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Thrown Under the Bus · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: Talk to them.
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  Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who
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  Speaker 2: talk back.
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  Speaker 3: We live. Are we live?
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  Speaker 1: All the way from Charlotte, North Carolina.
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  Speaker 3: Two bad bitches.
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  Speaker 1: We talk back. What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning
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  Speaker 1: in for a new episode of We Talk Back, a
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  Speaker 1: show dedicated to you Negroes. And you pros and everybody
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  Speaker 1: else in between. It's your co-host, AJ Holiday. What's up, Tam?
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  Speaker 3: And it's me, Tam Bam. I love y'all. Thank y'all
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  Speaker 3: for tuning in. How was your weekend for you?
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  Speaker 1: You look cute, Mama Sita. What have you been doing?
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  Speaker 1: Cinco de Mayo just passed, y'all.
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  Speaker 2: This was my Cinco de Mayo dress, honestly. I just
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  Speaker 2: had to throw it back on for y'all to see.
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  Speaker 3: I can see it. And I really didn't like, I
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  Speaker 3: went out, but I didn't stay out.
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  Speaker 2: I was out for like 30 minutes because me and
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  Speaker 2: my friend who was supposed to meet me kind of
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  Speaker 2: got into an argument. So I just went back home.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all got in an argument before she got there or
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  Speaker 1: she just left your ass somewhere?
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  Speaker 2: She never made it. So I just went back home
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  Speaker 2: and took my little dress off. I had took a
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  Speaker 2: lot of drinks in that 30 minutes though. I took
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  Speaker 2: two shots, a margarita and a glass of champagne. So
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  Speaker 2: by the time I got home, I was like lit.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't do shit this weekend. No? No, because I
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  Speaker 1: was just like, you know, I'd be having to mentally
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  Speaker 1: prepare for this type of shit. Like to record. Oh, really? Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So I just, I was in the house last weekend.
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  Speaker 1: I hung out a lot. This weekend, I really just
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  Speaker 1: stayed in the house and still ended up down here
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  Speaker 1: late as fuck. But anyway, I'm always still be late.
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  Speaker 1: You can count on that shit.
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  Speaker 3: Listen, I woke up at 10 o'clock like, we got
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  Speaker 3: to record.
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  Speaker 1: I did go to dinner Saturday. That's about it.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Where'd you go? I'm going to eat.
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  Speaker 3: Where'd you go?
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  Speaker 1: Just this little, little vegan restaurant in Charleston.
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  Speaker 3: Vegan? Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Bitch.
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  Speaker 1: You know what? No fake meat.
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  Speaker 3: I like my real meat. I don't see how I
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  Speaker 3: could ever be vegan. Vegans be fat. Duh, bitch.
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  Speaker 1: We be carved up. That's why.
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  Speaker 3: Exactly. They eat too much carbs.
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  Speaker 1: No, but I still eat seafood, but bread, sweets. Like
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  Speaker 1: right now, do you know Food Lion has some ice
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  Speaker 1: cream sandwiches that got butter pecan ice cream in the middle, bitch?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, baby. Do you know all the new snacks? I
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  Speaker 3: know all the good fat shit, okay?
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  Speaker 1: Let's be clear. That shit is made by the devil.
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  Speaker 3: That sounds good, though. Honestly. You know what they say.
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  Speaker 3: That is an auntie snack, though. Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Butter pecan ice cream. I swear to God, I've been
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  Speaker 1: eating that shit since I was three. I love butter
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  Speaker 1: pecan ice cream. People be hating on it, though.
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  Speaker 2: Listen, when I was a kid, I would be the
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  Speaker 2: only one who wanted mint chocolate chip on an ice
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  Speaker 2: cream cone.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you a serial killer.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, whatever.
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  Speaker 1: Because who the fuck eats mint and chocolate together? I
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  Speaker 1: don't understand.
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  Speaker 3: It was so good.
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  Speaker 2: And it looked different than all the other ones, you know?
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  Speaker 2: So I had to have it every time. Let's get
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  Speaker 2: into stupid internet news like that.
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  Speaker 1: Look, this is too much for me, okay? So apparently
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  Speaker 1: in Tennessee, a Tennessee hotel manager. Nashville. In Nashville.
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  Speaker 3: Sounds about right.
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  Speaker 1: Nastyville.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Nashville.
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  Speaker 1: Nashville. A 52-year-old David Neal was arrested after he snuck
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  Speaker 1: into a male guest room while he was sleeping and
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  Speaker 1: got intimate with his feet.
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  Speaker 3: So he was in there, the nigga woke up, and
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  Speaker 3: the white man was sucking on his toes? Yes.
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  Speaker 1: The guest tells police that he woke up to David's
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  Speaker 1: mouth around his toes and immediately confronted him. The guest
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  Speaker 1: says he recognized the manager as an employee who had
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  Speaker 1: entered his room the day before to help him solve
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  Speaker 1: an issue with the television. David was a night manager
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  Speaker 1: at the Hilton Hotel in Nashville at the time of
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  Speaker 1: the incident, and he made a key card before entering
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  Speaker 1: the room at 5 a.m.
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  Speaker 3: He just had to have them feet.
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  Speaker 2: Old boy must have had on some Jesus sandals, and
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  Speaker 2: he was like, I got to go get them feet.
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  Speaker 1: I was thinking, like, Dad, he might have checked in
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  Speaker 1: and had a little thong sandal. Setting that key card up,
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  Speaker 1: 5 o'clock in the morning.
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  Speaker 2: Right. What would you do if you woke up and
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  Speaker 2: that man was in there sucking on your foot?
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  Speaker 3: I'm kicking him in the face. I'm definitely kicking him
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  Speaker 3: in the face. That's why. You don't know.
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  Speaker 1: You go get your toes sucked. I do like my
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  Speaker 1: feet sucked when they in the air. Okay. But I
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  Speaker 1: do be looking at dudes in the face like, nigga,
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  Speaker 1: I was just walking around barefoot in here.
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  Speaker 2: Like, it's one thing if you are like having sex
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  Speaker 2: and you got your legs up and he just turned
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  Speaker 2: to the side and grab one of those feet and
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  Speaker 2: put in his mouth.
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  Speaker 3: Okay. But to have a strange.
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  Speaker 2: Old elderly white man wake you up out of your
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  Speaker 2: sleep with your big toe in his mouth.
