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90 Day Fiancé Season 12 Episode 2 “Trusting the Process” Part 2 of 2 · Vanity Farah with Chris Farah

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Speaker 1: Hi, everyone, Welcome back to Vanity Farrah. It's me your host,
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Speaker 1: Chris Farah, and I'm in the middle of talking about
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Speaker 1: Ninety Day Fiance's season twelve. It's episode two. It's trusting
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Speaker 1: the process, trust the process that this season is so good.
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Speaker 1: I keep talking, and I have to talk longer, so
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Speaker 1: I have to make two parts of episodes because you
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Speaker 1: can't just like listen to a three hour episode of
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Speaker 1: me talking about this. Now. I've already talked about Katie,
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Speaker 1: and I've already talked about Shay and given you all
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Speaker 1: of my thoughts about those people. And now we're going
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Speaker 1: to go on to Asha, and then we have new
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Speaker 1: girl Debbie, and then we have Marisa. Okay, Asia. Now
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Speaker 1: I found Asia's TikTok and you know, she has like
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Speaker 1: only a couple of hundred followers, so it's early on
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Speaker 1: and she is showing off her life. Honey. She's very happy.
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Speaker 1: This is like, you know, all the deep dive I've
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Speaker 1: done off screen for you, like you can get a
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Speaker 1: little more than just the recap. She's so happy to
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Speaker 1: be like God answers your prayers, A black cars picking
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Speaker 1: me up because I'm on TV, and you know, like
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Speaker 1: whatever you're doing in private, fasting or praying. God listens, like,
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Speaker 1: so being on the show is like God answering her prayer.
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Speaker 1: Just take that head, but let's move on. So when
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Speaker 1: we see her, she's talking to her mom. So now
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Speaker 1: we're like, Okay, in this big, beautiful home she lives
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Speaker 1: and her parents are there. Her mom is named Juliette
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Speaker 1: oh Romeo Romeo, and one thing her mom doesn't do
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Speaker 1: is put her in her place. Her mom isn't like,
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Speaker 1: what the hell's wrong with you? This is crazy. The
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Speaker 1: picture you showed me of the visa getting approved and
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Speaker 1: denied looks fake. And you're my daughter, and you'll listen
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Speaker 1: to me and you're being you know, unhinged in the
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Speaker 1: name of the Lord. That's not what Julia's doing. Juliet's
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Speaker 1: washing and allowing Asia to do whatever the fuck Asia wants.
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Speaker 1: And at this moment, Asha's like a negotiating attorney to
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Speaker 1: talk about her issues with the visa, and she's like, mom,
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Speaker 1: Maxwell is so upset because Maxwell's already packed and told
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Speaker 1: his parents about this, and we just cannot believe that
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Speaker 1: the visa was denied. I was not prepared for the
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Speaker 1: visa being denied. Now, that's also sus why because you
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Speaker 1: and I like, unless you have, like mostly people listening
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Speaker 1: haven't had a Nigerian lover try and get a visa.
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Speaker 1: But we watched the show and we know that odds
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Speaker 1: are not great if you're trying to get a visa
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Speaker 1: from Nigeria to come. Why because a certain countries aren't
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Speaker 1: America's favorite countries period. And second thing, Nigeria just has
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Speaker 1: a real shitty reputation, real bad one, really bad scammer one.
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Speaker 1: So like we're not fucking loose with that. We're not
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Speaker 1: Katie with our visa. We're like, you know, we're stringent,
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Speaker 1: We're you know, we're Annabelle. We're like, don't know, you're
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Speaker 1: not getting in this bed. I'm not gonna even wash you.
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Speaker 1: You know, weird metaphor, but you know what I'm saying, Like,
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Speaker 1: we we've been knowing that it's not easy to get
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Speaker 1: a visa from Nigeria, So for her not to be
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Speaker 1: prepared at all makes me think that Asia's never even
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Speaker 1: done like a simple Google search or gone on to
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Speaker 1: Reddit to realize that it's really hard to do. So
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Speaker 1: she certainly hasn't watched Angela and Michael go through it,
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Speaker 1: and she certainly didn't watch last season with Lisa anyway,
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Speaker 1: she wasn't able to. I know, it was film like
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Speaker 1: at the same time, you know what I'm saying. But she, Yeah,
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Speaker 1: she's just like so shocked by it, you know, and
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Speaker 1: we're supposed to believe that, Like, she's also so shocked
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Speaker 1: because she has decided that the Lord is on her
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Speaker 1: side in every way, and that you know, because of that,
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Speaker 1: he's just going to pave the road ahead with like
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Speaker 1: brand new asphalt and there's flower bangs on the side
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Speaker 1: with never a divid or any sort of like pothole
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Speaker 1: on her journey. Certainly no mountain and certainly no blockade.
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Speaker 1: And I also find that interesting because she's thirty nine,
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Speaker 1: so inevitably there's been other things in her life that
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Speaker 1: she's had issues with, Like there's been challenges in her life,
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Speaker 1: Like this isn't like a twelve year old being like
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Speaker 1: God's on my side now I'm going to go to college,
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Speaker 1: Everything's going to go well, like you know, No, it's
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Speaker 1: like she's had hardships. So I don't understand how she
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Speaker 1: thinks that just because she thinks that she's God's you know,
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Speaker 1: chosen baby, prophet that all things are going to go well.
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Speaker 1: Like surely if she woke up every morning and there
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Speaker 1: was just like one hundred dollars bill out of either
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Speaker 1: her pillow like some weird god tooth fairy, you know,
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Speaker 1: maybe and like everything was always hunky dory, and she
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Speaker 1: like lived in some sort of Disney princess film that
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Speaker 1: you'd be like weirded out if something bad happened, But
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Speaker 1: like she doesn't. She does live on God's green earth,
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Speaker 1: like she you know, this woman I'm assuming has gotten
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Speaker 1: a parking ticket, has gotten like pulled over, you know,
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Speaker 1: or like you know, gotten a car accident, like a
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Speaker 1: little fender bender. Like I'm just trying to think like
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Speaker 1: this person, you know, maybe like broken arm or fractured
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Speaker 1: a wrist, you know, like if it was me because
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Speaker 1: I like rollerbladed or something like surely, you know, whatever
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Speaker 1: things have happened to this person, I'm sure this person
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Speaker 1: has applied for a job and not gotten it or like,
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Speaker 1: you know, so again, like I don't understand why like
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Speaker 1: something coming up in her journey would be so shocking
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Speaker 1: for her that it doesn't like work out one hundred
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Speaker 1: percent of the way. At some point we have to
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Speaker 1: like assume that things don't work out how we think
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Speaker 1: they're going to, like at a certain age. Okay. But
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Speaker 1: she's like, I'm gonna go pick up Rod, you know, Rod,
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Speaker 1: my god brother. And I'm like, okay, so like his
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Speaker 1: mom is your godmm? Is that what that is? Okay?
