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2nd DATE UPDATE: Courtney & Lauren · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: The next segment we're going to.
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  Speaker 2: Do is called second Date Update because that's what we're
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  Speaker 2: going to try and get and that's what the bit
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  Speaker 2: is called.
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  Speaker 1: Second Date Update starts right now on John Jay and
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  Speaker 1: Ridge one oh four to seven Kiss FM. John Jay
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  Speaker 1: Risch tip for Second Date Update.
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  Speaker 2: You go out a date with somebody having good time,
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  Speaker 2: you expect there to be a second date. It doesn't happen,
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  Speaker 2: So you come to us, and that's what Courtney's doing.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning, Courtney, how are you hi? Good?
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  Speaker 3: So, like, technically this isn't like a date date. It
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  Speaker 3: was a friend date. But like, honestly, I feel like
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  Speaker 3: that's even more important, you know.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So wasn't like it was like a friend, Like,
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  Speaker 2: it wasn't someone that you just met, right it was
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  Speaker 2: so it's a friend in your life that's blown you off.
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  Speaker 3: No, I mean, so, like we've been Instagram friends and
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  Speaker 3: like have followed each other online for a while and like,
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  Speaker 3: you know, we'll wish each other happy birthday and like
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  Speaker 3: send dms or whatever, but we like hadn't met in
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  Speaker 3: real life yet. So we took that step from becoming
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  Speaker 3: like you know, Instagram friends or online friends to really oh.
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  Speaker 1: So so interesting.
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  Speaker 2: So there's no romantic uh carrot if you will, it's
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  Speaker 2: just literally friends.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, literally friends, and like honestly, like friends are way
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  Speaker 3: more important in the long run. Like I think that's
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  Speaker 3: what we're learning.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I love it. I love it.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, let's let's hear the story and find out why
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  Speaker 2: this friend's blown you off.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. So yeah, Like you know, we always like comments
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  Speaker 3: on each other's each other's posts and stuff, and she
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  Speaker 3: was posting about like, oh, there's this bar over here
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  Speaker 3: I want to try. So I was like, oh my gosh,
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  Speaker 3: I'll go with you. So we met about this bar
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  Speaker 3: and like it was a vibe.
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  Speaker 4: Like we just immediately mish.
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  Speaker 3: It was like, oh my goodness, we must know each
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  Speaker 3: other from a path life or something. And we were
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  Speaker 3: there hanging out with each other for over four hours.
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  Speaker 5: Wow a long time.
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  Speaker 3: Wyeah, And like you know, again, it's like we knew
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  Speaker 3: each other. We were talking forever and like you know,
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  Speaker 3: like dudes were literally like sending drinks to our tables.
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  Speaker 3: We were like, I guess the pretty girls or something
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  Speaker 3: at the bar, the fun girls, Like I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: We're just.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, it's never been like that before, Like I've had
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  Speaker 3: people buy me drinks. But it was just like all night,
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  Speaker 3: like the both of us, like I think they just
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  Speaker 3: saw like together, like we were just like I don't know,
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  Speaker 3: this amazing little like duo. It was just like it
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  Speaker 3: was seriously such a good night. We were like laughing
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  Speaker 3: and talking the whole time about life and like you know,
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  Speaker 3: like went deep and and now nothing, like I haven't
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  Speaker 3: heard anything at all, like not even like a response
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  Speaker 3: to my like had fun like and I posted some
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  Speaker 3: things like I've had some stories up and she hasn't
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  Speaker 3: like engaged, which is like really out of character. So like,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, I like, I'm just really bummed because
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  Speaker 3: like I thought like my new like friend Mance or
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  Speaker 3: friend Romance was going to be like I don't know,
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  Speaker 3: a new best friend or something like I just want
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  Speaker 3: to know what she doesn't like me.
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  Speaker 5: That's sad. I know you seem like so bubbly and fun.
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  Speaker 5: I'm really wondering if, like, I don't know, did you
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  Speaker 5: maybe have a little bit too much to drink, Like
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  Speaker 5: I'm trying to like or like maybe I sell the chemistry,
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  Speaker 5: but she didn't like Romance.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe she wanted to.
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  Speaker 5: Maybe she yeah, maybe they really hit it off and
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  Speaker 5: she liked her.