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  Speaker 3: Is, wow, I'm kicking you in the face.
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  Speaker 1: I would just charge him. I accept. Visa, MasterCard, American Express. Like,
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  Speaker 1: I would just tell them. You don't want me to tell? Listen,
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  Speaker 1: he might go... If you don't want me to tell,
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  Speaker 1: you ain't trying to go to jail.
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  Speaker 3: Listen, he might go from sucking your feet to like, okay,
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  Speaker 3: now it's time for you to die. Anybody who do
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  Speaker 3: that is crazy.
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  Speaker 1: I'd be strapped up.
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  Speaker 3: It's crazy.
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  Speaker 1: You right. You right. Maybe not. Not so much. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know, though.
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  Speaker 2: So I want to get into King Charles III and
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  Speaker 2: Queen Camilla have officially been crowned after an elaborate ceremony.
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  Speaker 2: This is the first coronation at Westminster Abbey since that
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  Speaker 2: of Charles' mother, Queen Elizabeth, back in 1953.
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  Speaker 3: So he finally got a job.
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  Speaker 2: He'd been living off his mama for all them years,
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  Speaker 2: and now he's 73, and now he finally got him
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  Speaker 2: a job. And Camilla, let me tell y'all something. Camila
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  Speaker 2: is living proof. She living proof that if you stay down,
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  Speaker 2: you're going to get on. Because she was definitely his
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  Speaker 2: side chick that became his main chick.
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  Speaker 1: She's an illegitimate queen at this point. She's an illegitimate queen.
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  Speaker 1: She's been his side bitch since before Princess Diane passed away.
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  Speaker 1: She can't be the queen.
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  Speaker 3: It's that right here, Queen Cabana.
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  Speaker 1: Girl, I just finished watching Queen Charlotte on Netflix.
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  Speaker 3: Damn, that shit came out two days ago.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I watched all six episodes.
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  Speaker 3: You binge watched it.
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  Speaker 1: Because I love, love, love. You know, a lot of
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  Speaker 1: people don't know that Queen Charlotte was a black woman. And,
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  Speaker 1: you know, now they'll know because of Netflix.
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  Speaker 2: Well, they might not even believe it to be true.
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  Speaker 3: They'll be like, oh, they just use all kinds of characters.
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  Speaker 1: No, she definitely was. There's a lot of people throughout
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  Speaker 1: history that were black people, right? And she was the
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  Speaker 1: Queen of England.
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  Speaker 3: Right?
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  Speaker 1: And you see on those movies, like, how many black,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like the whole royal family that's in there
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  Speaker 1: right now are illegitimate. All of them. And I feel
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  Speaker 1: like Meghan Markle is, like, the return of the original
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  Speaker 1: lineage that's supposed to be in that house.
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  Speaker 3: That's an interesting perspective.
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  Speaker 1: I believe she's a Moor.
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  Speaker 3: Aren't we all Moors?
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  Speaker 1: Well, Moor means black, but, you know, I don't claim
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  Speaker 1: to be a Moor because the Moors, This is my belief.
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  Speaker 1: I believe that these niggas showed up to the shore.
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  Speaker 1: Other niggas was already here, right? Some white folks showed
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  Speaker 1: up first. Some pale faces showed up first. We wasn't
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  Speaker 1: fucking with them. So they went to Europe and came
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  Speaker 1: back with some people that look like us, our cousins.
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  Speaker 1: And that's how we got overthrown over here.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, that's very possible.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not a motherfucker more. Okay, I'm from America. But
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  Speaker 1: this was the Moroccan Empire at one point, supposedly. Allegedly.
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  Speaker 1: In any way.
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  Speaker 3: I think I might be immortal.
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  Speaker 1: So, yeah. I do not respect the current queen.
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  Speaker 3: Okay?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, it's... I feel like their time there is
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  Speaker 1: going to be short-lived. I think Meghan Markle and her
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  Speaker 1: husband is going to be in the royal house, in
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  Speaker 1: the royal seat very soon.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. During our lifetime, for sure.
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  Speaker 1: Absolutely.
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  Speaker 3: Because they in their 70s. But.
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  Speaker 2: Apparently, they got some secret sauce that'll keep you alive
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  Speaker 2: to at least 100.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: But that's only 20 more years.
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  Speaker 1: And we can get into those conspiracies of what that
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  Speaker 1: sauce actually consists of. No, you don't, bitch.
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  Speaker 3: Why?
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  Speaker 1: You want some Adrenochrome? You know where it comes from?
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  Speaker 3: Girl, what the fuck is Adrenochrome?
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  Speaker 1: You know what Adrenochrome is, Jordan? Y'all want to know?
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  Speaker 1: Some of our listeners know what the fuck I be
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  Speaker 1: talking about. You people stay young. Okay. What's the actress
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  Speaker 1: that was on?
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  Speaker 3: Give me some for my birthday.
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  Speaker 1: Adriana Crone is like blood from children oftentimes. You don't
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  Speaker 1: want that.
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  Speaker 3: I don't want no kids.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, they be bloodletting kids. That's how these people stay
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  Speaker 1: young and look like this. Remember the actress who was
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  Speaker 1: on Ellen, I think, and she was saying how she
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  Speaker 1: gets these vampire masks and it's from the blood of
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  Speaker 1: the foreskin of a baby?
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  Speaker 3: Oh, I have one of those. I didn't know what
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  Speaker 3: it was, though, like my esthetician. Don't look at me.
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  Speaker 3: It wasn't blood.
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  Speaker 1: Was it your blood? Because some people get that.
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  Speaker 3: It wasn't no blood in it, as to my understanding. Next.
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  Speaker 3: It wasn't no blood in it, but.
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  Speaker 2: She was like, oh, I want to give you this
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  Speaker 2: new mask we got in. It's all over Hollywood. It's
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  Speaker 2: going to be so good for your skin. So I
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  Speaker 2: was like, let's do it, bitch. And then while it
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  Speaker 2: was on my face, she was like, oh, it's made
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  Speaker 2: from baby foreskin. And I was like, Y'all, I'm calling
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  Speaker 2: the police on everybody in here.
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  Speaker 3: What you mean?
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  Speaker 2: She's like, no, from, you know, circumcised babies. They use
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  Speaker 2: it from the foreskin. And I was like, don't put
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  Speaker 2: that on me no more. That sounds very weird.
