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- 0:00Now Amanda Stills the seat let's see brought to you by JDP Electric. I
- 0:06do not care for this situation, and it's kind of like he has no
- 0:10remorse. You don't like anything, do you. I'm just I'm just frustrated
- 0:14today. No, uh, Morgan Wallen, this whole thing. Him going
- 0:18out partying at Eric Churt's bar. He's up on the rooftop. Everybody said
- 0:22he was laughing, having a good time, decided to pick up this chair
- 0:24throw it over the rooftop. We've now seen the video of this chair flying,
- 0:30landing within feet of cops, which if that would have hit somebody,
- 0:33are you kidding me? Right now? The fact that that chair did not
- 0:37even break also like a there's just so much What if somebody down there badly
- 0:43needed a seat and he was helping him. That's that's probably. I mean,
- 0:48I'm just trying to see it from every angle here. No, I
- 0:50appreciate it, but there's only one angle to look at it. This guy
- 0:53is just turning into a major punk. He has no remorse. He was
- 0:55smiling, that's all he's ever been. But he's like smiling it people,
- 0:59Well, he's getting arrested, waving as he's going away in the police officer,
- 1:03the police officer car and then the copmobile. No, no, but
- 1:11the mugshot. He's laughing. I mean, stop. I never like to
- 1:15be the guy who comments on people's mug shots. People love to do it
- 1:19on like the Form and Valley New Line. Well, thankfully, I've never
- 1:22had to smile. I'm like, well, you gotta make some kind of
- 1:26face. I don't know, to be fair, I would struggle. It'd
- 1:27be in tears. It'd be a major Kim Kardashian ugly cried tears with a
- 1:34smile. That's what I'm envisioning mine ever look like if I looked like he
- 1:37was showing up to eighth grade school pictures. I don't know. Seriously,
- 1:42I don't know that he's ever done anything I liked. I mean certainly not
- 1:45his music. I know something that's a that's a harsh critic there. I
- 1:49mean, I know he has plenty of fans and people like his music.
- 1:52I love his music. But see this is more what I mean to do.
- 2:00You know who is living Leavina Loga. This guy Ricky Martin. So
- 2:04he was on stage with Madonna during her performance. She had him come up
- 2:07and there were some male dancers that were giving him a show performance. Yes,
- 2:19and he gets very excited. The video is wild. It's so uncomfortable
- 2:23to watch. Of course it's gone viral because it's one of those you don't
- 2:28want to watch, and then you watch and you keep watching and then you're
- 2:30like, why am I watching this? Well, I gotta defend my guy
- 2:32Rick here. I feel like somebody, you know, it's like shaming that.
- 2:36What do you want him to do? If you see the video of
- 2:38what they're doing to him? There's no other option on you. I mean,
- 2:43yeah, no, it's if you've ever been to a dancing club,
- 2:46like it may be a bachelor party or something. Thank god they don't allow
- 2:50videos in there because it's just a reality, it's human nature. Well,
- 2:53and he's like judging these guys, so I think that's the part of the
- 2:55show where he's given him a ten and it's like, okay, keep the
- 2:59keep the board down, bud. Yeah, thank god he had that bored.
- 3:00It's like having a good math book back in junior high. You gotta
- 3:07have something wrapped in the brown paper. Initially I thought it was maybe just
- 3:13a collection of fabric, which does happen you know, can be misleading,
- 3:16but then it was. It was late once he stood up. It's like
- 3:20no good math book in high school is praying to God. They don't ask
- 3:25you to come up and solve the problem on the whiteboard. Pike Taylor to
- 3:30the front, please, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. All right, Matt
- 3:36Lower. Where is he? Well? Who really knows. I think he's
- 3:38been in New Hampshire. He's got a new girlfriend. I just recently saw
- 3:40pictures of that. He has been staying out of the public eye for the
- 3:46most part. I think he was golfing, doing his thing. But he
- 3:49wants back. He's ready to make a comeback. Craving attention yet again.
- 3:53Yeah, he says, and I quote, he's ready for his next act.
- 3:57He is sixty six, but he wants back into the media. He
- 4:00feels that enough time has gone by that people need to owe him an apology.