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Speaker 1: And she's like, look to Rod as you know. I've
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Speaker 1: gone through many different men, so much so that I
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Speaker 1: have made a list of characteristics for men to have.
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Speaker 1: And I've been having this list since I had an
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Speaker 1: AOL account. When she drops that, honey, we're like, oh girl,
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Speaker 1: we're in the same generation. This is Asha's list of
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Speaker 1: characteristics for men to have. No smoking, no drinking, no kids,
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Speaker 1: but no kids. Parts hard when you're like thirty nine, okay,
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Speaker 1: great job, has ambition, loves God, but not die hard God.
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Speaker 1: And I was like, not die hard God, not die
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Speaker 1: hard God. You are God's like, you know, like Rod
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Speaker 1: or die Soldier. What do you like? You are? I
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Speaker 1: hard God? You are a fundamentalist pentecostal lady. You're talking
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Speaker 1: in tongues and shit like what you are? You absolutely
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Speaker 1: need someone that's die hard, because someone who like loves
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Speaker 1: God but isn't die hard God's gonna think that you're
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Speaker 1: fucking bananas. That's true. Okay, so just wile to me,
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Speaker 1: But it goes on. This person has to be understanding, organized, organized,
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Speaker 1: athletic built. I'm like, does this person need like labels
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Speaker 1: and stuff like that, like a label maker? This person
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Speaker 1: have Google spreadsheets? Anyway, this person, as I said, athletic built,
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Speaker 1: great lover. Okay, Then she says, this person can't have
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Speaker 1: big feet, no sasquatch. What this person's supposed to have
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Speaker 1: like an athletic built and may be like small tootsies.
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Speaker 1: What you want like a Cinderella honey, like you know,
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Speaker 1: the smallest foot in the land will go on that
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Speaker 1: glass slipper. What are you talking about? You want a
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Speaker 1: small footed man, small little Geisha feet. That kind of
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Speaker 1: guy made no sense to me. I'm sorry, I'm like,
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Speaker 1: what Also, of all the things to like get mad
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Speaker 1: about men's feet, it's not the size, it's the way
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Speaker 1: they look and it bell's like yeah, and if their
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Speaker 1: toes are clean, you know I'm saying, or if they
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Speaker 1: wear ugly like you know, sandals all the time like gino.
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Speaker 1: You know, like there's a billion things to get mad
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Speaker 1: about men's feet. And I do, but like not the size.
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Speaker 1: I guess technically I don't. Yeah, I don't want a
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Speaker 1: tiny footed man. I also don't want, like, you know,
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Speaker 1: a small handed man. But that's directly related to the
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Speaker 1: size of my feet and the size of my hands,
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Speaker 1: which are huge, huge size eleven feet. My hands are
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Speaker 1: just you know there. I have long fingers and you
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Speaker 1: know I have big hands. So I don't enjoy the
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Speaker 1: thought of like holding a man's hand who's like tinier
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Speaker 1: than me. Who anyway, it's like, yeah, it's like holding
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Speaker 1: my nephew's hand. Okay, So well I just thought that
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Speaker 1: was crazy. So but you know, there's a lot of
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Speaker 1: things so also wealthy nose, purpose, good hygiene, good hair,
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Speaker 1: pretty teeth. And then she puts really loves God, so
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Speaker 1: well that part makes sense. But yeah, okay, because you're
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Speaker 1: die hard, right, clear, die hard God. Okay. So when
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Speaker 1: she has like told us this list, or when she
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Speaker 1: said that she had the list, we hear the producer
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Speaker 1: being like, girl, look at that list, which made me
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Speaker 1: really happy because I could, you know, almost like see
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Speaker 1: the producer like saying this to her. And I also
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Speaker 1: like the fact that this producer seemed warm, so she
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Speaker 1: picks up Rod from the coffee shop and she's been like, Rod,
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Speaker 1: don't get in this car without a lattepe for me,
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Speaker 1: make it oat milk, And then he does and they
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Speaker 1: drive themselves to Love Immigration is the name of the
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Speaker 1: lawyer she's going to see. Love Immigration, which like feel
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Speaker 1: a little bit on the head, like nose, Like you
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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, No, on the nose, That's what
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Speaker 1: I mean. It's a little on the nose to have
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Speaker 1: a place called Love Immigration. This is where you go
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Speaker 1: if your love needs to immigrate. I'm a lawyer. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: it's very specific. I like, how do they always find
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Speaker 1: these weird ass lawyers, Like no one goes to a
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Speaker 1: normal lawyer ever, you know, like Gino's Crystal Lawyer and
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Speaker 1: everthing like that. Like Love Immigration just sounds like, yeah,
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Speaker 1: it's a bananaramus place. So now this is where she
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Speaker 1: loses me. I mean obviously I was lost on that list.
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Speaker 1: But she's talking to the immigration guy and she's like,
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Speaker 1: can we get an appeal? And the lawyer's like no, yeah,
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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't care. Well what you want
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Speaker 1: to be? Like, oh, it's asha, Let's make sure we
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Speaker 1: go back and give this case like due diligence, Like
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Speaker 1: that's not how it works. And she's like, well, why
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Speaker 1: because my story is more important than any other cause
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Speaker 1: it's God ordained. That's crazy. I detest when people put
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Speaker 1: themselves ahead or in front of other people for whatever
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Speaker 1: asinine reason that they tell themselves, right. I don't like
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Speaker 1: when people from a you know, higher socioeconomic level think
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Speaker 1: that they're better than other people who are not on
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Speaker 1: that same level. That doesn't make any goddamn sense obviously.
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Speaker 1: Don't like it when people think that, like their race
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Speaker 1: makes them better. I don't like when people think that
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Speaker 1: their religion makes them better. That's so stupid. But religion
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Speaker 1: is even all of it's dumb and stupid, right, But
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Speaker 1: religion is super stupid because we're also supposed to believe that,
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Speaker 1: Like religion is this what like spiritually evolved thing where
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Speaker 1: we believe that God loves everyone and whatnot, Like that's
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Speaker 1: what Christians are supposed to believe, right, So it's yeah,
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Speaker 1: it's hypocritical to be like God loves me more, God
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Speaker 1: cares about my wants and needs more than anyone else's. Like,
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Speaker 1: I think it's crazy when sports teams are like dear God,
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Speaker 1: let us win. Fuck those people, God were your chosen team.
