oh,
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Speaker 1: just kidding, guy, guess what Brandy's great? No? Who, like,
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Speaker 1: how do they know each other? And how is this
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Speaker 1: guy in New Jersey? You know, like, just can't you
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Speaker 1: just fill in some things for me? I don't understand
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Speaker 1: what's the show about. Not I'm leading me with more
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Speaker 1: questions than answers. Okay, So then all her friends roll
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Speaker 1: up in like in a white party van, and that
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Speaker 1: includes Brandy. And then you know, here's the thing, Like
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Speaker 1: the boys are gonna be the boys, and you know
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Speaker 1: the girls are gonna do girl stuff. So the boys
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Speaker 1: mean in Brandy and that other guy got bless and
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Speaker 1: you know this, Yeah, she ut or whatever get to
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Speaker 1: go to the strip club and Mallory and who A
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Speaker 1: two friends, including some girl that is either dating or
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Speaker 1: not dating Brandy, but it is always around in the
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Speaker 1: same group, and he drives her a lot. And I
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Speaker 1: bring that up because I'm like, it feels suspect. It
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Speaker 1: feels like she's been dating him the whole time, and
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Speaker 1: like this is like Mallory's friend group that all wanted
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Speaker 1: to be on TV. Okay, come on, So they roll
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Speaker 1: up to the strip club. Now I'm gonna tell you this.
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Speaker 1: Brandy walked into that strip club with all of the
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Speaker 1: gall and knowledge, like Eloise walking through the plaza. He
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Speaker 1: knows his way around, everyone knows him. They're like Brandy, Hey, Brandy,
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Speaker 1: like here's your table, Like you know, either know his drink,
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Speaker 1: like you know, like it's like with a Brandy Brandy,
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Speaker 1: you know, like you know, at some point one of
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Speaker 1: the girls like, oh, Brandy, how are you babe? You know,
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Speaker 1: like everyone knows his name, he is, this is his
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Speaker 1: I guess eloise plaza like I said, or his cheers
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Speaker 1: just like a little baby version of both of those things.
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Speaker 1: He can't wait to have Rash shit down like front
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Speaker 1: row center, honey, like at the end of the runway, honey,
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Speaker 1: Like he's like, I mean, Rash is like on a
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Speaker 1: one wind tour at fashion week, just like tends across
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Speaker 1: the board. Okay. So then we get a little bit
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Speaker 1: of like b footage of stripper stripping, and I'm so
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Speaker 1: happy about it. There's this one girl, God Bless you
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Speaker 1: saw her too, that does this like is it a
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Speaker 1: yoga move. It's like when she puts her head over
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Speaker 1: her legs and she can kind of just like spider
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Speaker 1: push up. Yeah, I mean, you know, God Bless, it's
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Speaker 1: like I don't know if that's not eagle or something
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Speaker 1: some not, you know, it's something else. I don't know
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Speaker 1: what that is, honey, but it's very impressive. So, you know,
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Speaker 1: Rash again is feigning like te he who who, I'm
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Speaker 1: a little girl. I've never been an a sort of thing.
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Speaker 1: Like he's just like being like I've never been around
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Speaker 1: such people. When it's like, dude, come on, because at
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Speaker 1: the same time he's very happy saying all the bad
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Speaker 1: words and like rapping and stuff like that, it feels
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Speaker 1: like this is I don't know, but he's like, you know, like,
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Speaker 1: oh my god, what do I do? And then so
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Speaker 1: Brandy's like, I'm I gonna drink. Then he gets a girl.
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Speaker 1: Brandy gets a girl, and it's like, bring my man
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Speaker 1: up on stage and have your way with him. So
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Speaker 1: that's what happens. Rash goes down stage and he's like
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Speaker 1: hiding you know, like behind like you know, his hand,
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Speaker 1: and then you know, like some girl like dances on him.
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Speaker 1: And then at one point he gets up and then
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Speaker 1: you know, pole dances, and you know he's not bad.
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Speaker 1: He does like a little spin. I wonder this is
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Speaker 1: I like, is that your first time on a pole?
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Speaker 1: It didn't look good. It didn't look good. At one
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Speaker 1: point he does that like money stripper thing that's just
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Speaker 1: holding the dollars and then just using your hands like
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Speaker 1: I don't know, a little like quick cutting motions to
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Speaker 1: just bathe the person with dollas. He's quite good at
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Speaker 1: that too. Brady said, let me tell you how to
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Speaker 1: do it. Then, you know, God blessed, he's like this.
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Speaker 1: So you know, they're having fun. You know, they're doing
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Speaker 1: shots and Brandy is again showing them how to have
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Speaker 1: a good time. And at the same time, the girls
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Speaker 1: are having their very boring time together. They just go
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Speaker 1: to someplace and sit down. At one point, we're supposed
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Speaker 1: to believe that like this really fun, hilarious moment happens,
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Speaker 1: and the fun hilarious moment is just that Mallory is
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Speaker 1: allowed to sit on a Harley while it's stationary and
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Speaker 1: then just be on it. And she's like, Everyone's like,
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Speaker 1: oh my god, Oh it's crazy girl. One who would
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Speaker 1: have guessed, oh my god, on your bacherette party you
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Speaker 1: would be able to sit on a bike. Oh, oh
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Speaker 1: my god, that's wild. Only like it's only I guess
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Speaker 1: it's like, I'm happy that Brandy is showing Rash around.
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Speaker 1: I'm happy that Rash has his friend or whatever. God
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Speaker 1: bless you know. If you take away the fact that
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Speaker 1: you had to gross off camera and I have to like,
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Speaker 1: you know, like not think of that and just think
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Speaker 1: of like what I know in this moment. You're mean
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Speaker 1: to tell me that Mallory's getting married in her hometown.
