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The horrible lightness of pick-mes | Rantzerker 210 · Honey Badger Radio

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  Coming to you live from deep within a very slushy and also deceptively icy,
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  radioactive wasteland. We are the survivors of the alt right kick Apocalypse, the
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  few, the brave, the bitchy, once more wading into battle against the
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  pick Mey, the zombie pick me hords with rant Zerker number two ten the
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  horrible lightness of Pickmies. I am your host, Alison, and with me
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  is Brian and Karen. And who doesn't understand what you're talking about? It
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  is fifteen degrees out celsius. Well it's still slusky. It's slush, so
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  it's not slow. Well I don't okay, okay, your entire yard has
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  not a speck of snow on it, no slush, no snow. The
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  ground isn't even damp. It's it's completely like I mean, I guess in
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  between houses, you know, if they face north, their shade and stuff,
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  right, But yeah, no, there's nothing here. There's no slash,
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  there's no ice, there's no nothing. It's like it's literally it's shorts
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  weather and not shorts weather for my son, who wears shorts when it's minus
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  ten celsius. Oh, no shorts weather for me. Okay I'm gonna say
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  something that's gonna blow your mind, Karen, I live about what what is
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  it nine hundred kilometers away from you? Yes, and that sucks for you.
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  Yeah. So I am describing the weather where I am, not the
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  weather everywhere in the world. I pity you. I pity you. I
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  pity you. The weather here is beautiful. It's sunny, it's wonderful,
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  it's a vibrant. My dog, my dog spent an hour just sitting on
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  the front courch soaking up the sun. Okay, it's not bad. It's
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  not annoying me. Okay. So it was not exactly I said slushy.
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  I said slushy. It is slushy. It is definitely slushy here, but
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  it is fairly warm. As long as you're careful, you won't break your
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  neck on the ice. But there is still ice, so you got to
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  be careful. You know, you got to know all the ice pegin ice
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  was penguin wall. All the ice was gone like two days ago. Here.
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  Yeah, we had no I don't I don't understand why you haven't had
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  a delivery of like plus eight plus. No, we we have, we
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  we have. It's just that we like all right, we get a lot
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  of snow. That's why people come here to snow snowmobile, right, because
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  there's a lot we Yeah, we had like snow a month ago and then
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  we had another sevens of snow and then you had to take a picture and
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  just like Karen, look this is where this is what it looks like the
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  day my sidewalks were completely melted and dry. Okay, that was the day
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  the city uh notice arribed in my mailbox and clear your sidewalks. Yeah,
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  okay, I just you know, there's just a lot of snow in this
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  region of Canada and it takes a while for it to go away, so
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  right now. And also we've been getting negative temperatures at night, so everything's
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  freezing. So it it melts, it freezes. So there's like slash over
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  top of ice, which if anybody's ever been in Canada knows that is like
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  the deadliest combination. Oh yeah, no, it's awful. It's fucking awful.
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  Like you could if you if you had a monorail and all you did
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  was put slash on top of ice, that ship would go round the earth.
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  And all you would need is a push by like one a toddler just
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  like that would be it. It would just zoom all the way around Earth
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  because there would be just no no friction, and then a walking is sort
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  of touchy. That's what I'm saying. I'm just saying, it's slic slicy,
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  slicy, slicy, it's slushy shy, slichy is is an adequate term
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  that was like a week ago for us. It's not slicy. It's it's
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  not more. It's not it's not I want to say substantive. No,
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  that's not the right word. It is not. It's adequate. It is
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  not superlative. It's not inadequate. But it's just it just hits right in
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  the mid region. Slicy slicy. Okay, so we are doing a video
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  another just so everybody knows. I'm just like really happy that I think snow
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  is done for the year. Yeah, I think everybody's really happy in Canada,
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  at least the places where it's starting to disappear. All right, So
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  well before we so we're gonna do another pick me video because apparently the topic
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  of pigmies is very uh on the mind with a lot of girl streamers or
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  girl YouTubers whatever. Pick me seem to be a topic of note, although
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  I haven't really seen many pigmies respond to the pic me videos, so I
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  don't know. Of course you could, you could look at it and say,
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  uh, the definition of pick me seems to be very inconsistent. But
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  you know, they seem to be describing something something that they very much do
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  not like. So let's let's look at Let's look at the picm and what
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  the pick mey is and uh, what she do and where she be and
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  her various features. Okay, but before we get into it, or at
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  least the criticism of pic me, presumably from either a fe feminist or a
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  woman who really thinks that men are to blame. People think that that's interchangeable,
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  but it's not always. There's lots of women who apparently aren't feminists because
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  they don't want to have jobs. They just want to get a man to
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  do everything for them, and they still regard men to be to blame,
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  even though were they to gain their utopia, the only people doing anything would
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  be men, and then the men would be blamed for doing everything. It
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  seems really circular, but anyway, Okay, so if you want to send
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  to continue to hear are insightful conversation. Do you want to start, Brian,
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  I think that's that's yeah. I think we should probably start Righty is
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  someone who craves male attention and tries to be not like other girls. They're
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  basically the female equivalent of a scent. Whenever you see like a woman,
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  just know that someone is going to get mistreated or humiliated. This is what
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  life could be like if you were honest with the pick me girl. This
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  is our pig me Shaw's agents of the patriarchy. This is a rhetorical question
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  for how to reset the dating market to benefit women. Does it not benefit
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  women enough already? Like how does the baking? Does the dating market benefit
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  men at all? Only the top one percent of men. Uh yeah,
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  like, and the thing is that it all right, you're you're right.
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  It is the top one percent of men one percent. Now, I don't
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  know whatever the top uh, the the apex of men, whatever percentage that
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  might be. It's probably always changing. But yeah, I mean it's always
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  a tiny, tiny amount. We lost Karen. She dropped out. Oh
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  no, we lost to Karen. I wonder she wasn't interrupting me. Maybe
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  I'll see if I can get her on text. Yeah, I find out
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  what like, if she's having an issue, maybe something happened. So the
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  premise here is that the dating scene doesn't benefit women, I presume because they're
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  not getting what they want out of it. And I guess I'm guessing what
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  they want is they want there to be enough top men to go around,
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  which that's impossible. So the dating scene doesn't benefit women because they're not getting
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  exactly what they want, even though exactly what they want is impossible and not
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  just impossible. We probably need another five earths to accommodate the material ar.
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  It looks like Karen is back. You know, men who make twice as
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  much as they do now are going to be able to buy twice as much,
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  which means even more pressure on our resources. So this is a this
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  is interesting. They don't compare it to the situation for men. They don't
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  look at the situation the dating sphere of men and compare it to themselves and
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  said, they compare it to some ideal version where they get everything they want,
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  and yeah, don't it's not serving them. Karen is back, but
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  for some reason, she's muted. How do you justify that? How does
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  anybody justify that? Alic can you hear me? Am? I talking alone?
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  Alison? Can you hear me? Why are you muted? What the
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  hell is going on? Hold on? Hello? Can you hear me?
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  Alison? What is going on here? Oh boy? Uh okay, let
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  me let me let me uh there's something going on with Alison and Karen's microphone.
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  Let me create a new room and we'll do this over again. Sorry,
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  yes, hello, let me see. Uh uh. I don't know
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  what is going on here, but it'll just take a second. Hello.
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  Yes, hello, I can hear you, but you can't hear me for
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  some reason. So I don't know why that is. Let me just check.
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  Yeah, it looks like it's working on my end. So something's going
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  on here. Okay, I'm gonna hang up on this one and make a
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  new room. I don't know why that happened, so just give me a
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  second. Guys, apologies, I don't understand it. RZ two ten uh
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  pass word ay, and let's do this again. And I'm want to send
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  invitations really quick. Okay, all right, we'll just wait till they get
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  in anyway, Mister three or three says you can hear us both. Yeah,
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  it was. It was working, but I don't know why it was
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  being a little goof goofy or so. I don't know if it's the video
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  ninja or maybe some other setting or maybe their internet. I don't know what
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  it was. So hopefully they'll get back in. I'm just kind of waiting
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  on Alison to get back in here, and Karen, let me what's going
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  on now. Let's say, oh wait, somebody's here, somebody's here.
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  Hellokay, Alison, are you there? Hello? Hello? Yeah? Hey?
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  Can you hear me? Hello? Can you hear me? Hello?
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  Why can't you hear me? My audio is working? You just check?
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  This looks good for whatever reason, I don't know what happened. I think
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  maybe we might have to go back to discourse. Still not working? All
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  right? Then all right, well I'll just meet you in the Discord live
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  show chat. So go in there and I'll see you there. I don't
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  know why this isn't working, all right, Hello, Hi, Karen was
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  just here. I saw that. What happened, I don't know. I
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  have a clue. Just everything stopped working everything, and Karen crashed and then
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  you crashed. Well people were still able to hear me and you really so
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  yeah, So I don't know if it's uh, I don't know what that
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  is. But are we still streaming? Yeah? We are. I didn't
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  I never stopped. We're still one long chain of technical difficulties. Okay,
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  Well, I don't know what opened. But I couldn't hear you at all.
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  I don't It's it's fine, it's not it's not the end of the
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  world. We're here, yea waiting. Now, let's see if Karen can
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  get in the discord. There she Oh, there we go, there we
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  go. Should I close the video names, Yeah, you can close the
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  other thing because I don't know. I don't know if there was something wrong
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  with that, but yeah, my computer is blistering hot. When you have
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  both open. Yes, that's going to be an issue. Maybe No,
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  I didn't have both open. I had Video Ninja open and Discord closed.
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  I don't know. I'll see that happened before when we were starting this thing,
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  so I don't know why that is. But we're here now, we're
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  here now. All right. My computer is still re hot, so thank
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  you. My husband just brought me coffee. Is there anything running in the
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  background. Uh, you know what, Brian, Lots of things are always
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  running in the background. The only two things that crash my computer. Oh
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  wait, there's a few things that crashed my computer. Discord zoom, uh,
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  Skype and video Ninja. All right, all right, all right,
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  Well, I don't know if we're gonna get any further with with with trying
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  to Sorry, guys, it's just massive crash, massive crash. I guess
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  Brian kept the stream running, so at least we have that. Okay,
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  let's get this back on track. Well, the stream never crashed. It
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  was something to do with the audio. Oh okay, with that, I
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  couldn't hear you, Brian, that's why. Well, my computer just like
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  turned off. So yeah, and Karen's computer turned off. My computer decided
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  I did to just not like I literally couldn't hear you at all, Ryan,
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  like nothing, So I left, I returned and still nothing. Well,
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  but you know it's good now, be that as mad as it may.
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  We're here, we can get here. It appears to be fine.
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  In fact, my computer is cooling down as we speak. I'm feeling the
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  underside of it. I'm actually whatever was wrong with Discord seems to be gone
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  for now here. Maybe we can return to Discord. Who knows, Maybe
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  maybe we need to give video Ninja a break for a bit. Well,
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  I don't know it address those issues? Okay, over it overloaded my computer
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  and made it shut down. So for those of you who are joining us,
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  just now, after that rollicking interaction with technical difficulties, walloping trolloping sauce
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  bottle. Yeah, that walloping trolloping sauce bottle. Yeah, of technical difficulties.
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  Oh, we have apparently got our thesis. You want to play it
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  again, Brian, it's only to eighteen Yeah, well we only we only
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  missed like twenty seconds. So yeah, so let's just let's play it from
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  the beginning. Join my call. Here we go. So pick me?