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Speaker 1: God doesn't care about a football game, and he's not
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Speaker 1: gonna be like, well, I got money on the Notre
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Speaker 1: Dame fighting Irish, so fuck Boston, you know, like what,
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Speaker 1: that's stupid. And I think that her saying this kind
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Speaker 1: of like feeds into why she thinks she's a prophet,
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Speaker 1: because she thinks that the being a prophet or speaking
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Speaker 1: in tongues makes her better than other people. So she's
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Speaker 1: just gonna keep doing it. God loves everyone, or feels
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Speaker 1: the same about everyone. God is doing what God's doing,
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Speaker 1: or the universe is going to do what the universe
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Speaker 1: is doing. Or I would like to believe that the
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Speaker 1: way in which you interact and your energy interacts with
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Speaker 1: this world and humanity and each other and God is
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Speaker 1: how our life unfolds, because it has to do with
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Speaker 1: our perception of this world and how we react, as
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Speaker 1: well as what we bring into our lives through our
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Speaker 1: own magnetic energy. Not to be like super secret about
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Speaker 1: it and not like the secret you know is it,
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Speaker 1: but like the thought of like doing good for this
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Speaker 1: world a because it feels good to do so, and
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Speaker 1: because you have a divine calling to make this world
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Speaker 1: better makes me feel like your life ultimately will have
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Speaker 1: if you can accomplish certain things a certain purpose that
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Speaker 1: feeds you. And so what happens in your life you
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Speaker 1: make the best of in a way, and your love
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Speaker 1: and energy and warmth attracts people into your life. That
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Speaker 1: helps round things out and fulfill things. And if you
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Speaker 1: are attracting good people in your life at some point,
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Speaker 1: that has a reaction to the areas of your life
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Speaker 1: that like you that you know subscribe meaning to like
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Speaker 1: your career or your love life, or your family because
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Speaker 1: you know, or your friends or your chosen family. Like
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Speaker 1: if that energy you're putting out has like good intent,
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Speaker 1: then people people want to be around you. They want
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Speaker 1: to work with you, they want good things for you,
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Speaker 1: they want to help you achieve your goals. They might
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Speaker 1: fall in love with you, they might leave at some point.
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Speaker 1: But that's I think how this world works. And I'm
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Speaker 1: not saying that if you do good for everyone else
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Speaker 1: that your life will always be perfect. And surely you
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Speaker 1: have to also take care of yourself and like do
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Speaker 1: good for yourself, and it can't be like a performative
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Speaker 1: kind of thing where I'm trying to do so many
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Speaker 1: things for so many people, so I get it back.
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Speaker 1: There's just like the contract. I think, this is all
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Speaker 1: my thoughts that you have with your life and the universe.
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Speaker 1: Slash god, slash whatever. Trans transnental no, transcendental dental energy
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Speaker 1: because I think, you know, like I guess speaking for me,
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Speaker 1: like I want so badly to connect with people and
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Speaker 1: for people not to feel alone, but in fact for
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Speaker 1: people to relate to me, and like what I'm doing
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Speaker 1: and this podcasts like one thing, but you know, I
16:23
Speaker 1: do comedy and I have like other you know, like
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Speaker 1: weird shows I've written or whatnot. Like there's different projects
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Speaker 1: I've done, and all of them like I want people
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Speaker 1: to in my work and what I showcase see a
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Speaker 1: version of themselves or something that they relate to or
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Speaker 1: like here's something specific that resonates with them. And the
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Speaker 1: goal would be to in that moment be like, oh yeah,
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Speaker 1: we're all this way or oh yeah, this is how
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Speaker 1: life is and maybe feel a certain relief because like
17:04
Speaker 1: that's how I feel when I see like great theater,
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Speaker 1: you know, like that's how you feel like when you
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Speaker 1: connect to a piece of art sometimes like you know,
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Speaker 1: sometimes you're like, oh, I love that it speaks to
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Speaker 1: me in some way. And sometimes, you know, you see
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Speaker 1: a scene on a TV show that's really well written
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Speaker 1: or theater or whatnot, and you're like, holy shit, that
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Speaker 1: reminds me of that thing that happened to me when
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Speaker 1: I was in high school. Holy fuck, what is this
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Speaker 1: like shared human experience? It's why like AI is so
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Speaker 1: fucked up, and it's why the social media algorithm feels
17:37
Speaker 1: so isolating because like in the world of either like
17:41
Speaker 1: weird perfectionism or like shitty content, where like things are
17:46
Speaker 1: devoid of meaning for you know, clicks or likes, we
17:52
Speaker 1: we like, you know, let the capacity to connect like decay,
18:00
Speaker 1: and I find it like sad depressing, certainly isolating. But
18:06
Speaker 1: at the same time, I like make it a cheap
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Speaker 1: goal of mine to, you know, make sure that I'm
18:13
Speaker 1: counteracting that by facilitating as many moments of connection that
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Speaker 1: I possibly can. Even though I told you that I
18:21
Speaker 1: don't do any sports with like co ed people in
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Speaker 1: part one, but even then, that's like probably why I'm
18:28
Speaker 1: saying I should probably try some of that, because maybe
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Speaker 1: there is a thing, you know, I would like to
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Speaker 1: experience about like oh, physically exerting myself with a group
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Speaker 1: of people over and over again, and then becoming friends
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Speaker 1: with them in that way, which I guess is sports, right,
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Speaker 1: Like that's what happened in sports. This is really the
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Speaker 1: most Theater kids conversation ever. I'm like, I don't know
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Speaker 1: what that's like anyway. So that's why, like everything that
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Speaker 1: she says about herself just feels so anti religious, anti
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Speaker 1: spiritual to me, Like for who she is, I find
19:04
Speaker 1: her to be like devoid of spirit so far. And
19:08
Speaker 1: that's like another reason why I think she's like not
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Speaker 1: connected to reality enough to obviously see this. She's about
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Speaker 1: to be scammed, Okay, so obviously the lawyer's like, well,
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna set up don't worry the next part of
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Speaker 1: the season for the producers by saying that the only
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Speaker 1: like viable option is for you to get a spousal petition,
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Speaker 1: which means you would have to go to Nigeria and
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Speaker 1: get married. And Rod's like no, and the lawyer's like, yeah,
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Speaker 1: that's not what TLC said. I'm going to give her
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Speaker 1: her options. I got to make sure the next part
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Speaker 1: of the season happens. And Rod, I mean, Rod, listen,
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Speaker 1: you've been her godbrother this whole time. If she is
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Speaker 1: in the place she is is in, which is about
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Speaker 1: to get scammed by Maxwell and Nigeria, then you've already lost.
