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Wow...Okay(Flirty) · Podcast - Big 98.7

• 0:02
  Speaker 1: Angie has this viral trend.
• 0:05
  Speaker 2: Yes that I've been I've been seeing it all over
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  Speaker 2: my social media and I think it's very amusing and
• 0:11
  Speaker 2: I want you to participate in it.
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  Speaker 3: Also, you listening, you can do it too. It's very easy, peasy.
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  Speaker 2: So what you're gonna do is say wow okay. That's
• 0:21
  Speaker 2: the phrase wow okay. Four different ways you're gonna say
• 0:25
  Speaker 2: wow okay, supportive, disappointed, sarcastic, and flairty okay okay.
• 0:33
  Speaker 1: All right.
• 0:33
  Speaker 3: So your first one, I want you to say wow
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  Speaker 3: okay in a.
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  Speaker 1: Supportive way, all right, wow okay.
• 0:38
  Speaker 4: Supportive, Yeah, it would sound like, oh wow okay, all.
• 0:43
  Speaker 3: Right, I like that now wow okay, disappointed.
• 0:48
  Speaker 1: Wow okay, Oh I like that.
• 0:52
  Speaker 2: That did sound yeah all right, wow okay, sarcastic wow okay.
• 1:00
  Speaker 3: Alright those good? Those good.
• 1:01
  Speaker 2: Now this is the final one, and I feel like
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  Speaker 2: this one would make me uncomfortable and cringe.
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  Speaker 1: Is it the same as when I bite my teeth
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  Speaker 1: and you.
• 1:10
  Speaker 3: I hate that so much? So you have to say wow, okay.
• 1:14
  Speaker 2: Flirty wow okay, Oh that's your flirty.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, maybe a little zesty. Yeah all right? Are you
• 1:24
  Speaker 1: you going for it?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: All right? And you give me your best wow.
• 1:26
  Speaker 4: Okay, Supportive wow, Okay, I like that.
• 1:32
  Speaker 1: Okay, give me your wow okay.
• 1:34
  Speaker 4: Disappointed wow okay, Oh that actually I felt something that
• 1:40
  Speaker 4: had a little bit okay. How about sarcastic.
• 1:44
  Speaker 3: Oh, I'm taking a cue from my mother on this one.
• 1:47
  Speaker 5: Wow?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, can you do it?
• 1:52
  Speaker 1: Can you do it with the accent?
• 1:54
  Speaker 3: Wow? Okay?
• 1:58
  Speaker 1: I love when you do that.
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  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 2:00
  Speaker 1: The final one, give me your best flirty.
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  Speaker 3: This one's hard for me.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, just picture me as Brad Pitt.
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  Speaker 3: Impossible, okay, all right. Flirty, flirty, flirty okay, wow, okay,
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  Speaker 3: all right, Yeah, there we go. I felt flirty in
• 2:17
  Speaker 3: that moment.
• 2:18
  Speaker 1: That's right. You had to get into character.
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  Speaker 3: That is a wow.
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  Speaker 2: Okay trend. Try that out today. Dry that out with
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  Speaker 2: your kids. I'm gonna see if my kids can do that.
• 2:26
  Speaker 1: Sure, maybe we'll hear it tomorrow.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, maybe we'll find out what the kids
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  Speaker 4: like flirty. What does an eight year old sound like
• 2:33
  Speaker 4: when he's flirty?
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  Speaker 3: Oh gosh, I don't know.
• 2:35
  Speaker 1: Find out tomorrow.
• 2:36
  Speaker 4: On Big ninety eight point seven, celebrating life's little victories.
• 2:43
  Speaker 5: Victory every morning.
• 2:45
  Speaker 6: We practice gratitude on big ninety eight point seven.
• 2:48
  Speaker 2: If I could, I would keep this feeling in a
• 2:50
  Speaker 2: basket job busted out when it was someone's acting hard.
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  Speaker 6: I just really needed to win, you know, sure your
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  Speaker 6: little victories with us at seven oh one.
• 3:00
  Speaker 1: All right, Angie, what do you got for me?
• 3:02
  Speaker 2: Catch me on only Toes because you girls.
• 3:06
  Speaker 4: Hitting up onlytoes dot com. Finally, I've been begging for
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  Speaker 4: a chance to retire. I got.