- 4:03At this point, I don't know if I agree about that statement.
- 4:08If that's angle you're gonna take, it's not going to go over very well.
- 4:11Even if you don't believe it, you got it at least just given
- 4:13apology. So weasily your way back in a different way. I'm trying to
- 4:15remember because he was accused of like certainly abusing his power, which is not
- 4:19okay, correct, But was there ever any like forced you know, like
- 4:24assault kind of thing. Correct me if I'm wrong. But isn't this and
- 4:28I watch this is where I'm getting confused the real Matt lower story and watching
- 4:32the Morning Show? Was there a moment that he had an office that had
- 4:36like a lock underneath his desk? Yeah, And he had that locked because
- 4:41there were interns that were coming in And I think there was some misconduct there
- 4:45And I don't think it was like underage or anything, but I just think
- 4:46it was abuse of power and then maybe they didn't want it because it was
- 4:50them making them feeling like, hey, if I do this, I can
- 4:54work my way to the top. It's a sticky one. Didn't he also
- 4:56have a button under his desk so when somebody was standing there he didn't like,
- 4:59the flora opened up and they fell through and then didn't slime come out
- 5:01of it? Yeah? I'm pretty that was then, like it Amanda in
- 5:04the Morning, Big Nutty eight point seven. The judgment zone's where we're at
- 5:10right now, and it's where we get a little judgie. We judge people's
- 5:13situations because they're simply asking us to Amanda. So would love to hear your
- 5:16feedback. Seven on one two eight oh one ninety eight seven. Guy's name
- 5:19is Mike Brave soul is Mike for sharing the situation on the year with us.
- 5:25Got him on the phone right now, Mike, tell us what's going
- 5:27on. So I have a co worker. We've been working together for a
- 5:30couple of years, and I've I've liked her for a couple of years.
- 5:34Right, Okay, she never gives me the time of day. I you
- 5:41know, I tried asking her out. It just didn't all work. Right,
- 5:44Oh wow, so you were allen. You even asked her out and
- 5:46she kind of just said, nah, we're good. Yeah, she was
- 5:49just like, you know, she was just you know. But and then
- 5:54I recently I got to a relationship and we've been together, like, you
- 6:00know, six months, and now this coworker is trying to talk to me.
- 6:05I'll come on and exactly, and you're with somebody I'm assuming yeah she
- 6:14does. Oh, like we've been together first, like I said, you
- 6:16know, we've been together for six months, and you know, I like
- 6:19her, you know, but I really liked this other girl too, And
- 6:26it's just tough, Like I really just don't know what to do. That's
- 6:29a tough one, dude. So, like you said, two years,
- 6:31you've been sitting here, probably just dreaming and fantasizing about this crush you have,
- 6:35and those are feelings that are kind of hard to let go, despite
- 6:38how you may feel about this new person. So but either way, yeah,
- 6:42I don't know. There's a part of me and I'm guessing this is
- 6:44where your hesitation is. If she didn't give you the time of day before,
- 6:46what would like why now all of a sudden, she's obviously been playing
- 6:50hard to get and you called her on her bluff and now she's like,
- 6:53who wha wha wait. So that's the vibe I'm getting. You just feel
- 6:56kind of icky, I imagine, giving the situation you're in your relationship.
- 7:00Ye, well perfect, okay, that's yeah, that's that's why we're here,
- 7:01Mike. So what we're gonna do, We're gonna discuss. We're gonna
- 7:04open it up, get some phone calls, get some text going, and
- 7:08see what people think, and hopefully we can kind of help you come to
- 7:10a conclusion that makes sense. Okay, all right, awesome, right seven
- 7:13on one two eightoh one ninety eight seven text or call? What you think
- 7:16Mike should do with this situation? Good morning? Who's this? This is
- 7:19Mark? All right? Mark? What do we think? I think the
- 7:21guys that oh my god, seriously, you didn't ask for this. Yeah,
- 7:29but he's dating the girl. Do not do that to the second girl.
- 7:32The first girl can slam it. To be fair, he hasn't done
- 7:35it yet. He's just thinking about it, feeling it out. I just
- 7:39got a message here, And what do you think about this text message?
