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DLHS Hour 2 | Must take all kids to amusement park · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: It is out of the dal. You will show you
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  Speaker 1: a twenty twenty six edition. Remember if you're Baltimore, Maryland.
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  Speaker 2: To come check me out because we're going to be
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  Speaker 3: Hey Gary Garious, I and his knee as we speak,
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  Speaker 3: probably is.
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  Speaker 2: So here's a scenario. Let's hear the audio.
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  Speaker 4: So my baby daddy wants to take our daughter to
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  Speaker 4: a theme park. I told him the only way that
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  Speaker 4: he can take her is if he agrees to take
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  Speaker 4: my other three kids. Now, our daughter is thirteen, and
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  Speaker 4: then I have a three year old, a six year old,
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  Speaker 4: and an eight year old. And then he responds back
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  Speaker 4: telling me that I'm just being bitter. Now I told him,
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  Speaker 4: I say, look, I don't want to have to deal
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  Speaker 4: with my other kids crying.
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  Speaker 2: Like when my.
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  Speaker 4: Daughter leaves to go with him to the theme park,
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  Speaker 4: my other three kids are going to be sitting at
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  Speaker 4: the house crying, wondering why they couldn't go too. And
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  Speaker 4: I just feel like, as a man, he should be
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  Speaker 4: willing to take my kid, my other kids. So I
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  Speaker 4: just want to know, Am I wrong, you know? And
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  Speaker 4: my being bitter? Or am I being a protective mother?
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  Speaker 4: Am I wrong for not wanting my other kids to
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  Speaker 4: feel left out? Am I wrong? Am I right? Should
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  Speaker 4: I love her go? Or should I just know?
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  Speaker 2: What do you think?
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  Speaker 5: Julius, here's a mood question, because I mean, we've covered
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  Speaker 5: it before, like you said, and really, that's my child.
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  Speaker 5: If that's my responsibility, is my child only now, right?
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  Speaker 5: You know, if we had a great relationship with the
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  Speaker 5: rest of them, in my budget fit it so yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 5: then yeah, okay, but no as an obligation, I don't know, you.
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  Speaker 1: Know, sometimes, like I've known people like sometimes you just
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  Speaker 1: got money for your show, yeah and barely that's it,
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  Speaker 1: especially nowadays, sometimes you got money for your show, so
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  Speaker 1: nobody can go, yeah, well we we're gonna do baby,
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  Speaker 1: is the minute you come stay with you daddy for
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  Speaker 1: the weekend.
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  Speaker 2: We are going to Disneyland. That's it.
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  Speaker 1: Because your mother apparently thinks that I made the money
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  Speaker 1: and I'm not taking all the kids. And what I
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  Speaker 1: will let you do is to bring a balloon back
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  Speaker 1: to the kids you like.
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  Speaker 6: And you don't want to do that. Balloons are dangerous
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  Speaker 6: for kids.
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  Speaker 2: You know that. I bet if you gain a child
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  Speaker 2: the choice, I'm not so.
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  Speaker 3: First of all, all children if they an amusement park
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  Speaker 3: is on the table. For the most part, they all
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  Speaker 3: want to go. And yes, there's going to be some jealousy,
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  Speaker 3: and you're absolutely right. I don't think anybody should be
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  Speaker 3: forced to do anything, but because I am you know,
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  Speaker 3: you know, as far as wise as adults, if y'all,
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  Speaker 3: but when it comes to kids, it's a soft spot.
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  Speaker 3: I hate to hear of any kid being you know,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, unequal and all the things, regardless of
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  Speaker 3: the scenario around it, because you know, I have a
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  Speaker 3: soft spot for kids.
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  Speaker 6: I want them to have a childhood. You know what
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  Speaker 6: do you have a soft spot for children?
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  Speaker 7: All right?
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  Speaker 2: Can I ask you question? What question?
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  Speaker 6: What?
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  Speaker 1: What soft spot for kids that you have? Why did
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  Speaker 1: it take sixteen years?
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  Speaker 8: Kid?
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  Speaker 3: First, you're always teasing me about that, which in front
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  Speaker 3: of him ain't funny.
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  Speaker 6: He knows.
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  Speaker 3: Joey never wanted for anything, not even well, there was
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  Speaker 3: a better mother. There was a better mother than me
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  Speaker 3: who stepped in and took care of him. Thank you
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  Speaker 3: if she's dead now, but she did a great job
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  Speaker 3: of raising my son.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm proud of that checking.
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  Speaker 6: Job about it.
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  Speaker 2: But it's true.
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  Speaker 3: But the soft spot he had as well, that's why
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  Speaker 3: he didn't want for anything and he never felt treated mistreated.