• 3:12
  Speaker 2: I got a fresh pedicure yesterday and I splurged a
• 3:17
  Speaker 2: little bit, so I got you know, the hot stone
• 3:19
  Speaker 2: massage with it and the exfoliating I switched up the color.
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  Speaker 3: And the place where I went they also.
• 3:28
  Speaker 2: Have wine available, so I had myself two little glasses
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  Speaker 2: of wine.
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  Speaker 3: Wow, I got my pedicure done.
• 3:35
  Speaker 2: I mean, I was feeling like a million bucks and
• 3:37
  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie my toesies looking so good.
• 3:40
  Speaker 4: That's awesome. We have a happy toad hungover Angie today.
• 3:44
  Speaker 3: No, I'm not hungover one. Am I a rookie?
• 3:49
  Speaker 1: That's right?
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  Speaker 4: Well find out find Angie on onlytoes dot com today.
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  Speaker 1: Congratulations to you.
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  Speaker 3: What about you, Gabe? What your little victory?
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  Speaker 4: My little victory is I have two one I am
• 3:59
  Speaker 4: wearing hoots Daddy shorts today.
• 4:01
  Speaker 1: Yes, I did this to make you proud.
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  Speaker 4: But my little victory from yesterday despite the heat, Angie
• 4:07
  Speaker 4: and I were talking about this in my office.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, man, what do I do?
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  Speaker 4: Do I try to take my dog for a walk
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  Speaker 4: or do I just play fetch with her in the backyard?
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  Speaker 1: For multiple reasons.
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  Speaker 4: You know there's positives and negatives to each when it's hot. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: so what I did neither of them. I set up
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  Speaker 4: her pool in the backyard.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, I saw this picture.
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  Speaker 4: I just had a couple of pool hotties in South
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  Speaker 4: Fargo yesterday. I had a couple pool babes just chilling
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  Speaker 4: in the backyard.
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  Speaker 3: Oh you and your I mean Wanona and your wife.
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  Speaker 1: No, she wasn't home.
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  Speaker 3: Oh so you're calling yourself a pool babby.
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  Speaker 1: It's just me and Winona, couple pool babes chilling. I
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  Speaker 1: suppose all.
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  Speaker 4: The guys working on the grass to see.
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  Speaker 2: I did see the picture of Onanona in the pool
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  Speaker 2: on our Facebook page yesterday, So thank you for posting
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  Speaker 2: that because I thought that was so cute.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she loves that thing.
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  Speaker 4: I hate it, but he loves it because it's super
• 5:01
  Speaker 4: annoying because it's not and I'm not talking about like
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  Speaker 4: one of those plastic little kiddie pools that you can,
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  Speaker 4: you know, just tip over and empty. This is like
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  Speaker 4: it's not heavy duty, but it is heavy Yeah, so
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  Speaker 4: it takes kind of a little bit more work than
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  Speaker 4: plastic pools.
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  Speaker 3: Is it still up right now?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just up.
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  Speaker 4: I'll probably empty it on Friday and then just wait
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  Speaker 4: till the next time I reset it up.
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  Speaker 5: We'll see.
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  Speaker 1: I mean it's gonna be nice.
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  Speaker 4: I could just empty it, let the water out, let
• 5:27
  Speaker 4: it kind of dry out, and then just refill it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, because I mean today's gonna be hot too.
• 5:32
  Speaker 2: I want you to let Winona live her best pool
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  Speaker 2: pupper's life.
• 5:36
  Speaker 1: That's right. We get two pool batties in South Fargo.
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  Speaker 4: If you need to show yourself stop.
• 5:52
  Speaker 1: All right.
• 5:53
  Speaker 4: We had Monday off, or if you were lucky enough
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  Speaker 4: to have Monday off, we hope you had a great day.
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  Speaker 1: And that posed a.
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  Speaker 4: Question and I talked a little bit about yesterday that
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  Speaker 4: we wanted to bring to you. This is also up
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  Speaker 4: on the Big ninety eight point seven Facebook page. It
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  Speaker 4: feels like once every month or every other month, we
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  Speaker 4: end up with a three day weekend. Yes, And if
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  Speaker 4: you had to choose, would you rather have the Monday.
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  Speaker 1: Off or Friday?
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  Speaker 4: All right, let us know it's seven oh one two
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  Speaker 4: eight zero one nine eight seven and this question is
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  Speaker 4: up on Facebook, and it is a lot closer than
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  Speaker 4: what I thought it would be. I thought one answer
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  Speaker 4: would dominate and one would not, but that is not
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  Speaker 4: the case.
