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- 0:01It's a little darker than usual but you can still see me.
- 0:06And on today's episode, we get to talk about the lovely plane
- 0:12of those who maintain a restorative and body itself and
- 0:18allow that integration of the mind to take place naturally.
- 0:23So what I mean by that, some of us, lovely human beings.
- 0:28I've learned a lot about trauma and cymatics and the lovely
- 0:33therapists at teach me since I support people on their personal
- 0:37development or their spirituality process, their
- 0:41Ascension. There's many different words
- 0:43that a lot of different subject matter experts use, I integrate
- 0:50them all my subject matter expertise is being a person with
- 0:55a love cycle. And actually this is the beauty
- 0:57of being herself and using the inner growth mindset Which is
- 1:01also something that I curated way back when and still use
- 1:05quite effectively in the absence of knowing any of what I just
- 1:09recently in the past year or so learned, and it's really just
- 1:12made me that much better. And also giving me the
- 1:17possibility for my 5D Mystics the ones who want to move into
- 1:205D land and the ones who want to actually, maybe be in the
- 1:25enlightenment. So, a drupe so I definitely love
- 1:28being a part of the spiritual and Spirituality Community
- 1:32spirituality is set gurus thing and I get to learn from him and
- 1:37the inner engineering course, it's awesome.
- 1:39You got to put into practice that lovely ventral Bagel toning
- 1:43through the yoga exercises in the shambhavi Korea.
- 1:46The inner engineering is a way of contemplating life of course.
- 1:50And in fact, it's very cute when he has the module on responding
- 1:56and even the one on Karma and how he teaches stuff that
- 2:01Learned in a different way from my lovely, trauma chorus.
- 2:05With some autopia where I learned about how to work
- 2:09through unresolved trauma, when it comes up.
- 2:12And also with my weekend embodied certificate, I got to
- 2:15learn how to work with the body and that's the feminine.
- 2:18And so, even here, we got to learn a little bit about why
- 2:22yoga is effective and thank you, Stephen porges for letting me in
- 2:26on the fun fact that it's a portfolio of ventral Bagel
- 2:29toning exercises. So, So the somatic experts being
- 2:32therapist, they support me to understand why mindfulness and
- 2:36mine site are important. Mine site is Daniel Siegel and
- 2:39that's really awesome. When you realize you do these
- 2:42things naturally as I said before and there's only one
- 2:46little little tiny difference and I say tiny because I mean
- 2:52that's the only noticeable difference that I have at 43
- 2:57years old of years and that I have been able to To gather.
- 3:03Between how pink tinted glasses, are always quite effective.
- 3:07For those of us who stay within a restorative and body itself
- 3:09and move again. Naturally, speaking into an
- 3:12integrated mind, which means I use my left and right mode
- 3:16equally. And I'm not reactive I'm
- 3:18responsive and I did not do one day of yoga.
- 3:22Until I met said we ruined, I did enjoy my six months.
- 3:26I promised I did my six months I'd Guru but for now I haven't
- 3:30had time to do my sadhanas. I think that's the right word
- 3:33and the one thing that I did notice as a person who is a
- 3:37Mystic and who has embraced three or four different light
- 3:41bodies and then moved into the rainbow body and then after the
- 3:45rainbow body experience, I remember there were a couple
- 3:48more actual light body, but it is in a whole different way.
- 3:52And in fact, even this year, so I've noticed every year for me,
- 3:56my energetic Spear and holding more charge.
- 3:59In fact, I'm actually doing an energy therapy class that
- 4:02Learning about that and I think I figured out that I need to
- 4:06learn still very well. I haven't how to discharge.
- 4:10So you know what you also learn about the Mind from Daniel
- 4:14Siegel is that an integrated mind has all hands on deck and
- 4:18our default mode network is down regulated.
- 4:21And so our oats that others and the South which is the
- 4:24neuroception, I think is how Stephen porges cause it when
- 4:28you're scanning well, I mean, it's not what the eyes.
- 4:30It's actually something that they can see in the The machines
- 4:33that show when the brain activity is there so other than
- 4:37the self you scan to see as your body safe or not, can you be
- 4:40engaged in your social engagement system?
- 4:42The ventral vagal nerve that is our social engagement system.
- 4:46So there's a lot of different topics that I'm reviewing.