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  Speaker 1: Why was she waiting until afterwards?
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  Speaker 3: That's why I said, I said, why wouldn't you tell
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  Speaker 3: me that up front?
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  Speaker 2: She's like, because I know you would have said no.
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  Speaker 2: But your skin is going to look amazing. My skin
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  Speaker 2: look exactly the same.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like you want them people sometimes.
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  Speaker 3: I ain't one of them people.
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  Speaker 1: Time to get me some for my birthday.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I didn't know it was baby dick. I didn't know.
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  Speaker 1: Whatever. What else you got going on?
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  Speaker 2: Are we going to talk about... I wanted to talk
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  Speaker 2: about Usher and Chris Brown. I heard they got into
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  Speaker 2: a fight. over the weekend, but I can't validate that.
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  Speaker 2: And I don't really have no true tea on that.
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  Speaker 1: The video didn't look like a fight to me. That's
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  Speaker 1: why I wasn't sure about it.
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  Speaker 3: Don't nobody want to see Usher and Chris Brown fight.
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  Speaker 3: We want to see them dance battle. I don't want
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  Speaker 3: to see y'all fist fight.
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  Speaker 1: When's the next concert? Right.
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  Speaker 3: When is the versus? That's what I want to see.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe that's why.
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  Speaker 1: They was fighting. Because Chris Brown was like... Because remember
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  Speaker 1: maybe a year or two ago when Versus was super,
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  Speaker 1: super pop and people were suggesting Chris Brown and Usher versus.
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  Speaker 1: But Chris Brown was like, man, I learned from Usher.
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  Speaker 1: That's one of my people or whatever. But maybe, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. I think Chris Brown is a phenomenal human.
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  Speaker 3: Both of them. Both of them.
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  Speaker 1: Girl.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I like Usher.
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  Speaker 1: I like Usher.
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  Speaker 3: You didn't see that?
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  Speaker 1: I'm talking about as far as artistry. Chris Brown is
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  Speaker 1: like an actual artist. He be done painting some shit
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  Speaker 1: up like this, like some really nice. He's an artist.
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  Speaker 1: He's a singer. He's a writer. He does a little
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  Speaker 1: bit more than Usher. That's all.
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  Speaker 3: Well, we're just talking about as far as the music
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  Speaker 3: is concerned.
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  Speaker 1: And who do you think dance better, Usher or Chris Brown?
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  Speaker 2: So I would probably have to say Chris Brown dance
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  Speaker 2: better because he's a younger one. But he probably like
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  Speaker 2: a little bit more flexible than Usher is now. But
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  Speaker 2: Usher been skating all year. I feel like he might
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  Speaker 2: be a little bit limber.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like Usher dance better because, I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: it's just something about tall niggas.
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  Speaker 3: That's the battle I want to see y'all dance off.
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  Speaker 1: It's something about tall niggas dancing that just look goofy
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  Speaker 1: to me.
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  Speaker 3: Chris Brown tall?
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  Speaker 1: Yes. Chris Brown is really tall.
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  Speaker 3: They all look short to me.
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  Speaker 1: Usher is short. Chris Brown is like over six foot.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, really?
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  Speaker 1: Yes. Same. I just think dancing is for like smaller people.
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  Speaker 3: So you tall shaming?
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  Speaker 1: You know I like short niggas. Tall niggas be looking
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  Speaker 1: stupid in their clothes. Like their shoulders be real pointy
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  Speaker 1: and shit. Like little niggas look a little compact. Like
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  Speaker 1: they just like baby clothes. It's so cute.
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  Speaker 3: Sounds weird to me.
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  Speaker 2: Anyway all right so that's it for our stupid you
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  Speaker 2: got anything else that's it man yeah i'm sick of
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  Speaker 2: humans all right so we're gonna take a little break
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  Speaker 2: and we'll be right back for a commercial.
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  Speaker 1: Oh y'all listen there's a lot of things going on
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  Speaker 1: with black women right now in particular right and i
• 12:22
  Speaker 1: kind of want to start this episode off talking about
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  Speaker 1: One of our recent episodes from a couple months ago,
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  Speaker 1: we had on Nav Green, right? One of the funniest
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  Speaker 1: dudes out here of our generation as far as I'm concerned,
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  Speaker 1: him and Carlos Miller. But we posted a clip... and
• 12:40
  Speaker 1: we've been being dragged drag action viral drag okay like
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  Speaker 1: i don't even want to like on that post when
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  Speaker 1: i see it's a comment i don't even read it
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  Speaker 1: no more because it's just like okay so i was
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  Speaker 1: kind of bored this weekend because like i said i
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  Speaker 1: didn't do much so i did like clap back a
• 12:56
  Speaker 1: little bit because i mean we do talk back but
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  Speaker 1: i'm not i feel like a lot of times um
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  Speaker 1: listeners and these social media people people online they just
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  Speaker 1: want a response So I give it to them sometimes.
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  Speaker 3: Me too.
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  Speaker 1: Other than that, you can kiss my ass.
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  Speaker 3: But only for fun. Like, I be going like, boy,
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  Speaker 3: shut up. I went to your page. You ugly as fuck. Yes.
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  Speaker 3: Shut up.
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  Speaker 1: One dude, I was like, your mouth looks stink. That's
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  Speaker 1: all I commented to his ass. All like. Shut up.
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  Speaker 1: What really be pissing me off though, gets my girls grinding.
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  Speaker 1: When I go to comment, I'm going to type down
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  Speaker 1: some long shit.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, that won't let you comment?
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  Speaker 1: Yes.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, yes. Yes, that pisses me off.
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  Speaker 1: Bitch, I be so mad. You know what I do?
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  Speaker 1: I will delete their comments.
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  Speaker 2: Block.
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  Speaker 3: And delete their comments.
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  Speaker 1: I block them. Yeah. If you're not following We Talk Back,
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  Speaker 1: you can talk as much shit as you want in
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  Speaker 1: our comments. I don't give a fuck. But you got
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  Speaker 1: to be following. You can't just be coming over here
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  Speaker 1: to talk shit and leave. You can't be coming fucking
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  Speaker 1: shit up and leave. No, we ain't having it. So
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  Speaker 1: at least give us some social digital currency if you're
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  Speaker 1: going to talk shit. And then, you know, we okay
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  Speaker 1: with it.