- 7:42This girl says her ego might have gotten hurt, and she's just saying she's
- 7:46interested. I'm kind of feeling that too. I don't think she really likes
- 7:48it. Yeah, I don't think she's interested at all. I think he's
- 7:51got to protect himself and walk just let it go. He's been with the
- 7:55other girl for six months. Yeah, it's not like there's a new new
- 7:58thing. Mark. Sound advice. Always appreciate the call. I take another
- 8:01one here, Big ninety two point seven, Good morning. What do you
- 8:03think people want to always be it from the other side that they're not there
- 8:09yet and that they just always want what they can't have, So you need
- 8:13to just yeah, you need to ignore this crush and focus on your current
- 8:18relationship. I mean, if it's meant to be, it will it'll be
- 8:22like eventually, like let this play out. And yeah, I'm not feeling
- 8:24good about him going back to this situation. I feel like she's kind of
- 8:28truly toying with him. It's one of the things where you hear about it
- 8:31all the time that people you know, they've always had feelings, but they
- 8:33just the timeline never really worked out, they never connected, and they regret
- 8:37it. So that's just that's my only concern. I don't want that.
- 8:39I don't want that for this guy. But thank you for the call.
- 8:41Appreciate you, Thank you. I think I have the perfect analogy for what
- 8:46this other girl is going through. I am here for it. It's kind
- 8:50of like you remember when you were a kid and there could be let's say
- 8:52you and your friend are hanging out and your friend has a pogo stick,
- 8:56and that pogo stick is in the corner of the room. You guys that
- 8:58the one that you jump on with two feet and go all the way around.
- 9:01Is that it didn't think I'd have to explain a pogo stick, but
- 9:05yes, that I get that makes it seems seems to be what you're describing
- 9:07with other sticks, So continue. It could just be in the corner of
- 9:11the room. Nobody wants to play with it until one friend grabs a pogo
- 9:16stick and starts jumping. Now, suddenly I am overwhelmed with the urge to
- 9:20be jumping on that pogo stick. So the second he starts, I go,
- 9:22oh, can I get a turn? Can I go? Can I
- 9:24go? I think that's what's going on with this girl. He wasn't that
- 9:28interesting stick. She saw somebody else on the pogo stick, and now she
- 9:33wants to turn. Does that make perfect sense? Or am my crazy?
- 9:37So I think I'm picking up what you're putting down. There's no way to
- 9:41like really find out if she's into you without being nasty to the girl you're
- 9:43dating. And that's what I don't like. I say, you just not
- 9:46nasty. It's just honest, you know. And like I said, there's
- 9:50no contractual, legal agreement. You can break up with somebody for whatever the
- 9:54reason you want. Yeah, it's gonna hurt their feelings, but breakups are
- 9:56always going to be hard no matter what. So you think that he needs
- 9:58to go this girl and be like, are you ready to jump on the
- 10:01pogo stick? Listen that she would suggests if she wants to turn. I
- 10:07just think it's hard to say exactly how he feels, but maybe truly,
- 10:11like, was really in love with this girl? You know, this could
- 10:13be some sweet, sweet redemption, that could be a great love story,
- 10:16but I don't feel like there was any love involved. It's a coworker you
- 10:18hung out with. You think she's hot, and she might be cool,
- 10:20but you've really never hung out with her, so you don't know, don't
- 10:24know, you don't know, And that is the point. One more call
- 10:28here. Please don't swear or we'll get fired. Maybe that's what you're after,
- 10:31But big ninety a point seven, who's this? This is Erica?
- 10:33Okay, Erica, what do you think? Well, here's the deal.
- 10:37If he's to give up on this girl that he's currently dating for somebody else,
- 10:43who's to say that that girl is going to even respect him, because
- 10:46hey, he gave up on the relationship he had just for her. She
- 10:50seems to be chasing her tail and wanting something she can't have, But in
- 10:54the long run, is she going to do the same thing to somebody else.