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  Speaker 6: That clearly that's something y'all don't have a problem with it.
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  Speaker 3: But I think if you put a kid in a situation,
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  Speaker 3: I know it's the adult's fault, but they didn't ask
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  Speaker 3: to be in that situation. So if you could make
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  Speaker 3: it fair, and I get it, depending on your economic situation, yes,
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  Speaker 3: should you be forced to do it, absolutely not.
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  Speaker 6: But if you can and you have a way to
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  Speaker 6: do it, you know.
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  Speaker 4: So, my baby daddy wants to take our daughter to
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  Speaker 4: a theme part. I told him the only way that
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  Speaker 4: he can take her is if he agrees to take
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  Speaker 4: my other three kids. Now, our daughter is thirteen, and
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  Speaker 4: then I have a three year old, a six year old,
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  Speaker 4: and an eight year old. And then he responds back
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  Speaker 4: telling me that I'm just being bitter. Now I told him,
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  Speaker 4: I say, look, I don't want to have to deal
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  Speaker 4: with my other kids crying. Like when my daughter leaves
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  Speaker 4: to go with him to the theme park, my other
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  Speaker 4: three kids are going to be sitting at the house crying.
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  Speaker 4: Wondering why they couldn't go too, And I just feel like,
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  Speaker 4: as a man, he should be willing to take my kid,
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  Speaker 4: my other kid is So I just.
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  Speaker 6: Want to know.
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  Speaker 4: Am I wrong?
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  Speaker 9: You know?
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  Speaker 4: Am I being bitter? Or am I being a protective mother?
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  Speaker 4: Am I wrong for not wanting my other kids to
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  Speaker 4: feel left out? Am I wrong? Am I right? Should
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  Speaker 4: I love her go or should I just know?
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  Speaker 1: I really do think that it is unfortunate to put
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  Speaker 1: the other children in a situation where they're not because
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean, you should?
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  Speaker 2: You should? You guys take a nap. Everybody taking a nap.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody except for the little girl who's father's in her life.
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  Speaker 2: He'll be here at twenty minutes.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody whose father's is like taking nap. And I think
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  Speaker 1: you're all right. We talk off air. When you are
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  Speaker 1: a kid, you're excited about going places like.
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  Speaker 2: That, you will talk about it. Yes, it's all you're
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  Speaker 2: gonna talk about. Man.
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  Speaker 5: It's back in the hood, back in the day when
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  Speaker 5: even our family went to Astro World. We were in Houston,
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  Speaker 5: and we'd be talking about it all weeks or the day.
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  Speaker 5: I believe, man, all the kids in the hood they
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  Speaker 5: looking at us getting in the car.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, were waving it there, y'all. Don't get you broke
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  Speaker 2: ASTs away.
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  Speaker 3: Convertible fingerprints the park right about two.
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  Speaker 2: Blocks that way going to the park. We're going to
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  Speaker 2: Astra World.
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  Speaker 1: But you know, kids, I mean to when I was
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  Speaker 1: growing up, you got teased if you didn't have a daddy.
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  Speaker 2: You know, you teased if you do.
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  Speaker 6: Wow, my things have changed.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: When I got you got teased if you didn't get daddy,
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  Speaker 1: and never you tease if you do.
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  Speaker 2: Well, we're going to Disnital.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody who's dad cares about them. I'm I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: take you to your favorite movies about your father.
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  Speaker 2: It's called Missing. Oh, I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 1: It's the deal. Hugli Show. Thank you for tuning in.
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  Speaker 1: We are asking the question. Here's the scenario.
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  Speaker 4: So, my baby daddy wants to take our daughter to
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  Speaker 4: a theme part. I told him the only way that
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  Speaker 4: he can take her is if he agrees to take
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  Speaker 4: my other three kids. Now, our daughter is thirteen, and
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  Speaker 4: then I have a three year old, a six year old,
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  Speaker 4: and an eight year old. And then he responds back
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  Speaker 4: telling me that I'm just being bitter. Now I told him,
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  Speaker 4: I say, look, I don't want to have to deal
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  Speaker 4: with my other kids crying. Like when my daughter leaves
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  Speaker 4: to go with him to the theme park, my other
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  Speaker 4: three kids are going to be sitting at the house crying,
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  Speaker 4: wondering why they couldn't go too. And I just feel like,
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  Speaker 4: as a man, he should be willing to take my kids,
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  Speaker 4: my other kids. So I just want to know. Am
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  Speaker 4: I wrong?
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  Speaker 8: You know?
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  Speaker 4: Am I being bitter? Or am I being a protective mother?
