Latest / Brief Recess: A Legal Podcast with Michael Foote & Mélissa Malebranche / Knicks, Knockouts, and Congressional Callouts (w. NY-12 candidate Laura Dunn)
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- 0:06Speaker 1: Welcome to Brief Recess. I'm Michael Foote.
- 0:08Speaker 2: I'm a listen albranch.
- 0:09Speaker 1: Today we're going to talk about the Knicks one and
- 0:11Speaker 1: NYC went straight to jail. Things that make us cry,
- 0:15Speaker 1: Haiti in the World Cup and in the customs line
- 0:18Speaker 1: at the airport, the UFC fight on the front lawn
- 0:22Speaker 1: of the Way, secret situation room recording regarding the Epstein files. Whoops,
- 0:28Speaker 1: wasn't me? We have an interview with the New York
- 0:31Speaker 1: twelve district congressional candidate Laura Dunn, and we're going to
- 0:35Speaker 1: answer all your questions from the DMS and read all
- 0:37Speaker 1: the wild reviews you leave. So stick around every time.
- 0:43Speaker 1: Every time I eat a croissant, it's it's Russian roulette
- 0:45Speaker 1: on where the crumbs are going to go?
- 0:47Speaker 2: Well, I will tell you if you had, I know.
- 0:49Speaker 1: You would, but you're not always around.
- 0:52Speaker 2: I'm not always unfortunately for you. How are you friends?
- 0:56Speaker 2: How you been?
- 0:57Speaker 1: I don't know if you heard? But the next one, no,
- 1:03Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 1:03Speaker 2: Are you sure?
- 1:04Speaker 1: I don't know if you saw the sixty three people
- 1:06Speaker 1: who got arrested and the ten people who got shot
- 1:08Speaker 1: and the guy who was standing on a bus railing lines.
- 1:12Speaker 2: Your neighbor Chris just hoovering up the cooke. He was
- 1:17Speaker 2: so excited.
- 1:19Speaker 1: I don't know if you saw this town painted ballow
- 1:23Speaker 1: An orange.
- 1:24Speaker 2: So I will tell you my brother lost his fucking mind.
- 1:30Speaker 2: I'm sure I have a clip. I've asked him for
- 1:33Speaker 2: permission to show it. He said, yes, he looks crazy.
- 1:40Speaker 2: I have never seen him this way, and his feeling
- 1:43Speaker 2: is that, you know, yeah, born in britt New Yorker.
- 1:47Speaker 2: None of his teams ever win. He's a big Mets fan,
- 1:50Speaker 2: a big Knicks fan, and they never win. So this
- 1:53Speaker 2: was yeah, so the baby's all outfitted in Nicks for.
- 1:58Speaker 1: The straight people who are always like, I don't get
- 2:00Speaker 1: why you guys need a pride parade. DM me from
- 2:03Speaker 1: that parade on Thursday when this episode drops, because that's
- 2:07Speaker 1: your straight pride parade. Okay, that's what you got. And
- 2:10Speaker 1: you know it's so important to straight people this next thing.
- 2:12Speaker 1: And I'm going to prove it to you really quick.
- 2:14Speaker 2: CJ.
- 2:15Speaker 1: How many years has it been?
- 2:17Speaker 3: Thank you?
- 2:18Speaker 1: Thank you? That's how important it is. First eight people,
- 2:21Speaker 1: they know they did Marsha P. Johnson. That's what I
- 2:25Speaker 1: know in fifty three years is what they know. This
- 2:27Speaker 1: is their pride.
- 2:28Speaker 2: I mean as somebody who is not a sporty person,
- 2:34Speaker 2: even though I said old options in my Haitian World
- 2:39Speaker 2: Cup jersey. But but I was, like I told Michael,
- 2:43Speaker 2: I was away with some friends over the weekend. I
- 2:46Speaker 2: was scrap booking and there was a there was a
- 2:49Speaker 2: bar in our hotel and we went down and I
- 2:52Speaker 2: watched the last fifteen minutes and it was very exciting. Yes,
- 2:56Speaker 2: it was exciting, and I'm very happy for the people
- 2:59Speaker 2: who are are happy, like my brother and CJ, who
- 3:02Speaker 2: told us that he collapsed on the floor in his
- 3:05Speaker 2: living room and cried.
- 3:07Speaker 1: I was planking in his own home. Thought they lost
- 3:10Speaker 1: because I was crying. CJ, Are you like a cryer?
- 3:15Speaker 1: Do you cry? Often? Only when my team hasn't want
- 3:21Speaker 1: because some because some people are like criers, they'll cry
- 3:24Speaker 1: like all the time. Brad cried when Pikachu left Ash
- 3:27Speaker 1: and that was it, and like then I know what
- 3:30Speaker 1: that means. Yeah, it's a Pokemon thing. When he was
- 3:33Speaker 1: a kid, he cried when Pikachu left Ash. She was
- 3:35Speaker 1: a child and that was it. What do you mean
- 3:37Speaker 1: It's like hasn't been since he hasn't cried. I think
- 3:40Speaker 1: maybe when his grandparents died and it really he's not
- 3:42Speaker 1: a crier?
- 3:43Speaker 2: Are you a crier? Oh?
- 3:44Speaker 1: My god? All the time? All the time for just
- 3:48Speaker 1: no reason? Sometimes okay, and I love it. I really
- 3:50Speaker 1: am like.
- 3:51Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, it's fine. I just I I
- 3:54Speaker 2: definitely don't cry as much as I used to.
- 3:59Speaker 1: Yeah, when I'm a set or frustrated or excited or happy.
- 4:02Speaker 1: It's just like how my body expresses an intense emotion. Okay,
- 4:06Speaker 1: So like I'll be crying because I'm just like this
- 4:09Speaker 1: is the coolest thing ever, not because of any distress.
- 4:14Speaker 1: So people oftentimes misinterpret my tears. It's like this person's not.
- 4:17Speaker 2: Okay, I can't. I'm trying to remember, like, yeah, I
- 4:20Speaker 2: do cry, but I don't feel like I cry all
- 4:22Speaker 2: the time. However, the other day, I'm.
- 4:24Speaker 1: Trying to think of a time when I saw you cry.
- 4:26Speaker 2: Oh no, you can't do my dad's wake I was crying.
- 4:28Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, I'm trying to think. I don't think
- 4:31Speaker 2: i've cried. Really, does I stuffed the feelings down?
- 4:38Speaker 1: Just raise catholic.
- 4:40Speaker 2: I'm Catholic, I'm patient. I stuff the feelings down, That's
- 4:44Speaker 2: what it is.
- 4:46Speaker 1: Let's get into a sidebar on grief, please perceed.
- 4:49Speaker 2: This is not grief, though, the other day, so Haiti
- 4:53Speaker 2: has not been in the World Cup since nineteen seventy three,
- 4:57Speaker 2: I think, and again I don't really care about sports,
- 5:02Speaker 2: but I care about this. This is about pride point
- 5:04Speaker 2: oh for sure, for sure, for sure, and we need this,
- 5:08Speaker 2: we need we need some good and this is a
- 5:11Speaker 2: very good thing. And I also know if my dad
- 5:15Speaker 2: was alive, he would lose his mind, right, thank you.
- 5:21Speaker 2: And so the other day they were playing Scotland and
- 5:25Speaker 2: I got weepy when they were playing the national anthem,
- 5:29Speaker 2: the Haitian national anthem, which I had practiced, and now
- 5:31Speaker 2: I know. And it's hard, it's hard. It's a very well.
- 5:37Speaker 2: My French is not sad, very French. My French is
- 5:39Speaker 2: not that good.
- 5:40Speaker 1: I imagine it's in French.
- 5:42Speaker 2: It's in French.
- 5:42Speaker 1: I'm gonna go out on a limit. It's probably in French.
- 5:44Speaker 2: It's in French. There is also a creole version. And
- 5:47Speaker 2: when I was saying to my mom, I'm like, I
- 5:49Speaker 2: don't I don't know this, and she was like annoyed
- 5:51Speaker 2: with me, She's like, why don't you know it? I'm like,
- 5:52Speaker 2: did you teach me why I know the punge of
- 5:57Speaker 2: allegiance in America, but I didn't, so she was annoyed
- 6:01Speaker 2: with me. But now I know it.
- 6:03Speaker 1: My mom is always horrified if I tell her that
- 6:05Speaker 1: I got like a parking ticket and didn't pay it immediately.
- 6:08Speaker 2: I always forget to pay my parking tickets. Come knocking
- 6:11Speaker 2: on my door, they send me, they send me, and
- 6:14Speaker 2: I keep on saying, oh, I have to remember to
- 6:16Speaker 2: pay it, and then I put it to the side.
- 6:20Speaker 2: It's a bright orange envelope. Well that's when I that's
- 6:23Speaker 2: when I really pay it. I'm like, oh wait, it's
- 6:25Speaker 2: the orange envelope is here.
- 6:26Speaker 1: I'm always like, how bad does it have to get
- 6:28Speaker 1: in New York City for them to come drag me away?
- 6:31Speaker 2: They're made, They've They've reached out to me. Hey, Melissa,
- 6:35Speaker 2: we know they say things like we know sometimes we
- 6:38Speaker 2: get busy.
- 6:40Speaker 1: Hey girl, you up, what are you doing? I had
- 6:46Speaker 1: a neighbor in my old building downstairs from Chris was
- 6:52Speaker 1: this hilarious Polish woman who I won't say her name,
- 6:56Speaker 1: but it's like a very Polish name, Megda.
- 6:58Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 6:59Speaker 1: Yeah, I got it close to Magda.
- 7:01Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 7:02Speaker 1: But she always this is someone did I tell you
- 7:04Speaker 1: her cat was like attacking people.
- 7:05Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, I remember. Oh my god.
- 7:09Speaker 1: I don't know if we told this story on the show.
- 7:10Speaker 1: But basically, there was this this other older woman in
- 7:13Speaker 1: the and her home health aid. I ran into her
- 7:16Speaker 1: on the street and I was like, how you doing
- 7:18Speaker 1: and she was like, oh, I don't go to that
- 7:19Speaker 1: building anymore because Magda's cat attacked me. And she lifted
- 7:24Speaker 1: up her skirt on the street and her legs it
- 7:27Speaker 1: looked like Freddy Krueger gouch mar.
- 7:31Speaker 2: It was like shaving her legs.
- 7:33Speaker 1: So anyway, the people came and booted Magda's car once
- 7:38Speaker 1: right in front of the building, and I asked her.
- 7:40Speaker 1: I was like, wow, they booted your car. She's like, yeah,
- 7:42Speaker 1: they do it if you have over five hundred dollars
- 7:45Speaker 1: in parking tickets.
- 7:46Speaker 2: Okay, I've never gotten there.
- 7:47Speaker 1: I was like, damn girl.
- 7:49Speaker 2: CJJ raised his hand, Wow, really is it? Are you forgetting?
- 7:54Speaker 1: Or I was in college in the Bronx.
- 7:56Speaker 2: Oh that doesn't count. It doesn't count.
- 7:57Speaker 1: My car actually got towed, and I thought stolen. If
- 8:01Speaker 1: someone tows my carm, like keep it, keep it.
- 8:05Speaker 2: I wouldn't do that.
- 8:06Speaker 1: I would I would be like I'm going to leave
- 8:07Speaker 1: it there for a couple of weeks so I don't
- 8:09Speaker 1: get parking tickets, and then.