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  Speaker 3: I'm a Friday. I want it to be Friday. The
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  Speaker 3: only caveat would be if it's football season and my
• 6:42
  Speaker 3: team is playing Monday.
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  Speaker 2: Night football, then I would want the Monday off. But
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  Speaker 2: for the most part, yeah, Friday, Friday is the day
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  Speaker 2: that I would want. I would want to have Friday, Saturday, Sunday, okay,
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  Speaker 2: and then get back into routine.
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  Speaker 3: I'd rather my.
• 6:59
  Speaker 2: Week get cut short after I've already been working, then
• 7:03
  Speaker 2: starting the work week short.
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  Speaker 3: And I don't know exactly.
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  Speaker 2: I think because on Thursday, right, you would get out
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  Speaker 2: of work and then you can stay up super super late,
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  Speaker 2: and then it's Friday and it's like I don't have
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  Speaker 2: to work today, great, and then you can stay up
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  Speaker 2: super late on Friday. I'm trying to maximize my time,
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  Speaker 2: so I feel like when the day off is when
• 7:25
  Speaker 2: I would have to go to bed early anyway, which
• 7:26
  Speaker 2: I had to do on Memorial Day. On Monday, I
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  Speaker 2: had to go to bed early because this job starts
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  Speaker 2: so early. Then it feels like it's a truncated day off.
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  Speaker 3: So I don't like it. So Friday's my answer.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, for me, I prefer having the Monday off. And
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  Speaker 4: there's two reasons why. Number One, poor Monday. I mean,
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  Speaker 4: Monday has been getting dragged through the mud since eternity.
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  Speaker 3: Oh okay, if you say you have a case of
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  Speaker 3: the Mondays, that's.
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  Speaker 4: Bad, right, And my thing is Friday. Now, we're very
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  Speaker 4: lucky every single day that Angie and I get to
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  Speaker 4: hay out with you here on Big ninety eight point
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  Speaker 4: seven is fun. We do have a job that is
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  Speaker 4: very fun, like ninety nine percent of the time. And
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  Speaker 4: I just really like Friday vibes in the Big ninety
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  Speaker 4: eight point seven studes.
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  Speaker 1: It's just really fun in here. And we do flannel
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  Speaker 1: Fridays in the winter.
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  Speaker 4: If we don't have work on Fridays, I mean, we
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  Speaker 4: can still do flannel Fridays, but I can't come on
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  Speaker 4: here and annoy you about it all October through May.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like a jerk now and.
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  Speaker 4: Then here what my other argument would be. Right, So,
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  Speaker 4: when you have Monday off, that means you wake up
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  Speaker 4: Sunday and you have nowhere to go, nowhere to be,
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  Speaker 4: or you have all day to accomplish all of the
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  Speaker 4: things you need to accomplish. If you have Fridays off, well,
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  Speaker 4: Thursday part of your you know, start the party day,
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  Speaker 4: you still got to go to work. If you have
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  Speaker 4: Monday off, at least you wake up at home and
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  Speaker 4: you can I don't know, use the entirety of the day.
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  Speaker 4: If you have Friday off, yeah, you can stay up
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  Speaker 4: late on Thursday, but you still got to go to work.
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  Speaker 1: Can spend eight hours there?
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  Speaker 5: No?
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  Speaker 3: Not on Friday. If the Friday you.
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  Speaker 4: Have off, No, I know on Friday you do, but
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  Speaker 4: on Thursday you on Thursday, you still have to go
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  Speaker 4: to work. Do you see what I'm saying? So like, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: but I guess you're about to get your Friday going.
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  Speaker 4: You still got to go on Thursday. I like waking
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  Speaker 4: up at home and not having to leave home. Okay
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  Speaker 4: the next day.
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  Speaker 2: I get what you mean. I get what you mean.
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  Speaker 2: I just wholeheartedly disagree.
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  Speaker 4: I want Tuesday to start being the day everybody hates. Sorry,
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  Speaker 4: poor Monday has been getting smoked per years.
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  Speaker 2: Feel bad for Monday in that regard, but that's because
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  Speaker 2: we're signing like emotion to Monday.
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  Speaker 1: That's right, seven oh one to eight zero one nine
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  Speaker 1: eight seven. And let us know what you think.