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Speaker 1: She has all this money, she has all her friends around,
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Speaker 1: and like or the biggest thing that she's gonna do
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Speaker 1: after her friends can like throw that big ass white
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Speaker 1: trash party is just have two friends watch her on
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Speaker 1: a Harley. Does that seem weird to you? Because here's
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Speaker 1: the thing. Mallory is going to go into the fact
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Speaker 1: that her family isn't the greatest, right. Her mom is
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Speaker 1: like whatever, she has a sister, they're all coming to
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Speaker 1: what those people are coming to the wedding. Her dad
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Speaker 1: isn't right and like she's gone through this turmoil with
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Speaker 1: you know, this accident and her dad really hasn't been
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Speaker 1: around for not never of it. So I am so
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Speaker 1: sorry and that really sucks. Okay, and parents can be
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Speaker 1: really hard family, you know, you don't choose. But Mallory
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Speaker 1: is a a cute girl, be really nice, see like friendly,
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Speaker 1: cute nice, I guess friendly and nice thing. All that
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Speaker 1: to say, I can't imagine she doesn't have more friends
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Speaker 1: that can't wait to like take her out and why
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Speaker 1: you're not doing something fun? Those girls should be like, Okay,
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Speaker 1: let's get you manicures and pedicures. Let's go lay out, like,
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Speaker 1: you know, get a fancy as drink. Let's you know,
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Speaker 1: go listen to some I don't know jazz are blues
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Speaker 1: that would be so much fun. They're in Alabama. I
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Speaker 1: don't really like, is there, honey, I'm not quite sure
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Speaker 1: exactly what the music scene is there? But is there
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Speaker 1: a bluegrass country? Like take her out? Let her have
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Speaker 1: some fun, you know, like dress her up? You like,
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Speaker 1: here's the other thing. It's so funny. There's certain moments
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Speaker 1: where are like, Okay, she has that one best friend
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Speaker 1: who I think really is her best friend, and that
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Speaker 1: best friend who again had the car that was like,
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Speaker 1: you know, us back to back World War champs. Like
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Speaker 1: that girl, God bless she loves a theme and to
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Speaker 1: get dressed up. And I'm so happy Mallory at least
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Speaker 1: has that girl, even though she probably has questionable politics.
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Speaker 1: It's just that Mallory deserves to have like a couple
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Speaker 1: of girls that like want to have some fun, not
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Speaker 1: just these two girls. Where did no one want to
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Speaker 1: be on TV? So I don't know. It's just confusing
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Speaker 1: to me. Like she's young, she's fun. When you're younger,
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Speaker 1: you have more friends, Okay, god bless So she talks
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Speaker 1: to her friends though when she's they're like, well, what's
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Speaker 1: been happening? You know, last time we saw you, it
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Speaker 1: was like that awkward preenup conversation where Brandy came to
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Speaker 1: the rescue of your you know boo and you know,
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Speaker 1: now they're best friends and he's paying for a lap
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Speaker 1: dance right now. I love the fact when no one's like,
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Speaker 1: I hope that he doesn't cheat on me or whatever,
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Speaker 1: like some other shows and some other people, like, there's
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Speaker 1: not going to be like a moment where Malory's like,
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Speaker 1: did you touch another woman? You know, that's not like
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Speaker 1: it's not there's no Jazmine Gino moments, you know what
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Speaker 1: I'm saying. Or oh no, what's the guy from Columbia
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Speaker 1: and that young girl that was too young and he's
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Speaker 1: the douche that had the backup businesses? Oh no, prairie menopause.
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Speaker 1: You know I'm talking about anyway, anyone that has gotten
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Speaker 1: mad at bachelor parties at have strippers, that's not going
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Speaker 1: to happen here. She doesn't give a shit. She's like,
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Speaker 1: you can literally rob all over him. I mean he
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Speaker 1: can dis in his pants. That's fine. But yeah, back
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Speaker 1: at the girl time, she's like, well, yeah, since that
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Speaker 1: prenup conversation, we've had some come to Jesus moments and
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Speaker 1: we've made some compromises four constants. He doesn't have to
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Speaker 1: do the prenup now, And like, wow, that's like a
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Speaker 1: big ass deal girl, And she's like, yeah, yeah, but
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Speaker 1: he don't. Wrin't I got this out of it now,
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Speaker 1: I don't have to have a baby for two to
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Speaker 1: three years. We're like, what, okay, rewind you guys, aren't
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Speaker 1: you like me? She told Rush one to two years,
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Speaker 1: which I remember in the moment being like by yourself
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Speaker 1: more time. Also, I don't understand you guys are young anyways,
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Speaker 1: so I never like you guys are young. So is
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Speaker 1: he really expecting just to be like okay the minute
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Speaker 1: we get married, I mean feeling you full of the
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Speaker 1: good stuff and you're putting your legs upside down and
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Speaker 1: every month we're gonna you know, like I think that
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Speaker 1: usually you There was like a little like time of
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Speaker 1: her adjustment. Hey we're married. We got married we have
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Speaker 1: to pay that money back, you know, like we are
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Speaker 1: gonna do you know, a moment of traveling. We're gonna
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Speaker 1: enjoy this like one or two years is not as normal.
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Speaker 1: But that's what she had just said to him. But
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Speaker 1: then I think she lies and tells her friends that
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Speaker 1: she told rash And that the agreement was for two
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Speaker 1: to three years when it wasn't. Also, like, if you
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Speaker 1: know you're gonna have kids anyway, then why not just
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Speaker 1: I mean just be like, yeah, I'm gonna have kids.
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Speaker 1: I don't know. It just felt like it felt the
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Speaker 1: kids were kind of like a fake thing that she
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Speaker 1: really wasn't ever like questioning. It does feel like they're
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Speaker 1: just a cute couple and they're like good looking, and
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Speaker 1: they wanted to be on the show, and Thomas and
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Speaker 1: Paula are not giving a lot, you know what I'm saying.