- 10:58I mean, Erica, you've probably seen it too. But people do
- 11:01get together in adulterous situations and it's like, okay, now you're together,
- 11:05But who's to say that you're not going to do to each other? You
- 11:07know, it's one of those deals. The foundation is built on already rocky
- 11:11growth. So I think what somebody said earlier was what might ultimately happen here,
- 11:16is this dude's going to just end up alone. Yeah. I don't
- 11:18know if either of these girls are going to be the answer. No,
- 11:22because if he's thinking about the other girls that he missed at work, then
- 11:26obviously this one that he's with is not the one either. That's brilliant.
- 11:28Appreciate you, Eric, thanks for keeping it clean too. We appreciate it'sky
- 11:33business going on here. All right, final judgment, Just move on from
- 11:37this old coworker and just stay with the one you got. You got a
- 11:39good thing going. Yep, you down. I'm all about that, all
- 11:43right. We're trending. Now, here's what you need to know. Yukon
- 11:48plinched second consecutive nc double A men's basketball championship last night, beating Produced seventy
- 11:52five to sixty Yukon became just the eight team in NC double A men's basketball
- 11:58history to win back to back national championship. Still amazing to me. I
- 12:01mean usually we're all about it watching all the guys games or in March madness,
- 12:05but I was way more into the women this year. Even last night.
- 12:09Didn't even my husband's like we got to go in and watch the game.
- 12:11I'm like, oh the game, what are you talking about? And
- 12:15Clark already lost? Honey. Yeah. No, I definitely was more interested
- 12:18in the women's side, not that I watched any of it. I wouldn't
- 12:22go that far. Still, perhaps to Yukon. Obviously they're super successful,
- 12:24great team, all of that, but yeah, just the interest wasn't there
- 12:28for me as much as the storyline with the ladies. Yeah, And I
- 12:31feel better about it now because I know had I filed a bracket out,
- 12:33I wouldn't have picked Yukon. I just know I wouldn't have and so I
- 12:37would have lost money. So what a sound decision on my part. Way
- 12:39to go, thank you. And of course the eclipse was yesterday. Few
- 12:46people had some really good pictures. Others well lived in Fargo and it was
- 12:50rainy. Claudie and you didn't even get a glimpse. But a couple of
- 12:54hours before the Cleveland Guardians game. They had their home opener yesterday, and
- 12:58there were people in the stands that I got to feel it and watch it
- 13:01because it cooled down and I was watching some of these tiktoks and reels.
- 13:05It was awesome to see it. I'm almost kind of like a movie as
- 13:09it just like got really dark, and I mean the cloud everything just looked
- 13:11perfect. It was really so real. I bet I had one social media
- 13:16friends say that their eyesight is damaged. Oh yeah, yeah, it took
- 13:20too many peaks. Are you just saying that? No? I saw that.
- 13:22I don't know. They were just looking for attention. Probably probably the
- 13:26case. I did what everybody else on social media did yesterday. I was
- 13:28not making I can't contact with other people. Oh nice, that was That
- 13:33was the big goofy yesterday meme going around. I will say this, so
- 13:35I wasn't really all. I didn't get the hype. You know, four
- 13:39minutes without sunlight, Kid Rock went three damn days without seeing the sunshine,
- 13:45So it's not even that impression. How long have you been waiting to say
- 13:50that? How long? How long, I've been waiting to be fair,
- 13:54I did just think of saying it now that it was from a meme that
- 13:56people are shore. Oh got it, Okay, I gotcha. I we
- 14:00will not take credit for that. Well, this is pretty cool. We
- 14:01know downtown is being transformed. We were just talking about that outdoor music venue
- 14:05that they had passed. Well, I had forgotten all about this whole project.
- 14:09Now, the groundbreaking is set for the sixty million dollar plus housing,
- 14:13parking theater complex. This is downtown, six hundred block of NP Avenue.
- 14:16This is behind the ob and this is going to be put on the Killboorn
- 14:20group in city officials. They're gonna start creating this parking garage that'll be done
- 14:24in twenty twenty five, and then of course there's gonna be apartments. But
- 14:28then they're gonna have an arts and entertainment area from FMCT with some like encompassing
- 14:33classes that are going to go in there, and then also commercial building on
- 14:37the bottom. I love that's gonna be pretty awesome. Meanwhile, the Pickled
- 14:39Parrot sits vacant. Just open it up, you cowards. I mean,
- 14:45they love you. Guys. You're in your band, have you thought about
- 14:48investing and just making it like, oh my gosh, what you know?