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  Speaker 4: And I'm gonna tell you up the comments on Facebook
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  Speaker 4: and your texts and find out what is the answer,
• 9:46
  Speaker 4: because this is a lot closer than I thought.
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  Speaker 1: I thought everybody would say Friday.
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  Speaker 2: I will say, Julia, here something with a both, and
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  Speaker 2: let's make it a four day weekend.
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  Speaker 3: You're correct.
• 9:57
  Speaker 1: I like the way she's thinking that.
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  Speaker 4: And I was a little bit surprised by this after
• 10:03
  Speaker 4: a flood of responses came in on Facebook. But we
• 10:06
  Speaker 4: had Monday off, and that posed the question, Hey, if
• 10:09
  Speaker 4: you could have a three day weekend, would you either
• 10:11
  Speaker 4: have the Friday off or the Monday off?
• 10:14
  Speaker 1: And Angie and I differ a little bit on this.
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  Speaker 2: I said Friday, I would prefer Friday, Gabe is a Monday.
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  Speaker 3: But turns out.
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  Speaker 2: I'm a minority in the minority because, oh my god,
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  Speaker 2: most people said that they would prefer to have the
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  Speaker 2: Monday off. I don't get it, but you know what,
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  Speaker 2: who am I to yuck your yum?
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  Speaker 3: At the end of the day.
• 10:38
  Speaker 2: You did get the Monday off and I didn't get
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  Speaker 2: a Friday, so whatever.
• 10:42
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's kind of like the same argument.
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  Speaker 5: You know.
• 10:45
  Speaker 4: Let's say you have to run a marathon. Yeah, but
• 10:48
  Speaker 4: you get to start at mile four, Well you still
• 10:52
  Speaker 4: got to go up to twenty three and then back
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  Speaker 4: to one to run the full marathon, or if you
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  Speaker 4: just start at one.
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  Speaker 1: It's I mean, it's the same thing, and.
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  Speaker 2: We just have our preferences. Apparently the Mondays get it.
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  Speaker 2: I think everyone is feeling sorry for Monday.
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  Speaker 4: Getting touch a bad rap wow, Or people just really
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  Speaker 4: love flannel Fridays in October through May and don't want
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  Speaker 4: to miss out.
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  Speaker 3: Oh that's sweet.
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  Speaker 5: This is am I the problem.
• 11:21
  Speaker 1: It's me, Hi, the problem.
• 11:25
  Speaker 2: It's me.
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  Speaker 5: We'll hear one side of the story and with your help.
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  Speaker 6: We decide if it's right or if maybe you're the problem.
• 11:34
  Speaker 1: That's right, I am the problem.
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  Speaker 5: On Big ninety eight point seven, we'll.
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  Speaker 3: Jump right in.
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  Speaker 5: Hi.
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  Speaker 2: This is Kyle, my ex wife and I finalized our
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  Speaker 2: divorce over six months ago, and she's still pushing me
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  Speaker 2: to handyman work for her parents. It's like her parents
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  Speaker 2: don't even recognize we're divorced.
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  Speaker 3: When we first.
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  Speaker 2: Separated, I would still help them out because my son
• 12:00
  Speaker 2: was living with them at the time while my ex
• 12:02
  Speaker 2: got her life together and found a place to live
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  Speaker 2: close by. So I was always polite and helped out
• 12:08
  Speaker 2: whenever I was asked. My ex has her own place
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  Speaker 2: now and our son lives with her, not my former
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  Speaker 2: in laws, but I still get called over to help
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  Speaker 2: her parents, and I just don't feel that's my responsibility
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  Speaker 2: at all. Am I the problem here? Or is my
• 12:24
  Speaker 2: ex wife a crazy person? Okay, what a way to
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  Speaker 2: end it. Clearly there's still some bad feelings because or
• 12:34
  Speaker 2: is my ex wife a crazy person?
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  Speaker 3: That's a little much, Kyle, but I.
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  Speaker 1: Like it and not a high note.
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  Speaker 2: Why do you think seven oh one too? Eight on
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  Speaker 2: one nine eighty seven text us call us. We also
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  Speaker 2: have this up on the Big ninety eight point seven
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  Speaker 2: Facebook page as someone who has an ex husband an
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  Speaker 2: ex in laws, bro, just help your ex in laws,
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  Speaker 2: no chance?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, they're fair. I know that you are no longer
• 13:01
  Speaker 3: with your baby mama.