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Speaker 1: Sometimes I wish I were like friends with producers more
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Speaker 1: to be like, did you guys think about abandoning shit
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Speaker 1: with that couple like halfway through the season like we did.
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Speaker 1: It's wondering. So their friends like, okay, sorry going back.
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Speaker 1: So Mallory's friend's like, wow, okay, well that seems like
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Speaker 1: a big, you know, a lot on you, not a
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Speaker 1: lot on him. And she's like yeah, and she's like, well,
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Speaker 1: are you excited? Are you ready? And she's like, well, yeah,
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Speaker 1: I talked to my parents, my family. My mom and
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Speaker 1: my sister are coming, and my dad isn't coming. They're like, what,
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Speaker 1: your dad isn't coming? That piece of shit. She's like,
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Speaker 1: I know, he's such a bastard. Goddamn, he's only really
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Speaker 1: fucking sad when he has no one to like be
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Speaker 1: by his like bed, when he is sick and stuff
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Speaker 1: like that. Parents are horrible. So some parents, okay, God
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Speaker 1: bless obviously, so some parents are great anyway. So she's like, yeah,
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Speaker 1: he doesn't want to come because he refuses to meet
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Speaker 1: Rosch because Rash is Muslim and of course I'm Christian,
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Speaker 1: and he doesn't want us to get married. And it's
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Speaker 1: really sad because Rash has been wanting to meet him
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Speaker 1: and I've been sort of being like yeah later, ha ha,
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Speaker 1: and yeah, now he's not gonna come, and it's gonna
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Speaker 1: be a really awkward thing to say because also Rash
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Speaker 1: like loves family, you know, like he gave up hardcore
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Speaker 1: family to be here, and now, you know, he doesn't
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Speaker 1: have that parental patriarchal figure. And her friends are like,
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Speaker 1: yes he does, Brandy, Yes he does, Brandy. Brandy's given.
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Speaker 1: Brandy is like her kind of dad, like let's hear
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Speaker 1: borrow things. I mean, granted, I think they also hooked
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Speaker 1: up for not that gross not that gross part, you
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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But like Brandy is like a
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Speaker 1: wise sage, you know, like Brandy gives elder energy, you
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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So she's like, yeah, so, but
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Speaker 1: I love him and I trust him, and whatever happens,
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Speaker 1: you know, he's gonna take my money and I'm gonna
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Speaker 1: have his babies. In let's face it probably six months.
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Speaker 1: I'll probably get pregnant six months. All of this is
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Speaker 1: just like for show, don't you think? So okay, talk
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Speaker 1: about kind of a snooze fest, and I don't know,
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Speaker 1: it's such a weird storyline Pala and Thomas. The Pala
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Speaker 1: Thomas storyline is weird because I'm like, Okay, so the
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Speaker 1: time you guys knew each other for like thirteen years
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Speaker 1: before and he came all the time to Brazil. So
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Speaker 1: all the time he came into Brazil, did he never
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Speaker 1: not ever have allergies. Every time you were spraying him down,
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Speaker 1: he never complained, never of allergies. And also you've been
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Speaker 1: to America before, you've stayed here before, and Almoso you've met, Like,
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Speaker 1: so did did that never come up? Also again, like
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Speaker 1: the what feels at the point is this she seemingly
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Speaker 1: feels like he is too sensitive about the allergies or
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Speaker 1: that he won't acquiesce or compromise about them. And I
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Speaker 1: understand that rationale, and that is why I'm like, then,
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Speaker 1: who is this man's allergist? And like, what are the protocols?
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Speaker 1: You know? Like she seemingly had an agenda which she
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Speaker 1: manifested herself to find a gringo and get herself to
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Speaker 1: America because she always enjoyed speaking English, and she know
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Speaker 1: that her parents and her family knew that about her.
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Speaker 1: She loves I guess America, God bless her. It does
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Speaker 1: certainly feel like that she was using him, not just
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Speaker 1: like in a nefarious way for a green card, but
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Speaker 1: for the just simple fact he was a gringo that
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Speaker 1: lived in southern California and that she met him and
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Speaker 1: that they tolerated each other because they've never had sexual chemistry.
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Speaker 1: For me, everver like I don't get it, like I
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Speaker 1: don't feel like you know, I don't get I don't
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Speaker 1: get like them, or how they play out flirtatiously like that,
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Speaker 1: or how I don't understand how they make each other
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Speaker 1: feel good? Is how I should describe it? Does that
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Speaker 1: make sense? It's like if we're episode sixteen, where we've
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Speaker 1: been watching people for a minute, it feels like you
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Speaker 1: have to give me the full range of a relationship, right,
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Speaker 1: and we often get a lot of one thing, yelling, yelling, yelling, anger, fighting, fighting, fighting, fighting,
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Speaker 1: a lot of fighting, A lot of fighting, and fighting
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Speaker 1: isn't interesting, surely. What is interesting is two people having
19:44
Speaker 1: different point of views, and especially if we understand why,
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Speaker 1: and if we can like trace it back to the
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Speaker 1: cultures or whatever religions or in or places in the
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Speaker 1: world and like people they are that, you know, all
19:56
Speaker 1: of that is interesting because then it brings in psychology
19:59
Speaker 1: and like sort of like geod graphy and you know,
20:00
Speaker 1: like human behavior. But to constantly watch people actually just
20:06
Speaker 1: fight is a turn off. So if you do that
20:12
Speaker 1: to me, if you turn me off, then and then
20:16
Speaker 1: my like logical want is to see, well, what are
20:21
Speaker 1: they even into each other about what turns them on
20:24
Speaker 1: about each other? Like what why do I care about them?