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  Speaker 4: Am I wrong for not wanting my other kids to
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  Speaker 4: feel left out? Am I wrong? Am I right? Should
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  Speaker 4: I love her go? Or should I just know?
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  Speaker 2: Do you think she was right?
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  Speaker 10: Around?
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  Speaker 2: We're going right to the phones.
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  Speaker 7: I'm just over mothers. The mother's like that. They just
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  Speaker 7: give good mothers a bad rap. And I am so sorry.
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  Speaker 7: I might you know, I don't, I'm lost for words.
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  Speaker 7: I'm just I'm just, you know. We like to say, like, oh,
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  Speaker 7: deadbeat father's, deadby fathers, dead beat mothers just taking care
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  Speaker 7: of the kids too, dead beat mothers. You know you're
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  Speaker 7: taking your kill taking my kid every day. If that's
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  Speaker 7: the case, why are you messing this child up by
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  Speaker 7: doing mentally, by.
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  Speaker 11: Doing the things you're doing?
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  Speaker 7: You know, A father got to write to their child too. Okay,
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  Speaker 7: and this and you know, and another thing is, oh
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  Speaker 7: he don't pay child support, he don't get to see him.
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  Speaker 7: One thing is not tied to the other. Okay, plenty
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  Speaker 7: of days my children's father did not pay child support.
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  Speaker 7: Did you think I'm gonna sit here and say you
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  Speaker 7: can't see your kids?
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  Speaker 6: No?
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  Speaker 7: When there his girlfriend would come on the weekends and ah,
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  Speaker 7: we come to get you know, this one and that one,
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  Speaker 7: no problem. As long as my kids know that you
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  Speaker 7: ain't hurting them, I don't have a problem with that.
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  Speaker 7: But some of these mothers are third They are just
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  Speaker 7: I know I'm get in trouble for saying this, but
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  Speaker 7: some of them.
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  Speaker 10: Should have been sterilized right off top.
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  Speaker 7: They don't deserve to be mothers.
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  Speaker 12: If there's not my seed, why am I taking care
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  Speaker 12: of it? And you are not going to put conditions
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  Speaker 12: on me supporting my child on your still and saying
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  Speaker 12: you got go force me to take care of somebody
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  Speaker 12: else's sea. Bottom line, I cannot do it. If I
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  Speaker 12: want to take care of that sea, then I will
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  Speaker 12: take care of that sea. But you're not gonna do
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  Speaker 12: that to me. That's my daughter You're not gonna put
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  Speaker 12: conditions on me taking somebody else's child to an amusement part,
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  Speaker 12: to dinner or whatever, unless I want to tell her
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  Speaker 12: to go get her that child's father to take her. No,
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  Speaker 12: it's time to go see the lawyer or whatever. But
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  Speaker 12: you cannot do that. Tell somebody. Tell a man that
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  Speaker 12: he got to take another man's child just to get
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  Speaker 12: his own child. No, you can't do that, I think not.
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  Speaker 2: Why should he?
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  Speaker 13: The question was should he take the other kids that
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  Speaker 13: are not his to Disney or should he ask to
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  Speaker 13: take the child to Disney? No?
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  Speaker 11: I don't think there's his responsibility.
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  Speaker 7: I think she should contact the other whoever their dad is,
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  Speaker 7: and see if.
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  Speaker 10: They want to co parent and go to Disney with
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  Speaker 10: the other.
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  Speaker 11: Key to clarify this up all right, When a person
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  Speaker 11: has visitation rights, it means that that person may visit
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  Speaker 11: their child at the custodial parents' house. If he wants
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  Speaker 11: to leave from there, you better believe he has to
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  Speaker 11: hear off. That person has to get permission from the
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  Speaker 11: custodial parents to take them wherever they want to take her. Now,
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  Speaker 11: if that person shares joint custody with him, then he
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  Speaker 11: can take a child anyway, and he don't have to
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  Speaker 11: get permission to her and she can't say anything about it.
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  Speaker 11: So please relate that to the man.
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  Speaker 2: The question we're asking here is the scenario.
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  Speaker 4: So my baby daddy wants to take our daughter to
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  Speaker 4: a theme part. I told him the only way that
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  Speaker 4: he can take her is if he agrees to take
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  Speaker 4: my other three kids. Now, our daughter is thirteen, and
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  Speaker 4: then I have a three year old, a six year
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  Speaker 4: old and an.
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  Speaker 2: Eight year old.
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  Speaker 4: And he responds that tell him either I'm just being bitter.