- 8:10Speaker 2: They charge you. They charge you per day.
- 8:13Speaker 1: Do they Yes? Is it more than the ticket? Yes? Okay,
- 8:16Speaker 1: all right, well all right, never mind, I'm going to
- 8:18Speaker 1: go get it. But they don't. They don't tell it.
- 8:22Speaker 2: Have you what's your problem?
- 8:24Speaker 1: I was going to ask you, have you been through
- 8:27Speaker 1: customs recently? Because I just went through customs. I just
- 8:30Speaker 1: flew back into the country because there was a group
- 8:33Speaker 1: of a plan full of Haitians.
- 8:35Speaker 2: I texted you, Michael texted me about this.
- 8:37Speaker 1: Planeful of Haitians got off right in front of me
- 8:40Speaker 1: in the customs line. And I don't have global entry.
- 8:43Speaker 2: I don't.
- 8:44Speaker 1: Everyone's zombie. I get that answer all the time. Everyone
- 8:47Speaker 1: zombie about it.
- 8:47Speaker 2: I just got it. I'm so I'm not being superior.
- 8:50Speaker 2: I'm surprised you don't have it.
- 8:51Speaker 1: I don't have it because I don't want to go
- 8:53Speaker 1: to the airport for that extra interview.
- 8:55Speaker 2: Michael, I did it, and I also felt the same
- 8:59Speaker 2: way two minutes.
- 9:00Speaker 1: But to get to the airport, it was a pain
- 9:02Speaker 1: in the ass.
- 9:03Speaker 2: See yeahs and nothing good ever happens at Liguardia.
- 9:07Speaker 1: And people thank you, and people are like, oh, you
- 9:09Speaker 1: could do it when you're flying back in, Yeah, you can.
- 9:12Speaker 1: When I'm flying back in.
- 9:13Speaker 2: Now you just want to go home.
- 9:15Speaker 1: I feel like, no, I hear you. I feel like
- 9:17Speaker 1: I did it. I got run over by the Knicks parade,
- 9:21Speaker 1: So who did it? And ran?
- 9:23Speaker 2: Just ridden hard.
- 9:25Speaker 1: I'm looking like, who did it?
- 9:26Speaker 2: In ran?
- 9:27Speaker 1: It's forty miles a rough highway.
- 9:29Speaker 2: What were the Haitians like?
- 9:30Speaker 1: So by the time, I honestly don't feel like I'm
- 9:33Speaker 1: allowed to say what the Haitians were like in mine,
- 9:36Speaker 1: but I will imagine, but I will say by the
- 9:38Speaker 1: time I got to the custom sky he said, he
- 9:42Speaker 1: looked at me. I'm not kidding. He said, I'm going
- 9:45Speaker 1: on break after this. He said, you are my last person, okay,
- 9:51Speaker 1: And he said do you have anything in your bags
- 9:54Speaker 1: that you need to declare? And I said no, no,
- 9:57Speaker 1: He said, go leave here immediately. He did not look
- 10:02Speaker 1: at my passport, which I was like, doesn't someone need
- 10:06Speaker 1: to know I'm back in the country, Like, don't think
- 10:08Speaker 1: I'm like an immigration learn I'm thinking, have I ever had
- 10:10Speaker 1: a client who never got stamped like that? Just happened
- 10:13Speaker 1: to me, never got the customs of border protection, never
- 10:18Speaker 1: documented me returning.
- 10:19Speaker 2: To tell you and I love my people. I do.
- 10:23Speaker 2: I clearly you've been on a lot of flights back
- 10:26Speaker 2: from Haiti. Yes, and I get it. And dealing with
- 10:30Speaker 2: Haitian people, I mean, being Haitian is not for the week, right,
- 10:35Speaker 2: growing up in a Haitian household, nobody can hurt my feelings.
- 10:42Speaker 2: My feelings cannot be hurt. So yeah, poor guy, Oh no,
- 10:46Speaker 2: he'll be okay.
- 10:47Speaker 1: Then, yeah, let's get into an algorithm is showing. Did
- 10:51Speaker 1: you see the people doing like wheelie motorbike, motorbike motorcross
- 10:57Speaker 1: crossroads on lawn.
- 11:00Speaker 2: No, I did not see that, but you know what
- 11:01Speaker 2: I did see. I did see it. A couple of
- 11:04Speaker 2: people come to blows peoples cuffs on the white and
- 11:09Speaker 2: not the people in the cage, the random people. And
- 11:14Speaker 2: the thing about it is like, you know, I think
- 11:18Speaker 2: when you see like a fight in a movie, right
- 11:21Speaker 2: or a show, it's like very like dramatic and boom
- 11:25Speaker 2: and but when people are real people are fighting, it's
- 11:29Speaker 2: like like cats fighting with each other. It's kind of.
- 11:31Speaker 1: Like people that choreography. No, not at all. There's always
- 11:36Speaker 1: one move that like you know, that person's embarrassed because
- 11:44Speaker 1: they kind of like did like a weird flick with
- 11:46Speaker 1: their wrists. Were they made like the noise.
- 11:52Speaker 2: Or like I think it's really funny where people, real
- 11:56Speaker 2: people are fighting and they're not fighting with like their
- 12:00Speaker 2: fists out there. Yes, it's more like.
- 12:05Speaker 1: Or the or the wife always comes up and behind
- 12:08Speaker 1: and it's like you stop it. It gets them with
- 12:11Speaker 1: a broom handle or something.
- 12:13Speaker 2: There's always real weird flick.
- 12:15Speaker 1: So you better not. It's like that's not going to
- 12:18Speaker 1: stop them. They're rolling around on the ground. Oh my god. Yeah,
- 12:22Speaker 1: So Trump spend sixty million on the on this fight
- 12:25Speaker 1: on the lawn, right, we did six my healthcare. My
- 12:31Speaker 1: deductible went up so that he could have a UFC
- 12:35Speaker 1: fight on his front lawn.
- 12:36Speaker 2: So CJ, tell me tell us again what you said,
- 12:39Speaker 2: like what you're feeling of why he did this. It's
- 12:41Speaker 2: like what.
- 12:42Speaker 1: It's like a twelve year old boy got a wish
- 12:44Speaker 1: from a genie and wanted to become president.
- 12:49Speaker 2: And he just wanted to have an mma by and
- 12:52Speaker 2: I'll bet you like a giant probably like a giant
- 12:55Speaker 2: Sam's Club cake with a really thick layer of frosting.
- 13:00Speaker 1: You know those really long heroes we got we they
- 13:04Speaker 1: slice them because the Italian hero.
- 13:09Speaker 2: Island. I just notified, I don't can we get lower
- 13:16Speaker 2: than this? Like how much lower can it get? Right?
- 13:20Speaker 2: Forget all the terrible policies that are coming through, Forget
- 13:25Speaker 2: all of.
- 13:25Speaker 1: That, forgot the Epstein files, forget.
- 13:27Speaker 2: It, but this is just at its core, it is
- 13:31Speaker 2: like the trashiest it's so fucking trashy.
- 13:35Speaker 1: Well. I was like, how are we going to literally
- 13:37Speaker 1: distract from the New York Times Epstein files, Like there
- 13:40Speaker 1: was this huge article in New York Times magazine last week.
- 13:42Speaker 2: You know what, and I missed it.
- 13:43Speaker 1: I read the whole thing.
- 13:45Speaker 2: How bad is that?
- 13:46Speaker 1: It is so bad? It's Maggie Haberman and it's so bad.
- 13:50Speaker 1: It documents basically how the Trump administration, his cabinet of
- 13:55Speaker 1: like six eight people, including JD. Vance, used the Situation
- 13:59Speaker 1: Room to figure out what to do last year. Remember,
- 14:03Speaker 1: there was like the New York article. It was like
- 14:04Speaker 1: his poem to Jeffrey Epstein. It was like his birthday
- 14:07Speaker 1: card and it was on the cover of the New Yorker. Yes, yes,
- 14:10Speaker 1: I think it was The New Yorker. Fact check me
- 14:12Speaker 1: on that. But basically when that came out last summer,
- 14:16Speaker 1: everyone started talking about Epstein. It was so clear that
- 14:20Speaker 1: Trump was very much involved in the Epstein files, that
- 14:23Speaker 1: there was a cover up, that everyone was involved in
- 14:26Speaker 1: the cover up, that he was using the government to
- 14:28Speaker 1: cover up what was in the files, and Pam Bondi
- 14:31Speaker 1: was involved. And so his cabinet met in the Situation Room,
- 14:37Speaker 1: the room for Warfare, and meant to discuss how they
- 14:42Speaker 1: were going to handle this, whether they should get in
- 14:44Speaker 1: front of the release of the files, whether they need to.
- 14:46Speaker 2: Well, here's what I'm thinking. The reason why they met
- 14:50Speaker 2: the situation room where we talk about war because I
- 14:54Speaker 2: think that they believe that they are at war against
- 14:58Speaker 2: the media, do you know what I'm saying? So, like,
- 15:00Speaker 2: how are we going to strategize, How are we going
- 15:03Speaker 2: to get in front of this? How can we make
- 15:04Speaker 2: this go up?
- 15:05Speaker 1: Can we protect the president?
- 15:06Speaker 2: How do we protect this.
- 15:07Speaker 1: R we're trying to do? And so the article was
- 15:10Speaker 1: basically like they fumbled it at every turn, Like there
- 15:13Speaker 1: was no no outcome from that meeting.
- 15:15Speaker 2: That was Michael. They fumble at every turn for everything,
- 15:20Speaker 2: nothing is going well.
- 15:21Speaker 1: But it got even more met up because including the
- 15:25Speaker 1: meeting to talk about how to not fumble got fumbled
- 15:29Speaker 1: because there might have been a recording of that meeting
- 15:32Speaker 1: in the situation room and everyone's talking.
- 15:34Speaker 2: About it, the Trump did it.
- 15:36Speaker 1: They're terrified that there's going to be a clip that
- 15:39Speaker 1: gets dropped of them talking about what to do.
- 15:41Speaker 2: Yeah, I hope.
- 15:43Speaker 1: So so they're running around the chickens with chickens with
- 15:45Speaker 1: their heads cut off right today while we're recording. So
- 15:51Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't wait for that recording to drop.
- 15:54Speaker 1: I'm going to eat it up. We're going to play
- 15:56Speaker 1: it on the show.
- 15:57Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I just how does this?
- 16:00Speaker 1: And well they're talking about they're like, well, which part
- 16:04Speaker 1: of the meeting is going to drop? Which means many
- 16:07Speaker 1: parts of the meeting were a problem. They're trying to
- 16:09Speaker 1: figure they're trying to figure out what to do if
- 16:11Speaker 1: which part of the meeting drops, which means there were
- 16:14Speaker 1: multiple parts of the meeting really problem matter.
- 16:17Speaker 2: Right that that they are worried about. So we need
- 16:21Speaker 2: to try and get in front of they're doing planning
- 16:24Speaker 2: part A.
- 16:28Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, the plan A or f right Now, there's
- 16:31Speaker 1: probably a recording of this meeting about what to do
- 16:33Speaker 1: about the recording and the meeting put that on, put
- 16:39Speaker 1: that Sometimes I just.