- 14:52How like in Vegas they have well residence, just the promotion. He didn't
- 14:58want Church's Chief's bar after Morgan walling through the chair, But they have kid
- 15:03Rocks bar all of those. Are you picking up what I'm putting down?
- 15:07I think Low Standard should reopen the Pickled Parrot and be their bar. It'd
- 15:11be low standards and low because low underneath the ground because you have to walk
- 15:16it is down the stairs. I like that, But then I mean then
- 15:18you thirty two below? Might who else? Trip Wire might want a bar?
- 15:22Now? Somebody said the Pickled Parrot is going for like I want to
- 15:24say, they're asking like one point five million, So might need some investors.
- 15:30Yeah, yeah, we gotta get a large group together, got it?
- 15:33That would be great. Just I love the idea. I mean,
- 15:35it's a good contest. Today, I'm gonna be sunny, high of sixty
- 15:39three. Tomorrow we could bump up to seventy maybe some thunderstorms and some rain
- 15:43showers through Thursday. Your weekend, though, Pike, you got a tea
- 15:46time ready to go? You know, I was talking to my buddy.
- 15:48I was so excited to make one. But of course I I've got some
- 15:52things happening Friday, Saturday and Sunday. Now I might I think Saturday afternoon
- 15:56we're gonna say, maybe get a little nine holes in because it's supposed to
- 15:58be seventy five. God, it looks amazing. I know. Let me
- 16:03get the wind. I mean as of now about twenty five miles. Is
- 16:07it late weekend time now or what I'm actually doing? A girl's weekend?
- 16:10Oh you are, yeah, going to the cities. Oh, that'll be
- 16:12fun. It's always fun just walking around the cities when it's nice out,
- 16:15really a lovely place. We haven't gone, or I personally have not gone
- 16:18to the cities. I don't think since Nick and I have even been together.
- 16:22So it's been probably seven years years. Nothing's changed. Don't worry.
- 16:26Minneapolis is fine. Enjoy yourself. Oh god, and Amanda in the morning
- 16:34on Big seven. A lot of people out there over sharing on social media.
- 16:40It's been the cases the beginning of time. Yeah, you know,
- 16:42some said Abe Lincoln was a big oversharer on his Facebook. Yeah, but
- 16:48an expert, a marketing agency expert over at pepper Monkey Media. Oh stop
- 16:53it. Pepper Monkey Media marketing agencies. You gotta be real, kind of
- 16:57random and closed. I kind of like that. Oh, I mean it's
- 17:00something it stuck out, It stuck got our attention. So he's warned you
- 17:03about the certain things you should never be posting online. Okay, like,
- 17:07for example, number one being your romantic situation. Oh well, I feel
- 17:12like if you're married and have kids, that's a little different. I think
- 17:15that's where the line is. But you see a lot of people who just
- 17:18seem to be in a lot of different relationships. And it's really for your
- 17:22own sake because people are gonna start to talk. They're gonna ask you a
- 17:25lot of questions, Oh what happened to Dale? You guys were just you
- 17:27know, traveling, and he was in all your photos and now he's nowhere
- 17:30to be seen. Yeah on again, off again, or yeah I didn't
- 17:33even know Dale, but I felt like I did and now he's gone.
- 17:37What happened? Wasn't Dale the best guy ever? I'm so confused. Just
- 17:42a month ago, you were so lucky that this man came into your life.
- 17:45Number two would be your night life. So stay away from posting about
- 17:48you know, the parties, your you know, the drinking habits you might
- 17:52have possible drug use. Definitely stay away from that absolutely. I mean depending
- 17:57on your career and what kind of you know, like if you're going to
- 18:02a nice social event, probably okay. But if it's like you, you
- 18:06know, doing keg stands and taking you know, yeah, like the videos
- 18:10shot. I know, when you're on vacation. It's one thing, but
- 18:12it is tempting if you're going to take a shot on vacation to do a
- 18:15little video of it or something. But most of the concern here is for
- 18:18employers or future employers. Yeah, they're going to comb your social media.