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  What does it? Pick me? Pick me? Girl is someone who craves
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  male attention and tries to be not like other girls. They're basically the female
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  equivalent of a simp. Whenever you see like a pick woman, just know
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  that someone is going to get mistreated or humiliated. This is what I be
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  like if you were honest with the pick me girl. All right, let's
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  stop not okay, So this is their thesis first of all, that the
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  dating market doesn't benefit women, does it benefit men? Like, seriously,
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  is anyone going to argue that that it benefits men? Karen? Are you
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  there? It benefits some men? Yeah? Well, I mean Brian was
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  saying like one percent of men. No, I'd say I'd say twenty you
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  think still it it benefits the top men. Do you think it's because I
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  think it was down to ten percent? No, No, I think I
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  think twenty percent of men have a shot in the dating market. It's probably
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  automate twenty percent. Like it. If you got ten percent of men,
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  if they they do something, they'll they'll have a shot, and then it's
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  a solid ten percent that are you know, right out of the packaging,
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  have everything working for them. But but be that as it may. What
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  I was saying, Okay, the pick me the pick me. Okay,
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  the pick me is basically, hey, here's what makes me potentially valuable to
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  a male partner. That's it. So I I I would like to be
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  picked, okay, based on the things that make me potentially valuable to a
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  male partner. I think what they're thinking of is that pigmies are scabs,
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  so they're they're actually settling for men who aren't the top value, men who
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  these women don't want anyway. Yeah, no, correctly, sure what this
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  the problem is? Because the thesis seems to be that the pigmies are undermining
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  other women. Yeah no, no, no, no dating market like scabs
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  undermine the union, right because yes, yes, union. But the problem
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  is that the pigmies aren't after your jobs. No because yeah no, well
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  okay, because the idea is, okay, behind a union, and the
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  vilification of scabs is that if other people are will to do it for less,
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  right, then I lose my cushy position, right yeah? And minimum
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  woman yeah yeah, not even or zero some yeah no. And so you
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  have a situation where, okay, so eighty percent of women are looking to
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  they're they're vying for twenty percent of the men, and nobody cares about the
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  bottom eighty percent. The only people that care about pigmies, right are the
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  people who are vying, Like pigmies don't care about other pigmies, right,
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  Like what they're describing as pigmies, which are people like me and people like
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  you who are just like, well, here's who I am. I'm low
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  maintenance. I'd like a partner, and I'm willing to low mat for a
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  woman, let's be fair. Yeah, yeah, woman. Yeah. And
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  and I don't I don't. I don't spend a lot of money. I
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  don't, I don't pay for I don't spend on frivolous things. And you
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  know, I'm willing to, you know, put in some effort and all
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  that stuff, right, And it's not necessarily effort aimed at making myself attractive
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  to other men, right, who could maybe snatch me away from you.
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  It's basically just like, I'm willing to put in the effort to cook you
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  some nice meals and make you feel good on your birthday and you know,
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  uh, maybe take it up the butt every once in a while, whatever,
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  okay. So and and I'm not going to cost you a lot and
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  okay, So that's what they're describing as a pick me well, but alternatively,
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  Hannah Cox described to pick me as a woman who's very critical or passive
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  aggressive towards other women, which you know, well, I am critical and
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  passive aggressive towards others. I'm like, I'm like, what, what the
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  fuck? You're a solid six and you want the quadruple six, the six
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  inches, six freaking feet, six figures and six pack, and you're not
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  gonna settle for anything less. That's not thirty three years old, bitch.
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  Okay, that's not passive aggressive. Your eggs are stale, Your eggs have
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  a pallor of yeah, and you're in a rush now. So the moment
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  the first date is the fucking broaching of the conversation about I'm gonna need you
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  to impregnate me at least twice. Oh my good lord. Right, okay,
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  so like why would they so okay us pigmies, Yep, okay,
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  yep, we're like, hey, everybody, look at reality. But you
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  can go for that thirty four year old woman with the cardi b freaking pointy
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  fingernails right right, and the eighteen dollars a month spaw bill right, Okay,
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  you can think about her, right, she's thirty four, she her
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  eggs are stale. She's not going to give you any kids. And if
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  she did give you kids, she'd probably stab them to death with her freaking
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  Cardi B fingernails. Oh, because because there's nobody who can wash a fucking
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  dish with those fingernails. Okay, So you can go for that, or
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  you can go for the woman in the plaid shirt who's able to like freaking
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  tighten a screw or spray some w D forty on a squeaky hinge. Okay,
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  you can go for that bitch, all right. And she might not
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  want to work, she might not want to work while her kids are small,
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  but you know what, she's going to provide you value And she's not
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  going to demand a ton. She's not gonna be hid me and and and
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  the fact that she's putting that out as a signal, right, and she
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  can provide you with healthy kids because she didn't wait until she was thirty five
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  years old before she started demanding somebody impregnator, right, Okay, so you
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  can go for you can go for the pick me or or you can go
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  for the Hannah coxs Okay living collections. I don't care if you go for
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  the Hannah Cocks, like, seriously, if that's what your your jam is,
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  go for it, that's fine. Yeah, what's annoying because it just
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  occurred to me what this is? We have a buffet, you know,
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  because for every woman there is a man. Because we're roughly equal when it
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  comes to population. Maybe there's an excess of women, probably because we kill
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  our kids, our sons, but that's another story. So there's a buffet,
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  right, and the individuals who are complaining about the pigmies, the pigmies
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  pick up their free complaints. We go to the buffet, we dish up,
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  and we go back and we have our meal. Right. The women
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  who do this, And do you know what that you could have? You
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  could I could, honestly, you could have a Cardi b who's a pick
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  me because she went, she dished up, she got her meal, and
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  she's now eating it. She's sitting down and she's eating it. She's moving
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  on with her life. That could be That could also be pick me behavior.
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  She could wear like eight hundred dollars of makeup. But if she actually
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  picks a man and settles down with him, I think basically she's that's a
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  pick me. That that's the process. So you have this buffet and the
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  pigmies go up, they get their meal, they settle down, and they
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  and they get on with their lives. And these women who are sitting at
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  the buffet not picking anything because nothing is good enough, are complaining that we're
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  taking a meal from the buffet for ourselves, Like what the fuck? Like,
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  there is nothing stopping you from picking out your plate, sitting down and
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  getting on with your life, nothing except you don't like anything at the buffet.
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  And that has nothing to do with the women who are going to the
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  buffet and finding something they like and getting on with their life. The fact
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  that you are at the buffet and you can't find a thing that you want
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  to eat, that's not our fault, but you're gonna try to make that
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  our fault. That's the thesis of this video. That's what I'm sensing.
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  There's anyone else sensing that, Yeah, yeah, So that's because this is
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  gonna somehow become our fault, because if we didn't go to the buffet and
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  pick out something that we liked, the buffet would be more suitable to you.
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  Like I don't know, the cook would say, all got up my
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  game, Even though there's no, there's none enough Like there's nothing there's The
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  buffet has everything, every conceivable thing. You cannot up your game over everything
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  right there. There's no upping here. There is a man for you in
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  that buffet. You're just choosing not to choose him. And it's probably not
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  even because he's he's not high value or whatever the hell they call that ship.
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  It's because they don't want to settle down. They don't they don't want
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  the fear of missing out. Like if I if I choose this one,
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  and maybe some of these better, if I choose the blueberry muffin, But
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  but but what if it's what if? What if the death by chocolate is
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  better? But if I if I choose the cheese plate? What if what
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  if the jelly salad is better? You know, like they just just sitting
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  there doing that. No, and and and no, and what they do.
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  What they do is they take a little bite of everything and uh and
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  then they're so full and kind of they feel eh, they can't they're not
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  they're not ready to commit like I want. They've sampled every dish. Dish
• 28:18
  can be as good as every dish, right as every dish? Yeah?
• 28:22
  No, and it's it's just like, h and how is it that this
• 28:27
  is our fault? Like, seriously, how is it that this is our
• 28:30
  fault? You know? It's interesting, you know, I'm glad. Actually
• 28:34
  maybe this is like the bridge between blaming men for something that what the hell
• 28:40
  are men are supposed to do about this? Like, how are they supposed
• 28:44
  to fix women? When all women want the top ten percent of men,
• 28:47
  if they all became as good as the top ten percent, you'd still want
• 28:49
  the top ten percent become completed. It would still be the top ten percent
• 28:53
  of the top ten percent, yeah, saying yeah, And it's just like,
• 28:59
  you can't this is something. This is in women's brains, the women
• 29:03
  who are part of this, it's in your brains. You got to fix
• 29:06
  it in you. It's interesting that they're now, I guess, letting go
• 29:11
  of blaming men for some reason, and now they're blaming us. Okay,
• 29:15
  as I'm pretty sure they would define us as pigmies. I mean, I
• 29:18
  don't think that. I don't see myself as pick me, well at least
• 29:26
  not a Hannah Cox's strange definition. I don't think anything is a pigmy.
• 29:30
  There is no definition of picture. Yeah, it's just women. It's like
• 29:33
  if you if you do something to be attractive to the average man, right,
• 29:40
  or if you are something that's attractive to the average man, and you
• 29:45
  say that, right, if you put it in your dating profile, right?
• 29:51
  Uh? Like I did, you know my favorite movies and and uh,
• 29:59
  my favorite quote ever from from a movie was you know you can beat
• 30:04
  me, and you can run me, and you can shoot me, and
• 30:07
  you can kill me, just don't bore me, right from Clint Eastwood from
• 30:12
  Heartbreak Ridge. Right. Okay, yeah, no, that that is literally
• 30:21
  one of my favorite ever movie quotes. I'm not faking that. So I
• 30:29
  put it out there and everything. Yeah, no, I put it out
• 30:32
  there and to attract a man. And and I and you know, my
• 30:37
  my my profile photo was me holding my I was sitting in my in my
• 30:48
  living room chair with my I guess it was probably both four maybe five five
• 30:56
  year old son, uh in front of me, and I was kind of
• 31:02
  had my arms around him and we were both smiling into the camera. And
• 31:07
  my daughter took the picture. And that was my profile photo on dating sites.
• 31:17
  M And you're completely authentic to who you are. Yeah. No,
• 31:23
  I've never been on a dating site I've never been involved with that at all,
• 31:30
  so I can't even really comment on it, but we should probably get
• 31:34
  a little bit further in. Hey VESTI, welcome to the podcast where we
• 31:48
  talk about how to get that bag while also securing your own bag. What
• 31:52
  is get that bag? Get that bag? Yeah no, get the cash,
• 31:57
  yeah no, get the cash money Yeah, she's a freakinging payoff.
• 32:01
  Can't take the bag? Yeah, while making sure you keep your own bag
• 32:06
  right now. This woman I never thought, like, when I'm watching her,
• 32:13
  I actually have I miss Hannah Cox. I'm gonna say it, like,
• 32:19
  this woman makes me miss Hannah Cox. Yeah. No, no,
• 32:22
  because she's she's just like, how do I exploit the opposite sex? Mm
• 32:28
  hmm. She's female dating strategy without having to give anything up. Yeah yeah,
• 32:35
  which is really interesting because what these women don't realize or don't seem to
• 32:39
  accept. And I told this to Brian yesterday when we covered one of this
• 32:43
  woman's videos. Incidentally, if you just want to bow out of even responding
• 32:47
  to this, Brian, I'll understand you just want to break from her.
• 32:52
  But I told Brian yesterday what these women are trying to get these men to
• 32:54
  sign on to is watching them age. You think of it like if you
• 33:01
  if you want to get this woman wants to get a man to sign on
• 33:06
  to watching her get old and lose whatever value she is presenting because she's not
• 33:13
  giving. She doesn't want to give a man any kind of emotional value.
• 33:19
  She doesn't want to give any kind of practical value, economic value, economic,
• 33:23
  spiritual Yeah, forget it right, So all she's giving is her physical
• 33:30
  value, which will degrade over time. And yeah, I got I sent
• 33:35
  Brian this picture, and honestly, I think that this is this is the
• 33:37
  best case scenario. I don't think she's going to age as well as this
• 33:42
  woman because at least this woman looks like she smiles. M you know,
• 33:46
  she looks like she has grandchildren and she enjoys baking brownies for them. You
• 33:52
  think that woman's going to grow age that that well, no, but that's
• 33:55
  what men are signing on to with this woman, Like she won't she won't
• 34:00
  Like women don't acknowledge that. Well, men, men aren't signing on to
• 34:05
  this woman because she's holding out for a good man who's going to give her
• 34:09
  a bag and let her keep her bag. Yeah, she's she's handing out
• 34:14
  for that. But my point is that when they say that they are offering
• 34:21
  so much in a relationship, they aren't. No, you're you are.
• 34:25
  What you're offering. What you're handing a man is the opportunity, the benefit
• 34:32
  to watch you turn into that. And I'm not saying that as she's this,
• 34:38
  this older woman is a bad person, but it's inevitable. Like when
• 34:43
  you when you when you want to get a man to commit to you,
• 34:46
  he's got to commit to you and recognizing the fact that you are going to
• 34:52
  grow old. Yeah, no, he's got to look at his mother in
• 34:55
  law and realize he's staring into his future, into the future. And that's
• 35:02
  what men are committing to. And to believe me, men know this,
• 35:07
  they know it. They're not stupid. So you can make yourself up as
• 35:09
  much as you want, and you can emphasize your physicality as your only benefit
• 35:15
  as much as you want, but men aren't stupid. They know what they're
• 35:19
  signing up for. They know that they put a ring on it that's going
• 35:22
  to be gone and the only thing that's going to be left is everything else.
• 35:27
  Everything you ride the pigmies for. Yeah, yeah, everything else,
• 35:30
  that's why. And you say, oh, if Pigmies would just stop,
• 35:36
  well, well, well the men would would would would take us? No,
• 35:42
  no, why would any man take a woman whose only value is going
• 35:47
  to depreciate? Yeah, I know, I know, it's it's infuriating,
• 35:52
  you know, Like there's so many things that appreciate in value over time.