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  Speaker 3: So, all right, let them know what the conversation was.
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  Speaker 4: Man, when a woman find out you faithful, she ain't
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  Speaker 4: even really feeling you like that.
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  Speaker 1: Like, man, I ain't compete with no.
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  Speaker 3: You know no want you?
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  Speaker 1: I don't want a and nobody else want. I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to compete. Listen, I don't want a man that
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  Speaker 1: is accessible to everybody. Right. But you don't want that
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  Speaker 1: nobody else want. Yeah, it's like, why the I want
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  Speaker 1: you if nobody else want you? Nobody else want you.
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  Speaker 3: Like, somebody got to want the.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, absolutely.
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  Speaker 3: I need to make sure we get bitches. I just
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  Speaker 3: feel like if I want you, everybody probably want you.
• 14:24
  Speaker 3: That's how I feel about it.
• 14:25
  Speaker 2: Damn.
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: Nobody said that I want or we want a man
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: who's unfaithful.
• 14:31
  Speaker 3: Right. But that's what they took it as. Like, that's
• 14:32
  Speaker 3: what's the problem with you bitches. Somebody call us refrigerators. Wait, what? Bitch,
• 14:39
  Speaker 3: you in a fight.
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: Your mama. Because half y'all wouldn't even date anybody who
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: looked like your mama.
• 14:44
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: Okay. Let's be clear. So I actually had to filter
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: out the word hoe. And a couple other choice words.
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: And then I saw people doing garden tool. I guess
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: they realized they can't comment hoe. So they do garden tool.
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: So I blocked that shit. Like the disrespect is unbelievable.
• 15:04
  Speaker 3: Why were they so mad? That's the thing. And it
• 15:06
  Speaker 3: was just men. You didn't see women under there. I mean,
• 15:09
  Speaker 3: it was a couple of women. Pick me. Pick me.
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: Under there like. Girl, shut up.
• 15:14
  Speaker 3: Oh, there's something wrong with. All right, here's the thing.
• 15:17
  Speaker 3: Nobody said we want our man to cheat on us.
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: Nobody.
• 15:21
  Speaker 2: We just want someone who can't get nobody.
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: Exactly. The energy of a man who has never had
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: access to the women he thinks he deserves is just different. Right.
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Oftentimes, basically, what I was
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: trying to comment to somebody yesterday, we don't want incels.
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: Because that's essentially what it is. Somebody who is involuntarily celibate,
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: can't get the pussy, probably hasn't gotten the pussy they
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: thought they deserved since high school. And you're just out
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: here acting like your mama. Just like a disgruntled ass
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: black woman. That's what I see in these comments. Just mean.
• 15:55
  Speaker 3: Right. Just mean and angry and just ugly.
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: Baby mamas. Y'all just mad. What the hell is wrong
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: with y'all? So, I don't know. I want to read
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: some of the comments. As a matter of fact, I
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: should have took a screenshot of some of the nastiest ones.
• 16:09
  Speaker 3: Let's read some of them.
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: All right.
• 16:11
  Speaker 3: Hold on. And I'm saying their name, too, because y'all
• 16:14
  Speaker 3: clearly want some attention.
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: Who wants a man? How I tried to clean it
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: up in one of my comments on there, which people still, oh,
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: you confused. You don't know what you're talking about. I
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: explained how nobody wants a man who's not desirable to
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: anyone else.
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying I want a man who has 51 bitches.
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: I just want a man with confidence. Because nobody want him. Confidence.
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: Why you want him?
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: Clarity.
• 16:43
  Speaker 3: There's something wrong if nobody want his ass.
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: Exactly. You know, I know a couple people in relationships
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: with dudes, like, pull up and be like, all your
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: friends are like, girl, what the fuck?
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: Rowdy Red, Rowdy.Reds said, they only want faithful men after
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: they get dog walked by niggas who don't give a
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: fuck about them, and that's what they deserve.
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: Nobody said we did not want a faithful man. That
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: was never said.
• 17:09
  Speaker 3: What is wrong with these niggas? And I just rowdy read.
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: Don't be giving these niggas. Oh, you're going to his
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: page to see what he look like.
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: First of all, he look like he got one eye.
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: Boy, shut up. Boy, shut up. This shit got like
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: 2,000 comments on it.
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: He look like he had a decent meal in a
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: long time.
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: Anyway.
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: It's a lot of nasty shit. Y'all can go visit
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: the damn page and check it out. It's a lot
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: of crazy ass comments on there.
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: This is why women pick promiscuous men. Because ain't no
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: man picking a woman every nigga want. That's not true.
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: This is how we can pick good women and y'all
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: can't pick good men.
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: That is not true that men do not pick women
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: that somebody else want. You see that in celebrity social
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: groups all the time. And it's almost weird to me.
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: And to me, it's kind of like borderline because it's
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: like you almost want to sleep with this man vicariously
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: through this woman. That's how I see it. Why are
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: y'all going after the same women that have been with
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: multiple men? It's like it's not about the woman at
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: that point. It's a clown chase. Exactly. It's about getting
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: this thing that this other man that you deem top
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: of the food chain has had.
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: Exactly. Exactly. Exactly.
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: Because there's no reason for these same women to be
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: passed around like that unless.
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: It's about that.
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: So what I commented on, trying to give clarification, this
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: is what I said. I said, men, wife, safe women
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: all the time while simultaneously chasing the most desirable women.
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: These niggas be married and everybody DMs. So you marry
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: somebody that you love, right? Obviously you love them in
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: whatever capacity, right? And homely... Who was this? What's the
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: twins from Clips? Remember Clips? The rappers?
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: Remember, did you see what his wife posted recently? She
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: was like, she's never felt insecure dealing with him. She
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: was like, you know, when she walks into a room
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: and there's all these rapper looking girls, but they fake
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: body and all that. She's a real like, she would
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: be wearing some shit like this, like extra cute, whatever.
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: But you don't have to put down these other women. Like,
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: guess what? I feel like you're only talking about them
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: because you think they would fuck your dude.
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: Because he's going to fuck.
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: And they may not leave them.
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: Leave you for them. But he definitely going to beat
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: some shit down. But men marry safe women. And then
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: y'all fraternize with the bitches y'all actually want.
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: Let's be clear. Women just the same want men that
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: are desirable, not accessible. So I want a choosy lover.
