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*PATREON PREVIEW* How To Exit Conversations at Events · What's The Juice?

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  [SPEAKER_00]: Sometimes when you happen to come and say, in this happening, you saw many times where I would be at a gallery, for example, especially a first move down here.
• 0:15
  [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I was talking to this guy and he was cool, and he was cool guy and then we talk for like...
• 0:21
  [SPEAKER_00]: five minutes, small talk, I'm like okay well you know it's nice to meet you and then he's like so like he brings another topic up and I'm trying to move on because you know what me I love to float around the room I love to talk to everybody I'm that person this is something that I need to learn how to master because that's my problem I don't know how to leave oh yeah but also also before finish my story you sometimes when you're in a good conversation you don't want to leave
• 0:47
  [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, because me I can be in a good conversation.
• 0:49
  [SPEAKER_01]: I won't know where to go.
• 0:50
  [SPEAKER_00]: I can be in a good ask conversation, but my brain is like, I said, this person walking in, I'm like, who I would love to talk to this person or like, maybe I recognize someone I would love to introduce myself to.
• 1:01
  [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm talking to this person and he's in it.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And he may be you in this situation that he wants to just like hang on to this good conversation that he's having.
• 1:10
  [SPEAKER_00]: The whole time I'm thinking
• 1:14
  [SPEAKER_00]: I need to end this so I can go move around because I didn't come here to just talk to you.
• 1:18
  [SPEAKER_00]: This is not a one-on-one date.
• 1:20
  [SPEAKER_00]: You know, this is not a, this is how fucked up a little bit.
• 1:23
  [SPEAKER_01]: No, I hear you, but my question is, but don't you ever have
• 1:29
  [SPEAKER_01]: a conversation with somebody and you're really like in the conversation, but what you're going to leave because the ten minutes is up and you got to start mingling.
• 1:35
  [SPEAKER_00]: No, no, no, no.
• 1:36
  [SPEAKER_00]: I would have a long conversation, but it's never that long because I understand work.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: That's so not true because the person that you were talking about earlier that you said that you got supposed to hang out and like you never did y'all talked half of the time and we're there because there's nobody else I was interested in talking to.
• 1:53
  [SPEAKER_01]: There you go.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I didn't care to talk about anybody else.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: He was the only interesting person there.
• 1:57
  [SPEAKER_00]: So I was like, I, here we are.
• 1:59
  [SPEAKER_00]: We liked it.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: There you go.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So how do you differentiate the two?
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Well, the one that you're talking about, there was nobody else I was interested in talking to.
• 2:09
  [SPEAKER_01]: Okay.
• 2:10
  [SPEAKER_00]: The one at the gallery, I was so curious about everyone else.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Everyone is an artist.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Everyone is a talk of the other.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, the person was only interested in talking to you.
• 2:17
  [SPEAKER_01]: Nobody else?
• 2:18
  [SPEAKER_01]: which person the person that you felt like was holding on to you okay, but that's not a problem.
• 2:23
  [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, it's because you see this it's like a it's like a tango.
• 2:26
  [SPEAKER_01]: It's like you're gonna get to know how to do the seats you you have in a hard time you have in a hard time let's say you're in a conversation with someone and you want to leave right but you don't know how to exit you know when I don't know how to exit and I also kind of don't want to exit because that
• 2:44
  [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, you're overthinking it.
• 2:46
  [SPEAKER_00]: The best thing is so you know what ended up doing with that guy at the gallery I said, hey, it was really nice to meet you.
• 2:51
  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm just gonna go say what's up to my friend over there Was it actually your friend?
• 2:55
  [SPEAKER_00]: No, but but I just left and I told him the honest truth I wasn't like well, you know, I gotta go to the bathroom I would say so this is so sorry.
• 3:05
  [SPEAKER_00]: Go ahead finish it So I just I just told him the truth like hey, I'm gonna say what's up to this person and it was oh nice to meet you And it was very abrupt
• 3:13
  [SPEAKER_01]: But then, you know, he was like, you had to just do it.
• 3:15
  [SPEAKER_00]: No, I had to cause I had enough of the conversation very nice guy.
• 3:18
  [SPEAKER_00]: And, you know, that's it.
• 3:21
  [SPEAKER_00]: So I went and talked to some other people.
• 3:23
  [SPEAKER_00]: Cause when I go to an event, I don't want to talk to this one person.
• 3:27
  [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, me neither.
• 3:29
  [SPEAKER_00]: I can talk to you for just long enough, exchange information, and if there was really something interesting that we both felt that was there, we can carry on afterwards.
• 3:39
  [SPEAKER_00]: We don't need to be here because you're missing out like the so many interesting people in this room.
• 3:45
  [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: You know what I mean?
• 3:46
  [SPEAKER_00]: So like, that's true.
• 3:47
  [SPEAKER_00]: I regret it.
• 3:48
  [SPEAKER_00]: This cause you're comfortable.
• 3:49
  [SPEAKER_00]: It's just like you're talking to one person, you missing out on like just amazing other people you can meet.
• 3:55
  [SPEAKER_01]: You're right.