- 16:41Speaker 2: Where are we? Where are you? What's happening? What did
- 16:44Speaker 2: what did we do to deserve this?
- 16:46Speaker 1: A part of me is like, should I have just
- 16:48Speaker 1: gone back on that plane with those Haitians? Got turned
- 16:51Speaker 1: around at customs and border protections and I'm a celebrity.
- 16:55Speaker 1: Get me out of here, Get me to port a Prince.
- 17:01Speaker 1: Welcome back to brief Rests. This is under oath where
- 17:03Speaker 1: we take a deep dive into a topic with a special.
- 17:06Speaker 2: Guest, and today we're really excited to welcome Laura Dunn.
- 17:10Speaker 2: Laura is an award winning civil rights attorney, a former educator,
- 17:14Speaker 2: and a nationally recognized advocate for survivors. She played a
- 17:18Speaker 2: key role in drafting and passing the twenty thirteen reauthorization
- 17:22Speaker 2: of the Violence Against Women Act. She is a current
- 17:25Speaker 2: member of the New York State Bar Association and is
- 17:27Speaker 2: currently running for Congress to restore accountability, uphold the rule
- 17:31Speaker 2: of law, and ensure government works for the people, not
- 17:34Speaker 2: the powerful. Laura, thank you so much for coming, Welcome
- 17:37Speaker 2: to being here.
- 17:39Speaker 3: Thank you guys for having me on. This is a
- 17:41Speaker 3: great group to have this discussion with.
- 17:42Speaker 1: We met actually last week during the Courier News event.
- 17:47Speaker 1: There was a debate and I got to moderate it
- 17:50Speaker 1: along with a group of other political influencers. It was
- 17:55Speaker 1: really fun. Yeah, we got to meet you. It was great.
- 17:57Speaker 1: What did you think of that event?
- 17:58Speaker 3: I was very happy to be on sta agent some
- 18:01Speaker 3: of you know, there's three debates for NY twelve. I
- 18:03Speaker 3: was actually robbed of the stage the first time. I
- 18:06Speaker 3: hit five percent in the largest pole that's the requirement,
- 18:09Speaker 3: and then the news agency decided to run their own
- 18:12Speaker 3: pole that was a fraction of the size, and they
- 18:15Speaker 3: disqualified me, didn't invite me on I know. And when
- 18:19Speaker 3: I looked up who owned them, I was not surprised
- 18:20Speaker 3: to see four private equity companies, including black Rocks. So ikes,
- 18:24Speaker 3: here we are.
- 18:25Speaker 2: I mean, private equity is ruining everything everything they touch. Yeah, yeah,
- 18:30Speaker 2: that's really frustrating.
- 18:32Speaker 1: So this was like one of the few debates who
- 18:34Speaker 1: actually got to be a part of Yes, which is
- 18:36Speaker 1: so messed up. It is because, let me tell you,
- 18:38Speaker 1: she ate them up. Laura gobbled them up, and it
- 18:42Speaker 1: was it was fierce Yes. And I was like, I
- 18:44Speaker 1: got to get Laura on the show because she really did,
- 18:46Speaker 1: Like you were incredible. So I just had fun listening
- 18:50Speaker 1: to you because you really like it's I mean, it's
- 18:53Speaker 1: tell as old as time, right, Like there was like
- 18:56Speaker 1: the NEPO Baby, the it was like the white men
- 19:00Speaker 1: got their big pitch and their moment, and you had
- 19:06Speaker 1: the actual substance and credentials and the resume, and you
- 19:10Speaker 1: were polished and brilliant and we're saying all the right
- 19:13Speaker 1: things that everyone really needed to hear. But then of
- 19:17Speaker 1: course weren't included in many of the debates.
- 19:20Speaker 3: Well, and that's why, because no one owns me. And
- 19:23Speaker 3: that's the challenge in this race, right we have super
- 19:25Speaker 3: packs behind to the candidates who are very part of
- 19:28Speaker 3: the establishment. Michael Bloomberg's backing Michael Lasher. He's a billionaire.
- 19:33Speaker 3: He controls a lot of the media in New York City.
- 19:35Speaker 3: We also had Alex Borez, who used to work for
- 19:38Speaker 3: Palanteer hugely problematic, made his fortune off working for that
- 19:43Speaker 3: company during all the issues with Ice during the Trump administration,
- 19:47Speaker 3: actually cashed out to live in the house he is
- 19:49Speaker 3: in now and he says he's a champion, but he's
- 19:52Speaker 3: taking money from Menthropics. So it kind of feels like
- 19:54Speaker 3: he's just switching AI lords and signing us up for
- 19:57Speaker 3: a different program. And it's really hard when you see
- 20:01Speaker 3: what's going on and you know the voters don't. And
- 20:03Speaker 3: that's why I was so wound up for that debate.
- 20:06Speaker 3: I'm like, if I only get one, I'm going to
- 20:07Speaker 3: make a count and sounds like you did. Yeah, hopefully.
- 20:11Speaker 2: How many people are in the race?
- 20:13Speaker 3: Eight total? So people have been very frustrated because people
- 20:16Speaker 3: were in and out of this race from the beginning,
- 20:18Speaker 3: and it was really also part of the challenge that
- 20:21Speaker 3: people came in, soaked up a lot of media attention
- 20:23Speaker 3: and then just dropped out out of nowhere. People who
- 20:25Speaker 3: actually found raised really well over a million dropped out
- 20:28Speaker 3: of nowhere, and it's because they were frustrated with the
- 20:31Speaker 3: working of the system. It was very clear who was
- 20:33Speaker 3: going to be endorsed by all the Democratic clubs. It
- 20:36Speaker 3: was very clear that that was going to create lots
- 20:38Speaker 3: of problems down the line for field operations. And what
- 20:41Speaker 3: I always try to point out to people is when
- 20:43Speaker 3: they're frustrated, like why didn't you raise more money? Why
- 20:46Speaker 3: weren't you on every stage, I'm like, I didn't give up.
- 20:48Speaker 3: I'm right here if that's what you want from someone
- 20:51Speaker 3: in Congress who gives up and tosses in the towel, Like,
- 20:53Speaker 3: that's why you have the leaders you have. If you
- 20:55Speaker 3: want someone who fights no matter what they're given, then
- 20:58Speaker 3: you want to pick me when you go into thet.
- 21:00Speaker 1: I also feel like in New York, we're always talking
- 21:04Speaker 1: about how progressive New York is, right, but I think
- 21:07Speaker 1: when these races come around, we really realize how antiquated
- 21:11Speaker 1: a lot of our systems are. How you know, we
- 21:15Speaker 1: really are going to be a reflection of the rest
- 21:17Speaker 1: of the country many times, Like, sure, we may be
- 21:20Speaker 1: very socially progressive, but at the end of the day,
- 21:23Speaker 1: I think what we're seeing in the New York twelve
- 21:25Speaker 1: race right now is that the deepest pockets are the
- 21:27Speaker 1: ones that are going the furthest in the polls, right.
- 21:30Speaker 3: Yeah, And it's been really frustrating. So there's, you know,
- 21:33Speaker 3: all these groups that target certain types of political candidates.
- 21:36Speaker 3: Right there's the women's groups, the queer groups, the union groups,
- 21:40Speaker 3: and I will say all the women's groups donated to men,
- 21:43Speaker 3: all the lgbt g Q groups excuse me, donated to
- 21:47Speaker 3: cis gender men. And there's two queer women in this race,
- 21:50Speaker 3: which is like, really, we were livid, you know, when
- 21:53Speaker 3: into our community and we've turned away. And of course
- 21:56Speaker 3: the unions picked people who have never been union members.
- 21:59Speaker 3: I've been a teacher. I was part of United Teachers
- 22:01Speaker 3: of New Orleans, and that means I was in post
- 22:03Speaker 3: coatrada in New Orleans the first year of the schools reopened,
- 22:06Speaker 3: working alongside a bunch of teachers who have been disenfranchised
- 22:10Speaker 3: for three years while the government figured out what to do,
- 22:13Speaker 3: and we marched together and we fought for what was
- 22:15Speaker 3: right for our kids. And when I taught on Chicago's
- 22:17Speaker 3: North Side, which was largely immigrant and refugee, I was
- 22:20Speaker 3: at a public charter and it was deeply problematic and
- 22:24Speaker 3: the way it was engaging with some of the teachers
- 22:26Speaker 3: who were highly qualified and female and weren't getting promoted
- 22:30Speaker 3: and underqualified men were. So we unionized and I fought
- 22:33Speaker 3: the administration. So when you come in with these credentials
- 22:36Speaker 3: of I've actually fought for LGBTQ plus rights through Title
- 22:39Speaker 3: nine cases, I've actually fought for women's rights, and then
- 22:43Speaker 3: they're like, sorry, it's not your turn, Like what is
- 22:45Speaker 3: this turn? Thing like isn't it the best leader?
- 22:48Speaker 2: That's what I thought it was. Sarah. Let me ask
- 22:50Speaker 2: you this. You said something interesting that you you know,
- 22:54Speaker 2: you went to the queer groups and you went to
- 22:55Speaker 2: the groups for women who and they supported the men
- 22:59Speaker 2: and the sister. Why do you think that is? What
- 23:02Speaker 2: do you think? I mean? I don't want to put
- 23:04Speaker 2: person in tell me, tell me what why you think
- 23:07Speaker 2: that is?
- 23:07Speaker 3: It's a few different things. Like I think career politicians
- 23:11Speaker 3: are the worst leaders in the entire world because they've
- 23:13Speaker 3: never done anything real right now, I've never started business,
- 23:15Speaker 3: They've never been at a school, like, they don't have
- 23:17Speaker 3: real world experience. They're in a little bubble and they're
- 23:20Speaker 3: raised up to be exactly who above them wanted them
- 23:23Speaker 3: to be, and so they're just kind of parroting the system.
- 23:26Speaker 3: But when you run, people are like, well, we didn't
- 23:28Speaker 3: see you. You weren't part of these clubs. You weren't
- 23:29Speaker 3: yet a lawmaker. And I'm like, yeah, I didn't want
- 23:32Speaker 3: to be. I was in a courtroom, I was getting
- 23:34Speaker 3: a legal education, I was working my executive NBA, And
- 23:36Speaker 3: why you start like, I was building these life experiences
- 23:39Speaker 3: that helped me see from a better perspective than most
- 23:42Speaker 3: of the people. But these are two men that got
- 23:44Speaker 3: in line a long time ago. Numerous people were like
- 23:46Speaker 3: I watched them grow up, and this is kind of
- 23:49Speaker 3: what they were raised for. And it's so painful when
- 23:52Speaker 3: people walk up and say I want a woman leader,
- 23:55Speaker 3: like run again. It's like you keep getting women leaders,
- 23:58Speaker 3: Like look at District three. We just has election there.
- 24:01Speaker 3: That's the quote unquote gay district in your health's kitchen,
- 24:03Speaker 3: and there's three amazing women and then one guy, and
- 24:06Speaker 3: he won by a landslide, even though Mom Donnie even
- 24:09Speaker 3: endorsed one of the women. And it was kind of
- 24:11Speaker 3: eye opening to me because I had heard more from
- 24:14Speaker 3: the Hell's Kitchen Dems that they wanted women leaders than
- 24:17Speaker 3: anywhere else. But they were like, oh, he was loyal,
- 24:19Speaker 3: he's been here the longest. It's like, if you're only
- 24:22Speaker 3: going to vote for the people that you see the most,
- 24:24Speaker 3: and you want everyone to get in line, that's fine,
- 24:27Speaker 3: say so, say that this is the requirement for you
- 24:30Speaker 3: to have office. But if you're going to be open
- 24:32Speaker 3: to other types of leaders, give people credit for being
- 24:34Speaker 3: in courtrooms, like I was already working on the hill,
- 24:37Speaker 3: which no one else in this race did like you
- 24:39Speaker 3: have to have open credentials to have more variety of leaders.