• 35:57
  Wisdom, caution, diligence, hard work, even intelligence, creativity. Yeah,
• 36:09
  no, all of that is that you share. Ye, Now,
• 36:13
  all of those things, all of those things remain stable or increase over time.
• 36:17
  Right, the one thing that a woman has that is guaranteed to depreciate.
• 36:22
  And okay, I'm I'm not talking about like freaks of nature like Rachel
• 36:29
  Weiss, who was better looking in Enemy at the Gates than she was in
• 36:36
  uh the Mummy. Yeah, okay, she she got better looking as she
• 36:46
  got older, to a point, right. And there are a few actresses
• 36:52
  who have gotten better looking as they aged to a point right, But at
• 36:58
  at some point they're going to hit the right And no, after that,
• 37:05
  all you have left is everything else, as everything else, everything everything else.
• 37:09
  And if he like and this this idea, right, like this goes
• 37:15
  back to the woman in the plaid shirt versus the woman in the red tank
• 37:17
  top. Right. Oh well, you you just you say these things about
• 37:24
  yourself, see, because deep down you want a man to value you for
• 37:31
  things other than your looks, right and uh, and you don't think he
• 37:37
  will. And it's like, no, why don't you, why don't you
• 37:42
  sell yourself? Okay, you can say, well, you know, I
• 37:45
  have these looks and they're pretty okay, right, but I have all these
• 37:51
  other qualities, I have all these other things. I have the everything else,
• 37:57
  right, And that's why I'm I'm a good partner for a man.
• 38:04
  Mm hmm. That's what makes you a good long term partner. You have
• 38:07
  something a man looking at you. Everything else, right, everything else.
• 38:10
  And these people who are like, who are saying, oh, you're a
• 38:15
  pick me because you point to the everything else, right, that's just because
• 38:22
  you only want to promote your looks and the fact that you don't have to
• 38:30
  wear a lot of makeup. And it's like, no, no, she's
• 38:36
  pointing to the everything else because you know, one of the things that I
• 38:38
  always found interesting about young women because I worked with a lot of young women
• 38:45
  when I was waiting tables, and it always struck me right that they went
• 38:53
  over the top, just over the top in terms of making themselves up,
• 39:00
  in terms of dolling themselves up right, the amount of money that these women,
• 39:09
  these young women spent on makeup that they didn't have to spend right,
• 39:15
  And then maybe might have been three years ago. I'm sitting in my favorite
• 39:23
  steak in pizza place here near where I live, and this young woman she
• 39:31
  says, as I'm getting up to lee, she says, Karen, and
• 39:36
  I'm like, oh, hi, And I didn't recognize her because she was
• 39:40
  always always completely made up when we worked together at a different restaurant, and
• 39:50
  now she was like her hair was, you know, just kind of not
• 39:53
  dolled up, and she was wearing like beanie, you know, like a
• 40:00
  Timpool style beanie, no makeup, right, And I was like Hi,
• 40:07
  and she's like it's Jessica. And I'm like, oh shit, Jessica.
• 40:15
  Right, I didn't even recognize you. She was still gorgeous. She was
• 40:19
  still gorgeous. I just didn't recognize her because she wasn't wearing eighteen layers of
• 40:25
  makeup on her face, right, And I'm just like, oh, it's
• 40:30
  great to see you. And she was like, I really enjoyed our talks
• 40:34
  when we were working together. You're always telling me about how you know female
• 40:37
  sexual market value and you know and all of that stuff and you know men
• 40:43
  and women and blah blah blah. Like she literally said this to me and
• 40:46
  and it really helped me. And I was like, because I was always
• 40:53
  telling her, you don't need to wear all that stuff. You don't need
• 40:57
  to spend all that money. Just you know, you don't need to dress
• 41:00
  slutty. You just need to show off your curves, right, show off
• 41:07
  your posture because you got perfect posture, right. And show that you have
• 41:10
  a healthy, vibrant, shiny head of hair, right, stop destroying it
• 41:17
  with dye and bleach, right, and don't kill your skin with makeup,
• 41:23
  because it actually does destroy your skin over time. Right. And you'll find
• 41:30
  a man. And she had found a man. She was with with somebody,
• 41:34
  and she introduced us and yeah, no, she was with him.
• 41:37
  She'd been with him for like a year or more. And I'm just like,
• 41:43
  I'm just like, well, yeah no, And she's the pickmy She
• 41:47
  gave up on all of the pickmy shit, right, all of the shit
• 41:52
  that you do superficially to be picked, and she concentrated on the stuff that
• 41:59
  acts adds value to a relationship. Well, but the thing is that you
• 42:02
  have to accept if you if you take away all of the makeup, right,
• 42:08
  you have to like because when I think that we're seeing uh did I
• 42:14
  did I talk about the topi antelope on? Yeah, that this is the
• 42:17
  tope the female like aggressive female topiy antelope strategy. You can't get a top
• 42:23
  man, so you try to somehow fake your way into in between the top
• 42:30
  male and the top females. And the male is essential to that. It's
• 42:34
  their camouflage yeah yeah, yeah, and the and the inserts into the bra
• 42:38
  and stuff yeah yes, yeah. And the funny thing is that that that
• 42:44
  they they do. They a lot of these individuals will mock the fact that
• 42:46
  men will be like, well, I'll take her for take her swimming for
• 42:50
  a first date. Well, it's because again they're signing on to watch.
• 42:53
  Yeah, they want to depreciate, they want to know what they're getting.
• 42:58
  Yeah, they want to see that's underneath. Yeah. Yeah, it's like
• 43:00
  it's all those layers. It would be like a spice merchant getting pissed.
• 43:06
  She just gets infuriated when her customer is just like, well let me let
• 43:09
  me just shake the bag a bit to see if there's a rock in here.
• 43:14
  Yeah, you know this is this saffron is pretty damn expensive. Let
• 43:16
  me just poke it a bit to make sure there's no rocks in it,
• 43:21
  and then you can imagine the spice marriaging. Oh that's toxic masculinity. Oh,
• 43:27
  I can't believe. I can't believe. You don't believe women. It's
• 43:30
  like, dude, he's gonna be investing in watching you age. Yeah.
• 43:36
  No, I like to see the starting point. And do you remember do
• 43:38
  you remember that that? Oh God, I forget what website it was on,
• 43:43
  but it was. It was an article by a male feminist explaining why
• 43:51
  it should be considered rape. If a woman has sex with a man who
• 43:55
  lied about his income, but it should not be considered rape. If a
• 44:02
  man has sex with a woman who lied about her bust size or war makeup,
• 44:08
  or you know, lied about her body count, it's it's not it's
• 44:15
  it's your stretching. Yeah, well okay, yeah, no, but yes,
• 44:22
  but okay, so you lie about your actual value to the other person
• 44:27
  and you get sex, right, but it's it's it's it's rape. If
• 44:32
  a man does it, it's not rape. If a woman does it.
• 44:37
  If a woman deceives, right, it's not rape. And and yeah,
• 44:43
  no, that's that is like women are, you know? And then and
• 44:46
  then they say, oh, well, you know, how dare you say
• 44:51
  women lie? And it's like, well, I'm not saying that women are
• 44:52
  more prone to lying than men are. I do think they are, but
• 45:00
  I'm not gonna say that. I'm not gonna like assert that I think it,
• 45:05
  but I'm not asserting it. You're asserting it here, Okay, all
• 45:08
  right, keep going. I'm not asserting it. I'm asserting that I think
• 45:12
  that, but I'm not asserting it as a fact. Okay, but it's
• 45:16
  an opinion, Yes, it's an opinion. But women get away with lying,
• 45:23
  yeah, way more than men do. Yeah. Yeah. I remember
• 45:30
  that Nova Scotia case with the holes poked in the condom. No I don't,
• 45:37
  but I'm guessing that she wasn't charged under the uh no no, no,
• 45:39
  no, no, no tampering with the Okay, okay, just just
• 45:44
  listen, just listen. Okay, So this guy and his girlfriend, they're
• 45:49
  they're hit they hit the rocks, right, you know, the relationship is
• 45:52
  on the rocks, and and they're they're having problems, and he decides that
• 45:58
  what could save the relationship is a pregnancy, right, having a baby that
• 46:04
  that'll that'll im that will rescue the relationship. Right, So he pokes holes
• 46:08
  in the condoms. Right, and then she gets pregnant. She still dumps
• 46:13
  him, and uh, and then he she ends up having she got pregnant,
• 46:21
  ends up having an abortion, right. And then when he found out
• 46:25
  that she was dating somebody else, he called her and this is the only
• 46:30
  reason he got caught, okay, because condoms fail, right, So there's
• 46:35
  no reason for anybody to suspect what he'd done, right, because condoms fail.
• 46:42
  Right, They're they're not they're not very reliable. Right. He called
• 46:45
  her and said, don't use the condoms in the night stand because I poked
• 46:52
  holes in them. And then she come plant to police, and they brought
• 47:00
  a charge of rape, okay, with sexual assault because it's Canada. We
• 47:06
  don't have a rape statute. We have sexual assault, various degrees of sexual
• 47:10
  assault. Right. He was charged with aggravated sexual assault. The sexual assault
• 47:15
  part was the sex without consent part informed consent right, so she agreed to
• 47:23
  protected sex and he tricked her into having unprotected sex, Okay, so that
• 47:30
  was a sexual assault part the aggravated part was the injury of the pregnancy and
• 47:36
  the abortion, okay, And the judge in his ruling basically said that,
• 47:45
  yes, this was aggravated sexual assault. The sexual assault was based on her
• 47:52
  lack of informed consent and or just basically consent, and the the aggravated part
• 48:01
  was because of the injury of the pregnancy and the subsequent abortion. But he
• 48:08
  made it he specified in his ruling that this could not be used in the
• 48:14
  reverse. If women lie about our sabotage birth control, okay, they cannot
• 48:22
  be charged with sexual assault because Okay, even though his own ruling said that
• 48:30
  sexual assault, the finding of sexual assault was based solely on her lack of
• 48:35
  consent in formed consent, right, the only reason sexual assault can occur is
• 48:43
  if there's a risk of physical injury, and he basically said financial injury and
• 48:52
  psychological injury don't count. They don't count. The definitely restricts sexual assault.
• 49:01
  Looks like the only people who can suffer sexual assault through basically reproductive coercion,
• 49:15
  okay, are women, because they're the only ones who can get pregnant and
• 49:24
  therefore physically injured. Even though psychological and financial injuries related to that pregnancy don't
• 49:32
  count. And even though the actual sexual assault, ignore the aggravated part.
• 49:40
  The sexual assault thing is solely based on informed consent. So just and he
• 49:47
  ruled it out in his ruling. Men can't take advantage of this to go
• 49:53
  after women who lied to them about birth control or poke toolls in the condoms,
• 50:00
  or you know, trick them into, you know, fothering children they
• 50:04
  didn't agree to, even though that's classified as a reproductive coercion by the CDC.
• 50:09
  Yeah, and women do more of it, yeah, statistically. But
• 50:14
  let's uh, I'm not exactly sure how we got on this segue, but
• 50:17
  let's do a little bit more because we're lit now, and let's get into
• 50:22
  it. Today's episode is about how pygmisias are agents of the patriarchy and how
• 50:27
  to use that information to reset the dating market to benefit women. But first
• 50:30
  of all, what is the patriarchy reset the dating market to benefit women?
• 50:40
  The entire dance is controlled by women. Yeah, the only complaint that women
• 50:49
  have is that the top ten to twenty percent of men aren't accessible to them.
• 50:57
  Yep, okay, So what is the patriarchy? Let's let's find out
• 51:00
  let's let's see this with the wisdom of this woman. Oh god, Okay,
• 51:09
  we go. The patriarchy is defined as a social organization marked by the
• 51:16
  supremacy of the father and the Klanner family, the legal dependence of lives and
• 51:20
  children, and the reckoning of dissent and inheritance in the male line. Having
• 51:24
  all that doesn't exist, That doesn't exist, That doesn't exist anymore, none
• 51:30
  of that. Yeah, none of that exists. Nope, having our societies.
• 51:39
  But she's going to say that everyone's gonna sure the patriarchy and thus has
• 51:45
  exists under the male gaze? Man? What Okay? That was? What?
• 51:50
  What? That? That escalated quickly? That did escalate rather quickly.
• 51:53
  So did they exist under the male gaze even in those cultures? Were?
• 51:58
  Okay? No, none, none of the job. Okay, none of
• 52:02
  this what she said, what she defined as patriarchy exists in modern Western culture
• 52:10
  period. She's saying that mothers get customed to right, mothers decide whether they
• 52:21
  want to have sex or not. The dating market is controlled by women,
• 52:25
  right, Okay, none of this exists. Okay, But here's the thing.