20:28
Speaker 1: What are the good parts of them? Why would I
20:30
Speaker 1: care about them being a couple? Why should they be
20:32
Speaker 1: a couple or should they like And here's the thing,
20:35
Speaker 1: certainly there are couples on the show that obviously shouldn't
20:39
Speaker 1: be you know, like I just feel like the middle
20:50
Speaker 1: ground people should they should try and give us a
20:55
Speaker 1: hint of why they're together or have the producers ask
20:59
Speaker 1: them to sort of lead us to know. The producers
21:01
Speaker 1: also have questions, what do you find attractive about Thomas?
21:04
Speaker 1: What do you find attractive about Paula? Like do you know,
21:07
Speaker 1: like what's a secret thing they do that you know
21:15
Speaker 1: makes you crave them? Or like, I don't know, can
21:17
Speaker 1: you ask them something either together or something, or can
21:20
Speaker 1: you make them do something that like would spark sexual vibes?
21:25
Speaker 1: So I understand what it looks like because the reason
21:29
Speaker 1: why is I don't care about them, right, Like I've
21:31
Speaker 1: made that clear there. He's like seems to be very
21:36
Speaker 1: militant about obviously the smells and being super frugal, and
21:43
Speaker 1: like it sounds like sometimes when he's talking about the
21:47
Speaker 1: dining room table, which we've heard a lot about it.
21:49
Speaker 1: Seems like he in fact knows that it's ridiculous or
21:53
Speaker 1: absurd to expect people to live sitting on yoga blocks
21:59
Speaker 1: and on a you know, tiny picnic table, like you know,
22:02
Speaker 1: when you're saying that that's maybe something that you've been
22:05
Speaker 1: doing because you don't care, but upon someone else having
22:08
Speaker 1: to do it, and you realizing out loud what it
22:11
Speaker 1: looks like, what it sounds like, that that's not for everyone. Like,
22:15
Speaker 1: I guess it's the same way as do you ever
22:18
Speaker 1: has urban times in which you haven't cleaned your apartment
22:21
Speaker 1: or you haves are Europe or your house, or you
22:23
Speaker 1: have like a pile that hasn't been organized, or you
22:25
Speaker 1: have a room that you haven't paid attention to, or
22:28
Speaker 1: something to where you suddenly look through your place through
22:33
Speaker 1: the eyes of someone who's gonna come over, and then
22:36
Speaker 1: you're like, oh my god, I gotta do this, I
22:37
Speaker 1: gotta do this, which, of course, it's like fine, it's
22:41
Speaker 1: like you can live your life however you want, but
22:43
Speaker 1: you're wanting your space to be conducive for everyone, and
22:48
Speaker 1: you understand that, you know, people become particular, and people
22:51
Speaker 1: become blind, and people you know, have different wants and needs,
22:56
Speaker 1: and that universally civilized people want a place, comfortable, place
23:03
Speaker 1: to sit, comfortable place to eat, comfortable place you know,
23:06
Speaker 1: to cook, clean all that stuff, like you have to
23:09
Speaker 1: be clean all those things. And so I don't understand
23:15
Speaker 1: what his problem is, like what is it, because she's
23:24
Speaker 1: making it seem like she thinks it's stupid or ridiculous,
23:28
Speaker 1: and he picks up on that and we sort of agree.
23:32
Speaker 1: And so she said, however, like, won't actually say I'm
23:43
Speaker 1: gonna spray things. It's my apartment. Take me to a
23:47
Speaker 1: doctor and tell me why this is the issue for you,
23:51
Speaker 1: and we're gonna compromise. You're gonna buy me all the
23:53
Speaker 1: things that I use on a daily basis that are
23:55
Speaker 1: smell free, and then I get to pick and choose
23:58
Speaker 1: certain things that don't make you and eye nightmare monster,
24:01
Speaker 1: but I still enjoy anyway. It feels like he hasn't
24:07
Speaker 1: dated it's someone in a long time, and it feels
24:08
Speaker 1: like she just was holding on for the fact that
24:10
Speaker 1: she wanted to live in America and in the LBC,
24:12
Speaker 1: which I get. So obviously we're riding a bike, obviously
24:17
Speaker 1: to dinner, which in itself is like, she's not enjoying
24:21
Speaker 1: it her. She looks cute and her like hair, little
24:26
Speaker 1: wispies are getting into her lip gloss, and she's like, yeah,
24:31
Speaker 1: I would have really enjoyed just driving here and parking.
24:33
Speaker 1: He's like, well, we saved twenty bucks and she's like yeah,
24:36
Speaker 1: but I'm not comfortable. I'm dressed up. He's like, it's
24:39
Speaker 1: worth it, and that's like the problem. It's like, no,
24:46
Speaker 1: it's not. She just said it's not worth it. Like
24:55
Speaker 1: he needs to be like, I don't have enough money.
24:57
Speaker 1: You expect me to pay for too much. You need
25:01
Speaker 1: to sit down with the budget and like show her
25:03
Speaker 1: what it is. What does she have with her? What
25:06
Speaker 1: money does she have with her? You know, it's interesting.
25:10
Speaker 1: It's like not that I want to be, like what
25:11
Speaker 1: is she going to do when she gets to America?
25:13
Speaker 1: But surely he's not asked. He always sort of hints
25:16
Speaker 1: that she's bad with money, but he's given her a
25:19
Speaker 1: credit card. Maybe she's bought too many things online. She
25:22
Speaker 1: expects him to pay for valet for, you know, to
25:25
Speaker 1: park the car. I'm like, is there any other options?