- 18:22It's not like it was back in the day when we were going to the
- 18:23old Broadway for penny taps and stacking the cups as high as we could to
- 18:29show how many beers we had drank. Just even just anything in your college
- 18:33years, your location, because of course, you know, and I've never
- 18:37like if you're going to a live event, I've never failed a concern.
- 18:40Now I'm not a woman, which I know there might be some different concerns
- 18:42stocking and things like that, but generally I'm not too concerned. I remember
- 18:47when it was cool to like check in places all the time. And that
- 18:51was like what I met the gas station. I mean, people were so
- 18:53ridiculous with no context, no no caption at all. It's just I'm at
- 18:57the post office speaking of live events. Don't post your tickets people. A
- 19:00lot of times, I know you're real excited you finally got through the waiting
- 19:03room on Ticketmaster and you scored those tickets. Don't be posting them because it's
- 19:08can be very easy for hackers and thieves, isn't that wild. I did
- 19:12not realize that until must have been like three years ago. I think we
- 19:15were doing a ticket giveaway and we had posted them and somebody's like, take
- 19:18those down. I'm like, oh my god. Traveling to festivals and they
- 19:25get there and they scan your ticket and it comes up as invalid. I
- 19:27mean imagine that that would be heartbreaking. And finally, don't post your intimate
- 19:32photos. I mean, I know it's tempting. I'm sorry, but do
- 19:36you have intimate photos compromising photo? I wonder what the most intimate photo I
- 19:40have is. It's not very intimate. I'll tell you that I took them
- 19:42before picture a few weeks ago. Oh, I've got a couple of before
- 19:48and afters, and I mean doing great, but yeah it do an after
- 19:51good for you? Yeah, got the after, but I am also you
- 19:55know those are just you know you want to see it. Yeah, it's
- 19:57me topless from every angle. I'm not gonna show you, you kidding,
- 20:02not till I got an after. You don't just show somebody your before photo.
- 20:04Folks, we are going to have to put this get you before photos
- 20:10I've taken never to be had in after photo? Is what's the d day?
- 20:15For the after? And you've got it forget date? But if you
- 20:18like, do you prematurely post the after if you feel like you're rolling and
- 20:22if you wait another month or two, it might be after after. It's
- 20:25only getting better a minute in the morning. On Big Nuddy eight point seven.
- 20:33First time parent, you remember the first time you had your baby?
- 20:34You know, people feel like they always they always have to say something to
- 20:38you. Oh gosh, yes, wait when it comes to the advice,
- 20:41and sometimes it's helpful and sometimes it's not. And parents have been sharing the
- 20:45toxic comments they received as first time parents. You will see if you ever
- 20:49heard any of these sounds good. For example, enjoy every minute. Somebody
- 20:53said that this was unhelpful. It was unrealistic and invalidating, which to me
- 20:59feels like at his fine advice, isn't it enjoy every minute? Yeah?
- 21:03No, I think that's awesome because I and I get it because when you
- 21:06first have your baby, I was lucky, Like for me, I didn't
- 21:10have a lot of issues and stuff like that. A lot of women who
- 21:12are breastfeeding go through some of the issues like mass died. I mean,
- 21:15there's a lot of things where it's like, oh my gosh, I'm not
- 21:18enjoying any of this or if honest, Yeah, I mean, and it's
- 21:21also now you have to keep a human alive. So anything anybody's going to
- 21:25tell you because of lack of sleep, all of it, you're just gonna
- 21:27maybe be a little irritated, but no, enjoy every moment of well sure.
- 21:30Also this person said that somebody said you shouldn't hold him so much,
- 21:34talking about that you born just let him cry it out. I mean,
- 21:38that's a tough one. You hear people say that. Yeah, we did
- 21:41not do a lot of those things. We held our baby. We did
- 21:45more co sleeping than we probably should have to be sleeping. Yes, So
- 21:51there are people though, who if the baby's crying in their crib. They're
- 21:53just gonna let it run like cry itself to sleep and you're just a okay
- 21:57with that and there's nothing wrong with that. Every but he has different ways
- 22:00of parenting. That's uh heck, I do it every night, cry crib
- 22:07myself to sleep and I'm fine. Yeah, totally. Also the comment that
- 22:11you might receive sleep when the baby sleeps, don't forget to take some time
- 22:15for yourself. I love when people say that, but I was the opposite.