• 52:30
  Let's not get too much into the weeds, because she's essentially saying that
• 52:34
  pigmies are ultimately responsible for the problems in the dating market. Right, so
• 52:38
  right there. Obviously it's not patriarchy. Obviously it's because us pigmies are controlling
• 52:44
  the dating market. And she's going to lay out on behalf of the patriarchy.
• 52:49
  I guess she's going to lay out her hypothesis on how we use our
• 52:53
  power to distort the dating market. That's what I think is going to happen.
• 52:57
  But you know, she could go anywhere, because this is visual,
• 53:00
  doesn't really make a consistent point. But okay, let's keep going and seek
• 53:07
  the attention and validation of their fellow men, and they use women in the
• 53:10
  process. Women in turn must seek the validation and attention of men so that
• 53:15
  they can get resources, safety, and status. Basically, please the all
• 53:19
  days, you please the patriarchy. This is not okay, not a video
• 53:27
  about the patriarchy. And if it's a good thing or a bad thing,
• 53:30
  and if it's a bad thing, should we dismantle it? This is not
• 53:32
  that video, okay, But the thing is just the system. And you
• 53:37
  know what I always say, Bestie, don't get mad, get paid.
• 53:40
  Oh yeah, if you knew here, Wait wait, wait, wait,
• 53:43
  wait, wait, wait, wait here, wait, Okay, the patriarchy,
• 53:49
  women have to appeal to men in order to get resources. And what
• 53:52
  are you saying there, Ladies just have to appeal to men in order to
• 53:57
  get men to give them things. Yeah, but she's saying, you know,
• 54:00
  just don't get mad get paid. All right, Well, no,
• 54:04
  wonder you don't want to smash the patriarchy because the only way you're going to
• 54:07
  get paid is if it exists. No, but it doesn't, well if
• 54:12
  it likes that the psychological schema, right, the evolved psychology that led to
• 54:20
  the patriarchy, but which has also led to this fricking feminist psychosocial nightmare that
• 54:27
  we're living in. Okay, that that is dependent on evolved it's it's all
• 54:35
  about evolved psychology interacting within an environment and a set of conditions. Right,
• 54:42
  she's saying, you know, the patriarchy is you know, male leadership of
• 54:47
  households that doesn't exist. It's male supremacy that doesn't exist anymore. Right,
• 54:54
  it's this, that, and the other that none of those things exist anymore.
• 54:59
  Male custody children doesn't exist anymore. Right, But men still have more
• 55:02
  financial resources in this society, which is probably where she would say, oh,
• 55:07
  that's just a result of what we've inherited from the patriarchy. They don't
• 55:12
  She probably would might agree that the patriarchy itself doesn't exist, but now we
• 55:16
  have an inheritance from the patriarchy, so it doesn't know. No, but
• 55:20
  men don't have more financial resources than women. They still make they just pay
• 55:24
  more taxes. Yeah, they pay more taxes, but they make more.
• 55:28
  And she's what they make more and pay more, and so they don't have
• 55:34
  is women appealing to men to get resources. That's the patriarchy. That is
• 55:39
  what she's saying, is the patriarchy. That is all of the mechanics of
• 55:44
  the system are irrelevant. It's just But then she's saying. Then she's saying,
• 55:47
  okay, so get his bag and keep your bag. Yes, yes,
• 55:54
  And she's she's essentially saying, in a patriarchy, women appeal to men
• 55:59
  to get resources. And what she's saying is, you know, don't get
• 56:01
  mad about that, just continue to take part in that system. That's what
• 56:06
  I'm pointing out. She's a complete Okay, well, enjoy the system that
• 56:09
  you support. Pick me like and video. We found the pick me Jesus
• 56:16
  Christ let's keep going group saying don't get mad, get paid. And what
• 56:23
  do I mean by that? Whatever circumstances you find yourself in, you need
• 56:28
  to find a way to get paid, find ways to win, find ways
• 56:32
  to capitalize, find ways to benefit yourself. That's the Spoiled Girlly support group
• 56:37
  mantra, don't get mad, get paid. With that in mind, because
• 56:43
  we find ourselves this is another strategy. This is another st okay strategy.
• 56:52
  Yeah, it's it's female dating strategy. So this is you know, like
• 56:54
  we we we we deal in something different than strategy. So for example,
• 57:02
  home math deals with strategy. This individual, this individual deals with female dating
• 57:07
  strategy, male dating strategy, whereas we here deal with more understanding if that
• 57:14
  makes sense, which people aren't interested in because strategy speaks to a pain point
• 57:19
  and understanding, I don't know what it speaks to people's desire to be understood,
• 57:24
  be understood. Like I would hope at some point with this mess,
• 57:28
  people would start to want to be understood, but apparently we're not there yet.
• 57:31
  They still want pain and strategies, strategems. Okay, I'm just it
• 57:37
  does just occur to me that this is more strategy to do the thing is
• 57:42
  to benefit ourselves within this specific system. What really, thank god, the
• 57:45
  system about the spreches is that they are using the most inefficient strategies to exist
• 57:52
  in the patriarchy, and because of their inefficient strategy, they are disadvantaging not
• 57:58
  only themselves but also every woman that has to share a dating market with them.
• 58:01
  For you, okay, wait, okay, so obviously this is another
• 58:06
  individual who doesn't understand the wanting a companion. Yeah, no, no,
• 58:09
  no. And also if they're disadvantaging themselves, that would assume that they're choosing
• 58:16
  low status men that women like this wouldn't want anyway. Yeah, but the
• 58:23
  fact that I guess they could. I again, like going back to my
• 58:30
  buffet analysis, because some women go to the buffet, get what they want,
• 58:35
  sit down, have a meal, and are finally not hungry. That
• 58:37
  somehow threatens the women who's staring at the buffet and saying I can't choose or
• 58:44
  I or saying nothing here is acceptable. I don't see how a pick me
• 58:51
  threatens you any more than any other woman who ends up with a man in
• 58:54
  this instance. Okay, Like they're not going after men that you're interested in,
• 59:02
  well, and they want it the whole point is they want to be
• 59:06
  picked, and once they're picked, they're picked, right, and then all
• 59:10
  the other men are free to choose you. Yeah, look, do you
• 59:17
  need every freaking man on earth? Yeah? I think she does. Are
• 59:22
  you comparing every individual man than she wants all the bags? All the Yeah,
• 59:28
  you want all the bags? And wow, this is uh, this
• 59:32
  woman is really gonna be miserable. She really is, like at that point,
• 59:38
  oh yeah, Noah's thirty five. I'm predicting she's gonna she is good.
• 59:44
  I mean, like regretting her life choice. I'm glad that she's putting
• 59:47
  this out there so that men will do everything in their power to avoid this.
• 59:52
  And by the way, I don't think this is abnormal. I think
• 59:55
  this woman this attitude, I think it's way more common to admit. Yeah,
• 1:00:01
  yeah, no really typically like it's just remember, you know, like
• 1:00:05
  any guy who's watching this woman, you know, put the other image up.
• 1:00:08
  Then the end of the day, this is what you're marrying. There
• 1:00:13
  you go, now listen to her, Listen to this older woman say you
• 1:00:16
  got to keep your bag and get his bag too, and that's what you're
• 1:00:22
  getting. Yeah, no, and and the whole idea of of getting his
• 1:00:28
  bag and keeping yours means not putting anything into the relationship. Yeah, not
• 1:00:32
  investing anything in And I'm guessing that this this woman did, judging from the
• 1:00:37
  fact that she she has lines above her like she has smile lines as well
• 1:00:44
  as the you know oh yeah, no, no, it's it's you can
• 1:00:49
  you can tell. I mean I have developed many, many frown lines over
• 1:00:55
  the last ten years. Yeah. Well with a ship it directly yeah yeah,
• 1:01:00
  yeah, but but I do have crows feet by my eyes. The
• 1:01:07
  lack laugh lines. Yeah, you know, an indication of somebody who can
• 1:01:13
  I can face the world with good humor. I don't think that Ella here
• 1:01:16
  is going to age as well as that. Oh, and you got to
• 1:01:20
  know that you're signing on for that as a guy. Oh except you know
• 1:01:22
  Alison Black don't crack. Didn't you hear that? Yeah, but she's not
• 1:01:27
  Black. Well, she's applies to Asians as well. But I mean,
• 1:01:31
  eventually though, eventually you will end up looking like WHOOPI Goldberg though it just
• 1:01:38
  it just a flower processes all Asian Oh no, no, no, Asian
• 1:01:42
  women and the Slavic women, they they go through menopause and then boom,
• 1:01:52
  It's it's all over. It's not. It's not a gradual process. A
• 1:01:54
  lot of women age gradually, right and I didn't age gradually, and a
• 1:02:01
  lot of might thing oh yeah no, I went yeah no. I went
• 1:02:08
  from like freaking uh Milania Trump to well not quite that hot, but you
• 1:02:16
  know, pretty attractive, uh, to the moment I went through menopause,
• 1:02:23
  it was like I lost thirty five percent of my collagen and everything started sagging.
• 1:02:30
  Yeah. Yeah, but like I said, like that's what a man
• 1:02:31
  is signing on to. So you got to realize as a woman, you
• 1:02:37
  you like people. These women think, oh, well, if he's getting
• 1:02:38
  so much, well not really, no, No, he's he's getting getting
• 1:02:45
  an appreciable asset. That's all your if that's all you're offering. Yeah.
• 1:02:50
  So, And the funny thing is is that, I mean, honestly,
• 1:02:58
  I don't see if you if you say I have more to offer than she's
• 1:03:01
  going to explain how picknies are to blame. So let's let's find out to
• 1:03:07
  understand exactly how the pygmisias are failing all of us women. You know,
• 1:03:13
  can I make a prediction about it? Because I think I know what she's
• 1:03:15
  gonna say about why why do the pigmies? Why are the pigmies bad for
• 1:03:21
  women? Per view, I think it's because she believes that all women should
• 1:03:27
  be united and essentially filtering out like only the very best men and forcing the
• 1:03:37
  other men to either step up and adapt and become good enough for them or
• 1:03:43
  they just die. So it's like eugenics, like relational eugenics over across like
• 1:03:47
  a bad scale. And women who are not on the same page, who
• 1:03:52
  are not part of the sisterhood that she is essentially putting forward as a standard
• 1:03:57
  that all women should follow. Will they become enemy of women because they are
• 1:04:02
  essentially allowing men that are beneath her standard to reproduce. That's what I think
• 1:04:10
  she's going to say, something to that effect. Essentially, men who are
• 1:04:13
  not like the top men to deserve their line to just die off. Okay.
• 1:04:19
  And the other thing that I think that she might be saying, I'll
• 1:04:21
  put my own in the ring. And maybe this is maybe a criticism potential
• 1:04:27
  criticism too. Somehow we are lowering the total value proposition of women by developing
• 1:04:39
  things other than look in order to gain a relationship. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:04:44
  like just upping the where lyscal sexual attracts a level of competition. But here's
• 1:04:50
  the thing, Like, I'm almost certain that women like el and Hannah are
• 1:04:57
  going after the top twenty percent of men, and we are, and there's
• 1:05:04
  no way that like the pygmies are not going after them like they're they want
• 1:05:11
  a companion. And like, there there was one example that I can like
• 1:05:15
  a woman I just came across on Twitter who described how her friends had a
• 1:05:18
  bad experience on Tinder, and she would watch how they would interact with Tinder,
• 1:05:23
  and they would swipe right on men that she would never consider in a
• 1:05:26
  millionaires and of course they were like the super hot but obviously like emotionally like
• 1:05:30
  depressed or or or sex addict type men, or narcissistic or you know that
• 1:05:36
  kind of thing, like obviously damaged guys who had nothing beyond the looks and
• 1:05:42
  the pretense of money. And she was never gonna swipe right on them.
• 1:05:45
  She swiped right on men who presented the the they gave good flags for companionship
• 1:05:53
  essentially, and she had a good experience. She dated and she found a
• 1:05:56
  partner because that's what she went there for. Now, this woman would call
• 1:06:00
  that a Pigmy, but she wasn't after the same men as these the women
• 1:06:04
  like ell Or the men that all are probably after. When I would look
• 1:06:09
  at those men and I'd be like, no, no, is it just
• 1:06:14
  just like the really really really really good looking men. They don't they don't
• 1:06:20
  feel accessible. Maybe accessible is not the right word. No, no,
• 1:06:26
  no, no, no, no no no, it's it's not. It's
• 1:06:28
  not they don't feel accessible because I've I've had some really good looking men be
• 1:06:34
  interested in me. But you you're talking about two different again. You have
• 1:06:41
  no but you have you have to you have like the men who are like
• 1:06:45
  the top tier men. Okay, you have to be or at least appear
• 1:06:53
  to be a top tier woman. Yeah. Right. So it's like it's
• 1:06:58
  like when everybody when people ask me, like, why don't you run for
• 1:07:01
  public office? And I'm like, are you fucking kidding me? I'd have
• 1:07:04
  to clean up my language and you can go fuck yourself over that, right,
• 1:07:09
  and and and it's gonna like it's gonna require all of this effort and
• 1:07:15
  I can't. I can't be fucking arst right, I'm not that kind of
• 1:07:21
  person. I don't want to run for city council. I don't want to
• 1:07:26
  run for MLA, I don't want to run for MP I don't want to
• 1:07:31
  run for anything. Okay, it's too much work for too little gain.