- 4:50My regular listeners know all about the psychoeducation since
- 4:53it's been something that I integrate in our lovely podcast
- 4:56episodes but if any of you have questions since you might be
- 4:59new, please reach out. I'm happy to share my sources.
- 5:02Dedicated episode. There's a paid subscription
- 5:05based model content but also free available content.
- 5:08And I do love empowering people with information that you can
- 5:12then also go and research yourself and you can also get
- 5:15your own certificates if you want.
- 5:17So, back to how it is. For those of us who have pink
- 5:22tinted glasses and we only get the dark tinted ones because of
- 5:25the ones who allow us to get to know them and they don't have
- 5:31pink. Painted glasses.
- 5:34When people have this thing called Shame cycle.
- 5:38This heartbreak got wrench torn apart and this actual
- 5:41defectiveness right here at the heart apparently and the gut as
- 5:47well. So yeah, the heart chakra, the
- 5:50solar plexus and then also the sacral there's a lot of
- 5:53different ways that I could explore this today, but I want
- 5:56to just keep it simple. The pink tinted glass is people.
- 6:01We don't have this heartbreak thing.
- 6:04Never once have I felt defective know about flaws and
- 6:08Imperfections, and also being too much but not in a way that
- 6:12makes me feel ashamed. And in fact, here's where when
- 6:17you purely love, because why would you not and you are aware
- 6:22of what it means to close that heart?
- 6:25Because every person was a teenager or still, is depending
- 6:29on how old you are. I don't think teenagers are
- 6:31watching me. You know, many people.
- 6:34Well, I've met and they all actually very easily talk about
- 6:39how they don't engage vulnerably speaking with people, and they
- 6:44all find a different way to explain why, which I today
- 6:48understand. Thank you.
- 6:49Trauma experts for letting me in on what an Adaptive child is
- 6:53emotionally. And what a rigid mind is as
- 6:56well. And so, what, when you don't
- 6:58access both sides of your brain equally and consistently, which
- 7:03is you not Actually tending to the emotions, but either
- 7:07suppressing them or using distractions deflection
- 7:12deflecting, and there's compulsive activities.
- 7:16So these have a wide range of something, you manage and just
- 7:20watch a movie, and think is normal or something.
- 7:22That is a lot of destabilization, but not enough
- 7:26to make you recognize how it would be great for you to do
- 7:30cymatics. Most people don't know, there is
- 7:32a difference between good there. Therapists and the ones who are
- 7:35not good, but they also don't know the difference between
- 7:39their body and mind and how both are part of the equation.
- 7:43And when you share this information with people, they
- 7:45either roll their eyes, talk about evil or about humanity.
- 7:49And now, you have to suffer. There's a lot of different also
- 7:53Educators that talked about things in half ways and, and so,
- 7:57you know, it's not the common individuals fault for following
- 8:02their leaders who, basically, say, Port the methodologies that
- 8:06they found in an effort to not seek here, and the 3D Land is
- 8:14not to be blamed, nor conspiracies and or a lot of
- 8:18other things that 4D Mystics keep shouting about.
- 8:22And so, here's where the 5B Mystic knows.
- 8:25We're all people, we all have hearts and they all can get
- 8:28broken and we don't say what's a heart for if it has to be broken
- 8:34and compulsively engage in relationships that are no
- 8:38meaning and not enriching and not forever.
- 8:43Not because we're attached by the way, like that's actually
- 8:45something very fascinating to learn that.
- 8:48You can unconditional love without needing attachment when
- 8:51your body is a safe haven and safe base and your brain.
- 8:54So there's not a shame cycle. Either inner critic, outer
- 8:57critic know there is a person who says, huh?
- 9:00I have feelings. Yeah, that person they just lied
- 9:03to me. That wasn't nice.
- 9:06Why they lie or let me go check. Hey, why'd you lie to me?
- 9:09I've done this by the way, well and you could see how many
- 9:13people have answered me in my teenage years.
- 9:15They all had an answer. I was like, huh?
- 9:17They all were genuine to because see the right mode actually is
- 9:21picking up always on the nonverbal, and I have a tendency
- 9:25to pick up on when someone's genuine, or when they're lying,
- 9:29not when they're manipulating on purpose, that I actually have
- 9:32never bothered to try and do cuz Lies have short legs.