- 24:42Speaker 1: And it's like that meme of Carrie Bradshaw where it's
- 24:45Speaker 1: like you say you want complicated female characters, but you
- 24:48Speaker 1: couldn't handle her, like you couldn't just handle Carry Bradshaw
- 24:52Speaker 1: or Lena Dunham's character and girls and people couldn't handle it,
- 24:55Speaker 1: and everyone's like, we want complex female leads, and it's
- 24:57Speaker 1: like you literally are still hung up on Big and Carrie,
- 25:00Speaker 1: like it's been twenty years, right, Yeah, But I want
- 25:05Speaker 1: to talk about you know, Epstein has been in the
- 25:08Speaker 1: news a lot, and you have talked a lot about
- 25:10Speaker 1: sexual violence in your campaign, so I wanted to bring
- 25:14Speaker 1: you on the show. And I know you've been a
- 25:16Speaker 1: civil rights attorney for a long time before you run,
- 25:20Speaker 1: So I just wanted to talk about that, your hopes
- 25:21Speaker 1: for New York twelve, how these issues are really important
- 25:26Speaker 1: to you, and why if you want to take it
- 25:29Speaker 1: from there.
- 25:31Speaker 3: So I call myself the accountability candidate. My platform is
- 25:34Speaker 3: very clear that I want term limits, that's both for
- 25:36Speaker 3: Congress and the Supreme Court. I want to end insider trading,
- 25:39Speaker 3: no more making millions off of public office, ethical standards
- 25:43Speaker 3: for the Supreme Court. So we know it's politically corrupt
- 25:45Speaker 3: right now. But to your point, there's all this other corruption,
- 25:48Speaker 3: right I try to keep everything in threes because we're litigators, people, memories,
- 25:53Speaker 3: court exactly. But Epstein, that scandal just really breaks my heart.
- 26:00Speaker 3: Republic about being a campus sexual salt survivor. That's actually
- 26:02Speaker 3: how I found my way into politics. I never wanted
- 26:05Speaker 3: this path, but this was the right path to make change.
- 26:08Speaker 3: So when I experienced sexual violence, I turned around shared
- 26:11Speaker 3: my name, face story at a time when everyone was
- 26:13Speaker 3: still Jane Doe. That allowed me this amazing platform that
- 26:16Speaker 3: got the attention of President Obama, and I advocated in
- 26:20Speaker 3: Congress in both Republican and Democrat offices for two years
- 26:23Speaker 3: as a law student, sharing my rape story over and
- 26:26Speaker 3: over and over to pass the twenty thirteen Violence Against
- 26:29Speaker 3: Women Act. It took everything I had. I remember I
- 26:31Speaker 3: once hunted down Senator Al Franken. He was ignoring our requests,
- 26:35Speaker 3: he was not being supportive. He was part of the
- 26:37Speaker 3: Senate Judiciary. I found him on the stairwell and just
- 26:39Speaker 3: called out to him in front of a group of
- 26:41Speaker 3: thirty people in front of him and was like, you
- 26:43Speaker 3: have ignored this bill, So it really required me to
- 26:48Speaker 3: step up. And that's why I no, federal law and
- 26:50Speaker 3: policy is so important, and I also know what it takes.
- 26:52Speaker 3: So when you look at the Epstein files that happened
- 26:55Speaker 3: in NY twelve, and none of the men are talking
- 26:57Speaker 3: about that, and that should signal everything for one of
- 27:00Speaker 3: the biggest scandals. That shows that there's foreign influence, foreign money,
- 27:04Speaker 3: and really obviously despicable crimes and horrors that were being committed.
- 27:08Speaker 3: And yet it's not in anyone's radar. That's the Epstein
- 27:11Speaker 3: class filtering money and picking your candidate for them. I
- 27:15Speaker 3: know both myself and the other woman in this race,
- 27:18Speaker 3: we would not tolerate this. We are from the communities
- 27:20Speaker 3: that have been harded by general violence. We're not going
- 27:22Speaker 3: to stand it. And I'm very honored that Epstein survivors
- 27:25Speaker 3: have come been there when I put the petitions to
- 27:27Speaker 3: get on the ballot in, they were there hugging me
- 27:30Speaker 3: and saying we need a survivor. So I want to
- 27:32Speaker 3: be let loose on Congress. I want to tear it up.
- 27:35Speaker 3: I want to call these names out. I really admire
- 27:37Speaker 3: all the people who have been listing the names of
- 27:39Speaker 3: the perpetrators that are these files. But it's not enough.
- 27:41Speaker 3: We have to rebuild the DOJ and we have to
- 27:43Speaker 3: make a commitment because it will show us exactly what's
- 27:46Speaker 3: been happening to our elections. I don't think Donald Trump
- 27:49Speaker 3: won by accident. I think he won by intention and
- 27:52Speaker 3: will know more when we get into the Epstein files
- 27:54Speaker 3: about where the money is coming from, who is behind
- 27:56Speaker 3: these plans?
- 27:57Speaker 1: Oh my god, gosh, that's you know.
- 28:00Speaker 2: I just I always more and more I ask myself,
- 28:03Speaker 2: you know, how did we get here? Why are we
- 28:06Speaker 2: in this space? Why are the lives of women and
- 28:10Speaker 2: children and victims of sexual assault not taken seriously? They're
- 28:16Speaker 2: they're not important. But we love our guns, you know,
- 28:20Speaker 2: And and it just seems to me that that's happening
- 28:23Speaker 2: more and more. It feels like it's getting worse, and
- 28:25Speaker 2: it's harder and harder for me personally to I want
- 28:31Speaker 2: to remain engaged, but sometimes it feels like too much.
- 28:34Speaker 2: It feels like a lot. It feels like a lot.
- 28:37Speaker 2: But I also know that if I don't remain engaged,
- 28:39Speaker 2: then it's never going to change, which is why we
- 28:41Speaker 2: have people like you. But yeah, it's frustrating. It's frustrating,
- 28:45Speaker 2: and it must be really frustrating for you to be
- 28:47Speaker 2: in this position. You're running for office and you're listening
- 28:50Speaker 2: to all these stories and you're getting these sort of
- 28:53Speaker 2: roadblocks because you're not a part of what the old
- 28:56Speaker 2: boys that works the system. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 28:59Speaker 3: Well the good news is I've never been part of
- 29:01Speaker 3: the system, so I'm actually like kind of used to it,
- 29:03Speaker 3: and I think it helps bring out like the true
- 29:06Speaker 3: nature of who I am and why I fight. So
- 29:09Speaker 3: no matter the outcome of this particular race, I'm obviously
- 29:12Speaker 3: fighting to the end. I hit five percent, thirty percent
- 29:14Speaker 3: are undecided. It's a race literally anyone could win. But
- 29:18Speaker 3: no matter what happens, like, I know who I am
- 29:20Speaker 3: and I've grounded in that, and it's gained a lot
- 29:21Speaker 3: of respect on the ground. So people who may be
- 29:24Speaker 3: looking at them men saying they have a leg up,
- 29:26Speaker 3: they know that I'm right behind them. So I don't
- 29:28Speaker 3: think it's over. But to your point about being overwhelmed,
- 29:32Speaker 3: I guess one of the weirder parts of my platform
- 29:35Speaker 3: that I've talked about is being pro psychedelics and why
- 29:38Speaker 3: that topic. It's because it focuses on healing. So there
- 29:42Speaker 3: is so much unwellness in our society. We have lived
- 29:45Speaker 3: through COVID, we have had political unrest.
- 29:48Speaker 1: Us all the time. How we are not over COVID. No,
- 29:52Speaker 1: we just went right back to work. We picked up
- 29:55Speaker 1: that dusty pen off the desk where we left it
- 29:58Speaker 1: two years earlier, that we plugged the computer back end.
- 30:02Speaker 1: And I know someone they left their laptop charger at
- 30:05Speaker 1: the office and just went back and just plugged their
- 30:07Speaker 1: laptop back in a year later, and we have not
- 30:10Speaker 1: and we've just not looked at it.
- 30:11Speaker 3: We've talked about it, no doubt.
- 30:13Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that was it was a very traumatic experience,
- 30:17Speaker 2: and I don't think that we've given it the gravitas
- 30:20Speaker 2: that it deserves, right, I mean, because especially when you
- 30:23Speaker 2: think back in the very beginning, for me, anyway, I
- 30:26Speaker 2: was convinced we were all going to die, right Like
- 30:29Speaker 2: I was convinced that we were living the stand by
- 30:32Speaker 2: Stephen King, Like that's what I felt like was going
- 30:35Speaker 2: to happen. I was worried about everybody, and I was afraid.
- 30:41Speaker 2: And I don't think that any of us really sat
- 30:45Speaker 2: back to really reflect on what we went through. And
- 30:48Speaker 2: like Michael said, we just sort of went back to work.
- 30:50Speaker 2: I went back to work and my calendar was still
- 30:53Speaker 2: on March from March of twenty twenty and I went
- 30:58Speaker 2: back in like twenty twenty two when I was like, well,
- 31:00Speaker 2: just I'm the calendar.
- 31:04Speaker 1: I love psychedelics and I talk about this on the
- 31:06Speaker 1: Shawl that I'm a post pandemic. Had a really hard
- 31:10Speaker 1: time going back to work, going back to the courtroom,
- 31:13Speaker 1: going back to walking down the street and seeing other
- 31:16Speaker 1: people's faces, like it really was emotionally difficult for me.
- 31:21Speaker 1: And Melissa was there for me through and through the
- 31:23Speaker 1: whole time. But I went to ketamine therapy and like
- 31:25Speaker 1: my insurance paid for it. Like it was a full,
- 31:28Speaker 1: you know, above word experience. I wasn't in a warehouse
- 31:31Speaker 1: in Bushwick, but it really helped me. It really helped
- 31:36Speaker 1: me get to a place where I could do things
- 31:37Speaker 1: like launch a podcast or you know, get out there
- 31:41Speaker 1: on social media. I wouldn't have been able to do
- 31:44Speaker 1: without that. It was so healing.
- 31:45Speaker 3: I really admire that you're talking about that people need
- 31:49Speaker 3: to know that this is available to them, and certain
- 31:51Speaker 3: types are legal. I have done the more not so
- 31:53Speaker 3: legal types. I'm DMA to heal from PTSD and psilocybin,
- 31:58Speaker 3: and now I do kambu, which is totally an Amazon
- 32:01Speaker 3: Frog poison.
- 32:02Speaker 2: Cool.
- 32:02Speaker 3: Yeah, it makes you violently also not super cool, but
- 32:06Speaker 3: for twenty minutes you're purging and then afterwards people have visions.
- 32:10Speaker 3: I have not had the benefit of those visions, but
- 32:12Speaker 3: it definitely physically clears the vessel.