• 1:07:36
  And all I'm gonna have to do is pretend that I'm somebody that I'm not,
• 1:07:42
  Okay, and so I'm not doing it right. So you can go
• 1:07:46
  fuck yourself with that suggestion. Right, I'm flattered, okay, but not
• 1:07:54
  interested okay. And that is the situation with this is why I always,
• 1:08:00
  always, always have been a track, even with men who are white collar
• 1:08:08
  professionals. Right, Okay, So the oncologist that I dated for a while,
• 1:08:14
  you know, you know why I was attracted to him because he had
• 1:08:18
  a thick Scottish accent. He used the word shite and fuck, the words
• 1:08:25
  shiteen fuck constantly, right, and he got into all kinds of trouble in
• 1:08:31
  academia for using the words shiteen fuck constantly. You know what else is the
• 1:08:38
  problem with this? There's no understanding that of individuality in her estimation. Yeah
• 1:08:45
  no, but I was like and he didn't dress the part. He was
• 1:08:49
  just he was just like some freakin guy who looked like a random guy.
• 1:08:56
  He happened to be a world famous research on collogist, and we got together
• 1:09:02
  on a dating site and I found him really interesting, and I was like,
• 1:09:05
  you know, this is the kind of guy that I wouldn't have to
• 1:09:10
  dress up in public to be around, and I wouldn't have to put on
• 1:09:13
  my p's and q's. I could just be myself when I'm with this guy,
• 1:09:17
  right, And that is why I dated him. If he had been
• 1:09:23
  a research on collegist who always wore a suit and tie, right, yeah,
• 1:09:30
  No, yeah, would Why would I want to be with someone like
• 1:09:36
  that? Why would he want to be with someone like me? I'd have
• 1:09:41
  to pretend all the time. I'd have to be like I'd have to act
• 1:09:45
  like my older sister, right, and wear little black dresses and chunky necklaces
• 1:09:51
  and you know, and always poof my hair, right, Yeah, But
• 1:09:58
  I just wanted to get to my my statement she's which which ties into what
• 1:10:02
  you said, I mean, yours, there's an anecdote of that that idea
• 1:10:06
  of individuals finding people that they can be with is completely absent in her analysis,
• 1:10:13
  at least as far as I know, because she's analyzing this as like
• 1:10:16
  women should as a as a universal unit should force, so I should sacrifice
• 1:10:23
  my happiness so a more attractive woman like her gets a better man. Yeah
• 1:10:29
  no, how about no? No, like, oh, I'm gonna I'm
• 1:10:32
  gonna choose my companion and you can go suck it. Yeah, no,
• 1:10:39
  I should, I should. I should deprive myself of being picked. Yeah,
• 1:10:45
  exactly. You have a wader buffet, you have a longer, more
• 1:10:51
  may men men have more pressure to adhere to her standards. Like wait,
• 1:11:00
  okay, well, what's in it for me? You said you got to
• 1:11:01
  be paid, right, you got to look at what you get out of
• 1:11:04
  it. Well, I don't see any benefit with associating with your thesis so
• 1:11:08
  far, but who knows? Tell me how. I'm don't know. I'm
• 1:11:11
  not seeing any bag here other than her only he's a gigantic, freaking bag.
• 1:11:16
  Yes, it's not full of money, it's full of crap. Yeah.
• 1:11:21
  Like yeah, basically, she's saying pignishes are threatening my bag. Well,
• 1:11:27
  too bad, I'm still gonna get mine. You just said look out
• 1:11:30
  for your own benefit. I'm not seeing a lot of my own benefit in
• 1:11:32
  what you're proposing here. But I have I have my nice, modest bag.
• 1:11:39
  Well, I mean granted it's six six six, but uh, you
• 1:11:45
  know, like I'm with a man that I really appreciate and like, and
• 1:11:49
  as much as he annoys me at times, we get along. There was
• 1:11:54
  a touch and go time there, you know, Oh it was no,
• 1:11:58
  it was it was like we had we had issues in the beginning, but
• 1:12:01
  I don't let you go. But I like the thing is that I've I've
• 1:12:04
  been through at least tangentially. Not I'm not being through like you have,
• 1:12:09
  but I've been uh listened to you, you know, like I've been on
• 1:12:15
  the journey with you, but not on it, you know. Yeah,
• 1:12:18
  yeah, I know you've You've heard me, You've been a sounding board for
• 1:12:21
  it. And and it's it's it's not easy. It's not easy. And
• 1:12:27
  he's he's you had a rough road to hole, oh god, yeah,
• 1:12:31
  and I so. And you supported him throughout all of that career everything.
• 1:12:38
  Yeah, and at the end of the day you were together and I love
• 1:12:42
  him and and there you are and that I know you have six sixty six
• 1:12:45
  and this is something I only want to kill him every other day. And
• 1:12:50
  that was something that she said in the other video that we did with what
• 1:12:54
  I did with Brian yesterday, this individual woman. She said, don't don't
• 1:13:00
  don't build a man up. Oh yeah, no, don't help a man
• 1:13:03
  build himself up. Yeah, don't don't help boost him. So essentially,
• 1:13:10
  what what what would have happened in your instance, is that you wouldn't have
• 1:13:14
  gotten with with with Mike, right, you wouldn't have helped build him up.
• 1:13:19
  He probably wouldn't be where he is, and you would be a by
• 1:13:25
  myself, by yourself if she followed the don't be a pig Misha, Yeah,
• 1:13:32
  no, no, like because I mean, like, okay, let's
• 1:13:35
  let's consider this. When I met him, he was sick. He was
• 1:13:39
  like really sick, okay, and then uh, he he got a really
• 1:13:47
  temporary job a contract physician doing research, and like when I met him,
• 1:13:56
  he was still a student, but he graduated. Then he got a temporary
• 1:14:00
  contract position doing for two months doing finishing a project that had been abandoned,
• 1:14:06
  a year long project that had been abandoned two months in right, and it
• 1:14:12
  had a deadline and he managed to finish that, and then and then he
• 1:14:19
  couldn't get another job, so he got a job at a bakery and working
• 1:14:27
  graveyards, and you know, so he was kneading dough and all of that.
• 1:14:31
  And then he was applying for jobs in his field all over the place,
• 1:14:40
  and he wasn't getting any bites, and he was just getting sicker and
• 1:14:45
  sicker and sicker. And so we started looking into a disability pension for him.
• 1:14:51
  And then I started going online and trying to investigate what his symptoms were
• 1:15:00
  and what it could possibly be. And I thought I found it. And
• 1:15:03
  he went into the doctor and she said, well, we really try to
• 1:15:08
  discourage people from diagnosing themselves on Google. And then she looked it up and
• 1:15:13
  she was like, holy shit, I think this might be it. He'd
• 1:15:15
  been dealing with eight years of his shit at that point, right, And
• 1:15:20
  so then we went through like a whole bunch of medical tests barium swallow and
• 1:15:25
  scan and bone scan and frickin bone marrow biopsy and all kinds of shit.
• 1:15:36
  Right, He had to get these tests and to try and confirm the diagnosis,
• 1:15:42
  and they couldn't. And then the hematologist finally said, okay, well
• 1:15:45
  we can't confirm what you have, but okay, but there's this medication.
• 1:15:51
  We're going to go with this diagnosis as tentative. Right, we think it's
• 1:15:57
  this there's a medication. It's been it's just like an asthma medication. So
• 1:16:02
  we're gonna put you on that and see if that helps. And so he
• 1:16:06
  went on that and boom boom. It was like night and day, night
• 1:16:14
  and day. And then he started getting jobs and I helped him secure those
• 1:16:21
  jobs, and you know, like and and then all of a sudden everything
• 1:16:27
  started coming up roses and it was wonderful and everything. I was the primary
• 1:16:31
  breadwinner for the first three years of our relationship, right, so, which,
• 1:16:40
  yeah, no, and I'm just like and now, you know,
• 1:16:44
  like five years ago, I was just like, yeah, no, I'm
• 1:16:45
  not going to work anymore. And he was like, that's okay, okay.
• 1:16:49
  So what you're signed with is a situation where you helped build him up.
• 1:16:56
  Yeah, and you and now there exists a men who is six six
• 1:17:00
  six, right, yeah, and he's before you build him up, and
• 1:17:06
  she's saying, well, what you should do? That you should you should
• 1:17:10
  have walked away from him, Karen, I know, and you would still
• 1:17:15
  be a waitress. You would still be working, slinging hash on tables,
• 1:17:20
  yep, and that and your and Mike would be I don't know, a
• 1:17:26
  statistic yeah, this, this, this, this is the he'd be on
• 1:17:30
  a disability pension, you were. This woman's opinion of what we should do
• 1:17:36
  with our lives and what we should focus on is total rubbish. Yeah no,
• 1:17:43
  it's like, how can you get with somebody right in a relationship in
• 1:17:50
  whom you are not willing to invest like and but they don't recognize, like,
• 1:17:57
  you want their bag and you want to keep your own. How does
• 1:18:00
  that even work? Well, she wants that to work. She expects it
• 1:18:03
  to work, because you know the logic, you should be able to have
• 1:18:08
  your cake and eat it too, So you should be able to eat your
• 1:18:10
  cake and still have it somehow. But you should what I want to say,
• 1:18:14
  you should get their bag. And anybody, any man who's looking at
• 1:18:17
  this woman, you're signing on to watch her age and nothing that will be
• 1:18:23
  left except everything else she brings to the table, which she refuses, which
• 1:18:27
  is nothing. Okay, So what kind of man is she actually after?
• 1:18:30
  She's after a Leonardo DiCaprio. And let me tell you, lady, you've
• 1:18:34
  already aged out of that market. Yeah, like seriously, no, you're
• 1:18:40
  not going to get a man like that, a man who will only entertain
• 1:18:43
  a woman for a year between like the years of nineteen and twenty and then
• 1:18:45
  that's it. She's gone. Well, okay, nineteen and twenty five,
• 1:18:49
  Okay, nineteen and twenty five, Okay, But then then she's gone because
• 1:18:55
  he's not interested in watching you age, and he doesn't have to be because
• 1:18:59
  he's top what one? Yeah? What a percentage of a percentage? Yeah?
• 1:19:03
  No. And if you want a man who's willing to watch you age,
• 1:19:08
  you gotta have something else. You gotta be a pick misha. Okay,
• 1:19:15
  well you gotta, you gotta, you gotta show some value other than
• 1:19:18
  yeah, what's going to depreciate over time? Yes? So, okay,
• 1:19:26
  all right, I got a super chat. I'm gonna read it really quick.
• 1:19:29
  Uh. Tyler Preston gives us five dollars and says, I'm gonna bet
• 1:19:32
  that she'll bring up tom Boys as being picknies by being the cool girls society
• 1:19:38
  conditioned them to be. No, yeah, nonocoty did that. But yeah,
• 1:19:42
  it's possible. I mean, if it's a common talking point, then
• 1:19:45
  you'll probably get it. Let's let me show you a video. When we
• 1:19:48
  talk about pick me girls, we're talking about girls who have deeply uninterrogated internalized
• 1:19:55
  misogyny. Basically, they're parroting back what they know to be the idea of
• 1:20:00
  the people in power, I e. Men, Oh you know yeah,
• 1:20:03
  hey, hey, hey, hey hey, Mike was the people in power?
• 1:20:06
  Karen, Yeah, my husband, you know, he's he was also
• 1:20:12
  a people And are you fucking kidding me, bitch? And then in the
• 1:20:15
  same breath, you're saying that we're lowering ourselves to men who are lesser.
• 1:20:19
  Well, those men aren't in power, Like how could these women just be
• 1:20:25
  consistent? Be consistent? Like? Are we are pigmies lowering the tenor of
• 1:20:33
  the dating by going down, dating down? Or are we appealing to the
• 1:20:39
  men who are above everyone? Like? Which is it? Like? And
• 1:20:44
  look at your friend, look at the listen to this wisdom, girlfriend,
• 1:20:48
  I'm like, what what this woman has just contradicted you? Like, no,
• 1:20:53
  you do you see that? Do you have object permanence? Oh?
• 1:20:56
  No? This this the the woman with the intelligence behind the plucked eyebrows.