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: I want somebody who can get bitches, but choose.
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: Me every day. That's all you were trying to say. Okay.
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: And as a woman, you are. are supposed to find
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: the suitable mate to procreate. I said, I'm also confused
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: by the disrespect because is it not men promoting polygamy usually, right?
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: So now when we get into like, oh, y'all want
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: an unfaithful man, right? Most men are unfaithful. Let's be clear.
• 20:07
  Speaker 3: Can we say most men are unfaithful?
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: A lot of humans are unfaithful. We can throw women
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: in there too. Let's be fair. I said the truth
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: is men also created monogamy because if poly was the norm,
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: a lot of you would have zero access to women.
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: The best man with the most resources would have all
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: the women. What else y'all need explained? Because monogamy to
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: me was created by men so that the ones who
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: probably shouldn't even be procreating could get some pussy. They
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: can lock a woman in.
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: That's what it's about. It's not about love.
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: Half of this stuff is not about love. Even in
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: the Bible, the Bible does not say marry for love.
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: The Bible says if you can't sustain from sex, find
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: a wife. That's what it says. A lot of y'all
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: would not have a wife. A lot of y'all would
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: not have kids. This happens in the animal kingdom. Everybody
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: doesn't get to have sex.
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah, they have to fight for the pussy.
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: It's natural selection. Let's be clear. So now if women
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: were actually hypergamous, if women were actually dating to make
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: sure that they secure the best mate to be able
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: to take care of them and their offspring, a lot
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: of your niggas would die virgins. Let's be clear. So
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: fuck you is what I'm trying to say.
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: I just felt like it was a lot of hatred.
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: And you know what? Some people were saying Kevin Samuels
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: needs to come back. Which he can never come back.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: He lives on through y'all niggas. You have the Samuelites
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: out here. Kevin Samuels absolutely lives on.
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: He's not dead. He'll never be dead as long.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: As you stay bitter.
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: He is a monarchy at this point.
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: That is scary to me. What I do appreciate about
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: Kevin Samuels is that he helped us identify these people.
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: He helped us He helped them raise their hands so
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: we know exactly who the fuck they are and what
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: we looking at when they do come out. I appreciate that,
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: Kevin Samuels.
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: But he also opened up the conversations that we weren't having.
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: So that's important. So that's what I want our conversations
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: to bridge the gap between us men and women. We
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: have a problem between black men and black women right now.
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: We do.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: And we don't see that as our good sister, Ebony K. Williams,
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: called it white supremacy anymore. To me, it is a
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: form of white supremacy via black people. You know what
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: I'm saying? So we already have all these different mechanisms
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: in place to fuck us up. Black people literally just
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: be sitting at home chilling. We be chilling. We chill.
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: We like to laugh. We like to have fun. We
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: do goofy shit.
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: All day long.
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: Meanwhile, there's a whole machine and a back office of
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: people fucking us up. No, we like to chill hard.
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: We love to be entertained. That's why we fucked up now.
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: We love to be entertained. And it's a whole... It's
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: a whole... machine, making sure we stay at the bottom.
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: Oh, no, I agree there. It's always been that way, though.
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I just feel like a lot of people
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: are forfeiting the game. So let's get into, and we
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: talked about this in Stupid Internet News last week, right?
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: Ebony K.
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: Williams in her, what she had to say.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: And Ayanla. I'm talking about across the color spectrum, across
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: the age spectrum. Trust me, I've done them all. They
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: are not positioned to protect nor provide because of some
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: of the statistics we just talked about. They're not earning
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: the incomes. They're not having the resources.
• 23:27
  Speaker 4: Would you date a bus driver?
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: You.
• 23:30
  Speaker 4: Would you date a bus driver?
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: If he owns the bus. If he owns it. If
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: he owns the bus.
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: No.
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: That's a problem.
• 23:36
  Speaker 4: That's a problem. Because the standards... And I'm not talking
• 23:41
  Speaker 4: about him laying on his sofa playing video games all day.
• 23:44
  Speaker 4: I'm not talking about that. But the standards and the
• 23:48
  Speaker 4: criteria that we use to measure men is off for
• 23:53
  Speaker 4: who we are as women and who they are in
• 23:55
  Speaker 4: this society.
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: Before Ebony K. Williams came on The Breakfast Club, I
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: messaged my good friend. You know what I'm saying? And
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: I gave my perspective on what it was that she
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: was saying before she even gave a breakdown. Right? Because
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: that's what a lot of arguments start because of perspective.
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: How people perceive what you're saying. How I perceive what
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: she was saying is that we can do better. And
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: we should not be settling... For mediocrity.
• 24:26
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: She even went as far as reading the definitions. You
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: know I love words, bitch. I love to look up
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: the definition and the etymology of a word. So what
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: she essentially was saying is like, why do we have
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: to be, and that was my message to my dear friend,
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: why do we have to be the essential workers? Why
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: do the majority of us have to be the essential workers?
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: Why do the majority of us have to be a
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: blue-collar employees. You know what I'm saying? We are put
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: at a higher risk. We work in the second or
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: third shift. You know how much time that takes off
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: your life? You can't raise your kids properly. We got
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: to get out of this position. And if we plan
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: to collectively, something has to change. So we can't coddle people,
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: men and women alike. And the thing people miss is
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: that Ayanla should have never asked Ebony K. Williams, would
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: she date a bus driver? And that's just a fact.
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: Well, all right, I don't mind the question. I just
• 25:18
  Speaker 3: felt like there should have been more context.
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: It was misplaced, though.
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Why do you feel like it was misplaced?
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: It should not have come after what Ebony K. Williams
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: said because she basically was asking, you know, how can women,
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: just women, you know, reposition themselves? She did not attach color.
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: She did not attach race. None of that to anything. Now,
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: the Internet did that. IONLE also did not attach race.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: any ethnicity to what Ebony was saying.
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: Right. But that's how black men perceived it because Ebony
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: is a black woman.
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: Right. Identifies as a black woman. And, and, and, and
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: it's almost like, um, there should have been something else
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: that came before. Would you date a bus driver? Because
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: it just didn't answer the question that Ebony came with.
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: I don't know why they answer a question with a question,
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: but I.
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: Think what she was alluding to is that Ebony shouldn't, uh,
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: base her mate on, uh, Financial.
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: I think that's what she was trying to do.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: But I don't think she jumped right into that, though.