25:27
Speaker 1: You can't just like at least walk. I'm not quite
25:28
Speaker 1: sure from your parking spot. Can you drop her off
25:30
Speaker 1: and then you park somewhere and walk for free? What
25:32
Speaker 1: is is there any other options? But it's interesting he's
25:36
Speaker 1: never been like, so when you get your green card,
25:38
Speaker 1: you can to open up a tattoo shop and make
25:40
Speaker 1: money too, because obviously I care a lot about money,
25:43
Speaker 1: and I'm very frugal to the point of being cheap
25:45
Speaker 1: to the point of being like militant about it or
25:47
Speaker 1: like super like anal about it and expect you to
25:50
Speaker 1: live by that, and obviously you don't want to. So
25:54
Speaker 1: what are we going to do to remedy that. It's
25:56
Speaker 1: like that's the conversation that they have to have, but
26:01
Speaker 1: they don't. They sort of have a weird like they
26:03
Speaker 1: tap dance around the things they have to say, even
26:06
Speaker 1: though both of them speak pretty well in both of
26:08
Speaker 1: their native languages. So obviously, after being like, no, I
26:13
Speaker 1: wanted to not ride a bike and look cute for
26:17
Speaker 1: this dinner and you don't give a fuck, and we're,
26:20
Speaker 1: you know, all wearing white to what feels like the
26:23
Speaker 1: last dinner, the last supper before our wedding, even though
26:26
Speaker 1: this should be you know, a rehearsal dinner, I guess
26:28
Speaker 1: or whatever, we're coming clean. She's like, I feel like,
26:34
Speaker 1: fuck wah, you just are suffocating me and pushing down
26:40
Speaker 1: your rhetoric, your beliefs and me. And we're like, oh shit,
26:45
Speaker 1: when did you come up with that? Honey? That's pretty
26:47
Speaker 1: fucking good. He's like, is great. People love it. It's
26:50
Speaker 1: very expensive food. I can't even I'll never have it.
26:53
Speaker 1: It's too expensive for me to ever buy it. She's like,
26:59
Speaker 1: I don't think you understand. If you don't change your ways,
27:03
Speaker 1: I'm going to leave. I have a choice, she says.
27:09
Speaker 1: And he's like, well, it still like you're just gonna leave.
27:11
Speaker 1: You're just like, this is a tipperary for you, and
27:13
Speaker 1: it's like, well, it sounds like you both aren't communicating
27:16
Speaker 1: at all. You've made it very clear you want her
27:20
Speaker 1: to wear nothing and you want her to live exactly
27:22
Speaker 1: how you've want, how you've lived thus far, which is
27:26
Speaker 1: cheaply in this apartment. For some reason, the wild ask
27:30
Speaker 1: that she asked, which is for her whole family to
27:33
Speaker 1: be at your place, you said yes to. And now
27:36
Speaker 1: I realize I think the reason why he did say
27:39
Speaker 1: yes to that is that it appealed to his biggest objective,
27:45
Speaker 1: which is to save money. She's like, it'll save money.
27:50
Speaker 1: He's like, I get it, you're right, You're right. It
27:52
Speaker 1: will say I can't spend money. I can't force anyone
27:54
Speaker 1: to spend money. Yeah, that's what it is. He seems
27:59
Speaker 1: a little bit like a weird kind of like maybe
28:04
Speaker 1: even neurospicy because he's very locked into his ways, almost
28:10
Speaker 1: like a Katie kind of person, except instead of Josh.
28:19
Speaker 1: Paula like likes her life and likes herself and she's
28:24
Speaker 1: not in love with him. It certainly doesn't feel that way.
28:29
Speaker 1: It really feels that. She like was like, I'll move
28:32
Speaker 1: to America and live with this guy who's kind of
28:34
Speaker 1: like a roommate that I sometimes fuck around with. Like
28:37
Speaker 1: it really does feel like that, Like I'm friends with
28:40
Speaker 1: benefits really leaning more towards friends. So then she's like, yeah, no,
28:50
Speaker 1: I can leave, and he's like, well, so you're just
28:53
Speaker 1: gonna like threaten leaving Like that doesn't feel good, Like
28:55
Speaker 1: doesn't he feel like I should, you know, change my
28:57
Speaker 1: whole life tomorrow is just even happening. She's like, I
29:00
Speaker 1: don't even know, and we're like, oh god, my god,
29:02
Speaker 1: I don't know. Am I even awake right now? Oh,
29:05
Speaker 1: like Jesus, I just feel like, who are his friends again?
29:10
Speaker 1: Besides that, so he has that one friend that he
29:12
Speaker 1: really works out with a whole lot. We can tell
29:15
Speaker 1: by how good their form is at that gym. Who
29:20
Speaker 1: I'm okay? I always want to know. This is kind
29:22
Speaker 1: of to get the question like what I had with Rash,
29:24
Speaker 1: Like what are they're all dating histories? What is Thomas's
29:28
Speaker 1: dating history? Does Xavier know said his name Savior? Can
29:32
Speaker 1: he tell us? Would other women be like, yeah, he's yeah,
29:41
Speaker 1: he's a real intense that one knows what he wants.