• 1:21:02
  There's no harmined intelligence here, but the cunning the host of the original video,
• 1:21:12
  She's not in direct competition with this woman. And but I'm not in
• 1:21:19
  direct competition with anybody. I've been picked. Yeah, but let's set aside
• 1:21:28
  the pick me shit and just look at the internalized misogyny. She's saying that
• 1:21:31
  women with internalized misogyny appeal to the men on top. No, that's feminists,
• 1:21:35
  as institutionalized feminists. They're appealing. They're the ones who are hoovering bucks
• 1:21:42
  out of rich men's wallets. They're the ones who appeal to the top dog.
• 1:21:46
  Like you think us here talking about men's issues. Which men do you
• 1:21:50
  think have issues? Do you think it's the men on top? Well,
• 1:21:55
  yeah, actually they do sometimes, Like I mean Johnny Depp, let's not
• 1:21:58
  let's be real. Yeah, Like even the men on top can have the
• 1:22:00
  same issues that all men have. That's true. Yea, they just have
• 1:22:04
  enough money to like, have enough money to mitigate them. I don't even
• 1:22:09
  think that what Johnny Depp went through was mitigation. It was just it was
• 1:22:14
  a combination of luck and resources that that got him to where he ended up
• 1:22:19
  being. But guys anywhere below that are screwed. And we talk about these
• 1:22:25
  issues for men who are them that have the least power in society, And
• 1:22:30
  you're you are calling us internalized misogyny because we appeal to the top men.
• 1:22:38
  Are you freaking kidding me? Yeah, no, we don't. We don't.
• 1:22:42
  All right, It's like they don't take too long getting ready, but
• 1:22:45
  they're still effortlessly gorgeous. They love watching football, they're just one of the
• 1:22:50
  guys. But they're of course still great in bed. All of that is
• 1:22:55
  the double bind of misogyny being made fun of for caring about makeup, because
• 1:22:59
  make historically has been feminine, and anything feminine according to men is totally frivolous.
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  Okay, it doesn't matter if it was or not. I mean,
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  I mean maybe not, but so what, Like some people want to wear
• 1:23:14
  makeups, some people don't. This is irrelevant, this is so this is
• 1:23:17
  beyond stupid. I mean, I feel like I'm losing IQ points just sitting
• 1:23:20
  here passively watching this crap. Women should lose all their rights, Like,
• 1:23:28
  let's put them back in the put them in the desert a water skin,
• 1:23:33
  and then we'll see how long, like that'll be their only bag, it'll
• 1:23:36
  be a bag of water, and then we'll see if they'll like appreciate the
• 1:23:41
  world they live in right now to the desert Repeal nineteen. But at the
• 1:23:47
  same time being ostracized if you don't meet certain beauty standards. So somehow women
• 1:23:53
  have to meet these beauty standards, but they still come off as chill and
• 1:23:56
  not be too frivolous because that would be humiliating. Can I get it?
• 1:23:59
  Who that's annoying person to be around? Okay, So into this woman who's
• 1:24:03
  speaking right now, she's a solid six. Really I would actually I think
• 1:24:11
  that that's probably lower. Well, okay, I don't know how old she's
• 1:24:15
  she is. Maybe she's in her thirties, she was in her twenties,
• 1:24:19
  she'd be a solid six, she'd be maybe a solid five. Okay,
• 1:24:28
  she can get a man who's on her level. She just won't settle for
• 1:24:32
  one. Like, what are you talking about? Honestly? And the other
• 1:24:40
  thing is that what makes you think that women who are low maten or relatively
• 1:24:45
  low maintenance, because no woman is really low maintenance? Do what makes you
• 1:24:50
  think that we aren't being what we are? Like? Maybe I actually enjoy
• 1:25:00
  sleeping on a wrestling mat with a yoga wedge for a pillow, because otherwise
• 1:25:06
  I get migraines, you know, Like maybe I enjoy just spending my entire
• 1:25:12
  day crouched in front of my computer writing. Maybe that's who I am.
• 1:25:15
  Well, and you don't have to be that. You just have to accept
• 1:25:19
  the fact that you aren't going to attract men who like that, but you
• 1:25:25
  can attract men who like other things that you develop about yourself. Like,
• 1:25:31
  here's the thing. Everything seems so zero sum. And the other thing is
• 1:25:35
  like internalized misogyny has to do with their approach to attracting a man. Is
• 1:25:41
  that the sum total of the moral landscape of being alone? Some somehow,
• 1:25:46
  somehow, my inherent laziness and anti sociability. Okay, uh, you know
• 1:25:56
  I don't feel any great desire to go out and socialize with people. I'm
• 1:26:01
  an introvert. I I don't. Yeah, that's that that is that is
• 1:26:05
  some yeah, somehow, somehow. And and the fact that the fact that
• 1:26:10
  my husband also feels that way. And so when I asked him Friday if
• 1:26:15
  he wanted to go out for dinner with a friend of ours, and he
• 1:26:21
  said no, and I said no. And then Saturday I asked him and
• 1:26:29
  he said no, and I said no because like I can't be ours,
• 1:26:34
  Like I'm just like no, It's fine, right, we can spend the
• 1:26:40
  whole weekend. The whole weekend. What's the difference between a pick me using
• 1:26:46
  this strategy to attract him in and making yourself up and injecting your lips full
• 1:26:50
  of crap. Yeah. No, it's like I'm just like, okay,
• 1:26:56
  well, you know, I'm I'm happy to just like be a body and
• 1:27:01
  be lazy and sit around and relax and watch Star Trek Enterprise and you know,
• 1:27:09
  binge watch that all weekend, and you know, I'm okay with that.
• 1:27:14
  Yeah. And I'm like, I'm okay with that kind of thing too,
• 1:27:16
  like yeah, and for exactly, for some reason, my natural laziness
• 1:27:23
  and disinterest in in in drama has become Okay, I'll admit it's like the
• 1:27:30
  red flags of a pick me. Yeah, I like I sometimes like listening
• 1:27:34
  to people's gossip. Sure, I'll admit to that. Oh yeah, but
• 1:27:40
  I just can't be really arsed to like start rumor mills and do other crap
• 1:27:45
  like that. It's just it seems like so much work, and that makes
• 1:27:48
  me bad in a pick Mey, no, this is this isn't this is.
• 1:27:51
  Let me put it this way. I wouldn't have chosen a man who
• 1:27:58
  expected me to be anything but what I am. I don't think I could
• 1:28:00
  be any more aggressively me, like you are pretty aggressive in your meanness.
• 1:28:08
  Yes, I think you are also aggressive in your meanness. Oh really,
• 1:28:12
  I don't think so, and I'll punch you in the freaking face put you
• 1:28:17
  to lose. I got a rumble rant I want to read out before it
• 1:28:21
  disappears. Nova Fan twenty one gave us a dollar, Thank you, Nova
• 1:28:27
  Fan, and said something I was wondering yesterday is do some women feel that
• 1:28:30
  men being servants and narcissists are the only way to prove loyalty to them?
• 1:28:35
  Because it doesn't sound healthy at all. Yes, all right, thank you
• 1:28:40
  for that. Sorry, it's not showing up in my You know, if
• 1:28:44
  you make a comment in rumble, I'll see it. But for some reason,
• 1:28:48
  the rumble rants don't go through men being servants and narcissists. No servants
• 1:28:57
  two narcissists. Oh oh okay, No, no, okay. I think
• 1:29:02
  some I think this bitch thinks that the only way to be a man is
• 1:29:09
  to be a servant to a narcissist. I I'm not going to argue that
• 1:29:15
  I don't have narcissistic tendencies. I think this is what I think. This
• 1:29:19
  is when when women buy into the idea. Many women, they don't become
• 1:29:26
  absolute cutthroat materialists and treat all relationships as transactional where the only goal is to
• 1:29:34
  figure out how you can get as much as you can out of it.
• 1:29:38
  That's that's not exactly transactional. I know what cares no, but this is.
• 1:29:42
  But Tom, they're being like I said, cutthroat, like absolutely ruthless,
• 1:29:46
  you know, in their I wouldn't even call them relationships, but like,
• 1:29:51
  this is but when you when you buy into the idea that you are
• 1:29:56
  entering a world that is hostile towards you just because of your gender. This
• 1:30:00
  is one of the coping strategies. Unfortunately, she is reacting to something that
• 1:30:06
  doesn't exist, Like men do not do this to women. Maybe maybe the
• 1:30:15
  top one or the top top who actually can be, you know, kind
• 1:30:23
  of callous because they have so many options. Yeah, no that Leonardo,
• 1:30:27
  Leonardo DiCaprio's can be like that toward women and get away with it. But
• 1:30:32
  it's it's like when when you look at it, it's this whole freaking thing,
• 1:30:41
  this whole idea that relationships, sexual relationships and sex and whatever should not
• 1:30:46
  be transactional. Bullshit, bulls Every relationship is transactional, every single one.
• 1:30:58
  Right, it's is it a fair transaction or is it an exploitive transaction?
• 1:31:06
  Yeah, that's what I was trying to get at. This is not is
• 1:31:10
  everybody engaging in fair trade or or is somebody cheating somebody out of something?
• 1:31:16
  Is somebody trying to get the bag and keep their own bag? Yeah,
• 1:31:24
  that's exploitative. Okay, let's just let's let's let's listen to a bit more.
• 1:31:28
  Let's try to get further in turn undermining you and your femininity and the
• 1:31:34
  things you care about. But ultimately they are victims of this patriarchy too.
• 1:31:39
  Oh and there's a reason that pick me energy exists at scale, and it's
• 1:31:45
  so consistent everywhere that it's always girls trying to be chill. And that's because
• 1:31:49
  men have made us feel like we need to act like this in order to
• 1:31:53
  not be ostracized or humiliated. Okay, wait, wait, girl, she
• 1:31:59
  doesn't look like she's trying very hard. Women women engage in intersexual competition men
• 1:32:04
  to blame. Okay, but is she wearing any makeup? I don't think
• 1:32:09
  so. So it's like she herself picked me? Yeah, I know,
• 1:32:14
  it's it's all very inconsistent. Like the whole thing listening to these videos is
• 1:32:18
  a point is never made. Everything is contradicted. We just entered the amniotic
• 1:32:24
  fluid of idiocy for like thirty eight minutes. Oh god, is it thirty
• 1:32:29
  eight minutes long? Jesus fuck. Well, we're not gonna do the full
• 1:32:31
  thirty eight minutes now, Okay, We're gonna do another twenty minutes and then
• 1:32:35
  I'm gonna have a nap. There's no way we're doing twenty minutes. I'm
• 1:32:42
  gonna do. I'm gonna do another twenty minutes of this show and then I'm
• 1:32:48
  gonna have a nap because I had a very disrupting morning. And yeah,
• 1:32:56
  no, no understandable, no need to elaborate. All right, hey,
• 1:33:00
  queue up some more brun And so ultimately, I think that people we need
• 1:33:05
  to be calling out is men, and I think we are, to a
• 1:33:09
  certain extent we are finally getting to the point societally where we can say,
• 1:33:12
  you know what, finally more frivolous than football. That was a really great
• 1:33:15
  video. Totally make that particularly fond of football or makeup? So maybe I
• 1:33:30
  could be the first makeup is a lie. Let's be honest, about that.
• 1:33:36
  Okay it so what so is football in the sense that what is okay,
• 1:33:44
  if you're talking American football or Canadian football, right, what is football?
• 1:33:49
  It is literally mock war where one state tries to conquered the other state's
• 1:34:00
  territory. Okay, all right, So it's a lie. It's ritual combat.
• 1:34:09
  It's not actual combat. It's mock combat. It's faux combat. Okay,
• 1:34:16
  So it's a lie and it appeals to men. Makeup is also a
• 1:34:20
  lie. It appeals to women, right, some women really like mock ritual
• 1:34:29
  combat, and that's okay because they're allowed to like it. Like, what
• 1:34:38
  is she saying? What is she saying that if you like watching hockey,
• 1:34:43
  that if you get excited, that if you get so fucking mad, so
• 1:34:48
  fucking mad about Dan Clutch in the Vancouver Canucks. Okay, Okay, this
• 1:34:58
  goalie, this fucking fragile, psychologically freaking fragile goalie, he was like spun
• 1:35:04
  glass. His psyche was like spun glass. Okay, this guy had the
• 1:35:10
  most shutouts ever, most shutouts of every season he ever played. Okay,
• 1:35:15
  but the moment the first goal he let in, he'd let in nine fucking
• 1:35:20
  goals. The rest of that game, his psyche would just shatter, right,
• 1:35:26
  And then then they'd pull him off and they'd put in Arturo's urbe I
• 1:35:31
  think if I remember, right, Okay, and they'd put him in as
• 1:35:36
  the secondary goalie, and that Arturo's erbe would get the Canucks back up to
• 1:35:43
  like contend contention and the in the playoffs. Right, and then Dan the
• 1:35:47
  man, Dan Klutch danzar Man, Okay, they'd stick him back in goal.