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: Do you think when Ebony, well, based off the clip
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: we saw, right? I've watched the full thing, and that's
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: not the context of the full conversation. And, you know,
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: near the end of it, it did kind of, you know,
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: smooth over. But I just feel like I don't want
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: no more advice from elders. I just don't. It's certain things, yes,
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: but I feel like our elders are the reason the
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: men are how they are today. Y'all coddled the men.
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: Y'all coddled y'all boys. And y'all had us go to
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: college and do all those things because nobody going to
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: take care of you but you. So be able to
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: take care of yourself. And while our counterparts, our white counterparts,
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: white women, were finding their husbands in college, we just
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: getting education. Now we go, we got student loans and
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: all this shit.
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah, being independent. I don't like that idea. Yes, that
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: was the dumbest thing we were sold. Exactly.
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: Strong black woman. I used to believe, oh, I'm a
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: strong black woman. Now I'm like, that is the dumbest
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: shit I was ever sold. I don't want to have
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: to be a strong black woman. I'm tired of being strong.
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: I want someone to come in and be strong for me.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: Absolutely. And if we are collectively, if we want to
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: get out of this position, something has to change. You
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: can't bring home the C's and D's. You know what
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: I'm saying? You have to strive for higher education. And
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: what ebony was saying is if this is your if
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: you've maxed.
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: Out on your potential but all right so be it
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: but there are people who made c's and d's that
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: are successful out here like absolutely.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: Most of the people i know that are millionaires dropped
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: out of right because all right.
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: One former our formal education is sometimes kind of biased
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: when it comes to black people especially standardized testing yeah
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: so even though the testing is just not you know,
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: for us, right? So we might make C's and D's.
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: And I remember being in these white.
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: Spaces going to school, like I would be in advanced
• 28:04
  Speaker 3: classes and.
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: I would be the only black in the class. So
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: now we're doing group work and I have to be
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: in the group with the fat kid, the emo, and
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: the exchange student, and me. You know, like, we're just all,
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: we're the minority.
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: So now I'm in these groups with people, and I'm
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: like a badass boss bitch. And now here I'm in
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: this group. And I like, I flunked out on purpose
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: just so I could be in a room with my peers. Now,
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: had I been in a school where it was black
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: students in the advanced programs, I would have excelled, you know? So,
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: you know, already, you know, you can't base it on
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: the C's and D's. You just have to base it
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: on ambition.
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: And- So since she's a lawyer, I understand why she's
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: When she says C's and D's, I don't just see
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: that as a school thing. I see that as a
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: life thing. You know what I'm saying? If you're settling
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: for C and D type life, that's how I took that.
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: I didn't actually take it as C and D grading,
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: like the grading system, like actual academia. I took that as,
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: just in life in general, if you're settling for mediocrity,
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: then it's okay. And mediocrity just means regular, normal, the norm.
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: But people took offense to the word she was using
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: as it pertains to the working class. The thing is,
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: why do black people have to make up a disproportionate
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: amount of the working class, while everybody else get to
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: chill in their fucking boats. I live in Charleston, South Carolina.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: We got beautiful waterfronts and shit like that. All you
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: see is these white folks with their yachts out there.
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: like I want that.
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: Right you want that but there are people who are
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: okay with their regular nine-to-five job and are more happy
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: than some of those people on those boats and I
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: think that might be what Ayala was alluding to it
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: should be more about what will make you happy than
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: your finances yeah but the thing all right let me
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: just say this I had a friend who was married
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: And her man treated her amazing. He was good with
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: the kids. He was a loving, doting husband. But he
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: just didn't make a lot of money. And she made
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: most of the money. So she ended up leaving him.
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: Right?
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: And then she was outside and it was just bad.
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: And she started dating rich men and men who were
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: making more than her.
• 30:17
  Speaker 3: And it was just never good. So she went back
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: to her husband.
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: And they are happy as fuck when she decided that
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: that level of lifestyle was better than than having all
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: the things and being unhappy.
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: She was happy with that man. So she had to
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: go be a hoe first.
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: She had to go outside and be a hoe and
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: decide that it wasn't good out there.
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: It wasn't good for her.
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: Like, she was better with this man who worked a
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: regular job, but he treated her like a goddess. And
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: I think that's what Ayanna was saying. The conversation went
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: a different way when it got into, like, What would
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: you date? Yeah, it went somewhere else that it shouldn't
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: have gone. You know, I don't think that is what...
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: Because both of them had valid points.
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: You know?
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: Did you like Ayanla's follow-up video?
• 31:07
  Speaker 3: It was clickbait. That's what I felt like. It was
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: just like, I want some people to listen to me. Because....
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: Girl, first of all.
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: But a terrible mom. Meaning she provided, but she wasn't
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: there for her kids. Ayanla hasn't married multiple times. Where
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: your man at? I really don't want no advice from you.
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: Is she married now? I don't think so.
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: Well, sometimes the people who are already fucked up a
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: lot give the best advice because they know.
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: What not to do.
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: But take your own.
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: And then now this is viral and Ebony looks like
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: a terrible woman. You know what I'm saying? You got
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: black men online just acting like black women are so undesirable.
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: Like nobody wants us. Like, Even if we be like,
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: you know what? Fuck it. I'm going to be single forever.
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: They mad at that, too.
• 31:50
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: If we just go ahead and rest in, okay, shit,
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: I'm good. I'm going to get my money. Shit. Travel
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: with my homegirls. Like, they mad about that, too. Right.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: So it's like, you almost damned if you do, damned.
• 32:02
  Speaker 3: If you don't. Well, fuck them. Fuck them.
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: That's how I feel like. You know, you just got
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: to find out what makes you happy. And I hope
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: Ebony K does find that person for her.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: You know they was putting her, like, her previous person
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: she was engaged to, a white Jewish guy she was
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: engaged to. But I'm pretty sure she's dated black men
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: most of her life.
• 32:22
  Speaker 3: Would you date, like, a white Jewish man?
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: I would prefer an Italian, okay? They're a little bit
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: more olive skin looking and they have the dark hair. Like,
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: if I get a white boy, like, he got to
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: be a ginger or a brunette. I just, I just....
• 32:37
  Speaker 3: Something about a black man that.
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: Just- I love black men though.
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: I can see a fine Italian- Everybody like black men.