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Speaker 1: Like you could have righted this ship with Juliet years ago,
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Speaker 1: you know, but you didn't. So I mean, at this point,
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Speaker 1: just watch the fireburn. Okay, let's move on to Debbie.
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Speaker 1: Debbie's new Honey. We haven't seen Debbie yet, but Debbie's
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Speaker 1: from Nola. You know, She's from that New Orleans, you know,
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Speaker 1: or as I said in jokingly, and a real Nolins.
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Speaker 1: And people came from me because they don't know I'm
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Speaker 1: a comedian and think that I'm just going to always
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Speaker 1: say Dolins like that New Orleans, New Orleans, honey, There's
20:16
Speaker 1: many different ways to say it. I don't care. I
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Speaker 1: have fun. Debbie has a dog named lily Bit, and
20:23
Speaker 1: lily Bit, we know is the Queen's nickname, and also
20:28
Speaker 1: like the name of the daughter of Megan Markle and
20:32
Speaker 1: Prince Harry, and also like one of the four hundred
20:34
Speaker 1: and billion different versions of Elizabeth. Anyway, she works in insurance,
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Speaker 1: like I said, and one of the first things she
20:41
Speaker 1: says is she has metrics to hit, which means like
20:44
Speaker 1: her job is to like upsell people on insurance, which
20:48
Speaker 1: is depressing to me because yeah, it just a bunch
20:52
Speaker 1: of scenes are being like, hey, I don't know if
20:54
Speaker 1: you have enough insurance and you would have to have more,
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Speaker 1: you know, body harm insurance. Are you prepared for the disasters?
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Speaker 1: I make sure that you are spending seven hundred thousand
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Speaker 1: dollars on insurance all the time and making sure I
21:06
Speaker 1: can get more LV toats. You know, It's just she
21:09
Speaker 1: seems a little like money grabby like that. But so
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Speaker 1: she's living her life and all those extra insurance bonuses
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Speaker 1: got her to go to Egypt with her daughter. And
21:20
Speaker 1: when she was in Egypt, she was touring one of
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Speaker 1: the pyramids with her tour guide who was flirting with
21:25
Speaker 1: her and she didn't get it. So her daughter was like,
21:27
Speaker 1: he's flirting with me and she's like, no, I don't
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Speaker 1: think so, and then he kissed her on the tour,
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Speaker 1: which I thought was weird. So many people on ninety
21:40
Speaker 1: day work in tourism, so many jolly pirates, so many hankies, bankies,
21:46
Speaker 1: so many people that are like you know, activities directors
21:48
Speaker 1: at inclusive resort so many tour guides just you know, interesting.
21:53
Speaker 1: So then we meet Meto. While we talk about Meto,
21:57
Speaker 1: Meto is an Egyptian movie star, actor, model, and Debby's
22:05
Speaker 1: really quick to be like, he has thousands, hundreds of
22:08
Speaker 1: thousands of Instagram followers, So that's how I know that
22:11
Speaker 1: he's legit. Now me, your girl went on Instagram and
22:18
Speaker 1: I found him his name. He has two Instagram accounts
22:24
Speaker 1: that he runs. One is Meto fayeed Official and he
22:28
Speaker 1: has around six hundred and sixty eight thousand followers. And
22:33
Speaker 1: he also runs another account that's called Meto Fayeede Official
22:37
Speaker 1: Fan and he tags both accounts in his posts all
22:42
Speaker 1: the time. Now his postsar suspect. His latest post, which
22:50
Speaker 1: was like in May, is him on a motorcycle and
22:55
Speaker 1: for six hundred and sixty nine thousand followers, he has
23:02
Speaker 1: four comments. And this was this screenshot I did was
23:12
Speaker 1: on Saturday, May sixteenth, so he already was on an
23:19
Speaker 1: episode like they premiered talking about him on the internet.
23:22
Speaker 1: Four comments, six d and sixty nine thousand followers. Now,
23:27
Speaker 1: someone who works in insurance, I'm assuming knows basic math. Now,
23:33
Speaker 1: there's not a way on God's green Earth that you
23:36
Speaker 1: would only have four comments if you had that many
23:39
Speaker 1: actual human followers. But Debbie can get the wool pulled
23:44
Speaker 1: over her eyes, just like she likes to pull the
23:46
Speaker 1: wool over people's eyes by selling them too much insurance.
23:49
Speaker 1: I don't know why her daughter or someone isn't like,
23:52
Speaker 1: oh babe. There's such a thing as an engagement rate,
23:56
Speaker 1: and someone who has that many followers would have a
23:58
Speaker 1: lot more fucking comments on like their pictures, his other
24:01
Speaker 1: pictures are random af Some pictures just are him putting
24:08
Speaker 1: on a coat in a store and taking a picture
24:11
Speaker 1: of him and the coat in the store, not buying
24:13
Speaker 1: the coat. There is a whole weird, horribly lit photoshoot
24:19
Speaker 1: in a dressing room. By the way, his latest post.
24:24
Speaker 1: By the way, all of his posts seemingly up to date.
24:28
Speaker 1: They're all in Egypt. Not one post is in America.
24:32
Speaker 1: So I don't know if he didn't see an NDA
24:35
Speaker 1: or whatnot, but he's definitely not giving the vibe that
24:38
Speaker 1: he lives in America. His last post is like calling
24:41
Speaker 1: himself a CEO and co founder of mom Mom Golden
24:46
Speaker 1: Pyramid's view in I love that it's called mom so
24:53
Speaker 1: spoiler alert, I don't think he makes it to America
24:56
Speaker 1: or he didn't stay that long. He definitely doesn't give
24:58
Speaker 1: up the tourism life. Also, how many movie stars, I mean,
25:02
Speaker 1: just think about this way. Do you think Tom Cruise,
25:05
Speaker 1: Do you think like Jacob Alordi? Do you think that
25:07
Speaker 1: like Timothy Shallomey does tourist work as a tourist guide.