- 32:16Speaker 1: Wow, I've never heard of this.
- 32:17Speaker 2: It is so fat Again, Michael and I talk about
- 32:19Speaker 2: this all the time, Like, I grew up in a
- 32:21Speaker 2: household where you know, my mother equated marijuana to crack cocaine, right,
- 32:27Speaker 2: So it's the same. It was. It was the same.
- 32:29Speaker 2: It was the same. And so this idea that you
- 32:32Speaker 2: could use psychedelics as a as a as a means
- 32:37Speaker 2: of healing from trauma is it's so it's weird to
- 32:43Speaker 2: me because I can't imagine it, and I will admit
- 32:46Speaker 2: I'm also I think a little bit afraid of what
- 32:49Speaker 2: am I going to remember? What am I going to discover?
- 32:52Speaker 1: When I tell people I've done ketamine therapy, that is
- 32:55Speaker 1: the thing. The number one thing they say to me
- 32:58Speaker 1: is I'm afraid of what I'm going to learn about myself. Yes, yeah,
- 33:02Speaker 1: that is Honestly, the only resistance people tell me when
- 33:05Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, you should try it. I only had
- 33:07Speaker 1: positive experiences crowd a lot, but like it was a healing,
- 33:11Speaker 1: interesting journey, And what they say to me is, I'm
- 33:14Speaker 1: afraid of how it will change my life, whether they'll
- 33:18Speaker 1: learn that their relationship with someone is wrong for them,
- 33:21Speaker 1: or their job or dynamic that they're in. They're afraid
- 33:24Speaker 1: of facing the change, is what I notice when I
- 33:27Speaker 1: talk to people.
- 33:28Speaker 3: Well, that's even happening right now, right people want to
- 33:31Speaker 3: go back to what was and it can't happen. You
- 33:33Speaker 3: have to be bold and brave and realize that there's
- 33:36Speaker 3: something new and it actually could be better. And that's
- 33:38Speaker 3: the best part of it. Right. So my experience, the
- 33:41Speaker 3: reason I kind of brought it up in response to
- 33:43Speaker 3: your comment is I now kind of almost have like
- 33:46Speaker 3: a divine perspective where it's almost humorous what we as
- 33:50Speaker 3: humans choose to do, because we really have the power
- 33:53Speaker 3: to choose any way, to rewant, to have any policy
- 33:55Speaker 3: we want, and yet we keep getting stuck in this fight.
- 33:58Speaker 3: Do people deserve healthcare?
- 34:00Speaker 2: Like?
- 34:00Speaker 3: Are we still fighting about that? Really?
- 34:03Speaker 2: Like?
- 34:03Speaker 3: Because I think the younger generations don't have a question.
- 34:05Speaker 3: We're like, yes, human beings deserve to live and to
- 34:09Speaker 3: live well and not to struggle and not to die
- 34:10Speaker 3: in the streets. So it's very interesting that we're kind
- 34:14Speaker 3: of stuck in this place. But I think we can
- 34:16Speaker 3: get past it, and it's just a choice. And so
- 34:19Speaker 3: when all these horrors are kind of playing one by
- 34:22Speaker 3: one rapidly, I'm definitely furious. And I'm sure you saw
- 34:25Speaker 3: some of that power come out in the debate. Lawyers,
- 34:27Speaker 3: I think learn how to channel it and we just come.
- 34:30Speaker 1: Katie Kirk and Don Lemon were in the green room like.
- 34:35Speaker 2: Gags. They were like to.
- 34:38Speaker 1: Katie Kirk, like, do snaps in the green room because
- 34:41Speaker 1: we're hearing what's going on on the stage was hilarious.
- 34:46Speaker 3: Yeah, it was.
- 34:48Speaker 1: Because what Laura was saying, like she really was eating
- 34:51Speaker 1: them alive, because a lot of what they were saying
- 34:54Speaker 1: was just like political bullshit.
- 34:55Speaker 2: It's sort of that was the pivoting, and that's sort
- 34:59Speaker 2: of going in circles that words right, and.
- 35:02Speaker 1: Alex Bars said that everyone on the stage had a
- 35:04Speaker 1: super pack and Laura was like, I would love to
- 35:07Speaker 1: meet my super pa.
- 35:09Speaker 3: It's not doing a great job if it's out there.
- 35:12Speaker 1: She was like, wait a minute, Yeah, this is the
- 35:15Speaker 1: first time heard.
- 35:16Speaker 3: Yeah, well that's what happens when people get off their
- 35:18Speaker 3: talking points. I say crazy things, and lawyers we go
- 35:21Speaker 3: right in.
- 35:22Speaker 2: Uh.
- 35:22Speaker 3: There was actually a forum earlier that week on Monday
- 35:24Speaker 3: with Michael Lasher and me, and he had the first question.
- 35:27Speaker 3: It was about the definition of anti Semitism from the
- 35:30Speaker 3: Holocaust Remembrance Organization that New York had adopted, and the
- 35:33Speaker 3: mom Donnie had kind of struck down and they were saying,
- 35:37Speaker 3: you know, what's your position on this definition. He was like,
- 35:39Speaker 3: I don't want to answer. This divides us more than
- 35:41Speaker 3: anything else, and he dodged it. Then it came to
- 35:43Speaker 3: me and I was like, this is the lawyer training.
- 35:45Speaker 3: I am ready. And I was like, isn't it a
- 35:47Speaker 3: shame when politicians dodge hard questions? And everyone was like
- 35:52Speaker 3: and I was like, lawyers don't get to do that.
- 35:54Speaker 3: We literally walk into court to answer these questions. I'm
- 35:57Speaker 3: not afraid to take a stand. I don't even care
- 35:59Speaker 3: the consequence of taking the stand because I've thought deeply
- 36:02Speaker 3: about it, researched it, and I know what a stand
- 36:04Speaker 3: for and I will pay the price for them. And
- 36:07Speaker 3: you know, I saw Jack Shlasberg kind of wiggle woggle
- 36:10Speaker 3: on you know, Israel Palestine and try to be progressive
- 36:14Speaker 3: but also pro Israel, and he just flip popped and
- 36:16Speaker 3: made everyone mad and he dropped ten points. And it's like,
- 36:19Speaker 3: you can't make everyone happy, and the fact that you
- 36:21Speaker 3: don't know that means you're not ready for office. You
- 36:23Speaker 3: have to take your stand. You have to know what
- 36:25Speaker 3: you're about and just know that there's a price tag
- 36:28Speaker 3: for it, and that's okay. If someone wants a different leader,
- 36:30Speaker 3: they will find a different leader. And your time is
- 36:33Speaker 3: not now. So I have enjoyed the few opportunities have
- 36:37Speaker 3: had to really jab at these men who have come
- 36:39Speaker 3: up there, and it's just the four of them on stage.
- 36:42Speaker 3: No one's throwing any punches, no one's getting into the
- 36:44Speaker 3: tough issues. So I'm glad they started inviting the.
- 36:47Speaker 1: Women politically aligned. Trying not to piss off anybody. What
- 36:51Speaker 1: do you say? I'm so fucking sick of talking about Ai,
- 36:54Speaker 1: but I do feel like we have to have I
- 36:56Speaker 1: heard AI one more time.
- 36:57Speaker 2: I'm gonna right, but it's a they're going to It's
- 37:01Speaker 2: not just the fruit. It's like really important.
- 37:03Speaker 1: It's really important, and I know it's come up a
- 37:06Speaker 1: lot in this race. It's not just like, what do
- 37:07Speaker 1: you think about AI? AM not like some Silicon Valley
- 37:10Speaker 1: tech bro I do feel like it has been one
- 37:13Speaker 1: of the top three things that has come up randomly
- 37:17Speaker 1: in this New York twelve congressional race. Take it away,
- 37:21Speaker 1: Laura tell us.
- 37:24Speaker 3: So if it makes you less annoyed, you could say
- 37:27Speaker 3: big tech generally, right, it's AI is just one issue.
- 37:31Speaker 1: Right.
- 37:31Speaker 3: We have crypto in there, we have quantum computing, we
- 37:33Speaker 3: already have social media. And I have talked about Section
- 37:36Speaker 3: two thirty, the immunity given to big tech companies that
- 37:39Speaker 3: allows them to do many things that newspapers cannot do,
- 37:42Speaker 3: such as spread misinformation, tailor algorithms to create more political division.
- 37:47Speaker 3: And I think we need to get rid of that,
- 37:49Speaker 3: and that I think would solve a lot of our
- 37:50Speaker 3: problems right now. But I think AI is such a
- 37:53Speaker 3: big thing because it's replacing people's jobs. Right, college students
- 37:57Speaker 3: can't get an entry level job. We're scared for our
- 37:59Speaker 3: kids who are falling in love with AIS are being
- 38:02Speaker 3: told how to commit suicide, or god knows what else
- 38:04Speaker 3: is happening. We also have AIS undressing women and harassing
- 38:08Speaker 3: them in ways that we have never imagined before. It's
- 38:11Speaker 3: the boogeyman that's out there. And Alex Brez did a
- 38:14Speaker 3: state law that kind of reined that in. It's the
- 38:16Speaker 3: only state. New York is the only state that's really
- 38:19Speaker 3: kind of tackled the issue. But they did it because
- 38:21Speaker 3: the thorough government wasn't why is that because of all
- 38:24Speaker 3: the money going in to deter it. So he did that,
- 38:28Speaker 3: and now he has AI money coming in. And when
- 38:30Speaker 3: I was on stage, I pointed out that there was
- 38:32Speaker 3: four different AI consumer protection bills that he alone voted
- 38:36Speaker 3: against as this quote unquote AI Champion, which really raises
- 38:40Speaker 3: questions and I really believe is a trojan horse. I
- 38:43Speaker 3: think he was sent to look like a hero when
- 38:45Speaker 3: he's not. He's just going to set up a specific
- 38:48Speaker 3: AI company Anthropic over that appallenteer and it's just marketing
- 38:51Speaker 3: and thropics the less evil. But AI can't be reined in, like,
- 38:55Speaker 3: let's not be fooled. We can say it can, but
- 38:57Speaker 3: it can't.
- 38:58Speaker 2: Can't.
- 38:59Speaker 3: Know it add quantum computing that's coming in five years.
- 39:03Speaker 3: We are We're in trouble. And I think the hardest
- 39:05Speaker 3: thing that I've ever said, which did not win many favors,
- 39:08Speaker 3: but I said it. I meant it was during the
- 39:11Speaker 3: UFT the Teachers' Union endorsement, they were asking about AI
- 39:14Speaker 3: and education, and I'm a former teacher, and I said,
- 39:17Speaker 3: the research is actually showing that more screen time and
- 39:19Speaker 3: use of AI is impeding cognitive development. We literally have
- 39:23Speaker 3: generations that are less academically successful. This is not okay,
- 39:27Speaker 3: and so we have to have moretoriums. I hate to
- 39:29Speaker 3: say it. We can't just implement and see what happens.
- 39:32Speaker 3: We can experiment on children. And I don't think they
- 39:35Speaker 3: liked that answer. Here we are, but I mean that answer.