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  Speaker 2: However, if you guys have a kid that is the
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  Speaker 2: grandchild of those parents, and so your family you're connected in.
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  Speaker 3: Some way forever.
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  Speaker 2: I think if you didn't have a child, then fine, bye,
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  Speaker 2: never do anything for them again. But your family, you're
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  Speaker 2: connected on some level. And I just feel like it's
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  Speaker 2: not that big a deal, Like just help them out,
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  Speaker 2: because if they're a parent, like they're getting older, they're
• 13:29
  Speaker 2: clearly turning to you because you're who they can turn to.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like if they had other people.
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  Speaker 2: To turn to, they would He's the one, Kyle, You're
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  Speaker 2: the one, like, help them out.
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  Speaker 4: I have Well, Kyle, it's clearly not the one. He's
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  Speaker 4: the ex.
• 13:44
  Speaker 5: The ex.
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  Speaker 3: I know you think that he.
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  Speaker 2: Shouldn't say it was like Neo, he's the one no
• 13:51
  Speaker 2: I met maybe like Anakin skywaker.
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  Speaker 4: All right, sure, No, he's got to cut this off, right,
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  Speaker 4: You got to cut the cord. You got to cut
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  Speaker 4: it at some point here. If it is, hey, could
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  Speaker 4: you help me with the ride from time to time?
• 14:05
  Speaker 4: That's different going over there to what cut their grass?
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  Speaker 4: What's handyman work? Handyman work ends at divorce time. Okay,
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  Speaker 4: have them hire it out to the neighbor kid or
• 14:16
  Speaker 4: someone else. Okay, No, not handyman work, absolutely not. That
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  Speaker 4: is why to me, handyman work isn't like a necessity
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  Speaker 4: for them to survive. Okay, if it is something they
• 14:26
  Speaker 4: need to continue on with life, that's a little bit different.
• 14:29
  Speaker 4: Handyman work that's a minor inconvenience around their house. You're
• 14:34
  Speaker 4: not there to help out minor inconveniences anymore. What do
• 14:37
  Speaker 4: they give you the best Christmas gifts ever? If they
• 14:40
  Speaker 4: do not get you Christmas gifts? Kyle cut it off completely,
• 14:43
  Speaker 4: just say sorry, unavailable.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, but that's still his kid's grandparents.
• 14:48
  Speaker 2: And when they he needed somewhere to live the sun
• 14:52
  Speaker 2: like he lived with the grandparents, I feel like you
• 14:55
  Speaker 2: could still pay it back to them.
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: He's not living there anymore.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, this makes me sad. I'm really still
• 15:02
  Speaker 3: cool with my.
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  Speaker 2: Ex's parents, like my ex in laws. I mean, I
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: chat with my ex's mom all the time on the phone.
• 15:11
  Speaker 2: I've let me and my ex weren't even together anymore,
• 15:15
  Speaker 2: and I let her move in with me for a
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: bit when she needed, like during a transition period of life,
• 15:21
  Speaker 2: like and we weren't together, but she was.
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: Asking you to come over and dust the shades and vacuum.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I was supporting her entire life.
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  Speaker 2: She wasn't paying me.
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm saying.
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  Speaker 3: If she's my kid's grandmother.
• 15:34
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but she was living with you, that's a little
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  Speaker 4: bit different. She's coming into your domain. Was she calling
• 15:39
  Speaker 4: you to run over there and help out with little
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  Speaker 4: Aaron little chore here there?
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  Speaker 3: I'm telling you that would have been preferable.
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: Well, I'm not saying it wouldn't have been, That's what I'm.
• 15:46
  Speaker 2: Saying, But like I'm I just feel like if they're
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: still connected to you via family, like.
• 15:54
  Speaker 3: I think that you should. Wow, we are very opposite
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  Speaker 3: sites of this.
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: What don't you think is Kyle in the right to
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: want to cut the cord with helping out his ex
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  Speaker 2: in laws, right?
• 16:06
  Speaker 3: Or is he being a little brat and.
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  Speaker 4: A lot of this I think sort of You know,
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  Speaker 4: are you an electrician, Kyle, and you're helping them with
• 16:14
  Speaker 4: electrical work?
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  Speaker 1: Like, yeah, sure, help them out, I guess.
