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How to Quit Your 9-5 and Start Your Dream Business Today · The Spirit Nomad: Spiritual Awakening + Life Purpose

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  If you have a dream or a goal that you just keep phoning on, I
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  want you to know that you know enough and it's time to jump and
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  I'm talking to you. But I'm also talking to my
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  younger self. I wish somebody had told her
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  this. I used to have big self worth
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  issues. I still do, but I've come a long
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  way. And I used to turn to
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  perfectionism, but I realized that it was always a form of
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  procrastination because I didn't feel good in who I was.
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  So I will be reading lots of books, lots of courses, taking
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  lots of certifications to feel feel good enough.
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  But I never arrived at my dream because I was too scared to
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  actually take action. My biggest goal when I was in my
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  early 20s was to be able to quit my 9:00 to 5:00, never having to
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  go back to that hamster wheel. It was after reading the book
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  The Four Hour Workweek and I saw this book cover with the hammock
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  by the palm trees. I was thinking that is what I
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  want. I want that freedom.
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  So I read the book and I learned everything about how to start an
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  online business. I created my website and I felt
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  like I was taking all this action.
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  But when it came time to actually launching what was my
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  drop shipping store at the time, I kept postponing it because I
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  thought, I'm not sure about the font.
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  I think it needs to be a different font or like I'm not
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  sure about the product descriptions.
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  And eventually I met my partner and we're still together now
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  seven years later. And he was a full time content
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  creator and he was doing the business model that I wanted.
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  And I noticed he was taking so much messy action, like he would
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  write the blog post and then publish it before or a
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  proofreading event. And I was like, why are you
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  being so reckless? This is not how you make money.
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  But he was making a lot of money and I hadn't made a single
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  dollar from my business. So I thought, OK, he must be
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  doing something right. So I started taking action
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  before I was feeling ready and before my content was feeling
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  ready. And eventually I was able to
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  make this my full time income. I haven't had a job now for over
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  8 years. And here's the truth that I
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  learned. You're not stuck because you
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  don't know enough. You're stuck because you're not
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  moving. So after this video, you're
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  going to feel so confident, so ready to jump in and go after
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  your dream life, and it's going to manifest sooner than you
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  think. So the first point that you need
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  to know is that messy action is what will move you forward.
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  And if you're like me, I always thought that clarity comes
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  first. Like first I got to be crystal
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  clear with my niches, crystal clear what my brand is, and then
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  I can take action. But what I've learned is that
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  clarity actually comes after action.
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  So as long as you have a vague idea of what your goal is,
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  starting actions, and you will realize what feels good and
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  what's working and literally expect it not to be perfect.
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  For example, if you want to start a podcast and know that
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  the first few episodes is going to be cringe and lean into that,
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  know that it's absolutely fine. If you look at your favorite
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  podcasters first podcast or your favorite Youtubers, their first
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  YouTube video, they're going to be super awkward, low quality.
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  They didn't know what they were doing, but they did it anyway.
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  They took messy action and that's how they got where they
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  are today. And the reason for this is
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  because messy action builds momentum and momentum builds
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  everything else. The second thing you need to
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  know is that you already have the wisdom inside you.
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  You've lived things, you've struggled with things, you've
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  learned the hard way, and that is your value.
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  You don't need to be the most advanced person, the most expert
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  person in the room. You just need to be honest about
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  what you know and who you can help.
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  There are people right now who are exactly where you were a
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  year ago and what feels basic to you would change everything for
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  them. For example, at the start of my
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  career, I would say no, My coach.
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  So I wanted to teach people how to become a digital nomad, but I
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  had limiting beliefs of I had just become a nomad myself.
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  I wasn't earning much money, but my clients were so happy because
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  they saw I was travelling around the world.
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  I no longer needed a job and that was all they needed.
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  I didn't need to have a PhD or 100 certifications or had lived
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  the digital nomad lifestyle for centuries.
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  And we think that what we know is common knowledge, but for
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  somebody who hasn't even started yet, what do you know is life
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  changing? The third thing that you need to
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  know is that you were given these experiences for a reason.
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  Nothing that you've been through is random.
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  The challenges, the confusions, the things you had to figure out
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  on your own, those are your tools.
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  I truly believe that pre birth you were given a specific set of
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  experiences that would one day allow you to guide others.
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  I've read many books about past life regression therapy and
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  there is this pattern that the facilities see that we're
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  planning our lives pre birth to have certain experiences to lead
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  us to our purpose. So for example, if you had a
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  really traumatic childhood where you might think what was the
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  point of that? That's not fair, Is there even a
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  God? But perhaps that turned you
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  towards healing modalities. Well, people who had a really
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  peaceful childhood might not be interested in those things,
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  might not even know about healing.
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  And you became a healer and then you can help heal others or
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  teach other people how to heal themselves.
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  So your experiences became this trigger for your purpose.
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  So think about what have you experienced, what challenges and
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  how did they lead due to who you are today?
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  What transformations have you gone through that is a key to
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  your purpose this lifetime? There's a key on how you can
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  help people, what you can coach people in.
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  And by the way, if you want the exact templates on how to create
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  a product, how to grow on social media so you never have to work
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  your old job again, then book your free business Clarity call
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  link in the description. We have a few more calls this
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  week. The fourth thing that you need
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  to know is that you only need to be a few steps ahead.
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  We touched upon this before that most people think who am I to
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  teach this? I'm not an expert yet.
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  But here's the thing. You don't actually need to be an
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  expert. You just need to be a few steps
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  ahead of the person you're helping.
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  That's it. Because the person who is just
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  behind you doesn't need perfection.
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  They need someone who just gets it.
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  Someone who remembers what it feels like to be where they are,
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  and that is you. So if you've been waiting for a
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  sign, this is it. You don't need more time.
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  You don't need more knowledge. You need to trust that what you
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  already have is enough to begin and the path will reveal itself
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  as you walk it. But you have to take the first
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  step and when you if you keep taking messy action, your ego
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  will start to feel OK. I'm safe.
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  I didn't die, and now it's no longer uncomfortable.
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  For example, I used to be so scared of filming videos, but
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  now it's my favorite part of my work.
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  And I actually wake up on Mondays excited to film and talk
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  to you guys. You have so much wisdom to share
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  with the world. Beautiful life worker.
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  It's time to jump. I believe in you.
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  And if you're ready to jump, watch my next video, Best
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  business model for spiritual people.
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  It's somewhere around this video.
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  Love you guys and see in the next episode.