- 9:36And so whether they speak true, they're not everything comes to
- 9:39surface. And really if someone's actually
- 9:41lying the part that has always been clear, means you don't
- 9:45really want me in your life as a friend because you're lying to
- 9:48me. So obviously, I can disengage
- 9:51from our relationship in certain ways.
- 9:54The people who have a defectiveness the Heartbreak to
- 9:59see they get up and in there. Hmm, you're disrespecting me and
- 10:02they begin to get angry. I remember.
- 10:04A teenager. And then I met this young adults
- 10:07whose 20-ish and she reminded me of how people react when people
- 10:12lie. And I told my teenage friends,
- 10:14you know, I don't understand what the big deal.
- 10:17We'll know they're bad. They're evil, their this there
- 10:19that. Well, if you know though this
- 10:22means it's not actually hidden. What did they do to your life
- 10:26that they physically affect you in any way?
- 10:28No, I'm not emotionally. Why you're actually going to
- 10:31allow person who actually doesn't Don't care about your
- 10:36emotional being to affect your emotional being, I don't
- 10:39understand. And so again, I'm 43.
- 10:42Now I have the same opinion and I'm laughing because I actually
- 10:48don't find it offensive or hurtful when people lie because
- 10:52it means, they don't know how to say the truth, which I got
- 10:56taught in my childhood means you don't know how to be yourself or
- 11:02to take ownership or to do a lot of Things.
- 11:04That mean I'm a grown-up, I'm responsible, I can handle
- 11:09myself. You know, it's even more
- 11:11humorous. Is when people tell me they're
- 11:13grown-ups and this was like what my early 20s and they're
- 11:17completely making choices that are not really great for their
- 11:21health but because they have a car and money and they're
- 11:26independent apparently and I live with my mother and I don't
- 11:30have a car and I don't like driving and I feel very
- 11:33independent person Ali, especially when it comes to a
- 11:37lot of areas where I see adults struggle and not even bother
- 11:43considering therapy, not because they can't afford it.
- 11:47Not because they stigmatize it not because they don't know
- 11:50about it. No.
- 11:51Because they don't need it. Since humanity is the problem.
- 11:55And so are all these other people who lie and don't know
- 11:59how to be respectful. And a lot of other words that
- 12:03remind me of the story said, Guru shares about the Zen master
- 12:07and his disciples who aren't really disciples because they're
- 12:09just trying to get him to do what they told him to do, which
- 12:13is to kick out the compulsive thief.
- 12:16And here's where people that don't understand what actual
- 12:19heartbreaking, compassion means, in these situations.
- 12:23They haven't actually become their full self yet.
- 12:27Their optimal adults because they're still in their
- 12:31unresolved trauma. Presenting conditions like
- 12:34adoptive children do if you don't do this and I won't be
- 12:38friends with you. Or if you don't do this then you
- 12:41will equate this title here that societies decided to give and
- 12:45the masses which love to talk about sheep which we all are.
- 12:49If we really we need to talk about masses, I'm part of the
- 12:52masses, I'm speaking and as everybody likes to point out we
- 12:56all have opinions and they all come out of the same place and I
- 12:59totally agree with that. Mine is Pseudoscience.
- 13:03That's what our naysayer has given dhp content.
- 13:06I love it. Pseudoscience self-help, he
- 13:08added BS and crap, and it's the S and crap for some people, not
- 13:13for other people who actually understand what it means to be a
- 13:18nice person because you want to because you can because no
- 13:23matter what type of Claire's you got, it's all the field of
- 13:26energy and doesn't make us special.
- 13:28It just makes me human. And in fact, I can't wait to
- 13:31week to read. Physics exists, n shal physics
- 13:34by Sabine so I can explain that part to my lovely five, d.c.
- 13:38Mystics in the enlightenment. So, Adrian, the 4D are busy
- 13:41battling the forces of what they consider light and dark.
- 13:46It's very humorous to me, since they don't know how dark and
- 13:51night and white basically reflects from Darkness.
- 13:55So, just saying, like, I don't remember the specifics of my art
- 13:58class, but I do remember learning about the basic colors
- 14:01and I do. Recall.
- 14:03That white is actually reflection of the color black.
- 14:07So really the only thing that stays and is a actual existence
- 14:12is dark. But again, I'm stupid and I'm
- 14:15not logical and I don't actually remember a lot of things so we
- 14:20can keep the pink tinted glasses on is what I'm trying to get to.
- 14:25And in the meantime, understand that people who have compulsive
- 14:29anything aren't actually their adult self.