29:44
Speaker 1: It's his way or the highway that one. I sometimes
29:52
Speaker 1: think that the younger generations and Thomas, I think, I
29:57
Speaker 1: don't Thomas is my age. I think Thomas a little
29:59
Speaker 1: younger than me, and she's a yeah, she's I don't know,
30:01
Speaker 1: he's younger. The younger generations are so much more out
30:05
Speaker 1: of touch and less socially inept are apt than other
30:09
Speaker 1: generations for so many reasons, like most social media phones
30:13
Speaker 1: and all that stuff, And it's really hard for people
30:17
Speaker 1: to like take in other people's vantage points and also
30:20
Speaker 1: to have empathy and want to make the other person
30:26
Speaker 1: as comfortable as they are like people get really ten
30:30
Speaker 1: toes down on what they need without holding space for
30:37
Speaker 1: what other people also need. I can't tell if Thomas
30:42
Speaker 1: is like a lonely person or if he's sort of
30:44
Speaker 1: loved his life, if like he you know, like I
30:49
Speaker 1: can't tell if he wants Palla to stay, because that's
30:52
Speaker 1: the other thing. As much as I don't know if
30:56
Speaker 1: she's into him sexually, I don't know what Paula represents
31:01
Speaker 1: for Thomas. He says that he loves her, but it
31:06
Speaker 1: almost feels like if she's using him to get to
31:11
Speaker 1: America and to be, you know, living here. It feels
31:15
Speaker 1: like he's using her just for the idea of being
31:21
Speaker 1: in a relationship and checking off that box with someone
31:25
Speaker 1: who he finds interesting or other people would find interesting,
31:30
Speaker 1: and or who tolerates his sense of humor, which is questionable.
31:37
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Uh Okay. I would have
31:41
Speaker 1: loved a scene where really her brother was like, what
31:45
Speaker 1: the fuck are you doing? He's so weird, dude, I
31:51
Speaker 1: don't write, are you that desperate? Come on, dude, I
31:55
Speaker 1: mean the kind of like you know what, I feel
31:56
Speaker 1: like they kind of did, But like I feel like
32:00
Speaker 1: she came to this dinner almost feeling like embarrassed for
32:05
Speaker 1: his choices, and he came to the dinner feeling like
32:10
Speaker 1: almost ignorant that they've had any sort of issues at all.
32:18
Speaker 1: And so I guess, is there a lot of cutting
32:20
Speaker 1: room floor of them having the time of their lives
32:22
Speaker 1: really like being horn dogs together, or like you know,
32:26
Speaker 1: being sexual, flirty, having them having a lot of fun,
32:29
Speaker 1: like doing fun things, and then that's on the cutting
32:32
Speaker 1: room floor, and this is like really, you know, catching
32:34
Speaker 1: him off guard. I would need to know. Okay, Marissa
32:38
Speaker 1: and Edward. Okay, honey, we're back in Pennsylvania and it
32:43
Speaker 1: is seasons. We're gonna give us seasons with red leaves.
32:47
Speaker 1: Oh beautiful. It's late fall. Edward is cooking. He's making
32:52
Speaker 1: fresh scrambled eggs, you know what I'm saying. And I'm
32:55
Speaker 1: like so happy for my Oh my god, look at
32:56
Speaker 1: him like breaking those eggs, honey, squirming them around, honey,
32:58
Speaker 1: making that hot. You know, I'm like so excited to
33:01
Speaker 1: see it because I at the same time, I feel
33:03
Speaker 1: like his alternative, being pre done hard boiled eggs, is
33:06
Speaker 1: not as great. At the same time, I'll say this,
33:09
Speaker 1: some things are questionable. You can tell that when he's done,
33:12
Speaker 1: the pan was too hot, too fucking hot. Why because
33:17
Speaker 1: almost immediately after he gets the egg out of the pan,
33:19
Speaker 1: he puts the pan into the sink and the water
33:22
Speaker 1: hits the pan and it steams so hardcore. You're like, girl,
33:25
Speaker 1: I mean, no, come on, get that. You need to
33:28
Speaker 1: like let that fucking chill out a bit. Became a
33:30
Speaker 1: doing that. And then I saw the omelet and the
33:32
Speaker 1: omelet was like fried chicken colored, like KFC fried chicken
33:39
Speaker 1: colored of an omelet. I don't think omuch should be
33:42
Speaker 1: that colored, like George Harrison. That's a older reference, you
33:45
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Too brown. So Mursa comes in
33:52
Speaker 1: and she's just like hey, and he's like hey, and
33:56
Speaker 1: the last night was last night, and she's like, you
33:58
Speaker 1: just need to read my emotion better. No one told
34:07
Speaker 1: Marissa to communicate with like I statements, I guess right.
34:13
Speaker 1: Remember that, Remember like the interpersonal thing where it's like
34:15
Speaker 1: you're not supposed to be like you you you, but
34:18
Speaker 1: when you're having, you know, in dialogue with someone you're
34:22
Speaker 1: supposed to like be like, I feel confused. When I
34:34
Speaker 1: am in a happy state, I feel like joyful in fact,
34:38
Speaker 1: and I don't understand why you won't want that to
34:45
Speaker 1: continue and meet me there, and yet instead I feel
34:50
Speaker 1: like you don't check in with me or am present
34:56
Speaker 1: or present with me in the moment to enjoy it
34:59
Speaker 1: as a posed to rehashing things like that's what I
35:03
Speaker 1: almost feel like she would have to say, but she didn't.
35:05
Speaker 1: You know, heys need to do something better for me,
35:07
Speaker 1: is read me better. You need to make sure that
35:09
Speaker 1: whatever you do, check how my mood is first. And
35:14
Speaker 1: there are two Marissa moods, great and not fucking great.
35:17
Speaker 1: And most of the time it's not fucking great. And
35:19
Speaker 1: if it's not fucking great, you don't do shit. You
35:21
Speaker 1: don't fuck around with me now. But if it's great,
35:24
Speaker 1: when it's usually not great, well that's the worst time
35:26
Speaker 1: then to bring it up because I'm great finally for
35:28
Speaker 1: the first time ever. Why fuck that up? And that's
35:31
Speaker 1: what you did last night? I mean right, I thought
35:36
Speaker 1: that was wedding. She's like, but I will acquiesce. It's
35:41
Speaker 1: I must apologize. I was also at fault because I
35:44
Speaker 1: was hungry. He's like, you were what She's like, I
35:46
Speaker 1: was hungry, He's like, what she's like, I was hungry
35:52
Speaker 1: because they didn't eat anything. Oops. That happens at the
35:56
Speaker 1: same time I was angry that I was hungry. Well,
36:03
Speaker 1: who's full. Yeah, that is your fault, and it feels
36:06
Speaker 1: like maybe you should trouble with some more hard boiled eggs,
36:11
Speaker 1: some more protein bars to be a turkey. The next day,
36:19
Speaker 1: he compliments that she's wearing something fancy. He's like, you
36:22
Speaker 1: look fancy. She's like what, it's just jeez, and this blazer.