- 39:40Speaker 3: AI is not for everywhere and everything. Maybe it shouldn't
- 39:42Speaker 3: belong in, for example, wars. We really want to give
- 39:46Speaker 3: lethal ability to a technology we can't control and just
- 39:50Speaker 3: see what happens. Not me. So I think we can
- 39:53Speaker 3: put guardrails around it. I really want to adopt the
- 39:56Speaker 3: precautionary principle, which is what we have in Europe, which
- 39:58Speaker 3: says you can't put something into the consumer population until
- 40:02Speaker 3: you've proven it safe. So you can put regulations around it.
- 40:05Speaker 3: You can have ethical standards. We can have a whole requirement.
- 40:08Speaker 3: This is what we do with drugs, right, they have
- 40:10Speaker 3: to be approved before they go out. We could do
- 40:11Speaker 3: something similar and that way we find out where it's
- 40:14Speaker 3: okay and we have them investing in research. Does it
- 40:16Speaker 3: in pea cognitive development? Does it not? And until we
- 40:20Speaker 3: have people who are willing to tell corporations that are
- 40:23Speaker 3: getting trillion dollar valuations, no, we're going to be stuck
- 40:27Speaker 3: with whatever the latest innovation is, no matter the consequence
- 40:30Speaker 3: to our children.
- 40:31Speaker 1: I hate AI so much, and I'll go on the
- 40:33Speaker 1: record with that. I fucking hate AI.
- 40:35Speaker 2: I am so sick of that spoken like lear.
- 40:39Speaker 1: I have tried it. I think it's dumb, it is
- 40:42Speaker 1: not smarter. I hate it. I've tried using it for
- 40:46Speaker 1: like legal briefs or for emotion or whatever. And the
- 40:51Speaker 1: tea about my legal briefs and my motion is that
- 40:53Speaker 1: they're from me to you. Yeah, So once I start
- 40:57Speaker 1: pumping that into AI, it's not written as me I
- 41:01Speaker 1: like a stylized motion her mother was beheaded. A. I
- 41:06Speaker 1: is not going to say that when I put that in,
- 41:08Speaker 1: like help me draft this legal motion or like my
- 41:12Speaker 1: asylum argument, I'll say that, but a A I will
- 41:16Speaker 1: say respondents parents suffered extreme hardship, like it will say,
- 41:22Speaker 1: like some sort of guard.
- 41:23Speaker 2: Water down word salad. Yeah, So I don't know.
- 41:27Speaker 1: I hate it.
- 41:28Speaker 2: I think it's dumb.
- 41:28Speaker 1: I don't think it applies to everything, and I think
- 41:31Speaker 1: it's over hyped and it's gonna bubble that's going to burst.
- 41:34Speaker 1: Judge also on the record with that.
- 41:35Speaker 3: Yeah, judges are kicking it out of the courtroom. People
- 41:37Speaker 3: coming with their AI lawyers and judges are like, get
- 41:40Speaker 3: it out.
- 41:41Speaker 2: It's not gonna I had this a conversation with my
- 41:45Speaker 2: primary care physician a few months back, and she wanted
- 41:48Speaker 2: me to know that they were under the doctors were
- 41:51Speaker 2: under pressure to use AI for the note taking, and
- 41:55Speaker 2: she's a pretty old school doctor and she was psch.
- 41:58Speaker 2: I refused, and she wanted me to know that they
- 42:03Speaker 2: must tell you that they're using it, and if I
- 42:06Speaker 2: find out that they've used it and they haven't told me,
- 42:09Speaker 2: I can bring charges up against them. Right. But her
- 42:12Speaker 2: worry is, you know, she says, people come to her,
- 42:17Speaker 2: she's their physician, and they tell her intimate things about
- 42:20Speaker 2: what's going on in their lives, things are going on
- 42:21Speaker 2: with their health, and she is deeply uncomfortable with the
- 42:25Speaker 2: idea of whatever AI turns into having that information.
- 42:30Speaker 3: Yeah, and it'll hear your voice and you know, AI
- 42:32Speaker 3: can mimic voices like I don't want to find out
- 42:35Speaker 3: where the end of the story goes, but I'm with you.
- 42:38Speaker 3: And a positive example of AI though, is like breast cancer,
- 42:42Speaker 3: the detection you still need human oversight, right, but using
- 42:46Speaker 3: a machine is actually more accurate than humans. So that's
- 42:49Speaker 3: a great example where the research is showing it's better
- 42:52Speaker 3: and it doesn't I think, inherently replace anything.
- 42:56Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 42:57Speaker 3: So that's the balance. You know, people act like it's
- 43:00Speaker 3: all in, all out, and it's like we have.
- 43:03Speaker 2: A balance to most things, right, and we just have
- 43:05Speaker 2: to find that what's going to do no harm as
- 43:10Speaker 2: little as harm as possible.
- 43:11Speaker 1: Absolutely, yes, So where are we in this race?
- 43:16Speaker 3: Well, again, I want to thank you guys for having
- 43:18Speaker 3: me on. It's so important that we have new media.
- 43:20Speaker 3: We know that traditional media is dying, right, monopoly is
- 43:24Speaker 3: we can literally there's like spreadsheets now of like three
- 43:28Speaker 3: companies that own or three different owners for fifty companies.
- 43:32Speaker 1: There's about to be another Selder about to merger.
- 43:35Speaker 3: Yeah, goodness, that's just approved. I don't know how Elizabeth
- 43:38Speaker 3: Warren is handling this right. She's been calling for the
- 43:40Speaker 3: breaking up monopolies for so long. That's why I backed
- 43:43Speaker 3: her for presidential run back in twenty sixteen. It's it's
- 43:48Speaker 3: deeply problematic what is happening with our media, and I've
- 43:51Speaker 3: seen a lack of critical thinking about the candidates that
- 43:54Speaker 3: are offered, a lack of expiration. One of the things
- 43:57Speaker 3: I brought up on the debate stage was a racist
- 43:59Speaker 3: cartoon that Michael helped distribute in white neighborhoods, going after
- 44:03Speaker 3: Reverend Al Sharpton. And it was a horrific graphic and
- 44:07Speaker 3: we found it because even though it's been talked about
- 44:08Speaker 3: once or twice, no one's shown the image. And it
- 44:11Speaker 3: was to impede a Latino mayoral candidate. It was meant
- 44:15Speaker 3: to have him lose. And so I am very concerned
- 44:19Speaker 3: when I see black and brown communities saying, oh, maybe
- 44:21Speaker 3: Mike is the choice. It's like, if it's convenient for him,
- 44:24Speaker 3: then sure he'll show up for you. If it's not,
- 44:26Speaker 3: then you're going to be used as fodder. And you
- 44:29Speaker 3: should know that about your candidates, who has always stood
- 44:31Speaker 3: for the communities, not come only when they need something,
- 44:35Speaker 3: so I have tried to be the vocal advocate, and
- 44:39Speaker 3: people like you have helped lift me up and I
- 44:40Speaker 3: really appreciate that giving me this opportunity. I want people
- 44:44Speaker 3: to really think as they go to vote for n
- 44:46Speaker 3: Y twelve, who do you want? I have heard from
- 44:50Speaker 3: many people who do they think is going to win?
- 44:53Speaker 3: Just different than who do you want? And we need
- 44:56Speaker 3: to start voting who do you want? Because we saw
- 44:59Speaker 3: this amazing shift with Mom Donnie versus Cuomo, Cole Old Guard.
- 45:03Speaker 3: It was the big money, it was the billionaires. It
- 45:05Speaker 3: was this ugly attitude of I will take what I want,
- 45:09Speaker 3: no one can stop me, and we won. I love
- 45:13Speaker 3: that a door knocked for Mayor mont Donnie and he
- 45:15Speaker 3: has yet to choose a candidate. I hope he'll choose me.
- 45:17Speaker 1: That's day.
- 45:19Speaker 2: Well.
- 45:19Speaker 3: And it might be smart that he doesn't say who
- 45:21Speaker 3: he wants to move for, because he's not super super loved.
- 45:24Speaker 3: It was a fifty to fifty split in twelve. He's
- 45:27Speaker 3: loved everywhere else, but it's a high Jewish population and
- 45:32Speaker 3: people were I think rightly upset with his use of
- 45:34Speaker 3: anti fada and things at the beginning. I think he's
- 45:37Speaker 3: worked really hard to try to correct missteps and errors
- 45:41Speaker 3: that have stoked some anti Semitism. But I understand people
- 45:45Speaker 3: who are very upset. It's maybe one of the quickest
- 45:48Speaker 3: questions I get asked on the street is like Mandannie
- 45:50Speaker 3: or Cuomo? And I was like, Mom Donnie, and people
- 45:52Speaker 3: will walk away and starve away. But Cuomo's actually harassed
- 45:56Speaker 3: Charlotte Bennett, who is someone who interned for me, and
- 45:59Speaker 3: I was the first phone call she made after that incident,
- 46:03Speaker 3: and she said, I think I have to sue my boss.
- 46:04Speaker 3: I didn't know she worked for Cuomo, but she called
- 46:07Speaker 3: me to get a referral and I gave her one.
- 46:09Speaker 3: So I'm never going to vote for that man. I'm
- 46:11Speaker 3: so glad he's nowhere in the city from what I
- 46:13Speaker 3: can tell. But he thought about entering this race, and
- 46:16Speaker 3: some part of me kind of wish he did so
- 46:18Speaker 3: I had someone to punch against, because that was the
- 46:20Speaker 3: beauty the Mom Donnie race. There was someone to punch against.
- 46:23Speaker 3: There was a bad guy this one. I think everyone
- 46:26Speaker 3: is generally a pretty good Democrat, right, and it's different
- 46:29Speaker 3: levels of experience, And so why I'm saying, Picky, you
- 46:32Speaker 3: really want to lead? Who is the new voice, who
- 46:34Speaker 3: is saying the things you haven't heard, Who is the
- 46:36Speaker 3: person that's going to fight the battles versus look away,
- 46:39Speaker 3: and then vote for them because when thirty percent or undecided,
- 46:42Speaker 3: that swings an entire race. So don't how anyone out
- 46:45Speaker 3: take your time eight candidates, just research all of them. Yeah,
- 46:49Speaker 3: takes a minute.
- 46:50Speaker 2: I actually really love what you're saying about choose stop
- 46:53Speaker 2: thinking so much about who's going to win, because I
- 46:57Speaker 2: have been guilty of thinking the same people as well.
- 46:59Speaker 2: I could do this, but is my vote wasted?
- 47:01Speaker 3: Right?
- 47:02Speaker 2: But this notion of vote for the person who you
- 47:05Speaker 2: really want in the job, vote for the person that
- 47:07Speaker 2: you think will do their best. If more of us
- 47:10Speaker 2: think that way, the shift that we're hoping will happen.
- 47:13Speaker 2: I think will eventually happen. It might take some time,
- 47:16Speaker 2: but it's a better way to think about it.
- 47:20Speaker 3: A vote is a message to the establishment of where
- 47:24Speaker 3: the current is going, right, and NY twelve really is
- 47:27Speaker 3: the district that everyone in the country watches. It's Manhattan.
- 47:30Speaker 3: It's where all the new innovation ideas come from. So
- 47:33Speaker 3: we're way too much money and power have been consolidated.