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  Speaker 1: Do you know she thought you were going to be
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  Speaker 1: her Cynthia Rivo to her Arienta petting each other in
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  Speaker 1: during and you guys were at the table. You guys
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  Speaker 1: at the table, you're like touching each other.
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  Speaker 6: Would be so funny if we just kissed for a while,
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  Speaker 6: they're holding together.
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  Speaker 3: Uh, Like, I mean, I guess in a friend whay,
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  Speaker 3: I felt like we were holding space. I don't think
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  Speaker 3: it was in like a romantically, but like maybe I
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  Speaker 3: don't know, you.
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  Speaker 2: Know what's interesting to me And I'm not like a
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  Speaker 2: one who has a lot of friends or is a
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  Speaker 2: good friend.
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  Speaker 1: That's it don't built.
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  Speaker 2: But like like when we do second update and it's
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  Speaker 2: about dating, Like I understand the pursual and I understand
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  Speaker 2: why why why why doesn't she want to god me again?
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  Speaker 2: Why doesn't he want to guard me again? But like,
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  Speaker 2: there's people in my life and I can think one
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  Speaker 2: most recently it's very similar to us, hight. I went
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  Speaker 2: on to lunch for somebody we met on Instagram through
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  Speaker 2: a friend and we haven't talked since.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't care, like I like, I don't I
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  Speaker 1: don't like.
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  Speaker 2: I don't like, like my friend circle is full.
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  Speaker 1: Well then three people and two of them I don't.
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  Speaker 6: Need You're the lord in this scenario, like I went
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  Speaker 6: out the thing and now we're done.
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  Speaker 2: Right, I just like to me, I'd be like, all right,
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  Speaker 2: she hasn't call me back, she's not coming and see you.
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  Speaker 2: Well that wouw dating totally different but friend then butyay,
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  Speaker 2: we'll call her. So it's Lauren. Lauren is the girl. Yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 2: all right, So we're gonna call Lauren. And how long
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  Speaker 2: ago was this friendship luncheon or dinner or whatever it
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  Speaker 2: was cocktail hour?
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  Speaker 4: It's been officially eight days, okay, so sorry, alright, and
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  Speaker 4: he had tied a cordon.
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  Speaker 2: You will call Lauren and we will ask her why
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  Speaker 2: she's blowing up for what happened. Right, So the friendship
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  Speaker 2: second date update continues next with.
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  Speaker 1: Anna Jane Rich. It's John Jaye Rich. This is a
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  Speaker 1: second ate update, but it's about friends, not dating.
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  Speaker 6: Well, it's been eight days my friends and friends Giving
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  Speaker 6: season is here, but so is friends taking. Courtney and
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  Speaker 6: her new friend Lauren connected over vibes in the fact
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  Speaker 6: that they were probably the pretty ones at the bar.
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  Speaker 6: But Lauren has unplugged the romance, yanked the cord, and
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  Speaker 6: she is now a ghost of Christmas past. Let's find
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  Speaker 6: if we can connect these two star crust buddies, or
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  Speaker 6: perhaps it's a Christmas miracle gone wrong.
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  Speaker 1: That was a pretty good recap. I really liked how
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  Speaker 1: you thought you were clever with friends taking because you
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  Speaker 1: had that pause. It was clevered.
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  Speaker 2: He because it was too good until now, so accolades,
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  Speaker 2: Friend's taking, friends giving, Friends taking courney. Are you ready
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  Speaker 2: to call Lauren find out what I she's blowing you off?
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  Speaker 1: Are you ready? Yes? Okay, all right, We're gonna get
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  Speaker 1: on the phone right now. Hank Kut.
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  Speaker 5: Hello, Hi is Lauren there?
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  Speaker 4: This is Lauren.
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  Speaker 5: Hey Lauren, my name is Peyton. I'm with John, Jay
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  Speaker 5: and Rich and we just wanted to talk to you
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  Speaker 5: on the radio really quickly. If you got time this.
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  Speaker 1: Morning, talk to me about what well, Lauren? Is that okay?
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  Speaker 1: If we put you on the radio, though, talk about
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  Speaker 1: a certain situation.