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  Speaker 4: Now I told him, I say, look, I don't want
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  Speaker 4: to have to deal with my other kids crying. Like
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  Speaker 4: when my daughter leaves to go with him to the
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  Speaker 4: theme park, my other three kids are going to be
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  Speaker 4: sitting at the house crying, wondering why they couldn't go too.
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  Speaker 4: And I just feel like, as a man, he should
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  Speaker 4: be willing to take my kid, my other kids. So
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  Speaker 4: I just want to know, am I wrong?
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  Speaker 8: You know?
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  Speaker 4: Am I being bitter? Or am I being a protective mother?
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  Speaker 4: Am I wrong for not wanting my other kids to
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  Speaker 4: feel left out? Am I wrong? Am I right? Should
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  Speaker 4: I love her go or should I just know?
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  Speaker 2: Do you agree we're going to go to the phones.
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  Speaker 10: I think she wrong as hell. Those other kids are
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  Speaker 10: not even close to the age of the thirteen year old.
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  Speaker 10: Maybe for the twelve year old, I might take that
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  Speaker 10: one so she would have company. But those kids are little.
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  Speaker 10: She can take them on her own, and she's dead
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  Speaker 10: wrong for that.
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  Speaker 14: I think these moms are losing their minds. You know,
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  Speaker 14: where are the other fathers of these other kids? How
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  Speaker 14: can you tell somebody where they could take their child?
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  Speaker 14: This is their child too. How can you assume that
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  Speaker 14: I should just take pay for all these kids. These
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  Speaker 14: moms are really bugging and they really need to take
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  Speaker 14: a good look at theirselves.
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  Speaker 15: I think she lost her damn mind. I don't I
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  Speaker 15: don't understand what makes her think that she's responsible for
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  Speaker 15: the other kids that she had by probably three other guys.
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  Speaker 15: I mean, it just doesn't make sense because I wouldn't
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  Speaker 15: take them. I'm like, dam we'll go when I pick
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  Speaker 15: you up, and we'll have fun all day and we'll
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  Speaker 15: be shooting pictures to the heads on the marry go
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  Speaker 15: around and popcorny tight and candy and on the duck
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  Speaker 15: boats of every damn thing. Somebody take the other three
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  Speaker 15: key well, I can't. Willen had a dog and then
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  Speaker 15: she had a three year old at day So what
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  Speaker 15: if I take them out there in one of theirs
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  Speaker 15: and get lost, Then what who's responsible? Then you have
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  Speaker 15: to be a damn food First of all, good.
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  Speaker 16: Good afternoons to everybody, and the other is the most ridiculous.
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  Speaker 10: Thing I've ever heard.
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  Speaker 16: Is she serious?
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  Speaker 11: What does she mean take.
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  Speaker 9: My other kids?
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  Speaker 12: That that's not his responsibility.
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  Speaker 7: That she maybe should have given.
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  Speaker 16: Him the option to offer to take the other children
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  Speaker 16: or even ask him, like if I paid.
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  Speaker 10: For them to go, would you take me willing to
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  Speaker 10: take them?
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  Speaker 16: I mean, you put an extra responsibility on him, number
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  Speaker 16: one to watch your other children, and number two, he's
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  Speaker 16: not obligated to do take those take the other children
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  Speaker 16: to adventure part I just don't understand, Like, no, no.
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  Speaker 8: She's dead wrong.
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  Speaker 10: That has nothing to do with that man.
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  Speaker 8: She's the one that had children by several different fathers,
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  Speaker 8: So I think that is the like do just said
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  Speaker 8: a teachable lesson to her. The joke's on you, not
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  Speaker 8: on that man.
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  Speaker 13: That's her fault that she got kids by different baby daddies.
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  Speaker 13: He's entitled to the one that he got with her
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  Speaker 13: and no more, no less. Yeah, no, I see the
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  Speaker 13: kids might sell some type of way, but she need
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  Speaker 13: to explain that. I mean, I can see if you
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  Speaker 13: wanted to even take one extra kid, but you're asking
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  Speaker 13: this man take three.
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  Speaker 8: Kids pluses what you gonna give him the money.
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  Speaker 13: To take them? Times's tight right now. He's tied up
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  Speaker 13: to spend time with his child and he don't have
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  Speaker 13: to do nothing with the rest of them.
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  Speaker 8: It'd be deffinite.
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  Speaker 13: Who with something simple like I took the kids to
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  Speaker 13: McDonald's or something. Okay, well, bringing other kids from McDonald's
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  Speaker 13: to or but you're taking your child to the whole Disneyland. No,
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  Speaker 13: they can't go to the land too. She better figure
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  Speaker 13: out something to do with them. Let them have a
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  Speaker 13: good time while the other.