- 47:36Speaker 3: So even a significant shift like towards a non establishment candidate,
- 47:40Speaker 3: says a lot to any establishment candidate that would win
- 47:43Speaker 3: to maybe be more progressive than they're inclined to be,
- 47:46Speaker 3: which is good. We want a representative who's understanding where
- 47:49Speaker 3: the current is going and not just you know, standing
- 47:52Speaker 3: by for example, Hquem Jeffries. It absolutely killed me. I
- 47:56Speaker 3: didn't have time in the debate to make all the
- 47:57Speaker 3: points I wanted, but him Jeffries, has come out saying
- 48:01Speaker 3: impeaching Donald Trump is no longer the priority. It's now affordability.
- 48:05Speaker 3: And they're related, you know, like we can't have someone
- 48:07Speaker 3: stealing one point eight billion dollars from IRS and then
- 48:10Speaker 3: pretend like that's not going to affect the taxpayer, So
- 48:13Speaker 3: it's related. But the minute that came out, Michael Lasher
- 48:17Speaker 3: was in a forum for ninety second Street Why, and
- 48:20Speaker 3: he said, it is a fantasy world. It is impossible.
- 48:25Speaker 3: There's no world that exists in which we can impeach
- 48:27Speaker 3: Donald Trump. And I was shocked. I've listened to him
- 48:30Speaker 3: in every debate and I was like, where is this
- 48:32Speaker 3: coming from? And then I saw Hikin Jeffreys and I
- 48:34Speaker 3: was like, oh, so you you have abandoned your principles
- 48:38Speaker 3: that you've said in every single forum because someone said
- 48:41Speaker 3: it's not our priority, and so you just shifted on
- 48:43Speaker 3: a dime. You didn't listen to what the people on
- 48:45Speaker 3: the ground said, because if you did, everyone wants him out,
- 48:48Speaker 3: Like especially after what he did with the NIXT game.
- 48:50Speaker 3: I mean he's gone now.
- 48:54Speaker 2: He's like, where's your moral compass?
- 48:56Speaker 1: Right? Well, thank you for joining us, Laura. Early voting
- 49:00Speaker 1: is happening now if you're listening to this on Thursday
- 49:03Speaker 1: or watching it on YouTube, and the election is on Tuesday,
- 49:06Speaker 1: June twenty third, So get to the polls, vote for
- 49:10Speaker 1: who you care about.
- 49:12Speaker 2: Laura. Where can people find you on social night you
- 49:15Speaker 2: look into the camera link.
- 49:16Speaker 3: Thank ye. So Lourdne for Congress dot com is the
- 49:18Speaker 3: home base, and Loura Done for Congress is TikTok. It's
- 49:22Speaker 3: LinkedIn Facebook. The only one that's different is of course
- 49:25Speaker 3: Twitter and X. I'm sorry I'm still on there. It's
- 49:27Speaker 3: a political necessary Loura Done Ny twelve, But I would
- 49:31Speaker 3: love to have you follow, like shoot me a message.
- 49:33Speaker 3: I actually do respond to everyone who asks me questions
- 49:36Speaker 3: because I want you to know who you're voting for
- 49:38Speaker 3: and what my values are.
- 49:39Speaker 2: Thank you so much, Thank you so much, Thank you
- 49:41Speaker 2: for coming coming.
- 49:42Speaker 3: Course, thank you guys.
- 49:46Speaker 1: This is Tales from the Dams. We're going to talk
- 49:48Speaker 1: about all the weird, wild, freaky, dky things you send
- 49:51Speaker 1: me in my DMS. You email it to brief Recess
- 49:54Speaker 1: at exactly Wrightmedia dot com, or you send them to Melissa,
- 49:57Speaker 1: whatever you want to do. We're reading it on the
- 49:59Speaker 1: show and it's getting sick and twisted and I love it.
- 50:02Speaker 1: Sure is, so Melissa.
- 50:04Speaker 2: Who am I? What I always say? Friends? Well, Michael
- 50:08Speaker 2: is a lawyer. He's not your lawyer, so you probably
- 50:12Speaker 2: should find your own. By the way, speaking of that,
- 50:16Speaker 2: somebody quoted that to me where in Kate may I
- 50:21Speaker 2: love that? I know?
- 50:22Speaker 1: I love that.
- 50:22Speaker 2: I know.
- 50:23Speaker 1: Not this show getting traction, not this not people liking
- 50:27Speaker 1: this show, not that being on my twenty twenty six
- 50:31Speaker 1: Bingo card that was not on there. But here we are.
- 50:34Speaker 1: You know what, not many people believed in us.
- 50:37Speaker 2: We believed in us.
- 50:38Speaker 1: Yeah, be the change you wish to see at the
- 50:41Speaker 1: bottom of the trappy fountain.
- 50:43Speaker 2: Totally random things. Did you see? My mom commented on Magalie.
- 50:48Speaker 1: She is using ten nine words. She's getting in there
- 50:51Speaker 1: she is respond.
- 50:52Speaker 2: I'm like, thanks, mom, you welcome.
- 50:56Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay. The one thing I don't want
- 50:59Speaker 1: you guys to send us medical prognoses because someone someone
- 51:03Speaker 1: sent me a mental illness prognosis.
- 51:05Speaker 2: What what do you got.
- 51:07Speaker 1: Telling me I'm bipolar?
- 51:08Speaker 2: Are you?
- 51:09Speaker 1: I don't think so?
- 51:11Speaker 2: Should you ask somebody not a medical professional why? I'm curious, though,
- 51:17Speaker 2: what is it? What behaviors? Hey, friends, what behaviors.
- 51:22Speaker 1: Having them do exactly what I don't want.
- 51:24Speaker 2: But I'm curious, Like I would never have said that
- 51:27Speaker 2: about you. So I'm wondering what it is that they're
- 51:30Speaker 2: looking at. And they're like, he's he's bipolar.
- 51:34Speaker 1: Man's bipolar.
- 51:35Speaker 2: He's bipolar. It's like the person who told me that
- 51:37Speaker 2: I was jaundice.
- 51:40Speaker 1: You're like, I'm actually just black.
- 51:43Speaker 2: I'm just brown.
- 51:44Speaker 1: I'm just a black woman.
- 51:45Speaker 2: That's all that it is. Thank you.
- 51:48Speaker 1: Okay. So this is from the sixty Minutes episode This
- 51:51Speaker 1: is a fun show review. Mike Alvoord fifty five says, Actually, guys,
- 51:55Speaker 1: nobody is watching CBS News or sixty Minutes. CBS is
- 51:59Speaker 1: full of partisan active and not journalists. Did you not
- 52:01Speaker 1: think this would catch up to you eventually? No, I didn't.
- 52:05Speaker 1: This is the first I thought about it.
- 52:06Speaker 2: He's not talking to you, oh, talking to CBS. He's
- 52:12Speaker 2: talking to.
- 52:12Speaker 1: It's like, wow, yeah, I am really part of isant.
- 52:15Speaker 1: Actually I'm not a journalist, so it did catch up
- 52:18Speaker 1: to me.
- 52:19Speaker 2: No, he's not talking I don't Okay, thanks, I don't
- 52:21Speaker 2: think that Mike is talking to you. I think he's
- 52:23Speaker 2: talking to CBS. I used to watch CBS in the
- 52:29Speaker 2: morning every day, and we've and we switched, which is
- 52:33Speaker 2: and I have a family member who works on that show.
- 52:35Speaker 2: So oh yeah, but you gotta do something, you gotta
- 52:40Speaker 2: stand for something. I get scruples from somewhere.
- 52:42Speaker 1: Scruples from somewhere. Katie Kirk gave me your number. She
- 52:45Speaker 1: was in CBS.
- 52:46Speaker 2: Who she she was on NBC?
- 52:48Speaker 1: NBC.
- 52:49Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, okay, one day.
- 52:51Speaker 1: One day, you'll tell me a Katie Kirk story.
- 52:53Speaker 2: Is a Magley Joel Melissa's story.
- 52:56Speaker 1: Okay, for one more reason, you should just tell me.
- 52:59Speaker 2: Okay. When I decided to have weight loss surgery, I
- 53:02Speaker 2: did not want to tell my parents because they were
- 53:04Speaker 2: going to be in my ear about it. And then
- 53:06Speaker 2: finally my brother said to me, if you don't tell them.
- 53:10Speaker 2: I'm going to tell them.
- 53:11Speaker 1: Did he give you a deadline? Yeah?
- 53:14Speaker 2: So the week of I show up at my parents'
- 53:18Speaker 2: house late at night and my mom is like, what
- 53:20Speaker 2: are you doing here? And I was like nothing.
- 53:22Speaker 1: You're like, I'm on a deadline Joey gave me.
- 53:24Speaker 2: I said nothing. Where's where's Pop? And she was like
- 53:28Speaker 2: he's in the room and I said okay. So I
- 53:30Speaker 2: went back there and my dad was like half asleep,
- 53:32Speaker 2: and I was like hey. He was like, what's the matter.
- 53:35Speaker 2: I was like nothing, I wanted to talk to you
- 53:36Speaker 2: with mom. So I turn around to call my mom
- 53:40Speaker 2: and she's right here.
- 53:42Speaker 1: Like I bumped intown, like like alien, like right here.
- 53:47Speaker 2: So I go on to say whatever, I'm going to
- 53:50Speaker 2: have weight loss surgery and they're like, oh my god.
- 53:52Speaker 2: And then my dad said to me Lisa. He's like,
- 53:59Speaker 2: I look it Al Roker and he says Al Roker
- 54:05Speaker 2: the weather man on Good Morning America. This is important, okay,
- 54:10Speaker 2: And my mom says, Joel. That's my dad's name is Joel.
- 54:14Speaker 2: I woka sit back, Good Morning, I met you go
- 54:19Speaker 2: I woke on East Today Show.
- 54:23Speaker 1: I meanwhile, You're like, I'm trying to make an important
- 54:25Speaker 1: life announcement.
- 54:26Speaker 2: And when I tell you this went back and forth
- 54:29Speaker 2: for like three minutes, and I'm sitting here and my
- 54:31Speaker 2: mom is like, I woke her today, show get your
- 54:34Speaker 2: correc Matt Lawe and go. And then my dad's like,
- 54:41Speaker 2: you're right, you know what.
- 54:42Speaker 1: Minutes later. There was another part of that story though,
- 54:46Speaker 1: that you haven't told yet, and I want you to.
- 54:48Speaker 1: I want you to say it.
- 54:49Speaker 2: Oh right now, I'll say so. One of the things
- 54:52Speaker 2: that I really wanted to make sure was that I
- 54:55Speaker 2: didn't want them to tell anybody because I wasn't ready
- 54:57Speaker 2: to say anything. And I and I said, I don't
- 55:01Speaker 2: want you to tell people. Mom, don't because my mom
- 55:04Speaker 2: will tell her sisters everything. Mom, I don't want you
- 55:08Speaker 2: to tell anybody.
- 55:09Speaker 1: And my miss is actually her microphone she uses to
- 55:13Speaker 1: tell the whole sam everybody.
- 55:15Speaker 2: Yeah, so and she was like no, no, no, I'm
- 55:18Speaker 2: not going to say anything. And then I was like
- 55:20Speaker 2: all right, and then my dad was very offended. Yeah,
- 55:24Speaker 2: he was just like what do you mean? And then
- 55:25Speaker 2: my mom went to go do something and I was like, Dad,
- 55:28Speaker 2: I'm not talking to you, I'm talking to mom. Oh, mummy,
- 55:31Speaker 2: use something else. Yeah, because my mom can't she cannot
- 55:34Speaker 2: keep It was like, oh yeah, he was like, oh
- 55:37Speaker 2: for sure, for sure, you really needed to tell her that.