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  Speaker 4: I guess it depends on what this is about.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: So we do a thing called second Date Update, which
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  Speaker 2: is about people that are dating each other, trying to date,
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  Speaker 2: and then one of them blows them off. And they
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  Speaker 2: want to know why, so we call them to figure
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  Speaker 2: out why they're blowing them off. Okay, okay, so can
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  Speaker 2: we put you on the radio now? Yeah, Okay, this
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  Speaker 2: isn't that really. So there isn't a guy that thinks
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  Speaker 2: you're blowing them off. There's a girl that thinks you're
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  Speaker 2: blowing up. It's kind of a friend's version of our
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  Speaker 2: our dating segment. So we're calling Oh yeah, we're calling
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  Speaker 2: you about Courtney. Courtney told us all about your friendship
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  Speaker 2: and the Instagram dms and the years of you guys
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  Speaker 2: going back and forth and you finally met for cocktails.
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  Speaker 2: She reached out to us and she's like, this isn't
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  Speaker 2: dating thing, but we were just really cool and I
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  Speaker 2: thought we hit it off. And now I'm not hearing
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  Speaker 2: from her. She's not even commenting on my post anymore.
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  Speaker 2: So we thought we would call you and see what's up.
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  Speaker 2: What gears with Courtney?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, like, why do not you like her?
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  Speaker 4: Okay? I mean, I guess I could talk about this.
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  Speaker 4: H It wasn't that I didn't like her. I didn't
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  Speaker 4: text her back, but there was a reason for it. Obviously,
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  Speaker 4: I had fun with her, and I was hoping that
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  Speaker 4: we could be friends and that this could continue. But
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  Speaker 4: I found out pretty quickly that we're just not the
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  Speaker 4: same type of friend Like she's. She seemed very m
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  Speaker 4: she seemed like very male centered, Like you know, we
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  Speaker 4: were hanging out. Did she tell you? Did she tell
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  Speaker 4: you about like the context of this, I think so?
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  Speaker 1: So you hung out of the bar. Guys are sending
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  Speaker 1: you guys beers?
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  Speaker 2: You guys were the good looking girls of the group
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  Speaker 2: and whatever, Like you were definitely highlighted in the bar or.
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  Speaker 1: The restaurant or whatever.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, I mean that that was my experience too,
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  Speaker 4: But I felt like she was really encouraging it, Like
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  Speaker 4: it seemed like she was on a mission that night
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  Speaker 4: to get every single one of our dreams paid for.
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  Speaker 4: And that meant she was talking to every single dude
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  Speaker 4: in the bar, like she was even talking to the
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  Speaker 4: guys that girls know better than to be talking to,
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  Speaker 4: do you know what I mean? Like I was sitting
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  Speaker 4: there like, okay, are we hanging out? Are you trying
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  Speaker 4: to collect like every guy here? It was like a
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  Speaker 4: got to catch them all situation in my opinion, And
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  Speaker 4: I'm just super not in that era of my life anymore.
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  Speaker 4: I don't want to party with some random guys section
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  Speaker 4: at the bar until the ass crack of dawn. I
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  Speaker 4: want to go to nice dinners and brunches and half
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  Speaker 4: girl time when I'm with my girls. So I don't
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  Speaker 4: think Courtney's a bad person. I just don't think we're compatible.
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  Speaker 4: Like we're in totally different lanes, and I didn't want
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  Speaker 4: to force a friendship. It seemed like it was with
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  Speaker 4: someone who's not wearing.
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  Speaker 5: That it kind of makes sense. I'm like, that's so valid.
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  Speaker 5: I feel for Courtney though, because it's like, dang, she
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  Speaker 5: really feels like she got a connection. But sometimes you
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  Speaker 5: are in different paths, and when you have a friend
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  Speaker 5: that wants to go out and party all the time,
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  Speaker 5: you know, and you're locked in, that doesn't really vibe.
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  Speaker 5: So I get that, but it's just unfortunate.
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  Speaker 4: That's exactly how I felt. I felt like, you know,
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  Speaker 4: I liked this person's personality, but I really didn't like
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  Speaker 4: their behaviors.
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  Speaker 5: That's fair, That's tough. Yeah, I mean that's understandable.
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  Speaker 1: Did you guys at all try to kiss at all?