25:14
Speaker 1: Do you think they're like taking groups around to Niagara Falls?
25:19
Speaker 1: That's just basic common sense, right Most movie stars don't
25:24
Speaker 1: want to be around a bunch of people, and especially tourists.
25:31
Speaker 1: I mean that's not I mean, help me help Like
25:41
Speaker 1: you met someone as a tour guide and do you
25:43
Speaker 1: think that they're a famous movie star but they need
25:47
Speaker 1: to make extra money or they just love Egypt so
25:49
Speaker 1: much they can't wait to talk about the pyramids with
25:51
Speaker 1: Americans and like drunk people from Amsterdam, Like what that's
25:59
Speaker 1: so bananas? That is like, I mean, she really is
26:02
Speaker 1: not on God's you know, green earth. I know keeps
26:04
Speaker 1: like her feet are not on this ground. I wonder why,
26:08
Speaker 1: why is? Why are debbies so bananas? And I wonder
26:12
Speaker 1: if there's parts of the casting people for ninety Day
26:15
Speaker 1: that like Brumma just through phone books and like the
26:17
Speaker 1: minute they call they see a Debbie, they just like
26:20
Speaker 1: call that person, and that person sounds at all wacky.
26:22
Speaker 1: They're like, I have a show for you. Okay. So
26:27
Speaker 1: she's never seen us work because he's like it's an
26:29
Speaker 1: Arabic and it's also because he doesn't work. And one
26:32
Speaker 1: phone call we see he's like, I have to bring
26:35
Speaker 1: tuna fish and she's like, we have tuna fish here, babe,
26:39
Speaker 1: and then he's like just kidding, okay, ohr TABETI also,
26:42
Speaker 1: will you print my head shots for me? Why? Why
26:46
Speaker 1: do you need her to print headshots before you even
26:48
Speaker 1: land here? Also, the head shots are not headshots. They're
26:51
Speaker 1: like weird shots of him in sunglasses, and I'll tell
26:56
Speaker 1: you right now that like that's not a headshot. And
26:59
Speaker 1: you know who knows that. Her daughter. She's like, I
27:04
Speaker 1: just want you to be proud of me, and the
27:06
Speaker 1: daughter's like a yeah, she's like you and your brother,
27:08
Speaker 1: and you know, she's like, well, my brother won't film,
27:11
Speaker 1: he's so embarrassed. So Debbie just really thinks that Meto
27:17
Speaker 1: is hot af She's like, the camera loves him, and
27:19
Speaker 1: we're like, well that's that's not true. The camera really,
27:27
Speaker 1: you know, shows a version of him that we feel
27:30
Speaker 1: like makes a scene and the camera only certainly like
27:33
Speaker 1: tolerates him a little bit. So the daughter also brings
27:39
Speaker 1: up the fact that there's some weird sketchiness because you know,
27:42
Speaker 1: he posts a bunch of shitty ass things, but never
27:45
Speaker 1: anything about Debbie. We also find out that Meto does
27:50
Speaker 1: not like dogs in the bed and that he had
27:55
Speaker 1: told her that dogs in the house is This is
28:00
Speaker 1: how she says it, quote unquote horam, it's holram. And
28:07
Speaker 1: I'll tell you, as a person that barely speaks Arabic,
28:11
Speaker 1: Horam is hoddam. I guess if you really want to
28:17
Speaker 1: like angle size the word, you can. I'll get by
28:19
Speaker 1: with someone saying haram, but it's not horam. And if
28:26
Speaker 1: you can kind of roll that ot, it's hudam. Anyway.
28:30
Speaker 1: So we also get makeup shots of her putting on
28:36
Speaker 1: her face in the vanity, so let's talk about it.
28:39
Speaker 1: She has like an LV makeup bag, She has a
28:42
Speaker 1: Chanelle powder, She has two different bottles of do Your Perfume,
28:48
Speaker 1: and it looks like miss Mussurie that kind you know
28:52
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. She also has some weird dumb Dalmatian
28:55
Speaker 1: and she also has the Mario Bidescu rose spray. And
28:59
Speaker 1: then in a different shot we can see that she
29:02
Speaker 1: uses a naked palate by Urban Decay. Two different mirrors. Okay,
29:11
Speaker 1: oh yeah, Deafen's her daughter. I forgot Deafens her daughter.
29:13
Speaker 1: So she's putting on makeup and then honey, she goes
29:16
Speaker 1: to like the most famous tourist spot. She loves tourist
29:20
Speaker 1: spots in New Orleans, which is well, there's a lot
29:23
Speaker 1: of them. I guess Bourbon Street's one of them. But
29:25
Speaker 1: you know around Bourbon Streets, Cafe du Mal, Cafe du Mal,
29:28
Speaker 1: honeywhere they have beignets, and beignets are the chosen people Asia.
29:34
Speaker 1: There's nothing more chosen by God than Benet's. Beignets are
29:37
Speaker 1: so good, just fried dough, hot from the oven, just
29:42
Speaker 1: powdered sugar. Mum she yum. I guess like funnel cakes
29:47
Speaker 1: are supposed to be like beignets, but like beignets are
29:50
Speaker 1: soft on the inside. Oh my god, kathe do Mom's
29:55
Speaker 1: open twenty four hours a day, so you can always
29:56
Speaker 1: get beignet and they're always coming out fresh. And everyone
29:59
Speaker 1: who goes to Cafe Do Mo that the first time,
30:00
Speaker 1: at least is like, you know what I am. I do.
30:02
Speaker 1: I'm gonna buy some of this mix, Honey, I'm gonna
30:04
Speaker 1: take it home and I'm gonna make some fresh beignets
30:06
Speaker 1: back in my home in California. And then just sits
30:08
Speaker 1: on your that dry mix just sits in your pantry.
30:10
Speaker 1: You never use it. Why because it's like very rare
30:13
Speaker 1: for people to have full on deep fryers. It's actually
30:16
Speaker 1: very difficult to just like deep fry a bunch of things.
30:21
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess people do it, but like I don't,
30:23
Speaker 1: and I don't think you can like air fry a beignet?
30:26
Speaker 1: Can you? You can't air fry a bannye? Can you? You? Guys?