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  Speaker 4: But if you're going over there to weed wack and
• 16:18
  Speaker 4: cut some grass and turn some soil and fix the
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  Speaker 4: squeaky door handle or whatever, absolutely not that's got to
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  Speaker 4: be done.
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  Speaker 2: I think he can put up some boundaries of like
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  Speaker 2: when he has free time or whatever, but I think
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: he should still do it. I would do anything for
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: my ex in laws. And we're not even on the
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: best terms.
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  Speaker 1: Didn't you just say you were cool?
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: Now now we're cool, But like there's a lot of
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: weird history there. Sure, but because they are my kid's grandparents,
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: I feel like I can't ever cut them out completely,
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: Like if they need help them and to help them.
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: And some of this would depend Like was the divorce
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: pretty kind?
• 16:57
  Speaker 3: He called his ex wife a crazy person.
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  Speaker 4: Doesn't sound like it was great, right, seven one two,
• 17:03
  Speaker 4: eight zero one nine eighty seven?
• 17:05
  Speaker 5: What do you think?
• 17:05
  Speaker 4: I will also have this up on Facebook and this
• 17:08
  Speaker 4: might be a great time if you are someone who
• 17:10
  Speaker 4: has gone through a divorce.
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: You know, how does that relationship work?
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 17:14
  Speaker 4: Because Angie is right, you are still kind of connected,
• 17:16
  Speaker 4: not kind of you just are connected for life. A
• 17:18
  Speaker 4: blood led that's right. That is your kid's grandparents. Maybe
• 17:22
  Speaker 4: helping him out is the way to go. Let us
• 17:23
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• 17:25
  Speaker 4: point seven.
• 17:27
  Speaker 3: Nine The Big ninety eight point seven Morning Show is
• 17:33
  Speaker 3: a House Divided.
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: Kyle wrote into us and he wanted to know if
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: he's being crazy for wanting to cut the cord with
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: his ex in laws, so he and his wife are
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: no longer married.
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: It's his ex wife.
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: But even though they are no longer together, the ex
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: wife and his ex in laws are still pushing him
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: to go over to the parents' house to help with
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: handyman work. So he doesn't want to do that. He
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: thinks we're not together. I don't have to do that.
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: I think that he should because they are bonded by
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: a child. They have a child, so his ex in
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: laws are his kid's grandparents, and so to me, I'm like,
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: you're still family.
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: You should just help them out. Gabe. That's a hard
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: no from you.
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  Speaker 1: Kyle.
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  Speaker 4: You're a grown adult man, Dye just say no. It's
• 18:25
  Speaker 4: pretty simple. You're a grown adult. We want to help
• 18:27
  Speaker 4: him when you want to help him, don't help him
• 18:29
  Speaker 4: when you don't want to help him.
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: We wanted to know what you thought. Seven oh one,
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: two and oh one nine eight seven. You can call
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: us text us. We also put this up on the
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: big ninety eight points I'm in Facebook page.
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: I will say this.
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: My man, Mikey was driving Liam to school and they
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: listen on the drive in and I got a text
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: from Mikey that said Team Gabe.
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: Hey, there we go.
• 18:53
  Speaker 4: That's what I'm talking about, Mikey, Thanks big dog.
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: That's so funny. He does have X in like he
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: was married before me. He has x in laws, and
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: I can't think of a single time he's ever done anything, even.
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: Though those ex in laws are the grandparents to his children.
• 19:13
  Speaker 3: But I don't know. I guess I'm just as softy.
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: I can't cut the cord. I would still.
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: Detachment issues over here, Michelle, she said, I don't think
• 19:24
  Speaker 4: you're the problem, but your ex and her parents are
• 19:26
  Speaker 4: not either. Just say no, maybe gently suggests someone else
• 19:30
  Speaker 4: fixed their handyman problems. I wouldn't burn any bridges since
• 19:34
  Speaker 4: your son will have a relationship with them and you
• 19:36
  Speaker 4: may cross paths for years.
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: Good luck.
• 19:39
  Speaker 4: That's kind of sort of what I'm what I said,
• 19:41
  Speaker 4: Just no, Just say no, dude.
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: Janis said, nope, cut the ties.
• 19:46
  Speaker 4: We had Amando who said, in reality, they'll be in
• 19:49
  Speaker 4: your life for a long time since your son is
• 19:51
  Speaker 4: their grandchild. I'd continue to help them, keeping as much
• 19:54
  Speaker 4: of the relationship as you can for your child.