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: I can see a fine Italian and he be fine,
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: and then I see a black man walk by and
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: I be like, oh, I'm sorry white man, but- Did.
• 32:52
  Speaker 3: You see this king that just walked by?
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: So I don't know if I could be faithful to
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: a white man. I would probably cheat on him with
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: a black man.
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: What?
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: What type of shit is that?
• 33:01
  Speaker 3: It's the truth. That's what kind of shit it is.
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: So I just probably wouldn't date them because I just
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: love the skin on a black man.
• 33:10
  Speaker 3: I just want to lick it.
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: Last weekend I met a couple white guys and I
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: was talking to one on the phone for a really
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: long time and I was telling him that I see
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: white dudes eating boogers a lot.
• 33:26
  Speaker 3: Where you be at that you see people eating boogers?
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: Like driving down the highway, you stopped at a stoplight,
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: you look over, you liable to see a white man just...
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: You don't know what he eating. They eat boogers. I
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: seen it.
• 33:38
  Speaker 3: You don't know he might be eating chicken nuggets from Chick-fil-A.
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: No. I seen you do this and stick it in
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: your mouth multiple times in my life. So I have
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: drawn the conclusion that they be eating boogers and oftentimes.
• 33:51
  Speaker 3: Don't wash their hands. Okay, well, listen.
• 33:52
  Speaker 4: Listen.
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: Eating boogers? Niggas out here eating booty.
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: Which one is worse, okay?
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: You judging the nigga for eating a little booger, but
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: you get your booty licked and be kissing.
• 34:03
  Speaker 3: The nigga when he come up. Relax. Actually, I don't. Okay.
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: Go wash your mouth first, and then I might kiss you.
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: But listen, I was watching Not Alone and Afraid. I
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: think it's just called Alone. They like out in the
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: mountains or whatever, like different people dropped off in different
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: parts of the island.
• 34:18
  Speaker 3: It's Naked and Afraid.
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: Not Naked and Afraid. I think it's Alone. Oh, yeah.
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: So one is Naked and Afraid. The one I was
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: watching was on Netflix. It's called Alone, I believe. They
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: were in Canada. But one of the women, she resorted
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: to eating the boogers because it does have like a.
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: Some salt?
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: Calorie. Yeah, like it has some nutrition value. Like if
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: you don't have anything else, you eat the boogers.
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: Okay, I know that for the next time I'm out
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: in the woods by myself and they got no food.
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: That's gross. That's fucking disgusting. It's not nasty. It's not?
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: You didn't eat boogers as a kid?
• 34:55
  Speaker 3: No.
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: You never licked the snot?
• 34:58
  Speaker 3: Like maybe by accident.
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: Lie now.
• 34:59
  Speaker 3: No, listen, maybe like by accident, but I've never been like, ooh, yeah.
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: I've never ate a booger. My cousin used to eat
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: boogers all the time. She used to eat dirt with
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: a spoon, child.
• 35:09
  Speaker 3: Oh, no, I've seen people eat clay.
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: I've eaten orange clay with a spoon, but she used
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: to eat like the black dirt. tearing them boogers up
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: girl but like you know you a kid running around
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: snotty nose you like and keep it moving no i've.
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: Done that before i can say i've done that but
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: not like oh some snot delicious snack no never never
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: all right so we say all of that to say
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: what what's the final word leave.
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: Us the fuck alone okay just leave black women alone Don't.
• 35:41
  Speaker 3: Leave us alone. Stop attacking us. Love us.
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: But the thing is, you have other black women now
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: attacking another black woman. You know what I'm saying? From
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: the comments I've seen online, they're pretty divided. Even at
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club, you had horrible decisions there. You had
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: Mandy and Weezy. Weezy was siding more with Charlamagne and
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: DJ Envy, while Mandy was more so... Kind of in
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: the middle, but more so on.
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: That's where I'm... I'm in the middle because I can
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: understand both perspectives. Just, you know, knowing my friend's story
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: and how she went out looking for this, you know,
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: the yacht life.
• 36:18
  Speaker 3: The south life. And she found her.
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: Happiness with mediocrity, you know, which is offensive to say,
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: you know, like.
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: Maybe she wasn't the bitch she thought she was.
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: No, she a bad bitch. She is a bad bitch,
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: you know, but... She like, she's more happy than most
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: people I know.
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: So her husband isn't like trolling her in a relationship now.
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: Like he's okay.
• 36:42
  Speaker 3: They are happy as fuck.
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: That's nice. They are happy. Yeah.
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: He's a great man. So, and I'm, and before I
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: was like, girl, yeah, leave that nigga, you know.
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: But you know, I don't never be telling my friends.
• 36:53
  Speaker 3: No, no.
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: When she decided, when she decided she was ready to go,
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: I supported it. But for, for that reason, but when
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: she went back, I was like, girl, let me.
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: Tell you, I'm that friend like, shit, if you like him,
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: I love him. When you ready to go back, shit,
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: I'm going to be.
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: So, but when she went back and I just see
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: how beautiful and how happy their family is, I'm like, okay,
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: so maybe it don't always take all of that. And
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: I know some people who are rich and miserable, got
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: all the money and just ain't never happy.
• 37:23
  Speaker 3: So it shouldn't be, I.
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: Can understand why Ayanna would be like, if he loved
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: me and he treated me good and he loved driving
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: the bus, I get that. But I also get Ebony
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: K who wants somebody who is, you know, has the
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: aspirations that she has in life.
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: And I think that's what most black women are asking.
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: Nobody is asking you to have everything today. Cause all
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: the times we don't, I know I fucking don't, you
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying? I'm rebuilding my life for the
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: last few years now. So I understand, but what I
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: feel like, and I always, I think, I feel like
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: I always say this. If you're with a woman, who
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: is not a muse, is not your muse, and who
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: doesn't aspire you to do better and to one day
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: take care of her and your family entirely, leave her.
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: She ain't the one for you. Because one thing women
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: going to do is inspire.
• 38:11
  Speaker 3: But it depends on what taking care of the family means.
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: Taking care of your family so your wife can chill
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: and actually raise your children and create. We can't do
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: half the things we want to do. We're single with
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: no children.
• 38:23
  Speaker 3: I do everything I fucking want to do. You know
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: what I'm saying?
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: Not having to think about anybody.