30:31
Speaker 1: Can you air fry a beignet? Half of me wants
30:35
Speaker 1: to google it right now because of ADHD. Neither half
30:37
Speaker 1: of me feels like I should move on, but I'll
30:39
Speaker 1: talk about it. Maybe I'm Patreon, I can like consider
30:42
Speaker 1: how to air air fry a beigne. Oh anyway, So
30:47
Speaker 1: she meets her friends, her two friends, and they're there
30:51
Speaker 1: and they're suspect. They're like, this is weird. She's like, yeah,
30:54
Speaker 1: you know, there's some weird things. I gotta like, you know,
30:56
Speaker 1: tell you guys. First of all, he's a virgin, and
31:00
Speaker 1: her friends are like what, Like, yeah, he's forty one,
31:05
Speaker 1: so he's one year past forty year old virgin. He's
31:07
Speaker 1: forty one. He's a virgin. Now. Someone in my comments
31:12
Speaker 1: was like, you know what, that's what all Egyptian men say.
31:16
Speaker 1: That's the way they get you in bed to be
31:17
Speaker 1: like I've been a virgin this whole time. You're like, wow,
31:20
Speaker 1: you so especially been waiting for me. And then like
31:22
Speaker 1: they know now they're just saying that they get you
31:23
Speaker 1: in bed to like on to the next I'm a virgin,
31:26
Speaker 1: you know, God bless. The friends also are like whoa,
31:30
Speaker 1: that seems crazy, but like, you know, they hold their
31:32
Speaker 1: face in this moment. But later on we get the
31:36
Speaker 1: best moment of the episode. The producers talk to their
31:42
Speaker 1: friends and they're like, hey, were you surprised when Debbie
31:48
Speaker 1: said that Meto was a virgin and he couldn't get
31:53
Speaker 1: the question mark dot to land before. Her friend was
31:57
Speaker 1: like yeah, because I'm a slut. She said it so
32:02
Speaker 1: fast her friend next to her like almost pissed her parts.
32:07
Speaker 1: I loved it. Oh, I was just like, oh my god,
32:12
Speaker 1: please please if this production cared about me at all.
32:15
Speaker 1: The next scene would be like followed these two two
32:19
Speaker 1: Fisherman Street, or at least to that carousel bar that
32:22
Speaker 1: slowly turns around as you sit at it. Like these
32:24
Speaker 1: are New Orleans places, and let's have like a very
32:27
Speaker 1: real conversation with them where they talk about this and
32:30
Speaker 1: Debbie can go back home money she needs to sell
32:32
Speaker 1: more insurance for more, like you know, Chanel, I love
32:35
Speaker 1: that's like yeah, I later on she's like, I fuck
32:40
Speaker 1: after the third date, and I'm like, girl, you fuck
32:43
Speaker 1: on the first night, you fuck after the first drink. Okay,
32:47
Speaker 1: I mean get correct, Okay. So a thing that Debbie
32:52
Speaker 1: does I also hate is like, there's also this bitch.
32:54
Speaker 1: I didn't tell you about this bitch on social media.
32:57
Speaker 1: And I guess what happened was, you know, he'd doesn't
33:00
Speaker 1: post about Debbie because you know, he's so busy with
33:02
Speaker 1: his like acting posts and taking pictures of himself in
33:05
Speaker 1: different dressing rooms, and he had posted with some other lady,
33:10
Speaker 1: and she's mad at the lady about that. Why why
33:16
Speaker 1: know why? It's what I said in part one. We
33:19
Speaker 1: live in a patriarchal world where women are very quick
33:22
Speaker 1: to like jump down other women's throats for no reason
33:25
Speaker 1: when the men are doing workshit. Why isn't she just
33:29
Speaker 1: mad at Medo? Why is it that lady's fault? Why
33:32
Speaker 1: is that lady a bitch? You think that girl knows
33:34
Speaker 1: about you? No, No, she doesn't, Debbie, she doesn't buy
33:39
Speaker 1: into your insurance fraud. What are you talking about? So crazy?
33:45
Speaker 1: So then we get like a really shitty scene where
33:49
Speaker 1: she's crying. Now she's back on our bed, She's crying.
33:51
Speaker 1: I don't know where that dumation is. Lily bits like
33:53
Speaker 1: hiding in the corner and she's like, it's one day
33:56
Speaker 1: before he's supposed to leave, and I fear it's all
33:58
Speaker 1: falling apart. He says, his father isn't well. I don't
34:02
Speaker 1: know what the prognosis is, but you know, sometimes he
34:05
Speaker 1: does this thing where he does no contact mode and
34:08
Speaker 1: I don't hear from him for like two to three days,
34:11
Speaker 1: and I'm like, times four, you don't hear from him
34:15
Speaker 1: like two weeks. So then we get another phone call,
34:18
Speaker 1: final like a FaceTime with him, and he is very
34:23
Speaker 1: dismissive and rude to her, wildly mean to her. She's like, hey, baby,
34:30
Speaker 1: how are you? And he's like, shut up, how you
34:32
Speaker 1: know how I'm doing the fuck you talking about stupid?
34:36
Speaker 1: Like you're just like what. She's like, I'm just trying
34:39
Speaker 1: to be there for you. And he's like, well, you
34:41
Speaker 1: can be there for me by leaving me alone for
34:45
Speaker 1: fourteen days. That's how you can leave me alone for
34:49
Speaker 1: two weeks. She's like, okay, I'm sorry about your dad,
34:56
Speaker 1: but I just don't know exactly what you could do
34:58
Speaker 1: for him. He's like, well, we for the doctor to come.
35:01
Speaker 1: It's gonna be two weeks. And I'm like, well, i'll
35:02
Speaker 1: tell you right now that if you were a big
35:03
Speaker 1: ass movie star, that doctor would be there. You don't
35:07
Speaker 1: live in like the podunks of Egypt. You live in Cairo.
35:09
Speaker 1: That's where the pyramids are. There's doctors, I know, Egyptian doctors.
35:13
Speaker 1: There's you know, Egyptian doctors. There's a lot of you know.
35:17
Speaker 1: It's yeah. So he's like, I told you what I need.
35:23
Speaker 1: I need to leave me alone. She's like, okay, babe,
35:25
Speaker 1: well what do I call Delta and see if I
35:28
Speaker 1: can move your flight? And he's like that can yeah,
35:31
Speaker 1: do that make yourself useful? Stupid woman, stupid old woman,
35:35
Speaker 1: Like it's so mean, it's so shitty. It's not how
35:38
Speaker 1: you would ever want anyone to come. I mean, yeah,
35:42
Speaker 1: she's just begging, begging for him to like be nice
35:47
Speaker 1: to her, and he is only too happy to be
35:51
Speaker 1: wildly shitty in a very like dismissive avoidant, if not
35:56
Speaker 1: like just downright aggressively, yeah, just cruel way. I'm like,
36:05
Speaker 1: if that daughter was here to hear that, I'd be like,
36:08
Speaker 1: you're not coming. I hate him. I hate him. I
36:19
Speaker 1: hate him. I think he's gross. I don't like his personality.