- 22:18That was when I got things done because when the baby was awake,
- 22:22I absolutely loved holding the baby and being like, those are just those moments
- 22:27and again it goes so fast. Yeah, well that kind of goes along
- 22:30with them. As far as getting the rest, somebody said when they returned
- 22:33from their maternity leave. A coworker made the comment, you must be well
- 22:37rested coming back from vacation rights you even how do you not just go bam
- 22:51bam bam po four months off? What E been up to you? Travel
- 22:53a bit? Did you get some U time? So it wasn't. I
- 22:57mean, there's god to be let's be honest. Maternity leave, there's got
- 23:02to be some points where you're just kind of chilling right, of course,
- 23:03one hundred percent. You're enjoying every moment. And again, I got really
- 23:08lucky I didn't have to have a sea section. So there's like if a
- 23:12woman goes through having a baby and then ends up having a sea section on
- 23:19top of it, it's like, you have all of this healing, and
- 23:22then if you're trying to breastfeed and now you have a baby trying to feed
- 23:25off of you, and then you're trying to sleep and go through all this
- 23:29and like have a life. There is not enough time to get used to
- 23:33all of that. That's a lot going on, for sure. And then
- 23:34finally, toxic comments. That's a lot, ma'am. That's a lot that's
- 23:40going on. Finally, the toxic comment first time parents received it takes a
- 23:44village. I don't feel like that's a toxic comment at all. I feel
- 23:47like that's no, it does take a village. And I appreciate every single
- 23:51person who is offering to help. It's let's just say a village helps.
- 23:55Because this person's point is that not everyone has one. It shouldn't just be
- 23:59assumed that we all have the luxury of these friends and family to support us,
- 24:03not to mention friends and family. The key here being that you would
- 24:07trust with your baby like Amanda in the morning. Come on, get up
- 24:11on, big. I don't mean to make a light of people's unfortunate situations,
- 24:17but this man has quite the tail I want to tell. Okay,
- 24:19okay, So it all started when the man will call him mister Davis was
- 24:25pulled over. Now he is riding with his cat, his cat, Oliver,
- 24:30who he claims is his emotional support cat in the vehicle. Okay,
- 24:34now, I'll let that slide. It's not bizarre. It's unclear what traffic
- 24:37violations he was being pulled over for, but he was committing some sort of
- 24:41traffic crime, got it. And so while being pulled over, Oliver the
- 24:45cat snuck right on out of that vehicle missing. Oh no, So now
- 24:53mister Davis has to appear in court for said traffic violations. Still not able
- 24:59to find where all of So his response to that that cat's good nattled that
- 25:04chancy got so, mister Davis shows up to court completely naked. Now why
- 25:10would you do something like that? That's a good question. Now police say
- 25:14that he had closed and they tried to get him to put the clothes on,
- 25:18but he refused, so he showed up to the courtroom with his hands
- 25:22covering his private parts. Well that's good, at least he was modest about.
- 25:26That didn't last very long because as soon as it was time to argue
- 25:29the case, his hands were a flailing Oh everything was out a big hand
- 25:33talker, big hand talk. I get that. I'm that way too.
- 25:37So the judge asked, why the heck are you naked, and he said
- 25:41he was stripped down forcibly stripped, to which the uh the what do you
- 25:47call him? Judge? Now the other guy, the bailiff. Bailiff said
- 25:51no, no, ma'am, he was not stripped. He had closed.
- 25:53He just refused to put them on. So then it was that point he
- 25:56started going into a tirade about how his cat, Oliver, who normally would
- 26:00come to court with him, was missing. He then called the police scum.
- 26:04The judge did say, for her part, said okay, we're gonna
- 26:07look into where your cat is. Also, she said there is bail here
- 26:11that has been set and it doesn't appear you've brought your wallet, which is
- 26:15a funny little goof the judge. And you never know, I would wouldn't
- 26:18put it past him. You never know where that wallet could have been.
- 26:22Where would you think only one spot I would imagine swallowed it. Definitely,
- 26:27definitely swallowed her