• 38:27
  Speaker 3: I'll fly to Africa in the morning if I want to.
• 38:30
  Speaker 3: Don't give a fuck.
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: So think about the women who are, most black women
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: and black men are in the trenches together. I just
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: don't know where all this goal is that these niggas
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: say we digging for it. When y'all go to the
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: other side and get raped, rich niggas go to the
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: other side, these other sides, the white side, the Hispanic side,
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: the Armenian side, and they get raped at the end
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: of the day. But we're seen as the gold diggers somehow.
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: And it's almost like black women can't require more. We
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: can't possibly think we deserve more than we got. Like
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: we have to stay here. You know what I'm saying?
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: And I don't suggest a lot of times, not at
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: our age. You know what I'm saying?
• 39:06
  Speaker 3: Your 20s is different.
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: You're both in a trance. You're both trying to figure
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: it out together. And that's when you should have found
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: your mate, right? But oftentimes they're divorced by 30, 40
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: years old, right? I don't believe in having an extended
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: period of time where you're struggling with a man because
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: I believe that they resent you. Once they get on,
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: that person who saw them struggling in that way, who
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: saw them in that light, they oftentimes resent them. and
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: that's why they go on to somebody who doesn't know
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: their struggle.
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: That's a crap shoot because sometimes they be like this
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: is the woman that was there when I ain't have
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: shit I'm gonna take her with me it depends.
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: It really does depend but I have well I don't
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: know I've never been with somebody who was left I'm
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: always the one left depleted at the end of a
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: relationship And maybe people like me and most women are
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: necessary to get people to the next level. But I
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: look at some of the people who I've been in
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: relationships with in the past and it's like, the fuck?
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: Niggas is damn prevailing. Not prevailing, but they're doing well now,
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: but I knew them when they didn't have shit and
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: I helped.
• 40:10
  Speaker 3: Right, you helped them grow. And now another bitch reaping
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: the benefits.
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: But I don't mind giving a bitch a refurbished nigga.
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: I always say that. Girl here, girl.
• 40:18
  Speaker 2: Girl, that pissed me off. I don't want to see
• 40:20
  Speaker 2: none of my niggas doing better without me.
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: Hate that. It's like, I'm joking.
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: I don't want like, because typically if we were like that,
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: I love you and I don't want nothing bad to
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: happen to you. But I don't like the fact that
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: some of them are married and I'm not.
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but those same married men, they still be checking
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: for you, right?
• 40:41
  Speaker 3: You're right. They do.
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: I don't like that. That's not flattering. Do not call me.
• 40:45
  Speaker 3: I see you coming to town. Let's get together.
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: Nigga, if you ain't choose me, you lose my number.
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: Don't be hitting me up three to four years later.
• 40:53
  Speaker 3: I see you doing your thing. I'm so proud of you.
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: Because you married safe. Like I said, you married safe.
• 41:00
  Speaker 3: I am doing my thing. Period. And I won't be available.
• 41:04
  Speaker 3: But thanks for affirming me. Hey!
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: We don't got no dumb bitch stories for today.
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: We don't have any dumb bitch stories at all for today,
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: but that's okay.
• 41:16
  Speaker 3: Everybody's Being safe, apparently. Yes.
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: Well, you know, I guess the moral of the story is, girl,
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: just do you. These niggas want to talk shit regardless.
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: It's just going to be mean, disgruntled.
• 41:30
  Speaker 3: Not all of them.
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: Some of them are going to love us. There were
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: some allies in the comments. We didn't read none of
• 41:34
  Speaker 2: the allies. It was something like, some men were.
• 41:37
  Speaker 3: Like, man, these niggas must don't get bitches. Clearly. Because
• 41:41
  Speaker 3: they mad.
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: So we did have some allies in the comments. We
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: just want, what's my final word? Find who love you
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: and love them back and grow together.
• 41:50
  Speaker 3: That's my thing.
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: You don't have to get the man who's already rich.
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: You can help him get rich. Or you can help
• 41:56
  Speaker 2: him stay where he at. And y'all can be happy.
• 41:59
  Speaker 3: In that too.
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: Just find what make you happy and find someone who
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: make you happy and then rock with them.
• 42:04
  Speaker 3: That's all I can say.
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: I don't have any final words.
• 42:07
  Speaker 3: Money don't.
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: Because I don't want another viral moment. People talking crazy
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: with my face out.
• 42:15
  Speaker 3: No. Fuck that.
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: Because, you know, I was thinking the other day, I said,
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: you know what? I should start being like Kevin Samuels,
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: but talking shit about men.
• 42:22
  Speaker 3: Go ahead.
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: I kind of already be on that type of time, dog.
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: Mine as well.
• 42:30
  Speaker 3: Having men calling.
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: And cuss them out. Well, you know what? Not even
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: giving them some truth that they may need.
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: Because Kevin Samuels wasn't always wrong. I just didn't like
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: his delivery. Oftentimes it was, Hurtful. That's what I didn't
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: like about him.
• 42:45
  Speaker 3: It was the delivery that was hurtful. He'd be like, bitch,
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: you fat and ugly. You a three. Like, that's mean.
• 42:51
  Speaker 3: You don't have to talk to people that way, you know?
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: But I feel like even, I don't feel like Ebony K.
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: Williams said anything in a very negative way.
• 42:58
  Speaker 3: No.
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: Right? But people perceived it that way.
• 43:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: The truth oftentimes feel like an attack for somebody who
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: doesn't want to take accountability.
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: This is true.
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: Right? So that's my final word. It's not an attack.
• 43:09
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: Okay?
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: Take accountability for some things. Black men and black women alike.
• 43:16
  Speaker 3: Period. Alright, that's it. Give them that shit so we
• 43:20
  Speaker 3: can get up out of here and go to Morton's.
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: Stupid bitch, listen. All right, y'all, so if you enjoyed
• 43:26
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• 43:33
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• 43:41
  Speaker 1: we got some merchandise, bitch.
• 43:42
  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, we got some shirts, and they look really good.
• 43:46
  Speaker 3: They look really good. And we got some keychains.
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah. We do, bitch. They'll be on the site soon.
• 43:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so y'all get that.
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: It's me, Tam Bam. I love y'all, as always. Thank
• 43:55
  Speaker 2: you for tuning in. Remember to speak now.
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: And never hold your feet.
• 43:59
  Speaker 3: Peace.