36:26
Speaker 1: I hate his face. I think he's hideous. I don't
36:29
Speaker 1: like him. I wish I could, you know, I almost
36:36
Speaker 1: want to curse in Arabic, like, but it'd be like
36:38
Speaker 1: a Levantine Arabic and Egyptian Arabic is like somewhat different.
36:42
Speaker 1: But you know, bush desk, So anyway doesn't look good.
36:50
Speaker 1: Let's move on to Marissa. Now. I have to say Carmen,
36:55
Speaker 1: who is a lovely podcast listener and she's also YouTube
37:00
Speaker 1: and she's also on Instagram, thank you so much for
37:01
Speaker 1: following me at Chris el Fara all the places Carmen
37:04
Speaker 1: always posts. And my friend Carmen says something about Marissa
37:08
Speaker 1: that I cannot unsea, which is that Marissa looks just
37:13
Speaker 1: like Lindsay Lohan's mom looks just like her, looks identical
37:20
Speaker 1: to Lindsay Lowhans, maybe like like a svelt like even
37:28
Speaker 1: more spelt first. And she's a tiny she's you know, tiny,
37:30
Speaker 1: but like so Lindsay Lohanni Mommy, Yeah, I'm just like
37:37
Speaker 1: the same face, same bone structure, like same hair, you know,
37:41
Speaker 1: like same vibe. It's wild. Okay. Also, I did a
37:46
Speaker 1: reel a deep dive into Marissa, and this also I
37:51
Speaker 1: think was on Reddit. Low key, I don't think she
37:54
Speaker 1: works at Kleinfelds anymore. In fact, her Lincoln and her
37:59
Speaker 1: Instagram and bio makes no reference to Kleinfeldts. And she
38:05
Speaker 1: also now calls herself a former COO and like consultant
38:13
Speaker 1: business strategist. So I don't know what happened there, but
38:19
Speaker 1: get to it. Okay, let's pick up. She has fifty
38:22
Speaker 1: fifty custody, which at this point she's happy about because
38:25
Speaker 1: she you know, lives half the time in Pennsylvania and
38:28
Speaker 1: she gets to go to like her life in New
38:29
Speaker 1: York City, which now I'm like, I wonder if she
38:31
Speaker 1: lives in New York City more if she just like
38:32
Speaker 1: sold that place. And Noll's in Pennsylvania. So anyway, she
38:38
Speaker 1: says she's hap sorry, I hope you can hear that. Bet.
38:41
Speaker 1: She's happier in Pennsylvania. And we see her home. It's beautiful,
38:45
Speaker 1: like a traditional brick home, and we meet her two sons.
38:48
Speaker 1: There is Derek eleven and Cole that's ten. She's like,
38:51
Speaker 1: they look so different, and at first I was like,
38:53
Speaker 1: it was the dad, the same dad, but I think
38:55
Speaker 1: they are. One has brown hair and one has blonde hair.
39:00
Speaker 1: And I also realized Cole and Marissa both wear across
39:03
Speaker 1: around their neck. So just putting that out there, I think, yeah,
39:06
Speaker 1: Lindsay Lohan's Italian, so is Marissa Italian? I think Italian Catholics. Anyway,
39:16
Speaker 1: she after she hangs out with her sons, we have like,
39:19
Speaker 1: you know, a kitchen talk, and I like her sons
39:21
Speaker 1: a lot. They're like really super cute and also very communicative.
39:27
Speaker 1: So Cole, the younger one, is super excited. He's like,
39:31
Speaker 1: I can't wait for Edward to get there. And we're like,
39:34
Speaker 1: oh cute, great, and he's like because then I get
39:38
Speaker 1: a dog and we're like and he's like, yeah, mom,
39:43
Speaker 1: you said, when Edward gets here, we get a dog.
39:44
Speaker 1: So you so you are so none of this excitement
39:47
Speaker 1: has to do with Edward's just the dog. And then
39:50
Speaker 1: Marissa's like, well I don't know about that yet, and
39:52
Speaker 1: they're like, well that pitious, But you said, you said
39:55
Speaker 1: that you want us to be happy for Edward to
39:57
Speaker 1: get there, and we will be if you get us
39:58
Speaker 1: a dog. And if he gets, you know, into America
40:01
Speaker 1: and we don't have a golden lab at our feet,
40:04
Speaker 1: we're gonna be pissed. Also, you know that lowki happened
40:10
Speaker 1: to me after my parents got divorced. My dad got
40:13
Speaker 1: me a dog. This was the eighties, Like, he got
40:15
Speaker 1: a dog from a silent auction. It was a Sheetsu
40:18
Speaker 1: and it was a Sheetsu puffy and puppy. I named
40:20
Speaker 1: it Fluffy. I love that dog so much, And you know,
40:22
Speaker 1: I think that it was low key away from me
40:24
Speaker 1: to get over the divorce, and you know it worked, hahaha,
40:26
Speaker 1: but no, just kidding. I love that dog. And then
40:29
Speaker 1: we moved into my grandma's house and my dad was like, oh,
40:32
Speaker 1: the dog can't come. Grandma can't doesn't want the dog,
40:34
Speaker 1: and so he gave the dog away it's like one
40:36
Speaker 1: of the trauma and holes in my heart. And that
40:38
Speaker 1: was also fucked up because my grandma like had a
40:40
Speaker 1: dog for years and that dog was named Poopy, and
40:42
Speaker 1: my grandma loved that dog. So my grandma surly surely
40:46
Speaker 1: would have loved Fluffy. And also why did she name
40:48
Speaker 1: it poopy. I don't know the answer to any of
40:51
Speaker 1: the questions, okay, but that's my trauma anyway. So I'm like,
40:56
Speaker 1: you better get cold this goddamn dog. I Also, people
41:00
Speaker 1: get mad when I say that those two words together
41:03
Speaker 1: gd goddamn. And I don't get why people get mad
41:07
Speaker 1: at me, because even the sentence structure is obvious that
41:13
Speaker 1: the subject God is doing a verb damning something else.