36:24
Speaker 1: He's like, oh, okay, I guess just take the compliment.
36:28
Speaker 1: Then I guess. She's like oh. And he's like, I
36:31
Speaker 1: signed the prenup and she's like, oh, good, thank you,
36:35
Speaker 1: Oh thank God. You know, not to make mommy mad.
36:40
Speaker 1: You know what's good for you, you know, God blessed.
36:42
Speaker 1: Just kidding. And then he's like, yeah, it's just a
36:44
Speaker 1: little like weird when I look at the assets page
36:47
Speaker 1: and yours is like acid acid acid acid acid. Mine's
36:49
Speaker 1: like not there. She's like, don't even worry about that.
36:51
Speaker 1: I don't care. I love you God. I just wish
36:55
Speaker 1: to God they would could talk about something else that
36:59
Speaker 1: brings them, like, you know, something good besides money. I
37:04
Speaker 1: guess it's sex. The thing they don't have in common money.
37:09
Speaker 1: The thing they do have in common sex, Yeah, there's that.
37:12
Speaker 1: Is that what they, I guess are always talking about that?
37:14
Speaker 1: Is there? Like sexual chem I guess, you know. And
37:16
Speaker 1: I asked for it before with Paula and Thomas and
37:20
Speaker 1: Edward and Marissa like say less, hold our drinks. Risa's like,
37:27
Speaker 1: hold my hard boiled egg, half of it. Hungry, hungry,
37:32
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah. So basically then they drive in her
37:37
Speaker 1: BMW to the Bluebell in Honey and she is on
37:40
Speaker 1: cloud nine, just happily planning everything. She's happy, he's send
37:43
Speaker 1: the prenup. She's like so excited and he's like that's crazy,
37:47
Speaker 1: you know. Like she sometimes she is just all over
37:49
Speaker 1: the place, like you guys never know that once a
37:52
Speaker 1: moody girl. Sometimes I'm a little nervous because I'm like,
37:54
Speaker 1: what mood is she going to be in? And is
37:56
Speaker 1: that my life for the rest of my life? I
37:58
Speaker 1: don't know. Also, she okay, she is really really excited,
38:03
Speaker 1: you know, And it really does feel like a completely
38:06
Speaker 1: different Marissa, who at this at one point was like
38:08
Speaker 1: I made a mistake to her friends, being like I
38:10
Speaker 1: made a mistake. I can't admit it. It just look so embarrassing.
38:13
Speaker 1: I have to send him back, honey. It's like I
38:14
Speaker 1: have to return him, like you know, the pair of
38:17
Speaker 1: you know, shoes that don't fit. I gotta send him
38:19
Speaker 1: back into the yard. And then now is like I
38:20
Speaker 1: can't wait to get married. I'm so excited planning, and
38:22
Speaker 1: you're like, oh my god, Marissa's vibes don't always read
38:25
Speaker 1: the best, and you know, yeah, I wonder if she
38:32
Speaker 1: can really take accountability for how wild the pendulum shift
38:36
Speaker 1: between these two moments are, which I get is his
38:40
Speaker 1: reason why he's nervous. Okay, So next scene is that
38:44
Speaker 1: she is going to go wine tasting with her mom,
38:47
Speaker 1: and we love her mom, and her mom's like really
38:49
Speaker 1: great facelift, and I love her mom. What a character.
38:52
Speaker 1: You know, We're excited for any characters, and we like
38:57
Speaker 1: someone that's gonna put Marissa in her place. I go,
38:59
Speaker 1: I don't hum to the country club whatever their wine
39:01
Speaker 1: tasting or this winery. Exactly sure where they are, but
39:04
Speaker 1: it looks beautiful because at the country club that her
39:06
Speaker 1: mom's always bring here too, and I'm quite sure, and
39:10
Speaker 1: her mom is like, oh late, ha ha as usual.
39:13
Speaker 1: She's like sorry, mom. Then they sit down, never get
39:18
Speaker 1: to talk about wine. Never cared like never seem like
39:20
Speaker 1: her mom's been drinking so like that, wohen she like
39:23
Speaker 1: needed a reason to meet up with Marissa, so she
39:25
Speaker 1: was just like, yeah, let's go wine tasting, so I'll
39:27
Speaker 1: have a reason to have wine on me, but I'll
39:29
Speaker 1: be already drinking. No talk about what is good or bad?
39:33
Speaker 1: Also just interesting. Why wouldn't he come wine tasting for
39:37
Speaker 1: the wedding? Does he? What is he doing that? He
39:39
Speaker 1: wouldn't want to do it? Wouldn't he want to do that?
39:42
Speaker 1: I hate all the conversation about like, has he even
39:44
Speaker 1: been to a wedding? He's never even been to a wedding?