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: I think there are you know, this is one of
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: those is hard for me.
• 20:01
  Speaker 4: It's just too there's too many caveats, like how often
• 20:04
  Speaker 4: are you being a handyman? Is it you know, twice
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: a year? Well yeah, then that's a little different. But
• 20:08
  Speaker 4: it's every week. What are you over there cutting the
• 20:10
  Speaker 4: grass and trimming the hedges and fixing the babe?
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: See that's I got other stuff to do.
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: But their family, I think he can put some boundaries
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: in place, like I'll get to it. These are the
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: times when I would be able to get to But
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: I don't think that he should say no. I think
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: that they are technically still family. That's what happens when
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: you marry someone and you have a kid with them.
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: Even if you split, like you've you've already tied together.
• 20:36
  Speaker 4: See that's the thing though, That's what they don't tell
• 20:38
  Speaker 4: you about if you get divorced or you break up
• 20:39
  Speaker 4: with someone. So obviously that's hard. Yeah, but then the
• 20:43
  Speaker 4: other hard part is you break up with their family too.
• 20:45
  Speaker 4: That's just the fact of the man.
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: I did not break up with my excess family.
• 20:49
  Speaker 5: I did not.
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: We have Julia who said my immediate reaction is to
• 20:53
  Speaker 4: never side with a man's good critical thinking. There in
• 20:57
  Speaker 4: this situation, I still can't just say no. If you
• 21:01
  Speaker 4: don't want to. You're blowing this out of proportion, especially
• 21:04
  Speaker 4: calling her crazy.
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: Uh, it's still nice to be nice.
• 21:07
  Speaker 4: And even though divorce, agreeth Angie and I bet to,
• 21:09
  Speaker 4: the grandparents just want a relationship to just want the
• 21:13
  Speaker 4: relationship to remain. So he knows they still like him
• 21:16
  Speaker 4: and care about him. Doesn't seem like he reciprocates. Oh
• 21:19
  Speaker 4: my gosh, what if it is that?
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: What if they are sad to have lost him as
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: a son and lost so they're like, oh, the dishwasher
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: is on the prints.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: They're really just inviting him over for lemonade. They don't
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: need the garage fixed.
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And he's like, I just don't like that you
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: created that woman.
• 21:44
  Speaker 6: Starting off the day with something good. This is Gabe's
• 21:48
  Speaker 6: good news on Big ninety eight point seven.
• 21:51
  Speaker 4: Well, Gabe's good news of the day takes us right
• 21:53
  Speaker 4: here in the FM area, where a local business is
• 21:56
  Speaker 4: turning leftovers into something useful. When Bridger and Hayden head
• 22:01
  Speaker 4: out to work every morning, the Fargo North and NDSU
• 22:06
  Speaker 4: grads are ready for route work. Prairie Composts, North Dakota's
• 22:11
  Speaker 4: first food waste facility is helping keep food scraps out
• 22:15
  Speaker 4: of landfills and turning them into nutrient rich compost.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: Here's a bridger.
• 22:21
  Speaker 5: Simple system of composting.
• 22:22
  Speaker 7: Basically is you have your nitrogen, which is your food waste.
• 22:25
  Speaker 7: We've got carbon and that's your sawdust and your wood chips.
• 22:28
  Speaker 7: You combine those two in kind of a recipe and
• 22:30
  Speaker 7: that creates the ideal environment for the microbes to live.
• 22:33
  Speaker 7: It is very rewarding to get to see the numbers climbing.
• 22:35
  Speaker 7: You know, we're up to seventy five thousand pounds of
• 22:38
  Speaker 7: food waste that we've diverted.
• 22:39
  Speaker 4: These guys have helped divert seventy five thousand pounds of
• 22:43
  Speaker 4: food waste. That is, that is a ton of food
• 22:47
  Speaker 4: waste that as being used for something else. With more
• 22:51
  Speaker 4: homes and businesses signing up that number, it keeps on growing.
• 22:54
  Speaker 4: One person's unfinished burger and fries might just become tomorrow's
• 22:59
  Speaker 4: garden flowers.
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: That's pretty.
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: And you know my favorite quote, if you don't here,
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: it is broken crans.
• 23:04
  Speaker 4: They still color. And the world is full of nice people.
• 23:07
  Speaker 4: If you can't find one, you gotta be one.