- 14:32It's Very great topic. When you learn from therapists
- 14:35that are good how they help people through compassion to,
- 14:38actually, in time, their own timing because the body needs to
- 14:43be ready to feel this very, very, very apparently deep deep
- 14:49deep loneliness and fear and disconnect from the self is
- 14:54heartbreak got wrench, torn apart in a way that I don't
- 14:57know. In fact, I only know the panic
- 15:00attacks, which from what I've gathered when We'll talk about
- 15:03human suffering is no comparison.
- 15:05So I'm okay with handling what is an overcharge of energy
- 15:10because we're all basically lightworkers, but those of us
- 15:14who are Mystics, we have a way that we are open channels
- 15:18because we choose not to close off our Channel.
- 15:21But see we don't get afraid either.
- 15:22And you don't destabilize unlike 4D Community, who I've seen some
- 15:28go from brilliant to really Individuals who have a lot of
- 15:34stories about car makes and Jezebel's.
- 15:38I don't even know what that word means.
- 15:39And then their whole demeanor and everything, it almost
- 15:44equates, the rigid Educators, who create content that should
- 15:49be taken offline, they use words such as here.
- 15:54Let me give you tactics to get underneath the skin and they
- 15:57use. I'm not using it on purpose, and
- 15:59they actually have the audacity to think as theirs.
- 16:02Spelling out with almost what is a spearing Vengeance?
- 16:05Mouth the empowerment word and I'm like, what the heck is that
- 16:11Empower what? You're just now giving somebody
- 16:14a way to be spiteful to another human being in both actually
- 16:17need a good somatic sensory motor trauma expert or good
- 16:22foundation of psychoeducation, a basic rundown on how shame is
- 16:27stored in the body. Not that not what you're doing
- 16:31and I don't even know how Got your degree in why you're still
- 16:34practicing and how other therapists aren't coming to you
- 16:37and saying, hey, did you not read what we're supposed to be
- 16:41doing? But here's where not, all of the
- 16:43people who are in the field of anything, really do what they do
- 16:49because they care in a way of caring so much that you keep on
- 16:54learning about the material. Excuse me, somehow, somewhere
- 16:59people thought, apparently, you got a degree and that's it.
- 17:02I'm I'm a marketer and I also support personal development.
- 17:06I'm not done learning. How am I going to stop learning
- 17:08ever about topics that are infinitely important and
- 17:13important. Because we understand the
- 17:16complex, but very amazing journey of being a person.
- 17:21And so, the more you can learn, the more you can help people on
- 17:24that. Forget recently, I've shared the
- 17:27story. I met these two beautiful couple
- 17:30when you see the merging couples.
- 17:32I have to say that, that one really gets me.
- 17:35I'm going to take steps back before I get Carly in the, in
- 17:38the room. So, this, the this beautiful
- 17:40cute little couple and I don't know how old they are.
- 17:44I have no idea. All I know is that I got excited
- 17:47because I met two people who are official therapist and we were
- 17:50talking about helping people, and I got all excited about all
- 17:54the new beautiful information. I'm learning about cymatics.
- 17:57It's like, wow, we really you help people here.
- 17:59Let me tell you what I'm learning in thinking that I'm
- 18:02Going to colleagues respectfully letting them know.
- 18:04I know I'm not a therapist. I don't plan on being one you
- 18:07know. So respecting that to make sure
- 18:09we don't, you know, get anyone thinking that because sensitive
- 18:14egos man, you gotta watch those words.
- 18:16I got this dude. He says, once I'm done with my
- 18:21excitement, I'm very happy and, you know, just exchanging notes,
- 18:25he says this absurd number I have a bazillion million ways to
- 18:32Test, what you just said. And so now he's used the word
- 18:37contest and I'm like, wow. And he's used this exaggerated
- 18:40number, but he has to leave and I'm like shit.
- 18:43Now, I can't know what his million gazillion.
- 18:45So I said, hey before you go, would you mind because we don't
- 18:50have time for all of the list of ways that you just told me, you
- 18:54basically tell me the body of a person means nothing in your
- 18:57therapy session and dismissed, every single word that I'm
- 19:01learning from a Actual people who do the job that you just
- 19:04graduated from. Can you tell me what your idea?
- 19:07Then, in this case, a person with a complete unresolved
- 19:11trauma. What what what, how, what are
- 19:12you going to do? So he goes to describe to me.