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  Speaker 2: One it's gone.
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  Speaker 13: That's her responsibility. That's what you get for having kids
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  Speaker 13: with different men.
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  Speaker 1: All right, thank you for calling in. We gotta find
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  Speaker 1: out what life is like at an HBCU. Well, this
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  Speaker 1: is his last little run for that because he.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, no, he's gonna still be on the yard till
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  Speaker 2: you get a job.
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  Speaker 3: Wait a minute, you know, yeah, he's a homeless graw.
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  Speaker 1: Months on his lead for cans.
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  Speaker 2: He's gonna reflect on those years in the yard. That
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  Speaker 2: boy Tray here last night.
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  Speaker 1: Know what life is like in an HBCU with my
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  Speaker 1: life on the yard right.
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  Speaker 12: My feet.
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  Speaker 3: I love my age, I love.
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  Speaker 2: What's good job.
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  Speaker 9: This is that boy tray back game one another episode
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  Speaker 9: of my life on the yard inside look at HBCU life.
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  Speaker 2: I am a college graduate.
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  Speaker 9: I have beaten almost every stereotype that they have for
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  Speaker 9: a man.
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  Speaker 2: That looks like me.
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  Speaker 9: I've come to a lot of realizations like that after
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  Speaker 9: walking that stage, after getting that little degree that says
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  Speaker 9: Morehouse College and Lanta Georgia on. And I'm having a
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  Speaker 9: lot of realization is about the severity of this.
• 16:02
  Speaker 5: Situation, Like I did it for real.
• 16:05
  Speaker 9: This is something that my mom and dad have been
• 16:07
  Speaker 9: talking to me about since I was a little kid.
• 16:10
  Speaker 9: They were like, Oh, you're gonna go and graduate college.
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  Speaker 2: You're gonna do this, You're gonna do that. For me
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: to actually do it, it doesn't feel real.
• 16:17
  Speaker 9: Right now. I have the rest of my life to
• 16:19
  Speaker 9: look forward to, a whole bunch of stuff and more
• 16:23
  Speaker 9: House and going to college and the whole experience.
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: It's all gotten me ready for whatever's next.
• 16:30
  Speaker 17: I'm so excited for the.
• 16:31
  Speaker 9: Future in a way that I've never been before because
• 16:36
  Speaker 9: I've been molded and crafted in the fire that is.
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: More House College.
• 16:42
  Speaker 9: For as much as the positive things I could say
• 16:45
  Speaker 9: about the brotherhood and the connection that you feel like
• 16:50
  Speaker 9: not only in the AUC but countrywide as a part
• 16:54
  Speaker 9: of basically HBCU Royalty, but even the quote unquote negative
• 16:59
  Speaker 9: parts having severely underfunded programs and you know, maybe having
• 17:04
  Speaker 9: to jump through a whole bunch of hoops to get
• 17:06
  Speaker 9: in contact with that one professor you sent an email
• 17:09
  Speaker 9: to about a missing grade or something along those lines.
• 17:12
  Speaker 9: Morehouse has gotten me ready to really take that initiative
• 17:16
  Speaker 9: as a man when it comes to stuff that I
• 17:19
  Speaker 9: need to get done. Morehouse has given me the gift
• 17:22
  Speaker 9: of self realization just the kind of man that I
• 17:26
  Speaker 9: have become, and how that kind of man doesn't really
• 17:30
  Speaker 9: let a lot of stuff get in his way when
• 17:31
  Speaker 9: it comes to getting stuff that he wants.
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: And the thing is, my family knows the journey.
• 17:36
  Speaker 9: My mom knows how I called her in the middle
• 17:39
  Speaker 9: of this semester talking about I don't know if I
• 17:41
  Speaker 9: can finish.
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: This is a lot of work, and.
• 17:43
  Speaker 9: She told me Trey when you push online and things,
• 17:46
  Speaker 9: there's nothing stopping you from doing whatever you want to do.
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: And when she gave me that reaffirmation, I knew I
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: had to go out there and finish out this school stuff.
• 17:54
  Speaker 9: And that's exactly what I did.
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: And I really saw the pride.
• 17:57
  Speaker 9: On their faces to speaking both on my.
• 18:00
  Speaker 17: Parents and my grandparents for me also completed and continuing
• 18:05
  Speaker 17: this legacy as being a third generation spell House graduate.
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: Anyways, that's all I got for you all today. So
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: next time.
• 18:14
  Speaker 9: This has been that boy, Trey, and this has been
• 18:16
  Speaker 9: my life on the yard inside look at.
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: HBC right, Thank you, Trey, and congratulations on your graduations.
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  Speaker 6: Congratulations