- 55:39Speaker 1: Thank you.
- 55:39Speaker 2: He was like, but it didn't matter because she told
- 55:41Speaker 2: an told everybody anyway she did. I was really I
- 55:46Speaker 2: had to track her down.
- 55:47Speaker 1: She was on vacationing the tea. Okay, okay, do you
- 55:50Speaker 1: want to read this one from Natalie Castle. It's about Ted,
- 55:53Speaker 1: your neighbor, neighbor. A lot of people messaged me about
- 55:59Speaker 1: your neighbor Ted.
- 56:00Speaker 2: The best thing about it was that Katie sent us
- 56:02Speaker 2: a text message. I'll share it with you guys if
- 56:04Speaker 2: you want. And she was like, has Ted said fire
- 56:06Speaker 2: to the rain lately? Dead? Okay? This is from Natalie
- 56:13Speaker 2: Castle in ninety five. You're always having a bad fucking day.
- 56:16Speaker 2: Ted is relatable in that regard.
- 56:20Speaker 1: For Ted. Okay. From the Alex Murder Murder Conviction Overturned episode,
- 56:25Speaker 1: Cisco says, longtime, your first time commenter, Welcome to the DMS.
- 56:29Speaker 1: To complicate things more, I have an internal monologue but
- 56:32Speaker 1: can't visualize. It's called a fantasia, and when I close
- 56:37Speaker 1: my eyes, it feels like talking to someone in a
- 56:41Speaker 1: dark room.
- 56:43Speaker 2: Wow.
- 56:44Speaker 1: Oh that's so cool.
- 56:45Speaker 2: I got a lot of people who were upset with
- 56:47Speaker 2: me when we were talking about the people who don't
- 56:49Speaker 2: have an internal model, okay, and they wanted me to
- 56:53Speaker 2: know that just because you don't have an internal monologue
- 56:57Speaker 2: doesn't mean you have a moral compass. And I wasn't
- 56:59Speaker 2: sure that's what I was saying. We were also processing
- 57:02Speaker 2: in real time, correct, I was because it was hard
- 57:04Speaker 2: to understand. I'm like, well, if you don't have an
- 57:06Speaker 2: inner monologue, what's going on? So people were saying that
- 57:09Speaker 2: they see images, they do other things, but they don't
- 57:13Speaker 2: they're just not yapping to themselves all day like that.
- 57:15Speaker 2: I think that that is an inner monologue, right, maybe yeh,
- 57:19Speaker 2: there's images in your head. I think it's like, it's
- 57:22Speaker 2: kind of the same thing, take a nuanced kind of trum.
- 57:26Speaker 2: I was concerned that people with no inner monologue but
- 57:30Speaker 2: there's nothing going on, and I was wrong, And I'm sorry.
- 57:33Speaker 1: All right, we'll do a quick email question. I'll read
- 57:37Speaker 1: number one. Sorry, Highbury Precess love your podcast. Last month,
- 57:41Speaker 1: I was called for jury duty at the US District
- 57:43Speaker 1: Court for Southern New York. I was not part of
- 57:45Speaker 1: the jury, but did spend three days in the wider
- 57:49Speaker 1: process involves a lot of waiting around, Yes, forced into
- 57:52Speaker 1: a new form of existence without any electronic devices. I
- 57:56Speaker 1: noticed that all the female attorneys, almost all of them
- 57:59Speaker 1: wore heels. I assume most of these women have some
- 58:03Speaker 1: comfortable sneakers stashed somewhere in the building, though I acknowledge
- 58:06Speaker 1: they're wonderfully loud on those shiny marble floors. Anyway, I
- 58:10Speaker 1: found myself wondering why so few female lawyers were in
- 58:13Speaker 1: cute dress professional flats. Our female attorneys still expected to
- 58:17Speaker 1: wear high heels, and many work situations are flats quietly
- 58:22Speaker 1: frowned upon.
- 58:23Speaker 2: That's a good question. That's a good question. I don't know.
- 58:25Speaker 1: I think that tell us about just like professional women attire,
- 58:30Speaker 1: I meanspective.
- 58:31Speaker 2: I think it depends, and I think it depends on
- 58:36Speaker 2: the environment that you're working in. Right. There are some
- 58:38Speaker 2: work environments that are just casual, and then there are
- 58:42Speaker 2: some that are not as much. So, if you work
- 58:44Speaker 2: in a really corporate space, I can imagine that you
- 58:48Speaker 2: have to get more dressed up. If you don't, then
- 58:50Speaker 2: you don't. It's more like work casual. Right. Yeah, I
- 58:55Speaker 2: also think, and I'm going to try and work this out,
- 58:59Speaker 2: because I've talked about this with some friends, is that
- 59:02Speaker 2: I find that as somebody who's an older person in
- 59:08Speaker 2: the workplace and I look at my much younger colleagues
- 59:13Speaker 2: and they are not dressed up right. They there were like,
- 59:16Speaker 2: it's it's not that they look bad. They don't look bad.
- 59:19Speaker 1: My t shirt that says Daddy's little.
- 59:21Speaker 2: Meatball, right, yeah, it's so, it's and I think that
- 59:25Speaker 2: I have been trained to look a certain way when
- 59:30Speaker 2: I get to work, right, and it's and it's not
- 59:33Speaker 2: good or bad, it's just but it is something that
- 59:35Speaker 2: I've noticed, like I would never leave the house if
- 59:39Speaker 2: my stuff wasn't ironed right, that's just right, ye. And
- 59:42Speaker 2: I find that And this is something that I talked
- 59:44Speaker 2: to with KP about all the time. I'm like, what
- 59:46Speaker 2: are you doing?
- 59:47Speaker 1: My mom taught me how to iron, Like I had
- 59:49Speaker 1: to iron my shirts for when I was a waiter
- 59:52Speaker 1: for the legal profession. When we were in law school,
- 59:55Speaker 1: women had to wear tights if they were going and
- 59:58Speaker 1: they had like a meeting with all of us because
- 1:00:00Speaker 1: the legal profession is still very conservative. Like when I
- 1:00:04Speaker 1: was working for judges, internships, clerkships, whatever, you were not
- 1:00:08Speaker 1: allowed to step foot in the courtroom if you were
- 1:00:10Speaker 1: not wearing a tie in jacket. And that is still
- 1:00:12Speaker 1: true today. I bring ties and jackets for clients if
- 1:00:16Speaker 1: they don't have them. I don't think I've ever seen
- 1:00:18Speaker 1: a lawyer not in a tie in jacket in a courtroom,
- 1:00:21Speaker 1: and it's almost like going on stage in a costume.
- 1:00:25Speaker 1: So but I do remember we had like a it's
- 1:00:28Speaker 1: called trial advocacy. It's basically where you learn how to
- 1:00:30Speaker 1: do an opening statement in law school and you're all
- 1:00:33Speaker 1: like practicing, and this like very southern Louisiana attorney. She
- 1:00:38Speaker 1: came and was an older woman, and she basically explained
- 1:00:42Speaker 1: to the whole class, ladies, you have to wear tights.
- 1:00:46Speaker 1: You cannot wear a skirt or a dress, doesn't matter
- 1:00:48Speaker 1: how long it is, you must wear tights and heels.
- 1:00:52Speaker 1: So I do think that there is a very conservative
- 1:00:56Speaker 1: wardrobe that lawyers are wearing a because of the profession.
- 1:01:00Speaker 1: Be we're trying to look neutral to a jury. Like
- 1:01:04Speaker 1: I'm not wearing anything crazy. I'm just trying to dress
- 1:01:07Speaker 1: nice and proper in court because for me, I'm like,
- 1:01:11Speaker 1: this trial is not about me and my wardrobe. It's
- 1:01:13Speaker 1: about just looking presentable. Like, I don't think I would
- 1:01:17Speaker 1: wear this tie to court, Okay, I would wear like
- 1:01:20Speaker 1: a navy suit. It was a really important here navy suit,
- 1:01:23Speaker 1: more neutral tie.
- 1:01:24Speaker 2: Okay, Because I've seen you, yeah, go to court, come
- 1:01:27Speaker 2: back from court, and I've seen what you're wearing, and
- 1:01:29Speaker 2: you always look great. But I wonder what do you
- 1:01:34Speaker 2: think the judges might think of the cut of the suit,
- 1:01:38Speaker 2: because the cut of your suit's take like a little bit. Yeah,
- 1:01:41Speaker 2: they're like not bagging right, and traditionally it's because it's
- 1:01:45Speaker 2: like a traditional see, yeah.
- 1:01:47Speaker 1: There are different kinds of cuts. I wear like a
- 1:01:49Speaker 1: soho fit.
- 1:01:51Speaker 2: Yeah, So do you think that that has an impact
- 1:01:54Speaker 2: that people are looking at you and their disay.
- 1:01:56Speaker 1: They've never gotten any like feedback on But I think
- 1:01:59Speaker 1: as long as your dressed like presentable for court is
- 1:02:01Speaker 1: usually what I start it going for.
- 1:02:04Speaker 2: So to go back to what this person asked us,
- 1:02:09Speaker 2: what do we think that courts might think about flat shoes?
- 1:02:17Speaker 2: Flat shoes? And I also wonder what they would think
- 1:02:19Speaker 2: about ultra high shoes like the super sexy stilettos, right,
- 1:02:24Speaker 2: like is that fowned upon? Also, I don't know these
- 1:02:28Speaker 2: are limitations that are placed on what right these are
- 1:02:30Speaker 2: limitations that are placed on women.
- 1:02:32Speaker 1: There's an episode of Good Fight, Good Wife episode of
- 1:02:34Speaker 1: the Good Wife where Alicia was wearing a pants suit
- 1:02:37Speaker 1: not a skirt suit, and a judge said something to her.
- 1:02:41Speaker 1: So I do think there are like instances where judges like,
- 1:02:45Speaker 1: I can't imagine that was like just for TV. I'm
- 1:02:48Speaker 1: sure that's happened in real life.
- 1:02:49Speaker 2: When you are in court and you are and there's
- 1:02:54Speaker 2: an attorney who's a woman suit and heels. Is it
- 1:02:58Speaker 2: a dress suit or is it pants suit?
- 1:03:00Speaker 1: Dress?
- 1:03:01Speaker 2: Always?
- 1:03:02Speaker 1: Oh, I'm like really focused not on outfits.
- 1:03:05Speaker 2: I understand. No, I understanding.
- 1:03:07Speaker 1: I would say for the most part, yes, okay, I
- 1:03:10Speaker 1: don't recall a pants suit.
- 1:03:12Speaker 2: I'm going to ask because I have some women in
- 1:03:15Speaker 2: my life. Yeah, our attorneys and I will ask Jim,
- 1:03:18Speaker 2: let's ask. Let's circle back. It's interesting question. Actually, right,
- 1:03:22Speaker 2: these are things because there could be a multitude of
- 1:03:25Speaker 2: reasons why you prefer to wear flats.
- 1:03:27Speaker 1: Now I'm going to get in my head because I
- 1:03:28Speaker 1: have a trial this week. Now, I'm like, what the
- 1:03:30Speaker 1: hell am I gonna wear? This is pref recess. Thank
- 1:03:35Speaker 1: you for watching. I'll see you in court, not me.
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