41:17
Speaker 1: There's never a we all understand English, and certainly so
41:22
Speaker 1: does Josh. I'm not saying DG. I'm not damning bad person. Like,
41:28
Speaker 1: it doesn't make any sense why people get so mad
41:30
Speaker 1: at me about that. I think that's a weird thing.
41:32
Speaker 1: You have to like write in yourself, also learn grammar. Okay,
41:36
Speaker 1: So this is where Derek, her older son, says something
41:43
Speaker 1: that I find really mature. He's like, you know, we've
41:47
Speaker 1: only like been knowing of Edward for a year. And
41:51
Speaker 1: when you told me that Edward was going to move
41:54
Speaker 1: in with us, I had a weird reaction in my body.
42:00
Speaker 1: That's not something that I would know to say at
42:02
Speaker 1: eleven years old. Like I you know, I had to
42:09
Speaker 1: watch my dad date half of Newport Beach when I
42:14
Speaker 1: was young, and I didn't say shit about it. I
42:16
Speaker 1: mean I did, I really did. I said whatever to him,
42:20
Speaker 1: And I would just talk so much about all these
42:21
Speaker 1: women to like my friends. But like I wouldn't have
42:24
Speaker 1: the emotional maturity to be like dad. When you bring
42:28
Speaker 1: over someone certain someone in my house or when you
42:31
Speaker 1: put up pictures of this person in the home, I
42:32
Speaker 1: have a weird reaction in my body. It just like
42:34
Speaker 1: it's a I feel like it signifies someone who has
42:37
Speaker 1: like a mind body connection at an age and also
42:41
Speaker 1: like recognizes that something makes him feel uncomfortable. Marissa's like, oh, well,
42:48
Speaker 1: I can see that I've never introduced you guys to
42:51
Speaker 1: someone I'm dating in real life. But then Derek says something,
42:54
Speaker 1: But I also thought interesting. He asks his mom, will
42:58
Speaker 1: Edward have money when he comes? This is a person
43:01
Speaker 1: that's eleven, And when he asked that, I was like,
43:04
Speaker 1: that feels like a question or a subject that he
43:08
Speaker 1: heard his dad talk about, like oh, Edward's gonna come
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Speaker 1: and like, you know, be sponging off your mom or
43:17
Speaker 1: and or he's used to his mom talking about money
43:21
Speaker 1: in a way who has it, who doesn't and her
43:27
Speaker 1: having more than enough. Marissa has already like laid the
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Speaker 1: groundwork that she thinks her life is more important, more cultured,
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Speaker 1: more experienced than Edward, and that her problems are more important,
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Speaker 1: bigger than his. You know that she that she finds
43:43
Speaker 1: him to be somewhat you know, cutesy wootsie with how
43:46
Speaker 1: little money he has and how her world is, you know,
43:49
Speaker 1: such a high powered bridal executive and she makes millions,
43:52
Speaker 1: like she has already given that vibe. And so for
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Speaker 1: her son to ask will he have money when he comes?
43:58
Speaker 1: I thought it was an interesting question because like that's
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Speaker 1: like not one of the questions I would think a
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Speaker 1: child would know about if a person had money or
44:08
Speaker 1: not in that way, you know what I mean? What
44:17
Speaker 1: I think, like it's surprising is like not being like
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Speaker 1: do we have to listen to him if he like
44:24
Speaker 1: says something to us? Or do we defer to you?
44:27
Speaker 1: And I wondered the next question that he asks is
44:31
Speaker 1: is he going to get an allowance? And RSA's like yeah, yeah,
44:36
Speaker 1: And then I wonder like, are you asking that because
44:40
Speaker 1: you also get an allowance, and then you can make you,
44:43
Speaker 1: you know, make it sure that you're all on the
44:44
Speaker 1: same peer level, Like Edward won't be able to give
44:48
Speaker 1: or tell you shit what to do if you're all
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Speaker 1: getting an allowance by mommy, because then you're all on
44:54
Speaker 1: the same level. Yeah. I thought it was so interesting,
44:58
Speaker 1: like this money talk with these kids. It's like, yeah,
45:01
Speaker 1: He's like, it's a weird feeling to have him come
45:04
Speaker 1: in my body, and Cole's like, I want a dog,
45:06
Speaker 1: and then they start talking about money. Risu's like, well,
45:12
Speaker 1: in the dr they make in a month, when would
45:13
Speaker 1: I make in a well when I make in a moment,
45:17
Speaker 1: you know, but other people a week here, you know,
45:20
Speaker 1: like there's just a billion other subjects of like how
45:25
Speaker 1: Edward's going to fit in the family where his financial
45:30
Speaker 1: his financial situation wouldn't be like the forefront of my
45:33
Speaker 1: list as a little kid. But yeah, I think it's
45:36
Speaker 1: indicative of the world these kids live in, which is
45:38
Speaker 1: maybe like Marissa and her ex's way of viewing the world.
45:43
Speaker 1: By the way, I made a mistake because when we
45:47
Speaker 1: first saw a picture of Marissa and her ex, her
45:49
Speaker 1: ex had a hat on, and I was like, Oh,
45:50
Speaker 1: the ex is hot. And in this episode we saw
45:54
Speaker 1: or maybe I think it's like the previews for the
45:57
Speaker 1: next episode, we saw Marisa's ex Sam's hat and guess what,
46:02
Speaker 1: not hot. I take it back, not hot. And I'm
46:06
Speaker 1: not saying bald men are unattractive and fine. In fact,
46:09
Speaker 1: I find balding to be balding mean to be like hot.
46:12
Speaker 1: I like it a lot, but I don't like the
46:14
Speaker 1: shape of his head. I don't like it. It's not
46:17
Speaker 1: for me. He also like has a weird mean face,
46:22
Speaker 1: Like without the hat, he looks scary. Can I have
46:28
Speaker 1: an allowance? Anyway? I wonder what happened to Marissa and
46:34
Speaker 1: Kleinfeld's I'm dying to know. I wonder if it's like
46:35
Speaker 1: something that's revealed on the show, or, like I said,
46:38
Speaker 1: in the real if like Clinfeld saw episode one, it
46:40
Speaker 1: was like, you went to work and just talked about
46:43
Speaker 1: your lover's d to a bunch of the associates. That's
46:46
Speaker 1: not fucking appropriate. No, you're fired. Also, she only got
46:51
Speaker 1: hired in like twenty twenty one, so she didn't work
46:53
Speaker 1: through that long. Also, she was an executive of David's
46:55
Speaker 1: Bridle beforehand. Okay, it's a lot more client field information
46:59
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