• 1:35:54
  He'd have two games where he shut everybody out and then he'd let in
• 1:35:58
  one goal and he'd be freaking destroy right, he'd be destroyed psychologically, and
• 1:36:03
  he'd let an eight goals every fucking game. Right. The guy had the
• 1:36:08
  most shutouts, and the guy had the most goals on his net, right,
• 1:36:13
  And it was just and I got so fucking infuriated that I had to
• 1:36:19
  stop watching the Vancouver Canucks. Okay, And you tell me that that's not
• 1:36:27
  genuine, Yeah, it sounds pretty genuine to me that that's the thing.
• 1:36:31
  Like, it's you know what I realize what it is. It's that pigmies
• 1:36:38
  like men, and they don't want to have to like men. They just
• 1:36:41
  want to get the bag that men have. Yeah, they want the bag
• 1:36:45
  and they want to keep theirs. And also, what the hell is wrong
• 1:36:48
  with being chill? I like to be around women who are chill, because
• 1:36:54
  chill women even if they're neurotic messes, women screamed about like freaking some hockey
• 1:37:01
  shit from like yeah, fifteen years twenty years ago. Yeah, even even
• 1:37:05
  if they get really irate about things or anything like that, as long as
• 1:37:11
  they can chill out and not fixate on their emotions and then start destroying,
• 1:37:16
  turning into Gore Loock the destroyer because they have an emotion I like being I
• 1:37:24
  would prefer to be around women like that. Men would prefer to be around
• 1:37:27
  women like that. You are probably not a woman like that, so you
• 1:37:30
  are going to age very badly. Okay, anyway, I have a headache
• 1:37:35
  now after that Dan cluecha thing. I'd block that out of my memory,
• 1:37:41
  but it just came rising to the surface. The trauma erupted. Okay,
• 1:37:45
  play Brian my beef with the Pygmisias. Because pygmishas and the spoiled girlies,
• 1:37:54
  we all have this one goal, and it's to live our best lives,
• 1:37:59
  right, and that best life sometimes for a lot of us, involves the
• 1:38:02
  cooperation of men. The thing with the Pygmisias is that they have centered men.
• 1:38:08
  Instead of creating their own dream girl and finding a man for whom she
• 1:38:13
  is his dream girl as she is currently as of now, present day.
• 1:38:17
  They shift themselves to fit whatever this man wants them to be. And one
• 1:38:23
  of the they're hoovering narcissists. Okay, yeah, nobody likes those like no,
• 1:38:29
  but there's a type of narcissists, the type of narcissist that just gloms
• 1:38:33
  onto a person and becomes that person. All right, Okay, can you
• 1:38:38
  can you go back to the beginning of this clip so I can hear life.
• 1:38:47
  It is where we can say, say, you know what, makeup
• 1:38:51
  is not more frivolous than football. That was a really great video and it
• 1:38:55
  totally explains my beef with the Pygmisias because Pygmisias and soil girlies, we all
• 1:39:00
  have this one goal, and it's to live our best lives, right,
• 1:39:04
  and that best life sometimes for a lot of us, involves the cooperation of
• 1:39:10
  men. The thing with the Pygnisias is that they have centered men instead of
• 1:39:15
  creating their own dream girl and finding a man for whom she is his dream
• 1:39:19
  girl. As she is crrently as of now present day, they shift themselves
• 1:39:26
  to fit whatever this man wants them to be. You know, this is
• 1:39:29
  actually true that The problem I think you found with that is, Karen,
• 1:39:33
  is that she did say something that was legitimate. Okay, well, and
• 1:39:39
  should you should just be yourself and find a man who wants that? Yeah,
• 1:39:44
  yeah, that's perfectly legitimate. I don't know what the hell else is
• 1:39:47
  and how how is it that? Okay? But here's the thing. The
• 1:39:51
  way that you look at things is this, right, my dear, you
• 1:39:57
  think the man has a bag, rather than recognizing that the man is the
• 1:40:01
  bag. Right, you want to extract something from the man without recognizing that
• 1:40:10
  the man is what you want. Do you see what I'm saying? Karen?
• 1:40:13
  M Like, you can be yourself and want to find a man who
• 1:40:17
  appreciates that, and also believe that the man is the bag. The man
• 1:40:24
  is the thing that you want, not whatever bag he has that you want
• 1:40:28
  to extract from him. All right? Yeah? No. And I find
• 1:40:33
  it kind of interesting that the women who are saying, you know, we
• 1:40:43
  feel shamed for putting on makeup, and we feel shamed for presenting ourselves in
• 1:40:48
  a way that will attract men, will attract the bag. Okay, we
• 1:41:00
  don't like these other women who are basically just saying, well, I'm not
• 1:41:05
  going to jump through those hoops. I'm just gonna find a man who suits
• 1:41:10
  me, yeah, and and alterna settle down with him. They're they're they're
• 1:41:16
  pointing the fingers at women who change themselves to be whatever the man wants,
• 1:41:19
  which you know, which you're doing when you stick inserts in your bra and
• 1:41:25
  put on makeup and inject filler's into your lips, like you know. But
• 1:41:31
  the thing is that I wonder how much she's conflating a woman seeing the man
• 1:41:38
  as the bag. Not not that that a man has a bag that you
• 1:41:42
  got to extract from him, but that he is what you want him.
• 1:41:47
  He is what you want a lot of those attitude. I'm looking at mine
• 1:41:54
  right now, and I'm kind of wondering, he's just hanging out playing on
• 1:41:59
  a steam but held divers. Uh, what what are you playing? Deep
• 1:42:08
  rock? Galactic survivor? Okay, now that be it as it may.
• 1:42:15
  I wonder how much she's conflating a woman who sees the man as the bag
• 1:42:19
  versus a woman who conforms to whatever a man wants in order to deceive him
• 1:42:25
  into choosing her. Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, no, I
• 1:42:29
  mean like you look at all of the makeup on her face and and everything.
• 1:42:32
  Then it's like, okay, so how is that not deceiving a man.
• 1:42:36
  It's choosing her. Yeah, that's that's that's the thing. Like you're
• 1:42:40
  you're she's she's also a pick me. It's like, yeah, you're all
• 1:42:45
  pickmies because God like me and Karen, like I never wore makeup. First
• 1:42:48
  date with my husband, we met on I r C. That was an
• 1:42:51
  internet relay chat. So we did meet on the internet. I went on
• 1:42:55
  Channel Canada. I said, hey, anybody from I Oh no, I
• 1:42:58
  saw someone who said hey, anybody from Calgary. I was like, hey,
• 1:43:00
  I'm from Calgary. Okay, let's chat. Did not know he was
• 1:43:02
  a man, did not know anything about him. He was just a line
• 1:43:09
  of text in a text room. And I chatted with him. We decided
• 1:43:14
  to meet. I met him in a lumberjacket, a plaid lumberjacket, army
• 1:43:23
  boots and jeans, and he was intrigued by me because I was so different.
• 1:43:31
  Believe me, I didn't do that because I was intending to tract men.
• 1:43:39
  I did that. I don't know, Like I was just in like
• 1:43:43
  my plaid lumberjack phase. What can I say? Yeah, No, I
• 1:43:47
  went through that phase too. Yeah, it's just I just did that because
• 1:43:50
  that was what I was doing at the time. I actually, I actually
• 1:43:54
  have a plaid hoodie. It's fleece lined that I wear I have, you
• 1:44:00
  know, ironically, I think I make less effort now. Now I just
• 1:44:02
  have a jacket and a shirt and like jeans and that's it. You know,
• 1:44:06
  I haven't changed that much. I own two I own two pairs of
• 1:44:11
  jeans and eighteen tank tops and that's it. And it's like, yeah,
• 1:44:17
  it's not a situation where we're trying to change to get a man. It's
• 1:44:23
  that we consider the man to be what we're trying to get, not the
• 1:44:27
  bag he's holding. And I think ultimately men would prefer that, no you
• 1:44:34
  want like and the men who don't prefer that don't want to see you age,
• 1:44:40
  Oh my god, like I are going to dump you when you're twenty
• 1:44:43
  five. What I look at is like, why would I want a man
• 1:44:47
  who would need me to keep myself up in that way? Right? And
• 1:44:53
  I'm just gonna I'm going to share an anecdote from my older sons. One
• 1:44:59
  of his schools friends in elementary school. Right, Okay, so this this
• 1:45:04
  kid he had, his parents were His dad was like a kind of a
• 1:45:13
  repairman, the appliance repairman around town. And the mom was she was very
• 1:45:21
  very very socially proper, right and extremely clean. Like I would I would
• 1:45:31
  go to pick up my son from playing after school with at his friend's house,
• 1:45:39
  and and my son will get his shoes on on the mat at the
• 1:45:45
  back door. He'd get a shoes on and it'd be like, oh,
• 1:45:48
  my backpack, and he'd step off the mat and his friend would be like,
• 1:45:55
  and this is like these are eight year olds, right. His friend
• 1:45:58
  would be like, oh, Jack, you can't step off the mat.
• 1:46:00
  Right. And I look and the laundry room. Right, Everything was white
• 1:46:06
  in this house. Right, The floor is, the walls, the window
• 1:46:11
  coverings, everything was white. And I look into the laundry room and it's
• 1:46:15
  like, this is a laundry room that's never been used. This is the
• 1:46:20
  laundry room of a person who contracts out their laundry, right, because they've
• 1:46:26
  never used this laundry room. It is stunning, absolutely pristine, shiny,
• 1:46:32
  everything's gorgeous, right, Like it's cleaner than the cleanest house in my home,
• 1:46:40
  right after I cleaned it. And so I'm just like, Okay,
• 1:46:45
  but this woman, she had psychological problems. The dad, he spent most
• 1:46:57
  of his time in the garage. And I'm thinking like, Okay, if
• 1:47:06
  I was the man in that marriage, I would spend most of my time
• 1:47:11
  in the garage, right, But I wouldn't be keeping the house like that,
• 1:47:15
  right, if I was the woman in that marriage, I would just
• 1:47:19
  be keeping the house at a level where it's not going to be condemned and
• 1:47:27
  everybody would be welcome to walk around with their shoes off the mat. Right.
• 1:47:34
  That's that's me. That was not her. She was. She was
• 1:47:40
  you know, like people are different. People are different, right. I
• 1:47:47
  found it's amazing, And I found a man who, you know, he
• 1:47:54
  tolerates my lackadaisical housekeeping, and I tolerate is lackadaisical use of underpants. All
• 1:48:04
  right, So I think there's a conflation going on with this woman. And
• 1:48:08
  after this we we'll go to Richard's super chold because he's been waiting patiently.
• 1:48:13
  Oh, here's a conflation going on. With this woman, I think she's
• 1:48:15
  conflating women who are chameleons and basically covert narcissists who hoover up somebody and then
• 1:48:21
  consume their life. Well, women who recognize it's not the bad men don't
• 1:48:27
  have a bag. They are the bag. They are what you want.
• 1:48:30
  You want an opinion who happens to be a man, that's it. And
• 1:48:32
  she's conflating those two because I think she wants to have more of a position
• 1:48:38
  to criticize and to beat down other women, women who actually want a man,
• 1:48:47
  who see the man as the bag, not that he's holding a bag.
• 1:48:51
  So you're gonna call that a piic mitia. You're gonna say, oh,
• 1:48:54
  you're just conforming to the man. No, we're not conforming to the
• 1:48:58
  man. We see the men in our lives as companions. And incidentally,
• 1:49:01
  again, you are asking when you ask a man to get into a long
• 1:49:05
  term relationship with you, you are asking him to watch you age and to
• 1:49:10
  see that asset depreciate and to have something more at the end of the day
• 1:49:15
  to give him. And the very basic, the bare minimum you can do
• 1:49:18
  as a woman when you ask a man to do that is to want him
• 1:49:25
  right, if you don't want him, why should he give up his life
• 1:49:30
  watching you deteriorate. We're all mortal, we're all gonna turn into rich queens.