- 19:16I'm wearing he describes me everything.
- 19:19He was wearing the little bow tie, or whatever and sitting in
- 19:24a chair with the notepad, and he has a table, and his patient is
- 19:28lying in front of him and he's taking notes and the patient has
- 19:32to go. Him twice a week and he writes
- 19:34down his notes. And essentially as like okay
- 19:38thank you very much. Thank you so much for what you
- 19:41just shared with me. Now, here's where this not the
- 19:44first person who when I asked wow you chose your job?
- 19:47How exciting, yay. What are you going to do?
- 19:50Why why did you choose it? And they describe to me what
- 19:52they look like. And I'm like, hmm.
- 19:55Like when I met the first two lawyers in my life and I
- 19:58actually made a committed Choice based on thinking, I might be a
- 20:01lawyer and I Found out that they apparently had no idea that
- 20:05they're supposed to respect the law and members of the law and
- 20:09I'm like, huh? So yeah, you know, pink tinted
- 20:12glasses, they're really fun to have but so is the embodiment of
- 20:15consistency. But I loved most of all in 5D
- 20:18land because we are here, by the way, it seeing finally, some
- 20:22actual people who care. So they're stable mature,
- 20:26adaptive rational teachable, they're not rigid.
- 20:29They have the integrated Minds that I learned from Daniel
- 20:31Siegel. Acts of adaptive coherent.
- 20:34Energized stable. I love knowing that faces, so
- 20:37they are genuine authentic, they know how to handle their
- 20:41emotions and they actually know what it means to be respectful
- 20:43to people even like me, who can be stupid pseudoscience the
- 20:48whole Mystic stuff, which people don't believe in or they tease,
- 20:51you know, because Tara Reid and come on everybody, that doesn't
- 20:54believe in it. What are you going to do?
- 20:56And I do that, the people know, it's only energy, it's not here
- 21:01to tell. Tell you stuff, you don't know.
- 21:03And actually what I love most of all being a 5D Mystic in the
- 21:07enlightenment. So a drupe is the only people
- 21:08that come to me are the people who at the very least have some
- 21:12form of ownership of their life. So they don't become obsessed
- 21:17with thinking that the Supernatural is actually doing
- 21:21something. And there's this perfect timing
- 21:24that they need to wait. There's a realization of what it
- 21:27means to do a spirituality process Journey even without
- 21:31knowing Of inner engineering with said, grew a person.
- 21:36Who understands I wake up every day.
- 21:39I got to choose my words, my actions, my thoughts.
- 21:43I get to be a member of society is a very basic life.
- 21:48The one that is a 5D. And so the 5D Educators finally,
- 21:52again, they're trying to help people to understand knowledge.
- 21:57It's always growing science. It's a methodology.
- 22:01Not A belief system please. And they keep on adding things
- 22:06and changing things and learning things so information.
- 22:09Again, it is mutable unfortunately, our ancestors did
- 22:13not realize that and right now we're actually growing in our
- 22:17expansion and understand that we don't actually know everything.
- 22:22And that's where the 5D educators are amazing.
- 22:24At saying, we don't know everything.
- 22:27And We Know This Much, I like to give Food For Thought cuz you
- 22:31know it's about Your integrals, not - about you being yourself,
- 22:35not me? But I can tell you.
- 22:37It's very easy to choose. That it's also very easy to be
- 22:40compassionate Beyond Reason with those who still have.
- 22:43What are the effectiveness and shame Cycles?
- 22:45No matter how rude, a person's gotten.
- 22:48It has not been hard for me to say, I want to treat you with
- 22:52love and care and myself, of course, and I will do the best I
- 22:56can to be as polite as my mother taught me as a Quantum is, as I
- 23:01met and And actually manage my emotions because my
- 23:04two-year-old. Luckily for me only comes into
- 23:07the room with my mother. Other than that she did teach me
- 23:10in a very good way, how to be respectful and I love respect
- 23:13because Love Is Love and respecting is actually something
- 23:18easy for those of us who don't need to attach to get a thumbs
- 23:21up. We just like people that's all
- 23:24and we like to help people to get along and that's why 5D
- 23:28again uncontrolled of neutrality and love.
- 23:31Not. Operation.
- 23:32So looking forward to being back again.
- 23:35Soon, have a great day.