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  Speaker 5: Of course?
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  Speaker 4: Excuse me, it's a friend, that's.
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  Speaker 5: Update. I'm curious what Courtney has to say.
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  Speaker 3: That's how you really feel that I'm like male centered,
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  Speaker 3: Like seriously, I can't believe you just like said.
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  Speaker 4: That, like all that about me on the radio. I'm sorry,
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  Speaker 4: I didn't realize that Courtney was on the line. Who
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  Speaker 4: she's been listening this whole time?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, okay listening, And I'm offended, Like, seriously, you
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  Speaker 3: said mail center like talking to every guy like and
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  Speaker 3: trying to get them pay for every drink, Like, girl,
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  Speaker 3: you're just hating on me because like I'm prettier than
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  Speaker 3: you and you have zero game, Like, sorry, men talk
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  Speaker 3: to me. I can't help it.
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  Speaker 4: What that is. First of all, that's so rude. Second
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  Speaker 4: of all, that's not even what this is about. This
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  Speaker 4: has nothing to do with who's prettier.
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  Speaker 3: How is this that as it clearly does, Like your
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  Speaker 3: dating life is miserable, Lauren, miserable, Like, don't sit there
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  Speaker 3: and act like I'm the problem because I'm getting attention
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  Speaker 3: and you're not.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, well, first of all, I'm gonna stop you right there,
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  Speaker 4: because I'm not competing with you for men's attention. I
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  Speaker 4: don't like men, which is something you probably would have
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  Speaker 4: figured out if you took a second to get to
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  Speaker 4: know me, and the fact that you just jumped right
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  Speaker 4: into oh, I'm prettier than you, and you know you
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  Speaker 4: suck because I'm prettier. That that proves my point that
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  Speaker 4: you're just trying to get male attention. I didn't text
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  Speaker 4: you back because when we were hanging out, I felt
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  Speaker 4: like I was babysitting someone who needed validation from every
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  Speaker 4: stranger in the room, and that is not the kind
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  Speaker 4: of energy that I need in my friendships.
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  Speaker 1: Can you guys send us a picture so we could
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  Speaker 1: decide who's prettier? No, how would that be helpful? We're curious, but.
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  Speaker 6: Like it's so what what you are is Instagram compatible
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  Speaker 6: but not in person compatible.
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  Speaker 1: So maybe you just go back to that.
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  Speaker 5: Maybe not even Yeah, she didn't mean to go I
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  Speaker 5: don't think I would want to be at that point.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, well she didn't have to say it like that.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I said it honestly because you pushed us
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  Speaker 4: into this really petty place that I was never intending
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  Speaker 4: to go.
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  Speaker 5: This is awkward. I don't know if she did push
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  Speaker 5: it there. I know I felt like she was very firm,
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  Speaker 5: and you know, it wasn't like she was throwing shots
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  Speaker 5: at you. I mean she just say she had different
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  Speaker 5: interest than you.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know, it's not going to be different
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  Speaker 1: brunch then, huh.
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  Speaker 5: Right, And I'm sure Courtney, there's gonna be girls that
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  Speaker 5: are definitely like in your era of life right now. Like,
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  Speaker 5: just go out and find them. I promise you they're there.
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  Speaker 5: You'll probably meet them at the safe bar you were at.
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  Speaker 3: I'll try.
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  Speaker 2: I guess, well, Courtney, h we got you an answer, Laurence.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you for jumping on there with us. First time
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  Speaker 2: we have done anything like this as far as I
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  Speaker 2: know usual. Yeah, so it was very cool for you
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  Speaker 2: to jump on there. It's okay. You know, Kyle's a
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  Speaker 2: really good friend. Maybe be friends with her friends. She's
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  Speaker 2: got a lot of friends, a lot of friends. When
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  Speaker 2: you see her pictures from over the weekend, I'm.
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  Speaker 1: Like, they just keep coming. Those are the most friendsho
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  Speaker 1: ever had my life all combined together at.
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  Speaker 5: One time, three of our friends weren't even there.
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  Speaker 1: Are you serious? Wow? All right, you guys, thanks for
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  Speaker 1: jumping on there with us.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you.
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  Speaker 2: That's the friends Giving second ate update on this Thanksgiving week,
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