• 1:49:36
  Like, why would you do that? And if you are insuing to
• 1:49:40
  do that, what makes you think you don't deserve a man who's gonna kick
• 1:49:43
  you out at twenty five? You are only interested in the bag, lady,
• 1:49:47
  Well maybe he's only interested in your bag, which is your youth,
• 1:49:53
  as brief as it is. And then once he gets that out, you
• 1:49:56
  go like, if you're not, if you are not, like, if
• 1:50:00
  he's not interested in the woman, then yeah, he'll he'll tolerate you not
• 1:50:05
  being interested in him as a man. If he doesn't want to connect with
• 1:50:09
  you as a companion, he'll tolerate you don't want to connect with him as
• 1:50:13
  a companion. He'll tolerate that because he knows once you get the first wrinkle,
• 1:50:16
  you're gone, like a booger off the end of his finger flick like
• 1:50:21
  that. That's what you're signing up for. If you decide to have this
• 1:50:26
  mentality of I'm gonna get the bag and I'm gonna keep my bag, well
• 1:50:30
  you're not gonna keep your bag your bag is going to disappear. And you
• 1:50:35
  either decide you want a man who is gonna value you for your companionship and
• 1:50:42
  in turn you value him for his companionship, or you decide on this kind
• 1:50:45
  of parasitical, exploitative relationship and you guess what. The kind of men who
• 1:50:50
  are interested in that are also parasites and exploitative. Well, that's what you
• 1:50:57
  get. You give, You get what you give. Good luck with that,
• 1:51:01
  and so let's get into uh, you get what you give. So
• 1:51:04
  speaking of getting what you give, let us give what we got, this
• 1:51:10
  is a stupid Go ahead, Brian, read the Superchows. If you're still
• 1:51:14
  there, somebody poke bright we're reading super childs. Then yes, all right,
• 1:51:19
  hold on a second, I need a longer stick. Well, okay,
• 1:51:27
  blame me, yes, we just let me just we just put it
• 1:51:31
  up on the screen here, okay, all right, Richard gave us a
• 1:51:39
  bunch of Superchows five dollars. I'll just put bat Shan on the screen.
• 1:51:44
  Alison, the difference in the weather in Edmonton and Kelvington is that the Karen
• 1:51:48
  had to talk with the manager of the Edmonton Weather and she didn't talk to
• 1:51:53
  the manager of Kelvington weather. Oh yeah, no, I definitely, I
• 1:51:59
  definitely only spoke to the manager and he improved the weather immediately. And then
• 1:52:05
  he gave another five dollars and said, deploy the Karen to talk to the
• 1:52:09
  manager of video Ninja get it, because Karen and marriers it's really Then he
• 1:52:18
  gives another five dollars and says, don't let the woman with the CARDI B
• 1:52:21
  fingernails put a finger in your butt. Never or vagina doesn't sound pleasant.
• 1:52:30
  Then he gives another five dollars and says, if we wait long enough,
• 1:52:32
  we will see a plethora of feminist videos being filmed in nursing homes or in
• 1:52:36
  apartments with with twenty seven cats in the background. Well, by that time,
• 1:52:43
  you'll you'll be able to like directly beam content into your own cameras anymore.
• 1:52:49
  Okay, I said for me, you've been I've been muted. I
• 1:52:54
  wanted to say. I mentioned that, you know how the bedroom feminine,
• 1:53:00
  like the I live in a room in my parents' house, feminists disappeared,
• 1:53:03
  and then these people appeared ten days, ten years later. This is the
• 1:53:08
  next stage. This is like the next pupil stage of the bedroom feminists.
• 1:53:13
  Yeah, this is This is the bedroom feminists attempting to build, not build,
• 1:53:20
  attempting to get a man to give them his bag without a gun or
• 1:53:26
  a knife. Then we got another five dollars from Richard and he says,
• 1:53:31
  if lower statists men can find worthwhile RelA I don't know what that means real
• 1:53:39
  relationships. Okay, Then the lower bar removes the incentive slash motivation to become
• 1:53:44
  higher status that these women require as their entry point to relationships. Yeah.
• 1:53:49
  So pickmies are essentially making it so that only twenty percent of men are desirable
• 1:53:54
  to women like this. I think because if we didn't exist, we weren't
• 1:53:59
  choosing the men who are undesirable to them, those men would be forced to
• 1:54:02
  live up to their standards. Well, and they'd have like a bigger buffet.
• 1:54:08
  Yeah, they have a bigger buffet, even though I wouldn't. Well,
• 1:54:12
  I like my husband, you know, I like him. I think
• 1:54:16
  he's I think he's good. I'm fine with him. I don't like I
• 1:54:24
  like my husband too. Why should I? Why should I have to have
• 1:54:28
  a husband that's eligible for this woman? Like? But it just the logic
• 1:54:34
  seems to break down in my mind. Okay, continue Brian, all right,
• 1:54:39
  and then I got one more from Richard for five dollars, and he
• 1:54:42
  says, I don't think that Manifestel is a pick me because she probably doesn't
• 1:54:45
  find any man at all acceptable the way that they currently are. Even a
• 1:54:50
  top tier man would have several series of hoops to jump through to even slightly
• 1:54:55
  satisfy her. There's a video she has done about creating a contingency fund in
• 1:55:00
  case of divorce. It includes that screenshot of the woman who took twenty two
• 1:55:04
  thousand dollars out of the joint account to put in her own separate account and
• 1:55:10
  being confronted about it. Oh, it's like that men's rights lawyer. I
• 1:55:18
  forget, I don't know. I know you guys saw her ad, but
• 1:55:23
  she was just like, I love women. They're such good planners. You
• 1:55:28
  know. While he's watching the football game, she's hooking up with a friend
• 1:55:32
  with an old flame on Facebook and moving all of their money into her personal
• 1:55:40
  bank accounts, right, and yeah, no, I'm a rights lawyer.
• 1:55:47
  God, yeah I remember that. Yeah and yeah no, and it's like,
• 1:55:55
  literally that's what women often do, so yeah, and yeah, that's
• 1:56:02
  that makes her sort of even more despicable. So I think that she's conflating
• 1:56:06
  the legitimate, like criticism of women who sort of become chameleons and just become
• 1:56:15
  the person that they're with. Well, she can't use the term chameleons because
• 1:56:17
  that's a red pill term, that's a men manosphere term. Okay, well,
• 1:56:25
  okay, fair enough, But that she's conflating chameleons with women who have
• 1:56:30
  decided that the man is the bag, not he's not that he's carrying a
• 1:56:32
  bag, you know what. I mean that you want to have a companion
• 1:56:36
  who happens to be a man. And she's conflating. I think she's complaining
• 1:56:40
  the two in order to condemn you know, b by conflating it with a
• 1:56:46
  so yeah no, And she's saying that there's no women who can just want
• 1:56:50
  men as companions and enjoy the things that men do. Yeah no. And
• 1:56:54
  what's infuriating to me is her idea that you have to go for the bag
• 1:57:00
  and not give up your bag. And also you shouldn't invest anything in any
• 1:57:09
  man, right, he should just be like up to snuff on his own.
• 1:57:15
  And it's like, no, no, that's okay. Why would any
• 1:57:18
  man want a woman whose attitude is like that, right, because even if
• 1:57:26
  even if my husband was like on the top of the world, right,
• 1:57:30
  even if he was like on top of his game, he was like totally
• 1:57:32
  fine when I met him, Right, things happen, shit happens, right,
• 1:57:44
  And do you want somebody who wants your as a man? Do you
• 1:57:51
  want somebody who wants your bag and to keep her bag right, and to
• 1:57:58
  not be urs to do anything, to just leave you on the spur of
• 1:58:02
  the moment. And my husband actually went through this right because he wasn't sick
• 1:58:09
  when he met his previous partner, right, and then he got sick,
• 1:58:15
  right, and then she was just like, yeah, no, fuck this,
• 1:58:19
  I'm done right, She couldn't be oursed right, And okay, like
• 1:58:30
  is that what you want? Is that what you want someone like this?
• 1:58:33
  Right? Oh well, I have my bag and I don't have your bag
• 1:58:40
  anymore. So because you don't have a bag anymore, so goodbye and fuck
• 1:58:46
  yourself, go fuck yourself. And like, this is what he went through.
• 1:58:53
  This is why it was so difficult to convince him that he could trust
• 1:58:57
  me. Right, So here I am right as a woman, and all
• 1:59:04
  of these freakin' bitches who treat men like this. Right, they're saying,
• 1:59:10
  ooh, pick mese harm women. Well, you know what harmed me?
• 1:59:14
  You know what made me have to go through a knockdown, drag out,
• 1:59:18
  freaking campaign right to convince a man that I was really interested in, that
• 1:59:28
  I really like that he could trust me enough to form a long term relationship
• 1:59:33
  with me. And how I'm sorry a year and a half. A year
• 1:59:39
  and a half of that right, four breaks, breakups, right, and
• 1:59:45
  reconciliations. Right. You know what did that you to someone like you?
• 1:59:54
  You know what made me have to go through that? You? Yeah,
• 1:59:58
  you fucking whore? Yeah, women like this, women like this destroy man.
• 2:00:04
  And then and then it's and then I have to go in. And
• 2:00:09
  it's not like I had to pick up pieces because he would have been you
• 2:00:12
  know, like he would have been able to like go on, maybe not
• 2:00:16
  like with his illness or whatever, right, but you know, he didn't
• 2:00:24
  have to bet on me, and and maybe he would have been okay,
• 2:00:30
  But I had to prove. I spent a year and a fucking half proving
• 2:00:36
  to him that I was not going to leave him because he was sick.
• 2:00:42
  I was not going to leave him because he wasn't perfect. I was not
• 2:00:45
  going to leave him because I had another option. I was not going to
• 2:00:50
  leave him because he didn't earn enough. I was not going to leave him
• 2:00:57
  for any of those reasons. I was committed to the relationship right because I
• 2:01:03
  liked him, right. And it took for fucking ever to prove that to
• 2:01:10
  him. And it's because someone like this cunt had her way with him.
• 2:01:16
  Yeah, and she's probably going to destroy other good men. And oh yeah,
• 2:01:21
  and the and the irony is she she points to people like us and
• 2:01:26
  says, you're the ones who are No, it's you. It's just interesting.
• 2:01:30
  It's just interesting that you know, she's not blaming men, because that's
• 2:01:32
  the usual thing, right, I Mean, there was a little bit of
• 2:01:34
  male blame, but now we're going with the pygmishes. But guess what,
• 2:01:38
  I'm okay with that. If you blame pigmishes for your problems, at least
• 2:01:43
  you're not blaming men. Yeah, it's a net game, don't you think.
• 2:01:46
  Yeah, I think she is blaming though. I think she is blaming
• 2:01:49
  men. Well, she's trying to, because she's trying to in the end
• 2:01:53
  say blaming patriarchy, and she's victims. Oh my god, men have preferences
• 2:02:00
  heaven for Finn. Yeah, men want to be with women who actually want
• 2:02:03
  to be with men and actually appreciate their companionship for what it's worth. Shock.
• 2:02:10
  Yeah yeah they don't they there, She's just like pay me. She's
• 2:02:15
  really freaking funny because I doubt this woman wants to have female friends who are
• 2:02:19
  as mercenary and parasitic as she is towards her male companions. Like would you
• 2:02:26
  have friends like that? Would you want to have high maintenance friends? Like
• 2:02:30
  someone goes over to L and she's like, Elle, girlfriend, you're just
• 2:02:33
  not worth me. So you're gonna have to bring something more. If we're
• 2:02:39
  gonna have a girl date, you're gonna be paying, and I want a
• 2:02:42
  present. You're gonna need to make sure that you bring me something, and
• 2:02:45
  I want some cash to spend at the end. So you're gonna be hit
• 2:02:47
  for everything, and I'm gonna decide what we're doing. Not you. I
• 2:02:51
  am, because my time is worth so much more than yours, Elle,
• 2:02:57
  yours, you are you are benefited by my presence. My presence makes you,
• 2:03:03
  gives you something, but I don't get anything from your presence. Your
• 2:03:06
  presence is worthless. L it's absolutely like it's you got. Now you need
• 2:03:12
  to pay for my per Now you need to pay for my friendship, and
• 2:03:15
  you better be you better bring that bag, l because if you don't give
• 2:03:18
  me your bag, if you don't give me your bag, you don't deserve
• 2:03:23
  me as your girlfriend. Would she tolerate that? And yet that's what she's
• 2:03:29
  expecting a man to tolerate in a long term partnership with a person who is
• 2:03:32
  supposed to build a life with him. Yeah. Yeah, you are selfish
• 2:03:40
  And the fact is you are writing your looks because it's all you got.
• 2:03:46
  You can't even offer a man wanting to be with a man. You'll be
• 2:03:50
  with a man, but you won't want to be with man a man you'll
• 2:03:55
  be feeling his back pock pocket for his wallet the entire time. Yeah,
• 2:04:00
  and again, she would not tolerate this from another woman. She doesn't want
• 2:04:05
  the kind of woman she wants to be in a relationship. She wouldn't tolerate
• 2:04:09
  as a friend. No, not so she doesn't even want herself as a
• 2:04:15
  friend Like that is that is some weird level of covert self hatred that has
• 2:04:20
  to be There's got to be a word for it. It's got to go
• 2:04:23
  into the diagnostic men and fashion through projection. Yeah. Maybe, all right,
• 2:04:30
  I'm done. Let's let's uh okay, guys, I'll do the thing.
• 2:04:34
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