39:46
Speaker 1: What are weddings like in the DR? Are there even
39:49
Speaker 1: nice weddings in the DR? You dumb bitch? Of course
39:53
Speaker 1: there are? What are you talking? Sometimes it is embarrassing,
39:57
Speaker 1: It is cringey to hear that. No, there's never been Marissa, No,
40:02
Speaker 1: there's literally never been into law, no wedding has ever
40:07
Speaker 1: happened in the DR. With the budget over twenty five
40:10
Speaker 1: thousand dollars, that was the biggest one, and that was
40:14
Speaker 1: for the Queen. I'm not quite sure you know what
40:16
Speaker 1: I'm saying you're just like, that's I'm just mad up
40:18
Speaker 1: the queen just because I'm in I had to think
40:20
Speaker 1: of something in the moment. But like you know what
40:21
Speaker 1: I'm saying, it's just so confusing. You know, there's like
40:25
Speaker 1: a bunch of resorts there. Why wouldn't there be nice
40:27
Speaker 1: weddings there? And that's just the resort ones. Those are
40:30
Speaker 1: just the tourist ones. But I'm just saying, not just
40:32
Speaker 1: the tourist ones. The resorts are there. There are beautiful
40:34
Speaker 1: little cows everywhere. It's like if you, if you if
40:38
Speaker 1: rich people are going there for a vacation, why wouldn't
40:41
Speaker 1: people go there and live there because it's beautiful. Why
40:47
Speaker 1: wouldn't people be living there already because it's beautiful and
40:51
Speaker 1: they're rich and they can do that. Why wouldn't people
40:55
Speaker 1: who are you know, whatever wrung of like middle class
40:59
Speaker 1: up upper middle class or whatever get married? And what
41:04
Speaker 1: does a nice wedding even mean? Like does that just
41:06
Speaker 1: mean sort of like cookie cutter flower situations or do
41:09
Speaker 1: you mean like a big wedding that's like full of
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Speaker 1: love and laughter and like has decorations and like great food.
41:16
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, like it's so interesting. She is
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Speaker 1: just so obsessed with pointing out the experienced level of
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Speaker 1: him in relationship to her and how different she perceives
41:30
Speaker 1: it to be, and how she feels like he has
41:34
Speaker 1: never known the finer life that she has. It's just
41:40
Speaker 1: so anyway, God Bless. On top of that, then the
41:43
Speaker 1: mom is like, guess what I'm gonna bring up this?
41:46
Speaker 1: I was talking to a lawyer. She's like, okay, She's like,
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Speaker 1: because you know you're getting married. She's like, yeah, I
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Speaker 1: know I'm getting married. I by the way, he signed
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Speaker 1: the prenup. She's like, yeah, I don't give a shit
41:54
Speaker 1: about you and your decisions. I was talking to my
41:56
Speaker 1: lawyer and you have to talk to my lawyer, which
41:58
Speaker 1: is weird in itself. Okay, you're like Risus, a grown
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Speaker 1: ass woman who I guess has been like a career
42:03
Speaker 1: exec for a long time. Okay, so anyway, God bless.
42:06
Speaker 1: She's like, so talk to my lawyer. So then are like,
42:08
Speaker 1: what is her lawyer going to say? She's like, guess
42:09
Speaker 1: what lawyer gets on the phone. The lawyer's like, for
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Speaker 1: not just the prenup, but for immigration, you sign this
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Speaker 1: thing where for you say to America that if this
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Speaker 1: person is in America and doesn't have a job. You
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Speaker 1: will pay for them to live for ten years, which
42:31
Speaker 1: can be garnished from your wages or whatnot up to
42:36
Speaker 1: forty percent of your income. Now forty percent of your
42:39
Speaker 1: income is neither here nor there. There is not a
42:43
Speaker 1: hardcore OG ninety day fiance fan that does not know
42:48
Speaker 1: this caveat of the visa process. Because we've been knowing this.
42:54
Speaker 1: Angela complained about this. Guess what we already know. So
42:59
Speaker 1: if we already know, and I'm just telling you, Chris
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Speaker 1: Ferre has never applied for a visa process herself. It's
43:05
Speaker 1: never dated abroad or whatever. If I know that, then
43:08
Speaker 1: why wouldn't Marissa know that? Why wouldn't Marissa was about
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Speaker 1: to get married? Who applied for the visa? Who got
43:13
Speaker 1: him here? Wouldn't know? Hadn't signed, didn't read, didn't someone
43:16
Speaker 1: didn't tell her that. Yeah. One thing is that you
43:19
Speaker 1: are telling the government that if you were going to
43:21
Speaker 1: bring someone over to America, that they are not going
43:25
Speaker 1: to need government assistance for something because the obvious known
43:31
Speaker 1: fact is they can't work here for a period of time,
43:35
Speaker 1: so you literally have to take care of them. And
43:37
Speaker 1: we want to make sure that they have some sort
43:39
Speaker 1: of like support system. So yeah, it's like we all
43:44
Speaker 1: know the ten year thing. It makes no sense for
43:48
Speaker 1: the producers to play at Marisa not knowing unless the
43:54
Speaker 1: producers are like, no, there's some nine day people who
43:56
Speaker 1: don't remember that, who never watched Angela. We'll get the
43:59
Speaker 1: new ones. So Mersa's like what, and then the Mom's
44:04
Speaker 1: like yeah, and I just don't know if I want
44:06
Speaker 1: my grandsons their lives to be affected thusly where your
44:12
Speaker 1: income will be garnished by forty percent for this hotel worker.
44:22
Speaker 1: First of all, God bless we know that those boys
44:27
Speaker 1: have also a dad who also makes some money, who
44:31
Speaker 1: also have you rich ass old as me and ask
44:34
Speaker 1: grandma you had nothing to do but spoil them kids.
44:40
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that Edward should get forty percent of
44:42
Speaker 1: were income for ten years. I'm just saying, okay. Also,
44:45
Speaker 1: what I am truly saying is Marisa should know already.
44:48
Speaker 1: And if Marsa doesn't know, then that's another conversation. That's
44:52
Speaker 1: the conversation you have with your daughter. Why don't you
44:53
Speaker 1: know that you applied for this PISA already? You already
44:56
Speaker 1: did this. You know what I'm saying my loves. That
45:01
Speaker 1: is what I'm saying. All right, Okay, that ends part
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